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Grit ‘n’ Grace is refreshment for women worn out from following bad rules, working to keep everybody else happy, and overextending their time and emotions. Through interviews with insightful and inspiring guests, Cheri Gregory and Amy Carroll will help you to: · Recalculate your journey from ou…

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    The Grit 'n' Grace: Good Girls Breaking Bad Rules podcast is truly an inspirational and uplifting show. From the moment you start listening, you can feel the joy and enthusiasm that the hosts, Cheri and Amy, bring to each episode. Their conversations are filled with wisdom and insight that can apply to anyone, regardless of age or background. As a 13-year-old listener, I have found this podcast to be incredibly inspiring and relatable. It's amazing how every episode seems to speak directly to me and encourages me to let go of my own desires and serve God better.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is how Cheri and Amy make you feel like you're right there with them, drinking coffee at their table. Their genuine laughter and authenticity create a warm and welcoming atmosphere that instantly puts you at ease. They have a way of sharing their own struggles and experiences in a relatable way, making it easy for listeners to connect with them on a personal level. I love how their episodes always leave me feeling encouraged and uplifted after hearing their voices.

    Another great aspect of this podcast is the variety of topics they cover. Each episode provides wisdom in a fun and relatable way, making it easy to absorb the messages they share. Whether it's discussing perfectionism or learning to give yourself grace, Cheri and Amy always provide practical insights that can be applied to everyday life as a Christian. They also bring on relevant guests who add depth to the conversations and provide additional perspectives.

    It's hard to find any negative aspects of this podcast because it truly is a gem. However, if I had to nitpick, I would say that sometimes the episodes can be quite short. As someone who enjoys longer podcasts, I sometimes wish there was more content to dive into. However, this is just a personal preference and doesn't take away from the value that each episode provides.

    In conclusion, The Grit 'n' Grace: Good Girls Breaking Bad Rules podcast is a game-changer. It's a podcast that provides inspiration, encouragement, and valuable insights in a relatable and fun way. Cheri and Amy have created a space where listeners can feel seen, understood, and empowered to let go of their own desires and serve God better. Their authenticity and wisdom shine through each episode, making this podcast a must-listen for anyone looking to grow as a Christian while giving themselves grace along the way.



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    Episode #292: Equip Your Future Self—How to Maximize What You Learn from a Big Decision

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 28:14


    The decision is done — so why does your body still feel like it's bracing for impact? It's like your brain was on board but your body missed the memo. If you know that feeling, you are not alone. For those of us with Sensory Processing Sensitivity, dealing with the aftermath of so much sensory strain can be intense:  second-guessing self-recrimination shame spirals In this episode, we'll explore the question, “How do you learn and grow from what just happened—especially when parts of the process were hard?” I'll share what I've been learning about post-decision recovery, reflection, and documentation of your hard-won wisdom. So if you're craving closure that's kind rather than self-critical, you'll gain the tools you need to find peace in the present and to Equip Your Future Self!   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode292

    Episode #291: Stand Your Ground — How to Make Confident Decisions and Move Forward

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 24:15


    Does decision-making leave you feeling pushed around — by others and even by your own brain? For so many Highly Sensitive Persons, high-stakes choices can feel like we're navigating a minefield while wearing a blindfold! In this episode, my analytically-minded son Jonathon reveals how external pressure can sway us during important decisions. And I'll share strategies to calm the inner turmoil so you can move forward with clarity and confidence. You'll walk away with practical tools to recognize unhealthy pressure, protect your peace, and stand your ground — with others and with yourself.   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode291

    Episode #290: Change Your Mind — Why ‘Trying On' Options Helps You Make Wise Decisions

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2025 24:52


    When you feel like you're always second-guessing yourself, it's tempting to idealize being a "one-and-done" decision-maker!  But what if changing your mind isn't a sign of weakness but actually a sign of wisdom? In this episode, we're tackling the myth that Highly Sensitive Persons are “wishy-washy.” You'll learn how “trying on” different options can free you from the guilt of sunk costs, help you honor your real-time needs, and lead to better choices in the long-run. You'll also gain permission to update out-dated decisions, while embracing God's grace as you grow. Changing your mind does not make you flaky. So often, it simply means that you're paying attention!   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode290

    Episode #289: Take Your Time — How to Make Decisions You Won't Regret

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2025 27:32


    In a world that idealizes instant answers and snap decisions, Highly Sensitive Persons often get labeled hesitant ... indecisive ... over-thinking. But what if your HSP brain and body are not motivated by being told to “Hurry Up”? What if your soul responds to pressure by asking, “Can we please slow down?” What if you need a counter-cultural approach to decision-making? In this episode, I share a real-life story of navigating a big decision (with a looming deadline) as an HSP who is, by definition, a reflective thinker. You'll learn how scripture, curiosity, and community can lead to clarity and confidence. If you, too, struggle with decision-making, I hope you'll find encouragement to honor your God-given pace and—whenever possible—to Take. Your. Time.   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode289

    Episode #288: Why Asking for What You Want (and Actually Getting It!) Feels So Wrong

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 18:55


    Why does getting what you want sometimes feel so wrong? You finally speak up, advocate for yourself, and even win—but instead of feeling victorious, you're hit with guilt, second-guessing, or a sudden urge to backtrack. What is up with that?  Well, in this episode, I'm sharing a real-life situation that left me wondering ... why asking for what I want feels so uncomfortable why getting what I want can feel so much worse than just going with the flow, and how this is all tangled up with people-pleasing, perfectionism, and a deep DEEP desire for certainty. So if you've ever struggled to stand your ground, let's talk about how to move forward with confidence—minus the emotional whiplash!   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode288    

    Episode #287: From ‘Not Enough' to Beloved—How to Reframe Your Beliefs about Enoughness

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 31:51


    Do you sometimes get caught up in the cycle of feeling ‘not enough'? If so, you're not alone! In this episode, Amy Carroll returns as my guest co-host, and we get real about the questions of “enough-ness” that so many of us wrestle with, especially as Highly Sensitive Christian Women. In this deeply personal conversation, Amy opens her heart around the worry Am I enough? while I share my life-long struggles with wondering Am I DOING enough? Throughout this episode, you'll discover practical ways to identify and shift the beliefs that keep you stuck in overthinking, overworking, and self-doubt. You can embrace your identity as God's beloved … and you can learn to discern when enough is truly enough.   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode287

    Episode #286: The Heart of a Helper — Loving Your People without Losing Yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 28:24


    Are you the person everyone turns to — because you're the peacemaker, the caregiver, the one who always says yes — but deep down you're running on empty? In this honest and hope-filled conversation, guest co-host Danielle Grosse explores "the Heart of a Helper" and helps us understand why those of us who love to serve often struggle to receive. She shares why it's so difficult to admit when we need help, how we can let others pour back into us, and what happens when we finally give ourselves permission to heal. If helping others has ever felt like both your greatest joy and your heaviest burden, this episode is for you. Join us for a discussion full of grace, wisdom, and real-life encouragement and that offers a new perspective on what it truly means to serve well as HSPs—without sacrificing your own well-being.   Links mentioned: Danielle's website Sign up for Danielle's newsletter ... which includes "Just Ask Dani" Take Danielle's quiz "The Heart of a Helper: Uncover What You Need Right Now" Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/   Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode286

    Episode #285: Different, Not Defective — Why We Each Experience Life in Such Unique Ways

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 18:26


    Have you ever had someone tell you, “You're just imagining things,” or “It can't be that loud” (or that bright or that itchy)? If you're a Highly Sensitive Person, you've been there. Other people's reactions to your heightened perceptions can feel isolating, even invalidating. But your experiences aren't wrong; they're uniquely yours. So in this episode, we're looking at how our DNA shapes the way we sense and respond to the world and what that means for those of us who are HSPs. We're also talking about why it's vital to listen to, learn from, and care for the HSP body that God has entrusted to you. Your differences aren't defects — your differences are divine!   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/   Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode285

    Episode #284: Made a Mistake? How to Stop Self-Blaming & Start Receiving Grace

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 14:33


    Have you ever felt crushed under the weight of a mistake, convinced it's too big to fix? Whether it's a literal mess or a relational misstep, we often respond by piling on guilt, shame, and endless self-blame. But what if there's another way? In this episode, I share the story of a literal spill that led to a deep reflection on responsibility, self-blame, and the gift of grace. We'll talk about how to figure out what's actually yours to own, how to stop beating yourself up for every little thing, and how to open your heart to God's grace—even in life's sticky situations. If you're ready to stop over-owning every mess and start letting grace lead the way, this episode is for you!   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz:  https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/   Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode284

    Episode #283: Your Voice Matters — How to Speak Up with Clarity and Grace

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 38:14


    Do you ever feel hesitant to speak up for yourself? Today we're taking a deep dive into the messy and rewarding realities of candid communication! From navigating subtle hints to standing firm in your voice, guest co-host Amy Carroll and I share personal stories, practical insights, and a paradigm shift that caught me off-guard. You'll discover why “clarity is kind,” learn how to balance honesty with grace, and gain tips for approaching even the toughest conversations with confidence. Listen in to this candid convo about candid convos filled with wisdom, wit, and the occasional buzzzzz of “aha moments”! Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe: https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz:  https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/   Episode Webpage:  https://CheriGregory.com/episode283

    Episode #282: Big Ideas, Small Steps: How to Break Through Resistance and Overwhelm

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 32:02


    Do you love dreaming, brainstorming, and making big plans … but then get completely stuck when it's time to actually #DoTheThing? As the year wraps up, it's easy to look back at 2024 and feel disappointed (and maybe even guilty) over all the things you meant to do but didn't quite get to. Friend, you are not alone! HSPs often stall out when the details become overwhelming or resistance starts creeping in.  So in this episode, we're talking about why this happens, how procrastination might actually be protecting you, and—best of all—how you can move forward without guilt, shame, or forcing yourself to push through. Listen in to learn how small, gentle steps can help you build momentum in a way that honors your unique wiring. Links mentioned: HSP Coaching with Cheri "Write Beside You" Short-Term Coaching with Cheri "Write Beside You" Unlimited Coaching Program with Cheri Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz The book I mentioned to Marisa: Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert

    Episode #281: Peace on the Go: 5 Tips for Less Stress During Travel and Big Events

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 25:01


    Have you ever found yourself dreading holiday travel, parties, and programs — while everyone around you seems sooo excited? For many of us, all the seasonal festivities can quickly become an overwhelming avalanche of stress, overstimulation, and exhaustion. And then, we end up feeling guilty for not being able to “just roll with it” … or even ashamed that we can't focus on “the reason for the season.” So today, we're exploring: why travel and big events can take such a huge toll on us how past choices have made things harder than necessary how-to tips for navigating holiday trips and group gatherings.  With intentional planning, you can honor your God-given HSP wiring and truly en-joy the most wonderful time of the year.   Links mentioned: World's Softest Socks https://worldssoftest.com/ “How to Quickly Calm Your Overwhelmed Heart” eCourse https://CheriGregory.com/calm/ Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/

    Episode #280: Preventing Burnout: How to Flourish in a World Full of Needs

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 42:46


    Have you ever felt like your big heart and deep emotions are both a gift and a challenge? If you've struggled with burnout — or wondered how to make a difference without losing yourself — this conversation is for you.  Today's guest co-host, Dorcas Cheng-Tozun, shares how to ... use your emotional intensity and empathy as strengths …   care for yourself while caring for others … and serve others in ways that don't leave you utterly depleted.  Listen in for truly practical tips on setting boundaries, practicing self-compassion, and sustainably serving the people God has called you to serve.   Links mentioned: The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe:  https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz: https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/ Dorcas Cheng-Tozun:  https://www.chengtozun.com/

    Episode #279: Surviving the Holidays: Help for When Your Heart Feels Heavy

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 40:44


    During holidays, many of us feel the bittersweet tension between joy and grief … especially when there's an empty chair at the table. This week's guest co-host, Cheri Fletcher, is here to share a glimpse into her journey through the uncharted territory of grief after losing her beloved daughter Annie more than a year ago. She offers candid encouragement and practical tools to help us honor our loved ones, navigate heavy emotions, and hold space for mourning and meaningful connections. So whether you're grieving or supporting someone who is, you'll find comfort, understanding, and actionable insights to help you lean into both  love and loss during this tender season. Links mentioned in episode: Cheri Fletcher's podcast episode: “Now What? When You Pray With Holy Expectations but the Unexpected Happens“ Blog post I wrote years ago about Cheri Fletcher's reaction to learning that she's a Highly Sensitive Person: “The One Truth Every HSP Needs to Know“ Get your sample set of Cheri Fletcher's conversation cards — Move Beyond “I Just Don't Know What to Say” Take the "Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?" Quiz  Learn more about the "Growing Sensitive & Strong" program 

    Episode #278: "Tracking God": A New Approach to Deepen Your Faith Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2024 25:19


    Have you ever felt like a failure at gratitude? Like no matter how many lists you make or journals you keep, this whole “giving thanks” thing (which seems to work for everyone else) just doesn't “work” for you? In this episode, Cheri Gregory and Lori Margo discuss why typical gratitude practices can fall flat, and introduce a fresh, faith-filled alternative: “Tracking God.” This simple yet powerful approach helps you notice God's presence in deeply personal ways, even in the hardest moments. Tune in for an encouraging conversation about navigating life's challenges while growing closer to God. Links: Check out the episode web page at https://CheriGregory.com/episode278 Take Lori Margo's "What Does My Faith Really Need Right Now?" Quiz at https://LoriMargo.com/quiz Enroll in "Overcome Procrastination & JUST WRITE! 7 Surprisingly Simple Strategies to Get Your Words Flowing" at https://WriteBesideYou.com/join  

    Episode #277: 3 New Habits to Help You Thrive as a Highly Sensitive Person

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 14:21


    Are you tired of tying yourself into a pretzel just to prove you're not “high maintenance”? In this episode of Grit ‘n' Grace — The Podcast for Highly Sensitive Christian Women, Cheri Gregory shares three simple but life-changing habits to help you stop merely surviving and start truly thriving as a Highly Sensitive Person. Learn how to stop force-fitting yourself, discover what genuinely works for you, and find assurance in the custom-tailored care of Jesus. Let's move beyond the overwhelm and step into thriving together! https://CheriGregory.com/episode277

    Welcome to Grit ‘n' Grace: The Podcast for Highly Sensitive Christian Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2024 2:10


    Have you spent your life hearing, “You're just TOO sensitive?” Are you tired of the overthinking, overwhelm, and exhaustion that come with being a highly sensitive person (HSP)? Ready to stop worrying that something's wrong with you and start  understanding and nurturing yourself as an HSP? Welcome to Grit ‘n' Grace—The Podcast for Highly Sensitive Christian woman. Your safe haven. I'm your host, Cheri Gregory. I'm an author, speaker, coach, and founder of the Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe. Every week, I'll guide you through building resilience, practicing self-compassion, setting healthy boundaries, unlocking your creativity, and learning to embrace—not fight—your God-given sensitivity. Each episode offers connection, honest conversations, and practical tools to help you navigate a world that often misunderstands HSPs. Together, we'll cultivate awareness, trust and confidence in how God wired you — at the DNA level — to be an HSP. You were made to thrive, and Grit ‘n' Grace is here to help you do just that. Now, if you're brand new to the whole HSP concept, come take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” quiz at https://cherigregory.com/hspquiz/. And remember: God created you sensitive; in Christ, you are always strong.

    Episode #276: Spacious Places and Small Steps: Catch-Up Convo 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 38:32


    What happens when you step away from what you thought defined you? In this heartfelt episode, Cheri and Amy reunite for their 2024 “Catch-Up Convo,” sharing their personal journeys of transformation over the past 14 months. Amy opens up about leaving behind vocational ministry to dive into a completely new real estate adventure, while Cheri reflects on the power of self-compassion in difficult seasons. Together, they discuss finding joy in unexpected places, letting go of old identities, and embracing God's grace in every chapter of life. It's a conversation filled with laughter, honesty, and hope! Get full notes and a transcript at: gritngracegirls.com/episode276

    Episode #275: Fresh Starts & New Adventures

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 35:14


    Do you ever feel like "It's just too late" — to get un-stuck or to start something new? Cheri and Amy are here to remind you that fresh starts and new adventures are always possible—no matter where you are in life. In this episode, they explore the joys of letting go, lifelong learning, and making room for what truly brings you joy. You'll hear stories of stepping out of comfort zones, setting bold boundaries, and embracing the idea that it's never too late to begin again. Join them for a heartwarming chat about discovering new possibilities, pursuing passions, and living with intention at every age. Get full notes and a transcript at: gritngracegirls.com/episode275

    Episode #274: The Power of a Simple ‘What If?'

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 29:41


    Do you ever watch other women start living big new adventures and wonder, “How does she do that?” In this lively episode, Kathi Lipp shares her unexpected journey from city life to becoming an "accidental homesteader" on 33 acres of wilderness. Kathi opens up about how a series of "what if" moments led her to embrace adventure, grit, and a new way of life. Whether it's raising chickens or building a greenhouse, Kathi encourages listeners to step out in faith, take small risks, and see how God uses their curiosity to create unexpected opportunities. Tune in for laughs, wisdom, and inspiration to pursue your own "what if" moments! Get full notes and a transcript at: gritngracegirls.com/episode274

    Episode #273: Debunking the ‘Too Emotional' Myth

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 28:34


    Christian women are often told that being "too emotional" is a weakness, but what if our emotions are actually a source of strength? In this episode, Cheri and Amy debunk that myth, diving into an honest conversation about buoying life's heaviest moments with the promises of God. Reflecting on their interview with Michele Cushatt, they explore how naming and sitting with our hard emotions Debunking the ‘Too Emotional' Myth actually builds resilience and deepens faith. If you've ever felt like your emotions are “too much,” this episode offers real talk, validation, and practical steps for approaching your feelings as tools for healing and growth.   Get full notes and a transcript at: gritngracegirls.com/episode273

    Episode #272: A Faith that Does Not Fail (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2024 23:14


    Feeling overwhelmed by grief or big emotions? In this second half of our interview, Michele Cushatt — author of A Faith that Will Not Fail: 10 Practices to Build Up Your Faith When Your World Is Falling Apart — discusses why it's so important to actually feel your feelings, especially during hard seasons. With humor and raw honesty, Michele offers practical, down-to-earth tips for dealing with those big emotions while trusting God's heart for healing and restoration. Get full notes and a transcript at: gritngracegirls.com/episode272

    Episode #271: A Faith that Does Not Fail (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2024 23:13


    Feeling like your faith is hanging by a thread? Michele Cushatt returns to share the heart behind her book, A Faith That Will Not Fail. Michele dives deep into the power of lament, vulnerability, and how we can truly support each other without slipping into toxic positivity. If you're facing tough times, this episode is A Faith that Does Not Fail (Part 1) is packed with encouragement and hope to help you hold on. Get full notes and a transcript at: gritngracegirls.com/episode271

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    Breathing Room & Breakthroughs: A Catch-Up Convo

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 26:10


    Grit ‘n' Grace is baaaaaaaack! After a year-long hiatus, Cheri and Amy return for a much-needed catch-up convo.  In this episode, they dive into what they've missed most, how life has changed, and the big lessons God has been teaching them. Amy opens up about navigating major transitions, while Cheri reflects on finding breathing room after seasons of chaos.  With laughter, vulnerability, and wisdom, they share how God is at work in the mess. Tune in for a heartfelt and encouraging reunion! Get full notes and a transcript at: gritngracegirls.com/episode270

    Episode #269: The End — Closing Thoughts from Cheri & Amy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2022 47:00


    The saying is true. All good things do come to an end. In this last planned episode of Grit 'n' Grace, Cheri and Amy talk about lessons they've learned about ending well and the biggest personal changes they've experienced through the Grit 'n' Grace years. There are some big lightbulb moments in this episode! Listen to the very end to learn how to keep in touch with Cheri and Amy. Grit 'n' Grace is wrapping up, but your connection with them doesn't have to end!

    Episode #268: Becoming an Influential Woman in an Uncertain Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 25:36


    When we're going through uncertain times, just keeping ourselves afloat can feel like a challenge. It's counterintuitive to believe that uncertainty can be a pathway to our greatest influence. Yet, that's exactly what we see in the book of Esther. With co-authors of the Esther study, Amy Carroll and Lynn Cowell, Cheri discusses four biblical steps that can lead us to influence in our most difficult days.

    Episode #267: Seeing Our Invisible God in an Uncertain World

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2022 29:53


    Let's be honest: It's difficult to love, know, and serve an invisible God. It's especially hard in uncertain times when He's nowhere in sight ... when He seems to have vanished. In today's episode, Cheri is the sole interviewer, digging for solutions to this dilemma with Amy Carroll and Lynn Cowell, co-authors of the new study, Esther: Seeing Our Invisible God in an Uncertain World. We're not the only women who have faced this challenge, so listen in for some ancient and reliable truths!

    Episode #266: How to Handle Your Strange Season with Hope

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 27:51


    It's uncomfortable to be in a strange season, one in which your reality looks very different than your peers'. It can happen early in life when everyone else is moving into dorms while you go to work. Or later, when you're raising grandchildren while your friends are having their passports stamped. No matter the stage of life, you can have hope and purpose in your strange season. Cheri and Amy discuss the difficulties and unexpected gifts we find when our lives take a turn we never expected.

    Episode #265: How to Succeed at Raising Your Children's Children

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2022 24:50


    When grandparents take on the job of parenting grandchildren, a mix of blessing and challenge ensues. From the rich resource of personal experience, Rick Johnson, author of When Grandparents Become Parents, shares a dose of hope for all involved in this tricky parenting model. If you're a grandparent that's parenting your grandchild or love someone who is, tune in today for words of encouragement that you can absorb and share.

    Episode #264: How to Seek and Find the Source of Heart Happy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2022 30:48


    Feeling alone in the chaos and stress of your life? We understand! Yet, everyone has seasons that it's hard to harness the happy that we're promised. In today's episode, Cheri and Amy dig deep into the obstacles to "heart happy" and ways to overcome them. You'll hear both practical tips and deep spiritual practices that will help you draw closer to God for the happy He has to give.

    Episode #263: How to Cultivate a Happy Heart in the Midst of Chaos

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2022 31:09


    When you're at the end of your rope, is happiness possible? Tricia Goyer, author of Heart Happy: Staying Centered in God's Love Through Chaotic Circumstances, found a secret to happiness at one of her lowest points. In today's episode, she shares that her life, just like ours, has had some painful challenges, but happiness has intersected those seasons in beautifully unexpected ways. Tune in to tap into a truth that we can all benefit from!

    Episode #262: How to Handle Being (Inevitably) Misunderstood

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 38:03


    It's coming. There will be a day when others misunderstand you. What then? Cheri and Amy discuss strategies to handle being misunderstood so that we aren't devastated when it happens. We can learn from being misunderstood and come out stronger on the other side!

    Episode #261: Finding Women Who "Get You" When You Feel Misunderstood

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2022 27:15


    Being misunderstood is the worst. The Worst. If you've been in that circumstance, you're in good company, and your story isn't over. Mary DeMuth, author of The Most Misunderstood Women of the Bible, unpacks the lessons she learned as she studied the scriptural stories of ten real-life women. This episode is full of mic-drop moments when Cheri and Amy were left with tears in their eyes and jaws on the floor.

    Episode #260: How Do You Feel Worthy When Your Past "Disqualifies" You?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 26:01


    Shadia Hrichi, author of Worthy of Love, knows what it's like to feel unworthy. An abortion early in her life left her believing that she was unqualified to serve God, but He didn't leave her in that untruth. Hear how Shadia, now a powerful Bible teacher, ended her silent suffering and experienced healing. Her saving grace can be yours too!

    Episode #259: How to Trust that Your Messy Story Can Be Redeemed

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2022 28:37


    There's bad news and good news about your messy story. The bad news is that messy stories are straight-up painful. The good news is that you aren't alone. Shadia Hrichi, author of Tamar: Rediscovering the God Who Redeems Me, shares hope-filled truths about how God Himself cares for and transforms our painful places.

    Episode #258: Why Learning How to Quit Good Things is a Vital Life Skill

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2022 27:08


    It's important to end well, but it's tricky. As women, we don't like to feel like we're quitters, so we often hold onto things too long. But what about jobs, roles, and circumstances that are just for a season? How do we end those well? In this touching episode, Cheri and Amy discuss markers of an ending season, hard decisions, and learning how to end with excellence and grace.

    Episode #257: How to Stop Dieting and Live in Peace with Food (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 28:50


    So many of us have an unhealthy relationship with food. The disfunction can range from hypervigilance to constant dieting to eating disorders. Kassandra Baker, Certified Health, Life, and Mental Health Coach, explains how perfectionism and people-pleasing can be part of our problem with food. Then, she leads us to a new understanding about the way we eat. Speaking from her own personal experience and recovery from two eating disorders, Kassandra leads us to freedom from diet culture.

    Episode #256: How to Stop Dieting and Live in Peace with Food (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2022 30:51


    Ugh. It seems like this thought rolls through on the regular, "Well, it's time to diet again." What if it was possible to end our love/hate relationship with food and live in peace? Kassandra Baker, Certified Health, Life, and Mental Health Coach, says that peace can be our new reality! Speaking from her own personal experience and recovery from two eating disorders, Kassandra leads us to freedom from diet culture.

    Episode #255: How to Build a Close Friendship with Holy Spirit

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 33:13


    It's the member of the Trinity that makes us most squirmy. Because of a lack of knowledge, many of us avoid talking about the Holy Spirit at all, and most of us have missed out on the gift of friendship with Him. Sarah Bowling, author of Your Friendship with Holy Spirit, shares a warm, down-to-earth approach to deepening our relationship with God through a greater understanding of Holy Spirit (she explains dropping the article "the" for us!). This episode will take you into the more intimate relationship with God that you've longed for.

    Episode#254: What Do You Do When Suddenly... He's HOME?! (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 20:56


    When your husband's retired or continuing to work from home, things can get a little hairy. It can feel like you're losing control of "your domain." Cynthia Ruchti and Becky Melby, co-authors of Spouse in the House, give practical advice for rearranging our attitudes to make room for all we love at home.

    Episode #253: What Do You Do When Suddenly ... He's HOME?! (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 32:04


    When your husband's retired or continuing to work from home, things can get a little hairy. It can feel like you're losing control of "your domain." Cynthia Ruchti and Becky Melby, co-authors of Spouse in the House, give practical advice for rearranging our attitudes to make room for all we love at home.

    Episode #252: 4 Insights that Will Dramatically Improve Your Painful Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2022 34:43


    Are you bogged down in the pain of some of your most important relationships, feeling like a failure in what matters most to you? Today's episode has four key concepts that can truly change everything. You'll not only see things differently, but you'll have new hope for better things to come. Processing last week's interview with Lily Taylor, author of Unconfined: Lessons from Prison and the Journey of Being Set Free, Cheri and Amy are on a relational-realizations roll. You don't want to miss this one!

    Episode #251: Hope-filled Lessons Learned in Heartbreak

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 32:41


    Sometimes life takes a turn far worse than you could have imagined. That was true for Lily Taylor, author of Unconfined: Lessons from Prison and the Journey of Being Set Free, during the eight years her son was imprisoned on drug charges. But even in that dark season, rays of God's love and care shone through. Join us today to hear Lily's dramatic, true story and to get a dose of hope that heals the most broken heart.

    Episode #250: Learning to Understand Jesus' Most Confusing Words

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 29:29


    We all have them. You know... the passages about Jesus that we'd rather skip. They're confusing, and confusion makes us scared. What if Jesus isn't who we hope He is? Dr. Amy-Jill Levine, rides to our rescue in this episode, teaching us how to think through these difficult verses instead of blowing past them. (Spoiler Alert: Jesus IS who we hope He is ... and more.) Come sit at the table and learn alongside Amy & Cheri!

    Episode #249: Two Powerful Ahas About Living with No Regrets

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2022 30:39


    Cheri and Amy share take-your-breath-away insights about how to live a no-regrets life. Far from being intimidating (I mean really, who has no regrets? No one.), this episode is personal, raw and applicable. Amy has already declared this one "GnG's most impactful episode ever." It's one you'll want to listen to twice and share with all your friends!

    Episode #248: How to Live in the Joy of a No-Regrets Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2022 35:53


    We can easily become paralyzed by our regrets, giving up the life God has for us and surrendering His joy. Although we all have sins, disappointments, and heartaches, it's possible to surrender those points of regret to God in ways that release us. Rhonda Stoppe, the "No Regrets Woman," shares biblical strategies that help us to move forward in freedom and joy.

    Episode #247: 5 Ways to Break Out and Experience God's Abundant Place for You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2022 25:39


    Many of us feel caged by our circumstances. Maybe it's being enclosed in a hard marriage, a job you hate, or a painful friendship that's making you feel trapped. Or perhaps it's just ... well ... a GLOBAL PANDEMIC. Kathi Lipp and Cheri Gregory talk today about five ways to move toward An Abundant Place, even when you feel like you can't get away. This is an interview that will breathe fresh, new-year freedom into your heart!

    End-of-2021 Bonus-sode #2: 3 Ways to Make 2022 a Creative New Year

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2021 11:32


    Once more, Amy and Cheri welcome back Grit ‘n' Grace's most frequent and beloved guest, Kathi Lipp — co-author (with Cheri) of the new devo: An Abundant Place: Daily Retreats for the Woman Who Can't Get Away.  Kathi and Cheri share the challenges they faced while writing a book about "abundance" during a time of unprecedented scarcity. And Kathi shares three practical tips for rediscovering (or perhaps reviving) your own creativity in the new year. She reminds us that whether you're writing or cooking or painting or keeping humans alive, "You're putting a creative force in the world. And that's to be celebrated."

    End-of-2021 Bonus-sode #1: Creating an Abundant Place with God Right Where You Are

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2021 11:56


    In this special year-end bonus-sode, Amy and Cheri welcome back Grit ‘n' Grace's most frequent and beloved guest, Kathi Lipp — co-author (with Cheri) of the new devo: An Abundant Place: Daily Retreats for the Woman Who Can't Get Away. In this candid conversation about connecting with God in the everyday ordinaries of our often-overwhelmed lives, Kathi reminds us that "Our minds and souls don't have to be bound by our location." Join in for a time of laughter, reflection, and planning for abundance, right where you are, right now.

    Episode #246: One Step to Escape the Burden of Better

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2021 31:27


    Comparison. It's so easy to slip into it. Before we're even aware, we want her story, her talents, or her body. The lines between healthy growth and the obsessive pursuit of better get blurred, and we're back in the comparison trap, stripped of joy and feeling less than. Heather Creekmore, author of The Burden of Better: How a Comparison-Free Life Leads to Joy, Peace, and Rest, gives us one sure step out of the destructive habit of comparison. Listen in today to receive the gift we all want!

    Episode #245: How to Find Hope in Your Divorce Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 27:18


    When life as you know it — as you dreamed it — ends, it can lead to a deep sense of hopelessness. That's what our guest, Tracie Miles, author of Living Unbroken: Reclaiming Your Life and Heart after Divorce, felt in the early days of her marriage ending. But she didn't stay there. God helped her to move forward, and she's sharing her story so that we can experience the healing that she has received. We can live unbroken, even when the last thing we ever expected becomes part of our story.

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