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I enjoyed this book. I have mentioned it a couple of times on the podcast and probably encouraged you to read it. Join me this week for a book review of sorts. Peter Scazzero writes about ten symptoms of emotionally unhealthy spirituality. Using biblical principles, he works to focus individuals into a deeper, more meaningful relationship with God and others. It's worth the read. Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature
Justin and Megan Wright join us today to have an inspiring and thought provoking conversation on Emotionally Healthy Discipleship. Takeaways: Dick Foth highlights the pervasive nature of leadership transitions within ministry, leading to fatigue among individuals involved. Emotional health is integral to spiritual maturity, as articulated by Peter Scazzero, emphasizing the necessity of integrating both aspects. The process of emotionally healthy discipleship involves introspection and understanding one's emotional responses to various stimuli and circumstances. Participants are encouraged to assess their emotional states and discern how these feelings connect to their spiritual journeys. A significant focus is placed on identifying and breaking free from the bonds of familial patterns that influence one's current emotional responses. The importance of slow, deliberate growth in discipleship is stressed, suggesting that true transformation requires time and reflection.
What if conflict isn't something to avoid—but something God actually designed for our growth? In this episode, Jessie, Chris and Jacob dive into the messiness of relationships, discipleship, and community. With stories ranging from roller derby and MMA training to awkward church staff meetings and theological tension, this conversation explores how conflict, when embraced and handled well, can become a catalyst for transformation. Whether you're navigating hard conversations in your church, your marriage, or your leadership team, this episode offers wisdom, laughter, and practical insight into how messiness might just be part of God's good and perfect design. ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
What does it mean to disciple people who carry unseen wounds? In this episode, Jessie Cruickshank explores trauma-informed discipleship—what it is, why it matters, and how it can transform the way we help others grow in Christ. Jessie shares how neuroscience and spiritual formation intersect, the importance of psychological safety in Christian community, and how leaders can create spaces where people can heal and be formed into the likeness of Jesus. Whether you're a pastor, small group leader, or someone walking alongside others, this conversation offers practical insight and deep encouragement. ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Some might believe that brokenness leads only to suffering, but what if our pain could be transformed into something beautiful? In this episode of The Beauty in Brokenness, I explore how aligning with God shifts our experience of trials, reducing suffering and bringing healing, purpose, and peace. When we surrender our wounds to God, He doesn't let them go to waste. Instead, He uses them to refine us, draw us closer to Him, and reveal His glory in our lives. Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical encouragement, I'll discuss how trusting in God allows us to experience restoration rather than despair. Key Scriptures for This Episode: ✨ Romans 8:28 – God works all things for good when we trust Him. ✨ Psalm 147:3 – He heals the brokenhearted. ✨ Isaiah 26:3 – Perfect peace comes through surrender. ✨ 2 Corinthians 12:9 – His strength is made perfect in our weakness. ✨ Psalm 30:5 – Joy comes after sorrow. If you've ever felt trapped in your pain or wondered if there's purpose in your brokenness, this episode is for you. Tune in and discover how God transforms suffering into something sacred when we surrender it to Him. If you want to learn more about the membership go here: https://danacanneto.com/luminary-woman-membership/ If you are looking for ways to share your gifts and how to monetize them as well as learn how to create multiple streams of income to serve and support the Kingdom, go here: https://www.theluminarylifestyle.com/ Few books I am currently reading: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero - https://amzn.to/3Rlzlh8 Soul Care - 7 Transformational Principles for a Healthy Soul - https://amzn.to/4l22eN1 If you are interested in sharing your story on my podcast or have questions or just want to get support, you can email me at dana@danacanneto.com All other ways to find me here: https://linktr.ee/danacanneto Be sure to subscribe, share and like this video to help more people to find their way here!
Year End Emo Eval (p.1) - HCP 234On this podcast Larry, Heidi and Drew discuss the second half of Pete Scazerro's Emotionally Healthy Discipleship and the assessment he gives in that content. The points includeSlowing Down SpiritualityIntegrity in LeadershipBeneath the surface discipleshipHealthy CommunityPassionate Marriages and SinglenessEvery Person in Full-Time MinistryYou can find these ideas around Emotionally Healthy Discipleship and other products from Peter Scazzero at www.emotionallyhealthy.orgYou can email us at info@healthychurchpodcast.com orTo find more information about The Healthy Church Podcast go to:http://www.healthychurchpodcast.comor find us on FaceBook!
Year End Emo Eval (p.1) - HCP 233On this podcast Larry, Heidi and Drew discuss Pete Scazerro's Emotionally Healthy Discipleship and the assessment he gives in that content. The points includeSlowing Down SpiritualityIntegrity in LeadershipBeneath the surface discipleshipHealthy CommunityPassionate Marriages and SinglenessEvery Person in Full-Time MinistryYou can find these ideas around Emotionally Healthy Discipleship and other products from Peter Scazzero at www.emotionallyhealthy.orgYou can email us at info@healthychurchpodcast.com orTo find more information about The Healthy Church Podcast go to:http://www.healthychurchpodcast.comor find us on FaceBook!
Delve into the complexities of shared leadership within ministry settings. From navigating youthful leadership roles to handling crises in remote expeditions, they share personal anecdotes and insights on fostering healthy leadership cultures. Discover how embracing vulnerability, trust, and shared responsibilities can transform toxic leadership dynamics into flourishing team dynamics.The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jessie Cruickshank and the rest of the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.--ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Explore the pitfalls of conventional leadership paradigms and the transformative power of leading as the first follower of the Holy Spirit. Discover how attending to your own soul is the first step toward guiding others to fulfill their unique callings, fostering unity under the banner of heaven. Dive into practical insights and resources for equipping pastors and believers on their journey of ordinary discipleship. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that promises to reshape your perspective on spiritual leadership.The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the rest of the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.--ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Detangling leadership and discipleship unravels the common dilemma of feeling stuck as a leader. From personal anecdotes to profound insights, they navigate through the fears and insecurities that often accompany leadership roles. With honesty and authenticity, they discuss the transformative power of vulnerability, highlighting how embracing one's weaknesses and limitations can lead to spiritual maturity and freedom. Whether you're a church leader, parent, CEO, or simply seeking personal growth, this episode offers valuable insights into overcoming obstacles and embracing the journey of spiritual maturity. Tune in to discover how vulnerability can pave the way to a deeper understanding of God's grace and a more fulfilling life journey.The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the rest of the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.--ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Today Jessie Cruickshank, Chris Johnson, and Julia Schmaltz will delve into how shame can erode our faith journey. From its neurological roots to its effects on identity, discover how shame shapes our experiences and interactions. Explore the transformative power of connection in overcoming shame and embracing our true identity in Christ. Gain insights and practical tips for fostering authentic growth in discipleship.The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the rest of the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.--ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Explore the vital role narratives play in our spiritual development and how important it is to distinguish our story form God's narrative in the context of community. Narrative is the purposeful retelling of a story so our communities can shape our faith journeys. If we want to create a community that fosters spiritual growth, we will need to share stories of vulnerability, and accountability within a supportive community. Drawing from biblical examples and modern insights, they offer practical tips on nurturing authentic Christian fellowship. Discover how community profoundly impacts your discipleship journey.The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the rest of the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.--ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Jessie Cruickshank, Chris Johnson, and Julia Schmaltz dive deep into the essence of what it means to be an ordinary disciple. This episode challenges traditional notions of leadership and empowers every believer to embrace their role in the grand adventure of discipleship. Discover the transformative power of community, reflection, and revelation as we unpack the journey of faith together. Don't miss out on this enriching discussion!The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the rest of the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.--ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
In this episode, Jessie sits down with Rowland Smith to dive deep into the complex and often misunderstood journey of deconstruction within faith communities. Rowland shares insights from his unique role as a church leader, national director, and affiliate faculty member at Fuller Seminary. Together, we explore the significance of deconstruction for disciplemakers, the church's role in guiding those questioning their faith, and how the current cultural shifts mirror historic transformations like the Reformation. Whether you're in the midst of deconstructing or guiding others through it, this episode offers a compassionate look at faith, doubt, and the ongoing journey of spiritual growth.The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
In today's episode John and Jim do a quick flyover of three quotes from Peter Scazzero's book, The Emotionally Healthy Leader. Together they unpack the #1 assignment of every pastor—an assignment that if taken seriously, is the biggest contributor to a pastor's longevity and fruitfulness.
Jessie Cruickshank is joined by Dr Jim Wilder, a renowned psychologist at the intersection of theology and brain science. Jessie and Jim delve into attachment theory and discipleship and how our early attachment experiences shape our relationship with God and others, and discover practical insights for fostering joy and creating transformative community.The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Jessie Cruickshank welcomes Dele Okuwobi, the co-founding elder and senior leader at 21st Century Church, a church plant in Cincinnati, OH. Dele shares his insights on fostering love and unity within multiethnic church communities, tackling systemic biases, and his unique take on being a Transformer. Join us for an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation!The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
In this episode, I want to talk about how our past influences our present and future and why it's crucial to confront it. Sometimes, we need to go back to go forward. This leads us to explore these topics: My personal experience with holding on to emotional baggage and how it affected how I viewed God Common misconceptions about healing through religious activity alone Why we must go back to move forward: generational impacts, family patterns, and invisible scripts Practical steps for addressing deep-rooted behaviors and finding healing in Christ I also highly recommend reading the book Emotionally Healthy Sprituality by Peter Scazzero
In this episode, we explore the importance of asking the tough questions with Andrew Arnold, a passionate advocate for deepening one's faith through introspection and inquiry. Andrew shares his personal journey and the pivotal role that challenging questions have played in solidifying his strength in Christ. Whether you're on your own spiritual journey or seeking ways to deepen your faith, this conversation offers profound insights and encouragement.The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jesse Cruickshank and the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Kirstine kicks off our new series looking at Emotionally Healthy Spirituality based on Peter Scazzero's book. This week she looks at what might be making us unhealthy in our spiritual lives.
"Many of us are eager to develop our relationship with God. The problem, however, is that we can't seem to stop long enough to be with Him.” (Peter Scazzero). In our fast-paced lives, it's hard to slow down and notice God – but God created us in His image for a rhythm of work and rest. Come learn how to slow down and experience Jesus's invitation to simply be with Him.
Join Jessie Cruickshank, Jacob Hoyer and Chris Johnson as they dive into the practical issues surrounding discipleship. They tackle the question of whether everyone is qualified to lead a small group and explore the importance of setting appropriate expectations. With personal anecdotes and insights, they discuss the role of accountability, the feedback loop in discipleship, and the necessity of trusting the Holy Spirit in the process. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation that will challenge and inspire you in your own discipleship journey. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share with a friend!---The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jessie Cruickshank and the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Jessie Cruickshank and Jacob Hoyer tackle the tough question: What do you do when you feel called to make disciples, but lack permission within your church structure? Drawing from personal experiences and biblical insights, they explore the tension between feeling called and facing resistance. From stories of missionary work to navigating leadership dynamics, they offer practical wisdom on embracing humility, serving faithfully, and trusting God's timing. Tune in for a candid discussion on yielding to God's plan, even when it requires patience and submission in the face of resistance.---The Ordinary Discipleship podcast with Jessie Cruickshank and the Whoology team is a journey through the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and narrative to ignite the disciplemaker in you. Delve into the transformative power of storytelling, exploring how our brains are wired for transformation and discover the extraordinary in the ordinary. From understanding the biological roots of storytelling to unlocking the secrets of spiritual maturity, each episode offers insights to empower you to become a more effective disciplemaker and deepen your spiritual growth.ORDER Jessie's newest book, Ordinary Discipleship: How God Wires Us for the Adventure of Transformation → https://a.co/d/51j86DGFor more great stuff, check out: Ordinary Discipleship by Whoology: https://whoology.coFollow us on social media:https://instagram.com/ordinarydiscipleshiphttps://facebook.com/ordinarydiscipleshipFollow Jessie on social media:Instagram: https://instagram.com/yourbrainbyjessFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.s.cruickshank/Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourbrainbyjessJessie Cruickshank is a disciple-maker, wilderness guide, and ordained minister. She has trained thousands of people how to survive when their life depended on it and earned a Master's degree in experiential education at Harvard to learn how the brain works to help people train more effectively.The key to discipleship is not more information, but learning how to create intentional environments where people can learn and grow. By working with the brain and treating individuals as whole persons, you too can discover how God wired our brains for transformation. You already have all the tools you need, it is time to activate them in you and your church.
Pastor Dawn Jackson takes us on a journey from her early days at the pulpit to her influential role as a pastor and life coach. Her story is a testament to the power of embracing one's calling, breaking through the barriers faced by women in a predominately male-dominated sphere, and the sheer joy she finds in guiding others through life's peaks and valleys.Our heart-to-heart with Pastor Dawn illuminates the transformative initiatives of the importance of programs that support women in ministry, which are revolutionizing support for Christian women leaders. We touch upon the scriptures that anchor women's place in church leadership, with stories of Jesus's own regard for women as disciples. It's a discussion that underlines the strides made and the nurturing of a vibrant, faith-fueled community.Pastor Dawn's wisdom and strength have been a guiding light in my own venture into ministry and I hope she brings some light to your path of where God is taking you. It's an episode that not only celebrates the leaps made by women in leadership, but also seeks to embolden those ready to tread their own path with joy and unwavering faith.Make sure to connect with Dawn Jackson: Website: https://www.thiswayfaringlife.netListen to her Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-wayfaring-life/id1701008938 Follow on IG: @rundawnjackson Recommended You Tube Sermon on Women In Church Leadership: https://youtu.be/PKetqpnVI24?si=0h5PomICatwLDkS7Book Recommendations: The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown: https://a.co/d/4cltK5IEmotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero: https://a.co/d/7VbUjk5Connect with Leslie: Follow on IG: @yourjoyfulorderstyle Website: https://www.yourjoyfulorder.com/Email: lmartinez@yourjoyfulorder.com to schedule- Speaking Events, Interviews or Life Coaching SessionsListen to this Episode on You Tube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsXoAYIM2mfclNtYiaOzIUw Shop my Journal (Gratitude, Goals & Prayer Journal) on Amazon:https://a.co/d/09Djvaw Read Blog Here: https://www.yourjoyfulorder.com/blog/
Join host Julie Harwick on today's episode of the Women World Leaders' Podcast. As humans, we have a tendency to view our identity through the lens of what we do. But God is far more concerned with who we are. Could it be that we've been focusing on what is entirely the wrong thing? **** Welcome to Women World Leaders podcast. I'm your host, Julie Harwick. Thank you for joining me today as we celebrate God's grace in our lives, in this ministry and around the world. The beginning of another year always forces us to do some serious thinking. We think about the year that has passed: what went wrong and what went well. We evaluate our own performance so we can decide what we want to stick with and what might need to change. For many, this comes in the form of New Years' resolutions. A 2022 poll by Yougov revealed that 37% of Americans had a goal or resolution they intended to pursue in 2023. While everyone begins with the best of intentions, few follow through. A Forbes Health survey showed that the average resolution lasts just over three months. 65% of the respondents had abandoned their goals after four months and only 1% stuck with it through the entire year. Those statistics aren't surprising and some sources even refer to January 17th as “Ditch New Year's Resolutions Day” and others have named the second Friday in January “Quitters Day.” What these statistics really show is that many of us want to change…want to be better in some way, but we just can't seem to do it. We talk a lot about willpower, determination and setting ourselves up for success and yet, we fail, again and again. I've never been a resolution-making person, but I do want very much to change and not stay the way I am. Of course I want to lose weight and be healthier and handle my money better, but what I really want is to be more like Jesus. And if I could do that, I think everything else would probably fall into place. I know that's what God wants for me as well. In Romans I read that He wants me to be “conformed to His image,” and the Apostle Paul instructed us to be imitators of him as he was of Christ. So if I want this and God wants this, why doesn't it just happen? God has been revealing some answers as I've been thinking about this lately, and particularly through some books I've been reading. I've come to believe the problem has been that my focus is all wrong. Have you ever noticed how much we focus on what we do in determining our identity? For instance, what do you talk about when you meet someone for the first time at a party, church or work? We give our names and somewhere in the first few exchanges, someone asks, “What do you do for a living?” When we sit down at the dinner table, whether it's with the family, friends or a significant other, the conversation often begins with, “so what did you do today?” How many teachers have welcomed their class back after a weekend or a holiday or especially summer break with an invitation to share with the class, what they did over the time away from school? And don't we feel maybe a little bit judged in answering these questions? As a stay-at-home mom for many years, I knew my work was very important, but a part of me would always wonder if the person I was talking with would see it that way. And many of us might feel the need to describe what we do for a living in a way that makes it seem better than it really is. I wasn't particularly eager to describe my summer break when the only activity I could remember was helping to clean out the basement. It seems our actions rarely live up to expectations and yet, we're fixated on them. We've carried this kind of thinking into our spiritual lives as well. If we venture into a spiritual conversation with a co-worker, we are likely to begin with, “where do you go to church?” When we meet new people at church, we're apt to tell them where or how we serve in the local body and may even invite them to attend our small group or bible study. All things we do. It doesn't necessarily tell them anything about who we are, but we are eager for them to know what we do. In his book, “Emotionally Healthy Discipleship,” author Peter Scazzero points out that God created us to be “human beings,” not “human doings.” “Being” is not something we give much thought to, but we do think often of “doing.” Doing is easily understood and quantifiable. It's easy for me to recall and describe all the things I've done. But if you ask me to describe who I've been and who I am now…how do I answer that? In the last 30 or 40 years it's almost become cliché for celebrities to travel to some remote location to “find themselves.” What does that even mean? It's clear to me that we prefer to focus on doing rather than being because it keeps us safely in a world we understand, can easily articulate and doesn't ask too much of us. But will doing help us become more like Jesus? It could. Certainly Jesus did things. He traveled around, preaching and healing. He participated in worship at the synagogue, he visited friends, he ate and drank and attended a wedding. But how did He describe Himself? He never made reference to being a carpenter or a teacher. But He did say things like, “I am the way, the truth and the life,” and “I and the Father are One.” In the gospel of John, Jesus made six other “I am” statements. “I am the bread of life.” “I am the light of the world.” “I am the door.” “I am the good shepherd.” “I am the true vine,” and “I am the resurrection and the life.” Jesus continually showed that He knew exactly Who He was and His terminology points back to the Old Testament statement given to Moses at the burning bush when God said, “I am Who I am. Tell them the ‘I am' sent you.” In all of these “I am” statements, Jesus was making it clear that He was God. And throughout the Old Testament God often describes Himself that way too, saying things like, “I am the Lord and there is no other.” The book of Revelation describes a future when all of heaven will offer praise to Him Who was and is and is to come.” All of these scriptures point to a God Who is worthy of our worship because of Who He is, not what He has done. Another book I recently read and recommend is “Audience of One,” by R.T. Kendall. I was convicted by what I read, that most of my worship of God is concentrated on what He has done for me, rather than Who He is. Being grateful and acknowledging His blessings is important and necessary, but if He never again lifted a finger on my behalf, He would still deserve my worship simply because He is God. That's not the way I've typically approached worship, because again, it's easier and more comfortable to just recount all that God has done for me. Taking the time and intellectual effort to really contemplate Who He is doesn't come quite as naturally to me, but it's an effort I know I need to make. God keeps showing me that being vs. doing may go against my human nature, but it's His preferred method for change and growth. If you ever feel the same kind of resistance to it that I do, consider Jesus' conversation with Martha in Luke 10: 38-42. Three siblings, Martha, Mary and Lazarus had a special relationship with Jesus. John 11:12 tells us specifically that “Jesus loved Martha and her sister, Mary and Lazarus.” On one occasion, Martha had invited Jesus into their home to enjoy a meal and teach all who were gathered there. Throughout the gospels, we see many people following Jesus everywhere He went so they could listen to His teaching. We don't know how many were present at Martha's house, but even if it was just Jesus and His 12 disciples, that would be about 16 people. It wouldn't be surprising if Martha and her siblings invited other family members or friends to hear the teacher that everyone was talking about. Imagine the biggest party you've ever hosted and you might have an idea of what Martha was dealing with. Personally, I love hosting a party, but it can also be very stressful. Though I'm hardly a perfectionist, when I'm hosting a gathering, I want my house to be spotless, with everything in its place. I want the food to be ready on time, looking and tasting delicious. No matter how early I begin preparations, it always comes down to the wire. I'm frantically rushing around trying to complete a million details no one else may ever care about or even notice, but they seem critical to me. That's how I imagine it was for Martha. She couldn't help but be thrilled to have someone like Jesus as her guest of honor and I'm sure she wanted everything to be absolutely perfect. Scripture says Martha was distracted with all her preparations and she was getting rather perturbed that her sister, Mary, oblivious to her concerns, offered no help at all. I can so relate. There's nothing worse than rushing around in panic mode before a major event and seeing your loved ones who could be helping you doing something totally unnecessary or possibly nothing at all. From Martha's perspective, that's exactly what Mary was doing. When she reached her limit of tolerance for this situation, she didn't call Mary over and tell her she needed help, instead, she decided to go straight to the top. She walked right up to Jesus and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do all the serving alone? Then tell her to help me.” It almost seems like she might have been a little bit mad at Him too. She calls Him Lord, but there's an awful lot of attitude to go with it. But Jesus doesn't seem put off by her accusatory tone. I'm not sure if He's chuckling at her ruffled feathers or if there's a sad compassion in His response, but He says her name twice, maybe to make sure she really hears Him. “Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about so many things, but only one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen what is best, and it will not be taken away from her.” It was a gentle rebuke, but obviously, it was not what Martha expected. We're never told how she reacted in the moment, but I suspect His words replayed in her mind over and over. While it may have appeared that Martha was doing all the important work while Mary did nothing, Jesus saw the situation from a totally different perspective. Martha was consumed with doing. She was doing it for Jesus, as faithfully as she knew how, but it wasn't really needed and it was causing her to miss what He really wanted for her. Mary wasn't doing nothing. She was doing the only thing that mattered – sitting at Jesus' feet, just being with Him, listening to His teaching and simply enjoying His presence. Martha was doing. Mary was being. This had to be a major paradigm shift for Martha. The way she took charge of the preparations and challenged Mary's inactivity indicates that her identity was probably all wrapped up in successfully completing tasks. She was focused on serving others, which was a great quality, but it also brought her bitterness and irritability and kept her from something so much better. No doubt Martha meditated on what Jesus had said to her because when we meet her again in John 11, she expresses a new maturity in her faith despite a devastating loss. She had sent word to Jesus that her brother, Lazarus, was deathly ill, but He had delayed in coming and her brother had died. When she hears that Jesus has finally arrived, she runs to meet Him while Mary continues weeping in the house. “Lord, if You had been here my brother would not have died,” she begins, sounding a little like the former, accusatory Martha. But she immediately adds, “ but even now I know God will do anything You ask.” Jesus answers, “Everyone who has faith in Me will live, even if they die. And everyone who lives because of faith in Me will never really die. Do you believe this?” Her answer to His question demonstrates that she's no longer focused on just doing things for Jesus, she's come to a new revelation of exactly Who He is. “Yes Lord! I believe You are the Christ, the Son of God. You are the One we hoped would come into the world.” Martha's efforts to shift her focus from doing to being gave her a completely different perspective, grew her faith and led to the most incredible miracle she could've ever imagined. Jesus raised her brother from the dead! What miracles might we experience? What growth and freedom and joy could we find if we could also shift our focus from doing to being? If Jesus says sitting at His feet and just being in His presence is the best thing we can do, then that's what I want for 2024. It's a new year and I want a new beginning with my heart set on worshipping Him for Who He is and by His grace, finding my identity in who He created me to be. Thanks for listening to Women World Leaders podcast! 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Anxiety Sucks. Depression sucks. Like seriously, they're terrible. The sad reality of life is that many of us deal with mental health issues on a regular basis, and as leaders, we need to acknowledge that. In this episode, Philip and Seth talk about their experiences dealing with their mental health struggles, and how Jesus meets us where we are and loves us. Struggling with mental health does not make you weak. A Helpful Resource: The Emotionally Healthy Leader by Peter Scazzero.
Are you being your new 'true' self? Have you kissed your old 'false' self goodbye? Have you ever asked where these terms come from?? We bring back our good friend and original professional party pooper, Marcia Montenegro to discuss a Christian book that has been around for some time called, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero. This book shares attributes with many other Christian books and it's time we begin to look closer at what books are teaching and from where they get these teachings. Who better to look into the magnifying glass with than the former New Ager herself??Check out Marcia's Website: Christian Answers New AgeSupport the showPlease Rate & Comment!Hosts: Brandon and Daren SmithWebsite: www.blackandblurred.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/blackandblurredYouTube: Black and Blurred PodcastIG: @BlackandBlurredPodcastTwitter: @Blurred_Podcast
E33: In the second part of the interview, Kim Patton and Covyn Montemayor discuss how we can see emotionally healthy spirituality play out in our every day lives. Peter Scazzero's Website: Emotionally Healthy Discipleship - We Help Church Leaders Make Mature DisciplesTake the Emotional Health quiz here! https://www.emotionallyhealthy.org/Book Therapy Extra Sessions | Substack Sign up for a 7 day free trialThank you for your support and happy listening!For more content like this: visit www.kimpatton.com.
Sermon Notes "Every Christian has the same primary calling or vocation: We are called to Jesus, by Jesus, and for Jesus. Our first call is to love him with our whole being and to love our neighbor as ourselves. Biblical writers use many analogies to describe our relationship with God (shepherd/sheep, master/slave, parent/child), but marriage is perhaps the most comprehensive and "least inadequate." - Peter Scazzero, The Emotionally Healthy Leader Mark 2:18 NIV Now John's disciples and the Pharisees were fasting. Some people came and asked Jesus, "How is it that John's disciples and the disciples of the Pharisees are fasting, but yours are not." Mark 2:19-20 NIV Jesus answered, "How can the guests of the bridegroom fast while he is with them? They cannot, so long as they have him with them. But the time will come when the bridegroom will be taken from them, and on that day they will fast." Jesus is the groom; the church is His Bride. Revelation 21:2 NIV I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. "Throughout the history of the church, Christians have tended to elevate the importance of one over the other. For the first 1,500 years of the church, singleness was considered the preferred state and the best way to serve Christ. Singles sat at the front of the church. Marrieds were sent to the back. Things changed after the Reformation in 1517, when single people were sent to the back and marrieds moved to the front — at least among Protestants." - Peter Scazzero, The Emotionally Healthy Leader 1 Corinthians 7:32 NIV I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord's affairs—how he can please the Lord. 1 Corinthians 7:33-34 NIV But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 1 Corinthians 7:35 NIV I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord. "Scripture, however, refers to both statuses as weighty, meaningful vocations." - Peter Scazzero, The Emotionally Healthy Leader Ephesians 5:25-28 NIV Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. Matthew 19:11-12 NIV Jesus replied, "Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it." Born that way Made this way by others Make a choice for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven Marriage is intended to be a math equation where: 1 whole person + 1 whole person = 1 New Person 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 NIV Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. "Vowed celibates. These are individuals who make lifelong vows to remain single and maintain lifelong sexual abstinence as a means of living out their commitment to Christ. They do this freely in response to a God-given gift of grace (Matthew 19:12). Today, we are perhaps most familiar with vowed celibates as nuns and priests in the Roman Catholic or Orthodox Church. These celibates vow to forgo earthly marriage in order to participate more fully in the heavenly reality that is eternal union with Christ." - Peter Scazzero, The Emotionally Healthy Leader “Dedicated celibates. These are singles who have not necessarily made a lifelong vow to remain single, but who choose to remain sexually abstinent for as long as they are single. Their commitment to celibacy is an expression of their commitment to Christ. Many desire to marry or are open to the possibility. They may have not yet met the right person or are postponing marriage to pursue a career or additional education. They may be single because of divorce or the death of a spouse." - Peter Scazzero, The Emotionally Healthy Leader 1 Corinthians 7:17, 24 NIV Nevertheless, each person should live as a believer in whatever situation the Lord has assigned to them, just as God has called them. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches… Brothers and sisters, each person, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation they were in when God called them. 1 Corinthians 7:29-31 NIV What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not; those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away.
E32: How do you know if you are emotionally healthy? How do your emotions affect your spirituality? These questions may make us want to run away and hide, but they will help us get to the root of issues in our lives. Join Kim Patton as she interviews Covyn Montemayor covering everything from achievement addiction to our apathy toward limits. Part Two coming next episode! Peter Scazzero's Website: Emotionally Healthy Discipleship - We Help Church Leaders Make Mature Disciples Take the Emotional Health quiz here! https://www.emotionallyhealthy.org/ Book Therapy Extra Sessions | Substack Sign up for a 7 day free trialThank you for your support and happy listening! For more content like this: visit www.kimpatton.com.
She is an Enneagram enigma! You are going to love this conversation with writer, speaker, & enneagram coach - Jackie Brewster! Jackie is a full on delight! This episode is packed with heart and encouragement. I hope it hits home as much for you as it did for me! Check out her website with links to all of her books and resources - enneagramwithjb.com Instagram - @enneagramwithjb Show note - The book Jackie mentions that she is reading is Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero. Be sure to leave a enchanting 5 star review and tell a friend about the good times to be had listening to Maybe You're Like Me! For more info on the show visit - maybeyourelikeme.com Instagram Facebook Youtube TikTok
Voices In My Head (The Rick Lee James Podcast) - Episode 526 - Hang On or Let Go? This week, a short story about embracing God's gift of limits, from the book, Emotionally Healthy Discipleship by Peter Scazzero. PRE-SAVE “KEEP WATCH, DEAR LORD” BY RICK LEE JAMES
Voices In My Head (The Rick Lee James Podcast) - Episode 526 - Hang On or Let Go?This week, a short story about embracing God's gift of limits, from the book, Emotionally Healthy Discipleship by Peter Scazzero.Blessings,Rick Lee JamesPRE-SAVE “KEEP WATCH, DEAR LORD” BY RICK LEE JAMES
As we continue to examine the case study that is Mars Hill Church, we're asking a couple of questions in this conversation: First, how do we create faith communities that know what abuses of power look like and call those behaviors out? And second, how do we build environments that seek to be psychologically healthy for everyone? Our guest this week is Doug Shirley, EdD, core faculty with The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology with expertise in counseling, Divinity, and pastoral community counseling. Doug's passion lies in understanding and improving the emotional, relational, and spiritual lives of individuals in helping and healing professions. The sheer number of individuals seeking help for mental health issues following the Mars Hill debacle underscores the unhealthy nature of the church environment. Our conversation explores strategies for creating psychologically healthy spaces within faith communities, emphasizing the importance of two-way dialogue, accountability, openness, and honesty. Listener resources: This conversation references: Finite and Infinite Games by James Carse; The Priest in Community by Urban T. Holmes, III; The Emotionally Healthy Leader by Peter Scazzero; Life Together by Dietrich Bonhoeffer; Trauma and Recovery and Truth and Repair by Judith Herman, MD; the words and thoughts of Dr. Steve Call from The Reconnect Institute, Nadia Bolz-Weber, Resmaa Menakem, Brian McLaren, Dr. Tali Hariston, and Parker Palmer. If you are a Christian leader or pastor seeking a space for support, growth, and transformation for yourself or for your team, we invite you to participate in one of our cohort programs, called a Circle. To learn more and to get on the waitlist to be notified when our next Circle is offered, click here.
Y'all this one is the best one the bunch I think! These top four symptoms of emotionally unhealthy spirituality are actually really refreshing and life giving to unfold. We talk about: #7: not spiritualizing away conflict, #8: not covering over our own brokenness, failure and weakness, #9: not living without limits, #10: not judging each others spirituality. Y'all this one is gangbusters full of revelation and worth listening to. As you learned in each previous episode I am pulling this from chapter 1 in the book Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS BOOK!! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/javawithjen/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/javawithjen/support
Each of us has a deep purpose in life, but if we're not healthy we'll never fulfill it. Likewise, if we don't care for ourselves, we won't be able to effectively care for others. Join Jason as he talks about the importance of physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health and how to be honest with yourself when you're not okay.7:41 How Do We Know If We're Unhealthy? 13:13 Making a Routine27:00 We All Need Hope In Our LivesWatch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/sQhiKjquNIk To subscribe on our YouTube channel, head to https://www.youtube.com/@HopeInRealLife For more resources and information about the Hope In Real Life Podcast, check out https://gethope.net/hope-in-real-life/. After listening to this episode, do you have follow-up questions? Send them to hopeinreallife@gethope.net.Resources Mentioned During this Episode:Hope Quotient: Measure It. Raise It. You'll Never Be the Same. by Ray Johnston- http://hopequotient.com/Emotionally Heathy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero- https://www.emotionallyhealthy.org/
Get a tax write off when you give a financial gift to Java with Jen! Go to: www.PATREON.COM/JAVAWITHJEN ——————————————————— Are you tired of experiencing your own and other's Christianity that just feels broken? Maybe it's their unchecked anger, maybe its the constant tension in your relationships. Maybe it's the gossiping problem that keeps biting you in the butt. Well, it's likely that you're experiencing emotionally UNhealthy spirituality within your life or the lives of others around you. Your emotional health is directly connected to your spiritual health, and I'm sharing with you ten symptoms of emotionally unhealthy spirituality (pulled from the book "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality" by Peter Scazzero) and how to get healthier in those areas. In today's episode we will be covering #4, 5, & 6. Last week was #1-3, and next week will be the final four. It's a good one! For more on this topic, you'll want to check out episode #133: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality ——————————————————— Thank you for rating, reviewing and sharing the show on social media, this makes such an enormous difference on the reach of this show! Follow and tag me on Instagram @javawithjen or on Facebook @javawithjenpodcast , and share when you're listening to a show! I love seeing your posts
Supporting Java with Jen is now a tax-deduction as we are a non-profit under Free Life Missions! --> www.PATREON.COM/JAVAWITHJEN ——————————————————— Does it ever feel like your spiritual journey has a limp but you haven't figured out how or why? In this new series I'm going to be pulling from the book Emotionally Healthy Spirituality to dive into the top ten symptoms of emotionally UNhealthy spirituality... those things we do that are actually reflective of our broken spirituality rather than healthy spirituality. This is an important topic because many people go through life on a "limping spirituality" wondering why their relationships, finances, or experience with God isn't as fruitful as it "should" be... this might be why. Make sure you're subscribed to the show because this episode covers the first three, and the next couple weeks we will come back to the rest of them! Don't forget to share this episode with a friend who you feel would benefit from the content, and if you screen shot yourself listening and tag me in your stories, I'll reshare it! I love seeing who's listening! Love you! ——————————————————— BOOKS RECOMMENDED: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero: https://a.co/d/dIsTXVc The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown: https://a.co/d/cHMw8Ns ——————————————————— JEN'S FASHION WORKSHOP: www.Jsamuelstyling.com Thank you for rating, reviewing and sharing the show on social media, this makes such an enormous difference on the reach of this show! Follow and tag me on Instagram @javawithjen or on Facebook @javawithjenpodcast , and share when you're listening to a show! I love seeing your posts
Emotionally Healthy Discipleship Part 3 - Processing Grief & LossThroughout our lives, we all accumulate losses. Some are devastating or unexpected, and some are natural/expected losses. Regardless the severity, losses need to be grieved. If we do not take the time to grieve before the Lord, this emotional pain will continue to weigh heavy on our souls. In this lesson, we discuss Peter Scazzero's three phases of processing grief and loss, we go to the cross with Jesus and learn from him on how to deal with pain, and we touch on the need to lament (especially in the Psalms).Mark 8:34; Mark 15:22-33; James 1:2-4
This morning, Pastor Dale helped us look at the importance of looking back in order to go forward. We're often told to forget the past, that God has made us new. And yet, both the blessings and sins of our families going back two, three, even four generations can profoundly impact who we are today. Discipleship requires putting off the sinful patterns of our family of origin and relearning how to do life God's way in God's family.Your family and extended family are the most powerful influence/relationships into who you are as a human. The things learned, modeled, and normalized is in your bones. Each generation's failures make the next generation's environment in which they grow up even more difficult to be faithful to God and because of that, it's like a compounding interest of sin and destructive family habits that continue to accumulate over generations.“Unfortunately, it is not possible to erase the negative effects of our history. This family history lives inside all of us, especially in those who attempt to bury it. The price we pay for this flight is high. Only the truth sets us free.” ― Peter Scazzero, Emotionally Healthy SpiritualityEven as followers of Jesus we often bring all of the patterns, thoughts, and influences to how we read the Bible, how we see God, and how we relate to each other. The great news, the gospel is transforming, life-giving, and renewing.
This week, Pastor Dale continued our new series on Emotionally Healthy Relationships. This morning's teaching provided powerful insight into a natural behavior that often leads to conflict in our lives. Our natural tendency is to tell ourselves stories about another person's behavior. It may be a text exchange, an expression on someone's face, a gesture, a behavior. We tell ourselves a story of what it meant. When we do this, when we interpret, tell stories, make assumptions, and don't check for the truth, we do things that are destructive. We jump to conclusions about people and assume things based on our expectations and assumptions. When we do this, we are believing a lie and telling a lie about this person. Even if it's just in our minds, we could quite possibly be condemning an innocent person.“Every time I make an assumption about someone without confirming it, I am at risk for believing a lie about this person. My assumption is just a breath away from misrepresenting reality. Because I have not checked out my assumption with the other person, it is very possible I am believing something untrue and effectively bearing false witness against my neighbor. I am especially prone to this temptation when the other person has hurt or disappointed me. That also makes it more likely I will pass on my false assumption to others. When we exchange reality for a mental creation (a hidden assumption) we enter a counterfeit world. At that point we exclude God from our lives because God does not exist outside of reality and truth. We also wreck relationships by creating needless confusion and conflict.”― Peter Scazzero & Gerri Scazzero, Emotionally Healthy RelationshipsPastor Dale provided two things we can do to improve this unhealthy behavior:Stop Mind ReadingClarify ExpectationsIf you missed the teaching, we invite you to take time and watch it today as Pastor Dale provided very helpful context around the expectations we have, how they can be problematic, and most importantly, how we can clarify expectations with others going forward. When we do this, we become healthy people, a healthy church, and a healthy community.
This week, Pastor Dale began our new series on Emotionally Healthy Relationships. When followers of Jesus are not discipled emotionally, we may come to one of two conclusions:Emotions are bad and can't be trusted because they will change or are a sign of weakness, lack of faith, or doubt.Emotions are everything. How you feel is the truth. If something feels difficult, it must not be the right thing for you.We even have an emotion about other people's emotions. Our emotions affect our relationships, not only with others, but also with God. What Jesus taught and modeled was that our love for God was measured by the degree to which we love others. In fact, He was so clear about it, it would be unthinkable for His followers to think otherwise. And yet, they did – and so do we. (Matthew 5:44,46; Matthew 7:1; Matthew 5:23-24)Emotional Healthy Spirituality, as we will continue to unpack as we go through this series......is not about you feeling good, more relaxed, more at peace, or finding your inner self...is never about feelings over the truth of scripture - it's actually taking scripture at its fullest truth, and embracing Jesus' command...is about your ability to love wellThe marker of loving God well is loving others well. This can't be done if we don't mature emotionally and spiritually. Over the next many weeks, we are going to look at some things to help us be open, honest, and fully mature with our Father. For those feeling a pull to go deeper, you can find a link to Peter Scazzero's book here. There's also a community group that begins April 26th to discuss and learn together more about this important topic.
The Podcast Plan Mastermind- head to javawithjenpodcast.com to check it out! ---------------------------------------------------- Did you know, it's impossible to be spiritually mature while remaining emotionally immature at the same time. At least that's the premise of the book Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero. In today's episode you get to join me for a live recording where I was teaching an introductory class to a small group at church that I would then proceed to take through the workbook, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality. Now, much of the content taught in this episode is mine, however I do reference the book quite a few times. This is a topic I'm very passionate about and believe is sadly very under-taught and even misunderstood in many Christian circles, so I do my best to bring some light to this very important issue. We all are made in God's image, and that's not just our spirits that are...our souls are too! Our mind, will and emotions, are an essential part of the triune God head built into us, and we need to treat them with special honor and care as we grow in becoming like Jesus. I think you'll love this episode. Remember to share it with a friend (or three!) and post it to social media! Tag me so I can see it and give you a big digital hug! I love you, you're the best... let's jump in! ----------------------------------------------------- Treat Jen to Coffee www.PATREON.COM/JAVAWITHJEN ——————————————————— JEN'S FASHION WORKSHOP: www.Jsamuelstyling.com Thank you for rating, reviewing and sharing the show on social media, this makes such an enormous difference on the reach of this show! Follow and tag me on Instagram @javawithjen or on Facebook @javawithjenpodcast , and share when you're listening to a show! I love seeing your posts
It's easy to read about someone else's knotted up life but it's hard to uncover the knots in our own lives. Will Chenault understands the power of our stories and why they matter in light of God's larger story. You will appreciate Will's practical insight and wisdom as he leads us down a road that isn't as scary as we thought. If we don't tell our stories, our stories tell us. But we can't name what we don't know. We have to identify where the harm happened so the healing can begin. God wants to take those broken, shattered pieces and make something more beautiful than it was before. We are so excited to share this episode with you. "God is working. He's restoring. He's bringing hope. I wouldn't do this work if I didn't deeply believe that. But we have to do the hard work. It's a holy calling, entering into the stories of others with a view towards redemption." "If we don't do the work, a lot of Christians walk around with giant heads and shriveled hearts. We can know doctrine but not know how it impacts our relationships." "We cannot be spiriually mature unless we are emotionally