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Sex only gets better with age! Tune in to learn how to have better sex with older women, particularly women in their midlife (40-50s) and beyond. In this episode, Kirsten and sexologist Eva Clay discuss the intricacies of sex, dating, and relationships with women in their midlife. As women transition through perimenopause and menopause, they experience significant hormonal changes that affect their libido, identity, and view of society. Kirsten and Eva explore how couples can navigate these changes successfully and highlight the importance of empathy, understanding, and redefining intimacy. Eva offers insights into the evolutionary role of estrogen, how its decline impacts women's behavior, and provides advice for men to support their partners through this transition. They also discuss how aging enhances sexual experiences and deepens emotional connections. Whether you are currently in this stage of life, or preparing for it, this episode sheds light on embracing these changes and living a fulfilling, intimate life. Connect with Kirsten Trammell https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION: http://thenakedconnection.com/question Connect with Eva Clay https://www.evaclay.com/ Ready to totally transform your sex life? Visit https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide and get your FREE orgasmic breathwork practice guide. This guide is here to help you experience more power, sensitivity, aliveness, and pleasure in just 10 minutes. Get Turned On FASTER Visit thenakedconnection.com/mood to try the plant-based and research-backed Sex Magic supplement from MOOD and use code NAKED for 15% off your order! Key Topics: 00:00 Introduction to Midlife Relationships 01:56 Understanding Menopause and Perimenopause 04:09 Impact of Hormonal Changes on Relationships 05:39 Navigating Intimacy During Menopause 06:18 Supporting Your Partner Through Menopause 09:49 Redefining Sex and Intimacy 13:42 The Benefits of Aging in Relationships 34:48 Dating in Midlife: Embrace the Adventure
Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, somatic psychotherapist, and professional troublemaker whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. She's helped thousands of people unlock their innate potential for pleasure, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that being smart is sexy. Her work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and when she's not teaching erotic and relational intelligence, you'll find her making mayhem on a dance floor. Talked about in this episode: The mistake of medicalizing menopause Finding power in your shadow The science behind sexual changes in menopause The Queen, and the Witch Dating & sex, keep an open mind during these changes Free gift: https://www.evaclay.com/free-gift Contact Eva: eva@evaclay.com Learn more about Eva: instagram.com/evaclay EvaClay.com
Eva Clay is on a mission to make sex a spiritual practice. With two decades of expertise, Eva has helped countless women defy the misconception that perimenopause and menopause mark the end of a woman's sexuality. In this riveting conversation, discover how midlife can unfold as a magnificent era of sexual exploration, fostering healthier, empowered, and fulfilled lives.Get ready for an insightful and passionate exchange between Eva and Erin as they not only express their profound appreciation for midlife sexuality, but also delve into the biological benefits of menopause and the intricate relationship between sex and spirituality. You don't want to miss this one. Here's what's on the table: Why midlife is far from a sexual retirement phase for women, but can be a vibrant era for sexual exploration and fulfillmentHow actively pursuing sex, pleasure, and orgasms contributes to women's empowerment, health, and overall success.Unpacking the biology behind perimenopause and menopause and how it strips away the inclination to accommodate othersDefining sexual archetypes in midlife: the Queen and the Witch The importance of allowing oneself to be wild, rebellious, and impulsive in midlifeRedefining what sexuality looks like in midlife and how to take control of common challengesHow treating sex as a spiritual practice can lead to profound experiences and heightened creativityEmbracing a shift towards responsive, rather than spontaneous, sexuality in midlifeOUR GUEST: Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and professional troublemaker whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. With a background as a former neuroscience professor, she intertwines intelligence with sensuality, unlocking innate pleasure potentials for thousands. As a seasoned practitioner of sexual tantra for over a decade, her work seamlessly blends the profound with the playful. Particularly passionate about guiding women through the midlife portal, Eva advocates for relishing the most vibrant phase of their sex and love life. Featured as an expert in VICE TV, Sexy-Fit, Truth-Telling, Super Power Experts, and The Sassy and Single Show, she also graces stages as a keynote speaker at Wanderlust yoga festivals.Want more Eva? Find her online at www.EvaClay.com and follow her on Instagram: @evaclayWant more Hotter Than Ever? Find us and episode transcripts online at www.hotterthaneverpod.com and sign up for our mailing list! Follow us on:Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090728330453 Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts so you never miss an episode! We'd love to hear what you think about the show - tell us what stories are resonating with you by writing us a review on Apple Podcasts. Want advice about some aspect of your life over 40? DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303!
Maraya dives into the world of desire, pleasure, hormones, and is joined by Eva Clay to discuss how to reawaken your libido for a pleasure-positive mindset. Discover how the brain interprets sensations and the impact of mindset on pleasure. Eva explains the neuroscience behind pleasure and its connection to the mind-body relationship. Learn practical tips for cultivating self-love and embracing self-pleasure, expanding your repertoire of sensations. Explore how serotonin, oxytocin, and dopamine influence happiness, connection, and fulfillment, and discover nutrition and sunlight's role in hormone balance. Join this insightful conversation to ignite your passion for life, explore your desires, and enhance your overall well-being. Also in this episode: Passion provides a range of benefits, including bonding, connection, stress relief, release, and exercise. Serotonin is the hormone of connection and happiness, and it can be boosted by consuming quality protein, such as turkey and salmon, and practicing gratitude. Oxytocin is the hormone of ecstasy, orgasm, bonding, and childbirth. Activities like hugging, massage, touch, and quality time can increase oxytocin levels. Dopamine is the hormone of fulfillment and accomplishment. It can be supported by healthy protein intake, quality fats, gut health, exercise, and celebrating achievements. Cultivating desire and pleasure starts with noticing and acknowledging what brings you pleasure in various aspects of life, not just sexually. Developing a pleasure-positive mindset is crucial for experiencing fulfillment and pleasure in all aspects of life. Apply today for a free consult with Maraya to receive a personalized plan: https://share.hsforms.com/1Y59wqx-JRhKl8F-TbECbRwcr1a5 Subscribe To The Women's Vibrancy Code: Women's Health And Wellness w/Maraya Brown: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook Page | Linkedin | Website | Tiktok | Facebook Group Make A Connection Call With Maraya Brown: Click here to book About Maraya Brown: Maraya is a Yale and Functional Medicine Trained Women's Health And Wellness Expert CNM, MSN with her undergraduate degree in marketing. She helps women feel turned on by their life, their lover and themselves. Her work online brings her 21 years of experience supporting women together in one place to co-create deep transformation, energy and passion. Maraya is the founder of this Podcast and does a great deal of work with women to expand their energy, hormones, libido, confidence and much much more. This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact DISCLAIMER: The podcasts available on this website have been produced for informational, educational and entertainment purposes only. Listeners should take care to avoid program content which may not be suited to them. The contents of this podcast do not constitute medical or professional advice, No person listening to and/or viewing any podcast from this website should act or refrain from acting on the basis of the content of a podcast without first seeking appropriate professional advice and/or counseling, nor shall the information be used as a substitute for professional advice and/or counseling. The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast expressly disclaims any and all liability relating to any actions taken or not taken based on any or all contents of this site. The Women's Vibrancy Code: Women's Health And Wellness w/ Maraya Brown
Dive into the realm of simplicity in this conversation between Christina and Eva Clay, a renowned somatic psychotherapist, sexologist, and co-founder of the widely celebrated Deep Dance event held weekly in Los Angeles. Experience the intricate journey of Eva, who embraced polyamory following a decade-long monogamous relationship, only to find her way back to monogamy. She candidly explores the ensuing chaos, her resistance to love, and the ultimate shift to subtlety that allowed love to permeate her life again. As WeDeepen's momentum amplifies and with the company's ambition to grow, Christina explores her quest for simplicity across all facets of her existence. Echoing the wisdom of the 23rd Gene Key, she ponders on how simplicity can unlock the gift of creativity and spaciousness, leading to the 'Art of Serenity'. Tune into this enlightening, succinct, and honest dialogue to gain a deeper understanding of the Deep Dance movement and draw from the relational wisdom of one of Christina's esteemed mentors and colleagues. Sign up to join for a Deep Dance with special pricing at wedeepen.com. You'll meet Eva, plus experience LA's newest dance experience happening every Saturday morning at 11am. For more about Eva Clay and her transformative work, follow her on Instagram @evaclay or visit evaclay.com. To connect with Christina and discover WeDeepen's matchmaking database and personalized coaching services, explore wedeepen.com. Gain further insights by following Christina and WeDeepen on Instagram at @christinaweber and @wedeepen.
Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist, and founder of The Institute for Intimacy Arts. We talk about the brain's capacity for change (neuroplasticity), the brain-body connection for pleasure, the benefits of pleasure, as well as hormones, menopause, and sexuality across the lifespan. Ad: Unlock your radical path to holistic wellness with Back to the Body and their Sexual Wellness Quiz for Women at backtothebody.org. Plus use SandS for $500 off selected retreats. Eva: https://www.evaclay.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media. Loving disclaimer: Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.
In this episode of the Women's Vibrancy Code, Maraya chats with Women's Vibrancy Code Master Coaches about sex, gut health, and releasing old trauma Master coaches, Eva Clay, Katie Chapmon, and Christie Nix are here to answer a couple of my questions regarding their respective fields of expertise. For those of you that are curious to hear from an esteemed sexologist, who is a psychotherapist and used to teach neuroscience at UCLA. You'll also hear from a very well respected dietician who speaks around the world training other dietitians and is specialized in gut health. Lastly, you'll hear from the co-founder of rREST, which is an amazing technology that helps release old trauma. Also in this episode: What is the erotic blueprint? How to flirt with your partner's blueprint The real questions women bring to sex Identifying old memories and how surprising that can be How rREST is like a mixture of acupressure, muscle testing, Reiki and EMDR The web that connects us all to people in the past, present and future Why a GI map is useful How quantifiable data on the GI map can be a motivator Subscribe To The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook Page | Linkedin | Website | Tiktok | Facebook Group Make A Connection Call With Maraya Brown: Click here to book About Maraya Brown: Maraya is a Yale and Functional Medicine Trained CNM, MSN with her undergraduate degree in marketing. She helps women feel turned on by their life, their lover and themselves. Her work online brings her 21 years of experience supporting women together in one place to co-create deep transformation, energy and passion. Maraya is the founder of this Podcast and does a great deal of work with women to expand their energy, hormones, libido, confidence and much much more. DISCLAIMER: The podcasts available on this website have been produced for informational, educational and entertainment purposes only. Listeners should take care to avoid program content which may not be suited to them. The contents of this podcast do not constitute medical or professional advice, No person listening to and/or viewing any podcast from this website should act or refrain from acting on the basis of the content of a podcast without first seeking appropriate professional advice and/or counseling, nor shall the information be used as a substitute for professional advice and/or counseling. The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast expressly disclaims any and all liability relating to any actions taken or not taken based on any or all contents of this site.
Feeling passion for your life, your lover and yourself is something that can get thrown to the wayside from the monotony of everyday life- especially for busy women and mothers. On this episode, Maraya and Eva Clay, chat about allowing yourself to feel your desires, heal sexual traumas, find pleasure during your 40's, 50s and beyond, and keep the spark alive. IN THIS EPISODE: [1:51] The root (pelvic region) is the place of creation and abundance [4:06] Maraya's story [10:51] Eva joins Maraya to dive deeply into the Libido conversation [18:53] What you will learn in Maraya's program, with Eva as a guest Master Coach [26:29] The effects of perimenopause and menopause [29:52] How women can begin to heal their sexual traumas and/or shame [34:28] Eva and Maraya discuss the “Anatomy of Pleasure” [37:35] Different ways of keeping the sexual spark alive [40:52] Maraya recaps and adds some additional value [44:49] Maraya mentions some quick solutions to try if your libido is low KEY TAKEAWAYS: Women are often exhausted from everyday work-life balance, leaving little time for them to engage with their own desires and passion. Reconnecting with your desire can help reignite that spark. Healing sexual trauma and shame can assist in increasing passion and help women feel more desire for their life, their lover and themselves. If you're feeling unfulfilled sexually, maybe it's time to reasses how your desires are being expressed and look deep down inside at your stories of worthiness. BIO:Maraya Brown is a Yale and Functional Medicine Trained CNM, MSN with her undergraduate degree in marketing. Her work online brings her 21 years of experience supporting women together in one place to co-create deep transformation, energy and passion. Maraya is the founder of this Podcast and does a great deal of work with women to expand their libido. She joins Eva Clay as one of the Master Coaches in her signature program. Eva Clay, LCSW, is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist guest master coach in The Women's Vibrancy Code and professional troublemaker, whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. Her work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. As the founder of The Institute for Intimacy Arts she's helped thousands of people unlock the keys to lasting love and passion. Link: To learn more about the program click HERE Connect with Maraya: FB Page FB Group Instagram LinkedIn TikTok YouTube Disclaimer: The podcasts available on this website have been produced for informational, educational & entertainment purposes only. Listeners should take care to avoid program content which may not be suited to them. No person listening to and/or viewing any podcast from this website should act or refrain from acting on the basis of the content of a podcast without first seeking appropriate professional advice and/or counseling, nor shall the information be used as a substitute for professional advice and/or counseling. The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast expressly disclaims any and all liability relating to any actions taken or not taken based on any or all contents of this site.
Since the dawn of time, sex has been at the center of humankind. Sex has been celebrated in art and culture and it has been oppressed and vilified in faith. But one thing never seems to change, and that is the desire that humans have for pleasure and intimacy. Eva Clay is a renowned sexologist and psychotherapist with extensive training and experience in sex and relationships. Some might even say she is a modern day ‘Dr Ruth’. She joins Dr Mitch this week to talk all about the good, the bad and the naughty sides of sex and the role it plays in today’s culture. Learn more about Eva Clay and how she is helping couples find true intimacy: www.evaclay.com #sex #intimacy #sexinthebedroom #sexualdesire #sexeducation #sextherapy #experientialknowledge #8seconds
We take a break this week for health reasons - Enjoy one of our best recordings from pre-covid days: The hosts connect through the distance to address a listeners question that hits close to home. What about mismatched libidos and stress? They talk about the different expressions of intimate love and the effect of stress-specific conjured by sexual matters. Jeremie and Bryde chat with sexologist Eva Clay about her work with couples and single person counselling on the subject of sex. Tantra is a life-changing practice, backed by brain science in its ability to calm the nervous system. Jeremie is overwhelmed by a memory of tantric practice, and Bryde digs deep to find out more about energy centres expanding and contracting. Also, do you know when someone is subtly trying to connect with you with their penis? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Get your own copy of Ashley's new book You Turn at youturnbook.com What makes your erotic mind turn on? Tune in to this steamy episode for a conversation all about having a healthy libido. Ash talks with clinical sexologist and psychologist Eva Clay to dive deep into sexuality and passion in relationships. Whether you are single and not interested in dating or you are struggling to keep the sexual desire alive in your relationship, Eva shares actionable tips to build your libido. There is one major impact on libido, be sure to listen in to learn how to better manage this in your life. Know that low libido isn’t wrong, it is simply telling you something. Eva walks through how to turn your sex life from an athletic event into a creative and passionate experience, ways to naturally boost your estrogen levels, and how to connect to your eroticism. Don’t forget to stick around for the post-episode notes with Ash where she gets personal and shares her added insight into sexuality. In This Episode, You Will Learn: Connection between sex and success in all aspects of life. Causes of libido shift and how to build a stronger desire for passion in your life. How to keep a long-term sexual connection in your relationship. Ways to shift the conversation of sex from faux pas to curious and comfortable. How to ask for what you want from an empowered place. Where To Find Eva Clay: evaclay.com Instagram: @evaclay Promotion: Want to upgrade your health? Visit organifi.com/youturn and enter code YOUTURN to get 20% off at check out! Here are some of Ash’s favorite goodies to put in your next coffee, tea, water or smoothie: ✨Pure Powder: Lion’s Main extract, aloe vera and ginger extract are just a few of the superfoods packed into this powder to improve your mental clarity and overall brain health.
Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and former professor of neuropsychology. Gina and Eva sit down to talk about how sexuality is not fixed. You are not going to like the same things for the rest of your life. Sex is an ever evolving universe - always shifting. As Eva says, "Sex CAN become a wild grand adventure. It is so complex and wild. We have to begin with that mindset. You have to stop looking to your partner to please you. What I see when the spark goes out in a couple - is they are writing a novel together. You are getting the thrill off of your partner in the beginning and that has a shelf life." Continuing on this statement Eva states, "Disconnect the sense of routine. I do this to you. You do this to me and then we have sex. We have this sense of tit for tat. Did you get off yet? Well now I'm going to get off." Gina and Eva talk about dismantling this routine, engaging the breath to connect, the phenomonological space between, and healing through skillful sex.
On this episode of I Can’t Wait To Yell You, Casey had the pleasure of sitting down with Sex Psychotherapist and Magician, Eva Clay.This episode will help you: •Understand how to go from Stress to SexualWholeness•Understand the fear or stigma around sexuality, and how to alleviate it•How to manifest using sex (solo or with a partner!)... and so much more.For more with Eva, you can head to her Instagram or website below to follow along, further connect, and work together!https://www.instagram.com/evaclaywww.evaclay.comFor all my Denver homies who would like a facial with my amazing esthetician Jess, head to her Instagram below and shoot her a DM!https://instagram.com/thedenverfacialist?igshid=1fnup792kxq91Happy Valentine’s Day, my loves!If you love the show, please subscribe, as well as leave a comment and a review on iTunes
This week I'm joined by Eva Clay, Psychotherapist and Sexologist to explore how lovemaking is impacted by our masculine and feminine energies. We discuss how polarity influences our chemistry, how the masculine & feminine show up in sexual encounters, and what that looks and feels like in practical ways.We also explore how each energy might get wounded by the other, all the ways we bring our wounds into our sex lives and the powerful ways we can heal.
Episode 326: Ready to burn the dating checklist? Madelyn's monthly membership program, Sisu Society, is full of content and interaction beyond the podcast episodes. Each month there's typically two formal calls, and periodic spontaneous Facebook Live videos from Madelyn. This special episode of the podcast is one of those sessions. Inspired by the recent episode featuring Eva Clay, Madelyn candidly discusses some of her dating history and experiences, how it is we make the wrong kinds of "lists" when seeking dating partners, and how to burn the dating checklist and teach ourselves to be open to loving anyone. Show Notes: Sisu Society features group coaching, interacting with members, and typically two calls - sometimes embodiment practices, teachings, sharing circles, guests. There are also spontaneous Facebook Live videos with candid and intimate musings directly from Madelyn - this episode is one of those videos. This episode is a follow-up/sister of the recent Eva Clay episode: maddymoon.com/eva-clay/ Remember to be a kingmaker - don't look for your perfect king. You're going to make him your perfect king (and by making him the king, you become the queen). In the last two weeks Madelyn has been on her first break from Instagram since she joined the site. When Madelyn was dating in apps, her standards and expectations were in the wrong domains. If you base you relationships in openness, honesty, and momentous living, every relationship is a gift. You can still honor and respect the body's urgency while having an open permission people for people to exist as they are. COACHING: Receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month coaching containers available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join for here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society This episode on Maddy Moon's website: https://maddymoon.com/burn-the-dating-checklist/
Episode 324: In this episode Madelyn and sexologist Eva Clay discuss modern dating while eternally conscious of the pressures of the biological clock, connection, enchantresses, and keeping your embodiment practice in the fore while seeking a life mate. Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist and psychotherapist whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. She's helped thousands of people unlock their innate potential for pleasure, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. Her work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and has been a practitioner of sexual tantra for over a decade. She’s been featured as an expert in major media appearances, is a regular guest on Channel Q and has appeared as a keynote speaker at the Wanderlust yoga festivals. Show Notes: How to be present on dates when the biological clock is ticking? Women learning about their physiology is incredibly empowering and puts them in mastery. "Ditch the Frame" - Replace, "Could he be the one?" with sensual questions of, "What is the tenor or tone of our exchange? How much pleasure do I experience when sharing space with him?" The "frame" creates contraction and anxiety in the body and dims your radiant light. Men do not want to be interviewed as the "baby daddy." Think of a cervix as you embody your openness and desire in your dress, body language, and communication. When setting up dating profiles, rather than the hard edges of, "I don't want this," or, "I don't like this," instead effusively express that which you love, and he will be magnetized to you. Discernment is okay too - evaluate integrity, frequency and vibration, how you feel when you're around them. Study the great enchantresses like Cleopatra to better practice your energetic gifts in the domain of dating. Books: Keys to the Kingdom by Alison Armstrong - https://amzn.to/38NbIsI Connect with Eva: Website: EvaClay.com Instagram: instagram.com/evaclay Facebook: facebook.com/evaclay COACHING: Receive personalized, 1:1 coaching from Maddy Moon to create your own feminine and masculine embodiment. Heal your heart, build confidence, create an online business (if that’s a goal!) or simply feel happier. 6 month and 12 month coaching containers available. Apply here: http://maddymoon.com/coaching SISU SOCIETY: Madelyn's *New* Monthly Membership Program includes two live teachings per month, a private Facebook community, resources and access to lessons on Devotional Love, Feminine Embodiment, Polarity, Relationships, Harnessing Higher Truths, Pleasure and so much more. If you'd like to be a part of the Society, learn more and join for $44/month here: http://maddymoon.com/sisu-society
Love Doctor Adam Sheck, self proclaimed troublemaker Eva Clay and adult performer Casey Calvert stop by to give their professional tips on how to keep sex and intimacy alive during the pandemic! Facials, conjugal visits and sex toys? Tune in for the sexy, sensual, and smart advice that will light up your love life. See omnystudio.com/policies/listener for privacy information.
Today on 'The Success Diaries' podcast we welcome Eva Clay, Sexologist and Psychotherapist. Eva shares her definition of success comes through an alignment of soul and how she follows this path through great obedience and pleasure.
This is a juicy episode. This week, the Not So Perfect Couple sit down with Eva Clay and they were so impressed, that Sam actually ended up hiring her! Eva holds certificates and specializes in so many different things, including Couples Therapy Training (with Esther Perel), Embodied Relationship Sex Therapy, Sexual Tantra, Trauma treatment and more. You're going to love this deep dive on so many different topics. Sit down, relax, and learn!
Happy Birthday Bryde!! Homeward, the hosts connect through the distance to address a listeners question that hits close to home. What about mismatched libidos and stress? They talk about the different expressions of intimate love and the effect of stress-specific conjured by sexual matters. Jeremie and Bryde chat with sexologist Eva Clay about her work with couples and single person counselling on the subject of sex. Tantra is a life-changing practice, backed by brain science in its ability to calm the nervous system. Jeremie is overwhelmed by a memory of tantric practice, and Bryde digs deep to find out more about energy centres expanding and contracting. Also, do you know when someone is subtly trying to connect with you with their penis?
Joshua and I have an extremely juicy interview with sexologit Eva Clay on how to sexually fulfill a woman. This was such a fun dialog with so many great practical tips on how we can connect with our partners in a deeper, juicier manner. Eva really is a master s3xologist and has so much fun doing it. Go to www.EvaClay.com Learn more about Eva and ways to spice up your love life. ⬇Rather Watch Than Listen?⬇ https://youtu.be/_u18iPX2rLc
Women looking for dating tips, look no further! In this juicy episode of Sex, Love and SuperPowers, acclaimed sexologist Eva Clay joins host Tatiana Berindei to discuss the erotic midlife and how women over 40 can revolutionize their experience of dating in this day and age. A brilliant teacher and coach with a background [...]
An acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and academic, for over two decades Eva's been following her mission to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. Eva's courses are a robust marriage of the profound and the playful, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. She's trained extensively in […] The post EP47: Eva Clay on How to Increase Your Libido as a Woman appeared first on Sistership Circle.
I noticed several years ago that I had an aversion to pleasure. Like many women, I had put my sexuality and general ability to welcome things that truly felt good, over “there” in a little box, disconnected from the rest of my life. I knew pleasure was important, but I down played its existence. It was easier that way. It made it so I didn’t have to confront layers of discomfort and shame. Eventually that caught up to me. That little box over there wasn’t meant to be separate, it was an essential part of me being ALIVE as an embodied woman. I began opening the box and it changed my freaking life. And not just my sex life, every area of my life Eva Clay is a true embodiment of the power of pleasure, and I knew I had to have her on the podcast. The woman exudes the juiciness of being alive and including it all - and has the science and mastery to back it. She has the uncanny ability to make it all okay, while warmly inviting you into the realms of yum in your life. If you find yourself on the journey of opening your capacity for pleasure and discovering your innate erotic life, this episode is for you! In this episode we discussed: + Eva’s personal awakening that happened when she lost her own libido after being a clinical sex therapist for years. + Her wake up call that later lead her from a sexual revolution to a year of celibacy + The integration of scientific clinical sexuality and spiritual tantric sexuality + The limitations of the diagnostic problem model for sexuality + How your libido can get blocked and frozen + How the patriarchal culture affects how we relate to our own sexuality as women + What is Erotic Intelligence + The neuroscience of pleasure and arousal + How to connect to your erotic nature if it feels totally shut down + Sex Magic - how to use your erotic life to tap the unconscious for healing and manifestation + Working with shame “In your erotic life, in your sexual life - make nothing wrong and love all of it.” RESOURCES Website: www.evaclay.com Insta: @evaclay ABOUT EVA Eva Clay, MSW, LCSW is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and professional troublemaker whose mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. She's helped thousands of people unlock their innate potential for pleasure, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. Her work is an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and she offers sexual intelligence courses and coaching. When she’s not teaching, you’ll find her making mayhem on a dance floor. See www.EvaClay.com +++ SHARE THE MEDICINE WITH YOUR SISTERS +++ If you were served by this episode, please share with your tribe, subscribe, and leave a rating or review by clicking HERE Subscribe on Apple Podcasts +++ BECOME A PODCAST PATRON+++ You can now become a supporting member of the podcast! You can contribute to each episode as little as $1, and each tier of support include some pretty saaweeeet benefits. Learn more and become part of the embodied empowered engaged fam at www.patreon.com/embodiedempoweredengaged
I’ve been excited to share this interview with you since I first recorded it two months ago. This conversation with Eva Clay really helped to change the trajectory of my dating life. Her insights, advice and techniques changed my perspective immensely on what’s possible in dating and romantic connection with men, outside of monogamy. This interview isn’t necessarily about non-monogamy, but with everything Eva shares from ways to not get attached or obsessed too soon, how to stay in your own experience and your own body when you’re first connecting with someone new, the impact of social media on self-image and self-esteem and more, you may also be rethinking how you approach dating and relationships by the time it’s over. I appreciate Eva’s extensive training, deep experience and wise way of integrating science, embodiment and spirituality. Enjoy and share this one far and wide, y’all! About Eva Clay: An acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and academic, for over two decades Eva Clay’s been following her mission to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. Eva’s courses are a robust marriage of the profound and the playful, and as a former professor of neuroscience, she bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. She’s trained extensively in mind-body therapies such as Somatic Experiencing, Gestalt, Imago Couples Therapy, Hypnotherapy, Interpersonal Neurobiology, and Trauma-Informed Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. When she’s not teaching, you’ll find her making trouble on a dance floor.
What do you feel our current social and political climate around sexual assault is inviting you to do? What is it asking of you? Whether or not you’re acknowledging that or taking action on it yet, hear, feel, and know what’s percolating in your body and in your consciousness as Eva Clay and Tobin Zovin turn the concept of “polarity” on its head. You might be surprised, provoked, and even a little pissed off as we explore the oftentimes taboo, controversial, and all important art of dancing with inner masculine and feminine roles. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn
What do you feel our current social and political climate around sexual assault is inviting you to do? What is it asking of you? Whether or not you're acknowledging that or taking action on it yet, hear, feel, and know what's percolating in your body and in your consciousness as Eva Clay and Tobin Zovin […]
For millennia, women have been conditioned to suppress their anger, borne of well-founded consequences such as violence, exile, and even death. Most women carry not only a lifetime of our own rage, but the ancestral traumas of our foremothers. and yet, anger is a natural, healthy part of relating. When we suppress it, anger gets relegated to the “shadow” and wreaks havoc in our sexuality. Eva and Tobin share specific skills on how to bring it to the light for healing. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn
For millennia, women have been conditioned to suppress their anger, borne of well-founded consequences such as violence, exile, and even death. Most women carry not only a lifetime of our own rage, but the ancestral traumas of our foremothers. and yet, anger is a natural, healthy part of relating. When we suppress it, anger gets […]
We all have them—sexual taboos. And usually, they’re our biggest turn-ons. Why is “The Forbidden” so erotic? Taboo rules most religions; it’s launched wars, divorces, and probably some of the best sex you’ve ever had. Acclaimed sexologist, Eva Clay and, spiritual teacher and therapist, Tobin Zivon unravel the allure and share their perspectives on how to playfully (and skillfully) incorporate taboo into a relationship so you keep the turn-on, but skip the damage. Learn as we explore how to turn the parts of ourselves that we’re afraid of and nervous about into power. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn
We all have them—sexual taboos. And usually, they’re our biggest turn-ons. Why is “The Forbidden” so erotic? Taboo rules most religions; it’s launched wars, divorces, and probably some of the best sex you’ve ever had. Acclaimed sexologist, Eva Clay and, spiritual teacher and therapist, Tobin Zivon unravel the allure and share their perspectives on how […]
Sometimes a whole pattern or strategy in life can be set into motion in one moment. Growing up a raging introvert, acclaimed sexologist Eva Clay was always nervous during family gatherings and would sit during the whole gathering with this book open pretending to read it. It gave her incredible comfort and set into motion […]
Sometimes a whole pattern or strategy in life can be set into motion in one moment. Growing up a raging introvert, acclaimed sexologist Eva Clay was always nervous during family gatherings and would sit during the whole gathering with this book open pretending to read it. It gave her incredible comfort and set into motion a way that she hid which is behind intellect. Eva reveals that when she gets anxious or feels unsure or disconnected in any way, she often reverts to knowledge and what she knows. For spiritual teacher, therapist and tantra master Tobin Zivon, it’s this up and out thing where he blows up and out and he’s in a realm of either excitement or expounding articulation amazement. Tobin says where you’re usually good at something is where you hide. Your superpower is your shield. Learn how you can truly connect with yourself and being truly in your body to show up in life and run it optimally as Eva and Tobin take a closer look at how we hide from the world and the reasons behind it. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn
Eva Clay, an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist and professional troublemaker, joins Tatiana Berindei to explore how embodied ecstasy can change your life. For the past 20 years, Eva made it her personal mission to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex and science. She's helped thousands of people unlock their innate potential for pleasure and, as [...]
Communicating about sex is one of the topics most difficult for couples to have! And yet it is the key for unlocking greater pleasure and the creation of the sex life of our dreams! Enter Eva Clay, here, to give you the 4-1-1 on using the power of your vocal cords to not only speak up about what it is you want, but how it’s vibration can heighten your orgasmic experience! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/eatplaysex/message
You know how I feel about porn. I can create fantasies in my mind that are lightyears ahead of anything else. Because sex, intimacy and desire is all about mindset. You can brain hack your way to hot, delicious sex. And that's exactly what my guest, Eva Clay, is going to tell you about today. She's a sex educator and therapist who's going to blow your mind and change your whole reality when it comes down to sex... ...so join our special reality check today. Download and rate it, subscribe, and share this with everyone you know, because so many people need to hear it! And if you want to learn more about Eva, go to http://evaclay.com/.
Holy Goddess Gracious… This episode is going to BLOW YOUR MIND! I know it did mine. I feel like I received the missing link that I’ve been searching for for more than half of my life through this amazing conversation. Psychotherapist and sexuality expert Eva Clay helps us decode what is actually happening in our physical, mental and emotional bodies when we have attraction and sexual encounters with others. She goes through the science of it all (from the female and male perspectives) and how to prepare, navigate and detox from that oh so uncomfortable energy that can come from casual sexual encounters that result in radio silence in the days to follow. THIS IS IT!! You definitely want in on this conversation!! About Eva: An acclaimed psychotherapist, educator, and sexuality expert, for 20 years Eva’s mission has been to illuminate the ménage-a-trois soul, sex and science. Eva believes that self-love is the foundation for healthy relationships, and has helped thousands of people to attract hot and holy love. She’s trained extensively in mind-body philosophies and as a teacher of neuropsychology, and bodaciously reminds us that smart is sexy. Eva’s been privileged to study with some of the great teachers of our time including David Deida, Esther Perel, and Harville Hendrix. Her courses are an elegant marriage of science and soul, poetry and pragmatism, the profound and the playful. Connect with Eva Clay at EvaClay.com For Eva Clay’s Free Gift ‘Self Love and Pleasure Hypnosis’ click here: http://evaclay.com/gift/ Instagram @evaclay Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/evaclay Resources: Brene Brown - Empathy
This week's podcast interview has been, hands-down, my favorite! My guest Eva Clay, an acclaimed psychotherapist and sex and love expert, shared wisdom that was beyond profound! Are you single and question whether or not casual sex is something you want to engage in? Or do you play small in the dating world so as to not come off as too powerful? In this episode we chat about these topics and more. We've got you covered! We jammed on: Can a woman be in power in casual sex? Can sex be considered casual? Are you part of the growing trend of “cougars”? Learn if you are playing small in the dating world What men need Navigating winning phrases while on a date Show notes: http://www.margaretromero.com/episode36
Clinical Psychotherapist Eva Clay discusses what in our neurology causes us to seek and enjoy intimacy, and how technology interfaces with the brain in the context of intimacy. She brings up Facebook, Tinder, smartphones, and porn sites, illustrating how they can create a barrier to authentic connection. She and Destin discuss the relationship between attention and love, offering potential solutions and ways to deal with the encroachment of technology into the bedroom. An acclaimed psychotherapist, teacher, and sexuality expert, for 20 years Eva's mission has been to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science. Eva believes that self-love is the foundation for healthy relationships, and has helped thousands of people to attract hot and holy love. Eva has trained extensively in mind-body philosophies and as a teacher of neuropsychology, she bodaciously reminds us that the biggest sex organ is the brain. Eva's been privileged to study with some of the great teachers of our time, including David Deida, Esther Perel, and Harville Hendrix. Her courses are an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and when she's not traveling the world teaching, you'll find her making mayhem on a dance floor. Eva offers elite coaching for men, women and couples on on self-love, pleasure, and erotic intelligence. See www.evaclay.com
Radical Remembrance: Conversations on Being Human (formerly Ladies Who Lead)
We have a juicy guest, Eva Clay (www.evaclay.com), sharing how to love ourselves, and connect with our sense of power and pleasure. Eva is a sex and relationship coach with an abundant history as a psychotherapist, healer, teacher and scholar. In this episode she shares her vulnerable story and takes us all on a ride of self-love, finding the love we seek withing and how to attract that perfect partner. To subscribe to future podcasts or learn more about how we can support you on your leadership journey, head over to www.ladieswholeadpodcast.com
Welcome to Tuff Love, a weekly podcast hosted by Robert Kandell. We get together every Thursday at 10am PST to discuss the issues that are impacting our society today in relationship, communication, self-esteem and love. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love […]
Welcome to Tuff Love, a weekly podcast hosted by Robert Kandell. We get together every Thursday at 10am PST to discuss the issues that are impacting our society today in relationship, communication, self-esteem and love. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Tuff Love Community today: robertkandell.com Tuff Love Facebook Tuff Love Instagram Tuff Love YouTube Tuff Love LinkedIn
[Listen on iTunes] EVA CLAY, LCSW is a true wild woman. An acclaimed psychotherapist, tantrika, sex geek, and muse, her mission is to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of body, mind, and spirit in all our relating. She has helped thousands of people to achieve hot, healthy, holistic love. As a professor of neuroscience, Eva bodaciously reminds us that the brain is our biggest sex organ, and with great elegance she marries the profound with the playful. Always called to uplift sexual wellness, she's worked for 20-years a sex educator and healer. She offers self-love and erotic intelligence programs for both women and men. On her off time you might find her crashing open mic events in Venice Beach. In this episode we talk about: How to know if you’re in your body (or if you’re not!). How our breath is the GPS of our life, and why it’s so important to be in touch with it. How to get more embodied using breath, and why it’s essential to creating intimacy in relationships. Quotes from this episode: "Love Warriors. The masculine is one who protects, one who provides and does so out of love. Does so out of devotion. Devotion to his tribe, to his woman, to his family." "I don’t think it’s requisite to hate men if you’ve been violated by one.” "Emotional awareness is an absolute necessity to enter a state of empathy. If you’re not emotionally aware then it’s going to be hard for you to develop a deep intimacy with another human being." Resources from this episode: evaclay.com
Episode 1 - Zach and Elijah talk with two of the great western spiritual masters of our time, Ram Dass and Jack Kornfield on the topic of trust. The episode also includes an incredible contribution from our friend Eva Clay, a Los Angeles based womens empowerment leader.
Dr. Adam Sheck, the Passion Doctor, interviews psychotherapist, life coach and sexuality expert Eva Clay about the "5 Biggest Mistakes Single Women Make In Looking For Love" on this episode of the Passion & Purpose Podcast. Learn more about Eva at www.evaclay.com.