The May Lee Show

In this episode of "Shoes Off Inside", we attempt to talk about everything and the kitchen sink because there is so much happening every week, every day, every hour. May, Kelly and Tamlyn recorded this episode before protests against ICE raids in the Los Angeles area were inflamed by Trump's order to send in the National Guard and threats of U.S. military intervention. But make no mistake, MKT do NOT hold back when it comes to their thoughts on Donald Trump and his policies, Elon Musk and his erratic behavior. But at the heart of this episode is a very sincere, vulnerable and painful talk about our elderly parents and the struggle and heartbreak of caretaking...especially as Asians. Get your tissues ready. This will strike a chord regardless of your situation because it's about the power of love and what we're willing to do for our loved ones.Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

The trade war between the U.S. and the world isn't just an abstract concept. It's something very real and painful for small businesses, especially those that rely on products from China. In this episode, we talk to two Asian American female small business owners who are fearful about their future because of the wild swings in tariff policy. First it was a 145% tariff imposed by Donald Trump on all Chinese imports to the U.S.. China responded by slapping a 125% tariff on U.S, imports. But on Monday, May 12, it was announced after meetings in Switzerland, that there will be a 90 day pause on the triple digit tariffs to allow for more negotiations. Although this may seem like progress, there's apprehension about what's coming next, especially since the trade war, to many, was self-inflicted by the U.S. President. China, on the other hand, has not changed its policy nor has it agreed to any concessions or compromise.  For small business owners like Elenor Mak, founder of Jilly Bing dolls and Evelyn Wang, founder of the hair care line Silverist, the uncertainty only fuels their fears and anxieties. But, they're also not willing to give up the fight to save their businesses. Both true examples of fierce, Asian female entrepreneurs! PLEASE NOTE: This episode was recorded BEFORE the conclusion of the meetings between U.S. and Chinese officials in Switzerland. Show Notes:jillybing.com silverist.com Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

The current trade war between the U.S. and China has already sent shock waves around the world and this is just the beginning IF an agreement can't be reached. But there are some giant obstacles that stand in the way of any peace...Donald Trump's lack of understanding when it comes to China's global reach and influence AND Xi Jinping's need to show strength against a perceived western bully. Xi is already shifting from American reliance and cutting new deals with other nations. But it's not just about monetary trade for China...it's also about the growing nationalistic fervor, inflamed by J.D. Vance, by calling Chinese "peasants". Poking the dragon with insults was a mistake. And what about other Asian nations that have been slapped with unexpectedly high tariffs such as Vietnam? In this episode of "Shoes Off inside 1-on-1", May sits down with Eric Olander, longtime China watcher, journalist and analyst based in Vietnam. Eric's deep knowledge of Chinese history and its global relationships helps put this current dangerous trade war into context. To understand the present and the future, we must understand the painful past.Eric Olander, Co-Founder/Editor-in-Chiefwww.chinaglobalsouth.com Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

On a daily basis, Americans and the world are being overwhelmed by the Trump administration's decisions that are deeply consequential politically, economically, socially and constitutionally. Since Trump's first term, the press has been under fire often being called the "Fake News". In this second term, the attacks are growing stronger. On March 15, the U.S. President signed an executive order to shut down the Voice of America, a government funded network that has provided news and information to the world for more than 80 years. VOA is one of the most trusted news sources to 350 million people globally, often in places where the idea of free press is non-existent...North Korea, Myanmar, Belarus, Venezuela to name a few. In this episode of Shoes Off Inside 1-on-1, May talks with her old journalist colleague and friend Steve Herman, VOA's Chief National Correspondent, about the significance of the network's mission and what the devestating impact the shutdown of VOA will have on the world. Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

What happens when we take ACTION to find joy, connection and inspiration? From taking a vacation to going to see live theatre to getting emotionally invested in the livelihood of a bald eagle family (May is obsessed!), these are just some of the ways we are finding light in the darkness. But that's not to say May, Kelly and Tamlyn are ignoring the reality of what's happening around us. The key is to find the humanity in our stories, in art, in history, in nature, in life. And when we come together to share these experiences it's called "Collective Effervescence", a concept coined by Sociologist Émile Durkheim, to describe the feeling of intense shared emotional activation and a sense of unison that emerges when people come together and engage in a shared activity or experience. So join MKT in this episode as we share Collective Effervescence together. Show Notes:"Here there are blueberries" tickets (runs until 3/30/25thewallis.org"Cambodian Rock Band" tickets (runs until 3/23/25)eastwestplayers.org Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

One important pillar of a functioning Democracy is the press and the ability to freely report truth and fact to the public. But has been a steady erosion of journalistic efforts due to the current political chaos in the U.S. and that is leading to genuine fears that journalism, as we know it, will soon vanish and, instead, a type of propaganda will take its place. This is textbook dictatorial behavior. May is joined by fellow journalist, Rebecca Sun, to talk about how their industry has changed dramatically and what can be done to save the important work that journalists are committed to doing. Not easy when billionaires are creating media empires and politicians label journalists as the "enemy of the people". Don't miss this crucial episode. Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

Sometimes you just need to say “What the F*K!” But then, you need to find a way to cope with all that's going on…and there's A LOT going on. So in this episode, May and Kelly (Tamlyn had a very good excuse not to join this time, which is explained in the show) decided to just sit down, unload and share coping mechanisms…everything from dealing with friends on the opposite end of the political spectrum to K-dramas as a distraction from the madness to how May would react to an alien encounter. Yes, you read that right. If you're in need of authentic and raw conversation about where we are right now, watch and listen. Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

