Podcast appearances and mentions of barry selby

Love Facilitator, Barry Selby in the hot seat. Are you dating to be entertained, protected, or to be distracted? Are you happy enough already to be chosen? Why an "evolved" man is tough to match, and the qualities he truly needs to see in a woman in order to pursue her. What is the Red Flag that disqualifies a woman in his eyes?

So, you say you're tired of being alone. You need a friend or a lover in your life, but where does one begin? Maybe you've tried dating sites, but none of your dates clicked.  Dating at your age is unlike anything compared to dating when you were young.  Every woman seems to have so much baggage: obligations, preferences, and problems you prefer not to get involved with. (As if you don't have a few of your own.)  Still, being lonely is no way to spend the rest of your life.  You need help, and Herb Knoll has found it.  Say hello to Herb's guest on this Widower's Journey Podcast #47, Let's Talk Dating Hosts Christine Baumgartner and Barry Selby.  Christine and Barry understand the dating world and are the right medicine for what ails you. You're going to enjoy this podcast. Give it a listen.     

In this captivating episode of the Marli Williams Podcast, relationship expert Barry Selby and host Marli Williams delve into the powerful intersection of relationships, leadership, and personal growth. Through engaging dialogue, they navigate the complexities of feedback, transparency, and the journey to becoming a more effective leader and partner. As they share insights and personal experiences, they challenge listeners to consider the transformative impact of embracing vulnerability, seeking continuous improvement, and leading with love. With enlightening anecdotes and thought-provoking discussions, this episode promises to inspire and empower listeners in both their personal and professional endeavors. So, if you're ready to explore the profound connections between relationships, leadership, and self-discovery, tune in to this episode of the Marli Williams Podcast, where valuable insights await.Barry Selby is a masterful relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker, and spiritual guide. As an expert facilitator and guide for singles seeking healthy relationship and true self-love, Barry is affectionately known by his clients and friends as “The Love Doctor." In simple terms, Barry helps you with the "in-between.” This is the often painful time in between your last bad breakup, and your next first date. It is usually motivated by your need to feel better by swiping right and avoiding your own pain. When you choose to ignore your heartbreak, you don't heal, you just avoid your emotional debris and your wounded heart. Frankly, it is about as effective as painting over rust with cheap paint! The painted result might look good, initially. However, the rust will break through the paint again in short order. Similarly, your emotional wounding and heartbreak will show up again, in your new relationship, which is unfair to your new partner, and to yourself. When you realize swiping right is just painting over your emotional rust, it is the time you make a better choice, a choice to reach out for a complimentary conversation with Barry - https://barryselby.com/chat He is dedicated to helping strong successful women and men attract a healthy relationship with their authentic and passionate partner. His mission awakens women to own and express their feminine magnificence and majesty, in love, and in the world. He is also committed to helping men learn how to open their hearts without giving up their balls. With 40 years investment in personal development and training, including a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology and over 20 years as a professional spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness.His #1 best-selling book, "50 Ways To Love Your Lover," contains 50 actionable and powerful principles to improve your relationship with the one in the mirror, and with all the relationships around you. Available on Amazon - https://a.co/d/hcNRjcxHe also co-hosts two podcasts, “Let's Talk Dating…Let's Talk!” (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-talk-dating/id1538324005) and “Relationship Mastery” (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationship-mastery/id1680354670).LINKS:https://BarrySelby.comhttps://YouTube.com/barryselby

We all have things that help us thrive and Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is one way to discuss the things that all humans require. Can the theory be applied to dating and relationships? Join my friend Barry Selby and me for a Friday afternoon chat about each of the needs as outlined by Maslow and how we can fulfil them. Some of our answers might surprise you!  Please go show Barry some Ex-Philes love! Follow him on IG at TheRealBarrySelby and order a copy of his book, 50 Ways to Love Your Lover on Amazon here.  Want one-on-one support? Find me on IG at @Janiceformichella or email Exphilespodcast@gmail.com.  Love Ex-Philes? Please help others find it by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.  ____________________________________________________________________________ The Ex-Philes is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. I believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. I recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As a podcast host, I am dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in my content. I welcome feedback on my efforts and thank you for being a part of the community. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ex-philes/support

Today I got to sit down with one of my all-time favorite people and past guests, Barry Selby! We had a chance to talk about all the healing aspects of relationships as an adult and for the kids involved. To join the waitlist for Barry's Group Program, visit https://barryselby.com/loveafter! About the Guest:Barry Selby is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker, and spiritual guide. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, leading with a compassionate masculine heart. He is dedicated to helping strong, successful individuals attract healthy relationships with their authentic and passionate partners.His focus on respect for women informs his work with both women and men. His mission awakens women to own and express their feminine magnificence and majesty in love and in the world. He is also committed to helping men learn to open their hearts without giving up their balls. With his expert guidance, both genders create greater balance in love, life, and business, and his clients attract relationships that equal who they really are.As an expert coach and guide for singles seeking relationships and self-love, Barry is affectionately known as the Love Doctor to his friends and clients. With almost 40 years of training and experience, including a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology and over 20 years as a professional spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness.His #1 best-selling book, 50 Ways To Love Your Lover, helps singles and couples embody powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships. He brings deep compassion, a gentle and calm masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love.https://barryselby.comhttps://Facebook.com/barryselby.authorhttps://Instagram.com/therealbarryselbyhttps://LinkedIn.com/in/barryselbyhttps://Twitter.com/barryselbyhttps://YouTube.com/barryselbyclubhouse.com/@barryselbyhttps://barryselby.com/loveafterAbout the Host: Following the crumbs in the chaos is a full-time job as a Productivity Coach. As a busy mom of three and the founder of Chaos N' Cookies, keeping moms from crumbling is my main objective. After gaining 10+ years of experience as a Director of Marketing helping build multiple 6 & 7-figure businesses for other women I've created the Chaos Control System to equip moms to overcome their own objections so they can live the life they want to live and start that business they have always wanted. The Family Playbook, or standard operating procedure, is the tool every mama needs to save time and stress-less when chaos ensues at home. For new biz owners, I also help simplify systems on social media and other business platforms to automate processes to get their business up and running quickly and efficiently with how-tos and hands-on coaching. I have helped hundreds of women to be more productive and self-sufficient in their homes and businesses allowing them to reclaim control of the chaos. www.chaosncookies.comhttps://www.instagram.com/chaosncookies/https://www.instagram.com/theheathergreco/https://www.facebook.com/Chaos-n-Cookies-111324364538688https://chaosncookies.com/shophttps://linktr.ee/hsteinker Thanks for listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the podcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast...

Barry Selby is back to talk about balancing masculine and feminine in yourself and doing the inner work it takes to grow.Barry and Talia dive in on topics like the balance and range of masculine and feminine energies, why it matters to honor yourself first before partnering, how some of your upbringing and subconscious blueprints need to be re-written to be effective in relationships, the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries when dating and relating, and the value of doing the work on yourself before you try and find someone to build a life with.Connect with Barry:linktr.ee/barryselbyIG: @therealbarryselbyConnect with Talia:taliabombola.comtherapywithtalia.comIG: @taliabombola

Talia sits down with Barry Selby to discuss polarity, emasculation,  and the power of doing inner work.Connect with Barry:linktr.ee/barryselbyIG: @therealbarryselbyConnect with Talia:taliabombola.comtherapywithtalia.comIG: @taliabombola

In this episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa discusses dating as a best selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide with Barry Selby and her co-host and producer, Canaan Dewey. Follow: Andrea www.datesmartersexier.com Canaan www.canaandewey.com Barry Selby https://www.barryselby.com/book/ Send your questions to: datesmarterpodcast@gmail.com Follow us on IG: @datesmartershow Facebook Groups: Date Smarter Singles & Date Smarter Sexier --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Dawn is joined by a passionate champion for the divine feminine, Barry Selby. Together they discuss the different functional mindsets of men and women, where we live within their spectrum and why we have the power to control our own environment and become our own creators.KEY TAKEAWAYS  Functionally men and women think differently, and it's natural. Men compartmentalize and focus on completing things and achieving a goal or objective. For men, the most comfortable place is when a task is finished. Women often get more enjoyment from the journey and the exploration of a goal. A woman's energy is about enjoying what's happening, exploring and embracing everything. Men like to dance on the edge of openness, aliveness and dark contemplation. Men often take more risks physically because death is kind of a man's greatest challenge.  There's a difference between being life focused vs emptiness focused. Naturally, men and women are at different points on the spectrum due to the difference between masculine and feminine polarity.  We can choose what we want to be on the spectrum at any one point in time. We have freedom to choose, the environment does not control it but in-fact we control ourselves in our own environment. We are the creator.  BEST MOMENTS “Your journey is about making mistakes and then diving into personal growth and development to grow.”“I had a transformational experience and a parallel shift in 2007 when I realized I needed to live my life.”“We live somewhere on life focused vs emptiness focused spectrum”CONTACT METHODhttps://www.instagram.com/theawakeningwithdawndawn@theawakeningwithdawn.comABOUT THE HOSTDawn Rishárd, M.A. With 20 years as a Licensed Professional Counselor, Marriage and Family Systems, I empower people to release the past, open their hearts, and receive the love they desire. I have a soft spot to help women struggling in their marriages as I did. As an Intuitive Healer, I help unlock Self Love, Clarity, and Connection, despite the challenges. I am an expert at restoring people's intimacy in life and love.ABOUT THE GUESTBarry helps women move from heart-break grief to whole-hearted grace. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life and business. He is dedicated to disrupting the codependent patterns people fall victim to, so they can thrive in life, and enjoy healthier relationships.His #1 best-selling book – 50 Ways To Love Your Lover – is a comprehensive how-to guide for couples and singles, men and women, delivering 50 powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships. With over 35 years of training and experience, including a master's degree in Spiritual Psychology, and over 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness.https://www.barryselby.com/CONTACT METHODBarry Selby - barry@barryselby.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Barry Selby  @TheRealBarrySelby joins us to discuss: - Masculine Women Expect Masculinity From Men- The Cons Of A Woman Pursuing A Man- What Dating in The USA is Like vs England- Men Finding Safety In Women- The Friend Zone- Being Single For 15 Years- Repeating The Patterns From Childhood- Why Women Seek Men Coaches- Is A Partnership Really A Partnership- Thought Of Marriage Causing PanicFollow: Introspect Club Email: IntrospectClub@Gmail.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/introspect_clubIG: https://www.instagram.com/introspect_club/Twitter: https://twitter.com/Introspect_ClubFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/theintrospectclub/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDb2G48lD0FC0fi-ENHo_tAApple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/introspect-club/id1588329358Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/099r2H7cOuuUzBfpCIa4Dp?si=usfO7pliQoWpYaMB5bq9EgTikTok: tiktok.com/@introspect_clubJeff Damisse IG: https://www.instagram.com/j.damisse/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/j_damisse Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.damisse Clubhouse: https://www.clubhouse.com/@j.damisse The Clock (instrumental) by RYYZN https://soundcloud.com/ryyzn Creative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported — CC BY 3.0 Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/al-the-clock Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/Sf-DjaE_TeE

What does it mean to harbor resentment, and how does forgiveness help us overcome that? What role does codependency play in relationships, and how do I identify whether I'm codependent? Join us for today's episode where we'll hear insights to answer these questions with relationship attraction expert Barry Selby. --------------- CONNECT WITH BARRY SELBY Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/barryselby LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barryselby/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/barryselby.author Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealbarryselby/ Website: https://www.barryselby.com/ --------------- Download the Blink Date app to start voice-first speed dating from the comfort of your home: https://www.theblinkdate.com ----- Date in a Blink (https://www.theblinkdate.com/date-in-a-blink) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/dateinablink) Twitter (https://twitter.com/dateinablink) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/dateinablink/) ----- Podcast by Blink (www.theblinkdate.com) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theblinkdate/) Twitter (https://twitter.com/theblinkdate) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/theblinkdate/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theblinkdate) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Today's episode is the second part of our conversation with The Love Doctor, Barry Selby. This time, we include love and joy in relationships into the discussion, and Barry shares his secret sauce for long-lasting relationships.Barry Selby is a Speaker, Bestselling Author, and Expert Facilitator who helps women leaders find balance in love, life, and business. He has been a Ministry Director and Practitioner at the Agape International Spiritual Centertitioner for over 28 years, and he has a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology. Barry authored the book "50 Ways to love your lover," which includes powerful principles for passionate relationships filled with deeply fulfilling and juicy romance.We explore the link between grief and relationships and the grief process we go through after a breakup. Barry dives into the influence of our formative years, the things we learn in them have on our adult lives, and how we choose to interact with others. Barry sheds some light on people's behavioral challenges or bad habits they imprint in their relationships and the importance of going through a self-healing journey before trying to heal someone else.Finally, Barry talks about feminine magnificence and what it means to be a masculine man. He kindly offers advice for people thinking of getting their feet into the dating world again.In This Episode, You Will Learn:Sometimes is not about missing the person; it is about missing the possibilities of what could've happened (4:57)We learn about love by watching others (6:30)Stop projecting childhood traumas into your partner (12:34)Never paint over rust. Barry shares some tips to deal with bad habits (15:26)About Barry's background and why he decided to be a champion for the divine feminine (18:43)We must get clear on who we are and what do we want from a relationship before putting ourselves out there (25:16)Resources:Barry Selby websiteBook: Barry Selby - 50 Ways To Love Your LoverGrowing Through Grief System - Book NowBook: Besser van der Kolk - The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of TraumaConnect with Barry:LinkedInInstagramLet's Connect!FacebookTwitterInstagramLinkedInWebsiteFacebook Group - Growing Through Grief Together Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What makes or breaks a relationship? The truth is another person can't make you happy; being fulfilled is an inside job. Today's guest is Barry Selb. He's helped thousands learn to love themselves. He's affectionately known as the "Love Doctor." Barry is an inspirational speaker, relationship expert, best-selling author, and spiritual guide. Most successful women rely on masculine energy to survive in the business world but often don't know how to shut it off. Barry is a champion for the divine feminine and he's dedicated to helping strong women attract relationships that equal who they are. Barry offers principles that will change how you experience romance and how to love and treat yourself.Barry Selby is passionate about helping successful women create greater balance in love, life, and business. He's on a mission to awaken women to own and express their feminine magnificence in love and in the world. He's a relationship coach and a guide for singles seeking relationships and self-love. He has over 35 years of training and experience, including a master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and more than two decades as a professional spiritual counselor. His #1 best-selling book, "50 Ways to Love Your Lover," helps singles and couples embody powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships. He brings deep compassion, a calm masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love. Barry epitomizes the perfect blend of practical, spiritual, tangible, and intangible in relationship coaching. In this week's episode, we'll learn about his approach to dating and love.Kerry Brett and Barry Selby discuss masculine and feminine energy and why that needs to be in balance to find love. Topics include:The polarity between the masculine and feminine. You don't need the other person to complete you if you truly love someone. Come from a place of loving yourself first, which is the best place to attract a new relationship.How to love from overfill and not love from a place of lack.The difference between masculine and macho energy.Masculine energy comes from having a strong spine and being single-focused.Why women need to turn off the masculine energy that they use at work.Feminine energy comes from the energy of the heart.Why women don't trust their feminine energy.Why women have a difficult time letting the man lead in dating.Rule #45 in "50 Ways to Love Your Lover" Ladies, let your man be masculine and remember you are feminine. Don't compete for it, or you will lose in romance. Barry, can you expand on this?Rule #42 is men and women attract each other differently. Men see attraction, and women feel attraction. Why is it crucial to be grounded in your feminine as a woman in dating?Barry Selby's advice for dating and healing a broken heart.Why you want to be fulfilled as a single person? So, when you find a relationship, it just adds to who you are.If you aren't happy single, you won't be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not from men.Why being single doesn't mean you are undesirable or unwanted. It means you know your value and are holding out for someone who is worthy and sees your worth.To find out more about Barry Selby go to www.barryselby.com. All of his social he can be found under Barry Selby except on Instagram which is @therealbarryselby and you can talk to him directly on Clubhouse or watch his 1,400 videos on YouTube.

Like many other things in life, grief is something we cannot predict; it's not systemized, and the feelings of grieving land on us unexpectedly. We already know that the worst way to deal with it is to fight it or try to push it down. If we do that, it'll resurge even strongly later. Today we have a special guest, Barry Selby, and through his story of grief, we explore fascinating concepts about grief and love he learned in his career as a counselor and the loss of his parents. Barry Selby, The Love Doctor, is a Speaker, Bestselling Author, and Expert Facilitator who helps women leaders find balance in love, life, and business. He has been a Ministry Director and Practitioner at the Agape International Spiritual Centertitioner for over 28 years, and he has a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology. In this episode, we explore new ways of dealing with grief, holding to the beautiful memories of our loved ones rather than to the feelings their loss produces on us. Barry kindly shared his journey and experiences losing both of his parents, his mother in 2012 and his father last year. We delve into his healing process, the most significant hurdles he had to deal with, and the central role of gratitude in grieving. Some Questions I Ask:Would you share with us your most compelling grief story? (4:54)How did you deal with the loss of your parents? (10:54)What took you the longest to learn as you were going through this grief process? (16:53)Is there any particular thing you will share with my listeners about practicing love in the process of grieving? (18:32)In This Episode, You Will Learn:Barry talks about how tough it was for him to see his mother trapped in her body and the relief of seeing her leaving the physical plane (5:10)Grief is something we cannot predict; it hits us like ocean waves (12:41)Holding to grief is holding to the loss of someone; we should instead hold onto the beautiful memories of them (14:31)How hard it was for Barry to see the story almost repeating itself with his father, nine years later after the loss of his mother (24:37)Resources:Barry Selby websiteBook: Barry Selby - 50 Ways To Love Your LoverGrowing Through Grief System - Book NowBook: Besser van der Kolk - The Body Keeps the ScoreConnect with Barry:LinkedInInstagramLet's Connect!FacebookTwitterWebsiteFacebook Group - Growing Through Grief Together Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

(REPLAY OF JANUARY 30TH, 2022.)   Good evening everyone and thank you for joining me for another episode of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto. I'm your host Laura Bilotta, matchmaker and founder of Single in the City.   Before you date, it's important to get over past hurt and work on yourself for the best success. How do you do that?   This week, I'm joined by love expert Barry Selby, who will be helping us out with this. Barry is known as the “Love Doctor” and is the bestselling author of 50 Ways to Love Your Lover, a spiritual guide, a sought-after inspirational speaker, and a wise & compassionate relationship attraction expert. Tonight, we'll be discussing how to move forward from past mistakes, how to love yourself and ways that you can move forward with success. Thanks for joining us tonight, Barry! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Masculinity and femininity are present in all of us, regardless of gender. But having both and understanding how to make the most of those traits are different. Here to explain the concept deeper is Barry Selby. Barry is known as the Love Doctor by his audience with a master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and 22 years as a spiritual counselor. He has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness. In this episode, he chats with host Baeth Davis about how masculinity and femininity affect us professionally and personally. He also unpacks how past experiences with relationships from childhood influence the relationships we have today. Stay tuned for an enlightening discussion that highlights self-love and embracing both sides of yourself to get ahead. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://yourpurpose.com/aligntoyourdesign

Today on the podcast Barry Selby "the love doctor" comes on to have an in depth chat about if soul mates are real? And, if they are what that really means. We talk all things love and relationships and how you can help ready yourself to find your "soul mate".Barry Selby is a spiritual psychologist and love coach and specializes in helping women lift from heartbreak to whole hearted grace.That Girl A Novel is now a podcast! Listen to each chapter free and read by yours truly at That Girl A Novel. Find it everywhere you listen to your podcasts. Or read it on Amazon in paperback or Kindle. Get extra's from the podcast and help support it by joining our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/thatgirlthepodcastLearn more about Jackie Brubaker and That Girl The Podcast on our website! https://shows.acast.com/61b7831a2dff90001366b220For more about Jackie and her and our guests:https://www.instagram.com/jackiebrubaker/https://www.instagram.com/thatgirlthepodcast/https://www.instagram.com/therealbarryselby/www.jackiebrubaker.com Get bonus content on Patreon!Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/that-girl-the-podcast. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Good evening everyone and thank you for joining me for another episode of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto. I'm your host Laura Bilotta, matchmaker and founder of Single in the City.   Before you date, it's important to get over past hurt and work on yourself for the best success. How do you do that?   This week, I'm joined by love expert Barry Selby, who will be helping us out with this. Barry is known as the “Love Doctor” and is the bestselling author of 50 Ways to Love Your Lover, a spiritual guide, a sought-after inspirational speaker, and a wise & compassionate relationship attraction expert. Tonight, we'll be discussing how to move forward from past mistakes, how to love yourself and ways that you can move forward with success. Thanks for joining us tonight, Barry! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's episode, we are continuing with another amazing male dating coach, Barry Selby. He specializes in masculine and feminine energy so this was a very exciting episode for me! Barry talks all about the importance of women reclaiming and maintaining their feminine power, especially in their relationships with men. You will hear what … The post Episode 145: “Ladies, Stop Copying The Men!” w/ Barry Selby appeared first on Better Love Movement.

There are a few things to keep in mind to attract quality suitors when it comes to online dating. Nowadays, creating a profile is critical for telling a brief but appealing introduction about yourself. In this episode, an Executive Coach, Relationship Attraction Expert, and Bestselling Author Barry Selby discuss what you should think about when engaging in online dating and the values you must uphold to become more desirable to anyone who comes across you or your online profile. Standout Quotes: “I know so much. But I'm still missing out. What am I doing wrong? What am I missing? Well, to leapfrog ahead, I basically found myself in a retreat that was exposing me so to speak, or at least educated me about being masculine, around the feminine energy.” [Barry] “When I saw that magnificence, and what women really are in the feminine, I was absolutely in worship of that. I've dedicated serving the energy of a sense, which is why my work is helping women on the feminine because, frankly, it's selfish.” [Barry] “Be aware of what your partial relationships, the common threads and partner relationships, because the thing is that ratio, the breakup, the patent dynamics, the way I felt afterwards seems it happened twice before. So, three times in a row, the same relationship experience different women.” [Barry] Key Takeaways: Barry has 35 years of experience in the personal development field but just 15 years of coaching and teaching experience. His relationship had been a disaster for nearly 15 years at that point, and he had made several errors and blunders. Barry was still making mistakes despite having been in the personal development area for a long time, learning about how to be in relationships, do better, and be a better person. Masculine and feminine energy are not exclusive to one; we all have both. However, in general, in homosexual relationships, men better be in the male, and women better are in the feminine as a natural rule. Since he was 15 years old, Barry has been a shoulder to cry on. So it's always been in his nature to be the nurturer and safe place for women. It didn't hurt his relationship, but it gave him a space for women to be with. So doing that has always been Barry's gift. Episode Timeline: [00:02] Meet today's host "Maria Romano," from True Love Knots [03:48] Barry's Experience in Relationship [05:25] The Retreat that helped Barry tremendously [08:58] The difference between Masculine and Macho [12:01] Barry's Clients in Coaching [13:11] The Relationship Attraction Expert [17:39] The Codependent Relationship [19:43] Verify Someone's Identity when dating [24:57] Inspiration in writing the book [28:18] Barry's Favorite Movie [29:15] Barry's Favorite Song [30:04] Barry's Favorite Book [30:55] Barry's Take on Spirituality [33:14] Barry's Preferences in Dating someone Learn more about Maria Romano and the True Love Knots at: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-romano-tlk/ Website: https://trueloveknots.com/ Learn more about Barry Selby on: Website: something.BarrySelby.com | clubhouse.com/@barryselby Facebook: Facebook.com/barryselby.author Instagram: Instagram.com/therealbarryselby LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/barryselby Twitter: Twitter.com/barryselby YouTube: YouTube.com/barryselby

Love and Relationship Expert and author of 50 Ways To Love Your Lover Barry Selby joins me on the podcast to dive into what codependency is and what exactly the divine masculine and the divine feminine actually are. This is an amazing episode if you're looking for better insight into who you are and what you want to have in a real relationship. That Girl A Novel is now a podcast! Listen to each chapter free and read by yours truly at That Girl A Novel. Find it everywhere you listen to your podcasts! Or read it on Amazon in paperback or Kindle!  Get tons of extra's from the podcast and help support it by joining our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/thatgirlthepodcastSigning up for Buzzsprout gets you a $20 Amazon gift card if you sign up for a paid plan, and helps support our show. Click here to start! https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=1294879For more about Jackie and her and our guests:Instagram:@Jackiebrubaker@thatgirlthepodcast@therealbarryselbywww.thatgirlthepodcast.comwww.jackiebrubaker.comI'm excited to announce my new course How To Build Better Self-worth is now available at my wellness website loveyouevenmore.com.If you've found yourself stuck in a rut, making poor decisions in relationships, feel like you can never get what you really want or are just too afraid to take chances on yourself it's time to do some work on your self worth.I walk you through exercises in uncovering where your self-worth has been broken, how Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thatgirlthepodcast)

Big Fat Lies with Jennifer Cramer Lewis  Hello beautiful being, are your love batteries on chronic low energy? If you manage to get them charged, does someone or something come along and drain them soon afterwards with little to no interest in reciprocating love energy? Have I got a treat for you!  The Love Doctor Barry Selby https://www.barryselby.com/ is going to join us in studio to share his best tips for charging your own love batteries, while building an immunity to people who don't bring as much love into your life as they receive from it. Barry loves inspiring the feminine heart, seeing women thriving, being respected, and enjoying relationships that honor them. Don't believe that's possible?  You'd better meet Barry and join us in the studio audience! Imagine if you could: Discover your own love batteries and what fuel they run on? Learn what thriving in love relationships means to you and how to calibrate your reality to bring that forward Find out how to be kind to your own feminine heart instead of what you've been doing lately which hasn't been working. Barry Selby is an inspirational speaker, relationship expert, best-selling author and spiritual guide. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, dedicated to helping strong successful women create greater balance in love, life and business. He is on a mission to awaken women to own and express their feminine magnificence and majesty, in love, and in the world. He helps his clients attract relationships that equal who they really are. As an expert coach and guide for singles seeking relationship and self-love, Barry is affectionately known as the Love Doctor to his friends and clients. With over 35 years of training and experience, including a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology and over 20 years as a professional spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness. His #1 best-selling book, 50 Ways To Love Your Lover, helps singles and couples embody powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships. He brings deep compassion, gentle and calm masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love. Doesn't that sound delicious?  Barry will have an invitation to some lasting change where you not only know what your love batteries are but know how to charge them. https://www.barryselby.com/   *Listen now on the Inspired Choices Network app!  https://linktr.ee/inspiredchoicesnetwork ~ More About Big Fat Lies with Jennifer Cramer Lewis ~  Jennifer is Canada's #1 business and relationship turnaround expert for deliciously ambitious visionary female entrepreneurs and is a modern-day shaman and seer. Jennifer has, for over 20 years, assisted entrepreneurs and business owners, to ignite their dream life, find joy, meaning, and success in business through her intuitive strategies and foresight, that include both the body and the business. Her approach is to identify the individual's core talents and energy fields, ignite them and bind them to the bigger dream, then build systems that add elegance, joy and profitability. Jennifer can't help it, she's a champ.  Growing up in the highly competitive world of horses, she earned multiple international titles as an equestrian before the age of 15. With extensive experience managing multi-million dollar projects in Finance, Real Estate Sales, Management and Investment, Jennifer was easily able to see the nuances of the business, saving and earning her clients hundreds of thousands of dollars, creating and implementing new technologies and approaches to old rusty systems that rapidly increased the bottom line in every business she worked with. Jennifer delights in you achieving your dream life and business.  Get to know her in her community called The Joyful Entrepreneur at community.jennifercramerlewis.com where she hosts monthly free trainings on productivity, passion and profitability. https://www.jennifercramerlewis.com/ To get more of Big Fat Lies with Jennifer Cramer Lewis, be sure to visit the podcast page for replays of all her shows here: https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/podcast/big-fat-lies-with-jennifer-cramer-lewis/

Going through a divorce requires a mindset of forgiveness - for yourself. Hear from bestselling author, Barry Selby (aka The Love Doctor), how the "F word" (Forgiveness) can help you with your emotional progress and how to move forward. (Guest: Barry Selby, Author "50 Ways to Love Your Lover")

Love is definitely what makes the world "go round" yet so many of us struggle with unhealthy (codependent) relationships. How do we get into these? How can we get out of them? It's time to dive in with an expert.As a Relationship Attraction Expert, Barry Selby is affectionately known as the Love Doctor to his friends and clients. With over 30 years of training and experience, including a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology and over 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness.His #1 best-selling book, 50 Ways To Love Your Lover, helps singles and couples embody powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships. He brings deep compassion, a gentle masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love.Barry is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life, and business. He is on a mission to awaken women to own and express their feminine magnificence and majesty, in love, and in the world. He helps his clients attract relationships that are equivalent to who they really are.https://www.tinaandersonoc.comhttps://www.barryselby.com

Dr. Tari and Relationship Attraction Expert and Spiritual Counselor Barry Selby outline what Codependent Relationships look like and how we can begin to change our codependent mindsets and create healthy interdependent relationships instead.  Barry Selby is affectionately known as the Love Doctor to his audience. With over 30 years of training and experience, including a master's degree in spiritual psychology and 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he's helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness. Barry is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life and business. He awakens women to own and express their feminine majesty in love and in the world. And he helps his clients heal their hearts, sourcing their own love and support. So they may fully embrace their magnificence and help them attract relationships that equal who they really are as a masterful relationship attraction expert. Find Barry Selby online! Website: http://www.barryselby.com YouTube: https://YouTube.com/barryselby Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/therealbarryselby   Find Dr. Tari online! Website: http://www.drtarimack.com Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/drtarimack    

Codependency is a term widely used but not always accurately applied. It's difficult to identify, especially as healthy bonds and intimacy are necessary for meaningful relationships. When does depending on others become unhealthy? When is codependency an issue that has to be addressed? What's the tipping point?Todays conversation is with Barry Selby who is helping others crack the codependency code. Barry is a bestselling author, a powerful spiritual leader, a sought-after inspirational speaker, and a wise & compassionate relationship expert, in particular for your relationship with yourself. As a wise Relationship Attraction Expert, Barry is affectionately known as the Love Doctor to his friends and clients. With over 35 years of training and experience, including a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology and more than 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness.Barry is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life and business. He helps women heal from heart-break and grief, so they embrace their own whole-hearted grace, and attract relationships that equal who they really are.Barry's #1 best-selling book, 50 Ways To Love Your Lover, helps singles and couples embody powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships. As an in-demand inspirational speaker standing for love, healthy romance and deeply passionate relationships, Barry brings deep compassion, gentle masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love.In This Episode, You Will Learn: What is co-dependency? (4:05)Reaction vs response (4:34)Feeling victimized (6:28)How to becoming aware of being a victim and some first steps you can take (7:46)Co-dependency in relationships (9:35)The importance of interdependence in relationships (11:27)How to become interdependent (17:51)Fill your own cup first and give from the over-flow (18:32)Forgiveness (23:35)The puppet master (24:51)3 signs of co-dependency (25:45)Sourdough side note (28:32)Importance of taking a pause before reacting (35:00)The Doctor is In (37:53)Connect with Barry WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInTwitterYoutubeClubhouseLet's Connect!WebsiteInstagramFacebook Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

SPEAKER BIO:Barry Selby is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life, and business. He awakens women to own and express their feminine majesty, in love, and in the world. He helps his clients heal their hearts, sourcing their own love and support, so they may fully embrace their magnificence, and help them attract relationships that equal to who they really are.As a masterful Relationship Attraction Expert, Barry is affectionately known as the Love Doctor to his audience. With over 30 years of training and experience, including a Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology and 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness. He brings deep compassion, gentle masculine strength & presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love. He is an in-demand inspirational speaker standing for love, healthy romance, and deeply passionate relationships.Visit www.LuciaGabriela.com to access your complementary Awakening Discovery Call to explore what is going on in your life, relationship and/or intimacy that is holding you back from living the life you desire. After gaining clarity and insights, if you are interested to learn more about how I can help you, I will be glad to answer any questions regarding any of my one on one sessions, programs, immersion, and retreats that may be a fit for you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This week on the Gem Revealed Podcast, my guest is "The Love Confidant," Barry Selby! Barry is the author of the #1 best-selling book, "50 Ways To Love Your Lover," an inspirational speaker, relationship attraction expert, and self-support specialist, who helps amazing women find balance in life, love and business. Barry holds a graduate degree in Spiritual Psychology, and a 20-year track record as a licensed licensed professional spiritual counselor. Barry and I are discussing what I consider one of the most fascinating topics when it comes to dating and relationships--harnessing the masculine and feminine energy within each of us, and finding a balance between them for better results in life and love. We also touch on self-care, taking inventory of the agreements we make on a daily basis, and the importance of saying "NO." Never miss an episode! Subscribe to Gem Revealed on YouTube, or head to your favorite podcast player and subscribe the Gem Revealed Podcast to listen on the go ▶️ New episodes drop on Wednesdays (pssst...they're usually up on YouTube sooner!) FIND BARRY ONLINE: http://www.BarrySelby.com​ https://www.facebook.com/barryselby.author https://www.instagram.com/therealbarryselby/ http://www.LinkedIn.com/in/barryselby​ http://www.Twitter.com/barryselby​ http://www.YouTube.com/user/barryselby As always, find me at gemrevealed.com or hello@gemrevealed.com

Dating, Looking For a Casual or Committed Relationship? On The Perfect Catch...Let's Talk with Hosts, Christine Baumgartner and Barry Selby, Dating & Relationship Experts. . (AUDIO ONLY) WGSN-DB Going Solo Network 24/7 Live Streaming Radio, TV & Podcasts - #1 Internet Singles Talk Network (www.goingsolomedia.com) for a Complete Singles Connection join (www.goingsolonetwork.com)Christine BaumgartnerDating and Relationship CoachThePerfectCatch.comBarry SelbyDating & Relationship Coach, Speaker, Bestselling Author, Expert FacilitatorBarrySelby.com

Barry Selby is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life and business. He awakens women to own and express their feminine magnificence and majesty, in love and in the world. He also helps his clients attract relationships that equal who they really are.Barry is a compassionate guide and teacher for those seeking a healthier relationship with themselves. With over 30 years of training and experience, including a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology and 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness. He brings deep wisdom, gentle masculine strength & presence, and joyful guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true self-love. He is an in-demand inspirational speaker standing for love, healthy relationships and living with passion and joy.LINKS:BarrySelby.comFacebook.com/barryselby.authorInstagram.com/therealbarryselbyLinkedIn.com/in/barryselbyTwitter.com/barryselbyYouTube.com/user/barryselbySupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-katie-carlson-show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You're positively GLOWING!According to Barry Selby, this happens when women genuinely own their natural femininity. When he noticed a woman glowing in her femininity for the first time, he knew that he wanted to find a way to support this radiance and help strong, successful women create balance in love, life, and business.As a passionate champion for the divine feminine, Barry Selby is a best-selling author, spiritual guide, sought-after inspirational speaker and relationship attraction expert. Throughout our conversation on this first episode of The Awakened Heart, Barry brings gentle masculine strength and presence to share how he discovered his calling in life, why opposites attract, and ultimately how self-mastery has changed his life. Tune in to start up-leveling your life and love!Some Questions I Ask: Barry's background and how it led him to where he is today. (3:53)How do you see femininity today and where is it headed? (10:37)What is lighting you up right now? (16:45)What is an awakened heart? (22:42)In This Episode, You Will Learn: How Barry realized his calling to support women owning their femininity. (9:55)How the polarity of the masculine and the feminine ignites chemistry between people. (12:00)What is Self-Mastery? (16:51)How Barry stays busy during COVID-19 quarantine. (20:20)Connect with Barry: Self-Mastery RevolutionGuided Self-Love Meditation ProgramComplimentary Consult with Barry SelbyLet's Connect!WebsiteInstagramFacebook Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

Barry Selby is a best-selling author, spiritual guide, sought-after inspirational speaker and relationship attraction expert. He a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life and business. He helps women own and express their feminine magnificence in love, and in the world. With over 30 years of training and experience, including a Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology and 20 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness.

Here's how you can mend a broken heart: work with a relationship attraction expert! Enter BARRY SELBY, a.k.a the "Love Doctor", author of the #1 best-selling book , 50 ways to Love your Lover, to the rescue. In this convo , we unpack Alpha vs. Beta traits; masculine & feminine energies but most importantly: do we screw on first dates or not? Loving Fockeries abound in this delightful episode. See him & other guest on our IG: @whatthefockery. Please SUPPORT US here What The Fockery? • A podcast on Ancho SUBSCRIBE/RATE/DONATE/REVIEW and Share. Send a voice memo via the Anchor App or email us: whatthefockery@gmail.com AND become a PATREON supporter where special content & gifts are available. To reach Barry Selby: email- barry@barryselby.com https://hasofferstracking.betterhelp.com/SHbu About Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/whatthefockery About the Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/what-the-fockery-podcast-swag --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/whatthefockery/message

Hey!!!!!! Welcome to The MindSoulfulTM Show, where Mindfulness meets your heart and soul. Iʼm your host Brooke-Sidney. Iʼm an Abundance Accelerator, MindSoulful Mentor, and an Inner Voice and Soul Story Coach. This show dives deep into soulful mindfulness, mindset, and manifestation. It will help you manifest more inner and outer abundance in the form of hearing your inner voice, as well as bring more presence, self-love, freedom, ease and greater confidence in YOU being YOU. In todayʼs episode, I answer listener questions on how to attract or manifest a healthy romantic relationship. These questions were prompted by last weekʼs episode with Relationship Attraction Expert, Barry Selby, affectionately known as “The Love Doctor.” I answer questions on the one thing to do to attract a healthy romantic relationship, the divine masculine, the influence of online dating applications, and much more. Tune in! For the full show notes, click here! What You Will Learn On This Episode: The one thing to do to attract a healthy romantic relationship How online dating applications are influencing the dating landscape Some signs you may want to do some inner work to attract your healthy relationship More thoughts on the Divine Masculine Whether you should use online dating apps or not? Can we attract our parents? And much, much more   Resources Mentioned: Last weekʼs episode, “Shifting our Minds & Energy to Attract Healthy Romantic Relationships with Barry Selby” - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindsoulful-show/id1455693882?i=1000440661238 Coaching with Brooke-Sidney – Apply to work with me. Book a FREE SHIFT Session – http://bit.ly/SHIFTSession The MindSoulful Community To reach Barry Selbyʼs website https://barryselby.com To reach Barry Selby on Facebook, visit https://www.facebook.com/ barryselby.author For the ladies, book your complimentary discovery session so we can see where you want to be - http://barryselby.com/chat The MindSoulful Self-Love Yoga & Meditation Retreat – https://brookesidney.com/selflove-retreat   Brooke-Sidney is an Abundance Accelerator, MindSoulful Mentor, and Inner Voice & Soul Story Coach. Through the powerful tools of soulful mindfulness, mindset and manifestation, she helps people manifest inner and outer abundance while guiding people to love themselves deeper, fuller, richer, and completely as well as the lives they are PRESENTLY living.   And for the souls called to write a book, Brooke-Sidney can assist them on that mystical journey with author coaching, ghostwriting, editing, and publishing consulting. As an attorney, Brooke-Sidney can provide legal assistance for your intellectual property, media/publishing, and business legal needs.   Connect with Brooke-Sidney Website: https://brookesidney.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/thebrookesidney Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/mindsoulfulflowgratitude Instagram: https://instagram.com/thebrookesidney Twitter: https://twitter.com/thebrookesidney YouTube: https://bit.ly/BrookesidneyShow   Website // Facebook // Community // Instagram // Twitter // YouTube   Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our show! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a note in the comment section below!   Tag Us in a screenshot! 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Welcome to The MindSoulful Show, where Mindfulness meets your heart and soul. Iʼm your host Brooke-Sidney. Iʼm an Abundance Accelerator, MindSoulful Mentor, and an Inner Voice and Soul Story Coach. My guest on todayʼs episode is Barry Selby. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life and business. He is on a mission to awaken women to own and express their feminine magnificence and majesty, in love, and in the world. He helps his clients attract relationships that equal who they really are. As a Relationship Attraction Expert, Barry is affectionately known as the “Love Doctor” to his friends and clients. With over 30 years of training and experience, including a Masterʼs Degree in Spiritual Psychology and 18 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness. His #1 best-selling book, 50 Ways To Love Your Lover, helps singles and couples embody powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships. He brings deep compassion, gentle masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love. Our conversation touched upon so many relevant areas related to spirituality and relationships. We discussed how to attract a healthy romantic relationship, what is a healthy relationship, the divine feminine and masculine energies, the challenges of dating in the online dating and apps world, the inner work required to shift our relationship manifestations, and much more! We could have talked for hours. Tune in! For the full show notes, click here!   Show Highlights: How to attract or manifest a healthy romantic relationship? What is a “healthy romantic relationship”? What is the divine feminine and divine masculine? How the divine energies are often misunderstood? How the online dating and apps world is affecting our relationships What singles should know about dating now What women want from men? And what men want from women? Clue: it is not the same thing. Common blocks to being successfully matched! The importance of doing the inner work How Barry works with his clients for love success! And much, much more   Resources Mentioned: To reach Barryʼs website https://barryselby.com To reach Barry on Facebook, visit https://www.facebook.com/barryselby.author To reach Barry on Linked In visit https://linkedin.com/in/barryselby To reach Barry on YouTube visit https://youtube.com/user/barryselby To reach Barry on Twitter visit https://twitter.com/barryselby For the ladies, book your complimentary discovery session so we can see where you want to be - http://barryselby.com/chat For Barryʼs guided self-love meditation practice, which includes both an AM and PM audio guided meditation - http://barryselby.com/selflove For Barryʼs new group program Coming Home To YourSelf, to restore self- mastery and self-support for your whole life - http://barryselby.com/cominghome For Barryʼs book - 50 Ways To Love Your Lover - http:// 50WaysToLoveYourLover.com The MindSoulful Self-Love Yoga & Meditation Retreat – https:// brookesidney.com/selflove-retreat   Brooke-Sidney is an Abundance Accelerator, MindSoulful Mentor, and Inner Voice & Soul Story Coach. Through the powerful tools of soulful mindfulness, mindset and manifestation, she helps people manifest inner and outer abundance while guiding people to love themselves deeper, fuller, richer, and completely as well as the lives they are PRESENTLY living.   And for the souls called to write a book, Brooke-Sidney can assist them on that mystical journey with author coaching, ghostwriting, editing, and publishing consulting. As an attorney, Brooke-Sidney can provide legal assistance for your intellectual property, media/publishing, and business legal needs.   Connect with Brooke-Sidney Website: https://brookesidney.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/thebrookesidney Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/mindsoulfulflowgratitude Instagram: https://instagram.com/thebrookesidney Twitter: https://twitter.com/thebrookesidney YouTube: https://bit.ly/BrookesidneyShow   Website // Facebook // Community // Instagram // Twitter // YouTube   Thanks for listening! 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Barry Selby is author, speaker and relationship attraction expert. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine. His service is helping strong successful committed women to own and live in their feminine power, so they attract their true divine masculine partnership in relationship and become a powerful force in the world. His book 50 Ways To Love Your Lover is a #1 best-seller, and he is an in-demand inspirational speaker about love, romance and passionate relationship.http://theloveconfidant.com/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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What Comes After #metoo? As the bestselling author of the book 50 Ways to Love Your Lover, Barry Selby is a sought-after inspirational speaker and relationship attraction expert. "When we become fully owning our love in who we are, any relationship we attract is adding to that, not filling a gap.” - Barry Selby. Learn more about this episode at baeth.com/65

In this episode with our guest speaker Barry Selby, we explore what is self-love and why it has been underrated, overlooked and why it is absolutely necessary.Barry Selby is a best-selling author, sought-after inspirational speaker, and relationship attraction expert. He a passionate champion for the divine feminine, helping strong successful women create balance in love, life, and business. He helps women own and express their feminine magnificence and majesty, in love, and in the world.With over 30 years of training and experience, including a Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology and 17 years as a spiritual counselor, he has helped thousands learn to love themselves and live in wholeness. www.BarrySelby.comToday we cover what is self-love, where should we start loving ourselves, and how can we do so blissfully and deeply. Barry said “Love is WHO we are” and to “remember that LOVE is INSIDE” One of my personal and favorite elements we addressed within this self-love topic is how powerful and valuable it is to explore, discover and acknowledge our CORE VALUES, which are very important to create conscious relationships with self and others.My favorite quote from Barry is “Self-love is not defining by external parts of you BUT defining by YOU, what is congruent with you”Imagine how you would love yourself if you were not influenced by the media and the external world. Imagine creating your life from that place. Today Barry and I talked about how media influences us to define what love is, which actually may not be the best message out there because it leaves our unique and authentic self-definition powerless since we are not honoring the definition that is the most important to us, our own knowing we are WHOLE.Does self-love lead us to stop judging ourselves? Yes, tune in to learn more about how to stop judging ourselves (This whole conversation was my own personal breakthrough in how to deal with self-judgment) with a simple morning/night ritual that in 30 days will transform your life.Is self-pleasure self-love or self-care?Yes, we talked about sexuality a bit and why focusing too much on the self-sexual pleasure we miss exploring what else is available in loving ourselves to create the life we desire and how learning to properly love ourselves amplifies our sexual fulfillment.In this 36 minute interview, we also share practical tools and examples on how to love ourselves at a deeper level and why this will attract true love into our lives and open the door to infinite possibilities to create what we desire in life.Remember “LOVE IS WITHIN YOU” and “Self-love is really practical”Join this yummy conversation today, like us and subscribe to our podcast/channel.Click hereto access your complementary Awakening Discovery Callto explore what is going on in your life, relationship and/or intimacy that is holding you back from living the life you desire. After gaining clarity and insights, if you are interested to learn more about how I can help you, I will be glad to answer any questions regarding any of my one on one sessions, programs, immersions and retreats that may be a fit for you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Would you like to learn how to balance your energies to show up as your best self? To feel powerful at your work place and attract the ideal partner, or get even deeper connection with your life lover right now?Tune in this episode to learn the HOW. Barry Selby is a best-selling author, speaker and relationship attraction expert helping strong, successful women find balance in love, life and business. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, and his heart is dedicated to serve women owning their magnificence and authentic power in life as well as in relationship. He inspires successful single women to embrace and own their authentic feminine power, and attract their true equal in loving relationship. He brings deep compassion, gentle masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love. You can learn more about Barry on:http://barryselby.com/   Ready to step into your power, feel confident and create the life you deserve?
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Barry Selby is a best-selling author, speaker and relationship attraction expert helping strong, successful women find balance in love, life and business. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine, and his heart is dedicated to serve women owning their magnificence and authentic power in life as well as in relationship. Join us to learn why women lose out on love, and what they can do to succeed in finding lasting love!

The Celtic Coach Radio Show for Men: Where Science, Spirituality, & Self-Discovery Meet “Being the Woman You Were Meant to Be?” ☘ (This show is dedicated to all the women of the World) With Relationship attraction expert, author, & speaker: Barry Selby Topics Include but never limited to: • - Still single, and what to do about it • - The love you want is not out there? • - What men want women to know • - Let's stop the Soulmate bull**** • - Top 3 ways to love your lover • - Being more of a woman • - Lots of clothes but nothing to wear? And lots of good ole fashioned Irish humor...... Where: KOWS Radio - Streaming Live Online: KOWS.FM When: Every Friday, 1-3pm PST - in your car at at 92.5FM What Else: All the Best of Irish music, and a whole lot of Blarney! Email: thecelticcoach@gmail.com for a free MP3 of the show Dermot's Website: thecelticcoach.com "

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Barry Selby is a passionate champion for the divine feminine. He helps strong successful committed women heal their hearts, own their self-love and magnificence, embracing their feminine majesty, so they become a powerful positive force in the world, and attract their true divine masculine partnership in relationship. With over 30 years of study of personal development, interpersonal relationships and embodied understanding of the polarity dance of masculine and feminine, he helps women break the cycle of failed relationships and heart-break, so they can attract their true divine partnership. His #1 best-selling book, 50 Ways To Love Your Lover, helps both singles and couples create rich and rewarding relationships. He brings deep compassion, masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love. After experiencing her work you will never look at love the same way again. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra Be living your purpose in the world before doing anything else.  When You Tripped Up In Barry’s early dating live, teens and twenties, things would go well until there was a discord or an argument. Then he’d quit and he’d leave. Like everyone, he learned from his parents how to be in relationships. Barry never remembers his parents arguing. So his programming was: Love means no arguments. This unconscious programming limited the possibility of relationships for him. It is our unconscious programming that we need to unpack to change where we go in the future. Proudest moment in partnership Barry has been a spiritual practitioner since 2000. And part of that is being on pulpit once every 3 - 4 years to lead part of the service on Sundays. His first time on the pulpit was September 16th, 2001. The first Sunday following the 9/11 attacks. And twice as many people showed up for service as normally do. By his doing this and providing a sense of normalcy, it provided the attendees with a sense of calm.  This opened his heart even more to being of service. And as a result of standing in front of over 2000 people his fear of public speaking basically evaporated. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? We are all individually whole and complete. We always can serve somebody else. Best Partnership Book (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0989885208/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0989885208&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=39d378c0afc4483febc201a7562969c1) 50 Ways To Love Your Lover: Powerful Principles for Passionate & Richly Rewarding Relationships filled with Deeply Fulfilling and Juicy Romance! (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0989885208/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0989885208&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=a9beeb3034f6e6dec166936e7439a8ca) (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792576/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=832a171b7668c4727a85213f98f9e6ad) The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591792576/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=speakofpartn-20&linkId=794c8e0d28e35a6ae1ba5b23dd60058a) Interview Links - Barry's website (http://theloveconfidant.com/) Twitter (https://twitter.com/barryselby) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/barryselby.author) (https://speakingofpartnership.com/139-barry-selby/)

Jennifer Gardner interviews bestselling author, speaker and spiritual counselor, Barry Selby, aka "The Love Doctor", about relationships, the roles of feminine and masculine, self-publishing and the power of live streaming. http://roamhowl.com/012 Visit RoamHowl.com and drop your email to make sure you never miss an episode!     “Relationships are a wonderful opportunity to grow... which is not what some people want." ~Barry Selby Barry Selby is known as The Love Doctor to his friends and clients. He is a passionate champion for the divine feminine who helps strong, successful single women stop short-changing their love-lives. He is the #1 best-selling author of 50 Ways to Love Your Lover, a speaker, and spiritual counselor through Agape International. "If you are happy and grateful for where you are now, then everything that came before got you here, so there’s no choice but to accept and appreciate what happened before.” ~Barry Selby Links & Resources Mentioned In This Episode SummitLive (event where Barry & Jennifer met) Agape International (where Barry is a spiritual counselor) Create Space (for Self-Publishing) Jennifer's article on Medium AskWhale (live streaming advice) WarriorSage David Deida Thomas Friedman’s "Thank You for Being Late" "Illusions" by Richard Bach   "It’s almost like this surprise that happens... we’re just writing a blog post and putting it up for our friends and suddenly someone from India sees it… it’s huge — the ability to expand our awareness of what’s possible." ~Barry Selby Connect with Barry Website Facebook Twitter YouTube   Connect with Jennifer  Facebook @jenbgardner on Twitter Email me here. I am also on the web at www.jgardnerassociates.com and you can read about my approach to practicing law.  Help Us Spread the Word! Thank you so much for listening and I hope you enjoyed the show. You can subscribe to this podcast on iTunes here. Also, if you like what you hear, please consider leaving a review and rating. I love to hear from my listeners and welcome your comments and suggestions. Let me know what you think--I want to connect with you! Maybe by tuning in, we will learn something and be inspired to do the next creative, fun without a box thing in our own lives.      

Welcome to Episode 14! WHAT YOU'LL LEARN What drives attraction in men and women? Barry Selby shares with us about polarity between masculine and feminine energies and how connecting consciously with our own selves drives up attraction. While there are many ways to design your relationship and even your own self, Barry bring insightful points to ponder. How do we show up in the world and how do we allow potential lovers to show up for us. In this episode you will hear: What are the characteristics of masculine and feminine energies and why it's important to have complimentary energies with your partner for attractiveness in the bedroom. How sexless marriages and decreasing frequency of sex in America is occurring more frequently, why this is a problem, and how you can make sex a priority again. Why taking care of yourself first contributes to greater love-making. How to communicate effectively with your lover both in and out of the bedroom talk WHY YOU'LL LOVE THE SHOW Real life stories and expert interviews to help you improve your sex life, by addressing mental blocks, nourishing your body, and balancing your hormones. This podcast will feel like you're sitting down for coffee with your two best girlfriends to chat about the most erotic and embarrassing things you’re dying to share and get advice about. The best part? They’re the experts. Sex expert, Dr. Cat Meyer with hormone and detox expert, nutritionist Diane Kazer reveal to you what works (and what doesn’t) in the most entertaining way, encompassing all things sex and sex hormones such as self-love, sex toys, bedroom play, body shame, libido, frisky food, PMS, hormone balance and anything else sex-blocking you from the sex, life and body you deserve and desire. Each episode will give you simple steps and sexy strategies you can implement NOW to leave you feeling empowered, courageous, playful and motivated. Eat Play Sex is YOUR guide to all things sexy, healthy, and fun to rock the body of your dreams and help you get back in the playground with those you love. Because…#sexmatters   Be sure to check back every second Wednesday (#humpday – how appropriate) for a new episode, and head over to iTunes to subscribe! We appreciate and LOVE reading your reviews, it's how we decide future topics!  To leave us a review for the podcast, CLICK HERE. Then click on ‘View in itunes' under our picture square. Your itunes app will open, then click ‘ratings and reviews' and VOILA, you can drop a love note there!  OR if you're on your smart phone, I know it sounds ridiculous (itunes did it, not us), but open your ‘podcast' app, then in the search bar type ‘Eat Play Sex', then click on our image under ‘Podcast' headline, then you'll see ‘reviews' in the middle tab, then ‘Write a Review'. Thankfully, our goal is to make your sex hormones, dream body and sex life more convenient and enjoyable than THAT process…but regardless…We appreciate hearing from you more than you'll ever know! Got a question you’d like us to answer? Email us at sexmatters@eatplaysex.com or check out EatPlaySex.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message

Barry Selby is a passionate champion for the divine feminine. He helps strong, successful, single women stop short-changing their love-life. When women get manipulated and hurt it really ignites his passion to help them become wise and smart in their dating choices. He is passionate about women being honored and respected in love. “In new relationships, we tend to be attracted to what we see externally. Who we are, really, is often well below the surface, like the iceberg, maybe, five percent of the story. Be willing to take the time to explore and learn about the person in real interaction.”

Barry Selby is a passionate champion of the divine feminine. He is deeply committed to helping strong successful single women stop short-changing their love-lives, and attracting amazing relationships. Indeed, great relationships are the number one factor in your health and wealth. In this fascinating conversation with him, we dive deep into how so many women shortchange themselves and what they can do about it. Listen in to this weeks radio broadcast to discover what you can do to find that ideal mate. For more information or to contact Barry, click here For those of you ready to talk to me about bringing success into your life the easy way, go to http://scientifichealer.com/contact to send me a note or to http://scientifichealer.com/appointment when you’re ready to take action. Listen to the show:

Barry Selby was a high school-aged teenager in England when he noticed that the girls always seemed to be dating guys who weren’t right for them. They were getting hurt, repeatedly, by their bad choices. He felt frustrated. Why couldn’t they see what he saw? Today, Barry is a passionate champion for the divine feminine. He helps strong, successful, single women stop short-changing their love-life. When women get manipulated and hurt it really ignites his passion to help them become wise and smart in their dating choices. He is passionate about women being honored and respected in love.

VISIT www.wisdomsummit2015.com and download Barry's #1 best-selling book, 50 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR LOVER. Barry Selby, is a #1 Best-Selling Author, speaker, and relationship transformation expert.  His heart and passion is serving successful single women to heal their hearts, embrace their magnificence and attract their amazing relationship.    

Devi speaks with Barry Selby, The Love Confidant and Author of 50 Ways to Love your Lover.Listen Live and discover:The trap of online datingWhy do the faces change but the experience stays the same?It is not about the other person (objects in the mirror are closer than they appear).Relationship rebound vs. make-up sex.Having sex all day (the art of foreplay).Having better sex by being apart (polarity is the magnet).What to talk about after sexBarry Selby is The Love Confidant, professional speaker, published author and relationship transformation expert who specializes in empowering his clients to create conscious, passionate and deep relationships. His heart and passion is to empower successful single women to embrace and own their authentic feminine power and attract the best in their men!You can learn more about Barry at:http://TheLoveConfidant.com

Bio: My life purpose is inspiring people to live authentic lives, and the vehicle that most effectively expresses my purpose is my calling to facilitate you living on purpose, fulfilling your soul’s calling, and creating and having amazing relationships. I have been fascinated with how people relate (or don’t!), and how some people get along, and others don’t, for most of my life. This fascination led me to immerse myself for almost 25 years in education and experience in human development, personal growth and spiritual exploration. As part of my journey, I earned a Masters Degree in Spiritual Psychology, and I am licensed as a professional spiritual counselor. I have lived in four countries on two continents, and worked in many diverse commercial business experiences including multi-national organizations, management companies, financial service companies, technology companies, non-profit organizations, retail businesses, customer service organizations, global commerce and manufacturing. I continue to gain greater appreciation and understanding of people, and what we all face and deal with. I invite you to join my mailing list (just over to the right). to find out more. In addition, I am a passionate professional photographer, with a specialization in people, whether at events, in performance, or candid. Authenticity is my calling card. View some of my work at http://www.barryselbyphotography.com. And of course, you can catch up with me on Facebook – http://www.facebook.com/barryselby?ref=profile