Single Sounds

Katie speaks with Daisie-Belle from the Daisie Dates Podcast for a candid chat about modern dating. They explore everything from approaching people in real life to dealing with ghosting and maintaining healthy relationships. Katie and Daisie share their own experiences and practical advice, this episode will help you navigate the dating world with confidence and help you feel less alone in the sometimes chaotic world of modern dating! KEY TAKEAWAYS  Approaching people in real life: Be bold and remember you have nothing to lose. If you get rejected, it's not necessarily about you. Multi-dating can help reduce dating burnout and provide perspective on potential matches. How do you deal with being the only single friend in a friendship group? How to deal with the fear of being ghosted? What to do when your boyfriend's best friend makes no effort with you? How do you know when you've found "the spark" on a date? What to do when the person you are dating says they aren't ready for a serious relationship but will "get back to you" in a few months? Healthy relationships involve maintaining individual identities, consistent behaviour, and open communication. The "spark" is often misunderstood. A good connection should feel like getting into a warm bath - safe and comfortable! Give potential partners a chance beyond the first date, as nerves or circumstances may affect initial impressions. Understanding attachment styles can provide insight into dating behaviours and help build more secure relationships. Balancing time between friends and romantic partners is crucial for maintaining a healthy social life and relationship. BEST MOMENTS "I always knew that he was gonna tell me what the date would be the next week. When you do meet the right person that's as keen on you as you are them, you actually are never questioning if they're going to ghost you."  "I romanticise my solo time a lot. You have to do that. “ "Butterflies are horrible. I really hope I never ever have to feel like that ever again. It's the one of the worst feelings I think when you're dating. I think that's worse than being ghosted." "The spark is just a thing that doesn't exist anyway, the thing that everyone's chasing that is not real. I think most people now, I'd hope they know that it's not real." "I write down like things that I'm really interested in. I have an actual physical list. This might sound crazy, but I think it's good to come in like prepared if there are like awkward silences or the person you're meeting is more introverted."  VALUABLE RESOURCES Daisie-Belle Instagram Daisie Dates Podcast Instagram ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com             Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Live show tickets - 24th July Katie interviews a hilarious, fun-loving American living in London who's looking for an extrovert man. With infectious energy and a passion for spicy food, this single has a lot of love to give to the right person. Expect drunk texts, pub dates and losing every battle but winning life. She shares hilarious dating stories, including a disastrous Bumble date over the "W word"! KEY TAKEAWAYS  The guest has a unique talent for "losing every battle but winning every war" in life, turning setbacks into unexpected opportunities. You must like spice, this single considers it an "ick" if someone doesn't enjoy spicy food As an American in London, she's embraced British culture, including developing a love for beer and adopting phrases like "Cheers, mate." She admits to being prone to drunk texting, viewing it as both a flaw and a way of showing genuine interest in someone she's dating. She values loyalty and deep connections, as shown by her willingness to support an ex-boyfriend's music career by repeatedly playing his SoundCloud tracks! The guest is adventurous in her dating life, once impulsively booking a flight to Copenhagen with a first date, showcasing her spontaneous nature. BEST MOMENTS "I am notorious for always losing every battle and winning every war." "If you don't like spicy foods, don't talk to me." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com             Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie interviews a sports-loving single who brings joy and enthusiasm to everything she does. From her controversial tennis opinions to her game show appearances, this guest shares hilarious dating stories and insights into being a woman in sports. Listen in for a lively discussion on competition in relationships, the rise of women's football, and why letting someone win might be the biggest dating ick of all. KEY TAKEAWAYS  She appeared on the game show "Pointless" with her sister, making it to the final round twice! Her worst dating experience involved a series of awkward moments, including her date ordering food separately and swapping spicy meals. The interviewee is passionate about women in sports, both as players and fans, and has worked on projects to keep girls engaged in sports. She values partners who can handle losing gracefully and don't let her win out of misplaced chivalry. The guest enjoys a variety of sports, including basketball, tennis, and football - supporting Liverpool FC and her Mexican team. BEST MOMENTS "I think women in sports, not just necessarily women playing sports, but as a woman fan of a sport, like even watching men's sports as a fan, I think there's a lot that can be done." "I am quite happy to try new things. I'm always, like, I think I have a good time doing anything. I'll have a good time just sitting on the sofa. And also, like, going on an adventure." "I'm at a place where I'm quite happy with who I am and I'm quite comfortable with myself and I don't really, I'm not embarrassed about anything about me. Even if I can be weird." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show Katie interviews a former finance professional who boldly switched careers to become a personal trainer. He shares his journey from number-crunching to fitness coaching, his adventures in learning Spanish, and his quest for a partner who can understand his early-bird lifestyle. This episode offers a unique glimpse into this singles world, from tales of escaping dates to insights on maximising life. Tune in to discover if you're the perfect match for this ambitious, travel-loving, and consistently kind bachelor! KEY TAKEAWAYS  He transitioned from a stable finance career to pursuing his passion as a personal trainer, showcasing his willingness to take risks. He values consistency highly, applying it to his fitness routine, language learning, and relationships. He is learning Spanish, driven by his love for Spanish culture and desire to be bilingual later in life. As an early riser, he seeks a partner who aligns with his schedule and appreciates the importance of good sleep. He's an avid traveller and hopes to explore more of the world with a future partner. He describes himself as having "golden retriever energy" - positive and enthusiastic, unless he's severely sleep-deprived then he can be a moody boy. He's looking for someone equally active and ambitious, who wants to "maximise life" alongside him. BEST MOMENTS "I'm fun, but I'm kind and I'm serious about people. So, you know, if I do make friends with people or I get into a relationship with someone, I do take it very seriously and I'd say I'm quite a loyal person." "My controversial opinion, I think Abba are massively overrated... This goes for anything that's just overplayed on nights out." "If I'm up at five in the gym for six, okay. I need to be in bed early. So again, I need someone that understands that I'm an early bird, someone that's on a similar schedule." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.  Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com             Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie chats with Jillian Romero Chaves, the founder of Clara for Daters - an app that helps singles track their dates and make better choices when dating. We track a lot of things in life we want to improve or make progress on so why not track your dating journey? Jillian shares her own dating experiences and how tracking her dates on her own app has helped her learn more about herself and the type of person she is looking for. Tune in to learn how to navigate the modern dating world with more self-awareness and positivity. Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show KEY TAKEAWAYS  Clara for Daters helps users track dates by asking helpful post-date questions, enabling them to make better choices in the early stages of dating. Tracking dates helps daters stay accountable, recognise patterns, and focus on qualities that matter in a potential partner. Multi-dating, or going on dates with multiple people, can help anxious attachment styles by preventing fixation on one person and encouraging a slower pace. The data from Clara confirms that conversion rates from dating app matches to in-person dates are low Focusing on enjoying individual connections and learning from each date brings you closer to finding the right partner, rather than fixating on the end goal. BEST MOMENTS "Dating intentionally means going on dates. If you can be on the apps and saying you're dating intentionally and never go on a date, that's not dating intentionally." "Don't focus on that big end goal. Just focus on those connections in the moment and it'll get closer." "I feel like that's what you learn the more you multidate - you have these conversations, then you're like, okay, now I feel comfortable to have it again if it came up." "It's important that we have that safe space to reflect by ourselves. It's important." "The whole idea is we're trying to make dating fun again. It is tough and you can't sugar coat it, but you can do things as tools like Clara to help get better." VALUABLE RESOURCES Clara for Daters - https://www.clarafordaters.com/ Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie interviews a high-energy, sassy, and always-late single who is unapologetically herself. Discover her unique quirks, like sitting on the floor to put on shoes and her love for Grand Designs. With her infectious energy and confidence, this guest is ready to find a partner who can keep up with her "spontanaynay" lifestyle. Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show KEY TAKEAWAYS  This single is always late but believes she's worth the wait She has a specific dream life planned out, including living near London, owning three dogs, and having a pickup truck for stargazing dates Her biggest icks include men who can't find her in a restaurant, wear lycra, have mismatched trouser and sock lengths, and have messy flats She is confident, can talk to anyone, and has a great strut when entering a room Spontaneity is key - she wants a partner who's ready for adventures, even after a night out She embraces her weirdness and quirkiness, like sitting on the floor to put on shoes and constantly strutting Her love for Grand Designs has inspired her dream house plans BEST MOMENTS "I'm always late, but I always say I'm always late but worth the wait." "I am someone who loves like fully and wholeheartedly and I think that I have a lot of love to give to the right person." "If you want to have fun, you want to have adventures and yeah, you want to be woken up in the middle of the night and go to a drive thru, or go do something fun and random, like, I'm your girl." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com           Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This multi-talented single man brings humour, adventure, and an impressive array of skills to the table. From his musical prowess to his daring hobbies and meaningful career, he's sure to capture the hearts of many! Discover why he just might be the perfect match for someone looking for a partner who can keep them on their toes whilst making them laugh! KEY TAKEAWAYS  The guest is a true hobbyist with an impressive array of skills, including multiple instruments, extreme sports, and stand-up comedy.  He has a successful career as a sustainability consultant, using his math skills for good.  The guest is looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship with someone who shares his sense of humour and adventurous spirit.  He finds it attractive when someone can call him out on his bulls**t and challenge his opinions.  The guest took a big risk by signing up for a stand-up comedy course and now performs regularly.  He puts effort into planning creative and fun dates, which is a major green flag.  According to his friend, the guest is the "full package" and sure to keep a partner on their toes. BEST MOMENTS "My most controversial opinion is that people in London should have to have a license to be able to walk and be a pedestrian.” "I think the biggest risk I've taken was about a year ago, signing up to a stand-up comedy course, and then... I've kept doing it." "You should date me because I am a good laugh and a good date. And I'll pick the place, which is apparently not that common." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Katie as she interviews a charismatic and adventurous single lady who's left the corporate world behind to pursue her passions. This sparkly yoga instructor shares her love for exploring London's bakeries and coffee shops, the types of men she finds most attractive, and her biggest icks in dating.  Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show KEY TAKEAWAYS  She left her corporate grad job after just three months to pursue her non-corporate passions She's a self-proclaimed list maker and a human map of London's best coffee shops and bakeries and wine bars Her friends would say she's weirdly attracted to actors, and she admits to having a thing for men with moustaches! Her biggest icks include men who are closed-minded and vape She considers herself a massive feminist but still appreciates chivalrous gestures like carrying heavy bags Her best friend describes her as "sunshine in human form" and praises her for being an incredibly generous, kind, and sparkly person BEST MOMENTS "I feel like when I think of the word nerdy, I reframe it as being like, oh it's such a thing where people are super passionate about something and I actually love that." "I hated the fact that I was in a massive office with the people I was on a call with. Why don't we just go and connect like real people?" "I've definitely in like my self-care, self-love era. Quite like a soft girly." "She's kind of touched my life in so many ways that I can't even describe. And honestly, she's just an absolute catch. A gorgeous human being, inside and out." "I'd want to date someone who is, I'd say quite wholesome, also quite chaotic” VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie chats with Molly Cookson from 2 Girls 1 Pup about their adventures in dating off the apps so far in 2024. From speed dating disasters to man crawls, they share their experiences and insights on trying new ways to meet potential partners. Get ready for a fun-filled discussion that will make you feel less alone in your dating struggles!  KEY TAKEAWAYS  Molly and Katie emphasise the importance of having single friends who can relate to your dating experiences and provide support. Participating in various dating events and activities can help bring fun back into the dating process and alleviate the pressure of relying solely on dating apps. Being open-minded when meeting new people is crucial, as you may find a connection with someone you wouldn't have initially considered on a dating app. Rejection is an inevitable part of dating, both on apps and in person, and it's essential not to take it personally. Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone by trying new dating experiences can be scary but rewarding. Giving people a chance beyond the first few minutes of interaction is important, as nerves can impact initial impressions. Dating can be challenging and emotionally taxing, so it's essential to be kind to yourself throughout the process. BEST MOMENTS "You could be the best peach in the world, but not everyone likes peaches." VALUABLE RESOURCES 2 Girls 1 Pup - https://www.instagram.com/2_girls_1_pup/ Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com             Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's single guest is an optimistic and adventurous single man who's looking for a long-term relationship and a supportive teammate. From laidback dates in Mexico City to his controversial opinions on women's Tinder bios, this guest takes an interest in people and will keep you entertained while sharing his unique perspectives. KEY TAKEAWAYS  The guest appreciates maturity and experience in dating, having previously dated women up to 8 years older than him. He believes women aren't held accountable for the outrageous things they put in their Tinder bios, and provides humorous examples in the episode His most toxic trait is getting stroppy when losing at video games or board games The guest's worst dating story turned out to be his best, involving a woman who was 2 hours late to their date in Mexico City He emphasises the importance of supporting one another and having each other's backs in a relationship. The guest has lived and worked in various countries, teaching languages and running his own tutoring business. BEST MOMENTS "Women aren't really held to account for what they say in their bios". "One of these is a lie. I hate men. I have a baby. I have a job. Turns out the lie was, yeah, she doesn't have a job." "If you beat me in a video game or a board game, which is unlikely, by the way, I will get a bit stroppy. I might not talk to you for like, 10, 15 minutes." "I want to have a relationship with someone where we're just smashing life together as a team, supporting each other, caring for each other." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London.  I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie interviews a lively and adventurous single woman who is seeking a like-minded partner to join her on life's exciting journey. From her unique dating experiences to her endearing quirks, this guest knows what she wants and that is someone fun, and lively who will appreciate her enthusiastic spirit.  KEY TAKEAWAYS  The guest is a spontaneous, adventurous woman who loves trying new things and is always up for a challenge, seeking a partner who shares her zest for life. She admits to being a bit picky when it comes to dating but ultimately knows what she wants The guest's worst dating story involves a frustrating experience during COVID times, highlighting the importance of communication and optimism in relationships. She's attracted to men who wear backward caps and is turned off by those who complain to wait staff after a meal or stand outside the pub waiting for their date. The guest is a primary school teacher with a heart of gold, showcasing her patience and caring nature in both her personal and professional life. She's passionate about dance, comedy, and live music so a festival is her favourite space The guest describes herself as "enthusiastic," always ready to dive into new experiences and share her passion with others. BEST MOMENTS "I love dance, and I love comedy and I love live music, festivals combine all of that, so, they're my favourite places." "Hello Fresh, Goodbye Fresh” "My one word for review is enthusiastic, reason being I just feel like whatever you're passionate about, I can also get passionate about that, like yeah you love it. I'm in, I'll get into it as well." "I'm actually not picky, I just feel like, when I know that I like someone, I know that I like them." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com               Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's guest is a charming and adventurous wildlife photographer who is looking for a long-term relationship. With a love for exercise, nature, live music, and genuine human connection, this easygoing and carefree guy shares his impulsive tendencies and nerdy passions.  KEY TAKEAWAYS  The guest's ideal partner should have a love for life, enjoy travelling, and have a compatible work schedule His self-proclaimed toxic traits include impulsive buying and an unhealthy Deliveroo habit Wildlife photography is his nerdy passion, and he even creates an annual calendar featuring his best shots for friends and family. A dream life for him would include living in the country, having access to nature, live music, and a flexible job that allows him to help people. Instagram can be a red flag if someone is constantly posting and not living in the moment The guest's friend describes him as a positive, charming, enthusiastic, and loyal person with a great sense of humour and a love for the outdoors. BEST MOMENTS "There are four things in life that make me happy. Like, make me feel most alive, and they are genuine human connection, live music, I love live music, nature and exercise." "I would just say I like people that have a love for life” "The main thing I'd have said is that he's a very, very positive person. He'll always see the upside in a situation or opportunity. There's always a silver lining and he's always keen to try to get people excited about something. And it's very infectious having lived with him for a long time." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com         Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get ready to explore the spicy world of sex and self-acceptance with body positivity coach Kitty Underhill in this special live recording of Single Sounds. Katie and Kitty dive into the importance of self-knowledge, communication, and embracing your kinks and fetishes for the best sex of your life. Discover how to reconnect with your sexual energy and navigate the wild world of dating with confidence. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their relationship with their body and sexuality. Sponsored by LUVISS KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      Reconnecting with your sexual energy starts with self-discovery and understanding your wants, needs, and boundaries. ·      Communication is key to great sex; listen to your partner's bodily cues and tailor your technique to their individual desires. ·      Lube and sex toys are your teammates, not your competition; embrace them to enhance your sexual experiences. ·      Explore your kinks and fetishes by talking openly with friends and partners, and remember that shame perpetuates in silence. ·      Attend sex parties with an open mind and clear intentions. You don't have to have sex if you don't want to. ·      Confidence and communication are essential for feeling more present and satisfied in the bedroom. ·      Self-knowledge and self-acceptance are the foundation for a fulfilling sex life and better relationships with yourself and others.   BEST MOMENTS "The best way you can improve your sexual performance is communication. We're not a copy and paste of each other." "Lube is lit. Lube is amazing. I don't know if anyone has ever tried to use a penetrative sex toy without lube. Like, don't do that." "If you want to feel more present in the bedroom, if you want to have more exciting experiences, explore these kinds of things, so much of it comes down to communication and confidence." "Shame proliferates in silence. If you don't have these conversations, you could be sitting there being like, 'I really want someone to pee on me, but no one wants to.”   VALUABLE RESOURCES Connect with Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Connect with Kitty Underhill - https://www.instagram.com/kittyunderhillx  LUVISS lubricant (SS20 for 20% off) - https://www.luviss.com/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie interviews a chaotic yet predictable single lady who's open to dating various types of men but has a soft spot for tall, sporty guys. With controversial opinions on condiments and a tendency to plan ahead, this episode is packed with hilarious dating stories and relatable moments. Tune in for a fun-filled discussion on love, life, and the importance of portable phone chargers! KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      The guest is open-minded about who she dates but tends to prefer tall, sporty guys, especially rugby players. ·      She has controversial opinions about condiments, believing ketchup and mayonnaise aren't necessary for life. ·      The guest admits to struggling with going with the flow and being spontaneous, but she can be impulsive at times. ·      Her worst dating stories involve accidentally insulting vegetarian dates ·      She's weirdly attracted to people who can make plans more than two days in advance, as she appreciates organisation and planning. ·      The guest's best friends describe her as a rare hybrid of high energy and organisation, loyal, kind, and having a great set of friends. ·      She describes herself as "predictable chaos" - a bit nutty but never surprising, so potential dates know what to expect.   BEST MOMENTS "So I just don't think ketchup and mayonnaise are that necessary to life." "I'd say I could win an award for my phone always dying. Probably beat most people at it, so. Not the best award…" "I'm a bit nutty, but I don't think it ever surprises anyone. They know what's coming."   VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London.  I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's guest is a bit of a hopeless romantic with a lot of love to give. His New Year's resolution is to try and tame his fashion spending habit, particularly with the colour beige, and he is not one to shy away from the camera. He shares stories from awkward burlesque shows to navigational mishaps even in London despite growing up there.  KEY TAKEAWAYS  This London-born single is a hopeless romantic ready to experience love, travel, and will sweep a girl off her feet. While naturally reserved with new people, he warms up and reveals his caring, affectionate nature once comfortable. His vanity is balanced by self-awareness, as evidenced by his conscious effort to smile more in photos despite his "smouldering" default. A non-drinker, he seeks partners who share his values of meaningful connections over alcohol-fuelled interactions. His strong, long-term friendships are a testament to his loyalty and ability to form deep bonds. Living at home allows him to prioritise personal growth and financial stability while still enjoying the London dating scene. His directional challenges have led to memorable dating experiences, showcasing his ability to find humour in awkward situations. BEST MOMENTS "I just feel like the smouldering sort of look is like something that people are more drawn to. That's how my twisted mind thinks sometimes." "I'm using the same places [for dates] in rotation." "I'd say I'm someone who has a lot of love to give, a lot of care and affection, I'm someone who wants to experience things with new people and the travelling, the romance, the kind of being swept off your feet is something that I'm all the way here for as I get older and get grumpier." "One of my friends was like, 'oh, I got engaged over the Christmas period'. And you're so happy for them. But also you fucking bastard." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Katie on a hilarious journey with her latest guest, a high-energy, short queen from London seeking the love of her life. This episode is filled with laughter as they discuss the guest's quirky dating preferences, roasting as a love language, and her dream of owning a fishing/ surfing shack on a tropical island. Get ready for a fun-filled episode packed with dating advice and witty banter! KEY TAKEAWAYS  Roasting is the guest's love language; she shows affection by playfully making fun of her romantic interests. The guest is attracted to men who do silly things for no reason and have strong opinions they can passionately debate. Being dramatic doesn't equate to being emotional or sensitive; the guest is easygoing despite her high energy. The guest's ideal partner should be open to travelling every three months and considering a future outside the UK. Quality time with loved ones is a priority for the guest, whether it's a wild night out or a peaceful Sunday walk. Self-awareness and the ability to laugh at oneself are essential traits the guest values in herself and others. BEST MOMENTS "When I fancy someone or when I like them, I roast them."  "I wish more people knew that I'm dramatic, I'm not emotional."  "I really have this thing where…I really like guys who do like, silly things for no reason."  "I love people who have opinions. Like, please tell me you have thoughts of your own, like you have autonomy over your own body, free will."  "Despite her cool, confident exterior, she's an incredibly caring person who loves her friends and family and prioritises quality time with the people she loves." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London.  I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com           Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie chats with a charming 31-year-old West London man who is ready for a long-term relationship. Standing at exactly 6 feet tall, this adventurous guy is looking for dates filled with laughter and a tall queen. He is very comfortable expressing his interests and embraces his nerdy side. If you're looking for a guy that might just sweep you off your feet (literally!), then this episode is a must-listen! KEY TAKEAWAYS  Laughter is key to a great date and relationship for this single guy He's attracted to women, especially those on the taller side (5'9" and up) Overthinking and hyper-fixating on hobbies is his toxic trait Being a Dungeon Master for D&D games requires vulnerability and creativity Skiing/ snow sports is on his bucket list, despite growing up without much opportunity for expensive holidays Giving a date a piggyback through the mud was a memorable bonding experience! BEST MOMENTS "Laughter really is the big thing. I think if you're laughing with someone, you're losing yourself in the moment with them." "Every so often when a new topic of interest comes along. And I think some people are like, okay, yeah, that was cool. I tend to be like, well, I'm going to learn everything there is to know about this thing." "I do like a tall girl. There's something about it that ticks that box." "At that moment where it was, okay, I can't have your memory of this date, be that you've ruined your shoes." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie chats to professional matchmaker Siobhan Copland of Cupid in the City in this fun and informative episode. Siobhan shares her journey into becoming a professional matchmaker, the process of finding compatible matches, and how she accommodates specific preferences. She also discusses the cost structure of her services and shares some favourite success stories. This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering hiring a matchmaker or looking for their perfect match. KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      Matchmaking is ideal for those who are intentional about finding a long-term partnership and want someone to share their established lifestyle with ·      Compatibility is assessed through personality tests, shared values, and physical attraction ·      Siobhan's matchmaking process includes a Zoom call, a face-to-face meeting, and a membership that provides coaching, personal styling, and introductions for up to a year ·      Men tend to have more specific physical preferences, while women's attraction can grow based on personality and how a man makes them feel ·      Communication is key to maintaining interest between dates, and Siobhan recommends men take the initiative to plan the second date soon after the first ·      Joining a matchmaker's network is free, but becoming a client ensures more personalised attention and a higher likelihood of finding a compatible match ·      Mindset plays a significant role in dating success, and working with a matchmaker can help clients gain clarity on what they want and identify patterns in their dating habits   BEST MOMENTS "If a guy can't even meet that basic standard to book, to find a coffee shop, to sit down and make sure she has a seat, like... No" "In these early stages, you want a man to be slightly obsessed with you" "80 per cent of it is actually mindset. Just going in being like, I'm going to have a great date” "I want my clients to feel special, I want them to feel, you know, that it's like a start of a new process”   VALUABLE RESOURCES Siobhan Copland - https://www.instagram.com/siobhancopland/ Cupid in the City - https://www.cupidinthecity.com/ Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE GUEST Siobhan Copland is a passionate matchmaker dedicated to helping singles find their perfect match and is the founder of the matchmaking service Cupid in the City. What began as a series of delightful events in 2010 evolved into a more personalised approach, leading to the launch of the personal introductions service in London in 2013. Under Siobhan's guidance, her team has successfully united numerous individuals, creating beautiful and lasting partnerships. Their expertise and commitment have earned Cupid in the City multiple accolades, establishing it as a premier matchmaking agency for professionals throughout the U.K. Cupid in the City believes in fostering genuine and meaningful dating experiences. Their approach combines expert advice with a curated pool of eligible singles, eliminating the need for endless swiping, database browsing, or playing games. They focus on facilitating authentic connections that lead to real dates and, ultimately, fulfilling relationships. ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.  Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's guest is a bubbly and enthusiastic 27-year-old woman looking for love. She shares her hilarious dating stories, and impressive hosting skills thanks to her unique degree and love of making breakfast in bed for others. She also reveals her attraction to biceps, beards, and backs. This girl knows what she wants in a partner and small acts of kindness will never go amiss with her - pick her up from work and you'll be golden. KEY TAKEAWAYS  It's important to this guest that a potential partner is proactive in arranging dates and has a solid friendship group. Sharing personal interests and passions, even if they differ from your own, is an attractive trait. Being kind and thoughtful, like picking someone up from work unexpectedly, is what she is looking for. She believes it's important to respectfully speak up and address issues with food or service at a restaurant to ensure a positive dining experience. She is an "acts of service" kind of person, such as making breakfast in bed for those special people in her life. Quoting movies in random situations is a unique and endearing quirk. BEST MOMENTS "I'm attracted to biceps, beards, and backs. All the B's."  "If you come round, you will have, the full experience. The full works. Like, breakfast in bed if you're lucky."  VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Or via email: singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie interviews a 30-year-old remote worker seeking a serious relationship with a woman to build a future together. This charming and ambitious guest shares his quirky interests, from learning about relationships through the kama sutra to investing in innovative start-ups. If you're looking for a witty, well-groomed, and family-oriented man who can cook a mean curry and bust a move on the dance floor, this could be your perfect match!   KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      He is open to dating women aged 25-35 across the UK, with a preference for London despite living in Southampton himself. ·      He's seeking a serious relationship with someone ambitious who shares his values and is open to personal growth. ·      His interests include technology, investing in start-ups, learning about different cultures, and reading. ·      He values having a mix of male and female friends and believes it's important for understanding different perspectives. ·      He shares entertaining stories of his worst dates, including a woman who harassed him with prank calls and another who baked a cake with his face on it! ·      His dream life involves progressing in his career, being there for his family, and potentially working remotely from Tenerife during the winter.   BEST MOMENTS "Humans are weird. I think what you're attracted to is someone's imperfections that are really cute and unique to them." "The observations that I'm reading, like why people would have ended relationships, hasn't changed from 2000 years ago." "I'll tell you a joke, and if you laugh at this joke, you know that I'm the one for you."   VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Chaotic yet capable aptly describes this week's guest who shares hilarious stories of her clumsiness while outlining what she wants in a partner. She brings her witty banter and refreshing honesty whilst revealing her biggest ick and dating red flags like odd "societies" and bedroom curtains. With early morning workouts and bougie holidays on the regular, she needs someone to keep up and find the humour when she inevitably stacks it on a regular occasion!   KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      She wants someone funny, around her height or taller, who can handle her early gym wake-ups and lavish holidays. ·      Her toxic trait is buying everything she sees advertised to her on social media, cluttering up her home. ·      She frequently falls over, dropping food or coffee, but feels no embarrassment and thinks people should find it funnier. ·      An ick for her is guys in their 30s still living like university students   BEST MOMENTS "I recently fell over on the way to a date. And then I fell over on the date as well." "He was like 'I don't have a bedroom door, I have a curtain instead" "That is actually quite a good compatibility test, going through airport security with someone and how they handle that"   VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie celebrates Single Sound's 2-year anniversary with a live show featuring comedians Molly Cookson and Philipp Kostelecky. They take turns answering Single Sounds' classic dating questions like who they're attracted to, what they're looking for, and sharing their worst dating stories and icks. From avoiding dates to awkward kisses, learn all about these London singles with nonstop laughs and entertaining dating mishaps. KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      Molly is looking for her soulmate but has been disappointed in the past with other dates such as "Soulmate Daniel" ·      Philipp has some interesting bedroom habits such as he sleeps with a childhood teddy bear named Phillipp Bear and he only owns one pair of sheets and dries them with an electric blanket... ·      Molly's controversial opinion is she keeps her bread in the fridge... ·      Philipp's ick is when women's dating profiles say "make me laugh" ·      Molly hates the awkwardness of first date kissing at the end near public transport   BEST MOMENTS There was one girl I was with, and she was just like against anything fun at all, like anything goofy or silly. We once went to the cinema together, and it was a really nice cinema, so they gave you like a glass...And she like had her drink, and she took a sip from it. And I, just as a joke, I just went, slurp slurp, as she took the sip, and she just went, stop." "I once had a guy ask me three times on a date if he could kiss me. And every time I didn't kiss him. So you would think that he would get the hint that I didn't want to kiss him. The third time I just kissed him on the forehead." "Like, if we're on a first date and you put the, put the phone on the table, that for me is like I hate that too. Just put it in your pocket. We're in this moment, we're in this beautiful moment together." "Sometimes we're on a date and I'm like, you're looking for something, like, did your dog die? Something like that, just to, just to get some sort of emotional story going here."   VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, either character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London.  I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie Mc welcomes a cheeky South Londoner looking for a serious relationship. Despite forgetting first names and living his love life like a rom-com, he's ready for some dates. An ideal match won't mind tolerating his selfish yet loveable cat. They'll be open-minded, kind and compassionate, willing to share their lottery winnings with friends and family and appreciate his domestic abilities. Plus, his best friend suggests it would be a bonus if any date applicants could also help them win their local pub quiz.   KEY TAKEAWAYS His short-term memory issues like forgetting first names can sabotage romantic connections, so he needs a laid-back partner He recognises he puts unnecessary pressure on first dates, instead of letting attraction grow over time Winning the lottery would allow his generous spirit to treat loved ones to lavish vacations and a “fun” salary Judgmental, rude or condescending behaviours are dealbreakers for him, who values open-minded kindness above all else His catʼs occasional aggression helps vet romantic candidates on whether they can withstand difficult personalities   BEST MOMENTS "I get like that sometimes under pressure. I did a pitch the other day for my business and I said web shites instead of websites." "I don't want a bad rep from being late on a first date anyway, so I like to get there five, ten minutes early.” "Normally people have dreams which are kind of achievable or realistic but mine is to win the lottery, for sure."   VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.  Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com           Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Katie celebrates the 2nd anniversary of Single Sounds! The Valentine's live show is on Thursday 15th and there are still male tickets available here: https://podlifeevents.com/event-details/valentines-day-live-show-singles-event This week she interviews a 27-year-old working as a pub manager in central east London. This guest brings non-stop entertainment through her personality and stories - including men buying her clothing after a second date and her cat catching a chinchilla! She wants someone who can laugh her into bed, who can handle spiders and won't just order the cheapest larger. KEY TAKEAWAYS She manages a pub in central east London which comes with a plethora of stories and characters She always has a perfect pedicure and thinks flip-flops are acceptable year-round Her dream life is to own a small beach bar in Australia where she can watch the surfers and live a relaxed life. She briefly lived abroad in Malta which was an endless party. Her worst dating story involves a guy lying about his height - he was actually 5'4" not 5'10" Big icks for her include men with wallets, running for the Tube and asking for the cheapest larger at the bar. She is genuinely caring and would always put a partner's needs first. She loves family, tries new things, and fosters intimate connections according to the glowing review from her best friend!   VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

VALENTINE'S DAY LIVE SHOW TICKETS 15th February 7pm @ The Ministry in collaboration with LUVISS This week's guest is looking for someone chill to spend time with. He emanates calm energy and a laid-back attitude to life. He has a tendency to breeze through disorganisation and feels lucky things have always worked out for him in the past but has decided to put himself out there a bit more – starting with coming on Single Sounds! He comes with a great perk of free coffee plus he will happily make you a roast on Sundays and show you how to improve your tea. But he might not tolerate you having a huge photo shoot on holiday…   KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      He is easygoing and wants to meet someone he can casually hang out and spend time with as more than a friend. ·      He's open-minded about dating someone taller than his 5'8 height. ·      His therapist advised him to put himself in uncomfortable situations and try new things to get out there more, leading him to be on the podcast. ·      He dreams of living a comfortable, relaxed life by the sea surrounded by close friends. ·      His biggest ick is when people take endless photos of themselves posing, like spending 10+ minutes shooting for Instagram. ·      He isn't a coffee snob despite working in the coffee industry but does prefer tea   BEST MOMENTS "I just want to move the whole of the UK next to Australia. Just next to it, so we get the same climate." "My dream life would be living somewhere by the sea where you can hear the ocean. That's a dream, right? That would be really lush." “I work in coffee, so if you like free coffee, then great."   VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety in how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

VALENTINE'S DAY LIVE SHOW TICKETS 15th February 7pm @ The Ministry in collaboration with LUVISS Katie interviews dating coach Claire Grigson on finding success and happiness in modern dating. They discuss Claire's unique style of relationship coaching, common dating problems Claire sees with clients, and how people can set themselves up for dating success in 2024. They also tackle questions from Katie's audience on whether to pay for dating apps, how to choose partners, the dreaded friend zone, and the differences between app dating vs real-life dating. KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      Define what success in dating looks like for you specifically through self-reflection and journaling on your intentions, values and vision. This helps assess potential partners. ·      Move conversations to in-person dates quickly when using dating apps, within 2 days ideally, to avoid unrealistic expectations from excessive messaging. ·      Pay more for a dating coach, events and activities likely to expand your social network versus paying for premium dating app features, which tend to increase overwhelming options. ·      People often subconsciously choose partners that recreate dynamics with unavailable or inconsistent parents to try and rewrite the story, seeking love that feels familiar. ·      Accept and respect when someone says they just want to be friends after dating, for the sake of your emotional health, it likely won't change. ·      In-person singles events allow more accurate vibes assessment and expand your social network, despite potential initial nerves.   BEST MOMENTS "My definition of success in dating is to make interesting connections with people that align with me." "Be kind, like, still have a brief interaction with this person...people notice that." "When you can allow yourself to just push out your comfort zone a little bit and do it, you'll probably find that you're like, that was actually all right."   ABOUT THE GUEST Claire is a dating & relationship coach, who has supported hundreds of women to feel more empowered, secure & confident in their love lives. From finding joy in being single, navigating dating, and building fulfilling relationships, she empowers women to start with the most important relationship of all - the one with themselves, so they can then go on and attract their person. Using a powerful combination of coaching, nervous system regulation, subconscious work, mindset, energetics, & mentoring, Claire supports her clients to build secure relationships and step into the most empowered & confident version of themselves.  You can connect with her on ;  Instagram ; https://www.instagram.com/claire_grigson_coaching/ TikTok ; https://www.tiktok.com/@claire_grigson_coaching?_t=8WySEp8CKYv&_r=1 Facebook ; https://www.facebook.com/claire.grigson.coaching Email ; claire@clairegrigson.com 1:1 Coaching is by application only: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdWsd2AAOTXlpdNMNYaevEdFlPvM-_sr2ZCbwFGOB-__iXWWQ/viewform ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

VALENTINE'S DAY LIVE SHOW TICKETS 15th February 7pm @ The Ministry in collaboration with LUVISS This week's guest is looking to give a nice guy a chance and someone who can keep up with her ambition. She is a very impressive person who is multilingual and could be described as Emmanuel Macon's wet dream! She also has a 100% success rate with her witty pick-up lines about the subject of her PhD. If you can handle some TV and film commentary, wear glasses and don't kiss with a lot of noise, this romantic girl next door could be your match and is looking to find her boy next door. KEY TAKEAWAYS  She speaks multiple languages but doesn't have a nationality She had a transformative confidence-boosting fling with a man she calls "The Viking" Looking for an ambitious guy in London, wearing glasses is a bonus! She is very talkative, especially about differences between books and their movie adaptations A nice guy who is ready for love is what she is looking for In the past, she has attracted (and been attracted to) military men and claims she could have her own battalion! BEST MOMENTS "He suddenly like takes my foot and he just puts my toe in his mouth." "If you ever need a little bit of a confidence boost, go find yourself a Viking man." "You can drown in my pretty blue eyes, I guess, and I want to drown in yours." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Email: singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

VALENTINE'S DAY LIVE SHOW TICKETS 15th February 7pm @ The Ministry in collaboration with LUVISS Katie interviews a fascinating and very creative 28-year-old guest in this episode. He discusses his journey figuring out his sexuality, spending 4 years living in western monasteries and meditation retreats and how he now works a 9-5 job in London while still maintaining his spiritual curiosity. Katie uncovers that whoever dates this man won't have dated anyone like him before, he is truly unique. He has plenty of self-awareness to list his toxic traits, provides a bonus voice note from his therapist and has a bizarre worst dating story involving emergency services in Peckham! KEY TAKEAWAYS  He struggled with his sexuality for a long time, recently realising he's probably pansexual and open to dating all genders. After studying philosophy and getting into Buddhism, he spent 4 years living in western monasteries and Buddhist retreats doing intensive meditation.  Though he's no longer as immersed in monastic life, spirituality remains important to him. One toxic trait he admits to is compulsively oversharing personal details with people. His therapist said he can sometimes come across as too sharp or cutting with people. But this challenges others to connect on a deeper level. He classifies himself as religious to annoy the anti-religious, though he doesn't align with any one religion, he values spiritual openness. After getting locked inside Copeland Park on an awkward date, he had to call emergency services! BEST MOMENTS "Dating apps should have a feature where you can filter out names, like your brother and sisters' names". "When you do a lot of meditation consecutively, you kind of start to have some strange experiences as well...And it's like existentially risky. It's risky in the most fundamental way." "I kind of compulsively disclose things to people like desperately honest maybe?" "As long as the person is sort of, like, spiritually curious and has some kind of humility. It's not just like, eh, it's all bullshit, you know?" VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

VALENTINE'S DAY LIVE SHOW TICKETS 15th February 7pm hosted at The Ministry in collaboration with LUVISS The roles are reversed as Mared Parry interviews Katie Mc in this special episode to celebrate the 100th episode of Single Sounds! They dive into Katie's specific checklist for her ideal partner, controversial opinions that may shock some, and the toxic traits she hopes romantic prospects can handle. The same rules apply as usual - if you would like to date Katie Mc just contact the podcast on Instagram, TikTok or email (bonus points if it's a voicenote). KEY TAKEAWAYS  Katie despises showering and wants a "shower buddy" to sit with her during the misery. She adores visiting zoos and aquariums despite recognising concerns over animal captivity, considering them a guilty pleasure. Katie embraces constructive feedback, welcoming blunt opinions ranging from the podcast to her physical appearance and any other flaws to improve herself! She obsessively binge-watches Netflix's "Top 10" programs, no matter the genre. Katie's parents deliver a glowing testimonial pitching their daughter as a lovable, gutsy, fiercely loyal catch for any fun-loving romantic prospect. Sending voice notes early when dating is attractive to Katie, revealing confidence and personality more than texting. BEST MOMENTS "But for me, it's men that send voice notes..." "I want to be able to bring you to all my social events, but I don't want to be worried about you." "I really enjoy constructive criticism...if someone tells me my makeup looks s**t, I enjoy that." "If you're outgoing, loyal, like to have a laugh...and want some permanent sunshine in your life, this is the lovable girl for you." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date Katie Mc contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Host for this episode is Mared Parry - https://www.instagram.com/maredparry/   ABOUT THE FOUNDER Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds                    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie Mc kicks off the new year with a wholesome single guy who shares his journey to self-improvement through moving out of his party house, taking up golf, and spending quality time cooking for himself and his younger sister. He also discusses his dream of moving abroad and embracing adventure with an upcoming Asia trip. Tune in for his worst dating story, involving a naked woman in an alleyway, and hear who he should date based on his charming qualities. KEY TAKEAWAYS  He finds cooking therapeutic and loves cooking whole chickens He is happy travelling solo but would love to find someone to share adventures with too Listening to podcasts is part of his quality alone time Sunday golf sessions He balances going out by appreciating low-key activities like getting coffee with a friend Playing golf every Sunday provides him with outdoor time, exercise, and alone time He is attracted to women he thinks "might be mean to him" due to a possible "Freudian relationship" with his lovely mum! He has a close relationship with his younger sister and likes to be around to help and support her. BEST MOMENTS "She whipped her top off and was just like, come on, like, let's go.” Whenever I see a girl that looks like she'd be mean to me, it's just a really big attraction for me.” "I can chat for Britain, so it's a bit too common." "If someone had told me, you know, when I was a little kid, that when I move out of home, I'd be butchering about three whole chickens a week, I would have never left home." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  Or via email singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie welcomes Jamie Johnston, founder of dating app, Mattr, to discuss his mission of encouraging authenticity in online dating. Jamie shares how his personal dating struggles with ADHD led him to create an app focused on personality over aesthetics. He details Mattr's features like honest bio sections, and limited daily matches that aim to facilitate more genuine connections. Jamie also examines the addictive nature of traditional apps and how Mattr offers an alternative approach centred around user mental health.  KEY TAKEAWAYS  After receiving an ADHD diagnosis, Jamie felt unable to genuinely present himself on mainstream dating apps and saw an opportunity for an alternative solution. Mattr's goal is synergy between neurotypical and neurodiverse users by meeting the needs of people more sensitive to overstimulating app features. Mattr combats choice paralysis by limiting daily matches and focusing profiles on personality over aesthetics via quizzes The app encourages honesty about weaknesses alongside strengths to facilitate vulnerability. Traditional dating apps are designed to be addictive using the same techniques as casinos and betting platforms To improve your experience, analyse if an app's community and likelihood of forming connections aligns with your goals. As online dating use increases, companies profit from perpetuating user addiction rather than forming relationships leading to deletion. Matter aims for a positive ecosystem via premium features like increased matches and discounts supporting local businesses. BEST MOMENTS "I lived that problem and now I'm starting the solution." "We want you to be vulnerable. We want you to be open and we want you to get your cards on the table." "If we get this right for neurodiverse people, we're going to get it right for neurotypical people anyway, because the things they hate, you hate." "48% of dating app users open the app as the last thing they do before they go to sleep" VALUABLE RESOURCES Mattr website Mattr Instagram ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a bonus episode to Episode 97 where Anais takes us through a 5-minute breathwork session to switch up your mood. Please listen to this whenever you feel you need it - I'll be listening whenever I want to relax and go to sleep! The second half of the episode is Katie's live tarot reading where she asks Anais what she needs to do to attract her dream relationship and the cards give answers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie Mc interviews Anais, a holistic women's coach about how to use tarot, breathwork, meditation, and manifesting to heal from heartbreak and attract your dream relationship. Anais shares her inspiring personal transformation story and how she helps women blossom into confident, fulfilled versions of themselves who can achieve anything they desire. Listen to gain insights into manifesting anything you want through self-love practices and tools that create radical positive change. KEY TAKEAWAYS  Acceptance and trusting the process are key first steps to healing. Forcing things won't work; give your feelings space. Do daily mirror work to reconnect with your body's beauty; this raises confidence and self-love. Manifest through journaling, affirmations, embodying desired feelings, and detaching from timelines. Commitment is required. Balance feminine receiving and masculine giving energies for harmony. Uplevel your vibe; who do you need to become to attract your ideal partner? How would being with them feel? Self-limiting beliefs based on past experiences distort reality. Shift your perspective. Consistent breathwork physiologically calms the nervous system, reducing anxiety. BEST MOMENTS "Your joy and your happiness is your birth right. It cannot pass you by." "When trauma happens, there's a lot of selective memory. So, a lot of the things that had happened to me, I had forgotten." "I want you to know that no matter what you can create your life, you can change everything." "It's important to allow the other person to be who they really are and accept them." "I woke up in my fucking mansion with the love of my life and he is just the best." VALUABLE RESOURCES Anais Instagram to join her world!   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

DESCRIPTION Katie interviews dating expert and 'most swiped right man on Tinder,' Stefan Pierre Tomlin, to get his tips on creating the ultimate dating app profile to attract more matches. They discuss the best apps to use, ideal photos, clever prompts, and opening lines. Stefan even reviews Katie's Hinge profile, giving constructive feedback on her pictures and prompts to stand out. With Stefan's insider advice on capturing attention, transitioning from the app to real life, and understanding the male perspective, listeners will feel empowered to refresh their profiles for dating success in 2024. KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      Use bright, vibrant photos with you as the sole focus, showcase hobbies/interests. Pics should tell a magazine-worthy story about you. ·      Tinder has the widest reach, don't restrict yourself to "posh" apps. Write a funny, short bio. ·      Video call before meeting IRL to confirm identity and assess character/compatibility. ·      Saying "hey" first takes confidence as a guy. Women should sometimes initiate the conversation. ·      Reply to something specific in their profile/pics to start chatting, not just "hey." ·      Get them off the app by asking for WhatsApp or number after a few messages to get meeting IRL. ·      Use Tinder Plus to change locations to areas where your perfect partner would hang out. ·      No all selfies or group pics where people have to guess who you are.   BEST MOMENTS "For a guy to say hey, that is a big thing, like, you don't just say hey to every match." "So the bio should be like funny, short, snappy. You shouldn't be like writing a book." "Because normally you just don't say anything and you wait for them to write to you."   VALUABLE RESOURCES Stefan Pierre Tomlin Instagram Celebrity love coach website   ABOUT THE GUEST Stefan Pierre Tomlin is a British model and social media/Tv personality, he is 33 years old and was born in Greenwich South London, UK. He gained fame for being dubbed “the most swiped-right man on Tinder” in 2017, after receiving more than 14,000 matches on the dating app. Tomlin started his career as a model in 2011 when he was signed by Select Model Management. Since then, he has modeled for various brands and campaigns, including ASOS, Calvin Klein, Dior, Burberry, Dsquared and boohooMAN. He has also appeared in publications such as GQ, Attitude, and Men's Health. Apart from modeling, Tomlin has also gained a significant following on social media platforms. He has appeared on 12 Mainstream TV shows. He is particularly active on Instagram, where he posts lifestyle content, including photos of his travels, fitness routine, and fashion. He has more than 500K followers on the platform. Tomlin also offers personalised coaching packages to help you navigate your love life and find the relationship you truly deserve. During the sessions, you'll work together to identify your specific challenges and develop strategies to overcome them. You'll explore your values, beliefs, and relationship patterns to help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself and what you want in a partner. Throughout the coaching relationship, Tomlin will be there to provide support, guidance, and accountability as you work towards your relationship goals. His coaching style is compassionate, non-judgmental, and focused on empowering you to take control of your love life. ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London.  I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie Mc's Instagram CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

DESCRIPTION  In this episode, Katie invites the "Queen of Breakups" Rosie Wilby to share her wisdom on surviving and even thriving after a breakup. Covering everything from the seven key reasons relationships end to handling the aftermath with friends and family, Rosie provides comfort, science-backed advice, and plenty of wry wit. You'll learn why the sadness comes in waves, the mental tricks to stop feeling so terrible, and how to set boundaries with your inner circle so they can actually help (not hinder!) your healing.  KEY TAKEAWAYS  Phone a trusted friend straight after the breakup conversation happens Write out a pros and cons list to gain clarity without the rose-tinted glasses Seek professional help if you're still struggling with closure years later Reinvent yourself by trying new hobbies, careers or travels after some time Don't rush into dating before you've had time to process the emotions Decline friends "helping" you too quickly if it doesn't feel right yet Understanding the science behind heartbreak makes you feel less alone Reframing the breakup as an exciting catalyst for positive change BEST MOMENTS "I actually went straight over to a friend's house. I rang her. It was really late at night and she was like, we are getting on a flight at 4am, but just come." "I found the writing out the cons really helpful... it's called a negative reappraisal strategy. When you look at the negatives...that clear-sightedness about the reasons why it was not the right person for you." "Be selfish. It's a great time to look after yourself and it's a great time to do that because you are thinking very inward about what do I want to do, how do I now fill my time." VALUABLE RESOURCES Read The Breakup Monologues book Rosie Wilby website   ABOUT THE GUEST Rosie Wilby is an award-winning comedian, author, speaker and the creator of global hit podcast and book The Breakup Monologues. She has appeared many times on BBC Radio 4 programmes including Woman's Hour, Loose Ends, Saturday Live and Four Thought, on TV programmes including Good Morning Britain and at major festivals including Latitude and Glastonbury. Her first book Is Monogamy Dead? was shortlisted for the Diva Literary Awards 2017, longlisted for the Polari First Book Prize 2018 and followed her TEDx talk of the same name. Her acclaimed trilogy of solo shows investigating the psychology of love began with The Science of Sex and ended with The Conscious Uncoupling, which toured to venues including London's Southbank Centre and was shortlisted for Funny Women Best Show. Nicknamed 'the lesbian Louis Theroux', Rosie loves to use humour to unpack difficult questions about modern life and spread awareness of more conscious ways of beginning, maintaining and ending human relationships. She presents radio shows for the BBC, Virgin Radio and Resonance FM, writes for publications including The Guardian, Sunday Times , Cosmo, Stylist and New Statesman and speaks about relationships, resilience and reinvention at conferences and corporate events.  ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

DESCRIPTION  Katie is kicking off her exciting "How To" December series with very special LGBTQ+ dating expert guest Eden Heath, host of Queer Love Stories. Eden shares his insightful 7 levels of dating, from casual dating and sex, through milestones like exclusivity and meeting friends and family, to eventually getting the coveted official partner status. They discuss the differences in dating by location, the importance of positive representation for LGBTQ+ love stories and relationships, dealing with breakups and introducing partners to friends and family. Eden also shares his best dating advice - throw yourself into love feet first, and you don't need someone else to do the things you want to do. KEY TAKEAWAYS  There are 7 levels of dating - from casual to committed to official relationship status. Smaller cities like Manchester have big LGBTQ+ scenes so offer wider dating options. Seeing positive portrayals of LGBTQ+ love helps people believe love is possible for them. Accept that getting your heart broken will happen but you will come out stronger. Don't wait to follow your dreams - do things solo until you meet someone compatible. Take opportunities the universe gives you - you have to open yourself up. Heartbreak leads to growth which makes you a better partner for the next relationship. BEST MOMENTS "I never thought that love was possible for me. We never saw it because we never saw it in the media." "Don't be afraid to get your heart broken - you're gonna get hurt but it's worth it." "Just book the plane ticket, go see the film, have the coffee, read the book - don't wait." "There are always opportunities facing you every day - whether in love, work or money." "You level up your choices of who you're looking for because of what you've learned."   ABOUT THE GUEST Eden Heath is an LGBTQ+ dating expert, podcast host and lifelong hopeless romantic. As the driving force behind the "Queer Love Stories" podcast, Eden embraces the role of a storyteller, creating a space to explore the intricacies of love – from heartwarming romances to the nurturing bonds of friendship, family ties, and the transformative power of self-love. Through his captivating conversations, he encourages listeners to find inspiration, connection, and hope within the diverse tales of love he shares. Follow Eden and Queer Love Stories on Instagram. Queer Love Stories is a podcast which gives members of the LGBTQ+ community the opportunity to share positive love stories to inspire others. All stories may contain a struggle but fundamentally have an overarching feeling of positivity which will show it's possible to make successful, lasting and deep connections within the LGBTQ+ community. Listen here: https://linktr.ee/itsedenheath ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Katie Mc is back with the final guest of her Northern November series, before moving into the expert "how-to" advice series in December. This week she's back in Manchester, chatting to a girl looking for an honest connection who can see past her blonde hair. We hear a tale of Tinder tricks in Ibiza, find out her bizarre coping mechanisms, and get spooked by a surprise visitor mid-interview. With talk of insane races, icks over 'dusty boys', and a stalker showing up on her doorstep, it's certainly an entertaining episode! KEY TAKEAWAYS  She believes men who say their "type" is blonde women is a major red flag. A bizarre early dating experience involved a guy in his late twenties lying about his past, finding out where she lived at uni, and showing up uninvited. Running ultra-marathons is her slightly unhealthy coping mechanism for dealing with life's stresses. She was once banned from Hinge due to someone spitefully reporting her, a controlling move which happens to other women too. Using Tinder in Ibiza only to match with bartenders and get free drinks was a fun dating experiment with her friend. Her icks include men referring to themselves as '[blank]' boys e.g. dusty, sore etc. She describes herself as "the most basic white girl that's absolutely not basic at all", with many contrasting personality traits. BEST MOMENTS "The golden rule to that is, it doesn't matter what a guy's type is, if there's an attractive ginger, then she takes the win." "I literally just brushed it off and went on a date the next day with someone else. I was like, it'll be fine, it'll be fine." "If you're ready to sing Taylor Swift at the top of your lungs, then my friend has got blank space, and she will write your name, baby." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's guest is the third episode of the Northern November series. Katie interviews a lively 27-year-old who has lived an exciting international life. Having already lived in five countries, this well-travelled romantic knows what she wants. Get ready for tales of adventures like visiting a nudist spa in Berlin and experiencing a dead rat being left in her car! Beyond the chaos, this ambitious single has so many short-term obsessions and interests it would be impossible to get bored with her. She's looking for someone fun, outgoing and eager to integrate friend groups. An ideal partner would also share her love of adventures, from last-minute trips to playing chess. KEY TAKEAWAYS  Living in many international cities has shaped her adventurous spirit and made her very open to new experiences. She values a partner who is fun, ambitious, and excited to combine friend groups, viewing this social integration as a sign of a strong relationship. Her impulsive nature leads to eclectic hobbies and adventures, like spontaneously visiting a nudist spa in Berlin. She enjoys thrilling experiences but needs alone time too, cherishing solo movie outings with wine and snacks. Chess is a nerdy passion of hers - she has even made dates play. Driving is important to her, so any backseat driving or driving anxiety are major turn-offs. She believes that travel compatibility and being open to new things are key foundations to building a successful relationship. BEST MOMENTS "I've been on dates and made dates play chess, but I actually think it's a really good sign of whether someone's open to trying something with you." "I'm very impulsive. I get these, like, short-term obsessions...I quit my job a few months ago and I was looking for what I was gonna do next and I was like, I'm gonna go to Africa." "If you really want to win her over, a cup of tea in bed, but once she's woken up. Now, final warning, if you're lucky enough to tie this incredible girl down, you'll have to buy her a sausage dog." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com               Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is the second guest in Katie's Northern November series where she chats to a pharmacy manager who has a great voice but also awards himself for being the most annoying person. He doesn't like losing arguments but loves a healthy debate and readily admits his love for sleeping in pyjamas. He shares some of his best and bad dating stories and what you see is what you get as he is brutally honest about his own worst traits. KEY TAKEAWAYS ·      He likes hearing others' opinions and is always up for debate but readily admits that his opinion is rarely wrong. ·      He doesn't like messaging too much, he prefers a phone call. ·      The award he thinks he would win would be for being the most annoying, it's something he embraces and enjoys, and it's how he entertains himself! ·      A big ick for him is open-toe shoes and when people in heels do a little skip/run when crossing the road. BEST MOMENTS “Chivalry is not dead!” “I suppose I'm quite stubborn” “If you date this man expect to receive many texts that just don't make sense” “He's kind, thoughtful and will always look after you”   VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/   ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's energetic guest kicks off Northern November in true Mancunian style. She is so welcoming and friendly which was the general vibe I got from all my guests and the general population of Manchester – everyone was so happy to talk to you and help you out! She is looking for the perfect mix of chaos and peace in a future partner. Her ideal man would be a combination of Mason Mount and Harry Styles with an accent. She is not short of opinions on topics ranging from dolphins to discussing how frequently you should wash your bumhole. If you take her on a date be aware she loves a pint of Guinness and jager bombs just make sure you don't fall in the canal after the date!  KEY TAKEAWAYS This guest loves an accent, from scouse to Irish to cockney! This guest doesn't understand the hype around height in men, it's not a top priority for her. She may be up North, but her partner doesn't have to be as long as the transport options are simple, even London or a long-distance relationship could work. Her most controversial opinion is that she hates dolphins! Although she likes football and Guinness pints she is absolutely not a pick-me girl and you would recognise that straight away when you meet her, she feels the room with warmth and genuineness. BEST MOMENTS "I have a dolphin tattoo because keep your enemies closer." “The Simpsons has predicted so many things, they get it right!” “She loves football, a pint with the boys and you'll most likely see her in trainers with no or little make-up” VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Or via email - singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Advertising is represented by AudioPlus: hello@audioplus.agency Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's episode is a self-proclaimed "normal bloke" who verifies his physical attractiveness by often experiencing gay men hitting on him on nights out. He has many varied interests ranging from Star Wars to yoga on his balcony, plus has too many friendship groups to keep track of each quarter! He explains why he wants to find someone driven and extroverted and admits his toxic trait of disliking small talk with new people. He is looking for a long-term partner who is carefree and won't need validation from others, for example, will be up for singing at a karaoke night.  KEY TAKEAWAYS As an adult, it's hard to make new friends when you already have established social circles. New people must really impress to be able to break through that. Being extremely busy and doing too much is a toxic trait of his that stems from over-committing. He used to be very extroverted and social but now dislikes small talk and getting to know new people. His ideal partner would be an extrovert to balance him out as he's become more introverted. Good communication involves listening twice as much as you speak to let others feel heard. He'd give a TED talk on communication as it relates to all aspects of his life from work to relationships. Yoga and activities like karaoke that require not caring what others think attract him to a potential partner. BEST MOMENTS  "I literally have to know the laws of the game inside out. I have to know context about all the leagues that I'm refereeing in." "Everyone needs to vent every now and again. Just let them."  "I'm a popular man in the gay community. They hit on me all the time. I love it."  "I'm clean. I'm not a rotter" VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London.  I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                         Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's guest has recently moved to London and is looking for a long-term relationship. She has had quite the experiences, from a bouncer who used her for a dating tips book to hearing about a one-night stand wearing toe socks. Get ready for plenty of laughs and dating mishaps as our guest shares her shower thoughts on insect age and the struggles of being a natural redhead who relies on fake tanning. KEY TAKEAWAYS She recently moved to London and wants someone to explore the city with. She is looking for a relationship, but it has to be with the right person. Her toxic trait is that she is late for everything. She philosophises when she is in the shower. She thinks she deserves an award for her fake tanning abilities. Her dating ick list includes mullets, black rings on the index finger, and guys who overstay their welcome. BEST MOMENTS "He used that on like all his topless selfies and I was like, oh god, what am I doing?" "He was wearing individual toe socks. As in, imagine gloves on your hands, but on your feet."  "I'd rather be patchy than pale as hell. It's a hill that I'll die on." "If you fancy being my tour guide around London, then you should write in." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's guest is a positive and happy-go-lucky guy who is looking for someone with chilled vibes and most crucially knows who they are. He values openness and honesty in a long-term relationship and his biggest ick is someone who isn't passionate about something. If you date this man get ready for incredible organised fun, some would say they could have been planned by a small production team, which I'm sure will translate into dates. Plus enjoy an infamous worst dating story titled "the Costa coffee story" which you might have already heard from a friend! KEY TAKEAWAYS Guest is passionate about many things from sports to sci-fi and most notably spreadsheets  He is the most positive person his therapist has ever seen in their clinic  His biggest ick is people eating with their mouths open or not being passionate about something  Loves planning organised fun with the creativity and energy of a small production team He is a really big Disney fan and will want to know your top 5 Disney movies  Describes himself in one word as open BEST MOMENTS "I am a nerd about everything. I can get so passionate about so many different things." "I always ask potential dates for their top 5 Disney films. It's not the answer that matters, it's how they respond." "Organised fun is so good. If someone doesn't like it, they just haven't done it properly." "If you're holding back any part of yourself when dating, you should put that relationship aside." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tickets to the next LIVE show single bingo event - Friday 6th October @ Infernos, Clapham This week's guest is bursting with personality and she first met Katie from attending the podcast's first-ever live show alone! Covering a myriad of passions from writing and journalism to tea and stationery, this singleton provides a masterclass in being brave and switching careers multiple times.  She would love a date that ends in the Lexington for a dance and is a fan of sci-fi with her own opinions on Star Trek and Star Wars (yes she knows the difference!). She has and will continue to lead such an interesting life with her own IMBD page, has recently applied for first dates and does stand-up comedy on the side! You will never get bored if you date this girl. KEY TAKEAWAYS Changing careers can be daunting but rewarding and I encourage everyone to do it Looking for shared values like going to therapy  It's okay to not be productive after a breakup - healing comes first Having multiple hobbies and interests makes you a well-rounded, fascinating person Would love to double date at Hampton Court!  BEST MOMENTS "I weirdly have a thing for people who play sport to an amateur level. Specifically football..." "My biggest ick is guys not having therapy when they need it" "I did this BBC production talent program and ended up doing my dream job on Doctor Who straight out of uni." "I can sit at my desk writing for hours and be completely content - that's my dream life." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tickets to the next LIVE show single bingo event - Friday 6th October @ Infernos, Clapham This week's guest loves to have fun, be spontaneous and make people laugh. It would be impossible for you not to enjoy the plethora of celebrity impressions in this episode. He doesn't buy into the British culture of baked beans or moaning but he explains how he thinks he has cracked the code on the art of being charming.  This fun-loving man has never used dating apps and prefers meeting people organically. He shares his worst dating stories and a surprising biggest ick relating to a fake tan incident! His friend gives a cheeky recommendation on how his energy for adventure is matched in the bedroom.  KEY TAKEAWAYS He has never used dating apps, and prefers to meet people organically A girl one-upped his "youngest in university" line and a date kissed him unexpectedly in front of friends! He does great impressions of Boris Johnson, Prince Harry, Professor McGonagall, David Attenborough Doesn't experience jealousy in relationships Lived with an ex during university - having separate rooms helps! Biggest ick was a brown toilet seat stained by fake tanning Friend recommends dating him for energetic adventures, not cosy nights in  BEST MOMENTS "I know there's someone out there, I know there's someone listening, who's been swooned by his wheeler-dealer charm, his creativity and those luscious blonde locks."  "It's about making others around you feel interesting. And who knows if I'm successful at that, but I really do try my best." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tickets to the next LIVE show single bingo event - Friday 6th October @ Infernos, Clapham This week's episode is a lively Londoner seeking her future husband - as long as he's not a Virgo! She brings infectious positive energy, discussing her eclectic music tastes, from Beyonce to Blue, her quest for a partner like F1 star Daniel Ricciardo, and her love of McDonald's mozzarella sticks. Though she admits her toxic trait is positivity, her bestie gives glowing praise, citing banter, generosity, independence and fun as just some of her sunny qualities. She has a whole list of worst dating stories including one involving a Tinder Swindler-style robbery and with her vibrant personality, you're guaranteed to enjoy the ride. KEY TAKEAWAYS She's looking for a husband, not just a boyfriend - it's easy to get a boyfriend.  She is "polyjamorous" and her music taste is eclectic - she'll listen to anything from mainstream pop to obscure house music. Her celebrity crush Lee Ryan from Blue or F1 driver Daniel Ricciardo - she wants someone with his fun, carefree personality. Getting robbed by a date ranks as her worst dating experience She can't stand men who sleep too much - afternoon naps and weekend lie-ins are a big ick for her. Her bestie praises her spirit, banter, generosity and independence - she brings fun energy wherever she goes. BEST MOMENTS "I am looking for a husband, not a boyfriend - I've had my single time, it's been great, but I'm definitely looking for a husband now." "I went to Beyonce, Chris Brown but also Paramore, Blue, Afrobeats - I will literally find common music ground with anybody." "If you are like Daniel Ricciardo in terms of personality, please holla at your girl." "She is always willing to try new things - hence doing the podcast, and she just always has a positive outlook on life." VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                         Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tickets to the next LIVE show single bingo event - Friday 6th October @ Infernos, Clapham This week's anonymous single Londoner is outgoing and always has a plan. He describes what he's seeking in a partner - someone positive, a good listener, creative, and emotionally intelligent.  His friend provides a glowing testimonial, applauding his organised nature and zeal for life whilst constantly doing new activities. Tune in to get a sense of this adventurous guy's vibrant energy, passion for exploring, and spirit for making the most of life. Learn tips for planning creative dates while still getting to know someone conversationally. If you love laughter and have an appetite for excitement, definitely reach out! KEY TAKEAWAYS Seeks a partner who is positive, a good listener, creative, and emotionally intelligent. Sleep talks complete sentences when drunk, and worries about spilling secrets! He had an intense date in Brazil that ended in a dodgy accommodation. If you can confidently do activities alone, he will find this very attractive! Plans fun, unique date ideas but starts with drinks to allow for good conversation. BEST MOMENTS "There will never be a tired, sad Sunday morning with him because you'll just be up and about. You'll be doing something fun" "Maybe an activity date isn't the best option. You kind of want to get to know them, right?" VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety in how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people with too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tickets to the next LIVE show single bingo event - Friday 6th October @ Infernos, Clapham This guest oozes positivity, kindness and serotonin, she even helped Katie herself feel more positive about her recent break-up! She always has a book in her bag, anyone can learn a lot from her, from cultural and historical knowledge to how to have fun and make the world a better place. She respects good table manners but finds being psychoanalysed on a date a big no-no! She prefers direct communication but that doesn't stop her laughing at anything and making any situation a lot of fun! KEY TAKEAWAYS Her most controversial opinion is that a lot of British people sugarcoat things, she prefers honesty. Being able to have uncomfortable conversations is what develops a deeper connection with someone. Her worst first date was when she was psychoanalysed and told things that were simply untrue! She is passionate about issues facing us in society, including climate change but believes in spreading hope and solutions not constant negativity. She has two major icks, bad table manners and if they treat service staff rudely. BEST MOMENTS “We could learn a lot more from other cultures and be a bit more direct” “The most uncomfortable conversations are the ones you should actually be having” “If they are rude to people, it just says so much about what type of person you are” “Having fun is already guaranteed”  VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London.  I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.   CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com   Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's guy is looking for someone fun who would want to go on out-of-the-box dates and be entertained with out-of-the-box shower thoughts! His weaknesses are being late and treating the shampoo and toothpaste of housemates as communal. He is not scared to date in another language so if you speak French or Spanish he is well-practiced... He is honest about the dating experiences he wants right now let's just hope you are his clone!  KEY TAKEAWAYS He likes more unusual dates, just going to the pub is not for him but he doesn't shy away from organising His toxic trait is that he is always late and doesn't buy cosmetics  He wants to see the Barbie movie but needs a cinema companion  He doesn't have a specific ick but has got it once with someone before because of a simple question over text He is a sucker for a rom-com and his bestie says he is a hopeless romantic He just wants someone he will gel with, and that gets him, often joking that he can't wait to meet his clone! BEST MOMENTS ‘I would take a hit on the food for there to be more of an atmosphere' ‘I laugh at my own jokes like it's an illness' ‘That's what the ick does, it's very unexplainable' ‘I really can't wait to meet the one who's…gonna be my clone' VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week's guest is ready for a relationship with the right person, someone who makes her happy and she can equally live life to the fullest with as well as enjoy those duller days. She is passionate about psychology, dessert at home and substantial naps! She is a natural-born entertainer according to her friends and has her own unique ‘ick' list. She also has a long list of celebrities that she looks like and could be London's answer to Emma Stone.  KEY TAKEAWAYS   She doesn't like dessert, doesn't see the point and would rather have multiple starters! The best way you can show her you care and love her is to let her sleep, long naps included One of her worst dates is when her date simply didn't want to speak  As a society, we are rubbish at understanding and listening to others' feelings. Toxic positivity, the colour yellow, men in flip-flops and Les Mis are some of her top icks... She absolutely loves Freddie Mercury! She has been told she looks like Emma Stone, Lindsay Lohan and Effy from Skins! BEST MOMENTS ‘I love a nap, I'm literally obsessed with naps' ‘I'm more confused about why he had a good time' ‘We're very distracted in life, with our phones, people need reminding that we need to connect more' ‘The icing on the cake is she is as beautiful on the outside as she is on the inside, think London's answer to Emma Stone' ‘I'm a little quirky' VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Vote for Single Sounds in the British Podcast Awards! This character doesn't have a filter but you won't be short of friends in Fulham if you date this man.  You will win him over if you love pizza and a hungover sit-down shower along with being open to playing 18 holes at the weekend.  He shares how divisive pineapple is, why he has an android phone and his bestie explains why he's the life and soul, what's not to love?  KEY TAKEAWAYS I don't have very much of a filter and my lack of filter sometimes puts me in a bad spot Pineapple is a very divisive thing, people love or hate it in different contexts, hate it on pizza love it in vodka You should definitely date my pal and if you are on the fence you should go ahead and do it He is the life and soul and always such a good time, everyone who sees him is so happy to see him His entire life is people coming up to him because they are so pleased to see him and love it because he's so much fun Beneath his gregarious exterior, he just wants a queen to look after and spoil - it's deeper than the Titanic wreckage but he's a sweetie who just wants to treat you well BEST MOMENTS ‘With a hangover sitting down in the shower is best' ‘I have an android because I won't be held hostage by Apple' ‘I question why people need to make sausages out of vegetables' VALUABLE RESOURCES To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/ Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ ABOUT THE HOST Katie McNamara - London. I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium. As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app. CONTACT METHOD - Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/  singlesoundspodcast@gmail.com                         Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/ This show was brought to you by Progressive Media Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices