Podcasts about parenting plans

Do you know what almost no one tells you when you are creating a parenting plan? Some of the biggest co-parenting battles after divorce will not be over the things you think. It may not be the major custody decision or where the children will primarily live. It may be the late pickup, the unanswered text, the forgotten backpack, or the soccer registration deadline no one thought to clarify. That is why Susan Guthrie is joined by Gabrielle Hartley, attorney, mediator, parenting conflict expert, TEDx speaker, bestselling author of Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate, and creator of Mediator Gabby. Gabrielle has spent decades helping families navigate separation with greater clarity, less conflict, and better outcomes for children. Together, they get practical about why so many parenting plans break down after the divorce is finalized and what it actually takes to build one that holds up in real life. This conversation is for anyone creating a parenting plan, already co-parenting, or supporting someone who is. Because choosing what feels easier right now has a way of creating a much more difficult problem to solve later. Covered in this episode: Why most co-parenting conflict has nothing to do with bad parenting What makes a parenting plan fall apart once real life takes over How the "easier now, harder later" trap quietly sets families up for more conflict Why clarity matters more than detail when building a durable parenting plan How Mediator Gabby helps parents arrive prepared, stay focused, and reach better agreements WHAT IF AN AI MEDIATOR COULD HELP YOU BUILD A PARENTING PLAN BEFORE YOU EVER WALK INTO A ROOM?  There are approximately 29-million children living in single-parent families in the United States, and the vast majority of their parents never have access to a lawyer, a mediator, or any professional guidance at all. Mediator Gabby, Gabrielle's AI-supported parenting plan tool was built with those families in mind.  Using this custom AI tool, each parent completes a guided onboarding on their own before any joint conversation begins, working through the full landscape of a parenting plan so that by the time they sit down together, they already know where they agree, where they do not, and what needs to be worked through. Here is what that preparation can do for families: Save three to five hours of introductory conversation before mediation even begins Help parents arrive focused and prepared rather than reactive and overwhelmed Surface the details most people do not think to address until they become conflict points Lower the emotional temperature in the room so real resolution can happen faster Keep the process moving forward instead of stalling on issues that feel impossible in the moment A parenting plan is the operating system for your family's next chapter. The clearer and more intentional it is from the start, the less conflict it creates down the road, and the better the experience for your children. FREE DOWNLOAD: Parenting Plan Reality Check: The Questions Every Co-Parent Needs to Answer Before Finalizing a Parenting Plan + Companion Article  Find the article and free download on the website at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/latest-episode Referenced Episodes from the Archive: The 7 Most-Asked Divorce Questions on ChatGPT, Answered by a Top Family Law Attorney with Susan Guthrie Discovery Demystified: Why Fact-Finding is the Most Important Step in Your Divorce with Susan Guthrie Conflict Resolution Made Easy: Managaing the Five Destructive Behaviors We All Have with Gabrielle Hartley Gabrielle Hartley Has the Secret to Helping Us All Get Along Better and It Starts with Y.E.S. Is Your Divorce Taking Too Long? BLITZ IT and BE DONE with Gabrielle Hartley The Best Thing to Happen to Divorce in Ages with Very Special Guest, Gabrielle Hartley If this episode helped you, please share it and leave a review. It genuinely helps the show reach the people who need it most. _______________________________________________________________ Meet This Week's Guest: Gabrielle Hartley is a New York and Massachusetts divorce attorney, mediator, author, two-time TEDx speaker, and legal tech founder working at the intersection of family dispute resolution and technology. She is the founder of Better Parenting Plan and creator of Mediator Gabby, a technology-supported platform designed to help parents and family professionals reduce conflict and build clearer, more durable parenting agreements. Gabrielle is also consulting with the American Arbitration Association to help launch its first-ever family mediation panel. A former court attorney to Hon. Jeffrey Sunshine in the New York Supreme Court, Matrimonial Division, she has spent more than twenty-five years helping families resolve complex divorce and custody matters constructively. She is the author of Better Apart and The Secret to Getting Along and serves on the ABA Dispute Resolution Council. Website: BetterParentingPlan.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/gabriellehartleyesq _______________________________________________________________ This Week's Sponsors:  Hello Divorce - Hello Divorce is a modern platform designed to support people before, during, and beyond divorce, providing legal information, tools, and access to professionals who help individuals navigate the process more thoughtfully. Resources created specifically for Divorce & Beyond listeners are available at HelloDivorce.com/Susan. Yumiyu - YUMIYU Jewelry is Susan's favorite source for meaningful, handcrafted jewelry designed to empower women and celebrate individuality. Each piece is made with care, using high-quality materials like real gold and vermeil, and is water-resistant, non-tarnish, and hypoallergenic. Explore their stunning collection at yumiyujewelry.com and find your perfect piece today! Be sure to use Code: “BEYOND” for 20% off! _______________________________________________________________ If This Episode Helped You Subscribe to Divorce & Beyond so you never miss an episode. Share it with someone who needs clear, reliable guidance right now. And if you have a moment, leaving a five-star review makes a real difference in helping this show reach the people who need it most. Follow Divorce & Beyond Website: divorceandbeyondpod.com Instagram: instagram.com/divorceandbeyondpod ______________________________________________________________________ About Our Host: Susan E. Guthrie, Esq. Susan E. Guthrie is one of the nation's leading family law and mediation attorneys, with more than 35 years of experience helping individuals navigate divorce with clarity and strategy. She is the Immediate Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a best-selling author, and a sought-after speaker and trainer. Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast and has been cited in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC Chicago Today, among others. As the creator and host of Divorce & Beyond, ranked in the top 1% of all podcasts worldwide with millions of downloads and an Apple Top 100 Self-Help designation, Susan brings together top legal and mental health experts to help listeners move through divorce and into what comes next. Learn more at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/about Disclaimer: The commentary and opinions shared on this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state regarding your specific situation.

When addiction and high conflict personality traits both show up in a custody case, the usual advice stops working. Vague parenting plans become weapons. Standard timelines get exploited. Courts aren't designed to manage what's happening daily between two households—and the divorce itself is often just the beginning.Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD, and Megan Hunter, MBA, co-founders of the High Conflict Institute, lay out what actually works: parenting plans built with iron-clad specificity, consequences written into agreements before problems happen, relapse protocols, objective safety safeguards for young children, and the assertive court strategy Bill describes as the most effective approach—not aggressive, not passive, but steady and information-forward.It's All Your Fault is produced by TruStory FM.Full Show Notes & ResourcesSubmit Questions | Full Show Notes | Bookstore | WebsiteWatch this episode on YouTubeImportant Notice: Our discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:56) - Part 2: High Conflict Behavior, Addiction, and Child Custody (02:00) - Parenting Plans (05:58) - When Reluctant to Change (08:27) - Being Prepared (10:05) - Don't Reward the Pushing (13:59) - Build Consequences into Agreements (18:24) - With Younger Children (22:15) - Professional Involvement (26:33) - Top Mistakes (30:17) - Wrap Up

GET THE DIVORCE CRASH COURSE!In this mini episode of How Not To Suck At Divorce, Andrea Rappaport and family law attorney Morgan L. Stogsdill introduce something they've been quietly working on for months: the brand-new Divorce Crash Course (DCC).This project has truly been a labor of love—built to give people going through divorce the information most attorneys simply don't have time to walk you through.And yes… this episode starts with Andrea surviving a spring break indoor water park, wearing airplane-sized noise-canceling headphones, smelling like pond water, and nearly losing her dignity.But once the laughter settles, Andrea and Morgan dive into something that could change the way you navigate your divorce.The Divorce Crash Course was created to help people avoid the most common—and most expensive—mistakes made during divorce.Because the truth is:Most people enter divorce with no roadmap, no strategy, and no idea what they don't know yet.That's where the DCC comes in.What Is the Divorce Crash Course?The Divorce Crash Course is a private podcast paired with a downloadable guidebook designed to walk you step-by-step through the divorce process.Inside the Crash Course, Andrea and Morgan break down the biggest issues people face in divorce and provide practical tools to help you make smarter decisions from the beginning.Unlike typical divorce resources, the DCC combines:a private podcast you can listen to anytimea printable guidebookclickable resources and templatesstep-by-step guidance on navigating divorceThe goal?To give you the same strategic insight Morgan gives her clients in a way that's accessible, clear, and affordable.Why This Divorce Crash Course Is DifferentAndrea and Morgan spent hours building this program because they know how overwhelming divorce can feel.Instead of leaving people to figure things out alone, the Divorce Crash Course provides:A clear roadmap for navigating divorceGuidance on how to communicate with your attorneyTools to help you save money on legal feesTemplates to organize your finances and parenting plansInsider tips on avoiding costly divorce mistakesAnd thanks to the support of OurFamilyWizard and Soberlink, the program is available for a fraction of what similar legal resources cost.What You'll Learn in the Divorce Crash CourseThe Divorce Crash Course addresses some of the most common questions people have during divorce, including:How to Save Money on Divorce Attorney FeesLearn how to communicate with your attorney efficiently so you're spending money where it matters most.What to Do With the Family HomeShould you keep the house or sell it? The course walks through how to think about this decision logically and strategically.How to Organize Your Divorce FinancesThe guidebook includes a custom marital balance sheet template that helps you track assets, debts, and financial information before speaking with your attorney.Parenting Plans and Custody AgreementsDivorce often becomes most emotional when discussing parenting time.The course includes:Common court-approved parenting schedulesKey provisions people forget to include in parenting agreementsTips for negotiating custody arrangements effectivelyThe Most Common Divorce MistakesAndrea and Morgan also break down the most frequent—and expensive—mistakes people make during divorce and how to avoid them.What's Included in the Divorce Crash CourseWhen you purchase the Divorce Crash Course, you'll receive:A private podcast with five guided episodesA downloadable guidebook with clickable resourcesA divorce balance sheet templateCustody schedule examplesTools to help you communicate with your attorney and your exOnce purchased, the private podcast can be added directly to your preferred podcast app so you can listen just like a normal show.Andrea recommends listening to one episode at a time and working through the guidebook alongside it.Frequently Asked Question:Do I Need the New Divorce Crash Course if I Bought the Old One?This is the question Andrea has received most frequently.The answer: Yes, the new Divorce Crash Course is different.While some concepts may overlap with previous guides, this new version contains completely new content, additional tools, and a private podcast format that makes it easier to absorb the information step-by-step.Why Andrea and Morgan Created ThisAndrea went through divorce herself.Morgan has spent nearly two decades practicing family law.Between them, they've seen the same painful patterns over and over again:People making expensive mistakes simply because they didn't know what questions to ask.The Divorce Crash Course was built to change that.It's designed to give people the knowledge and tools they need to move through divorce with more clarity, confidence, and control.A Little Humor Along the WayThis mini episode wouldn't be complete without the signature How Not To Suck At Divorce humor.Between discussing the Divorce Crash Course, Andrea shares:Her hatred of indoor water parksThe questionable hygiene of spring break crowdsWearing pilot-style headphones in public to survive the noiseAnd the moment a stranger at Dunkin' Donuts asked if she was her kids' great grandmotherBecause if you're going to survive divorce…You might as well laugh along the way.Where to Get the Divorce Crash CourseYou can purchase the Divorce Crash Course directly through the link below.Once you check out, you'll receive immediate access to:the private podcastthe downloadable guidebookall templates and resources

Parenting plans, mediation, and negotiations are some of the most stressful parts of divorce — especially when abuse, coercive control, or high conflict are involved.In this episode of The Rising Beyond Podcast, Sybil is joined by Laura, a family law mediator and co-parenting coach, to unpack what mediation can look like when it is truly child-centered and trauma-informed — and when it isn't.Laura brings years of experience mediating high-conflict parenting cases involving domestic violence, substance use, and power imbalances. Together, they explore how mediation can either reinforce harm or become a place where autonomy, safety, and children's real needs are finally centered.This conversation is especially helpful for protective parents who feel trapped by cookie-cutter parenting plans, fear retaliation for speaking up, or are being pressured to “just agree” for the sake of the court.In This Episode, We DiscussWhy mediation often feels re-traumatizing for survivors — and how it can be done differentlyThe importance of autonomy after coercive controlWhy “getting to agreement” is not the same as creating a safe parenting planHow documenting only the bad can distort negotiationsLaura Lorber is an MC3 Certified Mediator, Certified Co-Parenting Specialist, and Program for Infant-Toddler Care (PITC) Fellow. She brings a deeply reflective and facilitative approach to complex family matters, including high-conflict co-parenting, interpersonal violence, and elder care. Laura's evolving theory of mediation centers on the idea that every conflict offers a chance to model and teach — giving families a lasting legacy of learning to navigate challenges with understanding, resilience, and care for future generations.Connect with Laura:Website: www.lauralorberjd.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauramlorber/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lmlorber/Join me on February 18th at 12pm MST for the Parenting to Combat Coercive Control Live Workshop for protective moms focused on protecting and repairing the parent–child relationship: https://mailchi.mp/risingbeyondpc/coercive-controlPlease leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...

