Podcasts about argument hangover

In this episode of Marriage Made Easier, we welcome Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, the dynamic duo behind the viral marriage resources that reach 8–10 million couples each month. With close to a million followers on their social media (@meetthefreemans), they've become a trusted name for couples looking to strengthen their connection and navigate the complexities of marriage. During our conversation, Jocelyn and Aaron share their love story and the lessons they've learned along their journey, offering practical insights that can help couples prioritize their relationship amidst life's challenges. As sought-after marriage coaches, authors of The Argument Hangover®, and founders of Empowered Couples University, the Freemans have worked with thousands of couples—including celebrity clients—helping them thrive in every season of marriage. We also dive into their mission to lower the divorce rate by fostering healthier relationships and happier homes, driven by their belief in modeling healthy love for the next generation. Don't miss this heartfelt and inspiring episode! Explore more of their resources for couples here: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/links Relationship Resources: Explore Kinectin, the ultimate relationship cheat code: https://kinectin.com Join our 30-Day Couples Challenge: https://www.marriagemadeeasier.com/intentionalcouplechallenge Get our couples conversation cards: btscards.com

Join us in this enlightening episode of "Empowered Couples" as we dive into the transformative journey of Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman, relationship experts and authors of "The Argument Hangover." Discover the secrets behind their decade-long marriage and their strategies to foster healthy, thriving relationships. In this episode, we explore: The Concept of Limerence: Understand why people become obsessively infatuated with someone and how this state of mind impacts daily life. Attachment Styles: Learn about the different attachment styles, including dismissive avoidant and anxious, and how they shape relationship dynamics. Healthy Communication: Aaron and Jocelyn share their insights on healthy communication, assertiveness, and flexibility, emphasizing the importance of balancing these traits in relationships. The Argument Hangover: Discover what the argument hangover is, why it occurs, and how to effectively manage and repair relationships after conflicts. The 5 R's of Repair: A detailed breakdown of their unique repair process, focusing on reflection, responsibility, and reconnecting to strengthen relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode offers valuable tools and actionable strategies to enhance your connection and communication with your partner. Tune in to gain practical insights and start implementing changes that lead to a more fulfilling and harmonious relationship. Subscribe to The Thais Gibson podcast for more expert advice on personal development and relationships. Share this episode with friends and family to help them on their journey to better relationships. Find The Freemans Online: Website: www.meetthefreemans.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/meet_thefreemans TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@meet_thefreemans Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-07-22-24&el=podcast Cut your wireless bill to just $15 a month by using the link below: http://mintmobile.com/Thais Let's connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/

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How to Avoid the Argument Hangover with Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman are known as "the couple that coaches couples."  Their newest book, The Argument Hangover, provides a no BS approach to fighting smarter and reconnecting faster after disagreements, and learning to communicate your needs and feelings in a way that works for you and your partner. In this week's episode, we discuss the 3 stages of conflict and how to fight smarter in your relationship, how to bring up challenging conversations with your partner, without them getting triggered and how to keep Argument Hangovers from ruining the most important relationships in your life. I promise you do NOT want to miss this interview. Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

So excited to welcome Jocelyn Freeman to the podcast. Her and her husband, Aaron, are marriage coaches and hosts of The Couples Workshop, the Empowered Couples Podcast and authors of The Argument Hangover. Topics we discus: Cultivating a thriving business with your partner in a marriage. Strategies to create viral content - when was the moment you realized that "whoa my content is really starting to catapult". Creating massive growth personally and professionally while also building a strong relationship. Mistakes you see women make in marriage and what to do instead.... Love is blind and what she notices with experimental shows like that.   Hope you enjoyed this episode! If you have a second I would love if you could rate and review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Follow The Freemans @meet_thefreemans Apply to the Six Figure Circle Mastermind!

Do you want to achieve MASSIVE personal & professional growth WITHOUT sacrificing your relationships? I'm so excited to welcome the incredible Jocelyn Freeman back to the podcast for a girls' chat all about marriage, self-development, and viral content creation! For those of you who don't know yet, Jocelyn, alongside her husband, Aaron, are Marriage Coaches and hosts of The Couples Workshop, the Empowered Couples Podcast, and authors of The Argument Hangover. Today, we're getting raw & real as we explore the identity shifts, inner-work, mindset + more it truly takes to build a thriving lifestyle. Jocelyn shares her expertise, from the strategies to create viral content for your business + how to flourish in your marriage as a team (even during the most challenging seasons)! Tune in for a peek into the successes and the hard moments that made us powerhouse women!   HIGHLIGHTS 01:30 Exploring identity shifts from parenthood & ego evolution + how it affects the way we show up. 08:50 Defining the difference between self-confidence and self-acceptance. 12:50 The foundational inner-work necessary for building + expanding a convicted vision. 20:15 How to flourish in your marriage, foster a “team perspective” + thrive even during the most challenging seasons. 27:45 Jocelyn's key content strategies behind massive growth, momentum + virality. 34:50 The real impact of viral content creation strategies on business + connections. 41:05 Embrace the hard moments to get to the other side wiser. 46:55 Celebrating Jocelyn's powerful love for her daughter.   RESOURCES + LINKS Click HERE to text the word MENTOR to (602) 536-7829 for weekly business + mindset tips delivered straight to your phone!   Powerhouse Women is a COMMUNITY and YOU are part of it! Take a screenshot of this episode and tag us on Instagram so we can keep the conversation going and create more of the episodes you need!    FOLLOW Jocelyn: @Meet_TheFreemans Learn more at Meet the Freemans: MeetTheFreemans.com/Links   Powerhouse Women: @powerhouse_women Lindsey: @llindseyschwartz Hannah: @hannahmwells Visit the Powerhouse Women website: powerhousewomen.co Join the PW Community Facebook Group: facebook.com/groups/powerhousewomencommunity  

Have you ever noticed that men are often "blindsided" by divorce? Too many men seem to be losing their wive's hearts without realizing it until it's too late. If you want to avoid that fate, this week's 10-minute equipping episode is for you. In this episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the 9-part "Couple's Meeting" framework outlined in Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman's excellent book, "The Argument Hangover." [Check out the book here: ] Watch our interview with Aaron Freeman .

Do you fight with your wife about the same things over and over? Does a fight sometimes derail your intimacy for days or weeks? You're experiencing an Argument Hangover! In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Aaron Freeman, co-author of the book "The Argument Hangover." Aaron shares practical tips for how to shorten that disconnect after a fight, and teaches you how you can fight with your wife in a way that will bring you closer together instead of further apart.

In this heartfelt podcast episode, you'll explore the crucial difference between falling in love and staying in love. The hosts share insightful points on making your partner feel seen, appreciated, adored, respected, and accepted over time. They also emphasize the importance of navigating the natural ebbs and flows of intimacy, remaining receptive to each other's needs, course-correcting when necessary, and investing the effort required for enduring love. This episode provides you with a roadmap to cultivate a deep, lasting connection with your partner, reminding you that love is a journey, and staying in love is an ongoing commitment, regardless of the stage of your relationship.   Resources: Use this link to find our top communication and conflict resolution resources and guides. https://www.meetthefreemans.com/links    FREE BOOK for reviews: Want us to personally sign and mail you a copy of our book, The Argument Hangover? For EVERY SINGLE one of you that writes a review for our podcast, or emails us about how our guides or challenges have benefited you, we will send this book. Due to shipping restrictions, this applies to those in the United States. For those of you outside the U.S., we will send you the E-Book plus a bonus thank you gift. Just email us the review: connect@newpowercouples.com  

If you are striving for more growth, intimacy, communication, dreaming, and adventure in your relationship than this is your episode.  It's a juicy one, so tune in with your significant other ASAP!   We are sharing some of our top tips and strategies that we use personally to design a life we truly love. It's like we are pulling back the curtain on the good, the bad, and the amazing around how we have grown our relationship for the last 20 years, traveling, kids, health, communication, boundaries, personal growth, visioning, sex and more!   Resources: Apply for the Couples Expansion Experience with Joal and Carmen HERE! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/10rG-VOM3GJTWSAlXe5E_DkYoOYZnBghYPrlZbCvIuOU/viewform?edit_requested=true   Check out the book we mention The Argument Hangover by the Freemans HERE! https://www.amazon.com/dp/1510763414?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_W4SHHKSFMW9YNG7RFPT6   Connect: Facebook Community   https://www.facebook.com/groups/carmenohling.eat.move.live   Carmen's Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/carmenohling/   Permission Slip Community Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/permissionslipcommunity/   Website   https://carmenohling.com/

Food that is “bland” isn't bad or inedible, it just lacks any zest or real flavor. Marriage can take on a similar feeling too, it's not that anything is a major problem, but you are not feeling any real zest, excitement, or even newness.  As you will hear in this episode, all relationships will find themselves in this type of season for some specific reasons. You will also hear some examples, that might even be happening for you now, that signify that you need to take these steps to bring in some freshness, newness, and intentionally to your zest for life and each other!   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument so you reconnect in minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Watch our free webclass on: End the Battle for Fairness to align relationship roles, reduce overwhelm, and be a united team again. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training).

This is a bit of a celebration episode for us personally… Just in the past week this podcast broke into the Top 20 relationship podcasts on Apple, we went over 100,000 followers on Instagram, and we had over 500 couples join the Fight Smarter Weblcass! (by the way if you missed the weblcass you can watch it again with this link) As you can imagine for us, we are very proud and excited, plus we have been receiving SO many questions from all the new couples in this relationship ecosystem. So this episode is focused on the 5 top questions we have been receiving over DMs and through emails from all this new activity.  We are doing this in part so that the one thing WE KNOW, you can come to know too… That most couples are really dealing with the same kinds of challenges. Though the circumstances and emotional responses might be different, many of the relationship themes are the same. This is so that you know you are not alone in what you go through!   Resources For Your Relationship: If you missed the Fight Smarter Weblcass you can watch it again with this link. The best parenting and discipline course we have found is from a good friend Amy McCready called Positive Parenting Solutions. The Communication Mastery Bundle course for you and your partner to grow closer together, communicate more effectively, and fight smarter! Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

We are just off hosting the Couples Workshop in Arizona yesterday, and this was one of the biggest takeaways from the ½ day in person event. Communication seems easy when you only think of it as “verbalizing what you are thinking”. But this often leads to the biggest communication mistake that turns simple conversations into an argument.  In this episode we will give you the inside look at the most effective communication tool that we teach at the Couples Workshop and in our coaching. By changing your very first sentence to your partner you can stay on the same team together and support each other in fulfilling your relationship needs and wants!   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here

Do you feel like life is piling things onto you and your partner right now? There are defintely seasons where a lot of hard things can hit you all at once which really makes it difficult to stay positive and stay connected as a team. In this solo episode you will hear from Jocelyn to get two things to do in seasons like these. Everything, even challenges, are temporary. But use these two things so you can stay connected until the ride is over!    Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here.   Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here

We are so excited to have special guests Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman on talking about their book The Argument Hangover. They give us some great tips from their book on how to reconcile from an argument. Don't miss this episode!You can find The Argument Hangover on our website at www.marriagepuzzle.com/booksGo check out The Freemans here:Instagram: @meet_thefreemansWebsite: www.meetthefreemans.comWe release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the complex marriage puzzle to go from being overwhelmed to being secure in your marriage. Facebook: @marriagepuzzleInstagram: @marriagepuzzleWebsite: www.marriagepuzzle.comMusic Credit:Beachtown BopWritten By - Dean William Palya, Jr.Artist Name: PALA

Have you had the experience of being inspired for a short amount of time, then realize something was missing to actually create the actual change you wanted in your life and marriage? Or how about with your partner... have you been frustrated because they say they are doing to make a change, only to fall back into the same patterns in just a few weeks?  This can be frustrating for both you and your partner, especially when they have said real change was going to happen and it doesn't. You lose a little bit of hope and trust in them. So in this episode you are going to hear about 3 things that your marriage requires to create that real and lasting change that you really want.    Resources For Your Relationship: Join the brand new Couples Experience program starting Sept 1st, 2022. Read the details that you heard in the episode and register within the next 2 weeks. Then you can start your relationship assessment, book the ‘results call' with us, begin the program, and block your calendar for the first community session!   If the date for registration has passed then you can order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Trips to see your in-laws… these are supposed to be times of fun, connection, and relaxation. Yet many times they can be quite the opposite. You might feel drained, depleted, constrained from being yourself and what you really want to do, and end up ending the trip without it being what you really wanted and would have fulfilled you. The core reason for this is blurred or crossed boundaries. In this episode you will hear, after we just went on a trip to see our families, the categories of boundaries, why they get crossed, the reasons you do not bring them up, and some tips to create more harmony on your trips to see family.   Resources For Your Relationship: Get $50 OFF The Live Couples Workshop which now you can attend from anywhere in the world, to enhance your communication skills together. Use code: podcast50   Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here

The most important thing in relationships is repairing and resolving conflicts. Because conflicts WILL happen, it's not about the amount or even having them. Now true repair is not necessarily an easy thing, because of the emotion you both have, the different perspectives you have, and the complex dynamics that happen from making a few mistakes.  These mistakes leave you feeling unresolved, that it's your fault, blamed, or forced to move on and get past it. In all cases you don't feel understood or confident that anything will change or keep this from happening again. In this episode you will hear the mistakes that keep you from truly repairing after having arguments, so that you can effectively do the most important thing for your relationship... actually repair from conflicts!   Resources For Your Relationship: Get $50 OFF The Live Couples Workshop which now you can attend from anywhere in the world, to enhance your communication skills together. Use code: podcast50 Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here.

Having frustrations and feelings of resentment over your roles and responsibilities is a common thing we hear. One parter is frustrated about not getting help, then the response they get is: “just tell me what you need me to do” OR “I'm happy to help, just tell me what” OR sometimes “it's your job, you stay at home, I work, so just get it done". This is frustrating for both partners, and triggers defensivness and often a conflict. This is because:  For the partner having to remind: it feels like it's one person's responsibility to “own” the housework. It can feel like parenting your partner.  For the partner feeling blindsided: I just don't see those things, I wish you'd tell me before you get so frustrated, they feel like a lot of emotion comes at them suddenly. In this episode you will hear the main sources of this dynamic and what you can do differently to get back on the same page and feeling supported and loved in the roles and responsibilities you choose.   Resources For Your Relationship: Get $50 OFF The Live Couples Workshop which now you can attend from anywhere in the world, to enhance your communication skills together Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

In this week's episode, Eric connects with Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman (AKA The Freemans) to chat about conflict!Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman (Known as "The Freemans") are authors of The Argument Hangover and creators of The Couples Workshop. Their coaching and training help couples communicate better, repair conflicts faster, and stay connected in any season. They are also hosts of the "Empowered Couples podcast" and parents to a 5-month-old baby. We chat about:➡️ Resentment to change in your life.➡️ The three stages of conflict➡️ The difference between a "time out" and a "walk out" Guest Links:The 5 "R"'s Conlift Repair Webclass mentioned in the episodeThe Freemans InstagramThe Argument Hangover BookThe Empowered Couples PodcastEvolved Marriage Links:FREE EVOLVED MEN'S COLLECTIVE FB GROUPFree RessourcesApply for the Evolved Men's Collective Mastermind

It's pretty clear that world circumstances are making things more difficult right now. For some, maybe more than ever. There are political tensions with countries, a slowing down of the job and economic markets, costs of goods going up, even inequalities that still linger. All of these factors might be having you feel uncertain about the future or even worried or afraid for what might happen next. Either way sometimes you need s a little extra motivation to kick start your day to jar you loose from the slump of doubt, concern, or worry that you feel. This episode is the short and sweet motivational moment you need to get back to being the best person and partner you can be!   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

You probably don't actively think “I have some resentment building up toward my partner”. Resentment is a little like putting small amounts of sand into a backpack over time. You might not notice the weight of the sand in the beginning. Then as time goes on, you might not even notice that the backpack now weighs 50lbs because you've gotten used to it over time.  But resentment is a very unhealthy attitude and feeling toward your partner that will lead to a relationship ending if not dealt with. OK, so even if you are not there yet, the underlying feeling of resentment creates a block to intimacy, fulfillment, and making any progress in your relationship. It can feel like you've been wronged, a sense of bitterness, or being checked out.  In this episode you will hear about how to better identify the early signs of resentment building as well as the empowering way to release, let go, and be able to create a new future of connection and being a team.   Resources For Your Relationship: UNTIL THE 5 SPOTS ARE GONE... You can take your relationship assessment + get a 1 hour results call with us personally! Just message us "I want to do the assessment" to either: Email: connect@newpowercouples.com Text: 602-321-5652 IG DM: meet_thefreemans Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

This is your last chance to attend the online workshop to “Spice Up Your Sex Life”! Attend this 2 hour life changing one on May 29th, 2022 by purchasing The Communication Mastery Bundle and you'll get this as a free bonus HERE. This brings us to the end of the Spice Up Your Sex Life series, and we want to give you our personal update. Becoming parents we recognized how the allocation of time and energy certainly changed. But we were not going to have that be an excuse for us, we knew we had to get more creative. We can honestly say that our intimacy and sex life has improved after being parents, but it was not by accident. With the two other podcasts you have heard, here is how we have brought it all together to have our intimacy be even more satisfying, despite time, energy, or sleep changing.    Resources For Your Relationship: - Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here.   - Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.      

First things first, would you like to attend an online workshop to “Spice Up Your Sex Life”? Attend a 2 hour life changing one in May 2022, with the intimacy coach from last episdoe Ashley Jones, by purchasing The Communication Mastery Bundle and you'll get this as a a free bonus HERE.   Now you might not realize the subtle lifestyle choices that could be impacting your hormones, therefore impacting your sex life. Wait a second... are you saying my desire for my partner could be impacted by my hormones? ... YES! No matter what age range you fall into, you could be experiencing hormonal imbalances but write it off as being “tired” or “not as motivated as before” or “too stressed to want sex.” But you'll hear Dr Sabrina Solt address the common hormonal imbalances that could also be impacting you. You'll walk away with specific new lifestyle changes you can make to positively boost your sex life! After the episode if you know you want more wisdom or specific help from Sabrina, you can learn more and connect with her here: Web: https://drsabrinasolt.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/drsolt/?hl=en   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

There are going to be times that you feel are more challenging in your relationship. This might because of outside circumstances or because of patterns with your partner. There might even by times where it's both.  Tune in for this motivational message around going through a "rough patch" so that you can motivate yourself out of that energy today, and who knows, maybe even positively motivate your partner too!    One thing before you listen.... Would you like to attend an online workshop to “Spice Up Your Sex Life”? Attend a 2 hour life changing one in May 2022 by purchasing The Communication Mastery Bundle and you'll get this as a a free bonus HERE.   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

First of all, would you like to attend an online workshop to “Spice Up Your Sex Life”? Attend a 2 hour life changing one in May 2022 by purchasing The Communication Mastery Bundle and you'll get this as a a free bonus HERE.   Now pause for a minute to think about this... What level of desire and wanting to be intimate with your partner are you currently experiencing? If you notice, desire itself is not always and immediately available in your relationship. In different seasons of life it can feel less or more. So where does it go if it's not as present for each other right now? This podcast interview is with intimacy coach Ashley Jones, the one we did the intimacy workshop with in Hawaii! This episode will give you a whole new perspective on desire, how to create more of it, and remove what blocks it! We promise that you will be excited about exploring intimacy even more together.  After the episode you can learn and connect more with Ashley here: Web: https://www.uplevellove.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/uplevellove/?hl=en   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Limited thinking leaves you feeling as though you have to choose this OR that. Limitless thinking puts you in a creative state to do/be/have this AND that. Tune in for this motivational message that will empower you in any area of life. All you need in times like these is a little extra motivation to kick start your day to jar you loose from the slump of discouragement that you feel. This episode is the short and sweet motivational moment you need to get back to being the best person and partner you can be!   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Have you thought much about legacy? It's a word with a big meaning behind it we know. Many people don't think about this until later in life, yet it can be a very impactful thing right here and now. We will take this one layer deeper even… What is the story of your relationship right now? Does it seem like a comedy, tragedy, drama, or mystery? Whichever it is, is this the legacy you want to create?  In this episode you will reframe how you see the current situations in your relationship as well as understand the aspects of the “Hero's Journey” so that you can create yourself and your partner as the heroes in the story that you are writing and experiencing at the same time!   Resources For Your Relationship: You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.  

We know there are times that you feel discouraged in your relationship, and honestly sometimes it's just about an event in your individual life that isn't going the way you would like. There might even be times that you just feel a general sense of discouragement when you wake up. This feeling isn't from anything specific, but some carry over from the previous days or weeks. Either way all you need in times like these is a little extra motivation to kick start your day to jar you loose from the slump of discouragement that you feel. This episode is the short and sweet motivational moment you need to get back to being the best person and partner you can be!   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

A special opportunity for podcast listeners only at this time! Within the episode you will hear about the 4 Month - Couples Experience Group Workshops and Coaching Program. After you listen, if you are interested to be a part of the live expereince with us and want more detials, message us in 1 of these 3 ways: Email: connect@newpowercouples.com Text: 602-321-5652 IG: @Meet_TheFreemans   In This Episode is a POWERFUL followup to the last episode on arguments: There is a key underlying cycle that happens in every relationship. It is one of the main patterns that cause conflicts and keep them going without you realizing it!  This principle is written about in a book called Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs. It's a very insightful, simple and powerful principle. Personally we listened to the first 3 chapters (on 1.5 speed) and felt we had gotten the point and urgency enough to put it into practice and share with you about it. Without realizing this cycle you will feel as if you are in a trap and can't get out.    Additional Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Register for the FREE Communication WebClass TONIGHT April 12th If you are in Arizona, or close to, registrations for the in person Couples Workshop in Arizona on May 12th, 2022 is now open!    About the Episode: You've had this thought in the middle of an argument right, “what are we really arguing about right now?” This is a very common feeling about being lost or unclear about what is being fought about or what started it. If you think about it, when you find yourself in a place like this, is it likely you can easily find your way out if you don't even know what got you here? Likely not!  But this is not just you, arguments have different layers and if you are unclear, like even about what your desired outcome is, how can you expect to be anything but confused and ineffective?!  That's why in today's episode you are going to hear our takeaways from the book “Thank you for arguing” and how we even used it to understand more about an argument we had (yes it's true we have arguments ourselves!). As you will hear though, all relationships have arguments but there is one key that leads to a healthy relationship, or ones that eventually end!  On top of that you are going to hear the 3 sources of arguments as well as the 3 methods of arguments so that you can better navigate arguments in your own relationship and bring them to a win-win resolution to be more connected and understanding of each other.    Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) The referenced book for the episode: Thank You For Arguing by Jay Heinrichs

NEW COMMUNICATION WEBCLASS on April 12th 2022: Don't miss this live weblcass to end frustrating patterns and better understand each other. https://onlinecouplesworkshops.com/   Is the following communication pattern at all familiar to you? Partner A- attempts to share a feeling or need. Partner B- wasn't prepared and then gets defensive. Partner A- gets triggered by the response and feels invalidated. Partner B- starts shutting down and disengaging. Partner A- gets reactive and brings up the past or blames. Partner B- retreats and withdraws their attention, energy and love for a day or even a few. Imagine if you could finally break this pattern! That is what this episode is all about and you will see a key way to interrupt this pattern to go from disconnection and frustration to connection and understanding.    Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

You know those moments when you're frustrated or disappointed in your partnership? Have you thought about what the ROOT cause of the frustration is? Don't worry, most people we talk to haven't identified it, which is why we're covering it on today's episode. This principle will be ESPECIALLY helpful if you tend to run into the same thing over and over again or you feel like “we'll never see eye to eye on this.” By the end of this episode, you will know exactly what to reflect on personally AND discuss to help eliminate most upsets.  Also, schedule a Relationship Breakthrough Session with us. We take you through our powerful expectation process and you will know how to handle things differently together. Read the details and book one of the 5 spots HERE.   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

We posted this question on IG and got a TON of interesting comments. A bit of a range in answers from “NOPE, definitely not” to “Shouldn't we focus on sacrificial love and put others before ourselves”? So we're going to address some of the nuances of the comments and some specific points to really answer this question. We admit that like a few comments, it's not just a yes or no answer. So in this episode we will cover what needs to be in place and how can needs/wants get communicated to not run into having to sacrifice but find what is best for the relationship.   Resources For Your Relationship: Sign-up for the 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here   Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Not too many people have the most ideal relationship that they would like. Even if your relationship is going well, you are on the same page about the direction of life, you have the jobs and life that you enjoy and you manage things well together... there is still a place you would like to be even a little better. It might seem like this has been a sticking place for a longer period of time and it seems like it is difficult to really make that change. The reason is that this is a subconscious pattern driving the same actions and reactions within you.  In this episode you will hear how to initially access this subconscious pattern and then identify where (in your past) this is coming from.    Resources For Your Relationship: The nature of this subconscious pattern makes it difficult to identify and change on your own. So if you would like support in this area you can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here   Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   PS: for a limited time if you review the book on Amazon, you can be entered into a drawing for a free course from our Empowered Couples University!   

Intimacy is a huge part of a relationship and if you have been listening here for a little while, you know we are big on both emotional intimacy through communication as well as physical intimacy. For many partners too, if emotional intimacy is missing it's hard to want to be physically intimate let alone be able to explore and expand this area. We are always learning and open to expand any of our own limits and boundaries in our own relationship From society you probably think of sex mostly as penetration, or from the purely sexual dynamic. But that's often rushed without the consideration of the other styles of intimacy. When the energetics aren't there often the sex isn't that satisfying. There is a subtle and critical interplay with the energy between a couple that can quickly deflate an intimate interaction.  In this episdoe you will hear the profound lessons we learned as we went through the practice together during an intimacy/power dynamic sub/dom class on our trip to Hawaii.    Resources For Your Relationship:   FREE Course Giveaway - Order our book, The Argument Hangover, then write a review on Amazon to be entered into a drawing for a course of your choice!   Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here.

FREE Course Giveaway - Order our book, The Argument Hangover, then write a review on Amazon to be entered into a drawing for a course of your choice!  Men and women can experience different types of challenges within the same relationship. The difficult thing about that is when it gets expressed to your partner, it can be easily dismissed as being irrational. This is only because the other partner doesn't see things the same way. But this doesn't make it any less impactful.  So the goal of this episode is to bring awareness to the specific challenges that women feel, so that it can be more easily expressed and understood by their partners. In this episode you will hear 3 challenges that women are experiencing in mariages right now!    Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here.   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

FREE Course Giveaway - Order our book, The Argument Hangover, then write a review on Amazon to be entered into a drawing for a course of your choice!  Men and women can experience different types of challenges within the same relationship. The difficult thing about that is when it gets expressed to your partner, it can be easily dismissed as being irrational. This is only because the other partner doesn't see things the same way. But this doesn't make it any less impactful.  So the goal of this episode is to bring awareness to the specific challenges that men feel, so that it can be more easily expressed and understood by their partners. In this episode you will hear 3 challenges that men are experiencing in mariages right now!    Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here.   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Join the 5 Day Couples Challenge that starts Feb 7th, 2022. Connect with other couples as we go through daily training of the 5 C's for a strong relationship and even get a FREE book!   Ever wonder WHY your partner does things the way they do? Or maybe why they WON'T do something a certain way (like the way you asked them to)? The latter is more likely to happen which is then what leads to saying something like “I would like you to stop _____ “ or “why can't you just _____”. In either case you are looking for a change in behavior. When it doesn't happen, you just get more frustrated.  Todays' episode will reveal the deeper way to understand their psychology and what drives their choices and actions. Plus, it'll help you understand yourself more as well and why you even do the things you do (or don't do)! Think of todays' episode as the only way you can ever really change a pattern you feel stuck with.   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Being rejected by another person is a pretty defeating feeling to have. All of us have experienced that at one point in our lives whether it was dating someone, rejected for a job you wanted, or even by someone that used to be a friend.  You probably don't think about it too much once you are married because well…you are married to that person and they are not going anywhere! Rejection usually comes with a forced physical separation, that's why in your relationship, the feeling of being rejected can be even more painful. Underneath you can feel rejected in your ideas, how you communicate, even in your habits. This feeling can be why you don't bring up certain topics to your partner or even why you feel tension lingering between you and them. In this episode you will hear the steps you can take if feeling rejected is a fear that has been creating emotional distance from your partner.    Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here, or email us at connect@newpowercouples.com   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

In today's BONUS episode, I connected with Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman of Meet the Freemans. They are authors of The New Power Couple, and The Argument Hangover® + founders of Empowered Couples University. We talked about the importance of communication and conflict resolution in romantic partnerships. They shared about their morning routine of meditation, journaling, and connecting before they start their workday at 11 AM. Congrats to them for becoming first-time parents! The Freemans are based out of AZ, but offer their classes, workshops and retreats virtually and all over the country. They have shared the stage with Tony Robbins, have been guest instructors at universities like UCLA, and were nominated as Arizona's 40 Under 40 Influencers. Free Hard Copy of Book Website Ig @meet_thefreemans

It's a part of all relationships, at one point you have said (to yourself or aloud) "how do I get my partner to _____"? There is something that your partner does that makes you feel well... not the most stellar! Because you feel a certain way you want them to change something.  We are all about growth and change, that's what being in a relationship is all about. However there are better ways to "influence" your partner to make changes, that won't put them on the defensive or have them shut you out.  In this episode you will get 2 steps to take that will help you create influence with your partner so that you both see the change that you desire in the relationship.   Resources For Your Relationship: Watch our FREE WebClass on: The 5 Steps to Fully Repair After an Argument So You Reconnect in Minutes (Instead of Hours, Days, Weeks). Pick a time to watch it here. Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

End the year by having this meaningful conversation together as a couple about your life and relationship goals. Life goes by pretty quickly, so it's important to pause each year and make sure you're on track with what's important to you both.  Plus, you will feel a new sense of partnership and inspiration when you have one or more goals that you're pursuing together. Tune in to this episode to hear: How it benefits your partnership to have goals you pursue together Step-by-step how to have this conversation about your goals and priorities 3 meaningful questions to ask each other   Resources Mentioned: Watch our NEW FREE WebClass on--> The 5 Steps to Repair After An Argument So You Reconnect in Just Minutes, Instead of Hours, Days, or Weeks Book called Limitless by Jim Qwik   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.   Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Every interaction is either a deposit or withdrawal from your partner's “love account”. Meaning, every little remark you make or thing you say either deposits love and connection or it takes some away. The thing is, less “love deposits” are made for couples who are together a while or find themselves in busy seasons of life.  Most couples will go through seasons like these where they need to be making more deposits but they are actually making more withdrawals unconsciously. This isn't just a relational “nice idea” because the level of your love accounts determines how on edge, reactive, and snappy you are to each other. The hardest thing about having a low account is that you are much less willing to do the thing you need, to fill it back up…   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   *It would be an amazing baby gift if you would leave a review for the book. As content creators, that is a huge deposit into our love accounts!*

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There has always been a focus on the future that we each want to create. As a couple this can be in the form of setting goals or establishing your vision statement. This is a great thing because you can't get anywhere if you don't know where you want to go. But sometimes this can leave you feeling disappointed that you are “not there yet” or be discouraged when you feel you are not making as much progress as you would like.  In this solo episode with Aaron you will hear how there is a gap that gets created from this thinking, which can cause you to feel more disappointed about the relationship, when really you just need to change a particular focus. You will hear how you can close the gap between where you want to be and where you are now, so that you are not left feeling discouraged about your current relationship or your partner. You will easily gain appreciation and gratitude by making this one small shift.   Episode Resources & Links: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) The Gap and The Gain book by Ben Hardy HERE

The Danish people have ranked as the “happiest people on earth” for 40 years in a row starting in the 70's, only to be rivaled by Norwegian and Finish people over the last several years. And their happiness isn't dependent on things like: the weather or low taxes (it's actually pretty cold and dark there, and they have relatively higher taxes)....so they must be doing something else right to be so happy. So in today's episode we cover 3 of the traits that they focus on to be the happiest people. Many of the traits we KNOW are critical to having a happy marriage. Of course just being a happier individual will lead to a happier relationship, but you will be able to know exactly what traits to improve in your relationship, so that your own happiness is intentional and not just based on better life circumstances.   Episode Resources & Links: If you're a parent, attend the WebClass taught by parenting expert, Amy McCready, on November 10th. Details and registration HERE. Read the book we referred to in the podcast, The Danish Way of Parenting HERE Read our book, The Argument Hangover and claim $200 worth of bonuses HERE.   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Episode Resources & Links: FREE Parenting WebClass with Amy McCready on November 10th HERE Hypnobabies Program for Natural Birth HERE Pelvic Floor Birth Program (One Strong Mama) HERE The Conscious Parent book by Dr Shefali HERE Video on baby communication sounds HERE Elimination Communication (Go Diaper Free) HERE   There are many ways to parent a child and even the way of "let's just figure it out as we go". We wanted to take this episode to share with you about our prep for becoming parents this coming December.  As we are so into communication and emotional intelligence between couples, you shouldn't be surprised that we are learning about how to do that with our own daughter.  Of course reading and listening is not the same as the "as lived experience", there are a number of philosophies and parenting guidelines that we are committed to implementing so that we can be truly conscious parents. Being conscious parents will allow us the best opportunity to raise a conscious child.  By no means are we saying we will be perfect or that we are judging any other ways of parenting, we just wanted to be open with you all about our journey and to even see the correlations to being a great partner. We believe that if you want your children to have great relationships, you have to have one yourself!    In this episode, we discuss: Our preparation for natural birth and helpful programs Non-mainstream techniques for parenting intentionally Conscious parenting and raising her to be the best version of herself Developing “Emotional Intelligence” in our parenting approach (just like our marriage) What we've learned from different cultures (outside the United States) for developing happy human beings   Additional Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

If you are a parent (or soon to be) you must attend the FREE Webinar with our guest Amy McCready on November 10th at OnlineCouplesWorkshops.com/parenting because she's takes all the topics today even deeper to the specific how-tos!  As you can already tell we have a guest on this episode and it's none other than nationally renoun parenting expert Amy McCready!  Amy is the founder of Positive Parenting Solutions, parenting contributor on the TODAY show, best-selling author, and creator of The 7-Step Parenting Success System that has helped over 100,000 parents of toddlers to teens bring peace into their homes.  During this episode you will hear: What to do if you disagree on your parenting philosophy like authoritative vs her method of Positive Parenting Solutions  What to do if triggered by your kids and preventing an argument with partner and How to make sure your partnership AND your parenting thrives at the same time.  Don't forget to register for the follow-up FREE Webclass that Amy is doing for our community only at: onlinecouplesworkshops.com/parenting On the webinar you will get: The 5 Steps for No-Yelling consequences ALL parents can agree on  How to find common parenting ground — even if it feels like a battlefield 3 action steps you can take TODAY to unite in parenting   Resources For Your Relationship: If you missed the Nov. 10th webinar... Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

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Be honest: have you and/or your partner been nit-picking, critiquing or questioning each other more lately? Being real, we have noticed this in our own relationship over the last couple of weeks and it's something we're bringing awareness to shifting between us.  We noticed that these additional (and mostly unnecessary) remarks to each other were leaving us feeling unaccepted by each other. Not only that, but also a bit depleted and more on edge around each other at home. Maybe you've felt this too? In this episode we cover: The bigger “danger” of the build up of nit-picking and questioning each other 2 critical mindset shifts to make within yourself so you're not doing this to your partner too much 3 simple, but powerful questions to ask yourself in the moment before you make the remark   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) We talked about knowing what is important in the moment, and our communication audio course has the best skill for you to determine the real level of importance. Check out the Communication Course for yourself!    About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

How many of your past arguments and conflicts actually get fully repaired? Do you feel that from every emotional impact, your partner has fully understood you, that they acknowledge the role they played in you feeling that way, and you believe things will be put in place to make the necessary change for it to not happen again?  These are just some of the points that need to happen to fully repair from a conflict in your relationship. Just saying I'm sorry to move on often doesn't cut it. In this episode we will share about a shocking and surprising life event that happened this week and how it shows us that we do not have life to waste being unresolved about conflicts in our marriage. You will feel the same level of urgency to not waste your life being disconnected or resentful toward your partner and have key ways to improve your “apology” so that you truly repair from any challenge and emotional impact in your life!   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   Register for the LAST FREE WebClass in 2021 happening October 5th. It will cover strategies for preventing conflict, de-escalating triggers, and repairing after conflict. Save your seats here.   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Register for the LAST FREE WebClass in 2021 happening October 5th. It will cover strategies for preventing conflict, de-escalating triggers, and repairing after conflict. Save your seats here. There are some misconceptions about resolving conflicts in a relationship. What doesn't actually resolve anything is trying to jump right to a solution, or distracting yourself long enough where the high level of emotion has subsided. This will only build into resentment or at a minimum, start to seed disconnection and discontent within the relationship.   In today's podcast episode you'll hear: The 3 questions to ask yourself to actually start the repair process and not have lingering emotions get stored up for you to react to later.   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

In today's episode, Allan is excited to welcome Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, aka “The Freemans. ” They are authors of The New Power Couple and The Argument Hangover and also founders of Empowered Couples University. Allan and The Freemans discuss the many correlations between having a business partner and being in a marriage. Taking on more communication skills, especially when there is a disagreement, can make a substantial difference as an entrepreneur and partner.

Register for the LAST FREE WebClass in 2021 happening October 5th. It will cover strategies for preventing conflict, de-escalating triggers, and repairing after conflict. Save your seats here. You cannot blame your behavior in the “mid-conflict” stage on your partner! Nope, you must take ownership of your patterns if you're going to have any chance of changing them. But that's why we call them patterns….because patterns can be changed and you aren't stuck a certain way!  In today's podcast episode you'll hear: The importance of humbling yourself and taking ownership of your default patterns during conflict What happens to your brain when emotion kicks in Steps to break these destructive patterns in the mid-conflict stage   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

On this episode of KYD55, Unspoken Expectations in our Relationships. In this webinar, Marc & Tricia interview Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman, otherwise known as The New Power Couple. To learn more about The Freemans, you can visit their website. In the webinar, Aaron & Jocelyn mentioned a quiz to help you learn about your partner's personality type. To take the couples quiz, Click Here. You can learn more about Aaron & Jocelyn's book, The Argument Hangover by going to their website. To order a copy of the book, The Argument Hangover, you can visit the KYD Amazon Store. It's in the KYD Reading List. What to know more about KYD55, Click Here.

#SurvivingMarriage - Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman - The Argument Hangover Ep 026 – Writing a book is something that is on a lot of to do lists or bucket lists. Actually completing a book is a great accomplishment. Completing a couples of books puts you in a very small club. Writing them with your spouse, well, that makes you extra special. Co-hosts Rufus and Jenny Triplett, husband and wife team, back on the mic and now also visual via their YouTube Channel, welcome Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, also a husband and wife team and authors of the books The Argument Hangover and The New Power Couple. This discussion gets interesting as the reasons why couples are having problems in the 21st Century is voiced from a younger married couples perspective. This is the sixth episode of Season Three. The podcast has expanded to YouTube. Thanks for sharing it around social media. Be sure to share and tell a friend. If you are married, engaged or single, this episode is for you. Also, the insightful Food for Thought segment asks the question, what did our parents do? This is the twenty-sixth episode of the Surviving Marriage Podcast. Be sure to SUBSCRIBE. RATE. and REVIEW. Oh, and follow on social media and share with a friend. ANNOUNCEMENT - The Surviving Marriage Couples Card Game is now available! Pick it up HERE "99 Problems but a card game aint one!" SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: Use promo code PGLWP1 or LWP and Stay 3 nights & Save up to 50% on Sundays at participating Hilton Portfolio hotels worldwide. CLICK HERE Enagic Machines - Text "healthy water" to 347.398.1867 Show Notes: 0:00 - Teaser - It's hard to write a book together as a couple 1:05 - Intro 2:08 - Reducing our Resume bullet points 3:22  - Ebony Magazine Couple of the Year 4:21 - Book about Marriage 5:32 - We have a new book coming! 6:08 - Joycelyn & Aaron Freeman 9:18 - What are your qualifications? 11:59 - New Power Couple 14:32 - The Argument Hangover 16:42 - Deeper Dive 19:57 - I think I'm about to start an argument 23:33 - Get in touch with The Freemans 24:55 - Food for Thought - If you know, you know 27:06- ANNOUNCEMENTS - Be Sure to Subscribe. Share. Rate. Review. 29:35 - Ride Out...

When men spend time with other men, it boosts their testosterone (super important), and when women spend time with other women, it boosts their estrogen (super important). Biologically and emotionally, you and your partner NEED time with friends outside of the relationship. If you don't, it can have a real impact on your happiness as individuals and how you show up for each other. However, it's not time with just any type of friends...it's got to be friends that raise your energy and remind you to be the best version of yourself. Listen to today's episode for more on this important topic and what types of friends to prioritize as individuals and as a couple.   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Do you want to be a GREAT partner? It can be easy to show up less than our best as the months and years pass, so today's episode is a great reminder that will motivate you to be the best partner you can be! We dive into 3 traits that are underrated and truly make such a difference for your partnership.    Resources For Your Relationship: If you're in or near Arizona, attend The Couples Workshop on September 26th, 2021.  If you've haven't read it yet, grab your copy of The Argument Hangover.   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Are you in one of these 3 places: feel less fulfilled in your marriage, you are thinking that the relationship should end, or you are active in keeping your fulfillment high by preventing anything from lowering it?  Whichever place you find yourself this episode is about exploring the main reasons we see couples struggle that lead to lower levels of satisfaction and fulfillment in their relationships. This is a new style episode where we each write down our own lists from what we have seen in couple's relationship assessments, our personal coaching, and the live workshops we have done.  In this episode you will hear each of us share our list of top reasons why relationships fall into these seasons, and we won't know what the other had on their list. After listening to this episode you will be able to bring each of these reasons into your awareness and have a simple action to take to prevent that reason from continuing. All so that you can raise and maintain your fulfillment in your relationship, no matter the time you have been together or the challenge you face.   Resources For Your Relationship: There are ONLY 3 spots to take your relationship assessment and do a results call with us. To secure ONE of these spots either:  Text: 602-321-5652 Email: connect@newpowercouples.com   ALSO, Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

On a importance scale from 1-10, how important is sharing household chores and responsibilities? On the spectrum of things you can be focusing on in your life and relationship, how often are you getting frustrated or do you bicker with your partner over this simple area?  Now any place in your relationship that you have a recurring upset and causes you to be disconnected from your partner, is an important area to change.  After the Couples Workshop this week, we realized that this is an area that we never bicker over or even have to think about. In this episode you will hear from Jocelyn a simple process that we use so that you can feel balance and freedom and never have to have conversations about the household being something that causes an upset!   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

When was the last time you reviewed what you're committed to in your relationship? Was it on your wedding day when exchanging vows? There is a big difference between what you said you were committed to in the past versus what you are committed to now, even right in this moment.  In this motivational episode you will get a love gut punch to be honest about what you are actually committed to, as a reflection in your actions toward your partner.   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

You can eliminate many moments of frustration and feeling like you're on different pages with two simple questions. You will ask one of these questions in the morning to start the day with ease and synergy--and it will be especially helpful if you have kids, busy careers, and lots of moving parts to your schedule. The second question is great for the evening to make sure you're on the same page and so both of you get your needs met and feel like you can recharge your batteries in a mutually fulfilling way. Go ahead and tune in for these 2 simple (but super helpful) questions!   Resources For Your Relationship: Schedule a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session with us here.  Make sure you've read our book, The Argument Hangover.   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

We all want to be happy both in our lives and relationships. Yet at a certain point in a relationship it can feel as if your happiness is based more upon your partner. This could be based on their own mood or whether they are “doing the things you want them to do”.  Happiness cannot be a pursuit if it leads you to be conditional to any outside circumstances. It needs to be generated from within first. By doing that, you will automatically influence your partner to be happy just by the nature of your own happiness and joyful way of being!  In this motivational Thursday episode you will hear 3 habits to implement daily, to begin to generate your own happiness first, to create more happiness as a couple!   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

The quality of your conversation comes from the quality of your questions! No matter how much you love each other, your conversations can feel routine if you're asking the same ol' questions (especially if you are a ‘busy' couple or have been together for years).  Truthfully, it's natural to crave more emotional depth in your relationship, which comes from being able to ask more meaningful questions in a state of curiosity and intention. There is nothing 'wrong' with having this desire!  At times you might not know just what questions to ask, or you fear a negative response from them. So in this episode you'll hear 6 questions that you can ask to open up more emotional connection.   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training) * We would so appreciate it if you left a review as a way to indirectly contribute to another couple getting their own copy!    About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

In this week's episode, I sit down with sought-after Couples Coaches Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman.    They are authors of The New Power Couple and The Argument Hangover®, and founded and launched Empowered Couples University: an online university where busy couples unlearn unhealthy patterns and gain modern relationship skills.   They have worked with celebrity couples, public figures and thousands of couples around the world. They have shared the stage with Tony Robbins, were nominated as Arizona's 40 Under 40 Influencers, and have been featured in national media for teaching couples modern, practical skills and tools to work together through any life challenge- reaching over 809,000 people around the world.    Listen in as we talk about: Why communication is needed in conflict How to understand and argue smartly How to create agreements for times of conflict   Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman have led over 42 sold-out live events for couples in Arizona and host one of the top relationship podcasts on iTunes.    They are passionate about training and leading future relationship coaches and have an accredited coaching certification program.   Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman are ordained, and their vision is to make 'relationship development' the new 'personal development' and to lower the divorce rate in their lifetime.   Resources mentioned in the episode: Get $200 of bonus resources (including a conflict and communication course + workbook) when you order the book, The Argument Hangover. Claim bonuses here. Schedule a discounted, introductory Couples Session   Connect with Jocelyn and Aaron On Instagram https://www.meetthefreemans.com    Connect with Natalie Tysdal On Instagram On YouTube On Facebook Website

There is one big thing in your life that disconnects you and keeps you from fully enjoying your life and relationship, and that is 'suffering'! Though ‘suffering' sounds like a very strong word, this experience happens whenever something is happening that you do not want to be happening. This leads to moments of discouragement and discontentment, and over time will lead to a feeling of “things not being good”.  In this solo episode today with Aaron, you will hear the one main thing that causes you suffering, and the way to totally be free from it.   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Coming off of last night's webclass on “Communication Mastery”, many people were intent to bring more empathy into their relationship. The very next feeling however was “being empathetic is not easy when I don't agree with my partner.”  This most likely is the case for you as well. Though being empathetic to our partner's experience is a true expression of love, it isn't easy especially when you haven't practiced it.  In this one-on-one episode with Jocelyn, you will hear how to bring more empathy to your partner so that you can be that true expression of love and be that example of a truly empowered couple!   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Establishing boundaries as a couple can sometimes be a point of tension. It can feel like a battle between wanting to feel security, but also not feeling controlled by the other. The thing is, boundaries are critical to agree upon, so you both feel respected, loved, and also fulfilled. Most couples discuss boundaries as: expressing commands, arguing repeatedly, a resistance to feeling controlled. Yet, they can be discussed in a loving, respectful way that feels like a win-win agreement for you both to create a more connected and collaborative relationship.  In this episode you will hear some areas in which boundaries are important to establish, plus gain the steps to discuss boundaries in a way that is freeing, not controlling.   Resources For Your Relationship: Make sure you're registered for the Communication Mastery WebClass on July 20th. Almost 300 of ya'll are registered already and we can't wait! After July 20th: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

It's a great personal trait to be considerate of your partner (especially of their needs from the last episode). However there is a danger of being overly considerate or overly pleasing in your relationship.  You might not have ever considered this or realized that it was happening to you, but the effect can be very disruptive. It can make you feel unhappy, unfulfilled, and even disengaged from your partner.  In this solo episode with Aaron, you will be able to recognize this pattern so you can show up even better for yourself and consequently as an even better partner!   Resources For Your Relationship: Register for the FREE Communication Mastery Webclass on July 20th, 2021 right here. After that date passes, order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Of course you know that you and your partner are not exactly the same. Yet, how often do you expect them to fulfill all of your needs? Or even how often you assume that they should just know or desire to meet your needs?  When you get to a place where you have conflicting needs, this can feel as if you have to sacrifice or be discouraged that your needs won't be met. When we asked on IG what some of the common conflicting needs for you were, we heard back: Togetherness vs separateness  Physical touch vs quality time Time to talk and connect at the end of the day vs quiet time to decompress after working a long day. Working vs leading the kids and home But there are ways, in this case you will hear 5 principles, so that you can work through your conflicting needs together and be sure that you do not have to sacrifice or give up on having your most important needs met in your relationship.   Resources For Your Relationship: Register for the FREE Communication Mastery Webclass on July 20th, 2021 right here. After that date passes, order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

We received this question privately after the last podcast: “What is the difference between justifying and explaining, when you feel like your partner misread your intentions? Sometimes I feel like we're fighting over a version of me that doesn't feel true, and I can't tell if that's just me being defensive.” In this episode you will hear: The subtle difference between justifying and explaining The major difference between Intent vs Impact 4 steps to explain yourself in a way that your partner can receive it   Resources For Your Relationship: 1) Take the Relationship Assessment and do the results call with us. There are 2 spots discounted from the $1000 course to just $147. To snag one of those spots either: Text: 602-321-5652 Email: connect@newpowercouples.com   2) Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Defensiveness is a learned behavior to compensate for something going on beneath the surface.  A few common sources of defensiveness in relationship: A lack of feeling emotionally safe because they often feel invalidated Taking something personally (and making it mean something different than what was said) Fear of being judged, not loved, abandoned, or punished An attachment to a certain perspective about themselves or the situation Here's the thing...if you and your partner perpetually react with defensiveness, you will leave conversations unresolved, build up more and more tension, and/or get to the point where you feel like you're walking on eggshells. So today's podcast episode goes deeper into understanding why defensiveness shows up in your relationship PLUS how to break this pattern, so you communicate openly and constructively.   Resources For Your Relationship: Book a private Couples Session with us. The first one is discounted so you can get a sense that our style WORKS! Read testimonials, details, and schedule one here. Read our newest book, The Argument Hangover. Get $200 of bonus resources, including a course and workbook. HERE   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.   Please leave a Review of the Show if you have not, it helps us reach even more couples! 

Do you and your partner feel perfectly aligned and on the same page? Do you ever feel caught off guard by a comment your partner makes about being dissatisfied somewhere in your relationship? If so, it's time for a Family Meeting Check-in!  We define a"Family Meeting" as: a designated time to have an intentional, judgment-free conversation together as you discuss your relationship + life. You each get to share your satisfaction in the 9 core areas of your relationship/life, and openly listen to each other. A few critical benefits of these "Family Meetings": it eliminates that frustrating moments where you blindside each other throughout the week to discuss things when it's not the best time you can address challenges or areas of lower satisfaction before it BUILDS up into resentment you ensure you're on the same page as a couple and feel like a team it creates emotional safety and intimacy But here's what a weekly Family Meeting is NOT: a time to defend yourselves, point fingers, complain, or start a fight. In this episode you will hear us go through our own family meeting, so that you have the tools to communicate with each other to be even more on the same page.    Resources For Your Relationship: 1) To get your Family Meeting Worksheet either: DM us on IG @Meet_TheFreemans or Email: connect@newpowercouples.com   2) Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Are you working to rebuild trust in your relationship? Perhaps a lie was told, or a boundary was crossed….but you're committed to repairing it and not ending the relationship. Today you'll meet Joy and Peter Harrington who share very candidly about repairing broken trust after his long term use of porn. They share some radically true things about whether porn use is healthy in a relationship and what to do if your partner denies crossing a boundary.   Resources For Your Relationship: You can connect with Joy and Peter Harrington here on Instagram   To schedule a private coaching session to rebuild trust, go here   Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

A male client was vulnerable last week and said, "we've been together 10 years, have 3 beautiful children, and have great careers. And while I think we should be closer than ever, I feel more distant than ever." This powerfully shows that being emotionally connected does not have to do with time or reaching life milestones together. In fact, couples grow apart emotionally from 4 subtle behaviors that build up over time. We go into these deeper reasons, as well as the 4 levels of a relationship so you can start to notice which level you are at, and how to progress to the next within your own relationship!   Resources For Your Relationship: This month we are giving 5 spots to do Relationship assessment + call with us. Normally you can only take the assessment in our $1000 program. We're opening up these 5 spots for only $147. To snag one of those spots, either: Text us: 602-321-5652 Message us on IG: @meet_thefreemans Email us at: connect@newpowercouples.com   After June 2021: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We're The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Maybe this is a question you have never thought of! Have you ever taken the time to think about the different types of sex you might be in the mood for? For most the answer is, no… Taking this question one step further, depending on your mood on a certain day of week, you might be more or less open to certain types of sex with your partner.  Ok that was a great thing to think about, but now the next part is to express this whole new world to your partner. Given this area of sex and intimacy often is uncomfotable and vulnerable, you can find it dificult to be fully expressed with your partner without some pushback or defensiveness. So what to do? This episode is the first of three episodes around sex and intimacy that we will be interviewing other relationship experts. In today’s episode you will meet Seth and Melanie Studley who have been married for 16 years and have three kids. Seth is a licensed marriage and family therapist and together they are the hosts of the “Anatomy of Marriage, Family, and Sex” podcast, along with their “Anatomy of Marriage” app!  From them you will realize that there are different types of sex energy and moods, and on your journey of marriage, you will have the tools to express this desires as they come up in different seasons.   Get to Know the Studleys: Anatomy of Marriage App Anatomy of Marriage, Family, Sex Podcast   Questions Asked in the Interview: What has your journey been as a couple in getting more comfortable and exploratory with sex and intimacy? You mentioned that there are different kinds of sex based on the mood...can you describe the types? How should a partner communicate about the energy they are in the mood for? How do you suggest couples talk about this with each other? How should these conversations be approached when you have kids? How and when do you have these conversations with or around them?   Guest Quotes: "Connection & pleasure is the goal, expression can be different based on energy mood" "Clarity is Kindness"   Resources For Your Relationship: You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

You know those moments when you're sharing your emotion, and your partner responds with logic? They might say “that’s not how that happened, that doesn’t make sense, or that wasn’t my intention.”  It can make you feel invalidated and  misunderstood, which hurts because your partner is the one you should feel most understood by, right? You might feel that they don’t listen to you and certainly that they don’t understand you. Or even to the point where you feel that you just aren’t on the same page.  Logic and emotion are both important in relationships and communication....but often at different times! It's important that you two discover how to balance both of them, and know when logic is needed vs emotional understanding.   Resources For Your Relationship: You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Why can’t the past just stay back in the past?! How often in your relationship do you feel that you resolved an issue, only to have it come back up again later? What about making a decision together about a big life event, only to doubt it (or your partner) later?  This “past thing” is a block for many couples that keep them feeling in the same place and not making the progress they really want. In this motivational episode we will cover how to keep your past events from impacting your present.   Resources For Your Relationship: You can also sign-up for one of the few monthly available 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Sessions here Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

What is an argument hangover? Authors of The Argument Hangover and The New Power Couple are here to share how we can work on ourselves, and together as couples to have an extraordinary relationship. Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman are Authors, Speakers, and Relationship Coaches with a mission to teach couples skills to show up in their relationships, and lower the divorce rate in their lifetime. Grab a pen and paper (or open up a notes app!) because this episode is full of real-life examples for how we can show up, communicate better, listen, and make deposits to our partner's love account! 04:40 How did you get into relationship coaching? 08:15 The impact this last year and quarantine have had on relationships! 10:00 Are you depositing into your partners “love account”? 15:15 Strengthening your relationship beyond the trip or fun date night! 17:40 How do you approach having hard conversations with your partner? 20:00 Ways to avoid resentment rather than avoiding the hard conversations. 22:00 The power of listening. 23:45 How do you work with couples? 25:00 How can we avoid complacency, or recognize when we are being complacent? 29:50 The power of clearly asking for what you want and need. 34:15 How can we work with you?   Connect with Jocelyn and Aaron Instagram | @meet_thefreemans Website | meetthefreemans.com   Check out the Freeman's books and Free resources: The Argument Hangover  The New Power Couple Take the COUPLES QUIZ   Meet the Freemans:   They are authors of The New Power Couple and The Argument Hangover® (which hit shelves March 2021 and already hit #1 New Release). With much excitement, they founded and launched Empowered Couples University: an online university where busy couples unlearn unhealthy patterns and gain modern relationship skills. They are sought after relationship coaches, and have worked with celebrity couples, public figures and thousands of couples around the world. They have shared the stage with Tony Robbins, were nominated as Arizona's 40 Under 40 Influencers, and have been featured in national media for teaching couples modern, practical skills and tools to work together through any life challenge- reaching over 809,000 people around the world. Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman have led over 42 sold-out live events for couples in Arizona and host one of the top relationship podcasts on iTunes. They are passionate about training and leading future relationship coaches and have an accredited coaching certification program. Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman are ordained, and their vision is to make 'relationship development' the new 'personal development' and to lower the divorce rate in their lifetime.   ………………………………….   Connect with Kara on Instagram | @kara_ayala   Check out how you can work with Kara | karaayala.com Join Kara's FREE Facebook group: https://kara-ayala.mykajabi.com/offers/aubrLymR/checkout

Is this something you have ever said to yourself “should I bring this conversation up to my partner right now?” We know the answer is almost certainly YES, we all have thought this. Most of the time it’s when we have an important topic that we want to talk about, or we think it will potentially cause a conflict.  HOWEVER conflicts are not always from the subject of a conversation, but how and when it is brought up. It can turn out to be a conversation that you were excited to have, and all of a sudden it turns into a disagreement. How can this be?  Today we talk about just that! In this episode you will hear 3 parts to a conversation that you must add, so that conversations can be had at the right time… for both of you!   Resources For Your Relationship: You can also sign-up for a 2-on-2 Relationship Breakthrough Session here Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Last chance to sign-up for the FREE WebClass on May 18th and 20th. One is on Communication and one is on Conflict Repair When a challenge shows up in your relationship, how do you two handle it? Do you resist it and just hope it goes away? Or perhaps you talk about it over and over again but never get to a mutual place of understanding? Either way, most couples we talk to are seeking specific ways to BETTER handle challenges as a TEAM. Today’s episode will show you how working through the challenge can actually bring you closer, rather than tear you apart. In this episode you’ll hear: How challenges can actually bring you closer 5 steps to overcome the challenge as a team Why you must become a resilient partner for a relationship in modern times   About Us: We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)

Register for 2 FREE WebClasses on May 18th and 20th 2021 on Communication + Conflict HERE Ever feel frustrated with your partner? Yea, most human beings have those moments. Today’s episode is important because it will provide you with 2 questions you MUST ask yourself before you bring it up to your partner.   Resources For Your Relationship: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

Relationships cannot be about avoiding conflict, becuase that only builds resentment in the long term. However, by knowing the common sources of conflict, you can take the actions to keep those topics from causing hurt and disconnection!  That is exaclty what you will hear in this episode, the 5 common sources of conflict. Then you can help prevent conflicts when you see them coming, as well as repair from your argument hangovers faster!    Resources For Your Relationship: You don’t want to miss these 2 FREE Webclass on May 18th & May 20th. Register for both of them here. The first is “3 Communication Skills to Overcome Any Relationship Challenge”. The second one is “End Argument Hangovers: How to Fully Repair & Reconnect After a Fight”.   For listening after the free webclass dates: Order our newest book, The Argument Hangover, and get over $200 of free bonus gifts (like the mini course and a 90 minute training)   About Us: We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram. As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.

You and your spouse are unique surely but when it comes to conflict, we've been learning that every type takes a different route. Learning yours and how to walk together without letting conflict get the best of you is key! Learn about how two heart types, 2 and 3, The Freemans, work together to move past their type issues and conflict styles. The Freemans also co-wrote "The Argument Hangover" and have helped almost a million people find their way back to health with their huge hearts and great tools! Meet the incredible Freemans @ www.meetthefreemans.com < and find out about their coaching, courses, and free quizzes!  3rd annual www.enneagramsummit.com < Christa will be speaking at the Enneagram & Coffee Summit for the third year in a row, sign up here! www.enneagramglow.com < This is the last few days to sign up for the E + M Course. Cart for sign up closes this Thurs 4PM EST May is breast cancer awareness month: To donate to Michael Shahan, Enneagram therapist and his wife Angie as they battle Angie's breast cancer as a family please find him on PayPal @paypal.me/michaelshahan @ write him @ michael@mossandmainkc.com to send encouragement. www.enneagramandmarriage.com  

In this episode we’re answering your specific questions submitted from Instagram. What was the topic for these questions? … Communication! This Q&A session is all about communicating better for the specific challenges that were submitted.  The questions we answer today are:  When I have an emotional low, my wife tends to be dismissive...especially if it has to do with her. What can I do differently? Please explain why transparency/openness/honesty is so important. Suggestions to stop getting defensive immediately when someone brings up an issue? Currently I have trouble with my partner opening up to me, but he’ll confide in his friends/coworkers. suggestions?   We Are Asking For Your Help: In the episode we asked for authentic reviews for, The Argument Hangover. If you have not gotten a copy you can get yours, and a free course on being better fighters, with this link.  Then to help us with our publisher, please leave a review with the retailer you purchased from!  Thank you so much, it really helps these principles get in the hands of more couples! 

Welcome to this week's episode of the Hidden Potential Podcast! In this episode, your host Sarah Saffari talks with Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman. Jocelyn and Aaron are relationship coaches and here they share some interesting insights on how to deal with relationship conflicts, how to manage your feelings and your partner's in order to solve problems, and how not to damage the relationship once the disagreement shows up.   “What we always encourage people to look at first is: How long your argument hangover lasts, meaning, how long does it take you to repair afterwards? Because that can also be a big part of what leads to disconnection and, perhaps even the end of the relationship.” – Jocelyn Freeman   Having boundaries and being engaged in the relationship is fundamental to preserve the connection. Repeating selfish behaviors and not talking, on the other hand, is nothing but damaging. It's also really important to be flexible, caring, adjust your needs to meet your partner's, communicate, and try to solve the conflict no matter what.   “When our partners are triggered or just have emotion coming up, they're often sharing about themselves, and so we tend to shut down. […] When you just shut down and say nothing, that creates that separation, that creates that feeling of isolation.” – Aaron Freeman   Jocelyn and Aaron also explain the 4 communication-personality types. Being an assertive partner puts you on the front line, trying to lead the way; being a reserved one categorizes you on the quiet side of things, really needing time to process the conflicts. In both cases, it's important to hear your partner's perspective first so he/she doesn't feel judged by your own;   About Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman Known as the “couple that coaches couples”, Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman started their business by recognizing that their own relationship could be of service to others. Authors of “The Argument Hangover” and “The New Power Couple”, the Freeman's help people to break relationships barriers by dialogue, conversation and teamwork.   Key Timestamps [02:17] – How Jocelyn and Aaron started the relationship coaching business; [04:19] – What is the idea behind “relationships hangover”? [07:33] – The 4 communication-personality types (Assertive and Reserved); [13:57] – What to do when we don't have the answers for the conflict; [20:52] – Why it's important to know what triggers us; [24:31] – How our parents' relationship affects our own; [29:51] – Being aware of our behavior is tiring but important; [32:22] – How to identify if a conflict is healthy or not; [35:52] – How much time is enough time to repair conflicts? [39:24] – Feeling the emotions is an opportunity to connect with your partner; [42:51] – Don't be discouraged if you have conflicts, take action;   Related Links CEOwned Free Mini Course TheArgumentHangover.com   Connect with us! IG: @meet_thefreemans IG: @saffarisarah Facebook: The CEOwned Business LinkedIn: Sarah Saffari Clubhouse: Sarah Saffari

In this episode Amy and Nick talk the with Freeman's about their brand new book "The Argument Hangover." They discuss what an argument hangover is, why conflict and arguing can be a sign of a healthy relationship, why it is important to have ground rules in arguing, and how to connect after an argument. This will be an episode you will not want to miss and a book that will truly change your relationship.Aaron and Jocelyn are also marriage coaches that help couples find deeper connection and intimacy in their marriage. You can find more information about the Freeman's and their new book by clicking the link below.https://www.meetthefreemans.com/Also don't forget to download the Ultimate Intimacy App for free in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to have "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage.Follow us on instagram @ultimateintimacyapp

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Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman are known as "the couple that coaches couples."  Their newest book, The Argument Hangover, provides a no BS approach to fighting smarter and reconnecting faster after disagreements, and learning to communicate your needs and feelings in a way that works for you and your partner. In this week's episode, we discuss the 3 stages of conflict and how to fight smarter in your relationship, how to bring up challenging conversations with your partner, without them getting triggered and how to keep Argument Hangovers from ruining the most important relationships in your life. I promise you do NOT want to miss this interview. Get more information about the Freemans and their newest book, The Argument Hangover at: https://theargumenthangover.com If you enjoyed this interview and want to hear more from the Freemans, make sure you check out the OTBS of Marriage VIP Vault at: https://onthebrightersideofmarriage.com/thevault

In today's episode, we sit down with Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, authors of The Argument Hangover and discuss the importance of strong communication in the beginning stages of dating and the areas of compatibility that are most important! We'll get to hear Jocelyn and Aaron's dive into how they met, how they navigated the challenge of ALMOST breaking up because of fear, and some value bombs!    Make sure to follow Aaaron & Jocelyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meet_thefreemans/?hl=en    Pre-order their newest book: The Argument Hangover: theargumenthangover.com

Meet The Freeman's: Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman are not your average online coaches—they're the couple that coaches couples. Together, the couple founded and launched Empowered Couples University: an online university where busy couples unlearn unhealthy patterns and gain modern relationship skills. The couple co-authored their first book, The New Power Couple, in 2016, and are set to release their newest publication, The Argument Hangover, in just a few days—(hitting shelves in Feb 2021 and already hit #1 New Release). The Freeman's have worked with celebrity couples, public figures and thousands of couples around the world. They have shared the stage with Tony Robbins, were nominated as Arizona's 40 Under 40Influencers, and have been featured in national media for teaching couples modern, practical skills and tools to work together through any life challenge—reaching over 809,000 people around the world. Jocelyn and Aaron have led over 42 sold-out live events for couples in Arizona and host one of the top relationship podcasts on iTunes. They are passionate about training and leading future relationship coaches and have an accredited coaching certification program. In this episode you'll learn: Why it's important to lean into conflict, instead of avoiding it Why we've been conditioned to perceive conflict as a negative How to communicate with your partner in a way that meets his or her communication needs and style How to set expectations that will help both partners feel seen and heard before engaging in a triggering conversation Fill your coffee cup, sip away, and get your FYX of Coach Krysta on her new podcast. Check out all things relationships and communication with The Freeman's on social media: IG: @meet_thefreemans Get a copy of their newest book and some FREE coursework to go along with it: www.theargumenthangover.com Can't get enough of your FYX? Lynk up with Krysta on all of her social channels: @thekrystahuber @thefyx.officialpod @fyxstudios Visit Krysta's website for coaching services: www.thefitnessfyx.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thekrystahuber/message

They are authors of The New Power Couple and The Argument Hangover (which hits shelves Feb 2021 and already hit #1 New Release). With much excitement, they founded and launched Empowered Couples University: an online university where busy couples unlearn unhealthy patterns and gain modern relationship skills.They are sought after relationship coaches and have worked with celebrity couples, public figures, and thousands of couples around the world. They have shared the stage with Tony Robbins, were nominated as Arizona's 40 Under 40 Influencers, and have been featured in national media for teaching couples modern, practical skills and tools to work together through any life challenge- reaching over 809,000 people around the world.Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman have led over 42 sold-out live events for couples in Arizona and host one of the top relationship podcasts on iTunes.They are passionate about training and leading future relationship coaches and have an accredited coaching certification program.Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman are ordained, and their vision is to make 'relationship development' the new 'personal development' and to lower the divorce rate in their lifetime.As always, thank you so much for listening to this weeks episode and if you have any questions, ideas or content thoughts/collaboration ideas feel free to email me at thedudetherapist@gmail.com or DM on Instagram @thedudetherapistSupport the show (https://pod.fan/the-dude-therapist)

World class relationship coaches, Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman join Dr. Dan and Jordanne this week on the podcast to discuss their new book: The Argument Hangover. They also discuss how to have better money conversations with a spouse or partner and why its important to truly listen to your partner's emotions rather than just respond to their words. They define WEALTH as living out their couple's vision statement and feeling balanced in what they are receiving and what they are contributing to the world. The Argument Hangover: www.theargumenthangover.com Couples Workshops: www.thecouplesworkshop.com Connect with the Freemans on Instagram. Connect with Dr. Dan at www.drpallesen.com and on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn.

Brittny is joined by authors and relationship coaches, Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman. The Freeman's are authors of The New Power Couple and The Argument Hangover, founders of Empowered Couples University: an online university where busy couples unlearn unhealthy patterns and gain modern relationship skills, have led many sold-out live events for couples in Arizona and host one of the top relationship podcasts on iTunes. In this episode Brittny, Jocelyn & Aaron discuss all things relationship including:The difference between knowledge and wisdomListening versus talkingReserved versus assertive communicationPositive intentHow our relationship with ourselves impacts our other relationshipsHealthy conflictFour communication types and how to get a reserved partner to be more openJocelyn & Aaron Freeman are ordained, and their vision is to make 'relationship development' the new 'personal development' and to lower the divorce rate in their lifetime. They desire to experience massive contribution, financial freedom, and joy through speaking, relationship coaching, and collaborating; to empower millions of couples with the relationship skills needed to communicate better, fight smarter, and be connected in any season of life.Connect with Jocelyn and Aaron:https://www.meetthefreemans.com/https://www.instagram.com/meet_thefreemans/Pre-Order The Argument Hangover

Authors and married couple Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman share an excerpt from their new book titled "The Argument Hangover" Episode 891: An Excerpt From the Book "The Argument Hangover" by Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman on Communicating With Your Partner Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman are authors of The New Power Couple, and The Argument Hangover. They are founders of Empowered Couples University: where busy couples unlearn unhealthy patterns and gain the relationship skills none of us learned growing up. ‍ They are sought after relationship coaches, and have worked with celebrities, public figures, and thousands of couples around the world. They have shared the stage with Tony Robbins, have been guest instructors at universities like UCLA, and were nominated as Arizona's 40 Under 40 Influencers. More about the book can be found here: https://theargumenthangover.com Ten Ten's limited-edition collection of diamond engagement rings is available at http://BlueNile.com. Calm is offering a special limited time promotion of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/ORD Please Rate & Review the Show!  Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com and in The O.L.D. Facebook Group  Join the Ol' Family to get your Free Gifts and join our online community: OLDPodcast.com/group   Interested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever had an argument with your spouse and then felt a "hangover" for the next hours or even days??? You know that feeling, right after an argument you've had with your partner? You feel kinda sick to your stomach, your head is buzzing, and you're zoned out. You regret what you said (or how you said it), and you feel hurt by their actions as well. Almost like a food or alcohol hangover, right?  Our guests on this week's show, Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman, call this the "Argument Hangover".  They've written a new book about it and we discuss many parts of it on this show.  We've ordered a copy of the new book for ourselves and encourage you to do the same... plus if you pre-order a copy of the book "The Argument Hangover" you'll get $200 worth of bonuses! Visit their https://theargumenthangover.com/ (website) to learn more and get your copy today! If you haven't already, be sure to subscribe to this show, The ONE Relationship, to keep up on new episodes each week.  All honest ratings and reviews are appreciated too!  Over the next two months we'll be sharing all that we've learned about navigating relationships in a new  challenge, called Arguments to Intimacy!    Join the next challenge at https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/ae4cba34-2616-45b9-8de6-3a0553dd0063/shows/0be6a366-d670-4189-95a7-f75cec00ac7a/episodes/7e44cc9c-074c-40b7-9d9c-7d5d55ff469b/www.argumentstointimacy.com (argumentstointimacy.com)

Are arguments a constant feature in your marital life? And, no matter how hard you try, are you unable to avoid the ensuing emotional disconnect and trauma? In today's show of Head over Heels, guests Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman share some great tips for better handling marital conflicts and keeping your partner's love tank full. We break down the conflict resolution process into three stages and reveal how you can navigate each stage WITHOUT belittling your partner. It is indeed sad that couples who are dealing with marital discord shy away from seeking outside help.  While we are quick to seek out professional help when it comes to our business and finances, why is it that talking about marriage remains taboo for us? Our guests for today, Aaron & Jocelyn also give listeners a sneak-peek at their soon-to-be-released book, The Argument Hangover.   If you are prone to walking away or losing your temper whenever an argument crops up, listening to this segment of the show will help you understand how you can lessen the frequency AND intensity of your marital conflicts. Tune in to learn how you can strengthen your love bond so that you can meet life's biggest challenges head–on.  What You Will Learn In This Show How to listen and understand your partner better The 3 stages of conflict resolution and how to navigate them How to avoid emotional disconnect in a marriage And so much more… Resources Aaron and Jocelyn's Website The Argument Hangover The Couples Workshop Us: www.headoverheelsshow.com Insta @headoverheelsshow Insta Nina @NinaKako  Roger @roger_guertin Facebook @headoverheelsshow TikTok @tdot_fam You Tube @tdot_fam Email us@hohshow.com