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We ended this season with style, substance, and no shortage of side-eye as we celebrated identity, fashion, community, and trans resilience. From Black dandyism to queer travel safety tips, and a healthy dose of real talk—you already know we came ready.Show Notes:Hosts: Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingHousekeeping:Join our Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyExclusive merch drops available—stickers, mugs, tees, and totesHuge thanks to our patrons and sponsor WigsofaKind for their support this seasonLet's Talk About Us:Freddy:Long night in TucsonWeekend rehearsalsStarted watching Poly FamilyFelicia:Got her first Cameo requestWatched the Met Gala live for the first timeJust the Tip – ALL THE TIPS (Season Finale Edition):Tapping into Your Inner Dandy:Style as self-expression, especially within the Black communityHow Black dandyism evolved as resistance and identityWays to elevate your fashion game: tailoring, accessories, color, and confidenceThis year's Met Gala theme celebrated Black dandyism with stunning resultsTrans History Week:Highlighted influential trans pioneers including Dora Richter, Dr. Alan Hart, Lou Sullivan, and CoccinelleHonoring the legacy and impact of trans individuals in medicine, activism, and lawTraveling While Trans and/or Queer:U.S. carries a “Do Not Travel” advisory for trans individuals—safety mattersHigh-risk states include TX and FLTips for staying safe while on the road:Keep ID documents currentAvoid solo long drives through high-risk areasShare your location, stick to well-lit stops, and have a travel buddyTrust your instincts—remove yourself from unsafe situationsA Closer Look at Current Events:Import tariffs driving prices up—145% increases on apps like Temu and SHEINGeorge Santos sentenced to 7+ years for fraud and identity theftTrump vs. Bezos: Amazon exposes tariff costs, and Twitler is madMen are shaving off eyelashes because... masculinity?RFK Jr. says fluoride lowers IQ—what are we even doingPoland repeals final “LGBT-free zone”Harvey Fierstein to receive Lifetime Achievement TonyMet Gala raised $31 million for Black fashion historyFormer Memphis officers acquitted in Tyre Nichols' deathIndia-Pakistan tensions escalate with deadly missile strikesUpcoming Shows & Events:May 16 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat CafeMay 24 – Drag Story Hour AZ Annual Fundraiser (20% off with promo code)May 29 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomJune 5 – Second Annual MPI AZ Drag Bingo at Warehouse 215June 6 – PFF Dragstravaganza (free with con pass)June 7–8 – Drag Story Hour AZ at Phoenix Fan FusionSeptember 4 – Sex Trivia returns to Gracie's Tax BarEnd of Show:Thank you for an incredible Season 13Special thanks to our live viewers, replay watchers, and podcast listenersOver 15,000 downloads and growingSee you soon for more honest, bold, fabulous conversations on Live! with Fefe & FreddyListen on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream podcasts.

On this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we were joined by the stunning and insightful Kristofer Inez Onyx, current Gay America Esquire 2025. We got into his pageant journey, what it means to serve with purpose, and how he's using his platform to uplift community. We also had some real talk about trust, transparency, and emotional maturity in queer spaces. And yes—this week's Just the Tip was one to remember.Show Notes:Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingSpecial guest: Kristofer Inez OnyxGay America Esquire 2025Shared his journey in national pageantry and what motivates him to lead with intentionTalked about emotional intelligence, community building, and representation in the LGBTQ+ pageant worldHousekeeping:Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyMerch available for patrons at all levels—stickers, mugs, tees, totesThanks to our Patreon supporters and season sponsor, WigsofaKindLet's Talk About Us:FreddyAttended his kid's school playRehearsals for Phoenix Fan FusionYard work and pig house progressFeliciaHosted Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomReconnected with a group of birthday queens all born the same month and year—what a vibeJust the Tip:Topic: How to build—and rebuild—trustTrust requires consistency, not just apologiesRed flags, accountability, and learning how to move forward without rushing resolutionWhat transparency looks like in friendships, relationships, and community spacesUpcoming Shows & Events:May 2 – Entice Burlesque in TucsonMay 16 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat CafeMay 24 – Drag Story Hour Arizona Annual Fundraiser (20% off with promo code)May 29 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomJune 5 – MPI AZ Drag Bingo at Warehouse 215June 6 – PFF Dragstravaganza (free with Phoenix Fan Fusion badge)June 7–8 – Drag Story Hour AZ at Phoenix Fan FusionSeptember 4 – Sex Trivia Night returns to Gracie's Tax BarEnd of Show:Huge thanks to Kristofer Inez Onyx for joining us and sharing his brillianceShoutout to our live viewers, replay watchers, and podcast listeners15,000+ downloads and still growingJoin us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversationListen to the episode on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we were joined by artist, leatherman, and all-around creative powerhouse Erick Turner. We talked about artistic expression, queer identity, and the power of telling authentic stories through art. Plus, we unpacked this week's chaos in politics, tech scandals, and some moments that made us go, “is this real life?”Show Notes:Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingSpecial guest: Erick TurnerArtist, leatherman, and founding member of Open Circle Art CollectiveShared updates on his erotic art show and how his work reflects leather culture, body politics, and queer joyTalked about artistic evolution, influence, and pushing boundaries while staying grounded in communityHousekeeping:Support the show on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyExclusive merch for patrons: stickers, mugs, shirts, totesThank you to our patrons and season sponsor WigsofaKindLet's Talk About Us:FreddyHosted Sex Trivia ThursdayFamily dinner in Apache Junction and officially adopted Dee into the famRehearsals and pig house project over the weekendFeliciaHelped host Sex Trivia at Gracie'sEaster weekend was mellowDoctor visit and a nail refreshStayed home with a sick kid on MondayA Closer Look at Current Events:Signal app security: how it's being used by government officials to avoid transparencyDefense Secretary shared sensitive information in Signal chats with his wife, brother, and attorneyTrump refused to declare Arkansas a disaster zone after tornadoes—leaving victims without aidElon Musk officially dropped DOGE and returned to Tesla after the brand started unravelingTrump's Easter message focused on the “radical left,” ignoring the actual holidayPope Francis passed away, raising uncertainty about the future of the VaticanUpcoming Shows & Events:April 24 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea RoomMay 2 – Entice Burlesque in TucsonMay 24 – Drag Story Hour Arizona Annual Fundraiser (use promo code for 20% off tickets)End of Show:Thanks to everyone who joined us live or listened laterOver 15,000 podcast downloads and countingWe'll see you next Wednesday for YOUR Wednesday night conversationListen on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream podcasts.

