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Today's IBTA is about making room for delight. Recognising that allowing space for pleasure and delight is an essential component to our practice.I also share a list of the things that bring me delight. From riding my bicycle, to dancing in the kitchen, to reading poetry out loud and my love of singer Michael Bolton!ReferencesToni Morrison, The Nation - No Place for Self-Pity, No Room for FearLinksWebsite: https://www.holdinguptheladder.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/holdinguptheladder/Israel-Palestine project: https://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/p/holding-up-the-ladder-podcast-israel-palestine Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
If you enjoy the episode, please consider subscribing to the podcast and leaving a 5-stars rating. This helps others find the podcast. Every Christian longs to be close to God. It's our greatest desire. But what if you discovered something in your soul is pushing him away—holding his blessings at arm's length so you don't experience his love? One of the keys to increased blessing on your life is to stop rejecting them when they come.Certified biblical counselor Dr. D. Richard Ferguson draws on 25 years of pastoral ministry and counseling to provide practical application of the principles in God's Word on the topic of anxiety. IN THIS EPISODE:* 1:21 - Repelling God's love* 4:19 - Self-Pity* 7:20 - Anger and entitlement * 12:03 - Pessimism is a lie* 14:27 - Godliness Training ExercisesTo get your copy of the book Anxiety and the Peace of God, which has all the material in these podcasts and much more, go to https://drichardferguson.com/books/anxiety-the-peace-of-god-six-biblical-cures-for-worry-stress-and-inner-turmoil/For more content from D. Richard Ferguson, visit TreasuringGod.com.And follow on social:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DarrellFergusonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/darrell.r.ferguson/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Dr.DRichardFerguson/
Send us a text! (add your email to get a response)Ever found yourself wanting to scream when someone launches into their hundredth "woe is me" monologue? Yep, we've been there. In this episode, we talk about one of the more isolating coping mechanisms: self-pity.We break down exactly what makes self-pity so aggravating for loved ones—that toxic combination of helplessness, victim mentality, and emotional quicksand that seems to pull everyone down. Unlike genuine sadness or grief, self-pity comes with an external locus of control that rejects solutions while demanding endless reassurance. It's the "help me, help me, but don't help me" dynamic that leaves friends, partners, and even therapists feeling utterly powerless.We explore the psychology behind why people get stuck in self-pitying patterns, the difference between legitimate suffering and wallowing, and the crucial distinction between self-pity ("poor me") and self-compassion ("poor us"). For those drowning in self-pity, we offer actionable strategies to reconnect with agency and break free from the cycle. For the exhausted supporters, we provide practical tools like "dropping the rope" and setting boundaries without drowning in guilt.Whether you're dealing with a chronically self-pitying loved one or catching yourself falling into these patterns, the way out of self-pity isn't more reassurance—it's recognizing that even in our darkest moments, we always have a choice.**If you're struggling with a loved one consumed with self pity, book a free call with Dr. Kibby to see you can get expert insights and strategies through KulaMind.Support the showIf you have a loved one with mental or emotional problems, join KulaMind, our community and support platform. In KulaMind, work one on one with Dr. Kibby on learning how to set healthy boundaries, advocate for yourself, and support your loved one. *We only have a few spots left, so apply here if you're interested. Follow @kulamind on Instagram for science-backed insights on staying sane while loving someone emotionally explosive. For more info about this podcast, check out: www.alittlehelpforourfriends.com Follow us on Instagram: @ALittleHelpForOurFriends
Ever find yourself spiraling in “why me?” energy—or slapping on a fake smile, insisting “I'm fine” when you're anything but? Yeah. Been there. Both sides of that coin will wear you out. That's why this episode? It's a lifeline. Fresh off an emotional and empowering experience speaking at my first ever women's leadership conference, I'm unpacking a topic that hits deep: the difference between self-pity, self-denial, and self-compassion—and why knowing how to navigate between them is one of the most important skills you'll ever learn. In this episode, I share: ✨ The sneaky ways self-pity shows up and keeps us stuck ✨ How self-denial masquerades as strength (but quietly breaks us down) ✨ My 3-A's Framework for building real, usable self-compassion ✨ Why community, storytelling, and getting outside your comfort zone changes everything This episode is your permission slip to stop faking it and start truly supporting yourself—through the messy moments, the heartaches, and the healing. Whether you're grieving, growing, or just trying to keep your head above water... this one's for you. Need extra support? Grab your free chapter of my book Okay, Now What? on self-compassion: https://www.kategladdin.com/free Book a free coaching consult with me (yep, totally free): www.kategladdin.com Follow me on IG for daily doses of real talk: @kategladdin
In this episode, we explore how spending time in the ‘cave’ of self-pity can open the door for the enemy to wreak havoc in your life. While it may be comforting at first, entertaining the spirit of self-pity can be your undoing. So how are we to respond when tempted to embrace self-pity? Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like Elijah, David & Jonah, we discuss how faith, gratitude, and praise give God space to help us overcome our circumstances. (00:00) The Power of God's Word(16:20) Breaking Out of the Cave(21:13) Beware of Self-Pity(36:09) Avoid Self-Pity Trap(44:23) Overcoming Self-Pity With Faith and Praise(55:17) Connecting Through City Light Church www.citylightnyc.com
This is a live recording of a homily that Fr. Eric gave on March 23, 2025 at St. James in Colgan, Ontario on the Third Sunday of Lent. Fr. Eric speaks about praying about our difficult circumstances. As a key example, Fr. Eric speaks about the story of Moses and the burning bush (Exod 3:1-15). Watch Catholic Latte on YouTube and Facebook. An audio version is available also on Spotify, iTunes and Podbean.
Self pity is what I label as an indulgent emotion. But I want to discuss today why it's so important to become aware of and how it's different than pity you feel for others. Join me to learn more about it so you can start taking control of it in your life! Click here to join the waitlist to be the first to know when the next Couples Course cohort launches! If you want to have a Porn Free Marriage and want to work together with your spouse to make that happen, this is for you!
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Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “Why is this so much harder for me than everyone else?” or “No matter what I do, nothing ever changes”? That's victim mentality creeping in—and trust me, it's sneakier than you think. As high-achieving moms, we work so hard, yet it's easy to fall into self-pity when we feel unappreciated, overwhelmed, or just plain exhausted. In this episode, I'm diving into the difference between real challenges and a victim mindset, why self-pity keeps you stuck, and how to shift from “Why me?” to “What now?”—because you have more power than you realize. If you've been feeling frustrated, drained, or resentful lately, this one is for you. Let's break free from victim mentality and step into a life where you feel in control again. Join the Mom On Purpose Membership: momonpurpose.com/coaching Follow Natalie on Instagram: instagram.com/mom.onpurpose Sign up for the Mom On Purpose Newsletter here: momonpurpose.com/subscribe Get full show notes and more information here: momonpurpose.com/336 Call the Podcast Hotline here: 8-333-ASKNAT (833-327-5628)
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Self-pity is a magnet that draws bad things to you. It keeps you immobile, always looking inward and rarely toward God. When God didn't approve of Cain's offering, he got into self-pity instead of asking God where he was wrong. He continued down the road of self-pity and then self-destruction.
Psalms 86:4You may not be able to change your situation but you can change your response. The choice is yours. You can choose to wallow in self-pity, or you can respond to a disadvantage with courage.
Don't blame us, them's the rules. You don't get to abstain. It's just the rules. Dang. Almost through all of the songs in round 2. What will go through? Will your babies be spared, or do we, like Solomon, cut that mewling sucker right down the spine? Dunno, listen and find out. It's The Day Everything Became Nothing vs. Self Pity and Oh, Canaduh vs. The Jungle. Get it.
Self-pity is a negative emotion that has no place in our lives. Instead of dwelling on a negative emotion, we should be focusing on all our blessings in front of us while keeping our mind on our Heavenly Father. Too many of us focus on things that shouldn't have authority over our minds. We are smart, wise and more than a conqueror. We just have to believe it and act on it. Listen to this powerful message from Ms G. You will not be disappointed.
"Why is this happening to me?" "What did I do wrong?" "Why does it feel like everything is against me?" Do you catch yourself asking these when life gets tough? You might be stuck in the victim mindset! On this episode of The Overthink Tank, Surbhi is joined by the amazing Ramon Llamba—life coach, therapist, and PhD in quantum physics (yes, you read that right) to help us finally break free from the victim mentality. Stuff we overthought: Setting boundaries without ghosting everyone Letting go of toxic people (the mature way) Breaking free from the victim mentality And yes… whether blocking your ex was really self-care. Overthinkers, this is the last episode of 2024 so we can step into the next year with clarity, stronger boundaries, and a whole lot less drama! Tune in! Find out more at https://the-overthink-tank.pinecast.co
If I could change one thing about the Democratic Party it would be this:Stop demanding blind loyalty to the One True Message. Yes, coalition building is hard. Yes, your most passionate members will be the loudest.Yes, things could go wrong. But the alternative is what you've had and that is what you are about to hear from the Harris-Walz campaign leadership in this episode. We invented a totally implausible and frankly laughable narrative and then were frustrated when progressives, the media and voters didn't buy it. They are to blame! Not the candidate. Not the message. Certainly not the brilliant team that put this in motion. It would have been easy if everyone just blindly repeated that Kamala Harris is a bi-partisan deal maker who understands the best ideas come from beyond the beltway. Sure, it's plain to see that she's a Democratic stalwart from the most iconic liberal state in the union. But if you keep repeating the first one, the dumbs will believe it! We discuss the Democratic obsession with messaging with ettingermentum.Also, Alice Miranda Ollstein of Politico on the future of the Pro Choice movement.It's a warm, expansive Px3 for a winter weekend. Chapters2:26 Pod Save America Breakdown1:00:00 Update: Musk, Hegseth1:09:17 Future of Pro Choice Movement w/ Alice Ollstein1:31:28 Ettingermentum This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.politicspoliticspolitics.com/subscribe
Jon and Jason discuss the keys to killing feeling pitiful in life.
A special episode from WRS host Cherie, in acknowledgement of this deeply challenging time, post-election 2024. This podcast doesn't exist in a vacuum; it is impacted and informed by the world at large. This is a moment to reflect and, for Cherie, a call to action. She shares thoughts on moving forward. Mentioned in This Episode Jinghaun Liu Tervalon's newsletter Wings & Spikes, from Nov 10, 2024: sandychannel.substack.com/p/wings-and-spikes Alison Mariella Désir on Patreon: patreon.com/alisondesir Toni Morrison's "No Place for Self-Pity, No Room for Fear," The Nation, Mar. 23, 2015: thenation.com/article/archive/no-place-self-pity-no-room-fear
Join Joe McDonald as he reads and expands on the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, offering deeper understanding and practical advice for those on their recovery journey. In this Step 3 AA session, Joe delves into the trap of self-pity, where we often demand recognition from others who are not able to see or hear us. He reflects on the times in his own life when he fell into this mindset, only to realize that true purpose comes not from seeking validation, but from breathing life into those who need it.Joe encourages us to shift our focus from self-pity and frustration toward service and purpose. Recovery is about finding those who are ready to receive the message, not forcing it upon others who aren't prepared. By embracing the spiritual principles of Step 3, we can rise above our ego and align ourselves with the people we are meant to help, fostering connection and growth.For more content, please like, comment, and share. Also, join us live every Thursday night at 7 p.m. Arizona time for the full step experience on our YouTube channel for comprehensive discussions and spiritual insights. Make sure to subscribe to our YouTube channel for more powerful recovery insights.Join us for more inspiring recovery stories and transformative insights.Check out our website at: www.positionofneutrality.orgYouTube:http://www.youtube.com/@positionofneutrality721Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PositionOfNeutralitySpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3mGbAbcacTs83RhMsv6FmY?si=6531e7adfdbb480eRSS: Position of Neutrality | RSS.comTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@interactivestepexp?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc#PositionOfNeutrality, #Step3AA, #BigBookAA, #AddictionRecovery, #12Steps, #OvercomingSelfPity, #SobrietyJourney, #RecoveryCommunity, #FaithInRecovery, #HigherPowerInRecovery, #RecoveryThroughAction, #SpiritualGrowthInRecovery, #LifeInRecovery, #StepByStepRecovery, #LivingSober, #OvercomingAddiction, #FreedomThroughService, #RecoverySupport, #RecoveryWithPurpose, #TransformationInRecovery, #GuidanceInSobriety, #FindingPurposeInSobriety
Fr. Ben speaks on the harm of negativity and self-pity and provides the way to stop it. This is a great examination for all to practice, especially when examining one's self-talk. Take a listen to receive the great advice of wise people to learn how to stop this cycle of negativity in your own mind and heart. Got a question you'd like to ask Fr. Ben? Go to Ask Fr. Ben at stmichaelmemphis.org to submit questions and topic ideas for the podcast. The questions can be on faith or food! You can also follow us on Facebook and YouTube @SoulFoodPriest. Thanks for listening!
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Pastor Tim Rust has sent 50 years in business and ministry learning many good lessons through the low seasons of frustration and spiritual warfare. He currently pastors in Nebraska and runs the Nebraska Cowboy Churches Association. As referenced in this episode, here are links to both of the books that encouraged pastor Tim in a dark time: “Dark Night of the Soul” by St. John of the Cross “Have You Ever Felt Like Giving Up Lately” by David Wilkerson As always, if you would like to reach out to the show for encouragement, or to give feedback or ideas, contact our host Joe Epley at Joseph.g.epley@gmail.com
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In this episode, let's explore the crucial distinction between self-compassion and self-pity, inspired by Dr. Kristen Neff's transformative work, "Self-Compassion." I dive into how to treat ourselves with the same kindness we'd extend to a dear friend or a child, especially when life throws its inevitable struggles our way. Learn practical strategies to cultivate self-compassion and understand why it's essential for our well-being. This episode is a heartfelt invitation to embrace kindness towards ourselves, even when the going gets tough. Where to find me: Connect with me on Instagram Check out my website Sign up for a free consultLinkTree
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In John 5:1-8, Jesus ministered to the paralyzed man. After 38 years of doing nothing, anyone would be sorry for himself! But Jesus did not offer him sympathy; instead He commanded the man to take responsibility for himself. This is the key to deliverance from self-pity. Find out more in the second part of Dr. Webber's message, “Jesus' Ministry to Those with Self-Pity.”In the Word with Malcolm Webber is a weekly podcast featuring selected teachings from Dr. Webber's over 40 years of ministry. Find more teachings, along with books, courses, tools, and other resources from Dr. Webber at our new website.Related Resources from LeaderSource* Book: Purpose* A Learning Design for Resilience* A Letter From an Emerging Leader* Article: How to Challenge Your Emerging LeadersNew to the series? Start here:Check out more messages from Malcolm: This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit leadersource.substack.com
Today's world is filled with self-pity and entitlement. We all believe something is owed to us and life should be perfect, but that's not how it is. In this episode, Sean talks about the solution for self-pity and how dangerous it can be when we allow self-pity to dominate our thinking.
‘The self is nothing but words and memories. So the self is the past. And to know oneself means to observe yourself.' This week's episode on The Self has five sections. The first extract (2:39) is from Krishnamurti's fifth talk in Madras 1978, and is titled: The Nature of the Self. The second extract (24:30) is from the fourth talk in Saanen 1985, and is titled: Self-Interest. The third extract (43:18) is from Krishnamurti's eighth talk in Saanen 1964, and is titled: Self-Pity. The fourth extract (54:14) is from the seventh talk in Saanen 1974, and is titled: Is There a Higher Self? The final extract in this episode (1:05:11) is from Krishnamurti's seventh talk in Saanen 1973, and is titled: Emptying the Mind of the Activities of the Self. Each episode of the Krishnamurti podcast features carefully selected clips from Krishnamurti's talks. The aim is to represent different aspects of Krishnamurti's radical approach to many of the issues and questions we all face in our lives. Upcoming themes are Concentration, Inquiry and Duality. This is a podcast from Krishnamurti Foundation Trust, based at Brockwood Park in the UK, which is also home to the Krishnamurti Retreat Centre. Situated in the beautiful countryside of the South Downs National Park, The Krishnamurti Centre offers retreats individually and in groups. The focus is on inquiry in light of Krishnamurti's teachings. Please visit krishnamurticentre.org.uk for more information. You can also find our regular quotes and videos on Instagram, TikTok and Facebook at Krishnamurti Foundation Trust. If you enjoy the podcast, please leave a review or rating on your podcast app, which helps our visibility.
The Bible says one of the marks of a real Christian is that your love finds expression in deeds of kindness—especially toward those with material, physical, and economic problems. Kindness is loving deeds, doing something for someone out of love. And in a number of places, the Bible says a real Christian will care for the poor. It's the Christian's social concern, social responsibility. Let's look at 1) the definition of kindness 2) the opposite of kindness 3) the counterfeit of kindness, and 4) how we cultivate kindness in our lives. This sermon was preached by Dr. Timothy Keller at Redeemer Presbyterian Church on March 11, 1990. Series: Fruit of the Spirit. Scripture: 1 John 3:16-20. Today's podcast is brought to you by Gospel in Life, the site for all sermons, books, study guides and resources from Timothy Keller and Redeemer Presbyterian Church. If you've enjoyed listening to this podcast and would like to support the ongoing efforts of this ministry, you can do so by visiting https://gospelinlife.com/give and making a one-time or recurring donation.
So often we want to jump right past difficult emotions or get a three-step plan to fix them…but what if sitting in those emotions is the key to allowing God to heal them? Join me today as we discuss how God-centered mindfulness can help us address our emotional triggers and break the patterns underneath our emotional responses.Looking for a mental refresh this summer? Check out the Christian Mindset Refresh Bundle for Christ-centered meditations, affirmations and Bible study that restore your heart with peace and calm.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[02:00] What is God-Centered Mindfulness?[07:01] Mindfulness Gives Us The Ability to Accept What is[13:09] Mindfulness Does Not Keep Us Stuck in Self-Pity[15:33] What Are The Deeper Patterns Under Your Emotional Triggers?[20:15] Making Space with Intentional Practices to Step Into The Presence of GodRESOURCES:Are you constantly stressed, like life's demands steal your peace + purpose? If so, check out the Christian Mindset Refresh Bundle — your brain-science and Bible-based mindset toolkit designed to guide you back to Christ-centered peace, godly self-worth, and the heart of God's unfailing love. Discover how God's love radically changes your identity, your perspective and your ability to find peace in the “I Am Loved” Bible Study!Ready for a step-by-step plan based on the Bible + brain science to identify + rewire subconscious thoughts so they line up with your true identity in Christ? Join us in the Christian Mindset Makeover!RELATED EPISODES:116: Mindset Matters: What Is Mindfulness and Is Mindfulness Appropriate for Christians?220: How Can Christian Meditation Help You Better Manage Stress?222: How to Manage Emotional Overwhelm with Christian Meditation258: When You're a Human "Doing" Instead of a Human Being
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Please support the child refugees of the Syrian War by giving to our fundraiser for the Arsenal Foundation (if you're able). https://www.justgiving.com/page/avp On this edition of the ArsenalVision Podcast, Elliot is joined by Clive and Andrew (@arseblog) to discuss a heartbreaking Champions League exit in Germany. The pod starts with some big picture conversation before drilling into the game. There's a section on the lineup and first half performance and then the second half performance and substitutions. There's some analysis of individual performances as well as big picture discussion about what's happening to the season and why. There's some talk about the state of the squad and then the pod concludes with a bit on what Arsenal needs to do with the remaining six games in the season. All that and more on this edition of the ArsenalVision Podcast. Signup for our Patreon at patreon.com/arsenalvisionpodcast Interested in advertising on this podcast? Email sales@bluewirepods.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices