Podcast appearances and mentions of Janet O Hagberg

In Episode 2 of Season 5, hosts Shane Pruitt, Paul Worcester, and Lacey Villasenor meet with Brandon Gilbert and Cody Carroll, the residency director and college director of Redeemer Church in Lubbock, Texas. Tune in as the GenSend team unpacks the impact and inner workings of the residency program at Redeemer from those who have led, built out, and participated in the early days of the program. Be inspired to raise up the next generation of ministry leaders through a meaningful residency that can change lives—and leadership trajectories—for the gospel. Also in this episode: The benefits of support raising and how you can get started with confidence Why grittiness, creativity, hunger, accountability, and teachability are essentials for prospective residents Why seminary and residency training do not have to be at odds within your ministry How you can effectively develop your program's interview and pipeline processes Why the freedom to fail is so vital for the next generation of ministry leaders  Helpful Resources: Calling Out the Called by Scott Pace and Shane Pruitt Reliant Mission The Pilgrim's Progress by John Bunyan “Creating Your Collegiate Leadership Pipeline” by Paul Worcester and Wes Smith Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek Center Church by Tim Keller Gaining by Losing by J.D. Greear The Making of a Leader by J. Robert Clinton The Critical Journey by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich ★   Find more resources to lead the next generation on mission at https://GenSend.org ★   Subscribe to The GenSend Podcast on your favorite podcast platform. Shareable Quotes: “The biggest thing I gained was the freedom to fail, to learn what does or doesn't work, and to be really, really safe in the midst of figuring out if ministry was what God was calling me to.” —Cody Carroll “The skills you develop in raising support are the same kind of ministry skills that you develop when starting a new church or ministry.” —Paul Worcester “The people we want are hungry, faithful, available, and teachable. We're not looking for perfect, polished people. We're not looking for who has it all together.” —Brandon Gilbert “In college ministry, if you can create an almost staff-level, intern-level role, you can do a lot of good training and utilize their gifts through your college ministry.” —Paul Worcester “Is there a passion for the Lord and for spiritual disciplines? If we're having to convince people to surrender to a calling to ministry leadership, then that hunger for the work is probably not there.” —Shane Pruitt “Both seminary and residency training can be super helpful in sharpening you for the kingdom and for the local church.” —Shane Pruitt

Episode 133 In this episode, I share my personal experience with spiritual midlife crisis.I share about the difficult and transformative phases of my journey, including moments of doubt, deep introspection, and the deconstruction of my previously held beliefs and practices. Through this challenging journey, I discovered crucial resources that guided me to understand the stages of faith development and the significance of the 'Wall', a pivotal point in one's spiritual midlife. I emphasise the importance of integrating one's emotional and spiritual aspects and the crucial role of seeking support through spiritual direction and psychotherapy. Resource:The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. GuelichFalling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life by Richard RohrWhen the Heart Waits: Spiritual Direction for Life's Sacred Questions by Sue Monk KiddWatch this recording on YouTube.Follow me on my Instagram account @animann for more material on the integration journey and subscribe to my monthly reflections on Begin Again.CHAPTER MARKERSSee episode page for more details.TRANSCRIPTAvailable here.REFLECTION PROMPTHow have you experienced God's grace in moments of difficulty? In what ways do you need to trust that His grace is sufficient for your current challenges? Are there moments when you feel like you can't keep going? How can you show yourself compassion during these times, knowing that it's normal to feel this way? Remind yourself of God's compassion when you're feeling discouraged and trust in God, even when others don't fully grasp what you're going through.Support the Show.SUBSCRIBE | FOLLOW | SUPPORTSocial Media:Follow Becoming Me Podcast on Facebook & InstagramFollow Ann Yeong on Facebook & InstagramWebsite:Visit www.becomingmepodcast.com to leave me a message and sign up for my newsletter! To see where else you can connect with me or my content, click HERE.Support the Show:Monthly Support (starting at USD$3)One-time DonationLeave a Review:If this podcast has blessed you, please leave a review by clicking here.

Episode 132 In this episode, I introduce and share reflections from “The Critical Journey: Stages in the Life of Faith," by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich. This remarkable resource opened my eyes to the stages of faith development, reinforcing the crucial role of experiential learning and integrating emotional healing with spiritual growth. I share insights from each of the six stages described in the book, weaving in reflections on my own progression and the introspective challenges encountered, especially the profound impact of confronting 'The Wall' in Stage 4. My aim is to offer solace by sharing my story and insights on navigating the complex landscapes of faith, hoping it will resonate with others on their own spiritual journeys, encouraging them towards embracing their path with understanding and compassion.Watch this recording on YouTube.Follow me on my Instagram account @animann for more material on the integration journey and subscribe to my monthly reflections on Begin Again.CHAPTER MARKERS(00:00:22) - Introduction(00:00:59) - Resource Introduction(00:02:05) - Discovering "The Critical Journey"(00:05:05) - Stages of Faith Development(00:13:50) - Stage 1: Recogition of God(00:15:09) - Stage 2: Life of Discpleship(00:17:34) - Stage 3: The Productive Life(00:22:13) - Stage 4: The Journey Inward(00:35:06) - Stage 5: The Journey Outward(00:38:30) - Stage 6: Life of Love(00:48:13) - Final Thoughts(00:49:24) - ConclusionTRANSCRIPTAvailable here.REFLECTION PROMPTReflect on your own journey towards healing and integration. How has your awareness evolved over time? Consider how your ability to serve others has changed. Who are you best able to support now compared to the past? Recall moments when you felt truly seen and understood in your struggles. What made those moments significant?Support the Show.SUBSCRIBE | FOLLOW | SUPPORTSocial Media:Follow Becoming Me Podcast on Facebook & InstagramFollow Ann Yeong on Facebook & InstagramWebsite:Visit www.becomingmepodcast.com to leave me a message and sign up for my newsletter! To see where else you can connect with me or my content, click HERE.Support the Show:Monthly Support (starting at USD$3)One-time DonationLeave a Review:If this podcast has blessed you, please leave a review by clicking here.

What does it mean to be a “practicing Christian”? That's the question that Russell Moore and his guest, author John Mark Comer, consider on this episode of The Russell Moore Show. The two discuss Comer's new book, Practicing the Way, which welcomes people into spiritual formation through ancient practices. They talk about discerning God's will for our lives, how Comer decided to step away from his role as lead pastor of a church he planted, and what it looks like to invite people into discipleship. Comer shares how he met Jesus, what it's like to talk about God on the West Coast, and why so many people no longer resonate with American church services. They explore how churches can cultivate richer discipleship, the power of deep friendships, and the practice of contemplative prayer. Tune in for an episode that is replenishing, full of guidance, and sheds light on why being an apprentice to Jesus is less like learning chemistry and more like learning jujitsu. Resources mentioned in this episode include: John Mark Comer Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did. by John Mark Comer The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World by John Mark Comer Billy Graham Crusades Martin Luther John Calvin Where Heaven and Earth Meet: A Jesus-Centered Spirituality for Today by N. T. Wright The Critical Journey: Stages in the Life of Faith, Second Edition by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community (Revised and Updated) by Robert D. Putnam Friends: Understanding the Power of our Most Important Relationships by Robin Dunbar When the Church Was a Family: Recapturing Jesus' Vision for Authentic Christian Community by Joseph H. Hellerman Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian in Community by Dietrich Bonhoeffer Marjorie Thompson Mark Scandrette Eugene Peterson Do you have a question for Russell Moore? Send it to questions@russellmoore.com. Click here for a trial membership at Christianity Today. “The Russell Moore Show” is a production of Christianity Today Executive Producers: Erik Petrik, Russell Moore, and Mike Cosper Host: Russell Moore Producer: Ashley Hales Associate Producers: Abby Perry and McKenzie Hill Director of Operations for CT Media: Matt Stevens Audio engineering by Dan Phelps Video producer: Abby Egan Theme Song: “Dusty Delta Day” by Lennon Hutton Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are all on a critical journey. We are all finding our way in a broken world and hearts that are always being transformed. The two conversations on The Critical Journey that I had with Joe Chambers will anchor us into knowing a path that gives us clarity, direction, and assurance. In the podcast, Joe and I discuss a model of our own journeys to help us find our way forward through confusing times. In the two podcasts, we work through six identifiable stages of our pilgrimage in life. This week, you get "two" podcasts that you can enjoy, take your time in listening, and taking notes. Since we began the podcast four years ago, we've recorded hundred of hours of stellar conversations about the care of our soul. It's always so encouraging to get a text, email or letter from someone in the world who has benefited from them. One man wrote this: I started listening to a podcast called Potter's Inn Soul Care Conversations. Every single message resonated deep within me and was really helpful for me to reconstruct my faith around the principles that Jesus actually taught. It is a podcast of encouragement instead of conversation. It was full of hope instead of guilt and shame. A woman from Brazil wrote this to us: Although I am a member of a church, I feel that I don't quite fit in there at the moment. I had been feeling a bit alone spiritually and praying for God to send me people that had beliefs more aligned with what he had been leading me towards, and your podcast felt like an answer to my prayers. I remember listening to every episode and just weeping as I felt God's love and care for me. ​The family of listeners around the world continues to grow and by utilizing podcasts, we are able to offer stimulating conversations and opportunities to grow and mature in these challenging times. Please SHARE the podcasts to those in your spheres of circles that you think would benefit. We are watching the downloads edge closer and closer to 200,000 episodes being listened to since we started! What a milestone that will be for being a global resource in soul care! Thank you for your support! As summer continues, I will write you each week with a highly recommend podcast that you might have missed or didn't know about. Every blessing! Steve  SUPPORT THE PODCAST    ____________________________________________   SHOW NOTES How do we determine where we are on the spiritual journey? It can be 1 step forward, 2 steps back! This is what we call the Critical Journey, a model that includes 6 stages in our journey in Soul Care that we all experience in our journey with the Lord, moving toward a place of absolute being, and filled with the Father's love. 1. The Converted life – we become very aware of God and yield our life to his control. 2. The Disciples life - Very hungry with the things of god. Necessary to understand an understanding to walk with God. 3. The Productive life – we take the information we learned in phase 2 and begin to put it to work in serving the lord. The danger is an addiction to success, which eventually leads us to hitting the “wall.” 4. The Journey Inward - Moving from doing to being and letting go of the idea of “success” – complete surrender. 5. The Journey Outward - A renewed sense of calling and an integration of soul and role. Content with a more hidden life. 6. The life of Love - Deep, vibrant inner life that embraces your true self. **Download a helpful illustration that shows all six stages   RESOURCES MENTIONED The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich 6 Stages of Faith and Spiritual Formation Chart - DOWNLOAD John 21 - Peter and the disciples are fishing Dallas Willard Bio Return of the Prodigal Son - Luke 15:11-32 Moment to Breathe, Ep. 17 - Instructions for the Journey by Pat Schneider Moment to Breathe, Ep 18 - Between the Dreaming and Coming True by Robert Benson  

The early stages of our life of faith often require us to keep quiet about anything that might rock the boat with others around us. But a surprise is that subsequent stages do the reverse. Now we need to continually relearn what's true for us and then be fully seen for those truths. The transition can be a painful one! But then we discover rich rewards. Dave Schmelzer explores how The Examen (discussed in the last episode) can help us with this while also taking a deep dive into advice from the mystics (and from St. Mark) about the power of knowing and speaking our truth. Mentioned on this podcast:The Critical Journey: Stages in the LIfe of Faith, by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich

In many ways, the spiritual journey is about putting language to what is hidden in our souls. And in order to do this, many of us benefit from companions and mentors along the way. We need someone to help us ask ourselves: How do I leave “this” and move into “that?” And when we've reached some of those goals that once seemed so far away - now what? Join us for a conversation about our universal quest to uncover the emerging soul.Additional ResourcesBook: The Critical Journey by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert GuelichBook: A Hidden Wholeness by Parker PalmerBook: The Making of a Leader by Dr. Robert ClintonPodcast: Ep 58 Learning from Indigenous Wisdom #HerosJourney#Companionship#Mentors#Elders For Transcript: Go to the "Transcript" Tab. If you are in a player that does not have the Transcript Tab, use the link below: https://thecontemplativelife.buzzsprout.com/1642654/10354329-ep-63-spiritual-journey

In this episode, Jamelle explains that once you discover how you best connect with God, it takes discipline to do so. Discipline is making tough choices to better yourself. There are lots of great helps out there to get you started. But first, you have to just start.Recommended Books:Invitation to a Journey  by M. Robert Mulholland Purpose Driven Life by Rick WarrenCritical Journey by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. GuelichHelpful Apps:YouVersionWebsites: www.soulsheperding.org/spiritual-disciplines-list/    www.groundworkonline.com/blog/what-are-spiritual-disciplines

It can feel threatening when our experience of faith changes--or when someone else's does. Dave Schmelzer looks at classic wisdom from spiritual direction about what different stages of faith look like and about how to figure out both where we are and what we might expect is to come. Mentioned on this podcast:The Critical Journey: Stages in the Life of Faith, by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich

About a year ago I was introduced to a book called "The Critical Journey" by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich. It describes the different stages in the journey of faith and how the Lord works in each one of them. In today's episode, I discuss the stage called "The Wall", what it looks like, and why I think many people may be hitting the wall in 2020. Though not an easy place to be, there is hope and a purpose for this season! If you enjoyed this podcast, please subscribe so that you don't miss any future episodes! Wondering if our coaching service is right for you? We offer a free 30-minute coaching session for new clients! Request your appointment here: https://thejourneyhome.global/contact We love to hear from you! We read all emails and are active daily on social media. We typically respond no later than 48 hours. Here are the various ways you can connect with us: https://thejourneyhome.global Email - chrisho@thejourneyhome.global or euniceho@thejourneyhome.global Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thejourneyhome.global/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thejourneyhome.global YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbapfaILfy_O4enRdgLSC4Q/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thejourneyhome/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thejourneyhome/support

Michelle delves into Real Power: Stages of Personal Power in Organizations by Janet O. Hagberg. She explores the power continuum, the dark side of each stage, and more. From the back cover: "Janet O. Hagberg has written a dynamic book about power—real, personal power for forward-looking people in organizations who want to harness their own power for the common good. "I wrote this book," says Hagberg, "to transform the way we think about power and leadership. It takes people on a journey beyond achievement and success to a stance in which power comes from their inner core and they lead from their souls." There is no doubt that the world is ready for a new model of leadership. In this third edition, Janet Hagberg addresses much that she has learned from her readers. The result is a deepening of the descriptions of each stage, a new way to think about the dark side of each stage, new stories of each stage derived from her readers, a connection to the spirituality expressed at each stage, as well a description of "The Wall" between Stages Four and Five. Throughout the book, the author adds more of her personal story to illustrate her experiences and observations of each of the stages of power."

For the month of August, Michelle and Seth will be focusing on a new series dedicated to looking at the Stages of Power. Following the work of Janet O. Hagberg, they will spend this series unpacking each stage of change psychologically and apply it to the deconstruction process. In this episode, Michelle and Seth start things off with a Mental Minute. Then they look at the first 2 stages of power: powerlessness and association. They unpack what life looks like at each of these stages including work, relationships, and religion.

For the month of August, Michelle and Seth will be focusing on a new series dedicated to looking at the Stages of Power. Following the work of Janet O. Hagberg, they will spend this series unpacking each stage of change psychologically and apply it to the deconstruction process. In this episode, Michelle and Seth start things off with a Mental Minute. Then they look at the first 2 stages of power: powerlessness and association. They unpack what life looks like at each of these stages including work, relationships, and religion. 

For the month of August, Michelle and Seth will be focusing on a new series dedicated to looking at the Stages of Power. Following the work of Janet O. Hagberg, they evaluate the different definitions of power and look at the 6 stages of power people go through in their life from a psychological lens. Throughout this series, Michelle and Seth will bring in the ideas of how power pertains to spirituality, to our recognition of God and how it impacts functioning within religious idealism. Then, in the month of September, they will unpack "deconstruction." For this first episode, Michelle and Seth evaluate and discuss the differing definitions of power, looking at the 6 stages that people experience and their psychological impact. This podcast can be found on Mental Podcast as well as the Fade to Gray Network. To learn more about the podcast and engage with the community, check us out on Facebook and Marco Polo. Apple Links: Mental: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mental/id1502899441#episodeGuid=MentalPodcast.podbean.com%2Fa04db65c-01b9-3036-8946-774e495caf5c Fade to Gray Network:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fade-to-gray-network/id1518413107#episodeGuid=b233e37c-38f5-44ff-82b0-5b3bba0f4e9f

In "Life Hurts God Heals" Kurt and Chris discuss their weekly journey as they pursue a deeper walk with Jesus. Join them as they share their life experiences filtered through their perspectives on the scriptures. As you do, you will find practical ways to grow in your relationship with God and heal from life’s hurts. Kurt and Chris will visit the topic of: The Burdens We Carry. Email us at lifehurtsGodheals2020@gmail.com. Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Life-Hurts-God-Heals-110722477148627/ Resources: Critical Journey by Janet O. Hagberg(Author), Robert A. Guelich(Author). Stages of the Journey  

Beth Graybill - In week three we look at our own narrative journeys through stages of faith, including the liminal spaces between each stage. Beth also gives an encouraging word to those parenting through the order, disorder, and re-order stages of our spiritual journeys. Parenting Resources:   BOOKS: The Critical Journey: Stages in the Life of Faith by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich   Stages of Faith: The Psychology of Human Development and the Quest for Meaning by James W. Fowler   Faith Shift: Finding Your Way Forward When Everything You Believe is Coming Apart by Kathy Escobar (parenting section in the back)     PODCAST EPISODES:   The Bible for Normal People: Episode 40: Richard Rohr--a Contemplative Look at the Bible    Another Name for Everything with Richard Rohr: Parenting* *great additional resources included in the show notes for this podcast   The song at the end of this episode is Please Be My Strength by Gungor. _________ If you’re a part of the growing digital SBCC community, we’d love to hear from you! Drop us a note letting us know how you found us and what keeps you listening at: info@southbendcitychurch.com. You can also support the ongoing work of SBCC by giving at: southbendcitychurch.com/give. Just select the “podcast” option from the drop-down menu to let us know how you’re participating in the life of SBCC. South Bend City Church is a 501(c)3 tax-exempt organization. All donations are tax-deductible.

Markus Watson is a pastor and host of Spiritual Life and Leadership podcast. Today, Markus shares the story of how he found a new life with Christ after nearly losing his career. Markus tells us the story of how he gave up his Hollywood dreams, became a pastor, and suffered through false accusations of child porn. The accusations ultimately cost Markus his job but the experience led him to a richer, less performance-based faith. This story reminds us that suffering is often the tool with which the Lord shapes us. Listen to Markus' story now! Stories Markus shared: Growing up in Los Angeles as a pastor's kid Being a little judgey as a young Christian The stages of making a decision to live for Jesus Joining Campus Crusade for Christ and learning leadership skills Working in Hollywood and finding his priorities Discovering his passion when he started seminary How the ordination process helped him to let go of his Hollywood dream Moving to Kentucky to become a pastor Going home to California The call from the executive presbyter that changed his life Being accused of porn addiction and the resulting investigation The dark night of the soul he experienced during the investigation How this experience messed with his self-worth Meditating on God's love for him on a surfboard Losing his job to false accusations How suffering has changed him and his ministry Great quotes from Markus: To embrace preaching meant that I was letting go of something that I'd been holding on to. I've always believed God loves me unconditionally but in that moment, I finally understood. When I think of discipleship, I think of it in terms of becoming more fully ourselves. Resources we mentioned: Markus' website Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri Nouwen The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith, Second Edition by Janet O. Hagberg & Robert Guelich The Emotionally Healthy Leader: How Transforming Your Inner Life Will Deeply Transform Your Church, Team, and the World by Peter Scazzero Surrender to Love: Discovering the Heart of Christian Spirituality (The Spiritual Journey) by David Benner Life of the Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World by Henri Nouwen Abba's Child: The Cry of the Heart for Intimate Belonging by Brennan Manning Related episodes: Mary DeMuth and the Safest Place for Sexual Abuse Survivors Jim Barnard Finds Hope in Suffering through Community Misty Phillip and the Counterintuitive Ways of God Notice: JavaScript is required for this content. The post Markus Watson and How Suffering Transforms appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Laura Flanders is the Associate Lecturer and Chair of Training and Mentoring Curriculum and one of my personal mentors. Today, we talk about mentoring, what mentoring is, and how to go about it as both a mentor and a mentee. We take questions from my friends on Facebook about mentoring, and Laura reaches to her bookshelf to share the books and resources that have shaped her ministry in mentoring. Listen to our conversation now! Stories we talked about: Her role as a mentor at Denver Seminary How knowing and community relate Definition of mentoring that we can share Different kinds of mentors Being interdependent as a mentee How to take ownership of your own learning Discovering your bent in mentoring The mentors you probably didn't know you had Questions and answers from the audience Boundaries in mentoring Resources for mentoring Great quotes from Laura: The way we learn changes as we age. It's not easy to practice being known. Mentoring is a relational practice in which there is intentional pursuit towards growth and transformation. Listening is a peacemaking activity. Resources we mentioned: Laura's original appearance on Halfway There The Courage to Teach: Exploring the Inner Landscape of a Teacher's Life, 20th Anniversary Edition by Parker Palmer With: Reimagining the Way You Relate to God by Skye Jethani The Uncommon Individual Foundation Trust in the Slow work of God – Pierre Chardin Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts. by Brene Brown Spiritual Mentoring: A Guide for Seeking and Giving Directionby Keith R. Anderson and Randy D. Reese Big Questions, Worthy Dreams: Mentoring Emerging Adults in Their Search for Meaning, Purpose, and Faith by Sharon Daloz Parks The Mentee's Guide: Making Mentoring Work for You by Lois Zachary The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith, Second Edition by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich Laura's website, The Colorado Backyard Gardener The post Laura Flanders and the Mentored Life appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Jeffrey Tacklind is a pastor, spiritual director, and author. Today, Jeff shares his journey from trying to be his dad to serving a congregation as Jesus intended him to. Jeff shares how he chose a small church to serve, discovered spiritual masters, and why he wrote a book on the process of transformation. We also discuss the tension between the longing for glory and the humility of submission to the Lord. Along the way, Jeff shares plenty of personal experiences and I know you will be drawn deeper into God's heart for you as you listen. Listen to Jeff's story now! Stories Jeff shared: Pastoring in Laguna Beach, CA Growing up in Orange, CA in a Christian family The question someone asked him that changed how he sees people Trying to be his dad as he went into ministry How seminary affected his journey Finding his church and enjoying the community and diversity Wrestling with insecurity in his journey How God spoke to his heart The surf trip that served to remind him of the growth process How vulnerability sets the tone for relationship Being introduced to Henri Nouwen and Thomas Merton's work Why he wrote The Winding Path of Transformation Understanding the tension between glory and humility Great quotes from Jeff: I was just this kid growing up always asking questions and would kind of make everybody uncomfortable like I was asking the question we agreed not to ask. It's not that I left that story behind; it's that the story just got bigger. People don't need my advice right now. They need good questions. To ask the right question unlocks things for people. Resources we mentioned: The Winding Path of Transformation: Finding Yourself Between Glory and Humility by Jeffrey Tacklind Jeff's website After Virtue: A Study in Moral Theory, Third Edition by Alasdair MacIntyre Little Church by the Sea The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith, Second Edition by Janet O. Hagberg & Robert A. Guelich Related episodes: Richard Jacobson and Unchurching Laura Flanders and Her Bleeding Heart Phileena Heuertz and Christian Contemplation Notice: JavaScript is required for this content. The post Jeff Tacklind and The Winding Path of Transformation appeared first on Eric Nevins.

We are continuing the conversation this week with part 2 of the Critical Journey, where we discuss the next three phases we all experience in our journey with the Lord, moving toward a place of absolute being, and filled with the Father’s love.   As a review, here are the first 3 phases: Phase 1 – The Converted life – we become very aware of God and yield our life to his control. Phase 2 – The Disciples life - Very hungry with the things of God. Necessary to understand an understanding to walk with God. Phase 3 – The Productive life – we take the information we learned in phase 2 and begin to put it to work in serving the lord. The danger is an addiction to success, which eventually leads us to hitting the “wall.”   Phases 4-6 Phase 4 – The Journey Inward - Moving from doing to being and letting go of the idea of “success” – complete surrender. Phase 5 – The Journey Outward - A renewed sense of calling and an integration of soul and role. Content with a more hidden life. Phase 6 – The life of Love - Deep, vibrant inner life that embraces your true self. You can also download this illustration of all six stages, including the wall at the end of phase 3. https://bit.ly/30zXwfL   Resources The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich - https://amzn.to/2Zl0EzO Inside Job by Stephen W. Smith - https://amzn.to/2Zo9WLt     Resources Mentioned in the Podcast John 21 - Peter and the disciples fishing -  https://www.bible.com/bible/97/JHN.21.MSG Dallas Willard Bio – http://www.dwillard.org/about Return of the Prodigal Son - Luke 15:11–32 - https://www.bible.com/bible/97/LUK.15.MSG                   1 Corinthians 13 - https://www.bible.com/bible/97/1CO.13.MSG Moment to Breathe - Between the Dreaming and the Coming True by Robert Benson - https://bit.ly/2MIKvNS    

How do we determine where we are on the spiritual journey, a sort of marker that indicates our progress? It can be 1 step forward, 2 steps back. This is what we call the Critical Journey, a model that includes 6 stages in our journey in Soul Care. Today we will be discussing the first three stages (next week we will discuss the final three stages): The Recognition of God The Life of Discipleship The Productive Life Download a helpful chart that shows all the stages - https://bit.ly/30zXwfL   RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST 6 Stages of Faith and Spiritual Formation Chart - DOWNLOAD - https://bit.ly/30zXwfL The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich - https://amzn.to/2Zl0EzO Moment to Breathe - Instructions for the Journey by Pat Schneider - https://bit.ly/2HplT8E

If we want to keep growing in our faith we have to go deeper than merely reading a chapter of the Bible per day. That’s where lectio divina comes in. Lectio divina is a way of not merely getting information about God or about Jesus, but a way of truly experiencing Jesus. It’s a type of reading that involves silence and listening and receiving from Jesus his presence and his spirit.In this episode, Eric Nevins, host of the Halfway There podcast, shares about the transformative effect lectio divina has had on his life. THIS EPISODE’S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Eric Nevins is host of the Halfway There podcast.The book, The Critical Journey, names six stages of spiritual formation. Eric likes to simplify spiritual formation into four stages: The journey of meeting Jesus. The journey of learning Jesus. The journey of finding yourself in Jesus. The journey of loving like Jesus.Lectio divina is process by which a person can read and meditate on scripture.Too often we read scripture for content or to try to get a principle that we can apply too our lives. But that may not be the best way to read scripture for the purpose of transformation.Lectio divina consists of essentially five parts: Read the passage. Reflect. Remain. Respond. Return to the passage.To reflect and remain in a passage involves noticing or imagining what it might be like to be in the text.To respond is to say to God, “Here’s what I’m feeling. Here’s what I’m interested in.”In lectio divina, we surrender ourselves to the text and allow ourselves to be shaped by it.Eric has written several 8-day experiences to help people practice lectio divina. You can find these at www.ericnevins.com. There are two of these 8-day experiences. One is on Mark 1:40-45 and the other is on John 2:1-12.Eric can be found on Twitter at @EricDNevinsJr, as well as on Facebook. For anyone who is a Christian podcaster, Eric would love to invite you to be a part of the Christian Podcast Association Facebook page. RELEVANT RESOURCES AND LINKSEric Nevins Website: https://ericnevins.com/Halfway There podcast: https://ericnevins.com/series/halfwaythere/8-Day Experiences: https://ericnevins.com/jesus-willing-8-day-experience/Books mentioned: The Critical Journey by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. GuelichEmotionally Healthy Spirituality by Pete ScazzeroTo leave a review of Spiritual Life and Leadership: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spiritual-life-and-leadership/id1435252632— Links to Amazon are affiliate links. If you make a purchase through any of these links, I’ll receive a small commission–which will help pay for the Spiritual Life and Leadership podcast

Doug and J.R. catch up over the first few weeks of the summer and talk headlines from the Babylon Bee. Our guest this week is pastor, author, spiritual director and our friend Cyd Holsclaw. This episode goes deep into the framework and importance of spiritual direction. If you have questions around spiritual direction or have been curious for a while, this is for you. This is also a great resource for all those listening around the questions and movements that seem to push one towards wanting to pursue direction.Website:www.babylonbee.comBook:The Critical journey by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. GuelichIf you have any questions, comments, or thoughts for the show drop us a line, voice mail or smoke signal at dougmoister@gmail.com. We are a new podcast so we ask you to make sure to subscribe, write a review, and share this with other pastors and kingdom leaders. We hope to see the MMP community grow.Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Doug and J.R. catch up over the first few weeks of the summer and talk headlines from the Babylon Bee. Our guest this week is pastor, author, spiritual director and our friend Cyd Holsclaw. This episode goes deep into the framework and importance of spiritual direction. If you have questions around spiritual direction or have been curious for a while, this is for you. This is also a great resource for all those listening around the questions and movements that seem to push one towards wanting to pursue direction.Website:www.babylonbee.comBook:The Critical journey by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. GuelichIf you have any questions, comments, or thoughts for the show drop us a line, voice mail or smoke signal at dougmoister@gmail.com. We are a new podcast so we ask you to make sure to subscribe, write a review, and share this with other pastors and kingdom leaders. We hope to see the MMP community grow.

