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This is the second episode in a series on daily life as we remember it during a brighter, more hot pink time in America's history. We're talking about The ‘80s. In this episode, we focus on ‘80s fashion, where  everything was big. Big hair, big clothes. I mean really really big, loud, bright, and too much. We know this now. But we didn't know it then. https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/80slife2 https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you in the depths of travel planning overload? It's time to stop the endless scrolling and officially book your Hawaii trip. But it can be tough when you're trying to create an authentic Hawaii vacation. Today on the Hawaii Aloha Travel Podcast, Aloha Bruce is talking about the reality of a Hawaii vacation. You'll likely discover it doesn't quite look like the image of Hawaii you see on TV, in magazines, and in your imagination.  The good news? If you manage your expectations and open yourself up to new experiences, it could look even better than you dreamed! Choosing the Most Authentic Experiences Bruce begins this episode with a quick rundown of what he looks for in a vacation. It's really interesting to hear how Bruce - a professional travel expert - tries to experience new places.  Then he shares how he brings that same approach to his travel clients. So if you're hoping to have an authentic, immersive experience in Hawaii, you'll want to listen to this.  What kinds of experiences will bring you closer to true Hawaii? Of course, Bruce talks about luau – and recommends the most traditional option on Oahu (spoiler: you can't rely only on reviews to pick out the best one!). You'll also hear about island tours, and how local, small-scale tours are more affordable than you think.  Looking for other immersive Hawaii experiences? Bruce touches on voluntourism and agricultural experiences that get you up close and personal with Hawaii's rich landscape.  Bruce also loves recommending hole-in-the-wall restaurants over the more iconic “touristy” restaurants – allowing his travel clients to get a taste of real Hawaii, just like the locals eat every day. How about that for an authentic Hawaii vacation? Planning Your Authentic Hawaii Vacation You want an immersive, unforgettable vacation experience, but you don't have thousands of dollars to drop each day on high-end, curated itineraries like celebrities do. No problem. Hawaii Aloha Travel is a local agency ready to custom-make a vacation plan that includes the islands' most authentic experiences.  “I always felt that one of our core philosophies is connecting people in the mainland with the people of Hawaii and with true experiences in Hawaii,” Bruce says. And this means going beyond what you can find on the internet. So don't “follow the pack” and go with the most talked-about activities. Call us at 1-800-843-8771 to talk to Bruce or one of our other great agents today. We'll help recommend top-notch experiences with local, passionate guides who want to show you the best of Hawaii. 

Get in the Delorean because in this episode, we're going Back To The ‘80s.  This is the first in a series on daily life as we remember it during a brighter, more hot neon time in America's history. In this episode, we recall the phenomenology and pace of life when your only options are rotary phones that belong to an entire household, music on vinyl, cassette, or terrestrial radio, and eventually CDs, and also the wonder of dual cassette boom boxes. https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/80slife1 https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Astoria, Oregon, is the site of the first American-owned settlement on the Pacific coast of North America. In this episode, we share what we learned on our very first visit to Astoria: about Astoria's origin story and our experience at its Flavel House Museum, which is somewhat haunted, because yes, I felt something, and so have other folks, apparently. Come join us for a quick day trip to one of Oregon's most famous towns.  Lots more show notes at https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/astoriaflavelhouse https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/astoriaflavelhouse https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you haven't been to Hawaii in a few years, there's one big change waiting for you here: reservation requirements at parks and beaches.  It began as a way to control crowds and guarantee spots at high-demand attractions. Now the program has grown and spread throughout the state. You'll see at select national, county, and state parks in Hawaii – but not all of them (not yet, anyway!).  What does that mean for your vacation? Well, you can no longer come to Hawaii and just “wing it.” Not without some disappointments, anyway. You'll want to plan your itinerary with a little more care. And it all starts with knowing which attractions require reservations.  Let's learn about Hawaii's reservation requirements and get an idea of how to plan for it as you look forward to your vacation.  What to know About Hawaii Reservations at Park Many parks and areas in Hawaii now require reservations to visit, and more will likely be added to the list in the next year or two.  This is to help keep crowds down, reserve space for residents, and help maintain some environmental balance.  Also, some areas have become off-limits except to approved tour companies. So though Waipio Valley on Hawaii Island isn't a park and doesn't have a public reservation system, you do need to book a tour in advance to visit that area.  But for now, reservations are just required at a handful of parks and locations that have been overwhelmed with visitors – especially since the post-COVID visitor surge.  In most cases, these aren't make-or-break fees. Instead, it's a few bucks that you need to pay online to secure your spot. Here's what to look for as you reserve your Hawaii activities: What Are You Paying For When You Make a Reservation? Some reservation systems require you to pay a full entry fee when you sign up online. Others (like Haleakala National Park Sunrise Reservations) require you to pay a couple of dollars online and then pay your remaining entry fee at the gate. Review what you're paying for as you make your reservations so there are no surprises later.  How Far In Advance Can You Reserve? Most parks have a revolving window where you can make reservations. For example, you can make Pearl Harbor reservations up to 8 weeks in advance, with additional tickets becoming available the day before.  It's Worth Checking for Last-Minute Hawaii Reservations For peak days and times, reservations get booked up quickly. If you are planning a spur-of-the-moment outing, check on the reservation site to see if there happen to be any openings. It could be your lucky day. If not, head to a park that doesn't require reservations. Sunrise at Haleakala and Throughout Hawaii  It was always an early start if you wanted to watch the sunrise at Haleakala National Park. But we used to have to plan to get there even earlier than necessary because of crowds. When I took visitors up to the peak of Haleakala to watch the sunrise, we were always worried about the parking lots becoming full, and us getting turned away at the gate.  But then, in 2017, the park introduced a reservation system. For $1.50, you secured your spot in the park, allowing you to drive up without worrying about getting turned away. The reservations weren't optional – you had to have one to access the park during sunrise hours.  Now, years later, the reservation requirement endures. And while some hopeful sunrise spectators see it as an obstacle to accessing Haleakala, I appreciate the assurance of it. You have your reservation, you're all set, and you know you're not risking getting turned away after waking up early and driving up to the mountaintop.  And, if you can't secure a pass for sunrise access, you can always watch the (often equally) stunning Haleakala sunset without reservation.  Post-Covid Tourism Surge During Covid, some parks began requiring reservations to control gathering sizes. But the real regulation happened post-covid,

This episode is based on a talk called “Working with Insomnia” by clinical psychologist Seth Gillihan. It covers tips for getting into a good groove when it comes to our sleep lives, that are all science-based and down-to-earth and doable. No crazy technology required. Show notes at https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/sleepdrives Related episode: How To Get A Better Sleep https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/how-to-get-a-better-sleep originally published on 11/14/23 https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/sleepdrives https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Related episode: How To Get A Better Sleep https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/how-to-get-a-better-sleep originally published on 11/14/23 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the podcast, I dive into the unforgettable spots in Hawaii that make the islands a unique paradise to live on. From personal anecdotes to expert insights, we explore the landscapes and experiences that have left a lasting impression on residents and travelers alike. Join us as we journey through the beauty and diversity of Hawaii. This podcast is your guide to understanding why these spots are etched in the memories of those who experience them and make it so I never tire of living here. East Shore to Windward side Venturing just 15 miles east of Honolulu leads to the serene beginning of Oahu's Windward Coast, stretching to Kahana Bay. Along this picturesque shoreline, abundant trails, beaches, lava tubes, and surf breaks await exploration, offering endless opportunities for hiking and beachcombing. Families often enjoy the paved Makapuʻu Point Lighthouse Trail, while seasoned surfers tackle the challenging waves of Makapuʻu Beach and Sandy Beach.Sherwoods Beach in Waimānalo holds a special place in my heart. Its soft sands, gentle waves, and stunning backdrop of the Ko'olau mountains make it a beloved spot for family outings. After a day by the sea, the journey home is sprinkled with local delights like shave ice, lau lau, and malasadas, adding a flavorful touch to the experience.Further along Windward Oahu, Kailua Beach and Lanikai Beach beckon windsurfers and kayakers with their pristine beauty. Kualoa Ranch, a vast 4,000-acre reserve, offers thrilling adventures such as zip lining and horseback riding, allowing visitors to immerse themselves in the rich 'āina (land) heritage. And tucked away like a hidden treasure, Sherwood Beach enchants with its gentle waves and panoramic views of the majestic Ko'olau mountains. Upcountry Maui Every time I head to Maui one of my first treks is Upcountry and a visit to Haleakalā National Park. Spanning over 30,000 acres, the park is dominated by a dormant volcano, occupying 75 percent of Maui and soaring to 10,023 feet. Haleakalā is a sanctuary for numerous endangered and indigenous species, its name translating to "House of the Sun" in Hawaiian. Locals revere it as a sacred site where ancient high priests sought wisdom through meditation. Exploring Upcountry Maui, I suggest visiting the Saturday Upcountry Farmers Market in Makawao. Here, you'll discover an array of locally sourced delights, from tropical fruits to artisanal goods and fresh blooms. We always take a trip to Ali'i Kula Lavender Farm, where we stock up on Lavender soap, lotion, and sanitizer and always find something new to bring back to Honolulu that we can't find here. We Podcast About Hawaii Because We Love Hawaii Get Help Planning Your Trip Kauai South Shore The less developed island of Kauai is nicknamed the "Garden Island." Home to one of the wettest spots on Earth, Mount Waialeale, this destination receives a good amount of rain. But the South Shore is a slightly drier escape. This sunny swath of Kauai is popular among snorkelers, swimmers, and Poipu Beach resort guests. For sure, the South Shore has some of the best sunsets. Baby Beach, is I think one of the best places to see it, This is a protected cove just west of Poipu Beach, where you'll find "calm, ankle-deep waters, perfect for families with babies — hence the name — and small children." Also, a place known as Sunset Wall, a local favorite spot at Koloa Landing, is just down the road from Ko'a Kea Resort. Also, I love the Sunsets from Salt Pond Beach Park, where a protected lagoon with clear water offers a serene sunset experience. Hamakua Coast - Hawaii Island I love this drive so much that I can't wait to return to it every time I am on the Big Island. It starts with the Pepe'ekeo Scenic Drive, conveniently nestled just a short drive north of Hilo on Highway 19, offering a delightful escape into the essence of old Hawai'i.

We all make plans, and sometimes, those plans get completely up-ended by what actually ends up happening, because Life. When things like that pop up, what do you do? What should we do? How should we handle it? In this episode, we discuss the tough emotions and the harried thoughts that come with the very unexpected, and How To Not Be An A**hole To Your Partner when they do. https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/how-to-not-be-an-asshole https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Booking a hotel in Hawaii is an exciting step toward a memorable vacation. Still, with so many options available, it's essential to consider various factors to ensure your stay aligns with your preferences and needs. From budget constraints to room categories, amenities, and location, each decision contributes to the overall enjoyment of your Hawaiian getaway. One of the things I always mention when talking to customers about hotels in Hawaii is that you should adjust your expectations slightly compared to other high-end destinations. Many of the hotels and resorts were built in the 1970s and 1980s and have undergone various forms of renovation over the years. There have been relatively few new constructions. So, if you prefer newer accommodations, it's wise to check with our advisors or me to find out which hotels have been recently renovated or are entirely new. Budget Determining your budget is the first step in narrowing down your hotel options. Hawaii offers accommodations ranging from budget-friendly options to luxurious resorts, allowing travelers to find a place that suits their financial constraints. Start by establishing a total budget for your Hawaii trip, including transportation, accommodations, meals, activities, and other expenses. Consider factors such as the duration of your stay, your travel dates, and the cost of living in Hawaii. Room Catagory Consider the type of room that best suits your needs and preferences. Options may include ocean view, partial ocean view, city view, or resort view. If you're traveling with children, you might prioritize spacious accommodations with multiple beds or connecting rooms. Assess how much space you'll need based on the number of travelers in your party. Hotels typically offer various bed configurations, including two queens or double beds, which can accommodate families or larger groups. Additionally, consider whether you prefer a condo-style setup with separate living areas or a traditional hotel room layout. What can you afford? If you're looking for a luxurious experience, many 5-star resorts in Hawaii offer stunning ocean views, world-class amenities, and impeccable service. However, these hotels can be quite expensive. Many mid-range hotels in Hawaii offer a good balance of value and amenities. These hotels may not have all the bells and whistles of a luxury resort, but they can still provide a comfortable and enjoyable stay. If you're on a tight budget, there are several affordable hotels and hostels in Hawaii. These accommodations may not have the best amenities, but they can be a good option if you're just looking for a place to sleep and shower. We Podcast About Hawaii Because We Love Hawaii Get Help Planning Your Trip Condo vs. Resort Decide whether you prefer the amenities and convenience of a full-service resort or the added privacy and flexibility of a condo rental. Resorts often offer a wide range of on-site facilities, including restaurants, pools, and recreational activities, while condos provide a more homelike atmosphere with kitchen facilities and laundry amenities. Consider which amenities are essential for your comfort and enjoyment during your stay. Whether you prioritize on-site dining options, spa services, or recreational activities, ensure your chosen hotel can cater to your needs. Keep in mind that some amenities, such as room service, may be limited due to pandemic-related restrictions. Location and Proximity to the Beach For many travelers, proximity to the beach is a top priority. Beachfront hotels offer convenient access to the ocean and stunning views, while those located further inland may provide a more budget-friendly option. Consider how important beach access is to your vacation experience when choosing your hotel location. Flexibility and Adaptability Remain flexible when booking your Hawaii hotel,

We've been together as a couple for 22 years and counting. In this episode, we share about a time early on in our relationship when we were fighting a lot. And we also share the things that helped us to break out of that pattern, and to move towards growing in mutual understanding and peace. https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/relationship-advice-from-a-lesbian-couple https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we share some thoughts and tactics that we found helpful when paring down and optimizing our personal libraries. For related episodes on decluttering, see: How to Declutter With Your Partner Part 1: Prepare With These Tips https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/declutter-tips How to Declutter With Your Partner Part 2: Get It Done With These 5 Phases https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/declutter-tips-part2 Episode notes: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/declutter-books Related episodes:  https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/declutter-tips https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/declutter-tips-part2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Find out more about Siena and Toast, the music, newsletter and The Love and About Cat Club here www.sienaandtoast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Navigating Your Hawaiian Getaway: Duration and Budget Insights Welcome to today's podcast, where we'll delve deep into the intricate art of determining the ideal vacation duration for your Hawaiian getaway. Now, if you're part of the fortunate 2% with boundless time and an unlimited budget, by all means, the longer your Hawaiian vacation the better, but let's be realistic here; most of us don't fall into that exclusive category. So, in today's episode, we will unravel the complexities of choosing the right length for your Hawaiian vacation. Here at our office, we regularly receive inquiries from eager travelers who are just beginning their quest to plan their perfect Hawaiian getaway. When I ask them about the duration of their intended stay on the islands, their answers tend to fall into two categories: either too short or too long. Hawaii on a Budget: Maximizing Your Island Adventure For those seeking a quick getaway, perhaps a whirlwind 2 to 3-day trip, it presents quite a challenge. Remember, Hawaii is situated thousands of miles away and several flights removed from the mainland United States, with one or two connections needed for those on the East Coast. Considering the time spent traveling and the potential for jet lag, I often find myself cautioning against such brief visits, instead suggesting they extend their stay. Hawaii, in general, doesn't align with the notion of a last-minute destination or a "quick escape." However, there is one exception to this rule: a short hop from California to explore the vibrant island of Oahu. The complexity of vacation planning often arises from the sheer abundance of attractions and activities on these beautiful islands. I recently had a conversation with a customer, a party of two adults and three adventurous kids, who harbored grand ambitions of conquering all the Hawaiian islands in a mere 5 days. Upon further exploration, they were drawing a comparison to a previous road trip they had embarked upon in Mexico! We Podcast About Hawaii Because We Love Hawaii Get Help Planning Your Trip

The previous episode was titled How to Declutter With Your Partner Part 1: Prepare With These Tips. In this episode, we share the 5 basic phases we went through while we were actually sorting through and dealing with all the stuff, the clutter! Hope these ideas are helpful for you. You can see all our show notes at https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/declutter-tips-part2 https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/ declutter-tips-part2 https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hawaii has been a popular choice among leisure travelers ever since the advent of jet airlines in the mid-20th century, and it's easy to understand why. However, in the year 2024, Hawaii is poised to stand out as an exceptional destination. Maui, in particular, is diligently working towards the recovery of its tourism industry. This effort involves striking a delicate balance, emphasizing respect for the recovery and rebuilding endeavors in Lahaina while also conveying that the entirety of the island is open for visitors.Lately, we have heard from eager travelers searching for those enticing last-minute Hawaii getaways. But here's the thing, Hawaii doesn't quite follow the same rules as other typical vacation spots. While you might stumble upon seemingly low airfare, it often comes with a set of restrictions and, more often than not, coincides with a period when everything else is priced significantly higher – we're talking about hotel rooms and more. Airfare to Hawaii Pitfalls I've noticed that those who plan for a long weekend getaway to our beautiful islands are often taken aback by the sticker shock when they start browsing for hotel accommodations. Hawaii's allure may come at a price that surprises the unprepared traveler. Other destinations across the Aloha State are facing similar challenges. They are grappling with ensuring that tourism contributes positively to the local economy without negatively impacting the communities where residents live and work. Despite these challenges, it's important to note that tourism remains Hawaii's largest industry, and its position as one of the most coveted destinations in the world remains unshaken.Contrary to common belief, airfare to Hawaii can be unpredictable. Waiting until the last minute to book your flight can result in significantly higher costs. Last-minute fares often double, triple, or even quadruple compared to early bookings. Therefore, it's crucial to plan and book your flights in advance to secure reasonable prices.While many sources advise on the optimal booking window (typically one to three months in advance), this may not apply to Hawaii. Hawaii's airfare and hotel pricing dynamics are different. Booking too far in advance can sometimes be as costly as booking too late. It's essential to strike the right balance and not rush into booking too early. Remember that Hawaii's travel timing differs from other destinations, so relying on general advice may not be suitable. Be mindful of the unique considerations when planning your trip to the Hawaiian Islands. Airfare to Hawaii Prices Airfare to Hawaii can vary widely depending on factors such as the departure city, time of booking, airline, class of service, and travel dates. Here are estimated ranges for round-trip airfare from the West Coast, Midwest, and East Coast of the United States to the Hawaiian Islands: West Coast (e.g., Los Angeles, San Francisco, Seattle) Economy Class: $300 to $700 USD or more Premium Economy: $700 to $1,200 USD or more Business Class: $1,500 to $3,000 USD or more First Class: $2,500 to $5,000 USD or more. Midwest (e.g., Chicago, Denver) Economy Class: $400 to $800 USD or more Premium Economy: $800 to $1,500 USD or more Business Class: $1,800 to $3,500 USD or more First Class: $2,800 to $5,500 USD or more.East Coast (e.g., New York, Boston, Miami) Economy Class: $500 to $1,000 USD or more. Premium Economy: $1,000 to $1,800 USD or more. Business Class: $2,000 to $4,000 USD or more. First Class: $3,000 to $6,000 USD or more We're here to help, check out our All-Inclusive Hawaii Packages or get help with airfare, picking hotels or activities. If it's in Hawaii we can make it happen.Get Help With Planning

We've been decluttering over the winter break, and thought you might be, too. Here's some discussion, anecdotes, and tips gleaned from our decluttering projects. We hope they come in handy or at least provide some entertainment for your decluttering efforts. See all the tips and show notes at https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/declutter-tips https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/declutter-tips https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Love cats? Go here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Drowning ranks as the fifth most common cause of fatal injuries among Hawaii residents, resulting in an annual average of nearly 40 deaths. Notably, drowning stands out as the sole injury cause, in which non-residents make up the majority of victims, accounting for 53% of cases. This inclusion of non-residents raises the average annual number of deaths to 83. From 2013 to 2017, Hawaii had the second-highest resident drowning fatality rate among all 50 states, trailing only behind Alaska. From 2013 to 2022, there were nearly 800 fatal ocean drownings in Hawaii, with  54% being visitors. Drowning is the only injury cause for which non-residents comprise a majority of victims (53%). This makes beach safety an imperative topic to cover before your next Hawaiian vacation. Unfortunately, the sheer number of out-of-state visitors to Hawaii means many underestimate the power of Hawaii's waves and waters. Locals, too, can get into trouble in Hawaii waters, even if they've been to that particular beach dozens of times. Bottom line: Hawaii has lots of "dangerous" beaches, and it's important you know which ones are drowning hot-spots. So, we've put together a list of the riskiest beaches in Hawaii. We Podcast About Hawaii Because We Love Hawaii Get Help Planning Your Trip Oahu: Sandy Beach: Nicknamed "Shorebreak Beach" for a reason, Sandy Beach pummels swimmers with year-round crashing waves and strong currents. This combination has caused numerous spinal cord injuries, making it extremely dangerous for swimming. Oahu, the most populous island, also sees the highest number of drownings, with an average of 395 fatalities over a five-year period. The majority of drownings occur on the south shore, where popular beaches like Waikiki and Sandy Beach experience strong waves and currents. Hanauma Bay: While seemingly serene, Hanauma Bay has seen a history of drownings due to sudden waves and unexpected currents. While snorkeling can be enjoyed with caution, stay aware of changing conditions. Maui: Kaihalulu Red Sand Beach: This exquisite red-sand beach boasts rough waters and unpredictable currents, making swimming highly inadvisable. Enjoy the view, but keep your feet dry.  Maui comes in second with an average of 67 drownings, with most incidents happening on the west side near popular tourist destinations like Ka'anapali and Molokini. Makena Beach: Earning the nickname "Breakneck Beach," Makena suffers from powerful waves breaking right on the shore, posing significant danger to swimmers. Additionally, past shark attacks add to the risk. Island-wide: Hapuna Beach Park: Despite its beauty, Hapuna Beach on the Big Island has led to many spinal cord injuries due to its intense shore break. Swimming is not recommended unless you're an experienced and cautious swimmer. Hawaii Beach Safety Tips: Always check ocean conditions and lifeguard reports before entering the water. Never underestimate the power of the ocean, especially currents and riptides. Obey posted warnings and signs. If unfamiliar with a beach, ask locals or lifeguards for advice. Prioritize safety over adventure, especially with children present And here's an interesting fact: On the South Shore, there were 110 drownings, but a full 82 of them (75%) happened from April-September Stay safe, be smart, and use this information to identify the riskiest beaches in Hawaii Kauai Hanakapi'iai Beach: Renowned as the "most perilous beach in Hawaii," Hanakapi'iai, situated on the Na Pali Coast, confronts relentless rip currents, formidable waves, and ever-changing conditions. Swimming is strongly discouraged, and even wading can pose serious risks. Lumahai Beach: While offering stunning views, Lumahai showcases powerful waves and strong undertows that render swimming hazardous for the majority of the year.

A lot has happened here in Hawaii in the last few years. I don't have to remind you about COVID-19 and the wildfires, but one thing hasn't changed, and that's the beauty of the islands and their appeal as vacation destinations. One of the things we love to do here is share fun things to do and, hotel reviews, off-the-bean path spots, help visitors understand these islands, share Hawaii's Worst-Kept Secrets, and how to prepare for a memorable vacation. Surfing Sucks- Don't Try It Have you ever seen or heard the meme, “surfing sucks don't try it”? If you have then I'm sure you know the purpose behind it. Any local can attest to the frustration of their hometown becoming more and more crowded, and not just the popular towns of Hawaii like Waikiki. It's happening everywhere.  I think there's something to be said about this. First and foremost, the earth is a thriving place. It's ignorant to think that population growth won't affect your hometown. Whether it's happening now or 25 years from now, the place that you call home will (or already does) see more people within its borders than it did when you were growing up. I understand why so many people feel this is a bad thing. I can definitely get frustrated when trying to get around town.  I wouldn't say I like being held up by slow-moving cars, hoards of tour bus pedestrians crossing the road, or unusual traffic, all caused by overcrowding. But all that being said, if you don't change your attitude about it, you'll always be conflicted by it. Unfortunately, it is inevitable, and the only way to stay happy amongst an ever-growing population is to embrace it. Or at least learn to accept it. Or move I guess. I know it's hard. So in honor of changing our attitude toward population growth, I'm highlighting Hawaii's worst-kept secrets. The destinations of the islands are what everyone knows about, but the locals wish they could be kept secret forever. It's these ‘secrets' that give visitors a unique experience in Hawaii though, which they have a right to enjoy. Everyone deserves to have an insightful and fun vacation right? Locals from the islands want to know about the best nightclubs in Vegas or the secret surf spots in California, just like I wanted to know about the best wineries in Bordeaux or the most fun place to surf in Barbados when I traveled there. We're here to help, check out our All-Inclusive Hawaii Packages or get help with airfare, picking hotels or activities. If it's in Hawaii we can make it happen.Get Help With Planning Hawaii's Worst Kept Secrets This is why I'm sharing the top things about Hawaii that should have been kept a secret a long time ago, but are now widely known for your vacation pleasure. Enjoy. Snorkeling There was a time when visitors came to Hawaii but didn't swim. Well, they did swim, but it was in layered gowns, stockings, wool suits, and swimming caps and only wading out to their waists. Getting in the water wasn't a widely enjoyed outdoor activity, especially because bathing suits (especially for women) were very uncommon until about the early 1900s. So you can bet that Hawaii's now popular water activity- snorkeling- was definitely not a common thing to do. Thus the waters were void of snorkelers. But today, snorkeling has become one of the top ocean sports for visitors to partake in during their Hawaii experience. Which means many of the top snorkel spots are crowded. But if you're adventurous enough, there are coastlines, coves, and beaches that are snorkel-friendly AND uncrowded, you have to be willing to explore a little. Top snorkel spots that are Hawaii's worst-kept secrets are Hanauma Bay in Honolulu, Shark's Cove on Oahu's North Shore, Poipu Beach on Kauai, Molokini off of Maui and Kahaluu in Kailua-Kona on the Big Island. Remember, if it's crowded, it must be for a reason! Food Trucks Hawaii has quite possibly one of the most popular food truck scenes in the country.

In this episode we swap some memories of childhood Christmases in Hawaii during the '70s and '80s. Then we share ideas for managing extra ribbons, cards, treats, and gifts, and at the end, we include a song about a sometimes snow-capped mountain called Mauna Kea, on The Big Island of Hawaii. Show notes: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/1970s-1980s-hawaii-christmas-reusing-gifts https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're not mental health pros but we do have some thoughts and feelings about the holiday blues, some of which, we bet, you won't find in a Google search. At least we haven't seen it. If you want to jump ahead to the main topic, it starts at about 10 minutes in. Lots and lots more show notes at https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/holiday-blues https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/holiday-blues https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When thinking about a Hawaii vacation, it's important to consider the type of traveler you are. Do you want to have an adventure? Are you looking just to chill out? Is this a special occasion, a once-in-a-lifetime experience?  Or maybe you don't know!  These are some of the questions I ask clients when planning their Hawaii vacations, and I am sometimes very surprised that some people have no idea or haven't traveled much, so they need guidance. The good news is that when you're traveling to Hawaii, chances are that any travel style or preference can be accommodated. Here are some of the most common travel styles and categories I typically encounter when helping people plan their Hawaii vacations. The Touristy Traveler Let's start by discussing traditional or tourist-oriented travelers. Demographics often play a significant role in this type of traveler. Typically, this type of travel wants to stay in their comfort zone. They may be older, less active, or first-time travelers new to the experience. If this description fits you, Hawaii is the ideal destination. You will likely enjoy typical tourist activities such as group bus tours, luaus, farmers' markets, sunset cruises, and easy hikes. The Adventure Traveler Next up are the adventure enthusiasts. In general, they gravitate towards off-the-beaten-path experiences and have a strong passion for exploring and nature. These individuals often seek out moderate to challenging hikes and extreme adventures such as waterfall rappelling, bungee jumping, cliff diving, or skydiving. The Pampering Traveler Another category of travelers includes those seeking pampering and restful relaxation. Typically, these travelers prefer resort properties with a plethora of amenities. They often indulge in spa treatments and tend to have more disposable income than the average traveler. These individuals may be celebrating a once-in-a-lifetime trip, honeymoon, or wedding, and they relish private tours, solitary beach time, cooking classes, or fine dining experiences. The Budget Traveler Now, let's turn our attention to the budget-conscious traveler. Let's face it: Who isn't looking for the best deal? I'm primarily referring to individuals who aim to maximize their Hawaii vacation experience without exceeding their budget. This type of traveler may require assistance in exploring independently. They are usually open to flexible travel dates and comfortable with modest accommodations. They often rely on public transportation to get around and participate in group tours and free festivals across the islands. The Family Travelers Last but not least, we have family travelers. Families usually have fixed vacation periods, often involving multiple generations. Considering this, itineraries must be adaptable and inclusive for all age groups. There's no one-size-fits-all approach, as family vacation styles can encompass any of the aforementioned traveler types in our list. Typically, we'll plan some activities that the whole family can enjoy together, as well as individual options for members who may not share the same interests or abilities as others in the group.

In this episode, we discuss anxieties specific to the holidays. Anxieties about gift-giving, social events, the pressure to make dreams come true, and more. We also discuss some thoughts, practices, and attitudes that can make for less anxiety and a little more heavenly peace. We discuss specific Holiday Anxieties such as: Feeling like you're behind in gift-giving Worrying about your budget when it comes to gifts and festivities Creating a card, and ordering them, and sending them out The fear that the holidays will fly by and you'll feel like you missed it  Doubting whether it's worth all the effort it takes to decorate and celebrate Worrying whether gift-recipients will feel adequately thought-of, considered, and loved by the gifts you give them Feeling the pressure to ‘make dreams come true' – or to at least to make reality look a little like the romanticized, idealized Hallmark Movie Holidays™ – for loved ones https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/holiday-anxiety-how-to-feel-more-heavenly-peace Instagram https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Cat lovers go here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've been considering a trip to Maui recently, you might be surprised by the steep prices you encounter. One would expect that with such high prices, Maui would have a thriving tourism industry, and supply and demand would naturally govern the current pricing. However, from my perspective, something seems amiss. Given the impact of the wildfires on visitor arrivals, one would anticipate a natural adjustment in pricing, possibly resulting in lower rates. However, that's simply not the reality. If you've been checking out Maui prices lately, you'll likely be taken aback, particularly when it comes to hotels on the West side, close to the Lahaina area affected by the fires. At present, hotels in this region are commanding prices ranging from $600 to $700, and I regrettably lack a clear explanation. Some hoteliers I've conversed with claim that this is simply where the current pricing is settling, suggesting that the market has become somewhat unconventional due to certain factors. Locals Want You to Come to Maui Contrary to any misconceptions that may have arisen following the destructive Maui wildfires, Hawaii needs to welcome back tourists. This sentiment isn't limited to tourism officials; it resonates strongly among the local residents as well. The outspoken minority certainly makes themselves heard—quite vociferously. They are seizing this moment to criticize the Hawaii tourism industry relentlessly. Those involved in the tourism sector have been unfairly targeted as scapegoats. Are we to be held responsible for all of this? I don't believe so; we are part of the solution. The information we exchange here, along with others who are sharing the facts, will contribute to finding resolutions. While this is not a novel situation, the volume of voices has undeniably increased. During the pandemic, we encountered similar negativity regarding over-tourism. On an emotional level, there's no denying that the disaster has deeply affected the entire island. However, at this juncture, I've heard from tourism employees, local inhabitants, and Hawaiian authorities, all of whom have emphasized the pressing need for tourists to come back to help restore stability to Maui and the broader Hawaiian Islands' already struggling economy. While it's impossible to quantify the human and personal toll of the fire's devastation, analysts have projected that the fires resulted in an economic loss ranging from $4 to $6 billion for the state. We Podcast About Hawaii Because We Love Hawaii Get Help Planning Your Trip Maui Tourism - The Reality The reality is that there were conflicting opinions regarding tourism in the aftermath of the fires, and this wasn't limited to just immediate visits. Some locals suggested that tourists should refrain from coming to respect those who had suffered significant losses. However, this message was disseminated widely or persisted longer than anticipated, causing challenges for certain small businesses and residents who depend on tourism revenue for their livelihoods. Tourism has seen a significant decline in various parts of Hawaii, as reported by the Hawaii Department of Business, Economic Development, and Tourism. This decline is particularly pronounced in Maui. According to the latest figures from the Hawaii Bureau of Business, Economic Development, and Tourism, in October 2023, Maui welcomed 132,909 visitors, marking a substantial decrease compared to October 2022 (-42.3%) and October 2019 (-44.2%) Maui is welcoming visitors throughout the entire island, with the exception of the areas directly impacted by the fire. This presents an opportune moment to consider planning your trip, as there are fewer tourists at the moment. You can currently enjoy a less crowded experience, and prices have somewhat leveled off since the peak of the travel rebound that followed the easing of pandemic-related restrictions.

How's your etiquette when it comes to energy? Do you have good energy etiquette? In this episode, we chat about what Energy Etiquette is, how it relates to good manners, and how it's not the same as having good intentions. We discuss how Energy Etiquette overlaps with self-awareness, personal development, self-care, and more. And also part of the conversation are quick discussions about empaths and Highly Sensitive People, about Dr. Masaru Emoto's work with water crystals, water energy, and consciousness, and even examples of energy etiquette involving squirrels, kittens, and little kids. Here are links to the things we mention: The blog post about the frequency of Love: https://loveandabovecatclub.com/blogs/post/what-is-love-and-above Dr. Masaru Emoto and Water Consciousness: https://thewellnessenterprise.com/emoto The blog post about the frequency of Love: https://loveandabovecatclub.com/blogs/post/what-is-love-and-above Dr. Masaru Emoto and Water Consciousness: https://thewellnessenterprise.com/emoto https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/do-you-have-good-energy-etiquette Instagram https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode we discuss our reaction to watching The Silence of The Lambs, the movie from 1991, in 2023. The discussion is mostly about LGBTQ+ rights, and the evolution of social norms. We remember what it was like in The '90s because we were there, and yes, things have indeed evolved.  The main discussion starts at around 10 minutes in. See show notes at for way more details. https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/silence-of-the-lambs And if you'd like to suggest a topic or question for a future episode, you can let us know by DM-ing us on Instagram (@sienaandtoast) or emailing us at info@sienaandtoast.com. Thanks! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Conventional wisdom in personal growth circles used to include the adage: “Don't just survive, thrive!” As if ‘surviving' was undesirable, and as if the opposite of surviving was thriving. But the actual opposite of surviving is not thriving, it's dying, it's croaking and breathing your last. In this episode, were inspired by the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, to engage in some “straight talk” about the pressures surrounding how one SHOULD feel about the holiday, and about gratitude, about accomplishments, and yes about surviving and thriving. https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/thriving-surviving Related episode: Gratitude 2.0 ( https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/gratitude-20 ) Instagram https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Cat lovers go here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The world's gotten pretty tense and anxiety-ridden in recent years, and it isn't going to let up anytime soon. This affects all of us, even in our personal lives. In this episode, we share the things that have helped us get a better sleep. A good sleep helps us cope, helps us be as strong and as supple as we can be, for ourselves and each other during these difficult times. The main topic starts at about 8:15 Siena and Toast https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/how-to-get-a-better-sleep Instagram https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

