Podcast appearances and mentions of anne hodder

No, this isn't another stereotypical "self-care" conversation — we don't need any more of those. This is about PLEASURE: what it (actually) is, isn't, and why it's so freaking hard for so many of us to access it.  In this conversation with Anne Hodder-Shipp and Sarah Tomchesson, S3X PLUS cofounders + facilitators of "Pleasure Attitudes: Building An Embodied Self-Care Practice That Really Works," we'll dive into: Pleasure as a euphamism vs. pleasure beyond sexuality, and why these two can be so tough to separate for many of us A take on burnout you probably haven't heard before, and how pleasure fits into the mix "Pleasure role models" Hobbies and making friends as an adult and SO MUCH MORE ABOUT ANNE: Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE (she/they) is an award-winning certified sex and relationship educator and coach dedicated to providing accurate, expansive, and compassionate care. They are the founder and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Ed, a sex ed and professional development organization, and co-founder of S3X Plus, an online community that offers courses like Pleasure Attitudes: Building an Embodied Self-care Practice that Really Works. Anne works with people and couples to help build skills, knowledge, and confidence around identity, pleasure, relationships, and more. Most recently, Anne wrote the modern love language expansion, Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love, and its accompanying guide, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Modern Love Languages. (Listen to Anne on the WANTcast! Episode 016 and Episode 152) ABOUT SARAH: Sarah Tomchesson, C.S.E. (she/her) advocates for sexual liberation through her work as a sex educator, sex toy evangelist, and podcast host. Sarah has spent much of her career shaping legendary sex toy brands, including Pleasure Chest, Babeland, and, now, the iconic Magic Wand brand. She is a certified sexuality educator and has been developing, programming, and presenting pleasure-based sex education nationwide since 2007.  She is co-founder of S3X Plus, an online community of curious people exploring the intersections of pleasure and healing, and co-host of the weekly feminist podcast, F*ck Yeah, which aims to disrupt harmful ideas about sexuality, intimate relationships, identity, parenthood, and more. Sarah is proud mama to a vivacious 8-year-old and honored to act as Vice Chair of the Board of Directors of SIECUS – Sex Ed for Social Change, the nation's leading sex education policy non-profit. ~ SHOW NOTES: Use code ATTITUDE15 to join Pleasure Attitudes for 15% off (begins March 14th 2024) S3XPLUS.COM Anne's website: https://www.annehoddershipp.com Anne on IG: https://www.instagram.com/theannehodder Anne on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theannehodder Sarah's website: https://damianaproductions.com Sarah on IG: https://www.instagram.com/sarahtomtomtom F*ck Yeah Pod: www.fuckyeahpod.com IG: @fuckyeahpod   ~ BUY WANT YOUR SELF on... WANT YOUR SELF on Amazon (don't forget to rate and review it here!) Amazon Kindle Audible Bookshop Barnes & Noble Target Sounds True ~ Email Katie at katie@womenagainstnegativetalk.com or DM her on Instagram to let her know what you want to hear about, who you want to hear from, or what you want to learn next season of the WANTcast!

This week we're talking ALL about how to manage burnout. What it is, how to recognize it, and how we can begin to support our lifestyles to manage our wellbeing. On this episode we cover:what is burnouthow do you recognize it?coping mechanismsradical pleasurebuilding pleasure toolkitpleasure practiceswellness cultureMentioned ResourcesAnne's Bedside episode: The 18 Love Languages

Anne Hodder-Shipp of sex ed internet fame joins us again to demystify the misunderstood "P" word - pleasure. Anne and Sarah co-facilitate a course, Pleasure Attitudes, that focuses on re-establishing a joyful connection to pleasure in all of its forms. Robin interviews them and the three break down the difference between pleasure and sexual pleasure (and why they've come to be conflated), the blocks that many of us face when trying to source pleasure in our lives, and what to do about it. Anne and Sarah share how they help Pleasure Attitudes participants establish embodied self support practices and why it's so important to create routines that are personalized to your needs rather than fit the mold of what is packaged and sold to us as "self care." This episode contains a fair amount of pleasure and self care myth-busting as well as our signature permission-giving around getting to know your authentic needs and desires. Sarah closes out the episode with a "This is going to make you fucking mad" segment about the recent Alabama Supreme Court decision granting "personhood" to embryos.Content warning: Sarah and Robin start the episode talking about the recent death of nonbinary teen, Nex Benedict. If this topic is as heavy to you as it is to us and you need to skip this part of the discussion, skip to 8 min into the episode. If you want to support Nex's family go to www.gofundme.com/f/dagny-benedictIf you or anyone you know are experiencing trauma related to Nex's death Trans Lifeline is available for adults 877 565 8860. The Trevor Project offers youth crisis counseling text "start" to 678-678 or call 866 488 7386.If you're not familiar with Anne's groundbreaking update to the Love Languages check out our episode in season 1 F*ck Yeah to Inclusive Love Languages and her book Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love.You can find Anne online doling out sex ed on TT & IG. If you're interested in working with Anne, visit her website www.annehodder.comFind us at www.fuckyeahpod.com, give us a follow on TT & IG. Make sure to hit "Follow" where ever you listen and leave a review!

Anne Holder-Shipp is an award winning Sex & Relationships Educator and Author of '18 Modern Love Languages' originally from Wolfurrow, New Hampshire where they learned more about sex exploring the library's card catalog then they ever did in a classroom! In this episode we talk about: 01:34 Pandemic Era Transition to Online Teaching 11:11 The Balance Of Fair Compensation and Accessibility For In-Person Classes 14:11 Marketing and Censorship Challenges 18:22 The Reality of Sex Education Work 20:02 Growing Up in a Conservative Town 26:28 Limited Sex Education in School 34:23 Neutral Perspective on Sex Leading To Expansive Values 38:06 Unique Background and Entry into Sex Education 38:26 How They Became a Sex Educator 41:10 Working in Treatment Centers 43:07 Harm Reduction and Abstinence-Only Education 46:09 The Challenges of Sex Education in Treatment Centers 52:11 Understanding Desire and Collaboration in Relationships 55:58 Anne's Epic Responses to Trolls on TikTok You can find Anne on Instagram and TikTok at @TheAnneHodder and their website https://www.annehoddershipp.com/ and of course if you too are interested in becoming a Sex Educator or simply learning more, visit https://everyonedeservessexed.com/   If you're pickin' up what we're putting down please like, Subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! Submit a Sex Ed Pop Quiz question with a 5 star review and I'll give you a shout out!   Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok   Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!

Let's talk about sex! Because despite our global society's obsession with it, we're still frighteningly undereducated about it. While more conversations and information on sexuality are shared much more openly due to social media content and online resources, longstanding attitudes and deeply rooted cultural beliefs can take a lot longer for a person to become open to learn. Some of us have been trained to fear sex, some have been shamed to explore their curiosity, some have been traumatized, and some have been convinced there's nothing important for them to know about themselves or anyone else, and some have just had no access to learning, period. So yeah.. we're still unpacking A LOT. In this episode, Minji sits down with Anne Hodder-Shipp, an award-winning certified sex and relationship educator dedicated to providing accurate, expansive, and compassionate care. Together they talk about their very different upbringings and how everything from school, religion, parents, and communities influenced their understanding of sex from the biological to moral and intimacy facets. Anne shares some of the common misinformation that's creating barriers to having a healthy relationship within ourselves, and of course with others. Pleasure, boundaries, consent, mechanics - we are still just getting started in normalizing these conversations. Hopefully this one will be another to encourage more compassion, respect, curiosity and openness to get smart about what's going on inside our minds and others.Follow Our Guest Anne Hodder-Shipp:Instagram (@theannehodder)https://annehoddershipp.com/https://everyonedeservessexed.com/Follow Minji On:Instagram (@minjeezy)Instagram (@firstofallpod)▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" & “Red Ferrari” by Samica▫️ NEW!!: Subscribe to First Of All on YouTube & check out our S4 episodes on video!▫️ Follow the show on Instagram and Twitter and support our Patreon▫️ This podcast is part of Potluck: An Asian American Podcast CollectiveAudio Engineer @marvinyuehProducer Da Eun Kim @daeunkmSocial Media Manager @JulianaDeer

Maybe you've heard about the Five Love Languages, but maybe they've at times felt...kind of limiting? Confusing? Problematic, even?  There's a reason for that, and you're not alone. That's why Anne Hodder-Shipp decided to reimagine some things:  What "The Modern Love Languages" are and how they're different than what we might already be familiar with (it's not just that there are 18 of them!) How you can apply The Modern Love Languages in your life way beyond your romantic relationships Whether or not it's important to find people whose love languages "match" your own The origins of the "original" Five Love Languages and why they might be more harmful than helpful Taking sex and relationship education onto social media in the 2020s ...and more! ABOUT ANNE: Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE, ACS, (she/they) is an award-winning certified sex and relationship educator dedicated to providing accurate, expansive, and compassionate care. They are the founder and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Ed, a sex ed and professional development organization, and they work with people and couples of almost any age to help build skills, knowledge, and confidence around identity, pleasure, relationships, and communication. Most recently, Anne wrote the groundbreaking expansive love language ebook, Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love, and its accompanying guide, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Modern Love Languages. SHOW NOTES: themodernlovelanguages.com The Modern Love Languages workbook EDSE's sex educator certification @theannehodder on Instagram @theannehodder on TikTok   Follow Katie on Instagram Leave a review on iTunes (and subscribe to the WANTcast if you haven't already!) Subscribe to The (Good) Word, our monthly email digest filled with tips, tools, motivation, and inspiration to shift your self-talk Visit womenagainstnegativetalk.com

Season two is about love that gets pushed into the shadows and this episode is about neurodiverse love, specifically, ADHD, with our guest, Anne Hodder-Shipp. In this episode, we cover the whole range of experiences related to love and ADHD. This scope includes how she was loved as a child, how she fought to get love as a young woman, and how she and her partner, who is also neurodivergent, have learned to have compassion for one another, but also appreciation for their unique cognitive wiring. We explore the challenges that come with this sort of neurodiversity, including getting upset when a live in partner disrupts focus. We also unpack the gifts, such as visionary, creative thought. Anne not only discusses the experience of loving a person with neurodiversity on an individual level, but also how society can love and respect people with neurodiversity better, such as by being more accepting and inclusive. This is a zeitgeist shifting episode that may change how you think about neurodiversity, so please join us when we once again dare to Open Deeply. Anne Hodder-Shipp, CSE, ACS, (she/they) is an award-winning certified sex and relationship educator dedicated to providing accurate, expansive, and compassionate care. They are the founder and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Ed, a sex ed and professional development organization, and they work with people and couples of almost any age to help build skills, knowledge, and confidence around identity, pleasure, relationships, and communication. Most recently, Anne wrote the groundbreaking expansive love language ebook, Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love, and its accompanying guide, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Modern Love Languages. How to find Anne Hodder-Shipp: Website: https://annehoddershipp.com/ EDSE website: https://everyonedeservessexed.com/ The Modern Love Languages website: https://www.themodernlovelanguages.com/ Instagram: http://instagram.com/theannehodder Facebook: http://facebook.com/annehodder-shipp Twitter: http://twitter.com/theannehodder Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theannehodder How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy.

If you've ever felt conflicted about your relationship to love, romance and even how you love, you're going to enjoy today's guest  Anne Hodder-Shipp an award-winning certified sex and relationship educator dedicated to providing accurate, expansive, and compassionate care. They are the founder and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Ed, a sex ed and professional development organization, and they work with people and couples of almost any age to help build skills, knowledge, and confidence around identity, pleasure, relationships, and communication. Most recently, Anne wrote the groundbreaking expansive love language ebook, Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love, and its accompanying guide, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Modern Love Languages. In this interview Anne and I look at the role of sex education as a community endeavor, not just something that happens at school or for sex therapists, but something that helps us create communities that are meaningful. Then we shift toward unpacking their work critiquing the popuar 5 Love Languages and Anne offers us some powerful reframes and why we need to be a bit more curious about dissecting love languages as they've been fed to us. https://annehoddershipp.com/ https://everyonedeservessexed.com/ https://www.themodernlovelanguages.com/ https://www.s3xplus.com/

This week Anne Hodder-Shipp joins us to educate us on her groundbreaking and expansive approach to Love Languages. We talk self-love, queer love, platonic love, romantic love, but most importantly how be in relationship with "love" in a way that does not make it feel in short supply. At the end of the episode, Sarah and Robin try an exercise that Anne recommends for working with her book Speaking from the Heart: 18 Modern Love languages and all kinds of gushy expressions of mutual love and respect ensues.If you haven't followed Anne's sex ed reels & Tik Toks, find her online @theannehodder. Anne is an award-winning certified sex and relationship educator dedicated to providing accurate, expansive, and compassionate care. They are the founder and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Ed, a sex ed and professional development organization. Most recently, Anne wrote Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love, and its accompanying guide, The Speaking from the Heart Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Modern Love Languages.

This week Anne Hodder-Shipp, a renowned sexuality educator, joins me to discuss her new book "Speaking From the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love." Her book offers an alternative perspective and response to what we have come to accept as the 5 Love Languages, which is focused on heteronormative monogamous relationships. Anne's book offers a refreshing new take on intimacy and safety building in all types of relationships. In this episode, she invites you into creating additional love languages of your own while recognizing hers is based on 6 years of research with clients but not exhaustive. Plus, she offers up a dreamwork exercise to navigate our subconscious emotions and symbols. That you can easily do on your own.

Anne Hodder-Shipp is a sex and relationship educator dedicated to providing accurate, empowered, compassionate, and expansive sex education. Anne's pronouns are she/they, and she is a queer femme. They're also neurodivergent with a recent ADHD diagnosis. She doesn't have language that totally feels right, but says that sometimes agender, non-binary, and demigirl work. Find out what that means to Anne in this episode. We also talk about not having a sense of belonging, feeling safe in your skin, self-soothing and meeting yourself where you're at, upholding meaning over language at all cost, how the gender binary is weaponised, that a new awareness of reality is often accompanied by a mourning process, looking at love languages through a different lens, and reframing the concepts of love, touch, and relationships. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/anne 

INTERVIEW: Did you know there are actually more than 5 Love Languages? Yep! Today joining me on the podcast is Anne Hodder-Shipp, a certified sex and relationships educator and author. On the show, Anne is here to chat about their latest written work around the topic of the modern love. Specifically, the 18 Languages for Modern Love which is Anne's much-needed and expansive update to the classic Love Languages. On this episode we cover:Why there are more than 5 Love LanguagesIdentityQueernessGrowing upSexual scriptingPlatonic loveGiveaway!!! Leave a podcast review for a chance to WIN a Good Sex™ Hoodie!Keep up with Bedside:@thebedsidethebedside.co         Connect with Anne:@theannehodderannehoddershipp.comAnd if you have a moment, rate, review, and share this episode with a friend!

In this episode, Anne Hodder, a badass certified sex educator and founder of Everyone Deserves Sex Ed, drops some deep knowledge and truth bombs about our past/current sex education curriculum, how harmful it is, and how we can best move forward for a sex positive future with less shame and guilt. We ended with a rapid round of "10 Quickies with Dr. Tara"! Listen and learn my luvs...Oh! and have an orgasmic day! Links: https://everyonedeservessexed.com/ https://annehoddershipp.com/ For more sex and relationship realness, follow me on social media: luvbites.co and subscribe to my juicy newsletter at www.luvbites.co Désirables - High End Porcelain G-Spot Dildo Link: https://www.desirables.ca/?sca_ref=1146503.NKe2VRTj4y Use Code: DRTARA for 10% discount maude - The Best Massage Candle Link: getmaude.com/drtara Use Code: DRTARA for $5 off your order *All Rights Reserved. Dr Tara International Inc.

Inspired to open up the "classic" tool of the 5 love languages to be more inclusive, Anne wrote SPEAKING FROM THE HEART: 18 LANGUAGES FOR MODERN LOVE, illustrated to show what those languages may look like and what they don't. We talk about: Opening up to how we see relationships, especially platonic ones; giving and receiving love more easily and openly; asking yourself if you're holding back; shifting back to communal participation; going beyond the basic 5 languages; Anne's faves (this week); score keeping; being in a relationship with yourself; connecting; the awkwardness or re-establishing contact/socializing; managing expectations; getting back to normal and needing to grieve what was lost; the missing love language; practicing the dance; consent; checking in; telepathy; why assume when you can just ask?You can find Anne on Twitter and Instagram @theannehodder, on Facebook @EveryoneDeservesSecksEd, and her book is available at https://www.themodernlovelanguages.com/Episode recorded on 04/16/21Episode released on 05/26/21For more information on the podcast or its host, please visit sassylittlepodcast.com. There, you will find links to social media and an opportunity to become a member of the podcast community. We are on Twitter and Instagram @SassyLittlePod and Facebook @SassyLittlePodcast.Thanks for listening! If you like this sassy little podcast, please subscribe to it, rate it and review it, and tell your friends about it. For early access, ad-free episode and exclusive content, become a patron on Patreon or a subscriber with Apple Podcasts (coming soon!). Cheers!

Dream big, Honey, because it turns out your dreams have a lot to tell you. Anne Hodder-Shipp is a sexuality and relationship educator who’s ready to help you change your life, by tapping into your dreams. We talk about what sex dreams really mean, how to start your own dream interpretation practice, and whether or not your “naughty” dreams say anything about the real you.   We also talk about: Cheating dreams Nightmares Wet dreams   Additional Resources: FREE Meditation to Work Through Nightmares from Anne's Teacher Kezia Vida Interactive Dream Journal   Connect with Anne: annehoddershipp.com @theannehodder on Instagram   If you love us, check out: Honeydewmepodcast.com @honeydewmepodcast on Instagram Join our email list to receive our "10 Favorite (Sex) Things" download for FREE!

Today, I deep dive into the benefits and logistics of sex-positive education with expert Anne Hodder. In this episode, we explore why teens not only need but deserve to have a healthy, honest, and comprehensive physical education. But how? Anne walks me through how staff and health care professionals can support Residence and teens with this topic and what parents need to know about sexual education and recovery.

Does having a sex dream about a past lover bring up feelings of guilt and shame? Anne Hodder-Shipp, a dreamwork specialist, talks to Wendy about why dreams shouldn't be a catalyst for worry. Instead, Anne discusses the many ways observing dreams can be a source of self-growth and healing.

Talking about period sex, responsive desire, the importance of communication, the power of vulnerability, binary thinking BS, orgasms aren't necessarily the goal, what's “normal” anyway, and how arousal, or lack thereof, is not an indicator of desire.Find Anne at:AnneHodderShipp.comOn Twitter, Instagram and FacebookThe towel by Liberator Anne refers to can be found here: https://amzn.to/3lsNh7TRecorded on: 08/07/20Released on: 10/07/20**This page contains affiliate links!**For more information on the podcast or its host, please visit sassylittlepodcast.com. There, you will find links to social media and an opportunity to become a member of the podcast community.Thanks for listening! If you like this sassy little podcast, please subscribe to it, rate it and review it, and tell your friends about it. Cheers!

