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People who have recently experienced the loss of a loved one or any kind of grief, often struggle to process this new reality, as Totally Fine author Tiffany Philippou explained to us on the "How To Be Books Podcast." Please hit subscribe to hear the whole series on life skills and social change! It should be short and sweet. I look forward to journeying with you through this maze of hacks.Trigger warning: This episode contains themes related to suicide.Other wonderful guests who took part:Mary Lamia, Ph.D., is a Psychology Today grief columnist teaching at college level and also in private practice. She is also the author of "Grief Isn't Something to Get Over."Other books/articles looked at:Joan Didion: The Year of Magical ThinkingIf you or anyone you know needs to speak to someone, you can phone the Samaritans in the UK at 116 123. For more information, visit the Samaritans website at www.samaritans.org. If you're in the US, The National Suicide Prevention Hotline is 1-800-273-8255. CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably) is leading a movement against suicide. You can find the website at www.thecalmzone.net.This episode was sponsored by Zencastr. Use my special link to save 30% off your first month of any Zencastr paid plan or the code "HowToBeBooks."
Dr. Mary Lamia joins us to discuss: Why a hug is so profoundHow to sit with shame instead of numbing/avoiding itHow shame is a death to the soulWhy nothing is alwaysHow to reconnect, restore, repair and find resonance Identifying our needs/wantsSuicide Prevention Summit: https://shorturl.at/aAEG1Sponsor:Is there something interfering with your happiness or is preventing you from achieving your goals? https://betterhelp.com/leo and enjoy 10% off your first month and start talking to mental health professional today!! 1-on-1 Coaching: If you want go from feeling hopeless to hopeful, lonely to connected and like a burden to a blessing, then go to 1-on-1 coaching, go to www.thrivewithleo.com. Let's get to tomorrow, together. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline988Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/International Suicide Hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.htmlhttps://www.nowmattersnow.org/skillshttps://sobermeditations.libsyn.com/ www.suicidesafetyplan.com https://scaa.club/
Just because it's the holidays doesn't mean it's a time of joy and happiness for everyone. Millions of Americans during this period struggle to just make it through the commitments, pressure, and difficult memories that these months bring. We speak with psychologist Mary Lamia about how to sit with your emotions, communicate with loved ones and set realistic expectations this month. Learn More: https://viewpointsradio.org/grieving-amidst-the-holidays
When two people share a passion, the interview topics fly out the window. Dr Lamia's new book Grief Isn't Something to Get Over: Finding a Home for Memories and Emotions After Losing A Loved One. was impetuous and brought us together. Dr Lamia shares why grief is considered a disorder in a person grieving for over a year. Is there such a thing as closure and why do we long for dreams of our loved ones or what's the science behind the bereavement process?These are just some of the facets of grief we dipped our toe into. Please join us at our kitchen table.For more information about Dr Lamia, psychologist, professor & authorhttps://marylamia.com
Today, we welcome Dr Mary Lamia, a clinical psychologist and a prolific author of many subjects. Our subject will be grief and Dr Lamia's new book, Grief Isn't Something to Get Over: Finding a Home for Memories and Emotions After Losing a Loved One.With a heavy but curious heart, we will discuss: — What is grief— What is prolonged and complicated grief?— Can we grieve something we never had?— How grief is tied to memory— And most importantly, How we can turn grief into something lifegiving Dr Mary Lamia is a clinical psychologist in Marin County, California and a professor at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, California. Teaching the public about the psychology of human behaviour has been her endeavour throughout her career. Please visit her website: www.marylamia.comThe book Grief Isn't Something to Get Over: Finding a Home for Memories and Emotions After Losing a Loved One: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09VKG7LGR/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0For more, Please visit: eggshelltherapy.comAbout Imi:imiloimilo.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/eggshelltransformationsNewsletters: https://eepurl.com/bykHRzDisclaimers: https://www.eggshelltherapy.com/disclaimers Trigger Warning: This episode may cover sensitive topics including but not limited to suicide, abuse, violence, severe mental illnesses, relationship challenges, sex, drugs, alcohol addiction, psychedelics, and the use of plant medicines. You are advised to refrain from watching or listening to the YouTube Channel or Podcast if you are likely to be offended or adversely impacted by any of these topics.Disclaimer: The content provided is for informational purposes only. Please do not consider any of the content clinical or professional advice. None of the content can substitute professional consultation, psychotherapy, diagnosis, or any mental health intervention. Opinions and views expressed by the host and the guests are personal views and they reserve the right to change their opinions. We also cannot guarantee that everything mentioned is factual and completely accurate. Any action you take based on the information in this episode is taken strictly at your own risk. For a full disclaimer, please refer to: https://www.eggshelltherapy.com/disclaimers/
An expert in helping others navigate their emotions, grief taught Mary Lamia how to come to terms with the unsolvable emotions after loss. That experience led her to conclude that grief is something to BE with more than something to get over, and that made all the difference. Her fifth book emphasized the point by declaring, Grief Isn't Something to Get Over. She now supports others to honestly allow grief to live inside them and evolve over time.
An expert in helping others navigate their emotions, grief taught Mary Lamia how to come to terms with the unsolvable emotions after loss. That experience led her to conclude that grief is something to BE with more than something to get over, and that made all the difference. Her fifth book emphasized the point by declaring, Grief Isn't Something to Get Over. She now supports others to honestly allow grief to live inside them and evolve over time.
An expert in helping others navigate their emotions, grief taught Mary Lamia how to come to terms with the unsolvable emotions after loss. That experience led her to conclude that grief is something to BE with more than something to get over, and that made all the difference. Her fifth book emphasized the point by declaring, Grief Isn't Something to Get Over. She now supports others to honestly allow grief to live inside them and evolve over time.
Kathryn interviews Author Mary Lamia PhD. Combining psychological insights with numerous case examples from her decades of work with grieving clients Mary Lamia PhD illustrates how loved ones who have died are always alive within us—regardless of spiritual beliefs. For Lamia, this book has become a deeply personal journey. She lost her mother at the age of 11, her father just 10 years later and, sadly, her husband of 44 years in 2021 just as she was completing this book. Although she agrees that it may be awkward to talk about the loss of a loved one—at least in the culture we live in—she illustrates that Grief has a rich meaning.” She educates the public about the psychology of human behavior by blogging for Psychology Today, Thrive Global, and Psychwire. For nearly a decade, she hosted a weekly call-in talk show, KidTalk with Dr. Mary, on Radio Disney stations.Kathryn also interviews Author Dr. David Wilcox. After 28 years in the health care business, Dr. David Wilcox has seen enough to realize that it truly is a “business,” as opposed to the kind-hearted healing service that most of us might imagine it to be. In his own words, he explores “what to do if you have to go to a hospital, how to handle an insurance company's claim denial, how to find an alternative to high-priced prescriptions and why the current pay-for-fee system is inadequate. He offers information, facts and tips that can help patients and family members navigate through the morass. His goal is to level the playing field, enabling consumers of health care to understand how to avoid getting caught in the systemic net. Dr. Wilcox has nearly three decades of healthcare experience as an ICU nurse, transplant nurse, hospital administrator and in health care information technology.
Kathryn interviews Author Mary Lamia PhD. Combining psychological insights with numerous case examples from her decades of work with grieving clients Mary Lamia PhD illustrates how loved ones who have died are always alive within us—regardless of spiritual beliefs. For Lamia, this book has become a deeply personal journey. She lost her mother at the age of 11, her father just 10 years later and, sadly, her husband of 44 years in 2021 just as she was completing this book. Although she agrees that it may be awkward to talk about the loss of a loved one—at least in the culture we live in—she illustrates that Grief has a rich meaning.” She educates the public about the psychology of human behavior by blogging for Psychology Today, Thrive Global, and Psychwire. For nearly a decade, she hosted a weekly call-in talk show, KidTalk with Dr. Mary, on Radio Disney stations.Kathryn also interviews Author Dr. David Wilcox. After 28 years in the health care business, Dr. David Wilcox has seen enough to realize that it truly is a “business,” as opposed to the kind-hearted healing service that most of us might imagine it to be. In his own words, he explores “what to do if you have to go to a hospital, how to handle an insurance company's claim denial, how to find an alternative to high-priced prescriptions and why the current pay-for-fee system is inadequate. He offers information, facts and tips that can help patients and family members navigate through the morass. His goal is to level the playing field, enabling consumers of health care to understand how to avoid getting caught in the systemic net. Dr. Wilcox has nearly three decades of healthcare experience as an ICU nurse, transplant nurse, hospital administrator and in health care information technology.
In her personal life as well as her practice as a psychologist, Dr. Mary Lamia, has become very familiar with loss. She lost her mother in childhood, at the age of 11; her father in young adulthood, 10 years later; and her husband of 44 years in 2021, as she was completing her most recent book—on grief. In GRIEF ISN'T SOMETHING TO GET OVER: Finding a Home for Memories and Emotions After Losing a Loved One. Dr. Lamia firmly believes. “However, we are not doomed to a lifetime of suffering from our losses. Grief has a rich meaning.” Combining psychological insights with numerous case examples from her work with grieving clients and her own experiences, Dr. Lamia illustrates how loved ones who have died are always alive within us—regardless of spiritual beliefs. For nearly a decade, she hosted a weekly call-in talk show, KidTalk with Dr. Mary, on Radio Disney stations.
In her personal life as well as her practice as a psychologist, Dr. Mary Lamia, has become very familiar with loss. She lost her mother in childhood, at the age of 11; her father in young adulthood, 10 years later; and her husband of 44 years in 2021, as she was completing her most recent book—on grief. In GRIEF ISN'T SOMETHING TO GET OVER: Finding a Home for Memories and Emotions After Losing a Loved One. Dr. Lamia firmly believes. “However, we are not doomed to a lifetime of suffering from our losses. Grief has a rich meaning.” Combining psychological insights with numerous case examples from her work with grieving clients and her own experiences, Dr. Lamia illustrates how loved ones who have died are always alive within us—regardless of spiritual beliefs. For nearly a decade, she hosted a weekly call-in talk show, KidTalk with Dr. Mary, on Radio Disney stations.
Bret Tovani, recently retired Marin basketball coach known for his outstanding work with teens and Dr. Mary Lamia, a clinical psychologist, professor, and author of 6 books including Grief Isn't Something to Get Over, The Upside of Shame, and Emotions! Making Sense of Your Feelings. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Bret Tovani, recently retired Marin basketball coach known for his outstanding work with teens and Dr. Mary Lamia, a clinical psychologist, professor, and author of 6 books including Grief Isn't Something to Get Over, The Upside of Shame, and Emotions! Making Sense of Your Feelings. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The loss of a loved one can be overwhelming. Grief can impact us tremendously, both mentally and physically. How do we endure grief? Can we simply forget, or "get over it?" In her new book, Marin County clinical psychologist Dr. Mary Lamia explains the science behind bereavement, from emotion to the persistence of memory, and shows people how to understand and adapt to death as a part of life. The book aims to expand our understanding of bereavement, placing it in alignment with how emotions work. Using numerous case examples and personal vignettes, Dr. Lamia's latest work helps people recognize the ways in which emotions are connected to memories and influence our experiences of loss. Dr. Lamia demonstrates how negative emotional responses experienced in grief often follow experiences with positive emotional memories. Please join us for a powerful conversation on understanding and overcoming grief. MLF ORGANIZER Patrick O'Reilly SPEAKERS Dr. Mary Lamia Clinical Psychologist; Professor, Wright Institute; Author, Grief Isn't Something to Get Over: Finding a Home for Memories and Emotions After Losing a Loved One Michael Krasny Former Host, "Forum," KQED In response to the COVID-19 pandemic, we are currently hosting all of our live programming via YouTube live stream. This program was recorded via video conference on May 101th, 2022 by the Commonwealth Club of California. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What Motivates Getting Things Done? Are you task driven or deadline driven? Modern research has shown that procrastination does not interfere with success, and that procrastinators and non-procrastinators simply respond to motivation in different ways. In this episode, Dr. Hallowell and Mary Lamia, PhD discuss how emotions compel us to act, and how shame and fear aren't necessarily a bad thing. Mary Lamia's book What Motivates Getting Things Done MaryLamia.com This Episode is sponsored by Landmark College in Putney, Vermont. It's the college of choice for students who learn differently. Learn more at http://www.lcdistraction.org This Classic Episode Was Originally Released in December 2017
What Motivates Getting Things Done Are you task driven or deadline driven? Modern research has shown that procrastination does not interfere with success, and that procrastinators and non-procrastinators simply respond to motivation in different ways. In this episode, Dr. Hallowell and Mary Lamia, PhD discuss how emotions compel us to act, and how shame and fear aren't necessarily a bad thing. Mary Lamia's book What Motivates Getting Things Done MaryLamia.com This Episode is sponsored by Landmark College in Putney, Vermont. It's the college of choice for students who learn differently. Learn more at http://www.lcdistraction.org This classic Episode was originally aired on December 19, 2017
Mary Lamia, author of What Motivates Getting Things Done. Topic: Procrastination, emotions, and success. Issues: The differences between task-driven procrastinators and deadline-driven procrastinators; tools to turn agitation and annoyance into affirmation and acceptance; helping procrastinators jump-start their system and make the most out of their time; much more. The post Turn Agitation and Annoyance into Affirmation and Acceptance appeared first on Mr. Dad.
Judith Orloff, author of The Empath’s Survival Guide. Topic: Life strategies for sensitive people. Issues: Are you an empath? How to stop absorbing other people’s distress; empaths and addiction; protecting yourself from narcissists and other energy vampires; empaths, parenting, and raising empath children; empaths and intuition; much more. Mary Lamia, author of What Motivates Getting […] The post Life Strategies for Sensitive People + The Power of Procrastination appeared first on Mr. Dad.
Kim speaks with Clinical Psychologist, Author, and Professor Dr. Mary Lamia, to discuss how to change our habits and behaviors. She also speaks to Crab Fisherman Tom Worthington about the Bay Area crab season and Sommelier Christopher Sawyer about champagnes to try this New Year's Eve. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Kim speaks with Clinical Psychologist, Author, and Professor Dr. Mary Lamia, to discuss how to change our habits and behaviors. She also speaks to Crab Fisherman Tom Worthington about the Bay Area crab season and Sommelier Christopher Sawyer about champagnes to try this New Year's Eve. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What are the surprising upsides to feelings of shame? How can you respond to shame healthily and constructively? Why should you always try to sit and listen to your emotions? In this podcast episode, I speak about Navigating Emotions After Divorce with Dr. Mary Lamia. In this podcast we cover: The upside of shame Four basic responses to shame Navigating shame in dating after divorce Listen to your emotions Sign up for the FREE e-course for processing and moving past divorce here. SHOW NOTES: click here Visit the website: www.afterthefirstmarriage.com
Mary Lamia, author of What Motivates Getting Things Done. Topic: Procrastination, emotions, and success. Issues: The differences between task-driven procrastinators and deadline-driven procrastinators; tools to turn agitation and annoyance into affirmation and acceptance; helping procrastinators jump-start their system and make the most out of their time; much more. The post Turn Agitation and Annoyance into Affirmation and Acceptance appeared first on Mr. Dad.
Judith Orloff, author of The Empath’s Survival Guide. Topic: Life strategies for sensitive people. Issues: Are you an empath? How to stop absorbing other people’s distress; empaths and addiction; protecting yourself from narcissists and other energy vampires; empaths, parenting, and raising empath children; empaths and intuition; much more. Mary Lamia, author of What Motivates Getting […] The post Life Strategies for Sensitive People + The Power of Procrastination appeared first on Mr. Dad.
I suspect we all mispronounce words from time to time. Either we learned them wrong or we get lazy. I know I usually pronounce affidavit as if it has a D on the end instead of a t because it is just easier. It’s wrong but it is easier. We start today’s episode by looking at some commonly mispronounced words because some people will judge you harshly when you don't say words correctly. http://grammar.yourdictionary.com/style-and-usage/mispron.htmlWhat happens when you die? Of course we don’t know for sure – or do we? Dr. Mary Neal is a medical doctor who drowned in a kayaking accident in Chile several years ago. She was dead for 30 minutes. But she came back. Wait until you hear the story she tells of her experience of dying and returning to tell the tale. Dr. Neal is the author of the best-selling book To Heaven and Back. (http://amzn.to/2yFC7EL)If you are a wine drinker, you have no doubt gone to take a sip only to see a fruit fly swimming in your glass. Should you toss out the fly and drink the wine or start all over? There is a little science you need to hear. https://www.winespectator.com/articles/can-fruit-fly-ruin-glass-wine-53891Why are procrastinators made to feel bad that they always wait until the last minute to accomplish a task? What does it matter as long as it gets done? According to clinical psychologist Dr. Mary Lamia, author of the book, What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions, and Success (http://amzn.to/2zGr0Md), procrastinators should stop feeling bad and stop trying to change. First of all it is almost impossible to change and secondly, there is no reason to. She explains all of that in today’s episode.
Breakups suck. Whether you've been dumped or you broke off the relationship, feelings of shame, sadness, desperation and loss can arise. Along comes the 'rebound' relationship and we're back on the crazy love train again. Listen to today's episode as we debunk some of the myths surrounding rebound relationships and how to best navigate them. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How the desire to be attached affects our desire for a new rebound relationship Is it wrong to get into a rebound relationship right after a breakup? Learn the healthy response to a break up and establishing a new relationship Why the cliche, 'time heals all wounds', is a bit mistaken Gaining new perspectives and experiences through a new relationship And much more! Dr. Mary Lamia is a clinical psychologist and professor in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is the author of five books, and blogs for Psychology Today and Therapy Today websites. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/191 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Join our 5 Day Couples Appreciation Challenge here: idopodcast.com/appreciation Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Hourglass Cosmetics: Get free shipping with your purchase of a full-sized Caution Mascara! Experience unparalleled, next-generation performance by visiting HourglassCosmetics.com/IDO, and use promo code IDO at checkout. Spark My Relationship Course: Get access to our special offer for I Do Podcast listeners only by visiting: SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah
In the last episode, we looked at how people make decisions in a world increasingly flooded with data. I talked with a panel of experts to understand whether gut-based or data-based decision making was more effective in business. What we deduced is that the best decisions are made when balancing both styles – and the worst decisions are made when you lean too hard one way while neglecting the other. But when you work with a team or with clients, your own decision-making style isn’t the only one that matters. So today, we’re looking at how to deal with different decision-making styles in order to alleviate potential conflicts and, ultimately, work better together with your bosses, your clients, and your colleagues. Learn more, and find the complete show notes, at flywheelassociates.com/podcast. Resources: Connect with Steve Brown on LinkedIn Connect with Kyle Loudermilk on LinkedIn Connect with Jen McDonald: Twitter | LinkedIn Connect with Dr. Lamia at MaryLamia.com Subscribe to the Strategic Momentum podcast: On iTunes On the Google Play Store On Stitcher Radio On Spotify Strategic Momentum is produced by Podcast Masters
In business today, being data-driven can be a major factor in whether you and the company you work for succeed or fail. The wealth of information that’s now available is helping us make decisions big and small, strategic and tactical... but we didn’t have all of this data in the past and people were still making good decisions every day. Without a world full of data, people were just relying more on their gut, their instincts. Given this shift towards data and analytics in decision making, I wanted to understand – is one style of decision making now more effective than the other? To help me answer this question, I talked to a number of experts across different fields to get their take: Dr. Mary Lamia, a psychologist who has spent her career studying and encouraging emotional awareness. Dr. Lamia has joined us twice on the show before, back in episodes 9 and 12, to discuss emotions and motivational styles. Jen McDonald, the Executive Director of Client Engagement at global marketing agency VMLY&R. As a 20 year marketing veteran, she’s worked across a variety of industries and has been at the forefront of the digital and data revolution. Kyle Loudermilk, the President and CEO of GSE Systems, which provides professional and technical engineering, staffing services, and simulation software to clients in the power and process industries. Steve Brown, a Director at Salesforce that’s inspiring growth of Salesforce Einstein by leading a team of talented Specialists committed to driving customer success. And Dana Cavalea, our guest in episode 24 and the former Director of Strength and Conditioning and Performance Enhancement with the New York Yankees Organization. Dana helped pioneer data-driven performance optimization in baseball, and now, Dana brings those same performance optimization techniques to business leaders, entrepreneurs, and pro athletes around the world. Learn more, and find the complete show notes, at flywheelassociates.com/podcast. Resources: Connect with Dana Cavalea: DanaCavalea.com | Twitter | Facebook | Instagram Connect with Steve Brown on LinkedIn Connect with Kyle Loudermilk on LinkedIn Connect with Jen McDonald: Twitter | LinkedIn Connect with Dr. Lamia at MaryLamia.com Subscribe to the Strategic Momentum podcast: On Apple Podcasts On the Google Podcasts On Stitcher Radio On Spotify Strategic Momentum is produced by Podcast Masters
On this episode guest is Dr. Mary Lamia - a clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst, and the author of the new book What Motivates Getting Things Done. We spoke about why it is important to have ways to create absolute deadlines, the role emotions have in personal productivity, the nature of distraction, and more. Some of the topics we discuss include: How specific deadlines combined with accountability can help Task driven people vs. procrastinators Why emotions are really what motives us A fear of failure is significantly present among those who are successful Why shame anxiety is a powerful motivation too Why distractions are not a bad thing The importance of focusing your stress Relevant Links: http://www.marylamia.com/ (Mary Lamia | Website) http://whatmotivatesgettingthingsdone.com/ (What Motivates Getting Things Done) https://www.amazon.com/Flow-Psychology-Experience-Perennial-Classics/dp/0061339202/ref=as_sl_pc_qf_sp_asin_til?tag=vardyme-20&linkCode=w00&linkId=4131de894ffea2ddf57e24461b4c5aeb&creativeASIN=0061339202 (Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi | Amazon) https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/intense-emotions-and-strong-feelings/201709/how-procrastinators-get-things-done (How Procrastinators Get Things Done | Psychology Today) https://twitter.com/drlamia (Mary Lamia @drlamia | Twitter) Hope you enjoy this episode. Until next time remember to stop guessing…and start going!
Returning guest Dr. Mary Lamia is a psychologist who has spent her career studying and encouraging emotional awareness. She is the author of numerous books for kids, teenagers, and adults, including What Motivates Getting Things Done and the upcoming The Upside of Shame (releasing 2/6/18). We explore the different motivational styles of successful people – task-driven and deadline-driven – and why understanding your own natural style of getting things done, while embracing those of others, will help you build and maintain strategic momentum in your business environment. Resources: Learn more at (http://www.marylamia.com/) Read: What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions, and Success Pre-order: The Upside of Shame: Therapeutic Interventions Using the Positive Aspects of a "Negative" Emotion (release date: 2/6/18) Production & Development for Strategic Momentum by Podcast Masters
Mary Lamia is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst who practices in Marin County, California. Additionally, she is a professor at the Wright Institute in Berkeley. Her career-long passion to convey an understanding of emotions to the public is exemplified by her writing and media work. She is the author of five books, including a recent publication, "What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions, and Success" and blogs for Psychology Today, Therapy Today, and Thrive Global websites. Resources What Motivates Getting Things Done (book) Dr. Mary Lamia (official site) Mary Lamia on LinkedIn Mary Lamia on Twitter
Are you task driven or deadline driven? Modern research has shown that procrastination does not interfere with success, and that procrastinators and non-procrastinators simply respond to motivation in different ways. In this episode, Dr. Hallowell and Mary Lamia, PhD discuss how emotions compel us to act, and how shame and fear aren't necessarily a bad thing. Mary Lamia's book What Motivates Getting Things Done MaryLamia.com Learn more about our sponsor, Landmark College, the college of choice for students who learn differently. Do you have a question or show idea for us? Send an email or voice memo to connect@distractionpodcast.com. Or call and leave a message at 844-55-CONNECT.
Dr. Mary Lamia is a psychologist who has spent her career studying and encouraging emotional awareness. She is the author of numerous books for kids, teenagers, and adults, including What Motivates Getting Things Done and the upcoming The Upside of Shame. We discuss how both positive and negative emotions motivate us, and the importance of our emotions, which can help us in business. Resources: Learn more at MaryLamia.com Read: What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions, and Success Pre-order: The Upside of Shame: Therapeutic Interventions Using the Positive Aspects of a "Negative" Emotion
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Mary Lamia is a psychologist, psychoanalyst, professor, and author. Her work centers on helping people foster emotional awareness. As a young girl, she became curious about the mind and how it works and began learning anything she could. this set her on a lifelong journey to understand and help others understand the human experience. We got to talk about her diverse work experience and how she found her way into what she does today. Including her recent book about accomplishment and procrastination and how to reframe those concepts. In this episode you'll learn: What makes us feel the way we feel and why it matters How Mary found her way into psychology as a young girl and the many twists and turns that her career has taken How encouragement from a surprising place helped Mary become a psychoanalyst The importance of mentors in helping you get through tough times Why Mary thinks Dan should be a psychotherapist The power of emotions to shape all of life, from your beliefs to career choices How procrastination isn't a bad thing How to find success in your own approach to achievement, whether you procrastinate or not The different ways that we are motivated and how to optimize your motivation style The importance of remembering and celebrating your successes Show notes: themeaningmovement.com/marylamia
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On this week’s episode we tackle a beast of a topic, procrastination. Shelby fesses up to her last minute tendencies and we talk with Mary Lamia, author of What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions and Success, to learn why so many people are procrastinators. And we discuss the different types of procrastination and some seemingly counterintuitive advice for beating them all.
Today we explore how fear affects us in business through the eyes of the incredible industry experts who have shared their wisdom on the show, as well as a subject matter expert who offers a lot of insight into the psychology of fear and motivation: Kareen Walsh, Founder and Solutions Strategist at Revampologist Andy Musliner, Founder and CEO of InRoad Toys Greg Johnston, SVP and Creative Director at AgencyQ Will Choi, President and CEO of Vertical Apps Dr. Mary Lamia, a psychologist who has spent her career studying and encouraging emotional awareness. She is the author of numerous books for kids, teenagers, and adults, including What Motivates Getting Things Done, as well as the upcoming The Upside of Shame. Resources: Dr. Mary Lamia: MaryLamia.com What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions, and Success The Upside of Shame: Therapeutic Interventions Using the Positive Aspects of a "Negative" Emotion Will Choi: VerticalApps.com Greg Johnston: AgencyQ Andy Musliner: InRoadToys.com Kareen Walsh: Revampologist.com
Dr. Mary Lamia joins the show to inform us that grief is not something to get over. We must learn how to accept loss and learn to live with the many cycles of grief. In addition to discussing how to navigate through grief we also discuss matching anniversary reaction, the importance of learning from emotional reactions and more. Brought to you by The Dee Dee Jackson Foundation. Don't forget to subscribe! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thepowerofloveshow/support
Episode 120 - Mary Lamia discusses her book What Motivates Getting Things Done and ways to harness procrastination, manage your emotions and boost your success in business. Mary is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst, as well as professor at the Wright Institute in Berkeley. Her book Emotions! won the Family Choice Award and you've seen her in places like ABC, Fox and the New York Times, Woman’s Day. She's a regular blogger at Psychology Today. Host Kevin Craine Everyday-MBA.com
Dr. Mary Lamia is a clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst, and professor in the San Francisco Bay Area. Dr. Lamia's career-long passion for encouraging emotional awareness in adults, adolescents, and pre-teens is exemplified by her books. She is the author of What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions, and Success; Emotions! Making Sense of Your Feelings; and Understanding Myself: A Kid’s Guide to Intense Emotions and Strong Feelings. She also co-authored The White Knight Syndrome: Rescuing Yourself from Your Need to Rescue Others and a forthcoming book, The Upside of Shame. Her blog posts for Psychology Today and Therapy Today web sites illustrates her endeavor to convey an understanding of emotion and its significant role in who we become.
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This is an interview with author Mary Lamia about her new book entitled "What Motivates Getting Things Done".
Mary Lamia, author of What Motivates Getting Things Done. Topic: Procrastination, emotions, and success. Issues: The differences between task-driven procrastinators and deadline-driven procrastinators; tools to turn agitation and annoyance into affirmation and acceptance; helping procrastinators jump-start their system and make the most out of their time; much more. The post What Motivates Getting Things Done appeared first on Mr. Dad.
Judith Orloff, author of The Empath’s Survival Guide. Topic: Life strategies for sensitive people. Issues: Are you an empath? How to stop absorbing other people’s distress; empaths and addiction; protecting yourself from narcissists and other energy vampires; empaths, parenting, and raising empath children; empaths and intuition; much more. Mary Lamia, author of What Motivates Getting […] The post Empath’s Survival Guide + Procrastination, Emotions, and Success appeared first on Mr. Dad.
Breakthrough Radio is a global business radio show that delivers high impact & pioneering knowledge for leaders in business. Entrepreneurs, startups, sales/marketing/IT professionals join us every Monday. Fractional CMO, Digital Marketing Strategist, and Leadership Keynote Speaker Michele Price bring you weekly access to the top minds to Master the Inner and Outer Game of business. Mary Lamia, author What Motivates Getting Things Done - Procrastination, Emotions, and Success. Finka Jerkovic, Fascinate facilitator, delivers Breakthrough tip on human behavior in business. Andrea Waltz, author Go For No and keynote speaker. Breakthrough Byte on your business success mindset. We love rewarding engagement. You are invited to visit radio show blog at www.TheBreakthroughRadio.com #BBSradio
According to our guest, teens often misunderstand and grossly mismanage their emotions. Moreover, many adults also misunderstand the role of emotions in teens and become enablers in the mismanagement of teen emotions. Our guests help us to help teens put their emotions in the right context and respond to their emotions in more productive ways. Dr. Mary Lamia is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst who works with adults, teens and children in Marin County, California, and the author of EMOTIONS! Making Sense of Your Feelings. Annie Fox, M.Ed. is an educator and award-winning author. Annie's books include: The Teen Survival Guide to Dating and Relating; Too Stressed to Think? and the new Middle School Confidential book and app series.