This episode of "Shoes Off Inside" was originally supposed to be about how to mentally prepare for the new year ahead with the help of our guest psychologist Dr. Jenny Wang. But then, the cataclysmic LA wildfires hit and we knew we had to pivot. The destruction to homes, businesses and entire neighborhoods is so immense, it's difficult to truly understand the scale of loss. As of the date of this episode, more than 180,000 people have been displaced by the fires. More than 10,000 structures are damaged or destroyed. 11 human lives have been lost. Animals, both domestic and wild, have also been dramatically impacted. May, Kelly and Tamlyn speak with Dr. Wang about how we can all help each other through this unprecedented disaster and what each one of us can do to make a difference even in the smallest of ways. This was a way for us to share a space of comfort, compassion, sympathy and empathy. Thank to all the incredible first responders who are courageously putting themselves in harm's way to save others. At the end of the episode there is information about ways you can help.Here are links to organizations mentioned in the show:disasterassistance.govcalfund.org211la.orgsupportlafd.kindful.comcaninerescue.clubcoreresponse.orggofundme.com/c/act/wildfire-relief/californiahabitat.orgPlease subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

It's that time of year! This is when May, Kelly and Tamlyn put together their list of Holiday Favorite Things! So if you need some gift ideas AND want to support AANHPI and women owned small businesses, this is the episode for you! From beautiful jewelry to yummy baked goods to silver hair care, MKT share a wide range of unique gifts for the holidays! BUT, for a few minutes at the top of the show, they address what transpired since the last episode of "Shoes Off Inside" and that is Election 2024. Hear what all of them have to say about how they're feeling and what each is doing to move forward. Happy Holidays everyone! SHOW NOTES:Kelly's Favorite Things:readtangle.com33edge.com (30% discount code: shoesoffinside)mohalaeyewear.combigislandcoffeeroasters.comglowrecipe.comonemoon.comTamlyn's Favorite Things:houseofhara.comjacl-dc.comalohacreationsonline.comvh07v.comedibol.comjapangeles.comgjenmi.comlinjer.comMay's Favorite Things:silverist.com (15% discount code: shoesoff15)silveringbeauty.com"Banchan: 60 Korean American Recipes for Delicious, Shareable Sides" (available on Amazon and other bookstores)eatfoodologie.comDM @mayleeshow or @shoesoffinsidemkt for "Shoes Off Inside" slippersryzesuperfoods.com (15% discount code: mayleeshow15)Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

Do you believe in miracles??? After 2 years of hosting "Shoes Off Inside" virtually, May, Kelly and Tamlyn FINALLY recorded an episode IN PERSON and they made sure to get into some GOOD TROUBLE! Sitting on the floor in May's living room eating musubi, mochi donuts and drinking boricha, the outspoken threesome tackled the subject of Childless Women, who have recently come under attack. So who better to talk about it than three childless women. The conversation is raw, honest and powerful. And on a completely different subject, May tries to get Tamlyn to spill the beans about a possible "Joy Luck Club" sequel. Here's a hint...what she says may not reflect what she really means. Hmmmm....Side note...the election is right around the corner, so make sure to vote!Another side note...our audio is a little wonky because our mics weren't coming through, but fear not, it's still totally audible!Here are some voting resources, including states that allow same day registration:https://www.ncsl.org/elections-and-campaigns/same-day-voter-registrationhttps://ballotpedia.org/Same-day_voter_registrationPlease subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

The threesome is down to two for this episode because SOMEONE forgot about our recording date and overslept! LOL! But as the saying goes, “The show must go on!” So May and Kelly chat up a storm from the frivolous to the very serious. From French wine, cheese and fashion to the disinformation enveloping the hurricanes that are devastating Florida and beyond. Tamlyn was sorely missed, but the ladies had fun as usual, including the tech-challenged Kelly teaching the normally tech-savvy May a very basic lesson in “Do Not Disturb”.  Show Notes:Nonpartisan election websites https://ballotpedia.org https://votesmart.orghttps://www.lwv.orghttps://www.vote.org https://www.factcheck.org https://www.opensecrets.org https://www.rockthevote.orghttps://www.vote411.orgChristian Dior Exhibit in Parishttps://billetterie.galeriedior.com/selection/timeslotpass?lang=en&productId=10228405282935Please subscribe, rate and review us!And follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

The ladies of "Shoes Off Inside" took a little time off for summer...a combination of globe-hopping, caretaking and gearing up for the country's most consequential elections in modern history. This is an episode that is full of surprises, insight, admissions and TMI (hint...the squatty potty is a topic). But May, Kelly and Tamlyn get down to serious business with a heartfelt and informative conversation about the upcoming presidential election and what is truly at stake. We all have the privilege of being part of the democratic process and that means being informed in order to exercise our right to vote! And a show note...we decided to try a new recording platform so the show starts off in the most casual, candid and oh so MKT way!INFO:capa21.comvote.orgharriswalz.comkamalaharris.comapiavote.org

Would you be willing to travel on your own dime to all 50 U.S. states and sit down with a total stranger over a meal? Well that's exactly what Shari Leid, former attorney turned life coach, did and she lived to tell the many tales. Her purpose was to find connection and common ground in our growingly divided country. All of her connections were women of all ages, backgrounds and experiences. Through this journey, Shari not only discovered the beauty of pushing beyond fear and stereotypes, but as a Korean adoptee, she experienced her own unexpected epiphany. Her story is one of courage, adventure, patience and, ulimately, self-love. Show Notes:https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/abouthttps://www.instagram.com/shoesoffinsidemkt/Link to purchase Slippers/Slides merch:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc2tgJ3uBi245uE6-ORxPJuwIMgCZPfO2sotgVUcj5ki5iUuQ/viewform

The month of May is when the spotlight burns brighter on the AANHPI community! All month long we celebrate the diversity of Asian American Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islanders and that means honoring everyone from the most prominent political and media figures to the unsung heroes who are tirelessly working to elevate our voices. In this episode, May, Kelly and Tamlyn talk about their commitment to the community and why the sense of belonging amongst AANHPIs is still not fully embraced, according to the latest STAATUS report. Perhaps one reason is that a majority of Americans still can't name one prominent Asian American. The ladies of "Shoes Off Inside" also look forward to being together IN PERSON in Washington, D.C. to celebrate AANHPI at the APAICS gala, or more fondly referred to as the "Asian Prom". (note: this episode was recorded May 2, before the D.C. events) But at the end of the episode, there's a post-event update that you don't want to miss. Let's put it this way, it's the most unusual setting that MKT have every recorded in together! It was a little bumpy!Show Notes:apaics.orgaa4dr.orgcapa21.comhttps://www.msnbc.com/admissionsgranted

At the heart of this episode is the hotly debated issue of the "coddled" generation. These are Gen Z'ers and, now, Gen Alpha who have been overprotected by parents from the real world with all of it's challenges, pain, and dangers. But ironcially, these same kids have been severely underprotected from social media. According to psychologist and NYU professor, Jonathan Haidt, this combination has led to a multitude of problems including depression and self-harm as well as a complete lack of accountibility. Social media has created an entire generation of addicted "keyboard warriors", who hide behind their devices and say whatever they want without reprecussions. This behaviour manifests in other areas. May shares her firsthand experience as a university professor who has battled this lack of accountability among students. Recently, she was the target of unfounded incidenary remarks and when she asked for university support, it was rejected. May, Kelly and Tamlyn talk about the reasons behind this kind of hostile and evasive behavior, and what we can do to slow and, perhaps, even avert the further breakdown of civility. And on the lighter side, May has a very fun sneak peek of the first "Shoes Off Inside" swag! You won't want to miss it!!! SOOOOOOO CUTE!!!Show Info:https://hiddenbrain.org/podcast/escaping-the-matrix/https://www.commonsensemedia.org/lists/safer-social-media-and-messaging-apps-for-kidshttps://outsideintheatre.org

When it comes to movie stars with the full package, one of our Asian American brothers is at the top of that list...the one and only Daniel Henney! From starting as a model in the U.S. and Asia, to becoming a full-blown heart throb on TV and film in South Korea and worldwide, Daniel continues to entertain the masses. He stars in the series "Wheel of Time" and has a new Korean movie coming out, "Dog Days", February 7th. But what makes him truly endearing is his authenticity and humility. He is as real and as grounded as they come. And if that's not enough, he's also a HUGE dog lover and has advocated for the humane treatment of dogs in South Korea. Daniel has been working with the Humane Society International in an effort to stop the dog meat trade in Korea, which just recently became reality when a new law to ban the trade of dogs was passed. In this episode, May, Kelly and Tamlyn talk openly with Daniel about this controversial topic as well why dogs are so personal to him AND a special someone makes an appearance during this episode! This is an episode you DO NOT want to miss! For more info on Dog rescues in South Korea:https://www.hsi.org/news-resources/region/south-korea-2/https://www.instagram.com/dog_us_planet/https://www.instagram.com/d.u.p_adopt/

It's time for our Favorite Things Gift List just in time for last minute shoppers like May, Kelly and Tamlyn who haven't even begun! Once again, we are featuring everything from delicous food, both sweet and savory to holiday ornaments to organic wine to the first Asian American doll, and even a punk rock band! Many of the businesses we feature are API owned and share their profits with causes they care about. Along with sharing gift ideas, MKT also chitchat about U2 at The Sphere in Las Vegas (that's why May and Kelly are together in this episode), wedding planning (including how many times we've been bridesmaids), new year's goals and...here's a teaser...Kelly introduces us to her ficus plant "Norma Jean". You DEFINITELY want to see why it has that name!! Links to all gift ideas featured in the show:Kelly Hu's List:www.drinktinto.comwww.shop.momofuku.comwww.asianamericangirlclub.comwww.houseofmanaup.comwww.sugarbirdsweets.comTamlyn's List:www.houseofhara.comwww.edibol.comwww.vho7v.comwww.thesill.comMay's List:www.eatfoodologie.comwww.jillybing.comwww.lemieuxskincare.comwww.socialbutterflieslosangeles.comwww.traderjoes.com

The numbers don't lie...the senior population is booming while the younger generation is shrinking due to fewer and fewer people having children. That means there is a growing need for caregiving within families, which is leading to more multigenerational households. That's nothing new for Asian families, but we're seeing this trend of multigenerational living increase across all communities and that's changing the way physical homes are being built, remodeled and outfitted. Our Kelly Hu just bought a home with plans for her parents moving in when the time comes so this hits close to home! Also, with more seniors, that means more senior scams! These horrible scammers prey on our vulnerable, sometimes, lonely elders using all sorts of devious tactics. In this latest episode sponsored by AARP, we talk with Senior VP of Caregiving and Health at AARP, Tricia Sandiego, about multigenerational living and what options are out there for childless people like May, Kelly and Tamlyn and they prepare for their "golden years". We also delve into the dark underbelly of senior scams, which totaled $9 billion last year. Denise Oki of the Federal Trade Commission gives us useful tips on how to help our loved ones. You'll be shocked to hear some of the most heartbreaking stories of elderly being cheated out of their life savings. As we say in the show, "There is a special place in HELL for people who scam seniors."More Info:AARPhttps://www.aarp.org/caregiving/https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/home-care/info-2021/tips-for-aging-independently.htmlFTChttps://www.reportfraud.ftc.gov/#/https://www.identitytheft.gov/#/https://consumer.ftc.gov/features/languageshttps://consumer.ftc.gov/unwanted-calls-emails-and-texts/unwanted-emails-texts-and-mailhttps://consumer.ftc.gov/consumer-alertsPass It On education campaign: https://consumer.ftc.gov/features/pass-it-on

