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"You don't earn trust back by demanding it. You earn it by becoming trustworthy.” When infidelity shatters a relationship, it's not just about broken promises—it's about broken safety. This episode is a direct message to the betraying partner: If you cheated and still want to save the relationship, here's what your partner actually needs from you. Betrayal recovery coach Lora Cheadle goes deep into the emotional, psychological, and spiritual terrain of healing after betrayal. With honesty, compassion, and no sugarcoating, she breaks down how to hold space for your partner's pain without spiraling into shame, how to rebuild safety through steady presence—not perfect words—and how to become the kind of partner who is safe to love again. Whether you're the betrayer seeking redemption, or the betrayed partner hoping your spouse will finally get it—this episode lays it all bare. Book Your Men's Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/men-s-session   TOP 3 TAKEAWAYS: Shame isn't healing—it's hiding. Collapsing into shame makes your partner carry both their pain and yours. Stay grounded in guilt, not paralyzed by shame. Your presence is the repair. You don't have to say the perfect thing. You just have to stay when it gets hard—and keep showing up. There is no timeline for their healing. Rushing your partner or asking “Aren't you over it yet?” delays trust. Healing takes the time it takes. LOVE THE SHOW? TAKE THE NEXT STEP Don't just listen—start healing. Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit and take back your power with clarity, confidence, and support that meets you where you are. ✅ Calm the chaos ✅ Rebuild self-trust ✅ Stop the spiral of second-guessing ✅ Reclaim your worth and your future

Get Ready for National Freelancers Day | Special Offers and Events  In this quick episode of The Freelancers Tea Break, I announce the upcoming National Freelancers Day on June 17th and shares exciting news for freelancers. Listeners can enjoy 20% off on various freelancing courses, including '30 Days to Go Freelance' and 'How to Find Clients.' The episode also hints at a potential networking event on Discord and encourages freelancers to celebrate their achievements. Tune in for all the details and special offers!  Find my courses here: https://freelancelifestyle.podia.com/ 00:00 Introduction and Welcome  00:09 National Freelancers Day Announcement  00:44 Special Offers on Courses  01:55 Additional Resources and Free Courses  02:07 Closing Remarks Follow me on Instagram Follow me on Bluesky Email: hello@emmacossey.com  Come join us in the free Freelance Lifestylers Facebook group Want more support? Check out the Freelance Lifestyle School courses and membership. Join the Freelance Lifestyle Discord Community: https://discord.gg/RKYkReS5Cz

Why You're Still Stuck: Masculine & Feminine Energy, Inner Child Healing & Sovereignty After Betrayal “You might not like your choices—but you do have them. You are an adult. And that means you have power.” In this powerful, soul-level conversation, Lora goes deep into why healing doesn't work for so many women—even when they're doing all the therapy, reading, journaling, and emotional work. And the answer? It's not about trying harder. It's about energy balance, integration, and inner sovereignty.   Start Here – A Quick Note About This Episode This is a deeper episode—a masterclass-style conversation that weaves together multiple advanced healing concepts: Masculine vs. feminine energy integration Inner child vs. adult self Partner polarity and healing dynamics Structure vs. surrender in recovery If one part hits you harder than another, trust that. Healing is layered. You might come back and re-listen again and again as you grow. Let this episode meet you exactly where you are.   Top 3 Takeaways: Energy is Everything: You can't heal without a balance of masculine (structure, leadership) and feminine (emotion, flow) energies—within yourself and your relationship. You Are Not a Child Anymore: Learning to separate your adult self from your wounded inner child is how you reclaim your power and end the fear of abandonment. Healing Is Not Linear—It's Energetic, Emotional, and Embodied: If you've been stuck in your head or in endless tears, it's time to realign and embody the opposite energy to create balance and momentum.   This Episode Is for You If: You feel like you've “done everything right” in your healing journey, but still feel stuck You're overwhelmed with emotion or paralyzed by logic—and don't know how to move forward You want to understand the deep emotional and energetic dynamics between you and your partner You're ready to integrate your inner child, reclaim your adult power, and rise     LOVE THE SHOW? TAKE THE NEXT STEP Don't just listen—start healing. Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit and take back your power with clarity, confidence, and support that meets you where you are. ✅ Calm the chaos ✅ Rebuild self-trust ✅ Stop the spiral of second-guessing ✅ Reclaim your worth and your future

In this conversation, Coach Brendan Suhr is joined by Chris Oliver who discusses the innovative 'games approach' to coaching basketball, emphasizing the importance of decision-making and player development. He reflects on his journey in coaching, the evolution of coaching mindsets, and the necessity of creating practice environments that mirror real-game situations. This conversation highlights the shift from traditional drill-based practices to more dynamic, decision-focused training methods that enhance players' basketball IQ and overall performance. They also discuss the shift from traditional drill-based training to game-based learning, highlighting the significance of decision-making and environmental factors in player development. All that and more on episode 298 of the Coaching U Podcast presented by Noah Basketball!Noah Basketball is trusted by 28 NBA teams, over 200 NCAA programs, and more than 1,000 high school teams to deliver instant shooting feedback and in-depth analytics to help players reach their full potential.Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠noahbasketball.com⁠⁠Special Offers!

In this episode, Coach Brendan Suhr is joined by Mike Martin, the all-time winningest head coach in Brown men's basketball history. Martin reflects on his journey from standout player to head coach at his alma mater, sharing the lessons he's learned across two decades in college basketball. He discusses the evolution of the Brown program under his leadership, including their first 20-win season and postseason victory, and offers insights into building a consistent, competitive culture within the Ivy League. Martin also talks about the importance of staff alignment, player development, and how his background as a former Ivy League student-athlete informs his holistic approach to coaching.Coach Martin outlines how he approaches roster building, evaluates competitive character in recruiting, and emphasizes defense as a foundational identity. He opens up about balancing long-term development with the urgency to win now and how he maintains high standards while staying adaptable in a changing landscape. All that and more on Episode 297 of the Coaching U Podcast, presented by Noah Basketball.Noah Basketball is trusted by 28 NBA teams, over 200 NCAA programs, and more than 1,000 high school teams to deliver instant shooting feedback and in-depth analytics to help players reach their full potential.Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠noahbasketball.com⁠Special Offers!

Why We Self-Sabotage After Betrayal: The Hidden Fear Blocking Your Healing "The only way to show someone your emotional wound is to act wounded." Why do we sabotage our own healing after betrayal? In this episode, Lora Cheadle unpacks the deep fears that keep us stuck in suffering, even when we desperately want to move on. From punishing our partners to protecting ourselves from hope, success, or vulnerability, Lora walks listeners through the unconscious ways we stay small—and how to stop. With raw honesty, personal stories, and expert insight, this episode is your invitation to finally show your healing instead of your pain.   TOP 3 TAKEAWAYS: Self-sabotage after betrayal is a subconscious attempt to stay safe, avoid disappointment, and keep the emotional spotlight off ourselves. Many betrayed partners resist healing to "prove a point" or to punish their partner—unconsciously hurting themselves in the process. Healing becomes possible when you commit to feeling good, receiving love, and breaking your own patterns of isolation and protection. LOVE THE SHOW? TAKE THE NEXT STEP Don't just listen—start healing. Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit and take back your power with clarity, confidence, and support that meets you where you are. ✅ Calm the chaos ✅ Rebuild self-trust ✅ Stop the spiral of second-guessing ✅ Reclaim your worth and your future

In this episode of the Voice of Influence Podcast, Andrea emphasizes the importance of mentorship as a strategic advantage for companies. She discusses her Forbes article titled “Mentorship as a Strategic Advantage: A Low-Cost, High-Impact Approach” and introduces her book “Set Up for Success at Work: A Mentorship Guide and Journal for Mentors and Mentees.” Andrea highlights the benefits of mentorship, such as enhancing employee development, boosting engagement and retention, and fostering a culture of learning and collaboration. She also provides actionable insights on establishing a successful mentorship program and details how her guide can facilitate this process.   00:00 Welcome to the Voice of Influence Podcast 01:10 Introduction to Mentorship 01:40 The Importance of Mentorship 06:15 Keys to a Successful Mentorship Program 14:11 Mentorship Guide and Journal Overview 20:26 Special Offers and Conclusion   Find the show notes here:   https://www.voiceofinfluence.net/356 Give and receive feedback that makes a difference! Register for our 20 minute Deep Impact Method video course here:  www.voiceofinfluence.net/deepimpact

This is the first chapter of a new mini-series of bonus episodes in collaboration with Fresh Clinics. After 300 episodes we've decided to try something different - recording in a new studio, getting back to real life and in person recordings and to work with Fresh Clinics and some of their brand partners. Three episodes will be published on Wednesday's (today, June 18th & July 9th) and a new killer feature is that you'll be able to watch the entire video of these podcasts either on Spotify or our YouTube channel. In chapter 1 we host both of the co-founders of Fresh Clinics, Dr John Delaney & Dr John Holbrook. In this episode we discuss the findings of their comprehensive survey of around 200 Australian clinics, highlighting trends and challenges in the industry. Key topics include the impact of new regulations, the role of business skills in clinical practices, and the evolving landscape of marketing strategies within the aesthetics sector. Our conversation touches on the integration of wellness and regenerative health with aesthetics, the importance of product quality over price, and the future growth of the industry.  00:00 Introduction to the New Miniseries  00:29 Our Guests 01:50 State of Medical Aesthetics: Survey Insights 09:00 Business Challenges in Aesthetics 17:02 Regulatory Concerns and Their Impact 24:23 Entrepreneurship and Business Strategy 32:57 Addressing Price Increases and Business Diligence 33:27 Mastering Financial Conversations with Patients 34:00 Case Study: Financial Discrepancies and Solutions 34:54 The Role of Social Media in Marketing 36:54 Building Local Community and Patient Referrals 38:45 Realigning Business Expectations and Industry Maturation 41:12 Trends in Aesthetic Treatments and Hybrid Healthcare 44:09 Blurring Lines Between Wellness and Aesthetics 47:45 Importance of Skincare in Clinics 52:42 Choosing Suppliers: Quality Over Price 58:26 Challenges and Opportunities in Product Training 01:01:19 Future Growth and Technological Integration 01:04:30 Special Offers and Upcoming Events   APPLY FOR OUR IA COMPETITION THE STATE OF MEDICAL AESTHETICS REPORT MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THE FRESH LIFE CONFERENCE JOIN OUR PATREON AS A FREE MEMBER TO DOWNLOAD THE STATE OF MEDICAL AESTHETICS REPORT SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE PODCASTS, WEEKLY EDUCATIONAL CONTENT & JOIN OUR WHATSAPP COMMUNITY CLICK HERE TO BROWSE OUR IA OFFERS FOR DISCOUNTS & SPECIALS CLICK HERE IF YOU'RE A BRAND OR COMPANY & WANT TO WORK WITH US CLICK HERE TO APPLY TO BE A GUEST ON OUR PODCAST CONTACT US  

If you've ever asked yourself, “Why can't I walk away even after everything they did?” — this episode is for you. Lora Cheadle breaks down the truth about trauma bonds: what they are, how they form, and why they make it so hard to leave someone who has betrayed you. You'll learn the neuroscience behind trauma bonding, how ancestral patterns may be keeping you stuck, and the legal and somatic reasons why this type of bond feels like life or death. Through heartfelt insights, somatic tools, and practical steps for reclaiming your power, you'll walk away with more clarity—and a plan to finally break free. Whether you're just starting your healing journey or feeling stuck in the cycle of apology and hope, this episode delivers the aha moments you've been waiting for.   TOP 3 TAKEAWAYS: Trauma Bonds Are Biological, Not Weakness: You're not crazy for still feeling attached to someone who hurt you. Trauma bonding is a survival-based, chemical loop created by cycles of betrayal and apology—and it's completely normal (but breakable). Your History Could Be Keeping You Hooked: Ancestral patterns and family modeling may be wiring you to stay stuck in trauma bonds. Lora explains how generational trauma gets passed down—and how to be the one who ends the cycle. You Can Break the Bond Through Body and Soul: From breathwork and somatic anchors to legal awareness and agency-building micro-acts, Lora outlines four powerful steps to reclaim your autonomy and start healing your nervous system for real.  

What's the real difference between a serial cheater and a one-time “mistake”? And more importantly… was it your fault? In this episode, betrayal recovery coach Lora Cheadle breaks down the psychology behind repeat cheating, the myth of the accidental affair, and why even “good men” cheat. She also dismantles the biggest lie betrayed women believe: that they caused it. You'll learn how to spot the red flags of serial cheating, understand how partners justify their behavior, and reclaim your sanity, self-worth, and personal power—starting now. Top Three Takeaways: What really motivates serial vs. one-time cheaters The link between shame, trauma responses, and “fixing” behaviors How to release self-blame and recognize emotional manipulation Practical ways to rebuild trust with yourself (and maybe your partner) This episode is your permission slip to stop carrying the weight of someone else's choices. Truth Bombs to Remember: Cheating is Never a Mistake—It's a Series of Choices Whether your partner cheated once or many times, it wasn't an accident. Cheating is made up of thousands of small justifications before the big betrayal. Understanding that helps you release the illusion of control and start healing. You Are Not to Blame—Even If the Relationship Had Problems Having issues in a relationship does not justify betrayal. Blame-shifting (“you pushed me to cheat”) is manipulation. Even if you weren't perfect, you didn't cause the affair. The Best Defense is No Defense When your partner blames you, the most powerful response is: “You and I both know that's not true.” Engaging with lies makes them feel real. Refusing to engage is your power move. Ready to create your own Hot Girl Summer? Join us at SparkleAllSeason.com for a soulful, sexy, and supportive summer of confidence, connection, and comeback. It's your time to glow—inside and out! Link https://lora-cheadle.kit.com/347883581d Subscribe, Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend and leave a review—it helps other women find the support they need! Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today! Special Announcement!  Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, “It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive,”. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. https://workplace-burnout.com/its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-5-tools-to-fuel-up-thrive/ Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Let's connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week. Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love. Special Offers from Our Sponsors!   Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT   Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I'm here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you'll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.   READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!   International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021 Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019 Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren't made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self? FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own. It's time to stop living for others and start living for you. Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.   It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive  Burnout isn't just exhaustion—it's a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being. If you're ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap. Available now on Amazon. Download your free guide, BURNOUT UNCOVERED: Fostering Candid Conversations for Teams at www.ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal.com.  

This week we're joined by Hall of Famer Dick Vitale for a powerful conversation on leadership, passion, and perseverance.Dickie V shares the core values that shaped his remarkable journey—from high school coach to ESPN icon—and reflects on how pride, enthusiasm, and servant leadership have guided his mission on and off the court. He breaks down the characteristics of great leaders, the importance of living with purpose, and how setbacks like being fired by the Detroit Pistons led to unexpected blessings.Most importantly, Dick speaks about his tireless work with the V Foundation and his personal fight against cancer, offering heartfelt insight on the impact we can all make by helping others. This episode is full of inspiration and life lessons from one of the most beloved figures in sports.All that and more on episode 295 of the Coaching U Podcast presented by Noah Basketball!Donate to the Dick Vitale Pediatric Cancer Research Fund You can stop pediatric cancer by making a donation to the Dick Vitale Pediatric Cancer Research Fund. Together, we can bring more hope to pediatric cancer patients, their families, and the doctors and researchers fighting alongside them.Donate at: dickvitaleonline.comNoah Basketball is trusted by 28 NBA teams, over 200 NCAA programs, and over 1,000 high school programs to capture and analyze key shooting metrics to help your players perfect their shot and reach their max potential.Learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠noahbasketball.com⁠⁠⁠Special Offers!

Ready to rise from the ashes of betrayal and reclaim your sparkle? This summer, it's not about revenge—it's about radiance. In this empowering episode, Lora Cheadle shares how to get your groove back after infidelity through confidence, embodiment, hormone health, nutrition, and joyful self-expression. Because healing isn't just emotional—it's physical, energetic, and spiritual too. From navigating menopause and libido shifts to eating for hormone balance, moving to feel strong and sensual, and finally ditching shame for good, you'll learn how wellness is the foundation for lasting recovery. Whether you're fresh in the fallout of betrayal or simply longing to feel sexy in your own skin again, this is your invitation to glow, heal, and rise—surrounded by a sacred community of women who get it. You don't have to do this alone. Let's make this your most liberated summer yet. Want the full roadmap to your comeback? This episode is just the beginning! We can't cover it all in one show—which is exactly why I created the 90-day Hot Girl Summer program. If you're ready for deeper support around hormone health, nutrition, movement, and healing in community with other amazing women, join us at SparkleAllSeason.com. Your most radiant, confident self is waiting. Top Three Takeaways: Healing is a full-body experience – Learn how somatic movement, hormone balance, nourishing food, and mindful self-care create the foundation for physical and emotional recovery. You're not broken—you're becoming – Infidelity may crack your identity, but it also opens the door to your next, most radiant self. Community is the container for transformation – Authentic connection with other women in a safe, sacred space is one of the fastest ways to reclaim your joy, beauty, and freedom.       This Episode Is For: Women who have been betrayed by an intimate partner and are ready to reclaim their confidence, reconnect with their body, and feel sexy, strong, and spiritually alive again—on their own terms. Especially helpful for women in perimenopause or menopause who are looking to transform their pain into power, in the company of other powerful women.   Ready to create your own Hot Girl Summer? Join us at SparkleAllSeason.com for a soulful, sexy, and supportive summer of confidence, connection, and comeback. It's your time to glow—inside and out!   Subscribe, Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend and leave a review—it helps other women find the support they need!   Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!   About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Let's connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week. Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.   Special Offers from Our Sponsors! Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT   Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I'm here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you'll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.   READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!   International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021 Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019 Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren't made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self? FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own. It's time to stop living for others and start living for you. Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.   It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive  Burnout isn't just exhaustion—it's a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being. If you're ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap. Available now on Amazon. Download your free guide, BURNOUT UNCOVERED: Fostering Candid Conversations for Teams at www.ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal.com.         Transcript Lora Cheadle [00:00:01]: You're listening to Flaunt, find your sparkle and create a life you love after infidelity or betrayal, a podcast for women who've been betrayed by their intimate partner and want to turn their devastation into an invitation to reclaim them selves and their worth. Tune in weekly so you can start making sense of it all and learn how to be okay on the inside no matter what goes on on the outside. Download your free betrayal recovery toolkit at betrayalrecoveryguide.com. Lora Cheadle [00:00:35]: Who wants to get their groove back? Who wants to feel really good and sexy and strong and powerful and happy again after infidelity or betrayal. Who here was totally rocked by their partner's infidelity? And not only by their partner's infidelity and all that meant, but who here also feels old, feels ugly, feels like aging is really hard? Who here is going through perimenopause or menopause and is struggling to put it all together again because suddenly their body is changing? Yes. All of the above. And that's what this show is about. We are going to address all of that. We are going to address all the ways we feel bad. And let me just be clear. Infidelity is a huge emotional impact, but I also wanna talk about the it's not really the physical impact, but the psychological impact, which is different than emotional. Lora Cheadle [00:01:39]: The psychological impact of not feeling pretty enough or sexy enough or hot enough, it's really devastating. And I talk to all of you during our one on one sessions or in the Facebook group, and everybody talks about comparing themselves to the affair partner. And either way, if the affair partner is younger, thinner, hotter, it's devastating. And if the affair partner is older, heavier, frumpy, or uglier, it's devastating. It's devastating no matter what because of that psychological impact of it disrupts how we see ourselves and our belief of if we're the pretty one or we're the chosen one or we're the loved one. And it impacts our confidence in ways that are not superficial. And I think that's what I really wanna communicate to you in this show is wanting to feel pretty is not superficial. Wanting to age well is not superficial. Lora Cheadle [00:02:44]: Wanting to feel sexy is not trivial. We all want that. We want to look good. It feels good when you look in the mirror and you like what you see. It feels good when somebody smiles at you and says, hey, great shoes. I love that hair color. It feels good. That's this human connection thing, and that's something that we all want. Lora Cheadle [00:03:09]: And quite frankly, that's something that we deserve too. And that's what I really want to lean into in this episode. I wanna talk about health. I wanna talk about hormones. Perimenopause, menopause, the trauma that infidelity puts you through. I'll share my story a little bit later in the show, but it put this trauma put me into early menopause. Not sleeping messes with your hormones. Not being able to eat messes with your hormones. Lora Cheadle [00:03:40]: When your hormones are out of whack, your thinking is out of whack. You feel crazy because it's normal to feel crazy, but also you feel crazy probably because your body is not running in optimal condition because you are incredibly stressed. And when the body is in the state of incredible stress, it's not being vibrant and healthy and joyful. So many of you that I talk to talk about feeling old and ugly. And I know that after this happened, I was like, there's trauma in my face. I didn't used to have this droopy face. And now I have jowls, and now I have wrinkles and bags around my eyes because it was like I cried too much for too long, and then the the puffiness never went away. And then I was aging, and I was getting belly fat, and I was getting all these things that I never had before. Lora Cheadle [00:04:37]: And it just exacerbated everything that I was already feeling, and it just made everything so much worse. So that's what we're gonna talk about today. I wanna get really honest. I want you to reach out to me. I want you to share your story. I want you to just be like, amen, sister. You hear me? But I really want to talk about how it feels to be a woman, how it feels to be an aging woman, how it feels to be a menopausal woman, how it feels to be a betrayed woman, and how it feels to have your identity ruptured as well. My identity, I was always one of the pretty girls. Lora Cheadle [00:05:25]: That was my identity. I was always one of the chosen ones. I owned that as a piece of my identity for good or for bad, for right or for wrong. So when I found out that my husband cheated, it rocked my identity. Wait. I'm not one of the pretty girls? Wait. I wasn't one of the ones who was chosen? He chose somebody else and not me. What does that say about me? If if I'm not the vivacious one, if I'm not that then who am I? Because how could my own love, my own partner not choose me? And that's a lot. Lora Cheadle [00:06:08]: And I know that who ever you feel like you were as a piece of your identity, your partner's betrayal ruptured that as well. And for that, I am so sorry. I am so sorry. But I also want to say that this truly is a great opportunity to rebuild, to rebuild that identity. Yes. Maybe you can go back to the being the chosen one, being the pretty one, being the smart one, being whatever it is. But the way you're rebuilding yourself is with such authenticity because it's not reliant upon external validation. You're rebuilding yourself from the inside out. Lora Cheadle [00:06:48]: You are owning and claiming yourself and your identity. And if you wanna switch, if you wanna suddenly because become the wise one, you can do that too. But, again, you're rebuilding yourself from the inside out. As part of this I mean, this episode is gonna be powerful, but we can't change the world in fifty minutes, unfortunately. But as part of that, I have created a summer program for all of us. It's just a ninety day program. It's gonna be a lot of group work. I'm lovingly calling it, like, hot girl summer just because that's the silly, fun, fresh vibe I want us to move into. Lora Cheadle [00:07:30]: You know, at first, I thought about, like, I'm gonna do betrayal recovery, and I thought, no. There's such heaviness to that. This is hot girl summer, man. We're getting our groove back. I know we're not girls. I know we're women, but it's this is hot girl summer. We're gonna play. We're gonna put on our self tanner. Lora Cheadle [00:07:49]: We're gonna get a new haircut maybe. We're gonna find an outfit that feels good. We're gonna go socialize and connect and learn new things. We're gonna get into our bodies. We're gonna dance. Oh, are we gonna dance this summer, ladies? We are gonna dance, dance, dance. We're gonna take care of our spirits. We are going to heal the collective feminine. Lora Cheadle [00:08:15]: We are going to create such a strong, powerful, sacred sisterhood that whatever happens in your future, in your daughter's future, in your aunt's future, in your mother's future, in your grandmother's future, in your sister's futures cannot be denied. Because the strength of our shared bond, the strength of our joy, the strength of our power in reclaiming our joy, our fun, our vivacious energy is just gonna send ripples to the world, and that is my intention. I'm working on the details now, but it's ninety days, And you'll be able to sign up at sparkleallseason.com. So you can reach out to me if you have any questions, but otherwise, sparkleallseason.com, and we are gonna get our groove back. We're gonna be hot, sexy, fun, loving girls this summer, and we're gonna slip right into our joy. Now I am not talking about bypassing. I am talking about doing the work. I'm talking about staying connected to our heart, staying presence. Lora Cheadle [00:09:23]: If we need to grieve, grieve. But I'm also talking about allowing ourselves to come back online, taking care of ourselves, nurturing our wellness, our health, figuring it out so we can figure it out. And isn't that funny? In order to figure out this whole trauma infidelity, in order to figure it out, we have to figure ourselves out. Because the truth of the matter is we need to feel optimal. We need to be in an optimal state in order to have the resources, the capacity to do the deep soul work to heal the wound of betrayal. And that's what we're gonna do. We're gonna hold the work on both sides, the high joy and the deep pain, and we're gonna go there. We're gonna go there on both ends, merge them in the center, which is the heart, with each other, and bring it forward, birth it into the world. Lora Cheadle [00:10:31]: So enough about that sparkleallseason.com. You're going to love it, and let's get on with the show for the day. Okay. I'm gonna start by telling you a little story. When I found out about my husband's betrayal, life, I thought, was really on the precipice of being really good. My youngest was about to go away to college. I was dancing some burlesque. I was feeling so good. Lora Cheadle [00:11:04]: It was like, I finally have time to get in shape, to cook meals that I want to cook, to sleep in and not always have to be rushed, you know, to get my kids up and worry about things like that. I can start traveling with my husband. I'm gonna do all these wonderful things. I'm gonna start taking care of me. And then I found out. And this trauma was so severe that it sent me into early menopause, which I didn't really know was a thing. But here's how that happened. Trauma puts us in a state of fight, flight, or freeze. Lora Cheadle [00:11:51]: It hijacks our nervous system. We start pumping out cortisol. I was not feeling good, as I'm sure you know. It does not feel good at all. I couldn't sleep. I absolutely could not sleep to save my life. So many of you tell me the exact same thing too. Like, you just can't sleep, which also wreaks havoc on your body, on your hormones. Lora Cheadle [00:12:21]: Eating was awful. I I couldn't digest. I wasn't hungry, but then I would just start eating, and nothing tasted good. I got no joy out of the food. And sometimes I would just overeat because I was sitting there eating, and then sometimes I would forget to eat. And then sometimes I would try to eat, and I was nauseous. And I couldn't eat. I did not drink my water. Lora Cheadle [00:12:52]: During the struggle with my husband for his phone, when I found out all the texts and everything, my toe broke. So I couldn't even walk. So the normal working out and dancing that I had done, I could no longer do. And the combination of all of that stress, all of that trauma, no sleeping, inadequate nutrition, no working out, all of that, sent my body into early menopause. I mean, my periods just stopped. And And it was one of those things that sometimes you don't know that you don't know. It just stopped. And I wasn't really too much aware of it. Lora Cheadle [00:13:40]: It just stopped and other things I was thinking about. So it's not like I went to my doctor. I'm not sure if my doctor would have said or known what to do anyway, and I just moved on. But here's the thing. When you're going through perimenopause, your emotion your emotions, your hormones are up and down, and your emotions are up and down, and the the level of brain fog is up and down. And it's normal. Perimenopause is a roller coaster ride, and there's no medical test for perimenopause because the hormones peak and valley. So it would depend on where you test. Lora Cheadle [00:14:26]: You would need to, like, test every single day to find out where your hormones are. Oh, estrogen's up today. Oh, progesterone's down today. Oh, there's no test for perimenopause. The test for perimenopause is do you feel a little bit scattered and chaotic and out of control? Are your periods sporadic? That is something that happens to some people, but not everybody. So how much of what you're feeling is anxiety due to the affair, and how much of what you're feeling might be perimenopause or menopause? How much of it is your hormones? And it's really hard to differentiate and to tell. And to some degree, it doesn't really matter. You just know it feels awful, but to some degree, it does matter because you can be supported for your hormones. Lora Cheadle [00:15:20]: And if you're going to a psychiatrist and you're having problems with your mental health and sleeping, they might be giving you medication and rightfully so because if you're having some psychotic breaks if you can't sleep, having medication, having that support in the short term is definitely helpful. But what about hormonal support too? What would it be like also to maybe have an estrogen patch or to take progesterone? What might it be like to have your hormones balanced? Last week, I went to Chalene Johnson's camp b more, and it was amazing. It was a ton of fun. It was in Vegas. And the founder of MidiHealth was there as well as many other physicians who specialize in menopause. And it was shocking to me how simple and how accessible hormone replacement is and what a big impact it can have on the way we feel. I had heard, like, probably so many of us, that, oh, you gotta be careful with hormones. Oh, you gotta be careful. Lora Cheadle [00:16:31]: It can cause cancer. In fact, a new study came out two weeks ago that kind of debunks a lot of the old research that was done because the old research was done on, like, synthetic estrogens, not some of these bioidenticals. It was done some were done on rats, not even on women. And there are so many different factors that were not taken into consideration. So I've kinda had this belief, like, oh, you really have to be careful with that. And it doesn't really matter. Why would we wanna extend our childbearing years anyway? Well, here's what I learned at that conference from many of these physicians. Estrogen in our body helps with cognitive function. Lora Cheadle [00:17:18]: It helps with our cardiovascular health. It helps with bone density. It helps us age well, and it helps us think clearly. And most importantly, it makes us feel good. It can get rid of that brain fog. It can make us feel more alert. Progesterone. I started taking progesterone. Lora Cheadle [00:17:44]: It makes you sleep at night. It is better than I've ever had with anything with magnesium or melatonin or any of those other sleep aids. Progesterone is amazing. My body was craving progesterone. I didn't even realize that I had some brain fog going on. I didn't realize some of the, you know, the achiness, the heaviness, the weight gain, things like that. They were hormonal. When I feel better in my body, I feel more more like I can take on the world. Lora Cheadle [00:18:21]: When you feel better in your body, you are going to feel more confident, more secure. When you are able to think clearly, when you were able to sleep at night, you're gonna have far more capacity. Now I'm not saying everybody has to do hormone replacement. There are contraindications, and if you just don't want to, you just don't have to. But what I am saying is there's a lot of really good education out there, who I started using was MidiHealth, m I d I, Health. They are they're like online physicians. It's a real physician. They're covered by insurance, but they're all specialists in women's health. Lora Cheadle [00:19:08]: They're all specialists in hormone replacement. They're all specialists in everything that's going on. So even if you have no interest in hormone replacement, see a women's health physician, see a women's health specialist so you can start taking care of your body, sleeping better, regulating yourself better, and feeling better. So that was the first thing that I learned, and that was the first thing that I wanted to talk to you about because I wish somebody would have talked to me about that. I wish somebody would have asked. You know? Did you know that trauma can kick you into early menopause? No. I did not know that. Did you know that being kicked into early menopause can have devastating effects on long term bone density? No. Lora Cheadle [00:19:57]: I didn't know that. Did you know there's cardiovascular implications for menopause? No. I didn't know that. So these are some of the things. There's an impact. It's not just that you don't have your period anymore. It impacts everything. And for me, I'm definitely interested in cognitive decline. Lora Cheadle [00:20:19]: I don't want cognitive decline. I'm interested in bone health. I'm interested in longevity. I'm interested in feeling and looking good for as long as I can. Yes. It's part of the aging gracefully, but it's also aging healthily. And I don't want to be the frail old lady who can't get out of bed. So what I wanna move into next, because I feel like hormones are kind of that basic foundation, but that next level up, that next layer is the health, the nutrition. Lora Cheadle [00:20:55]: And I don't know about you, but nutrition was really hard during the betrayal recovery process. I mean, early on, you can't eat. The things that sound good are not necessarily healthy. And I just kind of lost all of that. Adequate nutrition is essential for our brains, for our bodies. And I'm not gonna spend a ton of time about talking about this because we all know it. We all know it. But what I am gonna talk about is that accountability and the reminders of how do I nurture and nourish myself. Lora Cheadle [00:21:37]: I'm not just cramming in food to get to my next meeting. This is feeding my soul. This is feeling my body. This is fueling what I'm going to look and feel like in ten years, in twenty years. And what I do now has a direct impact on how I will feel then. And that's this part of my hot girl summer is I want us to remember that and to start developing some habits around drinking healthy waters, taking if you wanna take your vitamins, your minerals. I have some thoughts on different supplements. I have some thoughts on different vitamins, but, obviously, you do you because I don't know your medical history. Lora Cheadle [00:22:27]: But things like taking a really good multivitamin, taking vitamin d. Vitamin d is something that's essential, and so many of us are deficient in vitamin d. And when you are low in vitamin d, it can lead to depression. Well, again, hello. Going through infidelity is very depressing. I need all the support. I need all the help that I can get. So, yeah, let me supplement my vitamin d. Lora Cheadle [00:22:57]: If it's gonna help, it needs help. It can help. The other thing is b vitamins. We burn a lot of b vitamins when we're under stress. Burn, burn, burn, burn, burn. Supplementing with your b vitamins can help give you that energy to help keep you online so you can manage the stress. Magnesium. There's seven forms of magnesium, which I didn't know, but they're all seven forms are utilized in our bodies differently and they can help us relax. Lora Cheadle [00:23:27]: Well, do you need some sleep support? Maybe magnesium can help. Maybe vitamin d for the depression. Maybe vitamin b, the b complex for your stress. Like, there's some simple things that we can do. And no. I'm not talking about, like, pedaling high end vitamins. I I know I know there's some high end things out there that are really, really great and really, really effective and things like that. But by the same token, there are so many things you can just go to Costco and pick up a big old bottom of bottle of b complex, and it's gonna help. Lora Cheadle [00:23:59]: And it's in service of not only getting you through this present moment, but in building the body that you want ten years from now, twenty years from now. Whether you're with this partner or with a new partner or you're gloriously on your own, don't you wanna be vibrant and strong and healthy and happy? Yeah. I don't wanna look like the haggard woman who has been through hell and back. I wanna look through look like the strong, powerful woman I feel like inside. And to me, it's really that blend of that inside, I want to feel strong. Outside, I want to look strong. Inside, I want to feel beautiful. Outside, I wanna look beautiful. Lora Cheadle [00:24:43]: I want congruence between how I look and how I feel. It's not that I'm decorating this body to impress other people or attract a new partner or impress my, you know, my husband. I want to look how I feel and I want to feel good. And I wanna look like I feel good. And I wanna look at myself in the mirror and smile and be like, yeah. And I wanna look down at my body, and I wanna like what I see, and I want to hike, and I want to run around, and I want to break out into a dance break when a song comes on that I really like and not be like, oh, ow. I can't do it. Oh, oh, oh. Lora Cheadle [00:25:25]: I want to take on the world, and I wanna look like I wanna take on the world. So that's why I mentioned nutrition. And then closely following nutrition is fitness. And again, I'm not preaching that you need to go change your life and have a fitness routine. Although I think you know this about me, maybe not. I've taught fitness since 1988. '19 '80 '8. I graduated from high school in '87. Lora Cheadle [00:25:56]: I started teaching aerobics in 1988, and I have pretty much taught nonstop since then. All forms of group exercise. I love group exercise. Not only do you get a fun, good workout, but you have a fun community. You've got a schedule. You go to the club at a certain time. You've got your class. You've got your regulars. Lora Cheadle [00:26:18]: You've got the music. You're moving. Whether it's, like, the hardest workout or the easiest workout or somewhere in between doesn't sometimes matter. It just matters that you're out there and you're moving and you're grooving and you're connected and people notice when you're gone. And that's nice. It's nice to be in a community of other people doing healthy things and to have people notice when you're gone. And in my community, we do, like, these little group happy hours about twice a year. We'll just meet at a restaurant or go see a movie, and we'll just connect because we're supporting each other and it's fun. Lora Cheadle [00:26:56]: And and in my case, I teach up at the rec center now, and most of the women in my class are in their seventies. But it's a beautiful connection, And we all care about each other and being fit feels good. Now here's the psychological component of fitness beyond all of the regular components. Like you will live longer. You will have a better quality of life. You will look better. You, like, you will have less aches, pains, ailments, all of that. There is no downside to having a fitness program. Lora Cheadle [00:27:35]: But I think what I really want to talk about is the somatic piece of fitness that I think gets overlooked a lot of times. Somatics is just another word for using the body, and we can use our body to make us feel a certain way. So I wish you could just talk back to me here. What are some of the words that you think about about how infidelity made you feel? It made me feel weak. It made me feel stupid. It made me feel ugly. It made me feel worthless. It made me feel broken. Lora Cheadle [00:28:11]: It made me feel all of those things. Think about all of those things that infidelity made you feel. K. Got your list? Now here's what's magic about that. What kind of exercise is the opposite of that? Take the word that you feel. I felt crushed. I felt broken. What is the opposite of crushed and broken? Maybe it's expanded. Lora Cheadle [00:28:47]: Instead of crushed, I'm expanded. That's where flaunt comes from. Instead of crumpled, we are flaunting. We are expanded. Instead of broken, we are whole. Instead of weak and stupid, we are strong and powerful. First step is taking the word that you feel. Second step is finding the word that is on the opposite side of that, and the third step is doing that thing physically. Lora Cheadle [00:29:22]: When you feel weak and broken, get to the gym and lift some weight. Show your strength. Move that body. I am broken, and I am weak, and I'm pumping this iron, and I'm doing squats. And you don't even really need to know what what to do. You can just go to the weight room and read the directions on the weights. If you were feeling agitated, you know that feeling where you're like, I can't settle down. I can't settle down. Lora Cheadle [00:29:52]: I can't settle down. And you're twitchy. That's adrenaline pumping through your body. Get it out. Don't let it twitch. It's trying to get out. Shake. Dance. Lora Cheadle [00:30:03]: A lot of my somatic processing songs in my program, we do shaking and we do dancing, move it out. That could be a great Zumba class, a great dance class. Shake it, move it, twist it, twirl it, aerobics. Move it. If you were like, I'm so trapped, run. Get on the treadmill, walk, run, sprint, do something. But instead of being trapped, set yourself free. Do you need flexibility and flow? Maybe you need yoga because you feel stuck. Lora Cheadle [00:30:43]: How many of you raise your hand? Raise your hand. How many of you have said I feel so stuck? Let's try some breathing yoga and stretch. Let's get you unstuck physically. Let's get into those hip flexors. Let's get into the hamstrings. Let's stretch the waist and the back. Let's stretch the heart and get you unstuck. When you do physically that thing, it helps bring online what you want to feel because we can feel and sense our bodies. Lora Cheadle [00:31:18]: And it's hard. It's really, really hard to have an amazing workout where you've lifted some weights and you feel powerful and strong and you've pushed through and you've done something difficult. And maybe you've spent some time on a stair master or in a class, and you're you're sweaty and you're wrung out, but you're strong and powerful, it's hard to go around feeling sorry for yourself when you've worked out. When you have done something that builds your body and you have constructed yourself, it's really hard to feel broken because you were providing yourself with evidence that you were not broken. The evidence is look who I am. The evidence is look at what this body can do. The evidence is feeling yourself differently. So that's that fitness piece. Lora Cheadle [00:32:12]: Yes. Fitness is important. There's nothing I can tell you knew about that probably, but let's talk about the psychological impact of fitness, and that's where I want you to focus. And that's where we're gonna be focusing during our ninety days together in our little hot girl summer. We're going to start proving to ourselves. I still got it. Or maybe I got it for the first time, but we're going to be using our bodies, not in a punishing way. Like I gotta do 12 more reps, but in a flowy, dancy, sexy way. Lora Cheadle [00:32:48]: And one of the things that I'm gonna bring in is a lot of the sexy dance. I think, you know, I dance burlesque. I've I've got many different yoga less burlesque classes, and we're gonna do that together. We're gonna do that together live on Zoom, or you can watch the replay just in short chunks, just in, like, thirty minute, quote, exercise chunks. But we're gonna learn some of the moves. We're gonna learn how to flow. We're gonna learn how to embody and hold that energy because that was taken from you. Your sensuality, your sexuality, your feeling of being chosen and desired was taken from you when your partner cheated. Lora Cheadle [00:33:33]: And it is time to take that back. Your joy, your pleasure for you, not for anybody else. So I'm gonna teach you how to get in your body, how to move in a way that feels sensuous to you. You're gonna learn the moves and it's gonna be fun. And here's what I wanna say about that. Can this be triggering? Oh, yes. It can be triggering. And if you're sitting here thinking, I love hate this, Lora. Lora Cheadle [00:34:04]: I hear you. I love hate it too. Because there's so much societal conditioning about what it means when a woman is sexy. Ah, that's scary. Scary, scary, scary. It's not scary. It's who you are. You have been conditioned to not be fully expressed in your body. Lora Cheadle [00:34:24]: You have been told, oh my God, what will people think? There's a lot of layers of conditioning. And no, we can't really undo it all in ninety days, but you know what? We're gonna take a really good start. We're going to get you into your body. We are going to get you flowing freely. You can have your camera off. You can be alone at home and nobody's gonna know. And this is what I want you to know. Most people cry. Lora Cheadle [00:34:50]: Most people cry at some point during my sexy dance classes because we're out of our heads and we're into our bodies and we are loving ourselves. We're not talking anything over the top here. We're talking shoulder rolls. We're talking hips circles. We're talking peeling the glove off and twinkling our fingers up our leg. We're talking flirty, sexy, fun moves, but it can be so triggering. So triggering. And my ask for you is to let those tears flow. Lora Cheadle [00:35:23]: Let your heart open. Notice where you feel uncomfortable and just love yourself through that. And then at the end of the day, at the end of the class, at the end of the summer, you're just gonna be laughing and feeling so much more confident and free and expressed in who you are. So these are those pieces. Let's talk about hormones. Talk to your doctor, go to Mini Health. Send me a message. I can talk to you about some stuff. Lora Cheadle [00:35:59]: I'm clear on the other side, but get yourself feeling better. Hormones are powerful. And if they're out of whack, everything is gonna be out of whack. And this is not about a hormonal woman. No. No. No. No. Lora Cheadle [00:36:13]: No. This is about how can I support myself so I can be in my right mind and I can feel competent and confident again? Nutrition, fitness, wellness, sensuality, expression. The other thing that I think is really important and often gets downplayed, but just this whole concept of beauty and aging. And we talked about this a lot at, Shailene Johnson's Can't Be More last week. They had some plastic surgeons there, and they talked about all the different procedures that were available from nose jobs to, like, the eyelid lifts to face lifts and deep plane lifts and the different kinds of lasers. And there's so much out there. And I think my biggest takeaway from that was it doesn't matter what you do or what you don't do. But what does matter is that you feel comfortable and confident in your own skin. Lora Cheadle [00:37:12]: And, yeah, we're all gonna age. And, yeah, things are gonna shift and change, but are you happy? And it's that again, it's that inward and that outward. What can I do to build myself up inside, and what can I do to make the outsides match my big beautiful inside? And a couple weeks ago, I went and had IPL. That's the pulse laser on my face for dark spots. I even had it done on the back of my hands. And it was one of those things that I'm cut not really disappointed, but not thrilled with the results on my face. But, oh my god, so thrilled with my hands. I didn't realize how the dark spots on my hands really made me feel. Lora Cheadle [00:37:57]: And now I look down and I have these, like, beautiful white hands. And I'm like, oh, this is amazing. It makes me feel really good. And my commitment to myself is that I'm gonna start leaning in more. I have an appointment for Botox tomorrow. Again, I'm not talking full level face lift. If you wanna have a full level face lift, do it. But I'm gonna start exploring some things. Lora Cheadle [00:38:25]: I've had Botox in the past, and it was fine. But I'm like, now I'm just gonna go. Before I was, like, very conservative. Oh, let's do a little bit around my eyes before my TEDx because I I just don't want these smile lines. And let's just do some in my forehead, but let's go light. And I feel like the energy I'm going in with tomorrow is more like, hey. What can you do? What do you see? What what might make me a little bit happier here? And, again, not for the sake of just being beautiful from all of this stuff. But you know what? How can I support me? And even if it was superficial, I mean, let's just call that out. Lora Cheadle [00:39:02]: Even if it's just total superficial and I wanna be hot, who cares? It's my life. Right? I gotta do me. I wanna look good. I don't care when I look bad, but I like to look good too. Because I have built my confidence to that level that it doesn't matter, and I'm okay because I'm doing this for me. I'm not doing this for somebody else. This takes me back. If you have read my book, Flaunt, drop your cover, and reveal your smart, sexy, and spiritual self, one of the terms that I coined was the term naked self worth. Lora Cheadle [00:39:40]: And same thing, I know some people are triggered by that. They're like, naked, infidelity. Oh, we can't talk about sex. We can't talk about sex because this was a sexual injury. Okay. Hang with me. Yes. Can that be triggering? Yes. Lora Cheadle [00:39:52]: Hearing about sex, is that triggering? Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Becoming intimate again with your partner. Difficult. Lora Cheadle [00:39:58]: Yes. Triggering. Yes. But here's the thing. Ignoring it doesn't make it go away. Ignoring your own sensuality, sexuality, beauty, fun, joy, it's not about them. It's about you. It's not about, I wanna look so good that I'm going to that it's like a revenge makeover. Lora Cheadle [00:40:23]: Even if it is, let it be. It's about you. If you want to look good at whatever level, look good. But the concept of naked self worth is that you are just as comfortable in your own skin with yourself fully propped up, makeup, hair, filter on the phone, 10 pounds gone, that your level of confidence and self awareness as as your perfect ideal self is the same level as your confidence if you were woken up out of a deep sleep, had to put your 20 year old glasses on, your holy sweats, and run to the grocery store and you just ran into somebody? That, yes, you can acknowledge not looking my best now, but my level of self worth is the same. I have naked self worth, meaning I don't need anything else to make me worthy. I know that I am worthy for who I am. I know that flawed, broken, messy, whatever is a part of who I am, and I accept that. And that's what I want us to build this summer, but forever. Lora Cheadle [00:41:42]: I want us to build that level of self worth, that level of naked self worth that no matter what happens, I'm on it. I've got this. I am worthy. I am connected. I honor myself. And it's a lot about that sovereignty and that self honoring. How much are you respecting and honoring and loving yourself day in and day out? For me, this is for me. That does include doing some beauty rituals. Lora Cheadle [00:42:16]: That does include doing my little, you know, face lift not face lift, face facial patches. What are those little things? Like, you do a facial and you lay there and you put a little mask on your face. I've got so many of the little fun beauty things. I have, like, the Nura laser. I have, the Ferrero bear. I do fun things on my face. I just got my haircut today. I do my own color. Lora Cheadle [00:42:45]: I hate getting my nails done, but I do that periodically. But I want to feel good. So what are the things that I'm doing to care for myself because I want to feel good? I want my body to be in good shape. I want to learn new makeup tricks for women with older skin. My eyes are starting to sag. What can I do differently? I've recently changed my eye shadow because it didn't work the same way that it used to work. I've experimented with facial exercises. Like, I'm doing all of these things because it's fun, because I want to feel good. Lora Cheadle [00:43:25]: And when I do things that make me feel good, then I feel better. I still have that self worth and that self confidence, but it gives me a lift. And what I want for you is that lift too. What I want for you is permission to go do whatever the heck you need to do. I want you to have permission to buy the new clothes or get the makeover or go see the hair specialist or go to a med spa and see see what it would take. See what somebody recommends, whether it's fillers or Botox or a facial or whatever. Go check it out. You have my permission. Lora Cheadle [00:44:09]: You have my permission to make yourself feel as beautiful and as worthy and as sacred and as adored and as pampered as you want. And if you're like, Ick, I don't want any of it. Perfect. Know what makes you happy and lean into that. Do what makes you happy. This is all about flaunt. That first step of flaunt is f, find your fetish. I want to be girly. Lora Cheadle [00:44:40]: I want to have fun. I want to be beautiful. I want to feel sexy and powerful and strong in my own skin. I don't wanna feel frumpy. I don't wanna feel out of shape. I don't wanna feel embarrassed. I don't wanna feel like I hate my body. I hate my clothes. Lora Cheadle [00:44:56]: I hate my hair. I hate my face. I don't want to look at my summer vacation photos and be like, oh God, I don't want that experience. So I'm going to lean in to changing it. This is that sovereign peace. This is that power peace. We are not victims of life. We are not victims of aging, victims of circumstance, or even victims of infidelity. Lora Cheadle [00:45:23]: What are the things that you can do to get your groove back, to take your groove back? What are the things that you can do to take back control of your life, of yourself, of your mental well-being, and to start having fun again? Friendship is hugely important. Connection is hugely important. As you know, if you're in my Facebook group, so many of the infidelity and betrayal recovery, like Facebook and support groups, are bitch sessions. We do not need another bitch session. I do not need another bitch session. It does not help. What we need is connection, community, support. What we need is to be able to have deep conversations, real conversations, meaningful conversations. Lora Cheadle [00:46:05]: What we need to be able to say is, this is what I'm struggling with with intimacy. How did you get through it? Is this an aging thing? Maybe this is a hormonal thing. Maybe this has nothing to do with my relationship. Maybe this is my hormones. And to have somebody say, yes. Did you know estradiol vaginal cream can really help with vaginal dryness? I mean, sometimes it is that simple. Sometimes we get we waste. We waste so much time in our heads feeling like we're broken. Lora Cheadle [00:46:37]: Oh my god. What's wrong? I will never be able to enjoy sex again. I'll never be able to love my partner again. I'm never gonna be able to love myself again. I'm broken. I'm there's solutions out there. Let me tell you. There are solutions for everything. Lora Cheadle [00:46:55]: We just need to be vulnerable enough to ask, and we need to create that safe space. And that is my intention is I want to create this safe space for all of us so we can talk and we can share. I'm I'm feeling crazy about this. I'm feeling stressed about that. I don't know what to do here. Let's try this. Ask your doctor that. Have you tried this? Let's do this workout together. Lora Cheadle [00:47:21]: Tell me about those tears. Because that is the only way we are going to get ourselves back. The more we hide, it's so valid if you don't wanna tell everybody in your world about the infidelity. So valid. I get that. But it's also hiding a lot that you're going through, and we can't heal when we're in hiding. We have to heal with each other. So many of the women that I coach, they want weekly sessions because it's a place to talk. Lora Cheadle [00:47:52]: It's a place where they can show up and share, and they can ask hard questions because they have nobody else to talk to, because they're tired of being judged. And it's just so refreshing to be able to talk and connect. And that's what we're gonna create here. We're gonna create this community where you can talk to people, where you can say this is what's going on so you can get the help. Because like I said, there's solutions out there. It's just that sometimes we even have a hard time describing what the problem is. And that was something that the director of MidiHealth talked a lot about. She said that so often women don't they don't know what their symptoms are because the symptoms change. Lora Cheadle [00:48:35]: Because like in perimenopause, when I said earlier, the hormones go up and down and up and down. For a week, you might have a hard time sleeping. For another week, it might be joint pain. For another week, it might be irritability. For another week, it might be night sweats. For another week, it might be a random hot flashes. Things happen and then women are like, I don't even know. I have all of these random little symptoms, and they don't make any sense, and they're not consistent. Lora Cheadle [00:49:02]: And a lot of the medical providers have not been trained to recognize and realize when hormones are fluctuating, your symptoms will fluctuate. You're not crazy. You do not need a pat on the knee. You do not need to be told to deal with it. You need to talk to other people who are like, oh my god. Let me tell you. I feel crazy too. Let me tell you my symptoms are up and down or all over the place, but this is what balanced them out. Lora Cheadle [00:49:29]: Let me tell you. This is how I felt. Let me tell you. This is what I was afraid of. This is what I was so afraid of, getting intimate with my partner again. And I had all these insecurities about my body and my performance and if I was good enough. So let's talk about that, shall we? Okay. Let's talk about that. Lora Cheadle [00:49:46]: Who talks about that? Don't you wish everybody just talked about that? And then we all knew what each other knows. Because when we all share with each other about what we all know, pretty soon we're getting a more and more complete picture of what it really is rather than staying stuck in our head or reading random articles articles online. And, yes, there can be some amazing stuff online, but there can also be a lot of harmful stuff online and a lot of stuff written from a man's perspective or a woman who has not been through what you've been through's perspective. So come together, whether it's this ninety day program with me and all of us, or whether it's with somebody else, make sure it's a healthy community. Make sure the focus is acceptance, is curiosity, is being vulnerable, being authentic, and asking the hard questions. Make sure it's on solutions that make you feel better, that you're not shamed for or shut down for. Give yourself everything that you need and ultimately know that you deserve to feel really good. You deserve to feel really strong, free, healthy, vibrant, and joyful, and that you can. Lora Cheadle [00:51:10]: Infidelity is not a death sentence. It does not mean the whole rest of your life is ruined. It just means that you need to integrate this thing, this awful thing into your heart, into your life in a new and powerful way. One of the stories that I have shared in the past, and I'll share it again real quick here, is when I was in Peru, I did a plant medicine journey, and I never thought I would have done something like that. The long and the short was it was about integration of the ugly into what I had thought was my perfect, beautiful, amazing life. I mean, after all, I had worked fifty some years on creating perfection. Right? I had done it all right, and all of a sudden, I'm given this. And how do I integrate this? And what I learned is some things can't be beautifully integrated. Lora Cheadle [00:52:17]: They just can't. Some things just are, and they are ugly, and they are a part of it. And we can't dress things up, and we can't love it away. We just have to deal with it. We just have to let it be there, and we have to let it be ugly. And, you know, I'll share the full story again next week because we're we're getting close on time here. But it's a powerful story about integrating that ugliness in our life and just accepting it, that it is what it is. We can't sugarcoat. Lora Cheadle [00:53:00]: We can't pretend. We just have to be with what is. So I really hope you join me this summer. I hope you join me for ninety days of connection and fun and adventure and friendship and ritual and dance and beauty and joy and strength and power and all of that. I really hope you join me. Sparkleallseason.com for more information and to sign up. And you know me, I'm always available. If you wanna reach out, reach out. Lora Cheadle [00:53:33]: We can Zoom. You can send me an email, and I can answer all of your questions. But what I want you to know more than anything is you can get your groove back. You can get your groove back and then some. You can move into midlife, second chapter, third act, whatever it is, with so much passion and joy and freedom, and you could be the fullest, most vibrant version of yourself, maybe that you have ever been. So thank you for listening. As usual, always remember to flaunt exactly who you are because who you are is always more than enough. Lora Cheadle [00:54:20]: Tune in next time to flaunt, find your sparkle, and create a life you love after infidelity or betrayal with Lora Cheadle every Wednesday at 7AM and 7PM Eastern Standard Time on syndicated DreamVision seven radio network. Uncover the truth of what's possible for you on the other side of betrayal and develop the skills and strategies necessary to embrace the future and flourish today. Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at betrayalrecoveryguide.com.

This is part two of the Why Did They Cheat? series—a four-part journey to help you decode betrayal, find your footing, and reclaim your power.   Is an emotional affair really “just” a friendship? Is a one-night stand easier to forgive than a years-long emotional betrayal? In this revealing episode, betrayal recovery coach and attorney Lora Cheadle breaks down the core differences between emotional and physical affairs—and why each one requires a different healing process. Learn how each type of betrayal impacts your identity, body, and soul—and how to start rebuilding yourself from the inside out. Top 3 Takeaways: Emotional Affairs Cut Deeper Than We Realize Emotional betrayals often feel more painful because they involve secrets, emotional intimacy, and being shut out of your partner's inner world. They strike at your identity and your sense of worth. Physical Affairs Activate Shame and Insecurity Physical infidelity can trigger body shame, fears about sexual adequacy, and deep questions around desirability—especially in a culture that already pressures women to look and perform a certain way. Healing Requires the Right Tool for the Right Wound Emotional betrayal heals best through somatic (body-based) practices, while physical betrayal often needs emotional and spiritual processing. True healing includes repairing your relationship with yourself before your partner.

  This is part one of the Why Did They Cheat? series—a four-part journey to help you decode betrayal, find your footing, and reclaim your power. Think cheating is about sex, lack of love, or unmet needs at home? Think again. In this powerful episode, betrayal recovery coach and attorney Lora Cheadle uncovers the deeper psychological reasons behind infidelity—including avoidance of self, unhealed trauma, and a desperate search for validation. Whether you're staying or leaving, understanding why they cheated has nothing to do with you—and everything to do with them. This is part one in a four-part series on decoding betrayal. Top 3 Takeaways: Cheating is a Maladaptive Coping Strategy Infidelity is often driven by unresolved emotional pain and a lack of healthy coping skills—not by dissatisfaction in the relationship or lack of love. They Didn't Cheat Because of You The betrayal is not about your worth or actions. It's about their inability to face themselves, process their emotions, and validate their own identity. Understanding is Not Excusing Gaining insight into your partner's behavior helps you reclaim your peace and stop blaming yourself. But understanding is not the same as letting them off the hook—accountability and healing must still happen. Who This Is For: Women recovering from infidelity who want clarity and calm Anyone struggling with self-blame after betrayal Listeners curious about the deeper emotional roots of cheating

In this episode, Coach Brendan Suhr dives into the first few games of the 2025 NBA Playoffs, sharing insights on what to watch for—and how to apply it to your team. He discusses the playoff preparation process, how elite teams target mismatches, and why some coaching decisions separate winners from the rest. Coach Suhr also challenges listeners with eight questions every coach should ask during playoff or tournament timeAll that and more on episode 294 of the Coaching U Podcast presented by Noah Basketball!Noah Basketball is trusted by 28 NBA teams, over 200 NCAA programs, and over 1,000 high school programs to capture and analyze key shooting metrics to help your players perfect their shot and reach their max potential.Learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠noahbasketball.com⁠⁠Special Offers!

In this soul-stirring episode, Lora Cheadle reframes the pain of infidelity through the lens of one of the most iconic betrayal stories of all time: Jesus and Judas. Whether your betrayal came from a partner, your body, or society, this episode will show you how to transform it from tragedy into a catalyst for growth. Top Take-a-ways: Why betrayal is only the beginning of your story, not the end How revenge keeps you stuck—and how grace sets you free What crucifixion, resurrection, and spring rebirth all have in common with your healing A guided journaling practice to clarify who you are, what you deserve, and what you're here to create Free Resource: ✨ Download the Betrayal Recovery Guide – your first step to reclaiming your sparkle and re-choreographing your life.   About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic.   Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit: Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!    

In this episode, we share a segment from a recent clinic of ours featuring national champion head coach of the Florida Gators, Todd Golden. Coach Golden gives you an breakdown of his approach to using analytics and shares how his staff used analytics to build winning teams, both at Florida and previously at San Francisco. Golden covers several hot topics including their analytical in-game strategy, and approach to two-for-ones, intentional fouling, and shot selection. This episode has info that can teach coaches at all levels how to use data to shift win probabilities in your favor.All that and more on Episode 293 of the Coaching U Podcast, presented by Noah Basketball.Noah Basketball is trusted by 28 NBA teams, over 200 NCAA programs, and over 1,000 high school programs to capture and analyze key shooting metrics to help your players perfect their shot and reach their max potential.Learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠noahbasketball.com⁠Special Offers!

Swinger 101 (Part 2): From Comfort Zones to Lingerie ZonesWe're back with Part 2 of our Swinger 101 conversation—and it gets even more real. In this episode, the hosts dig into the comfort zones, expectations, and awkward (but hilarious) learning curves that every couple faces in their early lifestyle experiences.From learning how to communicate through uncertainty to understanding what those “lingerie zones” are all about, this one is full of laughs, reflection, and stories that'll make you say, “Oh yeah, we've been there.”

Do you feel like you're losing your mind after discovering your partner's infidelity? Obsessive thoughts, emotional spirals, feeling unhinged—it's not you being “crazy,” it's your nervous system in trauma response. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle unpacks why betrayal scrambles your brain, body, and spirit—and how to ground yourself again emotionally, somatically, spiritually, and legally. Through proven trauma recovery tools and her signature blend of deep wisdom and practical guidance, Lora shares how to interrupt obsessive thought loops, reclaim your clarity, and move from chaos to calm. Whether you're stuck in fix-it mode, frozen in fear, or spiraling into worthlessness, this episode is your step-by-step guide back to sanity and sovereignty. This isn't just about healing—it's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be. Top 3 Takeaways: You're Not Crazy—You're in Trauma. Betrayal activates your nervous system's survival mode: fight, flight, freeze, or fix. Your emotional overload is normal, but healing requires more than time—it requires intentional tools and support. Sanity Starts With Self-Connection. Use the 5-4-3-2-1 sensory method, deep pressure somatic grounding, and key journaling prompts to return to your body and truth. Ask yourself: What am I feeling? Whose voice is in my head? What do I know to be true? Legal & Spiritual Clarity Create Emotional Freedom. Practical steps like documenting information, understanding your legal rights, and avoiding reactionary decisions restore control. Spiritually, betrayal is an initiation—an invitation to rise, reclaim your worth, and live from your soul's truth. This is the last episode in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—be sure to subscribe so you can catch up on past episodes!   Check out this FREE workshop on Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts: https://youtu.be/MwUjcDidWOU?feature=shared  

Feeling lost after infidelity? In this powerful episode, betrayal recovery coach and attorney Lora Cheadle outlines a five-step roadmap to help women move from chaos to clarity after partner betrayal. Lora breaks down exactly why traditional healing methods often fail and shows you how to rebuild your life—your way. Learn to create a personalized healing plan that actually works, reclaim your identity, and ignite a future filled with joy, purpose, and power.

This is a replay of the recent training we hosted for Sports Moms "The Do's and Don'ts of Strengthening Your Athlete's Mental Game"! Spring enrollment special (50% off the program + bonuses) expires Friday, April 4th! Grab the program with the discount hereShe's talented, she's dedicated, but something's holding her back… and it's not her skills. If you've ever watched your daughter struggle with confidence, perfectionism, or bouncing back from mistakes on the field, this episode is for you. As a parent, it's heartbreaking to see your girl spiral after a setback, or hear her talk herself down after a game. You've told her she's good enough, she's strong enough, but how can you actually help her believe it?This episode will give you the tools to help her break free from self-doubt and start playing with the confidence she deserves!Here's what we cover in this episode:How to help your athlete bounce back from mistakes using the “Bounce Back in a Snap” method.Why perfectionism is holding her back, and how to help her release the pressure.The power of flipping negative self-talk into productive, confidence-building thoughts.Real-life Q&A with sports moms like you, plus expert advice.A special, limited-time offer for the Elite Mental Game program that's designed to quickly strengthen your daughter's mental game and confidence.Don't wait – this episode is only up for 48 hours! Listen now to learn how you can support your athlete's mental game, and unlock a 50% discount on the Elite Mental Game program before the offer ends this Friday, January 31st!Listen to the full episode now and empower your girl to play with confidence – both in sports and in life.Episode Highlights: [00:00] Raising Confident and Mentally Strong Girl Athletes. This is a 48-hour special, featuring a live training session on strengthening an athlete's mental game.[03:20] Common Challenges Faced by Athletes. Discussing the common concerns of parents about their daughters' handling of sports and life challenges.[05:14] Misconceptions About Building Confidence. Debunking common misconceptions about building confidence in athletes, such as relying on coaches or expecting confidence to develop naturally.[07:56] The Unstoppable Athlete Method. Introducing the Unstoppable Athlete Method, a solution used to coach high school volleyball teams.[10:38] Bounce Back in a Snap. The Bounce Back in a Snap method, which helps athletes recover from mistakes quickly.[23:05] Releasing the Pressure Athletes Feel. Discussing the pressure athletes feel, including perfectionism, comparison, and pregame anxiety and understanding the concept of noticing and shifting thoughts to release the pressure.[34:13] Flipping Negative Mindset. The challenge of athletes turning positive feedback into negative self-talk. Understanding negativity bias and the importance of self-trust in building confidence.[42:40] The Role of Parents in Mental Training. The importance of parents in shaping their children's environment and providing opportunities for mental training. And tips for parents to improve their own self-talk and support their children's mental training.[42:50] The Elite Mental Game Program. Introducing the Elite Mental Game program, a self-paced mental training system for girl athletes.[01:08:27] Live Support and Bonuses. Introducing the live support and bonuses included in the Elite Mental Game program.[01:08:07] Enrollment and Special Offers. Details on how to enroll in the Elite Mental Game program, including the enrollment checkout process. Grab the Spring Enrollment Discount + Bonuses on EMG until April 4th here!

In this show Ken Raiss, Brett Warren and I and a heap of questions left by viewers of a recent Masterclass that should be of interest to anyone interested in property investment. We explore the pros and cons of investing in outer suburbs, what's ahead for the Melbourne property market, the significance of understanding property value versus price, the different loan structures available for investors, the importance of economic fundamentals, and strategies for intergenerational wealth transfer. The conversation also touches on the viability of living off equity and the comparison between commercial and residential properties. Takeaways Investing in outer suburbs can be risky especially at this stage of the cycle where property vans have been pushed up by inexperienced investors. Economic fundamentals drive property value growth. Setting up the right ownership property structure is essential for flexible intergenerational wealth transfer. Starting with a clear end goal is one key to successful investing. Interest-only loans can help in property accumulation phases, while we're paying debt makes sense as you near a retirement age. Living off equity is challenging but still possible with the right strategy. Commercial properties often provide better yields than residential property, but for most investors residential property provides better returns because of the extra leverage. Flexibility in investment ownership structures can enhance financial outcomes. The property market is cyclical; patience is necessary for long-term gains. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Q&A Session 00:27 Investing in Outer Suburbs vs. Hot Spots 01:19 Understanding Loan Structures and Trusts 02:02 Introduction to Property Investment Strategies 07:38 Analyzing Melbourne's Property Market 13:35 Understanding Property Investment Structures 19:13 Navigating Investment Decisions and Strategies 24:37 Exploring Regional vs. Capital City Investments 30:22 Superannuation and Property Investment Trusts 33:07 Understanding Debt: Interest-Only vs Principal and Interest 36:03 Transitioning to Cash Flow Properties 38:41 Building a Property Portfolio: Regional vs Capital City Investments 41:35 Living Off Equity: Is It Still Possible? 44:10 The Importance of Trusts in Wealth Management 46:57 Wealth Retreat: Planning for Future Success 48:51 Commercial vs Residential Property Investments 52:53 Introduction to the Podcast and Demographics Decoded 54:13 Special Offers and Resources for Listeners 55:03 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose 55:35 Understanding Property Investment Strategies Links and Resources:    Join us at Wealth Retreat 2025 – read more here and reserve your spot  Michael Yardney    Get the team at Metropole to help build your personal Strategic Property Plan Click here and have a chat with us    Brett Warren - National Director of Property at Metropole    Ken Raiss – Director Metropole Wealth Advisory    Get a bundle of free reports and eBooks – www.PodcastBonus.com.au     Also, please subscribe to my new podcast Demographics Decoded with Simon Kuestenmacher – just look for  Demographics Decoded wherever you are listening to this podcast and subscribe so each week we can unveil the trends shaping your future.   Shownotes plus more here: Ask the Experts: Ken Raiss, Brett Warren and I Answer Your Burning Questions 

Betrayal Recovery 101: What Every Woman Needs to Know – Part 2 You've heard the saying, time heals all wounds—but when it comes to betrayal trauma, that couldn't be further from the truth. If you're waiting for time to magically fix the devastation, the triggers, and the self-doubt, you'll stay stuck. In this eye-opening episode, betrayal recovery coach Lora Cheadle exposes the myths about healing after infidelity and explains why waiting, numbing out, or ignoring the pain won't work. Instead, she shares the exact tools and strategies to take control of your recovery, rebuild your confidence, and step into your power NOW. Top Takeaways: Why betrayal is NOT a relationship crisis—it's a full-body trauma The biggest mistake most betrayed women make (and how to avoid it) Why traditional therapy often fails in betrayal recovery—and what to do instead The difference between coping and true healing (Hint: Most women get stuck in coping!) How to break the toxic cycle of waiting—for closure, for change, for him to wake up The 4 long-term recovery strategies to reclaim your identity and rebuild your self-worth This is the second episode in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—be sure to subscribe so you don't miss Part 3!

In this empowering episode of Fit, Fun, and Frazzled, Nikki welcomes a truly inspiring guest, Lori Brand. Lori is a lifting enthusiast, group fitness instructor, yoga teacher, and software quality engineer. She's also a former gymnast, dancer, Playboy model, and bodybuilder who's battled body image struggles firsthand.We dive into Lori's powerful journey, shifting her mindset from shrinking to getting strong. Lori shares insights from her debut novel Bodies to Die For, a gripping and raw story of body image obsession, societal pressure, and the cost of chasing perfection.In this episode, we cover: • Why strength is more empowering than the pursuit of thinness • How internal validation trumps society's ever-changing beauty standards • The problem with women judging themselves and each other • Shocking real-life stories that inspired Bodies to Die For • How to stop the cycle of shame and comparison in fitness and beyond Guest Bio:Lori Brand has been published in STRONG Fitness Magazine, T-Nation, Inside Fitness, D'FYNE, and more. Her debut novel Bodies to Die For explores the extremes of Diet Culture and the power of reclaiming your strength.Resources & Links: • Follow Lori on Instagram: [@loribrandwritesandlifts} • Learn more about Bodies to Die For: [https://a.co/d/4Y5rHCr] • Follow Nikki on Instagram: [@fitfunandfrazzledpodcast and @nikkilanigan.yogaandwellness]Special Offers & Sponsors•Mantra Match – 15% off with code NIKKIWELLNESS: https://mantramatcha.com/•Neeshi Protein Powder – 20% off your first order with code NIKKIYOGA20: www.neeshi.com*** This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services.

The first 30 days after discovering infidelity feel like an emotional tsunami—shock, rage, grief, and an overwhelming sense of uncertainty. But what you do (and don't do) during this time can set the foundation for your healing journey. In this power-packed episode, betrayal recovery coach and advocate Lora Cheadle walks you through the critical dos and don'ts of the first-month post-discovery. Learn how to stabilize your emotions, avoid common mistakes that keep women stuck, and reclaim your personal power—without waiting for closure, clarity, or your partner to change. Top Takeaways: What NOT to do in the first 30 days (including the #1 mistake most women make!) How to regulate your nervous system using somatic healing and hypnotic meditation Why legal and financial clarity is crucial—even if you don't plan on leaving How to reclaim your agency, set healthy boundaries, and start healing on your terms The powerful FLAUNT! framework to rediscover yourself beyond betrayal This episode is the first in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—so be sure to subscribe and tune in next week for Part 2! Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!   Special Announcement!  Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, “It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive,”. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. https://workplace-burnout.com/its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-5-tools-to-fuel-up-thrive/ Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com.   About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Let's connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week. Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.   Special Offers from Our Sponsors! Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT   Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy.   I'm here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you'll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter.   Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.   READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!   International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021 Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019 Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren't made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self? FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own. It's time to stop living for others and start living for you. Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.   It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive  Burnout isn't just exhaustion—it's a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being. If you're ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap. Available now on Amazon. Download your free guide, BURNOUT UNCOVERED: Fostering Candid Conversations for Teams at www.ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal.com.   Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!  

Peter Schiff discusses the Fed's unchanged interest rates, rising inflation, gold prices signaling monetary issues, and promotes gold and silver investments.Sign up for a $1/month trial period at https://shopify.com/goldPeter Schiff discusses the recent FOMC announcement on interest rates remaining unchanged and critiques the Fed's dovish stance amid rising inflation. Schiff highlights the Fed's plan to slow quantitative tightening, rising gold prices as a warning of loose monetary policy, and calls for higher interest rates. He criticizes the Fed's handling of inflation expectations and the economic composition of job growth. Schiff also promotes gold and silver investments as protection against inflation.

Did you like the episode? Send me a text and let me know!!Christy's Entrepreneurial Journey: Resilience and Faith in MarketingIn this episode of the Undiscovered Entrepreneur, Skoob interviews Christy, founder of Oconco Marketing. Christy shares her early inspirations from her entrepreneurial father and grandfather, discussing the pivotal moments that defined her career. Despite facing potential bankruptcy, Christy's faith and resilience led her to secure her biggest client. Emphasizing the value of learning from failure, she advises new entrepreneurs on the importance of taking leaps of faith, having a flexible business plan, and removing toxic relationships. Christy also highlights the long-term benefits of positive energy and persistence in achieving success.Skoob's Stan Store14 Day free trial of Stan Store 00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:19 Skoob's Latest Ventures00:37 Special Offers and Promotions01:23 Introducing Christy and Her Journey03:26 Christy's Entrepreneurial Roots06:06 Lessons from Family and Symbolic Stories11:16 Overcoming Entrepreneurial Challenges16:34 Faith and Serendipity in Business19:41 The Value of Tenacity21:04 Overcoming Pitfalls with Positivity21:36 The Trade-Offs in Business24:15 The Importance of Positive Relationships27:17 Learning from Experience31:40 Advice for New Entrepreneurs32:00 The Power of a One-Page Business Plan35:30 Setting and Achieving Goals36:32 Final Thoughts and Contact Information37:58 Wrap-Up and Key Takeaways Thank you for being a Skoobeliever!! If you have questions about the show or you want to be a guest please contact me at one of these social mediasTwitter......... ..@djskoob2021 Facebook.........Facebook.com/skoobamiInstagram..... instagram.com/uepodcast2021tiktok....... @djskoob2021Email............... Uepodcast2021@gmail.comAcross The Start Line Facebook Community If you would like to be coached on your entrepreneurial adventure please email me at for a 2 hour free discovery call! This is a $700 free gift to my Skoobelievers!! Contact me Now!! On Twitter @doittodaycoachdoingittodaycoaching@gmailcom

In this episode of Flaunt! Find Your Sparkle After Infidelity or Betrayal, Lora Cheadle interviews Emmy award-winning journalist and podcast host Natalie Tysdal about navigating life's biggest challenges, including career burnout, betrayal, and personal transformation. Natalie shares her journey of leaving a toxic career in television news to pursue meaningful work that aligns with her values. She discusses the importance of health—physical, emotional, and relational—and how women can prioritize their well-being while balancing life's demands. The conversation touches on the power of stillness, habits, and surrounding yourself with supportive, trustworthy people. Top 3 Takeaways: The Three-Question Test for Change If you're questioning whether to stay in a job, relationship, or situation, ask yourself: Am I happy? (Do I feel joy and fulfillment?) Am I proud of what I'm doing? (Does it align with my values?) Am I challenged in a healthy way? (Is it helping me grow?) If the answer to any of these is “no,” it may be time for a change. Reframe Your Perspective with “I Get To” Instead of “I Have To” Shifting from “I have to exercise” to “I get to move my body” transforms obligations into privileges. This mindset shift fosters gratitude, joy, and motivation for self-care and personal growth. Create Stillness & Build Healthy Habits Through Habit Stacking Finding moments of stillness is essential for clarity and well-being, but it's challenging in a busy life. Use habit stacking to build new positive habits by pairing them with existing ones (e.g., stretch while waiting for coffee to brew, meditate while brushing your teeth). Small, consistent changes lead to transformation over time. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth. Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story Download your Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today! About Natalie Tysdal: Natalie Tysdal loves helping people find ways to improve their lives. Shew is an expert in getting to the truth and finding the right resources to help people become all they are meant to be. She is an Emmy Award-winning news anchor, producer, and reporter with a 28-year legacy in broadcast journalism. Known for her journalistic integrity and engaging storytelling, Natalie has built a trusted reputation as a dynamic voice in media. As a mom of three, Natalie blends her professional expertise with personal experience, making her relatable and inspiring to audiences. She is the host of The Natalie Tysdal Podcast, where she explores topics at the heart of everyday life—health, family, and faith. Through her media company, Natalie extends her passion for communication to support businesses with marketing strategies, crisis communications, and podcast coaching and development. Whether on-screen, behind the scenes, or working with brands, Natalie's mission is to create impactful connections and meaningful conversation. Special Announcement!  Book Release Don't miss the release of Lora Cheadle's new book, “It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive,”. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery. Available on Amazon. https://workplace-burnout.com/its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-5-tools-to-fuel-up-thrive/ Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. About Lora: Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace. After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose. As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn't have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy. Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing. She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life's magic. Let's connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week. Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love. Special Offers from Our Sponsors! Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I'm here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you'll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration. READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you've always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It's a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door!  Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com  and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!  

In today's show I'd like to remind you of some of the foundational principles I use to grow my wealth. I'll discuss things that "always worked" rather than things that are working now. Now to be clear… this is very different from most of what you hear in the news, which basically focuses on short-term investment trends. You know... those headlines that we've been seeing so much of recently - the top 10 areas to invest in 2025, the top 5 lessons from 2024, what's ahead for interest rates or where's the next hotspot. I also discuss the difference between expectations and forecasts and provide insights into the current market dynamics and future outlook for property investment to give you some clarity in the chaos of the many mixed messages in the media. Takeaways Focus on long-term investment strategies rather than short-term trends. Recognize the behaviour gap between intentions and actions. Successful investing requires patience and discipline. Building a strong team of independent advisors is crucial for property investment success. Expectations should guide your investment strategy; they are more useful than forecasts. The property market is cyclical; prepare for downturns and upturns. Investment-grade properties are key to long-term wealth creation. Current market conditions present unique opportunities for savvy investors with a long term focus. Understanding market dynamics can help mitigate risks. Strategic planning is essential for achieving financial goals in property investment. Chapters 07:15 Key Investment Principles 13:06 Expectations vs. Forecasts 18:00 Current Market Opportunities 22:17 Understanding the Behavior Gap 23:43 Recognizing and Closing the Gap 24:27 Introduction to Real Estate Investment 24:28 Understanding Market Trends and Analysis 24:32 Introduction to the Podcast and Demographics Decoded 25:52 Special Offers and Resources for Listeners 27:15 Understanding Property Investment Strategies   Links and Resources:    Michael Yardney    Get the team at Metropole to help build your personal Strategic Property Plan Click here and have a chat with us    Join us at Wealth Retreat - Australia's Premier Wealth Retreat for Elite Investors and Business People www.WealthRetreat.com.au     Get a bundle of eBooks and Reports at www.PodcastBonus.com.au     Also, please subscribe to my new podcast Demographics Decoded with Simon Kuestenmacher – just look for  Demographics Decoded wherever you are listening to this podcast and subscribe so each week we can unveil the trends shaping your future.    Shownotes plus more here: 5 ways I'm going to ensure my property investments outperform this property cycle      

In this episode, Coach Brendan Suhr is joined by John Bloom, author of Strength in Numbers. Bloom shares the inspiration behind his book, which features insights from 108 coaches across various sports, including head coaches, assistant coaches, and strength and conditioning specialists. He discusses the impact of his 12-question framework, inspired by Tim Ferriss's Tribe of Mentors, to uncover the philosophies, struggles, and successes of elite coaches. Bloom highlights key themes from the book, such as balancing character development with winning, handling burnout, and the importance of vulnerability and self-evaluation for coaches. His conversations with legendary figures like Anson Dorrance emphasize that building character does not have to come at the expense of winning.Coach Bloom also reflects on the role of strength and conditioning in establishing a team's culture and how his background influenced the book's broader focus on leadership and impact. He talks about the lessons learned from interviewing a diverse group of coaches and how the book serves as an encyclopedia of coaching wisdom. With practical advice for young coaches on leadership, dealing with adversity, and finding mentorship, this episode offers a comprehensive look into what it takes to succeed in coaching at any level. All that and more on Episode 290 of the Coaching U Podcast, presented by Noah Basketball.Noah Basketball is trusted by 28 NBA teams, over 200 NCAA programs, and over 1,000 high school programs to capture and analyze key shooting metrics to help your players perfect their shot and reach their max potential.Learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠noahbasketball.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Special Offers!Save 20% on your subscription to Coaching U+Use promo code PODCAST20 at checkout.Learn more: coachingulive.com/plusFastModel Sports:Save 15% on FastDraw or other FastModel products with promo code COACHINGU15 at checkout.Visit fastmodelsports.com to learn more!

Women often put everyone else first—until betrayal forces them to rethink everything. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle and forensic accountant Tracy Coenen break down why investing in yourself isn't just necessary—it's critical for financial security, emotional well-being, and reclaiming your power after infidelity or divorce. From finding hidden assets to making empowered financial choices, this episode is packed with insights to help you confidently navigate this transition. Top 3 Takeaways: You only get one shot at a fair divorce settlement – learn how to advocate for yourself and make informed decisions. Most women feel financially overwhelmed – but simple steps (like getting account statements) can empower you. Investing in expert support saves money & stress – discover why strategic financial and emotional investments pay off big time. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth.  

If you're like many property investors, you've had more than your share of frustrations over the last couple of years, including the increased cost of maintaining your property with rising interest rates and mortgage costs, council rates, insurance and ever-changing legislative environment that seems to be favouring tenants more and more. Today I'm joined by Leanne Jopson, national director property management at Metropole to discuss some recent shifts in our rental markets and changes to our tenancy laws across Australia. The conversation highlights the evolving landscape of rental properties and the necessity for investors to adapt to these changes to maximize their returns. Takeaways The rental legislation has shifted in favour of tenants recently. Property owners are facing more challenges due to new regulations. Compliance with legislation is essential to avoid penalties. Understanding tenant rights is crucial for property investors. Minimum standards for rental properties are becoming stricter. Legislative changes are impacting how often rents can be increased. Property management is much more complex than just collecting rents. AI can assist in property management but cannot replace human relationships. Investing in property requires a business mindset. Strategic planning is key to successful property investment. Chapters 00:30 Understanding Recent Shifts in Rental Markets 01:25 Current State of the Rental Market 09:25 Legislative Changes Impacting Landlords 18:21 Minimum Standards and Compliance Challenges 27:12 Water Usage Regulations and Responsibilities 32:28 The Importance of Property Management 34:29 The Power of Useful Beliefs 36:47 Shifting Perspectives for Problem Solving 38:30 Special Offers and Resources for Listeners   Links and Resources:   Metropole's Strategic Property Plan – to help both beginning and experienced investors    Leanne Jopson – National Director Property Management at Metropole    Get a bundle of free reports and eBooks – www.PodcastBonus.com.au     Also, please subscribe to my new podcast Demographics Decoded with Simon Kuestenmacher – just look for Demographics Decoded wherever you are listening to this podcast and subscribe so each week we can unveil the trends shaping your future.    Shownotes plus more here: An Investor's Guide to Rental Reforms: The Tide Turns To Tenants with Leanne Jopson  

In This Episode Katie Crane explores how Virtual Assistants (VAs) can help Pilates professionals streamline operations, cut costs, and reclaim valuable time. Running a studio is more than just teaching—it's about creating a sustainable business that allows you to focus on your passion Katie is joined by Kristy Smith, founder of Virtual Elves, to discuss the power of outsourcing, the ethical impact of hiring a VA, and practical steps to get started. What You'll Learn in This Episode:

If you've ever wondered why some people seem to climb the ladder of wealth with ease while others feel stuck in the rat race despite earning a decent living, today's show is for you. In this show Brett Warren and I discuss the habits that shape success and the mindset required to achieve financial freedom. We're diving into the ideas behind my international best selling book, Rich Habits Poor Habits, where I explore the simple but powerful habits that separate the rich from the average person. This episode could change the way you think about money, success, and your own potential – seriously!  Takeaways Your thoughts lead to your feelings, your feelings lead to your actions and your actions lead to your results. In other words your outside world is a reflection of your inner world Believe it or not - wealth is a journey that requires specific habits. Most people remain in the rat race due to poor money habits. Understanding the hierarchy of wealth – the 5 levels of wealth - can guide your financial journey. The average person often blames external factors for their financial situation. Complaining and being negative hinders your success and opportunities. Delayed gratification is a key principle for wealth accumulation. Enthusiasm for your work can lead to sustained success. Surrounding yourself with the right people is essential. Wealth Retreat offers valuable insights and networking opportunities. Chapters 04:35 Understanding the Rat Race 07:20 The Mindset of the Wealthy 10:15 The Five Levels of Wealth 13:01 Moving from Financial Instability to Stability 16:03 Common Financial Mistakes 19:09 The Importance of Education and Mentorship 21:44 Why Wealthy People Keep Working 24:36 The Value of Wealth Retreats 27:59 The Dangers of Complaining 30:44 Focusing on Opportunities Over Difficulties 31:07 Introduction to Real Estate Investment 31:07 Understanding Market Trends 31:12 Introduction to the Podcast and Demographics Decoded 32:32 Special Offers and Resources for Listeners 33:54 Understanding Property Investment Strategies   Links and Resources:    Michael Yardney    Get the team at Metropole to help build your personal Strategic Property Plan Click here and have a chat with us    Brett Warren - National Director of Property at Metropole    Join us at Wealth Retreat - Australia's Premier Wealth Retreat for Elite Investors and Business People www.WealthRetreat.com.au     Collect your bundle of free eBooks and property reports – www.Podcastbonus.com.au      Also, please subscribe to my new podcast Demographics Decoded with Simon Kuestenmacher – just look for Demographics Decoded wherever you are listening to this podcast and subscribe so each week we can unveil the trends shaping your future.    Shownotes plus more here: How The Wealthy Stay Ahead: The Habits That Build Fortunes, with Brett Warren 

After infidelity, you don't just want to survive—you want to reclaim yourself, maybe your relationship, and thrive. Join Lora Cheadle, infidelity recovery advocate, and believer that women do not need to stuck in the devastation of betrayal forever, alongside renowned relationship therapist Terry Real, as they challenge misconceptions, cut through the noise, and help you take back your power. In this episode, Terry Real breaks down why traditional therapy often fails betrayed partners, the difference between individual and relational empowerment, and how to advocate for yourself without getting stuck in blame or resentment. Whether you're staying or leaving, you'll learn to transform your pain into a catalyst for joy, confidence, and the life you truly deserve. Top 3 Takeaways: Infidelity is a trauma, not a failure. Your pain is real, and healing starts with acknowledging the depth of your experience. Healing is about transformation, not just survival. The goal isn't returning to what was—it's creating something better, whether with or without your partner. Empowerment is relational, not individual. True healing comes when you reclaim your voice, set boundaries, and cultivate relationships that support your growth. Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth.  

In this episode, Coach Brendan Suhr is joined by Ben McCollum, head coach of Drake University men's basketball. McCollum, known for his unprecedented success at Northwest Missouri State with four national championships, shares insights into his transition to Drake, where he has led the Bulldogs to an impressive 26-3 start in his first season at the helm. He discusses the challenges of building a program quickly, the impact of bringing both his assistant coaches and key players from Division II, the importance of recruiting high-character athletes, the power of adaptability, as well as how his team's style of play has evolved based on personnel while maintaining a focus on efficiency, toughness, and attention to detail.Coach McCollum also dives into his philosophy on 'the process,' drawing from coaching legends like Nick Saban and Bill Belichick by stressing championship-level effort every day rather than fixating on wins and losses. He offers practical advice for young coaches on navigating the job market, handling rejection, and staying true to their coaching identity. McCollum's reflections on leadership, culture, and the value of finding the right fit make this episode a must-listen for coaches at every level. All that and more on Episode 289 of the Coaching U Podcast, presented by Noah Basketball.Noah Basketball is trusted by 28 NBA teams, over 200 NCAA programs, and over 1,000 high school programs to capture and analyze key shooting metrics to help your players perfect their shot and reach their max potential.Learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠noahbasketball.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Special Offers!Save 20% on your subscription to Coaching U+Use promo code PODCAST20 at checkout.Learn more: coachingulive.com/plusFastModel Sports:Save 15% on FastDraw or other FastModel products with promo code COACHINGU15 at checkout.Visit fastmodelsports.com to learn more!

Can science explain the breakdown of relationships after betrayal—and the path to rebuilding love? In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle sits down with Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, to uncover the biological and emotional dynamics that shape relationships. Dr. Gray reveals the hidden role of hormones in attraction, trust, and intimacy, explaining why betrayal impacts men and women differently. He shares actionable biohacks to restore connection, reignite passion, and help couples move from survival to sovereignty in their relationships. Whether you're recovering from infidelity or simply looking to strengthen your partnership, this episode is packed with science-backed strategies to create lasting love. Top 3 Takeaways:   Why men and women experience betrayal differently – and how hormonal imbalances fuel emotional disconnection. The surprising power of small acts – how daily, five-minute gestures can rebuild trust and intimacy. How to ‘biohack' your relationship – simple techniques to increase testosterone in men and estrogen in women for greater love and desire.  

What if the person claiming to guide your spiritual awakening was actually casting a spell to keep you under their control? When coaching becomes cult-like, it's not just unethical—it's dangerous. We need to talk about this.In the second episode of our "Bewitched" series, I sit down with Dr. Robyn McKay to dive even deeper into our shared experience with a toxic spiritual mentor—"Betty". This is not just another story about a bad coach. It's a look behind the curtain at manipulative practices, coercive control, and outright abuse of power that too often hide behind the guise of spiritual mentoring.We unpack how boundary violations, emotional manipulation, and trauma bonding created a confusion matrix that left us questioning our own sanity. Robyn shares her story of being subtly coerced into energetic agreements she didn't fully understand, and how a simple request was actually the start of a much darker dynamic.We expose the cult-like tactics used to create a high-control environment, where fear of retribution, public shaming, and gaslighting were commonplace. We shine a light on the psychodrama that unfolded, including bizarre retreats where we were starved, sleep-deprived, and encouraged to engage in spiritual warfare against imagined enemies.If you think spiritual abuse is something that could never happen to you, think again. This conversation isn't just about what we went through—it's about helping you spot the red flags, trust your intuition, and break free from toxic dynamics. TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS(00:00) Intro(00:52) In Today's Episode...Robyn McKay(02:18) A Greater Healing For The Collective(05:40) Special Offers(07:51) Robyn's Background and Initial Experience with "Betty"(14:29) The Power Differential and Boundary Issues(19:03) Questioning Actions and Dual Relationships(26:28) The Denver Retreat: The Spell(35:08) Two Truths, One Lie(40:13) The San Diego Retreat: Spiritual Warfare(49:51) The Aftermath and Ethical Concerns(52:35) Trauma Bonding and Realizations - Questioning the Benefits(59:31) Santa Fe's Turning Point - The Charlatan(01:17:36) The Croatia Retreat - Paranoia and Psychodrama**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**Leave a review, send us a screenshot and get a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world.The Metamorphosis Method starts February 27th and you can still enroll. Master my proven methodology to guide your clients to rapidly and efficiently transmute lifetimes of familial and ancestral trauma. Jump on a call with me to learn more.The Mothership  Join today and gain access to all my programs, trainings, and masterclasses—past, present, and future.CONTACT ROBYN drrobynmckay.com Follow her on InstagramListen to her podcast She{ology}Or contact her directly at robyn@drrobynmckay.comCONTACT ALYSEJoin my FB groupIG @alyse_breathesVisit alysebreathes.cominfo@alysebreathes.com

In this episode, Lora Cheadle welcomes Dr. Ray Doktor, a life and relationship coach, to explore the deep emotional work required to heal from betrayal. Together, they unpack why men often struggle to express emotions, how women can stop waiting for a partner's “potential,” and the self-sabotaging patterns that keep people stuck. Top 3 Takeaways: Healing Starts with You – Infidelity shakes your sense of self, but recovery begins by turning inward and rebuilding your relationship with yourself. Wishful Thinking vs. Reality – Many women hold onto their partner's “potential,” but true healing comes from accepting who they really are, not who you wish they could be. Men and Emotional Avoidance – Many men avoid deep emotional work, opting for quick-fix pleasure (cheating, drinking, distractions) over true healing. A thriving relationship requires both partners to grow together.  

We said that this year at Pro Organizer Studio was going to be a focus on how we can help you with your SEO--which is THE best way for people to find your organizing business. We are introducing something to help you with that! LINK YOU NEED: organizernearme.com/advertise Unlocking the Potential of SEO for Professional Organizers: Introducing Organizer Near Me  Melissa and Cabri are excited to announce their new venture, OrganizerNearMe.com, a platform designed to help professional organizers enhance their SEO and connect with clients. The pod covers the importance of SEO, the benefits of joining Organizer Near Me, and how it differs from other lead generation services. They also touch on the significance of making SEO more approachable and highlight a special promotion for podcast listeners. Additionally, Cabri shares insights about her recent business ventures, emphasizing the value of selling a business. This episode is a must-listen for professional organizers looking to grow their business effectively.  00:00 Welcome to the Pro Organizer Studio Podcast 00:42 Special Announcement with Cabri Caldwell 01:32 The Importance of Partnerships in Business 03:01 Introducing Organizer Near Me 03:41 The Power of SEO for Organizers 04:14 How Organizer Near Me Works 06:50 Benefits of Joining Organizer Near Me 22:05 Special Offers for Podcast Listeners 25:24 Expanding Business Ventures 30:58 Final Thoughts and Farewell

In this episode, Lora Cheadle dives deep into the emotional and physical complexities of intimacy after betrayal. Whether you're feeling completely turned off or caught in the cycle of hyperbonding, this episode will help you stop judging yourself, understand your emotional triggers, and shift your mindset around sex and self-worth. Learn how to reconnect with your body, reclaim your power, and move toward intimacy on your terms. Plus, Lora shares a three-week plan to help you navigate your emotions and rediscover desire in a way that feels safe, authentic, and freeing. Top 3 Takeaways: Where You Are is Normal – Whether you feel disgusted, avoidant, or desperate to reconnect, your reaction to infidelity is a normal response to an abnormal situation. Healing starts with accepting where you are without judgment. Rebuilding Desire is About You, Not Your Partner – The key to getting the spark back isn't forcing yourself into intimacy—it's about reconnecting with your own pleasure, confidence, and body. Flirting, movement, and self-care are for you, not to "win" your partner's attention. You Deserve Joy, Love, and Pleasure – Infidelity doesn't define you. You have the right to set boundaries, to enjoy intimacy when it feels right, and to explore new, healthier dynamics in your relationship—on your terms.

She's talented, she's dedicated, but something's holding her back… and it's not her skills. If you've ever watched your daughter struggle with confidence, perfectionism, or bouncing back from mistakes on the field, this episode is for you. As a parent, it's heartbreaking to see your girl spiral after a setback, or hear her talk herself down after a game. You've told her she's good enough, she's strong enough, but how can you actually help her believe it?This episode will give you the tools to help her break free from self-doubt and start playing with the confidence she deserves!Here's what we cover in this episode:How to help your athlete bounce back from mistakes using the “Bounce Back in a Snap” method.Why perfectionism is holding her back, and how to help her release the pressure.The power of flipping negative self-talk into productive, confidence-building thoughts.Real-life Q&A with sports moms like you, plus expert advice.A special, limited-time offer for the Elite Mental Game program that's designed to quickly strengthen your daughter's mental game and confidence.Don't wait – this episode is only up for 48 hours! Listen now to learn how you can support your athlete's mental game, and unlock a 50% discount on the Elite Mental Game program before the offer ends this Friday, January 31st!Listen to the full episode now and empower your girl to play with confidence – both in sports and in life.Episode Highlights: [00:00] Raising Confident and Mentally Strong Girl Athletes. This is a 48-hour special, featuring a live training session on strengthening an athlete's mental game.[03:20] Common Challenges Faced by Athletes. Discussing the common concerns of parents about their daughters' handling of sports and life challenges.[05:14] Misconceptions About Building Confidence. Debunking common misconceptions about building confidence in athletes, such as relying on coaches or expecting confidence to develop naturally.[07:56] The Unstoppable Athlete Method. Introducing the Unstoppable Athlete Method, a solution used to coach high school volleyball teams.[10:38] Bounce Back in a Snap. The Bounce Back in a Snap method, which helps athletes recover from mistakes quickly.[23:05] Releasing the Pressure Athletes Feel. Discussing the pressure athletes feel, including perfectionism, comparison, and pregame anxiety and understanding the concept of noticing and shifting thoughts to release the pressure.[34:13] Flipping Negative Mindset. The challenge of athletes turning positive feedback into negative self-talk. Understanding negativity bias and the importance of self-trust in building confidence.[42:40] The Role of Parents in Mental Training. The importance of parents in shaping their children's environment and providing opportunities for mental training. And tips for parents to improve their own self-talk and support their children's mental training.[42:50] The Elite Mental Game Program. Introducing the Elite Mental Game program, a self-paced mental training system for girl athletes.[01:08:27] Live Support and Bonuses. Introducing the live support and bonuses included in the Elite Mental Game program.[01:08:07] Enrollment and Special Offers. Details on how to enroll in the Elite Mental Game program, including the enrollment checkout process.Next Steps: EMG Winter Enrollment is happening NOW! -50% off the program-Ditch the Drama training bundle for FREE-FREE ticket to our Peak Performance Clinic "How to Stay Motivated Through the Grind"Https://elitecompetitor.com/emgspecialDiscount + Bonuses Expire January 31st!

Episode 286 hosts Sam McEwin (Director of BizWisdom) from Melbourne, Australia. BizWisdom is an outcome-focused marketing agency who help reduce the burden of an increasingly complex digital landscape. We discuss the importance of using compliant strategies in digital marketing given the current regulations for cosmetic clinics. Sam shares his insights into reaching new clients, retaining existing ones, and standing out in a commoditized and competitive landscape. Our conversation covers the impact of SEO, social media, and email marketing, as well as unique tactics such as podcast advertising and direct mail. The episode provides valuable advice for small business owners on how to allocate budgets, create cohesive marketing strategies, and effectively use various channels to amplify their message.    00:00 Introduction   00:17 Guest Introduction: Sam & Biz Wisdom   01:12 Challenges in Aesthetic Marketing   02:11 Digital Marketing Strategies for Clinics   04:47 Understanding SEO and Paid Ads   07:02 The Importance of Diversified Marketing Channels   09:27 Building Trust Through Podcasts and TV Ads   16:37 Back to Basics: Traditional Marketing Techniques   20:45 Creating a Comprehensive Marketing Strategy   35:57 How Google Works: Enhancing Your Online Presence   40:54 Understanding Google's Intent   41:47 The Evolution of SEO Algorithms   44:12 Entity SEO and Authority Building   46:14 Consistency in Digital Strategy   52:42 Budgeting for Effective Marketing   01:03:21 Retention Strategies and Customer Engagement   01:08:33 Effective Communication Channels   01:14:04 Special Offers and Conclusion   JOIN OUR LISTENER WHATSAPP GROUP & SEND US YOUR COMMENTS, SUGGESTIONS OR JUST SAY HI! JOIN OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE SUBSCRIBER-ONLY PODCASTS, WEEKLY EDUCATIONAL CONTENT & JOIN OUR WHATSAPP COMMUNITY CLICK HERE TO BROWSE OUR IA OFFERS FOR DISCOUNTS & SPECIALS CLICK HERE IF YOU'RE A BRAND OR COMPANY & WANT TO WORK WITH US CLICK HERE TO APPLY TO BE A GUEST ON OUR PODCAST CONTACT US

Info about the travel agency: https://www.lindsaydollinger.com/travel In this episode of the Purpose, Profits, and Pixie Dust Podcast, host Lindsay Dollinger discusses her exciting new journey of diving deeper into the travel industry and starting her own travel agency. Lindsay, a successful entrepreneur and high school Spanish teacher who has built multiple six-figure businesses, shares her plan to integrate travel advisory services into her business model. She aims to assist women entrepreneurs, especially those interested in travel, to achieve financial freedom and live life on their terms. Lindsay also outlines upcoming plans for the podcast, including episodes focused on lead generation and more travel-specific content. She highlights her recent experiences, including attending PodFest in Orlando and planning her YouTube channel dedicated to educating travel agents. Additionally, Lindsay shares her intention to offer retreats and travel planning services while continuing to support women entrepreneurs. Tune in to learn about her strategic shifts, upcoming events, and how she plans to help others succeed in their entrepreneurial journeys. 00:00 Welcome to Purpose, Profits, and Pixie Dust 01:09 Exciting Upcoming Events and Guest Interviews 03:35 A Weekend at PodFest and Disney Adventures 07:15 My Journey as a Travel Agent 12:39 Building a Travel Agency Team 18:26 New Focus and Future Plans 24:04 Special Offers and Final Thoughts Connect with Lindsay: Learn more about the travel agent business or get quotes for a trip: https://www.lindsaydollinger.com/travel Join the Confident and Ambitious Mastermind: https://www.lindsaydollinger.com/mastermind Connect with Lindsay: https://www.lindsaydollinger.com Get your ticket to Purpose, Profits, and Pixie Dust Live here: https://lindsaydollinger.regfox.com/purpose-profits-and-pixie-dust-live Get 10% off your order at https://www.bellablingshop.com with code PODCAST Tag @purposeprofitsandpixiedust on IG when you listen and share the show! Please subscribe to the show and leave a quick review! Appreciate you!