Episode Summary:On this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we explored the do's and don'ts of communicating with polyamorous folks, shared weekend updates from our Drag Bingo adventures, and gave our take on what it means to speak with respect in queer, consensual spaces. Plus, we celebrated women in space, reflected on representation in pop culture, and reminded everyone—again—that polyamory is not your punchline.Show Notes:Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingKey discussion topics:What NOT to say to a poly person or coupleRespecting communication and boundaries in polyamorous relationshipsMisconceptions around polyamory, group sex, cheating, and emotional connectionThe importance of curiosity, not assumptions, when exploring ethical non-monogamyHousekeeping:Get exclusive content, merch, and early access on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyMerch includes stickers, mugs, t-shirts, and totes at all tier levelsThank you to our amazing patrons and season sponsor, WigsofaKindLet's Talk About Us:Freddy: Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese was a blastFelicia: Reconnected with old friends at Shea Cheese and enjoyed the vibe, despite some guests dipping during blackout roundSunday was a reset day prepping for a busy weekJust the Tip: How NOT to Talk to a Poly Person or Couple“I wasn't looking for anything serious anyway” – no thanks“Where's my orgy invite?” – inappropriate“Who's your favorite partner?” – not how this works“Don't tell my partner I'm poly” – that's cheating, not poly“Isn't one partner enough?” – polyamory isn't about lacking, it's about love“Are you going to settle down?” – this isn't a phase“Who has sex with who?” – not your business“Can I join you guys?” – we're not taking applications“Oh, like Sister Wives?” – please stop“What about your kids?” – what about them?“Do you get jealous?” – we work through it, just like anyone elseA Closer Look at Current Events:All-woman flight crew took a 10-minute flight 66 miles above EarthBacklash included criticism over cost and performative messagingHighlighted contrast with real women losing jobs at NASAHarvard pushes back against dismantling diversity programmingCelebrating representation:30th anniversary of A Goofy MovieMary J. Blige's My Life added to the National Recording RegistryLarry Fitzgerald Jr.'s impact through youth STEM programs and startup investmentsUpcoming Shows & Events:April 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie's Tax BarApril 24 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea RoomMay 24 – Drag Story Hour AZ Annual Fundraiser (use code for 20% off)End of Show:Thank you to our live viewers and podcast listenersOver 15,000 downloads and growingJoin us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversationListen on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Episode Summary:In this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we dive into con-sent (yes, we went there), Madame Askew and Eve Riot join us to discuss bad influencers at conventions, and share updates from the Southwest Love Fest. Show Notes:Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingThis week's themes:Con-sent and influencer etiquetteBad behavior in steampunk spacesHow NOT to review a conventionSocial media clout vs. community respectPatreon shoutouts and exclusive merch reminderpatreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyMerch available for patrons at every level, including stickers, mugs, t-shirts, and tote bagsHuge thank you to WigsofaKind for supporting Season 13Freddy's update:Worked a gig for his partnerProduced the glow party at Southwest Love FestFirst gym visit since the pandemicFelicia's update:Southwest Love Fest, returned to DSH, and performed at Majik at Stacy's at Melrose. Segment: Just the Tip – A Bad Influence(r)Commentary on an influencer's out-of-touch review of a steampunk conventionBroke down their content, lack of community interaction, and disregard for con etiquetteHighlighted the importance of respecting fan spaces and not exploiting them for viewsDiscussed the value of creativity, connection, and understanding when participating in niche fandomsUpcoming Shows & Events:April 12 – Drag Bingo at Shea CheeseApril 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie's Tax BarApril 24 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea RoomClosing:Thank you to our viewers, listeners, and guestsOver 15,000 podcast downloads and growingSee you next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversationListen to the full episode on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast app.

