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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2827: Ilse Sand offers a compassionate guide for highly sensitive people navigating anger, both their own and others'. By embracing calm withdrawal, delayed response, and deep empathy, HSPs can defuse conflict without compromising their well-being, while still asserting their needs and boundaries. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/ilse-sand-anger-highly-sensitive-people/ Quotes to ponder: "To calmly say 'no' or 'I don't want to do this' or 'this is not okay with me' often works much better than loudly expressed anger." "Use your ability to empathize to find out what your secret unmet need is." "Anger is a powerful energy. When people blow a fuse, they tend to become very black and white in their thinking and lose their ability to empathize with others."
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are You Too Hard on Yourself—or Just Deeply Aware? Why do highly sensitive people often battle self-doubt—even when it stems from intelligence and moral depth? If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), chances are you've wrestled with self-criticism and the feeling of "not enough." But what if those negative thoughts weren't flaws, but signs of your emotional depth, empathy, and awareness? This episode unpacks why HSPs often carry a heavy inner dialogue—and how to tell when it's helping you grow vs. holding you back. In this episode, you'll discover: Why negative self-perception can actually signal emotional intelligence and depth How reflection becomes rumination—and the key signs you've crossed the line Simple strategies to stay humble without slipping into self-blame or shame Press play now to transform self-criticism into clarity and reclaim your inner peace. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Why do even small critiques hit so hard when you're a Highly Sensitive Person? If you've ever felt overwhelmed or emotionally hijacked by feedback that others seem to brush off, this episode is your guide to understanding—and transforming—that experience. As a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), your deep processing and emotional attunement make criticism feel more intense, but it doesn't have to define your worth. This episode dives into the hidden layers of why critique stings and how you can use inner work—not willpower—to soften the blow and restore your balance. If you're tired of spiraling after feedback or feeling emotionally raw from even gentle suggestions, this conversation is your relief. You'll walk away with: A clear understanding of why your nervous system reacts so strongly to criticism and how to honor that without getting stuck. A step-by-step method to use inner work (like Byron Katie's process) to question painful thoughts and reclaim your emotional center. A lived example of what real resilience looks like when you can hear feedback without it shaking your self-worth. Hit play now to discover how to turn criticism into clarity—and reclaim your peace of mind as an HSP. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
In this insightful episode of the Dead America Podcast, host Ed Watters welcomes Todd Smith—renowned podcaster and expert in stress management for highly sensitive people (HSPs). Todd shares his profound wisdom on navigating life as an HSP, highlighting the importance of inner work, emotional resilience, and practical strategies for managing stress in a highly sensitive world. Todd explains how self-inquiry, inspired by Byron Katie, can unlock true inner freedom by helping us question limiting thoughts and beliefs. Through personal anecdotes and professional guidance, he illustrates how reflection, journaling, and self-exploration can transform negativity into positivity, leading to emotional balance and empowerment. Listeners will gain valuable insights into: • Understanding high sensitivity and its impact on daily life • Practical steps for achieving emotional balance and resilience • The role of self-inquiry in cultivating inner peace • How reflection and journaling strengthen self-awareness • The importance of community and support for HSPs Todd's message is clear: by embracing sensitivity as a strength and committing to inner work, highly sensitive people can thrive with grace and confidence. His approach offers practical tools for transforming stress into empowerment, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking peace and resilience. 00:00 Introduction: Awakening Hearts 00:45 Meet Todd Smith: Stress Management Expert 01:04 Understanding High Sensitivity 03:05 Inner Freedom: The Power of Self-Inquiry 05:03 Navigating Social Sensitivities 06:58 Practical Steps for Emotional Balance 12:29 The Role of Reflection and Journaling 17:49 Partnering in Inner Work 21:46 Encouraging Self-Exploration 36:25 Transforming Negativity into Positivity 41:20 Conclusion: Finding Sacred Ground Website https://trueinnerfreedom.com Social media links / hspstressmanagement / hspcoachtodd Keywords included: Todd Smith, Dead America Podcast, Ed Watters, highly sensitive people, HSP stress management, emotional resilience, inner work, self-inquiry, Byron Katie, reflection, journaling, self-exploration, emotional balance, empowerment, sensitivity as strength, stress relief strategies #empowerment #reflection #self-exploration
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Have you ever wondered why you tear up more often than others—and whether that's a flaw or a form of inner strength? If you're a highly sensitive person, crying easily can feel confusing or even shameful. But what if your tears aren't a sign of weakness, but a powerful reflection of deep empathy, presence, and emotional wisdom? This episode redefines crying as a strength and helps you understand your sensitivity in a whole new light. Learn how both joyful and painful moments uniquely impact HSPs and why those tears come so naturally. Discover the emotional intelligence behind crying and how it actually supports your healing and inner alignment. Get practical ways to embrace your sensitivity and express your emotions—without apology or shame. Press play now to uncover why your tears as an HSP are not something to hide—they're proof of your emotional depth and authentic connection to life. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
This week's episode is a little different in the best way!Alissa is sharing a raw, unfiltered audio drop straight from Lucky Girl Radio, the private chat inside The Not Too Sensitive Club where she opens up about her personal growth, lived experiences, and the inner work she's navigating in real time.In this behind-the-scenes glimpse, Alissa explores what it looks like to improve yourself from a place of self-acceptance rather than shame. She shares a recent real-life moment where she noticed a part of herself she wants to strengthen, and how she lovingly coached herself through it without spiraling into “what's wrong with me?” energy.What You'll LearnWhat it looks like to adopt a true growth mindset as a highly sensitive personWhy self-improvement rooted in shame keeps you stuckHow to notice growth opportunities without making them mean something negative about youA real-life example of Alissa catching an old pattern, and choosing a different responseThe difference between “I have something to work on” and “something is wrong with me”Uncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!Join the Not Too Sensitive Club
Do you feel overwhelmed and underappreciated at work? In this episode, I talk with Melody Wilding, LMSW about trusting yourself at work and: • Balancing the strengths and liabilities of being what Melody calls a “Sensitive Striver” • Trusting your intuition as a valuable source of information • The key to speaking up in meetings starts by building relationships and taking care of your nervous system before the meeting • Living with an honor roll hangover from your school days and how that could be contributing to burnout as an adult in the workplace • Why overperforming and perfectionism often harm your chances of advancement at work • Strategies for setting boundaries at work and what to say when you've overcommitted• Creating a “me manual” to help you communicate how you work best while establishing reciprocal relationships with your supervisors Melody is the best-selling author of Trust Yourself: Stop Overthinking and Channel Your Emotions for Success at Work. Named one of Business Insider's Most Innovative Coaches for her groundbreaking work on “Sensitive Strivers,” her clients include CEOs, C-level executives, and managers at top Fortune 500 companies such as Google, Amazon, and JP Morgan, among others. Melody has been featured in The New York Times and Wall Street Journal and is a contributor to Harvard Business Review, Fast Company, Psychology Today, and Forbes. Melody is a licensed social worker with a masters from Columbia University and a professor of Human Behavior at Hunter College. Keep in touch with Melody: • Website: https://melodywilding.com/ • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melodywilding/ • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melodywilding/ • Facebook Community: https://melodywilding.com/community Resources Mentioned: • Get a free chapter from Melody's book, Trust Yourself: Stop Overthinking and Channel Your Emotions for Success at Work, here: https://melodywilding.com/chapter • Trust Yourself Book by Melody Wilding: https://bookshop.org/a/63892/9781797201962 Thanks for listening! You can read the full show notes and sign up for my email list to get new episode announcements and other resources at: https://www.sensitivestories.comYou can also follow "SensitiveStrengths" for behind-the-scenes content plus more educational and inspirational HSP resources: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sensitivestrengths TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sensitivestrengths Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sensitivestrengths And for more support, attend a Sensitive Sessions monthly workshop: https://www.sensitivesessions.com. Use code PODCAST for 25% off. If you have a moment, please rate and review the podcast, it helps Sensitive Stories reach more HSPs! This episode is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment with a mental health or medical professional. Some links are affiliate links. You are under no obligation to purchase any book, product or service. I am not responsible for the quality or satisfaction of any purchase.
Do you ever feel like conflict hits you harder than it hits other people? If you're a highly sensitive person, there's a good chance your nervous system processes stress, emotion and tension more intensely. In this episode, I'm joined by Todd Smith, a stress management expert for highly sensitive people, to explore why conflict feels overwhelming and how to approach it with confidence instead of avoidance. Todd shares what it really means to be a highly sensitive person and why traits like empathy, depth of processing and emotional awareness can make everyday interactions feel heavier. We talk about the inner work required to stay grounded, how to strengthen your sense of self, and why building harmony within lets you step into conflict without losing your center. ☑️ Learn what defines a highly sensitive person and why it matters ☑️ Explore why conflict feels bigger for HSPs and how to stay steady ☑️ Hear Todd's process for shifting from avoidance to confident communication Your sensitivity is not a weakness. It is a powerful source of clarity and intuition when you understand how to work with it. If this episode resonates, make sure you're subscribed so you never miss a conversation inside Lead Your Life. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Todd Smith 01:00 What It Means to Be a Highly Sensitive Person 03:00 Stress, Overwhelm and Emotional Processing in HSPs 05:00 Todd's Inner Work Journey, Meditation and The Work 08:00 Morning Routines and Grounding Practices for HSPs 10:00 Why Conflict Feels Intense for Highly Sensitive People 12:00 From Avoiding Conflict to Confident Communication 15:00 Self Esteem, Inner Stability and Navigating Relationships Meet Todd Smith Todd Smith is the creator of one of the most popular podcasts for Highly Sensitive People. He's helped hundreds of HSPs break free from chronic stress and emotional overload using a powerful inquiry-based process that brings lasting peace—without needing the world around you to change. Connect with Todd https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@hspcoachtodd https://www.instagram.com/hspcoachtodd/ https://www.facebook.com/HSPStressManagement/ https://x.com/smithtodd https://www.tiktok.com/@hspcoachtodd https://www.linkedin.com/in/hspcoachtodd/ HOW I CAN SUPPORT YOU
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Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/program/ Are You Living on High Alert Without Realizing It? Ever feel like you're always "on," even when nothing's wrong? Discover why highly sensitive people often live in survival mode—and how to finally feel safe again. Why this matters to you: If you're a highly sensitive person, constant stress might feel like your normal baseline. But this episode reveals how that quiet tension is draining your energy, affecting your relationships, and keeping you from fully enjoying life. The good news? You can shift from survival to safety—without needing the world to change first. What you'll gain from this episode: Discover why HSPs are especially prone to chronic vigilance and how it shapes your daily life. Learn the key difference between control and true safety—and why confusing the two keeps you stuck. Explore the first steps to retraining your nervous system so rest, joy, and connection become your new normal. Listen now to learn how to help your body finally exhale—and start living from a place of grounded, inner safety. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Confidence isn't about being the loudest person in the room, it's about having faith in your own influence and ability. Using The Emotion Thesaurus as a guide, this exploration breaks down exactly what confidence looks like physically (strong posture, wide steps, relaxed muscles) and what it feels like internally (calm breathing, positive outlook, mental ease). Highly sensitive people often get their confidence knocked down by living in a world where 80-85% of people aren't wired like them, leading to constant feedback that they're "too much" or "wrong." The physical signs reveal patterns like choosing the middle seat instead of hiding in corners, steering conversations instead of shrinking back, and that interesting connection between confidence and a positive outlook. There's also the shadow side where confidence can escalate into smugness or contempt, plus suppressed confidence showing up as minimizing compliments, downplaying your own comfort to make others feel better, and changing topics to deflect spotlight. The reluctant leader phenomenon gets explored too, where HSPs have all the attributes of wonderful leaders but stay sheepish about stepping up, then risk becoming complainers when they don't like how things are run. Resources: PATTERNSCAPES DECK: https://getpatternscapes.com/ WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1: EmotionalBadass.com/coaching 30 Days to Peace Course EmotionalBadass.com/peace THE BI-WEEKLY WELLNESS NEWSLETTER EmotionalBadass.com/newsletter SUPPORT US ON PATREON Patreon.com/emotionalbadass Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are Grocery Stores Draining You? Here's How to Make Shopping Peaceful Again Why does a simple grocery run feel so exhausting—mentally, emotionally, and physically—for highly sensitive people? If you're an HSP who dreads going to the store, this episode is tailor-made for you. We uncover the hidden reasons grocery shopping can leave you overstimulated and wiped out for hours—and more importantly, how to reclaim calm and control in the chaos. In this Strategy Friday episode, you'll learn: How to recognize the subtle sensory triggers that silently drain your energy. Nine practical, HSP-friendly tips to make your next store visit smoother and less overwhelming. How to turn an everyday task into a manageable (even peaceful!) experience that won't hijack your whole day. Listen now to learn how you can grocery shop without the stress—and start feeling more empowered in your sensitive skin. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are You Hiding Your Light Just to Fit In? Do you ever tone yourself down, afraid of being "too much" as a highly sensitive person (HSP)? You're not alone—and it's costing you more than you realize. In this eye-opening episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, Todd Smith unpacks the subtle yet powerful ways HSPs unintentionally dim their natural brilliance. If you've ever felt like you're hiding parts of yourself just to feel safe or accepted, this episode offers a path back to authenticity—without sacrificing connection or grounding. Here's what you'll gain by listening: Clarity on the five unconscious ways HSPs mute their gifts and how to spot them in your own life Insight into the hidden beliefs and fears that quietly hold you back from speaking up, leading, or showing up fully A gentle, practical way to start living from your truth—even if you're afraid of conflict, rejection, or burnout Tune in now to discover how to stop hiding and start honoring your sensitivity as the strength it truly is. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
In this episode, Alissa offers a refreshing, grounded reframe for navigating holiday gatherings, especially when you're a highly sensitive person anticipating old triggers, complicated family dynamics, or emotionally draining interactions.Instead of bracing yourself or rehearsing every response, she invites you to see these moments as a kind of “spiritual assignment” or gentle experiment: an opportunity to practice confidence, curiosity, boundaries, and self-regulation in real time.This perspective doesn't dismiss the pain, history, or lived experience behind these moments. Instead, it provides a lighter, more empowered way to move through them so you can show up as the version of yourself you're becoming.What You'll Learn:Why holidays and family dynamics often feel overwhelming for highly sensitive peopleHow to bring a sense of levity and curiosity into emotionally charged situationsA powerful reframe for viewing triggering moments as opportunities instead of threatsWhy confidence and self-trust grow through discomfort, not in perfect environmentsWays to reward and support yourself after challenging interactionsUncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!Join the Not Too Sensitive Club
Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) struggling with work? Maybe the workplace feels overwhelming, you feel broken, or you can't seem to find work that quite fits who you are? You are not alone, and you're absolutely not broken. You're sensitive ... and that sensitivity needs to be considered. In this episode, I'm answering a listener question about work as a highly sensitive person. Why do so many HSPs struggle with traditional 9-5s? Why is work sometimes draining, overwhelming or misaligned? As a highly sensitive person (and autistic ADHD counsellor), I share my own experience of burning out in corporate environments and why certain workplaces simply aren't designed for sensory-sensitive nervous systems. We'll talk about how your empathy impacts your work, why what you do matters, how to consider and adjust for environmental stressors and more. ✨ In this episode you'll hear:• Why work environments can feel “too much” for some HSPs• How sensory input and emotional energy impact the highly sensitive nervous system• The role of values, purpose and meaning when it comes to the right fit job as a HSP• Why work overwhelm and burnout happens and why it's not because you're just not trying hard enough• Practical ideas for making work more sustainable• How to explore aligned work options without shame or pressureWhether you're an HSP navigating a 9–5, working in hospitality, healthcare, corporate, creative roles or anything in between, you can make work a more sensitivity-friendly place. This episode will help you to get curious and compassionate as you navigate what a job can look like as a sensitive soul.⭐️ About your host, Erica WebbErica Webb is a registered counsellor, somatic exercise coach, yoga teacher and highly sensitive person (also diagnosed AuDHD). She supports other highly sensitive and neurodivergent people to discover their sensitivity superpowers and more confidently navigate the tricky bits of being a sensitive person in an often insensitive world.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are you drowning in to-do lists and feeling like you're failing at everything, even the things you love? If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), modern life's nonstop demands can feel like an emotional avalanche. In this episode, Todd Smith unpacks the hidden reasons why overwhelm hits HSPs so quickly—and what to do about it. Discover a strategic way to reclaim your time, your sanity, and your inner calm. Here's what you'll gain from tuning in: Learn why HSPs experience burnout faster and how to avoid the most common traps. Discover a simple but powerful method to prioritize your responsibilities without guilt. Find out how to reduce internal pressure and start experiencing genuine satisfaction again. Press play now to start transforming your relationship with time, energy, and expectations—so you can thrive as an HSP, not just survive. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Ever feel like you're constantly adjusting in your relationship—until one day, you realize you're not even sure who you are anymore? As a highly sensitive person (HSP), relationships can feel especially overwhelming. You care deeply, you try harder, and yet you still feel lost. If you've ever found yourself stuck between staying or leaving, silently wondering, "Why is this so hard?"—this episode is for you. In this episode, you'll discover: How your emotional "compass" gets pulled off course by hidden pressures in your relationship Why HSPs are more vulnerable to losing self-trust in love A simple, grounding visualization to help you reconnect with your inner truth Tune in now to learn how to reclaim your direction and bring balance back to your relationship—without losing yourself in the process. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Do you ever sense tension in someone's tone—only to be told you're "too sensitive" or "imagining things"? If you've ever doubted your instincts because others dismissed your sensitivity to tone, this episode will feel like a breath of validation. As a highly sensitive person, your ability to pick up on emotional nuance isn't a flaw—it's a gift rooted in deep intelligence. Discover why society shames tone sensitivity, how that affects your self-worth, and why your intuitive perception is something to be celebrated, not suppressed. In this episode, you'll learn: Why noticing shifts in tone often triggers defensiveness in others. How cultural bias has mislabeled sensitivity as weakness. Why your attunement to tone is actually emotional intelligence in action. Press play now to reclaim your confidence in what you feel and recognize your sensitivity as a strength—not a shortcoming. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
In this episode, Alissa shares a powerful behind-the-scenes moment from the very first Not Too Sensitive Club call, where the group explored how to use triggers as opportunities for healing instead of evidence that something is “wrong” with you.Through a real client example, she breaks down exactly how to move from blaming, spiraling, or shutting down to curiosity, self-validation, and empowered action. This conversation offers a grounded, compassionate reminder that being highly sensitive doesn't mean you're fragile. It means you have a deeper invitation to grow, self-advocate, and trust your own worth.What You'll Learn: How to shift from “Why is this happening to me?” to “What is this showing me?”The essential first step in working with any triggerThe difference between self-validation and relying on others to feel worthyWhy confidence can feel like “arrogance” for HSPs — and how to reframe itA guiding question to help you choose the most empowered responseUncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!Join the Not Too Sensitive Club
Do you often feel disconnected from yourself? In this episode, I talk with Tara Jackson about reclaiming your power to feel more in tune with your inner gifts and: • What it means to be embodied and what embodied power looks like in your life • How to welcome in your personal power and stop giving it away to everyone else • The role of creativity, nature, and quiet space in reclaiming your strengths • Embracing your sensitivity as a strength Tara is a creativity mentor, visionary guide, and the catalyst behind transformational journeys for leaders, entrepreneurs, and creatives ready to step fully into their power. She helps people reclaim their creative essence, turn bold ideas into reality, and write and publish books that amplify their message and expand their impact. Keep in touch with Tara: • Website: https://empathpreneurs.org • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtarajackson Resources Mentioned: • Embodied Power by Tara Jackson: https://bookshop.org/a/63892/9781916529717 • Embodied Power Bonuses + Resources: https://empathpreneurs.org/embodied-power-book • Embodied Wisdom Oracle Deck: https://empathpreneurs.org/product/embodied-wisdom Thanks for listening! You can read the full show notes and sign up for my email list to get new episode announcements and other resources at: https://www.sensitivestories.comYou can also follow "SensitiveStrengths" for behind-the-scenes content plus more educational and inspirational HSP resources: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sensitivestrengths TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sensitivestrengths Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sensitivestrengths And for more support, attend a Sensitive Sessions monthly workshop: https://www.sensitivesessions.com. Use code PODCAST for 25% off. If you have a moment, please rate and review the podcast, it helps Sensitive Stories reach more HSPs! This episode is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment with a mental health or medical professional. Some links are affiliate links. You are under no obligation to purchase any book, product or service. I am not responsible for the quality or satisfaction of any purchase.
In this heart-centered and illuminating episode of The Seven Cups of Consciousness Podcast, Aleya and the practitioners gather to explore how to energetically prepare for — and gracefully navigate — the often overwhelming wave of holiday stress.From energetic grid-setting before family gatherings to addressing deep-seated desires for external validation, this episode offers practical and soulful guidance to help you:Prepare for holiday interactions by setting up energetic space in advanceStay grounded and centered in your divine line, even around triggering peopleDetach from external validation and reclaim your inner sense of worthUse your creative energy to hold others in their highest lightWork with spirit families and nature spirits for energetic supportInvite rest and alignment with the seasonal shift inwardUnderstand empathic overwhelm and how to cleanse and protect your field
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Do you find yourself working late—even when you don't want to—just to get that one last thing done? For highly sensitive people, the urge to finish everything before ending the day can quietly destroy your evenings, rest, and peace of mind. In this episode, Todd shares a powerful mindset shift and a deceptively simple new routine that can help you finally break that cycle—without guilt or overwhelm. Learn how Todd replaced his never-ending to-do list with a simple "pause button" that transformed his evenings. Discover the surprising connection between task completion and stress for HSPs—and how to break free from it. Find out how this one change can lead to better sleep, deeper relaxation, and more productive mornings. Hit play now to uncover the small change that can give you your evenings—and your peace of mind—back for good. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are you feeling smothered in your relationship—but don't want to hurt anyone by asking for space? If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), needing more space isn't selfish—it's essential. In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, Todd Smith explores why HSPs often feel overwhelmed even in loving relationships and how that pressure can quietly build into resentment, loss of self, and emotional exhaustion. In this episode, you'll learn: How to recognize the three subtle but powerful signs that you're craving more space in your relationship. Why HSPs are wired to need deeper emotional breathing room—and how ignoring that can silently erode your connection. Practical, compassionate strategies to create healthy space in your relationship without pulling away or hurting your partner. Listen now to reclaim your sense of self—and reconnect with your partner from a place of strength and inner peace. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are you tired of being told you're "too serious"? If you're a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), you've likely been misunderstood, even judged, for your quiet, reflective, or emotionally attuned nature. In a world that prizes quick wit and lightheartedness, the depth and presence you bring can feel out of place—unless you learn to see it for the superpower it really is. In this episode, you'll discover: Why your depth, empathy, and quietness are often mistaken for being "too serious" The emotional cost of internalizing others' judgments—and how to stop How to reframe your seriousness as a strength, not a flaw, so you can feel good about who you truly are Press play to reclaim your sensitivity and discover how to honor your nature—even when others don't understand it. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
In this episode, Alissa shares a deeply personal lesson about learning to stay grounded when others are triggered by your authenticity.From feeling like an outsider as a sensitive child to navigating judgment as an adult and business owner, she opens up about how these moments have shaped her self-trust and confidence.This is an invitation to stop watering yourself down, to let others have their reactions, and to find freedom in knowing that being true to yourself is not something you need to apologize for.What you'll learn:Why highly sensitive people often feel “othered” or misunderstoodHow people-pleasing develops as a safety mechanismWhat it really means when others are triggered by your authenticityThe deeper lesson behind rejection and judgmentHow to reframe triggers as opportunities for empowermentSteps to expand your tolerance for discomfort and self-trustUncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!Join the Not Too Sensitive Club
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are you constantly saying you need help — but still end up doing everything yourself? If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP) feeling like delegation never really lands and your to-do list only grows, this episode speaks directly to you. Discover why just asking for help isn't solving your overwhelm — and what truly needs to shift to create lasting relief. In this episode, you'll learn: Why repeating the "I need help" conversation leads to more self-judgment and less change. The hidden beliefs that sabotage your ability to delegate and receive support. How to step out of silent suffering and into a more sustainable, supported life — without guilt or burnout. Press play now to reclaim your time, energy, and sense of balance — starting today. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ How Can Highly Sensitive People Thrive in Chaotic Workplaces? Ever feel like the buzzing lights, constant chatter, and nonstop movement in your work environment are draining the life out of you? You're not alone—and there's a better way. For highly sensitive people, overstimulation isn't just annoying—it can derail your focus, energy, and overall well-being. In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, we dive into simple yet powerful strategies to protect your energy, communicate your needs, and create calm even in the most chaotic settings. In this episode, you'll discover: How to physically buffer yourself from overstimulating environments using noise, light, and visual boundaries Practical ways to balance deep work with restorative breaks that actually recharge you Tips for having productive conversations with your boss to create a more supportive workspace—without feeling awkward or "too sensitive" Hit play now to learn how small, intentional changes can help you reclaim your energy, sharpen your focus, and find calm in any environment. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
In this heart-centered conversation, Dr. Judith Orloff returns to the podcast to talk with host Carol Roesler about the gifts of being a highly sensitive person, her new children's book The Highly Sensitive Rabbit, the role of empathy in healing, and practical tools for emotional regulation, self-love, and hope in a chaotic world. The interview was recorded live on a full moon inside the Sensitive Empowerment Community.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are you constantly overwhelmed, yet still feel like you're never doing enough—no matter how hard you try? If you're a Highly Sensitive Person, perfectionism might be silently draining your energy, sabotaging your peace, and stalling your progress. This episode dives deep into the emotional cost of striving to be flawless in a world that was never meant to be perfect—and how this chase can block your inner freedom. In this episode, you'll discover: How perfectionism disguises itself as productivity while keeping you stuck in fear and self-doubt The subtle but critical difference between high standards and harmful self-pressure Why your sensitivity is not the problem—and how to finally honor it without guilt or burnout Listen now to learn how to break the perfectionism loop and reclaim your peace as an HSP—without sacrificing your ambition. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
In this special guest episode, Alissa sits down with therapist and author Jessica Baum to explore how attachment styles develop, how they relate to sensitivity, and what healing secure attachment actually looks like.Jessica explains why so many highly sensitive people lean anxious in relationships, what it means to internalize safety, and how to start rewiring our attachment patterns through co-regulation and safe connection.This conversation offers compassionate insight into the “too much / not enough” wound, emotional neglect, and the cultural obsession with independence that often keeps us disconnected from true intimacy and support.What you'll learn:What the four attachment styles are—and how they develop in childhoodWhy highly sensitive people often fall into anxious attachmentHow attachment patterns show up in adult relationships (and how they can shift)The role of anchors in healing attachment woundsHow to find emotional safety when your partner isn't ready for therapyThe anxious–avoidant dance and how to break the cycleWhy emotional neglect is so misunderstood—and how to recognize itReframing sensitivity as a strength and path to deeper connectionUncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!The Sensitive & Soulful Self-Worth Course: Go from second-guessing & self-doubt to YOU'VE got YOU. Your journey to unwavering self-trust & radical self-acceptance starts HERE. Use code PODL at checkout for a secret discount!As a special bonus, I want to give you FREE access to my workshop for HSPs called Not "Too Sensitive" (usually $35)! All you have to do is:Leave a written review of this podcast on Apple PodcastsEmail a screenshot of your review to hello@lifebyalissa.comThat's it!
One of the common behavior patterns we HSPs can be prone to is people pleasing – or partner pleasing! Interestingly, on the surface people pleasing seems lovely, it can wreak real emotional havoc and really hurt our intimate relationship over time. Today my special guest, Todd Smith, a highly sensitive person and host of the podcast, Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, and I are going to talk about all about people and partner pleasing: what it looks like, what it leads to (ahem, talk about resentment! And overwhelm!), why we do it, and how it affects us and our marriages. You'll hear examples of how we both have "people pleased” in our own lives and relationships, and client stories, as well. Then we will offer several ways to break this habit or pattern, and ultimately be TRUE to yourself, more authentic and honest in your marriage, and feel more loved for who you really are.Whether you think you may sometimes fall in to people pleasing, or not, you may be surprised at what you'll learn about yourself and other people in your life as you listen to this fun, important, laughter-filled conversation. You'll come away intrigued by how much opportunity for real loving change can come from leaving this pattern in the past, and clear on how to get started. SHOW NOTES:TODD SMITH: Find Todd's website and free Stress Test HEREListen to his podcast, Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People here.HANNAH BROOKSFREE QUIZ: How Much is High Sensitivity Impacting Your Relationship (and are you even highly sensitive)? You want to know. Because, high sensitivity has a major impact on intimate relationships – for better or worse. Take this 3 minute quiz to discover if you're highly sensitive and how deeply it's affecting you, and your happiness in your relationship. You will also get your next steps to making sure sensitivity works for your relationship, instead of against it.Join Hannah for private 1:1 Marriage Coaching, and get her deep, super individualized support to make your marriage way more full of security, connection, love, and mutual support than ever--WITHOUT PEOPLE PLEASING. Get started by filling out this form. See her on-demand relationship courses for HSPs here.
Do you hold yourself back? In this episode, I talk with GG Renee Hill about finding your inner gifts through your personal stories and: • Identifying how the internal narratives that you tell yourself can be both supportive and limiting • Rewriting past stories to break limiting patterns and embrace your whole self • Working through false internalized beliefs and reframe the feeling of being different as a strength • Finding your own version of strong as a highly sensitive person GG is a nationally recognized author, creative coach, and facilitator who guides people in discovering the power of storytelling as a pathway to self-discovery, empowerment, and meaningful contribution. Her mission is to help others enrich their lives and communities through the transformative power of the written word. She is the author of Self-Care Check-In: A Guided Journal to Build Healthy Habits and Devote Time to You (2020) and A Year of Self-Reflection Journal: 365 Days of Guided Prompts to Slow Down, Tune In, and Grow (2021). Her debut book of essays, Story Work: Field Notes on Self-Discovery and Reclaiming Your Narrative is available now from Broadleaf Books. Keep in touch with GG: • Website: http://allthemanylayers.com • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gina-gg-renee-hill-28686762 • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ggreneewrites Resources Mentioned: • Story Work: Field Notes on Self-Discovery and Reclaiming Your Narrative by GG Renee Hill: https://bookshop.org/a/63892/9798889832652 Thanks for listening! You can read the full show notes and sign up for my email list to get new episode announcements and other resources at: https://www.sensitivestories.comYou can also follow "SensitiveStrengths" for behind-the-scenes content plus more educational and inspirational HSP resources: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sensitivestrengths TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sensitivestrengths Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sensitivestrengths And for more support, attend a Sensitive Sessions monthly workshop: https://www.sensitivesessions.com. Use code PODCAST for 25% off. If you have a moment, please rate and review the podcast, it helps Sensitive Stories reach more HSPs! This episode is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment with a mental health or medical professional. Some links are affiliate links. You are under no obligation to purchase any book, product or service. I am not responsible for the quality or satisfaction of any purchase.
If you're a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) who feels constantly tired, drained, or emotionally exhausted, this episode is for you. In this episode join me, Erica Webb, a registered counsellor and somatic exercise coach to explore why so many HSPs struggle with exhaustion — and how true rest goes far beyond just getting more sleep.You'll learn:
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Can You Really Stay Connected to Others Without Losing Yourself as an HSP? If you've ever felt torn between needing alone time and craving deep, meaningful relationships, you're not alone—and you're not broken. Highly sensitive people often feel overwhelmed trying to do both well, but what if the real solution isn't about doing more, but going deeper within? In this episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, you'll uncover: Why trying to "balance" self-care and relationships often leads to burnout—and what to do instead. A powerful shift in perspective that transforms how you connect with others, without sacrificing your own energy. Simple, practical self-connection habits that make outer connection more nourishing and less time-consuming. Listen now to discover how prioritizing your inner connection can lead to more fulfilling relationships with those you love. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Why Ignoring Your Trauma May Be Making Everything Worse (and How to Heal It Gently) What if the very act of avoiding your trauma is silently fueling your anxiety, stress, and even physical exhaustion? Highly sensitive people (HSPs) often carry emotional wounds more deeply than others—yet trauma remains one of the most misunderstood and avoided aspects of healing. In this powerful episode, you'll learn why trauma lingers in the shadows, what it costs us when left unchecked, and how you can approach it with compassion rather than fear. If you're an HSP seeking peace, this episode offers a grounded path forward. Discover why trauma—big or small—has such a powerful grip on HSPs and what happens when it's left unresolved. Learn how to meet your trauma with love and create a safe, non-judgmental space for true emotional release. Explore a gentle yet profound method of self-inquiry that allows your wounded parts to question limiting beliefs and rediscover inner freedom. Listen now to uncover the simple, step-by-step method for healing trauma in a way that feels safe, empowering, and deeply liberating for highly sensitive people. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
This episode explains heat-shock proteins and practical ways to trigger them—sauna, brief cold exposure (50–60°F for 1–5 minutes), short intense exercise, intermittent fasting, and phytochemicals like curcumin and broccoli-sprout–derived sulforaphane. Hosts connect HSPs and daily habits to hormone balance, noting how ultra-processed carbs and chronic stress drive insulin, cortisol, thyroid, and leptin dysregulation. Takeaways: clean up nutrition, test—not guess—when symptoms persist, and start the day with a protein-forward breakfast instead of sugar.Get a FREE copy of Health, Hope & Freedom: https://sherwood.tv/For Kingdom Products visit: https://shop.fmidr.com/Interested in becoming a patient? https://fmidr.com/plans/Our privacy policy & disclaimer apply to this video. You can view the details here:https://fmidr.com/privacy-policy#HeatShockProteins, #ColdPlunge, #SaunaTherapy, #HIIT, #IntermittentFasting, #HormoneHealth, #InsulinResistance, #CortisolBalance, #ThyroidSupport, #LeptinResistance, #MetabolicHealth, #ProteinFirst
Are You Ignoring the One Thing That Could Instantly Reduce Your Stress? Highly sensitive people often strive to do everything right—but there's one simple, life-changing practice many HSPs consistently overlook: rest. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, short-fused, or just not yourself, this episode is your wake-up call. Discover how a lack of rest is silently sabotaging your well-being—and how incorporating more intentional downtime can transform your emotional balance, mental clarity, and overall happiness. In this episode, you'll learn: Why HSPs need more rest than the average person and the science behind it How rest helps heal emotional overwhelm and unlocks deeper insight Simple, practical strategies to build more restorative time into your daily life Press play now to uncover the missing ingredient that could radically improve your quality of life as a highly sensitive person. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Do you find yourself replaying conversations, worrying what someone thinks of you, or holding back your truth because you don't want to be “too much”?In this episode, Alissa dives into one of the biggest traps for highly sensitive people: overreliance on other people's approval and perception. She shares how constantly scanning for others' validation keeps you disconnected from your own self-trust—and how to shift into deeper self-acceptance and grounded confidence.What You'll Learn:Why relying on others' approval keeps you stuck in self-doubtHow to stop letting people's opinions define your self-worthWhat it means to “have your own back” when you feel misunderstood or judgedHow to regulate your nervous system through the discomfort of being dislikedWhy true safety as an HSP comes from within—not from being liked by everyoneFor presale details about the Not Too Sensitive Club, DM me on Instagram @lifebyalissa! Uncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!The Sensitive & Soulful Self-Worth Course: Go from second-guessing & self-doubt to YOU'VE got YOU. Your journey to unwavering self-trust & radical self-acceptance starts HERE. Use code PODL at checkout for a secret discount!As a special bonus, I want to give you FREE access to my workshop for HSPs called Not "Too Sensitive" (usually $35)! All you have to do is:Leave a written review of this podcast on Apple PodcastsEmail a screenshot of your review to hello@lifebyalissa.comThat's it!
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are you tired of feeling “too much” for simply being yourself? If you've ever felt like you're high maintenance just for needing a bit more rest, quiet, or comfort, you're not alone—and this episode is for you. As a highly sensitive person, your needs aren't a weakness—they're wisdom. But years of being misunderstood may have taught you otherwise. In this Breakthrough Monday episode of Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People, you'll discover: Why the belief that you're "high maintenance" is quietly crushing your self-worth. The hidden emotional cost of apologizing for your basic needs—and how to stop. How to shift from feeling like a delicate flower to owning your strength as an HSP. Listen now to reclaim your sensitivity as a strength and step into a new kind of self-confidence. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
Are you a Highly Sensitive Person under stress? Find out—take the free test at https://trueinnerfreedom.com/ Are you overthinking every little decision — and feeling exhausted by it? If you're a highly sensitive person (HSP), decision fatigue isn't just annoying — it can be deeply draining. But what if the key to making decisions with less stress isn't more logic, but something much quieter? As a highly sensitive person, your thoughtful, thorough nature is a gift — but it can also trap you in analysis paralysis. In this episode, Todd Smith reveals why decision-making is often overwhelming for HSPs and introduces a surprisingly counterintuitive strategy that will help you get unstuck — by turning inward instead of outward. Listen now to discover: The real reason HSPs struggle with decision-making and how to work with your nature, not against it A surprising strategy that involves less data and more trust in your internal compass Three practical ways to reduce decision pressure so you can reclaim your energy and clarity Tap into your inner clarity and start making decisions that feel right — with less stress and second-guessing. Listen to this episode now. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom Dreaming of a stress-free, balanced life? Visit trueinnerfreedom.com and complete the HSP Stress Survey. Gain clarity on your stress triggers and enjoy a free 15-minute Inner Freedom Call designed to guide you toward lasting inner peace and fulfillment. Are you a highly sensitive person (HSP) or someone who identifies as hypersensitive or neurodivergent? This podcast is dedicated to helping highly sensitive people (HSPs) navigate overwhelm and stress by using The Work of Byron Katie—a powerful method for questioning stressful thoughts and finding true inner freedom. We dive deep into stress management strategies, coping with stress, and stress relief methods specifically tailored for HSPs. Learn how to manage emotions, especially negative ones, and explore effective stress reduction techniques that go beyond the surface to address the root causes of anxiety and pressure. Whether you're interested in learning how to lower stress, handle stress and pressure, or reduce stress through practical techniques, we provide insights and support based on The Work of Byron Katie. Discover how this transformative approach can help you decrease stress, find inner peace, and create balance in your life. Join us to learn about various coping strategies for stress, all designed to support HSPs in their journey toward emotional well-being.
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In this episode, Alissa gets real about one of the biggest reasons highly sensitive people stay stuck—overthinking instead of acting.She shares why consuming self-help content isn't enough, why confidence doesn't come from journaling or affirmations alone, and how taking small, messy action steps is what actually rewires your identity and builds self-trust.Through client stories, personal reflection, and her own journey from blog posts to a Penguin Random House book deal, Alissa shows how you can stop waiting to feel ready and start becoming the version of yourself who already does the thing.What You'll Learn:Why awareness alone won't create transformationThe difference between knowing what to do and actually doing itWhy confidence is built through discomfort, not perfectionSimple ways to practice self-trust in low-stakes situationsHow small, consistent steps compound into massive growth over timeFor presale details about the Not Too Sensitive Club, DM me on Instagram @lifebyalissa! Uncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!The Sensitive & Soulful Self-Worth Course: Go from second-guessing & self-doubt to YOU'VE got YOU. Your journey to unwavering self-trust & radical self-acceptance starts HERE. Use code PODL at checkout for a secret discount!As a special bonus, I want to give you FREE access to my workshop for HSPs called Not "Too Sensitive" (usually $35)! All you have to do is:Leave a written review of this podcast on Apple PodcastsEmail a screenshot of your review to hello@lifebyalissa.comThat's it!
Are you parenting a highly sensitive child or healing your inner HSC? In this episode, I talk with Dr. Judith Orloff about the struggles and gifts of being a highly sensitive child and: • Ways to interrupt overwhelm and tend to you or your child's sensitive nervous system • Ending the shame cycle for highly sensitive children • Supporting your highly sensitive child's interests and needs • Nurturing your younger self who didn't know why they were different Judith Orloff, MD is a New York Times bestselling author, a psychiatrist, and an empath. She is the author of the upcoming children's book The Highly Sensitive Rabbit, which is about a caring cottontail who was shamed for her sensitivities but then learns to embrace them. Dr. Orloff's other books include The Genius of Empathy, The Empath's Survival Guide, and Thriving as an Empath. Dr. Orloff also specializes in treating highly sensitive people in her medical practice. Dr. Orloff's work has been featured on The Today Show, CNN, Oprah Magazine, the New York Times, and USA Today. Dr. Orloff has spoken at Google-LA and TEDx. Explore more at www.drjudithorloff.com. Keep in touch with Judith: • Website: https://drjudithorloff.com • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judith.orloff.md • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/judithorloffmd Resources Mentioned: • The Highly Sensitive Rabbit: https://bookshop.org/a/63892/9781649632876 • Empath Support Newsletter: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/G0dAyeY • Merlin Birdwatching App: https://merlin.allaboutbirds.org Thanks for listening! You can read the full show notes and sign up for my email list to get new episode announcements and other resources at: https://www.sensitivestories.comYou can also follow "SensitiveStrengths" for behind-the-scenes content plus more educational and inspirational HSP resources: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sensitivestrengths TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sensitivestrengths Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sensitivestrengths And for more support, attend a Sensitive Sessions monthly workshop: https://www.sensitivesessions.com. Use code PODCAST for 25% off. If you have a moment, please rate and review the podcast, it helps Sensitive Stories reach more HSPs! This episode is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment with a mental health or medical professional. Some links are affiliate links. You are under no obligation to purchase any book, product or service. I am not responsible for the quality or satisfaction of any purchase.
Send us a textIf you're a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)—or love one—this conversation is a deep exhale. Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom and a longtime facilitator of Byron Katie's The Work, joins Melissa to unpack what “living with an open heart” actually looks like when life gets complicated: relationships, conflict, people-pleasing, and the comparing mind. We explore Todd's three pillars of stress management for HSPs (understanding the trait, outer work/boundaries, and inner work), how The Work turns sticky stories into spaciousness, and why transcendental meditation has been his twice-daily reset since childhood. We also touch on HSP overlaps with ADHD and rejection sensitivity dysphoria, leadership strengths like empathy and systems-level thinking, and the myth that sensitivity equals fragility. If you're ready to move from overthinking to inner freedom—this one's for you.What you'll learnThe HSP basics (15–20% of people): depth of processing, empathy, sensory sensitivity, and why overwhelm happensTodd's 3-pillar stress framework for HSPs:Understand the trait (drop self-judgment; claim your strengths)Outer work (sleep, nourishment, boundaries that are kind and clear)Inner work (question stressful thoughts with The Work; find space inside even when nothing outside changes)A gentle walkthrough of The Work of Byron Katie (the four questions + turnarounds) and how to keep the “stuck” part of you safe while you inquireMoving from conflict-avoidant to creatively resourced (why arguing with reality doubles your stress)People-pleasing vs. integrity (how to say no without abandoning yourself)Meditation as a daily “reset” and why awareness widens when attachment loosensHSP leadership superpowers: deep listening, pattern-spotting, and bringing opposites togetherResources & linksTodd's podcast: Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People (search “HSP” in your podcast app)HSP Stress Test (Todd): trueinnerfreedom.com (look for “HSP Stress Test”)The Work by Byron Katie: the four questions + worksheets (official site)Dr. Elaine Aron's books on Highly Sensitive People (foundational research)Quote referenced: Jack Kornfield, After the Ecstasy, the LaundryAbout Todd Smith Todd Smith is the founder of True Inner Freedom, a longtime facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie, and a lifelong meditator. He helps highly sensitive people move beyond fear, people-pleasing, and overthinking to confidence, clarity, and connection.Spread the wordIf this episode helped, share it with one HSP in your life. Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple/Spotify so more folks can find the show.Join the Fully Mindful Community: ✨ Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it helps others find the show!✨ Stay Connected: Follow @the_fully_mindful on Instagram for mindfulness tips, breathwork insights, and more!✨ Free Breathwork Sessions: Email me at info@thefully.mindful.com to get signed up for your first session for free of my monthly Unwind Your Mind session.
In this episode, Krista explores high sensitivity and how to recognize and honor your wiring as a highly sensitive person (HSP) in the middle season of life.Key Topics:Why HSPs often feel like life requires more effort than it seems to for others.Common experiences of highly sensitive people that are rarely discussed openly.The difference between feeling "wrong" and understanding your unique wiring.How sensory sensitivities, environmental awareness, and emotional boundaries affect daily life.Key Takeaways:If you're highly sensitive, doing life can feel hard and effortful—and that doesn't mean you're "wrong."You can learn to honor your wiring and it won't always feel so difficult.HSPs need non-negotiable rest, soothing strategies, and permission to "shut off" sometimes.Even decades into this work, old judgments can resurface—and that's okay, we're all just practicing.Additional resources:Blog post/numinous experiences: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/my-experience-as-an-hsp/Updated HSP self-assessment: https://hsperson.com/test/highly-sensitive-test/Autumn Self-Care Guide for Midlife Women: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/autumn-guide/
Class is in session, and the course you're taking is: Hustle Sanely 101. Whether you're brand new to the community or just need a cozy refresher on how to build a peacefully productive life, this episode is for you.We're breaking down what Hustle Sanely is, who it's for, how The Hustle Sanely Planning System™ works, PLUS the free + paid tools available to help you get started today.In this episode, you'll learn:What it really means to hustle...sanely (and how it's different from hustle culture)How to use The Hustle Sanely Planning System™ to create a life that aligns with your valuesThe 5 daily habits (HS5™️) that help you stay grounded and get the right things doneA breakdown of all the resources (free & paid) available to help you start living peacefully productiveThis episode is jam-packed with encouragement and practical tools to help you protect your peace and still go after your goals, no burnout required.
Today Alissa is diving into a pattern she sees often in highly sensitive women—and one she's personally navigated herself—the instant sinking feeling that you're “in trouble” whenever someone disagrees with you, gets upset, or pushes back.This episode explores the roots of this response—often tied to the fawn response, good girl conditioning, and past experiences with unpredictability or invalidation—and how it can leave you feeling frustrated, insecure, and walked over.Whether you're 20 or 70, it's never too late to start reclaiming your confidence, self-worth, and ability to show up authentically without letting fear or past patterns dictate your actions.What You'll Learn:Why you default to blaming yourself or apologizing even when you're not in the wrong.How good girl conditioning and past experiences shape your responses to conflict.Ways to begin building self-trust and honoring your own boundaries.How to expand your tolerance for discomfort so conflict doesn't feel unsafe.How to hold empathy, kindness, and strong boundaries all at the same time.Steps to shift your identity from “people pleaser” to confident, empowered you.For presale details about the Not Too Sensitive Club, DM me on Instagram @lifebyalissa! Uncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!The Sensitive & Soulful Self-Worth Course: Go from second-guessing & self-doubt to YOU'VE got YOU. Your journey to unwavering self-trust & radical self-acceptance starts HERE. Use code PODL at checkout for a secret discount!As a special bonus, I want to give you FREE access to my workshop for HSPs called Not "Too Sensitive" (usually $35)! All you have to do is:Leave a written review of this podcast on Apple PodcastsEmail a screenshot of your review to hello@lifebyalissa.comThat's it!
Do you feel called to work for yourself? In this episode, Willow explores the real path of self-employment for HSPs. The challenges, the breakthroughs, and the deep inner transformation that happens when you follow your truth. Discover why self-employment often tests us in the very areas we're here to transform, how to stay true to yourself when things get hard, and why authenticity is the greatest freedom of all. If you've ever wondered whether you're ready to take the leap, or what it really means to turn your sensitivity into your strength, this episode will help you see your path more clearly.Bio & Links - Willow McIntoshWillow is a facilitator, international speaker, and founder of Inluminance. He specialises in facilitating Highly Sensitive People (HSPs), to recognise their innate High Sensory Intelligence® An ability to perceive truth of self in others and the energetic patterns at play in their environment. His area of expertise is training HSPs to align their work and purpose with these unique perceptual gifts. Having facilitated change and transformation in thousands of HSPs for more than 9 years, he is committed to bringing the importance of the trait into mainstream awareness globally. Learn more at www.inluminance.com or book your free discovery call here - https://inluminance.com/book-a-call/
In this episode, Alissa shares a powerful reflection on the connection between personal growth and expanding your tolerance for discomfort.She explains how the moments that stretch us, challenge us, and make us uncomfortable are actually the in-between spaces where transformation happens. Using real examples from her postpartum fitness journey and her early days coaching highly sensitive people, Alissa reminds us that confidence and self-trust are built through showing up in the messy middle, not avoiding it.You'll learn why avoiding discomfort keeps HSPs stuck in people-pleasing, how to recognize the growth hidden inside your triggers, and why the tension between who you've been and who you're becoming is exactly where your evolution lives.What You'll Learn:Why expanding your tolerance for discomfort is essential for growthHow to reframe tension and discomfort as signs of transformationWhy “the messy middle” is where confidence and self-trust are builtHow to move through people-pleasing and fear of judgmentWhat it really means to take ownership of your life and healingFor presale details about the Not Too Sensitive Club, DM me on Instagram @lifebyalissa! Uncover your sneaky internal belief that's stopping you from being your most confident self TAKE The FREE Shadow Archetype Quiz NOWLearn my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers as an HSP in our FREE UN-Botherable Workshop!The Sensitive & Soulful Self-Worth Course: Go from second-guessing & self-doubt to YOU'VE got YOU. Your journey to unwavering self-trust & radical self-acceptance starts HERE. Use code PODL at checkout for a secret discount!As a special bonus, I want to give you FREE access to my workshop for HSPs called Not "Too Sensitive" (usually $35)! All you have to do is:Leave a written review of this podcast on Apple PodcastsEmail a screenshot of your review to hello@lifebyalissa.comThat's it!