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Essentially YOU is a podcast for leaders who want to learn to do less better. Together, we will focus on what's essential in life to enjoy more purpose, passion, and progress.

Mark L. Mathia


    • May 31, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 6m AVG DURATION
    • 256 EPISODES


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    Conquer Fear and Unlock Your Potential

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2025 9:16 Transcription Available


    Welcome to Essentially You, where we ignite your strengths, shatter limits, and unlock a life of bold impact. In this week's episode, hosted by Mark Mathia, we dive into the theme of fear—a thief of courage, dreams, and joy—and how it affects both personal and professional lives. Mark discusses the high cost of fear in detail, using real-life examples from figures like Oprah Winfrey and J.K. Rowling, who turned fear into fuel for their successful journeys. You'll learn practical strategies to break free from the shackles of fear and step into your God-given potential by leveraging strengths-based coaching and positive psychology. Discover how to identify your fears, challenge negative thought patterns, and take small, brave steps towards your goals. By building a supportive community and drawing on your faith, you can transform fear into a growth opportunity that propels you toward your dreams. Are you ready to face your fears and live a life of effortless leadership and fierce dreaming? Tune in to learn how!

    Unlocking Leadership Excellence: Following Leaders Who Matter

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2025 9:24 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where high-achieving leaders come to elevate their impact and uncover their true potential. In this episode, host Mark Mathia explores the critical question: are you following a leader worth your trust? Discover three essential questions to assess your leader's influence and determine if they empower and inspire you. Through real-world insights and transformational coaching, learn how to navigate challenging leadership dynamics and make informed choices for your personal and professional growth. Whether it's staying or moving on, find the courage and clarity to lead yourself first and create a legacy of excellence.

    From Corporate Comfort to New Beginnings: Five Steps to Rising Stronger

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2025 10:00 Transcription Available


    Join host Mark Mathia in this inspiring episode as he shares his personal journey of leaving a corporate job to pursue his passion for coaching and consulting. Mark discusses the emotional and mental challenges of this transition and presents a powerful five-step roadmap to help listeners navigate career changes with confidence and purpose. Discover how to acknowledge your emotions, reframe your mindset, rebuild your confidence, network intentionally, and take action towards your next adventure. Whether you're at a career crossroads or seeking personal growth, this episode offers actionable insights to elevate your journey.

    Unlocking the Secret to Excellence with Ben Folds

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2025 8:08 Transcription Available


    In this episode of "Essentially You," host Mark Mathia reflects on an inspiring evening listening to the legendary Ben Folds perform with the Omaha Symphony. Discover how Folds' masterful blend of witty lyrics, virtuosic piano, and orchestral depth creates a unique experience of excellence. Mark shares three key takeaways from the exceptional performance that anyone can apply in their journey toward excellence: honing your craft relentlessly, connecting with authenticity, and collaborating to elevate those around you. Whether you're a leader, artist, or professional, learn how to leverage your strengths and inspire greatness in others.

    "Mastering Leadership: The Art of Slowing Down with Disney's Secrets"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2025 10:00 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where high-achieving leaders gather to elevate their impact, amplify their influence, and unlock their full potential. In this episode, host Mark Mathia delves into the importance of slowing down to enhance effectiveness, inspired by the meticulous experience design of Disney. Through a personal story of navigating work pressure, Mark illustrates how deliberate pacing, backed by positive psychology practices, can foster clarity and creativity. Discover three practical strategies to anchor your mornings, focus your work sessions, and celebrate wins to build resilience. Tune in to learn how these mindful approaches can transform your leadership and personal growth journey.

    Weathering Life's Storms with Strength and Belief

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2025 8:16 Transcription Available


    Join host Mark Mathia in this inspiring episode of the Essentially You podcast, where we explore the profound lessons from life's storms and the power of belief. Dive into the reflection on Psalm 27, a timeless poem offering insights into facing fear and uncertainty. Learn how to hold onto hope, trust in yourself, and embrace hard work to turn challenges into opportunities for growth. Discover the importance of combining faith with actionable steps to create a legacy of strength and resilience. Whether you're navigating personal crises or professional setbacks, this episode empowers you to elevate your impact and keep moving forward with clarity and courage.

    Rising Stronger: The Easter Resilience Blueprint

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2025 9:29 Transcription Available


    Join Coach Mark Mathia in this transformative episode of the Essentially You podcast as he explores the powerful lessons of resilience inspired by the Easter story. Delve into the journey of personal growth and transformation, overcoming challenges, and driving meaningful change. Discover five essential steps to build resilience and unlock your potential, using fresh insights and data from 2025 to guide your path. This episode is an invitation to rise together, harnessing resilience as a community and elevating your moments, every day.

    When Your Vision Outgrows You: Embracing the Entrepreneur's Moment

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2025 10:49 Transcription Available


    Welcome to "Essentially You," the podcast designed for high-achieving leaders aiming to elevate their impact and influence. In this episode, Coach Mark Mathia explores the critical moment when your business or career outpaces your personal growth and how to transition into greatness without losing your core vision. Through inspiring stories of entrepreneurs like Sarah, who turned her passion for baking into a thriving business, and insights from Mark's own leadership journey, learn how to identify the signs of being a bottleneck, feeling energetically drained, and having a vision that outstrips your skills. Discover the importance of clarifying your 'why', building trust with your team, and redefining success beyond control towards meaningful impact. This episode offers practical advice and self-reflective questions to help you transition smoothly and empower your team to achieve greater heights.

    Unlocking Happiness: Lessons from the World's Joyful Nations

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2025 9:31 Transcription Available


    In this episode of Essentially You, host Mark Mathia delves into the 2025 World Happiness Report, exploring the secrets behind the world's happiest countries and how their joy can be replicated in our own lives. Discover the three key factors that contribute to national happiness and learn six practical ways to enhance your own joy, irrespective of where you call home. Through engaging anecdotes and actionable insights, this episode empowers you to take control of your happiness journey.

    Wake-Up Call for Office Egos: Transforming Chaos into Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2025 9:56 Transcription Available


    Welcome to "Essentially You" with Coach Mark Mathia, where we delve into the heart of effective leadership by examining the stories that shape us. This episode focuses on ego-driven chaos in the workplace, illustrated by the character "Dave"—a manager blind to the havoc his ego leaves behind. Coach Mark presents a transformational journey, offering practical steps to transition from self-centered leadership to a collaborative, inspiring force. Tune in to learn how to seek honest feedback, foster a supportive "truth crew," and maintain consistent, trustworthy leadership. Whether you're like Dave or seeking to elevate your leadership, this episode challenges you to confront your ego and lead with authenticity and purpose.

    Unlocking Your Genius Zone: How Tech Can Set You Free

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2025 10:04 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, hosted by Coach Mark Mathia, where ambitious leaders come to amplify their influence and unlock their potential. In this episode, we delve into the pivotal role of technology in transforming the workplace dynamics. Discover how smart systems can alleviate the burden of monotonous tasks, boosting productivity and creativity. Coach Mark shares actionable insights and his 'RISE' framework—Reflect, Integrate, Simplify, and Experiment—for integrating technology seamlessly into your workflow. Learn why true progress is not about endless toil but about embracing tools that help you lead yourself and your team to success. Tune in to explore how tech can amplify your moments and drive meaningful change.

    Unlocking Your Quiet Power: Embracing the Introvert's Voice

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2025 10:48 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where host Coach Mark Mathia empowers introverts to find and use their voice to create meaningful change. This episode focuses on the transformative power of embracing quiet strength and stepping into the light to make a difference. Mark discusses practical steps for introverts to elevate their impact, from speaking to one trusted individual to volunteering their voice for causes they care about. Discover how intentional communication can enhance self-esteem, foster connections, and build a legacy of service and purpose. Join us as we explore strategies for harnessing your inner strength and becoming a voice for change.

    Resilience Unleashed: Building Grit in High-Pressure Careers

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2025 10:31 Transcription Available


    Join host Mark Mathia on the Essentially You podcast as he delves into the art of cultivating resilience in high-pressure careers. Discover three powerful interventions—clarity through feedback, energy over exhaustion, and purpose-driven anchors—that transform grit from a mere buzzword into a tangible tool for success. With insights from Angela Duckworth's research and real-world stories, learn how to navigate career challenges with purpose and perseverance. Whether you're leading a team, managing a company, or striving to stay afloat in a demanding job, this episode offers strategies to enhance your leadership and impact.

    Unlocking High Achiever Well-Being with ALOHA

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2025 13:01 Transcription Available


    In this episode of Essentially You, Coach Mark Mathia introduces a groundbreaking model of well-being for high achievers: the ALOHA framework. Designed to match the hustle of driven individuals, ALOHA stands for Achievement, Legacy, Others, Health, and Adventure. Coach Mark provides a dynamic comparison between ALOHA and the well-established PERMA model by Dr. Marty Seligman, exploring their similarities and differences in enhancing performance and well-being. Listeners will discover how ALOHA fosters an environment where winning, building a legacy, nurturing relationships, maintaining holistic health, and embracing adventure are key components. This episode offers valuable insights for entrepreneurs, athletes, and leaders striving for excellence in both their personal and professional lives. Join the conversation to learn how these frameworks can guide your next steps in achieving greatness and maintaining well-being, and find out if you're ready to take the leap into transformative coaching.

    The Hidden Revolution: How Emotional Currency is Changing Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2025 9:09 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we challenge traditional leadership paradigms and explore the hidden revolution reshaping influence and impact. In this episode, host Mark Mathia delves into the underestimated power of hope, trust, and compassion in leadership. Building on surprising data from Gallup, Mark unpacks how followers are rewriting the rules, demanding emotional currency over control and authority. Join us as we explore real-world examples and introduce a bold new leadership model focused on emotional engagement. Mark offers actionable strategies to lead this transformative shift, urging leaders to evaluate hope, break trust molds, and embrace compassion in the workplace. Packed with insights and a call to action, this episode is a wake-up call for leaders to adapt and thrive in the evolving landscape of leadership. What's your next move in this silent revolution?

    Turning Setbacks into Comebacks: The Power of Resilience

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2025 10:57 Transcription Available


    Welcome to another episode of the Essentially You podcast, where high-achieving leaders come to elevate their impact and unlock their fullest potential. Host Mark Mathia dives deep into the importance of resilience, focusing on transforming setbacks into powerful comebacks. Learn how to embrace failure as feedback, cultivate grit, build supportive networks, set realistic goals, and practice mindfulness for personal and professional growth. Discover science-backed strategies for young professionals to navigate challenges and quit with intentionality. Join the conversation and start leading yourself towards meaningful change.

    Discover the Power of Reflective Journaling

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2025 7:22 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where leaders come to elevate their impact and unlock their fullest potential. Join host Mark Mathia as he shares the powerful technique of reflective journaling to enhance self-awareness, improve critical thinking, and foster personal and professional growth. Learn how this simple practice can lead to significant improvements in your leadership journey by understanding your actions and motivations better. Discover the benefits of stress reduction, enhanced emotional regulation, and continuous learning through Mark's insightful questions and guidance. Reflect on your core values, prepare for events, assess your impact on others, and integrate feedback effectively. This episode offers practical steps to elevate your moments and lead authentically, making lasting changes in your leadership style.

    Unlocking Leadership Potential: The Power of Coaching and Counseling

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2025 9:00 Transcription Available


    In this episode of the Essentially You podcast, host Mark Mathia explores the critical role of both counseling and coaching in leadership development. Discover how these two approaches complement each other, offering leaders a holistic path to personal and professional growth. Mark delves into the primary focuses and distinguishing factors of counseling versus coaching, providing insights into when each might be necessary. Leaders are encouraged to invest in both for enhanced performance and emotional resilience. Learn from real-world lessons and inspiring stories about integrating external support to create thriving, authentic leaders who can drive change and elevate their teams. Tune in to uncover strategies that promote clarity, courage, and a commitment to continual growth.

    Mastering Your Life's Rhythm: A Leadership Symphony

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2025 7:40 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast with your host, Mark Mathia. In this episode, explore the transformative power of rhythm as a guiding principle in both personal and professional life. Discover intentional practices inspired by musical scores and positive psychology to enhance well-being and productivity. Join the conversation as Mark shares five practical strategies to help you set intentions, find your natural tempo, embrace silence, harmonize with others, and reflect on life's crescendos and pauses. Elevate your mindset and create your unique life soundtrack. Tune in to unlock your fullest potential and lead with purpose.

    Mastering Your Emotions for Leadership Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2025 4:30 Transcription Available


    Welcome to a new season where we put creating transformative moments first. In this episode we delve into the core of effective leadership through emotional intelligence. Join Coach Mark Mathia as he explores the profound impact of controlling our responses instead of reacting impulsively. Discover the timeless wisdom of Stoic philosophy and learn why Mel Robbins' acclaimed book "Let Them" is a must-read for leaders aspiring to make reasoned decisions. Uncover practical strategies to practice self-awareness and elevate your impact. In this engaging conversation, gain insights on releasing control over what's external and focusing on mastering your mindset. Start your journey towards leading with clarity, courage, and a commitment to growth today. Elevate Your Moments #stoicism #leadership #Emotionalintelligence #Personalgrowth

    Embracing Equanimity: The Secret to Balanced Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2024 7:10 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we explore the science of happiness and well-being to help coaches and coaching leaders bring out the best in themselves and those they serve. Join host Mark Mathia on a journey of discovery and inspiration. In this episode, Mark delves into the concept of equanimity, a state of mental calmness, composure, and evenness of temper, especially during difficult situations. Learn how a yoga class revelation transformed his approach to business leadership, helping him navigate the turbulent world of team management and decision-making with a balanced mind. Discover practical tips on practicing equanimity through mindfulness, deep breathing, perspective taking, self-care, and continuous learning. Mark shares his personal experiences and insights on how maintaining equanimity can lead to a more productive work environment and resilient leadership. Join us as we explore how equanimity can be your anchor in both personal and professional life, fostering clarity, compassion, and strategic decision-making. Stay balanced, stay positive, and unlock your true potential as a leader.  

    Maximize Your Learning: Creating and Implementing an Integration Plan

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2024 14:26 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we explore the science of happiness and well-being to help coaches and coaching leaders bring out the best in themselves and those they serve. Join host Mark Mathia as he delves into how to maximize learning experiences by creating an integration plan and putting those learnings into action. In this episode, Mark shares insights from the Global Leadership Summit and discusses the importance of not just consuming information, but actively applying it to achieve personal and professional growth. He offers 10 practical ways to create and execute an integration plan, ensuring that new knowledge is effectively retained and utilized. Whether you've attended a workshop, read a book, or taken a course, this episode will provide you with actionable strategies to deepen your understanding, enhance your productivity, and create positive changes in your work and life. Tune in to discover how to turn your learning into lasting impact and become the kind of leader others want to follow.

    Unleashing the Power of Belief to Transform Your Vision

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2024 11:07 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we explore the science of happiness and well-being to help coaches and coaching leaders bring out the best in themselves and those they serve. Join me, Mark Mathia, on a journey of discovery and inspiration. In this episode, we delve into how belief can amplify our results and bring ideas to life in outstanding ways. Belief is not just a passive feeling or wishful thinking; it's a powerful force that can shape our reality and influence our actions. We will explore four ways to turn our beliefs into results: imagining what's possible, standing in the truth, being persistent and never giving up, and being magnetic to multiply belief. Learn practical tips on how to visualize your vision, stand firm in reality, persist through challenges, and attract the support and resources needed to bring your vision to life. By applying these strategies, you can create a belief that is powerful, influential, and transformative, making a significant impact in your career and life.  

    The Unsung Heroes: Coaching Excellence from the Olympics to the Boardroom

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2024 8:49 Transcription Available


    The city is Paris. The year is 2024. The event is the Olympic Games. As the world watches thousands of athletes from over 200 countries compete in over 33 sports, we celebrate not only their dedication and skill but also the unsung heroes behind their success—the coaches. Coaches guide, motivate, and support athletes, helping them achieve their dreams and honor the Olympic spirit. But coaching isn't limited to athletics. Organizational leaders are also discovering the power and career edge that coaching offers. In this episode, we explore six parallels between athletic coaching and business coaching, demonstrating how targeted skill development, performance optimization, continuous improvement, accountability, adapting to pressure, and long-term commitment can drive peak performance in both fields. Join us as we delve into the ways coaching transforms lives, whether on the track or in the boardroom. Learn how effective coaching helps individuals and organizations thrive in highly competitive environments through focused, dedicated effort and expert guidance. Celebrate the spirit of coaching and its impact on personal and professional growth. Cheers to the Olympic spirit and the transformative power of coaching!

    Unlocking Your Leadership Potential: Mastering Executive Coaching

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2024 13:02 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast! In this episode, we delve deep into the world of executive coaching and how to make the most of your investment. Discover the transformative power of coaching and learn essential best practices to elevate your leadership skills, overcome challenges, and accelerate your career growth. We start by discussing the importance of understanding that time is money. Respecting both your coach's time and your own is crucial for maximizing the value of your sessions. Prepare an agenda, be punctual, and stay focused on the issues that matter most. Next, we emphasize the concept of show up to grow. Engage fully in your sessions by eliminating distractions, being open-minded, and ready to challenge your assumptions. Authenticity and vulnerability are key to unlocking your potential. We then explore the idea of leaning in and trusting the process. Embrace the discomfort and uncertainties that come with growth. Trust that your coach has your best interest at heart and that the process, though not linear, will lead you to your desired outcomes. Finally, we highlight the importance of doing your homework. Active participation and follow-through are essential. Implement what you learn, track your progress, and hold yourself accountable. A coaching journal can be a powerful tool for this purpose. Join us as we unpack these concepts and provide practical tips to ensure you get the most out of your executive coaching experience. Invest in yourself, embrace the journey, and watch as you transform into a greater leader.

    Unlocking Coaching Potential with CliftonStrengths and Enneagram Insights

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2024 12:44 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You Podcast, where we explore the science of happiness and well-being to help coaches and coaching leaders bring out the best in themselves and those they serve. If you're looking for new approaches to serve your clients or create a culture of positivity and well-being in your organization, you're in the right place. Join me, Mark Mathia, on a journey of discovery and inspiration. In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of hummingbirds and draw parallels to coaching techniques. Learn how to coach like a hummingbird by leveraging the powerful tools of CliftonStrengths and the Enneagram. Discover how CliftonStrengths focuses on identifying innate talents and strengths while the Enneagram explores core motivations and behavioral patterns. When combined, these tools provide a comprehensive understanding of clients, enhancing the coaching experience.  

    Quitting with Grace: Transforming Endings into New Beginnings

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2024 11:51 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You Podcast, where we explore the science of happiness and well-being to help coaches and coaching leaders bring out the best in themselves and those they serve. Join host Mark Mathia as he delves into the art of quitting with grace and dignity. In this episode, Mark challenges the conventional wisdom that "quitters never win" by sharing his personal experiences and insights from over 30 years in the business world. He explains how quitting can be a strategic decision that opens up new opportunities, rather than a sign of weakness or failure. Mark recounts his own story of quitting a high-stress job without proper reflection and preparation, and the lessons he learned from that experience. He emphasizes the importance of quitting with a clear vision, gratitude, and humility, and shares inspiring examples of leaders like George Washington, Oprah Winfrey, and Steve Jobs who quit the right way. Throughout the episode, Mark offers practical advice on how to use coaching and positive psychology to quit well. He suggests asking yourself key questions to ensure you leave any situation better than you found it and with a bold vision for the future. Tune in to discover how quitting well can lead to new beginnings and greater leadership in all seasons of your life.

    Turning Setbacks into Success: Building Resilience and Confidence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2024 12:42 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we explore the science of happiness and well-being to help coaches and coaching leaders bring out the best in themselves and those they serve. If you're looking for new approaches to serve your clients or looking to create a culture of positivity and well-being in your organization, join me, Mark Mathia, on a journey of discovery and inspiration. Have you ever experienced a major setback at work? Maybe you lost a big client, were fired, missed a deadline, or received negative feedback from your boss. How did you cope with it? Did you feel discouraged, angry, or ashamed? Or did you bounce back quickly and learn from the experience? Setbacks are inevitable in any career, but they don't have to define or derail us. In fact, they can be opportunities for growth, improvement, and innovation. In this episode, we'll explore ways to show up as our best self after a setback at work based on the principles of positive psychology, which is the scientific study of what makes life worth living and how we can cultivate our strengths, happiness, and well-being. We'll draw on insights from experts like Arthur Brooks, Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar, and Dr. Angela Duckworth. They will teach us how to build resilience, strengthen our confidence, and offer hope in the face of adversity. Join us as we delve into these strategies and more, transforming setbacks into opportunities for growth and inspiring others to do the same. Together, we can create a culture of positivity and resilience in the workplace.  

    Creating Powerful Coaching Moments: Elevation, Insight, Pride, and Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2024 13:35 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You Podcast, where we delve into the science of happiness and well-being to empower coaches and leaders. In this episode, Mark shares best practices and insights on how to create powerful and memorable moments in coaching conversations. Inspired by Chip and Dan Heath's book, "The Power of Moments," Mark explores the concept of creating impactful experiences by focusing on four key elements: elevation, insight, pride, and connection. Learn how to elevate your coaching sessions by breaking routines, offering transformative insights, celebrating achievements, and building strong connections. Discover practical techniques and examples from renowned experts like Tony Robbins and Patrick Lencioni, and find out how you can apply these strategies to make a difference in your clients' lives. Join us on this journey of discovery and inspiration, and start creating moments of impact in your coaching practice.

    Unleashing Whole Health: The Power of Coaching for Optimal Well-Being

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2024 10:13 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we delve into the science of happiness and well-being to empower coaches and leaders. If you're eager to discover new methods to better serve your clients or foster a culture of positivity within your organization, this episode is for you. Join host Mark Mathia as he explores the concept of Whole Health Week, an annual event dedicated to promoting a holistic approach to wellness. Discover the significance of integrating physical, mental, emotional, social, spiritual, and occupational aspects of health to achieve optimal well-being. Learn about the profound impact of leveraging strengths in daily life and how it can lead to higher engagement, better quality of life, and reduced turnover rates. Mark shares insights on how coaching can be a powerful tool to support your whole health journey by helping you identify and utilize your unique strengths. Mark also offers practical tips on how to pinpoint your strengths and align them with your wellness goals, ensuring a more enjoyable and effective path to success. Whether it's improving physical health or enhancing overall life satisfaction, this episode provides valuable guidance on making whole health a part of your everyday performance. Join the conversation and start your journey towards a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life with the power of coaching and whole health.

    Transform Your Habits: The Path to Personal and Professional Success

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2024 9:39 Transcription Available


    Welcome to Essentially You, the podcast that delves into the science of happiness and well-being to help coaches and leaders achieve their best selves and inspire others. In this episode, Coach Mark Mathia explores the transformative power of habits, inspired by a quote from Charles Duhigg: "If you believe you can change, if you make it a habit, the change becomes real." Discover how negative habits like procrastination and self-doubt can hinder success and learn strategies to convert them into positive ones. Mark shares his personal journey of overcoming a tobacco habit and introduces the six-step reframe process—a practical psychological technique to help you change any undesirable behavior. Additionally, Mark highlights three crucial skills for reinforcing new, positive habits: discipline, self-reflection, and positivity. By developing these skills, you can enhance your personal and professional growth, leading to greater success and fulfillment. Tune in to learn how to harness the power of habits to propel yourself forward and create a thriving, positive environment for yourself and those around you.

    Exploring Cognitive Reframing Strategies with Coach Mark Mathia

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2024 10:04 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast where your host, Mark Mathia, aims to inspire, motivate, and unlock personal growth. In this episode, Mark shares candid insights from his personal journey as an entrepreneur in 2008 during the financial crisis. He shares how this period marked the first significant challenge in his career and explores how lack of resiliency made navigating the crisis all the more difficult. Dive into the concept of cognitive reframing, a potent tool that allows us to shift perspectives and approach problems with fresh, innovative solutions. Mark also emphasizes the importance of resilience in coaching leaders, which is crucial for adapting and thriving in challenging circumstances. This episode introduces a psych builder exercise designed to facilitate a better understanding of cognitive reframing. Mark encourages listeners to step into the shoes of others, disassociate from a situation, and observe interactions with a fresh perspective. This exercise cultivates empathy, resilience, and decision-making skills and provides tangible methods to approach tense situations positively. Additionally, listeners will discover a constructive visualization technique which involves envisioning the best possible outcome and sense the scenario using all the possible senses. This technique has proved effective in both competitive sports and business settings, says Mark. Throughout the episode, Mark provides practical tips to restructure negative thoughts, build empathy, and maintain a flexible mindset. By exploring these valuable tools and techniques, you can navigate the most daunting obstacles with strength, resilience, and determination. So gear up and step into the world of cognitive reframing with this episode of the Essentially You podcast.

    Overcoming the Imposter Syndrome with the Power of C=MC²

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2024 10:41 Transcription Available


    Join us on the Essentially You podcast for a profoundly inspiring episode geared towards coaches and coaching leaders. Your host, Mark Mathia, takes an in-depth look at the crucial role of self-confidence in overcoming self-doubt and the imposter syndrome. He presents an innovative formula, C=MC² - Confidence equals Motivation times Character and Competency, which allows leaders to calculate and increase their confidence in their abilities. Mark begins with insights from a study indicating that up to 70% of people have dealt with the imposter syndrome. Factors such as people-pleasing and perfectionism are identified as primary contributors, which often lead to self-paralysis and procrastination. Here, the necessity of maintaining motivation, irrespective of setbacks, is brought into focus. Finally, Mark offers three practical suggestions to bolster self-confidence starting today. These include continuous practice and learning, adjusting one's mindset, and leveraging partnerships for a shared win. Be sure to stay tuned to the end to learn how this equation undeniably boosts confidence and helps overcoming the imposter syndrome. Let's all be better, together!

    Maximizing Team Engagement and Performance

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2024 11:06 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast with Mark Mathia, where we delve into the art and science of happiness and well-being to empower coaches and leaders. The focus of today's discussion is the transformation from a boss to a coach - why it matters, how it positively affects organizational growth, and ways to tap into your strengths to effectively manage your team. Our progression in this journey will directly impact the level of team engagement and productivity, which, according to Gallup, is about 70% of the variance controlled by managers. In our quest to nurture successful coaching leaders, we highlight five essential traits: motivation, winning, knowledge integration, collaboration, and thinking. Inculcating these traits will help build stronger bonds within teams, create a consistent performance environment, and ultimately lead to organizational growth. It's time for us to step up as leaders, understand the significance of our roles, and make the transformation from boss to coach.

    Strategies for Enhancing your Coaching Impact

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2024 9:56 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where host Mark Mathia explores the science of happiness and well-being. This podcast serves as a resource for coaches and coaching leaders looking to unlock their maximum personal and professional potential. Mark guides his listeners in creating a culture of positivity and well-being within their organizations. In this episode, Mark addresses a crucial question for all coaches: how to measure success? He emphasizes that the success of a coaching session depends not on the coach, but on the client's progress. There are certain elements that coaches can measure: making strong connections with clients, building a foundation of trust that leads to rapport, and forming high-powered partnerships. Success can also be gauged by creating momentum and a sense of energy in each session. According to Mark, coaching is both an art and a science. It requires humility, ego check, and an understanding that the client holds the answer to their success. Mark dissuades from using surveys for feedback, viewing them as rookie moves leading to a loss in coaching authority. Continual referrals, momentum, and strong connections indicate progress for a coach. Mark ends this episode with a quote by B.B. King encapsulating the spirit of a coaching relationship: "The beautiful thing about learning is that no one can take it from you." This episode serves as a roadmap for coaches aiming to create a significant difference in their clients' lives.

    Demystifying Imposter Syndrome in the Coaching Industry

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2024 8:20 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the latest episode of the Essentially You podcast where we delve deep into the realm of happiness, well-being, and coaching. In this episode, our host, Mark Mathia, takes us on an enlightening journey as he addresses what is colloquially referred to as the 'Imposter Syndrome' faced by many professional coaches. This is not to be mistaken as a clinical disorder, instead, it's a psychological phenomenon caused by an overwhelming fear and self-doubt about their performance. This profound conversation isn't only limited to what imposter syndrome is, as Mark further expounds upon the causes and prevalence of it in high-pressure careers like professional coaching, and how it can, under certain circumstances, lead to anxiety and depression. If your symptoms start to interfere with your daily routine and work, it is strongly recommended to seek guidance from a mental health professional. However, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Imposter syndrome can be combated and this podcast provides a roadmap to victory. With focus, reflection and some techniques coming from his years of experience and research, Mark introduces three critical practices every coach should adopt to overcome the debilitating fear and self-doubt associated with imposter syndrome. Mark believes that every setback and failure can shape us to be stronger and better coaches, our vulnerabilities can be our strength. Ultimately, being in the company of high-quality people aids in combating the imposter syndrome. This external perspective can significantly enhance our self-awareness and confidence. Surrounding yourself with people who inspire and elevate you can result in improved performance in coaching. Imposter syndrome should not be a roadblock in your coaching journey. Whereas, it should be the motivational springboard that propels you to believe in your clients and your abilities. Remember, when coaching, the sky is the limit, everything is possible. Now, get out there and start making a difference!

    How Much is Coaching Worth?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2024 8:27 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we delve into the intricate science of happiness and well-being. In this episode, our host Mark Mathia takes listeners on an enlightening journey to comprehend the worth and impact of coaching.  Whether you're an individual interested in hiring a coach, an aspiring coach, or someone seeking to make an impact in others' lives, this episode furnishes the essential understanding of the value proposition that coaching brings. Remember, charging as a coach isn't linked merely to affordability, but rather, it's directly tied to the outcomes and transformations you enable in the lives of those you coach. Discover how as coaches, we help individuals navigate the journey from being a coaching rookie to a coaching champion. We explore how coaching aids individuals in reshaping their values, resetting their mindsets, nurturing wisdom, taking accountability, and fostering well-being in order to not only survive but thrive in their various fields.  Learn how coaching instills seemingly amplified results based on the size and scope of an individual's dreams, ultimately transforming lives positively at work and home alike.  So tune in, glean priceless insights on truly understanding the value of coaching, and be inspired to shape a world weighed positively in wisdom, possibility, and hope. Let's get out there and coach away!