Episode Notes In this Part 19 of Quarantine & Chill, I revisit my friend and sex educator Anne Hodder-Shipp as we get into the sh*t of things talking about her experiences with motility issues, poop, fear, shame, and how all those things play out during the pandemic. I loved being able to talk shit with her, and discuss my own issues with poo during the pandemic. Enjoy! You can follow Anne on Insta at www.instagram.com/theannehodder You can apply to be a part of Disability After Dark or Quarantine and Chill by e-mailing disabilityafterdark@gmail.com. We'd love to have you as a guest! Thanks for listening to us during these trying times! We're here for you. This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

The guest for this episode is multi-certified sex & relationships educator, dreamworker, sex toy expert, sex-positive publicist at Hodder Media, and founder of EDSE, the amazing Anne Hodder-Shipp. During our conversation, she shared with us how her own experiences that led her to become a sex educator and publicist, her interest in sex education at a young age, gender identity, learning from other communities, common issues that people and couples need help with in regards to relationship education, and her work as a sex-positive publicist. Follow Anne Hodder-Shipp: Web: annehoddershipp.com Web: everyonedeservessexed.com Web: hoddermedia.com Facebook: facebook.com/annehodder Instagram: instagram.com/theannehodder Twitter: twitter.com/theannehodder SUBSCRIBE/RATE/REVIEW FRESH IS THE WORD: Subscribe on all major streaming platforms. Please rate and review on Apple Podcast and Stitcher. List of where Fresh is the Word streams: linktr.ee/freshisthewordpodcast or just search “Fresh is the Word”. Also available on IHeartRadio. THEME MUSIC Courtesy of Knox Money, Bang Belushi, and Foul Mouth. Support via Patreon If you want to support Fresh is the Word, please consider pledging via Patreon at Patreon.com/freshistheword. Support via Paypal If you don’t want to do Patreon, you can donate via Paypal: PayPal.Me/kfreshistheword --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/freshistheword/message

Today on the podcast I am sharing part 1 of my conversation with Anne Hodder-Shipp, a sex and relationship coach who also specializes in dreamwork, sex education and dating. In part 1 of 2 we focus on Anne’s background and sex education. You’ll hear us talk about ways our personal experiences with sex and relationships might come through in our conversations with kids about these topics. We go over how sex education is delivered in the U.S. and how parents can support their children in ways their school might not be. In Part 2 we get more into her work with adults, breath work, and dream work. Stay tuned for that! Below are links to connect with Anne, as well as the resources she talks about in this episode! Personal site: https://annehoddershipp.com/ EDSE site: https://everyonedeservessexed.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theannehodder/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/theannehodder Some good online resources for sexuality info: •sexuality.org •ashasexualhealth.org – American Social Health Association •plannedparenthood.org •scarleteen.com •sexetc.org •amaze.org •jackinworld.com •sfcityclinic.org •aasect.org – American Association of Sex Educators, Councilors, and Therapists •cdc.gov – Centers for Disease Control and Prevention •herpes.org – Help with herpes and HPV --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/notamamayet/support

Anne Hodder-Shipp joins us to talk sex ed, entitlement in relationships, and sex after recovery and while sober. News! If you could use some support around your relationship to your body, to pleasure, to sex and desire, I have a few spots available for in-person coaching in Vancouver and in my online virtual practice. Check out the Work With Me page for details. Patreon supporters - Anne and I spent some time recording a special bonus chat for you all about dream work and sex dreams. Head to patreon.com/sgrpodcast to hear. If you don't yet support the show, $3 per month gets you weekly bonus content you can't find anywhere else. This week, I'm joined by Anne Hodder-Shipp, an experienced and no bullshit sex educator who does incredible work on the front lines of sex education and behind-the-scenes helping with the marketing and promotion of many popular brands you likely know. We dive into the importance of authenticity in dating and relationships, why being in a relationship does not entitle you to your partner's body and the steps you can take if you've behaved that way in the past, Anne's awesome new sex education certification program through EDSE (there's a new course in November - if you're interested, SIGN-UP NOW!), and the complexities of sex when you're in recovery or newly sober. Anne also shares how natural dreamwork, a way to get in touch with your emotions, helped her doing some healing work. Have questions of your own you'd like featured on the show? Send me a note using the contact form in the navigation above!   Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook and Dawn is on Instagram. About Anne Hodder-Shipp: Anne Hodder-Shipp, ACS, (she/her) is a multi-certified sex and relationships educator with professional training in breathwork and holistic dreamwork. She boasts a unique understanding of age-appropriate sex education, trauma-informed healing, critical thinking, and emotional intelligence, and she brings a fun, friendly and sex-positive facilitation style to every session, group or event she hosts. Utilizing a non-judgmental and no-b.s. approach, Anne happily helps clients of all ages, experience levels and lifestyles heal, learn and grow. In addition to her private practice and public workshops, Anne is the founder of and lead educator at Everyone Deserves Sex Education (EDSE), and also leads treatment groups for clients recovering from substance use disorder, eating disorders, compulsive sexual behavior and other stigmatized illnesses. Private practice: https://annehoddershipp.com EDSE Certification:  https://everyonedeservessexed.com/certification Instagram + Twitter: @theannehodder Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous) Episode Transcript Head to dawnserra.com/ep278 for the transcript.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex educator & dream-worker Anne Hodder-Shipp to talk about sex dreams, and they’re taking your calls & answering your questions.  They discuss what sex dreams really mean & if there are any truths behind them, ways to talk to teens about sex education without blaming or shaming, & how to have more connected sex with woman-on-top. Plus, a g-spot & p-spot location tutorial!  Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: pjur, Good Vibrations, Same Day STD Testing, SiriusXM, Simple Habit.  Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Anne Hodder-Shipp, click HERE. 

This week Zack and Haley are joined again by sex & relationship educator Anne Hodder-Shipp! They discuss the ways queer people may feel like they’re “not enough”, the anxiety some bisexuals feel when interacting with the rest of the community, tools that can help build self-esteem, and more! We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre twitter.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

In this episode, I sit down with sex educator Anne Hodder-Ship as we explore her experiences with chronic constipation and how that has affected her sexuality, her sense of safety and so much more.You can follow Anne's work by heading over to www.annehodder.comBe sure to support our sponsors:Get 15% off any purchase at Come As You Are Co-op Sex Shop, by using coupon code "afterdark".Buy a #DisabledPeopleAreHot tee shirt, and support the movement here https://store.podcastjukebox.org/collections/disabled-people-are-hotAlso, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark

The show is all about sex as Sex Educator Anne Hodder-Shipp and Angie Krum joined Mark and Hannah to drop some carnal knowledge Anne talked about her struggles being overweight and thus fashion deprived growing up, described how particular editors were when she was writing articles for adult trade publications, how ease of getting pornography and sexual accouterments has been a blessing and a curse and talked about her class on sex education EDSE Angie is an unofficial sex expert in her own right. She talked about her own struggles with weight when she grew up but now has gone past it and regaled everyone with stories about her piercings, anal beads, toupees, foot worship, younger men and so much more...

This week Zack and Haley are joined by sex and relationship educator Anne Hodder! They chat about her background as an educator, human sexuality, mental and spiritual health, and more! Follow: We're Not Together instagram.com/nottogetherpodcast twitter.com/NotTogetherCast Zack instagram.com/zackogre Haley instagram.com/haley_manrique Revry instagram.com/revrytv twitter.com/revrytv

It's the first Dark Mark Show of 2019 and Mark and Hannah are talking sex all night long with adult film star Ophelia Rain, sex educator Anne Hooder-Shipp and very special guest the legendary Ron Jeremy!   Ophelia talks about how she wants to get butt implants to match the breast implants which took her from an A Cup to D Cups, talked about how Troma films got her kicked out of school, only for her to get her revenge when she starred in one, how her new scene with Brazzers has the most ad revenue on PornHub of any scene, the bias in the industry against heavily tattooed women and her “arty” erotic and surreal new scene the “black shower”.   Anne talks about how she was became known as the “sex toy queen” and what is not quite right with most sex toys, how she overcame a debilitating medical condition which caused her to faint and curl up in a fetal position at a Pleasure Chest party, what it is like working with sex for her entire adult life and her new accreditation program EDSE which stands for Everyone Deserves Sex Education and their Sex Education Certification Class   Ron came in about 40 minutes in and kicked the show into overdrive with his wit and undeniable energy. Everyone in studio had a story about meeting Ron for the first time and he explained how he has never not been able to get an erection and explained to Mark (and you) his technique which Ophelia admitted got her squirting the first time she met him   Make sure the kids are out of the room and enjoy all this dirty talk

Sex expert and educator Anne Hodder talks about older people enjoying sex. Just because you have a bit of gray hair doesn't mean the fires don't burn.

Getting it on over 50 is the topic with sex expert Anne Hodder and Mark Alyn on this edition of Late Night Health.

Getting it on over 50 is the topic with sex expert Anne Hodder and Mark Alyn on this edition of Late Night Health.

Sex expert and educator Anne Hodder talks about older people enjoying sex. Just because you have a bit of gray hair doesn't mean the fires don't burn.

Anne Hodder, ACS joins August to explore emotional intelligence and relationships, ways to cope when you're feeling triggered, dreamwork as a healing tool and the mighty vulva! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who was recently diagnosed with vulvodynia. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Sex educator & pleasure industry wonder woman, Anne Hodder, shares stories of her sex journalism days including the ongoing Village Voice, coast to coast, “girl-fight” she helped craft under the pseudonym Barbie Davenport. We discuss the importance of sex ed in rehab facilities and the myth of ‘sex addiction.’ Anne teaches us about breathwork & how science and the spiritual can come together to help us ‘own our shit’ in sex, relationships & all areas of life. Ken & Sunny get warm & fuzzy feedback from a fan. Guest Bio Anne Hodder, ACS, is a multi-certified sex educator endorsed by San Francisco Sex Information and the American College of Sexologists International. A cum laude graduate of the Roy H. Park School of Communications at Ithaca College, Anne’s journalism and sociology background led her to work as a journalist focusing on sexuality and the adult industry before being professionally trained in accurate and inclusive sex education. Anne received her first certification and endorsement by the renowned San Francisco Sex Information program and continued her training via the American College of Sexologists International and Planned Parenthood Los Angeles’s School Based Sex Education Program, where she honed a special skill for working with adolescents. She boasts a unique understanding of age-appropriate education, high school sex ed, critical thinking, and trauma sensitivity and, most recently, Anne has brought her teaching style into the addiction treatment and mental health communities. Anne provides accurate and accessible sexual health information and healthy relationship tools with a special focus on inclusivity, shame reduction, and effective communication skills and, with a friendly and non-judgmental approach, Anne helps clients of all kinds heal, grow and be their most authentic selves. Episode 26 Topics Delta & theta brain frequencies, compulsive sexual behavior disorder, advice for the self employed, Barbie Davenport, the business side of sex toys, sex ed in rehab facilities, classic girl fights, Harvey Weinstein, DSM 5, Own Your Shit Workshops. AV Flox, alternative medicine in the US military, Backpage,  your rights in a relationship. rolling your third eye,  all the reasons Nathaniel is amazing, the sweet spot between science and woo-woo, sobriety & sexual identity, adult industry PR,  not my circus not my monkeys, LA Weekly firings, Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous/SLAW, The Village Voice, fuck you pay me, coke nails, east coast vs west coast, breathwork, how to get your brain to STFU Episode 26 Links Anne Hodder’s Website: http://annehodder.com/ Anne Hodder Twitter: https://twitter.com/theannehodder Anne Hodder Instagram: https://instagram.com/theannehodder Hodder Media: http://www.hoddermedia.com/ Own Your Shit Workshops https://ownyoursht.splashthat.com/ Breathwork for Recovery free Tuesday night class in LA http://breathworkforrecovery.com Nathaniel V. Dust http://nathanielvdust.com/ Episode 26 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast by Jon Ronson is a MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

I met Anne Hodder through Elle Chase, who was on the podcast last year. Anne Hodder, ACS, is a multi-certified sex educator endorsed by the renowned San Francisco Sex Information program and the American College of Sexologists International. She is the sex ed teacher you wish you'd had in high school.   We talk about how she taught herself about sex; household items as sex toys; her sex-positive PR firm; her sex workshops; men and emotions; and “69.” https://annehodder.com/ https://screamingo.com/shop/charged-positive-vibe/ https://www.amazon.com/Jamye-Waxman/e/B001JP4E52 http://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/1-2-AJ-BE02/good-vibrations-toys/fukuoku-9000-massager-

Anne Hodder, certified sex educator, is on this week's Women of Worth podcast talking about feminism in her line of business!

So, you’re probably wondering about that title, “your vulva is a snowflake,” and the fact that today’s episode had the word “sex” in the title. You might even be thinking, oh this episode isn’t for me, I’m not in a relationship – or, I AM in a relationship and it’s a healthy relationship – or, I’m not looking for sex advice right now – or whatever might be coming into your brain because this episode has “sex” in the title. I want to make this clear – yes, we talk about the act of sex a little, but this episode is not about intercourse or partnership. Like, at all. This is, I mean, maybe one of the most all-inclusive, body-positive conversations I know I’ve ever had. And probably, you too. Anne Hodder is a Certified sex educator, sex toy expert, and sex-positive PR & marketing pro at Hodder Media. She’s also been a friend of mine for about….5 years now?...I met her at the gym, in a spin class, and since then she has just been such a thoughtful, wise, and supportive presence in my life. I knew that when the time was right, I needed to have her on the pod. And today, more than ever, seems like the moment to talk as candidly, honestly, graphically, and altruistically about sex, sexuality, trauma, consent, desire, and body positivity as we do here in Episode 16. So when you hear “sex educator,” if youre like me, you probably think about your health teacher in middle school and that one unit they did on basically the how tos of sex and our bodies. Talking to Anne, I learned it’s, so, SO much more than that. And while most of us get the birds and the bees talk or maybe get that year or two of classes in school, it’s NOT enough. What Anne does isn’t just talking about intercourse – it’s about owning your body, your decisions, your emotions, and making empowered choices. Yes, sometimes in the bedroom – but a lot of what she talks about doesn’t even have to do with going between the sheets. In this episode, we talk about shame, what we get wrong about sexual trauma – or at least what I did – and how MUCH that explains when it comes to the way we navigate our relationships and sexuality, her experiences with talking to high schoolers vs. adults, Anne’s journey into the sex journalism and then sex education world, judgement, dealing with embarassment, body hangups, sex positivity, body positivity, and why no emotion is mutually exclusive. That’s just the tip of the iceberg. I came to a realization while listening back to this recording: Ann says "There are things we can and cannot say to people under 18. The thing we need to remember when talking with high school kids is that developmentally they're in a totally different place." And it donned on me that most of our FORMAL, ACTUAL SEX ED ends in high school health class. Which means that, for most of us, the education ends before we're actually experiencing the majority of our mature sexual life. The education ends - and the speculation begins. No wonder sex, sexuality, and everything even closely related seems like such a mystery - the information we have was given to us based on what we were actually able to process at the time! When we were kids! The rules around sex ed are so varied from region to region - I mean, I had "human development class" every single year from kindergarten to sixth grade, talking about everything from dating to kissing to drugs to yes, how babies are made. And then I got to middle school, and I distinctly remember we talked about sex in 7th grade. And then nothing in 8th, then barely anything in 9th, and that was it. In 9th grade, I was 14 years old. I was really lucky to have incredibly open-minded and candid parents, especially a mom I could talk to or ask anything. But I know most young women aren't as lucky growing up. Even with her guidance, I was still being handed a set of experiences and opinions - nothing from anyone actually trained to guide me through things from an educational non-parental perspective. So it makes sense to me that sex and sexuality are most commonly surrounded by shame, mystery, rebellion, etc. And moreOVER!, we only see sex portrayed a certain way in the media - USUALLY heterosexual, usually cisgender, and USUALLY two young, pristine-looking people. Very little body diversity, age diversity, gender diversity... that's why shows like sex and the city and girls were and are so groundbreaking. This should go without saying, but this episode IS for mature audiences – we swear a bit, we talk not GRAPHICALLY in a vulgar way but in an anatomical way, and while Anne was cracking me up throughout the entire episode, it’s definitely not a set of subjects to be taken lightly. If you’re not into it, cool, or if you’re, I don’t know, my grandma listening (and she does listen) and you don’t really want to hear your granddaughter talking about this, that’s cool too! But on the flipside, I would say that this is an episode that should DEFINITELY be shared with anyone in your life who is open to listening because as we discuss on the episode, we live in a culture that dodges these important topics way too often and to our detriment.

This week on Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza: It's Sex Stats From Around the World! Who's the most satisfied? Who's the kinkiest? Where to we "size up?" PLUS: Why vegetables make the worst sex toys. Power Panel: AVN's award winning Flash Brown, sex educator Anne Hodder and author Rowena Murray.

This week on Between the Sheets: It WAS going to be the Vowels of Sex From Anal to Oral to UhOh, but we never got past anal. We cover a lot of ass for ya! Plus sex in outer space. (Sign me up!) Power Panel of Perversion: Kelly Shibari, Anne Hodder and Katie Massa Kennedy.

This week on Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza: It’s a special VAGAPALOOZA: The Ladies of Sex Ed! They’re doin’ it so you can DO IT better! PLUS: The LA SlutWalk, sex talk for women with disabilities and….FLORIDA! Panel of Power Pervs: Slutty Girl Problems founder Lorrae Bradbury, Sex educator Anne Hodder and Lady Cheeky’s Elle Chase.

I'm talking about my favorite topic- masturbation and the best sex toys for men and women. In a word filled with crazy, awesome, vibrating sex toys, it can be hard to choose a sex toy. Are you a clitoral stimulation kind of a girl or a G-spot gal? Are you a size queen or are you looking for something cute and discreet? Do you want a couples toy or do you want it all to yourself? Of course, sex toys aren't just for the girls (check out the Fleshlight guys at sexwithemily.com/Fleshlight!). My guest, Sex Toy Expert Anne Hodder, and I discuss some surprising ways men enjoy the vibrations too, and how they can use sex toys on their partner. My guest Anne Hodder and I have tried and reviewed hundreds of sex toys so we can tell you the best sex toys for your preferences and needs. Your welcome. I do it all for you... and the orgasms.    You can get almost all the vibrators we discuss on the show at  Anne and I agree that one of the best vibrators for couple play and solo play is the Je Joue MiMi, and the best sex toy for men is the Fleshlight. If you're looking for great G-spot action or anal play, NJoy is simply the best. Get them all at SexwithEmily.com/GoodVibes and SexwithEmily.com/Fleshlight.