gAy A: A LGBT+ Podcast About Sobriety

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Send us a textSuper Sober Heroes, we're back with another in-person interview, and this week, I'm sitting down with my friend Dillon!

Send us a textHey there, Super Sober Heroes! Your host Sober Steve is here with 1,357 days sober, and this episode is extra special because we are recording in person for the first time! I'm thrilled to welcome India X Miller, a powerful advocate, trans activist, and sober warrior who has been navigating the world of recovery for over 40 years.India shares their incredible journey of sobriety, from getting clean as a teenager to experiencing relapse and reclaiming their recovery. We talk about the unique challenges of being trans and sober, the fight for LGBTQ+ rights in Florida, and how to stay strong and connected in recovery despite all the obstacles.From navigating gender identity to breaking barriers in 12-step spaces, India opens up about resilience, authenticity, and fighting for visibility and acceptance in both recovery and the world at large.✨ Topics Covered:India's journey through addiction, relapse, and long-term sobrietyThe power of visibility as a trans person in recoveryHow to navigate religious trauma in 12-step spacesThe importance of gender-inclusive language in recoveryFinding strength in community and creating LGBTQ+ safe spacesIndia's work in media & advocacy, including their radio showConnect with India X Miller:

Send us a textSuper Sober Heroes, we're back for Part 2 with Phil B, co-founder of Here Queer Sober!

Send us a textSuper Sober Heroes, welcome back! Today, I'm joined once again by my dear friend and co-founder of Here Queer Sober, Phil B! With 7 years, 9 months, and 24 days sober, Phil shares about his whirlwind year—completing his master's degree in counseling, navigating job offers, moving into his own apartment, and embracing the next chapter of his recovery and career.We also dive into:✨ The big life transitions that tested his recovery—and how he stayed grounded✨ Balancing sobriety & career in addiction counseling✨ Finding the right meeting routine after so much change✨ The first-ever Here Queer Sober Conference (coming September 27-29, 2024) and how you can get involved!Phil reminds us that sobriety isn't about avoiding life—it's about showing up fully, embracing change, and creating something meaningful.

Send us a textIn this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show, host Steve is joined by the amazing Holland, who shares his journey to recovery, approach to spirituality, and how sobriety has transformed his life. Holland, who celebrates a sobriety date of February 2, 2022, opens up about growing up in Hawaii and Alaska, their struggles with addiction, and finding their way back to recovery after a series of challenges. Holland also discusses the importance of service, humility, and staying connected to their queer and recovery communities.Key Topics Discussed:Holland's early years in Hawaii and Alaska and their experience with addiction starting at a young age.The challenges of balancing recovery and spirituality and how embracing ambiguity with their higher power has been a game-changer.How sobriety has allowed them to process big feelings and lean on tools like therapy, service, and community connection.The power of service in recovery, from giving rides to newcomers to being active in the service structure of AA.Navigating friendships, relationships, and dating as a queer person in recovery and the importance of setting boundaries and standards.Holland's daily practices for maintaining sobriety, including meditation, gratitude, and embracing humility in their professional and personal life.A focus on progress over perfection and the mantra, “Let go, let God,” that keeps them grounded.Memorable Quotes:“Being sober means I get to feel all the big feelings and then rely on tools to not do the crazy next steps.”“I never want to be too big to clean up chairs because that's where I meet future sponsees.”“You don't have to pay back taxes for the person you were. You deserve good things now.”Resources Mentioned:Book: Every Feeling Is Big – A poetry book about heartbreak and relationships in recovery. [Available on Amazon.]Stay Connected:Follow us on Instagram @gAyApodcast for updates, behind-the-scenes content, and more.Support the show

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Send us a textHey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A, I'm joined by returning guest and podcast favorite, Mark, as we dive into the transformative power of sobriety and how it's helped him embrace his authentic queer self.From growing up in a Catholic family with strict gender norms to navigating the complexities of being openly gay in the workplace, Mark shares his journey of self-discovery, healing, and unapologetically owning his queerness—brooches, skirts, and all!We also discuss:

Send us a textIn this episode of gAy A, your queer sober hero show, I'm sharing holiday tips and tricks to help you navigate the festive season while staying sober. Whether you're celebrating your first holiday in recovery or just looking for a little extra support, this episode dives into advice from listeners and my own experience on avoiding triggers, setting boundaries, and thriving through the season.I'm also celebrating 1300 days of continuous sobriety and reflecting on the tools and community that have helped me along the way. If the holidays feel overwhelming, you're not alone, and we've got you covered!Episode Highlights:Why the Holidays Are Challenging for Sobriety:Unrealistic expectations for joy and happiness can amplify feelings of isolation.Family dynamics and alcohol-heavy work events can be major triggers.Reflection on the past year may bring up both positive and difficult emotions.Listener Advice for Staying Sober:“If you feel stressed or tempted, just leave. You always have a way out.” – Laura“Avoid triggers at all costs. Prepare mentally for difficult situations.” – J Dusty Grimes“Sobriety is the best gift you'll ever receive. Stay humble and grateful.” – Charlie GrayPractical Sobriety Tips:Use HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) to avoid emotional pitfalls.Set boundaries for yourself and plan an exit strategy for challenging events.Lean on sober support systems like meetings, literature, or sobriety podcasts.Focus on mindfulness and breathing exercises to manage stress in real-time.My Reflections on Celebrating Without Alcohol:Learning to embrace sobriety as a gift.How recovery tools and planning have helped me navigate triggers.The joy of celebrating milestones and holidays sober and authentically.Want to Share Your Story?I'd love to feature you on the show in the new year! Send me an email at gayapodcast@gmail.com or DM me on social media @gayapodcast to share your experiences with sobriety and recovery.Thank You for Listening!Thank you for tuning in to gAy A. Wishing you a safe, happy, and sober holiday season. I'll be taking a short break over the holidays but will return with fresh episodes in the new year. Until then, stay safe, stay grounded, and most importantly—stay sober, friends.Support the show

Send us a textIn this episode, originally released on April 22nd, 2022, Steve welcomes Scott to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying sober.Follow Scott on Instagram @scotttgrasso and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast.Also check out their website: https://www.scottgrasso.com/Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful.If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at gayapodcast@gmail.comOr Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends!Support the show

Send us a textEpisode Description: Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A, I'm diving back into the vault to revisit one of my earliest episodes on astrology and addiction. Originally recorded at just 105 days sober, this episode explores how our zodiac signs might influence our relationship with alcohol.But that's not all—I'm adding fresh insights and exploring a new article on zodiac signs and their connections to other addictive tendencies. Whether you're a Leo who loves to splurge (looking at you, Amazon cart), or a Pisces drawn to emotional escapism, there's something here for everyone.So, does your sign align with your past or present tendencies? Let's break it down together!What's Next? ✨ Listen to the full episode and share your thoughts on how your zodiac sign aligns with your past habits. ✨ Join the conversation: Email me, text the show, or connect on socials @GayAPodcast. ✨ Don't forget to follow Gay A for weekly episodes every Thursday!Resources Mentioned:Original Zodiac and Alcohol ArticleNew Zodiac and Addiction Article#GayAPodcast #QueerSobriety #AstrologyAndAddiction #ZodiacSigns #SoberCurious #LGBTQRecovery #SoberJourney #AddictionRecoverySupport the show

Send us a textSober Steve is joined by Ralf Rasmussen, host of RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! Ralf shares his journey from addiction to seven years of sobriety, delving into the challenges and triumphs of navigating the intersection of recovery, kink, and queer identity.We discuss:

Send us a textCheck out my guest appearance on RealClearTalk this week, and check out the show wherever you find this podcast!!Show notes from the episode:Steve B has been sober since May 28th, 2021, and is the host of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show. Having isolating during his drinking, he has only begun embracing his interests in leather, fetish, and kink in sobriety- something he believes is necessary for him in order to live a full, happy, and sober life. He is forever grateful for his sober family, his podcasting community, and kinksters like you!#RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlayMusic: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]Instagram: @gayapodcastInstagram: @juststevesrqAll podcast platforms: gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show#RealClearFetishTalksRealClearPlayMusic: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]Recorded on 17th October 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:https://youtu.be/Q0aY-8QvW6UHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.Support the show

Send us a textIn this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show, host Sober Steve welcomes Richard Dean, a fellow sober friend, to share his inspiring journey through addiction, recovery, and the exploration of codependence. Richard opens up about the challenges he faced in early sobriety, the lessons he learned from relapse, and the powerful transformation he experienced through programs like Alcoholics Anonymous and Codependents Anonymous. Together, they discuss the unique aspects of queer sobriety, the importance of finding balance in relationships, and the pivotal role of fellowship in maintaining sobriety.Topics Covered:Richard's journey from addiction to recovery, including relapses and the turning points that inspired lasting change.Navigating queer identity in sobriety and the importance of community connection.The impact of codependency in relationships and how Codependents Anonymous helped Richard find balance.Staying close to program practices, the role of daily routines, and how meditation, prayer, and fellowship play into Richard's recovery.Richard's advice on staying connected and finding joy in the present, along with embracing authenticity and freedom in life.What's Next? Hear the full episode to dive into Richard's story and gain valuable insights into navigating recovery and codependence as part of the queer sober community. Make sure to follow Gay A on your favorite podcast platform to catch new episodes every Thursday!Follow Richard Dean: Instagram: @richarddean326Support the show

Send us a textIn this episode of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show, Sober Steve welcomes back Julianne Griffin, aka Jewels, the founder of Swift Steps—a unique sober community for Swifties in recovery. They dive deep into the therapeutic power of journaling, finding balance in sobriety, and the challenges of staying accountable in recovery. Jules shares how the love for Taylor Swift's music, lyrics, and journey has become a powerful anchor for Swift Steps members to connect, support each other, and grow.What's Covered in This Episode:Swift Steps 101: For those unfamiliar with Swift Steps, Jules provides an overview of this inspiring recovery community for Swifties.Journaling with Taylor: Discover how the Swift Steps course, Blank Spaces and Brave Faces, uses Taylor Swift's music and lyrics as a journaling framework, encouraging members to explore their recovery journeys, release shame, and embrace self-compassion.Personal Growth and Accountability: Jules reflects on the challenges of showing up for herself, balancing self-care with the demands of community leadership, and the importance of support networks in recovery.Navigating Family Triggers: From co-dependency to challenging family relationships, Jules opens up about the struggles of setting boundaries and seeking personal growth within recovery.The Power of Swift Steps Community: Hear how Swift Steps members inspire each other, keep each other accountable, and bring a shared purpose that continues to enrich Jules' own journey in sobriety.What's Next?Curious to learn more about Swift Steps or join this vibrant community? Head over to their social media @swiftsteps13 or check out swiftsteps.org to join the mailing list and receive all the details.Tune in for insights, laughs, and a whole lot of Taylor-inspired recovery wisdom, and don't forget to hit "follow" so you never miss an episode of gAy A!

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Send us a textHey, Super Sober Heroes! In this episode of gAy A, Sober Steve welcomes back Jaycee K. Clark for a powerful conversation on the impact of social media on mental health and sobriety. With over 1,227 days sober, Steve sits down with Jaycee to discuss how social media plays a dual role in our lives—both as a tool for connection and a source of distraction. Jaycee, who will be one of the keynote speakers at the Here, Queer, Sober event next September, shares personal insights from her recent social media hiatus and how it transformed her recovery and self-care routine.Key Takeaways from the Episode:Social Media Hiatus: Jaycee opens up about taking a break from social media to focus on her mental health and emotional well-being. She highlights the importance of recognizing when social media becomes a distraction and how taking a step back helped her reconnect with herself.The Power of Disconnecting: How disconnecting from the online world can create space for deep emotional healing, self-reflection, and improved mental health in sobriety.Being Intentional: Jaycee emphasizes the need to be intentional with social media use—knowing when to engage, when to take a break, and how to create healthy boundaries.Balancing Creation and Consumption: As someone who uses social media for activism and sobriety advocacy, Jaycee shares tips on balancing content creation and consumption while staying grounded and present.Lessons in Recovery: They dive into the parallels between social media dependency and addiction, discussing how both require self-awareness and personal boundaries to maintain balance.Being Vulnerable and Staying Connected: Jaycee talks about the importance of staying connected with her recovery community, even when offline, and how being open with others about her struggles helps her stay grounded.Key Moments:Jaycee explains how her relationship with social media changed after entering recovery.How taking a break from social media empowered her to focus on her mental health and sobriety.Steve and Jaycee discuss the pros and cons of social media in the recovery space and how to navigate the pressures of being online.Jaycee talks about using social media as a tool for advocacy and sharing her recovery journey out loud.Connect with Jaycee:Follow Jaycee Clark on Instagram: @officialjayceekResources Mentioned:Here, Queer, Sober event in NYC, September 2024Stay Connected:Follow us on Instagram: @gAyApodcastFind more resources and episodes at www.sobersteve.com.Tune in Every Thursday:Make sure to hit Follow so you don't miss new episodes of gAy A every Thursday!If you enjoyed this episode:Please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback helps us reach more people in the LGBTQ+ recovery community.Stay Sober, Friends!Support the show

Send us a textHey there, Super Sober Heroes! In today's episode of gAy A, host Sober Steve (with 1,227 days sober!) welcomes back Danielle—one of our long-time pod family members, to dive into a topic that many in the LGBTQ+ community can relate to: Being “Out” in Sobriety.What you'll hear in this episode:Danielle reflects on her experiences of coming out in college and how it mirrors her sobriety journey.They discuss the importance of recovering out loud and the impact of living authentically in both your sexuality and your recovery.The connection between vulnerability and community, and how being open helps others feel less alone.Danielle shares how running is part of her self-care routine in sobriety and how she finds both mental and physical health benefits from it.Why it's so crucial to be present and how sobriety allows Danielle and Steve to fully embrace life's ups and downs.The societal assumptions about the queer community and sobriety, and how the LGBTQ+ community continues to evolve with more support and visibility.Danielle's candid and insightful take on being open about sobriety, sexuality, and life is sure to inspire anyone struggling with the idea of coming out in any aspect of their life. The conversation highlights the importance of connection, community, and embracing your authentic self, no matter the fears or challenges you face.Key Moments:Danielle shares her personal story about coming out in college after a tragic event sparked her to live authentically.The parallel between coming out as LGBTQ+ and coming out as sober.The importance of vulnerability and how recovering out loud has helped others start their sobriety journeys.Reflections on how the queer community continues to grow stronger despite challenges.Connect with Danielle:Follow Danielle on Instagram at @DC_and_Rosie (closed account but accepting friends of Steve!)Resources Mentioned:Looking for support in your sobriety journey? Visit www.sobersteve.com for more resources and community connections.Make sure to hit Follow so you don't miss any of our upcoming episodes, and don't forget to tune in every Thursday for new content.Follow us on Social Media:Instagram: @gAyApodcastFacebook: gAy A PodcastIf you enjoyed this episode:Leave us a rating or review on your favorite podcast platform! Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and grow this amazing community.Stay Sober, Friends!Support the show

Send us a textIn this week's episode, host Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, continues the dive into gAy A's archives with Part 2 of "Sober Support from the Vault." After more than 225 episodes, Steve brings back some powerful early interviews that still resonate today. Whether you're a new listener or a longtime fan, this episode offers a chance to revisit impactful stories from some of gAy A's earliest guests who continue to make waves in the queer sober community.Featuring clips from early interviews with Charlie Gray, Danielle (Daisy Soul Child), Michael from Happy Without The Hooch, and Scott, this episode is packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and inspiration. From exploring how sexuality intersects with addiction to understanding the deep support that the sober community provides, this episode is not one to miss.Key Takeaways:Charlie Gray on Vulnerability: Hear how Charlie used his memoir, At Least I'm Not a Frog, to be open and raw about his darkest moments, and why he believes it's important to be honest about the "dirty" parts of addiction to help others feel less alone.Danielle (Daisy Soul Child): In this clip, Danielle talks about coming out as a lesbian in the Black community and how hiding her true identity played a role in her addiction. She offers powerful advice on how accepting and loving yourself can be a key to recovery.Michael from Happy Without The Hooch: Michael shares how being gay impacted his relationship with alcohol, especially in a world where LGBT socializing often revolves around bars. He also reveals how he found new ways to build community and connection in sobriety.Scott's Legacy: In one of the most poignant clips of the episode, Steve reflects on Scott, a friend and fellow member of his home group who passed away sober. Scott's wisdom and dedication to sobriety, despite life's challenges, continues to inspire Steve and the gAy A community.Follow Us:Follow gAy A wherever you're listening to make sure you never miss an episode—new episodes every Thursday!**Where to Find Us:**Me:- gAy A on IG

Send us a textIn this exciting two-part special, gAy A is diving into the archives! Host Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, takes you on a journey back to some of the earliest episodes of the show. With over 225 episodes and more than three years of content, it's easy to miss some of the incredible stories shared by guests who have since become part of the gAy A family. So, Steve has pulled some of the best clips from his first solo episode, as well as his initial interviews with Joey, Gabriel, and Kristen, to revisit their early sobriety journeys.Listen in as Steve reflects on the growth of both the podcast and his own recovery, and enjoy hearing how these early guests have continued to thrive in their own sober lives. From navigating LGBTQIA+ sober living, to the impact of social media on recovery, to powerful insights on sexuality and sobriety, this episode is packed with wisdom, growth, and inspiration.Key Takeaways:Steve's Early Sobriety: Hear Steve's raw and vulnerable story from his very first solo episode, where he talks about the end of his drinking career, how the pandemic impacted his addiction, and finding his way in recovery through LGBT+ Zoom meetings.Joey from Rainbow Hill: Revisit Joey's first appearance on gAy A where he discusses the inspiration behind Rainbow Hill Sober Living and his tips for staying humble, cutting out toxic people, and staying accountable in recovery.Gabriel on Social Media and Sobriety: Gabriel shares how social media played a crucial role in his sobriety, offering connection and community, especially during the isolating days of the pandemic.Kristen on Gender Identity and Sobriety: Kristen, a non-binary member of the gAy A family, reflects on how their gender identity and sexuality impacted their addiction, and offers powerful advice for those navigating life, addiction, and recovery.Follow Us:Follow Steve on Instagram @GayAPodcast for updates, and don't forget to subscribe wherever you're listening so you get new episodes every Thursday**Where to Find Us:**Me: - gAy A on IG

Send us a textIn this week's episode of gAy A, Sober Steve the Podcast Guy sits down with his long-time sober sibling, Savannah. With 1,215 days sober for Steve and 1,365 days for Savannah, they share an honest conversation about surviving the challenges of sobriety—especially in a world where alcohol seems to be everywhere. From navigating social events and mocktails to processing personal triggers and using sobriety tools, this episode is packed with wisdom for anyone looking to go from simply surviving to truly thriving in sobriety.Key Takeaways:Surviving a World Full of Alcohol: Savannah and Steve discuss how they handle being surrounded by alcohol in everyday spaces—from grocery stores to Pride events—and how to stay grounded in sobriety.Tools for Thriving: Savannah shares how she stays strong in her recovery through the use of meetings, staying connected with her sober network, and never being afraid to ask for help.Triggers and Emotions: From dealing with life stressors like school and mental health to handling unexpected emotions, Savannah opens up about how she copes without turning to alcohol.Mocktails and Boundaries: Savannah shares a personal story about a mocktail mishap and gives advice on how to navigate the world of non-alcoholic drinks safely and confidently.Going From Surviving to Thriving: Tips for transitioning from just getting by in sobriety to embracing life fully—staying focused, working the program, and sharing openly in meetings.Connect with us!Don't miss this empowering episode of gAy A! Follow/Subscribe now wherever you listen for new episodes every Thursday! Follow Us- Savanna on Tik-Tok - gAy A on IG

Send us a textIn this exciting and unconventional episode of gAy A, Steve Bennet-Martin, aka Sober Steve the Podcast Guy, puts AI to the test! Can AI really understand the intersections of queerness and sobriety? Steve and ChatGPT dive into some of the most powerful themes shared by LGBTQIA+ individuals in recovery, exploring how technology can shed light on these deep, personal experiences. Plus, can you tell the difference between AI Steve and Real Steve? Tune in and find out!Key Takeaways:•Can AI Relate?: How AI reflects on the shared queer and sober experiences and the common challenges we face.•What's Your Favorite Part of Being Sober?: Steve and ChatGPT discuss authenticity, self-acceptance, and the incredible connections formed in sobriety.•How Do Queerness and Sobriety Intersect?: A deep dive into how living authentically and staying sober are connected journeys.•AI's Survival Guide for the First 90 Days: Practical tips on how to get through early sobriety and why support networks matter more than ever.•Can You Tell the Difference?: Steve challenges you—can you spot when it's AI Steve talking?What's Next?Scroll up and text the show with what you thought of this episode! Also, ...- gAy A on IG

Send us a textIn this week's episode, host Steve, celebrating 1,202 days of sobriety, welcomes back Chad to continue their conversation on sobriety, fitness, and competition after bonding at OutSport's OutVivor event. Chad shares his experiences in various competitions, from marathons to soccer, and how pushing his limits has been a crucial part of his sober journey. He also provides insights into balancing fitness, fun, and personal growth while staying connected to recovery. The conversation delves into both solo and team competitions, how sobriety has transformed their approach to challenges, and the importance of a balanced social life inside and outside of recovery. Chad also reflects on his journey through sports leagues, OutVivor, and the growth he's experienced from taking part in these events.Key Takeaways:Chad shares how competing against himself, rather than others, fuels his drive.Steve reflects on how pushing his limits in sobriety has transformed his relationship with fitness and competition.The importance of balance: staying active in both recovery and personal fitness goals.Chad's experiences with group sports, including joining sober leagues, and later expanding his circle in non-sober environments.The parallels between training for marathons and staying sober, focusing on taking things one step at a time.Advice for anyone interested in trying a new challenge like a marathon, sports league, or competition. If you're curious about pushing your limits in sobriety, join Steve and Chad as they explore how competing can be a powerful tool for personal growth. What's Next? Follow Us!- Chad on Instagram

Send us a textHost Steve celebrates 1,195 days of sobriety and welcomes Chad to share his powerful journey. Together, we explore the importance of self-discovery, overcoming toxic relationships, and building a life rooted in recovery and community.Celebrating Sobriety: Steve marks 1,195 days sober and introduces Chad to the show.Starting Early: Chad's journey to sobriety and the struggles he faced along the way.Overcoming Challenges: From toxic relationships to personal growth, Chad opens up about the hardships he conquered in early recovery.Community & Transformation: Chad's experiences in sober community activities and how they've shaped his recovery.Advice for Newcomers: Chad offers valuable insights and advice for those in early recovery or facing challenges.Looking Ahead: A teaser for a follow-up discussion on competing in fun events in sobriety.Tune in next episode for part two, where we discuss participating in competitions sober.- Chad on Instagram

Send us a textIn this episode, Sober Steve celebrates 1,186 days of sobriety and welcomes Melinda Dixon, the first member from Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families (ACA) to join the show. Melinda shares her powerful journey toward emotional sobriety, shedding light on how ACA has profoundly shaped her life. The conversation explores the importance of emotional regulation through human connection, the power of community, and the impact of understanding one's core wounds on maintaining healthy relationships. Steve and Melinda also discuss the evolution of their queer identities in sobriety and the pride they've found in their unique personal journeys.- Celebrating Sobriety: Steve marks 1,186 days of sobriety and introduces Melinda as the first ACA guest.- Emotional Sobriety: Melinda's journey to emotional regulation through connection and ACA meetings.- Understanding Core Wounds: How this understanding has helped Melinda establish healthy boundaries and relationships.- Queer Identity in Sobriety: The pride Steve and Melinda have found in their unique queer identities within and apart from the LGBT+ community.- Self-Care Practices: Exploring the role of gratitude lists, exercise, and fine dining in maintaining recovery.Tune in for a heartfelt conversation on emotional sobriety, queer identity, and personal growth in recovery, and leave a rating and review to pay it forward for the next person who might find the show!**Where to Find Us:**- More Information on ACA- gAy A on IG

Send us a Text Message.Steve welcomes back Dale for part two of their interview to discuss their experiences exploring and embracing leather and kink after entering recovery. Warning- this episode is *very* sexually explicit!Opening Discussion: "How do YOU celebrate your birthdays in recovery?"Topics discussed includeOur experiences (or lack thereof) with leather and kink before entering recovery.Unpacking and getting in touch with our kinks and fetishes in sobriety and step work.Ways the Leather and Kink community and Sober communities intersect, both socially and with their principles of safe, sane, and consensual fun.The importance of communication in sobriety and in leather and kink.Suggestions for getting started if you are new to leather and kink in recovery.And much more!!**Where to Find Us:**- Dale on Instagram

Send us a Text Message.Host Sober Steve celebrates 1,172 days of sobriety and introduces Dale W., who is 205 days back in sobriety, sharing his powerful journey in this first part of a two-part episode.Dale opens up about his struggles with meth addiction, the isolation he faced, and the joy he found in building connections within the queer community. The conversation delves into overcoming emotional hurdles, finding acceptance, and the critical role of honesty in sobriety. Together, Steve and Dale explore the importance of authentic connections and offer a glimpse into their shared experiences within sober kink communities, which they'll discuss more in the next episode.- Dale's Journey: From meth addiction and isolation to finding community and recovery.- Overcoming Emotional Hurdles: The challenges Dale faced and how he overcame them.- Building Authentic Connections: The importance of honesty and community in sobriety.- Sneak Peek: A preview of their upcoming discussion on sober kink communities.**Where to Find Us:**- Dale on Instagram

Send us a Text Message.Host Sober Steve celebrates 1,164 days of sobriety and thanks listeners for their support, highlighting the new fan mail option before welcoming Jaycee K. Clark, a 34-year-old trans woman, to share her experience, strength, and hope, along with her inspiration for activism today. Jaycee discusses her past struggles with addiction, her experiences in sex work, and her journey to sobriety. She emphasizes the importance of building connections, overcoming shame, and transforming past traumas into a source of hope and activism. Jaycee also talks about her experiences navigating healthcare and dental work as a recovering addict, offering valuable advice for newcomers on the impermanence of emotions.- **Celebrating Sobriety:** Steve marks 1,164 days of sobriety and thanks listeners for their engagement.- **Listener Impact:** Nick made history as my first text fan mail! - **Jaycee's Story:** Her journey from addiction to recovery and activism.- **Overcoming Shame:** Turning past traumas into hope and activism.- **Navigating Healthcare:** Insights into managing healthcare as a recovering addict.- **Advice for Newcomers:** The importance of understanding that emotions are temporary.**Where to Find Us:**- Jaycee on Instagram

Send us a Text Message.In this episode, Sober Steve welcomes Holden, host of The Sober Unicorn podcast and author of 'Hold'N It Down'. Holden shares his journey from addiction to recovery, the impact of his memoir, and the growth he's experienced. They discuss the importance of connection in sobriety and offer advice for those new to recovery. Don't forget to leave a five-star review to help others find this podcast!**Where to Find Us:**- Holden on Instagram

Send us a Text Message.In this episode of the 'gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show,' Sober Steve interviews Drake G, who shares his remarkable journey of early sobriety and his transformative experiences within the queer and recovery communities. Drake discusses his past struggles with addiction, mental health, and his path to recovery, emphasizing the importance of community and support in his newfound sobriety.00:00 Updates and Gratitude01:53 Meet Drake: Early Sobriety Journey03:42 Drake's Struggles with Addiction09:48 Turning Point and Recovery13:12 Life After Rehab18:51 Future Plans and Final Thoughts**Where to Find Us:**- Drake on Instagram

Send us a Text Message.Home in Sobriety: An Interview with Ginelle TestaIn this episode of the Queer Sober Hero Show, host Steve interviews Ginellle Testa from Boston, who has been sober for over ten years. They discuss their sobriety journey, the importance of community, and Ginelle's upcoming recovery addiction memoir, Make a Home Out of You.00:00 Fitness and Sobriety Journey02:52 Interview with Ginelle Begins03:22 Ginelle's Road to Recovery08:10 Challenges and Growth in Sobriety14:27 Writing and Forgiveness19:05 Future Aspirations and Community21:30 Conclusion and Farewell**Where to Find Us:**- Ginelle on Instagram

Send us a Text Message.In this 201st episode of the Queer Sober Hero Show, host Sober Steve celebrates over 1,132 days of sobriety by answering questions from influential guests who've been significant to his podcast and recovery journey. This second part of the 200th episode mailbag extravaganza features Steve reflecting on his transformation, the ongoing battle with alcohol-related thoughts, and the joys of living a sober, authentic life while addressing key questions and providing insights on sobriety and community.Celebrate by binging past episodes by the amazing guests who asked this week's questions!Charlie's Episodes:#23 At Least I'm Not The Frog#81 Listen To Yourself#116 The Frog's Bottle#135 Sexuality#180 The Frog No MoreChristina Hayes Scott:#194- Unraveling RecoveryJason R:#125 Give It Your All#168 Sex in RecoveryEric from Sobervation:#67 Not Afraid#191 SobervationAlex S#77 You're Not Struggling Alone#192 Journaling and CommunityBrandy Jo#53 You Get Better#83 Discovering Your Identity#104 MarriageSupport the Show.

Send us a Text Message.In this milestone episode, host Sober Steve celebrates 200 episodes with a special mailbag Q&A featuring questions from some of our amazing previous guests.Celebrate by binging past episodes by the amazing guests who asked this week's questions! Phil's Episodes: #172- A Change in Perspective #143- It's How You Carry ItElsa's Episodes:#163 Managing Career in Sobriety#33 One Day at a TimeJimmy's Episodes:#159 Don't Take Yourself So SeriouslyJ9's Episodes:#184- Creating with ADHD #140- Making Music#64 Just Start, Don't StopDave from Sober Gay Sunday's Episodes: #160: Sober Gay Sunday#97: Sober Travel#87: Dating Sober#88: Sex and Communication#70: I Don't Do That AnymoreDanielle's Episodes:#155 Sobriety & Recovery#121 Fearless & ThoroughAlso mentioned- Steve's Storyteller Sunday at Church:#183 Finding My Way Back To GodThank you all for listening! If you liked it, tell a friend! If you loved it, send a text using the link above. If you really loved it, leave a review!Stay sober

Send us a Text Message.Sober Steve celebrates 1,123 days of sobriety by reflecting on a recent pride experience and the value of friendships. He welcomes guest Sam to discuss the journey of overcoming alcoholism and drug addiction, sharing candid stories about choosing sobriety over harmful habits. They delve into the challenges and joys of living authentically in the queer community, redefining personal truths, and cultivating genuine friendships. Key topics include recovery steps, embracing one's true self, dealing with societal expectations, and forming supportive relationships in sobriety. The episode emphasizes acceptance, continuous self-improvement, and the importance of living an authentic life.00:36 Introduction and Gratitude04:54 Interview with Sam Begins10:31 Sam's Journey to Sobriety22:41 Living Authentically in Sobriety**Where to Find Us:**- Sam on Instagram

Send us a Text Message.Sober Steve Chats with Johnny Bear from Belly Talk on sobriety and bear community wellnessSober Steve celebrates his 1,117 days sober by sharing his gratitude for the supportive Sarasota community and exciting Pride Month activities. He then interviews Johnny Bear from the Belly Talk podcast, who opens up about his tumultuous journey through addiction, self-discovery, and eventual sobriety. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of remaining sober while being active in social and bear communities, and share advice on building a support network, seeking help, and maintaining daily sobriety practices. Johnny also highlights the importance of authenticity, community support, and promoting wellness within the bear culture. Full of personal insights and inspirational stories, this episode offers encouragement and practical tips for anyone navigating their path to sobriety.00:00 Introduction and Gratitude00:50 Interview with Johnny Bear01:49 Johnny's Journey to Sobriety04:38 Challenges and Turning Points12:31 Finding Community and Self-Discovery16:31 Overcoming Abuse and Seeking Help21:51 Rebuilding Life and Embracing Sobriety26:01 Maintaining Sobriety and Community Engagement31:22 Conclusion and Contact Information**Where to Find Us:**- Johnny Bear on Instagram

Send us a Text Message.Sober Steve welcomes Richard to share his experience, strength, and hope with getting sober in the queer community, as well as their philosophy of the 3 T's of SobrietyTopics include Facing TrialsOvercoming TribulationsCelebrating TrumphsDiscovering Self-ConfidenceEvolving in RecoveryAnd much more**Where to Find Us:**- Richard on Instagram

Sober Steve welcomes Jewels and Emily from Swift Steps to discuss their experience navigating sobriety and building a recovery community centered around being a fan of Taylor Swift.  (Get it, now?)Topics include Finding A CommunityBuilding A CommunityRedefining RecoveryIdentifying Addictions in Art/MusicMental Health in RecoveryAnd much more**Where to Find Us:**- The Swift Steps on Instagram

Sober Steve welcomes Alex from LGBTQ Mindfulness to discuss their experience navigating sobriety in the queer community while living a mindful life.Topics include Mindset TipsFinding A CommunityBuilding A CommunityBeing Around AlcoholBeing Around DrinkersDaily Care PracticesAnd much more**Where to Find Us:**- Alex on Instagram

Earlier this month, Steve had the opportunity to ask his local community, "What Does Diversity Mean to You?"Find out what it means to the people of Sarasota, live from Diversefest at The Harvest Church on 17th Street.Enjoy the bonus episode, and until next time, stay sober!Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE!Support the Show.

Sober Steve welcomes Christina Hayes Scott to discuss the significance of sobriety and holistic recovery. Topics include Recognizing burnoutEmotional regulationFacing challenges like breakups and health scares, Exploring the 12-step program and cross addictions like overeating. Christina shares her personal journey to sobriety, emphasizing the transformative power it holds in dealing with emotions and progressing in life. Both Sober Steve and Christina stress the importance of holistic recovery by addressing underlying issues for a successful sobriety path, alongside promoting nature connection and positive social media presence for support and inspiration.**Where to Find Us:**- Christina on Facebook!- Christina on Instagram

Steve shares a bonus audio diary episode about his experiences at this years Florida Roundup, with takeaways such as...What the heck is a roundup?Not letting travel difficulties impact the experience at your destination.Overcoming social insecurities like judgement and rejection.The positive experiences from workshop and social events on site.Adventuring out for firsts and letting go of "I can't"sStay tuned for our usual episode Thursday!Want to hear more, check out Instagram- Live on release day or saved afterwards @gayapodcastLeave a review if you like the podcast- even just a little- it's free and would make me the happiest sober queer podcast host in the whole wide world!Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE!Support the Show.

Sober Steve is joined by Alex Sphon to discuss recovering out loud in his community as well as tips and advice for anyone who is sober or sober curious.**Episode Highlights Include**- **The Role of Journaling in Recovery:** Alex shares how his journaling has helped him from the beginning of his sobriety journey and continues today.- **You Say I'm an Alcoholic Like It's A Bad Thing:** Alex shares how recovery out loud has changed his perception and sense of community over the years.- **Friendships in Recovery** Many people worry about how sobriety changes their friendships and relationships, so Alex and Steve reflect back on how those has changed over the years since getting sober.- **And Much More! ****Where to Find Us:**- Alex on Facebook! - Alex on Instagram

Sober Steve is joined by Eric from Sobervation to discuss recovering out loud, starting businesses sober, and staying motivated. **Episode Highlights Include**- **The Role of Fitness in Recovery:** Eric shares on how his weight loss journey and sobriety journey have continued since his last episode two years ago.

Sober Steve is joined by James Sweasy to share his experience, strength, and hope on navigating sobriety while helping others through their own journeys.**Episode Highlights Include**- **Identify, Don't Compare:** How focusing on our similarities rather than our differences helps keep us connected and sober! - **Finding Value in Sobriety:** You need to value your sobriety to recovery as a whole person and keep an open mind!- **Finding Value in Yourself:** James shares just how much he went through and how he came out the other side believing in his own value. - **And Much More! ****Where to Find Us:**- James Sweasy's Website - James on Facebook- James on IG

Sober Steve is joined by Joey Bachrach from Rainbow Hill Recovery to peel back the curtain and discuss what it's like working in recovery with his husband, Andrew Fox. **Episode Highlights Include**- **The Role of Community in Recovery:** Insights from my visit to Rainbow Hill Recovery and how my sober community helped me get through my insecurities in Los Angeles.

In this episode, Sober Steve chats with our special guest, Andy, who bravely opens up about his journey to sobriety through grief and ADHD. Andy shares his struggles with alcohol, how he found his place within the queer community, and built a network of sober friends. Andy shares his challenges of traveling while sober, and the positive shifts in lifestyle that come with sobriety. You don't want to miss Andy's inspiring story and the valuable insights shared in this episode. Steve then dives into the correlation between ADHD and addiction with some facts and stats that may surprise you! Do you have an ADHD diagnosis already? Or might you have ADHD and have not been diagnosed yet? If you are in recovery, your chances of this affecting you are higher than you might think!Connect with Andy on IG @andyalsopConnect with Steve everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve@SoberSteve.comUntil next time, stay sober friends!Source for ADHD Mentions: https://www.addictions.com/blog/adhd-in-addiction-recovery-and-how-it-affects-people/Support the show

Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we delve into the inspiring story of Brian Belovitch, author of Transfigured. He is a resilient individual who has navigated through societal pressures, personal struggles, and the challenges of identity and sobriety. Brian also has the unique experience of transitioning from male to female in his youth, and then a transition back to male in sobriety.Join host Steve as he sits down with Brian to explore his transformation, his experiences and insights on sobriety, and his mission to carry a powerful message within the queer community. Together, they discuss navigating the complexities of reclaiming one's identity, the importance of asking for help, and the significance of embracing change. Get ready for a raw and empowering conversation you won't want to miss!Check out Brian's book, Trans Figured: My Journey from Boy to Girl to Woman to Man, here: https://a.co/d/dEB7DrCConnect with Brian online: https://www.facebook.com/brian.belovitch1Connect with Steve and the podcast online everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve at steve@sobersteve.comWant more content? Head over to Patreon for bonus episodes and early releases at www.patreon.com/gayapodcastSupport the show

Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we dive into the inspiring journey of our guest, Christopher, a fragrance and skin care developer and fashion designer. He shares his experiences with sobriety, the challenges he faced, and the resilience he developed. From creating his own line of fragrances to navigating personal struggles, Christopher's story is one of strength and determination. Our host, Steve, also discusses his own sobriety journey and the impact of joining a kickball league on his perception of team sports. Plus, we'll explore the importance of community support and the evolving perspectives on sobriety. Check out Bloke NYC at www.blokenyc.com and find Christopher at https://www.facebook.com/chris.valianteEngage with Steve on the socials @gayapodcast, email him at steve@sobersteve.com or add him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/steven.bennet.90/Enjoy exclusive content and early access at over at www.patreon.com/gayapodcastSupport the show

Welcome back to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, where we celebrate sobriety, resilience, and creativity. In today's episode, our host, Sober Steve, shares his personal journey of sobriety, reflecting on 1026 days of continuous sobriety and the approval of his workshop on overcoming shame and trauma in the context of sex and recovery for the Florida roundup. We then dive into a captivating interview with the talented Leo S., who shares his 35-year sobriety journey intertwined with a successful music career and struggles with alcohol dependency and anxiety. Leo's story explores the themes of personal growth, artistic perseverance, and the power of giving back to the community. From navigating uncomfortable conversations about race in creative work to the challenges of forgiveness and compassion in sobriety, Leo's wisdom and experience provide invaluable insights. So sit back and get ready for an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation with Leo S. on gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show.Want to connect with Leo? Visit https://leoschwartz.com/ or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/leo.schwartz.1Connect with Steve and the podcast everywhere @gayapodcast or by email at steve@sobersteve.comWant more gAy A content? Join our Patreon community and unlock bonus episodes and early access! www.patreon.com/gayapodcastSupport the show

Hey there, Super Soberheroes! Today we have two stories that both touch on unique experiences, but share receiving an ADHD diagnosis in sobriety.We're joined by Chad C from Vancouver, who shares his 23-year journey through sobriety, competitive figure skating, and the unexpected challenges life throws our way. His story, filled with gratitude for life's gifts including marriage and travel, offers a raw and inspiring look at overcoming obstacles and the importance of supportive networks.The conversation takes a deeper look at the intersection of recovery and maintaining physical fitness, an often-overlooked aspect of the sober life. Through my own struggles and triumphs, we address the complexities of eating disorders, particularly in the high-pressure world of competitive sports, and how these experiences shape our paths toward healthy living. We also touch on the intricacies of recovery, which demand more than just exercise and nutrition, reminding us that self-compassion and accountability are crucial for sustained sobriety. Moreover, the episode underscores the broader impact of personal recovery on relationships and responsibilities, urging us to stay alert to the dangers of an all-or-nothing approach in our ongoing quest for growth.Wrapping up, we celebrate the milestones of our guest J9, who shares the latest twists in their life's journey, including a fresh single, Pleasure and Pain, amidst the backdrop of sobriety and an ADHD diagnosis. Unpacking the nuances of emotional regulation and daily management of ADHD, we offer insights and strategies that resonate with many who navigate similar challenges. Thanks for listening!Find Chad Online: Chad Conley on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/chadlconley and Instagram @chad_c78 Find J9's New Song, Pleasure and Pain Streaming: bit.ly/PleasureAndPain-streamFollow J9 on all the socials @J9grooves Support the show