    Enhancing Performance and Well-being with Positive Psychology

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2024 10:20 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where we unravel the science of happiness and well-being, offering insights for coaches and coaching leaders aiming to bring out the best in themselves and their clients. Join Mark Mathia in this enlightening journey of discovery and transformation towards an enhanced personal and professional life. In this episode, Mark delves into the core principles guiding the profession of coaching. The focus is on the client-centered approach, confidentiality and trust, goal orientation, active listening and powerful questioning, non-directive guidance, accountability and feedback, and continuous learning and development. Likewise, Mark discusses the importance of empathy, strong communication skills, emotional intelligence, and a genuine desire to help others in the success of coaching. Moving forward, Mark underlines the crucial role of positive psychology in coaching. The discussion extends to the history of positive psychology and its founding assumptions, including founding figures, emphasis on strength, the scientific approach, positive interventions, and the focus on flourishing. Positive psychology, as Mark puts it, is fundamental in understanding motivational factors driving human behavior, fostering deeper relationships, developing resilience, and achieving fulfilling lives —significantly pointing to the relevance of this human science in effective coaching. Join us in transforming lives one client at a time. Mark invites you to be part of this enriching journey towards thriving life. Subscribe and leave a review if you find these insights valuable.

    A Strength-Based Coaching Approach

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2024 9:18 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, a platform dedicated to exploring the science of happiness and well-being. Join your host, Mark Mathia, as he provides valuable tools and insights to coaches and leaders aiming to foster positivity and well-being within their organizations. Tune into this engaging and thoughtful episode as we delve into the challenges of employee disengagement, its effects on organizations and how to combat it using a strength-based coaching approach. This podcast episode serves as a rallying cry to engage organizations in combating the growing issue of disengagement and creating a supportive and productive environment for their employees. Tune in as Mark urges us all to rise to the occasion, reminding us that winning at work through employee engagement is an essential element of success in today's competitive market.

    How To Elevate Your Coaching Practice Without Leaving Your Day Job

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2024 10:02 Transcription Available


    Welcome to another episode of Essentially You, the podcast dedicated to helping coaches and coaching leaders bring the excellence out of themselves and the teams they lead. In this episode, your host Mark Mathiak, challenges the misconceptions surrounding the professionalization of coaching and shares valuable insights about what it means to be a pro coach. Becoming a pro coach doesn't require one to abandon their day job. Climbing to the next level of your coaching career involves clearing up the common myths around the subject, regardless of what your current career is. In this discussion, Mark explores how coaching can be a robust and fulfilling process that helps individuals and teams achieve remarkable results and drive business success. According to Mark, the path to becoming a pro coach is not necessarily about certification and business acumen, but about loving and understanding people. It's about guiding others to reach their full potential, not giving business advice. To excel in this role, a pro coach needs to develop a deeper comprehension of human motivation and the brain's working process.  

    Exploring the Power of Coaching for Organizational Growth and Individual Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2024 10:21 Transcription Available


    Welcome to Essentially You podcast, the podcast where we delve into the science of happiness and well-being. In this episode, your host, Mark Mathia explores the transformative power of coaching for both personal and organizational growth. Mark unearths how coaching is more than just providing answers or giving instructions. It is a collaborative process of asking powerful questions that allow individuals to discover and develop their own solutions. Mark highlights the importance of coaching being a mutual practice and partnership requiring continual learning, empathy, and trust construction for successful outcomes. In this journey of discovery, Mark introduces key insights from influential coaching figures. Mark commences with John Maxwell, the acclaimed leadership expert, who believes that coaching effectiveness hinges on the individuals' growth willingness. Maxwell advocates for investment in leadership to ripple the growth effects down the success ladder. Mark then converses on Daniel Harkavy, CEO of Building Champions, stating that coaching needs to be strategic, accountable, and occur in a mentor style. Mark further emphasizes the importance of having a mentor mindset to facilitate lasting relationships, growth, and development. Valuable insights are also gleaned from Henry Cloud, a clinical psychologist and respected author. Cloud emphasizes the importance of timing and the need for a goal-oriented process in coaching. His theory supports the idea that coaching becomes more effective when it aligns with an individual's readiness for change. Mark concludes the episode by discussing ways of effectively incorporating coaching in organizations aspiring for growth. Identifying obstacles, clear goal setting, determining the type of coaching, and involvement of all stakeholders are key to establishing a successful coaching culture within an organization. Join Mark Mathia in this inspirational episode of Essentially You and glean crucial coaching insights that can lead to personal and organizational growth and success.

    The Power of Forward-Thinking

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2024 11:17 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast, where the crux of the conversation is about adopting a proactive coaching approach. Mark Mathia, seasoned coach and host, discusses the power and benefits of proactive coaching and its value in creating a culture of positivity and well-being. Delve into this episode to explore the transformative aspects of forward-thinking leadership in professional or personal settings. Mark opens the discussion articulating the importance of helping others proactively to circumvent challenges before they occur by anticipating situations and providing forward-thinking solutions. He contrasts reactive coaching, which is more emotionally charged and crisis driven, with proactive coaching that aims at preventing problems and enhancing resilience and preparedness in the workplace. For those interested in enhancing their coaching approach or keen to adopt proactive leadership practices, this episode provides a wealth of guidance and practical insights. As Mark poignantly puts it, turning coaching into a proactive practice can make a profound difference in helping others live the life they aspire and to create a positive and robust culture in their organizations.

