Podcasts about enneagram 9

David Tensen returns to the show to explore the importance of "eldering"—living with sacrificial love in later life. He introduces key concepts like "decentric eldering," "transcend and include," and "stages of faith." Based in Australia, David exemplifies how healthy Enneagram Nines show up and make a meaningful impact in the world. He's also a poet, author, and advocate for emotionally healthy spirituality. Learn more about David and his work, including his latest project with the Collective Wisdom Academy, at www.davidtensen.com.  

Today we completing our series on relationship pairings with type nine and nine. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Nicholas (SP/SO 9w1 936) talks about 9's passivity in relation to their dominant instinct and how they can "hope things just work themselves out." He also talks about how he learned to focus, take himself seriously, and summon the discipline to manifest his life vision. He also works through an intense caffeine spike in self-pres 9 fashion, so you can see in realtime as Nicholas narrates his 9 way of containing the intensity of his experience within an acceptable window of tolerance, or "envelope function." Couldn't have written it better. Enjoy! Watch this interview on YouTube to observe body language and other type cues Learn the Enneagram at The Enneagram School --- Timestamps 0:00 Intro 4:11 Learning the Enneagram & mistyping 5:48 Enneagram as weed addiction substitute; something to "latch onto" - body attachment 7:13 9 "leveling" of experience, finding the optimal intensity 9:09 body vs image - what I say depends on how it feels in my body 10:05 Celcius caffeine hitting now, suppressing it within the 9 envelop function 15:24 Time Management, Discipline creates freedom 19:01 freedom as autonomy of the body center 22:16 Being mental last, mind vs body agendas battling; "crazy concept called a budget" 26:04 taking my projects seriously rather than letting it "figure itself out"; 9 passivity relative to dominant instinct 30:06 Relationship motivation to make life improvements - not wanting to be told what to do, but to come to it myself 34:01 What happens when you're told what to do? 40:18 golf is life? 42:03 9 line to 3 - Nicholas' life vision 49:41 Domains of obsessiveness 53:44 9 dispersion of attention keeps life force diffuse; 9 -> 3 is focusing attention 1:00:08 Josh's similarities; 3-9 stem up front 1:03:04 Prioritizing as 9 Engagement, yet paradox -- beware priorities coming from 9-3 ego vs God, grace, higher self 1:10:08 9 "I don't matter" --> others should prioritize ME more; 9 ego - not wanting to be ignored (disrespected) 1:12:58 faith as anchor for self-remembering 1:16:00 How enneagram can reinforce personality instead of liberate to focus on what's really important 1:20:31 The Celsius Drink Finale!

Grab Your FREE Consult today! In this episode, we explore how to lead as an Enneagram 9, also known as the Adaptive Peacemaker. If you're an Enneagram 9, you likely resonate with the desire for inner and outer peace, and the tendency to avoid conflict. But how does this shape your leadership style? We dive deep into the core motivations of the Enneagram 9, their strengths, potential blindspots, and practical tips for personal and leadership development. Key Topics Covered: What is an Enneagram 9? A look at the core desires and fears of the Enneagram 9, including their need for peace and harmony. The Evolution of an Enneagram 9: How life experiences and conflict avoidance shape their patterns and behaviors over time. Strengths of Enneagram 9s in Leadership: Their natural ability to create harmony, adapt to others' needs, and foster collaboration within teams. Challenges for Enneagram 9 Leaders: Avoiding conflict, indecisiveness, and the risk of merging with others' opinions rather than asserting their own voice. Personal and Professional Growth for Enneagram 9s: Practical steps for embracing conflict, making decisions, and balancing harmony with assertiveness in leadership roles. Whether you identify as an Enneagram 9 or work with someone who does, this episode offers actionable insights to help you grow as a leader and move beyond conflict avoidance into more empowered leadership. I hope this episode blesses you! Xoxo, Tanya   #Enneagram9Leadership #AdaptivePeacemaker #ConflictAvoidance #StrengthsOfEnneagram9 #PersonalGrowth #LeadershipDevelopment #TeamHarmony #DecisionMakingForEnneagram9 #OvercomingIndecisiveness #Enneagram9ProfessionalGrowth #Leadership #WomenInLeadership #SavedByGrace #FemaleLeaders #LeadershipDevelopment #LeadershipSkills #BoldLeadership #FueledByGrace #FreedomFromPeoplePleasing #EnneagramCoach #LeadershipCoach #ChristianLifeCoach #LifeCoaching #LeadershipConsultant #ServantLeadership #WorkLifeBalance #TimeManagement #SystemizeYourLeadership #SystemsForLeaders #ConquerYourToDoList #MoreTime #SpaceForGrace #JesusFollower #OrganizedLeader #OrganizationForLeaders #WorkSmarterNotHarder Subscribe & Stay Connected: Don't miss future episodes where we provide practical tips for growth and development. Subscribe to The Grace Filled Leader podcast, and join our free and private Facebook Community   Episode Resources: GFL Episode Catalog   Get all my free resources in one place: Click Here   5 Ways To Connect With Me: 1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme   2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community   3️⃣ TIME MANAGEMENT: Grab my FREE Time Audit Templates! It's your key to organizing and optimizing your time ➡︎ https://time-audit-tool-sign-up-94896.grwebsite.com/   4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to have better Work-Life BALANCE? Are you ready to up-level your leadership? Sign up for 1-on-1 Christian Life Coaching. It's the accountability and guidance you need to make real progress ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/coaching    5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact     "Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they're meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"  If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don't forget to follow the show so you don't miss any episodes! And, if you're feeling really generous, I'd be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone. RESOURCES: Manage your email inbox with this step-by-step tutorial:  GFL Email Inbox Management Mini-Course Time Management Makeover Workshop waitlist:  https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop   Get all of the GFL FREE RESOURCES in ONE place:  https://gfl-free-resources.getresponsesite.com/     Click here to view our privacy policy.   This description may contain affiliate links, meaning I may get a commission at no cost to you if you click & purchase! Do you want to use the exact project management system I use to manage my time? Meistertask is the BEST system I have found to manage EVERYTHING   Do you love a beautiful paper planner, simple bible study, or journal?   Check out Horacio Printing (use coupon code GRACE15 at checkout to save 15%)   Do You want to get clear on what God is calling you to do?   Clarify Your Calling with Stef Gass   Do You want to start your own podcast?   Podcast Pro University   Do you want to take your podcast to the next level?   Podcast to Profit Mastermind  

Jenna, an enneagram 9, is a recently ordained elder with the Free Methodist Church. She and her family served as Free Methodist World Missionaries in Chiang Mai, Thailand from 2018-2021. Now she considers herself a missionary stateside and is planting a micro-church in Iowa City, Iowa alongside some of her best friends. When not working on her church plant, Jenna is a wife of 16 years to her husband Keith and mom to 2 amazing boys! She enjoys cycling in her free time or curling up on the sofa with a good book and her dog!

Cherri Rodriguez, Andy Houltberg and Richard Haynes join me to form an Enneagram Nine panel. Our conversation proves quite engaging for four Nines!!! Our panelists discuss the harmonizing energy of the Nine structure that continuously operates at the gut level. While Enneagram Nines appear calm and peaceful on the outside, there is a lot of churning and angst going on beneath the surface. Enneagram 9s are unpretentious and empathetic. Known as peacemakers and mediators, Nines sit at the top of the Enneagram circle and "see" all other eight perspectives. They find themselves unconsciously merging into others' agenda. As Cherri brilliantly states, the task of the Enneagram 9 is to take a front seat in their own life. The panelists share several practical strategies for Nines to be more present and accounted for. Cherri is a nonprofit fundraising coach. Her website is www.fruitfulfundraising.co. Find her on Facebook at Fruitful Fundraising Co and on Instagram @fruitfulfundraisingco.  Richard is a coach and owns Empower Potential Coaching. Find him at www.empowerpotentialcoaching.com, and on LinkedIn. He hosts the Fill Up Podcast.  Andy is an Episcopal Priest and is the CEO of Breakthrough Wichita, an organization dedicated to helping people breakthrough the cycle of poverty and mental illness. Find Andy on LinkedIn. Jeff's website is www.transmuto.org. 

Find the FREE Enneagram Quiz here. Work with me here Message me on Instagram @Angie.Alchemist and ask all your Enneagram questions! Check out more at AngieAlchemist.com Here is the link to Enneagram University This is the most important link... Jenny's Free Masterclass!!! If you listen to this after the air date you can also check out Jenny's Free Simple Weightloss Guide Find Jenny on Instagram! When was the last time you really thought about what makes you feel your best? Not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too? It's so easy to get caught up in the hustle, but friend, you deserve to feel amazing every single day! Someone once told me, “Think about your health like a cute little puzzle. Each piece is important.” Are you serious???? It is NOT cute for me!!!! It seems like everything I see in health and wellness is either- eat raw meat every meal, and your workout doesn't count if you're not on the edge of passing out. Eww OR Cortisol is going to make you obese, and one bite of sugar will kill you. OMG how am I supposed to avoid every stressor? Today on Enneagram Ego Death Podcast you can see a different way. We now have a resident health coach, Jenny Smith, who is here to tell us how health can be simple, doable, and results-driven. Jenny comes on to tell us about health and being a type 9. Get excited, she will be visiting the podcast often to talk about health.

**Grab your Enneagram 9 Guide Sheet to follow along**https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramnineguidesheetLet's have an Ennea-Summer together learning about all nine Enneagram types.Are you an Enneagram 9 or have a type 9 in your life?  They are often referred to as "The Peacemaker" and I'm sharing characteristics of a type 9, including:-- Fears, desires, and weaknesses-- Wings 8 and 1-- Communication patterns-- Lines of stress and growthYou'll also hear a powerful story from a Wholehearted Coaching Type 9 client, Cynthia Buelna, who also became a Wholehearted Coach.Deanna Sudom, another Wholehearted coach, wraps it up with a special prayer for the Type 9.Grab your Ennea-Summer Guide Sheets for each Enneagram Type:https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneasummerninetypesRESOURCES FOR YOU:Wholehearted Enneagram Coachinghttps://bit.ly/SWcoachingcollectiveEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideThe Real History of the Enneagram Course(use code AMY for 40% OFF)https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistoryShould Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book)https://amzn.to/3VB9PrxConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Have you ever wondered how the Enneagram intersects with the entertainment industry? Do casting directors and writers use the Enneagram in developing your favorite show or movie? Whether it's Parks and Recreation, Modern Family or Les Misérables, sometimes you can see the archetypes play themselves out on screen. This week, we sit down with multi-award-winning producer, writer and director Gary Wheeler for an illuminating conversation about film and the Enneagram. As an Enneagram 9, Gary shares his experience with asserting himself on set, dealing with conflict, and writing scripts from the voice of each character. As Gary states, “My strengths as a writer tend to be in dialogue […] and here's why…because I'm a nine, I can see all perspectives. […] it's easy for me to hear their voices.” With almost 30 years of experience in the film industry, Gary has made more than 40 motion picture and TV productions seen by millions of viewers on platforms including Netflix, Amazon Prime, Peacock, Redbox, Fox Nation, INSP and many more. His works include #1 box office hit War Room, Emmy-nominated The Heart of Christmas, 20th Century's The Trial, and the award-winning western Far Haven.  His new television series Blue Ridge starring Johnathon Schaech, Sarah Lancaster and A Martinez released on April 7, 2024.

If you thought Part 1 was good, you're in for a treat for Part 2 with these Enneagram 9 Husbands. Listen in as they reflect on how their defense mechanisms come to play in their lives, how they have grown and matured through embracing conflict, and what they love about their amazing Type 2 and Type 7 wives. After recording these episodes, now I know why Enneagram 9s are so fun to be around. From the light-hearted vibes to the true effort in reflection, I hope this conversation with 4 grown men (LOL) can inspire you to also take time to celebrate your own growth and journey ahead. I hope you eunjoey~~~~ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kollercommentary/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kollercommentary/support

I have never had so much fun recording a podcast episode (actually TWO) than I did with these four men who brought laughter, depth, and insight to their lives as Enneagram 9s. Tune in as you listen to what resonates to each of them as a Type 9, how their upbringing might have affected this formation, and how getting married has challenged them to embrace conflict and more. This conversation gets so good that we broke it up into TWO episodes. Stay tuned for tomorrow's release of part 2! Guests: Inkyu (Ian) Choi, Jonathan Kang, Michael Bang, Matt Koller --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kollercommentary/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kollercommentary/support

Enneagram Type 9 The Peacemaker – The Mediator If you resonate with every number on the enneagram, you might be 9. The Enneagram Type 9 can be called the crown of the Enneagram because it is at the top of the symbol and because it seems to include the whole of it. Nines can have ... Read more... The post Enneagram #9 – The Peacemaker appeared first on Life Coaching For Parents.

Everything you need to know about Enneagram 9's. If you are tired of Enneagram explanations being too shallow, or worse, too academic, this episode was made for you. Whether you are a type 9, OR have a 9 in your life, this episode will illuminate important Enneagram qualities. Try the Free Enneagram Quiz!!!! Message me on Instagram @Angie.Alchemist and ask all your Enneagram questions! Check out more at AngieAlchemist.com

In this special hotline episode of Lead with the Enneagram, we had the pleasure of speaking with Julie A, a one-on-one Enneagram 9 with a 935 tri-type, also known as the thinker. Julie shared her journey of self-discovery through the Enneagram and how it has impacted her both personally and professionally as a leadership and career coach at a high-level university in Chicago.We delved into the nuances of being an Enneagram 9, discussing the core emotion of anger and how it often manifests in passive-aggressive behaviors like avoidance and procrastination. Julie opened up about her challenges with confronting anger and conflict, and we explored strategies for nines to develop a healthier relationship with these emotions.Julie also touched on her experience of grief and how it has led to feelings of sloth, a common struggle for Enneagram 9s when they are disintegrating. We discussed the importance of contrary action and how leveraging the strengths of her one and eight wings can help her navigate through tough times without getting stuck.A significant revelation for Julie was understanding that her core motivator is freedom, not safety, which she had previously believed. This insight has prompted her to reflect on her career choices and how they align with her need for independence, autonomy, and control.Lastly, we unpacked Julie's tri-type, the thinker (935), which combines the ambition of a three, the knowledge-seeking nature of a five, and the peacemaking qualities of a nine. This tri-type explains Julie's intellectual approach and her ability to manage situations and relationships effectively.Throughout the episode, we emphasized the importance of self-awareness and the use of the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth. By understanding our core fears and motives, and by building the muscles of our supporting cast – our wings and growth/stress numbers – we can navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience.For those looking to understand and support an Enneagram 9 in their life, remember to gently probe beyond their initial "I'm fine" response to truly understand their feelings. And for anyone interested in diving deeper into their Enneagram blueprint, I encourage you to visit my website and explore the resources available.Connect with Tracy:Tracy's Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy's Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy's Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy's Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com

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Often you want so desperately to relate well and with joy together, but when a relational rupture happens, we don't know how to repair it with healthy shifts and boundaries. Here we are joined by neuroscience expert and licensed marriage and family therapist Juliane Taylor Shore to help us sort out how to handle more difficult experiences together. Juliane takes us through the heavy lifting of relationships at their best - and their worst - with comfort, empowerment, and a head, heart, and body approach to help us discover what we can do when we are lost and feeling unsafe in our relationships. Watch the uncut version on YouTube here! Join Juliane Taylor Shore at her website with her offerings right here! Get her book on Amazon here! Sign up for the FREE Enneasummit on Love & Relationships right here! Find your pairing's light/glow together here! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/store/c4/enneagramglow Get on the email list at www.EnneagramandMarriage.com for all of the fun news and events, too!

In this episode, my guest is Katherine Horrigan (SP Enneagram 9). Katherine is Founder/CEO of the Dance Academy of Virginia, based in the DC metro area, which in its 2 yrs has grown to a student body of over 900. Katherine is a mother, business leader, mentor, teacher, choreographer and former professional dancer.You can find her on Instagram @kathorrigan @danceacademyvaOr check our her website https://www.danceacademyva.com/The thinking center encompasses types five, six, and seven. These types are primarily driven by their thoughts and have a strong desire for knowledge, understanding, and intellectual stimulation. They rely on logical reasoning and their minds when making decisions.The feeling center includes types two, three, and four. These types are driven by their emotions and seek connection, validation, and personal significance. They are in touch with their feelings and are often sensitive to the emotions of others.The instinctual center comprises types eight, nine, and one. These types are driven by their instincts and have a desire for control, justice, independence, and peace. They are more focused on the present moment and excel in handling crises or tactical situations.It's important to note that while each center of intelligence has a general core motive, the specific manifestations of these motives can vary greatly among the types within each center. Understanding the three centers of intelligence in the Enneagram can greatly benefit individuals in their roles as leaders, parents, and partners. By recognizing their own core motives and understanding the motives of the other eight types and the other two centers of intelligence, individuals can grow and develop personally and as leaders. This understanding allows them to embrace different perspectives and operate more effectively in various situations.Connect with Tracy:Tracy's Website http://tracyomalley.com/ Tracy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/ Tracy on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalley Tracy on Twitter https://twitter.com/TracyOMall Tracy on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/Resources:Attend Tracy's Enneagram Group Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workshop Access Tracy's Enneagram Blueprint https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeUsing Your Stress Number to Eliminate Shame & Self-Sabotage on Lead with the Enneagram EP356 https://open.spotify.com/episode/111YMhtJjtw4sgBsN4fHs7 Book a Power Session with Tracy http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Learn More About Tracy's Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithme Book a Partner Session with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeEmail info@tracyomalley.com

The last thing you want are holiday arguments between you or your extended family to carry forward to future generations and this week's shows are aimed at helping you to process, love, and set the boundaries you need. We welcome expert and author, Courtney J. Burg, author (Thomas Nelson, 12/12/23, Loyal to a Fault: How to Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left You Hurting) to the pod today to help you truly find your way together this season, as we discover how boundaries can become an important bid for healthy connection. Watch on YouTube here! Find Courtney's website here, including her book "Loyal to a Fault: How to Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left You Hurting", along with her bonuses, and her wonderful course here! Pre-order Courtney's new book, Loyal to a Fault, here!  *Thank you to the Personality Path for including this podcast on their list of the top Enneagram podcasts of 2023! You can take their test, which has been taken by over a million people right here! Get all your relationship needs met here at www.EnneagramandMarriage.com   

In this episode, join Christa and Melody Hardin, Enneagram Nine as they walk through each Enneagram type through the lens of Marvel characters. Join us as we hack out each type in nuanced detail with some superhero fun typing Iron Man, Black Widow, Loki, Bucky, Roadie, Dr. Strange and more and bring joy but also meaningful insights as we enjoy a lighter moment on this Hallo-week episode! Get my book, "The Enneagram in Marriage: Your Guide to Thriving Together in Your Unique Pairing" here paperback, Audible, or Kindle! Use the Baker code "EMBOOK40" for 40% off and free US Standard Shipping here! Watch the episode on YouTube here!

Find out your Enneagram Type, and Instinct Stack, or get coaching at www.theartofgrowth.orgEmail us your thoughts and questions!Follow us on Instagram at ArtofGrowth for more on this subject this month and let us know what you are doing.Go to our website to sign up for:One-on-one coachingGroup CoachingCorporate consulting and training- custom packagesAND MORE...Support the show

Though each of us is unique, today on this E + M short, we're talking about the three most common reasons why couples cite divorce and ways to prevent your own relationship from becoming a passive casualty. One of the main ways we will keep this episode hope-filled is that we're also sharing tools for the specific timelines where issues tend to crop up and take down 43-44% of married couples. Don't miss this noteworthy, logical, and encouraging episode that will help you sit up, take note, and move into a healthy direction together today! Use the code "EMPOD40" for 40% off here and free shipping at BakerBookHouse.com Visit www.enneagramandmarriage.com for all of your relationship needs today! Watch episode on YouTube! HAVE A QUESTION? Do you have a question about how the Enneagram can help your marriage or any relationship issue at all? Share it here via audio call for Channel Mom Radio and Christa can talk about it on air/the Channel Mom podcast this coming week as well as on the E + M Instagram Live! 303-873-1935 (leave aa question for Christa here for Channel Mom) or visit Christa on Instagram here on Thurs 12 PM EST to ask a question there!

When you're in seasons of shadow, it often feels like your spouse is the antihero and you're not only the hero but the author, writing your own story and having to rely on whatever methods you need to survive. In the new "Enneagram in Marriage" book, we remember together that it's not so much about casting judgment on one person wholly as it is about discovering the emotional backstory behind the maladaptive marriage struggles in one or both partners -  and more, just what can be done about this so your vices don't inevitably make things worse. In this brand-new Enneagram in Marriage book backstory series, Christa unlocks the often misread complex layers contributing to keeping our vices locked into place piece by piece, and puts her cards on the table to bring her husband Wes on to share his side of the book intro story about her own vices as well. Join us for this series as you also unlock the mysteries still undetected in your own and your spouse's life. Don't have the book yet? Make sure you grab it here to walk alongside Christa in this Amazon #1 Top New Release in Christian Marriage here! Get it here! or here >> https://a.co/d/9P4KvVF Watch on YouTube here!

Thank you to this week's podcast sponsor: Start feeling fit and fabulous! Use this link go.mycopilot.com/EGRAM to start your free 14 day trial on CoPilot! -- In this podcast episode, Sarajane Case discusses her recent trip to Mast Farm Inn in Boone, North Carolina, and how it allowed her to learn more about herself. She introduces a new series on accessing your inner child, starting with Type Nine, inspired by a question from a Type One on Instagram. Sarajane explains the concept of stress and rest on the Enneagram and how it relates to accessing your inner child. She plans to read from Sandra Maitri's book to provide more insight into each type's soul child. Sarajane then dives into nine ways for Type 9 individuals to embrace their inner three and step out of their comfort zone, including setting personal goals, sharing accomplishments, and prioritizing self-care. -- Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop  Enneagram Coffee here - https://www.summitcoffee.com/sarajanecasestore Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The shadows and stresses each of you bring to marriage have volumes of family lore behind them, backing them up and urging you each on to survival in your own nuanced ways. When the honeymoon is over, and these rhythms tend to re-emerge and spousal stories converge and collide into differing rhythms in middle seasons of marriage, how can you stand united? Today Christa invites you on a brief and gentle journey of viewing your stories alongside some of the stories right here from her book and otherwise in terms of places and spaces we want to grow from together! Also, celebrate with us a day on the top of the Amazon Christian Marriage charts for the new books, because of our awesome launch team! Don't forget to order yours right here as we bring the Enneagram learning to others!  Pre-order your book right here and get the bonuses!  Watch on YouTube Bonuses are:

Many of us from faith circles have been asked questions about the Enneagram origins and whether they are compatible with a Christian or even logical scientific worldview. Today we take time to process this question in detail with Christa's husband Wes Hardin, MA, who has a degree in biology and philosophy as well as a Master's in Theology from Wheaton College, along with his medical degree as a PA. Join Christa in the interesting conversation with Wes from a historical, faith-centered, and scientific logical viewpoint so you can learn more for yourself and more about how to discuss the Enneagram with intelligence and care in your marriage, faith, and social groups! Visit much of this content in written form on our FAQ page here also! Watch the convo on YouTube here You can find Jesse Eubanks' podcast link/s here and Tyler Zach's aforementioned resources on the same topics here! You can grab Christa's new book, "The Enneagram in Marriage: Your Guide to Thriving Together in Your Unique Pairing," right here also!https://a.co/d/ed25gVA

When we get busy and overwhelmed in marriage, talking about what's deep and emotional may feel like the least desirable option. Yet we all know that hiding and stonewalling are the very worst things we can do together, especially during the busiest years with school-aged kids underfoot. Today we talk with Juilliard-trained creative artist and oboist Dr. Meredith Hite Estevez, Enneagram Four, who offers us an invitation to find the depths together safely, helping us not to lose ourselves as we continue to find our best rhythms together. She also talks about her marriage to her type 7 hubby who is the pastor at Kirk on the Hills Church in Bloomfield Hills, MI. Join us for this lilting conversation with this tremendously gifted writer, teacher, speaker, Ivy-league-trained musician, and creative artist Dr. Merideth, and also enjoy her music in the background during her introduction as well so you can find your own joyful rhythms as we connect together here!   Episode music credits: Merideth Hyte-Estevez - oboe Jani Parsons - piano   Find Merideth's beautiful site, podcast, and work here! www.artistsforjoy.com and for creative (and free!) meet-ups find her popular The Artist's Way group here

Although most parents desire a deep relationship spiritually with God, it's easy to leave it behind along with self-care and marriage care during the busiest seasons of the parenting era. Kayla Craig, author, wife, mom of five, and creator of Liturgies for Parents, has comforted thousands of souls with her prolific words on prayerfully parenting together through the very hardest of days. Christianity Today calls Kayla's page an essential parenting resource, and in this interview, we speak not only Enneagram (she and her hubby are an 8-8 couple with differing instinctual stackings), but she's got four kids, including a child who needs extra measures so she truly gets how lost we can be in finding the depths and heights with God when we're literally knee deep in kid messes of all kinds. We get real here on this fun but meaningful podcast. Don't miss this time together, and definitely don't miss Kayla's brand new book, Every Season Sacred that launches into the world this week! Watch on YouTube here!  Kayla Craig's author website and Liturgies for Parents Get Kayla's book! Love the Enneagram & Marriage pod? We would love to get your review so others can find the show as well. Share on Apple Podcast right here! Buy Christa's new book now so you can make sure tou get your pre-order bonuses before the launch date in 2 weeks! www.enneagramandmarriage.com      

In this podcast episode, Sarajane Case offers advice to a caller who is an Enneagram Type Nine Wing One married to an Eight Wing Seven. Sarajane discusses conflict styles, advising Type Eights to seek peace and safety in the relationship instead of constantly seeking intensity, while encouraging Type Nines to express their feelings directly to their partner. She also cautions Type Nines about unintentionally making their partner solely responsible for their life and advises both partners on how to positively influence each other. Lastly, Sarajane emphasizes the importance of taking space and initiating discussions in order to maintain a balanced relationship. -- Notion Templates here - www.sarajanecase.com/shop  Enneagram Coffee here - https://www.summitcoffee.com/sarajanecasestore Call/text your enneagram questions to (828) 338-9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parenting well with intention has so many great benefits for your child, but also takes its toll if you forget to take care of yourself. Yes, dysregulated and exhausted parents need support, too, and as we walk through the parenting era together, we have one of our favorite guests back to guide us, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, psychologist, burnout support expert Instagram leader, and beloved Enneagram 9 (9-3 pairing). Whether your kids are littles, big, or grown, we invite you to today's refreshing episode! To connect with Dr. Morgan and 20OK+ followers (her reels are awesome!) find her here Get Dr. Morgan's book plus bonuses right here! Watch on YouTube here! Visit www.enneagraminmarriage.com for all of your E + M needs, including our book bonuses!

Work relationships can and do affect the ways we treat one another at home. As we dive into this much-needed topic today, today's juicy podcast episode features Kaleigh Newby, MA, Enneagram 2w1 (2-9 pairing). Kaleigh is the perfect guest for the job, having done significant Enneagram and relationship work across organizational development as she's helped individuals and couples of each Enneagram type to find their best strides. In this pivotal episode on balancing work + relationships for each type, Kaleigh not only welcomes people of each type to learn how to walk through their work stress better but she also gives relationship tips for each of us and our partners. Tune in for these clear and activating steps right here! Watch the episode on YouTube here! Find Kaleigh's website and consulting services here and her Instagram here! Click here to join our Goodreads Giveaway! Get on the E + M launch team here! Love this episode? Share with others and at Apple Podcast here,too! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   You can also leave a review on Spotify here!

It's tempting to want to box our kids into one type or another the moment we see certain behaviors emerging, but an even better way to process how our kids are emerging is to honor both their gifts as well as the shifts and nuances across your children's development. As you help them to find and hone their traits, listen as Christa walks you through all nine types across the Enneagram in terms of developing children. We share key ways for you to reach kids across all kinds of struggles in this brief episode. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/rVRs2z5MzBk Love this episode? Share with others and at Apple Podcast here, too!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

If you're just keeping afloat amidst endless to-dos or busy seasons of life, your self-preservation - and your entire marriage and family - has likely looped off track. Today Christa is joined by Jenn Johnson, Health Coach, and E + M Certified Coach to guide you back on track, or perhaps finding your stride for the first time! This is an episode you definitely don't want to miss as we deep dive into all three instincts and how you can find your healthiest self with grace, intention, and improved marriage rhythms with encouragement, no matter what season or shape you're in!   Watch the Episode on YouTube!   Get Jenn's Health Coaching right here or email Jenn at jennjohnsonhealthcoaching@gmail.com   Join the E + M Membership right here!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

Across many transitions of life, there are important grounding lessons to be learned as we aim to parent well too. Today as we prepare to launch kids into their own mental wellness with healthy rhythms, Christa is joined by Enneagram expert, and coach Kelsey Lincoln, Enneagram 6 (Fuller Theological Sem, Intercultural Studies). Kelsey shares her wisdom and foresight to give us these tools we need for relationship success across every single type as we do our best to parent with love, wisdom, and lots of grace right here together!   Watch the Episode on YouTube!   Get Kelsey's on-point Instagram tips right here!   Visit Kelsey's website here!   Join the E + M Membership right here!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

Have you ever wondered how your personality affects your well-being in terms of financial savvy and success? Or which Enneagram (and MBTI) types are more and less motivated by more relational versus financial provisions? Truity Psychometrics has done the deep diving for us about what we can all learn from one another, and the world is paying attention. In this all-new episode for you, we get to chat practically and relationally today about the findings, and today Christa interviews Megan Malone, Truity's fabulous content strategist and personality researcher and an Enneagram Two. Walk with us through the types and how you can find balance and expansion in your individual, couple, and work growth in this fascinating episode. Watch the Episode on YouTube!   Take the Truity Test on Enneagram   Follow Truity @ Instagram!    Take the Truity Generations Test   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!    

On this week's episode of Enneagram IRL, we meet with Kate Hallock, a writer who loves taking non-fiction topics and turning them into engaging fiction. Her Debut novel, Nine Ways to Die: An Enneagram Murder Mystery, takes the concepts of the Enneagram, and displays them in the fun puzzle of a murder mystery. Kate lives in Peachtree City, Georgia where she drives a golf cart everywhere usually with at least one of her three daughters in tow, sometimes her husband and occasionally their scruffy dog. She spends most of her free time inventing worlds and characters and writing about them. Luckily, she can do a lot of it in her head while she runs carpool, shops for groceries, and endlessly sorts socks.This is part one of this two part book club series! Join us as we set up the book, Nine Ways to Die: An Enneagram Murder Mystery with Author Kate Hallock. 

  In our conversation last summer w/Dr. Sam Greenberg, we had a groundbreaking episode on sex and how we see it across various instinctual patterns, depending on whether we're more socially, sexually, or wired for more self-preservation. Here we are joined yet again by Christa and Dr. Sam on a deeper dive level for each and every Enneagram type in terms of the typical sexual findings, in hopes you can truly find your best sexual closeness yet. This episode is SO helpful for your marriage growth, so don't miss out!   Watch the Episode on YouTube!   Find Dr. Sam on Instagram    Visit Dr. Sam's website!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

You and your spouse's intimacy issues began long before you were married. Award-winning author, therapist, and ordained minister Jay Stringer has integrated the best of research and marital modalities for a deeper understanding of how our intimacy patterns began, and more importantly, how they can truly improve together. Today in this vital episode for marital healing, we take a truly biopsychosocialspiritual journey across the most important ways you can build safety together. Take the holistic desire survey here! https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/holisticdesire For the couple's research survey on desire, send both your emails to madeline@heartofmanjourney.com Jay's website: https://jay-stringer.com/

Often we wonder what we've carried forth from childhood in our Enneagram and relationship work, as well as wonder what we may have incidentally left behind in our quest for pleasing our family of origin. Today on this special episode with marriage and family therapist (and likely one of your fave Instagram therapy accounts) Michael Shahan, we take a tour around the Enneagram to walk through the Enneagram inner child theory derived from Sandra Maitri and others, also called the Soul Child theory. We do this to make sure you're running on all healthy cylinders as much as possible with your relationship growth, and we talk through ways you can do this work with your spouse or partner, too. No matter your type, join us for this deep dive into growth for every personality!   Watch on YouTube!   Michael's website   Michael's poyvagal courses    Michael's heart-mind-body Costa Rica trip   Follow Michael's Instagram here!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

Did you know that the narrative you tell about your marriage truly matters, perhaps more than almost anything else? Yes, truly knowing one another and sharing meaningful stories is the best way to reach the deepest intimacy in relationships. Today, we are grateful to have ReStory expert Tracy Johnson, Enneagram 8 (8-7 pairing), introducing us to a model for reaching one another again and again as we tell new stories and find new ways to make that deeper meaning together. She gives us a formula that has a natural yet practical flow so we can bring ourselves to each date or activity ready for reconnection. Enjoy this rich conversation with Tracy as we walk towards delighting, discovering, sharing our depths, and connecting more closely than ever before. Watch the Episode on YouTube! Visit Tracy and the entire group at ReStory here! Sign up for "A Year of Good Dates" here: https://www.restory.life/thrive-dates   https://www.thrivemarriageweekend.com @thrivemarriageweekend on Instagram View the Unwanted Sexual Behaviors Course at ReStory Visit Tracy on Red Tent Living for her prolific blogs Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

You may often deal with expectations (and sexpectations) for the roles you hope the other spouse will play in your sexual journey together. Many times, these expectations don't get discussed and spouses are left hurt and distant on the interior. These brief but vital questions will bring you on a deeper level of intimacy than ever before, so take them one at a time as we draw you closer together than ever before right here! Grab our Love Maps freebie to increase general intimacy also!  Get The Love Maps Gottman Worksheet! Watch the Episode on YouTube! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!  

This must-listen episode is for both men and women since couples who track and hack their unique monthly female cycle together tend to strategically understand one another better across the board. This allows for work, family, and relationship dynamics to thrive in a healthier system than ever before, and this issue is so big in fact, that about 90% of couples experience these shifts in their relationships across the month. Today, Christa deep dives with us in a practical and also fun conversation (we promise!) with Enneagram coach, and female cycle expert, Evie Jenner, Type 1sx (1-5 Marriage Pairing) of @thetypeguide. You definitely don't want to miss the best ways to make the most of the shifting seasons across each month together with us right here! We talk about which times of the month are best for rest, for work, for creating, for sexual intimacy, and SO much more together right here! Get Evie's freebie right here: https://www.thetypeguide.co.uk/ and follow her at @thetypeguide on Instagram, Tiktok, and Thrive! Watch the episode on YouTube Follow Evie on Instagram Here @TheTypeGuide Get Evie's freebie at her website! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

I am so grateful you shared time with me! Here is where you can find the info on the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Work Please be sure to share this podcast with at least one other person. It lets them know that you were thinking of them, and that you wish them lasting wellbeing. Where to give your 5 Star Review: Apple Podcasts ; Spotify Follow Dawn McMillan: All the things including therapy/coaching: https://linktr.ee/dawnmcmillan Twitter: @thedawnmcmillan Instagram: @thedawnmcmillan Facebook: @thedawnmcmillan Email: dawnmcmillaninfo@gmail.com I am so grateful you shared time with me! Please be sure to share this info with at least one other person. It lets them know that you were thinking of them, and that you wish them lasting wellbeing. Where to give your 5 Star Review: Apple Podcasts ; Spotify Follow Dawn McMillan: All the things including therapy/coaching: https://linktr.ee/dawnmcmillan Twitter: @thedawnmcmillan Instagram: @thedawnmcmillan Facebook: @thedawnmcmillan Email: dawnmcmillaninfo@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dawn-mcmillan2/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dawn-mcmillan2/support

There are five absolutely key components for a healthier and happier sex life and culture in your marriage and in this quick episode, Christa walks you through ALL of them. Tune in for these practical tips you can incorporate immediately as you create a healthier vibe together all summer (and year!) long. Don't miss the opportunity to both identify the greatest stumbling blocks to intimacy and the best and most tangible steps forward. Watch the episode on YouTube  Get Our Freebie on the 3 Areas of Marriage (Including Sexual Intimacy Questions)! Get Our E + M Glow 52-Week Planner Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!    

Many times we bring trauma into marriage unwittingly and our spouse has to work very hard to work with us and our sensitive idiosyncrasies. Today we welcome Enneagram Coach and trauma practitioner, Jennifer Hurst of Everyday Enneagram to walk us through compassionate inquiry in our own healing versus relying on our spouses to be all things to us, a term coined by the world-renowned trauma/addictions MD, Dr. Gabor Maté, whose program Jennifer has trained in. Join us as we walk through both general tips to safety together as well as dig deep, type by type with open hearts. You can find Jennifer @everyday-enneagram on Instagram for coaching services and encouragement, too! Show links: Watch the chat on our new YouTube Channel here! @Everyday-Enneagram  Jennifer Hurst's Website Watch the episode on YouTube Pre-Order Our New E + M Book! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!

The core focus on an Enneagram 9 is harmony, which sounds like a really good thing. And it is. But the problem arises when an Adaptive Peacemaker chooses harmony in the moment to the detriment of their Future Self. Before attending my in-person Enneagram retreat, Alexandria Keahi experienced this exact challenge, staying quiet to avoid conflict and ignoring her own dreams to accommodate others. So, what does it look like when a self-preservation 9 chooses herself? On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, Alexandria explains how the focus on harmony associated with being a 9 was playing out in her life and why she swept things under the rug to keep the peace. Alexandria shares the response she's getting from friends and family now that she's doing things for herself and describes how stepping into her own internal harmony is bringing her more peace and less anxiety. Listen in for insight on how integrating the Enneagram is inspiring Alexandria to pursue a longstanding dream and learn how those of us who love and lead 9s can support them in stepping into the light! What You Will Learn Why Alexandria thought she was a social 4 but turned out to be a self-preservation 9How Alexandria identifies with the focus on harmony associated with being an Enneagram 9How Alexandria's self-preservation instinctual type plays out in her lifeAlexandria's struggle around creating temporary harmony to the detriment of her Future SelfHow Alexandria leans into her 1 and 8 wings to avoid sweeping things under the rug in her professional life (and why it's more difficult for her to do that in her personal life)The response Alexandria is getting from friends and family now that she's doing things for herselfWhy it's crucial for a 9-4-5 tritype like Alexandria to be aware of their tendency to withdrawHow stepping into her own internal harmony is bringing Alexandria more peace and joyAlexandria's advice to fellow Enneagram 9s who are afraid to step into the lightHow people who love and lead Enneagram 9s can encourage them to use their voice Connect with Alexandria Alexandria on Instagram Connect with Tracy Tracy's WebsiteTracy on InstagramTracy on Facebook Tracy on TwitterTracy on LinkedInResources Learn More About Tracy's Enneagram Team Dynamics Workshop Access Tracy's Enneagram Blueprint Book a Partner Session with Tracy Book a Live Enneagram Typing Session Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy Email info@tracyomalley.com

"I think there's ways in which I've defined life on the banks. To get into the river would be, in a sense, losing my life. But there's actually something that awakens in me, and I begin to see I was actually made to be in the river." - Brian BoeckerEver feel stuck in life and not sure how to move forward? Our colleague at Restoring the Soul, Brian Boecker, joined us to help you unravel this feeling and guide you towards the River of Integration, a powerful concept by Dan Siegel that embodies the flow of energy and defines mental health and well-being. Discover how understanding your family system and navigating the banks of rigidity and chaos can lead to harmony and expansive well-being.Together with Brian, we let go of control and find solace in the parable of the Prodigal Son, viewing the river's banks as coping strategies and embracing vulnerability. We also emphasize the importance of community and leaning on others in times of struggle, breaking free from cultural biases of individualism. Don't miss out on this insightful episode that will inspire you to examine your life and move towards greater well-being. Join us on this journey toward healing and integration!HELPFUL RESOURCES:Episode 215 - Brian Boecker, "The Awakening: A Move Toward Wholeness"Episode 223 - Brian Boecker, "False Self vs. True Self"Discover how the barrier built by porn addiction can become a bridge to abundant life.What if lust for porn is really a search for true passion?In a world where there are 68 million searches for pornography every day and where over 70 percent of Christian men report viewing porn in the last year, it's no surprise that more and more men struggle with an addiction to this false fantasy. Common wisdom says if they just had more willpower or more faith, their fight would be over. Contact Restoring the Soul:- Tweet us at @michaeljcusick and @PodcastRTS- Like us on Facebook- Email us at info@restoringthesoul.comThanks for listening!

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Enneagram 9s in the entrepreneurial space usually know they're made for more. But their quest for harmony creates an internal conflict. To be a successful entrepreneur, you have to be a little bold and polarizing. And the Adaptive Peacemaker's instinct is to give that a hard pass. So, what can 9s do to step into their power and find peace in the disruption? Bernadette Marciniak is the creator of Sol House Media, a brand videography and photography business serving entrepreneurs who empower and create impact. On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, Bernadette explains why she was playing small and hiding behind her camera when we met at a mastermind retreat. I walk you through the characteristics of Bernadette's 9-3-7 Tritype, The Ambassador, and she describes how understanding herself at a deeper level makes her more comfortable in the spotlight.Listen in to understand how embracing her 9-ness gives Bernadette even more compassion for her clients and learn how an Adaptive Peacemaker can disrupt things in a healthy way—for the greater good of us all. What You Will Learn What about being an Adaptive Peacemaker didn't please Bernadette at firstHow 9s are engaging, accepting and non-judgmental and bring peace to all of usHow Bernadette felt when I called her out for playing smallBernadette's struggle with feeling less-than in spaces with other high-achieving female entrepreneurs How Bernadette's 9-3-7 Tritype (The Ambassador) shows others what's possibleHow integrating the Enneagram into her life helps Bernadette disrupt things in a healthy wayHow understanding herself at a deeper level makes Bernadette more comfortable in the spotlightWhy exploring her 9-ness gives Bernadette even more compassion for clientsWhy being an entrepreneur doesn't come naturally for a 9 and what Bernadette is doing to take a bold stand in her businessWho Bernadette serves through her brand videography/photography business Connect with Bernadette Sol Haus Media Bernadette on Instagram Bernadette on LinkedIn Connect with Tracy Tracy's WebsiteTracy on InstagramTracy on FacebookTracy on TwitterTracy on LinkedIn Resources Bernadette's Acceptance Speech Book a Partner Session with Tracy Access Tracy's Enneagram Blueprint Book a Live Enneagram Typing Session Apply for 1:1 Coaching with Tracy Email info@tracyomalley.com

What are Enneagram Type 9's wings? Do they use both the 8 wing and 1 wing? Beth and Jeff McCord discuss the type 9's wings, their functions, and how to use them for personal awareness and growth.The type 9's wings are the 8 and the 1 because they are the numbers right next to the 9 on the enneagram symbol. Type 9s use these wings in varying degrees in both healthy and unhealthy ways. This podcast discusses how each wing influences the person's main type and personality, how to know which wing you use more, and how to use these wings for personal awareness and growth.Laura Nechanicky-Booth, MS LMFT CEC  (Type 9):Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/laurainfiniteclarity Website: https://infiniteclaritycc.com/ Brandon Wilson (Type 9):Website: https://www.aimandanchorcoaching.com/ TikTok: aimandanchor_enneagramCurrently working on: Couples Coaching! Find your Enneagram type here: https://assessment.yourenneagramcoach.com/ Free 9 Enneagram Type Summary: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/coremotivations Order Beth and Jeff's new book, More Than Your Number: https://amzn.to/3z9OZ7e Discover your Type, learn what it means, and transform your life with the Discovering You course: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/discoveringyou Learn how your Enneagram Type affects your marriage with Beth and Jeff's book, Becoming Us: https://amzn.to/3vEhyrh Accelerate your personal growth and spiritual renewal with The Enneagram Collection Journals: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/journals  #Enneagram #Enneagram9Wings #PersonalityType Did you know that your company could be reaching tens of thousands of people each month. Our show, Your Enneagram Coach, The Podcast reaches authors, speakers, influencers, coaches, and people who are invested in their personal growth. So why are you listening to me right now when we could advertise your company instead?All you gotta do is reach out to nate@yourenneagramcoach.com to find Did you know that your company could be reaching tens of thousands of people each month. Our show, Your Enneagram Coach, The Podcast reaches authors, speakers, influencers, coaches, and people who are invested in their personal growth. So why are you listening to me right now when we could advertise your company instead?All you gotta do is reach out to nate@yourenneagramcoach.com to find

What are Enneagram Type 9's wings? Do they use both the 8 wing and 1 wing? Beth and Jeff McCord discuss the type 9's wings, their functions, and how to use them for personal awareness and growth.The type 9's wings are the 8 and the 1 because they are the numbers right next to the 9 on the enneagram symbol. Type 9s use these wings in varying degrees in both healthy and unhealthy ways. This podcast discusses how each wing influences the person's main type and personality, how to know which wing you use more, and how to use these wings for personal awareness and growth.Laura Nechanicky-Booth, MS LMFT CEC  (Type 9):Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/laurainfiniteclarity Website: https://infiniteclaritycc.com/ Brandon Wilson (Type 9):Website: https://www.aimandanchorcoaching.com/ TikTok: aimandanchor_enneagramCurrently working on: Couples Coaching! Find your Enneagram type here: https://assessment.yourenneagramcoach.com/ Free 9 Enneagram Type Summary: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/coremotivations Order Beth and Jeff's new book, More Than Your Number: https://amzn.to/3z9OZ7e Discover your Type, learn what it means, and transform your life with the Discovering You course: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/discoveringyou Learn how your Enneagram Type affects your marriage with Beth and Jeff's book, Becoming Us: https://amzn.to/3vEhyrh Accelerate your personal growth and spiritual renewal with The Enneagram Collection Journals: https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/journals  #Enneagram #Enneagram9Wings #PersonalityType Did you know that your company could be reaching tens of thousands of people each month. Our show, Your Enneagram Coach, The Podcast reaches authors, speakers, influencers, coaches, and people who are invested in their personal growth. So why are you listening to me right now when we could advertise your company instead?All you gotta do is reach out to nate@yourenneagramcoach.com to find Did you know that your company could be reaching tens of thousands of people each month. Our show, Your Enneagram Coach, The Podcast reaches authors, speakers, influencers, coaches, and people who are invested in their personal growth. So why are you listening to me right now when we could advertise your company instead?All you gotta do is reach out to nate@yourenneagramcoach.com to find