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In this conversation, Nina and Charlotte delve into the complexities of perfectionism, exploring its protective nature and how it often leads to procrastination. They discuss the impact of perfectionism on self-worth and inner dialogue, and provide practical steps for breaking the cycle of self-sabotage. The conversation also touches on parenting and how to nurture children without imposing perfectionist standards. 00:00: Understanding Perfectionism06:11: The Protective Nature of Perfectionism12:00: Procrastination and Perfectionism: A Vicious Cycle16:26: Breaking the Cycle: Practical Steps to Overcome Perfectionism24:50: Parenting and Perfectionism: Nurturing Without Pressure Charlotte Grimmel is a psychologist (MSc) and holistic business coach who works at the intersection of mindset, high-performance psychology, and strategy. She helps high-achieving entrepreneurs develop the internal clarity and capacity to grow the business they actually want—without relying on hype, hustle, or someone else's playbook. Her work focuses on the mental models, emotional habits, and self-concepts that shape how we lead, make decisions, and show up in the world. Through her coaching practice and platform @themindfriend (195k+ followers), Charlotte turns deep psychological insight into practical tools for navigating visibility, leadership, and growth. Known for her direct yet compassionate approach, she helps people transform their relationship with their minds—rather than fighting against themselves. Episode Sponsor: Build the best summer ever with KiwiCo! Get $15 off on your Summer Adventure Series at kiwico.com/MAMKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Cindy explore the concept of boredom, particularly in the context of parenting. They discuss how societal pressures often lead parents to keep their children busy, which can hinder emotional development. Dr. Cindy emphasizes that boredom is an emotion that needs to be acknowledged and managed, rather than avoided. The discussion highlights the importance of allowing children to experience boredom as a means of fostering creativity and emotional regulation. They also provide practical strategies for parents to support their children in coping with boredom and understanding their emotions. In this conversation, Cindy and Nina explore the importance of scaffolding in learning and emotional reflection for children. They discuss how to manage boredom, the impact of technology on emotional regulation, and the significance of teaching coping skills. The dialogue emphasizes the need for parents to validate their children's feelings and revisit emotional experiences to foster better emotional intelligence and regulation. 00:00: The Challenge of Boredom05:01: Understanding Boredom as an Emotion10:02: Supporting Children Through Boredom15:01: Coping Mechanisms for Boredom20:11: Practical Strategies for Parents21:09: Understanding and Managing Boredom24:42: The Impact of Technology on Emotional Regulation27:28: Teaching Emotional Coping Skills30:43: Revisiting Emotions and Validating Feelings Dr. Cindy Hovington, a mom of three and Ph.D. in neuroscience, is the founder of Curious Neuron—an evidence-based platform dedicated to helping parents understand and regulate their emotions, so they can model healthy coping strategies for their children. She also hosts The Reflective Parenting Podcast, where she dives into the emotional challenges of parenthood with compassion and science-backed insights. Many of us grew up without learning how to manage stress or emotions effectively, and now, as parents, we face the difficult task of unlearning old patterns while trying to teach our kids something better. Curious Neuron bridges that gap, offering not just information about emotions, but real tools to build emotion regulation skills through its Reflective Parent Club. Start building your self-awareness today by grabbing one of our free resources! Episode Sponsor:Get started at factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50 percent off plus FREE shipping on your first box. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Alexandra Solomon explore the nuanced differences between secrecy and privacy in relationships, emphasizing the importance of trust and communication. They discuss how technology has changed relationship dynamics, the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior, and the necessity of understanding emotional needs in partnerships. The dialogue highlights the significance of approaching sensitive topics with curiosity rather than accusation, fostering a deeper connection between partners. In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Alexandra explore the complexities of vulnerability in relationships, the importance of understanding boundaries and privacy, and how healthy privacy can enhance intimacy. They discuss the significance of emotional safety and the need for couples to invest in connection and fun to maintain a strong relationship. The dialogue emphasizes self-awareness and the impact of past experiences on current relationships, providing insights into navigating challenges and fostering growth.00:00: Understanding Secrecy vs. Privacy in Relationships02:56: The Evolution of Relationship Dynamics06:00: The Impact of Technology on Trust08:56: Navigating Privacy and Secrecy11:55: Childhood Influences on Relationship Behavior15:11: Effective Communication in Relationships19:45: Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships24:43: Understanding Boundaries and Privacy28:31: The Role of Healthy Privacy in Intimacy35:55: Investing in Connection and Fun in RelationshipsAlexandra H. Solomon, PhD, is internationally recognized as one of today's most trustedvoices in the world of relationships, and her framework of Relational Self-Awareness hasreached millions of people around the globe. A couple therapist, speaker, author, professor,podcast host, and media personality, Dr. Alexandra is passionate about translating cutting-edgeresearch and clinical wisdom into practical tools people can use to bring awareness, curiosity,and authenticity to their relationships. She is a clinician educator and a frequent contributor toacademic journals and research, and she translates her academic and therapeutic experience to the public through her popular and vibrant Instagram page, which has garnered over 200Kfollowers. She is an adjunct professor in the School of Education and Social Policy atNorthwestern University and is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice. Her hitpodcast, Reimagining Love, has reached listeners across the globe and features high-profileguests from the worlds of therapy, academia, and pop culture. She is the award-winning authorof Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships YouWant, Loving Bravely: 20 Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want,and Love Every Day: 365 Relational Self-Awareness Practices to Help Your Relationship Heal,Grow, and Thrive. You can visit her online at https://dralexandrasolomon.com/ and on Instagramat @dr.alexandra.solomon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Carrie delve into the complexities of catastrophic thinking and high functioning anxiety. Nina shares her personal experiences with catastrophic thoughts, particularly in her roles as a professional and a mother. Carrie, a therapist specializing in high functioning anxiety, explains the nature of this anxiety and how it manifests in seemingly successful individuals. They discuss the disconnect between external appearances and internal struggles, the mechanisms behind catastrophic thinking, and the roots of these thought patterns. The conversation also explores the differences between anticipatory anxiety and healthy preparation, providing insights into managing these feelings effectively. In this conversation, Nina and Carrie Howard delve into the complexities of catastrophic thinking, exploring its roots in fear and anxiety. They discuss how different individuals experience catastrophic thoughts in various situations and provide practical strategies for recognizing and managing these thoughts. The conversation emphasizes the importance of sitting with discomfort and uncertainty, as well as offering support to loved ones who may struggle with anxiety. Carrie shares valuable techniques for grounding oneself and fostering a sense of safety, ultimately encouraging listeners to cultivate self-awareness and compassion in their mental health journeys. 00:00: Understanding Catastrophic Thinking03:05: High Functioning Anxiety Explained06:03: The Disconnect Between Appearance and Reality08:34: Defining Catastrophic Thinking09:13: The Mechanism of Catastrophic Thinking11:37: The Roots of Catastrophic Thinking17:51: Anticipatory Anxiety vs. Catastrophic Thinking19:10: Healthy Preparation vs. Catastrophic Thinking20:50: Understanding Catastrophic Thinking23:56: Practical Strategies to Combat Catastrophizing30:06: Sitting with Discomfort and Uncertainty34:00: Supporting Others Through Catastrophic Thinking Carrie Howard is a licensed anxiety therapist, mental health educator, and content creator who specializes in high-functioning anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. With over a decade of clinical experience—and a personal journey with anxiety herself—she helps women face their fears, build self-trust, and navigate life with more confidence and calm. Carrie's work has been featured in outlets like Good Morning America, Shape, HuffPost, and Verywell Mind, and she's known for blending professional insight with a deeply compassionate, relatable approach. Episode Sponsor: Get started at factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50 percent off plus FREE shipping on your first box. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Emily explore the complexities of setting boundaries in relationships, particularly focusing on family dynamics and the emotional challenges that arise. They discuss the importance of recognizing draining relationships, the cultural influences that shape our boundary-setting behaviors, and practical steps to establish healthier interactions. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and the courage to prioritize one's own needs while navigating the guilt that often accompanies boundary setting. In this conversation, Nina and Emily delve into the complexities of setting boundaries, particularly in female friendships and family dynamics. They explore the feelings of guilt that often accompany boundary setting and provide strategies for effective communication. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy and the need to manage one's emotional responses after asserting boundaries. Emily shares practical scripts and techniques for navigating difficult conversations, highlighting the significance of understanding personal values and the impact of emotional maturity in relationships. 00:00: Understanding the Roots of Boundary Issues 02:48: The Importance of Boundary Setting in Relationships 05:58: Identifying Draining Relationships 08:59: Navigating Family Dynamics and Boundaries 12:06: Cultural Influences on Boundary Setting 15:01: Overcoming Guilt in Boundary Setting 18:03: Practical Steps for Setting Boundaries 21:01: Scripts for Boundary Setting in Real Life 22:38: Navigating Guilt in Boundary Setting 26:12: Effective Communication Strategies for Boundaries 29:34: Setting Boundaries with Family Dynamics 37:07: Calming the Nervous System After Setting Boundaries Emily Sanders received her Bachelor's degree from Life Pacific College in counseling ministry, and received her Master's of Science degree from Vanguard University of Southern California. In addition to her practice, Emily is also an adjunct professor in the Human Development and Psychology department at Life Pacific College. Emily has been practicing for over 13 years, and knows from personal experience the courage it takes to walk on the road to healing and self-discovery; she works with compassion to support others on their path to restoration, empowerment, and fulfillment. You can find Emily at emilysanders.com or emily.sanders.therapy on Instagram In her free time Emily can usually be found outside running, hiking, or riding her bicycle along Pacific Coast Highway. She also enjoys browsing Pinterest for new dinner recipes, chatting with her girlfriends, and spending quality time with her family. Episode Sponsor: Build the best summer ever with KiwiCo! Get $15 off on your Summer Adventure Series at kiwico.com/mamaknows Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Maggie delve into the complexities of binge eating disorder, emotional eating, and the journey towards healing and self-acceptance. They discuss the impact of upbringing on eating habits, the emotional triggers behind overeating, and the importance of reframing beliefs about food. Maggie shares her personal journey and coaching philosophy, emphasizing the need for self-love and understanding in overcoming disordered eating patterns. In this conversation, Maggie and Nina explore the complexities of parenting around food, particularly regarding sugar and treats. They discuss the challenges of instilling healthy eating habits in children while avoiding negative associations with food. Maggie shares practical tips for creating a healthier relationship with food, emphasizing the importance of planning meals and understanding emotional eating. The discussion also touches on the significance of body awareness and the impact of emotional factors on eating behaviors. Finally, Maggie provides resources for listeners seeking further support in their journey towards healthier eating habits. 