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Best podcasts about ike miller

Latest podcast episodes about ike miller

Podcast Episodes | Boundless
Social Media Savvy: Episode 866

Podcast Episodes | Boundless

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 51:11


Productive ways to use social media, plus confronting hard stuff from childhood, and is your therapist offering biblically sound advice?       Featured musical artist: John Waller Roundtable: Making Social Media Work for You Social media is usually blamed for all the bad stuff: negativity, political arguments, superficial relationships, cancel culture. But are there ways to use it productively? Absolutely, if you recognize the value of social media for job hunting, sharing your faith, connecting with others, or learning a new skill. Our team has ideas for making the most of social platforms, so rather than ditching social altogether, let us show you how to make your accounts work for instead of against you.   Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Checking Childhood Baggage Childhood trauma and other negative experiences and patterns follow us well into adulthood. When memories and habits resurface, how can you address the pain, face the facts, and move ahead? Ike Miller is a pastor with a rough past that threatened to define him. Learn how he revisited his childhood baggage to give him the necessary tools for shaping a healthy future.  Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships Visit Ike's Website Inbox: Is My Counselor's Advice Biblical?  Many counselors profess to be Christians. But how can you discern if your counselor's advice is in line with Scripture? Counselor Rob Jackson weighs in.  Link to Counseling Services  How to Find a Christian Counselor  Find us on YouTube 

New Life Church (Apex, NC)
Episode 164: 060224 - "The Gospel For Codependency" - Pastor Ike Miller

New Life Church (Apex, NC)

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2024 32:26


Who doesn't love a good book?! Check out Week 1 of our new series... Book Club. Pastor Ike Miller from Bright City Church in Durham, NC, kicked things off with a message from his book - Good Baggage.  Buy Good Baggage - https://a.co/d/chnGPlm Get connected or get more info about New Life Church:  https://newlifechurchnc.churchcenter.com/people/forms/194616 To support this ministry and help us continue to reach people throughout this community: https://newlifechurchnc.churchcenter.com/giving

The Care Ministry Podcast
140:Mental Health Awareness Month with Ike Miller

The Care Ministry Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2024 41:06


“I can't change what has happened to me…but I can use it to help somebody else.” Today's guest, Ike Miller, is an author and pastor who shares his experience of the impacts of growing up with a parent with an addiction to alcohol. As he unpacks his story, we discover the beauty of God's redemption, using our hurts and struggles for His glory. Now, Ike encourages others through his book, Good Baggage, to discover the same redemption. Quotes Once we share our lives with people…it actually makes people aware of that pain so they can come to our care. I can't change what has happened to me…but I can use it to help somebody else. There's a lot of fear behind the idea of acknowledging I don't have control. There are things that happen to us because of others' sin, but that is not beyond God's ability to do something good with it. Resources Good Baggage, by Ike Miller Ike Miller's website Supportive Relationships and Active Skill-Building Strengthen the Foundations of Resilience ACEs and Toxic Stress: Frequently Asked Questions Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie Connect with Hope Made Strong Website: HopeMadeStrong.org Socials: Facebook – Instagram – Twitter – YouTube

Viral Jesus
Ike Miller: Good Baggage

Viral Jesus

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 39:16


Is there such a thing as Good Baggage? For today's episode Heather sits down with Ike Miller and discusses the baggage that we experience in our past that sometimes impacts our present and future. But, is it possible that seeing our parents' parent, or do marriage, or live out their faith, can reveal to us how we can do things differently? Ike believes that his upbringing is what gave him a passion to pursue a different path for himself. What if some baggage can be good? On today's social toolkit, Heather discusses Elyse Meyers and her apparent social media break after being targeted by Operation Watermelon. Operation Watermelon is where a group of internet users target a single creator and try to take over their platform by commenting en masse on the tragedy impacting the middle east between Israel and Palestine. Elyse Meyers shutdown her Tik Tok with over 7 million followers and many users suspect it is because she was targeted by this peer pressure tactic. Should influencers make statements on cultural issues? Heather discusses her thoughts on this and adds a tool to your social toolkit. Guest Bio Ike Miller is the founding and lead pastor of Bright City Church in Durham NC. Ike writes regularly about the intersection of theology and mental health. His newest book is titled Good Baggage. Host Bio Heather Thompson Day is an associate professor of communication at Andrews University in Berrien Springs, Michigan. She is the author of eight books, including I'll See You Tomorrow and It's Not Your Turn. Reach out to Heather on X, the app formerly known as Twitter at @HeatherTDay and on Instagram @heatherthompsonday. Receive Heather's weekly inspirational email every Friday at 7pm EST; sign up at www.heatherthompsonday.com/links Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bright City Church
This Is My Testimony with John Peterson

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 37:18


Our talents and achievements pale in comparison to Jesus Christ. Join an interview with John Peterson and Ike Miller as they discuss John's testimony when he discovered Jesus. In this interview, you'll see how John's perspective on his own accomplishments changed when he began to follow Jesus.

The Shaun Tabatt Show
932: Ike Miller - How to Unlock the Relationship Wisdom You Didn't Know You Gained During Your Difficult Childhood

The Shaun Tabatt Show

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2024 46:42


In this episode of The Shaun Tabatt Show, Shaun sits down with Ike Miller to discuss his new book Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships. To connect with Ike Miller, visit: IkeMiller.com Instagram Facebook Twitter  

Last In Line Leadership
EP336 GOOD BAGGAGE | IKE MILLER | AUTHOR | SPEAKER

Last In Line Leadership

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 55:01


Ike Miller (PhD, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School) leads Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina.  He has written about the intersection of theology, mental health, and family of origin issues in outlets such as Christianity Today and Missio Alliance.  Ike Miller grew up in a dysfunctional home, and the trauma of his past continued to affect his relationships as an adult. But through a process of healing and understanding, Ike learned to let go of the negative habits and mindsets he developed as a child while leveraging his experience to pursue healthy relationships. After confronting the impact of his own childhood, including a family history of substance use disorders, Ike has developed a passion for helping others who grew up in difficult circumstances to better understand how those environments continue to impact them and their relationships now. Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships is Ike's practical guide for navigating that journey. Drawing on scriptural wisdom, psychology and personal experience, Ike helps us understand how our traumatic childhood continues to affect us in ways we may not even realize. PURCHASE IKE'S BOOK: https://ikemiller.com/book

The Conversation with Adam Weber
Episode 236 - Unpacking Your Baggage (especially as leaders or pastors) with Ike Miller

The Conversation with Adam Weber

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2024 28:01


Today's conversation is about baggage. We all have it.Oftentimes it's heavy and difficult to carry.More than that, if we don't deal with our baggage, after time it will catch up with us. But not only us, if we don't deal with our baggage as business leaders, pastors, or even as parents, it'll impact the people around us.How do we deal with our baggage? That's what today's conversation is all about!I sit down with author and pastor, Ike Miller, to unpack the topic of baggage. Ike is married to Sharon Hodde Miller and together they pastor Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina.Grab a copy of Ike's book Good Baggage here.Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: Vern Eide & SimpleVern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.comSimple provides an easy, secure way to make giving super user-friendly. If you are a church or lead a faith based nonprofit, you have to look into working with Simple. You won't regret it! For more info, check out their brand new website simpledonation.comGet the 12 Ways to Jumpstart Your Faith resource for free at adamweber.com/jumpstart Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

Typology
Ike Miller Discusses "Good Baggage" and the Enneagram Three's Journey to Authenticity

Typology

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2024 50:57


How does your past shape your present relationships? This week's episode is a treasure trove of insights that you won't want to miss! Join us as we sit down with the insightful Ike Miller, PhD, author, pastor, and Enneagram Three, who brings a fresh perspective on how the baggage we carry from our childhood isn't all bad. In fact, it might just be the key to unlocking healthier relationships and a more authentic self. Ike's new book, "Good Baggage," challenges the notion that all our past experiences weigh us down. Instead, he invites us to sift through our stories and find the hidden tools that can lead to personal growth and relational health. In this episode, you'll discover: Ike's journey with the Enneagram and how it helped him understand his motivations and fears. The core fear of the Enneagram Three and how it can manifest in daily life. Strategies for self-differentiation and setting healthy boundaries The importance of authenticity in leadership and personal relationships. And much more! Whether you're an Enneagram Three wrestling with image management or someone curious about how to leverage your past for a better future, this conversation is for you. As always, we're here to support you in your journey of self-discovery and growth. If you find this episode as enlightening as we did, share it with a friend who might also benefit from Ike's wisdom. Until next time, keep exploring the mystery of your unique personality and remember, "May you have love, may you have joy, may you have peace, may you have healing, and may you have rest.”     P.S. Stay tuned for our upcoming episodes and make sure to follow us on Instagram @TypologyPodcast for daily doses of Enneagram knowledge and encouragement! Don't forget to check out Ike's book, "Good Baggage," and if you're looking for more resources to help you on your journey, consider exploring "The Search for Significance" by Robert McGee, a book that has deeply influenced Ike's understanding of identity and value.     TIMESTAMPS 00:00:03 - Introduction to Typology Podcast 00:00:24 - Ike Miller's New Book: Good Baggage 00:01:21 - Reflecting on Past Events and Changes 00:02:43 - Ike Miller's Enneagram Discovery Journey 00:04:31 - Core Fear of Enneagram Three 00:05:12 - Utilizing Baggage from Childhood 00:06:06 - Threes Under Stress and Image Management 00:07:06 - Ike Miller on Identity and Achievement 00:08:03 - Preaching and Identity for Enneagram Threes 00:10:19 - Celebrating Personal Progress 00:12:10 - Moving Theological Understanding to Personal Experience 00:13:04 - Ike's Challenges During the Pandemic 00:14:02 - Ike and His Wife's Enneagram Dynamics 00:15:38 - Risk Aversion and Entrepreneurship in Enneagram Types 00:16:03 - Ike's Experience Leading a Church During COVID-19 00:17:33 - The Importance of Authenticity in Ministry 00:18:14 - Ike's Book and The Search for Significance 00:19:02 - Therapy and Enneagram Threes 00:20:11 - Ike's Motivation for Therapy and Transparency 00:21:20 - The Challenge of Vulnerability for Enneagram Threes 00:22:49 - The Five Whys Technique for Personal Growth 00:24:34 - Self-Differentiation and Family Dynamics 00:25:41 - Ike's Three Keys to Navigating Dysfunctional Families 00:26:25 - Post-Traumatic Growth and Personal Development 00:27:23 - Tools for Healing and Growth in Ike's Book 00:28:04 - The Story of David and Goliath: A Metaphor for Self-Identity 00:29:20 - Closing Remarks and Ike's Contact Information  

Jesus Calling: Stories of Faith
Faith: A Lighthouse for Finding Our Way ft. Jana Monroe & Ike Miller

Jesus Calling: Stories of Faith

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2024 20:47


Living with a negative worldview, often born out of childhood trauma or difficult experiences in one's life or workspace, can feel as if you're perpetually shrouded in a bleak fog. The world may seem unkind and unfair, every experience tainted by the shadows of your past. Sometimes it can feel like there's danger around every corner, stealing our joy and our ability to live without constant fear.  Former FBI investigator Jana Monroe worked on some notorious and heinous murder cases, including those of Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer. She shares about the demanding challenges of interviewing serial killers and how it affected her mindset and her view of the world–and how prayer and daily reflection with God was a lifesaver in rescuing her from fear. Ike Miller, a pastor and author, shares about the hurdles he faced during his formative years, navigating the difficulties of growing up with an alcoholic father and overcoming unhealthy coping mechanisms. Content Warning: This episode mentions violence and may not be suitable for all listeners.    Links, Products, and Resources Mentioned: Jesus Calling Podcast Jesus Calling Jesus Always Jesus Listens Past interview: Herman Mendoza Upcoming interview: Yvonne Orji   Jana Monroe Quantico behavioral science unit Hearts of Darkness   Ike Miller Bright City Church alcoholism  Codependency Good Baggage   Interview Quotes: “I would pray and I would have conversations with the Lord, and always there would be this overwhelming sense of calmness.” - Jana Monroe  “I began my journey, or He began that journey for me, of starting to look at the good in other people. It was a process. It was certainly nothing that happened overnight, but by having those conversations, He opened up my heart and mind to a whole different perspective and optic of looking at things.” - Jana Monroe  “I have faith that the Lord is going to show me the way out of this and show me a different path, and I was never disappointed.” - Jana Monroe  “I began to rid myself of some of these unhealthy behaviors when I honestly started paying attention to the pain that these things were causing me: anxiety, depression, emotional exhaustion, and being able to do the work to connect those back to childhood experiences and that environment so that I could begin to disarm the impact of some of those things on me as an adult.” - Ike Miller  “One of the things that I often tell people, whether that is in my congregation in preaching or in one-on-one conversations, is pain in the past doesn't die just because we bury it.” - Ike Miller  “One of the things that I often tell people, whether that is in my congregation in preaching or in one-on-one conversations, is pain in the past doesn't die just because we bury it.” - Ike Miller  “Connecting with God in prayer can help us feel less alone because it creates space for us to understand what pain and fears prevent us from connecting and experiencing intimacy now.” - Ike Miller ________________________ Enjoy watching these additional videos from Jesus Calling YouTube channel! Audio Episodes:     https://bit.ly/3zvjbK7  Bonus Podcasts:     https://bit.ly/3vfLlGw  Jesus Listens: Stories of Prayer:  https://bit.ly/3Sd0a6C  Peace for Everyday Life:     https://bit.ly/3zzwFoj  Peace in Uncertain Times:     https://bit.ly/3cHfB6u  What's Good?     https://bit.ly/3vc2cKj  Enneagram:     https://bit.ly/3hzRCCY  ________________________  Connect with Jesus Calling Instagram Facebook Twitter Pinterest YouTube Website

LIFE Today on Oneplace.com
Ike Miller: Beauty From Brokenness

LIFE Today on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2023 28:35


The author of Good Baggage explains how God can take childhood wounds and use them for a positive impact. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/619/29

Bright City Church
Joy 2023

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 31:57


Come and celebrate Advent at Bright City Church! Each week, we'll observe the different themes of Advent in preparation for Christmas. Listen to this week's sermon with pastor Ike Miller as he introduces the third theme of Advent: Joy.

Craft & Character
Good Baggage for the Holidays with Ike Miller

Craft & Character

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 55:07


How much does your upbringing influence your life now? The answer for all of us is ... more than we realize. In today's episode, Ike Miller一who pastors Bright City Church alongside his wife Sharon一shares about his new book called Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships. Growing up in a dysfunctional family impacted by alcoholism and divorce, Ike shares firsthand wisdom about: Cultivating a regular rhythm of counseling. Why saying no is necessary to stay healthy. How to stop editing our identity to please others. How to prioritize rest and resist the idol of success. How to build a healthy church and home culture. During the holidays一a season laden with complex family dynamics and packed schedules一let this episode remind you that God is with you, loves you, and is working through your story. EPISODE LINKS Ike's book: Good Baggage Website: https://ikemiller.com Church: Bright City Church @ikefmiller @steveryancarter @craft_character Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

RJW - An RCC Podcast
RJW 57 I What do you mean, Good Baggage?

RJW - An RCC Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 41:52


In this episode, Sam talks with Ike Miller, author of Good Baggage and Pastor at Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina. They talk about what Ike means by Good Baggage. While difficult to overcome, family trauma can be used by God for good. In fact, it can even become good baggage. If you've ever struggled to overcome inherited family challenges or if dealing with family this holiday season is intimidating... this is a timely conversation discussing how to Represent Jesus Well through your good baggage and how to interact with family here and now. You can check more out about the book here: https://ikemiller.com/Or here: https://www.amazon.com/Good-Baggage-Difficult-Childhood-Relationships/dp/1540902862 Want more from Represent Jesus Well - An RCC Podcast?Find it here!InstagramYoutubeApple PodcastSpotify"Like" RCC on Facebook

Bought + Beloved with Kirby Minnick
Freedom From Dysfunctional Childhoods + Traumatic Baggage with Ike Miller

Bought + Beloved with Kirby Minnick

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2023 39:16


How do we process and grow from our rough childhoods, traumatic pasts, and broken relationships? Better yet, how do we learn from those to cultivate healthier relationships as adults? This week, I have the pleasure of discussing this with Author and Pastor, Ike Miller. I pray this gives you hope and healing!Buy Ike's Book Here: https://a.co/d/cKdYsCxThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/3318297/advertisement

The Common Good Podcast
Good Baggage: How your difficult childhood prepared you for healthy relationships

The Common Good Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2023 9:11


Brian and Aubrey interview Ike Miller, author of the new book Good Baggage: How your difficult childhood prepared you for healthy relationships. Ike serves as Co-Lead Pastor of Bright City Church with his wife Sharon Hodde Miller. Follow The Common Good on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram Follow Ike: @ikefmiller Hosted by Aubrey Sampson and Brian From Produced by Laura Finch and Keith ConradSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Karl and Crew Mornings
Freedom From the Past

Karl and Crew Mornings

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2023 53:53 Transcription Available


It's Freedom Friday on Karl and Crew Mornings, and today we wrapped up our weekly theme, "Critical Dilemmas." We talked about the freedom God gives us from the grip of past trauma. Having a tramatic childhood can affect us in adulthood in ways we may not even realize. Our guest, Ike Miller, shared about his own past and how, through healing and understanding, he learned to let go of negative habits and mindsets while leveraging his experience to pursue healthy relationships. His book is called Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships. Hear the highlights of today's program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Resilient Pastor
34 | Ike Miller on Redeeming Childhood Wounds & Cultivating Healthy Relationships

The Resilient Pastor

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 46:48


Ike Miller joins Glenn Packiam to discuss the valuable insights he has gained from church planting, how painful childhood experiences and trauma shape pastor's leadership styles and how to harness childhood wounds as a source of strength in addressing the needs of your congregation.Check out Ike's latest book Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships. Sign up for the Resilient Pastor cohort today. Early bird registration ends December 31, 2023.Watch this episode on Youtube: Barna GroupWant to learn more about the Resilient Pastor initiative? Home PagePodcastCity RoundtablesCohort

Build Your Best Family
Ike Miller on Exchanging our “Bad” Baggage for “Good”

Build Your Best Family

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 32:43


Everything we talked about in this episode can be found here: https://www.buildyourbestfamily.com/podcast/episode-230

FrontStage BackStage with Jason Daye - Healthy Leadership for Life and Ministry
How Understanding Our Baggage Improves Our Leadership - Ike Miller - 79 - FrontStage BackStage with Jason Daye

FrontStage BackStage with Jason Daye - Healthy Leadership for Life and Ministry

Play Episode Play 22 sec Highlight Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 32:51 Transcription Available


How can we process the baggage we're carrying from dysfunctional relationships in our past in a manner that helps us become healthier in both life and ministry? In this week's conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Ike Miller. Ike is the founding and lead pastor of Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina. Ike writes regularly about the intersection of theology and mental health. His newest book is entitled Good Baggage. Together, Ike and Jason look at the importance for us as pastors and ministry leaders to better understand the coping mechanisms we've developed from past dysfunctional relationships and how those impact the way we minister and live today. Ike also shares how God can redeem some of that baggage in such a way that we can embrace healthier lives and ministries.Dig deeper into this conversation: Find the free Weekly Toolkit, including the Ministry Leaders Growth Guide, all resource links, and more, at http://PastorServe.org/networkSome key takeaways from this conversation:Ike Miller on the importance of self-care and personal development for pastors to be effective in their ministry: "Take time for your own soul's journey. A healthier, more present pastor can better care for their people."Ike Miller on our past struggles and how we coped with them can provide us with insights and compassion that we can use to help others who are going through similar situations: "Our past coping mechanisms may no longer serve us, but they can become powerful tools for understanding and caring for others."Ike Miller on codependency leading to a lack of boundaries in various aspects of life, including time and relationships: "Because of our codependency, we fail to establish boundaries around our time, our relationships."----------------Looking to dig more deeply into this topic and conversation? FrontStage BackStage is much more than another church leadership show, it is a complete resource to help you and your ministry leaders grow. Every week we go the extra mile and create a free toolkit so you and your ministry team can dive deeper into the topic that is discussed.Visit http://PastorServe.org/network to find the Weekly Toolkit, including the Ministry Leaders Growth Guide. Our team pulls key insights and quotes from every conversation with our guests. We also create engaging questions for you and your team to consider and process, providing space for you to reflect on how each episode's topic relates to your unique church context. Use these questions in your staff meetings, or other settings, to guide your conversation as you invest in the growth of your ministry leaders. Love well, live well, & lead well Complimentary Coaching Session for Pastors http://PastorServe.org/freesession Follow PastorServe LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram | FacebookConnect with Jason Daye LinkedIn | Instagram...

The Learner's Corner with Caleb Mason
Episode 373: Ike Miller on How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships

The Learner's Corner with Caleb Mason

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2023 56:55


In this episode, Caleb talks with Ike Miller about his book, Good Baggage, and more.Episode LinksIke MillerGood Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships by Ike MillerCaleb's Substack

Mornings with Carmen
Grace, truth, and love over tolerance – Bryan Loritts | Your childhood baggage can bring good – Ike Miller

Mornings with Carmen

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2023 48:30


Pastor Bryan Loritts, author of "Offensive Church," joins Carmen again to further explain what it means to engage our broken world by the higher, Biblical standard of love over just tolerating others.   This calls for us to live in the tension of grace and truth, especially with those we disagree with. Ike Miller, author of "Good Baggage," talks about his broken childhood and how he has watched God redeem the hurt and pain, and how it has been turned around to help others. Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here

Dawn and Steve Mornings
Good Baggage

Dawn and Steve Mornings

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2023 22:40


Ike Miller challenges and encourages us with his new book Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships. Ike offers insight into helping adult children from dysfunctional families redeem their past. Ike Miller (PhD, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School) is the lead pastor and church planter of Bright City Church. He lives in Durham, North Carolina, with his wife, Sharon, and their three children.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Middays with Susie Larson
Healthy relationships with Ike Miller

Middays with Susie Larson

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 51:36


Baggage has gotten a bad rap. We think it's all bad. But baggage isn't just the bad stuff that happened to us in the past. Pastor and author Ike Miller shares from his book, "Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You for Healthy Relationships." Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: click here

Jesus Over Everything
Lisa + Friends: Ike Miller on Good Baggage

Jesus Over Everything

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2023 40:44


Lisa and her longtime friend Ike Miller give us a glimpse into their “old shoe” friendship as they discuss his new book, Good Baggage. If you've ever wondered how anything positive can come from past hurts, this conversation covers it all.  From lying for love, to “disarming the switch” to distinguishing between secrecy and privacy, Lisa and Ike offer a fresh take on how “baggage” can actually make us stronger and more capable than we imagine.   Links Jesus Over Everything Book  Preorder Your God Knows Invite Lisa to Speak   Connect with Lisa Website Lisa Whittle - Instagram Lisa Whittle - Facebook Jesus Over Everything - Instagram   Connect with Ike Website Ike Miller - Instagram Bright City Church

Business with Purpose
How Difficult Childhoods Prepare Us For Healthy Relationships with Ike Miller

Business with Purpose

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2023 63:51


Today we're celebrating seven – yes seven! – years of producing this podcast and want to take a quick second to thank YOU for being a part of the show, reaching out, listening, and giving us the motivation to keep producing new shows. We are excited to welcome on Ike Miller, a pastor who helped start Bright City Church along with his wife, Sharon, back in 2018. Ike has written about the intersection of theology, mental health, and family of origin issues. He's developed a passion for helping others who grew up in difficult circumstances after confronting his own family history of substance abuse disorders. He's a great friend to our family and we wanted to bring him on to share this message about understanding how difficult childhoods prepare us for healthy relationships, which he writes about in his new book Good Baggage. We don't hold back when it comes to childhood trauma, how we can move forward, and why everything doesn't necessarily happen for a reason. 6:29 – Ike 101 Celebrating five years at the church on Sept 30 What fueled the book How the pandemic brought a lot to the surface 15:31 –  Defining Co-Dependency Differentiating the definition from symptoms Trauma related loss of self Plays out in different types of situations 17:55 –  Sorting through your baggage Learning to identify and disarm our baggage Ability to read emotions Figuring out what context to use that 25:45 – Improving theology to provide support Creating space in our theology for the impact of trauma Building a theology around redemption Being okay with people angry at God 38:17 – Parenting Recognizing when you're screwing up Asking for forgiveness Realizing our parents are people with lives of their own 58:48 – Good Baggage Reflect on your pain points Dig up that pain an deal with it Connecting with Ike FEATURED QUOTES “We typically think of codependency as people pleasing, but really, it's fundamentally about a loss of self. That, in that context, whatever we went through, in some trauma, it forced us to be someone other than ourselves in order to survive, in order to appease someone else to protect ourselves mentally, emotionally, or physically. And so you just kind of become whoever you think others need you to be because you've lost your sense of self of who you are.” “We need to create more space in the church just for being able to say that not all sin is just strictly about my sheer disobedience to God, but that as a broken human being, I'm acting out of that because of brokenness that was done to me.” “I think that's kind of a bit of it for me is that ability to say, I don't know that I can explain all of why it happened, but where do I want to go from here? What kind of life do I want from here?” Learn more about Bright City Church: https://brightcitychurch.com/ Get Ike's Book Good Baggage: https://www.amazon.com/Good-Baggage-Difficult-Childhood-Relationships/dp/1540902862

The Kingdoms Podcast
95 | Ike Miller on Healing and Learning from the Baggage in our Lives, Confronting and Overcoming the Cycles that Sabotage our Relationships, and How to Enrich your Life by Embracing New Patterns of Living

The Kingdoms Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2023 58:54


95 | Ike Miller on Healing and Learning from the Baggage in our Lives, Confronting and Overcoming the Cycles that Sabotage our Relationships,  and How to Enrich your Life by Embracing New Patterns of Living

Vanderbloemen Leadership Podcast
Leveraging Your Baggage For The Good Of Your Relationships (feat Ike Miller)

Vanderbloemen Leadership Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2023 26:55


In today's podcast, we talk to Ike Miller, Senior Pastor of Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina, a church he planted in 2018 along with his wife, Sharon Hodde Miller. He frequently writes on the intersection of theology, mental health, and family of origin issues in outlets such as Christianity Today and Mission Alliance. In this episode, Ike shares insights from his latest book, Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You For Healthy Relationships. After confronting the impact of his own childhood, including a family history of substance use disorders, Ike has developed a passion for helping others who grew up in difficult circumstances to better understand how those environments continue to impact them and their relationships now. Learn how you can leverage your baggage for good with his practical advice and exercises that can lead to healthier relationships. We hope you enjoy this conversation!   https://www.vanderbloemen.com/blog/leveraging-your-baggage-for-the-good-of-your-relationship  

Bright City Church
The Gospel for Codependency

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 38:09


The story of David and Goliath serves as a reminder that our relationships shape us into who we are. Listen to pastor Ike Miller discuss David's armor and how we can shed our 'armor' to embrace God's love and acceptance. This message will help you reflect, process, and redeem the past for a brighter future.

Sunshine in my Nest
64. Cultivating Intimacy in Marriage with Ike Miller

Sunshine in my Nest

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2023 20:18


We all come to our relationships with the experiences that happened in our past, and also the things that have happened to our spouse. Maybe we see how those situations affect us and our marriage or perhaps we are unaware. Today Ike and I are talking about the baggage we bring to relationships. Not as a way to berate ourselves or our partner, but to lean into the tools our past has given to us, and heal from the places that that are causing continued cycles of struggle. You can find Ike Miller HERE on Instagram. (His wife, Sharon, was featured in this episode.) This is where you can find his book "Good Baggage" You can find Elizabeth writing helpful hints ⁠on the blog⁠ Being a stay-at-home mom co-worker ⁠on Instagram ⁠ Or get access to the ⁠"Penpal Resources" by signing up with email! ⁠ *affiliate links are used when appropriate. Thank you for supporting Sunshine in my Nest --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/elizabeth-santelmann/support

Bright City Church
A Wolf Or A Sheep In Pain?

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2023 31:41


Join pastor Ike Miller in Acts 20:17-38 as he recounts Paul's warning against savage wolves not sparing the flock. In this message, you'll receive a list of questions to help prevent yourself from turning into a wolf among the flock of sheep.

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The Birth of the Multiethnic Church

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2023 40:14


Join pastor Ike Miller in Acts 15:1-21 as he talks through the moment the church became multiethnic. In this message, you'll learn the importance of cultural awareness and ethnic diversity within the church.

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Empowered By The Holy Spirit

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2023 34:03


Join pastor Ike Miller in Acts 8:14-40 as he discusses the Holy Spirit. In this message, you learn what it means to be animated by the Holy Spirit and how He empowers us as believers.

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Doing Evangelism Without Harm

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2023 31:32


Join pastor Ike Miller in Acts 4:1-31 as he discusses what it looks like to evangelize in a modern culture. In this message, you'll learn the power of your story and the healing work of Jesus.

Managing Leadership Anxiety: Yours and Theirs

Ike Miller is a pastor, scholar, church planter and author who is releasing a fascinating book called Good Baggage to help us understand the implication of our childhood on our well being. Ike and I chat about upbringing, childhood vows and more. And of course Ike very kindly endures the gauntlet of anxiety questions!    For resources to help you with emotional and spiritual health, visit www.capablelife.me

Being Human with Steve Cuss
Ep 164: Ike Miller

Being Human with Steve Cuss

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2023 40:34


Ike Miller is a pastor, scholar, church planter and author who is releasing a fascinating book called Good Baggage to help us understand the implication of our childhood on our well being. Ike and I chat about upbringing, childhood vows and more. And of course Ike very kindly endures the gauntlet of anxiety questions!    For resources to help you with emotional and spiritual health, visit www.capablelife.me Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Bright City Church

Come and celebrate Advent at Bright City Church! Each week, we'll observe the different themes of Advent in preparation for Christmas. Listen to this week's sermon with pastor Ike Miller as he introduces the first theme of Advent: Hope.

Bright City Church
Self-Control Demands we Know the "Self"

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2022 39:36


In 1 Samuel 26, David finds another opportunity to take matters into his own hands against King Saul. Listen to pastor Ike Miller discuss three times David was tempted to kill God's anointed and how his restraint is an example to practice self-control.

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You're Not David In This Story

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2022 37:20


Oftentimes, we are told to be like David when facing our metaphorical giants. But, what happens when we find ourselves becoming the giants we are told to face? Join pastor Ike Miller as he discusses what to do when we realize that we are the giant and not David.

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Bright City Church
Seek Wise Counsel

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 32:06


This week's message is about seeking wise counsel. Follow along with pastor Ike Miller as he discusses the passage when the nation of Israel decided it was time for a king.

The Common Good Podcast
David French explains what the Virginia election taught us about abortion, Pastor Mark Moore shares about his radio ministry, “Overcoming Through Grace,” and Brian and Aubrey discuss the importance of healthy boundaries - November 9, 2021

The Common Good Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2021 54:26


(00:00-7:44): Brian and Aubrey shared their thoughts on a tweet from Daniel Darling, “Nuance: You can be pro-vax and anti-federal mandate. You can be pro-racial reconciliation and racial justice and also be very concerned about some of the toxic elements of what passes for anti-racism (Kendi/DiAngelo, etc). A lot of partisans want to conflate things.” (7:44-27:27): David French, Senior Editor at The Dispatch, Columnist for Time Magazine, and Author of, “Divided We Fall,” joined Brian and Aubrey to talk about his new newsletter for The Atlantic, “The Third Rail,” and some of his blog posts at The French Press. “Evangelical Elites, Fighting Each Other” “What the Virginia Election Taught America About ‘the New Politics of Abortion'” “J.D. Vance and the Great Challenge of Christian Malice” Learn more about David at thedispatch.com and at his blog, The French Press and connect with him on Twitter at @DavidAFrench (27:27-36:02): What does it say about the state of evangelicalism when best selling books and popular podcasts are scathing looks at evangelicalism, from evangelicals? Brian and Aubrey talked about this and discussed Dr. Scot McKnight's newsletter, “Evangelicals Tiring with Critique.” (36:02-45:19): Mark Moore, Senior Pastor of Belmont Bible Church in Downers Grove and Host of “Overcoming Through Grace,” joined Brian and Aubrey to talk about the impact of his radio ministry and the plans for a new church facility for Belmont Bible Church.  Learn more about the ministry of Belmont Bible Church at belmontbiblechurch.com, connect with them on Facebook at @belmont4christ, and tune in to “Overcoming Through Grace” weekdays at 5:30am on AM 1160 Hope for Your Life.   (45:19-54:25): Brian and Aubrey talked about boundaries and commented on a quote from the book, “Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life,” shared in a tweet by Ike Miller, “This blew my mind: 4 types of relational boundary problems: 1. Can't set boundaries 2. Can't respect boundaries 3. Sets boundaries against responsibility to love others 4. Sets boundaries against receiving love -Cloud & Townsend, “Boundaries.”” See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bright City Church
His Ways Are Not Our Ways | Ike Miller | Bright City Church

Bright City Church

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 35:09


The ways of Jesus are much higher than our own including His compassion for sinners. Listen to pastor Ike Miller speak from Isaiah 55 and what it means for God to have compassion on His people.

The Kingdoms Podcast
40 | Ike Miller on Asking Honest Theological Questions, the Doctrine of Illumination, and Finding Unity through Divine Participation

The Kingdoms Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2021 41:59


Parker's Pensées
Ep. 124 - Divine Illumination in Augustine, Barth, and Beyond w/Dr. Ike Miller

Parker's Pensées

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 60:07


In this episode of the Parker's Pensées Podcast, I'm joined by Dr. Ike Miller to discuss his book, Seeing By the Light: Illumination in Augustine and Barth's reading of John. We discuss various aspects of the doctrine of divine illumination and then get into Augustine and Barth's individual treatments of the doctrine and then get into Ike's unique addition to the field of study. Grab his book here to support the podcast: https://amzn.to/3zZFaWW If you like this podcast, then support it on Patreon for $1, $3, or $5 a month. Any amount helps, and for $5 you get a Parker's Pensées sticker and instant access to all the episode as I record them instead of waiting for their release date. Check it out here: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/parkers_pensees If you want to give a one-time gift, you can give at my Paypal: https://paypal.me/ParkersPensees?locale.x=en_US Check out my merchandise at my Teespring store: https://teespring.com/stores/parkers-penses-merch Check out my blog posts: https://parkersettecase.com/ Check out my Parker's Pensées YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYbTRurpFP5q4TpDD_P2JDA Check out my other YouTube channel on my frogs and turtles: https://www.youtube.com/c/ParkerSettecase Check me out on Twitter: https://twitter.com/trendsettercase Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/parkers_pensees/ Time Is Running by MusicLFiles Link: https://filmmusic.io/song/6203-time-is-running License: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/parkers-pensees/support

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A History of Christian Theology
AHOCT - Interview with Dr. Ike Miller

A History of Christian Theology

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 63:26


This interview with Dr. Miller includes information about his background, how he came to study Barth and Augustine, and how he responds pastorally to COVID and Black Lives Matter. It was a pleasure talking with Dr. Miller and we hope you will check out his new book Seeing by the Light: Illumination in Augustine's and Barth's Readings of John. Please consider supporting the podcast here: http://www.patreon.com/ahoct