State Shifters

This is a guided breathwork journey designed to help you release stored emotion, quiet the mind, and reconnect with your body.The practice begins with 15 minutes of conscious, connected breathing, followed by a 15-minute integration meditation. As the breath deepens, the nervous system begins to regulate, the mind softens, and the body is given space to let go of tension, emotion, and old holding patterns.You don't need to force anything. Your only job is to breathe and allow.If your mind tries to pull you out in the first few minutes, that's normal. Stay with it. Once coherence sets in, the breath becomes effortless and the experience opens into a deep, meditative state where real release can happen.This session is best experienced lying down with headphones and an eye mask if you have one.Press play when you're ready to come back into your body.WORK WITH ME

Attraction doesn't fade because you “lost the spark.”It fades when polarity gets neutralized and most couples don't even realize it's happening.In this episode, I break down what a man genuinely needs from a woman to feel devoted, confident, and connected in a relationship, without turning his partner into his therapist or his manager.We talk about the real essentials: trust, space to process, appreciation, a woman who can receive, healthy boundaries, and why trying to “fix” him often creates the exact distance you're afraid of.If you're a man, this will help you finally communicate what you need without shutting down.If you're a woman, this will show you how to bring back depth, intimacy, and that magnetic pull, without forcing it.If you've felt the attraction dip, the dynamic shift, or the relationship start to feel more like logistics than love, press play.WORK WITH ME

Most people think reality creation is about positive thinking, strategy, or trying harder.It's not.In this episode, I break down the hidden law that actually determines performance, success, and momentum and why fear of failure doesn't stop you by accident, it stops you through tension, over-preparation, and unconscious resistance.We explore how “big game pressure” shows up in business, relationships, conversations, and launches, how shame sits underneath the fear of failure, and why resisting discomfort is the same as resisting success.This is a practical, embodied breakdown of how to interrupt old patterns, detach from outcomes, and shift into a state of calm, play, and flow where results happen naturally.If you've been doing all the right things but still feel tight, pressured, or stuck right before the moments that matter most, this conversation will show you exactly what's been in the way.WORK WITH ME

What if your future isn't blocked by effort, timing, or strategy, but by how you're relating to right now?In this episode, I break down the overlooked connection between self-image, the nervous system, and the present moment and why most people stay stuck even while “doing the work.” We explore why ease, joy, and lightness are not rewards you earn later, but signals that you're aligned now, and how performance, abundance, love, and creativity naturally flow from that state.I also share a personal story of chasing results, hitting resistance, and the subtle identity shift that led to a breakthrough I couldn't have planned.If you've been hustling, meditating, visualizing, yet quietly feeling frustrated or impatient, this conversation will help you recalibrate the way you move through your life, your business, and your body.This isn't about forcing a future.It's about remembering who you are in the present.WORK WITH ME

What's up legends? In this episode, I sit down with Aaron Doughty for a deep, honest conversation about why so many of us lose ourselves in relationships and how people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and unexpressed emotion quietly drain attraction, polarity, and connection.We explore how childhood conditioning shapes adult identity, why tension isn't something to avoid but a necessary catalyst for growth, and how the pursuit of approval keeps us disconnected from our authentic power.This episode weaves together inner child dynamics, masculine and feminine polarity, self-acceptance, neutrality, and the subtle ways urgency, ego, and validation run our relationships, business, and sense of self-worth. We unpack why worthiness is a concept rather than a feeling, how embracing discomfort restores respect and desire, and why becoming more yourself is the real path to intimacy, leadership, and freedom.If you've ever felt drained in relationships, stuck in people-pleasing patterns, or caught between self-development and self-acceptance, this conversation will challenge the way you see love, identity, and what it actually means to come home to yourself.WORK WITH ME

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Pursuing Purpose: The Secret to Thriving RelationshipsApply to work with me: https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TFREE 5-Day Email Course - Get one specific, actionable shift each day that creates immediate results: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-courseWhat if your purpose was the key to creating a deeper, more intimate, and thriving relationship? In this episode, I share how pursuing your higher purpose not only brings more meaning to your life but also transforms your relationships. From my coaching experiences to personal lessons, you'll learn how clarity, presence, and alignment with purpose directly shape the quality of love and connection you create with your partner.In this episode, we'll cover:• Why purpose is essential to intimacy and trust• The link between fulfillment and relationship success• Overcoming resistance and distractions• How to master presence and peace in the moment• Actionable steps to pursue your higher callingThe truth: Your love thrives when you thrive.When you're disconnected from your purpose, that emptiness shows up in your relationship. You might seek validation from your partner, lose presence in intimate moments, or feel a nagging sense that something's missing. But when you're aligned with your calling and actively pursuing what matters most to you, you bring a completely different energy to your relationship.Purpose gives you the clarity to show up fully. It creates the presence that deepens intimacy. It builds the trust that comes from being a man who knows where he's going and why.This isn't about choosing between your purpose and your relationship. It's about understanding that they fuel each other. The more aligned you are with your calling, the more you have to give. The deeper your relationship becomes, the more it supports your growth.Connect with Jordan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlishAbout Jordan Candlish:Jordan is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper.Alternative Titles:Women Love VALUE, Not Love – Why Most Men Get It WrongI Always Get What I Visualize In Only 3 Days Using This Belief System - Joe Dispenza MotivationThe Biggest Mistakes Women Make With Men (That Pushes Them Away) | E235 Lila Rose ShowWORLD'S #1 COUPLES THERAPIST: "If Your Partner Says THIS, the Relationship Is in TROUBLE!"LOVE EXPERT ON: When A Man TRULY LOVES You, He Will DO THIS! | Stephan Speaks & Jay ShettyDating Coach: #1 Sign You've Found the Right Person (Or If You're SETTLING)#Purpose #Relationships #LoveAndGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #CouplesGoals #MindsetMatters #SelfImprovement #ThrivingRelationships #Intimacy #LifePurpose

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Why She Doesn't Trust You (And How to Fix It)Apply to work with me: https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TFREE 5-Day Email Course - Get one specific, actionable shift each day that creates immediate results: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-courseTrust is broken in your relationship. Your partner questions everything you say and do. The emotional connection is disappearing, and no matter what you try, it never feels like enough. Sound familiar?I've coached thousands of men through this exact situation. The harsh truth? You can't rebuild trust by changing what you do. You can only rebuild it by changing who you're being.In this episode, I break down:• Why broken trust always comes back to your relationship with yourself• The common mistake men make trying to "fix" trust through actions• How self-abandonment patterns destroy relationship trust• Why controlling your impulses is the foundation of trustworthiness• The father wound connection to broken promises and integrity issues• How your inner child affects your ability to show up consistentlyHere's the reality: If you don't trust yourself, you can't expect others to trust you. Every broken promise to yourself - whether it's about health, habits, or behaviors - creates "leaky energy" that your partner feels as unsafe.This isn't about perfection or never engaging in certain activities. It's about alignment. When your behaviors pull you away from being the person you need to be in your relationship, that's when dysfunction starts.Practical steps to rebuild trust:• Examine where you're not keeping your word with yourself• Identify what has control of your attention when you're weak• Connect to a larger purpose - your why for change• Address the inner child that's been abandoned through years of pushing through• Get accountability through coaching or men's groupsOften, men only change when their relationship is about to end. Don't wait for that point. Reflect on how much it would hurt to lose this person right now.The level of safety someone feels in your presence comes down to how much you trust yourself. Fix that foundation, and everything else follows.Connect with Jordan:

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Why You Pull Away in Relationships (Avoidant Attachment Fix)Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: https://embodied-entrepreneur-f2932d.webflow.io/programAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Do you start relationships strong but then pull away when things get serious? This isn't a character flaw - it's avoidant attachment, and it's keeping you from the love you actually want.In this podcast, you'll discover:✅ The 8 signs of avoidant attachment in men✅ Why dopamine addiction makes you chase but not commit✅ How to activate your oxytocin pathway for deeper connection✅ 5 practical steps to break the avoidance cycle✅ Why your nervous system is sabotaging your relationshipsIf you want extra support, I send out weekly emails diving deeper into this. Hit the link in below to join the list. https://jordan-candlish.kit.com/f60f613c72Connect with me:

How to Stop Being Desperate & Start Attracting Anyone (Emotional Detachment Method) Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: https://embodied-entrepreneur-f2932d.webflow.io/programAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Discover the powerful secret to stopping needy, desperate energy that repels the people you want most. In this video, relationship coach Jordan Candlish reveals the exact method to emotionally detach from outcomes so you can become magnetically attractive instead of constantly chasing.Learn how to identify when you're operating from scarcity energy, the step-by-step process to break free from attachment patterns, and why letting go actually draws people closer to you. Jordan shares his personal transformation story of how detaching from his first love led him to meet his partner of 10 years.Perfect for anyone struggling with dating anxiety, trying to win back an ex, or wanting to develop genuine confidence in relationships. Stop pushing people away with desperate energy and start attracting them with authentic magnetism.If you want extra support, I send out weekly emails diving deeper into this. Hit the link in below to join the list.https://jordan-candlish.kit.com/1ea5349385 Connect with me:

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Healing the Father Wound: Breaking the Cycle of Generational PainTired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?The reflection in your mirror shows more than just you—it reveals your father's shadow influencing every decision, relationship, and emotion. For millions of men, father wounds aren't distant memories but active forces shaping daily life.In this podcast, we explore how absent, distant, or troubled father relationships create invisible patterns affecting everything from conflict handling to expressing love. Learn why you might be repeating behaviors you swore to avoid and discover the healing path that can transform not only your life but generations to come.Whether your father was physically absent, emotionally unavailable, or struggled to connect, this journey of understanding and healing is for you. Join us as we explore one of the most powerful forces shaping men's lives today.Connect with me:

The truth about traveling the world with my girlfriend as digital nomadsTired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Thinking about traveling the world with your partner as digital nomads?Before you book that one-way ticket, hear what I wish I had known. From unexpected challenges to life-changing lessons, this video shares the honest truth about life, love, and work on the road.Don't make the same mistakes—watch now. Connect with me:

When Your Partner Says "I Need Space" - How to Save Your RelationshipTired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Want to access my Notion template on building your relationship? Direct message me on Instagram the word "LEAD" to get access. Is your relationship hitting a rough patch? In this podcast, I share my personal journey through a challenging period in my 8-year relationship when my partner needed space - and how we emerged stronger than ever.I'll walk you through:The common mistakes men make when their partner asks for spaceHow to recommit to your relationship the right wayPractical steps to show up better for your partnerCreating structure, safety and taking the leadNavigating difficult but necessary conversationsAs a relationship coach who helps men step into their healthy masculine energy, I've seen these patterns play out repeatedly in relationships. I made these same mistakes and nearly lost my relationship - but discovered how to turn a breakdown into a breakthrough.Whether you're currently experiencing relationship challenges or want to prevent them, this video provides actionable insights to help you love and lead better.Connect with me:

Just 9 minutes can change your long-distance relationship forever.Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?In just 9 minutes, this video gives you real, practical advice to keep the connection strong—no matter the distance. Whether you're just starting out or trying to overcome challenges, these tips will help you stay close and committed.Don't miss it—your relationship is worth it. Connect with me:

How the Mother Wound Affects Men's RelationshipsTired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/ema...Even successful men can struggle in relationships due to unconscious patterns rooted in their early bond with their mother. This video explores how the "mother wound" shapes how men connect with women, often leading to emotional distance or approval-seeking behavior. It's not about blame—it's about awareness and healing, so you can finally break free and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Connect with me:

17 Minutes of Brutal Truths About Love Tired of figuring this relationship stuff out alone? Join my Men's Embodiment Group, where you'll receive direct guidance, accountability, and brotherhood as you implement these principles in real-time. Applications open now: http://bit.ly/4jKp3DEAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?In this podcast, I sat down to reflect on what I wish I could tell my 21-year-old self about love, connection, and growing with a partner. These relationship lessons are the truths I've learned—through experience, mistakes, and deep growth. If you're a man navigating love, this is for you.Connect with me:

Kings, me & my buddy, Liam discusses a recent Ayahuasca retreat experience in Portugal, focusing on the integration process, personal growth, and preparation for future journeys. It discusses challenges and strategies for reintegrating after profound experiences, emphasizes gratitude and connection with nature, and offers recommendations for those considering Ayahuasca. The audience is interested in personal development and spiritual growth, and the insights are applicable to individuals preparing for similar experiences. The testing strategy involves reviewing integration strategies, validating recommendations through feedback from peers, and assessing the clarity and accessibility of the insights for those unfamiliar with psychedelic experiences.WORK WITH ME

Hey legends, sharing some intense experiences from my recent Kambo ceremony here in Bali. I dive into some personal insights and lessons about balancing emotional sensitivity with high performance, which I think you'll find really valuable. Here's how I balanced emotional sensitivity and productivity, ensuring effective task execution while I maintain my healthy relationships and personal well-being. Here's a recap of key insights and lessons I have learned. Check it out when you have a moment! WORK WITH ME

Last night, I experienced a profound mystical encounter—one I couldn't keep to myself. In this episode, I touch on the idea that certain moments, especially just before sleep, allow us to connect with other dimensions. When we create rituals around sleep, we open doorways for spirits to communicate through us, these divine encounters provide seeds from inspiration along the path. They're reminders to me that spirits is always communicating with us. Certain souls will communicate through you depending the spiritual family youre connected to. The message they will often resemble and archetypal energy is invoked within. I invite you to play with the energy of the mystical. See if you can decode the message that comes through. WORK WITH ME

During this episode, I dive into these key questions: 1. How do I know if she's "the one"?2. How can I maintain attraction and passion in a long-term relationship?3. What's the best way to communicate my needs without seeming needy?4. How do I balance my independence with commitment in a relationship?5. How can I resolve conflicts effectively without compromising my values?6. What's the key to building trust and emotional intimacy?7. How do I handle jealousy and insecurity in a relationship?8. What's the best way to support my partner while maintaining healthy boundaries? WORK WITH ME

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In this episode, I met with my good friend Lincoln in Bali. We covered topics from relationships and health to purpose, performance, and the dynamics between men and women in relationships. I hope you tune in and enjoy it as much as we did! Follow Lincoln: Instagram: @lincolnwesterman Check out my Socials!