The Wellness Revolution Podcast with Amber Shaw

If you're still treating content like a chore—or something you have to do instead of something that actually brings in clients—it's time for a shift.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm talking about what content really needs to look like in 2026 if you want it to do more than just get likes. We're moving past posting just to post and focusing on content that builds connection, trust, and actual conversations that turn into clients.   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Content to Clients: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/ctc-day1   What I Discuss: 02:13 Shifting from coaching skills to business strategy 02:27 Why content matters more than ever in 2026 04:31 How to leverage AI to support your content without losing authenticity or sounding like everyone else 06:12 What makes people feel seen, understood, and willing to engage with you 08:30 A breakdown of what to post if your goal is clients 17:02 How to invite people into conversations and offers without being awkward or salesy   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Are you tracking everything in your business and still feeling unsure if you're actually moving in the right direction?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down the metrics that actually matter in your coaching business—especially as you head into a new year and start setting goals. Yes, numbers like income, followers, and clients matter—but they don't tell the full story. Today, I'm walking you through the real indicators of growth, sustainability, and momentum so you can stop guessing and start leading your business like a CEO.   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What I Discuss: 01:30 Why goal-setting can create pressure and how metrics play into that 02:40 The difference between tracking numbers and understanding business health 05:03 How to diagnose where your funnel or process is actually breaking down 07:22 The intangible metrics most coaches ignore (but shouldn't) 07:33 Why consistency and real conversations matter more than doing "more" 09:31 Skill, confidence, and knowing what to ask without freezing 11:36 Energy, capacity, and what sustainability really looks like as a coach 13:50 Simple weekly and quarterly check-ins to stay aligned and avoid burnout   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Playing it safe online might feel comfortable but what if it's the exact thing keeping you invisible, stuck, and second-guessing your potential as a coach?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm talking directly to the coach who knows she wants to show up more online…but keeps hesitating. The one tweaking her bio again, rewriting captions she never posts, or hiding behind "productive" tasks instead of actually being seen. I break down why visibility feels so scary, what's really happening underneath that fear, and how taking messy, imperfect action is often the fastest path to clarity, confidence, and clients.     If you've been playing it safe online, waiting to feel more confident before showing up, or hiding behind perfectionism instead of letting yourself be seen, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Content to Clients: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/ctc-day1 Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 01:35 Why visibility feels so hard (and what's really underneath it) 06:09 Why messy action builds confidence faster than perfection 07:45 How authenticity—not polish—actually attracts the right clients 19:17 Practical ways to start showing up online without overthinking 23:17 Final thoughts on visibility, courage, and doing the damn thing   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Burnout doesn't always look like total exhaustion or wanting to quit—it can show up quietly, in the way you start dreading sessions or feeling wiped after every call.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm talking about the kind of burnout coaches rarely admit out loud—the kind that creeps in when you're doing "all the right things" but still feel mentally and emotionally drained.    If you've been feeling drained after sessions, questioning whether coaching is really for you, or wondering why something you love is starting to feel heavy, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/the-confident-coach-certification Listen to Episode 451. The 3 Non-Negotiables of Coaching Mastery (If You Want to Feel Confident and Make Money): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/451-the-3-non-negotiables-of-coaching-mastery-if/id1577282350?i=1000746668732   What I Discuss: 04:01 Why the most common form of coaching burnout doesn't look like a breakdown but feels just as dangerous 06:12 The difference between emotional exhaustion and skill fatigue 11:06 How structure, confidence, and credibility actually reduce burnout (instead of adding pressure) 13:01 What sustainable coaching really looks like—and how to protect your energy without pulling back from your business   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Feeling called to coach but still questioning whether you're actually ready to do this?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down the three non-negotiables every coach has to master if you want to feel confident in sessions, trust that you can actually help your clients, and build a coaching business that makes real money—not just one that looks good on Instagram.   So many women doubt themselves not because they aren't capable, but because they don't yet have the structure, skills, or reps that create real confidence. Today, I'm giving you a high-level look at the three foundations I see in every successful coach—and why skipping even one of them is what keeps so many people stuck in fear, imposter syndrome, or overthinking every session.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/the-confident-coach-certification   What I Discuss: 05:29 The Three Cs of Coaching Mastery 07:02 Why confidence isn't something you "think" your way into, and how it actually comes from knowing your role as a coach and leading sessions with presence. 09:57 Structure, skill, and why winging it in sessions is the fastest way to lose trust in yourself and your clients 12:56 How practice, repetition, and real feedback create the kind of certainty that makes coaching feel calm instead of terrifying 17:17 How these three Cs are the foundation of the Confident Coach Certification and what it really takes to feel prepared, grounded, and legit as a coach Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com   

When a coaching session ends and you're left wondering, "Did I actually help her?"—this episode is for you.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down why coaching sessions sometimes feel flat (even when nothing technically went "wrong") and what's really happening beneath the surface when that doubt creeps in. I share the most common reasons sessions stall, what not to do when that happens, and how to confidently lead the conversation so you don't leave second-guessing yourself. We're talking about coaching leadership, structure, and how to re-anchor a session in real time—without forcing emotion, over-talking, or jumping into advice.   Resources Mentioned: Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026 Listen to Episode 449. The Difference Between a Coaching Conversation and a Chat Between Friends: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/449-the-difference-between-a-coaching-conversation/id1577282350?i=1000745718161   What I Discuss: 02:41 Why "flat" sessions are one of the most common coaching fears 03:22 What's actually happening when a session feels stuck 03:53 The three main reasons coaching conversations lose momentum 06:13 What not to do when you feel a session going off the rails 07:38 How to pause, reset, and guide the conversation forward 09:03 Why leadership—not intensity—is the key to powerful coaching 11:29 How to re-anchor a session without rescuing or over-explaining   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

