The Down ad Dirty swinger podcast is an informative platform to help other couples who are new or considering joining our swinger community. We'll discuss events and parties, while helping others navigate this complex social and sexual adventure. We'll offer not only our own, but our trusted friend's personal experiences and insights about the swinger lifestyle for today’s sex-positive couples.
It's your Halloween hotel-takeover crash course: costumes that actually work in crowded spaces, how to handle the 10:30 lingerie change without stress, and newbie survival tips that keep the weekend fun and consent-forward. The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D share what to pack, how to pace, and how to plan your night so you make it through the main event and the after-party.Sponsors & PartnersGlitx by Jax — https://www.glitzbyjax.com/PassionScapes Photography — https://passionscapes.com/CouplesNextDoor — https://couplesnextdoor.com/ (code: DD25)CreditsHosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck DStudio — Down & Dirty Productions Company
Scarlet is back for Part 2 to go deeper on what happens when swinging collides with polyamory. From EMDR and brainspotting to jealousy, veto power, and talking with kids, this conversation is candid, practical, and very real.What EMDR and brainspotting actually do — and why they help after tough momentsJealousy, reassurance rituals, and renegotiating time after a breakupVeto power in the moment vs. pre-set rules (and how both can fail)NRE (“new relationship energy”) versus long-term connection — spotting the differenceIndividual therapy vs. couples/polycules: why one size doesn't fit allKids & honesty: giving language for the world they already see at homeSponsorsGlixbyJax — Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nightsPassionScapes Photography — Official event photographer + boudoir shootsPlaycations by Stacey — Curating your next lifestyle getawayLovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play, shop with our referral linkCouplesNextDoor.com — Studio sponsor & lifestyle community networkCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DDPOD when signing up to support the show.Series: This is Part 2 of 2.Credits:• Hosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll & Chuck D • Guest — Scarlet • Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions Company • Music — Victoria
Dean's Surprising Porn Tastes — Voyeurism, Wax, and Boundaries What happens when your porn searches surprise even your closest friends? In this candid roundtable, the crew dives into unexpected categories, real-life voyeurism, and the awkward truth about grooming and boundaries. From Chuck D's waxing confessions to washcloth debates and “never again” moments, nothing is off-limits in this laugh-out-loud community episode. In the mix: porn categories that shocked the hosts, why voyeurism feels hotter than you think, anal play honesty, and the reminder that talking about boundaries and aftercare makes the fun better for everyone. Links & Offers Join the conversation at CouplesNextDoor.com (Promo code: DIRTY25) Partners: glixbyjax.com · passionscapesphotography.com · playcationsbystacey.com Remote Play: Lovense referral link Credits Hosts: The Professor, Mrs. Doll, Chuck D, and The Dean Producer: David Studio: Down & Dirty Productions
The Professor recaps the White Party energy and looks ahead to a stacked fall: Sioux Falls' Hoedown weekend, a new Minneapolis bar takeover on October 4, and the big one—WC Halloween—where we'll record our first-ever live Down & Dirty podcast on-site.White Party recap: packed rooms, everyone looking sharp in white, great vibeSioux Falls Hoedown: Friday meet & greet + full Saturday slate; earlier start for dinner vibesOct 4 Minneapolis takeover: new north-side venue; think club wear—dress sexyWC Halloween (2 nights): two DJs, two ballrooms, speed dating, and a masquerade vibe—bring a quality maskPro tips: read every event detail; follow house rules; single males must complete vettingSponsorsGlixbyJax — Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nightsPassionScapes Photography — Official event photographer + mini boudoir shootsPlaycations by Stacey — Curating your next lifestyle getawayLovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play, shop with our referral linkCouplesNextDoor.com — Studio sponsor & lifestyle community networkCND New Member Promo Code: Use code DDPOD when signing up to support the show.
Scarlet joins The Professor, Mrs. Doll, and Chuck D for a candid Part 1 on what happens when swinging collides with polyamory. From jealousy breakthroughs to therapy insights and parenting in open relationships, this episode brings real talk and practical takeaways you won't hear anywhere else.Reframing jealousy into reassurance rituals that actually workTherapy takeaways for navigating non-monogamy (solo & couples)Parenting considerations: privacy, house rules, and schedulingBoundary drift vs. boundary breaks — and how to repair trustTalking labels with community: swinger, poly, open, or “don't label it”Series: This is Part 1 of 2. Don't miss the conclusion in S3E18, airing October 7.Paid promotion / affiliate links. We may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Sponsor mentions are separate from editorial content.GlixbyJax — Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nightsPassionScapes Photography — Official event photographer + mini boudoir shootsPlaycations by Stacey — Curated lifestyle getawaysLovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play (our referral link)Find episodes, resources, and event info at DownDirtyPodcast.com. New episodes every Tuesday.
The Professor and Chuck D face off on public play “points”: does joining the Mile High Club really score higher, or is two-woman in-seat action riskier (and hotter)? From movie theater tactics to afterparty burnout, orgy suite debates, and the line between soft and full swap — this 16-minute micro pulls no punches.Scoring “points” by risk vs. locationMile High vs. in-seat — which really counts?Noon movie theater tricks and boundariesOrgy suite vs. bedtime rulesSoft swap, full swap, and the sunshine digressionPaid promotion / affiliate links. We may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Sponsor mentions are separate from editorial content.GlixbyJax — Custom body art & glitter for dazzling nightsPassionScapes Photography — Official event photographer + mini boudoir shootsPlaycations by Stacey — Curated lifestyle getawaysLovense — Interactive toys for couples & solo play (our referral link)CouplesNextDoor.com — Studio sponsor & lifestyle community networkFind more episodes and event info at DownDirtyPodcast.com. Listener questions or want to be a guest? Email info@downanddirtyproductions.com. New episodes every Tuesday.
Ever notice who gets approached at lifestyle events — and who doesn't? Chuck D shares a candid perspective on how interracial couples are often treated at parties and why it matters. It's short, powerful, and worth thinking about before your next night out.
Swinger 101 (Part 2): From Comfort Zones to Lingerie ZonesWe're back with Part 2 of our Swinger 101 conversation—and it gets even more real. In this episode, the hosts dig into the comfort zones, expectations, and awkward (but hilarious) learning curves that every couple faces in their early lifestyle experiences.From learning how to communicate through uncertainty to understanding what those “lingerie zones” are all about, this one is full of laughs, reflection, and stories that'll make you say, “Oh yeah, we've been there.”
Join us as we sit down with the manager of one of Western Europe's largest brothels. Catherine De Noire has her master's degree in organizational psychology and sociology and is currently in a PhD program to continue her research in managing legal sex work and diving into sex workers' experiences within their work. We had such a delight interviewing her to hear about her unique perspective on the sex industry and talk about our aligned values in advocating for sex positivity, swinging, polyamory, and so on...Guest(s): Catherine De NoireHosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and RubyFollow and DM us on: InstagramSponsor(s): CouplesNextDoor.com and Seek, Discover, Connect (SDC)SDC Promo code: 37887 (Sign up today for a free trial and we'll be notified of any new member who officially decides to seek, discover, and connect. We will reach out to you personally!)
Listen in to tips, stories, and the ins and outs of The Professor's favorite swinger event of the year... Mardi Gras!
An update on the upcoming Season 3 of the Down and Dirty Podcast and details of a new podcast from CND.
Join us for the last episode of Season 2, (Yes, there will be a Season 3!) as we talk with two couples from CND and dive into the often elusive four way connection they have found with each other. Well talk about their journey so far, and enjoy some quips and fun stories along the way!
How do you explore and celebrate your sexuality? Our hosts Cali, Fox, and Ruby interviewed Lexi Sylver, Media Director with Seek, Discover, Connect (SDC), an international platform for ethically non-monogamous singles, couples, throuples, and so on. Lexi talks about her sex positive journey as an international accredited coach, an award winning erotic storyteller, and all of the fun features of SDC!
Join The Professor and his surprise guest as they discuss the what, who, and when about the upcoming Halloween events!
Join us as we recorded onsite at the White Party Hotel Takeover. We'll hear from your room crawl ambassadors, a couple that's only looking for solo/hall pass males, and a couple that's brand new to the life style!
Join us as we have conversations with multiple members of the sex positive community while at the legendary White Chocolate end of season pool party! You'll hear insights and advice from lifestyle Veterans, business owners, and a previous single male and single female now turned couple.
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