Spilling the Thera-Tea

How do you heal from the emotional scars of abandonment? This week on Spilling The Thera-Tea, Jess and KathyDan dive into the depths of abandonment trauma, revealing its origins and lasting effects on relationships and personal behavior.  We  explore the therapeutic paths to healing, from EMDR and CBT to DBT and IFS. Jess recounts her own journey through therapy, offering hope and practical advice for anyone grappling with similar issues. Kathy Dan delves into how attachment styles can shape our relationships, providing insights and tools to better understand and manage abandonment trauma. Whether you're struggling yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable strategies and emotional support to guide you through the healing process. **********************Resources:https://www.charliehealth.com/post/what-is-abandonment-trauma#:~:text=“Abandonment https://www.charliehealth.com/post/attachment-style-quizhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spilling-the-thera-tea/id1632302353?i=1000601378421https://www.npr.org/2022/02/09/1079587715/whats-your-attachment-style-quiz**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

What if managing self-harm could be as accessible as talking openly about our daily struggles? Jess and KathyDan dive deep into the reality of self-harm, shedding light on its prevalence and the importance of recognizing triggers before the risks escalate.We then explore how high stress, societal pressures, and the unprecedented impacts of the COVID-19 pandemic contribute to self-harm behaviors. KathyDan offers professional insights from her practice, highlighting therapeutic approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and mindfulness-based therapies that can help manage and overcome self-harm. The discussion shows the importance of a supportive environment where vulnerabilities can be openly discussed, aiming to normalize conversations around mental health. For those seeking hope and resources, this episode is a must-listen, offering valuable tools and perspectives to navigate these challenging times.**********************RESOURCES FOR TODAY'S EPISODE:https://www.hawaiipacifichealth.org/healthier-hawaii/live-healthy/8-mindfulness-exercises-that-also-reduce-stress/**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

This episode we are joined by  Leila Daugherty, Ed.S., the newest addition to the KDM team, as she  shares her unique perspective as a school psychologist in the public school system. Leila offers an insider's look into her professional world, discussing the challenges and triumphs of providing school evaluations both in the school system and also private evaluations at KDM. Our conversation turns earnest as we tackle the intricate process of diagnosing ADHD and autism, stressing the importance of comprehensive evaluations and the spectrum of conditions that can affect learning and behavior. Leila shares invaluable tips for parental advocacy, highlighting early intervention's power and the critical balance between screen time and outdoor play. So whether you're a parent seeking guidance or you're here for the blend of personal anecdotes and professional wisdom, this episode is valuable for everyone! Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

 This episode, we delve into how spirituality can offer a guiding light in therapy, particularly for those whose faith is intertwined with their quest for healing. We  take a step further into the sacred dance between spirituality and mental health, acknowledging its profound role within communities where church and religious practice are cornerstones of society. From meditation to journaling, we discuss alternative expressions of spirituality and their impact on fostering resilience. **********************MEDIA FOR THIS EPISODE:Armchair Expert reference of Vanessa Marin's podcast: Pillow Talkshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pillow-talks/id1569466131Resin For Connerhttps://resinforconner.com/**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

KathyDan and Jess are back for Season 2! In today's intro, they catch up on the happenings of life, what to look forward to this season and more! Grab your favorite tea, and join us as we embark on this new season!**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

With the threshold of 2024 beckoning, we pour our hearts into a conversation about personal evolution—shedding the weight of toxic ties and stepping into growth with determination. Our exchange reveals the vibrant words we've chosen to guide us through the new year, with "exuberance" and "today" lighting our paths like beacons of intent. Through laughter and earnestness, we probe the depths of self-acceptance, the art of saying no, and wrap up with a playful game that injects a dose of levity into our shared journey towards a year brimming with positivity. Join us in this light hearted episode as we lace up our boots for a trek into a year of authenticity, connection, and embracing the present moment.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Discover the hidden facets of child neglect with KathDan Moore and Jess Lowe, as we unravel the complex layers of this often-overlooked issue. Whether it's the lack of basic necessities or the subtler forms of emotional neglect, our latest conversation on Spilling the Thera Tea promises to equip you with the knowledge to recognize and respond to the signs. Join us for an eye-opening discussion that highlights the importance of community vigilance and the profound difference presence and attention can make in a child's life.**********************STATE CONTACT INFO: https://www.childwelfare.gov/organizations/?CWIGFunctionsaction=rols:main.dspList&rolType=custom&rs_id=5**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

IMPORTANT NOTE:This podcast is not meant to be a replacement for professional treatment. It is not a “do it yourself” EMDR therapy process.This is a clinical demonstration that can help existing EMDR therapist in their learning.The demonstration can also be useful in preparing clients for what to expect. However, EMDR therapy should only be conducted by a properly trained clinical professional. ** For time purposes, silent air time has been removed************************Imagine being held captive by your own traumatic memories, unable to break free from the distress they cause. Co-host Jess Lowe, shares her EMDR therapy session guided by skilled therapist Kathy Dan Moore.  Jess revisits a haunting childhood memory of almost being kidnapped, confronting the self-limiting beliefs associated with it. As we walk you through this captivating process, you'll witness the power of EMDR in altering negative cognition. Jess shares the vulnerability of her younger self, who lived in constant fear  of not being protected, and feeling the need to do all of the protecting. Listen as KathyDan guides her through an EMDR session, shifting her beliefs from fear to empowerment. Paying close attention to her transformation post-session, we conclude with a stronger, more resilient Jess, less susceptible to triggers that once bound her. Join us for an honest, insightful exchange on therapy, resilience, and the journey to healing.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Forgiveness is not an overnight process. It is a complex journey that requires identifying the source of your hurt and acknowledging your feelings.  We delve into the intriguing concept of unconditional forgiveness and how it can lead to personal growth and the capability to love again. We also provide an introduction to the 'reach method' for forgiveness, a strategy that makes the journey towards forgiveness more manageable and fruitful.Owning up to our mistakes and seeking forgiveness is a pivotal part of this process. This involves understanding the impact of our actions on others and seeking forgiveness without justifications. Self-forgiveness is a pillar in this journey as well. Join us as we discuss the importance of compassion, empathy, and respect in the process of forgiveness.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

What if the healing power you're seeking is right at your fingertips? That's right! This episode is a journey through the diverse landscape of therapeutic modalities and how the right fit can bring transformative healing. We delve into the world of exposure therapies, including in vivo, imaginal, and virtual reality exposure, and the compelling Internal Family Systems (IFS) model. We also discuss the importance of evidence-based therapy and the use of eclectic approaches. And we can't forget about our therapy pets! Remember, therapy is not one-size-fits-all, and finding your perfect therapeutic match can make all the difference.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

What if you found yourself entangled in the web of a sociopath or a psychopath? Would you be able to identify the warning signs and navigate your way out? We promise to equip you with the necessary tools to understand and recognize the traits of these complex personalities. We kick things off by defining sociopaths and psychopaths and exploring their distinguishing symptoms. Our discussion also covers the potential dangers of a relationship with these individuals and offers advice on setting healthy boundaries.We then get under the skin of these disorders, uncovering the differences between sociopathy and psychopathy. Looking at research on brain abnormalities in psychopaths, we contemplate how this could affect treatment options. Adding a grim yet intriguing twist to our conversation, we delve into the chilling tales of notorious figures like Ted Bundy, Elizabeth Holmes, John Wayne Gacy, and Billy McFarland. These stories serve as stark reminders of the potential damage these disorders can wreak. As we wrap up, we put Anti-Social Personality Disorder (ASPD) under the microscope. We examine how ASPD impacts those around the individual and the process of diagnosing this disorder. Additionally, we provide a comprehensive overview of the available treatment options. Our deep-dive explores the role of medication, cognitive behavioral therapy, and family therapy in managing ASPD. Join us for this captivating exploration as we demystify the enigmatic world of sociopaths, psychopaths, and antisocial personality disorder.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Navigating the bumpy road of co-parenting? Or perhaps you're dealing with an ex who's a narcissist or an abuser? This episode is designed just for you. We talk about complex co-parenting scenarios and the benefits of parallel parenting, with insights to lessen the disruption and chaos. **********************I've Had It! Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ive-had-it/id1650340709**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Ever wondered why your partner struggles to emotionally connect, or why they seem to be constantly putting a wall up in your relationship? Well, we've got the answers for you. Our latest episode is a candid conversation about emotionally unavailable people in relationships. Weshed light on the different archetypes of emotionally unavailable partners, such as the jester and the fixer, alongside a discussion on the role of avoidant attachment styles.Staying true to our promise of not only exploring problems but also providing solutions, we give you a practical guide on dealing with emotionally unavailable partners. We dive deep into how these relationships can impact self-esteem and unveil the role that understanding your Enneagram can play in identifying unhealthy patterns. Remember, being in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable partner can be tough, but understanding, acknowledging, and working through the challenges is the key. Join us as we navigate this intricate journey of emotionally unavailable partners and how to cope.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

***TRIGGER WARNING***THIS EPISODE DISCUSSES SUICIDE, LISTENER DISCRETION IS ADVISED.We're taking the plunge, unabashedly tackling a tough subject close to our hearts - suicide. Together, Therapist Kathy Dan Moore and grief coach Jess Lowe, are shedding light on this often misunderstood topic, discussing how to engage in conversations about it, identifying key risk factors, and ensuring the safety of those contemplating it. This episode is not just about spreading awareness, it's about making a real difference as we challenge the language we use when discussing suicide. Venturing deeper into the discussion, we touch upon the increasing occurrence of teen suicide, discussing the risk factors and prevention guidelines provided by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. We also delve into the connection between alcohol misuse and suicide risk, debunking myths, and providing guidance on handling crisis situations. Together, let's break the stigma surrounding mental health and suicide, and create a society where understanding and empathy are paramount.**********************988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineWe can all help prevent suicide. The 988 Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.Call or Text 988 for support https://988lifeline.org/The Bridge -Movie https://www.amazon.com/BRIDGE-Eric-Geleynse/dp/B01605UTXQ/ref=tmm_aiv_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1697722733&sr=8-6**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Ever grapple with feelings of shame or guilt? It's an often misunderstood emotional terrain that we're excavating in our enlightening discussion. We're navigating the key differences between these two emotions and their significant impact on self-perception and self-esteem. We unravel the power of guilt as a moral anchor, and reveal the potentially devastating impact of toxic shame. As we delve deeper, we focus on the critical aspect of managing toxic shame. Discover how mindfulness can aid us in challenging our shame-based thoughts and cultivating healthier thinking habits. We emphasize the importance of fostering a support network, and opening up to a friend, partner, or mental health professional about shame and the journey to overcome unprocessed trauma. **********************Book Mentioned in Episode:Gabor Mate: The Myth of Normal**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

What if you could navigate through the stormy waters of infidelity and not only reach the shore but build a stronger bond on the other side? This episode promises to provide you with the essential tools, strategies, and insights to help you and your partner turn a crisis into an opportunity for growth. We shatter common misconceptions about infidelity, and reveal the potential for resilience and fortification within a relationship tested by betrayal.Through an open conversation, we explore the path to recovery, stressing the vital role both partners play in the healing process. We delve into the value of sincere communication, boundary-setting, and trust rebuilding. Our goal is to provide you with a roadmap that will transform infidelity from a relationship ender to a hurdle that can be surmounted. **********************Check out books mentioned by clicking link below!https://spillingthetheratea.com/mediaAffairs episode:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spilling-the-thera-tea/id1632302353?i=1000583377676**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

**TRIGGER WARNING** THIS EPISODE DISCUSSES LOSS -INCLUDING LOSS OF A CHILD.Welcome to a profound dive into the wild beast that is grief. A multidimensional journey that's anything but straightforward, filled with emotional highs and lows that can leave you feeling as if you're on a rollercoaster. As your hosts, grief coach Jess Lowe and therapist KathyDan Moore, we will guide you through this complex maze, covering everything from the various stages of grief to the unique emotional challenges it presents. From the depths of denial and anger, to the bargaining and acceptance stages, we unlock the different manifestations of each phase, emphasizing that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to grieving. Determined to look grief in the eye, we delve into the significance of self-care and the importance of granting ourselves grace during this difficult time. We promise, moving forward doesn't equate to leaving your loved one behind. Rather, it's about nurturing yourself and creating a fresh start, all while cherishing the memory of your loved one.  Lastly, we tackle the five pitfalls of grief -  offering ways to overcome them. We advocate for embracing grief as a way of honoring and commemorating the love for our loved one, even in their absence.  It's a heartwarming conversation that anyone grappling with grief should not miss out on. Tune in and let's navigate this journey together.**********************Resources:Grief.comINSTITUTE OF PROFESSIONAL GRIEF COACHING- from Grief to GratitudeAuthor Mentioned:Malcolm Gladwellhttps://www.gladwellbooks.com/**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Guess what? That exhilarating, giddy feeling you experience at the start of a new relationship isn't meant to last forever, and that's okay! We're here to reassure you that as the sizzle of the honeymoon phase cools down, it's not a sign your relationship is tanking. Instead, it's evolving into something more profound, joyous, and deeper. Through our latest conversation, we unpack the various stages of romantic relationships, guiding you on how to navigate each one and cultivate a thriving connection with your partner, irrespective of the stage you're in. **********************THE LOVE PRESCRIPTION:https://a.co/d/fdOAuti**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea, we take a deep dive into Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) - a misunderstood and overused diagnosis. Guided by therapist KathyDan Moore, we unravel the complexities of NPD, warning of the dangers of misdiagnosis and the importance of individualized care. Grief coach Jess Lowe  joins the conversation  to shed light on narcissistic abuse, empowering you with strategies to deal with someone with NPD. We leave you with an insightful worksheet and practical steps on how to cope, heal and move forward. **********************Grief Coaching :https://kdmcounselinggroup.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/Grief-Coaching-Resource.pdf?Narcissistic Abuse Recovery:https://kdmcounselinggroup.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/narcissistic-abuse-recovery.pdf?**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

This week we are excited to take you through the art of cultivating a positive body image. We'll be focusing on the power and value of your body, rather than its appearance. We'll guide you on how to incorporate empowering affirmations into your day-to-day life and how enjoyable exercise can be a powerful tool for healthier body image goals. And here's the juicy bit! We'll be discussing how to rebuild your relationship with your body, cut out negative messages, and find activities that truly nourish you. We'll even throw in some body-positive literature and song recommendations to inspire you.  Let's all journey towards self-love and acceptance together!**********************BODY POSITIVE READING LIST:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/eating-disorders-news/201110/body-image-books-can-help-here-are-our-favoritesBODY POSITIVE SONGS:https://www.billboard.com/culture/pride/body-positive-musicians-list-8099201/**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Ever wondered about the other side of life – the one filled with transformation, growth and sometimes midlife crisis? This episode, We dive deep into midlife transitions and the often under-discussed topic of depression that can accompany it. Through personal anecdotes, we examine how these life shifts can manifest - from contemplating a small convertible car to losing weight and getting a motorcycle. We draw a line between midlife transition and depression, providing valuable signposts to differentiate the two.  Join us for this meaningful, eye-opening exploration of midlife and all its complexities.**********************Book Mentioned in Episode:36 Hour DayIf you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, seek emergency help. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a national network of local crisis centers that provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day, seven days a week, at 800.273.8255.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

** TRIGGER WARNING- THIS EPISODE MENTIONS SUICIDE**Now, brace yourselves as we tread into uncharted territory – the often misunderstood and stigmatized subject of gender dysphoria. Together, KathyDan and Jess unpack the distress experienced by individuals whose gender identity doesn't align with their sex assigned at birth. By dissecting the social stigma, the potential harmful behaviors, and the ripple effect on mental health, we aim to shed light on the pressing need for empathy and understanding.  We explore the stance of global governing bodies and potential risks associated with such medical interventions. But hang in there, as we wind up the discussion by delving into gender diversity and the vital distinction between gender and sexual orientation. So, whether you're keen to unravel the complexities of gender dysphoria or simply yearn for a compelling conversation, this episode is sure to keep you hooked. Tune in and join us on this enlightening journey!**********************If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, seek emergency help. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a national network of local crisis centers that provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day, seven days a week, at 800.273.8255.If you need help for a substance use disorder, SAMHSA's National Helpline, 800.662.4357, offers confidential, free help in English or Spanish, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. It provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups and community-based organizations.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Ever wondered what the formula is to a healthy, long-lasting friendship? Join us,  Therapist Kathy Dan Moore and Grief Coach Jess Lowe, as we navigate the intricate dynamics of these relationships. We discuss how friendships should be a balanced tug of war, where the effort is equal, and the rope is never heavy. From recognizing the toxicity in friendships to leading difficult conversations about imbalanced relationships, we explore it all. **********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Imagine being trapped in a reality distorted by your partner's manipulation techniques, where every concern you raise is trivialized, every memory countered, and your experiences conveniently forgotten. This episode uncovers these abusive techniques, giving them their rightful names: withholding, countering, blocking, diverting, trivializing, forgetting, and denial. But it's not all doom and gloom. We empower you with knowledge, equipping you with the tools you need to identify signs of gaslighting such as unexplained depression, self-doubt, constant lying, and the exploitation of your fears. Get ready for an episode that's as informative as it is empowering.**********************NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE 800-799-7233Text "START" to 88788PO Box 90249 Austin, Texas 78709Administrative Line: 737-225-3150**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon MusicImage: Snap/Rex/Shutterstock- from Patrick Hamilton's 1938 play- Gaslight Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

Ever felt like a fraud, afraid that any moment, someone will expose you as the imposter you believe you are? Today we unravel the complexities of this feeling with our esteemed guest, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, AnnLee Allen. Together, we dissect the phenomenon known as imposter syndrome, exploring its signs, manifestation, and impact in our lives and work. We delve into the psychology of attributing our successes to luck rather than our abilities and dissect the irrational fear of being uncovered as a fraud. So, are you ready to join us for a cup of thera- tea as we unpack these layers of self-doubt and fear? Let's tackle it together, one sip at a time.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

** TRIGGER WARNING- Examples of cases described in episode, including abuse and death**Imagine discovering that your patient has been intentionally making themselves sick, injecting bacteria, milk, or even gasoline into their system. It almost sounds too far-fetched to be true, right? But that's the  reality of factitious disorder, a condition we're exploring on today's episode. We unravel this perplexing mental health issue, where individuals consciously induce, feign, or exaggerate physical or psychiatric symptoms, all for primary gain. We'll walk you through the different types of this disorder, help you understand its pathophysiology, and show you how it differs from malingering. We end today's episode by answering a question from a listener. **********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea  we explore the world of social anxiety disorder. We shine a light on its physical and psychological impacts, and tackle its symptoms - everything from blushing, sweating, and trembling, to the struggle of making eye contact. We delve into the potential causes, such as genetics and environment, and underline the necessity of ruling out physical causes before diagnosis. It's a deep dive into a common yet often misunderstood condition. We talk solutions.We map out various treatment options, examining the pros and cons of different types of psychotherapy to medications like antidepressants, beta blockers, and anti-anxiety drugs. We stress the importance of advocating for yourself in finding the right treatment plan. We also provide resources for professional help, online tools, and the power of support groups. So take a breath, tune in, and let's navigate this path together.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

Are your relationships suffering due to a lack of boundaries? Join us for Part 2 of our discussing on Boundaries , as we explore the importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries to protect our mental health and improve our interpersonal connections. Listen in as we share vital tips and strategies for determining which boundaries are necessary and recognizing the warning signs that indicate you may need to establish some limits. KathyDan provides information on what boundaries in an abusive relationship looks like . We wrap up the episode with an Asked and Answered question  on overcoming "mom guilt" .**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea , KathyDan and Jess discuss Boundaries. They explain the different types of Boundaries, Tips for setting them, and more. They end the episode answering a listener's question about self-esteem. **********************Podcast Mentioned in Episode:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ask-a-sex-therapist-with-heather-shannon/id1656078749**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea, KathyDan and Jess talk about the concept of shame. They differentiate between shame and guilt and KathyDan provides some examples of how it can look and feel different. The ladies share the best ways to notice, name and confront shame in their lives with the overall message being that once we name shame out loud it loses its power. Listen this week to understand more about how shame might be playing a party in your life. The co-hosts also delve into how to connect to an emotionally unavailable parent in the Asked & Answered portion of the show.**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea KathyDan and Jess discuss dissociation. They explain the origins of the theory of dissociation and difference between the dissociative disorders. KathyDan recounts an experience of dissociation had by Agatha Christie. They wrap up the episode with a discussion on finding a good therapist fit when someone is experiencing mental health symptoms.**********************Resources for this episode:https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/dissociation-and-dissociative-disorders**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling The Thera-Tea, KathyDan and Jess have a fun chat about birth order. They look at the stereotypes and find the similarities and differences in their own personal experiences. KathyDan explains the origins of the theory - created by Alfred Adler - and discusses some of the seemingly accurate descriptions (especially with only children). The ladies wrap it up with an Asked and Answered regarding the birds and the bees talk with your children and included some suggested books to help parents out.**********************Book List for Sex Education for Kids:https://www.parents.com/kids/health/best-sex-education-books-for-kids-by-age/BUZZFEED BIRTH ORDER QUIZ:https://www.buzzfeed.com/perpetua/birth-order-quiz**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

TRIGGER WARNING- This episode contains discussions of Gun Violence , and the depiction of traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised.**********************This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea KathyDan and Jess got serious about the issue of gun violence and school shootings in America. The ladies discussed the recent Nashville school shooting and the impact of bullying on school violence. They also looked at the role of mental health in gun violence. The team wraps it up by answering a listener's question about managing depression and offered some compensatory tools in the Asked and Answered segment.********************** ARTICLES TO GET MORE INFO FROM:https://journals.lww.com/hrpjournal/fulltext/2021/01000/mental_illness,_mass_shootings,_and_the_future_of.6.aspx- https://www.columbiapsychiatry.org/news/mass-shootings-and-mental-illness- https://inpublicsafety.com/2018/03/a-theoretical-explanation-for-the-increase-in-school-shootings/https://www.sandyhookpromise.orgResources also include the ACLU**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

Today KathyDan and Jess had the opportunity to speak with Author Meredith Ethington about motherhood, mental health and her new book, The Mother Load. Meredith is a mother, author, and founder of the Perfection Pending blog, which presents mothers with encouragement, humor, and heart. Her debut book, Mom Life: Perfection Pending was published through Absolute Love Publishing and debuted online as the #1 choice in the motherhood category. The ladies wrap up the episode by answering a listener's question about dating after divorce during the Asked and Answered Segment. **********************ABOUT THE BOOK- The Mother Load https://amzn.to/43uge9BSurviving the Daily Grind Without Losing Your Ever Loving Mind (April 18, 2023, Dexterity Books) Beloved author and blogger Meredith Ethington shares her experiences, heart, and wisdom for mothers everywhere in her newest book, The Mother Load.Drawing from her years of being a mom, Ethington presents pieces of advice for each moment of motherhood—the good, the bad, the ugly, and every part of the in-between. Filled with raw, honest anecdotes, Ethington's portrayal of motherhood is fully transparent—at times humorous, at times heart-rending. Her commentary never shies away from the tougher subjects of motherhood that often get pushed under the rug. When motherhood feels like an uphill battle, Ethington is here to guide mothers inward, where they are encouraged to reflect upon their own journeys as mothers. Ethington draws from her own experience to present the lessons she has learned along the way, including the importance of self-care, balance, and grace amidst the busy day-to-day routine of many mothers.Connect with Meredith Ethington at:Website:perfectionpending.net Facebook: @PerfectionPendingTwitter: @PerfectPending Pinterest: @PerfectPending Instagram: @perfectpending TikTok: @perfectpending LinkedIn Goodreads**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Mus Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

On this week's podcast KathyDan and Jess are joined by Allison Guilbault, a therapist located in New Jersey! The ladies discuss Trauma Work, Sex Therapy, Self-Love, Empowerment and more. Allison provides a lot of information for our listeners regarding boundaries and holding space for our own emotions. KathyDan and Jess end the episode answering a question in the Asked and Answered segment about choosing a career based on one's happiness vs. what is “expected” of them. *************************Media Mentioned in Today's Episode:The Body Is Not an Apology, Second Edition: The Power of Radical Self-Love  by: Sonya Renee Taylor https://amzn.to/3Kd3BrQThis Naked Mind: Control Alcohol, Find Freedom, Discover Happiness & Change Your Life by: Annie Grace https://amzn.to/3z95RKeQuit Like a Woman: The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Culture Obsessed with Alcohol by: Holly Whitaker https://amzn.to/3lOmcRJ*************************GUEST INFORMATION: Allison Guilbault- A Note From Your TherapistInstagram: @anotefromyourtherapistWEBSITE*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

In today's episode of Spilling the Thera-Tea, KathyDan and Jess discuss panic attacks, what they look like, the brain science behind them, how they are different from anxiety attacks, and different ways to manage the episodes. The ladies wrap it up with an Asked & Answered question from a listener about how a parent can improve their relationship when their teen withdraws.*************************Media Mentioned in Today's Episode:https://ideas.ted.com/the-science-behind-panic-attacks-and-what-can-you-do-to-manage-them/*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea, KathyDan and Jess discuss Co-Dependency. They explain that it started as a term used when people are enabling a loved one with addiction; however, point out that it has a much broader use. The ladies explain what co-dependency looks like, some of the signs you may be in a co-dependent relationship, and how to begin healing from it. The episode was wrapped up with an Asked & Answered segment about how to help manage panic attacks through grounding, mindfulness, and EMDR.*************************Media mentioned in today's episode:Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself- Melody Beattie https://amzn.to/3miND69The Road Back to Me: Healing and Recovering From Co-dependency, Addiction, Enabling, and Low Self Esteem.-Lisa A. Romano https://amzn.to/3y3fGsIThe New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation- Melody Beattie https://amzn.to/3J4CHBRFacing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives- Pia Mellody https://amzn.to/3SGonTdPSYCHOLOGY TODAY- Find an EMDR Specialist in your area!https://www.psychologytoday.com/us*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

KathyDan and Jess talk all about Attachment Theory and how attachment styles show up in our relationships this week on Spilling the Thera-Tea. They review the four types of attachment style, how to identify your style, as well as tips and steps to create more fulfilling relationships. The ladies wrap it up with an Asked and Answered about sadness around a break-up and how to shake off the feeling that there is a certain timeline for life events like marriage.*************************Media mentioned in today's episode:Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love by Amir Levine and Rachel HellerKathyDan's article on Attachment Theory:https://kdmcounselinggroup.com/attachment-theory-in-relationships-2/?What is Your Attachment Style Quiz:https://www.npr.org/2022/02/09/1079587715/whats-your-attachment-style-quiz*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music StudioHave a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.com************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on STTT, KathyDan and Jess dive into the topic of grief and loss. KathyDan discusses the five stage of grief, that they aren't processed in a linear way, and describes how negative loops are created when people are trying to heal from grief. Jess gets personal with her own experiences of loss over the last few years and the ladies talk about how to begin coming out the other side from the grief. KathyDan also provides some recommendations for good books and journals that can be helpful for people during their healing process. They wrap up the episode with the Asked & Answered segment about the fear of coming out as gay to your family.*************************Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief – June 27, 2017 by Dr. Joanne CacciatoreIt's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand – October 1, 2017 by Megan DevineThe Grieving Brain: The Surprising Science of How We Learn from Love and Loss-Mary-Frances O'ConnorNotes on Grief by Chimamanda Ngozi AdichieIn Love: A memoir of Love and Loss -by Amy Bloom*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music StudioHave a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.com************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

SO many people struggle with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - 2.5 million adults in the U.S. And that is just people who have self-reported symptoms and sought help for it. This week in Spilling the Thera-Tea, KathyDan and Jess discuss OCD. They first define the what makes an obsession, what entails a compulsion, and how the two become cyclical. The ladies explain the causes, triggers, symptoms, risk factors and common co-occurring diagnoses. This episode is wrapped up with an Asked and Answered question about how to deal with a manipulative parent and reviewing the importance of boundaries.*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music StudioHave a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.com************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Team, KathyDan and Jess discuss Family Therapy. They talk about the different modalities involved and provide an overview of systemic therapy. KathyDan provides some techniques that are used when working with families and demystifies the process. The duo wrap it up with an Asked and Answered about the process of forgiveness and the sometimes long and arduous journey back to regaining trust.*************************Media discussed in today's episode:It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle- Mark Wolynnhttps://amzn.to/3l11gpCWhat Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing-Oprah Winfrey and Bruce D. Perryhttps://amzn.to/3kUUxxANo Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model - Richard Schwartz Ph.D.https://amzn.to/40b3i73*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

** TRIGGER WARNING**This episode contains discussions of Psychological Abuse , and the depiction of traumatic events. Listener discretion is advised.*************************This week KathyDan and Jess discuss psychological abuse on Spilling the Thera-Tea. This is also called Emotional Abuse and the ladies review what the cycle of violence looks like from a few episodes earlier (we encourage you to take a listen to the domestic violence chat). They talk about what some signs are when someone is being psychologically abused as well as the different behaviors that a perpetrator uses when they are using emotional abuse against their partners. They wrap up the episode with a listeners question on Asked and Answered about how to better manage test anxiety!*************************Media Recommended in Today's Episode:SPARE- Prince Harryhttps://amzn.to/3HvpTnnARMCHAIR EXPERT w/ Dax Shepard- ANNA KENDRICK EPISODEhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/2OnWt5wmclFP8G4egpjI1a?si=blopCJ-iRVirX0vcAyzv1wNATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE 800-799-7233Text "START" to 88788PO Box 90249 Austin, Texas 78709Administrative Line: 737-225-3150National Network to End Domestic Violence Nnedv.org*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea, KathyDan and Jess dish on the heartache of a breakup and some of the steps to heal and then be in a better place for your next connection. The ladies discuss the emotional rollercoaster, taking inventory of your role in the problems of the relationship, and allowing yourself the time and space to grieve the loss. They wrap it up with an Asked & Answered question from a listener about the process of introducing children to your new significant other.*************************Media Mentioned in Today's Episode:After the Breakup: A Self-Love Journal- Lindsey Dortch Brock LCSWhttps://amzn.to/3XlDQcSLet That Sh*t Go: A Journal for Leaving Your Bullsh*t Behind and Creating a Happy Life- Monica Sweeneyhttps://amzn.to/3Hap6IhLove Yourself First: How to Heal from Toxic People, Create Healthy Relationships & Become a Confident Woman -Krystle Laughterhttps://amzn.to/3XCaAyvGetting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You- Susan J Elliot JD Medhttps://amzn.to/3XjSu4FWhole Again: Healing Your Heart and Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abusehttps://amzn.to/3Xio5DRAtomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones- James Clearhttps://amzn.to/3wauV1Z*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

** TRIGGER WARNING**This episode contains discussions of Domestic Violence , and the depiction of traumatic events, including rape and suicide. Listener discretion is advised.*************************Today on Spilling the Thera-Tea, KathyDan and Jess talk about the difficult topic of Domestic Violence. They share how it is defined and explain the various types of abuse that occurs. KathyDan details out the Power and Control Wheel as well as the cycle of domestic violence. Jess shares some alarming statistics and explores why it is so difficult for victims of violence to escape the relationship. The ladies also share some of the signs an abuser might present early in a relationship that should be headed as red flags, how to help people who may be in the clutches of a violent relationship, and offers resources for anyone who is experiencing abuse themselves. The team wraps it up by answering some listener question about escaping an emotional rollercoaster during a divorce in the Asked and Answered segment.*************************CDC-https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/ipv-technicalpackages.pdfNCADV- National Coalition Against Domestic Violencehttps://assets.speakcdn.com/assets/2497/domestic_violence-2020080709350855.pdf?1596828650457NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE 800-799-7233Text "START" to 88788PO Box 90249 Austin, Texas 78709Administrative Line: 737-225-3150National Network to End Domestic Violence Nnedv.org*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

KathyDan and Jess had a great chat this week about the LGBTQIA+ community. Jess shares some history on how the civil rights movement started providing gay rights and KathyDan defines what all those letters stand for. The ladies discuss how growing up gay can inherently create trauma and the importance of finding a therapist who is experienced in supporting and affirming LGBTQIA+ identity while also providing meaningful access to resources and supports that will allow the individual Ito thrive. The Asked and Answered listener question hit home for KathyDan this week as she shared some ideas on how to better manage a child's (and parent's) anxiety about leaving home for college.*************************Media Mentioned in today's episode:Armchair Expert w/ Dax Shepard- Dwayne Wade(Start at 56 minutes)https://open.spotify.com/episode/0ul9xjDcUTQHTF2CFeDjMH?si=mfNvbLZtQFefGN-ziTlxtA&context=spotify%3Ashow%3A6kAsbP8pxwaU2kPibKTuHEResources:The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/Safe Schools Coalition: http://safeschoolscoalition.org/Bi.org: https://bi.org/enGLSEN: https://www.glsen.org/National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org/National Resource Center for LGBT Aging: https://www.lgbtagingcenter.org/National Center for Lesbian Rights: https://www.nclrights.org/GLAAD: www.glaad.org*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea KathyDan and Jess discuss what the ACEs are comprised of, the importance of recognizing the assessment tool as an indicator of the severity of childhood trauma, and understanding the importance and impact the trauma has on people's ongoing quality of life. The topic hit home for Jess and she talks about the importance of therapy in helping her process childhood trauma and KathyDan goes into detail on trauma-informed care as a practitioner. As always, the duo tackle an Asked and Answer question about managing grief during the holidays.*************************Books and Media Mentioned in today's episode:The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma- Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. https://amzn.to/3Wt0krFDr. Nadine BUrke Harris TED Talk-https://www.ted.com/talks/nadine_burke_harris_how_childhood_trauma_affects_health_across_a_lifetime?language=enACEs Quiz:https://americanspcc.org/take-the-aces-quiz/?gclid=Cj0KCQiAtICdBhCLARIsALUBFcEQCvTqCXosw37KMEyN7ncHDHMbCLnlYnAl0By7W1AsyIn2iylINvMaAvUOEALw_wcB*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com. For sponsor inquiries, please email: kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.comPodcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

This week on Spilling the Thera-Tea Jess interviews KathyDan about her experience working with couples going through divorce. They discuss the difference between divorce counseling and divorce coaching and ways people can help themselves through the grief and rebuilding process after a divorce. The team wraps it up by answering a listener question in the Asked and Answered segment about how people manage the grief process differently and ways to offer support.*************************Books recommended in today's Episode:1. Mom's House, Dad's House: Making two homes for your child - Isolina Riccihttps://amzn.to/3H2zIth2.Home Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce - Carol R. Hughes and Bruce R. Fredenburghttps://amzn.to/3gSo7SS3. Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After - Katherine Woodward Thomashttps://amzn.to/3gVbeYg4. Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move on with Your Life - Pauline H. Tesler and Peggy Thompsonhttps://amzn.to/3H2pj0o*************************Resources:National Domestic Violence Hotline- www.thehotline.orgCall: 1.800.799.7233Text: Text "START" to 88788Live Chat: thehotline.org*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com. For sponsor inquiries, please email: kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.comPodcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

KathyDan and Jess dive into the topic of CHILDHOOD BULLYING on Spilling the Thera-Tea this week. The ladies discuss what bullying looks like, some of the factors that make people vulnerable to being a bully and being bullied, and how to help kids process the trauma. It is clear that prevention is the best step to healing the problem of bullying. The team wraps it up by answering a listener question in the Asked and Answered segment about how a young adult can better create boundaries with his parents.*************************Book List:https://www.weareteachers.com/14-must-read-anti-bullying-books-for-kids/KathyDan's Favorites:Stick and Stone by Beth Ferryhttps://amzn.to/3gP6JOC  Chrysanthemum by Kevin Henkes (this is for younger kids)https://amzn.to/3OFHCdPA Big Guy Took My Ball! by Mo Willemshttps://amzn.to/3Fba9VCOne by Kathryn Otoshihttps://amzn.to/3gKbQQiResources:StopBullying.Govhttps://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/get-help-now*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com. For sponsor inquiries, please email: kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.comPodcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

KathyDan and Jess discuss the dangers of self-medication this week on Spilling the Thera-Tea. KathyDan shares the definition of addiction and the inextricable link of addiction to trauma. The team unpacks different ways people self-medicate, why opioids have a higher rate of overdose, and the various measures to prevent, protect and treat people dealing with addiction. The overwhelming is to reach out to get help! The team wraps it up by answering a listener question in the Asked and Answered segment about helping kids connect and find friends in middle school.*************************Mentioned in today's episode:Book- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with AddictionBy:Gabor Matehttps://amzn.to/3XobjnqPodcast-Last Day- Stephanie Wittels Wachs https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/last-day/id1468896686Resources-Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration:SAMHSA's National Helpline, 1-800-662-HELP (4357) (also known as the Treatment Referral Routing Service), or TTY: 1-800-487-4889 is a confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year, information service, in English and Spanish, for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders. This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations.Also visit the online treatment locator, or send your zip code via text message: 435748 (HELP4U) to find help near you. We are also here to help! Email us at: ASKUS@SPILLINGTHETHERATEA.COM and we will help find resources in your area!*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com. For sponsor inquiries, please email: kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.comPodcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

KathyDan and Jess discuss Sleep Disorders in this weeks' Spilling the Thera-Tea. Sleep is more important than people realize and should be a priority when we look at our allover health. The ladies share what some types of sleep disorders are out there and how people are able to manage them. They share what good “sleep hygiene” looks like and then wrap it up by answering a listener questions in the Asked and Answered segment.*************************Huber man Lab Podcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/huberman-lab/id1545953110*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com. For sponsor inquiries, please email: kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.comPodcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/

KathyDan and Jess discuss Narcissistic Personality Disorder in this weeks' Spilling the Thera-Tea. They detail out differences between narcissistic traits versus what qualifies as a clinical diagnosis of NPD. KathyDan shares some of her experiences with clients and details some of the ways controlling and narcissistic behavior sound in a relationship. Jess shares some interesting statistics about narcissism. The team wraps it up by answering a listener question about managing and processing grief in the Asked and Answered segment.*************************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyD!an Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-Host Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com. For sponsor inquiries, please email: kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.comPodcast Music by:  Lemon Music Studio************************* Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/