If your coaching sessions feel supportive but you're not sure they're actually moving the needle, this episode will clear things up fast.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the biggest things that trips new coaches up: confusing a coaching conversation with a chat between friends. I talk about why this happens, how it affects your confidence, and what actually separates powerful coaching from well-meaning advice. We'll also get into the two fear buckets I see come up all the time for coaches, and why intentional leadership—not fixing or rescuing—is what creates real client transformation.   Resources Mentioned: Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Listen to Episode 448. Why "Just Be Yourself" Is Terrible Advice for New Coaches: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/448-why-just-be-yourself-is-terrible-advice-for-new-coaches/id1577282350?i=1000745266037 Listen to Episode 447. What Coaching Sessions Actually Look Like (It's Simpler Than You Think): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/447-what-coaching-sessions-actually-look-like-its-simpler/id1577282350?i=1000744782104   What I Discuss: 02:57 The two main fear buckets that show up for coaches and how they quietly impact your sessions 04:23 The real difference between coaching and giving advice (and why it matters) 11:08 What intentional leadership actually looks like inside a coaching session 18:29 Final thoughts on why coaching isn't about fixing, rescuing, or overperforming   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Being told to "just be yourself" sounds supportive… until you're sitting in a live coaching session wondering what to say next and whether you're even helping the person in front of you.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I break down why "just be yourself" is actually some of the most misleading advice new coaches receive—and how it can quietly create more anxiety, overthinking, and imposter syndrome than confidence.   If you've been winging your sessions, second-guessing yourself afterward, or wondering if you're cut out for coaching at all, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026 Listen to Episode 446. "Am I Even Helping My Clients?" Here's How to Tell: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/446-am-i-even-helping-my-clients-heres-how-to-tell/id1577282350?i=1000744263901 Listen to Episode 447. What Coaching Sessions Actually Look Like (It's Simpler Than You Think): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/447-what-coaching-sessions-actually-look-like-its-simpler/id1577282350?i=1000744782104   What I Discuss: 02:47 Why "just be yourself" sounds supportive but often creates more confusion 04:23 How lack of structure leads to overthinking and post-session spirals 11:06 What actually builds confidence inside a coaching session 13:47 How competence (not vibes) is what calms your nervous system as a coach   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Coaching can feel intimidating—not because it's complicated, but because no one really explains what actually happens in a session.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm pulling back the curtain on what coaching sessions really look like and why they're far less intimidating than most new coaches imagine. We talk about the fear that comes up when you can't hide behind a screen, why that fear doesn't mean you're unqualified, and how having a simple, repeatable flow can completely change how confident you feel in the room. I also walk you through the three core phases of a coaching session, what your role actually is (and isn't), and how to stay in integrity without overstepping into therapy or advice-giving.   If you've been curious about coaching but feel stuck because you don't know what to say, how to lead, or how not to freeze in the moment, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Listen to Episode 446. "Am I Even Helping My Clients?" Here's How to Tell: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/446-am-i-even-helping-my-clients-heres-how-to-tell/id1577282350?i=1000744263901 Listen to Episode 439. How to Ask Powerful Coaching Questions That Lead to Real Client Transformations (Even If You Feel Inexperienced): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/439-how-to-ask-powerful-coaching-questions-that-lead/id1577282350?i=1000741330260 Listen to Episode 435. How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/435-how-to-handle-breakdowns-in-a-coaching-session/id1577282350?i=1000739098630   What I Discuss: 02:31 Why fear around live coaching sessions is so common and why it actually means you care 04:51 Normalizing the fear of "being on the hook" in real sessions 07:04 The simple flow most confident coaching sessions follow 09:15 The three main phases of a coaching session (without scripts or pressure) 13:00 How to stay in integrity and avoid overstepping your role   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever walked away from a coaching session wondering if you actually helped…or if you just had a "nice conversation"?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the most common fears I hear from new (and even experienced) coaches: How do I know if my coaching is actually working? We're moving out of fear and into evidence, and I'm sharing practical, real-life ways to recognize client progress without overcomplicating it or turning coaching into a data-tracking nightmare.   Resources Mentioned: Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026   What I Discuss: 02:57 Why so many coaches secretly fear they're not actually helping their clients 03:51 How to tell if your coaching is working (without overthinking it or needing a spreadsheet) 05:43 The three subtle but powerful shifts that signal real client transformation 09:19 Simple ways to track progress that don't turn coaching into therapy or data collection 11:39 Why awareness alone can be a massive win for your clients   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever felt called to coach but noticed a quiet fear creeping in the moment you imagine actually doing it? Not just fear of being seen—but fear of messing it up, getting it wrong, or being exposed?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm unpacking what's really underneath that fear so many new coaches feel. We talk about why confidence issues usually aren't about confidence at all, how coaching isn't about fixing people but guiding them, and why caring deeply can actually make the fear feel louder—not smaller. I also share how learning real coaching skills and structure changes everything, and why you don't have to eliminate fear before you start—you just need to understand it.   If you've been wanting to coach but keep hesitating because you're scared you'll do it wrong or won't be good enough, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 03:21 The deeper fears that show up as "confidence problems" 05:58 Why coaching isn't about fixing—but guiding 09:19 The fear of being exposed and what's really driving it 12:55 A free coaching bootcamp to help you build real skills 14:17 Final encouragement if fear has been holding you back   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Today, I'm having a very real, very honest conversation with you about what it actually takes to build a coaching business that works—without sugarcoating it, especially if you want to start coaching this 2026. This is the kind of tough-love talk I wish someone had given me earlier, and I'm sharing it now because 2026 deserves a different version of you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 00:37 A tough-love truth about why you didn't hit your goals 01:49 Why winging it keeps your coaching business stuck 04:26 How fear and imposter syndrome actually show up (and slow you down) 07:00 Why confidence comes from structure and reps—not hype 13:11 Final motivation as you look ahead to 2026   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever looked at how much work you're doing in your coaching business and thought, "Why am I so busy but still not getting clients?" If so, this episode is going to hit home.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down something I see all the time with new (and even not-so-new) coaches: staying busy with tasks that feel productive, but don't actually move the needle. We talk about why talking to real humans can feel way more intimidating than creating content or Canva graphics, what I call "safe productivity," and why confidence as a coach doesn't come from posting more.   If you've been doing all the things but still feel stuck, avoiding real conversations, or wondering why your effort isn't translating into clients, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 01:39 Why talking to real humans can feel scarier than posting content 04:38 The difference between safe productivity and real coaching work 08:11 How confidence is built through reps, structure, and practice 12:43 Final encouragement if you've been hiding behind busy work   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

In this episode, I talk about a question I hear all the time from women who want to coach but feel stuck: Do I need to be fully healed before I'm allowed to help someone else? Especially around the holidays—when emotions, reflection, grief, and hope can all collide—this doubt gets even louder.   If you've been feeling pulled to coach but keep stopping yourself because you're still healing, growing, or rebuilding, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach   What I Discuss: 00:54 Why the holidays can bring up doubt, reflection, and big questions about what's next 02:15 Feeling the desire to coach while still navigating your own growth 04:12 The self-doubt that stops so many women from getting started 09:03 Why structure, practice, and boundaries matter more than being "fully healed" 15:42 A free gift to help you take the next step without waiting for perfection   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever been asked what you do as a coach… and suddenly found yourself fumbling, overexplaining, or defaulting to vague phrases that don't actually land? Or maybe you know what you do in your head, but saying it out loud feels clunky or overly formal.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm talking about why "coach speak" actually gets in the way of connection—and how learning to explain what you do in simple, real-life language can completely change how potential clients respond to you.   If you've been struggling to clearly explain what you do, worried about sounding salesy, or hiding behind vague language because you don't feel confident yet, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 01:36 Why clear communication matters more than sounding "professional" 03:06 Why coaching jargon muddies your message instead of helping it 08:37 The Fourth Grader Test—and why it's such a powerful filter 10:58 How to simplify what you say without dumbing it down 13:46 The real fears that keep coaches vague (and how to move past them) 16:12 How clarity builds trust faster than anything else   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Are you walking into the new year feeling excited… but also a little scattered about what you're actually focusing on in your business?    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through how I plan Q1 as a coach—and how you can do the same in a way that feels intentional, realistic, and sustainable (especially as a divorced mom).    If you've been feeling reactive in your business, overwhelmed by what to focus on next, or unsure how to turn your goals into a real plan you can follow, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Listen to Episode 439. How to Ask Powerful Coaching Questions That Lead to Real Client Transformations: https://ambershaw.com/podcasts/439-how-to-ask-powerful-coaching-questions/ Listen to Episode 399. How to Sell in the DMs Without Feeling Salesy or Awkward: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/399-how-to-sell-in-the-dms-without-feeling-salesy-or-awkward/id1577282350?i=1000719468337 Listen to Episode 407. Why Your Posts Aren't Turning Into Clients (And What to Do Instead): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/407-why-your-posts-arent-turning-into-clients-and/id1577282350?i=1000723411614 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Check out ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu   What I Discuss: 00:51 Why planning is essential if you don't want to run your business in survival mode 03:55 How to set realistic revenue goals based on where you actually are 06:16 Reverse-engineering your goals so you know exactly what needs to happen 11:53 Why consistency—not hustle—is what really moves the needle 14:46 Your Q1 homework   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever worried that you'll freeze in a coaching session because you don't know what to ask next? Or felt like you're not "experienced enough" to lead someone through a real breakthrough? This fear comes up all the time—especially for new coaches—and it's exactly why I wanted to record this episode.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down how to ask powerful coaching questions even when you don't feel ready, confident, or qualified yet. I talk openly about imposter syndrome, why coaching isn't about having perfect wording or giving advice, and how a few simple, intentional questions can create massive clarity and action for your clients. I also walk you through the three core types of coaching questions I use in my own sessions—and share several go-to questions you can literally steal and use right away.   If you've been feeling stuck in imposter syndrome, second-guessing yourself in sessions, or worried you don't know enough to be a "real" coach yet, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Check out ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu   What I Discuss: 03:34 Why I'm shifting the podcast to focus more on solo episodes and real coaching skills 06:00 The imposter syndrome almost every new coach struggles with 07:46 What actually makes a coaching question "powerful" 11:04 The three types of questions every coach should be using 14:32 My favorite go-to questions when you don't know what to ask next    Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever felt the pressure to "have all the answers" as a coach? Or wondered what you're actually supposed to do in a coaching session to create real transformation? You're not alone—and the truth is, most new coaches misunderstand what coaching even is.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down the biggest myths around coaching, including why giving advice is not the core of what powerful coaches do. I share how real coaching helps clients build confidence, uncover their own solutions, and create sustainable results—without you jumping in to fix everything. I'm also giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what separates mentoring, counseling, and coaching so you can stay in your lane and show up with clarity and confidence.   If you've been feeling the pressure to "figure out what to say" or worrying you're not equipped to coach at a professional level, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Listen to Episode 435: How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/435-how-to-handle-breakdowns-in-a-coaching-session/id1577282350?i=1000739098630 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 01:40 The biggest myth about coaching—and why it creates dependency 03:05 How real coaching helps clients uncover their own answers 06:17 Why powerful coaches don't jump to solutions 07:42 The difference between giving advice and facilitating transformation 09:28 Getting to the root of a client's struggle 10:09 Coaching vs. counseling—what's the real difference? 12:05 Your role as a coach (hint: it's not to fix people) 13:15 How clarity leads to action → leads to results 14:26 Why proven frameworks make you a more effective coach   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Do you ever get to the end of the year and feel like everything—your tech, your schedule, your offers, your emotions—needs a full reset? Like the tabs in your life are open in 17 different directions and your brain is basically running on expired coffee and vibes? Because… same.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through the exact 4-step reset routine I do every single December to clear the clutter, ground my energy, and set myself up for a strong, aligned start to the new year.   Tune in for the reset I use as a coach and as a divorced mom to step into the next year with clarity, intention, and way less chaos.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 00:23 Why a year-end reset matters more than you think 01:42 Step 1: Clearing out your tech chaos so you can breathe again 03:33 What I archive, delete, and reorganize every December 06:09 Step 2: Reviewing your offers with honesty  07:24 The three questions I ask myself about every offer 09:46 Why I paused TikTok—even with nearly 300k followers 12:22 Understanding ROI beyond money 13:41 Step 3: Resetting boundaries before the new year 15:33 How loving your work can accidentally destroy your boundaries 17:06 Evaluating communication, hours, weekends, and work habits 17:55 Step 4: The emotional audit I do at the end of every year 18:42 What I'm proud of, what I learned, what needs to go, and who I'm becoming   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever felt like you've outgrown your life but you're not totally sure what comes next? Or maybe you've been craving deeper connection, more meaning, or a creative spark you haven't felt in years. What if the thing that helps you reinvent yourself… is actually something you've never even considered?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by award-winning podcaster Allison Hare, creator of The Reinvention Room, to talk about why podcasting is one of the most powerful (and underrated) tools for women—especially women rebuilding after divorce. We dig into burnout, loneliness, creativity, community, and the moment you realize you're not broken… you've just outgrown your container. Allison also shares her framework for creating a meaningful, sustainable podcast, how to find your unique voice, and why the podcast space is nowhere near as saturated as most people believe.   