The Real Stuff with Lucie Fink

Today, I'm sharing the jaw-dropping update to the catfish story I first told on the podcast which recently resurfaced as a viral video series across my social platforms. In this solo episode, I reveals the unexpected twist — an email from the girl who faked her own death and ghosted me for five years. I walk through the production of my 13-part storytelling series, reflect on monetization and meaning as a content creator, and read the real emails exchanged behind the scenes. (Including the follow-up emails she sent me that I never read aloud on social.)This episode is about truth, closure, boundaries, and what it means to turn something painful into something powerful. Plus: how I turned the story into a fundraising campaign for cancer research and the internet's mixed reactions along the way.To listen to the full story of how I was catfished, listen to this episode: https://youtu.be/hJ_GV5oWjM4 Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to Wellness Her Way, where we explore what it means to achieve true abundance in wellness and all aspects of our lives. Whether you're seeking physical growth, emotional balance, or simply a more fulfilling life, this podcast will guide you towards a true state of well being.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Alreen Haeggquist is a successful attorney and author who's made it her life's mission to advocate for women — but her journey to becoming that woman is one of the most harrowing stories we've ever heard.In this raw and deeply emotional conversation, Alreen shares her experience of being abused by her father (both emotionally and sexually), the silence that surrounded it within her large family, and the lifelong impact of her mother's silence. For decades, Alreen kept her story a secret…until the day she decided to write it all down.We talk about the trauma of secrecy, the physical toll of unspoken pain, how becoming a mother changed everything for her, and what healing actually looks like. Today, as a sexual harassment lawyer, Alreen helps others reclaim their voices, even as she continues to find hers.If you've ever questioned whether speaking out is worth the cost, this episode might just change your life.TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse and childhood trauma.Purchase Alreen's book, "Fired Up: Fueling Triumph from Trauma: https://amzn.to/3Hs3DgLFor more information & to contact Alreen, visit her website: https://www.alreen.com Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this emotional and empowering episode of The Real Stuff, I sit down with content creator, singer, and entrepreneur Daniela Legarda for a raw conversation about fame, family, and healing after unimaginable loss. Daniela opens up about the tragic and sudden death of her brother, Latin music artist Fabio Legarda, and how that moment changed the course of her life forever.From building a multi-million following online to navigating the pressures of being a Latina influencer, Daniela shares what it's really like to grieve in public, find spiritual meaning in signs from beyond, and reclaim your voice after trauma. She also talks about money, mental health, being sexualized online, and what it means to create content with purpose.Whether you're a fan of Daniela Legarda or looking for inspiration on turning pain into purpose, this episode is filled with heart, hustle, and healing.Follow Daniela:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielalegarda/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@danielalegardaoficialWatch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

At 26 years old, this audience caller thought she was building a life — trying for a baby, working for her husband's family business, and living in their shared home. But everything was a lie. In this anonymous caller episode, Lucie hears one of the most jaw-dropping divorce stories yet: a young woman tricked into thinking she was infertile while her husband was secretly preventing pregnancy for nearly a year. After losing her job, her house, her marriage, and even her dog, she found herself forced to rebuild from scratch. What follows is a raw, emotional, and ultimately empowering story about betrayal, resilience, and how rock bottom can sometimes be the start of everything.Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this explosive episode of The Real Stuff, Emma Paige finally shares more about her side of the podcast drama that has taken over TikTok, Instagram, and the podcasting world. As the co-founder of the hit podcast Unhinged, Emma opens up about how the show began, the rapid rise in popularity, and the shocking moment she was locked out, ghosted, and ultimately erased from her own platform.What started as a promising creative partnership turned into a public breakup filled with legal battles, emotional tolls, and questions about ownership, fairness, and the cost of internet fame. Emma takes us behind the scenes of her fallout with her former co-host, the controversial launch of Unbothered, and what she's learned along the way about business, boundaries, and betrayal.She reflects on launching her new podcast Too Much, the strength it took to rebuild from scratch, and why she believes it's so important to speak out — not just for herself, but for other creators navigating similar conflicts in today's fast-paced digital landscape.If you've been following this podcast drama or are curious about what really happens behind the scenes of a viral business feud, you do not want to miss this raw and revealing conversation.Follow Emma:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifeofemmapaige/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeofemmapaige Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/too-much/id1791347406 Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are you stuck in the hustle cycle and calling it ambition?In this powerful conversation, Lucie is joined by Amina AlTai, an executive coach, speaker, and author, to reframe everything you think you know about success, burnout, and self-worth. They dive into the roots of hustle culture, how childhood core wounds shape our work lives, and why marginalized communities face a different kind of pressure when it comes to “doing it all.”This episode covers:- The real difference between painful and purposeful ambition- How imposter syndrome is a systemic issue, not a personal one- Why your paycheck doesn't define your purpose- The “zone of genius” framework—and how to work in yours- Amina's Nourishment Meter: a tool for rebalancing work and life- How to make more money without losing your mind (or your health)Whether you're rethinking your career, struggling with burnout, or trying to find a deeper sense of alignment, this episode offers a compassionate, actionable roadmap to redefine ambition on your own terms.The Ambition Trap is available now wherever books are sold. Let's get