 Today, we're going to discuss Hawaii Bungalows and Villas. This question arises frequently, and today, I will clarify what these terms truly mean in the context of accommodations here in the Hawaiian Islands. Recently, a client called me and attempted to compare Hawaii to Bora Bora, which is like comparing apples and oranges.When you hear the terms Villa or Bungalow, certain images come to mind for most people. It typically denotes a detached, separate accommodation with some privacy and possibly two floors. Villas are typically larger than even a standard house and generally are more luxurious.  A bungalow is usually a single-story home with one level or a variation of a raised structure, sometimes over the water. It's usually a bit more rustic and, in terms of vacations, part of all-inclusive resorts in places like Bora Bora, New Zealand, or Maldives. Hawaii's Bungalows and Villas: Myth vs. Reality The truth is, in Hawaii, the terms "Villas" and "Bungalows" don't quite align with their conventional definitions. While these words may conjure images of luxurious, detached properties with sprawling gardens and serene verandas, the reality is often different. In this tropical paradise, these terms are often associated with condominiums, vacation rentals, or resort-style accommodations that provide a taste of the Hawaiian experience but not necessarily the detached opulence you might envision.Let's give you some examples of Hawaii bungalows or villas you may be hearing about. I think the terms are a bit overused and, in some cases, misleading. For example, let's discuss the Royal Lahaina Beach Hotel and Bungalows. I adore the Royal Lahaina for its excellent value and cost-effectiveness when we're trying to stay within our budget on Maui. However, it's important to note that the "bungalows" here aren't precisely what you'd typically envision as bungalows. I can see why they're referred to as such, but the reality differs. These "bungalows" consist of four separate studio rooms (some of which can be connected) within a single building designed to resemble a cottage. Another example of properties labeled as "Villas" but don't quite fit the traditional villa definition are condo-like accommodations. An example is the Kaanapali Villas on Maui. These properties are essentially condos, with some units featuring lofts, which might be where the concept of calling them "villas" comes from. Similarly, places like The Island Colony Villas on the Big Island are more accurately described as condo complexes situated on a golf course on the Big Island. Here are a few more instances where the "villa" label may be a bit of a stretch: Kauai - Koloa Landing- Kalanipuu Villas- The Villas at Poipu Kai Wyndham Bali Hai & Kauai Beach Villas- Westin Princeville Resort VillasOahu- Ko O‘lina Beach Club and Villas - Disney Aulani VillasMaui- Kaanapali Villas- Wailea Beach Villas- Kapalua Villas - Maui Bay villas - Big Island Island Colony - Waikaloa Beach Villas- Fairway Villas The True Face of Hawaiian Bungalows and Villas That being said, there are indeed some remarkable accommodations in Hawaii that come close to providing a true villa experience. However, be prepared to splurge on these options. Here are a few examples of actual villas.Oahu - Turtle Bay Villas - Tiki Moon Villas- Ke Iki Beach BungalowsMaui- Fairmont Kea Lani- Andaz Maui - Montage Maui- Luana Maui- Ho‘olei at Grand WaileaBig Island- Various individually owned villa-like properties- Mauna Lani Villas - Hualalai Villas at Four Seasons In conclusion, while Hawaii offers a wide range of accommodations, the labels "bungalow" and "villa" are sometimes used liberally and may not always align with their traditional definitions. It's important to research and understand the specifics of your chosen accommodation to ensure it meets your expectations.

In this episode, we share some reflections on how realizing we were gay also led to a richer, deeper, more meaningful life. The main topic starts at around (8:45). Being queer, non-binary, LGBTQ+ definitely has its hardships. But it can also come with priceless positive benefits. Benefits that you can't buy with money, such as being genuinely more open-minded, compassionate, and perceptive, among other things.  Also in this episode, you can hear Toast's reactions to seeing the 1973 movie “The Exorcist” for the first time, in 2023. This ep was recorded on Halloween, and you'll also hear references to poltergeists and ghosts. https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/lifes-personal-growth-program-for-lgbtq-folks-like-us https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kapaa (pronounced ka pah ah) is on the east side of the island of Kauai. In 1777 (Captain Cook's time) the town was not populated, according to the book Rainbows Over Kapaa by Bill Fernandez. There is no mention of Kapaa, which means the solid”, in early Kauai history. In 1877, 13,400 acres were leased from the government by Makee Sugar Company. The venture failed because the operators had little knowledge about growing and processing sugar and the town was doomed to become “a backwater habitat of isolated squatter shanties of expatriate Chinese laborers.” Nevertheless, Kapaa turned its fortune around with a unique identity of mixed cultures and cheap land. Emanating the American Dream, Kapaa's early settlers created a thriving town. Visit Kapaa town today and you'll see a large city (for Kauai) bustling with cars, stores, award-winning restaurants, hotels, resorts, shopping centers, and tourist attractions. Where to Eat For breakfast, I recommend the Kauai Benedict at Country Kitchen, which is made with lomilomi salmon and Kalua Pork atop thick Molokai sweetbread. Alternatively, you can try their Mediterranean omelet. I've had both dishes there, and the omelet is packed with veggies, essentially making it a veggie omelet. Be prepared for a potential wait; although there isn't much of a view, it's worth it and a great way to start your morning. Additionally, it's worth mentioning the Olympic Cafe, also a great spot for breakfast. They serve some of the best Macadamia nut pancakes I've ever eaten, with generous portions and a pleasant view. You can also visit this place for brunch or lunch. Kauai Benedict Let me introduce you to Kenji Burgers for lunch. Their burgers are truly exceptional, and this place isn't just your typical burger joint; it adds a delightful Japanese twist to these delectable creations. But that's not all; Kenji Burgers also serves up some incredible burritos. Their burrito options are nothing short of amazing. You absolutely must try their Japanese Sushi burrito, which features a tantalizing combination of Spicy tuna, Shrimp tempura, Crab meat, and a crispy wonton shell, making it a delightful and fun culinary experience. Japanese Burrito One of my favorite restaurants for dinner is Sam's Oceanview in the heart of Kapaa. The food is delicious. The couple of times I've eaten here, I've had fresh fish; this last time, the Parmesan-Encrusted fresh Mahi Mahi was exceptional. The views are amazing here, so make sure you visit before the sunset. If you're in the mood for takeout that's not too fancy, I have to recommend Chicken in a Barrel in Kapaa; it's excellent. They specialize in smoked BBQ, but I particularly adore their ribs. They're incredibly juicy, and the meat practically falls off the bone. You can pair them with their chili for an unbeatable combo. Parmesan-encrusted fresh Mahi Mahi Kappa Outdoor Fun Kapaa also has three beautiful beaches, which are accessible year-round for swimming, surfing, and snorkeling. Rent a bike and ride beside the ocean on the 2.5-mile paved Ke Ala Hele Makalae or “the path that goes by the coast.” The path takes you along, stretching from Lydgate Beach Park to the picturesque Donkey's Beach. Kapaa has five streams, Hoopi Falls, and five parks. Nounou or “Sleeping Giant,” provides day hikes with ocean views. You can enjoy a self-guided tour of the beautiful 300-acre Hindu monastery, take a chocolate tour at Lydgate Farms, kayak along the Wailua River, or play golf. Kapaa: Local Shopping and events Make sure you take the time to savor the Royal Coconut Coast, part of old Kapaa Town and offer an excellent way to support the local community through shopping. One of the most enjoyable ways to explore Kapaa is at a leisurely pace on foot. Old Town Kapaa is brimming with quirky clothing stores, diverse ethnic restaurants, handcrafted Hawaiian goods, musical vibes, fruit stalls, cozy coffee shops, yoga studios,