For many of you who have been watching and listening to this show, you've gotten to know May's Golden Retriever, Eggy, pretty well. She would often make cameo appearances during the show knowing exactly where the camera was. Eggy's story, like many rescue dogs, is amazingly touching and inspiring. On October 14 2023, Eggy crossed the rainbow bridge after nearly 16 years. May wanted to take a few minutes at the start of this episode to honor her fur baby and share Eggy's story. Tamlyn and Kelly join May after the memoriam to talk about Tamlyn's theatrical escapades with a run in East West Players production of  "Spring Awakening", which opens Oct. 29 in Los Angeles. Kelly gives us an update on her big move to Las Vegas and how her high school calvary came to the rescue! And May shares details about her recent engagement party and how she almost fell for the pressure of throwing a fancy, expensive, formal affair and, instead, chose a more personal route. (Hint, she made the right choice.)Please subscribe to this channel to get updates on the show! You can also listen wherever you get your podcasts. Rate and review our show!!

The ladies of "Shoes Off Inside" took an unintentional break for part of the summer, but that's not a bad thing, especially for Kelly Hu, who traversed Europe, then felt the "burn" and mud at "Burning Man". Meanwhile, Tamlyn was busy attending and emceeing various events elevating the API and Japanese American communities. And May was gearing up for her new position as full-time professor at Chapman University's Dodge College of Film and Media Arts. The thing about taking a break is that SO MUCH HAPPENS during that time! So, there was A LOT to catch up on including the continuing Hollywood strike and the Maui Fires. But this episode also celebrates the boldness and courage of one API female entrepreneur, Janel Luu, Founder and CEO of Le Mieux. "Shoes Off Inside" LOVES spotlighting Asian women who don't let traditional stereotypes get in the way of going what we want the way we want to! Janel is living proof of that. And we should note, Le Mieux stepped up to the the FIRST official sponsor of this show on faith and belief in the concept alone. The sisterhood is strong! Please subscribe to this show and rate and review us!Thank you to our sponsor Le Mieux. For more info go to www.lemieuxskincare.com

This is the episode we've ALL been waiting for, especially Kelly Hu since she suggested this topic when we first launched "Shoes Off Inside". We are talking about SEX, a subject that most everyone is interested in openly or secretly. The problem is, not a lot of people, especially women, are comfortable talking freely and specifically about sex. That's why we invited sexpert and host of Luvbites, Dr. Tara, to help us strip (pun intended) away the straight-laced veil (pun intended again) and get down and dirty! What's the best way to achieve orgasm? How do you masturbate? What vibrators work best? What's "pegging"? How do sex surrogates work? How can sexual meditation help? So many questions and to think, we JUST scratched the surface! Get ready for an informative, raucous, honest and HILARIOUS episode! For more info on Dr. Tara:https://www.luvbites.coPlease subscribe to this audio podcast and to our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@shoesoffinsidemktRate and review our show!

New York's Broadway has been referred to as the Great White Way since the early 1900s because of the spectacle of bright lights and dazzling theatre marquees. But that term could also describe, quite literally, the dominance of shows that have been written and led by white playwrights, directors, composers and performers. Broadway is one of the final frontiers when it comes to more diverse representation, but change has been coming slowly but surely. Korean American composer, Helen Park, has helped shake things up in a very big and very flamboyant wave with her musical, KPOP, which had a run both off and on Broadway. The flashy musical was recently nominated for several Tony awards including best original score, one of the most competitive and coveted categories. Helen became the first Asian American female composer to ever be nominated for a Tony. Not bad for a girl who grew up in Korea thinking there was no entry into musical theatre because she didn't "fit" the standard...white, male, American. But she had a dream and some serious drive, which isn't letting up one bit with more projects in the pipeline. Oh, and she's still just 37 years old, married, and a mom of 2 young kids. How she does it, we have no idea! Thanks to our sponsor Le Mieux Skincare. For more info, please visit www.lemieuxskincare.comPlease review, rate and subscribe to this show! 

Richard Lui is a familiar face in television news. He currently serves as weekend anchor on MSNBC, but a role that he has played for years without compensation or awards is that of caregiver first to his ailing father and now to his mother. This is something that millions of people, at least 50 million in the U.S., do every day. Richard is also a filmmaker and has come out with his second documentary on the subject of caregiving, but the latest film, "Unconditional" focuses on the mental health of caregivers who carry a heavy burden. The film profiles three families, including Richard's and how they all cope with the challenges and the pain with resilience, patience, humor and, of course, LOVE. Our brother Richard willingly opens up in this episode and shares his commitment to honor all those who are making incredible sacrifices for their loved one every single day. We want to thank our newest show sponsor AARP, who also produced "Unconditional". AARP is committed to providing information about and for the caregiving community so for more information on caregiving, visit https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/And continued thanks to our other sponsor Le Mieux Skincare. For more information, visit https://lemieuxskincare.com/

When the first trailer of "Joy Ride" came out with a little Asian girl telling a racist playground bully "F*K YOU" followed by a punch in the nose, we all knew this was a movie like no other. The stellar cast of some of today's most talented API actresses and comedians is a dream team that takes audiences on a hilarious, raunchy and, at times, touching journey. The added bonus...they break down all the stereotypes that Asians, and especially Asian women, are rule-abiding, shy and lack humor. We say "Hell NO" and so does the mastermind behind "Joy Ride", director and co-writer, Adele Lim of "Crazy Rich Asians" and "Raya and the Last Dragon" fame. Adele's unapologetic, no holds barred style has helped her push through barriers in every way and when she wants to get shit done, there's no stopping her. May, Kelly and Tamlyn go on a joy ride with Adele in this episode to talk about everything from the new movie to her directorial debut to the need for more women of color directors. And she also shares how she made a 67-year-old white man cry at a screening! NOTE: "Joy Ride" opens in theatres on July 7Thanks to our "Shoes Off Inside" sponsor Le Mieux Skincare. For more info, go to www.lemieuxskincare.com 

For the first time in U.S. history, a former president is facing federal charges. On Tuesday, June 13, Donald Trump was arrested, booked and arraigned in Miami. He pleaded not guilty to 37 felony counts related to his alleged mishandling of classified documents, including 31 counts of willful retention of national defense information. This is, yet, another unprecedented event involving the former president, which is triggering more political and social divisions. It's almost enough to make even the strongest optimist falter, BUT there is someone serving in congress who is still a beacon of hope, decency and humility. Congressman Andy Kim of New Jersey is an accidental politician who felt compelled to run for office in 2018 because he feared the country was losing hope and decency. Rep. Kim doesn't just talk the talk, he walks the walk as a true public servant and patriot. Remember the images of a politician picking up trash and debris after the U.S. Capitol insurrection? That was Congressman Andy Kim, so who better to talk to when the country is facing another monumental juncture. Please rate, review and subscribe to this podcast! Follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt 

The old nursery rhyme did a real number on a lot of us as kids growing up in America..."First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes (insert name) in a baby carriage!" That is apparently how it's supposed to go, but not for everyone...not by a long shot! The concepts of dating, relationships, marriage and family have and continue to evolve. The narrow guidelines of what all of us are "supposed" to do are being redefined, which means individuals are making their own choices instead of adhering to traditional societal pressures, and for one "Shoes Off Inside" host, she's living proof that you can defy the odds and make your own rules anytime, anywhere, anyhow. May, Kelly and Tamlyn are joined by dating expert Yue Xu, co-host of the "Dateable" podcast, to talk about the how's and why's of dating and relationships! p.s. There's a big announcement in this episode you won't want to miss!Thank you to our sponsor Le Mieux Skincare. For more info go to www.lemieuxskincare.com Subscribe, rate and review this podcast and follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt

“Vaginal Rejuvenation” is a term tossed around in movies, TV shows and social media, but how many of us actually know what it is? Some think it's all about nipping and tucking for better sex. Others think it's a procedure to beautify the outer and inner parts of female genitals for that “Barbie-effect”. But A LOT of us have no clue what vaginal rejuvenation entails. In general, it's a broad term that encompasses anything that alters the vulva (the external portions of the genitals) or the vagina (the internal portions of the genitals). But the truth is, any kind of vaginal treatment, both elective and non-elective, shouldn't be taken lightly and should be thoroughly understood from a medical perspective before diving in. There are a lot of false claims being made out there, especially since the business of vaginal rejuvenation is now a multi-billion dollar industry. May, Kelly and Tamlyn try and separate fact from fiction with the help of a leading expert in Urogynecology who specializes in female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery. Dr. Cheryl Iglesia knows what's going on “below the belly” and she has A LOT to say about how women need to rethink their perspective on their bodies and their sexual health. This episode is bursting with incredible information and, at times, some blush-worthy and squirm inducing moments, but it's all worth it! And many thanks to our very first show sponsor Le Mieux! We have a special segment how we care for and rejuvenate our skin so you'll want to stay tuned for those tips! For more information about Le Mieux, go to lemieuxskincare.comNOTE: Some of the content in this episode is explicit, but very educational for mature audiences.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains sexual references that some might find disturbing. Netflix series "BEEF" came out of the gates in early April with such explosiveness that everyone who watched it was breathless, especially the API community who has been championing media representation that doesn't feed into stereotypes and tropes. But then, a story so disturbing and horrific resurfaced about cast member David Choe who plays Issac Cho in the series. His descriptive admission on his own podcast back in 2014 that he raped a massage therapist has sent shock waves every which way. But strangely, back in 2014 when his show aired, this graphic account of what Choe did didn't really go anywhere and clearly didn't impact his career. Will it be different this time? Will more people in Hollywood and beyond finally grow a spine and take a public stand against this kind of grotesque behavior or will the story just get swept under the rug again? May, Kelly and Tamlyn have A LOT to say about this topic and, as you can imagine, they DO NOT hold back. If you or anyone you know has been sexually assaulted, call the National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-4673 or go to the website https://www.rainn.org/

Shoes Off Inside with MKT celebrates a historic night at the 95th Academy Awards with a special episode recorded at the Commonwealth Club in San Francisco with a live audience! We gathered together for a celebratory viewing party sponsored by Asians Are Strong to cheer on API nominees with many of the golden statues going to "Everything Everywhere All at Once", including Michelle Yeoh, Ke Huy Quan and the Daniels. Throughout the episode, May and Kelly shared stories and insights about Asian representation in Hollywood. Audience members also engaged in the conversation by sharing the powerful significance of EEAAO's success and, more importantly, why the movie connects on such a deep level to the reality of being an ordinary Asian immigrant family trying to find each other in love. This is an incredibly special episode with so much raw emotion and a few surprises along the way! Such Asian Joy all around!!