    Essential Preparation Tips for a Successful Coaching Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2024 10:28 Transcription Available


    Welcome to the Essentially You podcast. This episode delves deep into how preparation for coaching sessions is a key to successful coaching relationships. Various tools and techniques are outlined, such as making three points of contact before the first session, providing a coaching agreement, asking clients to complete questionnaires, setting boundaries, and creating a safe space for open communication. This episode emphasizes the inherent value of coaching as an effective tool for personal and professional growth. It underscores how important it is to make clients feel comfortable and well-prepared for their first session. By following these rudimentary yet essential steps, you can build solid, successful coaching relationships that support your clients or the talent you serve in achieving their goals to the best of their abilities.  

    The Centered Executive

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2024 10:10 Transcription Available


    Join the 'Essentially You' podcast with Mark Mathia as he delves into the world of executive coaching, sharing key practices to boost leadership effectiveness. Learn to navigate the complexities of business environments, make informed decisions under pressure, and bring out the best in your organization with the right coaching strategies. Whether you're in the throes of a real crisis or just battling the everyday challenges of business, the practices explored in this episode can greatly enhance your crisis-response, decision-making processes, and overall leadership effectiveness. Above all, feel inspired to lead with courage, empathy, and resilience amid any challenge, and pave the way toward thriving outcomes.

    Harnessing the Power of Growth Mindset in Crisis Management

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2024 9:04 Transcription Available


    Welcome to Essentially You, a podcast dedicated to delving into the science of happiness and well-being, providing new insights for coaches and leaders. In this episode, host Mark Mathia explores the concept of growth mindset, introduced by psychologist Carol Dweck, and its transformative impact on crisis management. Navigating the tricky waters of business and leadership often feels like an overwhelming challenge. In these moments, Mathia encourages applying a growth mindset, the belief that intelligence and abilities are not fixed but can be improved with hard work. Dweck's research revealed that individuals who embrace effort and growth outperform those who believe in inherent, unchangeable traits. Adopting a growth mindset in crisis management reframes challenges as growth opportunities rather than insurmountable obstacles. It promotes optimism, solution-oriented thinking, and motivates teams to strive towards a common goal. Mathia emphasizes the positive impact of leading by example and proposes practical ways to adopt a growth mindset, including embracing challenges, learning from mistakes, seeking feedback, focusing on progress (not perfection), and continuous learning. Mathia uses the example of Nelson Mandela, who held onto his beliefs and used his imprisonment time to learn, grow, and prepare for his leadership role, demonstrating the potential of a growth mindset in overcoming adversity. The benefits are clear: fostering resilience, innovation, and empowering the team by transforming challenging situations into growth opportunities. Fear and worry are only useful when they motivate action, and maintaining a growth mindset ensures they don't overtake our faculties. This episode challenges you to adopt these principles and get after it as your work awaits. Emphasizing growth and progress over perfection, Mark Mathia encourages stepped and planned development to create a cohesive and driven team, prepared to navigate through any crisis effectively.

    From Burnout to Bliss: A Climb to Success in 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2024 14:07


    As coaching leaders, we have a crucial role in promoting wellbeing. Our wellbeing and happiness have a significant impact on our colleagues and our organization's financial success. Therefore, we should strive to create a positive environment where our colleagues and we can focus on our physical, mental, and emotional health. 

    The Surprising Truth About Self-Awareness and Narcissism

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2024 9:44


    Today's episode is about self-awareness and Narcissism and why they are not the same thing. We've all heard the term narcissism used in popular culture to describe someone who is self-absorbed, but what does it really mean? And how can we develop self-awareness without becoming narcissistic?  Thanks to Track: "Ignore The Rain" Music provided by https://slip.stream Free Download / Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/b2a3e9dc-263f-4f39-9c5a-472e34bc67cc?utm_source=attribution

    Why I Podcast (and you should too.)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2024 9:52


    Welcome to Essentially You, the show that empowers coaches and coaching leaders to bring their best selves to work daily. In this episode, we'll discuss why I podcast and why you should consider it. Welcome to the show. Thanks to Track: "Ignore The Rain" Music provided by https://slip.stream Free Download / Stream: https://slip.stream/tracks/b2a3e9dc-263f-4f39-9c5a-472e34bc67cc?utm_source=attribution

    The Glorious Tension

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2023 9:17


    Welcome to the latest episode of Essentially You, where we are tripping our way through the Advent season together and exploring how we, as leaders, can learn from the holiday season. In this episode, we will discuss the four traditional themes of Advent - love, peace, joy, and hope - and how they correspond to successful leadership. I will also share four coaching questions to help you close out 2023 with purpose and enter the new year with momentum. So please sit back, relax, and join us on this adventure of self-discovery and leadership development.

    Joy in the Making

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2023 6:08


    Welcome to Essentially You, the podcast where we discuss everything from how to lead a team to how to lead a parade. Just kidding, we haven't covered that one yet, but we do have a fantastic episode for you today! Get ready to light up your leadership with joy as we explore the meaning behind the third week of Advent and how to cultivate joy in your daily leadership walk. So sit back, relax, and get ready to be inspired to lead with joy!

    Prepare to be Prepared - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2023 7:24


    In the latest episode of the Essentially You podcast, I'll share insights on anticipation and preparedness in leadership through the advent season. This special edition series is designed to help us lead well through the holiday season. Whether you are a CEO, a parent, or a community leader, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to cultivate a sense of calm and purpose during the busy season. Tune in to the Essentially You podcast to learn more!

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