Amina on the USA Today bestseller list! https://amzn.to/4mfEs0uWatch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Trigger warning: This episode contains discussions of mental health, anxiety, OCD, intrusive thoughts, and suicide. Please listen with care.Carrie Berk is a bestselling author who published 21 books before the age of 20, but behind the bubbly book covers and growing TikTok following, she was privately battling debilitating anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder. In this raw and deeply honest conversation, Carrie opens up about the moment her intrusive thoughts began to spiral, how a panic attack led to her OCD diagnosis, and what exposure therapy actually looked like for her. Lucie and Carrie also explore the pressures of growing up in the public eye, the impact of privilege on mental health, and what it means to be misunderstood online. Plus: the reality show experience Carrie rarely talks about and how bullying shaped both her inner world and her activism.If you've ever questioned your own thoughts, wondered if you were “going crazy,” or struggled to explain your mental health to friends, this episode is for you!Pre-order Carrie's new book, Mindfire: Diary of an Anxious Twentysomething here: https://amzn.to/44kC0j2Follow CarrieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/carrieberkk/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carrieberkk 00:00 introducing Carrie Berk02:10 becoming a published author at age 804:26 privilege and imposter syndrome9:03 being on a reality tv show11:03 dealing with online hate and bullying21:51 anxiety and OCD diagnoses25:04 examples of intrusive thoughts29:34 how therapy has helped her cope32:30 opening up to family and friends39:21 normalizing mental health struggles42:58 social media's impact on mental health46:11 Carrie's new book & future plansWatch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today on The Real Stuff, we're sharing two incredibly raw and powerful stories about navigating early menopause and fertility struggles at a young age. First, Katie opens up about being diagnosed with early menopause in her early 30s, right as she began the egg freezing process. After months of missed periods and three failed egg retrieval attempts, Katie was forced to grieve the future she thought she would have, all while grappling with hormonal replacement therapy, financial strain, and dating fears.Next, we hear from Mackenzie, who was diagnosed with Primary Ovarian Insufficiency (POI) at just 22 years old, two days after graduating from college. Her twenties have been consumed with fertility preservation, navigating over a dozen egg retrieval cycles, and leading a support group for others with rare reproductive health conditions.Together, Katie and Mackenzie share the emotional, physical, financial, and social toll of infertility diagnoses in their 20s and 30s. We discuss egg freezing, hormone replacement therapy, fertility preservation, perimenopause, reproductive health, the emotional impact on dating and friendships, advocating for yourself with doctors, and the silent grief that often accompanies fertility challenges.Whether you're thinking about egg freezing, curious about hormonal health after birth control, or simply want to better understand the realities of young women facing early menopause, this episode is an eye-opening and deeply empathetic conversation you won't want to miss.RESOLVE Infertility Support Groups: https://resolve.org/get-help/support-groups/Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Alexandra Gater was 25, riding high as the Home Editor at Chatelaine magazine, and creating a hit home makeover YouTube series until the morning she walked into work and got laid off. What could have been the end of her story turned into the beginning of something entirely her own.In this episode of The Real Stuff, Alexandra shares how she went from feeling devastated and directionless to launching her YouTube channel, landing a $25,000 brand deal that changed her life, and growing a full-fledged media company with 11+ employees. She opens up about the dark personal chapter she was navigating behind the scenes, the pressure of trying to “fake it ‘til you make it,” the mean-girl trolling she endured from fellow editors, and how she slowly built the self-confidence to bet on herself.Alexandra and Lucie also bond over their shared history in the digital media world and dig into what it felt like to leave behind a job that once felt like everything. Lucie opens up about her own exit from Refinery29 and how she knew it was time to move on from “Try Living with Lucie,” sparking a deeper conversation about identity, ambition, and trusting your gut.It's a candid conversation about losing your dream job, building something better, and what it really takes to grow through discomfort, even when you don't have it all figured out.Follow AlexandraInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandragater/?hl=enYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alexandragaterTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexandragater?_t=8goJbfFKKBR&_r=100:00 Lucie's opening thoughts01:44 how Lucie & Alexandra got connected03:13 our similar career paths06:20 Alexandra's layoff story08:14 the complications of being a corporate creative employee 13:09 the slow success of Try Living with Lucie14:25 why Lucie left Refinery2920:42 early brand deals23:32 the work it takes to start a YouTube channel27:24 a dark chapter in Alexandra's life35:02 dealing with negative comments from people you know52:10 deciding how personal to get online55:20 imposter syndrome & faking it until you make itWatch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this highly-requested solo episode, Lucie dives deep into her experience making adult friendships — specifically how she built a new social circle after moving from NYC to the suburbs. If you've ever wondered how to make new friends after 30, how to actually keep them, or how to balance your social battery with mom life, this one's for you. Listen for personal stories of how Lucie met her people in a place where she knew no one, the mindset shift that made it easier, and tips anyone can apply - whether you're in a new town or just craving deeper connections. The Happiness Lab Podcast episode I mentioned: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7Aon3Yu9KmFvr6PeZN0KqX?si=MjAm5I91R62XdX_ZrRGFCgWatch our episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX00:00 my situation & my new town04:54 friends I've made in different stages of life06:20 my first group of mom friends07:50 getting to know people in my new town before I moved there09:50 going on coffee dates with new people12:22 meeting my neighbor14:17 meeting people through Milo's school17:56 intimidating parts of moving to the suburbs & my mindset20:31 using WhatsApp22:00 getting to know Michael's friends' wives & people from other towns23:35 rekindling a high school connection24:31 playing tennis and starting a clinic25:48 meeting a local follower26:27 going from acquaintances to real friends27:09 finding common interests and doing shared activities33:01 being in friend search mode34:23 going on double dates36:16 what my social life looks like now37:59 how my job impacts my friendships40:25 tips to make new friendsTo apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpodFind Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfinkYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/Produced by Dear Media.Executive Producer: Cloud10See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Brett Fairley's story is going viral — millions are watching, commenting, and waiting for each new update as he unpacks this emotional and devastating saga of paternity fraud. And thanks to our connection to his girlfriend, Nurse Hadley, The Real Stuff had the chance to sit down with him for an exclusive interview…in real time…while it's all still unfolding.In this deeply raw conversation, Brett shares never-before-heard details and behind-the-scenes context about the woman who told him he was a father, the child he came to love, and the shocking truth that changed everything. From DNA tests to court orders to emotional manipulation, Brett walks us through every twist in a situation that has left the internet speechless. And he came with his RECEIPTS. This man has a binder of screenshots, text messages and more proving his case.This episode is not just about going viral. It's about betrayal, heartbreak, and the search for justice. Whether you've followed this story from the start or are just diving in, this is the conversation that fills in the blanks and leaves you thinking about what you would do in Brett's shoes.Follow Brett:https://www.tiktok.com/@brettfairley0 https://www.instagram.com/brettfairley/ Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgXTo apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Dear Media.Executive Producer: Cloud10See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

When “Laura” discovered her husband's sex addiction, it felt like her world cracked apart—over and over again. In this incredibly vulnerable and moving episode, our audience caller opens up to Lucie about the moment of disclosure, the letter that revealed everything, and how she's been piecing her life back together ever since.Laura shares what it's like to be married to someone battling an addiction that's misunderstood and stigmatized—even within recovery communities. From therapy and polygraphs to navigating triggers, broken trust, and spiritual growth, this is a story of devastation, resilience, and radical honesty.Whether you've experienced betrayal or are trying to understand the complexities of addiction in relationships, this conversation will challenge assumptions, break stigmas, and offer hope.Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Dear MediaExecutive Producer: Cloud10See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hadley Vlahos (known online as “Nurse Hadley”) is a hospice nurse, bestselling author, and storyteller who has spent nearly a decade caring for people at the end of their lives. In this emotional and eye-opening conversation, Hadley shares the profound lessons she's learned from her patients, what it means to navigate death with dignity, and how facing mortality has shaped her perspective on living.From her book The In-Between: Unforgettable Encounters During Life's Final Moments to her growing social media presence, Hadley opens up about the spiritual experiences she's witnessed, the surprising joys of hospice care, and the personal challenges she's faced — including her own divorce and navigating public scrutiny. Plus, Hadley dives into all the recent drama that's been going on surrounding her boyfriend and the woman who claims he's the father of her child.If you've ever wondered what people say in their final moments or how to find peace in the face of loss, this is an episode you won't want to miss.Follow Hadley:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nurse.hadleyTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nursehadleyBuy Hadley's book: https://amzn.to/4jc9RyKWatch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgXTo apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfinkYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfinkWebsite: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Dear Media.Executive Producer: Cloud10See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From Jar of Hearts to A Thousand Years to Only Human, Christina Perri continues to be an iconic household name. In this intimate one-on-one conversation with Lucie, Christina shares the real story behind her meteoric rise to fame, the heartbreak and healing that followed, and the profound transformation she's experienced as an artist and a mother. From her early days in LA to the moment “Jar of Hearts” aired on So You Think You Can Dance, Christina opens up about the whirlwind of overnight success, the toll it took on her mental health, the exact amount of money she made, and how she ultimately found clarity through sobriety. She reflects on the spiritual journey following the devastating loss of her daughtter, Rosie, and how motherhood reshaped her identity and career—including her new life as a children's book author. It's an emotional, honest, and beautifully human conversation about love, grief, purpose, and creating new dreams.This episode contains references to pregnancy loss that some listeners may find upsetting. Preorder Christina's picture book, A Thousand Years: https://amzn.to/4cb6hTdWatch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Dear Media.Executive Producer: Cloud10See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For some reason, sleep training has become one of the most controversial parenting topics out there. Everyone wants their baby to be sleeping well, but many people feel that “sleep training” automatically means “cry it out” and therefore opt out. In today's episode, we are breaking the silence and talking ALL THINGS baby sleep. I'm sharing exactly how we sleep trained our 2 babies and walking you (step-by-step) through the method that worked for us. I break down our personal experience, the challenges we faced, and how we got both of our kids sleeping through the night by 12 weeks old.Then, we bring in baby sleep expert Xan from MyBaby Sleepology to answer all of your burning questions: Is sleep training psychologically harmful? Does it really work for all babies? How do you handle regressions? Whether you're in the trenches of newborn sleep deprivation or just curious about different approaches, this episode is packed with insights, expert advice, and practical tips! I hope you enjoy it!!Twelve Hours' Sleep by Twelve Weeks book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0525949593/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_Q0MBBJZW1GB40WCRT1T1?linkCode=ml2&tag=luciefink-20Follow Xan: https://www.instagram.com/mybabysleepologyWatch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Dear Media.Executive Producer: Cloud10See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

When Molly became a certified foster mom, she knew her goal was adoption—but she never expected to become a mother overnight. With just 48 hours notice, she welcomed two toddlers into her home, instantly stepping into a life-changing role. In this episode, our anonymous audience caller shares her emotional journey through the foster care system, the unexpected challenges of instant motherhood, and the incredible bond she's built with her children. She opens up about the realities of solo parenting, the rollercoaster of emotions, and what she wishes more people knew about fostering to adopt.Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPE-N86t7eb2OgXTo apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ricky Bee went viral for doing what should be the norm—being a fully present, equal parent. But his journey to fatherhood wasn't exactly traditional. In this episode, Ricky gets real about everything: his unexpected path to becoming a dad, how social media changed his life, why men need to rethink their roles in parenting, and the realities of balancing work, partnership, and showing up for his kids. He opens up about grief, masculinity, and why he refuses to let old-school gender norms define his role as a father. If you've ever scrolled past his videos and thought, Why is the bar so low for dads?—this conversation is for you.Follow Ricky:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rickyxbee/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rickyxbee Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpodFind Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this audience caller episode, we asked listeners to share their wildest, most jaw-dropping in-law stories—and wow, did they deliver! From toxic mother-in-law meddling and boundary-stomping grandparents to financial disasters, cultural clashes, and men walking around without pants on (!!) this episode is packed with real, unfiltered stories that will make you rethink your own family dynamics. I chatted with three brave callers who reveal the most dramatic moments with their in-laws—one dealing with deeply ingrained racism, another navigating emotional manipulation, and a third facing financial chaos while living just steps away from her in-laws. Plus, I read some outrageous written submissions that prove you are not alone if you've experienced in-law struggles.Who should be responsible for maintaining in-law relationships? What happens when boundaries aren't respected? And what do you do when your father-in-law refuses to wear pants? Tune in and decide for yourself!Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: Lucie Fink (@luciebfink) Official | TikTokYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Executive Producer: Cloud10.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What's it really like to have a baby nurse? In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on my experience with Mattie—the baby whisperer who became family.From the moment she walked into our home, Mattie changed everything. She taught me how to care for my newborn, helped me recover postpartum, and even insisted I sleep (which, trust me, I needed). But hiring a baby nurse isn't all smooth sailing—it comes with big costs, the loss of privacy, and plenty of judgment from others.We're getting into all of it—the pros, the cons, and what it's like to have a stranger move in and help care for your baby in those early weeks. Plus, Mattie is here to share her unfiltered thoughts on the job, the industry, and the role she plays in so many families' lives.If you've ever considered hiring a baby nurse, wondered what they actually do, or just love a good behind-the-scenes look at new parenthood, this episode is for you!Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to Season 2 of The Real Stuff—and we're kicking things off with some BIG news: The Real Stuff is now part of the Dear Media network! This move means exciting things for the podcast—bigger guests, new opportunities, and even more ways to connect with you, our amazing listeners. To start the season, I'm bringing you an episode that's as personal as it gets. My mother-in-law, Sharon, joins me for an open and honest conversation about our relationship—the good, the awkward, and the boundaries that make it work. We dive into everything: how we first met, her real thoughts about me in high school, setting boundaries as new parents, and why she never felt like she was "losing her son." We even address the classic MIL/DIL stereotypes and why ours doesn't fit the mold. The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: https://amzn.to/4jU6xtm  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Dear Media. Executive Producer: Cloud10 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Life is full of highs and lows, and in this episode, we're diving into *the real stuff*—the storms that people are weathering right now. I asked my audience to leave voicemails sharing what they're struggling with, and today, we're hearing from 26 people from all over the world. From infertility to grief, career struggles to anxiety, these stories remind us that we're never as alone as we might feel. This episode isn't about comparing struggles—it's about connection. It's about listening with an open heart, recognizing that hardship looks different for everyone, and finding solace in shared experiences. I hope you walk away from this conversation with a deeper sense of empathy and maybe even a little more peace in knowing that we're all navigating life's ups and downs together. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this deeply personal episode, an audience caller named Hailey shares her journey through a partial molar pregnancy. This rare and complicated condition not only resulted in the loss of her pregnancy but also carried a frightening risk of cancer. Hailey opens up about the moment she realized something was wrong, the emotional and physical challenges she faced, and how she navigated the weeks of uncertainty that followed. My intention behind sharing Hailey's story is not to make anyone fearful but to create a space where stories like hers can help others feel less alone. Whether you're dealing with a rare condition or a more common struggle, this episode is a reminder that you're not the only one facing challenges. Join us as we explore Hailey's inspiring resilience, the lessons she's learned along the way, and the power of sharing our most vulnerable experiences to connect and heal. Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions about pregnancy loss and medical complications. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this solo episode, I'm taking you behind the scenes of one of the biggest transitions in my life: moving from the hustle and bustle of NYC to the slower-paced suburbs. From navigating the financial realities of buying a home to managing the mental load of uprooting our family, I'm sharing all the highs, lows, and surprises that came with this move. I'll also reflect on how this shift has changed our daily lives, my perspective on community, and what I've learned about myself in the process. Whether you're dreaming of a suburban life, curious about the transition, or just love a good life update, this episode is for you! Sponsors:  Naväge: Order the new Naväge Baby Aspirator and Inhaler today at Navage.com/REALSTUFF. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I'm joined by an audience caller named Makayla who has a jaw-dropping story that sounds like it's straight out of a movie. At just 17, she found herself in a relationship with a 27-year-old man that ended in an unforgettable—and terrifying—car chase with her boyfriend's other girlfriend. Together, we dive into the complexities of age-gap relationships, the power dynamics at play, and the lessons she learned about self-worth, intuition, and safety. This episode explores the risks young people face when dating older partners, the myths around maturity, and the importance of recognizing red flags early on. It's a story of danger, resilience, and personal growth that raises crucial questions about how we support and protect young people navigating relationships. Sponsors:  Loftie: Head to ByLoftie.com and use code REALSTUFF20 to get 20% off orders over $125. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, I'm sitting down with someone who has completely blown my mind — Hayley Arceneaux. You might know her as the youngest American to ever go to space and the first astronaut with a prosthetic limb. But what you may not know is that Hayley's journey started as a childhood cancer patient at St. Jude, and today, she's a physician assistant at the very same hospital that saved her life. We talk about everything from how Hayley processed the life-changing call inviting her to join SpaceX's Inspiration4 mission, to what it was like going to space and coming back to Earth, and how she conquered her fears along the way. If you're looking for inspiration to dream bigger or just want to know what it's really like to be an astronaut, this episode is going to stick with you. Follow Hayley: https://www.instagram.com/hayleyarc  Hayley's Books: Wild Ride: A Memoir of I.V. Drips and Rocket Ships https://amzn.to/3PKgtI9 Wild Ride (Adapted for Young Readers): My Journey from Cancer Kid to Astronaut https://amzn.to/4gIeekn Astronaut Hayley's Brave Adventure (PRE-ORDER) https://amzn.to/4gHXA4i  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  Sponsors:  Loftie: Head to ByLoftie.com and use code REALSTUFF20 to get 20% off orders over $125. Naväge: Order the new Naväge Baby Aspirator and Inhaler today at Navage.com/REALSTUFF. To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, I'm joined by my best friend and former Refinery29 colleague, Lauren Magenta, for a heartfelt conversation about friendship, careers, and the power of women supporting women. Lauren and I reflect on the early days of our careers—sharing how transparency around salaries and a refusal to let competition get in the way helped both of us grow. We also dive into what it's like navigating the different stages of life, from climbing the career ladder to becoming moms, and how we've stayed each other's biggest cheerleaders along the way. Plus, Lauren shares her approach to setting meaningful goals for the new year, her perspective on finding balance between ambition and motherhood, and the lessons we've learned about showing up for ourselves and each other. Whether you're looking for a boost of inspiration as we enter into a new year or simply love hearing two best friends catch up, this episode is for you. Follow Lauren: https://www.instagram.com/laurenmagenta/ Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we have an unforgettable episode of the show as we sit down with two of my favorite people in the world — my brother Robbie and my twin sister Allie, to explore the unique dynamics of our sibling bond. I took to my Instagram stories to gather questions that you wanted answered and we even snuck in a game of "who's most likely to" before signing off. In this episode, we reflect on our special individual connections, highlighting the mutual admiration, creativity, and shared experiences that have shaped our closeness. From heartfelt compliments to nostalgic anecdotes, we explore the balance of intelligence, kindness, and normalcy within our family. We touch on sibling rivalry, the influence of our parents in fostering our strong connection, and the importance of maintaining these relationships while aiming to cultivate similar bonds in our future families. As we navigate significant life changes, we discuss the complex emotions and dynamics that arise when siblings reach major events at different times. We also address the idea of comparison between siblings, especially in relationships and personal milestones, and the invaluable support we provide each other during difficult times. Tune in for a heartfelt and engaging conversation that beautifully captures the essence of our sibling connection along with some unforgettable stories from our childhood. Original airdate: June 25, 2024 Follow Robbie here: https://www.instagram.com/robjfink  Follow East Love here: https://www.instagram.com/eastlovemusic  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Becoming a family of four has been an incredible journey, and in this episode, I'm sharing all the behind-the-scenes details of how we helped Milo transition from being an only child to becoming a big brother. From preparing him during my pregnancy to navigating his emotions after Coco's arrival, we dive into the highs, the challenges, and everything in between. I'll share what worked, what didn't, and the lessons we're still learning as we adjust to life with two kids. Whether you're preparing for a new addition to your family or just curious about sibling dynamics, this episode is full of relatable insights and heartfelt moments. Sponsor:  Naväge Baby - go to Navage.com/REALSTUFF to order the new Naväge Baby Aspirator and Inhaler today! Products mentioned: Magic Water Gel Kit: https://amzn.to/3ZRW6hG I Am a Big Brother: https://amzn.to/3D8UxmG Big Brothers Are the Best: https://amzn.to/3OTCjbK Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder what goes on behind the scenes of a content creator's business? In this episode, I'm joined by my content producer, Alyssa Rosand, to pull back the curtain on how we create, plan, and execute everything from social media posts to podcast episodes. We start by diving into the hiring process—how Alyssa's application letter caught my attention, what I was looking for in an employee, and why I knew she was the perfect fit for my team. I also reflect on my history of hiring for my business and how I've learned to build a team that helps bring my vision to life. From our day-to-day workflow to the creative process, we share how we balance the chaos of managing a personal brand, and Alyssa dishes on what it's really like working in the fast-paced world of digital content. Whether you're curious about the hiring side of the business or just want a glimpse of how it all comes together, this episode is packed with insights and behind-the-scenes moments. Sponsor:  Jenni Kayne - go to jennikayne.com and use promo code REALSTUFF15 for 15% off your first order! Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this bonus episode, I'm sitting down with my lactation consultant, Lauren Horowitz, APRN, IBCLC to dive deep into my feeding journey with baby Coco and how it compares to my experience with Milo. I'll walk you through everything—from triple feeding with my firstborn to developing a strategy I call "breastfeeding light" the second time around. I'm sharing the challenges, lessons learned, and how I achieved my goal of nursing just twice a day with baby Coco. Throughout the episode, Lauren shares tips for new moms, troubleshooting tongue ties, managing oversupply, and building a plan that works for you. Whether you're a new parent, expecting, or just curious about the ins and outs of breastfeeding, this episode is full of practical advice and real-life insights! Sponsors:  Naväge: Order the new Naväge Baby Aspirator and Inhaler today at Navage.com/REALSTUFF  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special bonus episode, I'm diving into my unforgettable experience attending Taylor Swift's Eras Tour in Toronto with my dad, Jimmy Fink. From navigating the ticket madness to choosing our best Swiftie outfits, the entire journey felt like being part of something larger than life. I reflect on the emotional rollercoaster of seeing Taylor live, the chants and rituals that make the tour a cultural phenomenon, and the overwhelming joy of sharing it with my dad. Tune in for all the details—yes, including how much these spontaneous tickets cost—and why this night will forever hold a special place in my heart. Sponsors:  Find your forever pieces @jennikayne and get 15% off with promo code REALSTUFF15 at jennikayne.com/REALSTUFF15! #jennikaynepartner Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As we gear up for season 2, I wanted to hop on the mic to share some thoughts that come to mind with Milo's 3rd birthday coming up! In this bonus episode, I reflect on three transformative lessons I've learned in my first three years as a mom. From discovering the resilience and adaptability of parenthood to embracing the beautiful messiness of life with little ones, I'm sharing candid insights into how motherhood has shaped my perspective. Whether you're a new parent or years into the journey, this episode offers relatable moments and thoughtful takeaways for anyone navigating the chaos and joy of raising children. Sponsors:  Loftie: Go to ByLoftie.com and use code REALSTUFF20 to get 20% off orders over $125. Terms apply, this offer excludes bundle packages. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode contains a reference to suicide that some listeners may find upsetting. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out immediately to the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.  In the first audience caller episode of The Real Stuff podcast, join us for a heartfelt journey into the complex world of parenthood and relationships. We're breaking new ground by bringing our audience into the conversation, featuring personal stories that reveal the profound impact a new baby can have on a couple's life. From the dissolution of partnerships to the strengthening of bonds, our guests share their raw and diverse experiences. We navigate through the euphoria and the turmoil, presenting an honest look at how children can both test and transform the relationships of their parents. We'll explore the multifaceted challenges that can arise in post-baby marriages, including the strains of postpartum depression, diverging parenting styles, infidelity, and more. We'll unravel the importance of maintaining connection, the hurdles in seeking quality time, and the resilience required to co-parent effectively through separation. Each story guides us through the emotional extremes and provides solace in the shared struggles of parenthood. Original airdate: 2/6/2024 Find Isabella on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isabellaeisenmann/  Sponsors:  Jenni Kayne: Find your forever pieces @jennikayne and get 15% off with promo code REALSTUFF15 at jennikayne.com/REALSTUFF15 #jennikaynepartner Loftie: Go to ByLoftie.com and use code REALSTUFF20 to get 20% off orders over $125. Terms apply, this offer excludes bundle packages. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this solo episode, I open up about my (chaotic) life as a mom of two and the unique challenges and joys that come with it. From the initial transition period to navigating postpartum recovery, I reflect on the mental and physical differences between my first and second experiences. I discuss my unexpected breastfeeding journey, managing overstimulation with a full house, and how my approach to parenthood has evolved over time. Tune in as I share the beautiful chaos of these early days, the lessons I'm learning along the way, and a few personal stories that perfectly capture this new season of motherhood. Sponsors:  Magnetic Me: New customers will get 15% off their first order at Magneticme.com today! Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Emily DiDonato is a supermodel and influencer who has captivated millions with her stunning looks and down-to-earth personality. In this episode, Emily opens up about her journey from a modest upbringing to financial independence, sharing the pressures and unexpected blessings that shaped her modeling and influencer career. She delves into the challenges of balancing motherhood and professional ambitions, the personal impact of a recent miscarriage, and her evolving perspectives on body image, self-worth, and life in the suburbs. This raw conversation sheds light on the complex emotions of postpartum life, navigating societal expectations, and finding personal fulfillment in a world that constantly demands more. Sponsors:  Find your forever pieces @jennikayne and get 15% off with promo code REALSTUFF15 at jennikayne.com/REALSTUFF15! #jennikaynepartner Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In part 2 of my birth story episode, I start from the moment Michael and I arrived at the hospital. I had an incredibly positive and enjoyable labor & delivery experience with only a *touch* of trauma.

This week, I'm sharing my full *positive* birth story for baby number 2…our daughter Colette (aka baby Coco). In part 1, I take you through the final weeks of pregnancy, my efforts to naturally induce labor, and the emotional rollercoaster leading up to her arrival. From the pelvic pain that had me convinced she'd be here early, to the decision to go to the hospital on the night she was born, this episode covers it all - including a few unexpected twists and turns along the way. Stay tuned for part 2 tomorrow where I'll dive into the entire labor & delivery experience starting at when we arrived at the hospital! Sponsor:  Magnetic Me: New customers will get 15% off their first order at Magneticme.com today! Watch this episode in video form on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join us for a compelling and heartfelt conversation with Jordan Younger, also known as the Balanced Blonde and host of the Soul on Fire podcast. In this episode, Jordan opens up in detail about her extraordinary experiences during her second pregnancy for the first time outside of her paid Substack. Jordan reflects on her first pregnancy with her son Atticus, which was impacted by her health struggles of autoimmune conditions, Lyme disease, and mast cell activation syndrome, and how it compared to the horrific pain she experienced during her second pregnancy. Her candid recounting provides a raw and unique perspective on the darker side of pregnancy, emphasizing the importance of sharing diverse stories. Follow Jordan: https://www.instagram.com/thebalancedblonde/   Sponsors:  Acorns: Head to acorns.com/realstuff or download the Acorns app to start saving and investing for your future today. Quince: Go to Quince.com/realstuff for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Hello Fresh: Get 10 FREE meals at HelloFresh.com/freerealstuff  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX  To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: Lucie Fink (@luciebfink) Official | TikTok YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we tackle the often-overlooked topic of gender disappointment. This emotional and candid episode unpacks the feelings of sadness some parents experience when the sex of their baby is not what they had hoped for. In today's episode, we clarify the distinction between sex and gender, and then through listener stories, we reveal the diverse reasons behind these feelings and acknowledge the sensitivity of this subject for those struggling with infertility. By examining these emotional landscapes, we aim to normalize these feelings and offer support to listeners, reassuring them that they are not alone in their experiences. Sponsors: Hiya: Go to hiyahealth.com/REALSTUFF for 50% off your first order. Magnetic Me: New customers will get 15% off their first order at Magneticme.com today! Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX   To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod  Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After watching a YouTube video by Suzanne Vanker titled "30-Something Women Are Having an Identity Crisis," I had so many thoughts I wanted to share on the challenges women face in balancing careers and motherhood. Suzanne's views, which advocate for women stepping back from work while their children are young, sparked some deep conversations with Michael and led me to explore the importance of choice and the varied experiences of modern working parents, especially mothers. In this episode, I get into how I manage to be a present mother and a passionate business owner and how difficult it can be to find balance while carrying a heavy mental load. Sponsors: Hiya: Go to hiyahealth.com/REALSTUFF for 50% off your first order. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX      To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod   Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if you could turn your passion project into a thriving career? Join us as we chat with Carly Riordan (aka @carly), one of the earliest fashion bloggers. Carly started her blog (“Carly the Prepster") as a creative outlet during her freshman year of college and has built a thriving business for herself as a full-time fashion and lifestyle influencer ever since. Her story is not just about financial success but also about the resilience and authenticity it takes to continue to share her life online. She walks us through her transition from a tech startup role to full-time blogging, which took place at a time before being a digital creator was proven to be successful. Carly also shares her personal battles with trolls, the emotional toll it takes to receive negative comments, and the steps she has taken to protect her mental health. Carly's candid reflections offer a profound look into the life of a digital influencer, making this episode both enlightening and deeply moving. Sponsors: Magnetic Me: New customers will get 15% off their first order at Magneticme.com today! Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX      To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod   Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When Michael and I tied the knot, we made a conscious decision to skip the prenup and combine our finances fully, viewing everything as a collective "ours." This episode of The Real Stuff podcast delves into our personal journey with shared finances and offers a peek into the intricate dance of handling expenses and investments as a united front. We also open the floor to our audience, inviting callers to share their unique financial setups with their partners. From prenuptial agreements and separate accounts to fully combined finances, these stories provide a rich tapestry of how couples manage money together. Above all, we discuss the importance of trust and communication as we explore the many ways couples navigate their financial lives. Sponsors: Hiya: Go to hiyahealth.com/REALSTUFF for 50% off your first order. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod    Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink   Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the biggest adventure of your life was just beginning? Join us for a heartfelt and candid conversation as my husband Michael and I open up about our journey to parenthood. After more than 30 episodes, Michael is finally here with me to share the real emotions, challenges, and joys that came with expecting our first child. We discuss everything from the excitement and naivety of pregnancy to the mental preparations, including his insightful decision to see a therapist before Milo's arrival. We reflect on maintaining personal identity amidst the demands of family life and preparing to welcome a second child. Ultimately, this episode celebrates the beauty and bittersweet nature of parenting, sharing heartfelt memories and the deep gratitude we feel for our growing family.  Sponsors: Green Chef: Go to greenchef.com/realstuffclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass!  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX     To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod    Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink   Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Baby #2 is almost here! I'm currently in that weird stage where I could go into labor in two hours, two days, or two weeks (or more!)! In today's episode, I talk about how I'm feeling physically, what I've been doing to try to bring on labor naturally, and how I'm winding down as I prepare for maternity leave. Keep an eye on my Instagram to see when our baby girl makes her big arrival! Sponsors: Green Chef: Go to greenchef.com/realstuffclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass!  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX     To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod    Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink   Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when a content creator decides to redefine the influencer space with an innovative approach? Today on the pod we have Valeria Lipovetsky, the trailblazing content creator behind Valeria Inc., who joins us for a captivating discussion on how she's transforming the influencer landscape. From her busy summer balancing trendy baking hobbies with the demands of motherhood and entrepreneurship, to revisiting her early years in Russia and Israel, Valeria's journey is one of resilience and transformation. We explore the evolving landscape of content creation, the significance of personal connections in brand partnerships, and the delicate balance of parenting in the age of social media. Join us as we uncover the unique approach and unwavering confidence that drives Valeria's success in the creator economy. Sponsors: Hiya: Go to hiyahealth.com/REALSTUFF for 50% off your first order. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod    Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink   Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today's guest is someone who I instantly gravitated towards as soon as I found her online. April Lockhart is a fashion and lifestyle content creator and a disability advocate. In today's episode, April opens up about her journey of embracing her limb difference in her late 20s and how it has shaped her online persona. We also discuss April's transition from a corporate career to becoming a full-time content creator, the financial leap involved, and her decision to join Digital Brand Architects. We touch on the importance of quality content, maintaining integrity, and how her unique perspective enhances opportunities in the content creation space. April's journey is an inspiring narrative of resilience, creativity, and self-acceptance, offering valuable insights for anyone navigating a difference.  Sponsors: Babbel: Get up to 60% off your Babbel subscription at Babbel.com/LUCIEFINK  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod    Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink   Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Heartbreak isn't just reserved for romantic relationships—friendship breakups can be just as devastating. Join us as we unravel the poignant story of our audience caller, "Izzie," whose former best friend published a novel based on their friendship that included intimate details of Izzie's childhood, family, and past trauma. We'll tackle the invasion of privacy, the blending of real and fictional events, and the deep scars left behind. From dissecting accurate childhood memories to confronting hurtful fictional incidents, Izzie's reflections offer a nuanced perspective on identity, authenticity, and the delicate balance of maintaining personal boundaries in friendships. Tune in for a compelling conversation on navigating betrayal and finding closure amidst public exposure. Sponsors: Dreamland Baby: Go to dreamlandbabyco.com and enter my code REALSTUFF at checkout to receive 30% off pajamas + free shipping. To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod    Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink   Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When I first received Chiara's email, I had no idea how profoundly her story would affect me – in so many ways. The emotional rollercoaster of uncovering the layers of this particular fan interaction brought to light the complexities of online interactions and the importance of setting boundaries. This experience has taught me so much, and I hope sharing this journey will resonate with other creators and audiences alike.  Sponsors: Green Chef: Go to greenchef.com/realstuffclass for 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass!  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod    Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink   Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today on the pod we have creator and host of the very successful We Met at Acme podcast, Lindsey Metselaar. We discuss her family's financial situation and how people on the internet have made incorrect assumptions about how she grew up. Lindsey candidly shares about how she's overcome addiction and how that has impacted her recent journey into motherhood. From finances to fertility, Lindsey's story is a testament to resilience and growth, offering heartfelt insights and practical advice along the way. Sponsors:  Dreamland Baby: New and existing customers can go to dreamlandbabyco.com and enter code REALSTUFF at checkout to receive 30% off pajamas + free shipping.  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod   Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When Jess approached me in the elevator of our New York City apartment building nearly a decade ago, neither of us could have imagined the beautiful friendship that would blossom from that moment. Over the years, I've seen Jess transform as a person and a mother, especially when her second daughter was born with Down syndrome. This diagnosis came as a surprise at birth after genetic testing gave no indication of chromosomal abnormalities and it completely changed the course of Jess's life. She has since become the co-founder of Extra Lucky Moms, a space for parents of children with disabilities, and is a fierce advocate for this community. In today's episode, Jess completely opens up as we push past the comfortable questions and get into the taboo topics you'd struggle to ask the parent of a child with disabilities. Sponsors:  Babbel: Get up to 60% off your Babbel subscription at Babbel.com/LUCIEFINK  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX   To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod   Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/  Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices