Manhood Restored

We are "de-Cathinated" (but definitely not decaffeinated) for this BONUS episode.  Ben is joined by three of his pastor friends (Adam Poe, Phil Bange, and Justin Monfort), all from local churches of different Protestant denominations, to discuss this episode's title question.  While we will be without the Catholic Chadder, these dynamic men are poised to deliver some absolutely great insights.   In true Man Talk fashion, there's a four-way free-flowing discussion throughout; as the conversation draws down, each co-host gives their final weigh-in.  The four co-hosts discuss how to effectively minister in our homes and in society, and how to reach our youth for Christ and the role technology plays in that effort.  Then it's off to new and exciting things for Ben and Chad!  Thanks again for listening and supporting us! Of course, you can always find out what Ben is up to at:   Home - Ben NeffRecommendations from our Co-hosts:The Gospel comes with a House Key by Rosiario ButterfieldJoining Jesus on His Mission by Greg FinkeQuestioning Evangelism by Randy NewmanEvangelism in a Skeptical World by Sam Chan

Beacons of Light, implemented in the Archdiocese of Cincinnati in July of 2022, is anattempt to address difficult realities facing Catholics, realities like declining Massattendance and growing priest shortages. A consolidation of parish churches intogroupings called “Families” has ensued with the hope that shared resources mightenable Catholics to move "from a mindset of maintenance to a mindset of mission."Despite its good intentions and its arguably necessary measures, Beacons has provendisruptive and often trying for many of the lay faithful.Chad takes this BONUS opportunity to bring in three Mighty Catholic laymen (John Paul Slonkosky, Nick Rentz, and Jared Pottkotter), for a 4-mic Man-Talk, to discuss this episode's title question. The four of them roundtable the challenges, the realizations, and the divisions brought on by Beacons.  What has been the experience of Beacons “on the ground” by the average Catholic?  How much of the difficulties during these first two years of Beacons has to do with parish consolidations, and how much has to do with younger priests moving toward more traditional liturgical celebrations? What is the future of Catholicism in Cincinnati, and (at the episode's end) what advice would these four men give to lay men and women as we move forward together?SHOW NOTES:Beacons of Light Parish Families - Archdiocese of Cincinnati (catholicaoc.org)

Episode 138 - It's the last hurrah here on the Manhood Restored podcast!  Two and half years of weekly episodes add up to 150 (counting BONUSES!), and we find ourselves having one last mighty conversation.  Ben and Chad could think of no better way to sign off than to interact with questions from you, Dear Listener.  We sincerely THANK YOU for coming along with us on this project - it's been a blast!  God Bless you!Here are the question topics, in order of how we answer them:Our recommended "replacement" podcasts/resources, post-MRWhy didn't we ever have a woman on the program?What do we make of the general malaise of young men and how can we change that negative trend?What devotional/formative resources would we recommend to young men?Will honestly seeking the truth about God/salvation ultimately lead to the Catholic Church (Ben)?If the early Church (first 300+ years), didn't have the Canon of Scripture, how did it practice 'Sola Scriptura' (Ben)?Who would be Ben's Patron Saint and why? How do we continue to persevere in "doing the next right thing" when life is hard and nothing we do seems to make a difference? What have Ben and Chad learned to appreciate about each other's respective faith traditions after having done the podcast?How have Ben and Chad benefitted, in general, from doing the podcast? What is next for Ben and Chad, post MR?SHOW NOTES:See what Ben is doing, read his blog or have him come speak at your event. Check out...www.benneff.com 

Plug 'em in and pass 'em around - the microphones, that is!  Four microphones to be exact.  And four men, for the last MAN TALK, convene a roundtable on this crucial leading question.  Two hosts and two guest hosts have a very timely and important conversation.  A really great conversation.  A beautiful conversation.  By the end, each man reveals how he'll be voting in the 2024 --okay, not really.  But they do each finally give their conclusion on the question at hand.  (Feel free to weigh in, dear listener, by emailing us at mightymen@manhoodrestored.tv)Craig Flack and Andy Muhlenkamp are two very thoughtful and mighty men.  They join Ben and Chad to add some healthy balance to this ("HUGE") politically charged topic.  Craig is the Pastor at Celina First Church of God in Celina, Ohio; Andy is a member of the sure-to-be-renowned-someday local book club, the Blinklings.  The four face the elephants (and donkeys) in the MR "studio".  Which presidential option is more problematic for a Christian-in-good-conscience:  Trump or Biden?  Do the various elements at play in today's political landscape make it uniquely difficult for a Chrisitian to stay faithful in his beliefs AND be engaged in the political process?  And how can a man's core identity be a key to whether or not he's voting faithfully on any given issue or for any particular candidate?        

Episode 136 - We've established that feminism has a fatal foothold in all sorts of cultural and societal institutions - it's made schooling anti-boy; it's made dating and marriage miserable for many--men and women alike; it's turned our storytelling into unrealistic propaganda; it's opened the floodgates for every form of gender confusion under the sun.  But is it possible that it's also managed to emasculate our theology? Ben does the opposite of smooth things over in this, his last lead episode--that is, he just makes more waves (and too many puns), while Chad carries a memorable tune as co-host in this "fruity" episode.  The two toss around the novel notion that the Holy Spirit animates men and women differently.  How might "fruits" of the Spirit like peace and love take on a uniquely masculine character?  What would cause or motivate someone to "read feminism into" the Scriptures?  And what are examples of how the manly bearing of spiritual fruit can benefit the home, the church, and the culture at large?SHOW NOTES:Chad's song reference:  Slugs & Bugs – Slugs and BugsBen's devotional book reference- Abiding in Christ- Andrew MurrayBen's Biblical passages referenced:Fruit of the Spirit - Galatians 5:22 NIV - But the fruit of the Spirit is love, - Bible GatewayPaul's spiritually manly appeal: 2 Timothy 1:6-14 NIV - Appeal for Loyalty to Paul and the - Bible Gateway

Episode 135 -One hundred and thirty-five episodes in and the core message of this podcast remains the same:  Men—MIGHTY MEN—are the solution to the problems besetting western society today.  What kind of men in particular?  What makes a man mighty and how can he become fit for the task of righting the ship?  Piece by piece, that is the puzzle we've been putting together at the Manhood Restored podcast.  This episode puts a frame around that puzzle's final, integrated picture.Chad takes the mound in the final game of this seven-game “series” of an episode, while Ben waits in the bullpen for the call to close as the “wild” card co-host.  The two take a step back and marvel at the manly picture that's materialized over the course of two years of recording.  Which of Chad's “man” episodes have come together to form a helpful road map to Mighty Mandom?  What does it mean to be an Integrated Man?  And what are some saintly and biblical examples of men who fit the Integrated-Man mold?SHOW NOTES:Chad's Challenge movie:  A Man for All Seasons (1966) - IMDb

Episode 134 - We have "grilled" each other on our differences, come together on the ways we agree, and debated big topics like salvation.  Now with the end of our conversations drawing near, we couldn't conclude the podcast without one last Catholic vs. Protestant debate! Ben , professing to be the titleholder, heard a challenge in a recent Man Talk episode and can't resist leading the protest; Chad, relishing the role of "underdog", is all too happy to oblige as contender and co-host!  The two turn inward again to talk on a major point of departure between Catholics & Protestants:  the sacraments.  Ben pushes back strongly against the need for the priesthood in administering grace.  Chad appeals to the necessity of form and ritual in worship and prayer - regardless of denomination.  They seek understanding and clarification by:  going to the Bible (Chad, believe it or not!);  telling about their own recent experiences (Ben's got an interesting one!);  and both expressing their own deep-seeded sensibilities of how to relate to God.  

Episode 133 - The trends in survey data on friendship are indicating steep declines in recent decades - in both friendship quality and quantity. That trend, it's popularly believed, has most especially affected men.  One 2021 survey found that men with at least six "close friends" has dropped from 55 percent to 27 percent since1990!  How can that be in a society that purports to be so "social" and "connected"?  Oh, the irony!Chad's parades as the Grand Poohbah in this secret man club of an episode, while Ben gets a co-host's initiation, coughing through the club's cloud of cigar smoke as he tries to perfect the Manhood Restored secret handshake. The two friends puzzle over the recent friendship trends and reflect on the value of friendship.  What could be the contributing factors to such sharp declines in friendship among men?  How important are friendships to men, especially given the time and energy required to maintain them?  And how have Ben and Chad fared personally with making and maintaining friendships into their adult lives?SHOW NOTES:Friendship survey data from 2021: The State of American Friendship: Change, Challenges, and Loss - The Survey Center on American Life (americansurveycenter.org)American Men Suffer a Friendship Recession - The Survey Center on American Life (americansurveycenter.org)

Episode 132 - It's been a long many years since the tectonic times of the Seneca Falls Convention; the societal fracture left at its feminist epicenter has widened into a canyon-sized divide between the sexes.  The tremors of nearly 200 years of feminism have been felt by nearly every corner of our society.   Its harmful effects are found in culture, education, economics, sexuality.  Even Christian institutions have been far from immune.  That's including the institution of marriage.Ben calls up his inner Anchorman for this magnum opus of an episode, while Chad chases the storm stirred up therein as co-host.  The two batten down the hatches for a headlong dive into the whipping winds of a "Her-ricane".  How would one accurately define Feminism as a cultural phenomenon from the Manhood Restored perspective?  What are some ways in which feminism has found its way into Christian households and Christian Marriages?  How can men and women begin to reverse its negative effects, and could the solution have anything to do with the A-Word?  SHOW NOTES:Seneca Fall document (read for yourself):  The Seneca Falls Declaration 1848 < 1826-1850 < Documents < American History From Revolution To Reconstruction and beyond (rug.nl)Mike Winger Women in Ministry IntroMike Winger Men as Head of HouseholdJohn Michael Clark- The Family CaptainMichael FosterThe Cherishing Nurture of a Godly FeminineBook Recommendation (written by a former feminist):  The End of Woman: How Smashing the Patriarchy Has Destroyed Us: Gress, Carrie: 9781684514182: Amazon.com: Books

Episode 131 - *LISTEN IN FOR A MANHOOD RESTORED SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT*Parents and grandparents passing along hard-earned wisdom to the next generation is probably most often accomplished through oral storytelling, impromtu lectures, and incidental conversation.  But there's nothing like the written word (or a written-up podcast episode) to really focus and articulate the "the things you want them to know"; taking the time to think through what's worth sharing and putting those thoughts to paper, is a a great way of leaving behind your words even after you're gone.Chad busts out his "quill" and plays the sage for this personal letter of an episode, as Ben lingers around as co-host hoping an idea will light him up (because that's what Bens do best!).  The two contemplate the "letter to my son" concept as Chad lays out six pieces of advice he wants to pass along to his children.  Along with each six, he also gives real life examples of how the advice has helped him in his own life.  Ben piggybacks off each idea and then adds his own elderly advice at the end.   SHOW NOTES:Andrew Peterson song referened at episode's end:  https://lyrics.lyricfind.com/lyrics/andrew-peterson-youll-find-your-way

Episode 130 - Facing down a question of far-wielding proportions is yet again the task of this MAN TALK episode, setting loose four men and four microphones on a topic that requires substantial time to work out.  Hosts and Guest Hosts hash out this perennially debated question and aim at "solving the world's problems" in just over 90 minutes!  The four will each give their final answers by episode's end.  (What's your opinion, dear listener? Email us at mightymen@manhoodrestored.tv .)Pete Mustard and Josh Wendel coincidentally both have experience in the automotive industries; while that has absolutely nothing to do with this episode's topic, their common penchant for the peculiar does.  Both fancying themselves as history nuts, they hope to help Ben and Chad ascend this Everest-like episode question.  What are some of the unique factors faced by the modern world that could arguably sway one's opinion in either direction on this question?  What's the best lens through which to filter out an answer to this question - religious/moral, human progress/advancement, wealth/prosperity?  Was there a time in history, from a Christian's point of view, when humanity was most in harmony with God?

Episode 129 - A world where every temporal necessity is given and every environmental factor optimized is a world poised for flourishing.  Plentiful food and drink.  Adequate space and healthy conditions.  Safety and comfort and communal harmony.  You couldn't imagine a more perfect existence; it'd be a veritable Utopia.  Except that there's no such thing.  And that's a curious fact--for mice, and for men.Ben watermelons his way back to his junior high days and channels his inner Vanilla Ice as lead for this episode, while Chad busts out his sociological magnifying glass to offer his "illustrious" analysis as co-host.  The two use the results of a mouse experiment from the '70s to springboard into a discussion about the perils of Progress.  In what ways does mouse behavior in the "Universe 25" experiment mirror that of modern human society?  What about material prosperity and relative societal safety makes us particularly susceptible to self-induced crisis?  What can men, as leaders and fathers, do to head off our progression toward an utopian way of life so as to avoid its inevitable pitfalls?SHOW NOTES:Universe 25 Mouse Experiment :  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ReBJfxHjFU

Episode 128 - Nobody likes being told a lie.  That is, unless you agree up front to go along with the lie.  But what if you've gone along with the lies so long, you're not so sure you know what's true anymore?  Maybe what's real is only a matter of what you're willing to go along with.  Enter five foot-five, one-hundred- and fifteen-pound girl-boss action heroes.  Enter Angelina Jolie and Scarlett Johansson.  Enter the Feminist Fatale.Chad classes up as a cruiserweight and takes his first official swing at feminism's fatal flaws, while his possibly-welter, but probably-super lightweight, co-host Ben Neff, loves to tap in.  The two ring a bell that most likely cannot be un-rung by calling out the emperor's fantastically feminist clothes.  Is it misogynistic to feel a little too faked-out when yet another pretty, petite female actress wins in a fist fight with a man more than twice her size?  Ought not women be offended when the only way for today's female movie characters to be heroic is by acting like men?  How might a seemingly harmless feminist idea actually turn out to be fatal?  SHOW NOTES:Chad's resource market research:   Strong Women: 15 Action Movies Starring Badass Women (screenrant.com)Andrew Klavan episode referenced: Hello, Lady Ballers (youtube.com)Brett Cooper's episode referenced:  The "Girl Bosses" Are Waking Up (youtube.com)   

Episode 127 - This mighty good guest is a coffee aficionado if there ever was one!  Jeff Hazel is the owner of Hazelnut Coffee Company, a very popular coffee shop in Celina, Ohio.  He also roasts beans under his own label, Old Hatch Coffee Roastery, supplying beans for other coffee shops.  Jeff joins the podcast to discuss, debate, and otherwise educate listeners on what's arguably one of man's favorite drinks!Chad, the smooth-finishing Frenchman by heritage, is the frontline interviewer on this episode; Ben Neff helps navigate as the small-to-medium-bodied, (possibly) decaffeinated cohost.  The two steep in the many fun facts their guest shares about coffee, while wishing they could be sipping on their subject matter (were it not for the late hour).  What are the many ways one might make coffee, and what are the how's and why's behind each?  What are some of Jeff's secret tips and tricks for maximizing the goodness of a cup of coffee (what to drink out of, what kind of water to use, what kind of milk to use, etc)?  How, from Jeff's point of view as a coffee shop owner, can coffee bring people together as a community in a unique way?      SHOW NOTES:Jeff's coffee shop Facebook Page:  FacebookJeff's roastery:   OLD HATCH COFFEE ROASTERY (oldhatchroastery.com)

Episode 126 - Picture a roadside diner, a cozy spot with booths and tables for four.  Inside the air is thick with grease and the smell of all-day coffee; there's the white-noise clatter of cooking and plates and silverware.  Then notice the lunch patrons, some sitting together, others alone.  The waitresses are taking orders, joking and smiling.  It's a familiar scene all over America, a routine acted out by millions daily.  And then, there in this diner, picture Ben sitting off at a table on his own - doing one of his favorite things.Ben is the adventurous social scientist analyzing the wildly commonplace for this episode, as Chad interprets the scene to see if he can cover Ben's claim to have a found a phenomenon worth capturing.  The two ponder the potential significance of men taking meals in restaurants alone.  What about the familiarity and routine of stopping at a diner to eat can be comforting and almost therapeutic?  Is there anything superficial, or even sad, about men regularly taking lunch alone at a restaurant?  How could the communal setting of a diner or coffee shop indicate a craving for connection for those who make a habit of going?           

Episode 125 - G.K. Chesterton once wrote, "We make our friends; we make our enemies; but God makes our neighbor."  It can be the hardest thing, can't it, to see--to really notice--the people who live in our most direct proximity?  For all the "connectedness" that we presume to possess through things like social media, there's something too often lacking in our person-to-person neighborliness these days.  And that's not just a shame, it's a failure to heed a Gospel admonition.Chad sings a familiar little ditty as the lead vocals on this episode, while Ben stares smilingly ahead as co-host, humming along and changing out his jacket and shoes during the long (12 mins), opening banter.  The two contemplate the care demanded of Christians toward the people God's placed right next door us.  Who's the mystery neighbor that's given Chad and his family a schooling in the art of proper neighboring?  Are there things about our current cultural condition that make being a good neighbor more challenging?  And how can men lead the charge to reignite a neighborly spirit in our respective communities?SHOW NOTES:Mister Rogers Documentary:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YEYI4UJMcc4Full Length Chesterton quote:  https://www.breakpoint.org/chesterton-on-loving-neighbors/

Episode  124 - Carter Hellwarth is first-year college student at Bowling Green State University studying communication and film production.  Carter grew up on a dairy farm in Mercer County, Ohio, was Class President of this graduating glass, and ranked near the top of his class at Parkway High School.  He also placed 2nd in the Nation at the 2023 National FFA Convention for Extemporaneous Public Speaking.  Ben takes on the role of mastermind behind this "sneak attack" of an episode, while Chad tries to fly under the radar by drafting off their guest & fellow Falcon's soaring altitude.  The two are determined to secret away the real answers to their "Should I Send My Kids to College" question from a real-life (and undercover) college student.  What was Carter's journey of discernment that landed him at a 4-year university, and why did he think that it was the right path to success for him?  Are there any ways in which Carter's upbringing and Christian faith have been tested while attending college?  How is Carter's first year at college going, and how has his pro-active approach to getting involved on campus been a critical part of his early experience?     

Episode 123 - Since legalizing sports betting in January of 2023, the gambling scene in Ohio is going full tilt!  First there was Powerball and Mega Millions, then came the Casinos.  Now on the scene is the likes of FanDuel and DraftKings.  Gambling in Ohio is on the ascendency, and the sports betting variety is particularly popular with men (as high as 80% sports betting app users are men!).  And something about the trend bothers Ben.  Or does it?Ben, the consummate competitor and faithful fixer, is "all-in" as the lead for this episode, while Chad--Mr. Pennypincher himself--holds his cards close as co-host.  The two wager their opinions on this growing phenomenon and try to tease out its proper place in the life of a Mighty Man of Valor.  What is the allure of gambling in general, and is sports betting online more or less alluring than the traditional forms of gambling?  Does the Bible condemn gambling as sinful?  What are the personal and societal pitfalls to gambling, and are there certain segments of the population that are more susceptible to them?      SHOW NOTES:Stats on sports betting:  Sports betting in the U.S. - statistics & facts | StatistaCatholic answer on gambling:  Isn't gambling a sin? How can you Catholics justify playing bingo in church? | Catholic Answers Q&AGot Questions answer on gambling:  Is gambling a sin? What does the Bible say about gambling? | GotQuestions.org

Episode 122 - When a man knows the history of his ancestors, he knows his place in the world.  He knows the names of those who passed on his name; he knows how he came to be at the place he presently stands; he knows the kind of character he ought to (or ought not) emulate in order to bring honor to his family.  But when a man does not know the history of his ancestors, he's left adrift and grasping without direction.  Chad-son of Douglas, son of James, son of Victor, son of Albert, son of John, son of Frank, son of Joseph--takes the lead for this episode, as Ben lets on a little of his own newly found family history as co-host.  The two try to encourage curiosity towards the many rabbit holes of a personal family history.  What are Ben & Chad's family histories like?  How could you risk losing meaning when you detach or distance yourself from your past?  And what are some examples of how digging deep into genealogical details can yield new insights into, and appreciation for, the life handed down to us?SHOW NOTES: Websites for geneological research:Ancestry® | Family Tree, Genealogy & Family History RecordsFind your family. Free Genealogy Archive | FamilySearch • FamilySearchGenealogy: Search your ancestors, Create your family tree, Find archival records, ... - GeneanetSearch Historical NewspapersFind a Grave - Millions of Cemetery Records  

Episode 121 - Joel Penton is a former defensive tackle and national champion for the Ohio State University Buckeyes, as well as a Danny Wuerffel Trophy recipient (the "humanitarian Heisman").  He is the author of three books and the founder and CEO of LifeWise Academy--a groundbreaking program providing Bible education to students in over 300 of our nation's public schools, during school hours.  He is a widely sought-after speaker with over 1,000 live audiences having taken in his message.  Joel and his wife Bethany live in Columbus, Ohio, with their five children. Ben loads his sling and shines his helmet for this giant guest interview, while Chad backs Ben up with his armory of big words as co-host.  The two take up a great conversation with this purveyor of the Gospel in the public-school setting.  How is it possible--through LifeWise Academy--that public school students are legally allowed to study the Bible during school hours?  What kinds of opposition has LifeWise Academy faced from secular and anti-religious groups?  And if someone is interested in brining Bible education to their school district, what are the steps necessary to make that happen? SHOW NOTES:LifeWise in the headlines: More than 300 public schools nationwide will learn from the Bible this year (foxnews.com) LifeWise website (how to initiate in your school):  During School Hours - LifeWise Academy Joel's latest book telling of LifeWise successes:  Amazon.com: During School Hours: WHY and HOW LifeWise Academy is Reinstalling Religious Education into the Public School Day: 9798987617519: Penton, Joel: Books 

Episode 120 - A traditional liberal arts education is an endangered species of the Western world.  In modern parlance, the phenomenon of "going to college" is what's accessible to our children post high school.  While "going to college" can admittedly mean a of variety of things (technical schools, 4-year state universities, Ivy Leagues, etc), what it commonly looks like on the ground is a far cry from the old liberal arts conception of education and involves a trajectory rife with ideological and moral hazards that parents ought to give an honest evaluation of.Ben masterfully leads this episode, looking at the topic from every angle, while Chad bellows and blusters along as the underachieving co-host.  The two give a critical shakedown of the default answers parents often give to their kids' post-secondary choices.  What are the significant risks inherent in sending your kids to college, and are those risks outweighed by the benefits?  If things are in fact so bad, how did Ben and Chad manage to survive their time at college?  And what are some intentional things that Christian parents can do to help their kids prepare for, and discern through, these kinds of important decisions?SHOW NOTES:Resources mentioned by Ben:Sayers, 1948, Lost Tools : Learning.pdf (archive.org)Battle for the American Mind: Uprooting a Century of Miseducation - Kindle edition by Hegseth, Pete, Goodwin, David. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.Full text of "The Abolition of Man" (archive.org)

Episode 119 - Looking for a kick in the pants as you wind down 2023 and ramp up for a New Year?    Well, you're in luck!  Because Chad's fresh off a failure and feeling a little rowdy.  He's tasted him some humble pie and, finding it rather helpful, he can't resist the urge to imitate the late, great Kobe Bryant and share the Humble all around with some in-your-face straight talk!Chad, coming to grips with his "loser" status, proceeds to rip it, MR-style, as Ben keeps up as co-host with his own big word and various voices.  The two cohesively call out a number of categories where men might aim at becoming Mightier in 2024.  Men: what ways are you stubbornly settling?  Are you the master of your desires or are you mastered by them?  Can you honestly say you've got your life's priorities in proper order?  And which man-demanding cause have you taken up during the last year?SHOW NOTES:Kobe Bryant - Soft Like Charmin (youtube.com)Soft Kobe Bryant GIF - Soft Kobe Bryant No - Discover & Share GIFs (tenor.com)

Episode 118 - We once again fire up the four-microphone format known as the MAN TALK!  Taking on this audacious question, our mic'd up Mighty hosts and co-hosts compare notes, tell stories, and sit with the topic long enough to see where the question will lead.  Hang to the end and you'll hear how each man concludes when the conversation comes to an end.  (We'd love to hear your input on the topic as well, dear listener!  Email:  mightymen@manhoodrestored.tv )Dr. Joshua Steinke and Matt Roessner are Men of Valor in their own rights, both at the helm of heroically large families!  Joshua--the proud owner of two Nissan NVs--is the father of seven children, while Matt (and this isn't a typo) is the father of nine!  Both help lend perspective to Chad (7 kids) and Ben's (4 kids) leading question, as the four fathers ride "27 deep" in this BIG discussion episode.  How did each man end up being a father of a big family, and what is it like--the good, the bad, the ugly--raising so many kids?  How does each man respond to the criticism that big families are a drain on scare resources and leave some of the kids wanting for individual attention?  And what are some of the benefits a large family brings into the culture at large?  

Episode 117 - It's official:  Ben is a hunter!  (Chad is still--most certainly--not.)  Ben nabbed yet another buck this hunting season, and the process by which he accomplished that kill made him feel like he'd finally arrived.  What about this year's hunt brought him this sense of achievement?  Now having found it, he tells his story and shares how he believes other men should strive for the same.Ben scopes out an episode based on his hunting experience and leads the charge, as Chad wanders into unchartered territory as the co-host still sporting the same stereotypical salesman getup (khakis & polo for life!).  The two gut this topic for all its meaty content.  How is hunting a great example of a skilled activity that requires patience and the honing of a craft to become successful?  What about being both immersed in nature and needing to be quiet while hunting can be so spiritually rewarding?  And can Ben sell the salesman, Chad, on giving hunting a try?  

Episode 116 - Whether you're married 5 years or 50, looking back on the early days in your relationship with your spouse can bring about feelings of great nostalgia.  The excitement of thinking she might be the one; the deep desire to have her become yours forever; moving into your first home together: these are memories with strong emotional resonance.  They are the things we sing songs about!  But how well, as the years go by, do we see the present moments of our marriage and the storybook ones of our past as being part of a connected whole?Chad grabs the lead mic to twang out a tune for this episode, while Ben's on the backup vocals hitting a nasally note as co-host.  The two reminisce about their relationships with their wives, searching for meaningful threads that tie their present marriages back to past memories.  What is a newly engaged couple dreaming of when they decide to share the rest of their lives with each other?  What are some of the stories Chad and Ben recall about the early years of their respective marriages?   What does it mean that two "become one flesh" (Mark 10:8) in marriage, and how can that oneness help us better understand the meaning of married love?  SHOW NOTES:Book read in episode:  Hannah Coulter by Wendell Berry | GoodreadsAndrew Peterson song referenced:  Andrew Peterson - Dancing in the Minefields (Official Video) - YouTubeAlan Jackson song (in episode title):  https://youtu.be/TTA2buWlNyM    

Episode 115 - Coach Joe Kennedy took an 8-year court battle over the First Amendment all the way to the Supreme Court...and won!  He was an assistant varsity football coach for Bremerton High School in Washington state.  He'd made a commitment to God that he was going to give thanks at the end of each game, but that was met with disapproval from his school district.  The defense of his rights made it to the court's highest level, and on June 27th of 2022 his right to pray was upheld.  His new book "Average Joe", which released in October of 2023, is available for purchase nationwide.  Joe is a twenty-year Marine veteran, and he and his wife, Denise, are parents to four children.Ben stands with our guest and comes under center as lead play-caller for this episode, while Chad can't help himself as he signals from the sideline with his ritual gesturing.  The two cheer with all their fellow Americans as this guest lays out the simple truth of what it takes to stand up (or kneel) for your God-given rights.  What was it about Coach Kennedy's desire to thank God at the end of games that was so offensive that he was going to lose his job over it?  What compelled Joe to endure such a long, difficult court battle to see his rights vindicated, and what was it like being the center of such a high-profile case?  Finally, what kind of advice would Coach Kennedy have for other people facing similarly difficult situations?  SHOW NOTES:Coach Joe's website:   Coach Joe KennedyConnect with Joe:  (3) Facebook (3) FacebookBuy Coach Joe's new book:  Average Joe: One Man's Faith and the Fight to Change a Nation: Kennedy, Joseph A.: 9781684515097: Amazon.com: Books  

Episode 114 - When it comes to unpopular Catholic moral teachings , this one ranks right up there!  Whether you're a Catholic or a non-Catholic Christian, the Church's stance is an equal opportunity offender.  Or perhaps, more accurately put, it's a controversial stance that's considered equally out-of-touch and irrelevant (and, therefore, is mostly ignored).  All that means for Manhood Restored is this:  it sure sounds like a great topic to bring up!  Chad foresees a fecund future as he furrows the field of this episode, while Ben's indentured to the hard labor of coming along to corral the promised yield as co-host.  The two brave the strain of an uncomfortable conversation--disagreeing, agreeing, and agreeing to disagree--hoping for some kind of harvest.  Why does Chad consider contraception a "secret weapon" in the Culture Wars (see minute 57)?  What exactly is the Catholic Church's teaching about contraception, and does it make sense at all to Ben's Protestant sensibilities?  And what has been Chad and his wife's experience while following this teaching during their married life?  SHOW NOTES:Catholic teaching referenced (CCC 2360-2370):  Catechism of the Catholic Church (usccb.org)What is Natural Family Planning:  What is NFP | Fertility Awareness Classes | Couple to Couple League International (ccli.org)First Things article quoted by Chad:  The Dark Future of Over-the-Counter Contraception | Jonathon Van Maren | First ThingsStat cited linking Abortion to Contraception:  About Half of U.S. Abortion Patients Report Using Contraception in the Month They Became Pregnant | Guttmacher Institute

 Episode 113 - The attack on Israel by Hamas on October 7th, 2023 has set off a maelstrom of political turmoil on the global stage.  From the intense outrage over the disturbing details of the terrorist's actions to the strange show of support for them from elitists in academia and media, it's deep, murky waters for an average person to wade through.  Despite that fact, what's clear is this: we are witnessing a significant historical event, one which we'd do well to attempt to understand.Ben leads with gratitude as the host for this important episode, as Chad comes along as a concerned co-host grappling with the issue's complexity.  The two talk through some of the latest headlines as well as the historical backdrop to this conflict, searching for an average man's workable understanding.  What are we to make of the demonstrations on college campuses in support of Palestine?  Is there a proper posture that Christians should take on this situation, given the very Jewish roots of their religion?  Why has there been, and is there still, such vehement hatred of Israel and the Jewish people?      SHOW NOTES:The 6 Day War:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8i3uIz7hoYs Yom-Kippur War:  https://www.oneforisrael.org/bible-based-teaching-from-israel/golda-meir-and-the-miracles-of-the-yom-kippur-war/ Miracle at Golan Height (reenactment): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HNXwhv8Mooo Episode of Andrew Klavan:  Stream Ep. 1152 - This Present Darkness by The Andrew Klavan Show | Listen online for free on SoundCloudResource from Ben's Challenge:Pray for the peace of Israel.Study on the history of Israel.Give and support how you are able.  https://www.oneforisrael.org/ 

Episode 112 - Deacon Marty Brown has been a permanent deacon for the Archdiocese of Cincinnati for 13 years.  He currently serves the St Isidore the Farmer Family of Parishes and is the Facilities Manager at Holy Rosary Catholic Church in St Mary's, Ohio.  Prior to becoming a deacon, Marty worked in various fields - construction, welding, mechanics, groundskeeping, firefighting, as well as being a lifelong farmer.  He and his wife, Angie, have been married 40 years; they have 4 children and 12 grandchildren.Ben jumps off this interview episode hoping to soar to new heights of understanding, as Chad packs a parachute, taking every Catholic precaution as the co-host.  The two take a leap into this conversation and quickly find themselves drafting behind the momentum of their guest's story of faithfulness to God's will.  What were some of the dramatic ways that God helped Marty discover his calling to be a deacon?  How can putting your trust in the Holy Spirit enable you to see big and little choices as opportunities to serve God?  And how does the spirit of fear often undermine the discernment process?  Franz Reichelt Failed 1912 Eiffel Tower Jump  

Episode 111 -All throughout life, we find ourselves making a multitude of decisions.  Some are small and insignificant; others are major, the kinds that are like crossroads.  When we are in the midst of making those big decisions (Should I change my job?  Should I marry this girl?  Should we move our family to a new town?), discerning the right Choice can be downright difficult. Ben puts the magnifying glass over this question as the episode's Sherlock Holmes, and Chad twists the ends of his imaginary stash while helping Ben get to the bottom of things.  The two puzzle over wise ways to discern life's biggest choices and what role God has in the process.  When it comes to these "crossroad" types of decisions, is there ONE right path that God wills for you--like one person meant for you to marry?  How important of a role should other people and their opinions play in decision making?  Is it possible to prepare for future big decisions before you even know what those decisions will be?       SHOW NOTES:Article by Peter Kreeft on Discernment  

BONUS episode - Chad & Ben take turns RANTING about Issues 1 and 2 on the Ohio Ballot this November 7th, 2023.  (Share this episode around with friends and family!) Chad rants on Issue 1 (up through minute 10:52), specifically calling out Catholics.  What did the Archbishop of Cincinnati do on Respect Life Sunday, what was his promulgation on Issue 1, and what does that mean for the consciences of voting Catholics?  Ben rants on Issue 2 (from minute 10:52 till episode's end), bringing to light facts now known about the commercialization of marijuana from other states who've implemented it.  What are those facts as it relates to public health and safety, what are the actual tax benefits, and how does the ensuing proliferation of dispensaries impact local communities?  SHOW NOTES:Archbishop Schnurr's homily:  Listen to Archbishop Schnurr's Respect Life Sunday Homily! – St. Francis Seraph Parish (sfsparish.org)Text of Issues 1 and 2:  Ohio State Issues 1 and 2 (ohiosos.gov)

Episode 110 - The gloves come off (!) in this doozy of a debate episode.  If you thought our debate on baptism (episode 70) was juicy, then here's one that'll surely keep your attention to the end!  It's the ever-ancient, ever-new battle between Protestants and Catholics, hashed out by friends, Ben and Chad:  are we, or are we not, saved by faith alone?  (Spoiler alert: they're still friends when it's over!) Chad dings the bell and comes out of his corner wearing the proverbial "plus works" trunks, while a well-trained Ben enters the ring wearing trunks that sport the letters "OSAS".  While beginning cordially and both still standing by the end, the two make a good mess of things in the middle!  How do Protestants read James chapter 2 when it teaches that faith without works is dead?  Can Catholics have any assurance of their salvation if they're constantly worried about the severity of their sins and the meagerness of their works?  And what role, in the end, does the phrase “faith alone” play in the life of a Christian?SHOW NOTES:Ben's referenced Mike Winger video on James 2:   The Debate Over James 2: Catholic or Protestant View - YouTubeChad's referenced Trent Horn podcast on faith and works:  The Not-so-Simple Protestant Plan of Salvation - YouTube

Episode 109 - Steven Arms is the co-author of "Milestone to Manhood", a book about the Rite of Passage tradition his family created for a whole generation of boys who were coming of age as young men.  In the book, he talks about his own Rite of Passage weekend and reflects on how it shaped him into the man he is today.  He then shares how fathers can organize Rite of Passage events for their own sons.  Steven lives in Portland, Oregon, with his wife, Emily, and is the proud father of three young children.Chad is the Master of Ceremonies for this episode, as Ben lends a hand as a co-host and--most definitively--a man (and WHAT a man is he!).  The two pick their guest's brain, hoping to adapt and adopt his insight for their own son-rearing efforts.  What is a Rite of Passage historically, and why is it that there doesn't seem to be one for boys living in western society?  Why is a formal, pre-planned ceremony so important - can't the transmission of manhood between father and son happen organically and over time?  Does a Rite of Passage ceremony actually make a substantive difference in the life of a man?SHOW NOTES:Book website (full w/resources):  Milestone to Manhood | Rite of Passage    

Episode 108 - With its many and far-reaching tentacles, it's no longer a matter of if the Giant "Woke-topus" finds you, it's a matter of when.  It's coming for your kids in the subtle themes of the latest Disney movie, and during the not-so-subtle drag queen story hour at the local library; it's lingering between the big game during every commercial break, and soon (if not already) parading down your small-town main street in the month of June.  And just when you thought it couldn't get any worse, here it also comes... to a workplace near you.  Ben leads the confrontation with this stinking cephalopod with the hopes of putting it to bed once and for all; and Chad, as salty as ever, comes along with a soothing voice as co-host, coaxing it back into its cage.  The two untangle the messy (and confusing) subject of workplace wokism.  Should something as simple as mutual respect between co-workers conquer the day, no matter the issue at hand?  What freedoms and rights are guaranteed to someone in a workplace setting, and how ought a conflict between two competing freedoms be resolved?  And what is the Christian's responsibility when put in situations at work that push their conscience to the edge?         

Episode 107 - Imagine leftists trying to make a documentary of their own by this episode's same title, like some kind of clever rebuttal to Matt Walsh's wildly successful "What is a Woman?".  And, instead of interviewing extremist liberals, they interviewed average, everyday Americans.  One wonders with delight how that might play out?  Hint:  if it went anything like this episode, it'd end in slap-happy hilarity! Chad channels his inner Sweet Baby Gang only to end up laughing (and sniffling) the whole episode through as its lead Super-movie-quoter.  Ben fails to capture Chad's point (or keep up with his movie references) but rallies triumphantly at the last second as the gloating cohost.  The two try mightily to take this question seriously with (thanks to Ben!) mostly poor results.   Why is it that sane, clear-thinking people are made to feel crazy for refusing to ignore biological realities?  Can Ben pass the "Are You a Man Test"?  And, once and for all, what does the famous '90s hip hop group Salt-N-Pepa say in their hit song:  "Wanna man, wanna man..." or "What a man, what a man..."??           

Episode 106 - Andrew Peel is the owner of the Rock Solid Performance Gym.  He's competed in fitness events such as CrossFit, Ironman triathlons, obstacle course races, and bodybuilding.  He is also a 1st Phorm Sponsored Trainer and has been involved in personal training for athletes, as well as online for adults trying to make a major lifestyle change.    Andrew's online coaching business, AP2 Fitness, can be found on various social media platforms, and his new podcast is called "The No Bad Days Show."  He and his wife and their three children live in Rockford, Ohio.Chad flexes his make-believe muscles as lead meat head for this episode, as Ben makes guttural noises as he carries his weight as the cut-up co-host.  The two ask their guest where the weight room's at and feel the burn of inadequacy.  How does a man's fitness--or lack thereof--affect all aspects of his life?  What are three tips that are foundational to a healthy lifestyle?  What is "75 Hard", and how can its principles bring about the kind of transformational change that can produce lasting, positive outcomes in a man's health?SHOW NOTES:Andrew's Gym:  (20+) FacebookConnect with Andrew & AP2 Fitness:Andrew Peel / Lifestyle Coach - YouTubeAndrew Peel -

Episode 105 -While many men need the reminder to curb their enthusiasm for constant productivity in their middle-aged years (see Episode #72, "The Semi-Retired Man"), perhaps there are still other men who need the reminder to maintain that enthusiasm into their advanced years.  For men "with their best years behind them", the struggle might be accurately described as one between becoming stagnate and staying innovative.  That struggle might become the difference between life and death.Ben imagines himself with snow white facial hair and a southern drawl as the Colonel for this episode, as Chad co-hosts, sprinkling in spicy "advices" into Ben's not-yet-famous recipe.  The two cook up conversation surrounding the question of how men can stay engaged into old age.  How would Ben and Chad envision themselves spending their retirement when that time comes?  What does the story of Colonel Sanders' founding of Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC) provide in the way of inspiration?  And what are some stories of men Ben and Chad know personally who've set great examples of how to stay active and innovative into advanced age?SHOW NOTES:  Colonel Sanders Rejected Over 1000 Times

In Chad's favorite fashion, he strikes up a BONUS! conversation with Ben about the recent phenomenon that is Oliver Anthony, singer/songwriter of the top hit "Rich Men North of Richmond." Chad updates Ben on a recent interview Oliver Anthony gave to Joe Rogan (Chad, knowing Ben doesn't approve of his penchant for listening to the Rogan podcast!).  The two have a brief, general discussion of the Oliver Anthony story, and talk about the value of his witness on the Joe Rogan program.SHOW NOTES:Joe Rogan Reacts To Oliver Anthony Sharing Faith, Reading Bible On Podcast: ‘Pretty F***ing Profound' | The Daily Wire 

Episode 104 – The connection between the natural world and the supernatural world, between matter and spirit, is one of great mystery.  Some might contend that physical matter is a hindrance to spiritual growth, while others find their spiritual lives enhanced by the natural world.  One thing is for sure:  the interplay between the two is consequential and definitely worth exploration.Chad's at the helm as he pulls up anchor to see which way the winds take this drifting discussion of an episode, as Ben tries to calculate coordinates and engineer some sort of safe passage as co-host.  The two brave the open seas of a loosely planned episode.  What should be made of claims to spiritual experiences by those taking psychedelic drugs?  How ought we approach alleged spiritual interventions into the natural world – things like miracles, apparitions, and direct messages from God?  What are we anyway – spirit-body composites, or ghosts in a machine?     SHOW NOTES:Fatima's “Miracle of the Sun”:  A Lawyer, a Journalist, and a Scientist Detail the Miracle of the Sun (magiscenter.com) 

Episode 103 - Yet another installment of men sitting around tables talking - another edition of the MAN TALK, that is!  Where we break out all four mikes over a long-form conversation of consequence.  The topic on tap: theology.  How will these four conversationalists conclude on the question being considered?  They each give their final answers by the episode's end!  (And what say you on the matter, dear listener?  Email us your thoughts at mightymen@manhoodrestored.tv) Father Mike Kapolka and Shawn Meyer are both pastors.  Fr. Mike is the Parochial Vicar at the Holy Cross Family of Parishes in Fort Recovery and Coldwater, Ohio.   And Shawn is the pastor of Aletheia Christian Church in Celina, Ohio.  The two bring their own unique perspectives, yet common appreciation for theology, to the table to help Ben and Chad carve a path through an academic-thick jungle of a topic.  Does theology even play that big of a role in the life of a pastor?  How much does admittance into heaven have to do with knowledge of God, or does knowledge of God make any difference at all in that respect?  What are some specific ways and examples of how theology can make a positive change in how you act in the world?  SHOW NOTES:Pastor Shawn's church:     https://aletheiacelina.com/Fr Mike's parishes:    Coldwater Cluster   Catholic Communities of Fort Recovery, OH – Fort Recovery Cluster Parishes (fortrecoverycatholics.org)

Episode 102 - Picture, if you will, the sights and sounds of a County Fair.  It's a scene of pure sensual wonderment with its neon rides, its flashy food booths, its throngs of people at big concerts and competitions.  With so much excitement in the air, it's surely a fun place to be.  But it can also serve as a scaled-down study of how the pleasures of the world can make us manic for more, more, more!Ben brings his bullhorn to talk over the noise as ringmaster of this sideshow of an episode, as Chad sports yet another polo in an odd hybrid role as carnie co-host.  What exactly does Ben mean by "carnies" in his episode title, and what does he have against them?  How does the Parable of the Sower speak to the County Fair mentality?  And can Ben draw more wisdom from John Bunyan's "Pilgrim's Progress" as a way to see through the worldly wares being peddled to us daily? SHOW NOTES: Vanity Fair Clip- 2 minutes  Vanity Fair Full Scene-  14 minutesWatch, per Ben's Challenge:  The Pilgrim's Progress (2019) | Full Movie | John Rhys-Davies | Ben Price | Kristyn Getty - YouTube  

Episode 101 - We live in dark times.  An odd remaking of the Dark Ages, because the light of Western Civilization is again under threat of being extinguished.  Preserving that light for the future is an effort worth undertaking.  It's also one undertaken successfully once before, by the most unassuming group of people - Catholic monks.  Might we do well to imitate their model... in our homes?  Chad, fond of rules as he is, plays the part of Abbot for this episode, while 'Brother Ben' yet again graciously plays along as a Catholic character and co-host.  The two ponder the possibilities of preservation within the four walls a Christian home.  In what ways did Catholic monks stem the tide of barbarism during the Middle Ages?  Who are the barbaric equivalents at our doorsteps?  How might one go about "turning their home into" a modern monastery, and what is it we ought to be preserving?SHOW NOTES:PDF chapter of monk history (quick read):  working template.qxd (churchinhistory.org)Book recommended in Chad's challenge:  Hallowed Be This House (ignatius.com)

Episode 100 - When menfolk get together in celebration, the revelry and carousing that ensues can, to some (to many?), be obnoxious and offensive.  Why oh why, some might ask, must it be so?  Shouldn't it not be so?  What is it about certain stereotypical manly behavior--like stereotypical manly appearances (see 'Fords and Facial Hair', Episode 1) --that can be so off-putting from the outside looking in?  Ben swears he won't cave to peer pressure for best-in-class life insurance rates as lead 'foul linguist' on this episode, while Chad strikes a hard bargain as the clean yet clouded co-host.  The two raise their voices, raise their glasses, and light their stogie(s?) in celebration, all the while debating whether any of it is even appropriate!  Is there any place for potentially offensive behavior in the life of a man?  Is it sinful to smoke, and how divergent are Catholics and Protestants on the topic?  Will Chad be able to persuade Ben to light up a celebratory cigar before the end of this episode?Leave us a review!    Manhood Restored on Apple Podcasts Manhood Restored | Podcast on SpotifySign up for our monthly email newsletter: Manhood Restored Podcast | We are two ordinary Christian guys who feel compelled to call men back to true Masculinity.Email us episode ideas and feedback:mightymen@manhoodrestored.tv 

Episode 99 - Being a Man of Action isn't as easy as it sounds.  Sure, men may recognize a righteous cause when they see one; and, from time to time, men may feel the flame of mission stirred up within them; they might even, in a flash of inspiration, step out and send a shot across the bow.  But then any number of obstacles--distraction, fear, doubt--inevitably follow.  As a result, too many of them are left on the sideline, apathetic, and promising to take action--next time.  Always next time.Ben heroically (finally) stops putting off talking about putting things off as lead action star for this episode, as Chad co-stars, insuring they cover all their bases in a single, bounding sit-down.  The two calculate, formulate, and figure the distance between good intentions and actually taking action.  Do you ever hear a voice of doubt & resistance pop into your head just as soon as you consider stepping out and acting for good?  What is Issue 1 in Ohio, and how is it an example of the potential for frittering away an opportunity to take a stand?  When an issue/cause is so complex (think human sex trafficking as presented by the recent movie "Sound of Freedom"), what are some ways a man can still act effectively, but in small ways?SHOW NOTES:Ohio's Issue 1 (voting now till Aug 8th): Protect Our Constitution | Vote Yes on Issue 1 (voteyesohio.com)Two good organizations fighting human sex trafficking:End Child Trafficking | Operation Underground Railroad (ourrescue.org)Sex Trafficking | International Justice Mission (ijm.org)    

Episode 98 - The word 'religion' carries a curiously negative connotation in our modern lexicon.  The term is more often used for the purposes of criticism, as it conjures associations with anti-individualism, historical oppression, and hypocrisy.  Religion might as well mean backward and ignorant.  To be labeled as 'religious', then, would conceivably be the worst personal descriptor one could imagine.  'Spiritual', 'faithful', 'a good person' - yeah, those are all okay.  But surely never 'religious'!Chad takes the [fictitious] challenge of breathing life back into the word 'religion' as lead contrarian for this episode, while Ben bites his tongue as long as he possibly can (which isn't long) as co-host.  The two wrestle with the many popularized misnomers surrounding this term in hopes of sparking its comeback.  Can a Christian have a relationship with Jesus and adhere to a religion, or are the two mutually exclusive?  What will take the place of religion if traditional forms of it are eschewed in society?  And will Ben and Chad see eye-to-eye on the usefulness of ritual in the religious context?  SHOW NOTES:Two "viral videos" on hating vs. loving religion (from 10 years ago);Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus || Spoken Word - YouTubeFr. Pontifex - Why I Love Religion, And Love Jesus - YouTubeTim Gordon's podcast episode on the new secular religion:  Timothy Gordon Rules for Retrogrades Podcast: Rainbow: Dawn of the Old Idols on Apple Podcasts 

Episode 97 - Ben Hartings is an owner/partner at Trinity Financial Advisors in Columbus, Ohio.  He was raised on a poultry farm, played division one football at Miami University (OH), and received his MBA from the University of Dayton.  Ben is a two-time cancer survivor and the author of two books on dealing with loss and grief.  He is involved in various Catholic ministries and outreach boards, and he and his wife of 18 years have five children, four living and one in heaven.Chad pops the cork on, and proposes a toast to, the rich flavor of paradox on this episode, as Ben (no stranger to 'uncorking') adds his own touch to the conversation as co-host.  The two try to claim this guest for their respective side of the confessional divide while listening to his insights into two seemingly unrelated topics.  What is the "Scarcity Mindset" and how does it fit within a Christian context?  Why would someone "offer" their suffering as a form of obedient surrender to God's will?  How does Ben H's story serve as an example for bringing these two topics together?  SHOW NOTES:Ben H's books -Return to the Altar: A Sacred Journey through Grief and Joy: Hartings, Benjamin: 9780986217906: Amazon.com: BooksIt's not OK. And that's OK.: Inspiring stories from loss to love, and heartache to Hope: Hartings, Benjamin J, Hartings, Lynn M: 9780986217913: Amazon.com: BooksBen H's firm:  Meet the Team — Trinity Financial Advisors (tfadvisors.com)Ben H's recommended reading (PDF Download): Don't Waste Your Cancer | Desiring God

Episode 96 -There's nothing like a song to take you back to a moment in time.  Music has that kind of power because it comes alongside of us to punctuate the feelings of those moments, ministering to us in lyrics and melody.  That's especially true of the most meaningful moments - those of love, joy, and grief.  Still more, in the hands of God, that power of song can seem almost sacramental.Ben's the DJ at the mixing board for this self-reflective soundtrack of an episode, as Chad listens in as a Lucy-like cohost, with a couple few cents of his own.  The two follow Ben's chronicles of coping with grief in hopes of striking a chord with listeners who could use the accompaniment.  What are some ways that we often deal poorly with grief, and what's a better alternative to them?  How can God work through things like music, and through people, to help heal us when we're grieving?  Where does our grief fit in to the meaning of our story - that is, our story as part of His Story?  SHOW NOTES: Ben's songs (in episode sequence):Unspoken - Start A Fire (Official Video) - YouTubeJason Gray - "Remind Me You're Here" (Official Lyric Video) - YouTubeI Am They - No Impossible With You (Lyrics) ♪ - YouTubeGod Is In This Story - Katy Nichole & Big Daddy Weave - Lyric Video - YouTube

Episode 95 - What... are we questioning the whole premise of the podcast now?  And after nearly 100 episodes?  What gives? Chad leads this tunneling expedition of an episode, searching out the assumptions underfoot, as Ben co-hosts and points his shinny head (lamp) toward the depths of Chad's cavernous quest.  The two confront the Big Question head-on and layout their (inevitably) affirmative answer.  Have you, dear listener, asked this very question in a personal way:  does YOUR manhood need restored?  What are three senses in which Ben and Chad firmly believe manhood needs restored?   If you, too, can answer in the affirmative, is there someone who's never listened that you can share the podcast with?     

Episode 94 - Mark Harrington is the Founder and President of "Created Equal", a pro-life education and outreach organization based in Columbus, Ohio.  He travels to universities across the nation training and inspiring young leaders in cutting-edge tactics in the pro-life movement.  Mark also served for more than a decade as the Executive Director of the Midwest office of the Center for Bioethical Reform prior to launching Created Equal.  He's been featured in the USA Today and on national TV programs like CBS Mornings, Fox & Friends, and the Sean Hannity Show. Chad takes off the gloves and rings the bell for this politically punching episode, as Ben stays in the corner as co-host in case he needs to clean up any messy interview moments.  The two let their heavy-hitting guest take his swings at the pro-abortion Ballot Initiative in Ohio set for the November 2023 election.  How is the wording of this "Reproductive Freedom" Amendment potentially misleading, and what specifically should pro-life voters know about it?  What does this August 8th Special Election have to do with the November Ballot Initiative?  And just how consequential are these upcoming votes for Ohioans and the county?SHOW NOTES:READ (proposed language of the proposed amendment to Ohio's Constitution):  Extreme Pro-Abortion Ballot Initiative: Ohio - Created EqualPro-life speakers willing to come to your church FOR FREE to raise awareness:  TogetherForLifeOhio.orgCreated Equal Website:  Created Equal | Exposing the Truth About Abortion

Episode 93 - 2-time NBA MVP, Nikola Jokic, recently reached the top of the basketball world after leading his Denver Nuggets to the 2023 NBA Championship.  An unlikely success story if there ever was one, Jokic's rise to greatness is one worth taking notice of.  As told in a recent ESPN article written by Ramona Shelborne, his is a tale of tapping into one's fullest potential through encouragement and hard work.  Ben brings out the best that this case study has to offer as lead basketball analyst for this episode, while Chad "somborly" gives props to the talent that swept his precious Lakers from the playoffs.  The two take their love for basketball and search out the manly model of mastery on display in this superstar's story.  What was the pivotal moment for Jokic's basketball career that catapulted his game to the next level, and how did someone's calling out of his potential factor into that moment?  Where should someone primarily focus to achieve their very best - on the end goal, or on the work it takes to get there?  What kinds of habits ought we to consider when contemplating how God wants to bring the best out of us?   SHOW NOTES: ESPN article on Jokic:  A car ride and a Game 7 loss that activated Nikola Jokic into an MVP - ESPN

Bonus Convo: Diagnosing Dad BehaviorA Father's Day special & bonus episode (suggested by Ben, believe it or not)!  A big shout out to dads:  thank you for all you do to keep society sane by keeping your families ordered in ways only a father can!  To show our appreciation, Ben and Chad strike up an entertaining conversation about what constitutes "dad behavior".  Taking turns calling out behaviors from separately created lists, the two diagnose which ones are a) common to most, if not all, dads; b) probably unique to their own 'daddom'; or c) just plain weird!  From hygiene habits to 'dad fashion', and from disciplining children to the mis-firing male mind, there's surely something in this episode to remind you of your dad!   We hope you enjoy!