Live! with Fefe & Freddy – Episode 21 Show NotesSeason 13, Episode 21 – April 2, 2025Episode SummaryWelcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we're talking about:WeddingsConventionsAnd more!Plus, our special guest joins us to share their experiences and insights.Housekeeping & AnnouncementsGet VIP access to exclusive content on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyNew exclusive merch drops! Join at different membership levels to snag stickers, mugs, t-shirts, and totes.A special shoutout to our amazing patrons, including Brandon, Cassandra, Chris and Michelle, Dee, Drake Jensen and Michael, KC Starr, Kerry & Kori, Joan, Laura, Lee-ann, Madam Askew and the Grand Arbiter, Nicole, Patricia Mason, Shannon, and William.Huge thanks to WigsofaKind for supporting this season!Weekend RecapFreddy:Attended Night of Trans and Nonbinary Joy – brought daughter, snagged books.First rehearsal for PFF.Felicia:Attended Night of Trans and Nonbinary Joy but forgot costumes.Playdate on Sunday.Just the Tip – How to Plan a Wedding in Four DaysVenue: Consider a park gazebo or a small indoor space.Food: Snacks, cheese, meats, and cupcakes can work in a pinch.Photography: Encourage guests to take photos and upload them to a shared drive.Clothing: Budget-friendly options at stores like Ross or borrowing from friends.Last-minute purchases: Amazon for plates, napkins, and flutes.Current EventsWTF?! Elon Musk sells Twitter... to himself.TikTok Ban: Another potential ban incoming, with Trump working to find U.S. investors.Tariffs: Trump announces at least a 10% tariff on nearly all imported goods, with 25% on foreign cars.Wisconsin Elections: Voters elect a Democratic state supreme court judge, shifting the balance of power.Health News: Actor Val Kilmer passes away at 65 due to pneumonia complications.U.S. Budget Cuts: 23 states suing over $11+ billion in public health funding cuts.Guest SpotlightWho they are, what they do, and upcoming projects.Their experience in Arizona.Where to follow and connect with them.Upcoming Events & ShowsApril 5: Southwest Love Fest Block PartyApril 6: Majik! at Stacy's at MelroseApril 12: Drag Bingo at Shea CheeseApril 17: Sex Trivia at Gracie's Tax BarApril 24: Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomUpcoming GuestsMore announcements on Patreon.In talks with: Kristofer Inez Onyx (Mr. Gay America), Chris Barrows (Table Top Express, Why I Social Podcast), Eric Thurnbeck.Thank You & ClosingSpecial thanks to guest Christine Vibrant for joining us!Thanks to our live viewers and podcast listeners—over 15K downloads and growing!See you next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation!Listen to the full episode now on your favorite podcast platform!

We're back with another episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy! Get ready for an exciting discussion about weddings, conventions, and the latest headlines.Support the ShowGet exclusive content on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddySpecial shoutout to our amazing patrons, including Brandon, Cassandra, Chris, Michelle, Dee, and more.A big thank you to WigsofaKind for supporting this season!Freddy's Wedding: Planning in Four DaysDeciding on a small, intimate wedding.Choosing a budget-friendly venue and simple catering options.Finding outfits quickly—creative and affordable solutions.WWWC Recap: What Really Happened?Freddy's performance and audience reactions.Media coverage from Phoenix and Tucson.Setting the record straight on event narratives.Current EventsPolitics:Controversy around government war plans leaked via Signal chat.Calls to defund NPR and PBS—why it matters.Florida's push for child labor law changes.World News:The Second Lady's Greenland visit—what went wrong?Upcoming Shows & EventsMarch 29: A Night of Trans and Nonbinary JoyApril 5: Southwest Love Fest Block Party.April 6: Majik! at Stacy's at Melrose.April 12: Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese.April 17: Sex Trivia at Gracie's Tax Bar.Thank You for Tuning In!Watch us live every Wednesday at 8 PM MST/Arizona time on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch.Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe!

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we broke down the complexities of the trans umbrella, tackled the latest Dump Truck politics, and called out misinformation surrounding gender identity. From explaining trans identities to dissecting the absurdity of Trump's Tesla takeover, this episode brought truth, humor, and real talk to your Wednesday night conversation.Key Takeaways:The Trans Umbrella:What it really means to be transgender and why there's no such thing as “not trans enough.”The difference between being trans, nonbinary, a drag performer, and a cross-dresser.Why hormones and surgery are not required for someone to be “really” trans.A history lesson on nonbinary genders that have existed for centuries.Current Events:Arizona Supreme Court's AI court reporters—because nothing says justice like a robotic narrator.Trump turns the White House into a Tesla dealership and urges MAGA fans to buy stock after prices plummet.Trump labels violence against Tesla dealerships as domestic terrorism, despite previous right-wing anti-EV sentiments.Canada retaliates against U.S. tariffs by slapping a 25 percent surcharge on electricity sold to northern states.Politics:The Arizona Legislature continues its attack on LGBTQ+ rights and reproductive healthcare.The push for policies that strip away trans protections and limit access to medical care.Personal Updates:Freddy:Took a weekend off from everything.Hosted Drag Story Hour at Brick Road Coffee.Felicia:Celebrated a family birthday party.Attended Story Hour on Sunday.Upcoming Events:No Live Show Next Week.March 20 – Trivia Night: Broadway Edition at Drink Me Tea Room.March 21 – Tricks & Treats: A Drag and Burlesque Show at Wild Wild West Con.March 29 – More details coming soon.April 5 – Southwest Love Fest Block Party.April 6 – Majik! at Stacy's at Melrose.April 12 – Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese.April 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie's Tax Bar.Watch or Listen:Missed the episode? Watch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch, or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

• Hosts Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming kick off the show by dissecting the difference between kink and fetish, explaining that while kinks are unconventional sexual interests enjoyed occasionally, fetishes are intense, persistent attractions that can define one's sexual routine.• Housekeeping details include information on VIP content, exclusive merchandise, and Patreon membership options for dedicated listeners.• Personal Updates:  - Freddy recounts his experiences at Drag Bingo + Cats, his time at the Melrose Street Fair, judging at the Mister AZ UsofA MI Classic, and wrapping up a long-plagued music mix.  - Felicia shares highlights from Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room and the Melrose Street Fair, along with a “restful Sunday” spent recharging.• Just the Tip – Kink vs. Fetish:  - A deep dive into how sexual preferences differ, with examples ranging from role play and impact play to specific object or body part fixations.  - Discussion emphasizes that while any kink can evolve into a fetish, the key distinction lies in intensity, frequency, and object focus.• A Closer Look at Current Events:  - Highlights from a recent Congressional address: Representative Al Green's ejection, real-time protests with signs like “Save Medicaid” and “Protect Veterans,” and on-the-spot commentary from Rashida Tlaib.  - Coverage of controversial claims regarding government spending on making mice transgender, border policies involving illegal aliens, and misleading assertions about autism.  - Brief mention of Arizona legislative bills, signaling ongoing political debates in the region.• Guest Interaction:  - Listeners were invited to share personal boundaries and adventurous ideas regarding intimacy, fostering an interactive conversation on sexual expression and consent.• Interactive Segment:  - The show concludes with the hosts' signature “This or That” game, featuring provocative and humorous scenarios that challenge conventional norms.• Upcoming Events:  - Trivia Night: Broadway Edition at Drink Me Tea Room on March 20  - Tricks & Treats: A Drag and Burlesque Show at Wild Wild West Con on March 21  - Southwest Love Fest Block Party (dates TBA)  - Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese on April 12  - Sex Trivia at Gracie's Tax Bar on April 17  - Future guest announcements include Kristofer Inez Onyx (Mr. Gay America) and Chris Barrows from Table Top Express and Why I Social Podcast.Watch or Listen:• Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch.• Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your preferred podcast platform

Episode Summary:• Hosts Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming explore the enduring nature of sex and challenge modern misconceptions.• They share personal updates—from celebrating Pride Day at the Ren Faire to creative projects like cosplay and homemade blackberry ginger lemonade.• "Just the Tip – A History of Sex" debunks the myth that sex is a modern invention by highlighting ancient practices, the origins of pornography, and the evolution of sex toys and condoms.• In the "A Closer Look at Current Events" segment, the hosts discuss:  - Corporate shifts on DEI: Disney and Pepsi rolling back initiatives versus Coke doubling down.  - Political controversies: U.S. alignment with Russia, mass federal layoffs, protests over trans rights, and new college bathroom regulations.  - Legislative actions: Efforts in nine states to challenge same-sex marriage and Arizona bills addressing abortion-inducing drugs and the “gay or trans panic defense.”  - Minority Report highlights: Tributes to Roberta Flack, Lester Holt's departure from NBC, and debates sparked by Joy-Ann Reid's exit from MSNBC.• An interactive segment invited listeners to share their hard boundaries regarding intimacy.• The show wrapped up with the signature “This or That” game featuring outrageous scenarios.Upcoming Events:• Feb 27 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room• Feb 28 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe• Mar 21 – Tricks & Treats: A Drag and Burlesque Show at Wild Wild West Con• Apr 12 – Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese• Apr 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie's Tax BarWatch or Listen:• Replay available on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch.• Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your preferred podcast platform.

This week onLive! with Fefe & Freddy, we exploredvisiting etiquette, celebrateddiversity and historic firsts at the Super Bowl, and delivered our signature take onpolitical chaos and current events. We also shared personal updates, includingRen Faire adventures, flyer designs, and a Girl Scout Cookie haul.Segment Highlights:Just the Tip – Visiting EtiquetteHow to be a good guest at play dates, game nights, and social gatheringsTips for navigating allergies, dietary restrictions, and other considerationsKnowing when it's time to leave without overstaying your welcomeCelebrating Diversity and Firsts at the Super BowlAutumn Lockwood becomes thefirst Black woman coach to win a Super BowlJalen Hurts joins the ranks as thefourth Black quarterback to win a Super BowlTahj Williams is recognized as thefirst Black woman to design the Super Bowl logoMemorable performances by Ledisi, Jon Batiste, and Kendrick Lamar's powerful protest momentCurrent Events: The WTF FilesElon Musk's Oval Office appearance and the bizarre rebranding of theGulf of Mexico to Gulf of AmericaKanye West's controversy over selling a shirt with a swastika, leading to his shop's shutdownNew Arizona legislative bills:Minority Report & Pop Culture MomentsSuper Bowl representation and performances celebrating Black excellenceKendrick Lamar's impactful performance and social commentaryUpcoming Shows & Events:Pride Day at the Ren Faire – February 16Majik at Stacy's at Melrose – February 23Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room – February 27Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe – February 28Tricks & Treats: A Drag and Burlesque Show at Wild Wild West Con – March 21Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese – April 12Sex Trivia at Gracie's Tax Bar – April 17Watch or Listen:Missed the live stream? Catch the replay onFacebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Listen to the episode onSpotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

Overview:This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we explored budget-friendly cosplay hacks, the latest WTF moments in politics and current events, and some wild legal battles that turned the tables on hate groups. Plus, we shared behind-the-scenes updates, including Sex Trivia Night, Men of Mister Phoenix Pride Fundraiser, and the latest adventures in home decor. Segment Highlights: Cosplay on a Dime How to create Ren Faire and steampunk looks from thrifted and repurposed pieces Easy DIY accessories to elevate your cosplay game Tips for getting started without breaking the bank Current Events: The WTF Files Elon Musk's latest power grab – His team now has access to federal financial data The Proud Boys' legal loss – A Black church now owns their name and branding rights Trump's transgender athlete ban – What it means for sports and the LGBTQ+ community Politics Rundown Trump's plan to “redevelop” Gaza—aka a billionaire golf course dream Tariff negotiations between the U.S., Mexico, and Canada Canadian Prime Minister's not-so-subtle jab at American politics Minority Report & Pop Culture The controversy around Black History Month proclamations Beyoncé's Grammy wins for Best Country Album and Album of the Year Kendrick Lamar's legendary Grammy moment with a Canadian tuxedo Upcoming Shows & Events: Pride Day at the Ren Faire – February 16 Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room – February 27 Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe – February 28 Sex Trivia Night at Gracie's Tax Bar – April 17 Watch or Listen:Did you miss the livestream? Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Listen to the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we dive into the pursuit of joy and the small moments that bring us happiness. From game nights and creative outlets to travel plans and performing, Fefe and Freddy share how they stay grounded despite the chaos of current events. Plus, we break down the latest political nonsense, discuss a federal aid freeze reversal, and take a closer look at some truly bizarre news stories. Segment Highlights: Finding Joy in the Chaos How to be intentional about joy in everyday life Favorite activities that spark happiness Why community and creativity matter more than ever Current Events: The WTF Files Trump's latest SpaceX mission idea A wild turn of events for a January 6 insurrectionist The Senate grilling RFK Jr. over his controversial health views Health & Politics Rundown Federal aid freeze reversal Rising RSV and flu cases—please wash your hands and stay home when sick 80 years since the liberation of Auschwitz and Black History Month acknowledgment from the Trump administration Upcoming Events & Gigs Sex Trivia Night – January 30 at Gracie's Tax Bar, 8 PM Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room – February 27 Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe – February 28 Watch or Listen:Did you miss the livestream? Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Listen to the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

Guest: Vivian Vendetta-Sinclaire, National Miss Comedy Queen Overview:In this week's lively episode, Live! with Fefe & Freddy welcomes National Miss Comedy Queen, Vivian Vendetta-Sinclaire. Vivian shares her journey as a titleholder and entertainer, offering an inside look at her reign and her take on the world of drag comedy. Fefe and Freddy bring their signature wit, tackling the week's hot topics, from holiday recaps to a satirical “revolution planning” session. Segment Highlights: Guest Spotlight: Vivian Vendetta-SinclaireVivian dives into her life as National Miss Comedy Queen, discussing her experiences in the pageant world, what inspires her comedic style, and what's next on her exciting journey. Learn more about her and follow her on Instagram at @vivianvendetta_sinclaire. Just the Tip – Revolution Planning BasicsIn a tongue-in-cheek segment, Fefe and Freddy humorously break down how to start a “revolution,” party-planning style. From choosing a theme to recruiting “partygoers,” the hosts deliver clever commentary on current events with their unique comedic flair. Current Events RecapThe duo takes a closer look at the latest news, including a mix of serious political updates and the week's most absurd headlines. Upcoming Shows & Events: Sex Trivia Night – January 30 at Gracie's Tax Bar, 8 PM Cat Bingo – February 28 More guest announcements are coming soon! Watch or Listen:Did you miss the livestream? Watch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Listen to the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast player.

Welcome to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we dove into the meaning of authenticity and how it shapes our lives. We started the show with reflections on the challenges and rewards of living authentically. From personal stories of self-discovery to understanding the unique paths others take, we explored how authenticity isn't a one-size-fits-all journey. In Just the Tip, we discussed how authenticity can mean everything from embracing your identity to breaking free from societal or religious expectations. It's about finding what feels true for you, no matter how long it takes or how many layers you uncover along the way. We also covered major current events, including: Allegations surrounding Neil Gaiman have rocked the entertainment industry. A glimmer of hope in the Middle East as Israel and Hamas agree to a ceasefire and prisoner exchange. A reminder of the ongoing struggle for equality as we honor Martin Luther King Jr.'s 96th birthday. Sex Trivia returns for one night only on January 30 at 8 p.m. at Gracie's Tax Bar. More exciting guest announcements are coming soon on Patreon! Get exclusive content and perks like stickers, mugs, and more by joining us on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy. Huge thanks to our patrons and WigsofaKind for supporting this season! Missed this episode? Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch, and join us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation. #LiveWithFefeAndFreddy #PodcastRecap #AuthenticityMatters

Live! with Fefe & Freddy Season 13, Episode 11January 8, 2025 Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! This week's episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy was packed with laughter, insights, and plenty of sass. We started the night by catching up on Freddy's weekend trip to San Francisco, where highlights included Fisherman's Wharf, Chinatown dumplings, and exploring the Winchester Mystery House. Meanwhile, Felicia took a quieter approach to the weekend, prepping for the busy weeks ahead. For Just the Tip, we dove into the art of flirting. Whether it's playful banter, thoughtful compliments, or being mindful of boundaries, we shared tips to help you navigate flirtatious interactions with confidence and authenticity. We tackled some wild current events, from the controversy surrounding a tattooed 9-year-old to Meta's troubling policy changes. Plus, we discussed the latest on wildfires in Los Angeles and other headlines making waves this week. Freddy's Next Gig: Miss Canyon Dig It Comedy Queen Prelim at The Rock, Saturday, Jan. 11. Doors open at 3 p.m., and the pageant starts at 4 p.m. Come support the queens! Stay tuned for more guest announcements on Patreon. Get exclusive perks like stickers, mugs, and behind-the-scenes content by joining us on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy. Special thanks to our patrons and sponsor WigsofaKind for keeping the conversation going. Missed this episode? Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay up to date. See you next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation!

This week on Live! with Fefe, I had the pleasure of chatting with Victor Yates, an award-winning writer, typewriter poet, and content creator whose work uplifts and celebrates queer voices. Victor shared the inspiration behind his debut novel, A Love Like Blood, which earned the 2016 Lambda Literary Award for LGBT Debut Fiction. We also discussed his creative process, his passion for storytelling, and his experiences as a member of Pride Poets, a queer typewriter collective. In addition to his literary achievements, Victor is a contestant on the gay dating reality show For the Love of DILFs, premiering November 26 on OUTtv. During our conversation, he gave us a behind-the-scenes look at his reality TV journey and offered insights into balancing creativity with the unique demands of the show. In This Episode: Victor's journey as an author and poet The creative process behind A Love Like Blood Exploring queer identity and storytelling Insights into his experience on For the Love of DILFs Upcoming appearances and projects Tune in to this engaging conversation about writing, advocacy, and the power of queer representation in storytelling. Watch Live Every Wednesday:Live! with Fefe streams live at 8 PM MST/Arizona time on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch. Follow Victor Yates: Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube: @writervicyates Support the Podcast: Join us on Patreon for exclusive content and merch at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy.

Felicia "Fefe" Minor is riding solo on Live! with Fefe & Freddy! While Freddy takes center stage in an All Queer Shakespeare take on A Christmas Carol, Fefe is holding down the fort with all the December vibes. In this episode, we're talking: The holiday hustle Spilling the Wicked movie tea Natural remedies for an upset stomach Winter skincare tips And whatever else comes up! Join Fefe for a fun, interactive conversation and the signature Live! charm. Tune in LIVE on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch every Wednesday at 8 PM MST/Arizona time. Don't miss it—it's YOUR Wednesday night conversation!

In this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we welcome Marshall Shore, Arizona's Hip Historian, for an unforgettable exploration of the quirky, untold stories of Arizona's past. From vibrant storytelling to insights into preserving LGBTQ+ history, Marshall shares what makes Arizona's history unique. In this episode also we discuss holiday travel essentials and the latest political updates. Segment Highlights: Holiday Travel EssentialsAs the holiday season approaches, Fefe and Freddy share their must-have travel items and tips for making road trips and flights smoother. From snacks and body pillows to flexible itineraries, they cover everything you need to know for stress-free holiday travel. Guest Spotlight: Marshall ShoreKnown for his engaging storytelling, Marshall dives into: His journey from librarian to historian uncovering Arizona's weird and wonderful past. The Arizona LGBT+ History Project and its significance in preserving queer history. Upcoming events like the Phoenix History and Haunted Tour. Advice for those interested in uncovering history in their communities. Political CommentaryFefe and Freddy provide their signature take on the latest political appointments and the implications for marginalized communities. About Marshall Shore:Marshall Shore, also known as Arizona's Hip Historian, has dedicated years to uncovering and preserving the state's unique history. From hosting tours and trivia nights to working on the Arizona LGBT+ History Project, Marshall brings stories to life with a fresh, engaging perspective. Learn more at hiphistorian.com or follow him on social media at @hip_historian. Upcoming Events: No Show – November 27 Winter Wonderland Drag Bingo – December 11 at Drink Me Tea Room A Christmas Carol – Opening Night, December 13 at FPC (Tickets available now! Use code JACE5 for discounts) Watch or Listen:Stream this episode on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Tune in on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

In this week's high-energy episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, hosts Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming dive into the quirks and challenges of the online world, politics, and the state of social media. With multimedia artist and photographer Brandon McGill as the special guest, the show packs insightful discussions, games, and exclusive offers. Tune in for an interactive Mad Libs session where Brandon will transform audience suggestions into a one-of-a-kind drawing! Segment Highlights: Social Media: A Blessing and a CurseFefe and Freddy reflect on the impact of social media in today's climate—exploring how it helps build community and share authentic voices, yet often feels like a relentless scroll. They discuss how artists can engage meaningfully amid the noise. Political RundownThe hosts break down some recent updates from Washington, D.C., discussing cabinet picks and policies affecting LGBTQ+ communities. Their witty commentary offers humor and a hard-hitting look at current events. Mad Libs with a Twist – Game Night with Brandon McGillReady to play? Audience members can submit words and phrases for a wild collaborative story, illustrated live by Brandon. Prizes include a custom drawing, a professional photo shoot, and a body painting experience. Contest Alert:This episode's contest runs until Thursday, November 12, 2024, at 8:15 PM MST. Participate by submitting ideas for the Mad Libs game, typing "Transform me" to win a body painting session, or "Photo" to enter for a professional photoshoot by Brandon McGill. Check out Brandon's work and book a session at brandonmcgill.com. Upcoming Events: Drag Bingo & Cats – November 15 FPC Christmas Carol Opening Night – December 13 (Use code JACE5 for ticket discounts) Next Guest: Marshall Shore, Arizona's Hip Historian (November 20) Thanks for Tuning In!Catch the live stream every Wednesday night at 8 PM MST on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch for your weekly conversation. For exclusive content, visit patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy.

WTF?! Post-Election Thoughts, Recovery Plans & What's Next! | Live! with Fefe & Freddy In this episode, we're diving into practical steps and support options for those in the LGBTQ+ community who may feel uncertain or at risk in the current political climate. I recognize my privilege as a white, male, cis-assumed person and want to offer guidance for those who might be feeling vulnerable or unsure about essential updates to legal documents. Let's break it down: Legal Document Updates: Name & Gender Marker Changes: For those who use a different name or present differently than their birth certificate, a legal name change can help avoid issues. ID updates may be inexpensive and can reduce future hassles. Resources for Legal Changes: Many areas offer resources to assist with legal fees. Reach out if you need connections to local support. ID & Passport Tips: If you've already changed your name, ensure your IDs are up-to-date, including state ID, driver's license, Social Security card, and, if possible, your birth certificate. For travel, renewing your passport can provide a consistent form of ID for 10 years. Healthcare and Legal Safeguards: If you're partnered, consider updating legal documents such as wills, power of attorney (POA), and living wills to protect your rights. Support Networks: Building a community of friends, family, and allies is critical. Though the current climate may feel harsher, we have a history of resilience. Let's continue to thrive, support each other, and not give up the fight. Resource Numbers: Trevor Project: 212-695-8650 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Dial 988 SAGE LGBTQ Elder Hotline: 1-877-360-5428 Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860 LGBT National Youth Talkline: 800-246-7743 Political Updates: Arizona: Abortion rights enshrined in the state constitution. Delaware: Sarah McBride becomes the first openly trans Congress member. California & Colorado: Voters remove same-sex marriage bans from state constitutions. Maryland: Angela Alsobrooks becomes the first Black senator. New Mexico: Former DACA recipient Cindy Nava wins a legislative seat. Awareness Months: Native American/Indigenous Peoples Month: Take time to engage respectfully with Indigenous communities and support Indigenous-led initiatives. Trans Awareness Month: Get involved by supporting trans-led organizations, learning about trans issues, and being an active ally. Small actions can contribute to a more inclusive society.

In this episode, Felicia takes the spotlight solo, diving into mental health tips to help manage the weight of election season: Election Mental Health Tips: Felicia shares strategies for handling election stress, including setting boundaries with news and conversations, practicing mindfulness, and making a voting plan. Practical tips on self-care and focusing on what you can control make this discussion timely and supportive. RipplePHX Escape Room Recap: Freddy and Felicia recap hosting the challenging "Wicked and Twisted" Escape Room experience at RipplePHX's annual Halloween Carnival, where only one group of friends managed to break free across the two-day event! Election Readiness: Felicia covers essential tips on mail-in ballots, timely submission, and planning your vote to make sure every vote counts. Catch this engaging solo episode for thoughtful election-season guidance, community highlights, and more.

In this episode, we dive deep into the often misunderstood world of breath play and choking. While this kink has gained popularity, it comes with serious risks. We'll break down the critical differences between breath play and choking, the importance of communication and consent, and why it's not something to be taken lightly without proper education and negotiation. Key Points Covered: The risks and dangers associated with breath play and choking. How hypoxia and oxygen restriction can enhance pleasure for some but also pose severe health risks, including brain damage. The role of consent, negotiation, and safety precautions, including non-verbal signals, to ensure all parties are on the same page. Why choking, even with consent, can have legal implications in some places. Practical advice on anatomy, safety techniques, and education to minimize harm. A reminder that porn may not always show realistic portrayals of these acts, and why understanding the difference between fantasy and reality is vital. Current Events: A TikTok creator went viral after being dumped by a handwritten note after moving cross-country for love. Ouch! Former Abercrombie & Fitch CEO Mike Jeffries faces charges of sex trafficking and international prostitution. 18 million early votes have already been cast in the 2024 election—Georgia and other states are seeing record numbers. Missy Elliott and Queen Latifah make history as the first rappers to receive the National Medal of Arts. Health News: We also talk about the rise of "pink cocaine" or tusi, a dangerous drug cocktail that has made its way into party scenes, with warnings from officials about its deadly risks. Tune in for a thought-provoking episode packed with insight, real-life stories, and the latest on what's happening in the world!

We kicked off the new season with a bang—well, after some technical hiccups! We quickly realized Facebook wasn't vibing, so we redirected everyone to Instagram and YouTube (thanks for rolling with us!). After a summer full of catching up, we dived into some juicy convos—like the basics of navigating a threesome (spicy, right?). Plus, we covered Georgia's record voter turnout and a judge's move to stop a hand-count rule for ballots. The rebrand feels so good! Let's go!

Join us for an unforgettable episode of Let's Have A Fefe, where we dive into the latest headlines and hot topics with our signature blend of humor, insight, and real talk. In this episode, we discuss unveiling a controversial conservative manifesto that's been making waves across the political landscape. We'll also explore the shocking news of Justin Timberlake's DWI arrest and its potential impact on his career. Finally, we pay tribute to the legendary baseball icon, Willy Mays, who has sadly passed away, reflecting on his incredible legacy and contributions to the sport. Don't miss this dynamic and engaging episode of Let's Have A Fefe, where we tackle the issues that matter and keep you in the know. Tune in, laugh, learn, and let's have a Fefe!

Join hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia 'Fefe' Minor on Let's Have A Fefe (S12 E18) as they cut through the noise to bring you the latest on current events and more. Engage with insightful discussions, expert analysis, and candid conversations on today's trending topics. Don't miss this episode full of information and entertainment.

Join hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia 'Fefe' Minor on Let's Have A Fefe (S12 E17) as they navigate today's news with candid conversations and insightful commentary. Dive into trending topics and current events with engaging discussions that inform and entertain. Don't miss this episode, which is packed with thought-provoking insights. Happy Pride Month! Happy June! In this episode: We talked about Freddy Prinze Charming's look based on a face painting by Justin Cider. Freddy and Felicia discuss knowing your bandwidth and how overcommitting can lead to cancellations, being seen as unprofessional, and more. In the news, we covered Hunter Biden's federal gun charges and his struggles with addiction, Trump's ability to run for president despite being a convicted felon. In contrast, the genocide in Gaza, Pro-Palestine protests, college reactions to these protests, arrests being made, and more. Tune in for an episode filled with timely discussions and eye-opening perspectives!

Catch the latest episode of Let's Have A Fefe (S12 E16), titled 'Post PFF, Real Talk on Trending Topics and More!' Join hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor as they engage in candid conversations on the hottest trends and pressing issues of the day. Explore insightful commentary, thought-provoking discussions, and entertaining banter that promise to inform and entertain. Tune in now for an enlightening blend of entertainment and enlightenment!

Catch the latest episode of Let's Have A Fefe, titled 'WHAT'S GOING ON?', as hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor deeply dive into current events and culture. Explore trending topics, thought-provoking discussions, and insightful commentary on the pulse of today's world. Tune in now for an engaging blend of entertainment and enlightenment! Promotional consideration provided by WigsofaKind. Support also by Guido Martin, Laura Renfro, and our community on Patreon at patreon.com/letshaveafefe.

Welcome back to Let's Have A Fefe! This exciting episode hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor dive headfirst into a deep-dive discussion on current events and more. From the latest headlines to trending topics, join us for candid conversations and insightful commentary that promise to keep you informed and entertained. Tune in now for an engaging blend of humor, thought-provoking insights, and lively banter!

Join hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and special guest Mr. Trans USA 2023 Trey C. Michaels for an engaging Let's Have A Fefe episode featuring candid conversations, hot topics, and more! Delve into trending issues, insightful discussions, and entertaining anecdotes as we navigate through the latest in pop culture and current events. Tune in now for an enlightening blend of thought-provoking commentary and fun banter that will keep you hooked!

Join hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor for an enthralling episode of Let's Have A Fefe, titled "WHERE'S EVERYONE? Moments, Trends, & More" (S12 E11). Explore captivating moments, trending topics, and much more as we navigate through the latest in pop culture and current events. Tune in for an engaging blend of insightful commentary, entertaining anecdotes, and thought-provoking discussions. Don't miss out on this must-watch episode filled with entertainment and enlightenment!

In this episode, we delve into the ramifications of Arizona's recent abortion ban with Michelle Ponce, the deputy director of the Desert Star Institute for Family Planning. Join us for a candid conversation as we explore the implications of this legislation on women's healthcare access and reproductive rights. Gain insights into the legal landscape, potential challenges, and the importance of advocacy in safeguarding reproductive freedoms. Resources: Desert Star Institute for Family Planning: https://www.desertstarfp.org/ Desert Star Institute on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desertstarfp Desert Star Institute on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DesertStarFamilyPlanning/ Tune in to stay informed and engaged in this critical issue impacting health and rights.

Watch the latest episode of Let's Have A Fefe (S12 E9) as hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor dive into the latest tips, trends, topics, and triumphs. Join the dynamic duo as they explore a variety of subjects, from pop culture to current events, with insightful commentary and engaging discussions. Don't miss out on this must-watch episode filled with entertainment and enlightenment!

Watch the latest episode of Let's Have A Fefe hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor are joined by the multi-talented Brandon McGill. Delve into the suspense as they explore the burning question: Does Felicia make it? Plus, expect lively discussions, witty banter, and entertaining insights. Tune in now for a captivating blend of entertainment and enlightenment! Brandon's Website: https://www.brandonmcgill.com/ Brandon on Instagram:   / bodyartbrandon  

Catch the latest episode of Let's Have A Fefe (S12 E7) as hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor delve into the hottest headlines, sizzling hot takes, and trending topics of the week. Join the dynamic duo for an engaging discussion that blends humor, insight, and thought-provoking commentary. Tune in now for a dose of entertainment and enlightenment!

Catch the latest episode of Let's Have A Fefe as hosts Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor dive into trending topics, news breakdowns, and more! Join the lively discussion as they unpack the latest headlines with humor and insightful commentary. Tune in now for a dose of entertainment and enlightenment!

Join Freddy Prinze Charming and special guest host Rita Bane as they share highlights and stories from Wild Wild West Con '24 in Tucson. From convention floor adventures to behind-the-scenes insights, tune in for YOU Wednesday night conversation. Don't miss out on the excitement!

Join us for an electrifying new episode of Let's Have A Fefe, where we dive into the whirlwind world of current affairs, politics, and pop culture with our trademark blend of wit and wisdom. From dissecting the latest headlines to exploring the trends shaping our world, get ready for an engaging discussion that's as informative as it is entertaining!

Join us for candid conversations on relationships, current events, and more. Your hosts, Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia "Fefe" Minor bring humor and insight to every conversation. Subscribe, like, and share – let's dive in together!

Let's Have A Fefe has a history of tackling everything from hilarious daily mishaps to profound discussions on current social issues, all with a light-hearted spirit and the undeniable charisma of Fefe and Freddy. This week we were back with an all-new intro and outro for the season. I thought that was smooth sailing but it seems that I couldn't get back into the livestream for a short time. But all the while, Freddy Prinze Charming was taking a deep dive into fisting. We have briefly talked about it, but not like this before. We also talked about parents being accountable for school shootings with criminal charges, Jay-Z's speech at the Grammy's and the truth behind it, and so much more.   It's YOUR Wednesday night conversation!

Join us for the glitzy and not-so-glamorous moments at the Let's Have A Fefe Season 12 Premiere on January 31 at 8 p.m.! Get ready to laugh, spill the tea, and embrace the fabulous chaos with Felicia "Fefe" Minor & Freddy Prinze Charming.

Join us for the thrilling Season Finale of Let's Have A Fefe with Felicia "Fefe" Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming on Wednesday, May 24 at 8 p.m. Arizona time!  It's been an incredible season full of fabulous guests, empowering discussions, and unforgettable moments.  Tune in and be part of the season finale of Let's Have A Fefe, a show that celebrates diversity, resilience, and the LGBTQ+ community.

Join Felicia "Fefe" Minor & Freddy Prinze Charming for a new episode of Let's Have A Fefe. From personal stories to insightful advice, join the conversation. Come as you are, be yourself, and let's have a fefe!

In this episode, we get to know the incredible Christine Vibrant, a lifestyle coach originally from South Africa, who brings her unique and inspiring perspective on her podcast Vibrant Voices.

Welcome back to Let's Have A Fefe! Fefe is returning to catch up with us. We'll be diving into some exciting topics, from pop culture to current events, and of course, we'll be answering some of your burning questions. So make sure to tune in and join the conversation with us. If you're a longtime fan of Let's Have A Fefe, you won't want to miss this episode. And if you're new to the show, this is the perfect opportunity to join the fun and see what we're all about. So mark your calendars, set your reminders, and get ready to join the conversation -- YOUR Wednesday night conversation! We can't wait to see you there.