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A Question That Stopped Me In My Tracks Have you ever heard a question that made you stop dead? Not because you didn't understand it. Quite the opposite. Because you understood it too well. That's what happened to me. I was listening to Chris Williamson on the Modern Wisdom podcast when he asked a question that stopped me in my tracks. And almost immediately I started searching for an answer. Not because I didn't know the answer. I did. And that was the bloody interesting bit. I realised that knowledge wasn't my problem. Action was. I knew what I wanted. I knew some of the things I needed to do. I've been doing this personal development stuff for long enough to have a pretty good toolbox. So why wasn't I acting? That question took me somewhere much more interesting than I expected. It got me thinking about my own search for meaning, direction, purpose and my North Star. It made me wonder about the dreams, goals and desires we have — and what might actually be stopping us from moving towards them. Because perhaps sometimes the problem isn't that we don't know what to do. Perhaps there's something underneath that knowledge quietly saying: "Not yet." And that's where things like limiting beliefs, emotional blockages, self-doubt and our internal voice can start to show themselves. What happens when you see opportunity differently? In this FMQ, I start exploring what might happen if we could make our dreams and goals: Bigger Brighter Richer Quicker And, perhaps most importantly, more enjoyable to pursue Because achieving something isn't the whole story, is it? How we experience the journey matters too. I want to explore how the way we see the world, the things we believe about ourselves and that little voice inside our heads can influence whether we actually take action. And I've got a feeling that question might give us a rather useful way of uncovering what's getting in the way. This is the seed... This is a Five Minute Quickie, so I'm deliberately leaving the question hanging. I'd like you to think about something you're working towards right now. Perhaps it's: Work. Health. Relationships. A project. A dream. A goal. Or simply letting go of something that's been holding you back. Write it down if you can. Don't solve it yet. Just bring it with you. Because in the longer Deeper Dive, we're going to explore the question properly and see whether we can turn it into a practical process for uncovering what's stopping us — and perhaps finding a better way forward. And who knows? Maybe your answer will surprise you. That's certainly what happened to me. Have a think. And enjoy every heartbeat. Please Share and pay it forward https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-540-a-question-that-stopped-me-in-my-tracks And if you want to see m,e recording this https://youtu.be/QM19D4Hzu8I
Have you ever gotten booked on a podcast — or dreamed about it — and realized you have no idea how to actually prepare? In this solo episode, I'm breaking down the exact ways you can practice speaking before you ever sit down across from a host.The truth is, confidence on a podcast isn't something you just have. It's something you build — with reps. And the good news? You already have everything you need to start today.In this episode:Why waiting until you feel "ready" keeps you stuckHow to use your camera, IG stories, reels, and lives as a free practice studioWhy the most important step is watching yourself back — and how to do it without spiralingWhat to listen for: filler phrases, repeated words, and how clearly you're telling your storyThe goal isn't to be perfect. It's to be practiced. So that when the moment comes, you're already ready.
You're Not Who You Think You Are Who the f*ck am I? That was the question that dropped into my head while I was sitting with my puzzle book. And what started as a bit of quiet thinking took me somewhere I didn't expect. We often confuse who we are with what we do. I'm a therapist. I'm a parent. I'm a partner. I'm successful. I'm anxious. I'm confident. But those are roles, behaviours and experiences. They aren't necessarily our identity. So who are we underneath all of that? I started thinking about Superman, Spider-Man, Batman and Wonder Woman. They all have different identities, different roles and different ways of showing up in the world, but underneath the costume there's something deeper: values, purpose, a calling and a direction. And perhaps that's true for us too. In this episode, I explore identity, self-discovery, personal growth, purpose and finding your North Star, along with a simple process for meeting the different versions of yourself and asking one rather interesting question: Which one is pretending to be you? I also share how my puzzle book has become a surprisingly powerful tool for thinking, asking better questions, exploring the unconscious mind and finding my way through change. This isn't me teaching you who you are. It's me sharing what I'm discovering about myself and inviting you to explore alongside me. Because maybe we're not here to find ourselves once and for all. Maybe we're here to keep discovering who we're becoming. Enjoy every heartbeat. What You'll Explore Why we can confuse our roles and behaviours with our identity The difference between what you do and who you are How self-discovery can reveal parts of ourselves we've overlooked Why values and purpose may matter more than rigid goals Finding your calling and personal direction My North Star approach to personal development A simple process for exploring the different versions of yourself How a puzzle book can help uncover thoughts, ideas and unconscious insights Why leaving a question unfinished can sometimes be surprisingly useful How to use curiosity and reflection for personal growth A Question For You Which version of you is pretending to be you? And perhaps the more interesting question: Who's noticing them all? Don't forget to share or should I say REMEMBER to share this episode https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/488-youre-not-who-you-think-you-are And if you want to me recording this episode https://youtu.be/B1Ci7953cME Shine Brightly
My Puzzle Book Asked Me One Question Who the f*ck am I? That was the question that suddenly popped into my head while I was sitting with my puzzle book. Not what do I do?, not what's my job?, not what role am I playing? — but who am I underneath all of that? It got me thinking about identity, behaviour, the different versions of ourselves we move through in life, and whether we sometimes mistake what we do for who we are. My puzzle book has become a simple way for me to explore these questions, especially when I'm trying to find my way through change. I write down a question, let it sit, and sometimes the answer appears when I'm not even consciously looking for it. And this one opened up a whole new conversation about identity, Superman, Spider-Man, the Hulk… and where all that took me. This is the seed. The longer, deeper dive takes the conversation much further. What if you stopped asking "What do I do?" and started asking "Who the f*ck am I?" or as the deeper dive goes in search of, "You're Not Who You Think You Are" Come and explore it with me and share what you learn; pay it forward https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-539-my-puzzle-book-asked-me-one-question Shine Brightly
Why Goals Stopped Working For Me — And What I Discovered Instead I've spent years setting goals, teaching goal setting and helping people turn dreams and desires into something they could actually achieve. And goals are bloody useful. They give us motivation, direction and something to move towards. But I eventually noticed something: sometimes you reach the goal and still think, "Is that it?" That was the clue for me. I realised I had been asking goals to give me things they were never designed to provide — meaning, purpose, direction, peace and a sense of belonging. So perhaps goals aren't the problem. Perhaps we're expecting too much from them. In this deeper dive I explore what happened when I started looking beyond goals and towards my own North Star — not as a destination, but as a direction for how I want to live and experience my life. There's also a simple reflective process to help you explore a goal you've already achieved and discover what you were really hoping it would give you. Because maybe life isn't about reaching the right destination. Maybe it's about learning how you want to travel. And, as I'm discovering for myself, that might be much closer to enjoying every heartbeat. In this episode Why goals are brilliant servants but terrible masters. What can happen when achieving a goal still leaves you asking, "Is this it?" The difference between achievement and meaningful experience. Why my North Star is becoming more about direction than destination. A simple process for discovering what you're really looking for through your goals. How goals, dreams and desires can become experiences rather than just milestones. If you've ever achieved something you thought would make you happy, only to find yourself wondering "What's next?", this one's worth a listen. And if you agree, please share the hell out of it with everyone you know :o) https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/487-why-goals-stopped-working-for-me and if you want to see me recording this in an unplugged way https://youtu.be/DAJM7ROz8vk Shine Brightly
Soul Powered Channel with Rebekah Kiger | Season PremiereIn This EpisodeI'm opening up about the season that broke me open and then rebuilt me: why I stepped away, what my daughter's health scare surfaced about a fear I'd been carrying since childhood, and the spiritual awakening that changed how I make literally every decision now.We get into what soul-led living actually looks like in real life, not the aesthetic version, the actual one. I talk about why trying to think my way into a new life kept plateauing for me, and what shifted when I finally started working with my nervous system instead of just my mindset. I share what Dr. Joe Dispenza's work has taught me, why hustle culture stopped working for me entirely, and how I'm building wealth from alignment now instead of survival mode.And I introduce what's next: the Soul Powered Society, plus the three-stage path I'm walking my community through, Awaken, Amplify, Ascend.Key TakeawaysUncertainty isn't a detour. It's the doorway. Before a new version of you can show up, there's almost always a season of letting go. That season isn't a sign you failed. That's the metamorphosis."Falling apart" is often just falling into place. The structures that collapse are usually the ones you already outgrew.Mindset alone will not get you there. If your body is still running old survival programming, it's gonna override your intentions every single time.Intuition builds a different kind of life than fear does. Once I started making decisions from intuition instead of fear, everything changed, not because life got easier, but because I trusted myself.Knowledge doesn't change your life. Application does. The shift comes from what you actually practice.Chapters00:00 Rising from the Ashes: A Journey of Transformation04:34 The Void: Embracing Metamorphosis11:08 Channeling Authenticity: The New Podcast Format17:59 Living a Soul-Powered Life: The Shift from Ego to Soul23:34 Where I've Been: A Deep Dive into Personal Growth30:49 Navigating Personal Boundaries and Relationships32:45 Facing Fear and Shame in Parenthood36:12 The Power of Visualization and Manifestation39:33 Emotional Release and Healing43:44 Creating a Soul-Powered Community47:34 Building a New Societal Structure52:55 Empowering Women Through the Soul-Powered Society59:27 Introduction to Soul Power and New Earth Transition59:56 The Importance of Sharing and Community in TransformationResources MentionedBooks & TeachersDr. Joe DispenzaConcepts We ExploredHuman DesignQuantum manifestationMy WorkRise to Riches Workshop: https://www.risewithrebekah.com/pl/2148704936utm_campaign=podcastSoul Powered Society: https://www.risewithrebekah.com/new-the-soul-powered-society?utm_campaign=podcastReady to Go Deeper?If this episode landed somewhere tender, you're probably not meant to do this next part alone. Soul Powered Society is the community I built for women done forcing, done hustling, and ready to build a life from alignment.
Why Goals Stopped Working For Me We all need goals. They give us direction, motivation and something to aim for. I've spent years teaching goal setting, visualisation, Timeline Therapy and even a little Law of Attraction. Goals work... but I discovered they weren't the whole story. A while ago something felt off. I was achieving what I'd set out to do, yet there was still a quiet feeling that something was missing. It wasn't about fear of failure or limiting beliefs. It was something much deeper. In this Five Minute Quickie I share the beginning of that discovery and ask a question that completely changed the way I now think about success and fulfilment. What if you don't need another goal? What if you're asking goals to give you something they were never designed to provide? In the next longer episode I'll share what I discovered, how it changed my direction, and why it became such an important part of my own personal development journey. If you've ever reached a goal and still wondered, "Is this really it?" then this episode is for you. In this episode you'll discover: Why achieving goals doesn't always create fulfilment. The hidden feeling many people experience after reaching success. The question that changed my thinking. Why the deeper answer isn't another goal. A preview of the next Deep Dive episode. Subscribe so you don't miss the next episode where we'll explore what I found instead. And share with a friend or two so they don't miss out too: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-538-why-goals-stopped-working-for-me And if you want to see me recording this https://youtu.be/wMVSjF8Hthk Shine Brightly
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I'm Still Finding My Way – Why You Don't Need Your Old Self Back Have you ever caught yourself saying, "I just want the old me back"? I know I have. I've heard it from hundreds of clients too. It sounds comforting because we believe our old self represents certainty, confidence and stability. But what if that's not really what we're looking for? In this deeper dive I explore an idea that completely changed the way I see personal development. Instead of chasing an old version of ourselves—or even trying to discover some perfect "real me"—perhaps we're simply finding our way. Because your way changes as you change. I'll share part of my own journey through depression, identity and the work I've been doing around my North Star. Together we'll explore why identity isn't somewhere you arrive, but something that keeps unfolding, and I'll guide you through a simple reflective process to help you reconnect with the qualities that have always been part of you. If you've ever felt lost, uncertain or caught between who you were and who you're becoming, I hope this episode helps you realise that maybe you haven't lost your way at all. In this episode you'll discover: Why wanting your "old self" back may be keeping you stuck. The difference between identity and the qualities that never leave you. A simple "Museum of Selves" exercise to reflect on every version of your life. Why your future isn't about becoming someone different, but continuing to unfold. Practical journal questions to help you take your next small step. Remember... You're not going backwards. You're still finding your way. And your way changes as you change. If this episode resonates, please share it with someone who needs to hear it: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/486-im-still-finding-my-way/ and if you'd like me to explore a particular challenge, email me at feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com. Oh! And there's a video of me recording this. It's rough and ready because that's all it needs to be https://youtu.be/hWcLgtawcp0 Until next time... Have more fun than you can stand. Shine Brightly
I Want My Old Me Back Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I just want the old me back"? It's something I've heard from clients for years. It's something I said to myself too. But what if that's not what you really want? What if the old you was part of the struggle... and what you're really looking for is the real you? In this Five Minute Quickie, I share a personal insight that changed how I think about personal growth, identity and lasting change. The next deeper dive explores why you don't need to become your old self again—you simply need to keep finding your way. In this episode you'll discover: Why so many people long for their "old self" The surprising problem with trying to go backwards A simple mindset shift that brings hope and stability Why your path naturally changes as you change A preview of the deeper hypnosis episode to come If you're feeling lost, stuck or disconnected from yourself, this episode is a gentle reminder that you're not broken—you may simply be becoming. Remember to share what you hear: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-537-i-want-my-old-me-back/ and there's a video of me doing the recording https://youtu.be/L7S0uAc9bRU Shine Brightly
Finding Your Way: When You Feel Lost in Life Have you ever quietly said to yourself, "I've lost my way"? Not necessarily out loud. Just inside your own mind. That feeling that somehow you've become disconnected from where you're going, who you're becoming, or even who you really are. In this deeper dive episode, Paul explores a personal experience of feeling lost after making significant changes in life and identity. What emerged was a surprising realisation: perhaps we don't lose our way at all. Perhaps we simply lose connection with the part of ourselves that already knows the way. This episode explores the uncomfortable space between who you've been and who you're becoming, why that space can feel like grief, and how looking outside yourself for answers often keeps you stuck. Most importantly, you'll experience a guided hypnosis and visualisation process designed to help you reconnect with your future self, discover your inner direction, and uncover the next small step on your journey. Because maybe your path isn't something you find. Maybe it's something you feel. IN THIS EPISODE • Why feeling lost often follows personal growth and change • The hidden link between identity and feeling directionless • Why searching for answers outside yourself can make things worse • The difference between finding a thing and following a direction • How your future self may already know the next step • Using emotion to communicate with your unconscious mind • Why purpose is often discovered through feeling rather than logic • A guided hypnosis process to reconnect with your inner compass KEY TAKEAWAYS ✓ Feeling lost doesn't mean you've lost your way. ✓ Identity shifts can temporarily create uncertainty and confusion. ✓ Your future self can provide guidance when your conscious mind feels stuck. ✓ Direction often appears before the destination becomes clear. ✓ Purpose is experienced through alignment and feeling, not just thinking. ✓ Small steps create clarity far more effectively than endless searching. QUOTE FROM THE EPISODE "You don't have to have the whole plan. You don't need the perfect map. Your future self doesn't hand you the whole journey. It simply nudges you, one step at a time." REFLECTION QUESTIONS • Have I really lost my way, or have I simply lost connection with myself? • What parts of my identity am I currently letting go of? • What feeling am I truly seeking in my future? • If my future self could guide me today, what small step would it suggest? • Am I searching for answers outside myself that may already exist within? CALL TO ACTION If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who may be feeling uncertain about their direction in life. https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/485-finding-your-way-when-you-feel-lost-in-life And if there is a subject you'd like explored in a future episode, email: feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com Together we'll keep exploring, learning, and evolving. Until next time... Have more fun than you can stand. Shine Brightly
Recorded 07/10/2026, Aired 07/14/2026 In this month's Southwest Climate Podcast, hosts Zack Guido and Mike Crimmins say ‘get ready' for an interesting monsoon. Although the onset has had a sluggish start, the weekend into this week shows promise for a more active pattern in July. They review the precipitation event that happened at the start of the monsoon on 6/15 as well as the characteristics thus far. Also discussed is the strong El Niño taking shape and its influence in the region. Expectations are leaning toward a more optimistic yet not normal monsoon. Mentions: NWS-Tucson: Monsoon Tracker Southwest U.S. Summer Monsoon Season Precipitation Mapping CyclonicWx: Model Run - 500mb Height Anomaly - July 2026 Pivotal Weather: Model Run - Precipital Water Southwest U.S. Station Climate Summaries NOAA NWS Climate Prediction Center: Outlooks
FMQ 536 – Freedom or Structure… Which One? Do you really want complete freedom? I thought I did. No rules. No schedule. Just the freedom to do whatever I wanted. But the more I explored it, the more I realised something didn't feel right. Total freedom can leave us drifting, while too much structure can feel like a prison. So maybe we're asking the wrong question. Perhaps it isn't freedom versus structure at all. Maybe it's about support versus control. In this Five Minute Quickie I'm sharing a real part of my own North Star exploration as I try to discover what allows creativity, purpose and meaningful progress without feeling trapped. This isn't the answer. It's the seed. In the next longer episode we'll explore how a few gentle anchors can create more freedom, not less. In this episode you'll discover: Why complete freedom isn't always as freeing as it sounds. How too much structure can quietly drain creativity. The surprising difference between support and control. Why gentle anchors may be more powerful than rigid routines. A simple question to begin exploring your own balance. If you've ever felt torn between wanting complete freedom and needing enough structure to actually move forward, this episode will give you something worth reflecting on. Please share the episode: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-536-freedom-or-structure-which-one Ready for the deeper dive? Follow the podcast so you don't miss the next episode, where we'll explore how to create a life that feels both free and grounded. Shine Brightly
Resistance- The Fear That Is Stopping Your Success Why do we resist doing the very things we know would move our lives forward? In this episode, I share a live training session exploring the hidden force behind procrastination, self-sabotage, overthinking, limiting beliefs, and the fear of change. Although these challenges appear different on the surface, I believe they often stem from the same place – fear-based resistance. We'll look at why your unconscious mind may be holding you back, how overthinking disguises itself as productivity, why perfectionism creates paralysis, and how small steps can dissolve fear far more effectively than giant leaps. I also share practical ways to work with resistance, including reflection, visualisation, questioning limiting beliefs, and reconnecting with the feeling of where you truly want to go. Because success isn't about forcing yourself forward. It's about understanding what's holding you back and learning how to move beyond it. In This Episode Why resistance often shows up as fear rather than laziness The hidden connection between procrastination, self-sabotage and overthinking How perfectionism keeps you stuck Why limiting beliefs create resistance to success The fear of change and stepping beyond your familiar zone Using reflection and journaling to uncover answers already inside you Why small steps beat giant leaps every time How to create momentum without overwhelming yourself The question that helps dissolve resistance and create movement Key Takeaway Resistance isn't the enemy. It's a signal. When you stop fighting it and start understanding what fear is underneath it, you can begin to move forward with confidence, clarity and purpose. Success often isn't about learning more. It's about removing the resistance that's already stopping you. Please share with a friend: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/484-resistance-the-fear-that-is-stopping-your-success Shine Brightly
What's Stopping You Reaching Success? You know there's something you need to do. A conversation. A decision. A project. A change. And yet... you don't do it. We often call it procrastination or self-sabotage, but what if that's not what's really happening? In this Five Minute Quickie, I explore what might actually be stopping us from moving forward, why change can feel uncomfortable even when we know it's right, and how unconscious resistance may be behind many of the fears, doubts and limiting beliefs that keep us stuck. This isn't about forcing yourself to do more. It's about understanding what's really going on underneath. In this episode: Why we resist change even when we want it The hidden cost of limiting beliefs How fear disguises itself as procrastination Why overthinking keeps us stuck The one emotion that may sit underneath it all A preview of the deeper dive to come Questions to consider: What are you currently avoiding? What would happen if you embraced the change instead? What would life feel like without that resistance? The deeper dive is coming next, where we'll explore what's really driving this unconscious resistance and how to move through it. Please share: https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-535-whats-stopping-you-reaching-success Remember if you want to see the video, go here: https://youtu.be/4U14pVlGWAA Shine Brightly
Are You Thinking Too Much to Hear Yourself? Have you ever noticed that the harder you think about something, the less clear it becomes? In this episode, I explore the difference between overthinking and intuition. Not the mystical stuff, but that quiet inner knowing that often gets drowned out by endless analysing, making lists, asking everyone else's opinion and searching for certainty that never quite arrives. I share two personal stories. One where I ignored my intuition and paid the price, and another where I listened to a small inner nudge that completely changed the direction of my life. Together we'll explore why overthinking feels productive but often keeps us stuck, how intuition tends to whisper rather than shout, and why clarity comes more from listening than thinking harder. There's also a simple reflective process to help you quieten the noise, reconnect with your own inner guidance and discover the next small step that feels right for you. Because maybe the answer isn't something you need to figure out. Maybe it's something you already know. In This Episode Why overthinking often creates more confusion than clarity The hidden cost of needing certainty before taking action How intuition feels different from analysis My narrowboat lesson and what it taught me about ignoring inner guidance The small decision that led me into hypnosis over 26 years ago A simple process to help you listen beyond the mental noise Why the next right step is usually smaller than you think Learning to trust yourself a little more Questions to Reflect On Where am I overthinking instead of listening? What has my intuition already been trying to tell me? What does "quietly right" feel like? What's the next small step that feels right enough? What would change if I trusted myself more? Please share this episode (and the podcast itself) with a friend or many https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/483-intuition-vs-overthinking/ Share your thoughts or questions: feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com Shine Brightly
Intuition vs Overthinking When thinking harder isn't the answer — listening better is Have you ever thought about something so much… that you ended up more confused than when you started? You make lists. You weigh up the pros and cons. You ask other people what they think. You go round and round in circles. And still… You don't know what to do. In this Five Minute Quickie, we explore a powerful possibility: Maybe you're not stuck because you don't know… Maybe you're stuck because you're thinking too much. Because beneath all that mental noise, there's often something quieter — a whisper, a nudge, a feeling that already knows. That's intuition. And the trouble is… Overthinking drowns it out. In this episode, I share: why overthinking feels productive — but often keeps you stuck what intuition really feels like (hint: it rarely shouts) how clarity comes not from more thinking, but from listening two personal stories where I ignored intuition… and where I trusted it why your unconscious mind may already know your next step And perhaps the biggest takeaway: You don't need more information. You need less interference. This FMQ is the seed for a deeper dive where we'll explore how to recognise intuition, trust it, and act on it without slipping back into overthinking. Because maybe… The next step isn't something to figure out — it's something to feel. Please share : https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-534-intuition-vs-overthinking/ Have more fun than you can stand. Go fly. Shine Brightly
If You're Stuck - Lets Move On - Here's How Episode Overview Ever had that quiet thought… "I've lost my way…" Not shouted out loud. Not dramatic. Just a whisper somewhere in the background. In this episode, I share something personal — a moment where I genuinely felt that. Like the direction had gone. Like something inside me had faded. But here's what I discovered… You're not lost. You haven't lost your way. You've simply lost connection with the part of you that already knows. And when life changes — when you let go of old habits, old roles, even old identities — there's a gap. A space. A kind of emotional "void." And if you don't understand it… it can feel like grief. In this deeper dive, we explore that space — and more importantly, how to reconnect with your inner direction using a simple but powerful process. What You'll Discover This episode gently but powerfully shifts how you think about feeling lost: Why "feeling lost" is actually a sign of growth, not failure How identity is often tied to what you do — and what happens when that changes The hidden mistake: looking outside for direction instead of inside Why your future self already knows the way The key insight: Your path isn't something you find… it's something you feel And most importantly… How to reconnect to that feeling and take your next step with clarity The Big Insight Most people think: "I need a plan." "I need to figure it out." "I need the answer." But what if that's the problem? Because… You don't find your path by thinking — you find it by feeling. Your unconscious mind doesn't work in bullet points and spreadsheets. It works through: Sensation Emotion Intuition And when you reconnect with that… Direction replaces confusion Movement replaces stuckness Certainty replaces doubt The Process: Reconnecting With Your Inner Direction In this episode, I guide you through a gentle but powerful process to: Step away from overthinking Connect with your future self (the one already living your purpose) Feel what that life is like — without needing details Let that feeling become your compass Ask one simple question: "If this is who I am… what's the next small step?" No pressure. No forcing. Just noticing. Because your answers don't shout… They whisper. Key Takeaways Feeling lost doesn't mean you've lost your way It often means your old identity is dissolving The "void" is not empty — it's space for something new Looking externally keeps you stuck Your future self is already inside you Direction comes from feeling first, action second You don't need the whole plan — just the next step A Simple Reflection Take a moment after listening and ask yourself: What am I trying to replace instead of reconnect with? Where am I looking outside… instead of inside? What does my "best life" feel like — not look like? What's one small step that feeling is nudging me toward? How This Fits the Journey This episode builds directly from: FMQ 533 – Why Are You Stuck? Where we explored the fear of losing identity And leads into: The Missing Part of Success (#480) Where we bring in mind-body alignment and embodiment Because the full journey is: You're not stuck — you're protecting something You're not lost — you're disconnected You don't need more thinking — you need alignment Final Thoughts You don't need to rush this. You don't need to "figure it all out." Because… Your path isn't a destination. It's a direction. And it reveals itself… One step One feeling One moment of awareness at a time Call to Action If this resonated: Hit subscribe so you don't miss what's coming next Share this with someone who might be feeling a little lost right now https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/482-if-youre-stuck-lets-move-on-heres-how And most importantly… Take one small step today Shine Brightly
Why Are you Stuck? The Seed: You've done the work. You've read the books. Watched the videos. Made the plans. You know what to do. And yet… You're not doing it. You're not moving. Not really progressing. Maybe even plateauing. So the question is… Why are you stuck? Here's the Truth You're not stuck because you can't grow. You can. Absolutely you can. So it must be something else. Something a little deeper… just under the surface. The Hidden Reason There's a part of you asking questions you might not even notice: "What if I change too much?" "What will I lose if I succeed?" "Will I still be me?" And that last one? That's the big one. Because so many people say: "I just want my old self back." But here's the thing… Your old self is part of what got you here The Real Shift It's not about going back. It's about letting the real you come forward. The part of you that already has: The resources The potential The direction You're not losing yourself… You're uncovering yourself Why This Keeps You Stuck Because a part of you is trying to: Hold onto the familiar Protect your identity Keep things "safe" Even if that safety is keeping you small What's Next? So how do you: Let go of that old identity… safely? Allow the real you to come through? Move forward without fear of losing yourself? That's what we're diving into next. The Deeper Dive In the next episode, we'll explore: The hidden fears of identity loss Why change can feel unsafe A simple process to align all parts of you How to finally step forward with confidence Pay It Forward If this hit home: Share it with someone who feels stuck https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-533-why-are-you-stuck/ or the video https://youtu.be/YfcM6hovFEk Help them see what's really going on Final Thought Maybe you're not stuck at all… Maybe a part of you is just waiting to feel safe enough to move. Shine Brightly
Finding Your Way: When You Feel Lost in Life Why you're not lost — just disconnected from your inner direction Feeling Lost? Or Just Disconnected? "I've lost my way…" Ever said that quietly to yourself? Not out loud… just in your own mind. That moment where things feel unclear. Where direction fades. Where who you were no longer fits… and who you're becoming hasn't quite arrived yet. It can feel like a void. A strange mix of uncertainty, frustration… even a little grief. But here's the thing… You're not lost. You've just lost connection with the part of you that already knows the way. The Truth About Feeling Lost This feeling often shows up when: You've made changes in your life Old patterns or roles no longer fit Your identity is shifting And in that space… You go looking "out there" for answers. But the harder you look… The further they seem to disappear. Because your direction isn't out there. It's inside you. Why This Feels So Uncomfortable When your identity changes, it creates a gap: You're no longer the "old you" But you're not fully the "new you" yet That space can feel like: Loss Confusion Uncertainty Almost like grief. But it's not the end of something… It's the beginning of something new. Your Inner Direction (Your "Future Self") Instead of asking: "What should I do?" Try this… "What would the version of me who is already living that life do next?" Because that version of you: Exists Has walked the path Knows the direction And here's the key… It doesn't give you the whole plan. It gives you the next step. This Episode Includes a Guided Process In this deeper dive, you'll be guided to: Connect with the feeling of your "best self" Tune into purpose, fulfilment, and alignment Ask for the next small step Begin trusting your internal guidance system This isn't about forcing answers. It's about feeling your way forward. From "Finding" to "Following" Your path isn't something you find. It's something you: Feel Step into Follow One step at a time. Not a fixed destination… A direction. Key Takeaways You're not lost — you're evolving The "void" is a transition, not a failure Your answers aren't out there — they're within You don't need the whole plan — just the next step Alignment comes from feeling, not forcing Ready to Reconnect? Take a moment after listening: Sit quietly Reflect on what came up for you Notice any small nudges or insights And most importantly… Trust them Share the Journey If this episode resonated: Share it with someone who might feel "lost" right now Help them reconnect with their own direction https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/481-finding-your-way-when-you-feel-lost-in-life Get In Touch Got thoughts, questions, or something that didn't quite click? Email: feedback@personaldevelopmentunplugged.com Shine Brightly
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The FullyGeeked Boys are back together for Episode 330 return minus Rich who is still celebrating his birthday. Eurovision 2026 took place this weekend and Merv is branching out so gives us his feedback. Ronda Rousey defeated Gina Carano after years out of the ring. Arsenal after 22 years win the Premier League and London goes Wild!!!(19:38) Trailer/Teaser of the week: Power Book III Raising Kanan S5 (#Starz) (12th June 2026), Hope (#PlusMEntertainment) (Autumn 2026), The Agency S2 (#ParamountPlus) (16th August 2026), Lanterns (#HBOMAX) 2th June 2026). Before this week we go straight into what's been hot over the past week in TV and Films: Berlin and the Lady with an Ermine (#Netflix) (28:20), Nemesis (#Netflix) (33:23), Marvel's Special Presentation - The Punisher: One Last Kill (#DisneyPlus) (42:45), The Boys S5E7 & 8 (#primevideo) (49:01), among many more.......#Podcast #TheFullyGeekedPod #Films #TV #Review #GuysThatPodcast #Like #Movies #Follow #Comment #Subscribe #Youtube #FYP #PodcastReady
I've Lost My Way… … Or Have I? Have you ever felt that? Like something's changed… And the things that used to light you up… just don't anymore? And now there's this space… A bit of a void… And if you're honest… You're not quite sure what fills it. Here's the thing… I've been there too. And it feels a bit like losing something… Maybe even losing a part of yourself. So you start looking for a new direction… A new purpose… A new "North Star"… But the more you look… The less you seem to find. So what if we're looking in the wrong way? What if the answer isn't something you have to go out and find… But something you can begin to feel? In this episode, just for a moment… We start there. Not with answers… Not with plans… But with a feeling. Because maybe… just maybe… That feeling already knows the way. The Next Step In the longer episode, we're going deeper… We'll explore how to connect with that future version of you… And how it can begin to guide your next steps — naturally. There'll be processes… Maybe a little hypnosis… And definitely a few "aha" moments. So if this sparked something… Stay with me. Share the Seed Know someone who feels a bit lost right now? Share this with them. https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq532-ive-lost-my-way/ This might be their starting point. Shine Brightly
The FullyGeeked Boys are back together for Episode 329 after the excitement of last weeks live we are back to regular programming. With the big Dubois vs Wardley fight over the weekend the boys discuss if the the towel should have been thrown in after the brutal fight. Rumours of Deathstroke and Bane in a film together is it welcomed? With now new trailers this week we go straight into what's been hot over the past week in TV and Films: The Boys S5E6 (#primevideo) (34:55), Mortal Kombat II (#WarnerBrosPictures) (50:44), among many more.......#Podcast #TheFullyGeekedPod #Films #TV #Review #GuysThatPodcast #Like #Movies #Follow #Comment #Subscribe #Youtube #FYP #PodcastReady
The Missing Part Of Success Why Thinking Isn't Enough (And What Actually Works) The Bit Everyone Misses You've done the work. You've read the books. You've said the affirmations. You've visualised success over and over again. "I've got this." "I'm a winner." And yet… nothing really changes. Sound familiar? That's because mindset alone isn't enough. In this episode, we uncover the missing part of success — the part that turns thinking into doing, and knowing into being. It's Not Just Mindset Yes, mindset matters. But it's only half the story. Because if your body isn't aligned with what you're thinking… Your results won't align either. You can't: Think confidence while your body shows doubt Say "I'm relaxed" while holding tension Speak powerfully while shrinking physically Your mind and body are always working together. Always.
The FullyGeeked Boys are back together for Episode 328. and decided to reward you with a live because of the podcast being late. Nate and Rich talk about the Champions League Semi-Finals and the atmosphere at the Emirates. StarWars Day came and went and Merv cannot get enough of the animations. Trailers of the week (12:00) included Resident Evil (#ConstantinFilms) (18th September 2026), Evil Dead Burn (#warnerbrospictures) (24th July 2026), The Odyessy (#universalpictures) (17th July 2026). Before we look into what's been hot over the past few weeks in TV and Films: Prisoner S1 (#skyatlantic) (25:58), Man on Fire S1 (#netflix) (34:16), The Boys S5E5 (#primevideo) (42:22), Daredevil: Born Again S2 E7&8 (#DisneyPlus) (53:44), among many more.......#Podcast #TheFullyGeekedPod #Films #TV #Review #GuysThatPodcast #Like #Movies #Follow #Comment #Subscribe #Youtube #FYP #PodcastReady
The Missing Part Of Success The Seed of Success Most People Miss We hear it all the time… "Think positive." "Have the right mindset." "Say your affirmations." And yes… that's part of it. But what if that's only half the equation? In this Five Minute Quickie, we uncover the missing piece of success — the part hardly anyone talks about, yet it changes everything. > It's Not Just Psychology… It's Physiology You can have: The perfect plan The right words The strongest mindset …but if your body isn't aligned? It won't land. Success isn't just in your thoughts — it's in: The way you move The way you breathe Your tone of voice Your energy It's how you show up Because the truth is… You can't separate the mind and the body. They work together — always. Acting "As If" — The Real Way This isn't about faking it till you make it. That's… well… fake. This is about: Becoming aligned Being congruent Acting as the real you When your psychology + physiology match… That's when things click. Same words. Different energy. Completely different results. Where This Shows Up in Your Life Career: People feel your certainty (or your doubt) Relationships: It's not what you say — it's how you say it Confidence: It's embodied, not just thought about When it's all aligned… You don't try to be convincing You are convincing The Ripple Effect Here's the bigger picture… When you step into this aligned way of being: You stop forcing things You become the example You inspire others — naturally No effort. No pretending. Just being. And that's where real change spreads. What's Next? In the Deeper Dive, we go beyond the "what"… Into the HOW How to align your psychology and physiology How to become the real you (not a fake version) Because that's where everything changes. Ready to Go Deeper? If this sparked something in you… Subscribe so you don't miss the deep dive Share this with someone who needs that missing piece Pay it forward — let's create that ripple And if you want more… Visit the hypnosis tracks and resources Remember: Success isn't just in your head It's in your whole being Align it… and watch what happens. Please Share with a friend https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-531-the-missing-part-of-success Shine Brightly
For the first time in what feels like ages all of The FullyGeeked Boys are back together for Episode 327. With Merv fresh back from his holiday we were eager to understand if he let his hair down in the paradise that is St Lucia? With Boys S5 being the end of the Boys series and it being announced that Gen V will not be returning for S3 we discuss what that means or was this always the case? Someone got arrested for leaking Avatar Ang Animated Movie and is potentially facing 7 yrs in prison and/or $50K fine - is it that serious?? (16:00) Trailer/Teaser of the week Clayface (#WarnerBrosPictures). Before we look into what's been hot over the past few weeks in TV and Films: The Boys S5E4 (#PrimeVideo) (20:25), Invincible S4 E8 (#PrimeVideo) (28:04), Daredevil: Born Again S2 E6 (#DisneyPlus) (42:30), Michael (#UniversalPictures) (51:55), among many more.......#Podcast #TheFullyGeekedPod #Films #TV #Review #GuysThatPodcast #Like #Movies #Follow #Comment #Subscribe #Youtube #FYP #PodcastReady
What Are You Afraid Of Losing? Here's a question for you… What are you afraid of losing? Not gaining… not achieving… But losing. Because here's the thing… I've been doing a bit of deeper work on myself lately — you know, when life shifts a little and things you've always done… just don't have that same spark anymore. And in that space… that little void… I found myself looking for something new. A new direction… a bit more passion… a bit more something. But the harder I looked… The more it seemed to disappear. Now that's frustrating, isn't it? And it got me thinking… What if it's not about what I'm trying to find… But what I'm afraid of losing? Because we all do it, don't we? We hold on to things — even emotional stuff, even old ways of being — And we don't always know why. And maybe… just maybe… That's what's getting in the way of finding what we really want. So this is just a seed… A question to sit with. What are you afraid of losing? And how might that be holding you back? In the longer episode, we're going to dive deeper into this… We'll explore what's really going on underneath… And more importantly… We'll go through a process together — not just talking about it, but actually finding your answer. Because that's where the change happens. The Next Step If this got you thinking… stay with me. Make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss the next episode — That's where we do the real work. And maybe… just maybe… You'll find something you didn't expect. Please Share the Seed If you know someone who's searching… Or maybe feeling a bit stuck… Share this with them. https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/479-what-are-you-afraid-of-losing or the video https://youtu.be/VvW1cD80CSM Let's get more people asking better questions. Shine Brightly
The FullyGeeked Boys return from their Easter Break minus Merv who is still away with Episode 326. With a jam packed episode starting with the main talking points from Cinemacon 2026 including trailers, teasers and films to look forward too over the next 12 months. Ps Dune Part 3 vs Avengers Doomsday not sure I am here for it someone may have to move their release date..... Please!!!!! Before we look into what's been hot over the past few weeks in TV and Films: The Capture S3 E6 (#BBCOne) (32:05), The Boys S5E1-3 (#PrimeVideo) (40:00), Invincible S4 E5-7 (#PrimeVideo) (47:05), Daredevil: Born Again S2 E2-5 (#DisneyPlus) (58:50), among many more including Bandi & Beef S2 (#Netflix), Euphoria S3 E1&2(#HBOMax) Super Mario Galaxy Movie (#UniveralPictures) .....#Podcast #TheFullyGeekedPod #Films #TV #Review #GuysThatPodcast #Like #Movies #Follow #Comment #Subscribe #Youtube #FYP #PodcastReady
FMQ530 What Are You Afraid of Losing? (And How It's Holding You Back) Here's a question for you… What are you afraid of losing? Not gaining… not achieving… But losing. Because here's the thing… I've been doing a bit of deeper work on myself lately — you know, when life shifts a little and things you've always done… just don't have that same spark anymore. And in that space… that little void… I found myself looking for something new. A new direction… a bit more passion… a bit more something. But the harder I looked… The more it seemed to disappear. Now that's frustrating, isn't it? And it got me thinking… What if it's not about what I'm trying to find… But what I'm afraid of losing? Because we all do it, don't we? We hold on to things — even emotional stuff, even old ways of being — And we don't always know why. And maybe… just maybe… That's what's getting in the way of finding what we really want. So this is just a seed… A question to sit with. What are you afraid of losing? And how might that be holding you back? In the longer episode, we're going to dive deeper into this… We'll explore what's really going on underneath… And more importantly… We'll go through a process together — not just talking about it, but actually finding your answer. Because that's where the change happens. What's the Next Step? If this got you thinking… stay with me. Make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss the next episode —What's the next That's where we do the real work. And maybe… just maybe… You'll find something you didn't expect. Share the Seed If you know someone who's searching… Or maybe feeling a bit stuck… Share this with them. https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq530-what-are-you-afraid-of-losing and have a look at the video too https://youtu.be/R-bP_zzZfr8 Let's get more people asking better questions. Shine Brightly
Your Growth Serves: Find Your Why, Build Confidence & Create Meaningful Impact What if personal development wasn't just about fixing yourself… but fulfilling something bigger? In this deeper dive from the FMQ "The Big Why – Let's Refresh", we move beyond goals, habits and self-improvement — and into something far more powerful: Service through growth Because when your "why" is only about you, motivation fades. But when your growth begins to serve others, everything changes. In this episode, you'll experience a powerful process to help you: Reconnect with your deeper purpose See the ripple effect your growth creates And step into a version of you that is aligned, motivated and meaningful This isn't about pushing yourself anymore… It's about being pulled by purpose. What You'll Discover Why most people lose motivation in personal development The real power behind discovering your true "why" The shift from self-improvement → self-exploration → service How your growth creates a ripple effect in every area of life Why meaning and purpose fuel consistent motivation How to move from "I have to" → "I get to" Turning your life into a hero's adventure, not a grind The Processes Inside This Episode
FMQ529 – The Big Why: Let's Refresh Sometimes we just need to pause… and refresh. Not another technique. Not another goal. Not another productivity hack. Just a simple question: Why are you doing this personal development thing anyway? In this short FMQ episode I invite you to take a moment to review where you are on your personal development adventure. Whether you're brand new to this work or you've been exploring it for years, a refresh is powerful. Looking at how far you've come, what you've learned, and where you truly want to go next. Because personal development isn't just about fixing problems. Yes, we resolve anxiety, panic, limiting beliefs and all those other "isms"… but it's also about learning new skills, developing competence, and becoming a better version of yourself. And here's the difference many people miss: Confidence without competence can fall apart. But competence naturally creates confidence. The real key though is motivation. When your why is clear, you stop pushing yourself forward… and instead feel pulled toward the life you want. And that's what this episode seeds for the longer podcast episode — discovering something most people overlook in personal development: The ripple effect. So before the next episode, take a moment to reflect: What do you want to let go of? What do you want to learn? What do you want to achieve? And most importantly… why? Bring that curiosity with you into the next episode and we'll unlock something powerful together. Have more fun than you can stand. It's time to fly and share https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq529-the-big-why-lets-refresh/ But Before you do ➜ Continue the Journey In this short FMQ episode we've refreshed one important question: Why are you really doing personal development? But there's something even more powerful most people never realise. When you begin changing yourself, something unexpected starts to happen… Your growth creates ripples. In the next full episode of Personal Development Unplugged we explore: • Why confidence without competence can sabotage progress • How hidden value clashes block motivation • A powerful process to align your "why" • And how your personal growth quietly influences everyone around you If you want motivation that pulls you forward instead of pushing you… Don't miss the next episode. Shine Brightly
In this revolutionary episode we chat about the incredible impact AI and automations are having on businesses. Dive in now (or else!) https://dentco.us https://youtube.com/@dentcopdr
Don't Blame Your Parents Or Anyone Else Who are you blaming? The weather? The economy? Your ex-boss? Your trauma? Your parents? In this deeper dive from the FMQ seed "Who or What Is to Blame?", I take you through something powerful: Blame feels like a reason… but it's actually an excuse. And here's the uncomfortable truth: If you stop blaming… what happens to your story? In this episode, I walk you through two simple but life-shifting processes to help you: Let go of resentment and emotional baggage Reclaim your personal power Release blame without denying what happened Stop living at the "effect" side of life Move back to cause — where choice lives We're not denying the past. We're learning from it. And when you learn… you're free. What We Explore Why blame keeps you stuck in victimhood The hidden fear behind letting go of your story The shift from "This happened to me" to "This shaped me" How empowerment feels safer than excuse-making Why your parents were doing the best they could How to stop dragging emotional baggage through life Process #1 – Letting Go of Someone You Blame A short but powerful visualisation to: Thank the person for the lessons Recognise the connection between you Cut the emotional cord Dissolve resentment Reclaim your personal power This works for: Ex-partners Parents Former bosses Friends Anyone you still feel "connected" to emotionally You neutralise the emotional residue… without denying what happened. Process #2 – Releasing Blame Toward Your Parents This one is beautiful. You visualise your parent as a tiny innocent child. Before the beliefs. Before the limitations. Before the behaviours. You see them as they truly began — just like you. And something shifts. Blame dissolves. Understanding appears. Compassion grows. Empowerment returns. Because now you realise: They were doing the best they could with the resources they had. And now… You get to choose differently. The Core Shift Instead of: "This happened to me." You say: "This happened. I learned. And now I choose." That's the difference between living at effect and living at cause. Blame keeps you small. Learning makes you powerful. Responsibility gives you freedom. And here's the kicker… If you let go of blame, you don't lose your story. You gain your future. In This Episode You'll Discover Why blame feels protective (but drains your energy) The emotional cost of carrying resentment How to release anger without suppressing it Why compassion doesn't mean approval The difference between remembering and reliving How empowerment naturally replaces excuse-making Key Takeaway You are not defined by what happened. You are defined by what you decide now. And once the emotional charge dissolves… clarity appears. Confidence grows. Choice returns. No more dragging the past around like a suitcase full of bricks. Just freedom. If This Resonated… Share this episode with someone who: Blames their past Blames their parents Blames their boss Blames themselves Sometimes the people who need it most are the quiet ones holding it all in. Call to Action If you enjoyed this episode: Subscribe or follow the podcast Leave a review Share it with someone you care about https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/477-dont-blame-your-parents-or-anyone-else And visit the free hypnosis page to deepen the change Because this isn't about blame. It's about reclaiming your life. Shine Brightly
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Who or What Is To Blame For Your Failure What are you blaming right now? The weather? The economy? Your lack of time? Your past? Your boss? Your parents? In this Five Minute Quickie (that's never quite five minutes
Empathy - A Way That Works Without The Pain In the FMQ527 I said something that probably made you blink. Empathy sucks. And I meant it. Not because caring is wrong. Not because helping people is wrong. Not because being sensitive is wrong. But because absorbing other people's pain is not helping them — and it's definitely not helping you. In this deeper dive, I show you: Why emotional dumping drains you Why empathy often becomes a hiding strategy The crucial difference between empathy and compassion How to stay grounded when people offload on you And how to become truly empathetic… with yourself Because here's the truth: If you feel everyone else's pain, you'll drown. If you stay grounded and compassionate, you can actually help. And the real work? It starts with self-empathy. What We Explore 1️⃣ Why Empathy Can Be Harmful Emotional dumping and energy drain Why taking on others' pain doesn't serve them How empathy can become a badge of honour How it can also become unconscious avoidance of your own emotions 2️⃣ The Shift: Empathy ➜ Compassion Empathy = I feel your pain. Compassion = I recognise your pain — and I can support you without absorbing it. Compassion allows you to: Stay grounded Sustain your energy Think clearly Offer real support Stay emotionally stable It's the difference between drowning with someone… or throwing them a rope. 3️⃣ Process One – Sitting With Your Emotion Instead of pushing emotions away: Sit with the feeling Acknowledge it Ask: What are you trying to do for me? What are you protecting me from? What are you trying to teach me? Every emotion has a positive intention. When you learn the lesson — the emotion doesn't need to shout anymore. 4️⃣ Process Two – Compassion Without Merging (Visualisation) I guide you through: Grounding yourself Breathing deliberately Creating a subtle protective boundary Supporting someone without absorbing their pain You remain: Present Steady Caring Strong And when you walk away? You're still yourself. 5️⃣ Process Three – Deep Self-Empathy Installation This is the powerful one. You: Place the emotion in front of you Speak to it with curiosity Thank it Discover its intention Ask what it needs Create a better strategy for that intention Future pace the change You keep the intention. You release the pain. That's self-empathy. The Core Takeaway Before you help anyone else… Check in with yourself. Am I grounded? Am I breathing? Am I compassionate? Or am I merging and hiding? One emotion. One learning. Then it can let go. That's how you help yourself. That's how you genuinely help others. And that's how empathy finally works. Key Quotes From This Episode "Empathy absorbs. Compassion supports." "Every emotion has a positive intention." "Learn the lesson — and the emotion doesn't need to stay." "Help yourself first. Then you're truly available to others." If This Resonated… Subscribe so you don't miss the next FMQ seed and deeper dive. Share this with someone who: Is emotionally drained Always takes on other people's pain Or thinks empathy is the only way to care https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/476-empathy-a-way-that-works-without-the-pain and don't forget the video https://youtu.be/8iAcW58QreE Let's move from drowning together… to lifting each other properly. Shine Brightly
Empathy Sucks (Unless It's With Yourself) I said it. Empathy sucks. Now before you unsubscribe and send me a strongly worded email… hear me out. In this episode I'm diving deep into something that most people believe is a virtue — feeling other people's pain. And yes, empathy can be beautiful. But if all you do is absorb the emotions of others, carry their struggles, and ignore your own… that's not kindness. That's self-neglect. Here's what I explore in this episode: Why absorbing other people's pain drains your emotional energy How empathy can become a way of avoiding your own feelings Why suppressed emotions don't disappear — they generalise The difference between empathy and compassion (and why it matters) How to process your own emotions so they stop running your life Simple processes to turn emotional overwhelm into emotional strength I truly believe this: If you deal with your stuff first, you help people better. When you stop hiding from your own emotions and learn from them instead, something shifts. You become grounded. Present. Powerful. And far more able to support others without drowning in their experience. This episode includes practical processes to: Work with difficult emotions Discover the positive intention behind them Stop suppressing and start learning Shift from emotional sponge to compassionate supporter Because compassion sustains. Empathy without boundaries drains. And if you're going to feel deeply… start by feeling for yourself. This Episode Is For You If: You feel emotionally drained by other people You often absorb the moods of those around you You struggle to process your own emotions You consider yourself "an empath" but feel overwhelmed You want stronger emotional resilience You want to help others without losing yourself A Simple Practice From This Episode Before helping someone else this week, ask yourself: "Am I grounded… or am I hiding?" Then sit with one emotion of your own. Ask: What are you trying to teach me? What are you protecting me from? What can I learn from you? Learn the lesson. And watch what shifts. Share The Love If this episode resonated with you: Subscribe Share it with someone who gives too much of themselves https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq527-empathy-sucks-unless-its-with-yourself Leave a review Let's help more people become emotionally strong instead of emotionally overloaded. And as always… Have more fun than you can stand. Shine Brightly
This is the final episode of the 2026 "Future of Business" series - and I wanted to close it out with more than information. We've spent weeks covering the transits, the five business themes, and what all of it means for your specific Human Design energy type. But information alone doesn't change how we show up. What does? Giving your body a new reference point to work from.This episode is a guided visualization designed to take you to December 2026 - to inhabit the version of you who has already moved through this year's transits and integrated their gifts. This isn't just about manifestation and connecting with your future self - this is also about nervous system attunement. You're giving your reticular activating system something new to orient around and in my experience, that's the fastest way to pull the future into the present.What You'll Learn:❤️
Jacksonville men's lacrosse head coach John Galloway breaks down the rivalry week win over High Point before breaking down an upcoming stretch of three games in seven days, including home games against Detroit Mercy and Navy.
HYPNOSIS Creating The Life You Haven't Lived - Yet I thought it would be nice to take the process from the longer podcast and remix it to a deeper and even more comfortable way to connect with your Unconscious mind and sow the seeds of what you dream of for you in the future. So please enjoy with my compliments And........ Let me know what you need now to ensure they happen bigger, better and quicker than you could imagine :o) Get your unique link here: https://paulcloughonline.com/podcast Oh! You will also find a further 65+ more complimentary deep hypnosis tracks and NLP processes Shine Brightly
Creating The Life You Haven't Lived Yet In the last FMQ, I talked about the idea that there's a book inside you. In this episode, I take that idea further. Because here's what I truly believe… You're already writing your life. One page at a time. One day at a time. The question is — are you writing it consciously? In this episode I guide you through a creative visualisation process that helps you: Step out of "life just happening" Stop letting other people write your chapters Feel your future before it physically exists Align your unconscious mind with what you truly want Take one small, powerful step forward This isn't about pretending the past didn't happen. It's about deciding what happens next. And you don't have to be 100% ready. You just have to start. What We Do Together In This Episode I guide you into a relaxed, curious state. You sit at a desk. There's a book in front of you called: My Life, My Adventure. The past chapters are written. You acknowledge them. You thank them. And then… You begin writing the next chapter. Not perfectly. Not dramatically. Just intentionally. You float outside yourself. You see yourself writing. You feel support from the people who care about you. You see yourself through loving eyes. And then you ask one powerful question: What small step can I take now? Because the magic isn't in dreaming. It's in deciding. What I Want You To Take From This You are not stuck. You are not finished. You are not defined by previous chapters. Responsibility is not blame — it's power. Your future starts now. And remember… Even if you do nothing differently today — you're still writing a page. So why not write it on purpose? If This Resonates Subscribe. Share this with someone who needs it. https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/475-creating-the-life-you-havent-lived-yet And take one small step. Have more fun than you can stand. Wallow in pleasure. Shine Brightly
If you're a Reflector, this episode is your personalised 2026 forecast and part three of the 2026 "Future of Business" series. I'm taking the five business themes from Episode 2 (episode 305 of the All That Jazze Podcast) and the major astrological transits from Episode 1 (Episode 304) and translating them specifically for you as a Reflector in business.Almost nothing in the business space has been designed with you in mind. Most frameworks assume consistent energy, a fixed identity, and certainty - and you don't operate that way. But 2026 is asking for exactly what you do naturally: pattern recognition, nuance, truth-telling, and the ability to name what nobody else is naming. The world is catching up to how you've always operated.What You'll Learn:❤️
Writing Your Future Everyone says, "There's a book inside you." But what if that book isn't about writing your past… What if it's about writing your future? In this Five Minute Quickie, Paul takes the metaphor of "the book inside you" and flips it into something powerful — a way to consciously create the next chapters of your life. Your past chapters? Already written. Some brilliant. Some messy. All done. But the unwritten chapters? They're rich with possibility. And here's the key — you are the author. In this short episode, you'll begin to: Reframe your past through learning and growth See your future as unwritten potential Fire up your imagination intentionally Start designing the emotional tone of your next chapters Prepare for a deeper process in the upcoming longer episode This isn't about fantasy. It's about engaging your unconscious mind through metaphor — the language it understands best — so it can begin spotting opportunities aligned with your dreams. The only limit? Your imagination. And you're in charge of that. Listen now — and become the author of your life, not lived. Share what you hear https://personaldevelopmentunplugged.com/fmq-526-writing-your-future Shine Brightly
If you're a Manifestor, this episode is your personalised 2026 forecast and part three of the 2026 "Future of Business" series. I'm taking the five business themes from Episode 2 (episode 305 of the All That Jazze Podcast) and the major astrological transits from Episode 1 (Episode 304) and translating them specifically for you as a Manifestor in business. And I'll say it - I genuinely think the 2026 transits were made for Manifestors.The biggest evolution for a Manifestor isn't always the business strategy. It's getting comfortable being misunderstood - because making yourself smaller so everyone gets it is the thing that's crushing your energy, your vision, and your conversions.What You'll Learn:❤️
If you're a Projector, this episode is your personalised 2026 forecast and part three of the 2026 "Future of Business" series. I'm taking the five business themes from Episode 2 (episode 305 of the All That Jazze Podcast) and the major astrological transits from Episode 1 (Episode 304) and translating them specifically for you as a Projector in business.What I hear from almost every Projector who comes to work with me is some version of: business feels so hard as a Projector. And I get it - when your business literally stops the moment you rest, it feels impossible not to chase and to step outside of your design. This episode is about building the structure that lets you actually be in your design - so recognition and invitations can happen organically, even when you step back.What You'll Learn:❤️
"If you're a Manifesting Generator, this episode is your personalised 2026 forecast and part three of the 2026 "Future of Business" series." I'm taking the five business themes from Episode 2 (episode 305 of the All That Jazze Podcast) and the major astrological transits from Episode 1 (Episode 304) and translating them specifically for you as a Manifesting Generator in business. I'm getting personal in this one because I'm a Manifesting Generator too - and the pattern I see with almost every Manifesting Generator I work with is the same one I lived: multiple modalities, multiple interests, and nobody really understanding what you do.This episode is about the shift that changed everything for me and my MG clients - finding the through line that lets all of your multidimensionality breathe without scattering your message, your offers, or your energy.What You'll Learn:❤️
If you're a Generator, this episode is your personalised 2026 forecast and part three of the 2026 "Future of Business” series. I'm taking the five business themes from Episode 2 (episode 305 of the All That Jazze Podcast) and the major astrological transits from Episode 1 (Episode 304) and translating them specifically for how your sacral energy type navigates this year.What I see with almost every Generator I work with is the same pattern: spending a significant amount of time on things that aren't the thing only they can do. This episode is about getting honest about where that's happening, understanding the Generator plateau (and why it leads to overcomplicating), and giving yourself permission to let your lit-up energy be the strategy.What You'll Learn:❤️
A lot is shifting in online business right now and some of those shifts will be redefining business as we know it. In this episode (part two of the 2026 Business by Design series), I'm translating the major astrological transits from Episode 1 (episode 304) into five core business themes I believe will define 2026 and beyond. But rather than just listing them, I'm showing you how they've already been showing up in my business - including real data, what I've changed, and how I've been coaching clients to adapt.What You'll Learn:❤️