If you've been feeling stretched thin, craving a new chapter, or thinking about starting something of your own but don't know where to begin, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Podcast Equipment Guide: https://allisonhare.com/equipment Free Clarity Call: https://go.allisonhare.com/45-min-call The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: 01:42 Why real human connection matters more than ever 03:33 How podcasting can become a powerful business asset 06:09 The balance between self-help and actually enjoying your life 07:24 Allison's story: leaving corporate America without a plan 21:26 What it really takes to build a podcast that lasts 23:56 The strategy behind creating a show people actually come back to 24:35 Finding your voice, your passion, and your unique niche 25:34 The surprising qualities that make someone a great podcaster 27:34 Allison's Four Ps Framework for launching a compelling show 33:28 Why podcasts are more influential than ever 37:08 Seven ways to monetize and use a podcast for your business 42:04 How to create deeper connection with your audience 45:14 What to know before starting your own podcast   Find more from Allison Hare: Website: https://allisonhare.com Quiz: https://allisonhare.com/quiz Podcast: https://allisonhare.com/podcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/allison__hare LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever worried about what you'd do if a client cried, shut down, resisted, or even got irritated during a coaching session? If you're building a coaching business, these moments can feel intimidating but they're often the very moments where the biggest breakthroughs happen.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down exactly how to navigate emotionally charged coaching sessions without freezing, fixing, or letting your own emotions take over. I share a real behind-the-scenes moment from a recent client session where things got tense—and how I used grounding, curiosity, and space-holding to help her move from frustration to clarity. You'll also learn the difference between a breakdown and a breakthrough, how to stay regulated when your client isn't, and why your presence (not your answers) is what truly transforms people.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 01:43 A real coaching moment where things got heated 03:09 How to see emotional moments as breakthroughs, not breakdowns 06:44 Simple techniques to help your clients settle and reconnect 13:41 How the Confident Coach Certification helps you feel prepared 15:05 Final thoughts and encouragement for new coaches   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever dated someone who felt amazing in the beginning only to realize later you ignored red flags that were right in front of you? It happens to so many women—especially after divorce—because we're craving connection, safety, and a fresh start. But some of the biggest red flags aren't loud or obvious. They're subtle. Quiet. And they sneak up on you when your guard is down.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by relationship coach and author Daniel Ratner for one of the realest conversations we've had on dating after divorce. We dig into why chemistry can mislead you, how unhealthy patterns repeat themselves, and the sneaky signs of "emotional vampires" who drain your energy long before you realize what's happening. Daniel also breaks down the difference between emotional safety and infatuation, how to raise your standards without losing hope, and why self-esteem is the invisible filter determining who you attract.   If you've been dating after divorce and keep finding yourself giving more than you get—or getting stuck in the same patterns—this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Check out Daniel's books: https://coachratner.com/ The Coach Daniel Ratner Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-coach-daniel-ratner-podcast/id1595629326 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: 01:40 The emotional boundaries most women overlook 04:12 How to redefine love and what you actually want in a relationship 07:04 The real challenges of dating again in your 40s and 50s 12:26 How self-esteem shapes the partners you attract 14:26 Spotting emotional vampires before they drain your energy 19:15 The messy truth about parenting and partnership dynamics 20:28 Raising teens while trying to date (and stay sane) 23:46 Red flags that signal someone is toxic (and how to steer clear) 25:37 How to rebuild yourself after divorce without losing hope 34:51 Why self-value is the foundation of every healthy relationship 36:32 Where to find more support, resources, and guidance   Find more from Daniel Ratner: Website: http://www.CoachRatner.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecoachratnerpodcast/ X: https://x.com/dan613ratner?s=21 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChDspvEbSIWDSo9X5WoSghw TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoachratnerpodcast/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coach-ratner-45b4678a/     Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever looked at other coaches online and thought, "They've got it all figured out…why don't I?" I used to think the exact same thing. But the truth is, when I first started my coaching business, I was a 40-year-old divorced mom with zero social media experience, massive imposter syndrome, and absolutely no idea what I was doing. And yet, it changed my life.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm sharing the 5 biggest lessons I wish I had known before becoming a coach.  If you've been dreaming of starting your coaching business but fear, self-doubt, or perfectionism keeps getting in the way, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 01:58 The messy, imperfect truth about how I actually started 03:50 Why clarity comes after you take action—not before 05:28 The real source of confidence (it's not mindset hype) 07:10 Why you don't need a perfect life to help someone 09:02 How vulnerability makes you a stronger, more relatable coach 10:45 Your story is your superpower—no matter your niche 12:40 Why mentorship and structure matter more than hustle 17:15 Final lessons and encouragement if you're scared to start   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Ever wondered what actually happens to your assets—or your kids—if something happens to you after divorce? Most divorced moms assume everything will "just go where it's supposed to," but the truth is estate planning is one of the most important (and most overlooked) parts of protecting your future.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm sitting down with attorney and wealth expert Lauren Klein to break down the mistakes divorced women don't even realize they're making when it comes to wills, trusts, guardianship, probate, prenups, and financial protection. Lauren explains what really happens if you don't update your estate plan, how to make sure your kids are protected, and what steps you should take right now to set up the future you want.   If you've been divorced and have no idea where to start with protecting your money, your kids, or your future, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Flourish Law Group: https://flourishlawgroup.com/ The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: 00:22 What divorced moms need to know about estate planning 05:58 Breaking down wills, trusts, probate + what really happens without a plan 15:34 Why inherited assets often get lost in divorce (and how to protect your kids) 18:47 What "reparenting your inner child" has to do with financial confidence 24:53 Practical examples of what happens when minor kids inherit without a plan 25:33 How to choose the right guardian or trustee (when your ex isn't an option) 26:11 What to consider if your parents are aging or unable to serve 27:37 How to make sure your kids' inheritance stays protected 30:31 What to look for in a trust company (and why it matters) 34:58 Prenups + estate planning — what divorced moms need to know 38:24 First steps to take when you feel overwhelmed by finances 42:13 Daily practices Lauren uses to avoid burnout and stay grounded   Find more from Lauren Klein: Website: https://www.laurenalexisklein.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lawyerlaurenklein/ Podcast: https://www.laurenalexisklein.com/podcast/     Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

