Terribly Unoblivious

Send us a textWhat drives someone to build a full-sized airplane in their basement? The same thing that makes us question insurance company CEOs, contemplate multiverses, or find reasons to stay alive during our darkest moments – the search for meaning.From the moment we descend into Dylan's basement workshop, surrounded by airplane parts and half-finished projects, this episode takes us on a journey through the things we build to outlast ourselves. Dylan's four-seater aircraft isn't just a hobby; it's a legacy he hopes his grandchildren will inherit (though he jokes they might use it to end his family line). This ambitious project, planned for completion in 2026, becomes a metaphor for purpose throughout our conversation.We pivot to discuss the recent shooting of a United Healthcare CEO, noting the strangely muted public reaction compared to other violent events. Digging deeper, we explore how the insurance industry's high denial rates (United's exceeds 30%) and massive profit margins have created a system where essential care becomes a business decision. This leads us to question how regulated industries often lack the competitive pressures that might otherwise force better practices.The most profound moments come when we share personal insights about mental health and suicide prevention. Referencing philosopher Albert Camus, we contemplate his assertion that deciding whether life is worth living is the only serious philosophical problem. What emerges is a surprisingly hopeful perspective: perhaps if we could see our lives as our own sitcoms – free from others' expectations and judgments – we might find more reasons to stick around and see what happens next.Whether you're building an airplane, questioning corporate ethics, or simply trying to find your purpose, this episode offers raw, unfiltered perspective on what makes a life worth living. Join us as we navigate these complex territories with humor, vulnerability, and occasional detours into carpeting ceilings and fitted sheet frustrations.

Have you ever wondered if you're your own harshest critic or if you're blissfully oblivious like the rest of us? Join Brad and Dylan as they embark on a hilarious yet deeply introspective journey through the frosty landscapes of self-preservation and self-deception. With a blend of candid humor and genuine reflection, they tackle the intriguing concept of being "Meditatively Unaware," questioning whether it's preferable to remain politely detached from our truths. As we navigate this metaphorical tundra, you'll hear quotes and anecdotes that spark both laughter and contemplation on personal success and resilience.In this episode, we reflect on the human condition and the surprising endurance that accompanies it. Whether it's enduring chronic pain or surviving the daily grind, we take a raw, honest look at how people reconcile ongoing struggles. Brad and Dylan share their own experiences with physical and emotional challenges, pondering if most of us are merely trudging through a mediocre existence. Is it possible that 90% of us are oblivious, while a vocal 10% are our own toughest critics? This conversation promises to be both entertaining and soul-searching, challenging you to engage more authentically with your inner world.

Have you ever wondered if a teenager's bathroom antics could lead to a slippery disaster, or if homemade flamethrowers were really a thing? In our latest episode of the Terribly Unoblivious Podcast, we kick things off with a lighthearted discussion on the cyclical nature of life's experiences, including the hilarity of a teenager named Phoenix who managed to transform a bathroom into a cologne-slicked hazard zone. From there, we wander into tales of youthful curiosity, recounting how body spray turned into an explosive tool for fun long before TikTok made DIY projects mainstream. Join us on this rollicking ride as we tackle the allure of dangerous pastimes and the age-old question of whether podcast seasons are a real thing. We take a detour into the world of surprising historical anecdotes, like a fire investigator moonlighting as an arsonist, and reflect on how these stories shape our narratives today. The episode is sprinkled with humor and caution, creating a nostalgic vibe as we remember youthful mischief and the spread of not-so-great ideas through generations.Our adventure doesn't stop there. We explore the pursuit of personal growth through physical challenges, from biking across Iowa to balancing family life while seeking epic adventures. With a candid look at the balance between embracing contentment and the desire for new challenges, we share insights on pushing boundaries, finding fulfillment, and the comedic hurdles encountered along the way. Through humor and thoughtful reflection, we capture the essence of resilience, both mental and physical, required to face life's grand and everyday adventures.

Is the allure of a 2018 Pinot Noir from Gap's Crown Vineyard enough to spark a discussion on the complexities behind sports and academics? Our episode begins with a flavorful examination of wine, setting the stage for a spirited debate on scholarships, particularly the unique opportunities available for female athletes in Division II and III schools. Get ready for a shift in gears as we tackle the NCAA's latest actions against Jim Harbaugh, casting a spotlight on collegiate athletics' ethics and integrity. All of this while providing a quick peek into international politics and the swirling controversies within the United Nations.What stirs more conversation: a boxing ring or the Olympic arena? Join us as we step into the heated debate over gender identity in sports, prompted by the case of professional boxer Iman Khalif. Her aggressive style raises questions about testosterone levels and fairness, reminiscent of past controversies involving transgender athletes. We delve into the complexities of doping scandals, laying bare the trust issues plaguing international sports, and contemplate the future of Russian athletes on the Olympic stage, questioning the true value of gold medals in this competitive landscape.On a lighter note, we take a walk down memory lane with the baseball steroid era and the amusing parallels found in celebrity culture. From the high-profile relationship dynamics of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck to the whimsical speculation on celebrity genetics, the conversation never loses its playful edge. We wrap up with a nostalgic journey through the James Bond series, from Pierce Brosnan's gadgets to Daniel Craig's raw portrayal, and share a charming anecdote from a Munich brewery. All this and more, with insights on personal growth and the humorous nuances of relationships, awaits in this episode's lively discussion.

Ever wondered how our favorite music videos and movies from the past still influence us today? Join us as we journey through some iconic pop culture moments, like Yellowcard's unforgettable MTV tribute to "The Breakfast Club" and Charlie Sheen's legendary cameo in "Ferris Bueller's Day Off." We reflect on the emotional power of the Foo Fighters' performance with Taylor Hawkins' son, and even entertain the idea of rocking a "November Rain" inspired wedding dress. Of course, we also couldn't help but feel a bit of concert FOMO over missing Adele in Munich.Our tales don't stop with music and movies. We share our recent travels, contrasting visits to historic sites and the introspection they inspire, with lighter stories about tattoos and redemption. Discover the significance of places like the Badlands and the Black Hills, and hear about a unique tattoo parlor owned by a former felon now supporting others on their paths to better lives. Amidst these reflections, we sprinkle in some lighthearted banter about movies, celebrity culture, and even the intriguing possibilities of alien existence with special guest Shane Hawkins, who brings his infectious energy and drumming prowess to the episode.We're also exploring cultural contrasts, like the charmingly slow-paced hospitality found in German beer gardens and how it contrasts with the hustle and bustle of American service. Get a peek into the world of sports fandom, as we reminisce about soccer matches at Soldier Field and marvel at the sheer size of American college stadiums compared to their European counterparts. From extreme cave diving stories to curious political discussions, our conversation meanders through the quirky, the profound, and the just plain fun—proving that sometimes the best journeys are the unexpected ones.

Ever wondered why certain songs make you crave tacos and margaritas instantly? Tune in as we chat about the powerful, almost Pavlovian response to summer jams like "Volver Volver" and our neighbor's relentless Spanish guitar practice. We humorously consider hiring him for his unique talents while pondering whether playing cantina music regularly could solve our Mexican food cravings. Plus, we laugh about our unpredictable podcast schedule—affectionately dubbed "seasonal"—and share heartwarming moments that highlight life's quirks and surprises.From Margaret Thatcher's legacy to Kurt Cobain's tragic end, our conversation takes unexpected turns. We debate philosophical concepts like Plato's cave and stress inoculation, drawing from past episodes to reflect on their real-world applications. Recent political events and cultural phenomena like Trump, Hunter Biden, and the Met Gala also make an appearance. Plus, our foray into meditation with Sam Harris's app and a nostalgic look at college protests set the stage for a light-hearted cocktail debate: gimlet vs. giblet.In a more serious vein, we tackle the Israel-Palestine conflict, drawing parallels to local disputes within an HOA. Generational tensions and insights from a former SEAL Team Six member on high-stakes missions add depth to our dialogue. We then examine the intriguing notion of idea ownership, with historical nods to Tesla, Edison, and John Muir. As we wrap up, we discuss national parks' preservation, the impact of technological advancements, and even the dark history of the Donner Party. Join us for a blend of historical insight, cultural reflection, and plenty of laughs.

Embark on a captivating odyssey through the shadows of Plato's Allegory of the Cave with Brad and me, as we peel back the layers of reality, knowledge, and the blissful spark of enlightenment that beckons from beyond our digital screens. With wit as sharp as the flickering flames that cast those ancient shadows, we navigate the murky waters of social-media-induced delusions, all the while juxtaposing the profound wisdom of antiquity with the relentless buzz of modern trends. Prepare to be whisked away from the ephemeral 'fit check' fads and plunged into the depth of philosophical musings that have withstood the test of time.Ever found yourself questioning the nature of your own reality, or chuckling at the absurdity of trying to enlighten the happily ignorant? Sit back and join us for a hearty laugh and a healthy dose of introspection. We take you on a journey from the allegorical chains of Plato's prisoners to the popcorn-scented musings on the impacts of our favorite films. It's a rollercoaster ride through the stages of enlightenment, complete with side-splitting detours into the trials of troubleshooting Dad's network issues and the skeptical mindscape of modern-day philosophy.As we wrap up this philosophical feast with a flourish, don't be surprised if you find yourself pondering the Prometheus within, or the Socratic gadfly buzzing around society's complacent ears. We engage in the dance of discourse, inviting you to participate in the eternal conversation about the very essence of our collective existence. So, grab your earbuds, relax, and let the conversation of millennia wash over you, all while promising not to blame us for any friends you might lose to the all-consuming allure of our delightful banter.

Ever feel like you're walking a tightrope between affection and codependency, or find yourself questioning the authenticity of ADHD diagnoses? Strap in, because we are about to take you on a rollercoaster ride through these complex terrains. We'll share personal stories that might just mirror your own experiences and debate the stickiness of relationships, the intricacies of mental health prescriptions, and the colorful spectrum of our emotional lives.Dylan drops by with anecdotes and insights that'll either have you nodding along or sparking your own fiery opinions. Together, we crack open the can of worms that is Adderall, dissect the significance of failure and perseverance in our lives, and ponder the role of medication in forging our paths. From personal battles with task initiation to the broader implications of mental health management, we're here to explore it all—with our signature blend of humor and honesty.Grab a spoon, because we're serving up a final course of thought-provoking topics, from the shadowy corners of breaking habits to the shifting sands of religious history and education. We wrap things up with a playful jab at the idea of free will and gluttony—Cheez Whiz, anyone?—all while weaving in a cheeky nod to the contradictions that make us human. So, listen in and get ready to laugh, learn, and maybe even redefine your perspectives with the three of us as your guides.

Have you ever considered the thin line where unconditional love could turn into something akin to Stockholm syndrome? This episode embarks on a journey to uncover the nuances of personal growth and relationships. We start by contemplating Elon Musk's capacity for emotional presence, despite the demands of his life—could the tech mogul also find success in the realms of fatherhood? We'll also tackle the Ship of Theseus paradox, revealing how life's transformations are mirrored in our mental and physical evolutions, especially through the community experiences like those found in CrossFit.Navigating the intricate world of parenting, this conversation is a call to all those steering the ship of a child's future. We weigh the responsibilities and the impact of the digital age, considering the delicate dance between granting autonomy and imparting wisdom. The art of parenting requires a balance between discipline and freedom, success and failure, guidance and independence. Whether it's the challenges of ensuring our children engage with the tangible world or giving them the space for valuable introspection, we explore the methods to foster resilience and character in the leaders of tomorrow.Finally, we touch upon the parallels between parenting and leadership, pondering the impact of adversity and the importance of equipping our youth for life's inevitable challenges. Steve Young's household discipline offers a lens into the power of consequences, and we reflect on how to maintain authority in an era of constant digital distraction. Through candid personal anecdotes and philosophical musings, this episode promises to light your way like a gentle moonbeam, guiding you through the complex yet rewarding journey of raising and guiding the next generation.

Embark on a philosophical adventure with us and our special guest Annie, as we peel back the layers of the Ship of Theseus puzzle. It's not just an ancient paradox; it's a lively debate about the very core of identity that still captures the imagination today. Throughout our episode, we trace the lines between the tangible and intangible, contemplating whether we, like the storied ship, remain 'us' amidst the ebb and flow of change. We're not just talking planks and nails here—this is about the essence of being, from the cars we drive to the art that moves us.As we traverse the landscapes of self and society, we ponder the metamorphosis of identity through the lens of both philosophy and the everyday. How do the parts of our lives—our experiences, memories, and relationships—shape the whole of who we are? The discussion takes a turn through the practical implications of our musings, examining how personal transformation clashes with societal measures of responsibility, from parole boards to brain transplants. We tease apart notions of the self with nods to pop culture favorites like "Primal Fear" and "Black Mirror," proving that this ancient conundrum is as relevant as ever in the modern world.Closing our episode, we reflect on the fleeting nature of our personas, drawing from the world of celebrity and our personal narratives. Does a name change signify a shift in identity, or is it mere semantics? What is the value of the moments we've lived if our future selves are strangers to them? Join us as we ponder these questions, leaving you with a deeper curiosity about the memories you cherish, the legacy you'll leave, and the enigmatic nature of the 'you' that's listening right now.

We love to start this episode grooving to Brad's "fucking theme song." With Abigail Shrier's bold claims on Joe Rogan's podcast about 'Bad Therapy' as our compass, we traverse the landscape of professional advice—questioning if today's therapists are indeed wrapping the next generation in cotton wool. The journey isn't without its potholes as we scrutinize the notion of 'never' in therapy and take a detour through the Schmugelsphere for a closer look at Shrier's media insights, finding ourselves both enlightened and a tad heartbroken by the revelations.Remember the days of the Oregon Trail, where you could die of dysentery with just a click? We bring that same blend of historical resilience and digital perils to the table, as we weigh the concept of verbalizing troubles against the silent fortitude of our trailblazing ancestors. It's a ride through the past and present, complete with the iconic game's throwbacks and punk rock homages, all wrapped up in a contemporary debate on mental health practices. So hitch up your wagon and prepare for a fording adventure—just don't fall prey to the same fate as the Donner Party—as we serve up a heartening mix of humor and insight on therapy, resilience, and the enduring strength of the human spirit.

Ever found yourself questioning the very fabric of reality in our AI-infused world? That's the rabbit hole we're leaping headfirst into, as we spar with disinformation's dark arts and the genuine perplexity of artificial intelligence. Imagine a society where deep fakes make you double-take at your own memories and where the boundary between human essence and binary code is as blurred as a UFO sighting. We've rolled up our sleeves to debate these digital dilemmas, armed only with our sharpest wit and an unwavering belief in the power of critical thinking.Join us for a whirlwind tour across a landscape of random ruminations, where we're as likely to dissect AI's future as we are to debunk a conspiracy theory or two. With our guests, we're flinging open the doors to all topics - from the Supreme Court's dynamics to the murky depths of the Titanic's true story - while keeping the mood as light as an astronaut's first spacewalk. It's not all serious business though; we meander through Hollywood trivia and the enigma of octopuses, proving that learning can indeed be a laughter-laden affair.Rounding off this eclectic escapade, we reflect on the shifting sands of knowledge that COVID-19 has left in its wake, embracing our own tech faux pas with a chuckle. As we stumble over our podcast's email address and the digital breadcrumbs of listener feedback, we invite you to chuckle right along with us. So, if you're up for something different - where the insights pack a punch, and the chuckles are free - you've found your tribe. Hit play and let's keep the conversation as lively as a cage match with Nicolas Cage himself.

 Discover how to push past the comfortable plateau of regular practice and into the realm of true expertise. Through laughter and lively banter, we'll share why Angela Duckworth's grit and the famed 10,000-hour rule are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to achieving excellence, whether you're on the sports field, in the office, or tackling life's hurdles.Ever wondered how world-class athletes continue to raise the bar, or what separates a good TED Talk from a great one? It's not just about putting in the hours; it's about the right kind of hours. We'll reveal the power of setting stretch goals, the art of effective napping (yes, it's a thing!), and the undeniable importance of embracing our fears and failures with a smile. Martin provides his razor-sharp insights, while we throw in anecdotes that prove personal growth is not just about focused effort, but also about enjoying the ride.Wrapping up, we dive into the mental fortitude of legends like Tiger Woods and uncover the delicate balance between dedication and obsession. Coaching, feedback, and the value of a fresh perspective take center stage as we recount experiences that changed the game for us—and could for you too. Tune in for a captivating blend of motivation, strategy, and humor that might just be the nudge you need to tackle your next big challenge.

Hey Truth-Seekers and Vibes-Catchers, it's Brad and Dylan taking you on a wild ride through the tangled web of sports myths and life's quirks! Ever been coached with well-meaning but misguided tips? We're swinging for the fences as we debunk common sports advice that's tripping up young athletes. Picture this: your little leaguer's coach yelling "Keep that back elbow up!" – we'll tell you why that's not always a home run. And for the golfers out there, we're putting the brakes on the "slow your swing" mantra. So, buckle up for a hilarious journey that's as much about busting myths as it is about cracking jokes.Navigating the seas of self-reflection, we drop anchor at a cozy cove of hot takes and ponder whether we're all just dodging our own issues by playing 'fixer' in someone else's story. We wade into the philosophical waters of reincarnation, the holiness of cows, and the saga of Annie the cat – a feisty ball of fur that's stolen our hearts. Our banter bounces from the profound to the playful, inviting you to reflect on your own life while we challenge each other's perspectives – all without losing our sense of humor.Finally, we explore the enigmatic shores of aphantasia and the complexities of mental imagery – or the lack thereof. Have you ever considered how a blood transfusion might change the way you see the world? Or why some people can't picture a face in their mind's eye? We dive into these mind-bending topics, discuss our own experiences with dreams and internal dialogue, and marvel at the artistic prowess of sketch artists. As we wrap this episode, we leave you with a heartfelt reminder to focus on the positives and appreciate life's rich tapestry, all while sharing a laugh and bidding you a cheery farewell. Now, go seize the day and join us for a session that promises to enlighten and entertain!

Ever wonder why Ben Affleck seemed so fired up on Real Time with Bill Maher? We've got the tea. Our latest journey through the realms of opinion and debate brings you a no-holds-barred analysis of Affleck's fiery exchange and a respectful nod to Sam Harris's cool composure. We also navigate the charged waters surrounding the perception of Christianity and take a cheeky detour into Jordan Peterson's world, all while sharing a few chuckles about the prospect of Shawshank-style prison escapes. Grasping the essence of moral strength, we introduce our guest, Martin, for a profound discussion on the nature of a 'monster'. We tackle the question of whether the capability for harm is a prerequisite for true goodness, and we dissect the hero archetype with Superman as our moral compass. Our exchange ranges from the moral instincts that surface in extreme situations to the burden of assessing one's own moral character. With Martin's insights, we've crafted a conversation that's as thought-provoking as it is engaging.Strap in for a candid chat on personal accountability, sparked by the recent ripples in Jordan Peterson's universe. We explore the vital questions we must ask ourselves to navigate life's emotional mazes and our capacity—or lack thereof—to control others. Our show takes a whimsical turn as we muse over regional car preferences and reveal Peterson's own choice of wheels, before we tackle the delicate dance of individuality within group settings. Finally, we wrap up with reflections on the importance of a strong educational foundation and the joy of those 'aha' moments in learning. Tune in for an episode that promises to entertain and enlighten in equal measure.

This heartfelt episode is a mosaic of insights, from the challenges of finding balance amidst the relentless treadmill of adulthood to the sobering reminders of cherished movies like "Ferris Bueller's Day Off," urging us to savor life's fleeting joys. Tag along as we share personal milestones, the delicate equilibrium between life's demands and the practice of self-care, and how the profound lessons from the book "Grit" have become intertwined with my own experiences.The conversation takes a deeper dive as we peel back the layers of our therapeutic journeys, exploring the role of consistency, whether in exercise or therapy and how it has led to deeper insights and personal development. We discuss how therapy acts as a mirror to our mental processes, helping us to shatter the echo chambers of our thoughts, with a nod to the necessity of accountability and validation in our pursuit of happiness. Our discussion also touches on the complexities of mental health surveys, self-reflection, and the beauty of spontaneous conversations, painting a lush picture of the therapeutic tapestry that has supported our growth.We wrap with the societal impacts of technology and the significance of maintaining a sense of self amidst the digital deluge. The chapter shifts to the intricacies of professional objectivity in therapy, navigating mental health, and the art of conversation—both structured and freeform. This episode ends on a note of shared human experience and the journey toward personal growth, emphasizing the power of connection, understanding, and the necessity of grace in our lives. Embark with us on this intimate voyage as we discuss personal struggles and triumphs and the universal thread that binds us in our quest for betterment.

Ever found yourself questioning the essence of existence with a dose of humor to sweeten the existential dread? That's where we begin our latest episode, tiptoeing through the absurdities of life and the poignant reality of cancer's touch on us all. We trade quips and share heartfelt stories about coaching youth basketball, confronting the beast of cancer, and the therapeutic role laughter plays in the face of adversity. It's a genuine blend of levity and gravity, with anecdotes that'll have you nodding in agreement and chuckling at the ridiculousness we all navigate.We then jump into the deep end of pet ownership, where our guest sheds light on the complexities surrounding dog breeding and adoption. From the uproar over the labradoodle's creation to the overlooked plight of less fortunate pups, we cover it all. Our exchange may ruffle some feathers as we question the ethics behind breeding, the online personas of our furry friends, and why our hearts often ache more for animals than humans. But don't worry, we keep it balanced with humor, because what could be funnier than imagining our social media ruled by dog profiles?The episode takes an introspective turn as we confront the inevitable farewells we bid to our pets, drawing parallels to the delicate subject of assisted suicide. From the emotional decisions at the vet's office to Switzerland's stance on the right to die, we navigate these tender waters with care and thought-provoking insight. And because life isn't all somber, we wrap up with a nod to the delightful British custom of high tea—because who wouldn't want a bit of charm and champagne to brighten their day? Join us on this journey that swings from the solemn to the spirited, and everywhere in between.

Unearth the transformative power of an ancient Japanese ritual that's more than just a grueling trial; it's a metamorphosis of mind, body, and spirit. Together, we traverse the concept of Misogi with Harvard's own Marcus Elliott and discover how it challenges modern notions of what we're truly capable of. Picture yourself moving a boulder underwater, confronting nature's raw challenge - it's this mental and physical odyssey that could redefine the boundaries of your resilience.In the communal forge of adversity, we find unexpected joy and camaraderie. Let's regale you with tales from the intense GoRuck challenge, where the weight on your back is only surpassed by the weight of your will. Surprisingly, it's not the strain that stays with you, but the silent epiphanies and the bond formed with fellow participants that etch deepest into the psyche. Learn how these rigorous rites of passage, though steeped in tradition, have morphed into vehicles for self-discovery and community in our modern tapestry.As laughter intermingles with vulnerability, we approach the precipice of the flow state, where life's harshest tests morph into sources of amusement and profound insight. We'll share how these challenges, from braving blizzards on birthdays to contemplating the ascent of Colorado's formidable Longs Peak, serve as defining moments in life's narrative. Let this episode be a siren call to embrace your own Misogi and, in doing so, uncover the strengths that lie dormant within your story.

Ever found yourself wincing at the sheer ubiquity of Taylor Swift songs during NFL breaks, or debated whether concert tickets are worth their weight in gold? Brad and I sure have, and you're about to get a front-row seat to our lively back-and-forth on these cultural phenomena. We're serving up a hefty portion of hearty discussion, garnished with our signature blend of playful banter and pop culture riffs. From the musical battlegrounds where The Beatles and The Rolling Stones duke it out for my affections, to the neon glow of Adele's Las Vegas siren call, we're dishing out more than just your average podcast chit-chat.Imagine tossing back a home run ball with the same gusto as throwing shade at halftime show mishaps—yeah, we're going there. Brad and I tear into the fabric of celebrity couple fascinations as easily as we debate over sporting algorithms. And in a world where youth sports can teeter on the brink of parental ambition, we're not afraid to slide into home with some tough love on the real impact of those midnight softball tournaments. So, grab your headphones and prepare for an episode that's equal parts nostalgia, sports fanaticism, and music critique. You might just find yourself reminiscing about the simpler times or questioning whether algorithms know your taste better than you do.

Ever found yourself tongue-tied in a debate or fallen prey to an argument you couldn't counter? Fear not! We're here to turn the tables with a masterclass in critical reasoning, courtesy of Christor Stumark's illuminating insights. Sharpen your wit and join us as we navigate the treacherous waters of logical fallacies, from the notorious ad hominem to the deceptive sunk cost snare. With our guest, the ever-astute Martin Ruthless Villain, we inject a hearty dose of humor into dissecting these argumentative faux pas and how they pervade our everyday exchanges.Who knew that even C-SPAN could become a backdrop for comedy or that children mastering technology could lead us down a hilariously absurd slippery slope? In this episode, not only do we revel in the lighter side of logical blunders, but we also embark on a quest for truth and the pursuit of knowledge. We swap stories about tech-savvy kids, debates gone awry, and the bewildering realm of indulgences, all while keeping our feet firmly planted in the realm of rational thought. Let's face it, who doesn't enjoy a good chuckle while grooming their grey matter?Wrapping up, we don't just preach the art of conversation—we practice it with an earnest focus on listening, questioning, and understanding. Emotional intelligence takes the spotlight as we delve into the finesse of navigating discussions with a cool head and a warm heart. Before we part ways, we can't help but tease an upcoming escapade with none other than Jordan Peterson and the promise of sun-soaked adventures in Mexico. Buckle up for an episode that's equal parts enlightening and entertaining—your journey to becoming a more judicious debater starts here!

Strap in for a rollercoaster of topics as we meander from the redemptive arc of a car thief turned pastor to the silver screen's stylized thievery. Delight in our musings on the plausibility of concealing masterpieces in folding briefcases and the unexpected charm of an aging cast in "The Thomas Crown Affair." Then, we swap heist tales for heart-to-hearts on marriage age trends, contrasting heartland values with the national average. Whether you're daydreaming about the life you could've led or reflecting on your own romantic timeline, our chat is the perfect companion for your contemplative moments.Buckle up for our final descent into the depths of adventure and anxiety in the underground. Brad and I recount personal tales from Vietnam's vast caverns to the claustrophobic jitters that can strike even the most seasoned explorers. We compare the grandeur of nature's subterranean wonders to the pressure-cooker feel of a crowded concert—providing a cautionary chuckle about the perils of both. Whether you're an adrenaline junkie or a firm advocate for personal space, we've got anecdotes that will resonate, entertain, and maybe even inspire a bit of self-reflection. Join us for this episode, where the unexpected is the norm, and laughter is the best medicine.

As we wade through the murky waters of modern dialogue, we're reminded just how vital it is to confront misconception without becoming the very fabricators we challenge. Brené Brown's "Braving the Wilderness" serves as our compass as we dissect the art of "speaking truth to bullshit." Our exploration doesn't stop at the concept's surface; we dig deeper into the psychological trenches of false dichotomies and toxic debates, highlighting the profound strength found in our collective humanity—a theme that permeates our discussions on everything from Jeffrey Epstein's complex web to the divisive chasms of political and social strife.Navigating the entanglements of conversation requires a mix of open-mindedness and discernment, a balance we strive to embody. With an investigative lens, we dissect the nuances of contentious issues such as border security and the refugee crisis, steering clear of oversimplified us-versus-them narratives. Our dialogue becomes a beacon, encouraging you to approach every conversation with a curious heart, whether debating policy or dismantling the misinformation that so often infiltrates our collective understanding. Through real-world examples and personal anecdotes, we illuminate how empathy and critical thinking can pave the way for meaningful connections amidst a landscape riddled with snap judgments.Concluding our journey, we share tales like the unifying power of a grueling cross-state bike ride, which underscores the community and growth found in collective challenges. We invite you to embrace the paradox of strength and vulnerability, to recognize the importance of self-worth beyond polarizing perspectives. In the face of life's complexities, we champion the cultivation of a "strong back, soft front, wild heart," an ethos that inspires both personal fortitude and an openness to the world's pain and joy. Through each chapter of this episode, we encourage you to discover the profound impact of seeing beyond the surface and nurturing a more harmonious existence.

Ever found yourself in a heated debate about the pros and cons of social media? Well, strap in as we navigate the murky waters of online networks and their effects on society. We kick things off by breathing life into conversations on health beliefs, conspiracy theories, and the reminiscences of historical political elections. Then, with a wink and a nudge, we'll take a playful jab at climate change discourse and flat earth enthusiasts. And for those who can't resist the appeal of online shopping versus local stores, we tackle the convenience of purchasing eyewear in the digital age, all the while keeping our tongue firmly in cheek.But it's not all jest and jabs; this episode takes a magnifying glass to the intricacies of information dissemination in the post-COVID economy. We channel our inner Sherlock Holmes, with a tip of the hat to Matt Taibbi and the Twitter files, to unravel the mysteries behind corporate profit margins amidst rising costs. In the spotlight is the potential dark side of financial maneuvers like stock buybacks—prepare to have your mind opened and your beliefs challenged.Lastly, we're calling all sports fans and Saturday morning cartoon aficionados for a trip down memory lane and onto the field. Experience the highs and lows of football with Arsenal's latest feats and Crystal Palace fans' fervent protests, all while examining the bond between club owners and their communities. And don't miss our lighthearted look back at the gender-neutral undertones of 80s cartoons—because who doesn't need a good chuckle over a 'Prism Head' reference? Join us for an episode that's as much a lively debate as it is a nostalgic embrace of our childhood heroes.

As I sat across from my good friend recounting the tale of how we once threw caution to the wind and attempted to reenact our favorite "Ted Lasso" scene, it struck me just how powerful our need for connection truly is. This podcast episode explores that profound journey from isolation to belonging, guided by the insightful themes of Brene Brown's "Braving the Wilderness." Through chuckles over our amateur theatrics and the melodic strains of bluegrass music, we uncover the artistry of expression that draws us together, revealing that even in our loneliness, we share a common thread of humanity.You might chuckle at the absurdity of Mario's mushroom-induced transformations, but isn't that the magic of storytelling? It pulls back the curtain on the complexities of life and the characters we hold dear. From the cultural phenomenon of 'Ted Lasso' to the minutiae of a British dart game, we embark on a narrative odyssey that probes the impact of entertainment on our lives and relationships. Through laughter and heartfelt moments, we explore how these narratives shape our understanding of one another and the world around us.Wrapping up with a misquoted Walt Whitman and the charged climate of modern politics, we remind ourselves of the power of staying curious in a world that's quick to judge. The episode touches on the pain hidden behind hatred and the importance of meaningful conversations for overcoming division. Join us as we navigate misunderstandings and bridge gaps through dialogue, asking the crucial "why" that brings clarity to our emotions and connections. After all, isn't it through these shared stories and heartfelt exchanges that we find the courage to step into the wilderness together?

Ever pondered the line where comfort meets stagnation, or how the echoes of Shackleton's incredible survival in Antarctica might apply to our daily struggles? Our latest episode wades into these waters, inviting you to reconsider what it means to truly live. We're joined by celebrated thinkers like Jordan Peterson and Sam Harris, whose insights on destiny and self-determination are bound to challenge your convictions. And through the seemingly simple life of my cat Annie, we'll uncover whether the pursuit of comfort is really all it's cracked up to be—or if, like Kilo on his Home Depot escapades, we're all missing out on some much-needed adventure.As we navigate the traffic of life, both literal and figurative, this episode takes a turn down the less-traveled roads of self-discipline and habit formation. The whimsical personification of our cars leads to a profound discussion on the human need for connection, while the grooves of our brain's pathways reveal how habits can both confine and liberate us. Sharing in the journey, I confess the paradox of postponing change and the freedom that discipline affords, allowing us to savor our downtime without a hint of remorse. Buckle up as we cruise through these topics, offering laughs and enlightenment at every twist and turn.Wrapping up with a hard look at sustainability, our conversation becomes an urgent call to action against the backdrop of modern consumerism. We humorously juxtapose the work ethic of ancient Egyptian slaves against today's social media "gurus," before diving deep into the recycle bin to sort out the truths and myths of our environmental efforts. Ponder the past's glass milk bottles against today's plastic predicament, and join us as we champion local businesses, long-lasting goods, and financial literacy as the cornerstones of a more sustainable future. This episode isn't just a talk; it's a rally for meaningful change, and you're a key player.

Have you ever felt the piercing pang of not quite fitting in, or the ache of yearning for genuine belonging? Our latest series plunges into Brené Brown's "Braving the Wilderness," where we uncover the emotional landscapes of authenticity versus fitting in. This isn't your average self-discovery spiel – it's an invitation to join us in the wild terrains of personal anecdotes, the wisdom of Maya Angelou, and the humor of "resting Brad face" as we navigate the complexities of self-belonging and societal expectations.As we peel back the layers of what it means to be true to ourselves, we confront the 'us versus them' mentality and the craving to belong without sacrificing our realness, freedom, or power. This episode isn't about easy answers; it's about engaging in the difficult conversations, seeking joy, sharing pain, and cultivating the curiosity that keeps us from becoming defensive. Our dialogue is enriched by the profound insights of Brené Brown, who champions authenticity through her principles of genuine connection, civil truth-speaking, community building, and the balance of strength with compassion.Finally, we grapple with the paradox of self-perception – are we as good as we think, even when our actions suggest otherwise? This conversation offers a fresh perspective on the duality of our nature, and how embracing this complexity can lead us toward true belonging. We leave you with a thought to carry into the next episode: is lonesomeness the precursor to understanding belonging, or is it the belonging that soothes our solitudes? Join us as we continue to pull at these threads in search of our true place in the wilderness.

Are you ready to confront the uncomfortable truth about what it means to truly care? Join us, your daring duo Brad and Dylan, as we tear apart the facade of 'caring' and thrust into the chasm between words and action. This isn't your average chinwag; we're dissecting the real impact of 'thoughts and prayers,' questioning whether words without deeds are as hollow as a drum. We're lighting a match under the assumptions of empathy and sympathy, and we won't shy away from exposing the contradictions that arise when verbal expressions of concern are not met with tangible support or intervention. Dive headfirst into this fiery discourse as we reveal how genuine caring is more than just a sentiment—it's a responsibility. We don't just toss around hot takes; we dissect them with the precision of a brain surgeon. Without a hint of mercy, we challenge you to explore what actions, or lack thereof, follow your declarations of concern. Prepare to be stirred, perhaps even provoked, as we lay bare the responsibilities of caring and why it's high time we all did more than just talk the talk. No guest speakers, just Brad, Dylan, and a whole lot of candid truths you'll be mulling over long after the episode ends.

Can one person truly encompass the extremes of good and evil, brilliance, and folly? That's the conundrum we unravel as we delve into the lives of Fritz Haber and Alfred Nobel, whose legacies are as much about their contributions to humanity as they are about the destruction they inadvertently enabled. We navigate the murky waters of morality, the ethical dilemmas of wartime science, and the paradoxical nature of technological progress that can simultaneously advance and hinder human capability. Our lively discussion takes unexpected turns, from the haunting psychological aftermath of chemical warfare to the whimsical musings on the Nobel Prize's explosive origins and design. We probe the concept of 'Type 2 ADHD,' a modern affliction born from our digital excesses, and the anthropological roots of our deepest fears. The banter is educational yet humorous, as we also tease a future deep-dive into the world of deconstruction with French philosopher Jacques Derrida.In the final act, we ponder the balance between nationalism and global citizenship, questioning how free our life choices truly are. Are we simply living out a predetermined script? It's a contemplative end to a spirited debate, where we've laughed, learned, and left our listeners with more questions than answers. So, join us for a journey through the duality of man and the endless shades of gray that define our existence. The show may be over, but the dialogue within your mind is just beginning.

Ever wondered what it's like growing up between cultures or how it shapes one's identity? Meet Martin Routai Villavan, a fascinating individual with a Chinese father and an American mother, born in Bangkok and having lived in China and the US. As a technology teacher, football lover, and an experienced traveler, Martin takes us on a captivating expedition of his unique background, sharing amusing anecdotes, and discussing a variety of topics ranging from cultural diversity to sports.We promise a hearty laugh as we explore the misconceptions that come with our passports, and engage in light-hearted debates around sports, especially football. It's not all about giggles and ribbing as we also reflect on serious issues such as the legalization of marijuana. Expect to navigate through a maze of thoughts and ideas, leaping from NFL team preferences to the history of hemp and the oil industry. With a touch of movie references and a dash of spirited banter, we weave a tapestry of conversation that is both entertaining and intellectually stimulating.Our final destination? A traditional Cuban box hog roast. But before we get there, we traverse through discussions about outdoor activities like climbing and mountain biking, and passionate talk about soccer culture and coaching. As we bring this journey to a close, we hope you've enjoyed the ride and gained insights into our shared experiences, differences, and the connections we've made through them. So, here's to laughter, learning, and a whole lot of fun. Grab a cup of your favorite brew and join us on this rollercoaster ride of thought-provoking conversation!

Join Brad and his frustrations as we discuss his love for Starburst and Skittles, album cover music selection, and serious topics like potential threats in America and TikTok censorship in China. We'll also explore Krister Sturmark's "To Light the Flame of Reason," focusing on science, truth, and morality. We will also discuss discrimination against atheists, the role of religion and consciousness, and the importance of open-mindedness. Engage in debates about the plural of octopus, communication in relationships, the relief of mindless TV, and human behavior. Expect a mix of humor, insight, and diverse discussions.

Suffering from the dread of Monday anxiety? Ever wondered how our instincts play a pivotal role in balancing with advice? Well, you're in the right place! This episode of Terribly Unoblivious is your chance to navigate through the complexities of expectations and information reliability. We are going to chat about the importance of self-optimization, personal identity and the crucial role of documenting progress, and the intricate dance between discipline and freedom. As the conversation flows, brace yourself to dive into the world of fitness, work culture, and personal wellbeing. We've got captivating tales about CrossFit's impact on the fitness landscape, the surprising role of alcohol as a performance enhancer, and the essence of moderation. Ever thought about the balancing act between rigidity and spontaneity at work? Interested to know the significance of setting boundaries and the benefits of occasional breaks? Stay tuned as we share some hilarious anecdotes about a friend's personality, a golf tournament win, and the unexpected results of letting loose.Finally, we wrap up the episode with some thought-provoking topics. We'll be exploring the delicate balance between truth, lies, and the manipulation of bullshit. Furthermore, we'll ponder upon the fascinating concepts of finite goals versus infinite games, the challenges of altering deeply-rooted beliefs, and the evolution of cognitive abilities. And, if you're intrigued by the world of symbols and swingers, government accountability, and term limits, you're in for a treat! So, join us, laugh, learn, and let's unravel the layers of our terribly unoblivious world together!

Ever felt like a jack of all trades in a world that prioritizes specialization? Join us, as we unfurl the advantages of being a generalist in today's complex world, sparked by insights from David Epstein's book, 'Range.' We examine the significance of diverse interests and skills, advocating a broader perspective that stimulates creativity and innovation. Strap in as we then navigate the fascinating terrain of learning from failure, acknowledging the power of pattern recognition and the allure of slow, deliberate learning. We dissect the academic performance of students at a naval academy, proving that initial struggles can morph into superior performances in advanced stages. We champion a coaching style that encourages understanding, as opposed to spoon-feeding answers, fostering a holistic learning environment. As we pull this intriguing conversation to a close, we underscore the importance of the generalist's approach. We reiterate the value of wide-ranging interests and skills, slow learning, and pattern recognition as vital players in problem-solving. We also delve into the intricate relationship between failure and success, pitching them as vitally complementary players in personal growth. So, whether you're at the crossroads of choosing a career path or simply looking to expand your horizons, this episode will undoubtedly leave you with food for thought!

Ever reminisce about the early days of a project and marvel at the incredible journey it has been? Well, that's exactly what we're doing in this episode. Join us on a nostalgic trip as we trace our journey from our humble beginnings in podcasting. We dive into the bumps, the laughs, and the lessons we've learned over the journey, including our initial struggles and experiences during the COVID-19 pandemic. We also discuss our foray into furniture making and our thoughts about starting an Etsy store. Our special guest, Shannon, Brad's better half, drops by to share her unique perspectives.This episode is not all about us though. We take a deep-dive into various intriguing topics. Ever wondered how trees communicate or been curious about the intricacies of bone marrow donation? We discuss it all! We also share our thoughts on various genres of music and our concert experiences. We may even settle the age-old debate on the authenticity of country music. So expect a potpourri of topics, all served with a side of hearty laughs and learning.We wrap up this episode with an interesting discussion on the preservation of lands and tree communication. Along the way, we touch upon our love for sign language, the commitment of John Muir and Teddy Roosevelt to preserving the landscape, and the Native American's use of fire to maintain the land. We also share our diverse interests in music. And, of course, there's also some talk about a NASA designed vibrating necklace and Jeremy Clarkson's 'The Grand Tour'. So sit back, relax and join us on this fun-filled, knowledge-packed journey.

Have you ever felt like you're stuck in an exhausting cycle of battling suicidal thoughts, and are desperate to find an empathetic solution? We've been there too, and today we're sharing our personal journey through navigating depression and suicide. This episode is all about starting that meaningful dialogue on mental health; it's time to shine a light on the struggle that's often hidden in the shadows.Our conversation dives into the powerful influence of societal pressures on our mental health, guided by Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. We explore the downward spiral of guilt and shame that can come from comparing our struggles to others. We also discuss the challenges of seeking help, highlighting the critical importance of finding a safe, empathetic, and understanding environment. We know from personal experiences that reaching out when you're down can be difficult, but it's a step that can start the path toward healing.In this episode, we take a sobering look at suicide statistics and the impact on different age groups. We also talk about the often unspoken influence of social media on our mental health. We touch on the hereditary nature of mental health issues, the signs to look for in children, and the importance of acting and offering support. Remember, no one is alone in this journey, and together we can navigate the complex world of mental health. So, join us, let's keep this crucial conversation going.Emergency Help -National Help Line: 988Non Emergency Help (Not Sponsored) - Betterhelp.com 

Explore the history of 'arete,' the ancient Greek philosophy of reaching one's full potential and excellence. This episode of Terribly Unoblivious examines its role in shaping personal development and competitive dynamics throughout history. Hosts Dylan and Brad discuss how to apply the principles of arete for achieving balance and excellence in modern-day competition and personal growth.

Join Brad and Dylan in "Terribly Unoblivious," a refreshing podcast exploring the power of open-minded debates and switching paradigms. Journey with us in this episode as we unravel whether coaching unveils individuality or molds replicas of the status quo. In a world cluttered with conformity, our discussions stand as a beacon of intellectual diversity, promoting amicable disagreements and the encouragement of unique ideas. Embrace the essence of exploration and enlightenment with "Terribly Unoblivious."