00:00: Understanding Binge Eating Disorder02:52: Maggie's Journey and Coaching Philosophy06:06: Healing from Disordered Eating08:45: The Emotional Aspects of Overeating11:47: Indulgence vs. Overeating14:52: Guilt and Food Perception17:59: Reframing Beliefs Around Food25:12: Navigating Food Choices with Kids31:34: Practical Tips for a Healthier Relationship with Food39:25: Understanding Emotional Eating and Body Awareness46:14: Resources for Further Support As the host of the Why we Over eat podcast and founder of Vibe Club, I've spent the last 5 years helping women transform their relationship with food and their bodies. My approach combines neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and practical tools to create sustainable weight loss without restrictive dieting. Through my podcast and coaching program, I teach women how to tune into their bodies' natural hunger and fullness signals, process emotions without using food, and help women break free from diet mentality so they can develop a peaceful, intuitive approach to eating that works with their lifestyle. Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get  20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Melanie McNally discuss the complexities of adolescence, focusing on emotional regulation, the impact of childhood experiences, and the importance of fostering independence in teens. They explore how early communication about emotions can shape a child's ability to cope as they grow, and provide practical advice for parents on how to support their children through these critical developmental stages. In this conversation, Dr. Melanie McNally discusses the challenges of parenting teens, focusing on the balance between granting independence and maintaining boundaries. She emphasizes the importance of logical consequences, scaffolding, and emotional awareness in helping teens navigate social pressures and develop resilience. The discussion also highlights the significance of open communication and creating a safe space for teens to express their feelings, especially regarding peer influence and emotional health. 00:00: Navigating Troubled Teen Years 02:02: Understanding Adolescent Psychology 04:24: The Impact of Childhood on Teen Emotions 09:29: Building Emotional Awareness in Children 16:55: Fostering Independence and Critical Thinking in Teens 22:25: Navigating Teen Independence and Boundaries 28:56: Coping with Social Pressures and Expectations 33:19: Understanding Emotional Contagion and Peer Influence 38:51: Processing Emotions and Building Resilience Dr. Melanie McNally is a licensed clinical psychologist and brain coach who helps people maximize their potential so they get the most out of life. From adolescents struggling with motivation to executives seeking direction, she helps people feel less overwhelmed, figure out their next steps, and reach meaningful goals. Dr. Melanie has worked in the field of psychology since 2005 and has written two books, The Emotionally Intelligent Teen and Helping Your Unmotivated Teen. Recognized nationally for her expertise, Dr. Melanie has been invited to the White House to discuss the paramount importance of teen mental health. She's appeared in The Huffington Post, Parents Magazine, Business Insider, Fast Company, and more. Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS New customers can enjoy this special offer of only $1.99 a meal. Go to everyplate.com/podcast and use code mamaknows199 to get started. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Caroline delve into the complexities of people pleasing, exploring its roots in childhood trauma and its impact on identity and self-esteem. They discuss how people pleasing manifests in various areas of life, including work and family, and the importance of setting boundaries. Caroline shares practical steps for overcoming people pleasing tendencies, emphasizing self-love and emotional regulation. The discussion also highlights the significance of parenting in shaping children's emotional health and the journey towards finding one's true self. 00:00: Understanding People Pleasing 03:50: The Roots of People Pleasing 10:08: Manifestations of People Pleasing 14:10: Impact of Childhood on People Pleasing 22:47: People Pleasing and Identity Crisis 29:04: Overcoming People Pleasing 36:30: Finding Your True Self Caroline is a German-born international psychologist, trauma expert, and devoted single mom, currently based in Amsterdam. Known for her warm, authentic approach and deep commitment to mental health awareness, Caroline has become a trusted guide for celebrities, athletes, coaches, and individuals from all walks of life. Her own healing journey fuels her passion, making her work deeply relatable, authentic and impactful. Caroline has dedicated her life to helping others navigate their healing paths. She's the creator of a transformative trauma healing program Phoenix—rooted in her personal experiences—that has already helped countless people around the world break free from pain and step into their true selves. As the host of her own inspiring podcast (the Caroline Middelsdorf podcast). Caroline travels the globe, sitting down with experts, thought leaders, and public figures to share real, raw stories that remind us all: we each have a story worth telling. Her mission? To help 1 million people heal and create a ripple effect of awareness, compassion, and growth. Caroline leads with heart and soul, offering a guiding light for those who feel stuck in the dark. Her work is more than a profession—it's a calling to make healing accessible, authentic, and to bring back connection, kindness, and care into the world. Above all, she strives to bring people closer together, reminding them that they are never alone in their struggles Episode Sponsors: Get started at factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50% off plus FREE shipping on your first box. Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get  20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Morgan Cutlips delve into the complexities of the mental load in relationships, particularly focusing on the emotional labor involved in parenting and household responsibilities. They explore how the mental load affects attraction and communication between partners, the importance of recognizing and sharing responsibilities, and strategies to navigate resentment and achieve a fair balance in relationships. In this conversation, Morgan and Nina explore the complexities of household responsibilities and the mental load that often falls disproportionately on women. They discuss the importance of communication, appreciation, and the need for couples to navigate their roles in a partnership effectively. Morgan shares practical strategies for making invisible tasks visible and framing conversations about the mental load in a way that fosters understanding and collaboration. The discussion also touches on how the mental load can impact intimacy and connection within relationships, emphasizing the need for appreciation and teamwork. 00:00: Understanding the Mental Load 12:10: The Emotional Labor of Parenting 23:46: Navigating Resentment and Fairness in Relationships 24:29: Navigating Household Responsibilities 26:10: The Piling On of Precedence 28:31: Making the Invisible Visible 32:31: Communicating the Mental Load 36:24: Framing Difficult Conversations 40:25: The Impact of Mental Load on Intimacy Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD in Psychology and highly sought after relationship expert, knows what it feels like to lose yourself in motherhood, and she's determined to help mothers navigate it better. Throughout her career, she has helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide learn how to form and maintain healthy relationships. Dr. Morgan has been a featured relationship expert with Good Morning America, Teen Vogue, The New York Times, Women's Health Magazine, MOPS International, Loveology, and Flo, the #1 app in health and fitness. Her new book, A Better Share, is available now! Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This conversation delves into the pressing issue of school violence and gun safety, particularly from the perspective of parents. Nina shares her emotional journey as a mother concerned about her child's safety in school, while Rep. Deb Andraca discusses her personal experiences and legislative efforts aimed at reducing gun violence. They explore the importance of responsible gun ownership, the need for preventive measures, and the role of community engagement in advocating for safer schools. The discussion emphasizes the significance of understanding statistics, recognizing warning signs, and promoting a culture of gun safety to protect children and communities. 00:00: The Impact of School Violence on Families 02:01: Personal Experiences with School Safety 04:43: Gun Ownership and Responsibility 06:13: Statistics on School Violence and Gun Safety 09:14: Identifying Warning Signs for Prevention 12:09: The Need for Legislative Change 15:34: Resources for Moms to Get Involved 18:15: Promoting Gun Safety in Homes 21:21: Advocating for School Safety Policies 26:14: The Importance of Community Engagement Rep. Deb Andraca is honored to serve as the representative for Wisconsin's 23rd Assembly District, a role they have proudly held since making history in 2020. In the Wisconsin State Assembly, Deb serves on several key committees, including the Joint Committee on Finance, Education, and Forestry, Parks, and Outdoor Recreation. Their dedication and leadership have earned them numerous accolades, such as the Legislator of the Year Award from both the American College of Physicians Wisconsin Chapter and Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD), as well as the Champion of Commerce Award from the Metropolitan Milwaukee Association Chamber of Commerce. They have also been recognized as a Conservation Champion by the Wisconsin League of Conservation Voters and received the Building Wisconsin Award from the Associate Builders and Contractors of Wisconsin. Professionally, Deb brings a wealth of experience in education, communications, and policy. They have served as a substitute teacher and a former summer school math teacher at Bruce Guadalupe Community School, as well as a substitute teacher in the Whitefish Bay School District. Their background also includes work as a communications director and lobbyist at the Environmental Law and Policy Center of the Midwest, vice president at FleishmanHillard International Communications, and executive assistant at the Solar Energy Industries Association. Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Caroline delve into the significance of self-care, particularly for mothers, and how it often gets misconstrued. They discuss the challenges of maternal mental health, the guilt that comes with prioritizing personal needs, and the importance of redefining self-care beyond traditional notions. Caroline emphasizes the need for systemic support for mothers while also encouraging them to embrace their worthiness and prioritize their well-being. The discussion highlights the journey of motherhood, the societal pressures faced, and the importance of community support in navigating these challenges. In this conversation, Caroline and Nina explore the complexities of guilt in motherhood, distinguishing between helpful and unhelpful guilt. They discuss the importance of self-care, emphasizing that it is not just about indulgence but also about making choices that support long-term well-being. The conversation highlights the need to let go of perfection in parenting and the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive influences to foster a healthier mindset. 00:00: The Importance of Self-Care 05:59: Navigating Guilt in Motherhood 11:49: The Role of Community and Support 17:53: Embracing Personal Worthiness 24:14: The Importance of Self-Care for Moms 32:44: Self-Care: A Holistic Approach Dr. Caroline Dickens is a San Francisco-based licensed clinical psychologist specializing in perinatal, reproductive, and maternal mental health. She is co-founder of the Palmetto Psychology Clinic, which specializes in treating mental health concerns uniquely impacting women across the lifespan. She loves supporting expecting and postpartum parents in navigating the anxiety, guilt, relationship challenges, and complex feelings that come with this transition. She is especially passionate about helping new moms let go of what they think they “should” be doing and clarify what they really want out of their own motherhood. Outside of the therapy room, she loves to support a wider audience of moms through her social media and as co-host of The Moms Are Alright podcast. As mom to a sweet and spicy 2 year old boy who is expecting her second baby this summer, she is also walking the journey right alongside the moms she supports. Carolyn has a mental health skills course for expecting & postpartum moms called Becoming Mom  Episode sponsor: New customers can enjoy this special offer of only $1.99 a meal. Go to everyplate.com/podcast and use code mamaknows199 to get started. Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get  20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Lee discuss the importance of financial literacy for children and how families can create a culture of value creation at home. They explore the Dinner Table method, which emphasizes teaching kids about money through practical experiences and collaborative discussions. The conversation highlights common mistakes parents make in money education, the significance of healthy struggles, and practical steps families can take to instill responsible money habits in their children. In this conversation, the focus is on empowering children to become self-reliant and financially competent through practical experiences and responsibilities. The discussion emphasizes the importance of allowing children to earn money through chores and 'brain gigs', fostering a sense of value and responsibility. The concept of holistic value creation within families is explored, highlighting the balance between financial education and emotional well-being. The conversation also addresses the significance of early financial education and the role of parents in guiding their children through healthy struggles, ultimately leading to stronger family dynamics and values. 00:00: Family Meetings and Financial Literacy Goals 05:47: Teaching Kids About Money: The Dinner Table Method 11:58: Building a Value Creation Culture at Home 18:11: Collaborative Conversations About Saving and Spending 23:32: Empowering Self-Reliance in Children 28:33: Understanding Value: Brain Gigs 34:42: The Importance of Early Financial Education Lee Benson is the CEO of Dinner Table, a revolutionary platform helping families teach their kids financial literacy, value creation, and personal responsibility. Under his leadership, Dinner Table has grown into a thriving, community-driven learning system, empowering parents to instill real-world financial skills in their children through guided discussions, interactive tools, and hands-on experiences. Lee has played a pivotal role in refining Dinner Table's offerings, transitioning from a banking app to a dynamic education platform that prioritizes engagement and real-world application. By strengthening the community, optimizing content delivery, and enhancing parent-led mentorship, he has helped thousands of families integrate financial education into everyday life. His focus remains on making financial literacy accessible, practical, and transformative for the next generation. Find Lee at: @dinnertablefamily https://dinnertable.com/ Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get  20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina, Jennifer, and Emmalee explore the complexities of emotional energy, expectations in relationships, and the concept of radical acceptance. They discuss how deeply feeling individuals navigate their emotions and the impact of their partner's feelings on their own emotional state. The discussion delves into anxiety, the dynamics of partnership, and the importance of self-care and emotional management. They emphasize the need to differentiate between what we need and what we want in emotional support, ultimately advocating for self-awareness and self-care as foundational to healthy relationships. In this conversation, Jennifer Chaiken and Emmalee Bierly discuss the profound impact of childhood experiences on emotional management and self-trust. They explore the challenges of parenting in survival mode, the concept of radical acceptance versus taking action, and the complexities of adult friendships. The discussion highlights the importance of recognizing emotions, navigating control in relationships, and the natural evolution of friendships over time. They emphasize the need for open communication and the significance of emotional intelligence in fostering healthy connections. 00:00: The Power of Emotional Energy 03:01: Navigating Expectations in Relationships 06:13: Understanding Radical Acceptance 08:52: The Spiral of Anxiety and Emotional Responses 12:05: The Dynamics of Partnership and Emotional Support 14:59: Self-Care and Emotional Management 17:57: The Need vs. Want in Emotional Support 24:40: Childhood Influences on Emotional Management 27:10: Survival Mode in Parenting 28:47: Radical Acceptance vs. Action 31:09: Navigating Control in Relationships 35:12: The Complexity of Adult Friendships 40:24: Grieving Friendships and Social Dynamics Emmalee Bierly & Jennifer Chaiken are both Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, co-owners of The Therapy Group, a collective of warm, authentic therapists, and co-hosts of the ShrinkChicks Podcast! They believe in being down to earth, authentic, and transparent, which are values they bring both to their practice as well as their podcast! Their mission is to make therapy more relatable and accessible, working to break down that clinical wall. Connect with Emmalee and Jennifer: The Therapy Group: www.thetherapygroup.com (Emmalee and Jen's co-owned private practice that has warm, down-to-earth, therapists accepting new clients nationwide) ShrinkChicks Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shrinkchicks/id1483261668 (Emmalee and Jen's weekly podcast where they discuss therapy and therapeutic topics in a relatable, accessible way) Instagram pages: @shrinkchicks and @thetherapygrp Episode Sponsor Active Skin Repair, a skin health company helping people heal with natural / non-toxic, medical grade grade ingredients. Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Becky discuss the complexities of yelling as a parenting strategy, exploring its roots in personal experiences and childhood conditioning. They delve into the psychological mechanisms behind why yelling seems effective, the challenges of breaking the cycle of learned behaviors, and the importance of self-regulation for parents. The discussion highlights the emotional turmoil that can arise during extreme meltdowns and offers practical strategies for parents to manage their own responses while supporting their children. In this conversation, Nina and Becky Jennings explore the complexities of parenting, particularly focusing on the impact of yelling and the importance of emotional regulation. They discuss different types of yelling, the psychological effects on children, and strategies for parents to unlearn yelling behaviors. The conversation emphasizes the significance of repairing relationships after conflicts and how to communicate effectively with children. Becky shares practical tips for parents to visualize their responses and practice skills in calm moments, fostering a supportive environment for both parents and children. 00:00: The Yelling Journey: A Personal Reflection 05:01: Understanding the Mechanism of Yelling 10:09: The Challenge of Breaking Patterns 15:09: Navigating Extreme Meltdowns 20:00: Regulating Ourselves as Parents 25:54: Understanding Yelling: Types and Effects 39:03: Unlearning Yelling: Strategies for Parents 47:03: The Importance of Repairing Relationships 53:02: Connecting with Becky: Resources and Community Becky Jennings, is the mom of 3 boys: 2 of which she has the privilege of raising and 1 who she lost in labor and delivery - her son Jackson was the catalyst to her entire healing journey and why she is here today. She is a mom to an ADHD child, parent coach, founder of ResponseABLE Parenting, where she helps parents understand their triggers so they can go from reacting to the chaos of parenting to responding with aligned intention. She lives in Los Angeles, loves cooking but hates meal planning, loves reading but mostly listens on Audible, she is both a pragmatist and very woo woo, driven by her passion to connect with others and to support her children in ways she could have only dreamed of as a kid. Episode Sponsor: Eat smart with Factor. Get started at factormeals.com/factorpodcast and use code FACTORPODCAST to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping on your first box! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Caitlin Schollmeier discuss the complexities of the postpartum period, focusing on the challenges of identity shifts, mental health awareness, and the importance of building support systems for new mothers. Caitlin shares her experiences as a nurse midwife and offers practical advice for navigating the transition into motherhood, emphasizing the need for self-care and community support. 00:00: Introduction to Postpartum Challenges 05:00: Navigating Identity Shifts in Motherhood 14:02: Mental Health Awareness in Postpartum 21:00: Building Support Systems and Resources 25:03: Practical Tips for New Mothers Caitlyn Schollmeier is a registered labor & delivery nurse, childbirth educator and certified birth doula with more than a decade of experience in maternal care. She is devoted to the health and wellbeing of parents and their babies, having served more than 500 families over the past 10 years, with deep expertise in early childhood development, pregnancy, labor, birth, postpartum and women's health. Caitlyn earned a B.A. in Human Development and pursued three years of graduate-level midwifery study, yet considers herself a lifelong student and advocate of pregnancy support and child development. You can find her on TikTok: themodernmidwife  Episode Sponsor Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code MAMAKNOWS at Lumedeodorant.com! #lumepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Nina and Cassidy introduce a new segment called 'Tea with Moms,' where they discuss relatable topics and share personal experiences. They dive into pop culture gossip, explore friendship dynamics, and tackle listener-submitted dilemmas about relationships, in-laws, and marriage. The conversation emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, validating feelings, and maintaining connections in various relationships. The hosts aim to create a supportive environment for listeners, encouraging open discussions about the challenges of motherhood and relationships. 00:00: Introduction and Tech Mishaps 03:01: Tea with Moms: New Segment Introduction 06:07: Pop Culture Segment: Current Events and Gossip 09:06: Am I the Asshole? Friendship Breakups 14:04: In-Law Dynamics and Family Relationships 21:48: Navigating Annoyances in Marriage 27:06: Trust Issues: Friendships and Boundaries 35:56: We will be back! Episode Sponsors: Factor Meals  Eat smart with Factor. Get started at factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping.  Branch Basics Make this year the year you say goodbye to toxic products! Right now, our listeners get 15% off the Premium Starter Kit by using code MAMAKNOWS at BranchBasics.com. Make 2025 your cleanest, healthiest year yet with Branch Basics! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Myla discuss the complexities of shame in children, particularly focusing on 'spicy' kids who are more sensitive and emotionally intense. They explore how shame manifests in children, the origins of these feelings, and the importance of proactive parenting strategies to help children navigate their emotions. The discussion emphasizes the need for parents to understand their children's unique emotional landscapes and to foster an environment where children feel secure and loved, reducing the impact of shame. In this conversation, Myla Leinweber and Nina explore the complexities of parenting, particularly focusing on the themes of shame and guilt. They discuss how parents can navigate their own feelings of shame when interacting with their children, the importance of genuine apologies, and the distinction between guilt and shame. The conversation also delves into strategies for holding children accountable while minimizing shame, as well as proactive approaches to help children manage feelings of inadequacy. Ultimately, they highlight the unique joys and challenges of parenting 'spicy' kids who feel emotions deeply. 00:00: Navigating Shame in Parenting 02:54: Understanding Spicy Kids 05:57: The Origins and Impact of Shame 08:58: Recognizing Signs of Shame in Children 11:53: Proactive Strategies for Addressing Shame 14:55: Responding to Shame in the Moment 18:01: Building a Foundation Against Shame 22:16: Navigating Parental Shame and Guilt 25:20: The Art of Apologizing and Repairing Relationships 28:53: Understanding Guilt vs. Shame in Parenting 29:19: Holding Children Accountable Without Shame 35:40: Proactively Addressing Shame in Children 41:19: The Joy of Parenting Spicy Kids Myla is a parent educator who helps parents of spicy kids—those who live close to shame and feel everything in deep, wide ways—parent with confidence and connection. Specializing in young children, Myla uses her signature before/during/after framework to help parents deeply understand their child's behavior through the lens of temperament, shame, and the nervous system. With a B.Ed, M.Ed, master's-level parent coaching certification, and as a Safe and Sound Protocol Provider, Myla is the creator of the Joyful Parenting Collective and the Regulate and Relate program. Her warm, relatable approach focuses on playfulness, enjoying parenting more, seeing behind behavior, and turning down shame in ways that save parents time, energy, and frustration. Follow her for practical, hopeful tips on Instagram (@joyful.parents) or at www.joyfulparents.ca. Episode Sponsor: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code MAMAKNOWS at Lumedeodorant.com! #lumepod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Mary Jo Rapini explore the multifaceted concept of intimacy, emphasizing that it extends beyond sexual relations to include emotional, experiential, intellectual, and spiritual connections. They discuss the importance of communication in maintaining intimacy, especially after significant life changes such as having children. The conversation highlights the necessity of understanding and nurturing different types of intimacy to foster a healthy, long-term relationship. In this conversation, Nina and Mary discuss the complexities of intimacy in marriage, especially during the challenging parenting years. They explore the different forms of intimacy, the importance of communication, and how to navigate feelings of disconnection. The discussion emphasizes the need for partners to understand each other's needs and the dynamics of their relationship, particularly in the context of raising children. 00:00: Understanding Intimacy: Beyond the Surface 03:01: The Six Types of Intimacy 05:59: Navigating Changes After Kids 09:04: The Importance of Communication in Relationships 12:05: Exploring the Different Types of Intimacy 14:59: The Role of Spiritual Intimacy 17:59: Accepting Change in Long-Term Relationships 21:15: Navigating Parenting and Intimacy 26:29: Understanding Intimacy in Marriage 28:21: Addressing Disconnection in Relationships 35:11: Encouraging Partner Engagement in Relationship Growth Mary Jo Rapini, MEd, LPC, is a leading psychotherapist specializing in intimacy, sex and relationships. Based in Houston, Texas, she operates a private practice dedicated to providing exceptional services as a relationship and intimacy/sex psychotherapist. A highly sought after keynote speaker, Rapini's captivating speaking style resonates profoundly with individuals facing delicate intimacy issues and relationship challenges. She excels in guiding individuals through weight loss surgery and the transition to a healthier lifestyle, as well as addressing unspoken questions surrounding intimacy and sex in relationships. Additionally, Rapini has a unique talent for inspiring and empowering young girls dealing with body image issues, delivering a message that nurtures their transformation into reality, self assured women. Rapini is the accomplished author of several influential books, including "Is God Pink? Dying to Heal" as as a co-author of "Start Talking: A Girl's Guide for You and Your Mom about Health, Sex or Whatever" and R-Coupling: A Couple's 4 Step Guide to Greater Intimacy and Better Sex." Stay connected with Mary Jo Rapini Facebook - facebook.com/maryjorapini Twitter - @maryjorapini Instagram - @maryjorapini  Episode Sponsers: Branch Basics- Get 15% off Branch Basics with the code mamaknows at https://branchbasics.com/mamaknows #branchbasicspod Factor - Get started at factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dana K White discuss the challenges of decluttering and organizing homes, particularly from the perspective of those who struggle with clutter. Dana shares her journey from being messy to teaching others how to declutter effectively, emphasizing the importance of separating decluttering from organizing. They explore the mindset shifts needed to tackle clutter, the common traits of those who struggle with it, and practical tips for starting the decluttering process in a manageable way. In this conversation, Dana K White shares her insights on decluttering and organization, emphasizing the importance of embracing progress over perfection. She discusses the emotional attachments people have to items and provides practical questions to help with the decluttering process. Dana introduces the concept of containers as limits for belongings and explains how to determine what to keep based on available space. She also addresses maintaining organization by understanding individual clutter thresholds and offers strategies for effective home management. 00:00: The Journey to Decluttering 06:23: Understanding Clutter and Its Causes 11:12: The Mindset Shift: Decluttering vs. Organizing 16:20: Starting the Decluttering Process 20:21: Making Progress in Small Steps 21:06: Embracing Progress Over Perfection 22:40: Navigating Emotional Attachments to Items 23:47: Practical Decluttering Questions 27:08: Understanding the Concept of Containers 30:21: Determining What to Keep 34:03: Maintaining Organization and Clutter Thresholds Dana K. White is the creator of the No Mess Decluttering Method and (much to her own surprise) a Decluttering Expert. Dana shares realistic home management strategies and a message of hope for the hopelessly messy in her books: Organizing for the Rest of Us, Decluttering at the Speed of Life (a Wall Street Journal bestseller), and How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind. Dana teaches her strategies through her blog, podcast, and videos at ASlobComesClean.com and trains coaches in her unique decluttering process at DeclutteringCoaches.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Nichelle Laus discuss the critical topic of child safety, particularly in the context of the digital age. They explore the challenges parents face in teaching their children about safety, the importance of open communication, and the realities of online dangers. Nichelle shares her background as a former police officer and her passion for educating others on safety, while also providing practical tips for parents on how to navigate conversations about stranger danger and online safety. The discussion emphasizes the need for parents to empower their children to speak up about their feelings and experiences, fostering a sense of trust and safety within the family. In this conversation, Nichelle Laus shares valuable insights on how parents can help their children identify unsafe situations, trust their instincts, and establish safety plans. She emphasizes the importance of teaching children about online safety, setting boundaries, and maintaining open communication to ensure their well-being. The discussion covers practical tips for recognizing danger, creating safe words, and monitoring online activity, all aimed at empowering children to navigate their environments safely. 00:00: Navigating Child Safety in a Digital Age 02:51: Understanding the Role of Parents in Safety Education 05:55: Statistics and Realities of Child Safety 08:53: The Importance of Online Safety for Kids 11:57: Teaching Kids About Stranger Danger 15:14: Empowering Children to Speak Up 17:57: Navigating Family Dynamics and Safety Conversations 21:57: Understanding Unsafe Situations 25:27: Teaching Children to Trust Their Instincts 29:16: Creating Safety Plans for Children 31:46: Navigating Online Safety for Kids 39:24: The Importance of Open Communication Nichelle Laus is a former police officer, self-defense instructor, and a specialist in crime prevention and personal safety. She is a professor in Humber College's Police Foundation program in Toronto, Canada and the co-owner of 416 Tactical Supply which provides high quality tactical equipment for emergency responders. Nichelle is a mom of 4 boys ages 12 - 18 years old, and has recently published her first book, The Safety Blueprint: A Woman's Guide to Personal Safety and Self-Defence From a Former Police Officer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Cassidy reflect on their experiences and growth throughout 2024, discussing personal goals, self-care practices, stepping out of comfort zones, and professional achievements. They emphasize the importance of acknowledging one's own wins and the significance of community support. As they look ahead to 2025, they share their intentions and aspirations, focusing on self-improvement and nurturing relationships. 00:00 :Reflecting on 2024: A Year in Review 06:06: Self-Care: Prioritizing Mental and Physical Health 12:05: Stepping Out of Comfort Zones 18:01: Professional Growth and Community Building 23:51: Setting Intentions: Ins and Outs for 2025 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Gina Cleo explore the intricacies of goal setting, emphasizing the importance of realistic expectations and the psychology behind habit formation. They discuss the common pitfalls that lead to failure in achieving goals, the significance of focusing on manageable steps, and the role of manifestation in the goal-setting process. Dr. Cleo shares insights on how to track progress effectively and the importance of understanding triggers for habits, providing listeners with practical tools to enhance their goal-setting journey. 00:00: Setting the Stage for Goal Setting 02:55: Understanding the 95% vs. 5% in Goal Achievement 06:00: The Importance of Focused Goals 09:01: Breaking Down Goals into Manageable Steps 11:55: Overcoming Daunting Goals and Procrastination 15:04: The Role of Habits in Goal Achievement 18:01: Manifestation vs. Goal Setting 21:00: Tracking Progress and Habit Formation 23:54: Final Thoughts and Resources for Goal Setting Dr. Gina Cleo is a globally recognized expert in habit change and wellbeing, and is passionate about translating scientific evidence into simple, actionable strategies to help improve health, wellness and mindset-related habits – long-term. With a PhD in habit change, Gina is an Assistant Professor at Bond University, an Accredited Dietitian, and the Director of the Habit Change Institute. In 2024, Gina released her best-selling book, The Habit Revolution, further establishing her impact in the field of habits. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this weeks episode we revisit a fan favorite episode, talking about how to rewire your brain through positive affirmations so you can start living the life you are worthy of! It couldn't come at a better time as many of us are working on our new year resolutions and setting our intentions for the year. On this episode we dive into the following questions: This week's discussion: 1. What is manifestation? 2. How does science back up manifesting & positive thoughts? 3. What are positive affirmations? 4. How to practice manifestation and affirmations. 5. A list of some of my favorite affirmations Click here to buy my Manifestation Guide Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you struggle with self confidence? Having confidence is something I struggle with and have been working on across all areas of my life. In this episode we dive into the topic of confidence and how you can work on building yours! Discussion: 1. Why are some flamingos lighter pink/more washed out than others? 2. Signs you are lacking self confidence. 3. Simple things to implement daily to boost your self confidence. Purchase my manifestation guide for 2025! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My therapist and I did a stop light activity on my last day of therapy and It truly is a game changer! Grab a pen and paper and write down all the tips because I think it could help you too!  Episode Sponsor: Factor meals have been a life saver as a busy Mom. They save me on busy nights when the kids have activities. I know they will still get a delicious and well balanced meal. Head to factormeals.com/50mamaknows to get 50% off your first order plus free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Chinwe Williams discuss Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), its impact on both adults and children, and effective coping strategies. They explore the symptoms of SAD, the difference between winter blues and clinical depression, and the importance of recognizing these issues in children. Dr. Williams shares practical advice for managing mood changes during the winter months, including light therapy, outdoor activities, and maintaining a healthy diet. The discussion emphasizes the significance of communication and support in addressing mental health challenges. 00:00: Understanding Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) 13:30: Coping Strategies for Winter Blues and SAD 23:57: Recognizing SAD in Children and Teens 36:59: Resources and Support for Mental Health Meet Dr. Chinwe Dr. Chinwé is a highly regarded trauma therapist, bestselling author, trusted keynote speaker and workshop facilitator. Knowledgeable, competent and warm, Dr. Chinwé is a board-certified and dedicated mental health professional. She is an authority on stress, anxiety, burnout, trauma resolution, the intersection of faith, culture and mental health, youth, young adult and women's wellness. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), a Board Certified Counselor, a Counselor Educator & Supervisor and a certified EMDR therapist. She earned her Doctorate in Counselor Education & Practice from Georgia State University and her Master's degree in counseling from The University of Georgia. Dr. Chinwé lives in Cumming, Georgia, with her husband, two young sons and young adult daughter. Episode Sponsor: For busy days I love Factor meals. They have over 35 meals options every week making dinner a breeze on busy nights! Head to factormeals.com/50mamaknows and use our code, 50mamaknows for 50% off your first order plus free shipping! Element is a zero sugar electrolyte drink that gives you an efficient amount of electrolytes that your body needs. Get your free element sample pack with any purchase at drinkelement.com/mamaknows Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Chelsea Bodie discuss the challenges of managing toys in a child's life, including decision fatigue, toy overload, and the emotional aspects of purging toys. They explore practical strategies for parents to identify signs of toy overload, manage toy rotation, and involve children in the process of donating toys. The discussion also touches on navigating family dynamics during gift-giving seasons and addressing children's disappointment when they don't receive the gifts they wanted. 00:00: Understanding Decision Fatigue and Toy Overload 01:16: Introducing Chelsea Bodie and Her Expertise 02:46: Identifying Signs of Toy Overload in Children 04:41: Deciding What Toys to Keep or Discard 07:29: Managing Toy Rotation and Realistic Expectations 10:37: Navigating Toy Purging with Kids 12:43: Involving Kids in the Toy Donation Process 16:52: Setting Boundaries with Family During Gift Giving 18:20: Handling Holiday Gift Overwhelm 24:48: Addressing Gift Disappointment in Children About Chelsea After unexpectedly having her son at 27 weeks 5 days, she was quickly thrown into motherhood and NICU life. Falling more on the postpartum depression side and struggling with the aftermath of being in NICU for months, she knew she wanted to help other parents whose journeys don't go as expected. At MamaPsychologists and Couples to Cradles Counselling she provides the support and education that all moms deserve to have available! Her mission is to provide mothers with practical tools, emotional guidance, and unwavering support, so they can navigate the wild ride of parenting without losing themselves along the way. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Mary discuss the complexities of body image, family dynamics, and the importance of setting boundaries, especially during the holiday season. They share personal experiences and practical advice on how to empower children with knowledge about their bodies, navigate family expectations, and communicate effectively about private parts. The discussion emphasizes the significance of fostering a safe environment for children to express their boundaries and the challenges parents face in advocating for their children's autonomy. In this conversation, Mary Van Geffen and Nina discuss the importance of empowering children to set boundaries, the significance of unified parenting, and how to navigate conversations about body image and negative body talk within families. They emphasize the need for open communication, preparation for social situations, and the impact of adult conversations on children's self-esteem and body image. 00:00: Navigating Body Image and Family Dynamics 05:56: Setting Boundaries with Family 11:54: Establishing Healthy Boundaries 22:09: Empowering Children to Set Boundaries 28:27: Navigating Body Image Conversations About Mary Mary Van Geffen is an international parenting coach and parent educator for overwhelmed moms of strong-willed & Spicy Children™. She teaches monthly workshops to help moms gain confidence to choose gentle, respectful parenting especially if they weren't raised that way. Mary has a ministry on Instagram where she posts an inspiring parenting tip every single day. Just reading her social media will help you delight in your child and remember that you are enough. Mary believes that when a mom realizes how hard she is on herself and cracks the door open for some self-compassion, her entire family is bathed in light! Mary is a certified Simplicity Parenting Counselor® and Professional Co-Active Coach®. Her greatest achievement, however, is cultivating a calm, kind, and firm relationship with her spirited go-getter daughter (17), polar-opposite introverted son (15) and un-Enneagramable hubby. You can find Mary At www.maryvangeffen.com for classes and www.instagram.com/maryvangeffen.com and for more information visit  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Laura discuss the complexities of neurodivergence, particularly in children. They explore the meaning of neurodivergence, the role of diagnosis, and the challenges parents face in understanding and supporting their neurodivergent children. Laura shares insights from her experience as a pediatric occupational therapist, emphasizing the importance of recognizing individual needs and the benefits of labels in providing support. The discussion also highlights sensory processing challenges and how they manifest in daily life, offering practical advice for parents navigating these issues. In this conversation, Laura Petix and Nina discuss the complexities of parenting neurodivergent children, particularly focusing on sensory processing differences. They explore how environmental factors influence children's sensory needs, the importance of advocating for support and resources, and strategies for setting children up for success in school. The emotional challenges faced by parents are also highlighted, emphasizing the need for self-care and understanding in the parenting journey. 00:00: Understanding Neurodivergence 05:55: Navigating Labels and Support 12:00: Characteristics of Neurodivergent Children 18:01: Identifying Neurodivergent Traits in Children 27:32: Understanding Sensory Differences in Children 36:12: Setting Up Children for Success in School 42:54: The Emotional Toll of Parenting Neurodivergent Children Laura Petix is a neurodiverse affirming pediatric Occupational Therapist, podcast host, parent coach, course creator and author who specializes in sensory processing and nervous system regulation for neurodivergent individuals. If there's one thing Laura wants you to know, it's that sensory processing has a direct influence on learning and behavior. She is a neurodivergent parent to a neurodivergent daughter, which is what allows her to be able to talk about neurodiversity in a way that other parents can actually understand and also resonate with. You can find more of her work on instagram @theotbutterfly or her podcast, Sensory W.I.S.E. Solutions for parents. You can find her book, "a kids book about neurodiversity" on amazon Free download: www.theotbutterfly.com/sensoryprofiles101 A one page handout to help you understand the different sensory profiles and identify which sensory areas your child may need more support in. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Emma Christmas delve into the concept of love languages, particularly focusing on how understanding these can enhance parenting and strengthen connections with children. They discuss the five love languages—words of affirmation, physical touch, quality time, gifts, and acts of service—and how recognizing a child's love language can improve their emotional well-being and behavior. Emma emphasizes the importance of adapting parenting styles to nurture children's love languages while also addressing the challenges parents face in providing connection amidst busy lives. The discussion highlights the significance of self-awareness in parenting and the impact of early experiences on a child's love language development. 00:00: Understanding Love Languages 04:12: The Importance of Love Languages for Children 08:02: Exploring the Five Love Languages 12:32: Adapting Parenting Styles to Love Languages 16:26: Navigating Connection and Attention Seeking 21:19: Recognizing Signs of Connection Needs 25:56: The Development of Love Languages Emma Christmas | Founder of Everyday EHC Teacher and parenting bestie specialising in emotional well-being, children's mental health, behaviour and big feelings. I'm all about helping parents to help their children and this starts with understanding why children think, react and behave like they do. I've supported thousands of families online and offline. I offer children's relaxation audios, quality time ebooks and courses for parents and practitioners. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayehc/ Love Languages Blog Post:  https://www.everydayplayideas.co.uk/post/lovelanguages Free affirmations eBook:  https://www.everydayplayideas.co.uk/ebook  Episode Sponsor: Lume whole body deodorant is the perfect solution for anyone! Lume is baking soda and paraben free and most importantly, ph balanced. As a special offer for our listeners, all new customers can get 15% off all Lume products. Use our code, mamaknows, for 15% off your first purchase at lumedeodorant.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Julia Woods delve into the common issue of repetitive conflicts in relationships, exploring the underlying causes and offering insights on how to navigate these challenges. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, the role of tone in communication, and practical techniques for effective dialogue. Julia introduces the concept of viewing conflicts as 'X marks the spot' on a treasure map, emphasizing the potential for growth and healing within these recurring issues. The conversation also highlights the significance of regular relationship check-ins and the need for vulnerability in fostering deeper connections. 00:00: Understanding Repetitive Conflicts in Relationships 05:04: The Treasure Map of Marriage: X Marks the Spot 10:01: Exploring Tone and Validation in Communication 15:05: The Role of Self-Awareness in Conflict Resolution 19:48: Practical Techniques for Effective Communication 26:56: The Importance of Regular Relationship Check-Ins 30:09: Navigating Vulnerability and Resistance in Conversations Julia Woods is a relationship coach, passionate about helping couples communicate well believing that when spouses know how to communicate, they can literally overcome any challenge in life together. Julia offers courses for couples, a couples retreat and 1:1 coaching. Find her on her at Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayehc/ Love Languages Blog Post:  https://www.everydayplayideas.co.uk/post/lovelanguages Free affirmations eBook:  https://www.everydayplayideas.co.uk/ebook  Episode Sponsor: Element is a zero sugar electrolyte drink. Whether you are a Mom on the go or an athlete, these will be perfect for you. Get your free Element sample pack with any purchase at drinkelement.com. Visit drinkelement.com/mamaknows to try to the new Element Sparkling, a bold 16 ounce can of sparkling electrolyte water. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Cassidy recap the successful Mama Knows Live event, which focused on women's mental health and community building. They discuss the event's highlights, the mission behind the Nurtura Foundation, and the importance of confidence and support among women. The conversation also touches on the challenges of event planning and the key takeaways from the experience, emphasizing the need for connection and vulnerability in motherhood and beyond. 00:00: Introduction and Event Overview 02:55: Event Highlights and Experiences 06:08: Nurtura Foundation and Its Mission 09:52: Defining Confidence and Community 13:51: Challenges in Event Planning 17:10: Key Takeaways and Reflections Find us on Instagram Mamaknowslive NurturaFoundation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

With Halloween quickly approaching we wanted to revisit thoughts on sweets and if we should be limiting their intake and how we can talk to our kids about sweets. Sammie and I talked about how we should approach the topic of sweets and treats when it comes to our kids on this fan favorite episode. We covered: How do we talk about sweets and treats to our kids? How do we limit sweets & treats without causing deprivation and or a complex around certain foods? How much access should the kids have to the pantry that also contains sweets & treats? How controlled should this space be? What do I do if my kid only wants to eat sweets and won't eat their meal? Samantha Gollup is a compassionate and dedicated Registered Dietitian from Madison, Wisconsin. With an extensive background in Surgical Weight Management, she has discovered her true calling within the realm of intuitive eating and founded her private practice, Anti Diet Mama. As the founder of Anti Diet Mama, Sammie is on a mission to empower mamas to heal their relationships with food and their bodies by dismantling the harmful teachings of diet culture. Through Intuitive Eating and Body Image Counseling, Sammie guides mamas to embrace their bodies, cultivate healthful habits, and elevate their overall quality of life while simplifying nutrition. Her personalized approach empowers each mother to break free from the dieting cycle, enabling them to rediscover their authentic selves and raise the next generation without the toxic influence of diet culture. Passionate about helping women find balance amid their busy lives, Sammie encourages mothers to carve out space for self-care and prioritize their own health and well-being so they can model this for their kids. She firmly believes that every woman deserves to nourish both body and soul without guilt or shame. Beyond her professional endeavors, Sammie finds joy in spending cherished moments with her husband and their lively toddlers. Her zest for life extends to exploring various forms of movement, indulging in delectable food with loved ones, and embarking on new adventures through travel. Samantha Gollup's unwavering dedication to promoting body acceptance and intuitive eating has made her a guiding light for countless mothers seeking to transform their relationship with food and themselves. With her warmth, expertise, and wholehearted commitment to empowering others, Sammie is shaping a healthier, more vibrant future for families and communities alike. You can find her on Insta @anti.diet.mama Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Eli delve into the intricacies of attachment theory and its profound influence on parenting. Eli shares her personal journey with attachment styles, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the importance of fostering secure attachments with children. They discuss the various attachment styles, how they manifest in parenting, and the significance of conflict resolution and repair in maintaining healthy relationships with children. In this conversation, Nina and Eli explore the complexities of parenting, focusing on the emotional challenges parents face and the importance of secure attachment. They discuss the balance between acknowledging one's own insecurities while striving to provide a nurturing environment for children. Eli emphasizes the significance of making repairs in relationships, the pitfalls of over-apologizing, and the misconceptions surrounding boundaries and connection. He outlines four essential practices for parents to foster secure attachments with their children, highlighting the need for emotional regulation and self-awareness in parenting. 00:00: Understanding Attachment Theory 07:09: The Impact of Attachment on Parenting 13:57: Exploring Attachment Styles 20:08: Navigating Conflict and Repair in Parenting 25:38: Navigating Parenting Insecurities 27:24: The Burden of Repair in Parenting 29:07: Over-Apologizing: A Common Parental Pitfall 32:40: Misconceptions About Boundaries and Connection 35:36: Four Essential Parenting Practices 42:33: Finding Balance in Parenting Meet Eli Eli Harwood is a licensed therapist, author, and educator who has more than 17 years of experience helping people process relational traumas and develop secure attachment relationships with their children and partners. Eli has three children, one husband, two cats, and an extraordinary number of plants. Episode Sponsor Lume offers full body deodorant that is baking soda and paraben free and ph balanced. New customers get 15% off all Lume products with our exclusive code, mamaknows at lumedeodorant.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina interviews Stephen and Erin Mitchell, a couple who run a company called Couples Counseling for Parents. They discuss the common issue of in-laws causing tension in relationships and provide insights on how to navigate this challenge. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, validating each other's experiences, and working as a team. The conversation covers topics such as handling sensitive conversations about in-laws, dealing with defensive partners, and finding effective communication strategies. Overall, the conversation normalizes the difficulties of navigating relationships with in-laws and offers practical advice for couples. In this conversation, Stephen and Erin discuss the importance of setting boundaries with in-laws and navigating challenging relationships. They emphasize the need for clear communication and expressing needs in a vulnerable way. They also discuss the distinction between difficult relationships and toxic relationships, highlighting the importance of addressing toxic dynamics. They provide insights on how to have proactive conversations, give positive feedback, and navigate challenging situations with in-laws. They also touch on the topic of cutting out toxic family members and the importance of being on the same page as a couple. 00:00: Introduction and Background of the Guests 02:00: The Common Issue of In-Laws Causing Tension 06:21: Navigating the Complexities of In-Law Relationships 08:19: Validating Experiences and Emotions in In-Law Discussions 13:03: Setting Boundaries and Expectations with In-Laws 19:28: Working as a Team to Navigate In-Law Challenges 23:12: Navigating Boundaries with In-Laws 27:00: Proactive Communication and Positive Feedback 28:15: Setting Boundaries with In-Laws 33:05: Differentiating Difficult Relationships and Toxic Relationships 44:19: The Serious Decision of Cutting Out Toxic Family Members About Erin and Stephen We are a married couple with three kids and founders of Couples Counseling for Parents. Also, we both have advanced degrees in psychology. Stephen is a psychotherapist and has a PhD in Medical Family Therapy and Erin has a Masters in Counseling Psychology. Just like every couple we want to feel in love and feel deeply connected to one another. As parents we want to give our kids the world, be phenomenal parents, and feel close to our kids. Sometimes in the chaos of parenting it doesn't feel like you can be close as a couple. Your are too tired, too busy, too overwhelmed, too everything… We have taken all our experience (personal and professional) and education about relational wellness and developed practical tools for couples to connect and stay connected as they parent. Episode Sponsor Element is a zero sugar electrolyte drink. Whether you are a mom on the go like me, an athlete, or just trying to live a healthier lifestyle these will be perfect for you! Get your free Element sample pack with any purchase at drinkelement.com/mamaknows  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Rebekka discuss the often-overlooked importance of sleep for adults, particularly for parents. They explore the concept of chronotypes, how understanding one's natural sleep patterns can enhance productivity, and practical tips for adjusting sleep habits. The discussion also addresses common sleep issues, misconceptions about sleep, and the significance of establishing a healthy bedtime routine. Rebekka shares her expertise as an adult sleep consultant, emphasizing the need for realistic and sustainable sleep strategies for busy individuals. 00:00: The Importance of Sleep for Adults 05:07: Understanding Chronotypes and Their Impact 10:15: Adjusting Sleep Patterns: Tips for Night Owls 14:50: Common Sleep Issues and Healthy Habits 22:39: Debunking Sleep Myths and Misconceptions Rebekka Wall is a certified adolescent and adult sleep consultant with Sleep Wise Consulting and is passionate about helping people prioritize sleep and proper rest. As a wife and a homeschooling mother to three boys, Rebekka knows the ability to live with more energy, less stress, balanced hormones, reduced mental fatigue, and achievable health goals are met through consistent, quality sleep. She has a special interest in how hormonal shifts throughout a woman's life impact sleep and is all about providing realistic and sustainable tools for long-term success. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Danielle discuss the challenges of maintaining friendships, especially in motherhood. They explore the different types of friendships and how to align with different friends. They also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and managing expectations in friendships. Danielle provides tips on how to navigate a perceived lack of balance and reciprocity in a friendship, and how to identify toxic dynamics. They also discuss the impact of social media on female friendships and ways to make and nurture friendships in busy seasons of life. 00:00: Introduction 03:00: Understanding Different Types of Friendships 08:28: Setting Boundaries and Managing Expectations 13:15: Dealing with a Lack of Balance and Reciprocity 18:48: The Impact of Social Media on Female Friendships 29:06: Making and Nurturing Friendships in Busy Seasons Danielle Bayard Jackson is a female friendship coach and educator who speaks nationally about the science of women's platonic connections. She is also the author of Fighting for Our Friendships (May 2024). Danielle's coaching business, Friend Forward, is dedicated to teaching women how to create and maintain better female friendships, and her expertise has been featured in The New York Times, NBC News, Psychology Today, Wall Street Journal, Oprah Magazine, Good Morning America, and a host of other media outlets. A former high school teacher, Danielle now uses her teaching skills and leverages her background to study what the latest research has to say about women's cooperation, communication, and conflict. As a member of the American Sociological Association, she uses the latest research to create tangible strategies to help women create more depth in their platonic relationships. Companies like TikTok, the NBA, NFL, and Etsy have all booked Danielle as a speaker to address the topic of connection psychology. She's even served as Bumble's resident friendship expert and spokesperson for its new app Bumble for Friends. Danielle shares her insight weekly on The Friend Forward Podcast, has several viral videos on social media, and has written for Insider and Harvard Business Review. You can learn more about Danielle and her work by visiting www.betterfemalefriendships.com. Episode Sponsor: Danielle Bayard Jackson is a female friendship coach and educator who speaks nationally about the science of women's platonic connections. She is also the author of Fighting for Our Friendships (May 2024). Danielle's coaching business, Friend Forward, is dedicated to teaching women how to create and maintain better female friendships, and her expertise has been featured in The New York Times, NBC News, Psychology Today, Wall Street Journal, Oprah Magazine, Good Morning America, and a host of other media outlets. A former high school teacher, Danielle now uses her teaching skills and leverages her background to study what the latest research has to say about women's cooperation, communication, and conflict. As a member of the American Sociological Association, she uses the latest research to create tangible strategies to help women create more depth in their platonic relationships. Companies like TikTok, the NBA, NFL, and Etsy have all booked Danielle as a speaker to address the topic of connection psychology. She's even served as Bumble's resident friendship expert and spokesperson for its new app Bumble for Friends. Danielle shares her insight weekly on The Friend Forward Podcast, has several viral videos on social media, and has written for Insider and Harvard Business Review. You can learn more about Danielle and her work by visiting www.betterfemalefriendships.com. Episode Sponsor: Lume New customers get 15% off all Lume products with our exclusive code. Combine this offer with the already 15% off starter pack and you will get 30% off! Use our exclusive code, mamaknows for 15% off your first purchase! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Darria discuss baby safety and the importance of keeping children safe in various aspects of their lives. Dr. Darria, an ER physician and mother, shares her passion for helping families navigate the overwhelming amount of information on baby safety. They discuss the importance of trusting a mother's intuition and the challenges of balancing safety with allowing children to explore and play. Dr. Darria emphasizes the key areas of focus for baby safety, including safe sleep, car safety, and bath safety. She provides practical tips and reassurance for parents to reduce risks and create a safe environment for their children. In this conversation, Dr. Darria discusses the top injuries that parents could have addressed at home to prevent ER visits. The main injuries she mentions are related to water safety, car safety, choking and poisoning, and falls. She also emphasizes the importance of baby-proofing the home and provides tips on how to do it effectively. Dr. Darria advises parents to remove, relocate, and co-locate dangerous items, as well as create safe spaces where they can leave their child unattended for short periods. When purchasing products like car seats and toys, she recommends checking for JPMA certification and buying from reputable vendors. Lastly, she shares some amusing stories about children putting objects in their orifices. 00:00: Introduction and the Importance of Baby Safety 02:58: Dr. Darria's Background and Passion for Child Safety 05:50: Balancing Safety and Allowing Kids to Play 08:59: The Key Areas of Baby Safety: Sleep, Car, and Bath 14:06: Challenges and Tips for Car Seat Safety 16:55: Bath Safety and the Importance of Supervision 19:52: Conclusion and Final Thoughts on Baby Safety 20:17: Top Injuries That Could Have Been Addressed at Home 22:08: Preventing Accidents: Water Safety, Car Safety, Choking, and Falls 23:13: Baby-Proofing: Remove, Relocate, and Co-Locate 24:08: Choosing Safe Products: JPMA Certification and Reputable Vendors 36:22: The Dangers of Orifice Exploration 38:09: Supervision and Childproofing Dr. Darria Long leverages the best of science, to make our lives healthier, better… and easier. Dr. Darria is offering her new course to our listeners for a discounted rate. Visit NoPanicParenting.com with code MAMKNOWS. The course launches Course launches 10/16. Pre-sale goes from 9/17 - 10/16! By combining her life's work as an Emergency Room physician and being a mom of three – Dr. Darria has become the nation's ‘making life better for women' doctor by helping individuals pave ways to stay present and remain healthy during times of constant distractions and high stress. With a website devoted to distilling health headlines and creating a thriving lifestyle, Dr. Darria shares simple, evidence-based (from western, eastern, and integrative medicine) advice on physical and mental wellness, and the health guidance you'd expect and trust from a close friend. A favored national TV contributor and national bestselling author of Mom Hacks, Dr. Darria is also a TED speaker “How to triage your life like an ER doctor,” and Clinical Assistant Professor at the University of Tennessee. She received her training in emergency medicine at Yale School of Medicine and her MBA from Harvard Business School. A featured regular on CNN, Headline News, NBC, Interview Healthline, Hallmark,Lifetime, Dr. Oz, Thrive Global, Atlanta Small Business Network, Parenting for the future, and many others. Episode Sponsers: Better Help Rediscover your curiosity with Better Help. Visit betterhelp.com/mamaknows today to get 10% off your first month Factor Meals Head to factormeals.com/mamaknows50 and use code mamaknows50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Alyssa discuss the topic of money and its impact on relationships. They explore the concept of money guilt and scarcity, and how it can stem from one's background and upbringing. They also delve into the challenges couples face when it comes to money, including conflicts and financial infidelity. Alyssa provides tips on how to have productive conversations about money with your partner, as well as the importance of budgeting and building an emergency fund. She emphasizes the need for mindset shifts and reframing negative money narratives to improve financial wellness. 00:00: Introduction and Money Guilt 11:59: Money in Relationships 19:07: The Importance of Budgeting 21:45: Building an Emergency Fund 26:57: Mindset Shifts for Financial Wellness About Alyssa: Alyssa Davies is a Trauma of Money certified facilitator and a published author living in Calgary, Alberta. She founded the two-time award-winning Canadian Personal Finance Blog of the Year, Mixed Up Money, and is the cohost of Money Feels, a podcast dedicated to healing your relationship with finances. Alyssa is currently pursuing her Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology, and her books, The 100 Day Financial Goal Journal and Financial First Aid are currently available for purchase. Episode Sponsor: For a limited time, kids eat FREE! Go to HelloFresh.com/mamakids to unlock this exclusive offer. One free kids' meal per box for two months while subscription is active. That's FREE kids' meals just by going to HelloFresh dot com slash mamakids. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina discusses her concerns about her son's reading development with Jessica Farmer, an expert in early literacy. They cover key milestones in early reading development, tips for parents to introduce reading skills, common mistakes to avoid, and red flags that indicate a child may be struggling with reading. Jessica emphasizes the importance of early intervention and provides resources for parents to support their child's reading journey. Chapters 00:00: Introduction and Concerns 05:10: Key Milestones in Early Reading Development 08:43: Tips for Introducing Reading Skills 18:42: Common Mistakes in Teaching Children to Read 25:58: Recognizing Red Flags and Seeking Intervention 31:14: Conclusion and Resources Meet Jessica Farmer, the force behind Farmer Loves Phonics, a literacy advocate in the world of education on social media. With a bachelor's degree from Florida International University, Jessica also holds a reading endorsement in the state of Florida. Her journey into the science of reading began in 2020, spurred by the onset of the pandemic. In response, she took to TikTok to create informative content, aimed at assisting parents in supporting their children's learning at home. Since then, Jessica has maintained a consistent presence on TikTok and Instagram, offering valuable resources and insights for both parents and educators. Dedicated to advancing the field of reading instruction, Jessica has expanded her knowledge through specialized training. In 2021 and 2022, she successfully completed LETRS for Early Childhood and Comprehensive IMSE Orton-Gillingham. Her unwavering passion lies in making reading instruction accessible and effective for every learner. With a commitment to reaching and empowering all readers, Jessica continues to be a trusted source of guidance and support in the science of reading community. Jessica is currently the lead professional trainer for Rainbow Phonics and a facilitator for LETRS EC. Episode Sponsors: City Beauty Get fuller, healthier, younger-looking lips in a wide range of colors with City Lips by City Beauty. Go to citybeauty.com and use my code mamaknows for 15% off your purchase.  Lands End I love the wrinkle resistant fabric which is key for me when it comes to travel and even kids back to school clothes! So seize the summer with landsend.com and use code mamaknows to get 30% off your summer purchase. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina discusses the topic of shame in children with Alexandra Idens, the founder of Big Life Journal. They explore how children experience shame, how parents can recognize and address it, and how to build resilience in children to handle setbacks and failures constructively. 00:00: Introduction and Personal Experiences with Shame 08:38: Creating Family Agreements to Address Shameful Behavior 17:07: Supporting Children Through Shameful Experiences 25:23: Building Resilience in Children to Handle Setbacks 28:45: The Importance of Connection and Unconditional Love 30:56: Letting Children Feel and Learn from Shameful Moments Alexandra Eidens is the found and CEO of Big Life Journal. At Big Life Journal, their mission is to give parents, teachers, therapists, and counselors the tools they need to help kids grow up confident, resilient, and ready to take on the world. They work to make it easier for you to nurture kids who believe in themselves and their ability to achieve big things. Find out more on her socials: www.biglifejournal.com On Instagram This episode's sponsors: City Beauty Get fuller, healthier, younger-looking lips in a wide range of colors with City Lips by City Beauty. Go to citybeauty.com and use my code mamaknows for 15% off your purchase.  Lands End I love the wrinkle resistant fabric which is key for me when it comes to travel and even kids back to school clothes! So seize the summer with landsend.com and use code mamaknows to get 30% off your summer purchase. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The conversation explores the importance of talking to kids about disabilities and how to approach the topic. Amanda Owen, who has a brother with a rare chromosomal disability, shares her personal experience and passion for advocating for individuals with disabilities. They discuss the need to normalize disabilities early on, finding common ground with individuals with disabilities, and the importance of open and honest conversations. They also touch on the generational shift in attitudes towards disabilities and the impact of societal norms on children's perceptions. In this conversation, Amanda Owen discusses how to address children's curiosities and teach empathy and inclusivity towards individuals with disabilities. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing similarities and finding common interests, as well as using moments of curiosity as teaching opportunities. Amanda also suggests using the phrase 'excuse us while we're learning' to address inappropriate comments and engage in a respectful conversation. She encourages parents to have scripted conversations with their children about differences and to model empathy and inclusivity in their own behavior. Amanda also shares her books, 'Owen the Wonder' series, which teach children about disabilities and promote understanding and acceptance. Chapters 00:00: Introduction and Personal Experience 02:50: Normalization and Early Conversations 07:46: Finding Common Ground 13:00: Open and Honest Conversations 17:55: Challenging Societal Norms 22:21: Recognizing Similarities and Finding Common Interests 27:17: Modeling Behavior and Having Scripted Conversations 31:45: Promoting Understanding and Acceptance Through Books About Amanda Amanda Owen is a children's book author, speaker, podcaster, nonprofit founder/director and lifelong advocate for those with disabilities. Her big brother, Nick, was the 11th person in the world diagnosed with his rare chromosomal disability, which meant Amanda grew up as an advocate. She became a special education teacher to help students like her brother, but desired to offer her students and their families more. Taking a leap of faith, Amanda left the classroom 11 years ago to launch Puzzle Pieces, a Kentucky-based nonprofit that serves individuals with disabilities, offering them targeted autism services, residential living, vocational training, supported employment, behavior services and more. Amanda's work has become a state and national model for disability services, allowing her to speak all over the country on advocacy, provider services and her perspective as a sibling. She inspires everyone she meets to dream big, work hard, own their mistakes and learn from them, be themselves, and most of all -- laugh! Amanda loves to connect! Find her at: Website: piecesofme.org Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pieces-of-me/id1547078857 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/piecesofmebyamanda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/piecesofmebyamanda/ Episode Sponsors: Invest in your whole family's health with Seed. Go to Seed.com/MAMAKNOWS and use code 25MAMAKNOWS to get 25% off your first month of DS-01® Daily Synbiotic or PDS-08® Pediatric Daily Synbiotic.  Never skip therapy day, with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/MAMAKNOWS today to get 10% off your first month. Disney Jr.'s Ariel is an animated musical series for preschoolers inspired by the beloved story of “The Little Mermaid.” It follows 8-year-old mermaid princess Ariel as she and her friends embark on fun-filled, action-packed underwater adventures throughout their Caribbean-inspired fairytale kingdom of Atlantica and beyond. The series features fan-favorite characters, including King Triton, Ursula, Sebastian, and Flounder, as well as exciting new additions like Ariel's two best friends, mer-children Lucia and Fernie, and lots of other adorable sea creatures. The series debuts Thursday, June 27 on Disney Jr. and next day, Friday, June 28 on Disney+. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Jessica discuss the importance of routines for children, especially during the back-to-school transition. Jessica, a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Rooted in Routine, shares the benefits of routines for children's physical and mental health, cognitive development, and stress management. They also discuss strategies for preparing children for the school year, managing screen time, and helping children decompress after school. Jessica provides advice for parents navigating different routines in two households. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the significance of routines in creating stability and supporting children's well-being. Jessica Irwin is a childhood routine expert, pediatric occupational therapist, mom of a toddler, and lover of all things child development. She founded her online business, Rooted in Routine, to help parents learn simple, easy-to-implement routines for optimal baby and child development at every age. Her approach is largely rooted in going back to the basics to help you establish solid, age-appropriate routines for things like feeding, play, mealtimes, potty, and sleep. She believes this is the most important foundation you can provide for your child - and she wants to help you do just that! You can find her on socials at @rootedinroutine or www.rootedinroutine.com. Jessica is having a back-to-school sale this August (8/15-8/19) where her Comprehensive Routine Guides will be 20% off! We love our Dream Land Baby Pajamas for the kiddos, go the dreamlandbabyco.com and enter code MAMAKNOWS at checkout to receive 30% off sitewide + free shipping! Land End has so many great options for the whole family! If you haven't checked out their swimsuits yet, you are missing out! Go to Landsend.com and use code mamaknows for 30% off your purchase. Disney Jr.'s Ariel is an animated musical series for preschoolers inspired by the beloved story of “The Little Mermaid.” It follows 8-year-old mermaid princess Ariel as she and her friends embark on fun-filled, action-packed underwater adventures throughout their Caribbean-inspired fairytale kingdom of Atlantica and beyond. The series features fan-favorite characters, including King Triton, Ursula, Sebastian, and Flounder, as well as exciting new additions like Ariel's two best friends, mer-children Lucia and Fernie, and lots of other adorable sea creatures. The series debuts Thursday, June 27 on Disney Jr. and next day, Friday, June 28 on Disney+. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Menije discuss perfectionism and its impact on women, particularly in the context of motherhood. They explore different types of perfectionism and how it can manifest in various areas of life. Dr. Menije emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and embracing imperfection as antidotes to perfectionism. They also discuss how parents can help their children navigate perfectionism by teaching them to embrace mistakes and regulate their emotions. Overall, the conversation highlights the need to challenge societal expectations and redefine the concept of perfection. 00:00: Introduction and Personal Experiences with Perfectionism 03:11: Understanding the Different Types of Perfectionism 07:20: Perfectionism in Motherhood: Fear of Not Being Good Enough 10:36: The Role of Comparison and Social Media in Perfectionism 13:21: Overcoming Perfectionism: Self-Compassion and Embracing Imperfection 19:28: Helping Children Navigate Perfectionism: Embracing Mistakes and Regulating Emotions 25:25: Addressing Our Own Perfectionism as Parents More About Dr. Menije Dr. Menije is a licensed psychologist in private practice in Los Angeles, CA and a leading expert on overcoming perfectionism and building an authentic life. She knows her clients can bust out of their comfort zones, take ownership of their dreams, and create a new sense of self. As the founder of Perfectionism University, an online platform for self-help courses on breaking up with perfectionism, her goal is to create a community where we can all unlearn Perfectionism and start our journey of embracing imperfections and owning our enoughness. Disney Jr.'s Ariel is an animated musical series for preschoolers inspired by the beloved story of “The Little Mermaid.” It follows 8-year-old mermaid princess Ariel as she and her friends embark on fun-filled, action-packed underwater adventures throughout their Caribbean-inspired fairytale kingdom of Atlantica and beyond. The series features fan-favorite characters, including King Triton, Ursula, Sebastian, and Flounder, as well as exciting new additions like Ariel's two best friends, mer-children Lucia and Fernie, and lots of other adorable sea creatures. The series debuts Thursday, June 27 on Disney Jr. and next day, Friday, June 28 on Disney+. Invest in your whole family's health with Seed. Go to Seed.com/MAMAKNOWS and use code 25MAMAKNOWS to get 25% off your first month of DS-01® Daily Synbiotic or PDS-08® Pediatric Daily Synbiotic.   For a limited time, kids eat FREE! Go to HelloFresh.com/mamakids to unlock this  exclusive offer. One free kids' meal per box for two months while subscription is active. That's FREE kids' meals just by going to HelloFresh dot com slash mamakids. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you struggle with self confidence? Having confidence is something I struggle with and have been working on across all areas of my life. In this episode we dive into the topic of confidence and how you can work on building yours! Discussion: 1. Why are some flamingos lighter pink/more washed out than others? 2. Signs you are lacking self confidence. 3. Simple things to implement daily to boost your self confidence. Click here to buy my Manifestation Guide.  Disney Jr.'s Ariel is an animated musical series for preschoolers inspired by the beloved story of “The Little Mermaid.” It follows 8-year-old mermaid princess Ariel as she and her friends embark on fun-filled, action-packed underwater adventures throughout their Caribbean-inspired fairytale kingdom of Atlantica and beyond. The series features fan-favorite characters, including King Triton, Ursula, Sebastian, and Flounder, as well as exciting new additions like Ariel's two best friends, mer-children Lucia and Fernie, and lots of other adorable sea creatures. The series debuts Thursday, June 27 on Disney Jr. and next day, Friday, June 28 on Disney+. City Lips by City Beauty Shop citybeauty.com and get 15% off site wide with code: mamaknows Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Kristin Neff discuss the importance of self-compassion and its power to improve our well-being. Dr. Neff, a researcher and expert in self-compassion, shares insights from her own personal experiences and research. They explore the difference between self-compassion and self-esteem, the reasons why people struggle with self-compassion, and practical steps to cultivate self-compassion. They also discuss the role of self-compassion in parenting and how to help children develop self-compassion. Dr. Neff provides resources, including her website and books, to support individuals in practicing self-compassion. Chapters 00:00: Introduction and Personal Experiences 02:56: The Power of Self-Compassion 09:30: Understanding and Overcoming Obstacles to Self-Compassion 18:21: Practical Steps to Cultivate Self-Compassion 21:34: Helping Children Develop Self-Compassion 26:24: Navigating Shame and Guilt 28:23: Self-Compassion for Coping with Burnout Dr. Kristin Neff is an Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. She is a pioneer in the field of self-compassion research, conducting the first empirical studies on self-compassion more than twenty years ago. She has been recognized as one of the most influential researchers in psychology worldwide. Kristin runs the Self-Compassion Community, an online learning platform where people can learn the skill of self-compassion with the help of others. She is author of the bestselling books Self-Compassion and Fierce Self-Compassion. Along with her colleague Chris Germer, she developed the empirically-supported Mindful Self- Compassion program and co-founded the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion. They co-wrote the best-selling The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook and have a new book called Mindful Self-Compassion for Burnout coming out in Fall 2024. For more info go to self-compassion.org. Today's episode Sponsors: BetterHelp.com/MAMAKNOWS - to get 10% off your first month of therapy  Lumedeodorant.com and use code MAMAKNOWS for 15% off  Go to Seed.com/MAMAKNOWS and use code 25MAMAKNOWS to get 25% off your first month of DS-01® Daily Synbiotic or PDS-08® Pediatric Daily Synbiotic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

DREAMLAND BABY: To shop with my code “Go to dreamlandbabyco.com and enter my code MAMAKNOWS at checkout to receive 30% off pajamas + free shipping. That's dreamlandbabyco.com code MAMAKNOWS. This offer is for new and existing customers!” Do you ever feel upset over plans changing or things not going the way you had planned it out? In this episode we dive into ambiguous grief (i.e. when things don't go according to plan, grieving unmet expectations, accepting life's curveballs) (ex: infertility, divorce, financial distress, marital problems, parental disputes). Whether big or small understanding and being able to work through ambiguous grief can be so helpful! 1. Most of us have a vision or an expectation of how our life should go and when it doesn't we feel out of control and sometimes devastated. (For example: I dreamed of a certain dynamic for my children's relationship & the relationship I have with my mom/in laws) How can we acknowledge and grieve these unmet expectations? 2. I feel like I processed through the grief of my unmet expectations but am hit with another wave of grief for the same thing months or years later. Am I not moved on? Is something wrong with me? 3. What are some tips to let go of life-plan related and or anticipatory anxiety to better prepare for life's curveballs? Bio: Emmalee Bierly & Jennifer Chaiken are both Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, co-owners of the private therapy practice called The Therapy Group, and co-hosts of the ShrinkChicks Podcast! They believe in being down to earth, authentic, and transparent, which are values they bring both to their practice as well as their podcast! Their mission is to make therapy more relatable and accessible, working to break down that clinical wall with humor and warmth! Links/outtro mentions: The Therapy Group: www.thetherapygroup.com (their co-owned private practice that serves most US states) ShrinkChicks Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shrinkchicks/id1483261668 Instagram pages: @shrinkchicks and @thetherapygrp Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Invest in your whole family's health with Seed. Go to Seed.com/MAMAKNOWS and use code 25MAMAKNOWS to get 25% off your first month of DS-01® Daily Synbiotic or PDS-08® Pediatric Daily Synbiotic. That's 25% off your first month of Seed's DS-01® or PDS-08® at Seed dot com slash MAMAKNOWS, code 25MAMAKNOWS. Disney Jr.'s Ariel is an animated musical series for preschoolers inspired by the beloved story of “The Little Mermaid.” It follows 8-year-old mermaid princess Ariel as she and her friends embark on fun-filled, action-packed underwater adventures throughout their Caribbean-inspired fairytale kingdom of Atlantica and beyond. The series features fan-favorite characters, including King Triton, Ursula, Sebastian, and Flounder, as well as exciting new additions like Ariel's two best friends, mer-children Lucia and Fernie, and lots of other adorable sea creatures. The series debuts Thursday, June 27 on Disney Jr. and next day, Friday, June 28 on Disney+.  Arguing in relationships happens but we don't often talk about how to reconnect and repair the relationship after an argument happens. Too often we move on without any true resolution. This we are talking to Jocelyn Freeman of Meet the Freemans and she walks us through some strategies and ways we can repair and take accountability without resentment. 1. We just had a big argument and are at a stalemate, how do we repair? 2. Our argument got heated, we took a break to cool down, but when we talk about it and try to repair we end up getting into an even bigger argument. How can we stop this cycle? 3. POV: I always feel like I am initiating the repair and taking accountability, but my partner isn't. I am feeling disconnected and frustrated which is leaving me to feel resentment. What can I do so I am not the only one saying sorry? 4. How can I get past the self-righteous mentality in arguments? Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman ("The Freemans") are authors of The Argument Hangover, creators of The Couples Workshop (which has sold out over 50 times), and coaches to thousands of couples worldwide. They are best known for their relatable and actionable tools and skills for couples to communicate better, fight smarter, and handle any challenge as a team. The best resources to start with are their 30-Day Couples Challenges and their instant-access guides. 

Body image and and neutrality is something I didn't really learn about until I was an adult, after struggling for years. Especially after having my own kids I began to wonder, how do we do better for our kids so that they don't have to struggle with the same body image issues like most of us did as kids? On this weeks episode we dive into the topic and address some important questions! How can we talk to our kids about their body early on & in their teens to promote body neutrality? What are things we should avoid doing or saying to nurture body positivity in our daughters? Our kids are growing up surrounded by social media and are consuming damaging content for their views on themselves and their body. How can we help them avoid the comparison cycle of unrealistic body image on the internet? How can we help empower our daughters to stand up for themselves when their body is being negatively talked about by classmates, friends, family, or strangers? What are signs that we should be aware of that may indicate our child is struggling with an eating disorder? Dr. Morgan Francis is a Doctor of Clinical Psychology and a Licensed Mental Health Therapist. She is the owner of Scottsdale Premier Counseling, in Scottsdale, Arizona. At her private practice she treats young adults, individuals, couples, and families. Her mission is to break through the mental health shame game. With over 20 years of experience specializing in the treatment of Body Image and Eating Disorders, Dr. Francis can empower you to make peace with your body and food. She is a frequent guest on Fox News Phoenix, she has been featured in local and national publication, she is a public speaker and consultant on mental health helping churches, schools, and community organizations. You can work with Dr. Francis by accessing her online courses or attending her webinars. Dr. Francis lives in Scottsdale, Arizona with her three children and husband.

Get your BEST YOUNGEST LIPS EVER with citybeauty.com with code MAMAKNOWS for 15% off. There is so much information out there on the effects of social media it is hard to know where to start. If you are like me and want to make sure you are setting your kids (and yourself!) up for success with boundaries and conversations around social media with your kids, then this episode is for you! What are the effects you have seen from social media on kids? I am a data girl so give me all your data!  I want to delay when my child is involved with social media, but their friends are on it, my child feels left out, and so now I feel like the bad parent. Do you have words of advice?  What can I do now to prepare my kids for the future where social media is so prevalent? And for the parents who's kids are already in the thick of social media, what can they do right now for their kids? Most of my listeners and followers want to know when is the appropriate time to allow your child access to a smartphone or social media? How do you know when they are ready? Dr. Alison Yeung is a family physician from Ontario, Canada. Over the past decade, she has come to recognize that children are struggling in unprecedented ways. After recognizing the role that screens and social media are playing in their presentation, she began to dive into the research on this topic. Feeling that there is an undeniable association, she felt compelled to speak out. She has created an Instagram account to educate and empower parents to change the narrative, and has also worked with local schools to help implement cellphone policies by educating staff and parents.