Podcast appearances and mentions of monica tanner

Send us a textRelationship and intimacy coach Monica Tanner joins us to unpack the damaging marriage advice many of us have accepted as truth. Drawing from her seven years of podcasting experience and three years exclusively coaching couples, Monica reveals why seemingly innocent phrases like "happy wife, happy life" and "don't sweat the small stuff" actually create disconnection and resentment in relationships.Monica shares details about her upcoming book, "Bad Marriage Advice: Debunking Myths That Will Make You Miserable and What to Do Instead," which evolved from a heartfelt letter to her soon-to-be-married son. The conversation digs into why telling couples "divorce is not an option" often backfires, removing motivation for growth rather than strengthening commitment.The most practical segment focuses on Monica's three-step formula for making effective requests in relationships. Instead of complaining about what you're not getting, she teaches how to identify what you want, make your request "stupidly easy" to fulfill by being specific, and show gratitude for any progress. This approach transforms communication patterns and creates positive momentum in relationships.We also explore the powerful garden metaphor for marriage—how beliefs planted by others in our childhood need tending, weeding, and sometimes complete replanting as we grow and face life's transitions together. Monica emphasizes the value of seeking relationship support before crisis strikes, sharing stories of proactive couples who establish relationships with coaches early in their marriages.Whether you're struggling with communication issues, feeling disconnected, or simply want to strengthen an already good relationship, this episode offers practical wisdom for creating a marriage where both partners feel valued, heard, and cherished. Ready to transform your relationship? Listen now and discover how to replace bad marriage advice with strategies that actually work.Monica Tanner Guest InformationMonica Tanner, RLT trained, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, new book, Bad Marriage Advice, vibrant social media community, and couple's coaching practice, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story.website:  https://monicatanner.combook: https://badmarriageadvice.compodcast:  https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.buzzsprout.comHave you gotten on the waitlist for my new book - Bad Marriage Advice? You can do that HERE!Please follow me on instagram and facebook @happilyevenaftercoach and if you want to see what coaching is all about I offer a free 45 min. clarity call via zoom. Email me: hello@lifecoachjen.com for any comments or questions. Thanks for listening, please like and review as well as share with your family and friends. My website is www.lifecoachjen.com

Break Up with the Old Wives' Tales Keeping Your Marriage Stuck with Monica Tanner Are You Falling for These Marriage Myths Without Even Realizing It? This week on Look for the Good, host Carrie Rowan dives deep into the hidden stories sabotaging long-term relationships with special guest and Intimacy Coach, Monica Tanner, author of the bold new book Bad Marriage Advice: 15 Myths That Are Making You Miserable. Whether you're in a marriage or thinking about committing, you can't afford to miss this eye-opening conversation. Monica unpacks the outdated advice many of us were raised on—ideas that quietly erode intimacy, kill connection, and keep couples stuck in autopilot. You'll discover: Why “lazy communication” might be the silent killer in your relationship How sneaky myths are shaping your expectations and leading to disconnection The powerful shift that happens when you become curious again—about your partner and yourself Get ready to challenge what you think you know about love, intimacy, and commitment. This isn't just relationship advice—it's a whole new way of seeing your partner through a lens of truth, trust, and possibility. Tune in and bust the myths that are messing with your happily ever after. BIO: Hello, I'm Monica, I'm obsessed with marriage and intimacy. I'm married to a super hunky man and have 4 incredibly awesome kids. My oldest is an adult and out of the house and my youngest is in middle school. My ultimate desire and purpose is to lower the divorce rate, one couple at a time through my podcast, intimacy resources and couple's coaching. I'm certified in Relational Life Therapy as well as had some Gottman Training. I believe that couples can enjoy real and lasting change by learning better relational skills AND dealing with the parts of themselves that don't want to use those skills at times. If you are ready to transform your relationship into a wildly satisfying intimate friendship and passionate partnership, book a complimentary 30-minute relationship breakthrough call with me and let's see if we are a good fit to work together. Find out more at www.MonicaTanner.com Listen to her incredible podcast Secrets of Happily Ever After: https://monicatanner.com/secrets-of-happily-ever-after-podcast/  Want to find out when the next incredible episode of Look for the Good is dropping? Sign up for the Look for the Good Podcast Chat weekly newsletter to get behind the scenes insights, special tips, and insider only offers. Click HERE to sign up today! Learn More about Carrie here: https://carrierowan.com/

How to Create a Powerful Family Culture and Empower Your Kids to Win with Joshua and Ashlee Latimer It this week's episode, I'm chatting with Joshua and Ashlee Latimer of Honor and Fire about How to Create a Powerful Family Culture and Empower Your Kids to Win using family systems. Their number 1 passion is helping your entrepreneurial Family build wealth, become radically generous and engineer a Family culture that changes the world. We talk about their 5 step framework for implementing family systems and how those systems have created a family culture that empowers even their young kids to look for solutions, take initiative, build businesses and navigate the crazy world we live in with honor and fire. I think you will love the way the Latimers empower and inspire you to take massive, imperfect, but intentional action to create the systems that will help your family win. Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

In this episode of the Love Stories podcast, I had the pleasure of interviewing Monica Tanner, a relationship coach who shared her personal journey of overcoming generational trauma and finding healing in her marriage. Monica opened up about her childhood experiences, her fears of repeating her parents' story, and the impact it had on her marriage. She discussed the importance of facing fears, seeking help, and learning to be the author of one's own story.Monica's story serves as a powerful reminder that healing and growth are possible in relationships, and that with effort and self-awareness, couples can create their own version of happily ever after.IN THIS EPISODE:- (15:20) Facing Generational Trauma- (25:36) Navigating Anxiety and Seeking Help- (36:03) Healing and Becoming the Author of Your Story- (47:54) Working with Couples to Enhance RelationshipsRESOURCESCheck out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE My FREE eBook The Magnetic WomanApp rec: BumbleCONNECT WITH CHARLENE On Instagram @mscharlenebyars On YouTube @chosentrainingWork with me HERECONNECT WITH MONICAOn Instagram HEREHer Website HERE