Sibyl Towner, Sharon Swing and Joan Kelley discuss stages of the spiritual journey, or stages of faith, using the model described in 'The Critical Journey' by by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. GuelichPlease explore www.onelifemaps.com to download a free introduction booklet to 'Listen to My Life: Maps for Recognizing and Responding to God in My Story,' that contains the artwork we refer to in this episode. You can purchase your 'Listen to My Life' portfolio on that website, too.Sharon Swing and others on our team offer one-on-one coaching or spiritual direction as guidance thru the 'Listen to My Life' experience in addition to virtual coaching groups that happen several times a year.Please join us for a virtual journey thru 'Listen to My Life' starting September 10, 2019 with Sharon Swing, Sibyl Towner and Joan Kelley. Find out more at: https://onelifemaps.lpages.co/september-2019-listen-to-my-life-virtual-workshop-landing-pageAudio Meditations as a Thank You for Your SupportWe're on a mission to help people recognize and respond to God in their story. Will you help?Our Patreon subscription, at http://www.patreon.com/onelifemaps offers you access to recorded audio meditations that are created to assist you in becoming self-aware and God-aware.Sibyl Towner and I (Sharon Swing), co-authored the 'Listen to My Life: Maps for Recognizing and Responding to God in My Story' visual maps, and we produce the oneLifemaps podcast along with our friend and Director of Facilitator Development, Joan Kelley.We are offering you the opportunity to support the continuation of the oneLifemaps podcast and the publishing of 'Listen to My Life' in and weekly audio meditations as a token of our appreciation.If we can serve you, please let us know by emailing us here.EquipmentWe've had some questions about our podcasting equipment. Here is what we use:RecorderMicrophonesMicrophone StandsHeadsetMicrophone Wind ScreensHeadset Extension CordsHeadset Cable SplitterThe links in this episode may give us a minuscule amount of affiliate revenue from Amazon, but they won't cost you anything at all. Thanks for the support. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sharon Swing is the co-author of Listen to My Life; Maps for Recognizing and Responding to God in my Story. Today she shares how listening and life maps aided her in her own journey and how she adapted it to help others in their journeys as well. Through multiple experiences she found where she was meant to be and how she could help people push on from where they are right now. She gives some of her tricks to life mapping and encourages us all to reflect on our own journeys. Listen to Sharon's story today! Stories Sharon shared: Growing up in the NW suburbs of Chicago in a Christian family How a baptism service captured her heart The experience that brought her to tears after college A charismatic experience that changed her life Why experiences needs to be added to how we learn about God Her first lesson in listening to the Holy Spirit Entering ministry at Willow Creek Association and then having to leave How she was inspired to create Listen to My Life The story that made her cry and helped her realize why she has to keep going Great quotes from Sharon: My experience was God was a cosmic line judge waiting to tell me if I was in or out of bounds. Our box for God is so small and so confided… and God kinda blows the sides off of it on a regular basis. God always met me very invitationally, lovingly and humorously. It's a seismic shift in perspective from discontent to contentment. Resources we mentioned: OneLife Maps website OneLife Maps on Facebook The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith, Second Edition by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich A Listening Heart by David Steindl-Rast One Life Maps Podcast Refresh your relationship with Jesus by changing your relationship with the Bible. Try my brand new Bible experience, Jesus is Willing: An 8 Day Experience. The post Sharon Swing and How to Listen to Your Life appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Billy Berglund is the Middle School Director at my church and has been a tremendous influence on my own children. Today, Billy shares the people, events, and heartbreaks that shaped him. The people who spoke into Billy's life stand out as he shares the stories of youth pastors, Christian rappers, and doctors willing to tweak his perspective and send him toward Christ. As we speak, Billy's future is a bit uncertain as he finishes seminary and begins to search for the ministry the Lord will call him to serve. At the same time, God's faithfulness to him has been displayed over and over again and whatever the future brings for this talented young pastor, it will be bright. Please listen and share Billy's story! Stories Billy shared: Growing up in Omaha in an large extended family How sports became part of his identity and the injuries that led him to basketball The leader that loved him through difficult seasons Developing a “functional image of God” of disappointment Learning to filter his ambition through John 3:30 at a camp Telling God he would do anything but be a public speaker Changing majors from physical therapy to Bible and theology Receiving an opportunity to mentor high schoolers Dating his wife Hannah and their crazy honeymoon The moment a doctor healed his perspective Moving to Colorado to go to Denver Seminary Great quotes from Billy: He is really pressing on me the question “Who are you becoming?” Do I really trust God? What does that look like? Resources we mentioned (contains Amazon Affiliate links which pay a small commission to me if you use them): The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith, Second Edition by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich With: Reimagining the Way You Relate to God by Skye Jethani Laura Flanders Jesus and My Bleeding Heart Billy's sermons at South Fellowship: Heart Check and Stand Alone Contact Billy via Facebook or Twitter Notice: JavaScript is required for this content. The post Billy Berglund and Trusting God in Uncertain Times appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Allen believes the church is for cultivating story.  So let’s talk about that. And in this episode, the hosts answer “Ask Me Anything” questions submitted by listeners, including science and miracles, spiritual formation for children, and revisiting pacifism. Cultivating Story Conversation (00:55) AMA Segment (31:02) RELEVANT LINKS  From Our Cultivating Story Conversation Intersections Roundtable – A Community of EXvangelicals and UNfundies – 113 (Irenicast Episode) Field of Dreams (1989 Film) Brian's Song (1971 TV Film) The Simpsons (TV Show)   StoryCorps (Non-Profit Organization)   From Our Irenicast AMA Segment A Christian Response to War – Finding A Third Way – 002 (Irenicast Episode) Israeli forces kill 16 Palestinians in Gaza border protests: Gaza medics (Article) Delonte Gholston Facebook Status Center for Prophetic Imagination (Non-Profit Organization) Interview with Author Mark Van Steenwyk – 062 (Irenicast Episode) Dietrich Bonhoeffer (Theologian) The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith by Janet O. Hagberg (Book - Amazon Affiliate Link) Matthew Paul Turner When God Made You (Children’s Book - Amazon Affiliate Link) When God Made Light (Children’s Book - Amazon Affiliate Link) Marie-Helene Delval Psalms for Young Children (Children’s Book - Amazon Affiliate Link) Images of God for Young Children (Children’s Book - Amazon Affiliate Link) Godly Play (Foundation) Hume on Miracles - Philosophy Tube (YouTube Video) Baruch Spinoza's Physical Theory Miracles: The Credibility of the New Testament Accounts by Craig S. Keener (Book - Amazon Affiliate Link) Halloween and the Supernatural – Paranormal Proclivities – 034 (Irenicast Episode) Reconciling Scripture with Science – EVILution – 003 (Irenicast Episode) Mike McHargue (Author & Podcaster) Finding God in the Waves by Mike McHargue (Book - Amazon Affiliate Link) THANK YOU Thank you to all the listeners that submitted questions for this episode, we are so grateful for your participation in the conversation. YOUR SUPPORT Thank you for listening to Irenicast.  If you appreciate the show please consider sharing your appreciation by rating, reviewing and/or subscribing to the podcast on iTunes, Google Play, Stitcher, or whatever platform you’re listening on. You can also help support the show financially by going to irenicast.com/amazon to do your Amazon shopping.  This will cost you nothing, but Amazon will give a portion of the proceeds to the show. IRENCAST HOSTS Jeff Manildi | co-host and producer | jeff@irenicast.com Jeff is the husband to an incredibly strong woman and father of two captivating young ladies.  He is currently the Director of Discipleship at a United Methodist church on the central coast of California.  In addition to getting his B.A. in Theology, he also received his ordination through the prestigious online organization of The Universal Life Church whose alumni include the likes of Conan O’Brien and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson.  Jeff loves all things that tell a story: people, movies, tv, music, comics, etc. You can follow Jeff (@JeffManildi) on Instagram, Facebook & Twitter.  Also check out Jeff’s other podcast Divine Cinema. Allen O’Brien | co-host | allen@irenicast.com Allen received his B.A. in Biblical Studies from The Master's College and an M.A. in Theology and Biblical Studies from Fuller Theological Seminary, making him the illegitimate child of both conservative and moderately progressive evangelicalism. He has worked in church ministry since 2006 and is currently solo-pastoring at his local UCC congregation. When not ministering, Allen throws things to his border collie Sonata and writes for multiple platforms. You can follow Allen (@AllenOB) on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, & Good Reads.  Also if you are in the Sacramento, CA area check out Allen’s brick and mortar version of this podcast called Intersections. ADD YOUR VOICE TO THE CONVERSATION Join our post-evangelical conversations on faith and culture by interacting with us through the following links: Read Us on our blog Irenicon Email Us at podcast@irenicast.com Follow Us on Twitter and Google+ Like Us on Facebook Listen & Subscribe to Us on iTunes, Google Play, Android, Spotify, Stitcher, TuneIn, iHeart Radio, Spreaker and SoundCloud Speak to Us on our Feedback Page and the Post Evangelical Facebook Group See Us on Instagram Support Us on Amazon Love Us? CREDITS Intro and Outro music created by Mike Golin. This post may contain affiliate links.  An Irenicon is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to amazon.com

We take a look at The Critical Journey theory by Hagberg + Guelich, which looks at the external + internal spiritual journey.  We weave in a lot of Peter Scazzero's Emotionally Healthy Spirituality theory, and how important that perspective has been.   "You can't be spiritual mature if you're emotionally immature." Pete Scazzero The Critical Journey Drawing upon this classical vision of the Christian life and drawing from the work of James Fowler's seminal Stages of Faith, Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich, developed a stage theory model for the spiritual journey that they call “the critical journey.” 6 stages: First 3: the “external journey” (1) Recognition of God—a believer first encounters God and experiences the life of faith; (2) Life of Discipleship—one engages in the disciplines and practices of their faith; (3) the Productive Life—one moves towards a productive and active life working for God. Next 3, Inner Journey What do you think it ends with? (4) Inner journey, doubts and disappointments, loss of previous structures, church may not make sense DESIRE LINE! (5) Journey outward, toward others, freedom to be, no need to prove their faith or earn anything In love, submitting to God's perfect love We see love is all in all (6) Life of Love, union with God “For most of us the Wall appears through a crisis that turns our world upside down. It comes, perhaps, through a divorce, a job loss, the death of a close friend or family member, a cancer diagnosis, a disillusioning church experience, a betrayal, a shattered dream, a wayward child, a car accident, an inability to get pregnant, a deep desire to marry that remains unfulfilled, a dryness or loss of joy in our relationship with God, a building permit denied by the community for the fourth time.” Peter Scarzerro “The Wall experience”, Hagberg and Guelich explain, “is the place where psychology and spirituality, converge.” Ignatian Spirituality "Finding God in All Things" Check out this article on Ignatian Spirituality http://jesuits.org/spirituality You can't be spiritual mature if you're emotionally immature. Pete Scazzero Matt 23:26 "First wash the inside of the cup and the dish, and then the outside will become clean, too." John 1:1-5 (NLT) 1 In the beginning the Word already existed. The Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He existed in the beginning with God. 3 God created everything through him, and nothing was created except through him. 4 The Word gave life to everything that was created,[a] and his life brought light to everyone. 5 The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. With Spiritual Development, what you're going through, isn't chaos. It makes sense. Anything that brings up fear, or the unknown-- trusting God and seeking Union with HIM is what gets you through.

Ken L. Roberts is a former pastor and church planter turned author and life coach. Today he shares the story of how God led him to the sweet spot of his life. The story winds through the most challenging moments in his life including hitting a spiritual wall while serving as a pastor and the unexpected death of his wife. Ken shares that being on a deeper journey with God helped him through those difficult moments and led to his current period of ministry helping believers break through the wall and leaders “live well while they lead well.” Please listen and share with a friend! Stories Ken shared: Growing up as a pastor's kid and giving his life to Christ at age 7 Feeling called to ministry at age 17 The gap between what he believed and what they were doing Stumbling into new spiritual disciplines that refreshed his spirit The tragic death of his wife and choosing to embrace God in it Bringing together all the pieces to find his sweet spot The three nails he wants to pound for the rest of his life Great quotes from Ken: An animal won't come out unless you're quiet. Your soul is the same way. I'm more settled with mysteries than I used to be. Resources Ken mentioned: Unexpected: Navigating Life's Unforeseen Turns (Faith) Staying Power Life Focus Course The Making of a Leader: Recognizing the Lessons and Stages of Leadership Development by Dr. J. Robert Clinton Celebration of Discipline: The Path to Spiritual Growth by Richard Foster The Critical Journey, Stages in the Life of Faith, Second Edition by Janet O. Hagberg and Robert A. Guelich Notice: JavaScript is required for this content. The post Ken L. Roberts and How Hard Times Shape You for the Better appeared first on Eric Nevins.

God has a purpose for your life regardless of whether you’re adopted or not.  Paul Aubin is a Chair person for a faith-based organization named Convene focused on CEO’s building Christian based businesses and comes on to tell the remarkable story and mystery behind his adoption. “His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’ - Mathew 25:21   Married to a Women’s Pastor who works with couples named Margaret.  Together they have 7 children. Biggest Weakness - Because of his adoption he seeks validation and acceptance through sports and work.  Now he gets affirmation from God, but he still struggles. Biggest Strength - God has made it clear that he is to lead other men to be men of God.  To lead men from pride to humility. Dark Time - in 2000 things went bad for about 5 years.  When Paul lost his job, he lost his identity.  He went through financial issues, divorce, health problems and a loss of friendships.  The missing piece was a connection with God and other Godly men.   Soon after Paul was saved he met his wife Margaret who is a women’s pastor.  He desperately didn’t want to be less than in his faith. In 1991 he discovered that his cholesterol was very high.  His liver was creating too much and he needed to find his birth parents so that he could be properly treated. While at a business function he was given a sign from God in the form of an adoption seminar.  As it turned out there was a cover up to protect his birth father.   Paul tracked down his mother and talked to her for 45 minutes on the phone.  He flew 3000 miles to meet his mom and she said she couldn’t.  He had no idea how many people could be hurt. The investigator helping Paul named Nancy, decided that there has been a cover up.  She had a thought and found a man who was a family friend, that looked exactly like him.  The man named Ted  was a Catholic Priest.   He met with his family friend Father Ted for the first time and noticed the low cholesterol lunch.  Paul, addressed it with Father Ted and slowly the information came out that he’s found his birth mother.  Paul felt God’s hand on the meeting. When he got back to the hotel there was a message from Father Ted who wanted to spend more time with him.  They got together the next day and just spent time getting to know each other.  Paul drove away still not confirming. After Paul told his aunt Kris his suspicions, she went to her brother Father Ted and got him to eventually reach out to Paul and remove the mystery. Father Ted met with Paul again and gave him the whole story.  Father Ted told the bishop and was sent to Vietnam and became a chaplain war hero on the front lines. Paul later went to Harvard Business School and finally reached back out to his mom and met her for the first time.  He had a picture of his mom in his mind and when he met her she was completely different.  She was very attractive in a business suit and they sat down in a coffee shop at the hotel for 3 hours.  This was closure for Paul. Secrets of the Father - by Paul Aubin is his book about his story.  It took him 20 years to write. Advice for those who were adopted - Before you go on a search understand why you are doing it.  There are other lives at stake so tread lightly.  Pray about it as well and ask for guidance from the Holy Spirit. Paul used to think he was a mistake, but now knows that God does not bring children into the world by mistake. Recommended Book - “The Purpose Driven Life” - Rick Warren “The Critical Journey” - by Janet O. Hagberg, Robert A. Guelich paul.aubin76@gmail.com   For past shows and to learn more about the God's Men of Influence community, check us out atwww.godsmenofinfluence.org Join us on Facebook for our daily devotionals and updates and please like our page www.facebook.com/GodsMenOfInfluence    Help us spread the Word and please rate our show on itunes and leave comments for us. Tell us what insights you took from this episode.

God has a purpose for your life regardless of whether you’re adopted or not.  Paul Aubin is a Chair person for a faith-based organization named Convene focused on CEO’s building Christian based businesses and comes on to tell the remarkable story and mystery behind his adoption. “His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’ - Mathew 25:21   Married to a Women’s Pastor who works with couples named Margaret.  Together they have 7 children. Biggest Weakness - Because of his adoption he seeks validation and acceptance through sports, women and work.  Now he gets affirmation from God, but he still struggles. Biggest Strength - God has made it clear that he is to lead other men to be men of God.  To lead men from pride to humility. Dark Time - in 2000 things went bad for about 5 years.  When Paul lost his job, he lost his identity.  He went through financial issues, divorce, health problems and a loss of friendships.  The missing piece was a connection with God and other men.   Soon after Paul was saved he met his wife Margaret who is a women’s pastor.  He desperately didn’t want to be less than in his faith. In 1991 he discovered that his cholesterol was very high.  His liver was creating too much and he needed to find his birth parents so that he could be properly treated. While at a business function he was given a sign from God in the form of an adoption seminar.  As it turned out there was a cover up to protect his birth father.   Paul tracked down his mother and talked to her for 45 minutes on the phone.  He flew 3000 miles to meet his mom and she said she couldn’t.  He had no idea how many people could be hurt. The investigator helping Paul named Nancy, decided that there has been a cover up.  She had a thought and found a man who was a family friend, that looked exactly like him.  The man named Ted  was a Catholic Priest.   He met with his family friend Father Ted for the first time and noticed the low cholesterol lunch.  Paul, addressed it with Father Ted and slowly the information came out that he’s found his birth mother.  Paul felt God’s hand on the meeting. When he got back to the hotel there was a message from Father Ted who wanted to spend more time with him.  They got together the next day and just spent time getting to know each other.  Paul drove away still not confirming. After Paul told his aunt Kris his suspicions, she went to her brother Father Ted and got him to eventually reach out to Paul and remove the mystery. Father Ted met with Paul again and gave him the whole story.  Father Ted told the bishop and was sent to Vietnam and became a chaplain war hero on the front lines. Paul later went to Harvard Business School and finally reached back out to his mom and met her for the first time.  He had a picture of his mom in his mind and when he met her she was completely different.  She was very attractive in a business suit and they sat down in a coffee shop at the hotel for 3 hours.  This was closure for Paul. Secrets of the Father - by Paul Aubin is his book about his story.  It took him 20 years to write. Advice for those who were adopted - Before you go on a search understand why you are doing it.  There are other lives at stake so tread lightly.  Pray about it as well and ask for guidance from the Holy Spirit. Paul used to think he was a mistake, but now knows that God does not bring children into the world by mistake. Recommended Book - “The Purpose Driven Life” - Rick Warren “The Critical Journey” - by Janet O. Hagberg, Robert A. Guelich paul.aubin76@gmail.com For past shows and to learn more about the God's Men of Influence community, check us out atwww.godsmenofinfluence.org Join us on Facebook for our daily devotionals and updates and please like our page www.facebook.com/GodsMenOfInfluence    Help us spread the Word and please rate our show on itunes and leave comments for us. Tell us what insights you took from this episode.