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Dr. Stefani Goerlich joins Natasha on this episode of the Natasha Helfer Podcast to discuss her new book, "With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect." Stefani is a Forensic Sexologist and Clinical Social Worker who has been recognized as one of the world's leading experts in working with Gender, Relationship, and Sexuality Diversities. In the past, Stefani has worked with high-risk young people, adolescents with problematic sexual behaviors, pediatric and adult survivors of sexual trauma, commercial sex workers, and survivors of human trafficking. She is currently in private practice in Metro Detroit, Michigan, where she offers Sex, Relationship and Mental Health therapy to members of the GSRD community, their partners, and their families. Go here for more on Stefani and to find her books: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com. The information shared on this program is informational and should not be considered therapy. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. The views, thoughts and opinions expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views or feelings of Natasha Helfer or the Natasha Helfer Podcast. We provide a platform for open and diverse discussions, and it is important to recognize that different perspectives may be shared. We encourage our listeners to engage in critical thinking and form their own opinions. The intro and outro music for these episodes is by Otter Creek. Thank you for listening. And remember: Symmetry is now offering Ketamine services. To find out more, go to symcounseling.com/ketamine-services.
00:00:00 Welcome & Introduction to Adelina Adler 00:04:16 Introduction to Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) 00:05:12 Hard Truths before starting in an ENM relationship 00:09:26 Self-Reflection and Considerations in ENM 00:12:54 Debunking Misconceptions & Defining Poly & ENM Styles 00:23:05 Polyamory: Emotional Attachment and Multiple Loves 00:26:07 Is Polyamory an Orientation? & Navigating Jealousy and Envy in Poly Relationships 00:43:10 Maintaining the Ethical Aspect of Polyamory 00:46:35 Unicorn Hunting: Approaching Ethically and Avoiding Power Dynamics 00:49:16 Challenging Hierarchical Polyamory 00:51:10 Recovering from Heartbreak 00:55:38 Managing Time in Multiple Relationships 00:59:30 Questioning Societal Norms In this episode, Whitni Miller and Adelina Adler discuss ethical non-monogamy and its various forms. Adelina, a GSRD sex coach and educator, explains that ethical non-monogamy is when individuals choose to open up their relationships outside of just one partner, both sexually and amorously. They emphasize the importance of communication, consent, and respect in ethical non-monogamous relationships. They debunk common misconceptions, such as the idea that ethical non-monogamy is a license to cheat, and highlight the need for emotional maturity and stability in relationships before opening them up. They also discuss the different types of non-monogamy, including polyamory, swinging, and relationship anarchy. In this conversation, Adelina Adler and Whitni discuss various aspects of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. They explore topics such as relationship anarchy, jealousy vs. envy, the importance of informed consent, and the need to challenge societal norms and expectations. They emphasize the importance of communication, autonomy, and respect in non-monogamous relationships. Adelina also shares insights on recovering from heartbreak, managing time and scheduling, and the need for self-care and self-reflection. They encourage listeners to educate themselves, question societal constructs, and create their own relationship scripts. Learn More from Adelina: https://www.askaddyadler.com Follow Adelina at: IG - @askaddyadler Tikok - @askaddyadler YouTube & Spotify - Sexplorations! With Adelina Adler Ko-fi - @askaddyadler Reach out to Whitni at: www.bde-moves.com Follow Whitni at: TikTok - @bdemoves IG - @bde.moves FB - groups/bdemoves YouTube - Podcast Channel = @BDE-Moves Old Channel = @BdeTalks
Check out our amazing discussion with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey, clinical psychologist and accredited GSRD therapist, as we discuss a multitude of topics around open relationships. Lori Beth walks us through the differences between polyamory, consensual nonmonogamy, and “dating around.” Her insight provides a lot of guidance in what to do if one partner in … Read more "S7. Episode 7: Opening the Relationship with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey"
Today on podDIVA we are returning to the Relationship Room, a safe place to discuss ideas that help us navigate interpersonal relationships, with a sprinkling of humour thrown in for good measure. Delicious. In this episode, your host and DIVA Magazine columnist Ali Hendry talks to D K Green – a Holistic psychotherapist; specialising in GSRD communities (Gender, Sex, & Relationship Diversity). Together they discuss Continuing Professional Development or CPD Holistic approaches to work and life Relationship DiversityHave you heard our top-rated ep? TheLWordGenQ with Rachel ShelleyOr listened to our 30 x 30 micro-casts? Celebrating 30 years of DIVA magazine and its community throughout the month of April 2024.Want to hear more of all things LGBTQIA? Grab your copy of DIVA's latest issue here.Edited and produced by Rachel Shelley with love and support from #TeamDIVApodDIVA: Queers for your Ears Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
For the 161st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey for the second episode in our special month of Pride programming. Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker, and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years of helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink/BDSM knowledgable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life. In today's episode, we discuss Dr. Bisbey's long career as a clinical psychologist for people living alternative lives, the common issues she sees in her practice, her unique identity and relationship status as a queer, consensually non-monogamous leather woman in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband, and some practical advice for anyone interested in exploring their fantasies or trying non-monogamy. For more from today's guest, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey: Follow Dr. Bisbey on Instagram @drbisbey Follow Dr. Bisbey on Twitter/X @drbisbey Check out Dr. Bisbey's Linktree linktr.ee/drbisbey Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Courtney is also teaching the writing and publishing intensive of your dreams this July. It's called Midsummer Pitch Party, and it will definitely take your writing practice to the next level and help you land those dream bylines. To join the fun, head to courtneykocak.com/teaching and use code PRIVATE for $100 off. Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Lume is a whole-body deodorant for pits, privates, and beyond. Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off your Starter Pack (that's over 40% off) with promo code PPU at lumedeodorant.com! #lumepod STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ppupod.com, click Lovehoney, and enter code Private at checkout. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Fleshlight is offering Private Parts Unknown listeners 10% off with code PRIVATE10. Go to ppupod.com, click Fleshlight, and enter code PRIVATE10 at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
For the sake of mutual safety, this episode is preceded by a content advisory regarding sexual trauma and minor-attracted persons. Please take care of yourself as you need, even if that means skipping this conversation. Your body belongs to YOU. I open with this power-stance of a statement because I didn't get that message as a child, adolescent, or young adult. In fact, I've only just begun to really grow into that knowledge as I heal from sexual trauma. Here's another a-ha! from this episode: healing takes time. I'm grateful to folks like Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey for repeatedly reminding me of these essentials. She has been a champion of sizzling sex without shame for 35+ years, and her work destigmatizes fetishes, BDSM, and non-monogamy. Lori Beth's healing journey also provides encouragement for survivors of sexual trauma alongside a healthy dose of reality. GUEST BIO Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey (she/her) is a psychologist, accredited advanced GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) therapist, sex & intimacy coach, author, speaker and tv personality currently starring in Open House: The Great Sex Experiment, CH4 in the UK. She has been working with people for the past 35 years helping them to create and sustain their ideal relationships containing sizzling sex without shame. She has a weekly podcast, The A to Z Of Sex® since 2016 and is currently touring the UK speaking about kink, fetish, BDsM, and non-monogamy. Celebrate our Anne-iversary and Win! We are celebrating Anne Remy's one-year anniversary as co-host of the show. Join us by leaving a review for Conversations With a Wounded Healer on Apple Podcasts. Tell us how and why you appreciate Anne's contributions to the show and you will be entered to win a drawing for a 1-on-1 session with Sarah or Anne. Sarah is offering the choice between business coaching or Reiki. Anne is offering the choice between yoga or travel consulting. Here's How: 1.) Go to https://ratethispodcast.com/woundedhealer 2.) Click the link for Apple Podcasts and follow the instructions. 3.) Take a screenshot of your review. 4.) Email the screenshot to sarah@headhearbiztherapy.com between March 6 - April 24, 2024. 5.) We will do a drawing and email the winners the week of April 24, as well as announce on social media May 1, 2024. Groups for Wounded Healers We're currently running one cohort of the Burnt Out Practice Owner support group and Authentic Leaders group. Please join the waitlists to be updated about future groups: Burnt Out Practice Owner Support Group Waitlist and Authentic Leaders Group - Fall 2024 Waitlist SUPPORT THE SHOW Conversations With a Wounded Healer Merch Join our Patreon for gifts & perks Shop our Bookshop.org store and support local booksellers Share a rating & review on Apple Podcasts *** Let's be friends! You can find us in the following places… Sarah's Website: www.headheartbiztherapy.com/podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HeadHeartBizTherapy/ Instagram: @headheartbiztherapy Anne's Website: www.spareroomwellness.com Instagram: @spareroomwellness
What are the pros and cons of watching porn? How can porn enhance someone's (sex) life, and how is it harmful? Is porn or sex addiction real? How might someone know they have an issue with viewing porn? What if I feel like porn is affecting my sexual and personal life and I want to work on it? Also, does the type of porn I watch matter? And if I once had an issue with porn does this mean I can never watch it again? The brilliant Gigi Engle answers all this and more. About our guest: Gigi Engle, ACS, COSRTreg., GSRD-accred., is a London-based, certified sex and relationships psychotherapist, sex educator and author of All The F*cking MIstakes. Her work regularly appears in many publications including Cosmo, Glamour, Men's Health, and Refinery29. In 2019, she was named Journalist of The Year at The Sexual Freedom Awards and in 2023, she was nominated for the XBIZ Sexpert of the Year award. Gigi's IG Gigi's TikTok Join us April 24th-29th, 2024 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Tulum! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Join us (for free!) in LA at the Vibe Expo January 12-13th, 2023. Register at: vibeshow.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at calm.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
Michael Kaye is the Director of Brand Marketing & Communications for Archer- a new dating app for gay men. He's here to give Stef & Wolf a glimpse into the world of online dating platforms- how sites are designed, how safety and inclusivity are prioritized, and how folks from under-represented gender, sexuality, and relationship communities can find friendship, connection, and love in cyberspace. There's someone out there for everyone- and Michael wants to help them find each other. Show notes on SecuringSexuality.com
This week I am joined by Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey. Dr. Bisbey is a psychologist, accredited advanced GSRD therapist, writer, podcast host, sex & intimacy coach, speaker, TV personality who has spent the past 35+ years helping people to create and maintain incredible relationships with sizzling sex and without shame. She is currently touring the UK with a talk called The Psychology of Fetish and Kink and starring in Open House: The Great Sex Experiment on Ch4 in the UK. We talk about: how to tell a partner what you're into (both new and long term partners); core relationship values and how to date with these in mind; desire and relationship style discrepancies; when to leave and when to stay when you and your partner want different things. Dr. Bisbey: https://drloribethbisbey.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media. Loving disclaimer: Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.
It is such an honor to welcome this week's guest onto LaidOPEN Podcast. Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey (@drbisbey) is a clinical psychologist, acclaimed sex/intimacy coach, author, podcast host, and GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity) therapist with over 30 years of experience. She's also the Specialist Relationship Therapist on the UK show “Open House: The Great Sex Experiment,” (you have to watch!) and host of the weekly podcast “The A to Z of Sex®.” In this episode, we talk about her journey moving from a trauma victim to a survivor and how she integrated her life into her work to help others step into joy and vibrancy in their own lives. Plus, we cover a variety of topics related to this including: the nuances of boundaries and consent inside powerplay BDSM relationships, learning to discern and listen to danger signals, healing PTSD and shame, and life after becoming a survivor. The episode ends with Dr. Bisbey breaking down the Four Parts Of Consent so have your pens handy, you'll want to take notes.
I am thrilled to have the sensational Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey in the hot seat straight from Channel 4. Psychologist, sex and intimacy coach, and accredited advanced GSRD therapist is here to spill the intimate secrets of the Psychology of Sex! Join us as we explore the psychology of kink and fetish and discover why it makes some folks squirm in their seats. Curiosity, shame, and anxiety will be on the menu, but fear not—Dr. Bisbey is the master of creating a safe space for everyone to embrace their true selves. Prepare to be blown away by the impact Dr. Bisbey has on lives. The standing ovations and tears of gratitude are proof of her superpowers as she helps individuals unlock their true potential. Brace yourself for a powerful conversation about capability and changing lives! We're going where few dare to venture: the land of sexual education. Get ready to be schooled on the sources of education in the field of sex. And hold your horses—Dr. Bisbey's gonna spill the tea on why it took her until her fabulous 40s to embrace her true self. Life lessons galore! We cover: Sex Drive Gender Differences AI / Sex Robots Polyamory / Monogamy Intersection of Kinks and Trauma Psychological effects of Pornography - both positive and negative And why "facials" do not boost sexual self esteem contrary to flawed research! Sponsors: Vybey This episode sponsored by Vybey. If you love this podcast - check out Vybey's Website! From £1.50p a meal you can buy their delicious products. Use “DBYD” for 15% off site wide! - www.vybey.co.uk New Life MMA If you're in Glasgow and have always been too scared to try a combat sport, New Life MMA can help. They offer Boxing, Muay Thai, Wrestling, and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu for beginners and pros. The team, led by ex-Pro MMA Fighter David Galbraith, will take care of you. Just mention my name when you go!
I'm so glad I got the chance to talk to Dr. Stefani Goerlich all about kink! So many misperceptions and taboos abound around this sexual topic and anytime we can dismantle discrimination and edify education, we all get healthier. Stefani Goerlich is an award-winning author of The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients, and the advance-practice sequel Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair. Stefani is an AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist and an expert in working with Gender, Relationship, and Sexuality Diversities as well as religious minority clients, and has over 15 years' experience in supporting survivors of domestic and sexual trauma. Describing herself as “building bridges between the margins and the mainstream,” Stefani has worked with high-risk young people, commercial sex workers, and survivors of human trafficking- among others. In addition to her work as The Society for Sex Therapy and Research's Diversity Chair, she is the founder of Bound Together Counseling, a boutique private practice based in Detroit, Michigan, where she offers Sex, Relationship and Mental Health therapy to members of the GSRD community, their partners, and their families; and co-founder of the Securing Sexuality podcast and conference which educates listeners about safe sex in a digital age by exploring the intersection of intimacy and technology. Stefani holds a Master's in Social Work from Wayne State University, where she specialized in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, earned her Post-Graduate Certificate in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan, and recently completed her PhD in Clinical Sexology. A member of the University of Michigan Sexual Health Certificate Program Teaching Faculty, she is a licensed Clinical Social Worker in Michigan, Ohio, and Arizona and is currently putting the finishing touches on her next book, With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect, coming in Fall 2023. You can follow Stefani on Instagram at @BoundTogetherCounseling and by visiting www.boundtogethercounseling.com or www.securingsexuality.com Intro ("Fisher's Hornpipe") and outro by Otter Creek Podcast edited by: Ashley Pacini
In this episode we GET REAL with special guest Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, joining us from the UK. Dr Lori Beth is a GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) therapist, sex & intimacy coach and psychologist whose expertise lies in working with individuals, couples, and groups to explore their sexuality, gender and relationship styles, discover a deeper level of sexual congruence, heal from past trauma, as well as create more meaningful, pleasurable, exciting, and authentic intimate relationships. Lori Beth helps us understand that doing the work with trauma doesn't mean it takes a lifetime to learn to love life again. This podcast is brought to you by Ethical Change Agency. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dr. Lori Beth Bisby is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London, England. Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life. Dr. Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®. You can find more here: DrLoriBethBisbey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We are all familiar with the typical marriage between a man and a woman and we all know the term LGBTQ. There are many forms of so-called “alternative relationships” that people are becoming more and more familiar with all the time. There is a fairly new term, GSRD. On this show, we'll discuss GSRD and what it includes and what it means with my guest, Dr Lori Beth Bisbey.
Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) therapist, sex & intimacy coach and psychologist whose expertise lies in working with individuals, couples, and groups to explore their sexuality, gender and relationship styles, discover a deeper level of sexual congruence, heal from past trauma, as well as create more meaningful, pleasurable, exciting, and authentic intimate relationships. Jump on the train at www.krazytrainpodcast.com and check out our youtube channel to watch some exclusive content!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We're nearing the end of Season 4 but I've still got some killer guests to bring on over the next couple of weeks!!! I am thrilled to bring this week's guest onto the show. You may have recognized her from Open House: The Great Sex Experiment on TV, calling in all the way from the UK, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey joins me this week on the show. An esteemed psychologist, GSRD (gender, sex, relationship, diversity) therapist, and polyamorous leatherwoman, Dr. Bisbey brings on a wealth of information and resources to the show. As a trained and knowledgeable professional in the field, Dr. Bisbey and I discuss authority transfer (and why it's no longer called power play anymore), power dynamics within relationships, clients and sex work, and the importance of being trauma-informed. It's a super packed episode that I'm sad we could only record for an hour but it's guaranteed you'll be walking away with some major takeaways. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: https://patreon.com/strippedbysia https://www.drloribethbisbey.com twitter.com/drbisbey instagram.com/drbisbey Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE on all podcast platforms! https://twitter.com/strippedbysia patreon.com/strippedbysia instagram.com/strippedbysia www.stephsia.com
Welcome to the Sex With My Ex podcast! Your hosts are Kitty and Johnson, and we can't wait to dive head first into all of the delicious, intriguing, funny and fun things that are sex. DK Green is an absolute WEALTH of knowledge as a psychotherapist, Shamanic practitioner, supervisor, mentor, advance accredited, advance trainer trained, associate lecturer and key note speaker for Pink Therapy specialising in GSRD subjects.In this episode we enter into the conversation of BDSM in truly the most delicious way possible.DK shares the practical description of what BDSM stands for- Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.And while there is so much in each of these areas of BDSM DK breaks down so eloquently the potential for growth, connection and exploration they each hold.He has had decades of experience with BDSM- particularly with leather (hence the nickname DK Leather) which is his absolute passion.For anyone completely new into their BDSM exploration DK gives some great tips for starting out. He shares this wonderful piece of wisdom- “the biggest erogenous zone we have is our brain and the toy we already have is our body.”He busts some common myths when it comes to Dom/Sub connections around consensual power exchange and a multitude of benefits that can come from it. DK also shares how there are often glimpses into BDSM in a lot of “vanilla” sexual interactions. It is not always all whips and chains!The conversations around exploring sensation play, in this episode, are so informative and give SO many ideas for either beginning or expanding your current experiences. From being able to use utensils around the home, to trying out sensations on different parts of the body and then info on some of the more advanced toys that can be used.We raise important points in this discussion around informed consent and radical responsibility when entering into BDSM and also about how powerful presence, open-mindedness and effective communication all are as tools for the best experience possible.DK shares so much from his own lived experience and work with clients around the lighter side of BDSM, as well as some psychology around other explorations such as age play, rape fantasies, intensive sensation play, rage play, needle play, medical play etc.CONNECT WITH DKWebsiteFacebookTwitterInstagramFetLifeSTUFF WE MENTIONEDThe Kink ParadoxCome and join our community of sex positive, eager to learn and beautiful listeners. Everyone is welcomeSubscribe here!WHERE TO FIND USOur Website InstagramTwitterFacebookPlease consider buying us a coffee to support the show and join our community of sexy Patrons by heading to our Patreon page.
Welcome to episode 286 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Gigi Engle to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss swinging, the way in which the media portrays swinging versus the reality and the importance of consent when exploring swinging. Gigi Engle, ACS, CSE, CSC, is an award-winning feminist author, certified sex educator, and psychotherapist in training. As a sex expert with ethical non-monogamy app, 3Fun, she promotes and teaches pleasure-based sex education, GSRD relationships, and safer sex practices. Gigi's work regularly appears in many publications including Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Teen Vogue, Glamour, and Women's Health. Her articles have been shared over 150 million times. In 2019, Gigi was named Journalist of The Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards. She is originally from Chicago and currently lives in London, UK. In this episode, you will hear: What is swinging? Looking at how people discover they're swingers The way in which the media portrays swinging versus the reality Why you shouldn't open your relationship to save your relationship The difference between swinging and polyamory How we receive a lot of sex negative messaging throughout our lives Where can people go to explore swinging? Looking at the dynamics of who initiates swinging The importance of consent when exploring swinging How single women tend to be better welcomed than single men Thank you to our Sponsor: Cozy Earth! Use code ‘Sexology' for 40% off. https://cozyearth.com/discount/SEXOLOGY Find Gigi Engle Online https://www.missgigiengle.com Sex Quiz for Women https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio
Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey – Managing Intersections: BDSM Authority Transfer Based Relationships and Non-MonogamyAir Date: Monday, 13 June 2022 at 8:00 PM ET/5:00 PM PTTuesday, 14 June 2022 at 9:00 AM SingaporeWatch the Livestream on the OMTimes Magazine Facebook, OMTimes Radio & TV Facebook, or OMTimesTV YoutubeBeing in an authority transfer-based relationship (BDSM-based power exchange) can be complex enough. Add non-monogamy into the mix, and maintaining a healthy, joyful relationships can seem so difficult. We will talk about what this intersection looks like, skills to make these relationships more likely to be successful, and what it is like to live full-time at the intersection of two alternative lifestyles. Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a psychologist, sex & intimacy coach, and accredited advanced GSRD (gender, sex, and relationship diversity) therapist who has been working with people for over 33 years, helping them create and maintain amazing relationships containing sizzling sex (and without the shame). She is the resident psychologist (aka Dr Lori) on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment, Firecracker Films, Channel 4 UK, the host of the long-running podcast, The A to Z of Sex®, and author of several books from self-help to erotic memoir to erotica. She identifies as a queer polyamorous leather woman and lives in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband, as well as having a number of other committed intimate relationships.#DrLoriBethBisbey #BDSM #ManagingIntersections #ErosEvolution #DrMarthaTaraLeeSocial media:Twitter and Instagram @drbisbeyFacebook: drloribethbisbeyLinkedIn: drloribisbeyTikTok: loribethukYouTube: Lori BisbeyPodcast: https://the-a-to-z-of-sex.captivate.fmWebsites: https://drloribethbisbey.com and https://atozofsex.comPromo/giveaway: I have a two new services: One is a 2 hour laser breakthrough session to help get unstuck with one issue. The code EROS will get a 25% discount. https://drloribethbisbey.com/private-coaching/The other service is my Ask a Question service. I started this because I have been overwhelmed by people wanting a personal answer to their situation since the show aired. Now you can ask a question and get an audio or video response from me or if you prefer ask a question and get an email response from me. https://drloribethbisbey.com/product-category/uncategorised/ Visit the Eros Evolution show page https://omtimes.com/iom/shows/eros-evolution/ Connect with Dr. Martha at http://www.eroscoaching.com/Subscribe to our Newsletter https://omtimes.com/subscribe-omtimes-magazine/Connect with OMTimes on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Omtimes.Magazine/ and OMTimes Radio https://www.facebook.com/ConsciousRadiowebtv.OMTimes/Twitter: https://twitter.com/OmTimes/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/omtimes/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/2798417/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/omtimes/
This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you. About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgeable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life. On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®.She's also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop/retreat facilitator, and sought after expert in the media on the topics of sex, relationship style, intimacy, and trauma. Dr. Bisbey is the author of Chopping Wood, Shaping Metal & Other Erotic Stories, Dancing the Edge to Reclaiming Your Reality: Essential Life Skills for Gaslighting (and Trauma) Survivors and Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival, and identifies as a queer consensually non-monogamous leather woman, and is in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband. To learn more, visit DrLoriBethBisbey.com. Twitter.com/drbisbey Instagram.com/drbisbey Facebook.com/drloribethbisbey TikTok.com/@loribethuk https://the-a-to-z-of-sex.captivate.fm For links to some of our favorite sponsors, click here Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
Dr Ronaye Calvert and Bindi Heit from LIVE Treatment Concierge Services are joined by special guest, Dr Lori Beth Bisbey for Can PTSD be cured? Living and loving life after trauma. Our guest: Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) therapist, sex & intimacy coach and psychologist whose expertise lies in working with individuals, couples, and groups to explore their sexuality, gender and relationship styles, discover a deeper level of sexual congruence, heal from past trauma, as well as create more meaningful, pleasurable, exciting, and authentic intimate relationships. In this groundbreaking episode, we explore: You are not your trauma Healing trauma doesn't mean it never happened Trauma therapy is not a life long process What to expect in trauma therapy How to find your joy and love life on the other side of traumatic experiences Songs - Dare you to move by Switchfoot, Rise by Katy Perry, This is me from The Greatest Showman Listen via Spotify playlist - GET REAL with Dr Ronaye Meditation - Let go of limiting beliefs This podcast is brought to you by Ethical Change Agency. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Joining me to discuss today's juicy topic is DK Green, a Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Speaker, and Author. He primarily works with GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity), CNM, kink, tantra, consensual non-monogamy, and sex workers both in his therapy room and as an educator. Our conversation revolves around the nuances of taboo depending on cultural and religious conditioning, and what is considered taboo in western civilizations. We talk about consensual non-consent sex, breath play, and the fantasies around incest, bestiality, scat golden showers, feet fetish. We also explore the intimate relationship between taboo and fantasy, role play, and the pleasure and turn-ons performing a sex act considered taboo. What You Will Learn In This Episode: - The broad spectrum of what people consider taboo in sex - The psychological minefield we enter when we allow ourselves to play with taboo - The three big no's in sex and why for some people it is a turn-on to play with them - The crucial role of negotiation and communication when playing with taboo in consensual sexual relations - How playing with taboo can be part of a healing process - The aftercare for the receiving, and the active component in fantasies like rape play or domination Leaving aside the three big no's of sex, the definition of taboo will be very different for a traditional married couple and for someone who is into kink. Still, the curiosity of playing with boundaries suggests a desire for exploration, and when we allow ourselves to explore, to move towards the new and unfamiliar, the closer we get to the juiciness of sex. Resources: - DK Green's Website http://www.dkgreen.com - Learn more about DK Green's offers https://linktr.ee/DKLeather - Connect with DK Green dkgreen1967@gmail.com - Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training - Book: Rebecca Lowrie - The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: 6 Weeks to Discovering and Embracing Your Full Sexual Self: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop/p/sexualalchemyjournalformen - The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop - Sign up for bi-weekly(ish) Love Letters straight to your inbox https://self-alchemy.activehosted.com/f/11 - Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/ - My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/ - My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/ - Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/ - Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/ - Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1 - Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/
At the young age of 19, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey, was exploring her sexual freedom in a relationship that went from fabulous to fearful. An exploration of BDSM turned into rape and even her death (she was thankfully revived) led to her to having to overcome PTSD and set her on the path to help others who suffer from sexual trauma, and issues around gender, sex, relationship, and diversity (GSRD). Listen now to find out more about creating a sex-positive identity. Don't miss these Highlights: Her journey into helping others take sex and conversations about sex out from the shadows and not feel ashamed about it Her podcast the A to Z of Sex opens up the discussion for a variety of topics including government regulations, fetishes, relationship and even answering questions written in by listeners The ability to tap into your sexual energy confidence in order to express your authenticate self as an entrepreneur Sharing her experiences through her novel, Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival As an entrepreneur, learning that being your open, authentic self may mean that people might not want to work with you, however, they were never your intended client to begin with About the Guest: Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is a psychologist, sex & intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast 30+ years helping people to create and maintain meaningful relationships with sizzling sex (without shame). She has specialities in the treatment of trauma and GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity). Her podcast, The A to Z of Sex has been running since 2016, exploring the erotic alphabet one letter at a time. https://drloribethbisbey.com/?fbclid=IwAR1efDghuyUpXB7azth69VgRcfU_XJodDZuaZPizJq3sRP3EsbwUDGPCEiM (https://drloribethbisbey.com) TikTok @loribethuk About the Host: Duff Gardner is an award-winning 7-figure marketer, startup founder and digital producer. Today, he leverages his 30+ years in a diverse range of businesses and his journey overcoming a series of out-of-the-blue panic attacks to help impact-driven entrepreneurs leverage the power of what he calls “startup thinking” to start, scale and serve in a big way. He is the host of the podcast Off My Duff - The Entrepreneur Podcast and Founder of the training company Offers that Sell. Duff holds an MSc. in Learning Sciences and Information Technology from Carnegie Mellon Silicon Valley, is a fierce advocate of LGBT+ rights and animal rescue, and lives in beautiful Victoria BC. His mantra is: “teach what you love, live from your truth”. http://www.offmyduff.com (www.offmyduff.com) Website - https://duffgardner.com/ (https://duffgardner.com/) Linked in - https://www.linkedin.com/in/duffgardner/ (https://www.linkedin.com/in/duffgardner/) Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/offmyduff (https://www.facebook.com/offmyduff) Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/duffgardner/ (https://www.instagram.com/duffgardner/) Twitter - https://twitter.com/offmyduff (https://twitter.com/offmyduff) Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/DUFFGARDNER/ (https://www.youtube.com/c/DUFFGARDNER/) Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.
On this episode we are joined by Katie Evans.Katie is an experienced therapeutic counsellor specialising in GSRD meaning gender, sexuality and relationship diversity, She is also professionally working with kink and sex worker communities. Katie talks with us about the various issued raised to her and methods of treatment including the importance of seeking counselling. We could have spoken to Katie all day! She is so knowledgeable on the many topics that she covers and we can clearly see how she is able to effortlessly put her clients at ease with her calm, warm disposition. Unfortunately we weren't able to produce a day long episode so this is shortened version for you.Katie runs The Mental Health Monster podcast and can be contacted through the below options.www.katieevanscounselling.co.uk Twitter & Instagram @KECounselling#counselling #therapist #gender #sexuality #relationshipdiversity #anxiety #depression #chemsex #depression #addiction #relationshipproblems #trauma #abuse #sexualissues #selfesteem #selfharm #loneliness #intimacy #identity #fetish #kink #suicidalideation #rape #sexualassault #feelingfemaleaf #womenshealth #knowyourcycle #menstruation #liverpool #periodpower #feminine #respectyourcycle #podcast #realwomen #podcasting #spotify #buzzsprout
Dominic Davies is the Founder & CEO of Pink Therapy an organisation he set up in the UK 21 years ago. He has worked as a Psychotherapist & Clinical Sexologist for almost 40 years specialising in working with Gender, Sex and Relationship Diverse clients. During this time he's seen a lot of changes to the evolution of human sexuality discussions including identity, , expression and how we think about these in our lives. He directs an international online training programme training the next generation of sex therapists to think more broadly about sex, pleasure and identity. He is a Fellow of both the National Council of Psychotherapists (NCP) and the National Counselling Society (NCS) the highest recognition these professional bodies offer, however, he is most proud of being awarded the Lifetime Achievement Award for Sexual Freedom in 2018. He loves cooking, eating and wine! www.pinktherapy.org www.pinktherapy.com Twitter: @PinkTherapyUK & @DominicDavies1 IG: PinkBoss2018
In this episode, we will talk all about trans sex. We will cover differing identities, bodies versus identities, attractions, desire, intersectionality.