We're a couple of Asian Americans who grew up in Hawaii back in the ‘70s and ‘80s. In this episode, we talk about what it was like back then, to realize, slowly over time, that we were gay. The main topic discussion starts at around 10 minutes. (Before that, Siena's on a mission to educate Toast about classic movies.) We're a couple of Asian Americans who grew up in Hawaii back in the ‘70s and ‘80s. In this episode, we talk about what it was like back then, to realize, slowly over time, that we were gay. The main topic discussion starts at around 10 minutes. (Before that, Siena's on a mission to educate Toast about classic movies.) For Toast's portion, topics include: a seven year-old's awareness “Jo” on The Facts of Life TV show being ‘non-heterosexual' was not on the menu Princess Leia and the gold bikini and more For Siena's portion, topics include: growing up with aunts and uncles with ‘friends' who were the same sex no direct references to aunts or uncles being ‘gay' ‘bisexuality' was not on the menu ‘being feminine while being lesbian' was not on the menu and more Episode show notes: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/how-did-you-first-know-you-were-gay https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/how-did-you-first-know-you-were-gay https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On the last podcast, I talked about driving the Ka iwi coast, which prompted a couple of responses from you. Jason, who is a long-time listener, was curious about the hike I take, and I sent him the route; he's gonna plug it into his iFit. I also heard from Trish, who asked me about car rental in Hawaii and if I have any advice, so we talked about that on today's podcast. The best part of being in Hawaii is exploration. Whether on a guided tour or on your own with a Hawaii car rental, your Hawaiian experience is enhanced by the ability to get out and see the islands' beauty. I am surprised at how many people never leave their hotel when they come to the islands. Your vacation to Hawaii should never revolve solely around staying in a hotel. Having a Hawaii car rental is pretty much synonymous with a Hawaii trip, so it's recommended on all islands. However, on Oahu, you can probably get away with having a rental car for just a couple of days. But if you plan on staying outside Waikiki, having a car is a must. A Car Rental in Hawaii saves you money! Having a car grants you an abundance of flexibility when crafting your itinerary, given the vast array of sights and activities to explore on the islands. While it's true that a rental car can't entirely replace the experience of guided tours to certain attractions, it can often translate into cost savings, particularly in the wake of the pandemic. Many Hawaii tour companies have raised their pickup fees significantly in recent years, especially for popular events like luaus. For a family of four, the transportation cost alone could easily reach $200.00.Conversely, another compelling reason to have a car at your disposal pertains to the changes also brought about by the pandemic. Many attractions that once provided transportation as part of their packages have discontinued this service. This shift is particularly notable on Oahu, where numerous visitors seek out adventures like ziplining on the picturesque North Shore or embarking on horseback riding adventures in Mokuleia. Unfortunately, due to financial constraints, many vendors can no longer afford to include transportation, leaving travelers to their own devices when it comes to reaching these sought-after destinations. Car Rental in Hawaii - Pro Tips Hawaii car rental prices vary from island to island and depend on the time of year. Most car rental companies are here, including Turo, which is becoming very popular in the islands. The average price of a car can range from $49.00 for an economy car to $175 for a luxury or Jeep vehicle. This does not include taxes and fees, which can be substantial. If you use a company like ours, these fees are included, and you can save money if you bundle a car into your Hawaii vacation package. Gas is another factor to consider, so rent the smallest car if possible. Also, on Oahu, there are ride-sharing and electric car alternatives. Fun Scenic Drives Oahu - Circle Island Scenic Drive: A trip to Oahu is incomplete unless you have visited the North Shore. It's likely you'll be staying in Waikiki, so this is a fun Hawaii car rental all-day adventure. It's best to get an early start and take the 45-minute dive directly to the North Shore and circle the entire island. Dole Plantation Wailea Coffee Plantation Rum Faculty Haleiwa and Alii Beach (Turtles) Waimea, Sunset, and Pipeline Beaches (Huge winter waves) Sharks Cove Kualoa Ranch Mac nut Factory Maui - Scenic Drive Upcountry: A scenic drive upcountry Maui is an enchanting journey through lush landscapes and serene beauty. Along the way, you'll encounter charming towns like Makawao and Kula, each with its unique character and artisanal offerings. Visit Paia Town/ Makawao Tour Lavender Farm Visit The Surfing Goat Dairy Wine Tasting at Maui Wine Pineapple Plantation Big Island - Drive Hamakua Coast: As you navigate this winding coastal road,

Just because a lesbian couple is married does not mean they really want you to call them “wives.” We can't totally explain it, we just know it's true. In this episode, we have fun musing over the reasons for our mutual distaste for the term ‘wife.' We also share some personal stories about other terms you could use, along with a funny, awkward anecdote from the era before such broad social awareness of the LGBTQ community, that exists now. We start discussing the main topic at around 8:15 into the episode. For the Protein Cookie Recipe, check out the show notes on our podcast blog at SienaandToast.com A few related episodes: The Problem with Pronouns: Misgendered Adventures Is ‘Coming Out' Still a Thing? Coming Out: Process and Our Stories Pride Month: Good People Celebrate Goodness LGBTQ-positive Peace, Love, and Laughs: a Pride Month episode Pride: Then and Now Connect with Siena and Toast on Instagram Visit their website at SienaandToast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The confusion with pronouns and misgendering has been around a long time. Like, for decades. It's just that we as a society never talked about it, in public conversation. In this episode, we share some funny stories about being misgendered over the years, and also relate some advice and perspectives about how to broach the issue when meeting new people. Complete show notes for this episode at: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/pronouns https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/pronouns instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

