Podcast appearances and mentions of dean deluca

「鹿児島にはないけどもDEAN & DELUCAが鹿児島のすすむ屋茶店の抹茶を使用した新感覚ドリンクココナッツ抹茶ライチを発売！」　2025年4月3日（木）から5月14日（水）までDEAN & DELUCAで新たに登場する「ココナッツ抹茶ライチ」。鹿児島の『すすむ屋茶店』が提供する「鹿児島抹茶 cafegrade」を使用しているそうです。エス […]

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Felicity puts in one more attempt to get back together with Noel, including the Hail Mary of telling him she traveled back in time to be with him. After this attempt fails as well, Felicity begs Meghan to find a spell to send her back to the future.   Julie is planning a road trip, and Ben is keen to join her and drop out of school for a little while.   Noel is worried about Felicity's mental health. He and Ben - thinking Felicity might have psychosis - do an intervention with Felicity and persuade her to talk to a professional at a mental health institution. The result? She is put on a 72-hour hold, but first Felicity gives Ben information about his immediate future (Lauren calling him about his dad's liver problems) to try to prove her point. Felicity runs into Zoe in the mental health facility. Ben, who has wanted to believe Felicity all this time, gets the fated call from Lauren and realizes he does believe her. Ben breaks Felicity out of the mental health facility, takes care of her, and gets a download from Felicity on what happens in the future that made her want to get a do over with Noel.    Meghan wants revenge on Sean for breaking her heart. She uses her new (imaginary) boyfriend Paul to make him jealous and then humiliates Sean with evidence of his jealousy in her photography class project. In the process of canceling an order of jewelry from her fake boyfriend, she locates the real Paul Korsakoff, the author of the future time travel book.   Javier and Elena fight because he wants to get a manicure instead of help her study for her Spanish exam. While getting the manicure, Dean + Deluca is robbed, and Javier is fired for negligence.   Ben and Felicity are reunited! He is trying to convince her to stay in this timeline so they can do senior year right, when Felicity gets the news that Noel died in a fire in the administration building.     Sign up for our newsletter for updates: https://mailchi.mp/e73780cdd4ef/felicity-podcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felicitypodcast/ Find everywhere you can listen: https://linktr.ee/themelissafish Share your feedback or Felicity fan art: themelissafish@gmail.com

Josh, Robert & Toby what made for the legend that was Dean & Deluca. We talk about their gourmet ingredients, soups, sandwiches and nurturing environment for local foodies starting their own new businesses.

Felicity is staying in NY for Thanksgiving and loosely plans to hang out with David – until Felicity's parents drop in for a surprise visit and invite themselves and David (and eventually his mother and Meghan) to new Thanksgiving plans.  Elena and Noel decide to host the big event, and the game is on! Felicity's parents start off judging the many changes in Felicity's life and then change their tune to supportive once Felicity pushes back. David is getting much more serious than Felicity, is happy – not freaked out – to meet her parents, and even drops the word LOVE!  Gulp. Felicity starts to panic and kisses Noel as a reaction, which David's mom – Professor Sherman – walks in on. An all-party fight ensues, leading to a David and Felicity break up.  The storied peppermint vs. wrinkled fabric home décor debate of 2022 commences. Finally, Ben, Sean, and Julie are roped into working a holiday charity event for Dean & Deluca not knowing the part is being thrown by Maggie and her husband!  Maggie uses the opportunity to publicly out Ben as the man she is having an affair with to retaliate for her husband cheating on her.   Sign up for our newsletter for updates: https://mailchi.mp/e73780cdd4ef/felicity-podcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felicitypodcast/ Find everywhere you can listen: https://linktr.ee/themelissafish Share your feedback or Felicity fan art: themelissafish@gmail.com

We open on an eye.  Like another J.J. Abrams show we know. Felicity finds out that Julie has been singing mean songs about her at Epstein Bar, and Fish waxes poetic about the Rocky Horror Picture Show. “The Modern” (AKA The MOMA) and the subway are featured prominently in this episode, with multiple characters planning a trip to “The Modern” on this same day. Felicity gets on the subway to meet Noel and Ruby at The Modern and is surprised when Julie enters the same subway car – also on her way to same place. Felicity confronts Julie about the song, then the subway car comes to a grinding halt for hours, allowing all the fellow riders of their subway car to become deeply invested in the debate around Felicity and Julie's relationship. Ruby and Noel's relationship progresses with a day at the museum. Smoothaise makes its first appearance, as does Maggie, who shows up in this episode as a hurried, rude caterer who is turned on when Ben pushes back on her at Dean & Deluca. By the end of this episode, Julie and Felicity seem to be ready to move forward tentatively, slowly, and delicately to restore their friendship.   Sign up for our newsletter for updates: https://mailchi.mp/e73780cdd4ef/felicity-podcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felicitypodcast/ Find everywhere you can listen: https://linktr.ee/themelissafish Share your feedback or Felicity fan art: themelissafish@gmail.com

Did you ever laugh so hard that no sound came out, but then you remembered that you were hosting an audio-only podcast and had to make sound come out?  No? Only Melissa? It happened here in episode 21 of season 1. Fish isn't loving how the magic drives the plot in this 8-act episode, but we do like the levity of Meghan's clumsiness and forgetfulness spells. Nicole is back, she's coming in hot, and Ben wants none of it. Ben's mom came to the rescue, and now – with the help of a job to drive a stranger's car across the country to get home – his money troubles are over.  And the couples road trip planning begins! But then, after weeks of rough waters, Ben and Julie break up. And - magic-induced or not? - Ben and Felicity have an almost-kiss moment while doing inventory at Dean & Deluca on a Friday night. Noel and Guy wait in line for Star Wars: Episode 1 – The Phantom Menace while Guy gives Noel superlative career / relationship advice, leading to Felicity and Noel friendzoning themselves. Meghan and Felicity bond over Meghan's love spell.  There was a lot happening in episode 21, and we are feeling ready for next week's season finale!   Sign up for our newsletter for updates: https://mailchi.mp/e73780cdd4ef/felicity-podcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felicitypodcast/ Find everywhere you can listen: https://linktr.ee/themelissafish Share your feedback or Felicity fan art: themelissafish@gmail.com

It's proving time! Felicity is applying to be an assistant manager. Unfortunately, Danny, the inept employee at Dean & Deluca, rejects being fired under her charge. Fish has a hot take about Abby and Danny's relationship. Felicity and Noel are confused about being just friends, and Noel getting a summer internship in Berlin is about to raise the stakes.  Richard is now Noel's temporary roommate, thanks to a broken heater! Meanwhile, Ben is hitting rock bottom with his gambling and getting the quickest beat down in the history of the world. Ben and Julie's relationship is more tenuous than ever. Ben finally asks for help...from Felicity! We have zero tolerance for McGrath trapping Elena into this icky professor-student relationship. And finally, we wonder: Which one of Melissa or Fish would be the better eyewitness?   Sign up for our newsletter for updates: https://mailchi.mp/e73780cdd4ef/felicity-podcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felicitypodcast/ Find everywhere you can listen: https://linktr.ee/themelissafish Share your feedback or Felicity fan art: themelissafish@gmail.com

Welcome to The Backyard Naturalists podcast. The show about anything and everything connected with nature. In this week's episode, Randall York with Cloister Honey joins Debbie and Laurie to talk about the organization was founded from a simple Christmas gift from his wife, Joanne, back in 2007.     Cloister Honey has received awards and honors from Southern Living, Our State Magazine and Charlotte Magazine and their products are carried by retailers such as William Sonoma, Whole Foods, Bloomingdales, Saks Fifth Avenue, Dean & DeLuca, and our show's presenting sponsor, Backyard Birds.     Listen for a super, secret code word during this episode to win a Cloister Honey gift pack.     Connect with the Backyard Naturalists on the Web, Facebook and Instagram.     Please visit and support our presenting sponsor, Backyard Birds at http://www.thebirdfoodstore.com/. A mecca for bird lovers and bird watchers, Backyard Birds is an independent family-owned business located in Matthews, NC (next to Dairy Queen), just southeast of Charlotte.     Thanks for listening to The Backyard Naturalists.  We hope you have a day filled with the wonders of nature. Get outside and take a walk on the wild side! Please don't forget to leave a 5-star review for The Backyard Naturalists podcast.     Production services for The Backyard Naturalists podcast are provided by Downtown Podcasting. To start a conversation on how you can have a podcast, simply send an email to info@downtownpodcasting.com.

Todd Mulcahy. Is he sweet or creepy? Melissa and Fish have thoughts. This first part of our second two-parter launches Felicity into an existential crisis. Julie has her first day at the internship at her birth mom's office. Elena tells Blair what she really thinks about him cheating on her - then gives us VIBES talking about Dr. McGrath. And Ben's financial struggles lead him to a job at Dean & Deluca and the beginning of his lovable bromance with Javier. Things we love: The face everyone makes when trying Sean's new, next generation breakfast cereal "Lactos" and the genesis of Ben's aversion to wearing a black hat at work. All that and more!   Sign up for our newsletter for updates: https://mailchi.mp/e73780cdd4ef/felicity-podcast Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felicitypodcast/ Find everywhere you can listen: https://linktr.ee/themelissafish Share your feedback or Felicity fan art: themelissafish@gmail.com

How do you successfully lead a restaurant through the uncertainty of a global pandemic? According to Justin Seamonds, you start with clarity, focusing on what you can control and inspiring your team with a mission that matters. Justin is the Prime Minister of Fun and Chief Executive Officer at Roti, a Mediterranean-inspired fast casual brand on a mission to serve food that loves you back. With more than 25 years of experience in the hospitality industry, Justin led upscale grocery market Dean & DeLuca before taking the helm at Roti in early 2020 to build the new brand philosophy: Crave Better. On this episode of Workplace Forward, Justin joins me to discuss the importance of clarity in leadership, describing the sense of purpose you need to lead well in uncertain times. Justin shares his experience leaning into collective leadership at Roti through the pandemic and explains his commitment to democratizing truth and transparency with his team. Listen in for Justin's advice around leading with authenticity and learn how Roti leveraged the pandemic to get clear on who they wanted to be and initiate the Roti Revolution. Themes explored in this week's episode: Roti's unique mission and how it informs Justin's approach to leadership Justin's insight on the sense of purpose you need to lead well in uncertain times How Justin leveraged clarity to keep Roti frontline employees and customers safe during the pandemic Justin's experience leaning into collective leadership at Roti throughout the pandemic How the pandemic facilitated what Justin calls the Roti Revolution Justin's commitment to democratizing truth and transparency with his team How the demands of the last couple of years affected the way Justin communicates and his appreciation for speed The benefit of generating collective energy around decisions involving intuition Justin's advice on leading with authenticity in your personal and professional life Justin's take on how leaders of the future will 'crave better' Resources from this episode:  Follow Roti on Instagram or Facebook Learn more about Roti Download the Roti App I would love to hear from you! Have an idea for a podcast or a question you want me to address? Interested in additional support, resources and workshops? Here are all the ways you can interact with me! Tweet me @TeganTrovato  Email tegan@brightarrowcoaching.com  Follow me on Facebook @BrightArrowCoaching  Follow me on Instagram @TeganTrovato  Connect with me on LinkedIn: Tegan Trovato  Download free tools and sign up for my newsletter, coaching and workshops at  https://www.brightarrowcoaching.com/ 

After a difficult two years, many businesses are hoping 2022 is the year things turn around. But for some, this may mean making a dramatic change in who will remain the stakeholders of the business…Business divorces can be tricky and emotional. Whether the “break up” is between friends, family members or business partners, parting ways in business can cause irreparable damage to a valued relationship. So, how do you prepare for a business divorce? About the Interview In this episode of Hilary Topper on Air, Hilary speaks with David Saponara, an attorney at Kudman Trachten Aloe Posner LLP – a commercial law firm representing businesses and business owners, government entities, executives, and professionals in a wide variety of matters, including corporate divorce. David discusses what a corporate divorce is, four key items that need to be addressed before proceeding with the process, case studies, and more! About David Saponara David is a senior associate whose practice focuses on commercial litigation and bankruptcy and restructuring. David represents business clients of all shapes and sizes across a variety of industries, including finance, retail, real estate, and hospitality. He guides clients through every stage of litigation and arbitration, beginning with conducting pre-suit investigations and evaluations, continuing through discovery and motion practice, and concluding with trial and appeal. Throughout the litigation and arbitration lifecycle, David works collaboratively with clients to help them achieve their objectives. David's experience and expertise also involves guiding clients through difficult situations in bankruptcy proceedings and out-of-court restructurings. He has represented creditors and other parties in interest in large, complex chapter 11 bankruptcy proceedings such Sears, The Weinstein Company, Dean & DeLuca, Centric Brands, J.C. Penney, and Brooks Brothers. Whether the issues involve a client's own financial difficulties, or those of an important customer, supplier, or business partner, Mr. Saponara utilizes his bankruptcy and restructuring experience to achieve efficient results in each representation. Before joining Kudman Trachten Aloe Posner LLP, David was an associate at a boutique bankruptcy firm, where his practice focused on bankruptcy litigation and representing debtors, creditors, and other parties in interest in chapter 7 and chapter 11 bankruptcy proceedings. Contact Kudman Trachten Aloe Posner LLP To contact David or for more information about how to prepare for a business divorce from the attorneys at Kudman Trachten Aloe Posner LLP, call 212-868-1010 or visit www.kudmanlaw.com.

There was a time when coffee was coffee. Ice cream was ice cream. A phone was a phone. Even a pair of jeans was, just a pair of jeans. There are still businesses stuck in this time warp, continuing to conduct business as if people still purchased products. Today, that cup of coffee comes with more options than a Porsche. A double shot, soy milk, almond milk, extra hot, topped up, half strength, in a takeaway cup because it tastes better. Thus, the $5.50 price for the 50 cents cup of coffee. But even that is only half the story. Breaking the price - product link The profit margin of the double shot of extra something far exceeds the profit margin of the cup of coffee itself. The Prada Shearling Tote selling for $4,450 does not cost 200 times more to make than the tote at kmart for $20. This is a path to profit and to greater acceptance by affluent consumers. But as I said, it is only half the story. Ordinary products morphing into their own category Like them or not, Starbucks altered the coffee drinking world. It redefined itself from a coffee shop to the "third-place" - home, office, Starbucks in between. It positioned itself as a merchant of feelings, of status, and most of all, of experience. A new category. And many other businesses have followed. Dean & Deluca (groceries), Under Armour (undies), Varsity Burgers and my favourite Burning Man (a camping trip in the desert with a bit of music ), have jazzed up their offerings to be in a new stratosphere with luxury pricing to match. Price is no longer tied to product. Far more appealing to "people with money" As soon as you disconnect price and product in your own mind about your own products and services, you'll be liberated to make a great deal more money and to have much greater success appealing to the affluent and the top-end-of-town.

For over 20 years, Lori Frisher has been cultivating experience in the gifts industry. Her entrepreneurial talent started in New York over 20 years ago in the gift industry working with some of the biggest gourmet markets like Dean & Deluca, fashion houses, farmer's markets, and wineries on the south and north fork of Long Island. Her family is connected in the events and antique industry in NY which gives Top Shelf Baskets extended resources outside Colorado.

On today's episode of All in the Industry®, Shari Bayer's guest is Brian Bistrong, Corporate Executive Chef of The Connell Company’s The Park, and Culinary Program Director of The Park’s hospitality group, Table & Banter. With years of rich, diverse experience working side-by-side with renowned chefs such as Wolfgang Puck, David Bouley, and Gray Kunz, Brian offers a wealth of knowledge and passion at New Jersey’s premier catering and events destination.  Brian's restaurant experience also includes his role as Executive Chef at The Harrison in Tribeca, and Chef/Owner of Braeburn in the West Village; plus, Chef de Cuisine at Bottega in Napa, CA; Executive Chef of Research and Development for Wolfgang Puck’s Test Kitchen, and Dean & DeLuca as the gourmet market’s Corporate Executive Chef. Today's show also features Shari's PR tip to protect and preserve your reputation; Speed Round; Industry News Discussion on NYC restaurants opening in Miami; and Solo Dining experience at Chef/Owner David Kinch's Manresa at Intersect by Lexus in the Meatpacking District, NYC. REMINDER: We have new All in the Industry® merch available, including All in the Industry hats & totes, and H.O.S.T. notebooks & pens. Through May 31, 2021, 100% of the proceeds from our hat sales (less shipping/handling) will be donated to the Independent Restaurant Coalition (IRC) to help with their continued efforts to #saverestaurants. Go to allintheindustry.com/merch to get your AITI swag today! #allintheindustry #allindustry #sharibayer #chef #restaurant #culinary #hospitality #theconnellcompany #brianbistrong #podcast #foodradio #hrn #nycImage courtesy of Brian Bistrong.Listen at Heritage Radio Network; subscribe/rate/review our show at iTunes, Stitcher or Spotify. Follow us @allindustry. Thanks for being a part of All in the Industry®. Heritage Radio Network is a listener supported nonprofit podcast network. Support All in the Industry by becoming a member!All in the Industry is Powered by Simplecast.  

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Kristi and Michael get mugged, start jobs at Dean & DeLuca, and go to a Halloween party.

In today’s podcast episode I’m speaking with Craig Rispoli, a renowned chef with over a decade of high volume production, restaurant, retail, R&D, and catering experience. Having previously worked with companies like Gourmet Boutique, Financier Patisserie, Dean &DeLuca and Fresh Direct, Chef Rispoli joined fresh&co as the Executive Chef. There, he leads the culinary development and innovation team where he oversees all seasonal menu roll-outs, menu enhancements, and recipe development for all corporate and franchise locations.   Chef Craig shares fun insight into what it’s like to be a chef at fresh&co as well as tips for developing healthy eating habits. Here are some of my favorite takeaways from our conversation: When it comes to eating healthfully, it’s important to enjoy what you’re eating, so keep your palate entertained by considering both the taste and nutritional value of the food you eat. The cost of putting good food in your body is nothing compared to the cost of the healthcare you’ll need if you don’t. The best and easiest way to build flavor in the meals you prepare is to eat seasonally. Healthy living is being happy with who you are, what you’re doing, where you’re going and where you’ve been.   Want to learn more about Chef Craig and the food he creates? You can connect with him via his fresh&co (http://www.freshandco.com/), Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/freshandconyc/), Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/FreshandCoNYC/), Twitter (https://twitter.com/freshandconyc) and Chef Craig’s s personal Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/chefcraigrispoli/).

We Chat Divorce Podcast welcomes Jennifer Hurvitz! Jennifer is known for her no-nonsense approach to all things relationships and is proud to say she's made quite the career out of pretty disastrous circumstances...her own divorce. Jennifer is a Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS™), public speaker, best- selling author, and host of the Doing Divorce Right Podcast. Divorced since 2014, Jennifer lives in Charlotte with her two kick-ass teenage boys. Through her popular blog, The Truth Hurvitz, and weekly podcast, Jennifer helps people understand what a happy divorce can look like and how to dip their toes back into the dating world. She loves sharing her insight on how to stay in a successful marriage, too! Jen has also been featured on OprahMagazine.com, twice! And look out for her TEDx Talk in 2021! In this episode, Karen and Catherine chat with Jennifer about… Jennifer’s straightforward approach to Divorce Coaching, from establishing your divorce team, coparenting, dating, and setting goals! Dating After Divorce and Your Non-Negotiables List Lower Your Expectations and Just Have Fun! Financial Red Flags If you have questions for us or a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com or visit MyDivorceSolution.com  The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever.  Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew does not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third party materials or content of any third party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST----more---- Karen Chellew: Hello. Today we are here with Jennifer Hurvitz. Jennifer is known for her no-nonsense approach to all things relationships and is proud to say she's made quite the career out of pretty disastrous circumstances, i.e. her own divorce. She's a certified divorce specialist, CDS, public speaker, bestselling author, and host of the Doing Divorce Right podcast. Jennifer's been divorced since 2014. She lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, with her two kick-ass teenage boys. Through her popular blog, The Truth Hurvitz, I like that, and weekly podcast. Jennifer helps people understand what a happy divorce can look like and how to dip their toes back into the dating world. She loves sharing her insight on how to stay in a successful marriage too. Jen's been featured on OprahMagazine.com twice and look out for her TED Talk in 2020, her TEDx talk in 2020. Welcome Jennifer. Jennifer Hurvitz: Hi guys. I'm so glad to be here finally. Yay. Catherine Shanahan: We love talking to you. You bring such a great, positive feel to the day. Jennifer Hurvitz: Thank you. Catherine Shanahan: We're so happy you're on here with us. Jennifer Hurvitz: I'm so glad to be here. I'm so sad because my TED Talk is being postponed to next year. You'll see me next year, hopefully. Catherine Shanahan: Well that will come quick enough. Jennifer Hurvitz: I know. Right? I know. After all this time, this whole COVID thing. Karen Chellew: Now we'll be on pins and needles for a year. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah, exactly. Jennifer Hurvitz: Aw. Yeah. You know what? Me too. It's so stressful. How are you? Catherine Shanahan: It's so nice having you here because you're an expert to help our clients or our listeners. It's so hard when you go through your divorce, you're so used to ... I was with my ex for 23 years, so you're so used to bouncing everything off of them. Even though I made a lot of decisions on my own, I'm pretty independent, you always made those decisions based on you and your spouse. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh, yeah. Catherine Shanahan: Then at the end when you get divorced you're like, "Where do I turn to now?" because you feel alone. It's not necessarily you want to date right away, but who gives me advice and who can I get that second opinion from? How do you advise people to find that person? Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh my gosh. Well, you know the craziest thing is when you first get out of your marriage and then you look at this divorce, you have all these options and now you feel like ... You look around, you're like, "What do I do?" I was lucky. I was in a different position than most people. I always start out by saying this. I feel like I'm best friends with my wusband, I call him my wusband, and we're really good friends. I was in a happy divorce kind of immediately. Right? Catherine Shanahan: Wait. Can we back up one second? Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh, sure. Catherine Shanahan: Wusband? Jennifer Hurvitz: My wusband. I call him my wusband. I don't like to call him my ex-husband because I feel like that's ... We're just such good friends and I hate that. That's not typical. Catherine Shanahan: I like that. I never heard that. Jennifer Hurvitz: I think I should trademark that. Catherine Shanahan: You should. Jennifer Hurvitz: I should. Karen Chellew: I think you should too. Jennifer Hurvitz: I heard it on a podcast. God, it was one of my first podcasts like two years ago, and I was speaking to this host. He said something, that how his wife calls him her wusband, and I'm like, "Oh my God, can I steal that?" He's like, "Take it, take it." I'm like, "I'm taking it." It's not even mine originally- Karen Chellew: I love it. Jennifer Hurvitz: But I just trademark it. Catherine Shanahan: I love that. Go ahead. Jennifer Hurvitz: I call him my wusband, and we're such good friends that I hate to call him my ex, but that's not typical. Lots of tumultuous divorces, most are not amicable, most are high conflict. You get out of your marriage, and you're thrown into this sea of emotions. You're sad, and you're highs and lows and then you're like, "Who helps me? Where do I turn?" Then all of a sudden, I think more recently, there's coaches and there's therapists, and there's CFAs, and there's financial planners, and there's divorce solution people, right? You guys. Who do you use? Because you can't have everybody, because it's expensive. Right? Karen Chellew: Right. Jennifer Hurvitz: I was thinking about it. We were talking about this before the show and I was like, "Who would I use?" At the time, I was completely lost. I think I had stepped back and I didn't use anybody. I was like, "I'm going to do this by myself. I can handle this." Biggest mistake ever. I think when you girls were on my show, I was very clear and I said, "If I could pick one person, I would pick you all." Jennifer Hurvitz: I would go to My Divorce Solution, if I saw you online. I don't mean to toot your horn here, but I would, because I feel like ... I do, I send my clients to you because I feel like if you're going to spend your money...no pun, ironically, I would spend your money on how to use your money moving forward because I feel like, especially me, I was in a marriage for 13 years. My ex, my wusband, was a financial planner, he was in finance. I had no clue how to balance a checkbook for God's sake. I was a stay-at-home mom, my job were my kids. I would have loved to have someone like you all who helped me with making big financial decisions that were important in the future because my emotions were spinning out and I didn't have something like you now. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. You really need a good financial grounding where you need to develop a good relationship with money whether you like it or not. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah, I didn't have- Catherine Shanahan: Whatever the scenario is because that is the basis for the rest of your life, basically. I do wish everybody would come to, well, obviously us. But a financial person that has no stake in the game, which would be the best case scenario. Jennifer Hurvitz: Exactly, because I didn't. I didn't have anything, so was making big decisions like my house. What was I going to do with selling the house? Then also, budgeting because I didn't have a budget. My wusband and I, he did the checks and bills. Then all of a sudden, my lifestyle changed so drastically. Right? But instead of doing that, I was like, "I'm going to start dating. I'm going to get out there. I can handle this. I can do this," and I wasn't ready. At least, I feel like if you're not going to use your money wisely, then get a financial planner, or a CFA, a coach, a divorce coach, a therapist. Someone who says, "Slow down. Slow down and really focus on yourself before you even start dating," because that was a huge mistake I made as well. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Well, second time marriages has the highest divorce rate. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh yeah. I think it's 73. Catherine Shanahan: It's because of exactly that reason. Jennifer Hurvitz: Right. 73% because you're like, "What am I going to do?" Yeah, you don't even know who you are as a person and you start dating, and then your finances get involved there too. Karen Chellew: Oh my God, yes they do. Having that financial foundation really just becomes the anchor point for everything you're going to do beyond that- Jennifer Hurvitz: Absolutely. Karen Chellew: ... Every single thing. Whether you're hiring a therapist or a coach, or you're looking to date someone else, or you're planning for your kids, or you're planning for your new home. It definitely becomes the reference point. So many couples come in and say, "Oh, we have it all figured out. We just need to clean this up." That's about 1% actually, because there's so many details that they just don't know what they don't know. Then if you get farther down that road, like you said, of dating and continuing your life without pausing, yeah it's- Catherine Shanahan: Well ladies, let's be clear about this. There a lot of men, men get the bad rap although it's true, that go ... I mean, I'm sorry, men get the rap they're going after women and the women are going after them for their money. Well it goes the other way around too. Jennifer Hurvitz: Sure. Catherine Shanahan: There are a lot of men that are coming after women with money- Jennifer Hurvitz: Well, that's what happened to me. I'm telling you, I remember, I thought I was ready to date and I thought I had it all together. I started dating, and I remember dating this guy and he was like, I think it was, "You need to sell your car because my kid's hockey equipment won't fit in the car you have." I was like, "Oh, okay. Okay. That's a great idea." I clearly was not in the right head space if I'm listening to the guy that I thought was going to be my next ... Meanwhile, I had 13 boyfriends after that. Catherine Shanahan: I wish I would have known you then. I would have been like, "What? No." Jennifer Hurvitz: If I would have had it... right? If I would have had a financial planner or a CFA working with me, they would have stopped me and said, "Whoa. Pull on those reins. That ain't happening, girl." If I would have had a me, a divorce coach at the time, I would have known and I would have said to my client, "Girl, no. That is not happening." Catherine Shanahan: When does the divorce coach come in?- Jennifer Hurvitz: Great gosh. Catherine Shanahan: ... What's the difference between them, your divorce coach and your therapist? Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh gosh, please listen very carefully because this is one of my biggest pet peeves and I really feel... I hope I'm not offending anybody right now. A divorce coach is so different than a therapist, and divorce coaches are going to be... Hopefully they're not mad at me, but I have turned away so many clients and said, "Please, you need a therapist." Not to hurt anyone's feelings but, "I am not your person right now." I do a 30 minute free consult call and specifically for this reason a therapist is someone who's going to help you emotionally. Clearly right out of your marriage, when emotions are high, you need a therapist. You need someone who can clinically help you get through the emotional part of your sadness. Jennifer Hurvitz: This is not... A coach, I'm not that. I don't have a degree in psychology, I'm not a social worker. I'm a coach, I'm a cheerleader. I'm your girl who's going to say, "Look, here's what you need." I'm going to help you plan for finding your estate planner, I'm going to help you get your CFA, I'm going to help you get your ducks in a row. When you come to me and say, "I'm ready to date." I'm going to help you write your online dating profile. That's who I am. I am not going to be able to talk you down off a ledge or from stopping to eat that ice cream in the middle of the night. That's not my job. Do you know what I'm saying? Catherine Shanahan: Yes. Jennifer Hurvitz: And I'm not going to take your money. I think if a divorce coach... I'm trying not to... If a divorce coach takes your money right out of the gate, that's not okay. Catherine Shanahan: So you need a therapist to clear your path to the coach. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes, yes. Catherine Shanahan: Because they're going to help them get through the tech... Not the tech. Jennifer Hurvitz: Basically. Catherine Shanahan: What was I saying? Not technical. Clinical. Jennifer Hurvitz: Clinical. Catherine Shanahan: Clinical part of it. Jennifer Hurvitz: Right. Catherine Shanahan: And they're going to help you deal with your emotions or whatever happened in your past, or... Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes. Catherine Shanahan: Do that type of work with you. And that's a lot of work. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh yeah it is. Like really doing the deep soul searching that you need. Of course, I'm not... And people to prescribe medication if you need it. A psychiatrist, that's not who... So that's why I do that 30 minute consult call. If I feel like you need, if I'm not your girl, I'm going to obviously send you to someone who can... I have great therapists that I know. And you have to be honest with yourself. I needed a therapist, I did not need a divorce coach. Right? Karen Chellew: So is that like a life manager, similar to a project manager? Whatever you need to accomplish you'd help them develop the steps. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes, with your goals, goal settings. Yes. Karen Chellew: Okay. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah, like goal setting. Like here's what we're going to do today. I do a list of questions, we work on from one to 10 where do you think your... That kind of thing. Karen Chellew: Yeah, so you help them be independent as they move along. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah. Karen Chellew: Without having to rely on their situational circumstances and so forth. Jennifer Hurvitz: Right, like I help with co-parenting, that kind of thing. I hope I'm not offending anybody that's a dating coach or a divorce coach. I don't mean to minimize what we do. I love it, I love my job, I love working with people and I'm super positive too. So I feel like if someone's feeling down I can cheer them along, I'm like a cheerleader. But I'm definitely not a therapist. Karen Chellew: Well I don't think that you're... I mean, if you're hurting anyone's feelings that's unfortunate because what you're doing is you're really just laying it out there, the difference. That's a common question because of course when we handle the financial picture, and when we do their portrait, there's a lot of unknowns that become very known when it comes to their finances. And after that they need help dealing with their life afterwards- Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah, totally. Karen Chellew: So people need to know who do you go to first and then who do you go to next. Jennifer Hurvitz: Right and it's expensive too. Karen Chellew: It is expensive. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah. Karen Chellew: And you have to budget in what's going to work for you and you have to get the most out of it. Jennifer Hurvitz: Absolutely, you're not going to spend $175 an hour with a therapist and then another blah blah blah with me, and then another blah blah blah. I mean, can you imagine? That's [inaudible 00:13:09]. Karen Chellew: Well that's kind of like going to the dentist and they say you need all this work, and their goal is to have white perfect teeth. Well if you had the budget to support that, everybody would do that. But to your point, most people do not so you break it down into pieces. Jennifer Hurvitz: Little bits. Catherine Shanahan: So I know that you're an expert with dating after divorce. Jennifer Hurvitz: Ah, I love it. That's my favorite, everyone should come to me. Catherine Shanahan: And I know that a lot of people get very anxious and they want to start dating, and they're ready to go and work. There are a lot of people that are just dependent on the relationships, they feel like that's what makes them happy and maybe it is, I don't know. I've never been that person but maybe that's what's true. How do you help them know if they're ready? Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh my gosh, first of all I'm very strict. I'm super strict with my clients. Some of them appreciate it and some of them don't, and I'm very up front. I don't let them settle, which I think they like that because I know that especially after you're going through a divorce and you're feeling like you're ready, you're super ready. You want to get out there and you want to get on those apps. It's a totally different ballgame. I start by making a list of non-negotiables, I call them non-negotiables. We sit down and I send them all the stuff and I'm like, "Look, take the time to really make this list of things that you will not settle for." Now I'm not talking about blonde hair, blue eyes and blah blah blah, what they look like. I'm talking about the deep soul-searching stuff. Jennifer Hurvitz: Sometimes they'll get back to me in like 15 minutes. They're like, "But this is..." I'm like, "No, no, no, no. You didn't do the work. I'm talking about like..." And I hold them to this list. If they say they'll only date someone that lives within a five mile radius, to give you an example. So I'm like, "Okay now I'm telling you, when you come back to me and you find someone on Match and he lives an hour away, I'm going to hold you to this five mile radius." Right? I have a client who calls me up and she's like, "No, no, no, I found this guy and he lives an hour away and I know it's..." And I'm like, "Uh-uh, no, no, no." Right? Jennifer Hurvitz: And they're mad at me, they're screaming, "No, no, I'm going to try it." I'm like, "Go ahead, try it." Because if you start with something that you know already you don't want in a relationship, you don't want to date long distance for example, and you already put yourself in that position that it's not going to... Do you see what I'm saying? Catherine Shanahan: Yeah, you're setting yourself up to fail. Jennifer Hurvitz: You're setting this up for failure, you're setting yourself up for failure. I'm not going to let you do that. Right? So I'm going to hold you to it. Catherine Shanahan: Well can you tell that client to come back to us and we'll see if they can afford to move? Jennifer Hurvitz: Exactly. That's my point. But you know those kind of things like a non-smoker, or even if it's a religion or whatever. Karen Chellew: No kids. Jennifer Hurvitz: No kids, exactly. I have clients who say to me, "No, no, no, I will not date a guy with kids." Then they find someone on Match that's really gorgeous or whatever, blah blah blah. "He has a three year old, it's fine." And I'm like, "Girl, girl. No, it is not fine honey." And they tell me, "Well it didn't work and it's because..." I'm like, "It didn't work because it was never going to work." Catherine Shanahan: Right, right, good. Yeah, I like that. Jennifer Hurvitz: That's how I... You can't fit a square peg in a round hole. You can beat it all you want, it is not going to work. Catherine Shanahan: Exactly. Jennifer Hurvitz: My next book, I just signed for my third book, it is about dating and I'm so excited. I'm so excited. Jennifer Hurvitz: [crosstalk 00:16:50]. Catherine Shanahan: I experienced the Match.com when I first got divorced. It always amazed me the people that would show up. One guy showed up and I was with a girlfriend of mine. She came with me, she sat at a different table. He literally said that he put his brother's photo on his Match. It wasn't even him. Looked nothing like it. We're like, "Are you kidding?" He's said, "Yeah, I used my brother's photo." Jennifer Hurvitz: I can't even, I just can't. So my whole thing with- Karen Chellew: What about dating someone who is not divorced, even though they're separated? I'm sure you've run into that a lot. Jennifer Hurvitz: Okay, I have very strong feelings about that, very strong. So this is the problem. In North Carolina you have to be separated for a year before you can actually file. Karen Chellew: South Carolina too. Jennifer Hurvitz: Okay, right. So we do a lot of that here. We do a lot of dating while you're separated. So it's a fine line. In North Carolina we're okay with that because you're separated and everyone dates. But in some circumstances we have something called alienation of affection. So technically in North Carolina you can sue, you can follow this really quick, you can actually sue the person that your spouse cheats on you with. Does that make sense? For a large sum of money, $85,000. Catherine Shanahan: Wow. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes, you have to be real careful of... You have to sign stuff that says you can actually date during your separation period. Karen Chellew: Yeah, the couple signs... makes that agreement? Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes, yes. So like if someone comes to me and says, "I'm fine with dating people who are separated," I'm like, "Okay, I'm glad you're fine with it but how bout your spouse?" Karen Chellew: Well in South Carolina, that's a state that if you date during that year of separation it's considered cheating. Jennifer Hurvitz: Right. Karen Chellew: So you would lose your own alimony if you were an alimony candidate. So every state's different. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes. You got to be real careful. Karen Chellew: Just avoid it in every state and we don't have to worry about this. Jennifer Hurvitz: Exactly, exactly. Let's just wait. And that's the thing, a year's a long time to not date when you... That's the whole point. So it is one of those things. For me- Catherine Shanahan: Plus you're working on getting healthy and independent. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah, yeah. What's wrong with that? Let's do that. Catherine Shanahan: Get your affairs in order. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes. Karen Chellew: I guess the question would be is that person you're dating emotionally available to you if they're just separated. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah, that's the thing. And also I have a really big belief that the first relationship out of the gate for either party is really never going to... People are like, "She's crazy." It's never going to work, that relationship is never going to happen. Everyone's like, "You're wrong, I'm fine, he loves me." I'm like, "Okay, I'll see you in three months." Karen Chellew: I've said that too, I've said that to clients of ours. Jennifer Hurvitz: I believe it. And 99% of the time I hear back from that person and they're like, "You were right. Why didn't you tell me?" I'm like, "I did. I did." I never want to say, "I told you so," but I did. Yeah, I just never- Karen Chellew: What about just going out with the opposite sex or the same sex just for companionship and putting it out there, "I'm not into a relationship but I'm definitely creating new relationships, maybe not a forever"- Jennifer Hurvitz: Well here's how my whole stance right now, since I've started actually doing dating coaching, my whole stance has changed. I really believe that dating... I tell my clients to, "Lower your dating expectations." If everyone thought about dating like you just said, if we all thought about going on dates as meets, instead of saying, "I'm going on a date with..." or, "I have a date from Match." "I have a meet." Jennifer Hurvitz: I tell my clients, "Look, no more dates. They're going to be 15 to 20 minutes and you're not going to care about what you're wearing. We're not going to worry about getting our hair done for five hours, or how much makeup we're wearing, or where we're going for dinner. We're going to go to Starbucks or we're going to go for drinks for 15 minutes, or meet at the park for ice cream. I don't care if you're wearing a baseball hat, I couldn't care less if you're wearing stretch pants. You're going to go on a meet and it's going to be 15 minutes long. That's it, no expectations, go for a meet and have fun, and smile, and be fun and just have a good time, and no more negative Nelly, because no one wants that. And then, guess what? If you don't like the guy, what have you lost? Zero. You've lost 15 minutes of your time and a baseball hat. Right? Who cares?" Karen Chellew: Exactly. Jennifer Hurvitz: Right? So if you lower your expectations and if you don't make it such a big damn deal, if he catfishes you who cares, it was 15 minutes of your time. All this texting for three weeks before a date, for God's sakes. My clients don't do that, I say no. If you- Catherine Shanahan: I love that. A friend of mine would say, "You can't respond yet. You have to wait so many hours or you can't do this. Don't call back yet because they'll think you're too anxious." Jennifer Hurvitz: None of that. I'm going to tell you this. No games, no games with me. No games, nope. I don't believe in any of that. Karen Chellew: So you say no texting at all. Jennifer Hurvitz: I say, "You know what? If you meet someone and you start talking, and you have a connection, and you like each other, you make a date for that week. If you've texted longer than a week, no. There's no reason, there's something wrong. If he's texting you for weeks on end and you're FaceTimimg or whatever and he wants... There's a reason. He's talking to multiple women and that's not your person." Karen Chellew: Right. Jennifer Hurvitz: So a week, you make the date, you go meet, you have coffee, and guess what? If he's not your person, maybe he has a friend that is. Catherine Shanahan: That's what I like, you never know. It's networking. Jennifer Hurvitz: You never know. It's networking. Catherine Shanahan: It's networking dating. Jennifer Hurvitz: There you go. And that's the thing, it's just about lowering the expectations and having a good time, and that's it. Karen Chellew: Absolutely. Catherine Shanahan: Well it takes the pressure off of yourself. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh my gosh! Totally, totally. Catherine Shanahan: Right? Yeah and what about when do you involve your children, what is your opinion on that? Jennifer Hurvitz: You don't want to know. Believe me. My clients are like, "what are you talking about?" As far as I'm concerned, my boyfriend and I have been together three and a half, almost four years and our kids have never met. Karen Chellew: Still? Jennifer Hurvitz: Uh-huh. So I don't believe in blending families. Did you know that? Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Karen Chellew: No I didn't know that. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah. So my kids have met my boyfriend, Jim, they love him. I've met his kids. Our kids know about each other but there's no reason. Unless there's a ring on your finger and you're getting married, why? Catherine Shanahan: What if you never get married and you stay like that forever? Jennifer Hurvitz: That's fine. You know what, here's the thing. I just feel especially...and its different if they little. If they're two and five and seven and six, but until you literally know that this is your person. Your kids have been through a divorce, the chances of you staying with this person. I mean, really? What are the chances of you staying with this person? Are you going to marry them? If you know you're going to marry this person, there's a ring on your finger, then they can meet your kids. Like really or they can meet each other. Karen Chellew: You mean the kids meeting the kids? Jennifer Hurvitz: Sure. Jennifer Hurvitz: [crosstalk 00:24:04] Jennifer Hurvitz: I say, I personally I don't think your kids need to meet the person you are dating until at least eight months to a year. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Karen Chellew: It's another loss for them to go through. Jennifer Hurvitz: Absolutely. Karen Chellew: I see that. Jennifer Hurvitz: It's another loss. It's another, "what's the point?" It's stress on them. I don't say you have to hide them. I mean I think maybe six months to eight months you can say, "you're dating, you met this"... whatever. But I don't think there's any reason, I mean unless you know this is a person that you really see yourself being with, I can tell you both my books I talk about it. Circumstances that my kids have met people in my life and I wish they'd never met them. I wish [crosstalk 00:24:42]... what a waste of time, energy, my boys will tell you, they're like, "why? Why did I have to meet this person? He was a complete loser". I mean- Karen Chellew: What about telling your children that you're going to start dating again? Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh. Karen Chellew: Or just not again but dating. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah. You know what I think it depends... it all depends on the age of the kid. And your relationship too- Karen Chellew: And your child because [crosstalk 00:25:09] Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes, yes. In my opinion, I think your children want you happy. Don't you think? Catherine Shanahan: I agree. Karen Chellew: Absolutely. Jennifer Hurvitz: Your children want you happy and I think at the end of the day, if mom's happy, kids are happy. I also think, and this is just in my opinion, when you start dating... as long as you're happy dating and you can keep that anxiety down. Your kids pick up on your anxiety, so the minute you're unhappy dating, then they know you are. Does that make sense? Karen Chellew: Mm-hmm (affirmative) Catherine Shanahan: Yeah Karen Chellew: Yeah Jennifer Hurvitz: It's just one of those things, if you can keep it away from your kids and not involve them. They don't want to hear about it. They don't want to hear about this guy you went out with. Trust me. Even when people are like, "well I tell my daughter everything, she knows about the guys I go out with..." she doesn't want to hear about it, she doesn't. Not once. You think she does? She doesn't. Now granted, my kids really like my boyfriend and my wusband really likes my boyfriend but it's been four years. On the other hand, his ex-wife... does not. I've never seen her. Catherine Shanahan: Right. Jennifer Hurvitz: I've never seen his ex-wife. We have met once, she wants nothing to do with me. His kids don't really... it depends on the relationship, right? Karen Chellew: Right. Catherine Shanahan: I'm guessing she doesn't call him wusband. Jennifer Hurvitz: No she does not. Karen Chellew: That's hilarious. Jennifer Hurvitz: She doesn't call him. It just depends on... right? Catherine Shanahan: It's the dynamic of the situation, it's very difficult. Like I said, each child is different. I remember asking my son if he was ready for me to date. And I remember asking him once, just don't date anyone like dad's dating, someone that they didn't like. And I was thinking, I would never date someone that my kids didn't like. That wouldn't be good to my kids because my kids are my priority. But then I remember asking them, "how much do you want me to tell you?" My daughter was at FSU, so she was fine. He was home but I was like, "how much do you want me to tell you?" Jennifer Hurvitz: And what did he say? Catherine Shanahan: "No, not much." But my daughter, she wanted to know more. So it will just depend on, everyone's different. You have to respect that. Jennifer Hurvitz: And they want you happy, right? Karen Chellew: Mm-hmm (affirmative) Catherine Shanahan: Exactly. Jennifer Hurvitz: I think they want to hear the happy stuff but like my Zack will tell you, "I do not, mom, this is not my... don't tell me." And I'm like, "but I have no one to talk to" and he's like, "not me mom, it's not going to be me." But then again my boyfriend and Zack will text about shoes, so it's cute. Like you know, I'm happy they're happy. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah it is. That's good, that's really good. Yeah. So I took I the next step, I got remarried. So- Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh, I love it. Catherine Shanahan: I got remarried a year and a half ago. Jennifer Hurvitz: Did you? Catherine Shanahan: My kids love him, so yeah. Jennifer Hurvitz: I'm so happy. Yay. Catherine Shanahan: It is exciting but it is a difficult task when you're going through it. And women who are going through the divorce, especially we deal with a lot of women, [inaudible 00:28:02] women. So they're financially fine, they're going to be okay. Especially when they go through our process they really get the full detail of what their financial situation looks like. And they've made this decision, we can always make a suggestion but they make the decisions, right? So they feel really empowered, believe it or not, at the end of the process, financially. They've created a better story for themselves, financially speaking. Catherine Shanahan: So now though they just have a hard time going to that next step because they're lonely. They've been in lonely marriages, they don't have anything bad to say about their spouses but it's been pretty loveless and they're ready to move on. They don't have to worry about finances. But I always get so worried that they going to make these quick decisions without a coach helping them to say, "no..." I love how you have the questions. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah. Catherine Shanahan: We're going to stick to these and I'm sure there's compromise in there. Jennifer Hurvitz: Of course. Jennifer Hurvitz: [crosstalk 00:28:58] Catherine Shanahan: And how about helping them fill out their profile and all of that, do you work with them with that? Jennifer Hurvitz: I love it. I usually write them. Karen Chellew: Aw that's great. Jennifer Hurvitz: I love it Catherine Shanahan: That's really good. Jennifer Hurvitz: Being a writer, it's so fun for me. To live vicariously through someone, I love it. And it's funny because my boyfriend is an amazing writer too and his profile, it was incredible. So when I have male clients, I- Catherine Shanahan: Is that how you met? Jennifer Hurvitz: We did. We met on Match. Catherine Shanahan: Oh that's awesome. Jennifer Hurvitz: And actually his profile I'm putting in my next book. It was the funniest... it was the best, I don't think I looked at his pictures. His profile was so good, he's just a funny guy. But yeah- Catherine Shanahan: That's awesome. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah. It's just so hard, this whole dating after divorce. The whole... just everything- Karen Chellew: It's a lot. Jennifer Hurvitz: To navigate it's really tough. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Jennifer Hurvitz: And married people don't get it, they don't get it. Catherine Shanahan: That's true- Catherine Shanahan: [crosstalk 00:29:54] Karen Chellew: I'm sorry... Jennifer Hurvitz: No go ahead. Catherine Shanahan: Karen, what were you saying? Karen Chellew: Oh I was just going to say, I've been remarried for 20 years. My kids were really small 11 and seven, when I decided to get remarried- Jennifer Hurvitz: And how did it go? Karen Chellew: I'd been divorced for three years, maybe four years. But in any event, we did a practice. We said, "all right, we'll move in for three months. All three of us have to like it or we're moving back out and I'm not getting married." So we moved in for three months, everybody had a unanimous, "okay" and then we got married. Jennifer Hurvitz: I love that. Did he have kids too? Karen Chellew: No. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh that's [inaudible 00:30:28]. Karen Chellew: We all had to agree. Jennifer Hurvitz: That's the best. Jennifer Hurvitz: [crosstalk 00:30:31] Jennifer Hurvitz: I love that, that's my favorite blending story. If I could find... I tell my clients, "just find a guy without kids, you'll be fine." Karen Chellew: Yeah. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Karen Chellew: Because there could be a lot of complications, even though they think they may love him and adore him. Being under the same roof and in that home, we all has to share the same bathroom... Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh my God. Karen Chellew: So my daughter had to go every other second, so ... Jennifer Hurvitz: It's just hard, isn't it? It's so hard. The whole thing is just... Karen Chellew: Yeah it's a lot. Jennifer Hurvitz: It's hard. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. How long do you think it takes somebody to move... transition through? Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh my gosh. Through the whole- Catherine Shanahan: Be ready for a relationship? Jennifer Hurvitz: I think...you mean before they start dating? Catherine Shanahan: Or even get serious with someone. Jennifer Hurvitz: I think, you know what? I don't know. I think everyone is so different and everyone yells at me all the time. I wish ... I tell my coaching clients before they start dating, to give themselves a year. But no one listens to me and I don't listen to my... people told me a year and I was like, "oh you're crazy, I'm not waiting a year." I wish I would of waited a year. I was so ... oh my gosh. I kicked myself, I was so emotionally not ready. I made the biggest mistake ever, I dated the worst guy on the planet. He was awful, my kids were put through torture. My wusband looks at me now and he's like, "do you believe you did that?" And I was like, "what about you and that girl you dated?" And he's like, "I know, do you believe we did that? Like she was just as awful." We both were like, "what were we thinking." It's just woulda, coulda, shoulda. We wish but you can't take it back, you grow through what you go through? Or is it you go through what you grow through? Catherine Shanahan: Oh I like that. Karen Chellew: I like that. Jennifer Hurvitz: You know you have to learn from your mistakes. Catherine Shanahan: Right. Jennifer Hurvitz: And I wish some of my clients would listen. But they listen to me when I say, go to you guys. So that's good. Karen Chellew: And you know what, we've come across a lot of situations where, when they start dating they actually being preyed upon for financial reasons- Jennifer Hurvitz: That was me. Karen Chellew: Like they want to be... they need a loan or they need money- Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah. The vultures, the vultures. Karen Chellew: And it's all a setup and it's fake people, usually the military. Jennifer Hurvitz: Always military, yes. Usually military. And especially on, OkCupid. Jennifer Hurvitz: [crosstalk 00:32:42] Jennifer Hurvitz: I tell my clients to stay off of... I'm sorry but OkCupid is- Karen Chellew: And Facebook Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh and Facebook dating? Karen Chellew: Facebook is huge. Jennifer Hurvitz: On the Facebook dating app? Because there is a Facebook dating- Karen Chellew: No not the Facebook dating app, just Facebook. Jennifer Hurvitz: Okay. You know where I find, is really... this is so crazy, LinkedIn is a huge dating pool now. Karen Chellew: Wow. Catherine Shanahan: I know I get all these requests and I don't [inaudible 00:33:05]- Karen Chellew: I don't think they're real people. Jennifer Hurvitz: I don't either but that's funny. I can tell you guys stories, I mean it's just crazy, in my next book... the guys that I went out with. And the worst part is they Googled my ex, they Googled my wusband. Catherine Shanahan: Oh my gosh. Jennifer Hurvitz: It's disgusting. I had a guy once that took the bill at the end of the night and slid it across the table and tapped on it and said, "you got this." And I was like, "excuse me?" He was like, "I Googled your ex." Catherine Shanahan: Oh my gosh! Jennifer Hurvitz: And I was like, "you know what?" I remember I used to go to the same... Dean & DeLuca because the bartender there would take care of me, he would protect me. And he knew and he looked at me and he goes, "no." He took it and he's like, "I got this, you need to leave." Karen Chellew: Wow. Catherine Shanahan: Wow. Yeah. Karen Chellew: Guardian angels. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah. It's awful, what we [crosstalk 00:33:53]. Karen Chellew: There's a lot of it out there. Jennifer Hurvitz: This person assumed that because my ex worked at X, Y and Z that I had all this... that my alimony must be whatever... he knew nothing but he just assumed. It's disgusting, it's disgusting! Karen Chellew: Yeah. It is disgusting and a lot of people fall prey to that. Jennifer Hurvitz: It's awful. Yep. Karen Chellew: Yeah Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Jennifer Hurvitz: So luckily- [crosstalk 00:34:14] Karen Chellew: So if they asking you for money or they sending you off money or if they ever ask you about your financials, think about it as a red flag, ladies. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes, huge red flag. Huge. Karen Chellew: A lot of times I'll say another red flag is, have you met them? And so many times, it's "no they don't live close, they're in the military. They only coming home in six months." And by then they've already asked for money. They've sent the [inaudible 00:34:39] to supportive emails and so forth. Yeah, it's awful. Catherine Shanahan: Well I think that's a really good point, when you feel like you're... if you're listening right now and you feel like you're in a position where you couldn't afford to get some help. And you just turned to the internet and you meant somebody, who is not really there for you. You haven't met, if you're hearing any of these red flags. It might be the time to really re-budget yourself and get a coach, like Jennifer who can be your Devil's advocate at times. We all need that, right? Catherine Shanahan: Get your life in order and find where the void is because sometimes it might not just be another person. Maybe you just need to do something different with yourself. Even as simple as getting a new hairstyle, I always say. Maybe start with these little things but have someone like... this is where you would be great for someone, who's just feeling like there's nowhere to turn. And it just needs somebody to work as a girlfriend but who is an advisor- Jennifer Hurvitz: That's what I tell my- [crosstalk 00:35:41] Jennifer Hurvitz: I'm like a thinking partner- Catherine Shanahan: And don't be ashamed of yourself if you've made these mistakes already. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh yeah. No, no. Catherine Shanahan: Because so many people... I mean we're all sitting here talking about things that we've done, right? And there are a lot of people feel like they're in it, the rabbit hole and they're not going to get out. You can still get out. Jennifer Hurvitz: I had a guy on OkCupid, that I talked to and talked to. And we went offline and I gave him my phone number. This will make everyone feel better... and he texted me and then a couple minutes later, he went dark. Like done and I had his name and I Googled him. He used a dead person's profile. Karen Chellew: Oh geez. Jennifer Hurvitz: [inaudible 00:36:17] Catherine Shanahan: Yeah, that's sick. Jennifer Hurvitz: And he had already gone in into my bank. He used my name, my address. He must have seen something on... like a picture with my address on it. He spoke like... I don't, you don't even know how. Oh my gosh, I had the FBI, I had OkCupid. It was just absolute ... people [inaudible 00:36:35]. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Jennifer Hurvitz: So don't feel bad, never feel bad. Karen Chellew: You have to be so careful. Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Right. Jennifer Hurvitz: So it happens to the best of us. It can happen to anyone. Catherine Shanahan: Hind sight is always the best sight, right? Jennifer Hurvitz: That's right. That's right, yeah. Karen Chellew: Oh Jennifer, I'm sure you're just so valuable to so many people. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh thank you, thank you. I love helping, so I love what I do. It's fine, let your girlfriends know. Karen Chellew: It's needed. It's so needed and it's nice to go to someone who is authentic, who stands behind her mistakes. Who's willing to share those and be vulnerable about it. Because again, we always learn from people who have gone through it. I think the best... I'm a learner like that. So I think it's great that you're out there for them, so happy. Jennifer Hurvitz: Thank you, thank you. Jennifer Hurvitz: Thanks for having me guys. Karen Chellew: You said you have a... how do your consults work? Jennifer Hurvitz: I have a 30 minute free consult. Anyone can find me on my website, you just send me a little email through my website, jenniferhurvitz.com. And you setup a 30 minute consult and I can pretty much in 15 minutes tell you... you're either hanging out with me or I'll send you somewhere like, to you. I send a lot of people... I say you need someone bigger than me or you need a therapist or I'm probably not the right thing or when you're ready to date, come back. Yeah I end up sending a lot of people and- Catherine Shanahan: Thank you for not being a vulture. Jennifer Hurvitz: Aw, no I don't. And sometimes people reach out to me. I get a lot of married people because they're stuck in their marriages and they're not sure if they should stay or they should go. Because that was my second book, "a divorce coaches guide to staying married." So people oscillate and they don't know if they should take that leap and I kind of... that's kind of my jam too. So- Catherine Shanahan: We get that too because they're afraid to see what their financial lives looks like afterwards or they need to know that. Or they just don't know what their life looks like now. They know they've been living a good life because their materialistic things are being met. But they're not really sure, so a lot of times we get a lot of people that come to us to get their portrait done and then they decide. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh that's a great idea. Oh I should send them... because I never know. That's a huge part of it, I know that a lot of- Karen Chellew: Its very clarifying. Jennifer Hurvitz: They're so scared and most people, I say to them, "well what are the top three reasons why you want to stay." And they say, "my children, my financial and I feel guilty." And I'm like... and that's when I should say, let me send them to you. Catherine Shanahan: You know what's interesting about that, if you ask them further... you'll say, "well what makes you think financially you can't afford it?" "Well my husband said, I won't get his pension." "My husband said, I won't be able to afford this." Or "my husband said..." so these women are living in fear. I shouldn't just say women because it goes the other way as well. So they think, "oh my gosh, I won't get any retirement..." we have something saved for my own retirement, I have so many people when you go through their IRA's, "oh my IRA only has 12,000 in it because we put it all into his... so now I don't have one, and he says he's keeping his and I'm going to keep mine." Well no, that not the way it works. Jennifer Hurvitz: And you're like, "uh-uh" Catherine Shanahan: So when they come through and get their financial portrait done, they get to see really what their household looks like. Jennifer Hurvitz: Right, right. Catherine Shanahan: And then what it would look like possibly afterwards. Jennifer Hurvitz: Right. Catherine Shanahan: And then they make a decision based on that. Jennifer Hurvitz: On the facts. Karen Chellew: And then sometimes they're going to say, "I can do this" and other times it's, "I am not signing up for that, I'm going right to marriage counseling." Jennifer Hurvitz: "I'm going to fix this fast." Jennifer Hurvitz: "Ah, no way. Thank you, yeah." Jennifer Hurvitz: It's funny because I was just really lucky because you know, I was horrified. I was really scared and I remember looking at my wusband and saying, "I'm scared, I'm horrified." And he was like, "I got you." So I was really lucky- Karen Chellew: Yeah that's great. Jennifer Hurvitz: I cry when I think about it because I was horrified and we were in mediation and I remember looking at him and going, "I don't know, Mark, like where am I going to be?" And he's like, "Jen, breathe I got you." And to this day we are just such good friends. So- Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Karen Chellew: That's awesome. Catherine Shanahan: And that's really good and there's hope for everybody but if you're listening to that we still want you to get your agreement reviewed before you sign it. Because often times- Jennifer Hurvitz: That's not the case... that is not the case. Catherine Shanahan: Well your wusband sounds fabulous- Jennifer Hurvitz: He's great. Catherine Shanahan: But often times there are promises made that are quickly broken- Jennifer Hurvitz: Sure. Catherine Shanahan: As soon as the agreement is signed, so... Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes, yes... oh God. Catherine Shanahan: And again, we say this all the time... listen, use your clarity. You make the decision based on that and if you want to give that all away, or you want to give up on that. It's your divorce, go ahead and do it but do it with the financial clarity that you need. Not by emotions or someone promising you something. Jennifer Hurvitz: But wait a minute, don't a lot of women you find... I know that we have to go because we've been talking so long, I'm sorry... Catherine Shanahan: We can talk forever. Jennifer Hurvitz: But don't a lot of women, you feel they get to the table and they're like, "I don't care, just give it. I want to get out of here..." Karen Chellew: Yes. Catherine Shanahan: Yes. Jennifer Hurvitz: "Just take it" why? Why? Why? Karen Chellew: It's the same thing happens, twice. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh no, no. Catherine Shanahan: They've gotten to a point, for example someone called last week. She did her consult and I said, "you know"... Karen mentioned earlier, people think they've got it together and we're all about mediating and getting your resolution between... avoiding the court system. But, "okay let me ask you a few questions." Well she literally was signing away on $250,000. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh my God! Catherine Shanahan: The husband called and he was really mad because Karen was telling him, "well this is what we do." Blah blah blah, you may have an agreement but there's some open-ended questions and he probably scared her and so she's going to sign off. And I'll tell you this, next year she'll be regre... not even next year. But she's going to regret it. But what happens is they lose patience, which is why we have an article on patience. Everybody wants to [inaudible 00:42:11] and say, "oh gosh, I hope this lasts forever. I love the divorce phase." Everybody says, "I need this done, it's and emergency. I need it done." As if it's the last one out there. But it's not the case, you need to take your time and know how this will impact you. And if you know it's going to impact you then, okay you made the choice and you can live with the consequence. But I feel like your job, Jennifer would be so much harder for somebody who is living with regret. Jennifer Hurvitz: Oh yeah. Catherine Shanahan: To move on. Regret that they didn't take this opportunity for themselves to find out what their financial life was really going to look like. Because when you have regret, it's so hard to move forward. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yes. And you know, a lot of people feel like too, they think that they're going to be fine because they didn't do the work. They're like, "no, no I know I'm good. Financially I'm fine, I can't imagine I'm going to have a problem." And then they sign, and then they're like, "Oh, if only I would have." Right? Catherine Shanahan: Yeah. Jennifer Hurvitz: "If only I would have seen." Because now I'm sitting here going and I'm like, "well why didn't you?" You want to... Catherine Shanahan: Right. Karen Chellew: And it's really all about that financial clarity. I was speaking with someone last week and they're close but they're still like probably, $100,000 apart. And I said, "you have a choice, based on your budget and based on what this is you're going to be fine. You can maintain your lifestyle, you're going to be fine. Yes you deserve this extra money, you get to decide now, do I want to spend another $10,000 in legal fees to get this and another year, probably of stress to get to court. You get to decide, either way you're going to win. You're either going to win emotionally or you're going to win by getting the money that's coming to you, it's clear and cut here." So when you have that level of clarity, that you can just say, "I know my budget, I've got my lifestyle. I can do this. But you know what? It's mine so I'm going to take it, I'm going to invest that extra money." It's less emotional because it's all right there in front of you and that's just so valuable. Because either decision she makes is perfect. Karen Chellew: [inaudible 00:44:25] Catherine Shanahan: So get your financial portrait out there, ladies and gentleman. Make sure you have clear decisions and then if you just need... that you feel like you need someone to bounce it off of, that's why Jennifer is perfect for that. We all feel like we always need somebody to talk to make a decision for yourself all the time and it is nice to have someone to balance it off of and just get a real honest opinion and that's why having you as a coach and a cheerleader gives people the momentum they need to move forward [crosstalk 00:44:57] without any financial clarity because you won't be able to afford her. Jennifer Hurvitz: I tell people I'm their thinking partner. Catherine Shanahan: Great, I love that. You're a thinking partner. That's really awesome. Karen Chellew: You're like taking them over the bridge to be independent and dating, it's so great because that's so scary. I have this image of a person just holding their box of stuff, "okay got it, now what?" Jennifer Hurvitz: That was me. I was like, "where am I going? Where am I going?" And my poor babies behind me, they were like, "mom! What are we..." and I'm like, "come on guys, we'll be fine..." it's scary, it's scary. Catherine Shanahan: It is. Catherine Shanahan: [crosstalk 00:45:37] Jennifer Hurvitz: Everyone's going to be okay. I feel like everyone- Karen Chellew: [crosstalk 00:45:37] before you get married again. It's never bad to do your financial portrait. This way you have an idea of what you're going in with. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yep. Karen Chellew: To prepare. Jennifer Hurvitz: Yeah maybe I should come see you guys. I have a financial planner but he yells at me all the time, "What are you doing Jen?" And I'm like, "I don't know, I just..." He calls me, I ignore his calls. Karen Chellew: Aw that's great. You're hilarious. Well Jen thank you for being on with us today, it's truly been fun and helpful and informative and I'm sure invaluable to so many listeners. Jennifer Hurvitz: I hope so. Karen Chellew: So, thank you. Karen Chellew: [crosstalk 00:46:14] and keep us posted on everything that's happening with you. Jennifer Hurvitz: I will and thank you, so much you guys. Have a great day. Catherine Shanahan: Thank you. You too, lets do it again soon. Jennifer Hurvitz: Absolutely.  

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Gary has been one of the top buyers for years at Napa's Premier Napa Valley. Listen in as Ilona learns more about his past and his vision for his new store in the former Dean & Deluca location.

Gary has been one of the top buyers for years at Napa's Premier Napa Valley. Listen in as Ilona learns more about his past and his vision for his new store in the former Dean & Deluca location.

Sheila Spector has lived and cooked all over the U.S., both in her own kitchen, in commercial kitchens, culinary shops, synagogues, and community centers. A dyed-in-the-wool cook, Sheila once sold her rugula to Dean & Deluca in Georgetown, Washington, D.C. and continues to sell it each year at San Luis Obispo’s Apples & Honey Festival, hosted by the Jewish Community Center Federation. Sheila and I talked about baking cakes without yeast or flour during Passover, her mother’s legacy, and about her blog, dinneratsheilas.com, which she started on a whim.  

Dan Gloats about the Mets.  Shocking Behavior on the 19th Century Dancefloor.  Demise of Dean & Deluca.  Daniel Jones.  Wow.  Electric Harleys. Meh. Fun with Frizzantes.  The New (ex-veggie) Butchers.  Phil Hymes & What Lighting Can Do. Credits: Talent:  Tamsen Granger and Dan Abuhoff Engineer:  Ellie Suttmeier Art:  Zeke Abuhoff

It’s been a terribly confusing week, but luckily we were joined by a special guest, jack of all trades John Jannuzzi, who helped us clear up and shut down topics like the FaceApp, created by a Russian company that is harvesting our biometrics a year before a presidential election. (Everything’s fine.) Also on the docket: Millennial women are being haunted on Instagram by a Danny DeVito crop top; a reporter caused a stir at Treasury Secretary Steve Mnuchin’s cryptocurrency press conference by wearing Google Glass; millions of people are getting ready to storm Area 51 by using an anime-inspired jogging technique; a man compares himself to Martin Luther King Jr. after having a misogynistic meltdown in a Long Island bagel store; and, finally, we wax nostalgic for embattled grocer Dean & Deluca.    HEAR US ON ITUNEShttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/this-week-in-nope/ OVERCAST https://overcast.fm/itunes1312654524/this-week-in-nope  SPOTIFY https://open.spotify.com/show/07WFZhd5bgY1l1BspArfRJ STITCHER https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/this-week-in-nope POCKET CASTS https://pca.st/SrJY RADIO PUBLIC https://radiopublic.com/this-week-in-nope-GAOx3N    In this week’s episode:  Here’s the guy who wore Google Glass to the cryptocurrency press conference.  Watch the viral video of the Bagel Guy.  Learn more about the sad state of affairs at Dean & Deluca.    Big #YUPs to… The “Hustlers” movie trailer.  Listening to Bollywood music at the gym (check out John’s “Bollylift” playlist here.)  Bonobos shirts (and their content!)  Jannuzzi’s Cookies, John’s delicious side hustle. Order here!  And follow John Jannuzzi on Twitter. 

The weird thing about the internet is that you can discover people and without meeting them in person know quite a lot their tastes, interests, and life. If you follow them long enough you start to feel like you  eventually even feel like you're friends. Of course you're not fully friends because they know nothing about you. Today's conversation is one of the rare (yet becoming more frequent for me) occasions where an internet friend becomes a real friend live on the podcast (over Skype in this case). I've been getting to know Christine for years through being entertained by her Vlogs, discovering new music & brands through her favorites videos, style tips from her daily uniform series, and feeling inspired from her apartment tours & intimate interviews on YouTube. I'm so glad this conversation lived up to my expectation of what Christine would be like live. She was ever bit as thoughtful, earnest, and wise as she comes off in the hundreds of YouTube videos. While Christine went to film school and began on YouTube when she was just 18 she's an eclectic creative who has interests ranging from home decor to film photography to make-up to design. We get into everything from a cultivating a career as a creative freelancer to recovering after a tough breakup to handling aging and body image and creating community. We talk about style and religion and family and travel and everything in between. I loved meeting her and having this meandering conversation which I think you'll love too.  Notes from the Show:-Find Chrissstttiiine on Instagram | YouTube | Twitter | Tumblr | blog-she loves Jesse Kamm pants-the apartment and home tours she does-Badbutnotgood on Spotify-the Marco Polo tea she loves... you can also find it at Dean & Deluca in NYC (or other areas)-Book — anything by Haruki Murakami-Movie — This is England, The 400 Blows, Fight Club-TV - Freaks and Geeks, Vice News, Sex in the City-Podcast - The Daily Cool Things to Check-Out:-Interested in publishing something yourself? Hay House has a some great videos with insider tips for becoming a published author I highly recommend checking out.-My friend Robyn Youkilis is doing a 'Chewing Challenge' that dives into brining more mindfulness to your eating. It's free and I totally recommend checking it out!-Grab the e-book version of Let It Out: A Journey Through Journaling for only $1.99 for the month of October 2017!  Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble or iBooks.-The Good Fest will be in L.A. on Feb. 3rd, 2018 !! Get $10 off with the code "KATIEDALEBOUT"-Sign-up for my newsletter to get updates on where I'll be and what I'm loving!-Join the listener Facebook Group-Get my book Let It Out: A Journey Through Journaling or leave a review if you have read it.— Show Sponsors —QuarterlaneGet 25% off a collection or your first subscription with the code LETITOUT25I'm excited to share with you guys this super cool quarterly book subscription service that brings the most celebrated books of the season to your doorstep. Each shipment is “a literary box that speaks to your soul each season” bringing you beautiful books that invite you to embark on a new journey through the narratives of today's most celebrated authors. As a member of the Quarterlane community,  you’ll receive early access to the most anticipated books of the season, exclusive benefits and special literary perks.  Get 25% off a collection or your first subscription with the code LETITOUT25Care/OfHave you signed up and tried out Care/Of yet?? If you have tweet me your pics of your cute packs! If not you NEED to give them a try. Why do I love them so much?  Care/Of creates personalized supplement packets for you based on your unique needs and delivers them in daily customized packets for 20% less than comparable brands. They come in cute customizable packages (that have your name on them!) making them easy to take with you on the go and know exactly what to take each day.  It's a win-win-win, you save time, you save money and your optimizing your health specific to YOU.Enter the code "KATIE" at checkout for 50% off your first order. 

PGATour Pro & winner of the Dean & Deluca in 2017, Kevin Kisner, stops by the Tour Junkies podcast to talk about his recent success.  David & Pat put Kiz through the ringer on "The Native Area" segment where Kiz addresses Asian utility belts at Pro Am's, Phil Mickelson drama, and which celebrity he'd like to punch in the face. David even gets the go ahead from Kiz on a marketing move he's been wanting to catch "fire." Thank you for taking the time to listen to the Tour Junkies Podcast. David & Pat strive to bring the best research, analysis & humor to keep your listening enjoyable…not just informative. You can support the Podcast further by doing a few things to spread the word & improve the quality of the show.      - Be sure & “Download” this episode rather than simply stream. The guys get more credit for downloads.      - Go to iTunes & leave an honest review of the show. This improves the iTunes ranking & allows more people to discover the show.      - Follow the Tour Junkies on social media like Twitter ( @Tour_Junkies ), Instagram (@Tour_Junkies ), & FaceBook (Tour Junkies).      - Go to www.TourJunkies.net & check out the fresh content, learn about the guys & buy stuff from the TJ SHOP (Please…Pretty Please).  As always, thank you for making the Tour Junkies your trusted source for all things PGATour & Fantasy Golf. May your screens be green!

Bryan and Tyler recap the Dean & Deluca before diving into details about Bryan's recent Match Play battle against the 4-time defending female champion at his club. They debate which format is better (stroke vs. match) and go deep on why they even play golf to begin with. It should also be noted they spent ZERO time talking about Tiger Woods' DUI because how really wants more takes on that? Show Notes: Our YA BOY list Video of (the beginning of) our match play Want more of the Hosel Jockeys? Support the podcast and get bonus golf content and bonus non-golf content plus other perks via Patreon: Patreon.com/hoseljockeys Are you subscribed? Subscribe on iTunes or Android to have new episodes sent to your device as soon as they become available. Got a question for us? Call us at 717-666-7025 and leave a message and we’ll likely play it and answer it on the podcast Want to join us on the Internet? Twitter | Facebook | Instagram

Bryan and Tyler recap the playoff at the Byron Nelson, preview the Dean & Deluca, go over their prop bet predictions for Tiger Woods' 2017 season, and talk about Bryan's first experience playing member matches at his new club. Show Notes: James Hahn's near hole-out Our YA BOY list Video of (the beginning of) our match play Want more of the Hosel Jockeys? Support the podcast and get bonus golf content and bonus non-golf content plus other perks via Patreon: Patreon.com/hoseljockeys Are you subscribed? Subscribe on iTunes or Android to have new episodes sent to your device as soon as they become available. Got a question for us? Call us at 717-666-7025 and leave a message and we’ll likely play it and answer it on the podcast Want to join us on the Internet? Twitter | Facebook | Instagram

The combined forces of BevNET and Project NOSH descended on the Fancy Food Show in Manhattan a couple of weeks ago, and while the beverage team has already given its take, let’s face it — there’s a heck of a lot more solids on display in the aisle than liquids. And that means this edition of the BevNET Podcast is a perfect chance to throw Project NOSH editor Carol Ortenberg and Marketing Specialist Jacqui Brugliera into the line of microphone fire alongside Jon Landis and Jeff Klineman to discuss the seismic changes overcoming this retail channel, which has so long been the realm of luxury and indulgence. The discussion centers around the way overwhelming consumer trends toward cleaner foods and special diets are washing over the channel, causing even spreads, snacks, and high-end epicurean products to develop varieties that fit paleo, non-GMO, organic, and other shopper requirements. It also looks to the history of the channel, introducing the “Mount Rushmore” of New York specialty foods: Dean & Deluca, Balducci’s, Fairway, and… Stew Leonard’s?

When it comes to partnering with big box retailers, there are many myths small business owners should be aware of. How exactly do you go about setting up a partnership? What do big box retailers expect from small businesses? Is it worthwhile? In this episode of Xero Gravity, Gene and Elizabeth chat with Laura Curtis, founder of Malvi Marshmallow Confections, and Howard Saunders, retail futurist with 22nd and 5th Limited, about making these partnerships work. Laura shares insights from partnerships such as Dean & DeLuca and Anthropologie, while Howard shares nuggets from his 25 years in retail. “Big Retailers aren’t going to make a fortune out of you. You will make a profit, but the reason they need small business is to make them look locally connected.”  And there’s much more where that came from. Ear we go!

Bill founded his company in 2007 after starting to work with chocolates in 2005 as a hobby. Dean & Deluca became his first client, and today he appears on HSN. His chocolates have won over 100 awards and appeared in the motion picture The Hunger Games. It all started with a friend's advice: Find something you love to do, and then find a way to make money doing it.