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Are you ready to embark on a life-changing journey towards self-love and personal growth? Dive into our latest episode with Dr. Margaret Paul as she unveils the transformative power of Inner Bonding. This unique process teaches us to genuinely love ourselves by connecting with our inner child and higher guidance and empowers us to heal our deepest wounds and shift away from control-seeking behaviours. Dr. Margaret guides us through the importance of recognising and processing our emotions, revealing how they serve as crucial guides on our path to self-awareness. With personal anecdotes and expert advice, she illustrates how elevating our frequency through self-love can open us to profound, guiding insights, fundamentally enhancing our relationships, health, emotional wellbeing, and even financial prosperity. Join us as Dr. Margaret shares inspiring success stories and practical tools for incorporating Inner Bonding into daily life, promising a journey towards a love-driven existence that aligns with our highest self. About Dr. Margaret Paul Dr. Margaret Paul is a dynamic bestselling author and relationship guru with a passion for transforming lives through the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process. With a presence that has graced radio and television alike, including Oprah, Margaret’s work spans influential books like “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You” (with over 1 million copies sold), “Healing Your Aloneness,” and “Inner Bonding,” to her latest contributions including “Diet For Divine Connection” and “The Inner Bonding Workbook.” Her extensive experience, over 54 years of teaching classes and seminars worldwide, has empowered hundreds of thousands to forge stronger connections with themselves and others, making her a beacon of hope and strength in the journey towards self-love and holistic healing. You can watch the video of the interview on YouTube Find Out More About Dr. Margaret Paul Visit the Inner Bonding Website Connect with Inner Bonding on Facebook Follow Dr. Margaret Paul and Inner Bonding on Instagram @innerbonding1 3 Free Ebooks: The 4 Mistakes that Block Self-Love and Relationships The 6 Reasons Why Loving Yourself Is Essential for Inner Peace, Joy, and Loving Relationships 3 Secrets to Loving Yourself and Others

Donald Quist jumps into the first episode of Seinfeld's second season, “The Ex-Girlfriend.” He expounds on earlier comments about cognitive dissonance, talks about whaling and the excitement of imperfect novels, and gabs about the enduring popularity of self-help books in America.  Here are the books and authors discussed in this episode: The Jungle Book by Rudyard Kipling The Lottery by Shirley Jackson Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? By Jordan & Margaret Paul, Ph.D Staying Well with the Gentle Art of Verbal Defense by Susan Haden Elgin, Ph.D I'm Okay, You're Okay by Thomas A. Harris, Ph.D Moby Dick by Herman Melville “How to Want Less” by Arthur C. Brooks (The Atlantic) Dhonielle Clayton

One of the toughest challenges in a relationship is being able to forge our own individual selves. And it isn't always something that gets easier over time.  Our ability to create a strong separate self independent of a couple relationship is strongly influenced by how we grew up, and what our relationship with our parents was like. In this episode Andrew talks with psychosexual therapist Juliet Grayson about the question “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You? Juliet Grayson provides extensive training courses and workshops for therapists, including training in attachment informed couple therapy, creative writing in the therapeutic encounter, and the Pesso Boyden system of psychotherapy. Her website hosts many informative webinars, covering numerous topics including shame, death and relationships.  If You're Looking for More…. You can subscribe to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts) and hear a bonus mini-episode every week. Or you can join our Supporters Club on Patreon to also access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests  and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  This week supporters will hear: ⭐️How to feel less guilty. ⭐️Three things Juliet Grayson knows to be true. ⭐️AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Read Andrew's new Substack newsletter The Meaningful Life, and join the community there. Read Juliet Grayson's book, Landscapes of the Heart . Juliet Grayson has the following websites: www.therapyandcounselling.co.uk https://jandw.thinkific.com/ www.landscapesoftheheart.co.uk www.sexuallyinappropriatebehaviour.org Read some of the books discussed in this episode: Kahlil Gibrain's The Prophet, Getting to Yes by Roger Fisher and William Ury, Getting Past No by William Ury, The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk. Learn more about the Pesso Boyden method  You might enjoy other episodes on relationship themes; including therapists Michelle Farris on Seven Signs You Might be Co-Dependent and Terry Real on The Five Traps that Undermine Your Love. Read Andrew's book I Love You But I'm Not in Love With You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship  Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall   

Dr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, popular MindBodyGreen writer, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing online program. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You, Healing Your Aloneness and Inner Bonding, and the recently published, Diet For Divine Connection and The Inner Bonding Workbook. Margaret holds a Ph.D. in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant, and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years.  Today we're chatting about...  What the Inner Bonding process looks like How Margaret defines the inner child and the inner adult The two intentions of Inner Bonding How to know when you're in a loving adult state What happens when your adult becomes disconnected from your inner child The four major ways you abandon yourself How self-abandonment leads to the presentation of mental health symptoms What Margaret believes is the cause of our suffering How abandonment in childhood plays out in relationships Why it's never too late to use the inner bonding process How caretaking and niceness could be your wounded self attempting to control Tips to help kiddos learn inner bonding How to respond to someone who has a wounded soul ____________________________ Click here to download your anxiety freebie today! ____________________________ COURAGEOUSLY.U SHOW NOTES:  https://courageouslyu.com/margaret-paul/   COURAGEOUSLY.U FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1416219115169393   COURAGEOUSLY.U INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/courageously.u/  

Dr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, popular MindBodyGreen writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing online program - recommended by author Marci Shimoff, actress Lindsay Wagner, and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You (and subsequent titles Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God, and ...By My Kids), Healing Your Aloneness and Inner Bonding, and the recently published, Diet For Divine Connection and The Inner Bonding Workbook. Margaret holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years. Find her http://www.innerbonding.com/welcome (free Inner Bonding course) online and join Dr. Margaret for her http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.html ("Love Yourself" Course).  Margaret lives in Colorado on a 35-acre ranch. She has three children and three grandchildren. In her spare time, she loves to paint, ride her horse, cook delicious healthy food, read, make pottery, and joyously live her life as a Golden Girl with her best friend. 3:51 Why we should be talking about self-love. 8:03 Investigating what ultimately drives us to self-loathing. 11:29 Inner Bonding: a six-step process to help us learn self-love. 21:21 How Dr. Paul came to develop the Inner Bonding process. 24:33 How to embrace your inner process alongside others who are on their own healing journeys. 27:23 How mindfulness plays a role in the Inner Bonding process. 30:44 The story behind Dr. Paul's book "Diet For Divine Connection." Links mentioned in this episode: https://innerbonding.com/ (Inner Bonding Website) https://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.html ("Love Yourself" Course) https://selfquest.com/ (SelfQuest) Online Program This episode is sponsored by http://www.getchews.com/ (TotumVos Collagen Chews). You can find TotumVos at www.getchews.com. *Use code DRDIVA for an additional 10% off your first order.

When we learn to love ourselves, everything changes. To stop rejecting and abandoning ourselves is a deep, frequently unmet need. Dr. Margaret Paul, Co-Creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, is forging a different path. As a public speaker, consultant, and best-selling author with a PhD in Psychology and thousands of success stories, Dr. Paul has built a powerful legacy. Like many others, however, her journey wasn’t easy, and included many years of surviving before she learned to truly thrive.   About the Guest: MARGARET PAULis a bestselling author, popular MindBodyGreen writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing online program - recommended by author Marci Shimoff, actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows(including Oprah). Her book titles include Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You (and subsequent titles Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God, and ...By My Kids), Healing Your Aloneness and Inner Bonding, and the recently published, Diet For Divine Connection and The Inner Bonding Workbook. Margaret holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years. Go to http://www.innerbonding.com/welcome for a free Inner Bonding course and join Dr. Margaret for her "Love Yourself" Course at http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.html.  Margaret lives in Colorado on a 35-acre ranch. She has three children and three grandchildren. In her spare time, she loves to paint, ride her horse, cook delicious healthy food, read, make pottery, and joyously live her life as a Golden Girl with her best friend.   Personal Links: https://www.innerbonding.com Free Inner Bonding Course  SelfQuest®: The Inner Bonding online program The Ultimate Collection: Complete Self Love     About the Host: Dan McPherson, International Speaker, Business and Personal Development Coach, and CEO of Leaders Must Lead, is on a mission to help Creatives and Entrepreneurs create and grow profit and understand that Dreams ARE Real. With more than 25 years’ experience in corporate roles leading teams of up to 2000 and responsible for more than $150M in revenue, Dan is a recognized expert in leadership, sales, and business strategy. Through his Leaders Must Learn Mastermind, Dreams ARE Real Podcast, Foundations of Success Training, and powerful 1-1 coaching, Dan helps hundreds of entrepreneurs around the world from musicians and artists to chiropractors, coaches, retailers, and beyond experience success and accomplish their goals. To learn more about Dan or to follow him on Social Media, you can find him on: Website: www.leadersmustlead.com Leaders Must Lead Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leadersmustlead Free Coaching Assessment: https://leadersmustlead.com/free-coaching-assessment Dreams are Real Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/365493184118010/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leadersmustlead/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/leadersmustlead YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZXypDeFKyZnpeQXcX-AsBQ   Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to my podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a note in the comment section below! Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcasts review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to me and greatly appreciated. They help my podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes the show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