    Slam the Gavel podcast welcomes back Mark Andrews. Mark was last on the podcast Season 6, Episode 331. Today we discussed the fraud upon the court, the issues with the alteration of a transcript and how Mark went with other parents, and with Robert Garza on Zoom to discuss with Legislation five bills. Some of the bills were Time Taken, Time Back, Cameras in Court and Parenting Plans and several others.      We also talked about the article written by Laura A. Bischoff, of the Columbus Dispatch: Ohio Supreme Court Suspends judge's law license for steering work to love interest." Change is coming. Change is coming.To Reach Mark Andrews: nottobetakenaway@live.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcast?si=INW9XaTyprKsaDklhttps://substack.com/@maryannpetri?r=kd7n6&utm_medium=iosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/aboout*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user/guest should consult with the relevant professionals. IRS CIRCULAR 230 DISCLOSURE: To ensure compliance with requirements imposed by the Internal Revenue Service, we inform you that any U.S. federal tax advice contained in this communication (including any attachments) is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, for the purpose of (1) avoiding penalties under the Internal Revenue Code or (2) promoting, marketing or recommending to another party any transaction or matter addressed herein. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. The content creator maintains the exclusive copyright and any unauthorized copyright usage is strictly prohibited.  Podcast is protected by owner from duplication, reproduction, distribution, making a derivative of the work or by owner displaying the podcast. Owner shall be held harmless and indemnified from any and all legal liability.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

This episode is all about parenting plans, spousal support, and the biggest legal truths people miss when they're divorcing with kids. I'm joined by award-winning divorce attorney and My Next Chapter's legal expert, Renee Bauer, who brings over two decades of family law experience to this conversation. We get into how courts are shifting toward shared parenting, why some parenting plans need two pages and others need fifty, and the real story behind modern alimony. We also talk about the legal roadmap inside My Next Chapter and why having good information early can save you time, money, and heartache. ✨ If you'd like to watch the video version of this episode, you can find it here. What you'll hear about in this episode: How custody language has shifted from "visitation" to shared parenting and why that shift matters (3:23) What happens when someone demands 50/50 but can't follow through (8:18) Why parenting plans range from simple to extremely detailed and how to know what level your family needs (25:23) How My Next Chapter pulls legal, financial, and emotional guidance together so you're not navigating alone (30:23) The big things Renee wishes people understood before hiring a divorce attorney (35:08) How alimony has changed in recent years and why lifetime support is rarely on the table anymore (43:08) Learn more about Renee Bauer: Renee Bauer is an award-winning divorce attorney, published author, and the legal expert at My Next Chapter. As the founder of Happy Even After Family Law in Connecticut, she's spent over two decades helping people navigate divorce with dignity and confidence. Renee is also a sought-after speaker and advocate for reshaping how we think about divorce — not as failure, but as a chance to rewrite your next chapter with intention. Resources & Links: Focused Strategy Sessions with Kate The Divorce Survival Guide Resource BundlePhoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment CollectiveKate on InstagramKate on FacebookKate's Substack Newsletter: Divorce Coaching Dispatch The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast Episodes are also available YouTube! My Next Chapter - Use code DSG to receive $30 off your first month Episode 342: From Uncertainty to Clarity with Tamara Frankfort Odinec and Shari Joseph of My Next Chapter Renee's websiteRenee on Instagram =================== DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. =================== Episode link: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-344-parenting-plans-support-and-legal-truths-with-renee-bauer/  

Danny & Tennessee join Grace for pure chaos from bedroom confessions and fake birthdays in Dubai to vibrator-stealing pets and honest parenting moments.

Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)The hardest part of co-parenting isn't agreeing when things are calm—it's knowing exactly what to do when life changes. We unpack how to design a parenting plan that functions like a family operating system: practical, plain-language, and built to reduce conflict before it starts. With DCA ADR Certified Divorce Coach Dori Braddell joining Tracy, we dig into the decisions that matter most—daily schedules, holidays, make-up time, communication, medical and education choices—and show how to write terms that hold up under stress.We talk strategy first. Rather than rely on boilerplate, we coach clients to identify intentions, predict “sticky bits,” and reality test assumptions about the other parent. You'll hear how to draft three-tier proposals that show flexibility without giving away your core interests, how to keep Amy the amygdala buckled in during tough talks, and how to pick the right process for your situation: kitchen table conversation, mediation, collaborative practice, or a structured four-way. We share simple scripts and boundary tools that make saying no, countering, and pausing the conversation feel safe and effective.Then we get practical. Dori's parenting plan builder gives clients sample clauses they can mark up and tailor. Visual schedule tools like Custody X Change help families compare 2-2-3, 2-2-5-5, and week-on/week-off rotations at a glance. We outline expense categories beyond basic child support—drivers ed, braces, mental health, extracurriculars, graduations, even grooming—plus thresholds for joint approval to prevent petty fights. Finally, we emphasize review paths and built-in dispute resolution ladders so parents can adapt as kids grow without running to court.If you're a divorce coach, mediator, or parent navigating separation, this deep dive will help you create a plan that is clear, fair, and truly usable. Subscribe, share with a colleague, and leave a review telling us the one clause you wish every parenting plan included.To contact Dori, visit her personal practice website at https://www.thedivorcementor.ca/about-me  or reach her at her DCA email at dca.ca@divorceocahesacademy.com Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

Listen to this episode if... You're newly separated and trying to figure out parenting arrangements. You don't have court orders yet and things are already getting tense. Your ex is unreliable, manipulative, or emotionally unpredictable. You're feeling pressured to agree to arrangements that feel unsafe or unfair. You want to avoid court but don't want to be taken advantage of. Trying to co-parent after separation without court orders? This episode offers a general discussion that may help you better understand the common challenges many face during this stage. Mum and I talk through the confusion, conflict, and emotional chaos that often arise when parenting without formal agreements in place. We explore how co-parenting typically unfolds in the early days post-separation, the general differences between parenting plans and court orders, and what can happen when one parent starts making sudden changes like; withholding time with the kids, shifting pick-up arrangements, or insisting on "rules" that were never agreed upon. If you're feeling unsure about whether to formalize your arrangements, being pressured into something that feels unfair, or just don't know where to start, this episode provides a helpful overview, insights, and discussion points to consider. Please remember this is not legal advice. Always speak with a qualified professional for advice on your specific situation.  

Parenting after separation doesn't come with a manual but it does come with options. In this episode, I sit down with Eliza O'Sullivan, Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner at Simple Separation, to unpack one of the most confusing and emotional parts of separation: how to make parenting work when the relationship ends. Eliza brings calm, clarity, and deep understanding to a topic that so often overwhelms parents. We explore what a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP) actually does, when to use mediation, and how to create a child-focused parenting plan that protects your kids and supports both parents. Together we discuss: The real difference between a Parenting Plan and a Parenting Order Why the best time to create a plan is before you think you need it The must-have clauses every parenting plan should include How to keep communication child-focused when emotions run high What a child's voice really means (and how to be their advocate, not their messenger) When to formalise your arrangements through the court system and when not to This episode is your practical guide to making co-parenting simpler, calmer, and truly centred on your child's needs. Let's Keep the Conversation Going: Visit Divorce and Separation Hub to explore expert resources, courses, and programs tailored to your needs. Share your questions or comments you're not alone in this. Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub. The Divorce and Separation Hub Website The Divorce and Separation Hub Instagram The Divorce and Separation Hub Facebook The Divorce and Separation Hub Linkedin Join our Divorce and Separation community HERE. Watch Nikki's TEDx Talk HERE. Guest: Eliza O'Sullivan, FDRP, Simple Separation  Website   Instagram Loved This Episode? Support the podcast by subscribing, leaving a five-star review, and sharing it with someone who could use a little extra support right now. This podcast's audio production crafted by Dan at dankingproductions.com.au. This episode is sponsored by Simple Separation, the smarter way to separate. Simple Separation is an online, fixed-fee service designed to help Australian couples finalise their divorce and separation respectfully, collaboratively, and without the stress of going to court. From property settlements and parenting plans to child support and divorce applications, everything you need is under one roof, saving you time, money, and unnecessary conflict. Book your free consultation today to find out if Simple Separation is right for your situation at simple-separation.com.au. Disclaimer I hope you enjoyed the podcast today. The information we discussed today was just that information only. It is not specific advice. If you take action following something you heard today, it is important to make sure you get professional advice about your unique situation before you proceed, whether that advice be legal, financial, accounting, medical or other advice. Please reach out to me if you have any questions or if there's another topic you'd like explored.

When co-parenting feels impossible because of constant conflict, there is another way. It's called parallel parenting—a structure designed for high-conflict divorce that reduces interaction, sets clear boundaries, and allows both parents to focus on their children's wellbeing. In this episode of the Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast, I'm joined by Randi Karmel, PLLC, a family law attorney, mediator, and parent coordinator with decades of experience helping families navigate custody disputes, substance abuse cases, and complex parenting dynamics. Randi and I explore how to create a parallel parenting plan that actually works. We talk about what must be included in your legal agreement, the pitfalls to avoid, and how to handle the inevitable gray areas that come with real life. You'll also hear why having a parent coordinator can be a game-changer in easing ongoing conflict. If you're facing high-conflict divorce or struggling with parenting arrangements, this episode will give you practical tools to reduce stress, minimize court battles, and prioritize your child's emotional safety. Connect with Randi: Website: https://randikarmel.com/ Resources Mentioned in this episode: Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Join the High Conflict Divorce Support Group: https://www.jbddivorcesupport.com/hcdsg

The tween and teen years can feel like emotional whiplash — one minute you're managing mood swings, the next you're untangling tech rules or talking boundaries.In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino interview Bailey Gaddis — certified parenting coach, doula, hypnotherapist, and mom of two — to help bring calm, confidence, and customization to the parenting journey.The discussion unpacks how to:Create parenting plans tailored to your childSupport emotional growth through hormonal changes and screen time stressFoster independence, build trust, and open the lines of communicationHandle bullying, teach consent, and nurture real-world relationshipsRooted in real life and backed by research, Gaddis discusses how parents can lead with flexibility, intention, and heart.Links referenced in this episode:whereparentstalk.comThis podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.You'll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.

This week's Saddle Up segment emphasizes the importance of amicable cooperation in divorce, especially when children are involved. Key takeaways from Tuesday's 'Doing Divorce' episode with Dr. Peggy Price, who is both an attorney and a mother of a special needs child, were discussed. The segment highlights the critical need for detailed parenting plans, particularly for special needs children, considering financial support and caregiving challenges. Dr. Peggy Price's book, available on Amazon, is recommended for further guidance. Listeners are encouraged to reach out for more information and to revisit the informative Tuesday episode.00:00 Introduction to Saddle Up Segment00:16 Key Takeaway: Amicable Divorce00:34 Support Systems in Divorce00:47 Focus on Children01:13 Special Needs Children in Divorce02:15 Financial Considerations03:21 Parenting Plans and Flexibility03:57 Conclusion and Resources

In this episode of Doing Divorce Different, host Lesa Koski welcomes Dr. Price—a trailblazing attorney, educator, and autism therapist—who shares her extraordinary journey of combining legal expertise with a deep commitment to justice and special needs advocacy.With over 25 years of experience as a civil trial attorney and prosecutor, Dr. Price has served as an expert witness and consultant in more than 75 cases involving special needs issues. She brings a unique perspective to the table, highlighting the intersection of law, public service, and personal advocacy.Now an esteemed professor and Academic Program Director at National University, Dr. Price continues to shape future leaders, drawing on her award-winning teaching skills and unparalleled dedication. She's also trained in the Judevine method for autism therapy, providing an added layer of insight into the needs of individuals with special needs.Tune in for an inspiring conversation about breaking barriers, finding purpose, and leading with compassion.Key Takeaways:00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:18 Peggy's Background and Personal Story02:36 Challenges of Divorcing with Special Needs Children07:11 Financial and Legal Considerations11:22 Parenting Plans and Custody Arrangements15:26 Support Systems and Resources31:33 Conclusion and Resources Dr. Price's legal background intersects with special needs advocacyDIY Parenting Plan CourseFind More From Lesa Here!

Divorced dads: Are you navigating the complex world of parenting plans? From holiday schedules to transportation logistics, our latest episode covers the essential components you need to address. Don't leave your custody arrangement to chance.Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.comDon't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/Other Resources:The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.comThe Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBpThe Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/Music credit: Akira the DonSend us a text Support the show