What if the reason you don't feel ready to coach is because you haven't built proof that you are?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm talking to the woman who knows she wants to be a coach but keeps getting stuck in self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or the pressure to feel "legit" before she ever works with a client. I'm sharing exactly how to start building confidence and momentum now—even if you're not certified yet or haven't landed a paying client.   You'll walk away with 3 simple but powerful ways to collect real proof that you're ready, what kind of practice actually moves the needle, and why showing up messy is often the fastest path to feeling confident and credible as a coach.   If you've been waiting for a sign that you're ready to get started, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 00:27 Early coaching doubts and how to move through them 02:04 Why confidence comes from doing the work (not waiting to feel "ready") 08:16 How to start gathering testimonials even when you're just beginning 10:37 Simple ways to track your growth so you can actually see your progress 14:40 This week's challenge + some final encouragement for you   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Stacy D. Phillips—celebrity divorce lawyer, author, and podcast host—to talk about what really changes when the lawyer becomes the client.    Stacy shares openly about her two divorces, including one from an alcoholic partner, and how those experiences transformed not only her personal life, but how she practices law. We unpack everything from how addiction can silently warp a relationship, to why prenups matter more than you think, and the emotional cost of carrying everything on your own.   Resources Mentioned: Divorce: It's All About Control: https://www.stacydphillipsesq.com/my-book The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: 01:34 How going through divorce changed how Stacy practices law 02:43 The hard truths about our legal system (and what needs to change) 04:54 Why Stacy decided to stop playing small and start living unapologetically 06:40 The kind of support divorced women actually need 10:54 What healing really looks like when you're rebuilding your life 19:28 Getting back into relationships and why therapy matters 23:37 How to stay grounded when emotions and legal stuff collide 25:59 Why every woman should be talking about prenups (yes, really) 28:09 Letting go of control and learning to trust yourself again 30:55 The biggest lessons divorce taught us both 35:20 How to surround yourself with strong women who get it 39:33 Masculine vs. feminine energy—finding your balance   Find more from Stacy D. Phillips: Website: https://www.stacydphillipsesq.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stacydphillipsesq/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stacydphillips Stacy D. Phillips Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4o0ZPJpeUiM4oO3XyQmcii   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Ever wonder if you're really "qualified" to coach—or if you're just faking it till you make it?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the biggest blocks new coaches face: imposter syndrome. You'll hear exactly why it shows up (hint: it's not because you're unqualified) and what you actually need to feel confident when leading a session. This episode is a must-listen if you've ever worried about saying the wrong thing, not knowing what to ask, or not having all the answers.   Resources Mentioned: Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 00:22 Why imposter syndrome hits hard when you're just starting out 02:57 The real reason having structure makes you a better coach 05:29 Three simple shifts that'll boost your confidence (even if you're a new coach) 07:42 A peek at what's coming inside The Confident Coach Certification   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Thinking about getting remarried after divorce—but terrified of going through it all over again (and possibly getting screwed)? This conversation is packed with real talk, legal insight, and empowering truth bombs to help you protect your peace.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by powerhouse attorney Holly J. Moore, one of California's top family law experts, to talk about what every divorced woman must know before walking down the aisle again. We dive into the biggest legal mistakes women make during divorce, the hidden dangers of relying on monthly support checks, and why that emotional attachment to the house might cost more than you think. We also get real about prenups—why they're not just for millionaires, how they actually make your relationship stronger, and what to consider if you're a business owner or entrepreneur.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification ReNewU Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: 07:41 Why emotional decisions during divorce can cost you—literally 16:46 Let's talk prenups (yep, you probably need one) 25:20 Why financial independence = freedom 25:29 Dealing with self-doubt as a coach or business owner 25:51 Why you need a real business plan (not just a Canva logo) 26:32 Are online prenups legit? What to know before you hit submit 29:59 How to protect your business inside a prenup 31:11 The truth about what prenups actually do for your relationship 34:16 Legal stuff to handle after the divorce is final 44:01 Finding balance, boundaries, and a bit of sanity in a busy life   Find more from Holly J. Moore: Website: www.moorefamilylawgroup.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollyjmoore/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Are you stuck in niche drama—second-guessing your messaging, tweaking your bio every other week, and wondering why you still feel unclear?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down why your niche feels so damn complicated and the three things you can do today to simplify it. I'm sharing the real reason you might be getting crickets on your content, why perfectionism is sabotaging your clarity, and how to reconnect with your purpose so you can finally feel confident about who you help and how.    Whether you're just starting your coaching business or stuck in an endless niche spiral, this episode will help you get unstuck and take action.   Resources Mentioned: Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 00:24 Why your niche might be keeping you stuck 01:16 What causes niche perfectionism and second-guessing 02:52 How to uncomplicate your niche with one simple shift 04:04 Why specificity is everything (especially online) 07:37 3 steps to simplify your niche today 20:32 Final tips + practical niche homework   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

If the thought of swiping again makes you want to throw your phone across the room, this conversation is for you. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by Erica McKay—modern-day matchmaker, relationship realist, and founder of Erica Suzanne Matchmaking—for an honest and surprisingly uplifting convo on what dating after divorce really looks like. We talk about how to date with more intention (and way less pressure), why it's essential to focus on how you want to feel in your next relationship, and the power of doing the inner work before you hand over your number. Whether you're cautiously dipping a toe into dating apps or completely swearing them off, this episode will help you date slower, date smarter, and maybe even feel excited about love again. Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 05:00 Mistakes to avoid when rejoining dating apps 08:08 Erica's story: From divorce to finding real love again 11:22 Building a coaching business as a divorced mom 12:45 Why you should visualize how you want to feel, not just what you want 19:12 Why inner work is essential before reentering the dating pool 22:04 The power of saying "yes" to new experiences 24:52 Navigating new relationships post-divorce 28:12 Dating questions to ask early—and which ones to avoid 35:54 How to date slower and deeper 40:42 Alcohol on first dates: yay or nay? 42:34 How matchmaking works (and when to consider it) 46:11 Introducing Young Lux for 22–38 year-olds Find more from Erica McKay: Website: https://www.ericasuzanne.com/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Ever wonder why someone watches your Stories every day, likes your posts, maybe even replies to a few but still hasn't signed up to work with you?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through the exact journey your ideal client is on—from the moment she first discovers you to when she finally decides to say yes. I break down the three key stages of the buyer's journey (Awareness, Consideration, Decision), how to tell which stage your audience is in, and how to use that insight to create content that actually moves people forward.   If you've been feeling invisible or stuck wondering why no one's buying, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 00:20 Why understanding your client's buying journey matters more than ever 02:18 Stage 1: Awareness — the point where your client starts realizing there's a problem 04:03 Stage 2: Consideration — the stage where they're exploring options (but still hesitant) 06:34 Stage 3: Decision — what content helps them say YES 11:31 How to apply this journey to your messaging and content strategy 13:05 A reminder that knowing where your client is helps YOU sell with more ease   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Ever looked at another mom and thought, “How the hell is she juggling all that without falling apart?”   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by Sarah Armstrong—author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce and The Art of the Juggling Act. Sarah is a powerhouse corporate leader, single mom, and author who knows firsthand what it means to manage two households, raise a daughter, keep a thriving career, and stay sane in the process.   We go beyond the fluffy “you can have it all” advice and dig into the real strategies that make balance possible even when life feels anything but balanced.   Resources Mentioned: The Art of The Juggling Act: https://thejugglingact.com/ The Mom's Guide to A Good Divorce: https://www.momsguidetogooddivorce.com/order The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: 03:44 The self-care non-negotiables and friendship boundaries that keep burnout at bay 07:04 The surprising daily habits that make “juggling it all” actually work 09:54 What inspired her to write The Art of the Juggling Act—and why it's not just for working moms 13:29 Navigating two households with grace (and minimal chaos) 19:19 What Sarah calls “The Great Consolidation”—and how it helped her reframe post-divorce life 22:13 Where your time really goes and how to get some of it back 23:59 The mindset shift that helped her stop feeling guilty about working 25:31 “Decompression zones”: what they are and how they can transform your evenings 27:26 The real challenges of working from home as a single mom and how to manage them 29:25 How she handles those school volunteer requests without drowning in mom guilt 42:52 Practical, realistic advice every single mom needs to hear   Find more from Sarah Armstrong: Website: https://thejugglingact.com/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Most new coaches pour all their energy into social media—posting, tweaking their bios, trying to grow their following—yet still struggle to land clients. Here's the truth: your next client might already know you.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm sharing one of the most underrated ways to start signing clients fast without relying solely on Instagram. We'll talk about how to confidently tap into your personal network, ask for referrals without feeling weird or salesy, and create a client experience that naturally leads to word-of-mouth growth.   If you've been feeling stuck trying to grow online and just want a simpler, more natural way to attract your first few clients, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Loom: https://www.loom.com/   What I Discuss: 01:01 How to leverage your personal network without feeling awkward 05:18 Simple ways to create a referral system that actually works 08:55 What makes a coaching experience “referral-worthy” 13:55 Next steps to start signing clients and build momentum fast   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Ever catch yourself wondering why you're still healing, even years after your divorce? There's a reason for that and it goes deeper than you think.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with divorce recovery coach Leah Mazur to unpack what really happens after divorce—the hidden emotional and physical toll that lingers long after the paperwork is done. We talk about how to move from survival mode to feeling safe again, tools to manage co-parenting triggers, and how to make self-care realistic when life already feels full.   If you've been feeling frustrated that healing is taking longer than you thought it would, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Next Chapter Membership: https://www.samandleah.com/services The New Woman Within Course: https://www.mindfullyready.com/newwomanwithin Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: 00:44 Why your nervous system stays in survival mode long after divorce 05:04 How to protect your peace when your ex still triggers you 06:39 The truth about self-care when you're a single mom doing it all 11:04 How Leah became a coach 27:54 Why journaling can help you uncover what still needs healing 28:40 How AI can actually help you process emotions and get unstuck 30:43 Why you may never be “fully over it” 32:48 What healthy co-parenting really looks like  38:43 The wake-up call every divorced woman needs about money 43:32 What it really takes to start a coaching business after divorce 46:15 Resources and communities that help women rebuild with confidence   Find more from Leah Mazur: Leah Mazur's links: https://linktr.ee/mindfullyready   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Are you showing up on social media but not getting any coaching inquiries? It's not because your content isn't good enough. The problem is that most new coaches don't have a system. They're posting what inspires them instead of what actually moves their audience to become clients.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down how to use social media strategically so you can finally start getting clients instead of just likes. You'll learn how to define your content pillars, what type of posts actually build trust, and the three kinds of content every coach needs to create a social media strategy that works.   Resources Mentioned: Content to Clients: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/ctc Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 00:23 How to use social media as your main mechanism for getting clients 02:56 Why defining your content pillars is the foundation of your business 12:26 How to create a balanced content strategy using the ABCs of content: attraction, believability, and conversion   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Do you ever wonder why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, even when you know better? Or why you feel totally secure with some people but anxious, avoidant, or distant with others? The truth is, your attachment style might have more to do with it than you think.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Judy Ho to talk about her new book, The New Rules of Attachment. We break down how your attachment style shows up in every area of your life—not just relationships—and what it really takes to move toward secure attachment. Dr. Judy and I talk about how to reparent your inner child, nurture your authentic self, and finally create the kind of security and connection you've always wanted.   If you've been stuck in the same emotional cycles and want to feel grounded, secure, and confident in your relationships again, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The New Rules of Attachment by Dr. Judy Ho: https://drjudyho.com/books/the-new-rules-of-attachment/ Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: 00:22 What attachment styles are and why they matter more than you think 05:58 The four main attachment styles and how they form 15:34 How attachment styles connect to love languages 18:47 What reparenting your inner child really means 25:33 How to nurture your inner child's unmet needs 26:11 Why your authentic self and inner child are deeply connected 27:37 Can you really change your attachment style? (Dr. Judy says yes!) 34:58 How parenting style and temperament affect your child's attachment 42:13 How to find balance in your parenting style   Find more from Dr Judy Ho: Website: https://drjudyho.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjudyho/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Are you getting likes, comments, and DMs on your posts but no actual clients? It's one of the most frustrating parts of building a coaching business online. The truth is, engagement feels good, but likes don't pay the bills. Without a system to turn those conversations into conversions, you'll stay stuck in the “almost” phase.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down the three simple shifts you can make to turn engagement into paying clients. You'll learn how to lead conversations naturally (without feeling pushy), how to use your Instagram Stories to create connection and build trust, and how to make it easy for people to understand what you offer and take the next step.   If you've been stuck in the “people love my content but no one's buying” loop, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 01:26 The 3 simple shifts that turn engagement into clients 04:12 Why you need a clear system behind your content 06:37 Practical tips to start turning likes into paying clients   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever looked around at the life you've built—the family, the job, the routines—and wondered, “Is this really what I want?” Not because anything is necessarily wrong but because something deep inside you is whispering that it's no longer right.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by the incredible Kute Blackson, a transformational teacher and bestselling author of The Magic of Surrender. We dive into what it really takes to get honest with yourself, let go of the identity you've outgrown, and step into the next version of your life even when it's terrifying.   If you've been feeling stuck, uncertain, or like you're outgrowing the life you worked so hard to build, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: 01:23 Why you might feel stuck, even when life looks “good” 03:06 How fear and ego keep you from moving forward 06:18 What happens when you keep suppressing your truth 15:51 The sneaky ways we self-sabotage (and why we do it) 19:00 Digging into the unconscious reasons you stay stuck 30:04 Kute's advice for women who feel like something's off 31:31 A personal story about attracting the wrong partners 38:58 Kute's surprising morning routine 39:41 How relationships are mirrors for growth 53:04 Who The Magic of Surrender was really written for   Find more from Kute Blackson Website: https://kuteblackson.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kuteblackson Boundless Bliss Event: https://www.boundlessblissbali.com/    Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever tried explaining your coaching offer—only to find yourself rambling, overexplaining, or feeling like it's not landing at all? Here's the truth: if your offer feels complicated to you, it's definitely going to feel complicated to your potential clients. And confused people don't buy.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm sharing why simplicity sells and how to strip away the overwhelm so your coaching offer actually makes sense. You'll learn the three signs your offer might be too complicated, why your promise matters more than your deliverables, and how to get back to clarity so that your ideal clients see exactly how you can help them.   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 01:08 Why keeping your offer simple makes it easier to sell 04:16 Three signs your offer is too complicated 06:36 Why adding “more” doesn't make your offer better 12:51 What goes into creating a magnetic and irresistible offer   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Does the thought of parenting a middle schooler make your stomach drop?    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Bridget KerMorris, parent coach, associate therapist, and mom of seven to talk about how to build connection during the messy middle school years. Bridget shares why common parenting advice often backfires, the two questions every tween is silently asking, and how her Steady + Connected Parenting™ framework helps moms—especially single and divorced moms—stay grounded and present.   If you've been struggling with how to stay close to your tween or teen when they shut you out, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Download 50 Ways I'm Staying Close to My Middle Schooler: https://kermorris.myflodesk.com/50waysguide Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: 03:54 Parenting tips that actually backfire with tweens 05:03 Why connection matters more than ever in middle school 08:04 How to set healthy boundaries without losing trust 13:54 Bridget's Steady + Connected Parenting™ framework 23:50 Simple ways to connect through your kids' interests 25:52 Reframing the questions you ask your kids 28:18 Why non-face-to-face conversations are powerful 30:18 Intentional parenting strategies for divorced moms 34:10 Helping kids manage tech responsibly 45:12 Resources for parents navigating middle school   Find more from Bridget KerMorris: Website: https://kermorris.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bridget.parentcoach/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever wondered why some coaches stand out effortlessly while others struggle to get noticed?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm diving into why every coach—especially if you're just starting out—needs a signature framework. I break down what a coaching framework really is (hint: it's not just PDFs and session outlines), why it matters for both your confidence and your clients' results, and how to start thinking about your own method without overcomplicating it. I'll also share how having my 3C Framework has completely changed the way I market, sell, and deliver my programs and how it can do the same for you.   If you've been spinning your wheels wondering why your coaching business feels unclear, unstructured, or hard to sell, then this episode is for you   Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 01:05 Why having a signature framework changes everything 01:59 How to position your offer so it actually stands out 06:41 Breaking down my 3C Framework: clarity, confidence & client attraction 11:34 Simple ways to start building your own coaching method 15:34 How your framework can be the launchpad for your business   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Ever feel like your finances took a hit harder than your heart after divorce?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by financial advisor and author Jennifer Lee to talk about something every divorced woman needs but most of us never think to prioritize—your financial support system. Whether you're still navigating the emotional aftershocks of divorce or trying to figure out how to make ends meet on a single income, Jennifer is here to help you feel more empowered, less overwhelmed, and totally in control of your money moving forward.   Resources Mentioned: Enroll in ReNewU, the ONLY business coaching program for divorced moms who want to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu Book: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/   What We Discuss: Why money stress is really about security and identity after divorce How to build a financial support team (and why it's more than just a lawyer) What to look for in a financial advisor as a divorced woman Smart strategies for single moms—whether you're paycheck-to-paycheck or have savings Side hustles, scrappiness, and how to build wealth even if you're starting from zero Protecting yourself financially in a new relationship or second marriage Her “Family Love Letter” tool and why emotional planning is just as vital as financial   Find more from Jennifer Lee: Website: https://modern-wealth.com/ Book: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/ Facebook: Facebook.com/ModernWealthInvest LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-lee-awma%C2%AE-aif%C2%AE-1b5aa56 Instagram: Instagram.com/modernwealthloveletter/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@modern-wealth7014   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever signed up for a coaching program, only to feel overwhelmed, unsupported, or no closer to your goals?   Today, I'm breaking down exactly what to look for (and what to run from!) when you're thinking about joining a coaching program—especially if you're a divorced mom who's ready to build a coaching business that actually pays. I'm sharing the biggest red flags I see in the online coaching space, the green flags that tell you a program is worth the investment, and three simple questions you must ask before you say yes to anything (mine included).   If you've been burned by a coaching program before, or you've been stuck in research mode afraid to invest again, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Enroll in ReNewU, the ONLY business coaching program for divorced moms who want to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu   What We Discuss: Why “one-size-fits-all” coaching programs don't work for most divorced moms The red flags to watch out for before joining a business coaching program How to spot a proven, supportive program with personalized feedback The real return on investment you should be looking for   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever felt like you've done all the right things to heal and still don't feel better?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by trauma therapist and homeopathy practitioner Dawn Wiggins to unpack why traditional talk therapy often falls short, especially after divorce. We dive deep into the unseen layers of trauma that live in your body, not just your mind, and explore powerful healing modalities you may not have considered.   If you've been feeling like something is still “off,” even after therapy, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Nervous System Type Quiz: https://scoreapp.mycoachdawn.com/p/4-patterns-of-hormone-grief-disconnection Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: Why talk therapy isn't always enough for deep trauma healing The hidden connection between physical symptoms and unresolved emotional trauma Signs your nervous system might be dysregulated (and what to do about it) What homeopathy really is—and how it can help you heal faster How EMDR works and who it's actually best for Why immersive journaling helps unlock suppressed emotion   Find more from Dawn Wiggins: Listen to Dear Divorce Diary: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-divorce-diary-a-fresh-approach-to-healing/id1629538946 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dawnwiggins/ Website: https://mycoachdawn.com/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Feel like you're doing all the right things online but still hearing crickets? Or maybe you haven't even started yet because you're overwhelmed by all the moving pieces?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through the three key things to focus on right now if you want your social media to become the place where your ideal clients find you, connect with you, and ultimately hire you. Whether you're brand new or you've been posting with little traction, I'm breaking down messaging clarity, DM strategy, and why most coaches are missing the mark when it comes to calls to action.   If your goal is to sign real coaching clients by the end of the year, this episode will give you the clarity you need to cut through the noise and focus on what actually works.   Resources Mentioned: Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold   What I Discuss The Instagram bio litmus test to instantly assess if your messaging is clear Why waiting for DMs to roll in won't work (and what to do instead) How to give people a clear path to hiring you without sounding salesy The difference between direct and indirect CTAs The biggest mistake coaches make when trying to attract clients on social media How Social to Sold will help you build a client attraction strategy that actually works   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

What if your desire isn't gone—it's just been buried under shame, obligation, and disconnection from your body? And what if reclaiming your sexuality didn't have to follow the rules you were taught?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with intimacy and relationship guide Andre Lazarus for a conversation that is both expansive and deeply grounding. We talk about the journey of reconnecting with your erotic self after divorce, what healthy non-monogamy actually looks like, and how to create a relationship with pleasure that centers your body, your truth, and your joy.   Whether you're single, dating again, or just beginning to ask, “What do I want?”—this conversation is an open door to self-exploration. Andre shares tools for building safety in the body, rewriting your sexual story, and cultivating authentic connection, whether in monogamous or alternative partnerships.   Resources Mentioned: How to Master Masculinity and Become the Kind of Man She Craves: https://opentomore.mykajabi.com/masterclass Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: Why women often feel disconnected from their bodies post-divorce How nervous system safety influences your relationship to pleasure The difference between shame and embodied curiosity What ethical non-monogamy actually looks like Creating intentional erotic containers Reclaiming your eroticism—whether solo or partnered   Find more from Andre Lazarus: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comingcloserwithandre/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Are you putting in the effort online but still wondering why no one's signing up to work with you? The problem might not be your offer—it's probably your content. And if you're still trying to educate or inspire your way to clients, this episode is going to be a game-changer.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through three of the biggest content mistakes I see newer coaches make and how they're quietly stalling your business growth. From blending in with everyone else to missing the mark on trust-building, I'll show you how to make small shifts that actually lead to coaching inquiries.   Resources Mentioned: Register for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: Why inspiration and information posts alone won't build your business The real reason your content is being ignored, even if it's helpful How to stop sounding like everyone else and start attracting real clients Why waiting for people to DM you isn't a strategy and what to do instead How to give potential clients a clear path to working with you How to create content that builds trust and converts followers into coaching clients   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Why do so many men stay in unhappy marriages and what happens when they finally walk away?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm sitting down with men's coach Josh Tomeoni to unpack the male perspective on divorce, healing, and healthy masculinity. Josh shares openly about his own divorce experience, how he spiraled before rebuilding, and why he's now helping other men turn their darkest days into their greatest transformation.    This is one of the most honest, compassionate conversations we've ever had on the podcast and even though this show is for women, I promise, hearing a good man reflect on what really goes on behind the scenes will shift how you see dating, co-parenting, and even your own healing journey.   Resources Mentioned: Follow Josh on Instagram and send the word "coach" for a free coaching session to level up after your relationship transition ($500 value): https://www.instagram.com/joshthederelict/ Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What I Discuss: The real reason many men never leave even when they're deeply unhappy Why divorce often hits men harder than they admit The difference between vulnerability and authenticity for men How to support your son (or your ex) in learning healthy masculinity Why "toxic masculinity" isn't the right term and what to say instead What a healed, masculine man actually looks like   Find more from Josh Tomeoni: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshthederelict/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Feel like you're doing all the things on social media but still not getting clients? You're posting, maybe even getting a few likes here and there, but when it comes to actual sales, it's crickets.    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm sharing the three biggest reasons your content might not be converting and exactly what to do about it. If you're serious about using social media to attract clients (without living on your phone 24/7), this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold   What I Discuss: The most common reasons your posts aren't converting Why educational tips alone won't grow your business The 3 key questions every coach must answer before posting content The difference between likes and actual conversions Why your content needs a clear path to move followers to clients   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

What if financial freedom wasn't about chasing more but about expanding into a new version of yourself?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by spiritual wealth expert Elizabeth Ralph for a powerful conversation that will change the way you think about money, investing, and what it really means to be wealthy. Elizabeth shares how a chance encounter with a Cheeto-loving kangaroo sparked the journey from corporate energy trader to financial freedom—and how that journey led to teaching thousands of women to shift from 3D efforting to 5D flow.   If you've been feeling stuck in scarcity and ready to reclaim your financial power, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold The Spiritual Investor Podcast by Elizabeth Ralph: https://www.thespiritualinvestor.com/podcast Get a one-month FREE trial to the Spiritual Investor Club: https://the-spiritual-investor.mn.co/plans/1478451?bundle_token=81effd12748361c5b5e851d7538bbc47&utm_source=manual Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: How Elizabeth went from energy trading to spiritual investing (and yes, a kangaroo is involved) The mindset shift that creates real financial freedom Why women need to stop waiting—and start building wealth now What 3D vs. 5D wealth really means (and how to use both) How to start investing even if you have debt The power of creating “space” to manifest money and opportunity   Find more from Elizabeth Ralph: Website: https://www.thespiritualinvestor.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elizabethralph/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com       

Amber Show Notes   There is nothing more frustrating than pouring your heart into a sales call only to hear “I'm not ready” or “I can't afford it.”   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down exactly what to say when those objections come up (and how to not take them personally). I'll walk you through the mindset shift that changed the game for me, plus some super practical ways to respond that feel natural, human, and not the least bit pushy.   If you've been getting stuck when it comes to objections on sales calls, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Sign up for my FREE workshop, Social to Sold, to get my #1 client-attraction system proven to generate consistent $1K–$5K months for brand-new coaches: https://products.ambershaw.com/socialtosold Episode 403: The 6-Step Sales Call Framework That Turned My Close Rate from 50% to 80%: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/403-the-6-step-sales-call-framework-that-turned-my/id1577282350?i=1000721478904   What I Discuss: Why you don't need to “overcome” objections to lead a powerful sales call What to do when someone says “I can't afford it” or “I'm not ready” The real reason you might be feeling triggered or discouraged on calls How to stand in your power and still serve without being pushy A simple way to reframe objections so you don't spiral or shrink   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com