How Does Jealousy Affect Your Intimacy with Dr. Joli Hamilton This week's episode with Dr. Joli Hamilton is packed with actionable takeaways and ways to deepen your intimacy. We talk about ways to have a better relationship without dragging an unwilling partner to therapy, the one question that will reignite our intimacy and all things jealousy and how it could be wrecking your intimate connection. Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Connecting During Perimenopause with Bria Gadd Ever wondered about the secrets your body holds during perimenopause? How this stage of life affects not just your physical health, but also your relationships? Join us as we unravel these mysteries with Bria Gadd - a personal trainer, holistic health coach and integrative nutritionist with a special expertise in female hormones. Bria guides us through the facts and myths surrounding perimenopause and menopause, highlighting the critical transitions occurring during this period in a woman's life. She emphasizes the importance of understanding this stage, as it affects 40 million women worldwide, half of whom don't understand the distinctions between perimenopause and menopause. We break down myths like menopause being caused by estrogen deficiency while discussing the role of progesterone. We also focus on the body's need for more energy during certain periods, how this affects metabolism, and how low-impact movement can contribute to our overall wellbeing during this time. We then shift our attention to how cortisol and inflammation factor into our physical health, the significance of age and lifestyle habits, and how we can better handle and understand these changes. Finally, we discuss the four pillars of health: sleep & rest, nutrition & fuel, movement & exercise, and pleasure. These pillars not only form the foundation of our health but also strengthen our relationships. Bria shares valuable insights into why some women struggle more than others during perimenopause and how we can ensure we are not one of them. Wrapping up the episode, Bria leaves us with resources and advice for women and partners to smoothly navigate this challenging yet rewarding time in life. To download the resource Bria mentioned in the episode go to --> https://briatheperiodwhisperer.com/opt-in-10-laws-of-happy-hormones Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Work Together From Passion to Purpose with Stu and Amy McLaren Today's episode is a special treat! Stu and Amy McLaren join me to discuss Amy's book, Passion to Purpose and how their multiple businesses and their global charity, Village Impact has gone from a passion to a massive source of purpose, contribution and legacy.   We talk about passion, working together, family life, leveraging their strengths, challenges they faced and how they have overcome them and so much more. If you are looking to make a bigger impact, contribution and leave a legacy you can be proud of, you do NOT want to miss this interview. Stu and Amy are a powerhouse couple and they share so much value and wisdom they are learning in the trenches every single day. Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Avoid Roommate Syndrome with Nate Bagley In today's episode, I'm chatting with my friend, Nate Bagley of Growth Marriage. Nate shares with us what he learned from travelling the country interviewing happily married couples as well as the world's top marriage experts. We talk about how to avoid roommate syndrome and foster lasting love and passion in our marriage. You will want to listen with a pen. Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Navigate Differences in Values and Viewpoints with Suzette Halterman In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Suzette Halterman, a relationship expert known for her insightful approach to navigating differences in relationships. We dive deep into the complexities of differing values and viewpoints and how these can be managed in a way that not only maintains but deepens the connection in a relationship. Suzette brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to the conversation, providing actionable strategies for couples to navigate this often tricky terrain. She addresses how to approach these differences respectfully and constructively, reminding us that differing perspectives are not roadblocks, but rather opportunities for growth and understanding. From understanding the importance of open communication and empathy, to acknowledging our unique backgrounds and experiences, Suzette shares an empowering message of unity in diversity. Whether you're experiencing these challenges in your relationship, or simply wish to fortify your connection against potential future differences, this episode offers invaluable insights for all couples. Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Create a Replenishing Sex Life with Tammy Hill In this enlightening and candid episode, I sit down with Tammy Hill, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Noted Speaker, Author, and mother of 12 in a blended family with her husband Jeff. Tammy shares groundbreaking insights from her new book, "Replenish: Creating Sexual Fulfillment in Marriage" Join us as we explore the essential ingredients for a satisfying and fulfilling sexual relationship within marriage, discuss the challenges faced by couples in creating this, and uncover practical advice for nurturing intimacy and connection. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from Tammy's vast experience and expertise to help you build a stronger and more passionate bond with your spouse. Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

In this episode, we're going to be talking about making penetration pleasurable, a how to make intercourse amazing, and how to close the orgasm chasm in your marriage, as well as some specific techniques on how to make sex with your spouse sweeter and more worthwhile.  I love doing episodes like this because I learn a lot about how to make sex fun and meaningful in my own marriage. I'm reminded though that great sex is far more of a matter of the heart than it is about performance. I met Susan Bratton a year ago when we both shared the stage on Monica Tanner's intimacy summit. Susan is a woman in her sixties having sex like she's in her twenties. She's a gifted speaker and educator about sex and she covers a lot of material. I love how she helps me see what's possible for my wife and me in our own marriage bed. If you like this episode, you'll definitely like . . . ...our upcoming virtual retreat all about improving sex in your marriage this July! For this retreat, you and your spouse are going to get a hotel room Airbnb or send the kids to grandma's house so you have the house all to yourselves, and you'll join my wife and I live at Friday night, Saturday morning and Saturday night in three sessions. We'll give you a specific fun and sexy homework to try. The goal of this retreat is to explore sexuality in your marriage at a deeper level than you ever have. You'll walk away with new techniques, confidence, and learn new things about each other and more at an intimate level. Don't miss this event on July 12! More details on our website! And let's not forget . . . . . . our next in-person retreat in sunny St. George Utah, this October! This is what one past participants said about the retreat: The marriage and intimacy. Retreat was a life-changing experience for us. After 20 years of marriage, we wanted to take our marriage from good to great. During the weekend, we gained so many incredible insights on how we were constantly trying to fix each other, rather than ourselves, and making assumptions and putting expectations on each other that were false due to a lack of honest communication that had been shaped over the past decades of routine. We gained so many tools for improving connection and communication, but also changing our own attitudes about ourselves and our intimate life. What an incredible kickstart to the next phase of our marriage. And we can't wait to get started! These retreats are fun, romantic, deep, and instructive. We combine instruction and coaching into a powerful weekend. Your marriage deserves the very best investment of your time, talents and energy. So come vacation with us. It's limited to just 20 couples. So act now!

How to Avoid the Argument Hangover with Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman are known as "the couple that coaches couples."  Their newest book, The Argument Hangover, provides a no BS approach to fighting smarter and reconnecting faster after disagreements, and learning to communicate your needs and feelings in a way that works for you and your partner. In this week's episode, we discuss the 3 stages of conflict and how to fight smarter in your relationship, how to bring up challenging conversations with your partner, without them getting triggered and how to keep Argument Hangovers from ruining the most important relationships in your life. I promise you do NOT want to miss this interview. Have you taken the Intimacy Level Quiz yet? Learn your intimacy score in less than 3 minutes by taking this quick quiz --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Why Is My Spouse So Hard to Understand with Dr. Matt Townsend Today's episode is an interview with Dr. Matt Townsend about the differences between men and women. In his hilarious way, Dr. Townsend describes the differences in the male and female brain, style of communication and organizational habits. We discuss the reasons for these differences and how to handle them more effectively in your relationships. His witty and educational explanations had my cheeks sore from smiling and laughing by the end. I just know you are going to love this interview. For a list of 102 Cheap or Free Date Ideas, be sure to check out:  https://monicatanner.com/cheapdates Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Date Your Spouse with Tara Carson of the Dating Divas In this week's episode, I'm chatting with Tara Carson of the Dating Divas about how to invest in your marriage, specifically through dating. We talk about how she fell in love with her husband, their struggle with infertility and how the Dating Divas was born. How do you keep the passion and fun alive in your marriage over the decades? Listen to this week's interview to learn all the tips and tricks for dating each other even in the busiest seasons of your life.  Download a FREE copy of How to Ensure Date Night Ends with Fireworks HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/fireworks Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Has it ever felt like you and your entrepreneurial spouse are more like “roommates” vs. romantic partners who are intimately connected to each other? Then this episode is for you. Monica, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. With her widespread platform, she focuses on helping couples communicate, connect, and create an intimate friendship & passionate partnership.  Today, Monica discusses proven strategies for nurturing an environment of safe communication and intimacy for entrepreneur couples to build a thriving marriage and family alongside their business. More in this episode: Discover a simple strategy to seamlessly shift from “work mode” to “family mode” to “sexy time mode” throughout the day - no matter how busy your business gets.  Learn how to get family “buy-in” on your vision so that your business doesn't have to compete with your family (a critical lesson from Toby Flenderson). The 3-step approach to having vulnerable discussions about sex and intimacy with your partner without anybody feeling awkward or resentful.   Want to learn more about Monica's tangible strategies? Download her Five Golden Laws of Married Entrepreneurship HERE: https://www.monicatanner.com/5-golden-laws-of-married-entrepreneurship Connect with Monica Tanner HERE: https://instagram.com/monitanner1 https://youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter Podcast- Secrets of Happily Ever After on every platform https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secrets-of-happily-ever-after/id1345544810 www.monicatanner.com   Join the FREE Couplepreneurs Facebook Group: ​​https://www.facebook.com/groups/couplepreneurscommunity Book a FREE consultation with Kyle and Ariel Tresch: https://www.kyleandariel.com/consult  

The Recipe for a Resiliency with Brian and Jen Goins Ever wonder how some couples seem to navigate the ebbs and flows of marriage with grace and a smile? This week, I'm chatting with Brian and Jen Goins from Family Life, who join us to share their 27 years of wisdom on building a relationship that thrives.  We discuss the everyday skills essential for cultivating both individuality and unity in marriage. This episode isn't just about the dos and don'ts—it's an exploration of the delicate art of compromise, the celebration of our partner's uniqueness, and the passion that can be ignited through embracing our differences. Laughter and code words might sound like the ingredients for a spy novel, but in this episode, they're the secret spices for a strong marriage. We're not only talking about the romantic side of things but also about how to handle tough conversations with grace and love.  And for those moments when challenges arise, we discuss the transformative power of seeking guidance and the strength found in having a community to support your marital journey. Brian and Jen provide real-life examples of how to keep the spark alive.  If you're looking to strengthen the foundation of your marriage with compassion, laughter, and a good dose of reality, this episode will equip you with the tools to not just weather the storms but also to dance in the rain. Join us for this enriching episode that's as much about friendship and fun as it is about love and loyalty. Check out the Passionate Marriage Club where couples learn relational skills and the 12 Laws of Connection HERE – https://monicatanner.com/club To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

"Heart of the Home: Building a Successful Marriage While Being a Mompreneur" Balancing family, business, and personal dreams can often feel like a high-wire act. Tune in to the next episode of "Nurse Your Soul" where, Lisa (your host), and her guest dive into the art of nurturing a flourishing marriage while managing the demands of motherhood and entrepreneurship. As a successful marriage coach,  Monica Tanner shares her transformative journey from burnout early on in her motherhood journey while juggling her role in her husband's business, to thriving as a stay-at-home mom and a successful entrepreneur. Monica will reveal essential insights on why placing your marriage at the forefront isn't just beneficial—it's crucial. Discover actionable tips on how to effectively balance your priorities and improve your marriage without sacrificing the essence of what matters most. Whether you're a busy mom  or busy entrepreneur, wondering how to prioritize your family , your self and your biz this episode is for you.  Join us this Friday at 7 AM and 7 PM EST on Dreamvisions 7 Radio Network for "Nurse Your Soul."  Lisa's Offer from this episode: For more tips on transforming your burnout into thriving, and to be a part of a movement where women pursue their passions and joy....  Join my FREE FB group for more tips and trainings. Burnout to Bliss for High Achieving Women Monica's Bio and Links:  Monica Tanner, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, vibrant social media community, and practical programs, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story. Offer: 51 Questions to Get to Know Your Spouse Better - https://monicatanner.com/51questions  or Monica's Passionate Marriage Club - a monthly coaching membership for couples who are ready to bring the fun, passion, and adventure back into their marriage with proven techniques anyone can use!  https://monicatanner.com/club. Links:  website - https://monicatanner.com. Instagram - https://instagram.com/monitanner1  YouTube -  https://youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com   Want to find out about Lisa's upcoming “Nurse Your Soul” shows, and offerings while being a  part of her FREE Nurse Your Soul community? Join her newsletter here. Join my FREE FB community," Burnout to Bliss for High Achieving Women" if you want a supportive place to learn free holistic tips and tricks on how to prevent, heal from, and avoid burnout.  Join my FREE FB community, "Holistic Nurse. and NP Entrepreneurs."  for free weekly trainings, workshops, and a community of like minded people. If you are a healthcare professional feeling ready to dip your toes into online entrepreneurship this is for you.  Feel free to email Lisa  at np@nureseyoursoulwithlisa.com with questions , comments or topics you would love covered in future shows. She loves receiving emails from listeners, and personally responds.  Website: Nurse Your Soul With Lisa Facebook Group: Burnout to Bliss for High Achieving Women Facebook Profile: Lisa Dunlap LinkedIn: Lisa Dunlap Instagram Profile: Nurse Your Soul With Lisa

When you hear the word ‘intimacy,' it's likely that something like sex pops into your head. While intimacy is commonly used in the context of making love, this only describes one aspect of it. Intimacy occurs not only between lovers, but also in friendships and in other platonic relationships. It can describe closeness on an emotional, physical, sexual, spiritual, or platonic level. On today's episode, Cody has invited Monica Tanner to join her in a discussion exploring the different types of intimacy and discussing how you can improve in each area with your partner, friend, or someone else in your life. Monica Tanner, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, vibrant social media community, and practical programs, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story.Connect with Monica:Website: https://www.monicatanner.comIG Handle: https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1Other Links: https://secretsofhappilyeverafter.buzzsprout.comDid you learn something new today? Be sure to subscribe to this podcast and share this episode with all the girls you love. We would appreciate it if you'd also leave us a rating and review on iTunes.You can watch full episodes on YouTube now as well. Like and Subscribe to the It's Hertime Podcast HERE!Want to join our Mixhers Girl community and keep this conversation going? We'd love to hear your thoughts, feelings and experiences! Join us HERE!Join Mixhers email list and be the first to have access to new products and be the girl in the know!Follow Cody and Jess on Instagram:@codyjeansanders@jesstoolson@mixhers

Creating Lasting EveryLove with Intention with Alex and Kadi Dutton Wondering what it takes to keep passion burning HOT  in the hustle of daily life? Alex and Katie Dutton join me this week to share the sparks of truth behind their EveryLove adventure—a service that's rekindling the fire in marriages through creative date night packages and model-free lingerie. They tell their story of entrepreneurship entwined with the commitment to nurturing a deep, intimate bond amidst the beautiful chaos of raising children and juggling careers. We go over the critical steps to prioritize intimacy, stressing the importance of defining its meaning for each individual.  We also cover aligning expectations and fostering open communication as well as how to schedule intimate moments without losing spontaneity, but ensuring that the love between you and your partner gets the attention it deserves. As we wrap up, the focus shifts to the power of community in supporting a happy marriage.  We leave you with an invitation to not just listen but to actively engage with us, as we champion the notion that 'Happily Ever After' isn't just a fairytale ending—it's a reality crafted with intentionality, love, and a little help from friends. Check out EveryLove HERE -> https://www.everyloveintimates.com/monicatanner  and use the code: MONICATANNER to get 25% off your first 2 collections! To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions For ongoing support in how to sidestep these intimacy death traps, be sure to check out the Passionate Marriage Club here --> https://monicatanner.com/club Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

12 Questions to Transform Your Conversations with Topaz Adizes Have you ever felt like your conversations with loved ones are getting a little dry? This week's interview with Emmy Award-winner, Topaz Adizes shatters that pattern, unveiling "12 Questions for Love" to revolutionize our understanding of intimate dialogues. Topaz is known for his work on The { } And project and shares how carefully crafted questions can peel back the layers we often unintentionally wrap around those closest to us, liberating our relationships from the confines of the metaphorical boxes we've built. My discussion with Topaz sheds light on the magic of road trip-like environments that encourage raw, uninterrupted conversation, showing us how to replicate this space in our daily lives. Through anecdotes and insights, we unlock the secret to nurturing conversations that evolve as our relationships deepen, emphasizing the role of intentionality and the settings we create for fostering openness and vulnerability. This episode serves as a gentle reminder to approach our loved ones with empowering questions that inspire growth and understanding.  To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions For ongoing support in how to sidestep these intimacy death traps, be sure to check out the Passionate Marriage Club here --> https://monicatanner.com/club Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Understanding Your Big Emotions with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill In this week's interview, we talk about: Understanding Big Emotions: We kick off our conversation by discussing the nature of 'big' emotions. What are they? How do they shape our perceptions and interactions? Dr. Glenn and Phyllis provide their expert insights into how understanding our emotional responses can pave the way for healthier relationships. Emotional Safety in Relationships: The Hills shed light on the concept of emotional safety. We explore the pivotal role it plays in fostering trust and deepening connections in our relationships. Sexual Safety and Its Importance: In a candid discussion, we address the often-overlooked aspect of sexual safety. We delve into how emotional wellbeing influences our sexual relationships and vice versa. Practical Tips and Strategies: The Hills share actionable tips on managing our emotions and creating a safe space for emotional and sexual expression in our relationships. Join us for this episode of understanding and managing our big emotions, and learn how to create an atmosphere of emotional and sexual safety in your relationship. To get your free resource on how to show more gratitude for your spouse, check out this link: https://monicatanner.com/gratitude Download my FREE resource with 51 questions to ask you spouse to get to know them better HERE --> https://monicatanner.com/51questions For ongoing support in how to sidestep these intimacy death traps, be sure to check out the Passionate Marriage Club here --> https://monicatanner.com/club Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Understanding Intimacy Death Traps that Drain Your Marriage As a seasoned relationship coach and intimacy expert, I've seen firsthand how easily couples can fall into intimacy death traps, letting the initial spark of their relationship dim. But fear not! I'm here to arm you with the knowledge to identify these traps and the strategies to avoid them. This week's episode is for anyone hoping to breathe new life into their intimate relationship. I invite you to reflect and engage with me by sharing your experiences and challenges. Your stories and feedback are the heart of our community, and together, we'll overcome the traps that keep couples trapped for decades. So, if you're ready to transform your marriage from mediocre to extraordinary, tune in and let's start crafting your love story with the skill and intention it deserves. Do you want 51 Creative Questions to Ask Your Spouse for FREE? Download your copy https://www.monicatanner.com/51-questions-to-ask-your-spouse   Have you joined the Passionate Marriage Club yet? You can get all the details https://www.monicatanner.com/passionatemarriageclub Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

My 5-Step Framework for Overcoming Intimacy Death Traps Ready to become the author of your own love story? In this week's episode, I tackle the dreaded 'intimacy death traps,' dissecting the root causes that lead to disconnection and providing a comprehensive 5-step framework to navigate your way back to a fulfilling partnership. This isn't your run-of-the-mill relationship advice; it's a deep dive into taking responsibility, fostering judgment-free communication, and why initiating change can be your romantic game-changer. I'll be guiding you through the intricacies of assuming responsibility for the passion that's slipped through the cracks and how a simple shift towards curiosity and acceptance can transform your relationship dynamics. Discover the 'cheat code' to involving a third party in rebuilding intimacy, and learn why expressing love without restraint could be your ticket out of complacency. This episode isn't just about falling back into love—it's about creating a love that's going to grow, no matter how many anniversaries you've celebrated. Join me on this intimate journey towards happily ever after. Do you want 51 Creative Questions to Ask Your Spouse for FREE? Download your copy https://www.monicatanner.com/51-questions-to-ask-your-spouse   Have you joined the Passionate Marriage Club yet? You can get all the details https://www.monicatanner.com/passionatemarriageclub Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Innovation, Creativity and Marital Bliss with Caley Rose and Karl Walker Have you ever wondered what it's like to trade in the hustle and bustle of city life for the compact serenity of an Airstream? Join me as I sit down with Caley Rose and Karl Walker, a Billboard charting singer-songwriter and a user experience designer, who did just that. Embarking on a life less ordinary, they've navigated the highs and lows of transforming a trailer into a home, all while keeping their relationship thriving. Their story isn't just about shared space; it's about shared dreams, from music to design, and the delicate dance of supporting each other's creative ambitions without losing sight of family values. Caley and Karl open up about the intricacies of a partnership where career paths diverge—Kaylee's melodies filling venues and Carl's tech expertise shaping user interactions. How do they do it? By crafting their unique blend of support, understanding, and adaptability, they reveal the secret sauce to pursuing individual passions while maintaining a fulfilling relationship. As we wrap up, they share exciting news about the future as they prepare to add another member to their family and entertain the idea of installing solar panels. Their journey of growth and empowerment is a testament to the importance of finding a partner who champions your aspirations. Caley and Karl's love story is one for the modern age, proving that with the right person by your side, the adventure never truly ends—it just evolves. I'm also thrilled to introduce the Passionate Marriage Club, an exclusive membership designed to help couples like you strengthen their bond and actively work towards their very own happily ever after. Become part of a community that believes in learning new relational skills and practicing them until it becomes second nature. Learn more about the Passionate Marriage Club here --> https://monicatanner.com/club Do you want 51 Creative Questions to Ask Your Spouse for FREE? Download your copy https://www.monicatanner.com/51-questions-to-ask-your-spouse   Have you joined the Passionate Marriage Club yet? You can get all the details https://www.monicatanner.com/passionatemarriageclub Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Marriage is a Team Sport Like Volleyball - Spiking Joy into Your Relationship Today I'm serving up an episode that reveals how the team spirit of volleyball can spike the joy in your marriage. Imagine applying the same strategies that lead a volleyball team to victory to your own partnership; think encouragement, well-defined roles, and celebrating every win together. I'll share with you the secrets of a successful team—secrets that can transform your marriage into a partnership where gratitude is the net, acknowledgment is the ball, and positivity is the winning play. Full of puns and analogies from spending a weekend in a giant convention center in Las Vegas surrounded by hundreds of volleyball games going simultaneously, I had some strong thoughts of how elite teams work together towards victory and how this applies to marriage. I'm also thrilled to introduce the Passionate Marriage Club, an exclusive membership designed to help couples like you strengthen their bond and actively work towards their very own happily ever after. Become part of a community that believes in learning new relational skills and practicing them until it becomes second nature. Learn more about the Passionate Marriage Club here --> https://monicatanner.com/club Do you want 51 Creative Questions to Ask Your Spouse for FREE? Download your copy https://www.monicatanner.com/51-questions-to-ask-your-spouse   Have you joined the Passionate Marriage Club yet? You can get all the details https://www.monicatanner.com/passionatemarriageclub Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Will Considering Divorce Make My Marriage Stronger with Sharon Pope Could your marriage become stronger if you considered divorce as a viable option?  Today, I'm chatting with relationship coach Sharon Pope, as we uncover the paradoxical notion that acknowledging the possibility of divorce can actually reinforce a marriage.  We delve into the power of choice and how it can lead to a more intentional and fulfilling partnership. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the importance of setting healthy boundaries and reveal why trying to control our partner's commitment often backfires, leaving a trail of unhappiness and discontent. As societal roles evolve, so do the dynamics within a marriage. Sharon and I discuss the new terrain of gender expectations and responsibilities, dissecting how modern marriages are adapting—or struggling—to keep pace. We cast light on the silent signals that a relationship may be veering off course and stress the urgency of addressing issues promptly. Whether it's cultivating a space for open dialogue or recognizing when it's time to seek professional help, we guide you through the critical choices that can either rejuvenate your relationship or lead you to part ways with grace and certainty. This episode addresses the complexities of maintaining intimacy amidst the demands of parenthood. We share strategies for nurturing your connection and why it's essential to remain curious about your evolving spouse. In addition, we explore how relationship coaching can provide the toolkit needed for couples to flourish through adversity.  So, whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your marriage or contemplating the crossroads of "stay or go," this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for embracing the continuous journey of love and partnership. Have you joined the Passionate Marriage Club yet? You can get all the details https://www.monicatanner.com/passionatemarriageclub Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Monica Tanner joins Liz and Dave to talk about getting what you want in your relationship. She’ll tackle how to manage strong emotions, moving from complaints to requests, and the importance of compassionate curiosity. She will also share a four-step framework for getting what you want in your relationship. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction through her engaging podcast vibrant social media, community, and practical programs. About Monica Tanner:Monica Tanner, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast,transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution andcommitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve maritalsatisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, vibrant social media community, and practicalprograms, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story. Insights: Monica: "You know, there's a lot of things that you can't control in this life, but you can always control your experience inside of your circumstances. I find it to be a law of connection kind of like, matter is governed by the laws of gravity, you don't have to know that if I throw this pen up in the air, it's gonna come down. But if I do know it, it makes life a lot more predictable, it's easier to know what's going to happen, right. And so if you understand that you have full control over the experience you're having in any given circumstance, you become way more powerful, empowered, probably as the right word, you become way more empowered, to fight for the things that you want in this life, when you understand that you may not be able to, to control all the circumstances, but you can control your experience." Dave: "I love the idea of this compassionate curiosity. I've never heard it quite put like, but getting compassionately curious about that, not in a you know, I'm holier than thou and I'm not going to jump into this because I'm not that type of a person, but genuinely compassionate, getting curious, really wanting to understand them and to hear that to hear what they need. Rather than reacting to their emotions you have very powerful." Liz: "I think that is so interesting the idea of asking for what we want or what we need, it's really quite a compliment to our partner that I want to have. I want us to have it all right, I don't want to settle for me mediocrity. I really want to climb for that and reach for that top echelon of happy marriage." Monica Tanner Links: https://www.monicatanner.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/secretsofhappilyeverafterYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: StrongerMarriage.orgpodcast.strongermarriage.orgFacebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/

Warning: Don't Wait Another Minute to Prioritize Your Marriage How many times have you said something like, we'll work on our marriage when... the kids get a little older, our business is more successful or we have more money/time?  I'm here to share why this approach may cost you more than you think. This heartfelt episode peels back the layers on the myth that there's a "right time" to focus on your spouse and kids, revealing how this mindset can lead to emotional disconnection and even conflict.  I'm offering practical strategies to ensure your marriage thrives no matter what stage of child-rearing, business or financial stability you are in.  Discover how to intertwine a relationship-first philosophy into your busy schedule, avoiding the pitfalls that many ambitious parents or entrepreneurs fall into. It's all about action – realigning your daily priorities to put your marriage and family front and center.  We'll talk about gratitude practices, the magic of date nights, and the irreplaceable value of quality time with your family. And for those who find striking this balance challenging, I open up about how professional help, like the services I provide, can revolutionize your relationships.  Tune in for a powerful reminder that your greatest achievements should never come at the cost of the relationships that mean the most. Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Create a Love by Design with Dr. Sara Nassarzadeh Unlock the secret ingredients to a lasting and loving relationship with Dr. Sara Nassarzadeh's profound insights. In this episode, we explore the six foundational elements that she believes are crucial for a flourishing partnership. From the allure of mutual attraction to the depth of shared vision, our conversation navigates the intricate dance of love, compassion, and daily loving behaviors. Dr. Sara's groundbreaking perspectives, as presented in her book "Love by Design," challenge the conventional molds, emphasizing how individuality and unity can coexist in a harmonious balance. At the heart of our discussion lies the transformative power of compassion and the art of empathy in navigating the sometimes tumultuous journey of togetherness. We address the challenges and triumphs of being present for our partners in times of misunderstanding, drawing upon personal experiences and the wisdom of relationship experts like Gottman. By tuning in, you'll grasp how the small, consistent acts of kindness can weave a tapestry of enduring love, turning 'happily ever after' from a myth into an achievable reality. Join us in this heartfelt exploration, and let's design love that lasts a lifetime. Join us for the FREE 3-Day Live Seduce Your Spouse Challenge starting on March 5th. Register at --> https://monicatanner.com/syslive Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

I'm Monica Tanner, married to my best friend, boss mom to 4 growing humans, weekly podcaster at Secrets of Happily Ever After and Relationship and Connection Expert.After my parents divorced when she was 12, I became obsessed with what makes a marriage strong and lasting. With a degree in Sociology from the University of Texas and 21+ years of marriage and raising 4 kids, I've developed an emphasis on marital HAPPINESS. After struggling for years in my own marriage, my goal to lower the divorce rate and raise the level of marital satisfaction by encouraging my students and clients to prioritize their most important relationship, their marriage.I help married couples ditch resentment and roommate syndrome to create an intimate friendship so they can start writing their own Happily Ever After Love Story.I can guide you as you strengthen communication, connection, commitment and intimacy in your marriage. I'm here to help!Website:  https://www.monicatanner.comInstagram:  https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1?igsh=MXc3MGdtY3ozZHVhYg==Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2?mibextid=LQQJ4dLinked In:https://www.linkedin.com/in/monicatanner?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_appConnect with and learn more from:Alex Lianne CarterWebsite | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | Join the CommunityCarol RegisterTwitter | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | Join the Community And remember to... Grab Your Top Productivity Hacks for Female Leaders

Juggling Work, Family, and Romantic Transitions Without Losing Yourself Do you ever feel like you're juggling too many hats, trying to be the perfect businessperson, parent, and romantic partner all at once? In this episode, I'm unpacking the art of transitioning between the demands of work, the responsibilities of parenting, and the pleasures of romance with your partner. We explore the nuances of adapting to each role without losing your sense of self or the spark in your relationship. I'm going to give you insight into a  woman's mind, filled with endless 'mental tabs' that can sometimes hinder intimacy. I'll share my top strategies for closing those tabs, setting boundaries, and creating sacred spaces that signal it's time to shift into lover mode. Plus, you won't want to miss the details on my upcoming "Seduce Your Spouse Challenge," a three-day challenge designed to fan the flames of passion in your marriage.  Register here --> https://monicatanner.com/syslive Whether you're looking to enhance your connection or simply find more balance, this episode offers the practical advice and supportive insights you need to keep love thriving amid life's constant juggle. Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Communicate Your Expectations Better with Greg and Rachel Denning Ever found yourself let down after a holiday or special occasion? You're not alone. In this epsiode, I'm chatting with my friends Greg and Rachel Denning of Extraordinary Family Life. Together, we confront the perils of high expectations that holidays like Valentine's Day and anniversaries can bring. We talk about how communication acts as the cornerstone of a thriving relationship. We share personal stories to illustrate the power of planning and mutual effort in nurturing the bond between partners. It's about creating joy together and, perhaps more importantly, managing it so the mental load doesn't diminish the happiness you deserve. Lastly, we delve into the concept of 'relationship bank accounts,' emphasizing the significance of individual wholeness in marriage.  I share insights from my coaching experiences that can transform not just your relationship but also model a healthy, thriving partnership for your children.  Check out this interview that promises to inject new vitality into your marital connection, leaving you equipped to create a more extraordinary family life. Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Who wants more connection, passion, and fun in their relationships? WE DO!! We brought Relationship & Connection Expert, Monica Tanner to help us ditch resentment and replace it with a new form of commitment as our romantic relationships evolve. In this episode you'll hear about the importance of knowing yourself, expressing your needs, how our past can affect the state of our current relationship, and so much more. Tune in to take your relationship to the next level!Guest: Monica TannerQuiz: There are 4 levels of intimacy. What is the level of intimacy in your marriage? (tryinteract.com)Instagram: Monica Tanner l Marriage & Intimacy Enthusiast (@monitanner1) • Instagram photos and videosMentioned in the episode:The Golden Secrets: SKINCARE – THE GOLDEN SECRETS Code: GOLDIVYBetterHelp: BetterHelp - Get Started & Sign-Up TodayMOVE with Gold Ivy: MOVE with Gold Ivy (sutrapro.com)Boundary Boss Workbook: The Boundary Boss Workbook | Terri ColeFor Promotion Inquiries contact- sarah@goldivyhealthco.com Find Gold Ivy Health Co. and resources mentioned- Website- https://goldivyhealthco.com/blog/ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/goldivyhealthco/ Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/Gold-Ivy-Health-Co-103783871542834 TikTok- https://www.tiktok.com/@goldivyhealthco?lang=en YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXBMqcMHUwkToYb-kkAuD_w #relationships #intimacy #passion #romance #love #marriage #marriagetips #relationshipexpert #monicatanner #womenshealth #womenempoweringwomen #selfgrowth #goldivyhealthco #ivyunleashedpodcast #ivyunleashed #ivyleague #inspiration #motivation #selfidentity #behaviorchange #holistichealth #healthcoach #personaltrainer  #wellness #lifestyle #healthandwellness #adSupport the show

Reimagining Your Romantic Celebrations for More Romance and Intimacy Ready to reshape your view on Valentine's Day and turn it into a day you both actually enjoy? Let's stop dropping hints and creating resentment from unmet expectations with some honest, heart-to-heart communication. This episode is all about replacing those last-minute scrambles with meaningful traditions and understanding. I'll walk you through the exact steps to engage in those crucial conversations with your sweetheart—setting the stage for clarity and connection, not just on February 14th but for every celebration your calendar holds. This week is about recognizing each other's efforts, celebrating progress, and infusing every occasion with genuine gratitude. And, for those looking for that perfect Valentine's gesture, why not make a pledge to regular, weekly date nights and documenting your love story with the Date Night Journal. Get yours before Valentine's Day by ordering before February 10th using this link --> https://monicatanner.com/journal Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

The Alchemy of Love and Attraction with Kimberly Holmes Beam In this week's episode, I'm interviewing Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper International, who shares not only her professional expertise but also her personal story.  You'll hear how Kimberly's family history of divorce and reconciliation sets the stage for the transformative work she's passionate about and what she's doing next. Kimberly gives us the four crucial areas of attraction through her PIES framework and she breaks them all down. P - Physical Attraction I - Intellectual Attraction E - Emotional Attraction S - Spiritual Attraction Make sure you join us for this episode and take the Intimacy Quiz at the end if you haven't already --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Cultivating Positive Sentiment Override for a More Passionate Connection Ever found yourself caught in a tangle of misunderstandings with your partner, where every comment feels like a dig? I'm pulling back the curtain on the silent saboteur known as negative sentiment override. Learn how this mental habit can erode the very foundations of our relationships and some strategies to overcome it. We'll talk about the art of positive sentiment override, where the benefit of the doubt becomes a bridge to better communication and conflict resolution, using Dr. John Gottman's golden positivity ratio. Be sure to tune in transformative anecdotes and strategies, all designed to keep the flame of romance alive, turning everyday interactions with your Sweetheart into an ongoing honeymoon. As my gift to you for listening, download a copy of my 75 ways to show gratitude for your spouse at: https://www.monicatanner.com/optin-gratitude  Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Reviving Romance and Intimacy with Dating Coach Julie Balkman In this episode, I'm thrilled to introduce life coach, Julie Balkman, as we chat about the secrets of long-lasting love and romance. Join us as we discuss cultivating a love that endures through the years. We cover the importance of choosing a partner who values introspection and personal growth and moving beyond the superficiality of the dating scene to foster authentic, meaningful connections. This conversation isn't just about finding love; it's about nurturing it from the early stages of a relationship all the way to the golden years of marriage. We also explore the concept of a 'love tank' and how self-sufficiency plays a crucial role in relationship fulfillment. We talk about drawing happiness from various sources, like nature's beauty or a spiritual connection, especially during challenging times such as navigating a divorce. This episode is a guide to becoming a source of love, enriching not only your life but also that of your partner. But there's more! We share innovative ideas to inject new life into your marriage. From reading together (complete with foot rubs!) to transforming your usual date night into an exciting adventure, we provide actionable strategies to keep the flame alive. You'll learn about the power of collaborative decision-making in strengthening your bond and how to steer clear of common romance killers. Our conversation is packed with practical tips for expressing gratitude, managing expectations, and just having fun with your significant other. This episode is a call to action for every married couple seeking to reignite their spark. Tune in now to Reviving Romance and Intimacy with Dating Coach Julie Balkman and get one step closer to a more intimate, fulfilling marriage. For ongoing relational support and skill building, check out the Passionate Marriage Club here --> https://monicatanner.com/club Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Build a Foundation of Trust and Romance Are you ready to supercharge your relationship in 2024? In this episode, I'm sharing a game-changing lesson from my own experiences in 2023 that I'm carrying forward to make this year the best yet! After examining the last year to understand what worked and what didn't, and embracing the lessons learned from challenging moments, I'm sharing with you a practice that will help ALL couples build more trust and intimacy this year. I'm revealing the key habits that keep couples thriving, including the essential practice of regular date nights. Click HERE https://www.monicatanner.com/winter-dates to get my list of 102 creative winter date night ideas to make prioritizing time with your partner even easier. Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Mastering the Balancing Act of Marriage and Business with Kyle and Ariel Tresch Discover the secrets to maintaining both a successful business and a thriving marriage with Couplepreneurs founders Kyle and Ariel Tresch. On the heels of National Divorce Day, we're talking about how to foster unity, respect differences, and collaborate effectively to create a legacy of love and achievement. We discuss maintaining a clear and heartfelt dialogue with your significant other amidst the demands of entrepreneurship.  And, we cover creating a sanctuary at home, where you can transition into your most authentic selves, fostering a supportive and understanding environment. Please accept our invitation to the 2nd Annual Couplepreneur Live event, a space designed to ignite growth and magic for entrepreneurial couples. Don't miss out on this chance to transform not just your business, but the very fabric of your relationship. Learn more here --> https://www.kyleandariel.com/cplive Learn more about our community for committed couples who want to elevate their relational skillsets and get weekly creative date ideas here https://monicatanner.com/club Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

3 Stinking Thinking Thought Patterns that are Keeping You Miserable and How to Break Them Ever feel like your happiness is being held hostage to someone else's behavior You're about to discover how to liberate it. Today's episode touches on 3 disempowering thought patterns that are making you miserable and how to break them so you can experience more joy and intimacy. 1. The 'if-then' cycle, that pesky thought pattern that tricks us into believing our joy depends on our partners' actions. 2. Say goodbye to the unnoticed sacrifices of the martyr mentality, as we explore strategies to voice your needs and desires without the silent suffering. 3. Stop saying there's no time or energy for connection with your partner. This episode isn't just about avoiding the common pitfalls—it's a treasure trove of advice for those ready to rekindle the flame and choose love, every single day. Check out the exclusive community for couples who are ready to experience more intimacy and connection. It's called the Passionate Marriage Club and you can get all the details here --> https://monicatanner.com/club Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

The Best Gift You Could Give Your Kids this Holiday Season Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Maintaining Intimacy and Connection Amid Holiday Chaos Do the holidays feel more like chaos than coziness? During the festive rush, do you feel the intimacy with your spouse dwindling? I'm here to guide you how to maintain that spark during the busiest time of the year. This episode is full of easy and quick ways to fan the flames of intimacy, with creative date night ideas and meaningful ways to show your spouse they're your top priority. Don't let the holiday hustle cause you to lose sight of the one who matters the most – your partner. Amid the excitement of creating magic for the little ones and juggling a myriad of emotions, your bond with your spouse can often be neglected.  I'm sharing tips on how to keep your date nights alive (even at home), how to express your love and appreciation for your spouse, and of course, the importance of planning some sexy time amidst the decorations and gift-wrapping.  And don't forget to take our intimacy level quiz at https://monicatanner.com/quiz to discover your intimacy level and get tips to enhance it.  Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Strengthen All 6-Pillars of Intimacy This Holiday Season with Tony & Alisa Dilorenzo Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Creating Success in Life and Marriage by Using the Law of Sacred Spaces Today, we are talking about the law of sacred spaces. How can we delineate physically, mentally and emotionally the different hats we wear in our work life and personal life? You are not just an entrepreneur/employee or only a spouse – you are both, and your roles deserve equal attention. The harmony between business success and personal life fulfillment often sets the foundation for sustainable growth.  Implementation:  Set clear, actionable goals for your business and family. Develop a daily schedule where you allocate specific hours to your business, your family, and self-care. Have regular check-ins with your spouse to discuss each other's roles and challenges. Learn to delegate tasks both in business and at home.  If you would like additional help with this or any other concept that strengthens your marriage and sets you up for success, consider checking out the Passionate Marriage Club here --> https://monicatanner.com/club. Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Creating an EPIC Marriage and Business with Bart and Sunny Miller Ready to set yourself up for success in 2024? Bart and Sunny Miller have designed an enviable life together, and they're here to share their strategies on finishing your year on a high and laying the foundations for an even brighter new year. They break down their family life, businesses and how they have crafted their life together, underpinning everything with a want-want relationship. Bart and Sunny walk us through the art of managing business and marriage roles to keep both your work and love life flourishing. We also discuss the evolution of marriage, challenging traditional norms, and the importance of communication and setting mutual goals. From understanding your partner's love language to setting boundaries and revisiting roles and expectations, they share their wisdom for couples juggling personal and professional lives together. But, we don't stop there! Bart and Sunny also share invaluable insights into the dynamics of communication, especially concerning intimacy and sex. We explore shared calendars, planning, and goal setting as a couple for both business and personal events. They emphasize personal growth, mutual interests, and the importance of having fun in a relationship. If you haven't already, be sure to check out the Passionate Marriage Club to see how you can give your marriage the gift of passion this year --> https://monicatanner.com/club. Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

How to Get More of What You Want in Your Marriage Relationship Are you tired of feeling frustrated because your partner doesn't seem to know what you want in your relationship? What if I told you that you have the power to change this dynamic and get more of what you desire? Communication and collaboration are the cornerstones of any successful relationship. But what does effective communication look like? But how do you go from feeling unheard to creating a culture where both you and your partner are getting more of what you desire? In this episode, I'll walk you through my 3-step framework for how you can get your partner's attention, make a specific and behavioral request, and encourage their progress, transforming your relationship in the process. We'll explore the secrets to getting more of what you want in your relationship. To go even deeper into these strategies, I'm hosting the Become the Hero Challenge and the Wise Wife Challenge starting on Monday, December 5th. Register for these challenges and join us for FREE. Husbands --> https://monicatanner.com/herohusband Wives --> https://monicatanner.com/wisewife Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Supercharging Your Gratitude with THIS Simple Hack Ever struggle to get out of your cozy, warm bed on a cold morning? Trust me, I've been there too. But, what if I taught you a super simple hack to add to gratitude that will not only make it bearable but also transform your personal life and relationships? This is what we're exploring today! Through personal stories, I'll share how this simple change has made an impact in my own life. As we approach Thanksgiving, it's the perfect time to reflect on the profound effects of gratitude. The simple act of giving thanks can have a ripple effect on our lives and relationships. From gym routines to supporting friends and family, I'll share practical tips on how gratitude can become a natural part of our day to day lives. Let's embark on this journey together, and uncover the power of supercharging your gratitude with this little trick! We also have an exciting announcement: the Wise Wives Challenge and Become the Hero Husband Challenge are coming up on December 4th, promising to activate your partner's hero genes and bring more attention, affection, and appreciation into your relationship. Don't miss out on this opportunity to join us for these 2 FREE Live Challenges. Husbands, register for the Hero Husband Challenge --> https://monicatanner.com/herohusband Wives, register for the Wise Wife Challenge --> https://monicatanner.com/wisewife Here's the promotion for my Black Friday/Cyber Monday Deal --> Get 60% off the Marriage Manual Bundle exclusively for Black Friday/Cyber Monday. 30+ Relationship Experts each teaching an intimacy workshop. Unlock a lifetime of intimacy in just one click and get the roadmap to more intimacy, connection and passion in your marriage. Use this link to get 60% off TODAY --> https://monicatanner.com/marriagemanual Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Practical Strategies for a Meaningful and Joyful Holiday Season Picture this: you're sailing through the holiday season, fully present, stress-free, and basking in joy. Sounds dreamy, doesn't it? I'm here to tell you it's achievable! This episode is jam-packed with practical, actionable strategies for enjoying a truly joyful holiday season, instead of being lost in overwhelm. We talk about setting an intention for the season, being present, planning ahead, and filtering activities to engage in only those that are truly meaningful. Sounds good? I'm sharing how to maximize holiday traditions while reducing stress. Navigating the often chaotic holiday schedules and finances can be daunting, but with the right approach, they can serve us rather than drain us. To sum it all I'm, I'm giving you 3 tangible tools to feel more peaceful and connected no matter what is actually happening around you this holiday season. If you haven't already, be sure to take my FREE 3-minute intimacy level quiz to find out what level of intimacy you have in your marriage right now and what you can do to improve it --> https://monicatanner.com/quiz Learn more about Monica: https://www.monicatanner.com/   moni@secretsofhappilyeverafter.com    https://www.instagram.com/monitanner1/ https://www.facebook.com/monica.tanner2 https://www.youtube.com/@secretsofhappilyeverafter

Are you feeling stuck in your relationship, grappling with resentment, or sensing that you and your partner have unwittingly transformed into mere roommates? If so, you're not alone. Maintaining a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship can be challenging in a world where the dynamics of love and partnership are constantly evolving. Relationship advice often comes from all directions and it's easy to find ourselves lost in a sea of conflicting guidance. In this insightful conversation, Monica Tanner and Dr. Jessica Higgins delve into practical strategies to address these challenges head-on. The conversation reveals that successful relationships require intentional effort, a commitment to understanding, and the courage to engage in constructive conflict. From cultivating curiosity and practicing vulnerability to navigating differences with grace, they offer actionable steps to reignite the spark in your relationship and avoid falling into the dreaded roommate syndrome. Monica Tanner, Relationship Coach and host of the Secrets of Happily Ever After podcast, transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution, and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, vibrant social media community, and practical programs, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily-ever-after love story. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 5:46 Monica's quest to understanding genuine relationships. 8:38 The challenges of maintaining passion and longevity in modern relationships. 17:18 Nurturing healthy relationship dynamics through boundary setting. 23:16 Navigating emotional withdrawal: The impact of negative interaction patterns. 28:11 Recognizing and addressing hidden resentment. 41:24 Cultivating respectful disagreements and nurturing healthy communication. 48:19 The role of curiosity, interest, and creative problem-solving in deepening intimacy and passion in relationships. Mentioned The Space Between: The Point of Connection (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Free Intimacy Quiz Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication Connect with Monica Tanner Websites: monicatanner.com Facebook: facebook.com/monica.tanner2 Instagram: instagram.com/monitanner1 Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/secrets-of-happily-ever-after/id1345544810 Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.

Today I have the privilege of talking with Monica Tanner, host of the Secrets Of Happily Ever After Podcast.We discuss insights on how to “woo your wife.”What are the things you can do today (and tonight) to make your wife feel “those feelings” again.This episode includes some extra special tips and phrases on how to do just that.Watch on YouTube here.You can find Monica at monicatanner.com http://monicatanner.comDr. MikeP.S. If you're a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou'll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We'd love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.