This is an episode that May, Kelly and Tamlyn have been wanting to do since the inception of "Shoes Off Inside" because of how misrepresented, misreported and misunderstood this topic is...Menopause! It will happen to every single woman at some point in her life, but it's still treated like a dirty little secret that women should be ashamed of. There is so much suffering in silence by women...night sweats, insomnia, fatigue, brain fog, bloating, low libido. Did you know there are nearly 40 menopausal symptoms and yet, the treatments that are available are either unregulated or have been vilified by flawed medical studies. Well it's time to break free from the fear and shame, and get properly informed so women AND men will be more prepared for what's to come. Who better to guide us through the maze of menopause than Dr. Sherry Ross, celebrated Ob/Gyn, author and health expert. Dr. Sherry isn't afraid to openly talk about all aspects of women's sexual health without using euphemisms. In other words, throughout this episode, Dr. Sherry and MKT freely and happily talk about vaginas, vulvas, estrogen, masturbation, lubs, penises and so much more so get ready for an action packed show! Show Info:https://www.drsherry.comhttps://www.amazon.com/She-ology-Definitive-Intimate-Health-Period/dp/1682617386/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1678155313&sr=8-1https://www.amazon.com/She-ology-She-quel-Lets-Continue-Conversation/dp/1642931802/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3609F4ZZD0QWR&keywords=sheology+the+shequel&qid=1678155366&sprefix=sheology+the+shequel%2Caps%2C149&sr=8-1

In this latest episode of "Shoes Off Inside with MKT", May, Kelly and Tamlyn kick off the show with some hot topics on their minds. The use of Ozempic, a diabetic drug, by celebrities and others to lose weight has May hopping mad! Kelly reveals how she got ready to shoot an intimate scene for her TV show and shares the tricks of the trade. Tamlyn gives us a hint about what's she's been shooting for HBO Max. But then things get very serious with writer and author Jeff Yang, who recently, in a New York Times opinion piece, addressed the mass shootings in California that were all perpetrated by older Asian men. These gunman didn't fit the "typical" profile of a mass shooter in the U.S. All the more reason to dig deeper into these tragic events and not dismiss them as "just another shooting". We wanted to better understand the complexity of what could have led to these shootings, including mental health and Asians, cultural divides, socio-economic differences, marginalization within API communities and the biggest issue of all, guns. These are heavy topics that need to be addressed openly and honestly with people who are willing to tackle them head on. May, Kelly, Tamlyn and Jeff do it together in this episode.Please review, rate and subscribe to this podcast!

Happy New Year, both Gregorian and Lunar! It's 2023 and the Year of the Black Water Rabbit! May, Kelly and Tamlyn kick off the new year with an open, honest, hilarious and tearful conversation about EVERYTHING, including "Everything Everywhere All at Once" star Michelle Yeoh and her view of how older women should be seen by their capabilities and NOT their age. They also talk about new year's intentions and the idea of finding your true PURPOSE. And the trio give you a taste of episodes to come on the subject of women's health with a hilarious conversation on menopause! Another episode not to be missed! Follow us on IG @shoesoffinsidemkt Subscribe to this channelListen to the podcast currently under "The May Lee Show" on all major platforms.

Welcome to another "beta" episode of the brand new show "Shoes Off Inside with MKT"! Once again, May, Kelly and Tamlyn dive into several hot topics including the multiple Golden Globe nominations for "Everything Everywhere All at Once" and the controversial abrupt closing of "KPOP" on Broadway. They also tackle the on-going and very important issue of mental health and how years of the pandemic and now the holiday season are exacerbating the problem. For Asians, because of culture and tradition, mental health is often perceived very differently. Dr. Jenny Wang of Asians for Mental Health and author of "Permission to Come Home" joins the conversation.MKT also want to celebrate the holidays so they share their "Favorite Things" a la Oprah, but with an API theme! Their lists include everything from delicious cookies and crisps to skin serums and jewelry. You don't want to miss this episode!! Show Notes:https://asiansformentalhealth.com/https://asiansformentalhealth.com/therapists/jenny-wanghttps://www.instagram.com/asiansformentalhealth/?hl=enhttps://www.amazon.com/Permission-Come-Home-Reclaiming-Americans/dp/1538708000MKT's Favorite API Things!May's Listhttps://rootedfare.comhttps://www.butter-lab.comhttps://www.livehoneybelle.comhttps://lemieuxskincare.comhttps://gloobooks.com/products/a-very-asian-guide-to-korean-foodhttps://www.veryasianfoundation.orgTamlyn's List:https://www.tanakafarms.com/https://mauicookkwees.com/https://alohacreationsonline.com/https://doebeauty.com/https://www.koji-honpo.co.jp/en/dollywink/https://www.shopcambio.co/pages/about-ushttps://www.harpercollins.com/pages/RiseKelly's List:https://nguyencoffeesupply.comhttps://flybyjing.comhttps://www.cairebeauty.comhttps://www.blisslau.com

Welcome to another 'beta' episode of a brand new show with May Lee, Kelly Hu and Tamlyn Tomita, or MKT!* On this episode, we unveil the official title of the show and why we chose it! We also catch up on our recent travels, which include a serious sailing adventure, a festival in Okinawa that only happens every 5 years and wine tasting in Paso Robles with the fur babies. We also try and unpack the results of the midterm elections. IMPORTANT NOTE: This episode was recorded just hours before the GOP clinched control of the House and a day before Speaker Nancy Pelosi stepped down as Democratic leader. The star of this episode, however, is none other than the late, great, gorgeous Anna May Wong. She just became the first Asian American to be featured on U.S. currency, but do people really know her full story? We invited Professor Shirley Lim, an expert in all things Anna May, to dig deeper into the life of the trailblazing actress, fashion icon and activist. Show Notes:Professor Shirley Lim's books,"Anna May Wong: Performing the Modern""A Feeling of Belonging: Asian American Women's Public Culture, 1930–1960"*Shoes Off Inside will soon migrate to its own platform under the new title. We will make this as seamless as possible when it happens! 

Something's brewing and it's pretty damn exciting! A brand new show is in the works with hosts May Lee, Tamlyn Tomita and Kelly Hu!! Details coming soon, including an official name so for now, it's the "No Name Show". In this episode, we talk about the news of a sequel to the beloved film “Joy Luck Club”. Tamlyn, of course, was in the first, groundbreaking movie in 1993 so she tells us what she can! We also cover the reemergence of Constance Wu and her accusations of sexual harassment, cancel culture and the blame game. And we dig into the importance of the upcoming Midterm Elections with Asian Americans Advancing Justice president John Yang. With anti-Asian sentiment still plaguing AANHPIs and democracy on the brink, what do we need to know before November 8th?If you need more information and resources related to the topics in this show, please follow the links below:https://988lifeline.orghttps://www.nami.org/homehttps://www.advancingjustice-aajc.orghttps://apiavote.org

This is a mini episode featuring TV, Film and Theatre actress Jully Lee who will be starring in the new broadway show K-POP!! The show has an all-Asian cast and opens in November! Theatre still lacks AAPI representation so this production is helping to break down those long-standing barriers! Jully shares her thoughts on being part of K-POP and how the traditional theatre is slowing making progress towards more diversity an authentic representation.

Ageism is no joke, especially for women and CTV news anchor Lisa LaFlamme is the latest victim who was punished for embracing her true self by going gray. As a fellow silver-haired broadcast journalist, this story got May really fired up so she called up her fellow fabulous silver sisters, Kelly Hu and Tamlyn Tomita, to break down the stereotypes of what women are supposed to look like, according to age old societal definitions (created mostly by men). Kelly, Tamlyn and May share their experiences with insecurity in their youth and how they grew into their own mature identity. Their stories are honest, authentic, powerful and rarely spoken about in such a public way, especially by AAPI women. We need to change the narrative about women and aging and it starts with this episode!

This is the story of a girl and her car. That girl is me, May, and the car is Bonnie Blue 2.0. Believe it or not, this story is related to Anti-Asian Hate and how the anxiety of this ongoing crisis has made me and others think twice about what we wear, drive, live and socialize. I'm sharing this story because it could have ended with total defeat and heartbreak, but because of the power of storytelling and connecting with others, this has a happy and inspiring ending. Bonnie Blue 2.0 served as so much more than just a pretty car. She played a role in fighting Asian Hate. 

On the 40th anniversary of the murder of Chinese American Vincent Chin, the AANHPI community is still fighting against racism and invisibilization as well as working towards more representation and empowerment. In March of 2020, when Covid-19 was raging across the U.S. and the world, an episode of “The May Lee Show” featuring Helen Zia, legendary journalist, author and activist, was released. Helen, who covered the Vincent Chin case in Detroit as a young journalist, shares her memories from 40 years ago and how it ignited a movement for change that's more important now than ever before. This latest episode is an edited re-release of that interview. 

The numbers are paltry when it comes to AANHPI representation in politics on every level. According to recent data, AANHPI are the most underrepresented in politics at less than 1%. When it comes to Asian women, the number is even smaller. Meanwhile, Congress is still 74% white and 73% male. Wow! All the more reason to help shape and train potential AANHPI women to run for office and that's exactly what New American Leaders and its Women Rising program is trying to do. In this episode, May speaks with Sara Le Brusq, NAL COO, about how they are preparing women to enter the, often, brutal world of public service as well as talking with Tongan American trainee, Celina Tupou-Fulivai, who wants to serve because she's tired of the invisibilization of AANHPIs like herself. One person, one voice CAN make a difference, but it also takes organizational and community support.

We continue our celebration of Asian Pacific American Heritage Month with an explosion of events, programs, celebrations, rallies and so much more! May has been diving in head first to help amplify AAPI issues and educate and inform anyone and everyone who's willing to learn with an open heart and mind. AAPIs are making progress, BUT, and it's a big BUT, new studies and surveys by Bain & Company, STAATUS, USA Today and AAJA reveal that progress in many areas including big business, visibility, belonging and media representation is lagging. May highlights these findings as well as calls out the need for activists to fight with real and authentic intention rather than practicing "performative activism". She explains in this episode in her usual unbridled and unapologetic way!

On April 29, 1992 Los Angeles exploded and became a virtual war zone because four white LA police officers were acquitted in the brutal beating of black motorist, Rodney King. Massive riots were triggered, but much of the violence and destruction took place in Koreatown. Lives were lost, businesses were destroyed, but perhaps the worst damage was the misleading narratives that were perpetuated and inflamed about Black-Korean conflict. 30 years on, there are still misunderstandings and misinformation about the root causes of the LA Riots, but activists, faith leaders, public servants and ordinary people have been working towards better understanding and more unity. May talks with Hyepin Im, President and CEO of FACE LA, Faith and Community Empowerment, who has been at the forefront of building bridges between communities of color. To Im, this is a personal mission to find answers and help heal old wounds.

May is back after a few weeks off to revive, refresh and renew. It's been a trying 2+ years, but she's ready to highlight and tackle AAPI issues and topics again ..the ups and downs, the victories and losses, the love and hate, and everything in between. While May was taking a break from the show, she still stayed active on social media. So this episode is called "Hiatus in Review". It's a compilation of May's commentary, updates,  and riffing about social, political, cultural news and issues that she posted on social media. As a bonus, May gives you a peek into some day-in-the-life scenes, including some furry cameos. It's a unique episode, but leave it to May to play by her own rules, but always with purpose!Please subscribe to the podcast on YouTube and all podcast platforms. Review and rate the show as well! 

May recently did an Instagram Live with activist and NY assembly candidate, Grace Lee. She is the woman who was misidentified as Michelle Go, the woman who was pushed in front of an oncoming subway in NY,  by ABC News when attending a vigil for Christina Yuna Lee, who was brutally murdered in her NYC apartment.  They talked openly about how AAPI women need to fight against the invisibilization and dehumanization and the need to empower each other as well as other BIPOC communities in order to truly see systemic change. 