mature." Peter Scazzero, author of The Emotionally Healthy Church. "I don't know where to cauterize the wound unless I know where you are bleeding." Will is now affectionately known as "Mr. Amanda" (listen to Amanda Chenault's Rambling Episode 74) Will is also the Soul Care Pastor at Fellowship Bible Church, entering into the lives of many people and helping them process things in their life at a point of need. Learm more about Soul Care & Story Groups and Will's counseling practice at The Pratt Clinic. The Sacred Romance by John Eldredge (one of Will's top 5 books that was monumental in discovering his life's calling) Learn more about Dr. Larry Crabb (the father of Chrisitan Psychology) and Dr. Dan Allender (a pioneer in training people to listen and work through narratives of harm–both their own stories and the stories of others–to foster truth, goodness, and beauty in all of their relationships). Proverbs 16:24: "Kind words are like honey— sweet to the soul and healthy for the body." We LOVE connecting with you! Join our Facebook group • Follow us on Instagram • Follow us on TikTok • Follow us on Pinterest
Welcome back to The Women's Cast. That's short for podcast, forecast, our cast of characters, and all the casts in between. This year, we're focusing on the theme of strength.This episode of “The Road to Refuge” finishes our conversation about taking refuge in Jesus by dispelling lies, distraction, apathy, and hustle through key spiritual disciplines. Our host Alison Mezger (central Women's Ministry director) sits down with Annette Haralson (North Equipping & Women's director) and Julie Kotulek (central Women's Ministry program coordinator) for a conversation about resisting hustle and taking refuge in Jesus through the practice of Sabbath.Episode TranscriptRecommended ResourcesThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, by John Mark ComerLong Obedience in the Same Direction, by Eugene PetersonEmotionally Healthy Spirituality, by Peter Scazzero
We are on Patreon! By becoming a patron, you'll get access to exclusive perks, such as early access to new episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and Listener Notes with steps to take action on the topics we share. Mentioned in this episode:Emotionally Healthy Relationships Workbook plus Streaming Video: Discipleship that Deeply Changes Your Relationship with Others by Peter Scazzero and Geri ScazzeroWhere you can find our hosts:Kimberly Amiciwww.kimberlyamici.comInstagram https://www.instagram.com/kimberlyamici/Jess Careyhttps://jessicacarey.coInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jess_careyaz/Noelle Rhodeshttps://www.noelleprhodes.comInstagram https://www.instagram.com/noelleprhodes/Everything we talked about in this episode can be found here: https://www.buildyourbestfamily.com/podcast/episode-201
Listen anywhere: https://practicallypastoring.com/ Practically Pastoring Conference 2023 - February 20-22, 2023! PracticallyPastoringConference.com Join our mailing list: https://bit.ly/3plt5so Frank - The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self by Carl Trueman - https://amzn.to/3UbeHiN Delmar - Preach: Theology Meets Practice (IX Marks) by Mark Dever - https://a.co/d/1zzn1wM Andrew - Shrink by Tim Suttle - https://amzn.to/3VdGxMx Jeff - Transforming Worship by Rory Noland - https://amzn.to/3XI0kFC Tim - The Emotionally Healthy Leader by Peter Scazzero - https://a.co/d/cJvIJLA --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/practicallypastoring/message
Take some "you time" today and hop on this podcast! Margaret Shull has been involved in human services for over 20 years as a pastor, teacher, speaker, and mental health counselor. This is Margaret's second time on the Collide podcast and this time she invites us to really analyze the hurried pace of our life, where we are getting our worth, and how to begin slowing down so we can burn bright instead of burning out! Let's be friends! Check out Collide's website for info on upcoming conferences, events, and resources, and follow us on Facebook and Instagram for encouragement, inspo and a fun peek into our ministry. Plus, subscribe to our newsletter to stay up-to-date on all things Collide! As promised, here are the resources we mentioned in the podcast. We hope you love them as much as we do. Collide Resources: Our Birds and Lilies Bible study for anxiety seeks to counter what some are calling “anxiety culture,” a phenomenon that impacts women across the world. The Counseling Bundle is a tremendous online course covering the 12 most common issues women face in counseling featuring tips, tools, and advice from mental health professionals. This course is a great fit for anyone considering whether counseling is for them, or as an option to begin the healing process while waiting to see a counselor. A 20 Day Walk Toward Gratitude is a beautiful guide with 20 daily invitations to enrich gratitude. Each day includes words of truth about gratitude, and reflective exercises including practical charts, helpful lists, and journaling space. Other Resources Mentioned: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World by John Mark Comer Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature by Peter Scazzero
Mitch and Chris are back this week with a really great topic and some excellent information and reminders for all of us. The book referenced in the podcast is called "Emotionally Healthy Discipleship" by Peter Scazzero. It's a great read that we highly encourage. Once again, if you are enjoying the podcast please give us a 5 star rating as that allows us to reach more people for the Kingdom. If you have feedback, questions, or topic suggestions, please email those to us at theologyinthedirt@gmail.com. Thanks for listening, we greatly appreciate it! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theologyinthedirt/support
Hello Beautiful Black Woman, Let's talk a smidge about legalism and how the pressure or influence to do everything by the book is what prevents you from allowing yourself grace. Write this quote down in your journal or stick it on your wall with a post-it: "Allow grace - not legalism - to be the foundation for your practice (Peter Scazzero). If you are curious about the book I mentioned, view it here* -> Emotionally Healthy Spirituality . **************************** This episode has graciously been sponsored by Fitbeads a company that offers self-care waistbeads handmade by Black artisans in Ghana. Treat yo'self and get 20% off when you visit www.fitbeads.co and enter code BGSC20 at checkout. *BGSC is an Amazon affiliate and as such, I may be paid a small fee if you purchase from the booklink above.