Podcast appearances and mentions of sharon hodde miller

Whether you want to admit it or not, we all want a little more control in our lives. But when we get it, we also seem to get more anxiety and complex problems. Sharon Hodde Miller shares from her book, "The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises." Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: click here

Dr. Sharon Hodde Miller leads Bright City Church in Durham, NC with her husband, Ike. She also has a PhD on women and calling, and is the author of several books, including her most recent one, The Cost of Control. We talk a lot about pastoral ministry, church planting, and how to cultivate resilience in ministry. Register for the Exiles and Babylon conference: theologyintheraw.com -- If you've enjoyed this content, please subscribe to my channel! Support Theology in the Raw through Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/theologyintheraw Or you can support me directly through Venmo: @Preston-Sprinkle-1 Visit my personal website: https://www.prestonsprinkle.com For questions about faith, sexuality & gender: https://www.centerforfaith.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Pastor Tyler interviews Dr. Sharon Miller for a deep dive into the complexities of control in our spiritual journey. Dr. Miller is co-pastor of Bright City Church and author of "Free of Me," "Nice," and "The Cost of Control," She shares her incredible insights into how control and faith intertwine for Christians, especially in today's uncertain world.

In this episode, Pastor Tyler interviews Dr. Sharon Miller for a deep dive into the complexities of control in our spiritual journey. Dr. Miller is co-pastor of Bright City Church and author of "Free of Me," "Nice," and "The Cost of Control," She shares her incredible insights into how control and faith intertwine for Christians, especially in today's uncertain world.

Pastor and theologian Sharon Hodde Miller joins Kaitlyn to answer a deeply personal and theological question: how do we know what God wants us to do? Dr. Miller explains three different levels of this question, and offers practical advice for people seeking God's will for their life.  - Sponsor - Hiya Health - Go to https://www.hiyahealth.com/CURIOUSLY to receive 50% off your first order - Sponsor - The National Association of Evangelicals - Listen to the Difficult to explore how Christians can become peacemakers. Go to https://www.nae.org/podcasts/difficult-conversations/ to check it out!

Are you gripping the reins too tightly? Have you ever felt the need to control every aspect of your life, only to realize that control is just an illusion? Today I speak to Sharon Hodde Miller, Pastor, Speaker, Author, and PhD about the often-unacknowledged desire for control. Together, we explore the seductive nature of control, how it often creates illusions of security, and the hidden costs of clinging to it. Some takeaways from our conversation are: Control is an Illusion: We might think we have more control than we actually do, but true control is often fleeting. Exploring the limitations of our influence can be a liberating step. Surrender & Agency: Letting go of control doesn't mean giving up agency. It's about finding the sweet spot between healthy boundaries and trust, recognizing that relinquishing control can lead to greater peace and flexibility. Cost of Control: Clinging to control can manifest in anxiety, stress, and unhealthy relationships. Sharon highlights the benefits of surrendering control and embracing the power of trust in fostering healthy connections. We also discuss the theological and cultural roots of our obsession with control. Sharon offers practical advice for exercising agency instead of constant control. She also challenges us to embrace the benefits of surrendering control in our personal lives and relationships. Let us know how you are letting go of control by tagging us at @sharonhmiller and me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Sharon Hodde Miller Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises Quote The most free we ever were was not in the absence of boundaries, but because of them. Takeaways Control promises security and peace, but it ultimately betrays us, causing anxiety, complexity, and division. The desire for control has theological roots in the story of Adam and Eve and cultural roots in a society that constantly promises control. Letting go of control is important because it costs us more than it gains us. Instead of control, God gives us agency and influence to exercise within the boundaries He has set. Restoring boundaries, such as limiting phone usage, can help us exercise agency and let go of control. Surrendering control can strengthen relationships and build trust. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca's new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don't Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. ⋇ Subscribe to We're Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don't miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don't forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/ngc1Ye9XbG4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this compelling episode of The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast, host Ginny Yurich sits down with author and pastor Sharon Hodde Miller to explore the intricate relationship between control, anxiety, and our modern world. Sharon shares her observations on the rising levels of anxiety, particularly among college students, and delves into the cultural shifts that have amplified these feelings over recent years. Sharon discusses how our constant access to technology and information has lowered our tolerance for unpredictability and uncertainty, exacerbating anxiety when we attempt to control the uncontrollable. She challenges listeners to reflect on their own habits of control, particularly through technology, and offers insights into the high costs associated with these behaviors. As Sharon unfolds the paradox of control, she reveals that the more we try to control, the less in control we feel, often straining relationships in the process. She highlights the alarming trend among Gen Z, who despite being physically safer than previous generations, experience unprecedented levels of anxiety. Throughout the conversation, Sharon provides practical wisdom on living within limits and boundaries, guiding children without controlling them, and becoming a non-anxious presence. She emphasizes the power of agency over control, urging us to trust in character and resist the use of fear and shame to manipulate others. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode to understand the deep connections between control and anxiety and to learn how to navigate these challenges in a healthier, more balanced way. ** Get a copy of Sharon's book here >> The Cost of Control Learn more about Sharon here ** Download your free 1000 Hours Outside tracker here >> https://www.1000hoursoutside.com/trackers Find everything you need to kick off your 1000 Hours Outside Journey here >> https://www.1000hoursoutside.com/blog/allthethings Order of copy of Ginny's newest book, Until the Streetlights Come On here >> https://amzn.to/3RXjBlN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a Text Message.Join Glenn Packiam, Rich Villodas and Sharon Hodde Miller for more conversations on pastoral well-being, church leadership and navigating the pressing cultural challenges of today. New episodes start on May 23, 2024 and will be released every other Thursday. Subscribe to never miss an episode!Follow along on Youtube.Want to learn more about the Resilient Pastor initiative? Home PagePodcast

Today's conversation is with Ashlee Eiland, author of the newly released book “Say Good.” As the Vice President for The Colossian Forum, Ashlee is passionate about fostering better discussions amidst division and disagreements. Growing up as one of the few black girls in a predominantly white Catholic school, Ashlee grappled with questions of identity and belonging. Accused of talking “too white” in one setting and feeling out of place in another, she embarked on a journey to find her true identity in Christ. She shares her personal journey of liberation from insecurity and the power of God's promises to redefine our sense of self-worth.  In “Say Good,” she looks at biblical insights and practical wisdom, and offers guidance on navigating difficult conversations with grace and humility. From her own battles with illness to the challenges of 2020, Ashlee's story is a testament to the transformative power of God's deliverance. Through vulnerability and authenticity, she invites listeners to embrace their own stories of liberation and discover the courage to speak truth in love. Bio: Ashlee Eiland is a thought leader, writer, and Bible teacher who exists to join in God's redemptive work here on Earth. Her work has one purpose: to help humanity build bridges back to the truth of who God is and between one another in whole and healing relationships. Ashlee formerly served as Co-Lead Pastor at Mars Hill Bible Church in West Michigan, has partnered with Women Speakers Collective as a coach and cohort leader, and has led alongside Glenn Packiam, Rich Villodas and Sharon Hodde Miller as part of Barna's The Resilient Pastor cohort initiatives. Ashlee is also part of a forthcoming documentary on personal transformation and communal reconciliation from Tremolo Productions, featuring the work of The Colossian Forum. (The documentary's filmmaker, Nicholas Ma, is an award-winning director, producer and writer whose work includes Netflix's Won't You Be My Neighbor documentary.) She and her husband live in Grand Rapids with their three kids. Anchor Verses: Isaiah 58 Ephesians 4: 17-32 Connect with Ashlee: Website: https://www.ashleeeiland.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/ashlee_eiland ***We love hearing from our listeners! Sharing your thoughts through reviews is a fantastic way to be a part of our podcast family and contribute to the conversation. If you've enjoyed our podcast, leaving a review is quick and easy! Just head to Apple podcasts or wherever you are tuning in and share your thoughts. Your feedback makes a big difference!***

In celebration of Ashlee Eiland's book release this week we are revisiting a recent conversation hosts Holly Newton and Dina Deleasa-Gonsar had with her on the She Lives Fearless Podcast. Ashlee is the author of Say Good: Speaking across Hot Topics, Complex Relationships, and Tense Situations that released  on May 7th  from NavPress.  Ashlee exudes authenticity and accountability, her words and example embody compassion and strength. Say Good is infused with not just helpful strategies for discerning how to engage interpersonally and globally with difficult situations, but it most importantly exemplifies extending God's love through your unique voice. Ashlee is a thought leader, writer, and Bible teacher who exists to join in God's redemptive work on earth. Her work has one purpose: to help humanity build bridges back to the truth of who God is and between one another in whole and healing relationships. Ashlee is Vice President of Partnerships for The Colossian Forum, a non-profit that works to harness the power of disagreement to restore connection.She has also partnered with Women Speakers Collective as a coach and cohort leader, and has led alongside Glenn Packiam, Rich Villodas, and Sharon Hodde Miller as part of Barna's The Resilient Pastor cohort initiatives, including the upcoming city roundtable in Orange County, California. Ashlee is part of a forthcoming documentary on personal transformation and communal reconciliation from Tremolo Productions, featuring the work of The Colossian Forum. She and her husband live in Grand Rapids with their three kids.Connect with Ashlee on Instagram by clicking here! Get her book Say Good here.Connect with Hosts Holly Newton and Dina Deleasa-Gonsar.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE From the moment we cracked open the pages of her book, “Free Of Me, Why Life Is Better When It's Not About You,” we knew we needed Sharon Hodde Miller's wisdom on this pod, and we're incredibly grateful she accepted our invitation. In a world saturated with the "me" mentality, Sharon shines a light on the pervasive impact of self-centeredness across every facet of our lives. It's a message that infiltrates our friendships, marriages, and even our faith, fracturing each in unique yet profound ways. Pursuing self-improvement often leaves us joyless, our souls diminished, trapped in the cycle of perpetual insecurity. Sharon helps us unpack the intricacies of "image management," exposing its corrosive effect on relationships, where individuals are reduced to mere reflections of our own self-image. Through personal anecdotes and profound insights, she guides us through the labyrinth of toxic thought patterns, offering tangible strategies rooted in God's attributes for healing and restoration. Sharon challenges us to shift our gaze away from ourselves, unveiling a path of profound healing and freedom in loving God and others. Together, we explore the delicate balance between self-care and self-neglect, emphasizing the inherent worth of embracing our identity as beloved daughters of God. We also have a candid chat about the ebbs and flows of waiting seasons, urging us to embrace humility and openness to the transformative work of the Holy Spirit. It's a journey that promises growth, refinement, and, ultimately, freedom from the suffocating grip of self-preoccupation. Join us as we embark on this transformative expedition towards a life liberated from the confines of self.   You can follow Sharon on Instagram at @sharonhmiller.  Check our her books on Amazon:  The Cost of Control by Sharon H. Miller Free of Me by Sharon H. Miller   You can find this episode HERE on YouTube   00:00 Welcome to 'But Jesus Drank Wine' Podcast 00:29 Introducing Sharon Hottie Miller: Author, Leader, and Mom 01:11 The Journey to 'Free of Me': Overcoming Insecurity and Self-Preoccupation 06:11 The Power of Self-Forgetfulness: Finding Freedom from Ourselves 30:18 Navigating the Challenges of Publishing and Staying Humble 31:21 Embracing Humility and the Gift of Hiddenness 43:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind  #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected  #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

Today's conversation is about baggage. We all have it.Oftentimes it's heavy and difficult to carry.More than that, if we don't deal with our baggage, after time it will catch up with us. But not only us, if we don't deal with our baggage as business leaders, pastors, or even as parents, it'll impact the people around us.How do we deal with our baggage? That's what today's conversation is all about!I sit down with author and pastor, Ike Miller, to unpack the topic of baggage. Ike is married to Sharon Hodde Miller and together they pastor Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina.Grab a copy of Ike's book Good Baggage here.Thanks to our amazing partners on this episode: Vern Eide & SimpleVern Eide Motorcars is a growing employee-owned company that offers sales, service, and financing of automotive, motorcycle, and power sports lines, including Acura, Ford, Chevy, GMC, Honda, Hyundai and Mitsubishi brands. Whether you live locally or across the country, visit verneide.comSimple provides an easy, secure way to make giving super user-friendly. If you are a church or lead a faith based nonprofit, you have to look into working with Simple. You won't regret it! For more info, check out their brand new website simpledonation.comGet the 12 Ways to Jumpstart Your Faith resource for free at adamweber.com/jumpstart Sign up for The Crew: adamweber.com/thecrew

David Kinnaman (CEO, Barna Group) joins Glenn Packiam, Rich Villodas and Sharon Hodde Miller to explore current trends in spiritual openness, the factors that contribute to people distancing themselves from the Church and how understanding people's spiritual backstories can be a gateway for meaningful faith conversations.Sign up for the Resilient Pastor cohort. Learn about The Intentional Year by Holly and Glenn Packiam.Partner LinksWorld Vision: Visit WorldVision.org/Barna2024 to access the Resilient Pastor video series. Brotherhood Mutual: Learn more about the services that Brotherhood Mutual offers at BrotherhoodMutual.com.Watch this episode on Youtube: Barna GroupWant to learn more about the Resilient Pastor initiative? Home PagePodcastCity RoundtablesCohort

This is the maybe the closest Melanie and I have ever cut it in terms of getting an episode out on time, but travel has interfered with our recording schedule this week. The good news, though, is that we had a lot of catching up to do, and recording an episode is a fine way to do that. We cover a lot of ground - my trip to NYC, the kids getting home for Christmas, and our continued deep thoughts and feelings about Taylor and Travis. We also talk about what we have coming up in our January book club on Patreon, and it's Melanie's turn for Five Favorites. Enjoy, everybody!   - Join Us on Patreon  - Our Amazon Shop - 2023 Big Boo Holiday Gift Guide  Show Notes: - Foods of NY Tours (Bert was our guide - and the Nolita tour was so much fun) - Merrily We Roll Along (I'm still not over it - my goodness) - Starstruck on Max - Taylor and Travis according to People - funky New York style - our pretend holiday party episode on Patreon - my Sporty Spice outfit from Anthropologie - my aspirational sequined dress - Sharon Hodde Miller on Instagram - How to Stay Married by Harrison Scott Key - jeffreymixed Instagram account - Nest Hearth Pura fragrance - Taylor Swift watercolors - retro stripe tube socks - Ranger Station Leather & Pine candle Note: As Amazon and LTK affiliate members, we earn income from qualifying purchases.   Sponsors: - Stamps (use code BIGBOO for free postage, a four-week trial, and a digital scale) - Helix (use this link and code HELIXPARTNER20 for 20% off) - Hello Fresh (use code BIGBOOFREE for free breakfast for life) - Prose (use this link for 50% off your first subscription order)

Brian and Aubrey interview Ike Miller, author of the new book Good Baggage: How your difficult childhood prepared you for healthy relationships. Ike serves as Co-Lead Pastor of Bright City Church with his wife Sharon Hodde Miller. Follow The Common Good on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram Follow Ike: @ikefmiller Hosted by Aubrey Sampson and Brian From Produced by Laura Finch and Keith ConradSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In today's podcast, we talk to Ike Miller, Senior Pastor of Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina, a church he planted in 2018 along with his wife, Sharon Hodde Miller. He frequently writes on the intersection of theology, mental health, and family of origin issues in outlets such as Christianity Today and Mission Alliance. In this episode, Ike shares insights from his latest book, Good Baggage: How Your Difficult Childhood Prepared You For Healthy Relationships. After confronting the impact of his own childhood, including a family history of substance use disorders, Ike has developed a passion for helping others who grew up in difficult circumstances to better understand how those environments continue to impact them and their relationships now. Learn how you can leverage your baggage for good with his practical advice and exercises that can lead to healthier relationships. We hope you enjoy this conversation!   https://www.vanderbloemen.com/blog/leveraging-your-baggage-for-the-good-of-your-relationship  

Chuck DeGroat (professor, therapist, author) sits down with Sharon Hodde Miller to talk about how unhealed trauma can cause future leadership challenges and narcissism, practical ways pastors and church leaders can move towards healing from their past and how to lead confidently without feeling overly inhibited by the fear of being a narcissist.Check out Chuck's latest book When Narcissism Comes to Church. Sign up for the Resilient Pastor roundtables this Fall 2023.Oct 4- Charlotte, NCOct 26- Chicago, ILNov 16- Orange County, CAWatch this episode on Youtube: Barna GroupWant to learn more about the Resilient Pastor initiative? Home PagePodcastPartner LinksBrotherhood Mutual: Learn more about the services that Brotherhood Mutual offers at BrotherhoodMutual.com.RightNow Media: Visit rightnowmedia.org to find out how RightNow Media can serve your church.

Season 4 of The Resilient Pastor podcast will be back on Tuesday! Join Glenn Packiam, Rich Villodas and Sharon Hodde Miller for more conversations on pastoral health, church leadership and navigating complex challenges in today's culture.New episodes start on September 19.  Share the Season 4 trailer, and subscribe to The Resilient Pastor wherever you listen to your podcasts.

I published this in 2018 and I updated and added to it today because of a confirmation of a tweet I saw Sharon Hodde Miller express on Twitter recently. Moore took hold of the goat and brought it into into church where it lurked in corners and tried to be inconspicuous. Now these women settle the goat onto a pew and treat the goat as a sheep. Find out how my warning in 2018 came true with seeing Miller's tweet.

Being in control is something we all long for, and usually chase after. But is there more to this desire of always being in control? Sharon Hodde Miller, author of three books and co-founder of Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina, sits down with us today to dive deeper into this topic. 0:20 Introduction to today's guest 2:13 The cost of control7:14 Can having more control lead to more anxiety?10:43 How does having control affect your ability to live within God's will?15:48 The illusion of control 18:54 Common forms of control22:23 Is there a way to change our views about control?25:51 The power of living within God's promise

Beth Moore (author, speaker, teacher) talks with Sharon Hodde Miller about staying open through criticism, lessons she's learned from her years in ministry and leaving a legacy for future generations of church leaders. Additionally, Sharon, Glenn and Rich discuss the impact that a leader's family of origin and patterns of trauma can have on how they show up in their ministry roles.Beth's memoir, All My Knotted-Up Life, is available wherever you buy books.Want to learn more about the Resilient Pastor initiative? Home PagePodcastBrotherhood Mutual: Learn more about the services that Brotherhood Mutual offers at BrotherhoodMutual.com.RightNow Media: Visit rightnowmedia.org to find out how RightNow Media can serve your church.

Guest Bio: Sharon Hodde Miller, PhD, is teaching pastor at Bright City Church in Durham, North Carolina, which she cofounded with her husband, Ike. Miller is the author of Free of Me and Nice, she has blogged at SheWorships.com for over ten years, has been a regular contributor to Propel, Her.meneutics, and She Reads Truth, and has written for Relevant, Christianity Today, (in)courage, and many other publications and blogs. She lives with Ike and their three children in Durham, North Carolina.   Show Summary: Have you ever tried to control a situation or outcome? Have you caught yourself trying to control a person? In this episode of God Hears Her, author Sharon Hodde Miller shares how we can take situations into our own hands and how that negatively impacts our mental health and relationships. Join the conversation with hosts Elisa Morgan and Eryn Eddy as they discuss the cost of control with Sharon Hodde Miller.   Notes and Quotes:  “The one thing that was clear and troubling to me is that by and large, it did not appear that Christians were drawing on the millennia of spiritual resources that have been passed down to us by Christians passed.” —Sharon Miller (10:37) “We were taking all of our fears, all of our anxieties to the internet. That to me signaled a huge gap in discipleship.” —Sharon Miller (11:30) “We reach for control to rescue us, to alleviate our anxiety, to give us a sense of security.” —Sharon Miller (11:55) “We are in this age of technology where we are promised increasing mastery over our world.” —Sharon Miller (12:08) “Whenever I reach for control to empower me or to fix this situation, I am not just reenacting Genesis 3 but also its consequences.” —Sharon Miller (17:27) “God doesn't give us control but He does give us agency.” —Sharon Miller (24:07) “We were created for Genesis 1. We were created for peace and security and wholeness.” —Sharon Miller (28:59)   Verses:  Genesis 3 Genesis 1   Links:  The Cost of Control by Sharon Hodde Miller: https://sheworships.com/the-cost-of-control/ Proverbs 31 Ministries website: https://proverbs31.org/ God Hears Her website: https://www.godhearsher.org/ Subscribe on iTunes! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/god-hears-her-podcast/id1511046507?utm_source=applemusic&utm_medium=godhearsher&utm_campaign=podcast Elisa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisamorganauthor/ Eryn's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eryneddy/   MB013USGKAWD0D0

"Find a job you love, and you'll never work a day in your life." Ever heard this? Ever wonder if it's actually true? Today I'm joined by author and pastor Sharon Hodde Miller to discuss work and labor, which I write about in Chapter 1 of my book.

Bianca Olthoff (church planter, author, speaker, podcaster) sits down with Sharon Hodde Miller to talk about some of the emotional tolls of preaching, developing resilience through her journey with church planting and navigating the leadership challenges of political and cultural polarization. Want to learn more about the Resilient Pastor initiative? Home PagePodcastBookWatch this episode on Youtube: Barna GroupFollow Barna at:Instagram: @barnagroupTwitter: @barnagroupFacebook: Barna GroupWorldVision: Get access to the free Engaging Gen Z webcast at worldvision.org/ResilientPod.Brotherhood Mutual: Learn more about the services that Brotherhood Mutual offers at BrotherhoodMutual.com.

Margaret Anne embodies everything we love about our younger friends.  She is fun, honest, wise and confident as she shares how she relied on the Lord to navigate an uncertain path and become her own boss! We talk about her successes and challenges and what the Lord is teaching her in this season of "in betweens."  Y'all are in for a treat with this encouraging and inspiring episode. Some of our favorite takeaways: On control: We were not meant to control everything. It's okay to do my very best and also let the Lord lead me. On setting healthy boundaries: You have to teach people how to treat you.  On collaborating iwth other strong women: I realized she had strengths that weren't my strengths. It's fun to see what we can create together that we know we couldn't have created by ourselves It's cool to see who God puts in your life to help you flourish.  On trusting God's timing: There's nothing wrong with you if your plan looks different and takes longer than everyone else's. Your story is not anyone else's story.  The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises by Sharon Hodde Miller Listen to Angela's conversation with Sharon Hodde Miller on Episode 85 Connect with Blue Byrd Marketing on Instagram Learn more about the world famous West TN Strawberry Festival  Connect with Mikaela Allen Photography & Graphic Design on Instagram Proverbs 16:24: "Kind words are like honey— sweet to the soul and healthy for the body." We LOVE connecting with you!    Join our Facebook group   • Follow us on Instagram • Follow us on TikTok   • Follow us on Pinterest      

How do you lead when your own story is full of pain? What is the cost of control when it comes to ministry, leadership and marriage? For Ike and Sharon Hodde Miller, learning to navigate the difficulties in ministry these past few years since church planting and a pandemic has led to some insight into their own hearts. As an adult child of an alcoholic, Ike began to see the way his past was impacting his leadership. Sharon started to notice how her desire for control came at a cost to her soul and her relationships. Together, they have done the important work of healing their own wounds and stories while recognizing what they needed to let go of in order to be healthy leaders of Bright City Church in Durham, NC. In this honest conversation, Ike and Sharon talk with Aubrey about how to lead in a divisive climate, what happens when we reach for control as leaders, and the importance of boundaries in marriage when we lead together. Whether you're a leader in ministry, business or your home, this episode will encourage you to do the vital inner work to bring healing to your interior world so that you can lead out of health and wholeness.   Sharon's Website: www.sheworships.com Ike's Website: www.ikemiller.com Sharon's Instagram: www.facebook.com/sharonhoddemiller/ Ike's Instagram: www.instagram.com/ikefmiller/ Sharon's Twitter: twitter.com/SHoddeMiller Ike's Twitter: twitter.com/Ikefmiller Sharon's Facebook: www.facebook.com/sharonhoddemiller/ Ike's Facebook: www.facebook.com/Theological-Interpretation-112291517027768/ Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, The Anxiety It Gives Us, and The Real Power God Promises  Pastors, looking for a way to establish a path to healing and redemption within your church? Join Davey Blackburn for a live call on how Nothing is Wasted can help: www.nothingiswasted.com/pastors Would you like to bring hope and healing to your church? Learn how your church can help people find healing from pain and trauma through the Pain to Purpose Course: www.nothingiswasted.com/churches Want to be a part of the Nothing is Wasted Prayer team? Sign up today: www.nothingiswasted.com/prayerteam

Listen in as this season's co-hosts–Glenn Packiam, Rich Villodas and Sharon Hodde Miller–share what they're looking forward to ahead in Season 3!Subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to podcasts to stay tuned for the episodes to come this season.-Want to learn more about the Resilient Pastor initiative? Home PagePodcastBookWatch this episode on Youtube: Barna GroupFollow Barna at:Instagram: @barnagroupTwitter: @barnagroupFacebook: Barna Group

Must read: The Lord is My Courage by K.J. Ramsey Our lives belong to the Lord! Psalm 37:23 tells us He will direct our next steps and He even loves doing so.  A current favorite read of Angela's is: "Praying like Monks, Living Like Fools." She is listening on audible if that is a great way for you to read.  We have had Sharon Hodde Miller on the podcast before and here we are talking about her book again. It's a must read too! The title of the book is "The Cost of Control." You can also watch that episode with Sharon on our YouTube if you would like to do that. Do you follow us on all the socials?  We would love to connect with you there! Facebook group Instagram TikTok Pinterest Remember, speak kind gracious words this week! We are meant to build one another up! Proverbs 16:24 is the verse we are built upon.

Plugged In's Adam Holz talks about the need for having an ongoing dialogue with our kids around sexuality and the necessity of reinforcing the goodness of His designs. Sharon Hodde Miller, author of "The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises," shares the power to influence yourself and your circumstances. Click here for today's show notes Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here

Sharon Hodde Miller talks with Carey about how the words you choose, as a leader, carry weight especially in ministry. Get more on this conversation by going to http://theartofleadershipdaily.com/. Brought to you by: The Art of Leadership Academy's Thriving Church Checklist Churches that aren't just surviving but thriving in this season share 8 common traits. To weed out unhealthy areas of your ministry and lead a thriving church, you can get your FREE copy of the Thriving Church Checklist and e-book at https://thrivingchurchchecklist.com/.

Don't miss this reprise episode with author Sharon Hodde Miller, who is a church planter and mom of three living in North Carolina. She's the author of the new book, "Cost of Control" (which I loved) and also wrote two other books: "Nice" and "Free of Me." She's got a Ph.D. and a strong voice online and in person, as she writes, preaches and shares the messages God has given her with people across the country. I knew I wanted to ask Sharon to endorse my book right away and was so thankful that she said "yes." Here's what she has to say about "Reason to Return: Why Women Need the Church & the Church Needs Women:" "In our current culture, the Church is not known for its virtues. When stories of corruption and scandal seem to emerge every week, it's no wonder people are staying away. Thankfully, these stories of church failure are not the full picture. In pockets of faithfulness all over the world, God's people are showing up to be Jesus' hands and feet, and Ericka is telling this story. While the Church is not perfect, it is still a place of healing and calling, which is why I am so grateful to Ericka for beckoning women home." You can see all the endorsements here & order your copy of the book here. *Don't miss the freebie bundle you get when you pre-order (including a FREE Audible version of the book when you buy a hard copy!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How does control lead to anxiety? How can we let go of the illusion of control and entrust our lives to God? Pastor and author Sharon Hodde Miller joins Amy Julia Becker for a down-to-earth, intellectually astute conversation about the wisdom surrounding control, agency, and influence.__Giveaway: We are giving away a copy of Sharon's latest book: The Cost of Control. To enter to win, share this podcast episode on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter, and be sure to tag me! The contest will end on Sunday, December 4, at 11:59 pm ET.__Guest Bio:"Sharon leads Bright City Church in Durham, NC with her husband, Ike. She writes, travels around the country speaking at churches and conferences each year, and holds a PhD on women and calling." Sharon is the author of three books, including her latest, The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises.__Connect Online:Website: SheWorships.comInstagram: @sharonhmillerFacebook: @sharonhoddemillerTwitter: @SHoddeMiller__On the Podcast:Books: The Cost of Control;  Free of Me; and NiceGenesis 3__Transcript and more: amyjuliabecker.com/sharon-hodde-miller/__Season 6 of the Love Is Stronger Than Fear podcast connects to themes in my latest book, To Be Made Well, which you can order here! Learn more about my writing and speaking at amyjuliabecker.com.*A transcript of this episode will be available within one business day on my website, as well as a video with closed captions on my YouTube Channel.Connect with me: Instagram Facebook Twitter Website Thanks for listening!

In this episode, Caleb talks with Sharon Hodde Miller about her book, The Cost of Control and more.Links MentionedSharon Hodde MillerThe Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises by Sharon Hodde MillerCaleb's newsletter

Are you a control freak? You're not alone. As moms, we love to be in control. We want to make sure our kids are safe, have everything they need and have successful lives. Those are all good things! The frustrating news is that we don't have ultimate control over how our kids' lives and even … EP 84: Help! I Want Control with Sharon Hodde Miller Read More »

We were so honored to have this conversation with Sharon Hodde Miller about her new book "The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Causes and the Real Power God Promises" We all wish we had more control over the people and situations in our lives.  However, control is merely an illusion.  When we use control to try to fix things, it only breaks them even more.  We talk about the meaning behind "Don't birth an Ishmael" and how control impacts our theology and what we believe about God.   We also talk about the one thing we CAN control, the real power God promises, and how Jesus rewrites the story.  You can also watch this week's episode on our YouTube Channel!  Proverbs 16:24: "Kind words are like honey— sweet to the soul and healthy for the body." We LOVE connecting with you!    Join our Facebook group   • Follow us on Instagram • Follow us on TikTok   • Follow us on Pinterest

Are you a self-professed control freak? Does the thought of letting someone else take the lead stresses you out? Is there a strong inner critic that you constantly battle with? Sharon Hodde Miller is an author and a co-pastor alongside her husband. She has wrestled with control in the past and will share with us ways we can tackle our own need for control in an upfront but loving way. In this conversation, we talk about: • Defining control and our desire to be in control • Letting go of the need to control everything • The struggle of the inner critic • The power of our God-given agency Sharon shares her experiences in hopes of helping others navigate their relationship with control. She explains that there is power in letting go of control and learning to not be attached to outcomes. We also discuss establishing boundaries and embracing our God-given agency. As you listen, I hope you'll meet yourself with kindness and take a look at your relationship with control. While we can't control everything - we can be certain of one thing... God is perfect and makes no mistakes. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @sharonhmiller, we'd love to hear how this podcast spoke to you! Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Sharon Hodde Miller's Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org This podcast is sponsored in part by Operation Christmas Child. Pack a shoebox! Learn more by clicking here. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Bestselling author and co-lead pastor, Sharon Hodde Miller, talks about control—why so many church leaders are control freaks, the link between control and anxiety, the prosperity Gospel, and how controlling leaders create church hurt. Get more on this episode by going to https://careynieuwhof.com/episode526.

Today Adam talks with pastor and author, Sharon Hodde Miller about control. Note: If you're thinking, “Control? I don't have a problem with control,” then this episode is definitely for you! Sharon and Adam talk about how control shows up in the places we least expect it, and why your good intentions keep you from realizing the ways you try to control the situations and people closest to you.Sharon also shares how control costs far more than you realize— in your marriage, with your children, in friendships and workplaces, and even in your relationship with God— and practical ways you can loosen your grip on control.Listen to Adam's first conversation with Sharon: https://bit.ly/3C8H76cGet a copy of Sharon's new book, The Cost of Control: https://amzn.to/3rwEOF7

Cost, Crave, Anxiety, Promise and (so much) more with Sharon Hodde MillerWe were beyond honored to have our good friend and sister Sharon Hodde Miller on for a conversation about the importance of knowledge and information (and how it may not work), spiritual power and abuse, the humanity of PASTORS, the difference between control and stability, and real KPI's in the church…and so much more. Amen.Thank you for your support! Please don't forget to like, subscribe, rate, review and share on your favorite podcast platform!Also, don't forget to connect with us:text 757-774-7247email 2americas1godpodcast@gmail.comOr on fb: 2a1G Conversation Space | A Podcast Community

Sharon Hodde Miller is a speaker, author, church planter, co pastor and scholar whose recent book The Cost Of Control is a must read. Sharon diagnoses our control issues, but then sifts them through modern challenges like smart phones and body image. A delightful chat with a sharp and vital thinker.  

Pastor and author Sharon Hodde Miller shares from her book "The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises". She talks about how to discover the real power God has given us in Christ, to exercise influence over ourselves and our lives.

Kicking off this week's episode, on #blessed Heather sits down with Sharon Hodde Miller and talks about online church. Is online church a blessing that is making us more connected as a body of believers? Or is it a mess that is disconnecting us? Make sure to let us know your thoughts by typing in ViralJesusPod on Instagram or Twitter and using #blessed.  As our pod-class journey on healing continues, (don't forget to listen to previous episodes in the series) Heather sits down with Sharon Hodde Miller to discuss a concept Sharon calls “the cost of control". How is our need to control our lives, preventing us from living them? Guest Bio Sharon leads Bright City Church in Durham, NC with her husband, Ike, which they planted together in 2018. Sharon earned her M.Div. from Duke Divinity School, and her PhD from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, where she researched the topic of women and calling. In addition to writing for sites like Christianity Today, She Reads Truth, Propel, Relevant, and more, she is the author of three books: Free of Me: Why Life Is Better When It's Not about You, Nice: Why We Love to Be Liked And How God Calls Us to More, and The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety it Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises.  Host Bio Heather Thompson Day is an associate professor of communication at Andrews University in Berrien Springs, Michigan. She is the author of eight books, including, I'll See You Tomorrow, releasing in October, and It's Not Your Turn. Reach out to Heather on Twitter @HeatherTDay and on Instagram @heatherthompsonday. Viral Jesus is a production of Christianity Today Host and creator: Heather Thompson Day Executive Producer: Ed Gilbreath Producer: Loren Joseph Associate Producer: Azurae Phelps Mix Engineer: Alex Carter Director of CT Podcasts: Mike Cosper Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you struggle with anxiety? Long nights we spend staring at the ceiling wishing for sleep to come. Sharon and I talk about what trying to control our environment costs us. She explains why we all crave control and how the control we seek is different from the real power God promises us! We also take a sidebar into what it means to influence people into the full potential God has for them, and how the hearing of the Word can produce change. You can find Sharon's book, "The Cost of Control: Why we crave it, the anxiety it gives us, and the real power God promises." You can find Sharon on Instagram or her Website. You can find Elizabeth at Sunshine in my Nest or on Instagram at sunshineinmynest where you can watch the LIVE video! If you want access to "Secret Best Friends Content" and freebies you can sign up for emails here *affiliate links are used when appropriate. Thank you for supporting Sunshine in my Nest

Today we are going to be talking about “How we long for control.” I think it's safe to say that a lot of people strongly desire control. Control over their relationships, control over their jobs, and over their kids. The list could go on and on. We crave control and self-sufficiency! But wanting to constantly be in control can leave us hurting, drained, and anxious.  Our guest today, Sharon Hodde Miller, author of the new book, “The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, The Anxiety It Gives Us, And the Real Power God Promises, will be talking about our relationship with control and why our culture is chronically anxious, and most importantly, she will talk about the real power God has given us in Jesus, to exercise influence over ourselves and our lives.Coffee and Bible Time Prayer JournalCoffee and Bible Time Prayer BinderCoffee and Bible Time Church Group Special - (Promo Code: PODCAST) to receive offer to buy 9 Prayer Journals or Prayer Binders and get the 10th one free when you purchase either the How to Pray Using the Prayer Journal course or the How to Pray Using the Prayer Binder course.Alabaster Co. - Use promo code CBTPROMO for 10% offBook: The Cost of ControlIG: @sharonhmillerYouTube: Sharon Hodde MillerTMAC Fitness. 20 Minute Home Workouts Beginner and Advanced Workouts. No equipment. Each Workout Ends with a Meditation. Fairy Sleepy: Fall asleep fastTrouble sleeping? Want to fall asleep and stay asleep? Then this podcast is for you....Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Were You Raised By Wolves?Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Practical advice to help you through every situation.Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify The Proffitt PodcastThe podcast that shows you tips & strategies to create content with confidence!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

My guest this week is one of my best friends in the world, Sharon Hodde Miller. Sharon is an author, co-pastor at Bright City Church in North Carolina, and she teaches about faith, culture, and the Bible. She is a wife, mom to three kids, and lover of all things Disney. 5:09 – Sharon 201 This is Sharon's second time on the show. She has spent the past two years pastoring her church during a pandemic and homeschooling her kids. 8:23 – The Cost of Control book Sharon's latest book, The Cost of Control, is about why we crave control, the anxiety it gives us and the real power God promises. Sharon turned inward and realized she was having big control issues at home with her kids and shouldn't be homeschooling them.  17:50 – Overwhelming information Every time we open our phones to check social media or the news, we are being overwhelmed with information. 24:05 – Constant access to media There's constant negativity on social media, and that makes some people feel a level of control. We have lost the ability to disagree with each other, and it is costing us our mental health. 37:15 – Coping with loss of control When we lose control in one area of our life, we often exert control over other areas. Some people cope with stress by cleaning. God doesn't give us control, but He does give us agency. 41:14 – Anxiety and red flags Anxiety is a big red flag, and your body can tell you a lot about how you're feeling. Some people clench their jaw, for example. You need to name your problem accurately. Don't rush past it. You are feeling anxious because you are ingesting news all the time. 59:24 – Words of wisdom Control is something we all struggle with. We know we should surrender and trust God instead of ourselves. 1:02:08 – Get to know you Career change? Work at Disney World Guilty pleasure? Disney podcasts FEATURED QUOTES It costs us whenever we try to have control, and this isn't an “if,” it's a “when.” God doesn't give us control, but he does give us agency. You are feeling anxious because you are ingesting news all the time. Honor the limitations of your soul and have boundaries around that. Control is something we all struggle with. We know we should surrender and trust God instead of ourselves. CONNECT: https://sheworships.com/ Thank you to our partners of the show! Are you looking to clean up your household cleaning products this year? MamaSuds would like to help! The best way is to simply start with one product. Every time you run out of a specific cleaning product, replace it with a non-toxic one. Another tip, purchase a product that has multiple uses. The MamaSuds Collection has many multiple use products (castile soap or the toilet bombs are just a few!). Their blog has lots of great tips and a castile soap recipe that you can print and make a lot of your own effective cleaners! Give them a try at www.mamasuds.com and don't forget to use the coupon code MOLLY for 15% off your order! I'd like to thank our other partner of the show and that's Tradlands. Tradlands is an INCREDIBLE sustainable fashion brand that believes in clothing that you can live in NOW and love forever. Clothing that not only makes you feel like your best self, but also fits in a way that flatters. Their gorgeous dresses, pants, tops, and more are designed to move with you throughout your busy days. Their Nico dress is my dress in a love language —not only does it have sleeves, but also POCKETS and you know how I feel about dresses with pockets. I love how comfortable and stylish each piece - and they come in colors like classic neutrals or vibrant hues. One of the things I love most about Tradlands is their focus on sustainability and creating small batch clothing that lasts… they never over produce what they make and focus on only the highest quality materials. And you know how much I love supporting small businesses, too. Check them out at https://tradlands.com/businesswithpurpose and use the code MOLLY20 for 20% off!

Most of us carry the belief that if we could be in control of the people and circumstances around us then life would be better. This belief leads to us exerting massive amounts of energy into controlling everyone and everything. But, somehow our attempts to control our life usually end up hurting and not helping. Can you relate? Today we chat with author, speaker, and church planter Sharon Hodde Miller about her new book The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises. Sharon shares biblical truth to help us realize we are not in control and that's a good thing! She also shares about the tools God gives us to help us cope and find peace in our out of control world. Come chat with us as we discuss the Cost of Control with Sharon Hodde Miller. Timestamps 2:17 - About Sharon4:14 - Why are we talking about control?8:48 - What does it mean to be controlling?11:04 - Why God doesn't give us complete control14:11 - Why does trying to control our lives give us anxiety?18:56 - How does control affect our relationship with God?20:55 - What is the cost of control?24:02 - How to handle our control issues30:03 - How theology impacts control34:05 - The real power God gives us36:42 - What the gospel has changed for Sharon Sign up for the brand new Daily Grace Podcast Newsletter and receive the free resource "Scripture for Every Season.” Resources mentioned in this episode: The Cost of Control by Sharon Hodde Miller Connect with Sharon: Website Instagram Scripture mentioned in this episode: Genesis 1-3 Related Resources: Blog: Why You Do What You Do: How to Identify Idols Video: Bible Study with Me: Devotions on Anxiety Blog: How to Fight Anxiety with Prayer Connect with us: Subscribe to Daily Grace: on iOS, go to our Apple podcast page and click subscribe. On Android, click this podcast RSS feed link and choose your podcast app. If needed, you can copy this link directly into your favorite podcast app (like Stitcher or Overcast). Or follow us on Spotify!  We would love it if you took a few minutes to leave us an Apple podcast review to help spread the word about Daily Grace! We want to invite more women into our conversations! Download The Daily Grace app: for iOS, click here to download.  On Android, click here to download. Visit The Daily Grace Co. for beautiful products for the whole family that will equip you on your journey to knowing and loving God more.  Subscribe to The Daily Grace Newsletter and receive free Bible study resources in your inbox.  Like The Daily Grace Co. on Facebook. Follow @dailygracepodcast on Instagram for exclusive podcast content and @thedailygraceco for all things The Daily Grace Co. Engage with our Facebook community, “The Daily Grace Co. Community”.  Read The Daily Grace blog for encouragement throughout the week that is steeped in biblical truths.   * Affiliate links used are used where appropriate. Thank you for supporting the products that support the production of this podcast! * 

Is the first 10 minutes of this episode straight up Disney talk? YES.IT.IS. Are Sharon Hodde Miller and I going to start a Disney+Jesus Podcast? MAYBE. My sweet friend, Sharon is back in the studio today to talk about her new book The Cost of Control. Get ready, guys. The conversation about the illusion of control and tolerating uncertainty...PREPARE THE NOTEBOOKS! . . . . It's not too late to be a Chase the Funner! Sign up HERE as we read through Chase the Fun together. . . . . Sign up to receive the AFD Week In Review email and ask questions to future guests! #thatsoundsfunpodcast . . . . . Thank you to our partners! BetterHelp Online Therapy: Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/thatsoundsfun. GiveDirectly: Visit GiveDirectly.org/soundsfun and your donation will be matched up to $500. Brooklinen: Go to Brooklinen.com and use promo code THATSOUNDSFUN to get $20 off your purchase of $100 or more. PLUS get Free Shipping and Free pillowcases for a limited time only. Stitch Fix: Sign up today at StitchFix.com/THATSOUNDSFUN to get $20 off your first purchase. Liquid I.V.: Grab Liquid I.V. in bulk nationwide at Costco or you can get 25% off when you go to LIQUIDIV.COM and use code THATSOUNDSFUN at checkout.

Hey friend! Today, I welcome back to the show one of my dear friends, pastor, author, and speaker, Sharon Hodde Miller. This much-needed conversation about our craving for control and what happens when we don't deal with it gave me so many things to think about, and I think it will do the same for you!  Be sure to listen in to hear as Sharon shares how the advice she heard about handing control over to God (while entirely true, biblical, good, and important even) wasn't exactly helpful as she struggled to navigate life in the middle of the pandemic… as a wife, mom, and church planter.  Sharon realized that it wasn't just that she didn't have control but that it would cost her dearly when she tried to have it. So much wisdom is found in what she discovered…. I promise you don't want to miss out on this eye-opening conversation! Sharon pastors Bright City Church in Durham, NC, with her husband, Ike. She is also the author of three books, travels around the country speaking at churches and conferences each year, and holds a Ph.D. on women and calling.  Listen in to learn more about: How control is an illusion that will break more than it fixes in our lives and relationships. Identifying the red flags that could indicate controlling behavior and ways to address them. How our generation brings our control issues to the internet instead of God. Favorite quotes: ~Whenever we feel anxiety, we reach for control to soothe that anxiety. But control is not able to do that. What it actually does is exacerbate our anxiety even more. ~God does not give us control but he gives us agency. Agency is power with limits. ~Make room so that you can actually pay attention to what's going on inside of you. Don't turn on podcasts, audio books or music when you are in the car, just sit in silence when you drive and then name accurately what's going on inside of you . Very often it's not something outside of you, it's something spiritual going on inside of you. ~We were created for security and stability and so whenever we feel that fear, that overwhelm; that is our soul recognizing there is a dissonance with the world around us. In this episode I answered this question: How do you know as a coach that you don't want to work with someone?  (40:55) Links to great things we discussed: Sharon Hodde Miller (@sharonhmiller) • Instagram photos and videos The Cost of Control Book - Amazon This Is Thomas Newman | Spotify Playlist Top Gun: Maverick (2022) - IMDb Only Murders in the Building (TV Series 2021– ) - IMDb Mark Sayers Book- A Non-Anxious Presence Nuuly: Clothing Rental + Resale Marketplace See A Victory | Live | Elevation Worship - YouTube Dashing Diva USA: Shop Glaze, Magic Press, Gloss & Glue-On Nails. Join the Confident Motherhood Community here. Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :) xo, Alli 

Today, Lisa welcomes her friend, pastor and author Sharon Hodde Miller to JOE today. Sharon leads Bright City Church in Durham, NC with her husband, Ike, which they planted together in 2018. Sharon earned her M.Div. from Duke Divinity School, and her PhD from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, where she researched the topic of women and calling. Lisa and Sharon talk about control, which is the topic of Sharon's latest book, The Cost of Control: Why We Crave it, The Anxiety It Gives Us and the Real Power God Promises. This is a must listen conversation on JOE today. Links: Sponsor A Child with Compassion The Cost of Control Book Website Instagram Facebook Cozy Earth Coupon Code The Hard Good Book & Bible Study   Produced by JOE Productions. For more information, contact lainie@lisawhittle.com

You may feel like you can control every situation, but it will come at a high cost. It's never too late to turn a controlling habit into a trusting one. In this episode, author and speaker, Sharon Hodde Miller shares from her newest book, The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises Us. Co-pastoring a church with her husband, Ike, control felt like something that brought security and peace, only to find anxiety and a high cost as the true outcome. Sharon helps us all loosen our grips on control and to trust the power of the Holy Spirit living inside of us. Sharon points us to the truth that whenever we reach for control that God has not given us, we are making a "devil's deal." Jesus has already offered us the best deal of all, and when we put our trust in Him, we find what we have been searching for has been with us all along. This episode is insightful, and convicting-you won't want to miss it! Important Takeaways from Show Adam and Eve reached for more control, which resulted in anxiety, shame, and division. Every time we reach for control that God has not given us, it will cost us something. Adam and Eve did not have control of the garden but exercised agency over it. We cannot control the chaos, but we can order it with systems and processes. The less we control the more we experience the power of the Holy Spirit that we already have access to. We cannot control the soil of a person's heart, but we can have influence whether we are softening or hardening it. Whenever we reach for control that God has not given us we are making a "devil's deal". Jesus has already offered us the best deal. But none of these things move me; nor do I count my life dear to myself, so that I may finish my race with joy, and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God. (Acts 20:24) God is dependable, he is faithful, and He is enough. "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid." John 14:27 Links from Show Join the Insider Club - Joanna's launch team! Book: (Being Released August 16, 2022): The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises [Disclosure: I make a small commission from affiliate links used in this post.]   Connect with Sharon Hodde Miller Website | Facebook | Instagram