It's been 2 years since "The May Lee Show" launched as a scrappy, experimental vodcast that set out to elevate AAPI voices and issues. It's been a challenging two years...COVID-19, Anti-Asian Hate, social and political unrest. But something happened recently that made May stop and assess her purpose very deeply...the suicide of Cheslie Kryst, former Miss USA, attorney and correspondent for "Extra". In this episode, May, a 55-year-old Asian woman, explains why the suicide of a very successful 31-year-old black woman has shaken her deeply and is prompting her to take a breath and pause. It's honest, it's raw and it's exactly what she wants to say to whomever wants to listen.

On New Year's Day 2022, local news anchor Michelle Li received a racist voicemail from a viewer who had an issue with her story on foods that people eat for New Year's. In the short 20 second story, Michelle mentioned in passing that she had traditional Korean dumplings to celebrate the holiday. The viewer accused her of being "Very Asian" and that she should "keep her Korean to herself". Michelle posted a video herself silently listening to the voicemail on Twitter and it immediately went viral. The uproar was explosive, especially since the AAPI community has been and is STILL dealing with anti-Asian hate for the past two years. Michelle and fellow broadcast journalist Gia Vang decided to turn the hate into something powerfully positive by taking what the viewer meant to be derogatory, "Very Asian", and turn it into something that represents Asian pride...#VeryAsian. That hashtag has, of course, gone viral. Michelle and Gia have a very honest, genuine and, at times, raw conversation with May about the call, the unexpected reaction and why #VeryAsian is so significant to so many. 

What a year it's been, AGAIN! 2021 has been another year full of ups and downs, turmoil and triumphs and overall craziness. BUT, we've learned a lot about the world, each other and, hopefully, ourselves. So as we get ready to head into 2022, May wanted to share something uplifting that she experienced with a group of dynamic young women who give us all hope about the future. They are part of “Girl Power Talk”,  a purpose-driven organization empowering today's most capable youth with the confidence, knowledge, and opportunity to become tomorrow's global leaders. They interviewed May recently for their series, “People We Admire”, but May decided to turn their Zoom interview into the final 2021 episode of “The May Lee Show”. Why? Because the conversation is  insightful, inspiring and empowering. A tagline that may adopted recently is “Make an Impact” and these young women of “Girl Power Talk” are doing just that. Happy New Year everyone! 

The world of live theatre is largely still a white dominated industry with Asians being a very small minority. Just look at the numbers...66% of theatrical actors and 81% of directors are white, while Asian American directors stand at just 4.5%. When it comes to playwrights, nearly 72% are white versus 5% AAPI. No one has a better perspective on the ups and downs of AAPI playwrights than the masterful David Henry Hwang, one of the most prolific writers, librettists and producers in theatre. His award-winning productions include M. Butterly, Yellow Face, Aida and Soft Power, just to name a few. Hwang has constantly examined social, cultural and political issues through his work and has often questioned identity, racism and belonging. In a new documentary, "The First 20: 20 Years of Asian American Playwriting" on All Arts. Hwang is one of several AAPI playwrights who reflect on their journey and how Asian stories have and continue to evolve on stage. May's conversation with David Henry Hwang delves into his long journey, which includes his own Asian hate attack in 2015 when he almost died and his outlook on how storytelling can make a positive difference. To watch the documentary use this link. http://allarts.org/thefirsttwenty

There's something about baking that warms the heart. From the wonderful aroma of cookies in the oven to the fluffiness of a chiffon cake, baked goods are always a crowd pleaser. But let's be honest, when we think about baking, we often equate it to western flavors and styles. Brownies, cupcakes, croissants etc. It's not too often you hear bakers using pandan or miso or gochujang. Enter Kat Lieu, founder of Subtle Asian Baking, a community she created to celebrate baking with an Asian twist. After a fruitless search for one source that aggregated Asian baking recipes, Kat decided to start her own. So as the holiday season kicks off, May decided to speak with Kat about how it all began and how this community of bakers has helped empower the AAPI community and beyond and fight Anti-Asian Hate one cake at a time! And of course, Kat brings on some of her special baked goods on the show so get ready for some holiday treats! 

Who doesn't love coffee? It's a beloved beverage worldwide, but if you ask coffee lovers who are the biggest producers of coffee beans, most would likely answer “Brazil” or “Columbia”. You'd be hard pressed to get anyone to answer “Vietnam” and yet, the southeast Asian country is the second biggest producer of coffee in the world, but because of false narratives and stereotypes, Vietnamese coffee has been dismissed as inferior. Sahra Nguyen, a Vietnamese American entrepreneur, set out to change that ill-conceived story by starting Nguyen Coffee Supply, from the ground up. She disrupted the conventional coffee industry monopolized by Arabica beans by introducing the world to the beauty of Robusta beans and, at the same time, began the fight against the invisibilization of Asian culture, food and people. The treatment of Vietnamese coffee is a metaphor for how Asians have been treated for centuries. 

As a college student, Lela Lee was an angry young woman, but she wasn't sure why. So one night, she took that anger and created a cartoon, "Angry Little Asian Girl". But, she didn't share it. In fact, she put her away FOR YEARS! A local film festival and a twist of fate, however, helped revive Lela's private, therapeutic project and the foul-mouthed "Angry Little Asian Girl" became a kind of hero to women and girls everywhere who were...you guessed it...ANGRY! Lela bootstrapped the raw, honest and hilarious cartoon series doing everything from selling t-shirts to creating a Kickstarter campaign. But how things have changed! Lela and the "Angry Little Asian Girl" along with her friends are ready to take it to the next level! May talked with Lela about the big news and shares her unusual story of success all thanks to a simple drawing that symbolizes the powerful intersection of being female and Asian.