Podcasts about conquering shame

Moody Presents is the weekly, half-hour Bible teaching program from the Moody Bible Institute. Our teacher is the president of MBI, Dr. Mark Jobe. On today's program, we'll conquer the emotion of shame. You see, at one time or another we have all struggled with fitting in, feeling that we are not doing enough, or carrying around some pretty heavy baggage from the past. Today, Pastor Mark will take us to the life of King David so that we can learn from his life in an effort to turn our shame to God's glory and usefulness. All on today's Moody Presents!Become part of our Advance Team: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/moodypresents/partnersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Kristen is joined by Darlene Lancer, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, author, and expert on relationships, to explore the connection between shame and codependency, and how these emotional patterns can influence behavior and contribute to trauma. whatiscodependency.com darlenelancer.com   You can buy Darlene's books through the Amazon affiliate links below. Shopping through these links helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you! Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You:  https://amzn.to/48MyzBZ Codependency For Dummies: https://amzn.to/3CmR03P Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships: https://amzn.to/4fyE89c   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

It's that nagging feeling you can't shake…the inner voice that reminds you of failures past and all the reasons you're not acceptable, qualified, or you don't fit in. For many it's an intensely painful feeling that causes a sense of rejection to grow, making them believe they will never become more than they are or achieve anything better than they have right now. This week Terry wants to talk to you about the reality of shame, which is something everyone faces to some degree. He reveals the symptoms it causes, the dangers of giving in to it, and the keys to breaking free of it once and for all. The truth is you don't have to live with it or let it defeat you. Like everyone else, you've made mistakes but you are not a mistake. You have experienced failures but that doesn't make you a failure. Don't settle for the lies shame brings, when you can have much more in this life! Visit www.manupadventure.com for more resources that will help you be the best man you can be. You can also register for Man Up Adventure Camp 2025 and sign up to receive the Morning Man-Up Survival Tips Email List. You'll receive a daily email filled with tips, motivation, Scripture, and more to kickstart your workday!

Today I want to chat with you about shame that holds us back from what God has for us. I want to help break shame in your life so you can move forward into what God has for you - because He has so much for you.  LINKS: Podcast Giveaway: Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts and before you hit submit, screenshot your review and send it to me via email at megan@shelivespurposefully.com or via DM on Instagram at @shelivespurposefully Listen Ad-Free, Get Year-Round Reading Plans and more : ⁠https://shelivespurposefully.supercast.com/⁠ Christian Music Playlist: ⁠⁠https://mailchi.mp/c31ab7a095ae/slp-christian-music-and-worship-playlist⁠⁠  REFERENCES: 1 John 2:1 and Romans 7:15-20

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In this episode, Bree Mills is joined by Kimmy Kim! A Korean-American dynamo, Kimmy takes us through a variety of personal and societal topics related to adulthood and sexuality. Listen as they discuss eye-opening experiences like trying new foods as an adult, being raised Korean, discovering sexuality during a period of newfound freedom, and the challenges of overcoming shame.From selling used panties to professional porn, follow along as Kimmy Kimm explores the power of saying no, the stigma of sex work, the invisible etiquette of social media, AND SO MUCH MORE! Join the duo as they unravel the layers of Kimmy's experiences and perspectives, offering listeners a captivating and enlightening conversation on the multifaceted aspects of life and sexuality.Kimmy Kimm's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/onlykimmykimm/Bree Mills Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebreemills/Podcast Links: https://linktr.ee/getupclose

Dr. C welcomes author and therapist, Darlene Lancer, whose expertise is the exploration of narcissists, codependents, and the problem of shame. She explains how necessary it is to be aware of a narcissist's dominance, especially if you are inclined to lay aside your true self in deference to the controller. Darlene Lancer is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert author on relationships, narcissism, and codependency. She's counseled individuals and couples for over 30 years and coaches internationally. Her 10 books include Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist, Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You, Codependency for Dummies and seven ebooks, including 10 Steps to Self-Esteem, How To Speak Your Mind - Become Assertive and Set Limits, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People, "I'm Not Perfect - I'm Only Human" - How to Beat Perfectionism, and Freedom from Guilt and Blame - Finding Self-Forgiveness. They're available on Amazon, other online booksellers. and her website, www.whatiscodependency.com, where you can get a free copy of “14 Tips for Letting Go.” She's a sought-after speaker in media and at professional conferences. Find her on Soundcloud, Clyp, LinkedIn, Youtube, Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook. Thank you to Aura for sponsoring this episode. Secure your online presence and get 40% off of all plans using my link: https://aura.com/DrCarter  Sign up for Dr. Carter's NEW course: Ready, Set, Connect https://courses.survivingnarcissism.tv/courses/ready-set-connect Get 30% off when you use the coupon code: SNCommunity30 Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who has semi-retired to Waco, TX. In the past 40+ years he has conducted more than 65,000 counseling sessions and many workshops and seminars.  He specializes in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder. Join the Team Healthy community HERE: https://survivingnarcissism.tv/subscribe/  Check out videos, articles, quizzes, and more at our website:  https://survivingnarcissism.tv You can follow Surviving Narcissism on: Twitter:  @SNarcissism101 Instagram:  @survivingnarcissism101 Facebook: @survivingnarcissism101 Dr. Carter has two other courses that you may find to be useful: Free to Be: Reclaim & rediscover your uniqueness https://survivingnarcissism.tv/free-to-be-course/ This Is Me: Setting boundaries with the controllers in your life   https://survivingnarcissism.tv/this-is-me  Dr. Carter's personal website: http://drlescarter.com/ Dr. Carter's other YouTube channel:  https://www.youtube.com/c/drlescarterBookstore: https://survivingnarcissism.tv/books-on-narcissism-surviving-narcissism/ If you are interested in online therapy, Dr. Carter has a sponsor who can assist.  As the need is there, please seek the help you deserve: https://betterhelp.com/survivingnarcissismpodcast We receive commissions on referrals to BetterHelp. We only recommend services that we trust.

In this episode we talk about the transformative power of self-love and compassion in overcoming feelings of shame and self-rejection. We all have a common struggle with self-love, and at the root of that is a fear of becoming the person we tend to reject. We open up on some of our own personal triggers and the practical steps we use to work through a trigger.    Get a free bag of our favorite coffee beans here: http://s.trdcfe.me/33L8Sb Find our Come Alive program and our Coach Launch program here: https://aliveandfreeconsulting.com/our-courses (00:11 - 00:45) The Life-Changing Breville Espresso Machine (35 Seconds) (03:58 - 04:56) Struggling With Healing and Internal Voice (58 Seconds) (10:01 - 11:15) Brain Development and Self-Soothing in Babies (74 Seconds) (13:20 - 14:43) Overcoming Fear of Self-Acceptance (82 Seconds) (23:13 - 24:29) Dealing With Rejection Triggers and Pain (76 Seconds) (26:15 - 27:51) Recognizing and Addressing Emotional Triggers (96 Seconds) (33:54 - 34:53) Taking Ownership and Personal Power (59 Seconds) (43:09 - 43:50) Focusing on Praiseworthy Thoughts (41 Seconds) (51:33 - 53:27) Come Alive Program (114 Seconds)

Today Mariel & Melissa welcome Licensed Family Therapist Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT - Author of "Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist," "Codependency for Dummies," and "Conquering Shame and Codependency." Follow Darlene on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram at www.whatiscodependency.com Hosts - Mariel Hemingway & Melissa Yamaguchi
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Mariel and Melissa welcome licensed marriage and family therapist Darlene Lancer to the show. Darlene has been helping men and women recover from codependency trauma for over 30 years. She has written several books, including “Codependency for Dummies” and  Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You. Her latest book “Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships” will help you take back your power and independence, reclaim yourself and improve your relationship. You can purchase Darlene's new book on her website whatiscodependency.com or on amazon and Barnes & Nobel. Hosts - Mariel Hemingway & Melissa Yamaguchi Producer and Sound Engineer - Slater Smith ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click to Donate to the Mariel Hemingway Foundation⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Mariel Hemingway Foundation Youtube channel here⁠⁠

Moody Presents is the weekly, half-hour Bible teaching program from the Moody Bible Institute. Our teacher is the president of MBI, Dr. Mark Jobe. Today's program, we'll conquer the emotion of shame. We originally aired this program a long while ago but we heard so many positive comments of God working in lives that we had to bring it to you again. You see, at one time or another we have all struggled with fitting in, feeling that we are not doing enough, or carrying around some pretty heavy baggage from the past. Today, Pastor Mark will take us to the life of King David so that we can learn from his life in an effort to turn our shame to God's glory and usefulness. All on today's Moody Presents!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Darlene Lancer is a therapist and author of 10 books, including "Codependency For Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency". In today's episode, we discuss her personal journey of recovery, codependency and her latest book - Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships.Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist, specializing in relationships, narcissism, and codependency. In her private clinical practice, she has treated individuals and couples for over 30 years and coaches internationally. She's a sought-after speaker at national conferences, in media, and to professional groups and institutions. Before becoming a psychotherapist, Ms. Lancer was a successful entertainment lawyer.Darlene's Blog - What is CodependencyDarlene's BooksSupport the Podcast -https://www.patreon.com/adultchildwww.buymeacoffee.com/adultchildFollow Andrea on social -www.instagram.com/adultchildpodwww.tiktok.com/@adultchildpodMid-roll music source https://soundcloud.com/dave_wave/a-friend-like-me-electro-swing-remix (I do not own the rights of song - for entertainment purposes only)--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------EPISODE SPONSORIntegrative Life Center is designed to help heal individuals struggling with mental health, addiction, eating disorders, trauma, sex, love and intimacy disorders, and and other life situations that have gotten in the way of living a satisfying and meaningful life. Their specialized programs aim not just to treat the problematic behaviors you can see, but the underlying trauma that's driving that behavior.With locations in Nashville, Tennessee, Chattanooga, Tennessee, Oxford, Mississippi, and Berthoud, Colorado and work with most major insurances on an out-of-network basis, and have a full continuum of in-patient programs – from two-week intensives; 30-day residential options; to extended care programming. Call the experts at Integrative Life Network today for a free phone consultation to see if they have a program that may be right for you.Talk to an admissions specialist today for a free phone consultation at 615-610-5399 or email them directly and info@integrativelifenetwork.com.Support the show