CORRECTION: Toast mistakenly associated “Prop 8” with Hawaii in this episode, but it was actually associated with California! More on this, and all the other episode details, on the blog: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/is-coming-out-still-a-thing • Toast shares how she was raised as an Evangelical Christian & how she came out • Siena shares how she was raised Catholic, attended an all-girls Catholic school, had many gay uncles and aunties in her family & how she came out • approval of non-heterosexuality in the Christian Bible • needing to re-learn what reality is when you discover you're gay after having been raised in the Evangelical Christian world As of this writing – 2023 – a state of emergency for LGBTQ+ Americans is in effect according to the Human Rights Campaign, the largest organization advocating for LGBTQ+ rights in America. (https://hrc-prod-requests.s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com/Anti-LGBTQ-Legislation-Impact-Report.pdf ) You know we generally keep this podcast show thingamajig on the light and fun side, but we do want to make sure you're aware that these are perilous times. Steady On. Blog post for this episode: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/is-coming-out-still-a-thing LGBTQ+ Americans Under Attack: A Report and Reflection On The 2023 State Legislative Session: Read Here Siena and Toast on Instagram: instagram.com/sienaandtoast If you love cats come to Siena and Toast's web site here Check out some of these related past podcast episodes Pride Month: Good People Celebrate Goodness LGBTQ-Positive Peace, Love, and Laughs. A Pride Month Special Coming Out- Process and Our Stories Pride- Then and Now Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, I heard from a guest who was upset about having a Hawaii Cockroach encounter in his room. He sent me multiple photos of the pesky creatures and asked me to relocate him to another property. While I was happy to do that, the reality is Cockroaches are a part of the Hawaiian community, […] The post Hawaii Cockroach Encounters appeared first on Hawaii Aloha Travel.

Hawaii is often seen as a family destination, but what if you're searching for the best Hawaii resorts for couples? The appeal of Hawaii to families is pretty straightforward. Unlike other destinations, Hawaii has few distractions, such as gambling or a bustling nightlife. For multi-generational families, there's something for every age group and plenty to […] The post Our Top Picks for Best Hawaii Resorts for Couples appeared first on Hawaii Aloha Travel.

Aloha Bruce takes a deep dive into finding a Hawaii kids club for families planning a Hawaii vacation. Bruce begins with a news update about Governor Josh Green's proposal to impose a $50 fee per visitor coming to Hawaii. Bruce notes that it may be illegal and says Green is tying it to the recent […] The post Resorts Ditch Hawaii Kids Clubs appeared first on Hawaii Aloha Travel.

Aloha Bruce Fisher shares the benefits of Hawaii vacation bundling. He Shares “why more is better” on this latest episode of the Hawaii Vacation Connection Podcast. Bruce starts out with an update on the situation in the aftermath of the devastating and deadly Maui wildfires. Governor Josh Green has announced that West Maui will be […] The post Hawaii Vacation Bundling appeared first on Hawaii Aloha Travel.

This episode is some fun inspiration that's also realistic and takes the pressure off, when it comes to home maintenance and improvement projects. Show notes https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/169-diy-painting-garage In this ep, you'll hear us refer to a previous episode, and it's this one: 136 Actually…Maybe You CAN Do It! (From Oct. 2022) https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/136 Find Siena and Toast on Instagram Love Cats? Siena and Toast Music Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aloha Bruce gets into the important topic of rethinking your Maui vacation after the deadly and unfathomably devastating wildfires in Lahaina on this new episode of the Hawaii Vacation Connection Podcast. There are ways to visit Maui, help residents and survivors recover, and avoid the affected areas. First, Bruce discusses Oahu beach closures due to […] The post Rethinking your Maui Vacation After Wildfires appeared first on Hawaii Aloha Travel.

This ep is the 3rd and final part in a series called" The Top 10 Things We've Learned In Our 22-Year Lesbian Relationship." Here are the top-level points we cover in this ep. Scroll down even further for the link to the blog post where we put a bunch of additional show notes. 2. Learn about Attachment Theory and think in terms of your attachment styles 1. Remember and respect that, in large part, you've come together in your relationship to deal with wounds and life lessons BONUS: Health & Finances Blog post for this episode: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/top-10-things-weve-learned-in-our-22-year-lesbian-relationship-3 Find Siena and Toast on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This ep is part 2 in a series called" The Top 10 Things We've Learned In Our 22-Year Lesbian Relationship." Here are the top-level points we cover in this ep. Scroll down even further for the link to the blog post where we put a bunch of additional show notes. 6. Use a personality assessment tool 5. Sex. Do it. 4. Adventure & novelty are bonding 3. Accept your partner. Love them, not your fantasy of them. Blog post for this episode, with additional show notes: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/top-10-things-weve-learned-in-our-22-year-lesbian-relationship-2 Instagram https://instagram.com/sienaandtoast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As recording for this topic really got going, we realized The Content was getting a bit long. So we turned it into a series. This is part one. Before we get to the countdown, FYI, we mention another ep, and that ep is: #130, released on 9/6/2022, called "Back After A Year's Hiatus: A Brief Intro to Who We Are & Why We Took a Year Off." With that said...here's the start of the countdown... The Top 10 Things We've Learned In Our 22-Year Lesbian Relationship 10. Choose your battles 9. Accept responsibility for your feelings 8. Not every issue needs to turn into a psychotherapy session 7. Lean how to fight blog post for this episode, with additional show notes: https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/top-10-things-weve-learned-in-our-22-year-lesbian-relationship-1 130 Back After A Year's Hiatus: A Brief Intro to Who We Are & Why We Took a Year Off https://sienaandtoast.com/podcast/130 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're often told to cultivate an attitude of acceptance in our lives, while simultaneously being told to push through and make a change. This episode, we delve deeper into exactly what “accepting something” means. Because it can mean more than one thing.  Siena and Toast.com Find Siena and Toast on Instagram Love Cats? Go here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What would you do if a neighbor dumped trash in your recycling bin? Here's what we did. A discussion about assertiveness when you're female, Asian American, lesbian, and were born and raised in Hawaii. …can you be assertive and still be likable?  Vanessa Van Edwards on Instagram @vvanedwards – instagram.com/vvanedwards instagram.com/sienaandtoast Blog post for this episode, with show notes: sienaandtoast.com/podcast/164-how-to-be-assertive-and-still-be-likable Siena and Toast Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Someone once observed how society was shifting its focus, as reflected in the names of popular magazines. First it was "Life" magazine. Then, "People." Then, "Us." And finally, "Self." This episode is a rambling discussion (and sometimes ranting) about various aspects of connection: our connection with groups, with each other, with ourselves. Siena and Toast Show Notes Find Siena and Toast on Instagram Find Siena and Toast on the web www.sienaandtoast.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices