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Pursuing Purpose: The Secret to Thriving RelationshipsApply to work with me: https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TFREE 5-Day Email Course - Get one specific, actionable shift each day that creates immediate results: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-courseWhat if your purpose was the key to creating a deeper, more intimate, and thriving relationship? In this episode, I share how pursuing your higher purpose not only brings more meaning to your life but also transforms your relationships. From my coaching experiences to personal lessons, you'll learn how clarity, presence, and alignment with purpose directly shape the quality of love and connection you create with your partner.In this episode, we'll cover:• Why purpose is essential to intimacy and trust• The link between fulfillment and relationship success• Overcoming resistance and distractions• How to master presence and peace in the moment• Actionable steps to pursue your higher callingThe truth: Your love thrives when you thrive.When you're disconnected from your purpose, that emptiness shows up in your relationship. You might seek validation from your partner, lose presence in intimate moments, or feel a nagging sense that something's missing. But when you're aligned with your calling and actively pursuing what matters most to you, you bring a completely different energy to your relationship.Purpose gives you the clarity to show up fully. It creates the presence that deepens intimacy. It builds the trust that comes from being a man who knows where he's going and why.This isn't about choosing between your purpose and your relationship. It's about understanding that they fuel each other. The more aligned you are with your calling, the more you have to give. The deeper your relationship becomes, the more it supports your growth.Connect with Jordan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlishAbout Jordan Candlish:Jordan is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper.Alternative Titles:Women Love VALUE, Not Love – Why Most Men Get It WrongI Always Get What I Visualize In Only 3 Days Using This Belief System - Joe Dispenza MotivationThe Biggest Mistakes Women Make With Men (That Pushes Them Away) | E235 Lila Rose ShowWORLD'S #1 COUPLES THERAPIST: "If Your Partner Says THIS, the Relationship Is in TROUBLE!"LOVE EXPERT ON: When A Man TRULY LOVES You, He Will DO THIS! | Stephan Speaks & Jay ShettyDating Coach: #1 Sign You've Found the Right Person (Or If You're SETTLING)#Purpose #Relationships #LoveAndGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #CouplesGoals #MindsetMatters #SelfImprovement #ThrivingRelationships #Intimacy #LifePurpose

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Why She Doesn't Trust You (And How to Fix It)Apply to work with me: https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TFREE 5-Day Email Course - Get one specific, actionable shift each day that creates immediate results: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-courseTrust is broken in your relationship. Your partner questions everything you say and do. The emotional connection is disappearing, and no matter what you try, it never feels like enough. Sound familiar?I've coached thousands of men through this exact situation. The harsh truth? You can't rebuild trust by changing what you do. You can only rebuild it by changing who you're being.In this episode, I break down:• Why broken trust always comes back to your relationship with yourself• The common mistake men make trying to "fix" trust through actions• How self-abandonment patterns destroy relationship trust• Why controlling your impulses is the foundation of trustworthiness• The father wound connection to broken promises and integrity issues• How your inner child affects your ability to show up consistentlyHere's the reality: If you don't trust yourself, you can't expect others to trust you. Every broken promise to yourself - whether it's about health, habits, or behaviors - creates "leaky energy" that your partner feels as unsafe.This isn't about perfection or never engaging in certain activities. It's about alignment. When your behaviors pull you away from being the person you need to be in your relationship, that's when dysfunction starts.Practical steps to rebuild trust:• Examine where you're not keeping your word with yourself• Identify what has control of your attention when you're weak• Connect to a larger purpose - your why for change• Address the inner child that's been abandoned through years of pushing through• Get accountability through coaching or men's groupsOften, men only change when their relationship is about to end. Don't wait for that point. Reflect on how much it would hurt to lose this person right now.The level of safety someone feels in your presence comes down to how much you trust yourself. Fix that foundation, and everything else follows.Connect with Jordan:

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Why You Pull Away in Relationships (Avoidant Attachment Fix)Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: https://embodied-entrepreneur-f2932d.webflow.io/programAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Do you start relationships strong but then pull away when things get serious? This isn't a character flaw - it's avoidant attachment, and it's keeping you from the love you actually want.In this podcast, you'll discover:✅ The 8 signs of avoidant attachment in men✅ Why dopamine addiction makes you chase but not commit✅ How to activate your oxytocin pathway for deeper connection✅ 5 practical steps to break the avoidance cycle✅ Why your nervous system is sabotaging your relationshipsIf you want extra support, I send out weekly emails diving deeper into this. Hit the link in below to join the list. https://jordan-candlish.kit.com/f60f613c72Connect with me:

How to Stop Being Desperate & Start Attracting Anyone (Emotional Detachment Method) Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: https://embodied-entrepreneur-f2932d.webflow.io/programAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Discover the powerful secret to stopping needy, desperate energy that repels the people you want most. In this video, relationship coach Jordan Candlish reveals the exact method to emotionally detach from outcomes so you can become magnetically attractive instead of constantly chasing.Learn how to identify when you're operating from scarcity energy, the step-by-step process to break free from attachment patterns, and why letting go actually draws people closer to you. Jordan shares his personal transformation story of how detaching from his first love led him to meet his partner of 10 years.Perfect for anyone struggling with dating anxiety, trying to win back an ex, or wanting to develop genuine confidence in relationships. Stop pushing people away with desperate energy and start attracting them with authentic magnetism.If you want extra support, I send out weekly emails diving deeper into this. Hit the link in below to join the list.https://jordan-candlish.kit.com/1ea5349385 Connect with me:

Why Understanding Isn't Enough (Embodiment vs. Mental Knowledge)Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Ready to transform your anger into peace? Sharing you a powerful breathwork and emotional release practice to help you reclaim your calm and clarity, watch this video https://youtu.be/rw5dKlrCArY?si=aWZ0KFdF2-kHAOWSAre you consuming personal development content but not seeing real results? In this podcast, I explain why mental understanding alone isn't enough to transform your relationships, finances, or attract aligned opportunities. I break down the critical difference between intellectual knowledge and embodied wisdom, sharing my personal mistakes and breakthroughs along the way.Learn why your nervous system and emotional blocks might be preventing transformation, and discover the somatic practices that create lasting change. If you're tired of "mental masturbation" and ready to integrate rather than just consume, this video gives you the missing piece in your personal growth journey.Connect with me:

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Unlock Your Potential: How to Heal Your Nervous System for Success, Wealth & Better RelationshipsTired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Ready to transform your anger into peace? Sharing you a powerful breathwork and emotional release practice to help you reclaim your calm and clarity, watch this video https://youtu.be/rw5dKlrCArY?si=aWZ0KFdF2-kHAOWSAnd for the anger release you can tell them to message me the word “Primal” on Instagram.Are you feeling burnt out, disconnected, or struggling to achieve your goals? In this podcast, I reveal how the health of your nervous system is the foundation for everything in your life—from business success to deep relationships.I share my journey from corporate burnout to building a life I love, traveling the world, and creating a seven-figure business—all by understanding one crucial principle: the deeper you can feel, the more you can receive.If you're tired of forcing results through constant "doing" and ready to discover the power of "being," this video will show you the path of least resistance to your dreams.Want personalized support? Check out my men's group where we provide tools, accountability, and community to accelerate your transformation. Connect with me:

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The truth about traveling the world with my girlfriend as digital nomadsTired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Thinking about traveling the world with your partner as digital nomads?Before you book that one-way ticket, hear what I wish I had known. From unexpected challenges to life-changing lessons, this video shares the honest truth about life, love, and work on the road.Don't make the same mistakes—watch now. Connect with me:

When Your Partner Says "I Need Space" - How to Save Your RelationshipTired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Want to access my Notion template on building your relationship? Direct message me on Instagram the word "LEAD" to get access. Is your relationship hitting a rough patch? In this podcast, I share my personal journey through a challenging period in my 8-year relationship when my partner needed space - and how we emerged stronger than ever.I'll walk you through:The common mistakes men make when their partner asks for spaceHow to recommit to your relationship the right wayPractical steps to show up better for your partnerCreating structure, safety and taking the leadNavigating difficult but necessary conversationsAs a relationship coach who helps men step into their healthy masculine energy, I've seen these patterns play out repeatedly in relationships. I made these same mistakes and nearly lost my relationship - but discovered how to turn a breakdown into a breakthrough.Whether you're currently experiencing relationship challenges or want to prevent them, this video provides actionable insights to help you love and lead better.Connect with me:

Just 9 minutes can change your long-distance relationship forever.Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?In just 9 minutes, this video gives you real, practical advice to keep the connection strong—no matter the distance. Whether you're just starting out or trying to overcome challenges, these tips will help you stay close and committed.Don't miss it—your relationship is worth it. Connect with me:

How the Mother Wound Affects Men's RelationshipsTired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/ema...Even successful men can struggle in relationships due to unconscious patterns rooted in their early bond with their mother. This video explores how the "mother wound" shapes how men connect with women, often leading to emotional distance or approval-seeking behavior. It's not about blame—it's about awareness and healing, so you can finally break free and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Connect with me:

17 Minutes of Brutal Truths About Love Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?In this podcast, I sat down to reflect on what I wish I could tell my 21-year-old self about love, connection, and growing with a partner. These relationship lessons are the truths I've learned—through experience, mistakes, and deep growth. If you're a man navigating love, this is for you.Connect with me:

Kings, me & my buddy, Liam discusses a recent Ayahuasca retreat experience in Portugal, focusing on the integration process, personal growth, and preparation for future journeys. It discusses challenges and strategies for reintegrating after profound experiences, emphasizes gratitude and connection with nature, and offers recommendations for those considering Ayahuasca. The audience is interested in personal development and spiritual growth, and the insights are applicable to individuals preparing for similar experiences. The testing strategy involves reviewing integration strategies, validating recommendations through feedback from peers, and assessing the clarity and accessibility of the insights for those unfamiliar with psychedelic experiences.WORK WITH ME

Hey legends, sharing some intense experiences from my recent Kambo ceremony here in Bali. I dive into some personal insights and lessons about balancing emotional sensitivity with high performance, which I think you'll find really valuable. Here's how I balanced emotional sensitivity and productivity, ensuring effective task execution while I maintain my healthy relationships and personal well-being. Here's a recap of key insights and lessons I have learned. Check it out when you have a moment! WORK WITH ME

Last night, I experienced a profound mystical encounter—one I couldn't keep to myself. In this episode, I touch on the idea that certain moments, especially just before sleep, allow us to connect with other dimensions. When we create rituals around sleep, we open doorways for spirits to communicate through us, these divine encounters provide seeds from inspiration along the path. They're reminders to me that spirits is always communicating with us. Certain souls will communicate through you depending the spiritual family youre connected to. The message they will often resemble and archetypal energy is invoked within. I invite you to play with the energy of the mystical. See if you can decode the message that comes through. WORK WITH ME

During this episode, I dive into these key questions: 1. How do I know if she's "the one"?2. How can I maintain attraction and passion in a long-term relationship?3. What's the best way to communicate my needs without seeming needy?4. How do I balance my independence with commitment in a relationship?5. How can I resolve conflicts effectively without compromising my values?6. What's the key to building trust and emotional intimacy?7. How do I handle jealousy and insecurity in a relationship?8. What's the best way to support my partner while maintaining healthy boundaries? WORK WITH ME

Join me in a conversation with the one and only Dr. Ryan Gleeson. Together, we delve into the challenges men face, the importance of shifting mindsets, and discovering true success. This is an episode you won't want to miss, enjoy! FOLLOW RYAN @dr_ryangleeson WORK WITH ME

In this episode, I met with my good friend Lincoln in Bali. We covered topics from relationships and health to purpose, performance, and the dynamics between men and women in relationships. I hope you tune in and enjoy it as much as we did! Follow Lincoln: Instagram: @lincolnwesterman Check out my Socials!

Some key takeaways from the last 3 months of solo travel: 1. Why spending time alone is important 2. The keys to healthy relationships while travelling and running a business 3. Principles for authentic relating for men Check out my Socials!

Talking all the things, energy, frequency and vibrations. Just came back from a 4 day Joe Dispenza retreat and I'm still basking in the abundance. Thought I'd jump on and share some of it with you

Today, I'm bringing you a SOLO episode that was taken from an instagram live. We covered topics that will help YOU get to a new level of impact and income. Topics: 1. Redefining your vision 2. Getting accountability from other men 3. Heal your masculine wounds 4. Prioritize SPACE 5. Invest in expansion Lets go! Check out my Socials!

I hope you receive what you needed from this transmission. Topics covered in this episode: - Accessing the source of abundance - Making peace with death and allowing rebirth - Having the courage to follow a new path - Why getting in community is the next level

Today's episode is a live recording from my instagram. I covered the topics of: 1. Breaking the cycle of personal development "work" 2. Why trading discipline for devotion is the key to going to the next level 3. What it means to be a master of the flow 4. Seasonal shifts and trusting what you need Men, I will be hosting another retreat out in Sedona this May 2024. If you're ready to be in a space with like minded brothers, and you're ready to go to the next level in your life this is for you. Send me an email or message on Instagram with the word "RETREAT" and I'll share more info with you.

In this episode, we delve into a conversation with the incredible Sam Gibbs Morris. Tracing our chances of meeting at Burning Man to the vibrant energy of Austin, Texas. We connected just before I headed off on my next adventure, ensuring that we could come together to share this podcast, giving you all a glimpse into his journey and how it has shaped him into the person he is today. CONNECT WITH SAM

Todays dialogue / stream of consciousness is all about accessing the next level of growth whatever that looks like for you. The next level will always require some kind of stretch, and expansion within your body / nervous system. When you know it's time for the next level often you'll need to do one of two things: 1. Do the opposite of what you're currently doing 2. Double down on what you're currently doing Thanks for tuning in

This podcast is more than just a conversation; it's a heartfelt transmission of insights and wisdom. I open up and share some thoughts and feelings that have been weighing on my heart, creating a space for you to connect and take what you need on a profound level. Thanks for tuning in, I appreciate you and hope that this episode is a valuable companion on your quest for personal growth.

In this mind-expanding podcast episode, I share a deep and insightful conversation with Mojo. We explored the intricacies of personal evolution and the cosmic dance between success and value. Mojo's insights challenged my understanding of the universe, inviting me to embrace the chaos and find joy in the pursuit of growth. From the duality of life to the pursuit of wisdom, his wisdom resonated profoundly. This conversation is an odyssey through the mysteries of existence, reminding us that life's beauty is not in reaching destinations but in the continuous journey of self-discovery.

Embarking on today's podcast with a personal life update, as I integrate back after spending a few weeks with a couple of my mentors/ leaders/ teachers. First, I spent two transformative weeks with Chris Bale in Colorado, and the gratitude I feel for the enriching experience of being in his presence is tremendous. Chris's impactful work has left a lasting impression on me that was so nourishing. Following that, I was off to Orlando, Florida for a week-long meditation retreat with Dr. Joe Dispenza. I discovered Dr. Joe Dispenza's teaching five years ago and ever since practicing his meditations and learnings his philosophy, it has expanded my life exponentially. It was truly magical to be in proximity of him alongside 1,500 other like-minded individuals. Join me as I share the lessons and insights I've taken from my season of receiving. 

In this powerful episode, join me and my brother Dani as we delve into the profound experiences and insights gained during a transformative retreat. We explore the significance of personal growth and the awakening of consciousness in the current state of humanity. We discuss the internal battles against darkness, the ripple effects of personal transformation, and the commitment to stand up and make a positive impact. From the emotional highs of breaking through internal barriers to the practical challenges of maintaining newfound clarity in everyday life, we candidly share our journey. This episode invites you to witness the authentic reflections and revelations that emerged from this retreat, offering a glimpse into the unfolding mission of bringing light and healing to the world.