Darlene Lancer stops by to chat about what to do if you are in a relationship with a narcissist.  Darlene is an internationally sought after relationship expert and media spokesperson on narcissism and codependency, a psychotherapist and author of 9 books, including Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist, Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You and Codependency for Dummies.  She's counseled individuals and couples for 30 years and coaches internationally. Her ebooks include: 10 Steps to Self-Esteem, How To Speak Your Mind - Become Assertive and Set Limits, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People, "I'm Not Perfect - I'm Only Human" - How to Beat Perfectionism, and Freedom from Guilt and Blame - Finding Self-Forgiveness. They're available on Amazon, other online booksellers and her website, www.whatiscodependency.com, where visitors can get a free copy of “14 Tips for Letting Go". To find Darlene's fantastic resources please visit: LinkedIn Youtube Twitter Instagram Facebook Codependency Page Facebook Profile Facebook Professional Page Pinterest

Darlene Lancer JD LMFT I bring a wide range of professional and life experience to my practice as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and relationship and codependency expert. I wrote Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You. Over the course of 30 years, I've been providing self-esteem and codependency counseling and helped countless men and women recover from codependency and trauma.

Author licensed marriage/family therapist Darlene Lancer talks about her latest book “Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist” as a transformable and relatable guide that'll help you understand and improve your relationship with a step-by-step guide to discover signs of a narcissist, confront abuse, identify, understand and regain control! Darlene has coached and counseled individuals and couples for over 30 years and also written “Conquering Shame and Co-Dependency: 8 Steps to Freeing The True You” and “Co-Dependency For Dummies” and more! Check out her latest book on Amazon and www.whatiscodependency.comtoday! #darlenelancer #marriagecounselor #familytherapist #narcissist #narcissism #dating #loving #stepbystepguide #codependency #datinglovingandleavinganarcissist #amazon #audible #iheartradio #spreaker #spotify #itunes #googleplay #applemusic #youtube #podbean #anchorfm #mikewagner #themikewagnershow #mikewagnerdarlenelancer #themikewagnershowdarlenelancer --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/themikewagnershow/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/themikewagnershow/support

Author licensed marriage/family therapist Darlene Lancer talks about her latest book “Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist” as a transformable and relatable guide that'll help you understand and improve your relationship with a step-by-step guide to discover signs of a narcissist, confront abuse, identify, understand and regain control! Darlene has coached and counseled individuals and couples for over 30 years and also written “Conquering Shame and Co-Dependency: 8 Steps to Freeing The True You” and “Co-Dependency For Dummies” and more! Check out her latest book on Amazon and www.whatiscodependency.comtoday! #darlenelancer #marriagecounselor #familytherapist #narcissist #narcissism #dating #loving #stepbystepguide #codependency #datinglovingandleavinganarcissist #amazon #audible #iheartradio #spreaker #spotify #itunes #googleplay #applemusic #youtube #podbean #anchorfm #mikewagner #themikewagnershow #mikewagnerdarlenelancer #themikewagnershowdarlenelancer --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/themikewagnershow/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/themikewagnershow/support

Author licensed marriage/family therapist Darlene Lancer talks about her latest book “Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist” as a transformable and relatable guide that'll help you understand and improve your relationship with a step-by-step guide to discover signs of a narcissist, confront abuse, identify, understand and regain control! Darlene has coached and counseled individuals and couples for over 30 years and also written “Conquering Shame and Co-Dependency: 8 Steps to Freeing The True You” and “Co-Dependency For Dummies” and more! Check out her latest book on Amazon and www.whatiscodependency.com today! #darlenelancer #marriagecounselor #familytherapist #narcissist #narcissism #dating #loving #stepbystepguide #codependency #datinglovingandleavinganarcissist #amazon #audible #iheartradio #spreaker #spotify #itunes #googleplay #applemusic #youtube #podbean #anchorfm #mikewagner #themikewagnershow #mikewagnerdarlenelancer #themikewagnershowdarlenelancer

GUEST OVERVIEW: Darlene Lancer has helped hundreds of patients having hardships in all types of relationships. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and international relationship expert and media spokesperson on narcissism and co-dependency. She's counselled individuals and couples for over 30 years and coaches internationally. Her books include Conquering Shame and Co-dependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You and Co-dependency for Dummies and seven ebooks. Her new book, Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships, will be released soon.

Have you ever decided that you are a bad person because you did something wrong? Have you ever decided that no one could like you because you are so terrible? That is called shame, and shame is something Satan wants us to feel. There is a way to conquer shame, come and join me as I work through the process.

Brandon talks with Darlene Lancer (LMFT) about codependency vs. narcissism, shame vs. guilt, self acceptance, & intimacy. Plus they discuss, perfectionism, compulsion, core feelings, abandonment, emotional availability, imposter syndrome, and much more. They even have a giggle when Brandon realizes he has more issues than he thought. ***There are a few different types of sounds due to audio changes and a very brief plane noise in the background that we didn't hear while recording. Our apologies.*** You can find Darlene Lancer at her website https://whatiscodependency.com/ or at https://darlenelancer.com/ Here is a link to all the blogs mentioned on the show https://whatiscodependency.com/blog/ Links to Darlene's very well reviewed books Codependency For Dummies and Conquering Shame & Codependency A big thank you to Apple Podcasts. Subscribe to our show on Apple by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. *** If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.  To listen to the Toxic Workplace Podcast, click here.  Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Join our Tiktok at https://www.tiktok.com/@narcissistapocalypse If you want to be a guest on our show, go to https://narcissistapocalypse.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT returns to discuss codependency. (VIDEO - 19 mins) Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert on relationships and codependency. She's the author Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You and Codependency for Dummies and six ebooks, including: 10 Steps to Self-Esteem, How To Speak Your Mind – Become Assertive and Set Limits, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People and Freedom from Guilt and Blame – Finding Self-Forgiveness, also available on Amazon. Ms. Lancer has counseled individuals and couples for 30 years and coaches internationally. She's a sought after speaker in media and at professional conferences. For more about Darlene's work: http://www.whatiscodependency.com/ https://darlenelancer.com/ Follow Different Brains on social media: https://twitter.com/diffbrains https://www.facebook.com/different.brains/ https://www.instagram.com/diffbrains/ Check out more episodes of Exploring Different Brains! http://differentbrains.org/category/edb/

Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT explains what Narcissistic Personality Disorder really is. (VIDEO - 21 mins) Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert on relationships and codependency. She's the author Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You and Codependency for Dummies and six ebooks, including: 10 Steps to Self-Esteem, How To Speak Your Mind – Become Assertive and Set Limits, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People and Freedom from Guilt and Blame – Finding Self-Forgiveness, also available on Amazon. Ms. Lancer has counseled individuals and couples for 30 years and coaches internationally. She's a sought after speaker in media and at professional conferences. For more about Darlene's work: http://www.whatiscodependency.com/ https://darlenelancer.com/ Follow Different Brains on social media: https://twitter.com/diffbrains https://www.facebook.com/different.brains/ https://www.instagram.com/diffbrains/ Check out more episodes of Exploring Different Brains! http://differentbrains.org/category/edb/

We are so excited to announce our new podcast episode, "Conquering Shame, Choosing Hope", with Toni Collier. Toni Collier is the Co-Lead Pastor of Hillsong Atlanta and founder of an international women's ministry called Broken Crayons Still Color that helps women process through brokenness and get to hope. She is a speaker, host, and consultant that has helped organizations with creative marketing, leadership, student ministry, and strategic planning.In this episode, we discuss:The co-existence of hope and joyRedemption from shameBuilding grit to endure life's valleysToni Collier's ministry, Broken CrayonsAnd more!!This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovementWhere to find Toni: Toni's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonijcollier/Toni's website: https://tonijcollier.com/Toni's ministry, Broken Crayons Still Color: https://www.instagram.com/brkncrayons/

Host Gail Ferguson Jones talks with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Darlene Lancer, author of  "Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You." Lancer is author of seven books on the subject, including "Codependency for Dummies." In this episode, she explains how most people grapple with feelings of shame because of various life experiences, and the importance of admitting shame in order to overcome it. You can learn more about Lancer and her work at her website: https://darlenelancer.com/. And you can find her book at: https://www.amazon.com/Conquering-Shame-Codependency-Steps-Freeing-ebook/dp/B00K4JVSRQ/ref=sr_1_3?crid=3N8EORB4RAFRE&dchild=1&keywords=darlene+lancer&qid=1626922429&s=books&sprefix=Darlene+lancer%2Caps%2C194&sr=1-3 Gail Ferguson Jones is a best-selling author, award-winning journalist and certified peer recovery coach. Her book, "Butterfly Rising. A Journey to Love, Healing and Freedom," is available at Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Butterfly-Rising-Journey-Healing-Codependency-ebook/dp/B099P81KXG/ref=sr_1_1?crid=12JMIT0J3KWKI&dchild=1&keywords=butterfly+rising+gail+jones&qid=1626923834&sprefix=Butterfly+rising+g%2Cstripbooks%2C188&sr=8-1#detailBullets_feature_div Her Buttrfly Effect program offers peer-to-peer coaching for the loved ones of those struggling with addiction. Learn more at her website; http://www.buttrflyeffect.com/, where you can also subscribe to her newletter.  Music for The Buttrfly Effect Podcast, "Inspire Me," is by Mixaund at https://mixaundbandcamp.com.  

In her book Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You, therapist and author Darlene Lancer offers an in-depth look at shame as a primary cause of codependency and addiction. This excerpt challenges us to examine our childhood - connecting the dots on how lingering past traumas can impact our adult lives. We learn about our inner critic and how we can develop empathy for the child we once were.

Shea Watson is the cohosts The Pantry Podcast with his wife Michelle. Today, Shea shares his journey of sexual abuse at 8 years old, joining the army to avoid jail for drug dealing, and realizing he was losing it in the special forces. He constantly strived to keep up appearances by succeeding in high school sports and excelling in the army but it wasn't enough to base his identity. Finally, after the failure of his second marriage, he turned to the Lord. Shea's story reminds us that God's love overcomes shame. Listen to Shea's story now! Stories Shea shared: The Pantry Podcast with his wife Being abused as an 8 year old Going to live with his dad and the requirements to go to church Trying to prove himself Getting into drug dealing to make some money Joining the military to escape Wanting to achieve in the Army Having PTSD while he was still in the Army Telling his superiors that he needed help Feeling like he was running from God Staying at Walter Reed in a psychiatric unit for two years Struggling with drug addiction When his sister took him in and loved him Getting married to a woman who became his fix Having 8 miscarriages and the sorrow that comes from that experience His dream about Jesus being crucified Starting The Pantry Podcast with his wife Michelle Great quotes from Shea: I needed someone to tell me I was good because I didn't feel good inside. My life in the Army started through reckless decisions. I was tired of turning to things to cover the pain. I didn't want to put a band-aid on it anymore. Resources we mentioned: Shea's website Related episodes: John Swanger Shares Light in Dark Places Cherrilyn Bisbano and the Struggle for Identity in Christ Blake Brewer and A Father's Legacy The post Shea Watson and Conquering Shame appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Shea Watson is the cohosts The Pantry Podcast with his wife Michelle. Today, Shea shares his journey of sexual abuse at 8 years old, joining the army to avoid jail for drug dealing, and realizing he was losing it in the special forces. He constantly strived to keep up appearances by succeeding in high school […] The post Shea Watson and Conquering Shame appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Today, on this episode, I am so so so so massively excited to welcome Darlene Lancer to the podcast. Darlene was such a huge part of the beginning of my healing journey and having to spend time with her in this beautiful, healing container is a major major thing for me. Darlene brings a wide range of professional and life experience to her practice as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and relationship and codependency expert. She wrote Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You. Over the course of 30 years, she has helped men and women recover from codependency and trauma. Here are the resources she mentions: Book, Codependency for Dummies - https://www.amazon.com/Codependency-Dummies-Darlene-Lancer/dp/1118982088/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1617392819&sr=8-1 Book, Conquering Shame and Codependency - https://www.amazon.com/Conquering-Shame-Codependency-Steps-Freeing/dp/1616495332/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1617392860&sr=8-1 Article, Narcissists are Codependent, too - https://darlenelancer.com/narcissists-are-codependent-too/ Article, How to Change Your Attachment Style - https://darlenelancer.com/change-your-attachment-style/ Article, Why It’s Hard to Receive - https://www.whatiscodependency.com/receiving/ Article, Discover 10 Ways Not to Be a Victim and to Become Empowered - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/toxic-relationships/201908/discover-10-ways-not-be-victim-and-become-empowered Article, Deprogramming Codependent Brainwashing - https://psychcentral.com/lib/deprogramming-codependent-brainwashing#1 Darlene’s Website - http://www.whatiscodependency.com/ Darlene’s Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/codependencyrecovery Darlene’s Twitter - https://twitter.com/DarleneLancer Darlene’s Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt0aeT_Dd-Ou4HsBSlbbxTw

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and expert author on relationships and codependency, Darlene Lancer discusses concepts from her book "Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You." She shares what codependency is, what shame is, the difference between guilt and shame, how shame develops, childhood experiences that could lend itself to shame, how shame is internalized and can become toxic, what a shame spiral is and how it can happen, what codependents do and have difficulty doing, how they may avoid attachment, how they might also continually seek out relationships that do not work or unavailable people, and how to begin recovering either by themselves or through Al-Anon or Codependents Anonymous.

In this episode the boys learn about David's response to the consequence of losing his son. We find encouragement in David's acceptance of the consequence, his apparent forgiveness of self, and his move forward into embracing the Lords love over his own potential shame.

Shame. We all deal with it. What is it exactly? How do we conquer? Join host Kurt Pflegl and guest David Kelley as they discuss these things and more on Life Hurts God Heals - 5:00 pm - Friday, 8.21.20

Shame. We all deal with it. What is it exactly? How do we conquer? Join host Kurt Pflegl and guest David Kelley as they discuss these things and more on Life Hurts God Heals – 5:00 pm – Friday, 8.21.20 The post Conquering Shame appeared first on Pillars of Franchising.

What you reveal, you heal. And part of the revealing in our lives may include acknowledging those parts that bring about feelings of shame - the darkest corners that weigh us down. Identifying where shame exists and the impact it has within our lives is an opportunity for us to shine a light on the darkness and release the heaviness - encouraging growth, connection and authentic living.

Welcome to More Than Conquerors! On this episode your host, Ashley Mattingly, shares her heart to why she started this podcast in the first place. Ashely shares her desire for you to put a voice to your story and share it with a purpose to help others. May you be encouraged and freed from the shame of your past. Thank you for listening! Be sure to rate, subscribe, and share! For more information follow us on Instagram @morethanconquerorspodcast or Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/MTCpodcast.

Today Ameé speaks with Darlene Lancer. Darlene is is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and relationship and codependency expert. She wrote Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You. Over the course of 30 years, has helped men and women recover from codependency and trauma.And just in time for Valentines Day, Ameé and Darlene talk about how some of us our prone to sabotage love and relationships and why we do it. In this episode, you will hear:How do we know if we truly have low self-esteem?The difference between overall low self-esteem and inauthenticityHow distrust and rushing are both ways we sabotageDo we have to sacrifice our true selves in order to have a happy relationship Resources:Blog Articles from Darlene’s Website:https://www.whatiscodependency.com/sabotage-love-shame-fear-abandonment/https://www.whatiscodependency.com/self-esteem-self-acceptance-raise-self-esteem/https://www.whatiscodependency.com/lost-self-codependent-relationships/https://www.whatiscodependency.com/10-tips-to-spot-emotionally-unavailable-emotional-unavailability/

Tracy Imm has been doing the corporate dance for decades and has more degrees and certificates than you’ll ever need from top rated schools and professional associations. She won’t bore you with all of it but if you want to know more about those details, visit her LinkedIn profile. Tracy is here to train women to be better leaders. She has been leading people since she was the President of her Girl Scout Troop at age 11. She knows what it takes to motivate and inspire people to show up and do their best work. Obsessed with learning as much as she can about the topics of leadership and influence, she is humbled and grateful to have been named one of Maryland’s Top 100 Women in 2017 and again in 2019 by The Daily Record for her body of work in the world. Tracy is also a writer with two self-published books available on Amazon. Her podcast, Brave Girls with Tracy Imm, launched in 2018 after 2 full years of planning. She wanted to bring more positivity into the world and create a platform to showcase female leaders. She interviews the world’s most successful female leaders about their stories and what it means to be “brave.” You can access the show from iTunes, Google Play, iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Stitcher as well as directly from her website and social media accounts. Tracy attributes her success to INVESTING IN HERSELF AND DOING THE WORK and fundamentally believes that until you are ready to say YES to yourself, nothing will change. She lives outside of Baltimore, MD with her husband Don.   Tracy Imm’s MVP player Stats:   Tracy is a returning guest on the show from 2014. We hear what Tracy has been up to during our last conversation and we get to see where she is now on her playing field as a leadership coach, hosting retreats, podcasting, and more! The last five years have brought many changes to Tracy's life such as teaching at a college she was working for and working for a big government agency, as well as launching her podcast, "Brave Girls with Tracy Imm."   In this episode, we talk about Tracy’s personal transformation that led her to teach students how to prepare for their careers after college and give them valuable career advice. After speaking with numerous students and creating a consistent guide for students to succeed in their careers, Tracy decided to put all this content and strategy into her book, Conquer Shame and Claim Success.   Tracy shares with us how the idea of her book came into her universe and what process she used to make that journey happen. She talks about some of the changes she made to her attitude and mindset, along with her belief in and understanding of the Universal Law of Cause and Effect. Tracy talks about the power she has gained from taking the leap and investing in herself.   Want to get more out of Tracy and hear some great inspirational stories? Make sure to check out her podcast, Brave Girls with Tracy Imm!   Keep the conversation going by sharing this episode with your friends, colleagues, and social media!   Thanks so much for listening.    Quotes   “I gave a lot of thought to the next thing I wanted the world to know.”   “We have different points in our life where we have what I call significant emotional events that shape us.”   “It was the universe and it said you're going to write a self-help book…it was so crystal clear, I couldn’t even explain it.”   “You've got to grab people and really let them know what you're feeling.”   “All of us on this journey have things happen that we did not directly cause, but we happened to be there.”   “I want people to know that it's okay to be who you are and that you really need to do that self-development work…otherwise, you'll find yourself in the same situations over and over again.”   “My most transformational days have come when I've been the most vulnerable.”   “When you know what's important to you, life gets simpler.”   “Once you have decided to embark on the inward journey, then your life can be rapidly transformed.”   “I knew that in order for it to be a great book that was really going to bring the reader in, I needed to go deep. I needed people to see and feel the pain.”     LINKS   tracyimm.com Brave Girls Podcast Tracy Imm Instagram http://playyourpositionpodcast.com/tracyimm/ The War of Art by Steven Pressfield The Foolscap by Steven Pressfield The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert https://amzn.to/2J1SZwK : Tracy’s book on Amazon   Get more out of PYP with these links: Show notes Halftime Newsletter Nominate a Guest for the Show We always appreciate your rating and review on iTunes!

            Today episode my conversation with Darlene lance license marriage and family counselor.  Darlene is also the author of the Codependency for dummies.  We talk about different was that Codependency can affect your personal relationships.  we explore what are the signs of Codependency relationship.  Links: darlenelancer.com Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You whatiscodependency.com Ways to subscribe to the podcast! Click here to subscribe via Apple Podcast Click here to subscribe Google Podcast Subscribe to the email newsletter  show links: No sitting on the sideline Patreon Page Amazon.com affiliate link  Facebook Page  

Guest Speaker Tricia Jerman (BSSM) speaks on three significant areas in the life of a believer; includes personal testimony.

Darlene Lancer is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert author on relationships and codependency. Shes counseled individuals and couples for 30 years and coaches internationally. Her books include Conquering Shame and Codependency, Codependency for Dummies, 10 Steps to Self-Esteem, How to Beat Perfectionism and many more. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How unrealistically high standards can hurt your relationship. Why becoming aware of self-talk and beliefs is important in dealing with perfectionism. Learn the type of perfectionist you or your partner are in order to improve the relationship. How to work with your inner critic. Learn how you or your partner can become a healthy perfectionist that does not damage the relationship. Why challenging your beliefs can be a valuable exercise in improving your relationship. And much more! Housekeeping Notes: We’ve created a Facebook Group: Love Tribe The Love Tribe community is made up of I Do Podcast listeners and was created to help support you in making your relationship {even} better. We encourage you to share your success stories, tips and heartache. Although every relationship is DIFFERENT – be each other’s inspiration. We hope you join our group here! Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Full Show Notes at http://idopodcast.com/110 Sponsors Talkspace: The online therapy company that believes that therapy should be affordable, confidential and convenient. Join over 500,000 people who have used Talkspace for online therapy with their licensed therapist. Get $30 off your first month when you visit Talkspace.com/IDO. Audible: Use the link below, and sign up for a free 30-day trial and one free audiobook download! You will have to enter your CC information, but you can just cancel the trial at the end of the month if you don’t like it and not pay a dime. There are a ton of great relationship audiobooks on Audible.com. Consider downloading The 5 Love Languages for your free download. Audibletrial.com/idopodcast If you love the show, please subscribe in iTunes and leave a review! It really helps, and allows us to keep bringing you these episodes each week! - Chase & Sarah

For 5 years, I was afraid to speak my truth on what was really on my heart. Doing my best to "fit in" the yoga community while doing my best to also figure out who I am, I realized I was hiding in the spiritual closet. For years, I was afraid to shine my light because I carried shame after a difficult LSD experience. After feeling like I disappointed society, I carried that shame until very recently. Over the years, I dove into deep self-study, doing whatever I could to heal myself and honor my pain body that arose, meaning I was here to take responsibility for my life and reclaiming my sovereignty over my life, health, and happiness. That experience gave me permission to love myself for the first time. Working through an episode of psychosis + PTSD, I allowed myself to be a hermit, even from those I loved most, because I was afraid to contaminate them with my pain and energy. This made me more in my ego and more separated from those who cared for me and wanted me to get better. I began practicing Kundalini Yoga and it changed my life, but I had a difficult time comparing myself to my teachers. That made me feel like I was living an inauthentic life and was shaming my journey and my story. It got to the point where I needed to stop playing small and start being real + vulnerable. So here I am, thank you, Venus Retrograde + Virgo Moon! 012 // conquering shame. how psychedelics saved my life | sabrina riccio I've been hiding in the psychedelic closet for years, but it wasn't until doing Burning Man sober back in 2016 that I began to truly make peace with my past. As this Venus Retrograde goes direct on the 5 year anniversary of that difficult LSD experience + with the Full Moon in Virgo, my moon sign, I've allowed myself to dive in deep and truly recognize where I've been playing small and where the pain from my past is lingering into my future. Since coming back from Costa Rica, I'm seeing more clearly that I am here to help serve psychedelic souls who see the world through technicolor lenses, finding the beauty and gift in every breath. I also have been hearing the call to help psychedelic souls transcend the limiting belief that if they want to enjoy themselves, they need to be consuming medicines. I have a dream of seeing a world where there's balance and moderation in the psychonaut community of conscious gatherings. This is the very reason why I love to teach Kundalini Yoga at festivals. I want to help support people to get there on their own. We mustn't rely on something outside of ourselves for us to get to higher states of consciousness, but at the same time, we mustn't shame or judge our brothers and sisters who do decide to consume medicines for everyone is on their own journey. As with the yoga community, I have a dream to help them open their eyes and to make peace with their past and to hold space for our brothers and sisters who are struggling. I've been there and to feel judged or as though you need to follow a certain dogma in order to be spiritually driven is part of the old paradigm. We are here to birth new paradigms and to bridge the gap from any differences amongst our brothers and sisters. I want to help those and support those who are in a place where I once was. IN THIS EPISODE I TALK ABOUT... ↠ my journey through a difficult LSD experience ↠ bridging a gap + building new paradigms between the conscious party + yoga community ↠ the importance of reclaiming your sovereignty by embracing vulnerability ↠ why the world is waiting for you to embrace who you really are ↠ paving the road by you being authentically you! Support this podcast

Codependency is an addiction that is often difficult to recognize by those who suffer from it. Codependents typically have one difficult, painful relationships after another and cannot understand why. Though there are varying degrees of codependency, many experience emotions such as depression, hopelessness, anxiety, shame, guilt and fear. Many codependents believe their happiness depends upon another person, a relationship, or finding the perfect spouse. They are afraid of being alone or without a relationship. Due to low self-esteem, feelings of inadequacy, and poorly defined boundaries, they focus all their attention on someone they believe they can change, control or fix. Then, in denial about the reality of the desperate situations they find their selves in time and time again, they will do just about anything to make them work, denying their own needs, hopes, and desires. Today's special guest, Darlene Lancer is an expert on relationships and codependency. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and the acclaimed author of two books, Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 STeps to Freeing the True You, as well as four other ebooks. Today Darlene is with us to explain codependency more in depth, and to give those who suffer from it hope for recovery. To learn more about Darlene Lancer, please visit http://www.darlenelancer.com and http://www.whatiscodependency.com  

Author and therapist Darlene Lancer discusses her book Conquering Shame and Codependency, covering topics such as shame, guilt, the Inner Critic, denial, self-discovery, and recovery.

As a parent, we walk a careful balance between nurturing, protecting, and disciplining our children. But the complications that come with parenting a child with ADHD make this balance fuzzy. As our kids are experimenting, pushing boundaries, learning to live in their skin, we have to work extra hard to keep our composure, as acting out can mean so many more things. This week on the show, Nikki and Pete share tools and techniques for parenting children learning to live with their ADHD, with a focus on validation, support, and love.

Join us as Darlene Lancer shares her expertise on creating a fulfilling and successful relationship. In this episode, Darlene gives relationship advice on breaking up and whether you should leave or try to get the change you want. Darlene Lancer is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert on relationships and codependency. She’s the author of two books: Codependency for Dummies and Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You and two ebooks:10 Steps to Self-Esteem and How To Speak Your Mind - Become Assertive and Set Limits. Ms. Lancer has counseled individuals and couples for 25 years and coaches internationally. She’s a sought after speaker to national audiences on radio and to professional groups and institutions. Her articles appear in professional journals and many online mental health websites.