Future Regrets

Have you ever wondered if you are the asshole in a situation? If the problem is, in fact, you? You aren't alone. Today, we are discussing a selection of posts from the Reddit sub “Am I the Asshole?” and giving our feedback and advice on whether these posters are the assholes.We're covering topics from emasculating your husband to knuckle tattoos to tacky second baby showers to expired chicken.For links to the original posts as well as episode transcript, visit futureregretspodcast.com/70

Guilt. Regret. Woulda coulda shouldas.This episode is all about how to deal with the pain of things we wish we could go back in time and do differently. Guilt and regret are natural, but at some point, we must release them. And doing so doesn't mean that you don't still care, or that you don't wish things could be different. But life is ahead of us, not behind us. These are our tips on how to leave the past in the past. For show notes and episode transcript, visit futureregretspodcast.com/69If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets 

Are you ready for a new way of thinking about your body and movement? To shift your mindset around exercise away from trying to fit a certain mold? How to find JOY in your body and your life?Then we'd like to introduce you to mindset and movement coach Megan Byrd of All Kinds Strength. Megan is a NSCA-Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist as well as a self-described “self-help junkie turned life coach.” Her approach to coaching is to harness both mindset and movement to help people live more deeply in their joy. In this episode, we're talking about breaking free of the constraints of diet culture and the fitness industrial complex, how to heal your relationship with movement, and how to develop a mindset that supports a healthy body, mind, AND spirit.For links to Megan's platforms, episode transcript, and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/68

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: SIGNS CAN'T SAVE YOU IF YOU'RE COMMITTED TO IGNORING THEM.OK, now that that's out of the way, today we're talking about… red flags!Because Jessica is now in the dating world, we've been talking offline about red flags in romantic relationships. (Does he call his ex crazy? Does he only call at off-peak hours? TO THE LEFT, PLEASE.)But we've also expanded this episode to discuss red flags at work and other relationships! Someone who wants to be friends but is always in highly contentious and dramatic spats with other friends? LEFT.A company that wants a Masters degree for an entry level role? LEFT.Listen in for the red flags we are on the lookout for (and have finally learned to stop ignoring). For episode transcript and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/67

We are both having aging crises over here.Alexis just discovered that she has FIVE GOOD YEARS LEFT to be a hottie (according to her).And Jessica is newly single at 33 and dealing with all the emotional drama of trying to Meet a Man as an older model (lol).We aren't alone - Paulina Porizkova, a damn supermodel, was just talking about feeling invisible in a way she hadn't before.So today we are talking about aging for women, the good and the bad. Because let's be honest - for everything that gets “worse” or wrinkled, there are two that get better! For episode transcript and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/66.

With the resurgence of the mid-aughts, including the O.G. Bennifer, we're talking about bringing the past back to life. Specifically, getting back together with an ex. Should you do it? Under what circumstances? Does it ever work? If you do decide to give it the old college try (again), how can you make sure it works the second time around? For episode transcript and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/65

If you recognize the title from your high school or college years, this episode is for you. We are talking about all things 00s fashion. What was with all the LAYERS? How many shirts did one really need to wear? Who thought the empire waist top was a good idea? If a woman doesn't cinch her waist with an over-the-shirt belt, does she have a waist at all? And are we really prepared for Gen Z to discover all these trends and bring them back??For episode transcript and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/64

Today we're talking about DM sliding etiquette.  Why can't men behave themselves in DMs?  What's an appropriate way to slide into someone's DMs? If you post thirst trapping photos, are you asking for a DM slide? How does your ex ALWAYS KNOW when you're feeling happy? What's with the random messages from men looking for a shoulder to cry on?And, of course, the million dollar question: Why will men who will slide into your DMs all day long not actually approach you in a bar?For episode transcript and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/63

What wisdom would you impart to your 20-something self? That's what this episode is all about. We're offering up lessons learned on mental health, physical health and body image, career, style, and of course, relationships of all kinds. Should you keep dating that guy who seems like he has potential? Should you go on that diet? When are you allowed to start liking yourself?Pull up a seat because we have answers to all of the above and much, much more.Get full show notes, episode links, and transcript at futureregretspodcast.com/62

It’s a minisode! In this Mother’s Day bonus episode, Alexis interviews her mom, Carole. While Alexis and her mom have always been close, this was a cool opportunity to ask questions about Carole’s life before motherhood. Alexis also learns more about her mom’s perspective on womanhood, motherhood, and marriage.Jessica's mom could not be reached for comment.For episode links and a full list of the questions Alexis asked, visit https://futureregretspodcast.com/shownotes/. 