Do you feel confused, stuck, or frustrated on the business journey?Do you have an inner critic that beats you down?Are you ready and open to higher levels of love, compassion, and guidance?If so, this is the episode for you!Allow Margaret Paul to walk you through the process of how to heal your inner conflicts, connect with your higher guidance and give your divine gifts to the world.What you will learn:The 4 ways we abandon ourselves The 6 steps to inner bonding How to heighten your frequency for access to inner guidanceHow to apply these steps on the entrepreneurial journeySo who is Margaret?Dr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, popular MindBodyGreen writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing online program - recommended by author Marci Shimoff, actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You (and subsequent titles Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God, and ...By My Kids), Healing Your Aloneness and Inner Bonding, and the recently published, Diet For Divine Connection and The Inner Bonding Workbook. Margaret holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years. Go to http://www.innerbonding.com/welcome for a free Inner Bonding course and join Dr. Margaret for her "Love Yourself" Course at http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.html. Margaret lives in Colorado on a 35-acre ranch. She has three children and three grandchildren. In her spare time, she loves to paint, ride her horse, cook delicious healthy food, read, make pottery, and joyously live her life as a Golden Girl with her best friend.To connect with Margaret further and start your journey of Inner Bonding, visit the links below:https://innerbonding.com https://www.facebook.com/innerbonding https://twitter.com/innerbonding https://www.youtube.com/user/innerbond https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-bonding/id1512596604  If you would like to join the community of heart-centered business owners who are excited to connect and collaborate with you, please visit the link below:https://www.facebook.com/groups/theservingcircle/

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Dr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, recommended by author Marci Shimoff, actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You, Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding” and the recently released Diet For Divine Connection (2018) and The Inner Bonding Workbook (2019). Margaret has successfully worked with thousands around the world and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years. Listen & Subscribe on: iTunes / Stitcher / Podbean / Overcast / Spotify Contact Info Company: Inner Bonding Website: InnerBonding.com Book: Diet for Divine Connection by Dr. Margaret Paul Podcast: Inner Bonding Podcast Most Influential Person James Bugental, Existential-Humanistic Therapy Movement Effect on Emotions “Mindfulness is everything for me. To me, it is being aware of my emotions and it has increased my perceptiveness, my ability to stay present, help others, and take responsibility for my feelings.” Thoughts on Breathing “Breathing is being aware, using my breath to get present in my body.” Suggested Resources Book: Diet for Divine Connection by Dr. Margaret Paul App: Healing Music, Pomodoro Apps Bullying Story “I'm working with a mother whose daughter was being bullied by a boy. Her daughter came home and said to her that she told the boy; I know that underneath you're a really nice kid and I feel so sad that you hate yourself so much that you are treating me this way.” Related Episodes 514 Chakra Healing; Dr. Susan Shumsky 488 Vibrational Healing energy Work; Debbie A. Anderson 348 The BodyMind To Heal; Elisabeth Misner Free Gift Get Bruce Langford's free training called The Stand Up Now Blueprint. Are certain areas of your life a struggle? Do you ever feel overwhelmed with anxiety & stress? How would you like to enjoy more contentment and happiness? In this training, you'll learn 5 Simple Ways To Move From Struggling To Productive. You’ll begin to accomplish things that truly matter to YOU in your life. Get the Free training at: www.standupnowblueprint.com/register

Dana Laake and her special guest Dr. Margaret Paul will discuss inner bonding, the power to heal and love yourself. Dr. Margaret Paul holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She is a bestselling author and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing online program. Her book titles include, Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You (and subsequent titles, Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God, and…By My Kids), Healing Your Aloneness and Inner Bonding, and the recently published, Diet For Divine Connection and The Inner Bonding Workbook. Margaret has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years.

Beyond Junk Foods and Junk Thoughts with Dr. Margaret Paul DR. MARGARET PAUL is a bestselling author, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You (over 1 million sold), Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding" and the recently released Diet For Divine Connection: Beyond Junk Foods and Junk Thoughts to At-Will Spiritual Connection, and The Inner Bonding Workbook: Six Steps to Healing Yourself and Connecting with your Divine Guidance.  Margaret has successfully worked with hundreds of thousands around the world and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years.  What You'll Learn:  (1) The four major ways you are abandoning yourself that create the stress that often leads to illness. (2) What it means to love yourself physically and emotionally. (3) How to easily and consistently connect with your higher guidance. Connect with Dr. Paul: Email: Margaret@innerbonding.com Website: https://www.innerbonding.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/margaret.paul, https://www.facebook.com/innerbonding  Twitter: https://twitter.com/innerbonding Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/innerbonding1 _____________________________________________________________ About Health Hacks With Mark L. White: Health Hacks is an innovative 30-minute podcast that highlights cutting-edge health hacks from around the world and the interesting stories that inspired them. In each episode, host Mark White uses a clever blend of storytelling and interviews to educate the audience on relatively new areas of vitality enhancing remedies. With the help of health experts, medical practitioners, and wellness-oriented CEOs, Health Hacks explores the rapidly expanding world of health hacking and the stories that are driving it. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marklwhite1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/health_hacks_podcast Learn more about:  DR. MARGARET PAUL  Oprah The Inner Bonding Workbook Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You  Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding Self-love Oprah Bonding Inner Bonding Junk food Stress management relieve stress 

"Our most revered heroes, such as Jesus, Gandhi and Martin Luther King, distinguished themselves by their ability to remain true to themselves even when facing adversity. Whenever we exhibit this kind of integrity we feel like our own hero," writes Dr. Jordan Paul in his latest book, BECOMING YOUR OWN HERO. "It is available to us all but," he adds, "even our inspirational heroes usually have not shown us the way to apply this principle in our close interpersonal relationships." Now, Dr. Paul, co-author of the national best-seller, "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You?, fills this gap. By showing us how to respond to difficulties in ways that do not compromise our own integrity or that of others, he provides a guide to finding greater fulfillment in relationships with ourselves, significant others, children, friends, and co-workers.

Dr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing online program - recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You – over 1 million sold, (and subsequent titles Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God, and ...By My Kids), Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding, and the recently published, Diet For Divine Connection. Margaret holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years. Margaret lives in Colorado. She has three children and three grandchildren. In her spare time, she loves to play with her grandchildren, paint, ride her horse, read, make pottery and kayak. https://www.innerbonding.com/ https://www.facebook.com/innerbonding/ https://www.youtube.com/user/innerbond   www.lifestylelocker.com/margaretpaul www.facbook.com/lifestylelocker www.instagram.com/drjoshhandt www.linkedin.com/drjoshhandt www.twitter.com/drjoshandt YOUTUBE

DR. MARGARET PAUL is a bestselling author, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You, Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By My Kids, Healing Your Aloneness, Inner Bonding" and the recently released Diet For Divine Connection. Margaret has successfully worked with thousands around the world and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years. We continue to partner with No Such Thing As a Bully and The Moment of Kindness Foundation to help bring more kindness into the world and change the language surrounding our culture.  Thanks as always to Smith Sister Bluegrass for our closing song.   Wed 11/28 1pmET/10amPT or anytime in the archives. Thank you sponsorts Safety Bags, Inc; StadiumBags.com and Traci's Healthy Habits.  Follow us on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.  Email dori@wordofmomradio.com to become a guest or sponsor! Word of Mom Radio Network ~ Sharing the Wisdom of Women 

Doctor Margaret Paul is a bestselling author and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing online program - recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. Dr. Paul has appeared on numerous radio and television shows, including Oprah. Her book titles include "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You" (and subsequent titles "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God," and "...By My Kids"), "Healing Your Aloneness" and "Inner Bonding" and her recently published book, “Diet For Divine Connection.” Margaret holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years. Visit her websites at http://www.innerbonding.com and http://selfquest.com Inspirational speaker and best-selling author, Mal Duane invites women to embrace their divine wildness. Listen in and learn how to move from pain and heartache to forgiveness and freedom so you can live the radiant life you deserve. www.malduanecoach.com

TOPIC: DEALING WITH SELF ABANDONMENT GUEST: DR. MARGARET PAUL Dr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You”, “Healing Your Aloneness”, “Inner Bonding,” and the recently released “Diet For Divine Connection.” Margaret has successfully worked with thousands around the world and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years. (Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories and examples.) LISTEN TO THE EPISODE TO LEARN ABOUT: The number one (underlying) reason why relationships fail is self-abandonment. One way that we abandon ourselves is we do not take responsibility for our experience, rather we expect our partner to do it for us. “We come into relationship expecting to get love rather than share love.” by Dr. Margaret Paul Instead of taking responsibility, we try to control overtly (i.e. anger or blame) or covertly (i.e. withdrawing or shutting down), both of which have very negative effects on the relationship. What happens when we avoid our feelings. What happens when we learn the value and power of our feelings, and how they can help us “Growing up very few of us learned how to take responsibility for our own fullness, happiness, peace, and joy.” by Dr. Margaret Paul What it would look like if we took responsibility for ourselves (dealing with self abandonment). What happens when we stop blaming our partners, and we learn to accept them. “We often mistake control for love.” by Dr. Margaret Paul How to cultivate self-love. At any given moment, we are operating from one of two intentions. 1. To protect and avoid. 2. To learn and express, and how to know the difference between them. How to access more energy, joy, and happiness on a daily basis.   MENTIONED: Inner Bonding (website) 6 Steps of Inner Bonding (website) Diet For Divine Connection (book) Inner Bonding (book) Healing Your Aloneness (book) Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You: Second Edition (book) TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Dealing with self abandonment and learning how to cultivate self-love helps us get back on track in helping regain your love as a couple. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by TRANSCRIPT: Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Dealing with self abandonment and learning how to cultivate self-love helps us get back on track in helping regain your love as a couple. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  

Welcome back to my video interview series, “Surviving to Thriving: Overcoming My Darkest Moment,” where I interview people about an emotional low point in their life and how they worked through it. In this episode I’m talking with Dr. Margaret Paul, a bestselling author, relationship expert and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process. Margaret talks about how over-giving to others, fueled by her fear of losing everyone, was making her sick. When she finally decided to choose herself by saying no to others, her biggest fear came true. Learn how living through that opened the door to a new paradigm for work and life. Margaret has appeared on numerous radio and television shows, including Oprah. Her book titles include "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You," "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God," "Healing Your Aloneness," "Inner Bonding" and her recently published book, “Diet For Divine Connection.” Margaret holds a PhD in psychology and has successfully worked with thousands over the last 50 years. You can find her at https://www.innerbonding.com/.

Aired Tuesday, 3 April 2018, 2:00 PM ETDiet for Divine ConnectionHave you been searching for a way to experience a consistent, at-will connection with your spiritual source of love and guidance? We can all achieve this. Learn how junk food, junk thoughts, and resistance to self-love block at-will Divine connection and how to heal these blocks, empowering you to attain inner peace, joy and relationship healing.About the Guest: Dr. Margaret PaulDr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, popular Huffington Post and MindBodyGreen writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing software program – recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah).Her popular book titles include “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You” (and subsequent titles “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God,” and “…By My Kids”), “Healing Your Aloneness” and “Inner Bonding”, and her recently published book, “Diet For Divine Connection.”Margaret holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 50 years.WEBSITE: http://www.InnerBonding.comWEBSITE: http://selfquest.comFACEBOOK BIZ PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/innerbondingFACEBOOK PERSONAL PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/margaret.paulTWITTER: https://twitter.com/innerBondingPINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/innerbonding/

DR. MARGARET PAUL is a bestselling author, relationship expert, popular Huffington Post and MindBodyGreen writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You", "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God," "Healing Your Aloneness" and "Inner Bonding." Margaret has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 48 years. Join us to learn the 6 steps to inner bonding, a method of self-healing on your journey to true love.

Aired Tuesday, 18 April 2017, 2:00 PM ET From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love Most of us know that we need to love ourselves, but few people know what that actually means. For too many years to count, I struggled with loving myself fully. But abandoning ourselves instead of loving ourselves creates anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, anger, emptiness, addictions and relationship problems. Today, you will learn how you are abandoning yourself and how to start loving yourself from my friend, and one of today’s leading experts on the topic, Dr. Margaret Paul. About the Guest: Dr. Margaret Paul Dr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, popular Huffington Post and MindBodyGreen writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing software program – recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her popular book titles include “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You” (and subsequent titles “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God,” and “…By My Kids”), “Healing Your Aloneness” and “Inner Bonding.” Margaret holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 48 years. WEBSITE: http://www.InnerBonding.com FACEBOOK BIZ PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/innerbonding FACEBOOK PERSONAL PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/margaret.paul TWITTER: https://twitter.com/innerBonding PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/innerbonding/

Dr Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, popular Huffington Post and MindBodyGreen writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing software program - recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You" (and subsequent titles "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God," and "...By My Kids"), "Healing Your Aloneness" and "Inner Bonding." Margaret holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 48 years.

Dr. Margaret Paul is a bestselling author, popular Huffington Post writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing software program - recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You”, "Healing Your Aloneness" and "Inner Bonding." Margaret holds a Ph.D. in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 47 years. Guiding Principle, Quote or Mantra Gratitude is the mantra that keeps you present. Simply saying “Thank you God for…” Tripped Up in a Partnership She grew up being a caretaker of everyone around her and the problem with that was it made her ill from losing herself. Then she heard her inner child say “When is it my turn?” and that led her to make a deep decision to change her life. The consequences were not pretty…at first. The “DUH” moment that changed your partnerships forever It is about the difference between control and love. The difference between trying to get love and truly being able to share love. Her DUH was that there is no real healing with a spiritual connection.    Proudest moment in partnership The partnership Margaret has with her best friend and the co-creator of Inner Bonding, Dr.Erika Chopich and the self-healing she has witnessed as a result of their partnership. Current Partnership that Has You Excited Her partnership with her assistant of 18 years. Also with a couple who are facilitators of the Inner Bonding work. What is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? To truly listen with your heart. [spp-tweet tweet="Learn to take responsibility for your own feelings."] Best Partnership Book Free 7-day Inner Bonding Program (http://innerbonding.com/welcome/index.html) A 30-day at home course called Love Yourself (http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.html) Another 30-day at home course called Loving Relationships (http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/253/loving-relationships-a-30-day-at-home-relationships-course.html) The Payoff of Partnership Creativity is enhanced in partnership. Most creative ideas are enhanced when can explore them in partnership. Interview Links - Margaret's website (http://www.innerbonding.com/) Call 888-646-6372 Inner Bonding Facebook Page (https://www.facebook.com/innerbonding/) (https://speakingofpartnership.com/012-dr-margaret-paul-the-power-of-listening-to-your-inner-child/)

In this podcast, Alanis talks with Margaret Paul about Inner Bonding, a six-step self-healing process.   Below are the references discussed in this podcast: Inner Bonding Step 1: Willingness to Feel Pain and Take Responsibility for Your FeelingsStep 2: Move into the Intent to LearnStep 3: Dialogue with Your Wounded self and Core SelfStep 4: Dialogue with Your Higher GuidanceStep 5: Take Loving ActionStep 6: Evaluate Your Action Read more about each step of Inner Bonding here. Books & Music Referenced in this Episode:Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You by Margaret Paul Healing Your Aloneness by Margaret Paul Inner Bonding by Margaret Paul"Lens" song from the album Havoc and Bright LightsThe Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo

Speaker Topic: Inner Bonding DR. MARGARET PAUL is a bestselling author, popular Huffington Post writer and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® self-healing process, and the related SelfQuest® self-healing software program - recommended by actress Lindsay Wagner and singer Alanis Morissette. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah). Her book titles include "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You" (and subsequent titles "Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By God," and "...By My Kids"), "Healing Your Aloneness" and "Inner Bonding." Margaret holds a Ph.D. in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands and taught classes and seminars for over 46 years. She currently works with individuals and couples throughout the world on the phone and Skype, as well as in person at workshops and intensive retreats. Margaret is passionate about helping people rapidly heal the root cause of their pain and learn the path to joy and loving relationships. Her 30-Day at-home courses are a powerful way to self-heal anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, addictions and relationships. In her spare time, Margaret loves to paint, make pottery, take photos, watch birds, read, ride horses, and spend time with her grandchildren. Dr. Paul's "Love Yourself" course starts February 12, 2014 at http://www.innerbonding.com/show-page/224/love-yourself-a-30-day-inner-bonding-experience.html

DR. MARGARET PAUL is a bestselling author and co-creator of the Inner Bonding® self-healing process, as well as the SelfQuest®self-healing software program. She has appeared on numerous radio and television shows (including Oprah), offering her expert advice, talking about her books and demonstrating the Inner Bonding process. Her book titles include “Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You” (as well as subsequent titles “Do I Have to…to Be Loved By God,” and “…By My Kids”), “Healing Your Aloneness” and “Inner Bonding.”Margaret holds a Ph.D. in psychology, is a relationship expert, public speaker, consultant and artist. She has successfully worked with thousands of individuals, couples and businesses and taught classes and seminars for over 42 years.