Now that more of the population (in America) is vaccinated, we're talking about re-emerging in a post-COVID world. This episode is all about things we're excited about and looking forward to, as well as some of the psychological challenges and anxiety around being out in the world again. For episode links, transcript, and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/61

What won't you tolerate in relationships? A key element of successful relationships (not just romantic) is boundaries and knowing what you won't tolerate. Today we are talking about healthy boundaries, codependence, and where we draw the line. For show notes, episode transcript, and more, visit futureregretspodcast.com/60

How do you get over a breakup, including divorce? From the first days after the breakup to moving out and moving on, we’re giving our tips on how to deal with your breakup and start feeling better. How do you get closure? How tf did you end up in a situationship with someone you used to be married to? Should you cut all contact? When do you get on the apps and start hoing? From meditation to banging strangers, we’ve got you covered.For full show notes, links to things mentioned in this episode, and other related episodes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/59

Today we're talking about stalking. Not real, criminal stalking - just internet stalking. Whatever you want to call it - light stalking, internet research, creeping on social media - we all do it. We've all done a deep dive on someone's social media profiles, Zillow listing, arrest records and more - or do you all not go that far? Today we're talking about all the ways you can find information about people online, and whether it's harmless and when it goes too far. Pull up a chair and grab a drink if you've ever researched your ex's new woman - there's no shame here. For episode transcript and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/58

Jessica wrote and published her first novel, and in this episode, Alexis interviews her about the book-writing process. From inspiration to outlining to writing schedules to self-publishing, we talk about the process from start to finish. We also spend a lot of time discussing mindset and beginning to self-identify as a creative. If you want to write a book or pursue any new creative endeavor, this is the episode for you!For links to the resources mentioned in this episode, visit futureregretspodcast.com/57

Things might get spicy in this episode. We are talking about children and the choice to have them or not, which for some reason (hint: the patriarchy) is a controversial subject. We’re discussing social pressure, whether it’s “selfish,” biological urges, and finding meaning and fulfillment in either choice. For full show notes, links to things mentioned in this episode, and other related episodes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/56

Buckle up because things might get bumpy. Today we are discussing our potentially controversial opinions on showers - bridal showers, baby showers, gender reveal parties, all of it. Is it in poor taste to have multiple baby showers? Multiple WEDDING showers? Does anyone really need a gift grab/party to reveal the sex of their child? And what about those who don't get married or have children? What about gifts for them? For episode transcript and full show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/55

We're a year old! Future Regrets has officially been on the air for a full year. 54 episodes. 4 minisodes. Countless lessons and laughs. A few tears, too. Here's a look back at some of the highlights, bloopers, and cuts from the last 4000+ minutes of the last year. For full show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/54

In today’s episode, we’re doing a deep dive on hair removal. There’s a lot of social pressure and beauty standards around body hair, so we’re talking about that, but we’re also reviewing hair removal methods. From shaving to waxing to lasering, what’s most effective? What hurts the most? If you’ve ever approached your body with an epilator, or allowed someone else to slather your skin with hot wax, this episode is for you.For full show notes, links to things mentioned in this episode, and other related episodes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/53

Ever wonder why some people can’t figure out how to use “reply all”? Why some people ALWAYS cc your boss? Why agendaless meetings even exist? This is the episode where we discuss the topic everyone likes to bitch about - all the things your coworkers do that are ANNOYING.AS.HELL.For full show notes, links to things mentioned in this episode, and other related episodes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/52

What does it mean to "love yourself"? What is "self-love" really? And is it more than "treat yo self"? In this episode, we discuss: moving yourself to the top of your list, instead of always sacrificing for your loved ones; how treating yourself the way you'd like a lover to treat you is magic; the examples of self-love we set for our children; self-talk, affirmations, and how Eye of the Tiger can play a transformative role in your daily life.For full show notes, transcript, links to things mentioned in this episode, and other related episodes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/51

In today’s episode, we’re doing a deep-dive on gossip. Everyone has gossiped and everyone has been gossiped about. So when is it OK to do some light shit talking? Is it ever OK? Are there some things that it’s just plain mean to talk about? We’re also talking about our own personal experiences of being gossiped about and what our standards are now when it comes to talking about other people’s business.For full show notes, links to things mentioned in this episode, and other related episodes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/50

Today we are talking about love myths - specifically, 12 myths about love and romance that are perpetuated by the mass media. These stereotypes are taken from Dr. Mary-Lou Galician's work on Realistic Romance®. Dr. Galician is a professor at Arizona State University and the expert on romantic stereotypes as portrayed in the mass media.We're talking about: Love at first sight, soulmates, "changing" your partner, and living your best life.For full show notes, links to things mentioned in this episode, and other related episodes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/49

Happy almost Valentine's Day! To celebrate, we are serving up our hot takes on one pickup artist's criteria for being a "high-value woman." The article has a lot of advice on how to be "high-value," and we have a lot of thoughts on why this advice is bunk. Listen now for our point-by-point takedown of this pickup artist B.S.For full show notes, links to things mentioned in this episode, and other related episodes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/48If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram:@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

TW: Death, suicide. In this episode, Alexis interviews her best friend, Megan, who experienced the loss of her friend and ex-boyfriend by suicide last summer. Many of the resources out there are created by people with more space from the death. Megan wanted to share what grief is like in real-time. She shares what she's learned about how to support a suicidal person, how to take care of herself, and how others can support someone who is grieving a suicide death. If you are in crisis you can reach out for assistance by calling 1-800-273-8255 or by texting 988. Follow Megan's podcast on Instagram @shhh_donttalkpodcastIf you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram:@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

Alright, let's talk fitness. Today we are discussing "As Seen on TV" exercise equipment and other hilarious fitness items - like the Shake Weight - that do not perform as promised. Join us for a laugh about some of the things we've foolishly wasted money on in the quest for abs. (And no, 8 minutes a day on the Ab Roller will not give you a 6-pack.)If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram:@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

To celebrate Inauguration Day, we're excited to share today's episode - a very special interview with the newly elected Pima County Attorney, Laura Conover. Laura spoke with us in December about criminal justice reform, running for office, and her advice for anyone, especially women, thinking of running in the future. As Laura says, "We can run. We can win. We can do amazing things."If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram:@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

(Quick note: We had some tech issues on the second half of this episode - sorry about that!)In today's episode, we're talking manifestation! Specifically, our before-and-after manifesting journeys. Last fall, we started a 100-day manifestation journal challenge. We recorded the first half of this episode back in September and the second half after the 100 days. What is manifestation? Is it just spiritual bootstrapping? And... did it work? If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram@futureregretspod @alexis_catherine @jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

Happy New Year! Today's episode is a recap of 2020: highlights and lowlights, lessons learned, where we were at this time a year ago, what we expected 2020 to bring (lol), and what we hope for in the year to come. We hope you have a wonderful, safe New Year's Eve, and may 2021 bring you more of the good stuff and less of 2020.If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram@futureregretspod @alexis_catherine @jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

Happy Christmas Eve! To celebrate having a lot of time off, we recorded a special Christmas Edition of SPOILER ALERT, our vintage movie review series. “Love Actually” has been a modern day Christmas classic for more than 15 years. In this episode, we run through every.single.plot line. and discuss what has aged well and what hasn’t. We also discuss why in the hell people love this dark ass film. There are also many poor attempts at British accents. If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram@futureregretspod @alexis_catherine @jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

It's almost New Year's Resolution season! In a couple weeks, we'll be inundated with messages about being "different" and "better" versions of ourselves. In this episode, we're talking about the pitfalls of setting New Year's Resolutions - from paying off debt to getting organized to losing weight - and discussing the Word of the Year concept as an alternative. We're talking about the words we chose in 2020 and what our 2021 words are.

In this episode, we're talking about friendship - specifically, friendships with other women . Female friendships are often characterized as dramatic, gossipy, and catty, so we're here to dispel those garbage notions. We discuss the benefits of having friends who are women and the uphill battle women sometimes face in forging strong relationships with other women (it's the patriarchy).For episode links, visit https://futureregretspodcast.com/40If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram @futureregretspod @alexis_catherine @jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

Today we are talking about holiday traditions - food, gift exchanges, family drama, sweatshirts vs. dressing up, turkey vs. ham, ALL OF IT. Also please stop the White Elephants - one person always gets hosed and someone else always gets a butt plug. And TO BE CLEAR, crescent rolls are NOT an acceptable holiday dinner bread.This might be our favorite episode of ALL TIME, so we hope you enjoy it!Visit futureregretspodcast.com/39 for links to all the recipes mentioned in today's episode!If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram @futureregretspod @alexis_catherine @jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

Happy Thanksgiving! In today's episode, we are talking about gratitude. We wanted to take time to reflect on what we've learned so far in 2020 and what we are especially grateful for, given the year that we've had. We're also talking about what we've learned lately about gratitude, mental health, and happiness. And if you're listening to this episode, know that we are tremendously grateful for YOU.For episode links and show notes, visit futureregretspodcast.com/38If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram @futureregretspod @alexis_catherine @jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

We are chatting with Alessia of One Girl Travel, a lifestyle and coaching brand dedicated to inspiring women to travel independently. This episode is all about travel - destination inspiration, packing tips, planning tips, and how to stay safe if you choose to travel alone as a woman. We're also digging into Alessia's mindset and what inspired her to become a solo traveler.For episode links and behind the scenes content, visit futureregretspodcast.com/37If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram @futureregretspod @alexis_catherine @jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

In this episode, we're airing all our dirty laundry. We're discussing our personality flaws and how the Enneagram has helped us better understand ourselves, including our flaws. We think it's important to be self-aware, and the Enneagram provides a great context for why we do what we do. For more information about the Enneagram system and to take your own Enneagram test, visit https://futureregretspodcast.com/36If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119 Twitter@future_regrets

Meet us at the Four Seasons...no, not the hotel. The landscaping firm off i-95. In this emergency minisode, Jessica and Alexis discuss the whos, whys, and whats of the Trump campaign's November 7 press conference. Who thought this was a good idea? Was it a mistake? And why didn't anyone stop this once they pulled into the parking lot of Four Seasons Total Landscaping? We give our hot takes based on our years of experience as event planners, which leaves us with one burning question: "WTF?"Links:Washington Post ArticleSlate Article

In this episode, we're talking about divorce - a topic so many people don't talk about until it's happening to them. Our guest is Christina Previte, a family law attorney who specializes in divorce and is on a mission to help people have "better" divorces. She explains what she means by a "better divorce" and answers our questions about prenups, the legal stuff vs. the emotional stuff, and what she recommends for anyone considering a separation or divorce.You can find Christina online at New Jersey Divorce Solutions, The Divorce Happy Hour Podcast, Wake Up Call Podcast, and The Sht Talkin' Podcast.Listen to this episode on our website at futureregretspodcast.com/35If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119 Twitter@future_regrets

Happy Halloween! In this episode, we are talking about the spooky stuff that scares us. Porcelain dolls, mirrors in the night, Bloody Mary - there are so many holdovers from childhood! This is just a fun, lighthearted look at the things that scared us as kids.... and let's be real, still scare us now. If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

In this episode, we launch "Spoiler Alert," an offshoot of our Vintage Celebrity Gossip series focused on 90s and 2000s movies. We are starting with My Best Friend's Wedding because 1) Jessica has strong feelings about Julia Roberts and 2) Alexis had never seen it! We are reviewing the plot, characters, and how the film has aged over the last generation. Bonus conversation on why America's Sweetheart is... really not. For episode links (and some corrections to Jessica's recollection of A LOW VERA) and bonus content on how the movie was received at the time, visit futureregretspodcast.com/33If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119 Twitter@future_regrets

Coming to you (not live) from the Hotel Valley Ho, we are talking about skincare and beauty routines. Jessica follows a Korean multi-product skincare routine, while Alexis is more low maintenance but also uses more drastic treatments. We discuss skincare philosophy plus product recommendations (including a cure for bacne) and more! Visit futureregretspodcast.com/32 for links to all of the products in this episode plus others not mentioned by name. If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Instagram@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119 Twitter@future_regrets

What does it mean to be rich? To be wealthy? In this episode, we're discussing money, wealth and abundance. We're comparing what we consider "rich" today with what was "rich" when we were kids. "Rich" means what we make it mean. And it's different for everyone. Dive in with us as we talk about what's rich to us - and ultimately, what our views on wealth say about our values. Bonus content on a $10,000 watch at https://futureregretspodcast.com/31 If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Connect with us!Instagram@futureregretspod@alexis_catherine@jessmf119Twitter@future_regrets

In this episode, we're discussing all things bras and boobs with bra fitting expert Margo Hall, who owns The Bra Spa boutique in Tucson, Arizona. Margo explains the confusing world of bra sizing, how your bra SHOULD fit, and how to care for your bras. (It's OK to put them in the washing machine!) Margo is generously offering Future Regrets listeners 20% off their first visit to the store. Mention "Future Regrets Podcast" when calling to make your appointment. Offer good through November 30, 2020.You can make an appointment and download a free self-measuring tool at www.braspa.coIf you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

Mood management has been a big part of our mental heath and personal development journeys. We've had to learn to not let the way we feel in any given moment dictate our outlooks on life. In this episode, we discuss the tricks we use to shake a bad mood, whether it's anxiety, work stress, or general frustration with life. Over on the blog, Jessica gets honest about what happens when these tricks don't work, along with one major tip for what to do when nothing seems to help. Read more at https://futureregretspodcast.com/29/ PS - You check out Alexis’ “A Playlist for Feeling Feelings” on Spotify!If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

Words matter, and today we're talking about the words and phrases that we think should be retired from speech. Whether it's the office jargon that gets thrown around (we'll circle back on this) or the cultural implications of "boss babe," or why no one should be encouraged to "rise and grind," we're getting a little pedantic about our personal pet peeve phrases. For additional thoughts on "happiness is a choice," visit https://futureregretspodcast.com/28If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

Did you know beer and witches are inextricably linked? Today we have beer-brewer Cassidy Johnson from Crooked Tooth Brewery on the show to talk about the intersection of woo-ism, the practice of “witchcraft,” and the male-dominated beer industry. Cassidy tells us about the history of “witches’ brew” (hint: it's the patriarchy) and the role beer plays in her own spiritual practice (there’s a Full Moon Brew!). For further reading about the history of brew witches and links to Southwest Serendipity and Crooked Tooth Brewery, visit futureregretspodcast.com/27If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

The Five Love Languages are the different ways that people prefer to give and receive love, according to Gary Chapman’s book, “The 5 Love Languages.” The premise of the book is that you can improve your relationship by “speaking” your partner’s Love Language. In this episode, we discuss each of the five languages and our own efforts to apply the Love Language concepts in real life. Listen in for relationship advice from two Ice Queen Robots.For additional content on Love Language compatibility, visit futureregretspodcast.com/26If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

It's our first Mailbag Minisode! Today we are discussing a listener question: "What are your thoughts on #freebritney?" As huge Britney Spears fans, we have many thoughts, including the conservatorship, Britney Conspiracy Theories, and what's up with those Instagram dancing videos. If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

We’ve been “on a diet” or in the middle of a “lifestyle change” since the 90s. In this episode, we talk about how we’ve come to reject diets and diet culture, from Slim-Fast to macro tracking. But most importantly, we discuss why we no longer participate in the quest to be smaller. We offer tips on shutting down damaging diet conversation and how we’ve learned to balance mental health, body image, exercise, and food on our journeys toward confidence and acceptance. Visit www.futureregretspodcast.com/25 for links to anti-diet culture resources and influencers we follow.If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

In this week’s episode, we have a conversation about remote work that veers into a larger discussion about career stuff in general, like work culture and work-life balance. We talk about the emotional weight of working during COVID, plus productivity in the context of the 40-hour workweek, bullshit jobs, and workplace boundaries. For a play-by-play of our remote work daily routines and episode links, visit www.futureregretspodcast.com/24If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets

Astrology, tarot, crystals, intuition, energy, vibes - today we’re talking about all things “woo.” We believe in the power of attention and intention to change our lives, and this conversation is an exploration of things Western society deems irrational, silly, frivolous, or nonsensical. While not expert practitioners of the occult ourselves, we love exploring the intuitive elements of this universe and how they have helped us manage anxiety and live more peacefully.For a brief history of horoscopes as we know them today, and links to Open Focus meditation, a very effective practice to reduce anxiety, visit https://futureregretspodcast.com/23If you liked this episode, please rate, review and subscribe on Apple Podcasts! Follow us on Instagram: @futureregretspod, @alexis_catherine, @jessmf119Twitter: @future_regrets