In this powerful episode of WeChat Divorce, hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan welcome Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach and certified mediator, to discuss what a real parenting plan should look like—and why the standard legal templates aren't nearly enough. Drawing from her personal experience and professional work with divorcing parents, Samantha shares why parenting plans must go beyond weekends and holidays. Together, they dives deep into how decisions about healthcare, education, extracurriculars, and even future expectations should be clarified upfront to avoid conflict—and costly legal battles—down the road. Whether you're just starting your divorce journey or re-evaluating a current plan, this conversation reveals why a proactive, customized approach is key to protecting your children, your time, and your wallet. Samantha Boss is a certified divorce mediator and high-conflict divorce coach who helps moms take back control of their lives and protect their children's futures. Drawing from her personal experience with a contentious four-year divorce, she now empowers others to build effective parenting plans through coaching, education, and strategy.Learn more at samanthaboss.com. Connect with Us: Have a question or a topic you'd like us to cover? Email us at wechat@ck11.net Visit mydivorcesolution.com for expert guidance, financial clarity, and a supportive community throughout your divorce journey. About Our Guest: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the parenting plan you're handed is the very thing that's keeping you stuck?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach, mediator, and founder of The Ugly Truth of Divorce. Samantha shares how her own eight-year legal battle, toxic co-parenting dynamic, and expensive missteps led her to create a business helping women avoid the same fate. From diapers to diplomas, she now helps moms draft rock-solid parenting plans that reduce stress, prevent courtroom chaos, and give them their power back.   Resources Mentioned: Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: Red flags, parallel parenting, and recognizing high-conflict dynamics Radical acceptance and letting go of courtroom warfare  Why parenting plans should be created before hiring an attorney  What every plan should include (but usually doesn't)  Getting the most value out of your attorney relationship  Financial inequality, extracurriculars, and when to go back to court  When to let go of toxic money and create your own abundance  How starting her business changed her life (and income) Using your story to build something that matters  Why pivoting is normal and necessary    Key Takeaways: “Your parenting plan is a business contract. It's not about feelings, it's about clarity.” – Samantha Boss “The courtroom is not the place to heal your emotional wounds.” – Samantha Boss “You don't have to win in court to win in life after divorce.” – Samantha Boss   Find more from Samantha Boss: Website: www.samanthaboss.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theuglytruthofdivorce/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theuglytruthofdivorce YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TUTODwithsamboss   Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

In this eye-opening and practical episode,a seasoned family lawyer helps to unpack the 10 most frequently asked questions about child custody in Australia. Whether you're fresh out of a breakup, preparing for court, or trying to figure out what your rights are, this episode is packed with general education and emotional clarity every separated parent needs. From understanding how courts decide who gets custody, to navigating situations involving domestic violence, high-conflict co-parents, and parenting plans this episode helps you gain a better understanding of what's what in child custody issues.  

Send us a textThis week Amanda and Alex sat down with Samantha Boss, better known as The Ugly Side of Divorce, and chatted about the realities of co-parenting with a high-conflict ex.  Learn about specifics you must include as non-negotiables if you plan on successfully co-parenting, or, more than likely, parallel parent.Samantha works with clients one-on-one, hosts a master class and creates personalized parenting plans, all found at samanthaboss.com.Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed by our podcast guest are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the hosts or the podcast. We value diverse perspectives and aim to provide a platform for thoughtful discussion and exploration of different ideas.Got any comments, suggestions or queries? We'd love to hear from you! DM us on Instagram @dirty.laundry.podcast to be featured on one of our upcoming episodes. Also, don't forget to rate and review our show on your favourite podcast player.

Send us a textParenting inevitably involves handling unexpected interruptions and distractions, from financial emergencies to childhood illnesses. Being prepared with both financial strategies and practical supplies can transform these challenging moments from stressful crises into manageable situations.• Save tax refunds and windfalls in high-yield savings accounts for emergencies• Consider thrift shops and consignment stores for children's clothing• Don't be ashamed to accept hand-me-downs from friends or family• Keep essential medical supplies on hand (Tylenol, Neosporin, cough syrup, thermometer)• Remember that preparing for interruptions reduces stress when they occur• Focus on being a good parent who teaches, not a perfect parent• Always be learning alongside your children• Set aside time without phone distractions to connect with your childPut that phone down for one hour and spend quality time with your child. Write down one thing you want to be better at as a parent and commit to making that improvement.https://singlemomsunitedpodcast.com/It's not how you arrived at the title, but what you do with it.

Unlock the secrets to navigating the complex world of family law with insights from Yoni Levoritz, a seasoned New York City attorney. Our conversation sheds light on the thorny issues surrounding relocations and parenting plans, including the hidden pitfalls of moving away from a noncustodial parent and how economic factors can influence custody outcomes. Yoni shares a remarkable case study where a denied relocation was reversed on appeal by honing in on the child's best interests and economic necessity. His practical advice serves as a guiding light for those facing similar legal hurdles, ensuring you are well-equipped to protect your family's needs.Transitioning to pressing matters of child therapy and educational planning, we explore strategies to smoothly navigate these sensitive topics within the family court system. Yoni emphasizes the crucial need for therapy, particularly during tumultuous family changes, and how to overcome potential court hesitations regarding therapy for young children. We also unravel the intricacies of college planning, highlighting the importance of a pro-rata split based on income for fair financial contributions. This discussion aims to arm you with the knowledge to create a comprehensive parenting plan that anticipates future educational needs and supports your child's emotional well-being.The episode concludes with a thorough examination of enforcing parenting plans and the repercussions of non-compliance, from child support to maintaining open communication channels. Yoni offers advice on responding to blocked visitations and dealing with parental alienation, ensuring that you can effectively uphold your rights and responsibilities. We also touch on the importance of including provisions for privacy and handling contentious situations with care. As the conversation wraps up, Yoni shares how listeners can reach out for further legal guidance and resources, reinforcing his commitment to supporting families through their most challenging times.

Once your parenting plan is signed by a judge, you might think you're in the clear—but what if you realize too late that you missed something critical? In this episode, Leah and Sam break down the top five biggest regrets parents have after finalizing their parenting plans. Sam, a divorce coach and mediator, has helped countless moms avoid costly mistakes after experiencing her own nightmare—spending thousands of dollars and over 300 hours in court trying to fix the gaps in her agreement. Now, she's sharing the must-know dos and don'ts so you can protect your time, money, and peace of mind. If you're in the process of creating or modifying a parenting plan, this episode is a must-listen!https://www.samanthaboss.com/parenting_plan_playbook_masterclass

Navigating co-parenting after divorce is challenging, especially when it comes to balancing custody, finances, and communication. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with attorney Nicole Kobis to discuss how to create a strong parenting plan that prioritizes the well-being of children while maintaining financial stability. Nicole brings her legal expertise in family law, mediation, and parenting coordination to provide practical insights on how to set clear expectations, avoid common pitfalls, and ensure a fair and enforceable parenting agreement. Catherine and Karen share their personal experiences with parenting after divorce, highlighting the importance of having a solid plan in place—even when things seem amicable. From custody schedules to extracurricular expenses, we discuss how to manage evolving family dynamics while keeping children's best interests at the forefront. Key Topics Discussed: ✅ Why every co-parenting arrangement should have a parenting plan—even in amicable divorces ✅ The essential components of a parenting agreement, including legal custody, time-sharing, holidays, and financial obligations ✅ The role of a parenting coordinator in high-conflict co-parenting situations ✅ How financial responsibilities, including child support and extracurricular expenses, impact parenting decisions ✅ The emotional challenges of adjusting to co-parenting and how to stay focused on what's best for the children ✅ When and how to modify a parenting plan when life circumstances change Guest Spotlight: Nicole Kobis Nicole Kobis is a partner at Lindabury, McCormick, Estabrook & Cooper in Westfield, NJ, where she specializes in family law, including divorce, custody, and mediation. As a parenting coordinator, she helps parents implement and navigate parenting plans effectively. With a background in marketing and PR before transitioning into law, Nicole's passion is helping families find practical, amicable solutions during the divorce process. Resources & Links:

Do you really need to formalize your property or parenting agreement when going through divorce or separation? What if you are amicable? Or you both just agree anyway. What's the point in having a formal order? What if you just don't have any property and so you feel there isn't any point in getting official property orders. What if you are worried if you push for property or parenting orders it will make your ex more angry? What if you are terrified of going to court? In this episode,we break down the most common reasons we hear people telling us why they don't want to get official formal orders and explain the considerations these people may need to make. Whether you're amicable, high conflict, or dealing with a narcissistic or avoidant ex or  feeling overwhelmed, or unsure about the legal process, this episode clears up some common myths and confusion and equips you with the knowledge to help you make informed decisions for your future. From financial security to protecting your children's stability. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation.   Listen to This Episode If You:

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Creating an Effective Parenting Plan is one of the most challenging aspects of divorce, and when not done thoughtfully, it can lead to significant post-divorce conflicts. In this episode, I sit down with Tina Keyes, a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, Certified Divorce Coach®, Certified Co-Parenting Specialist, and Trauma-Informed Certified Coach. Tina shares her expertise in helping parents of minor children navigate their co-parenting relationships with reduced stress, conflict, and legal expenses. We explore how to prioritize parenting plans in mediation, common oversights parents make when crafting these agreements, and best practices for creating and implementing successful plans. Tina also delves into how contentiousness impacts parenting negotiations, the harmful use of children as pawns in divorce, and strategies to prevent such dynamics. Tune in for invaluable insights from a seasoned expert dedicated to making divorce less traumatic for families.

Facing the journey from separation to settlement can feel overwhelming and uncertain, but you're not alone. In this episode, Laura and Lynette take you through the seven essential stages of the divorce process, from making the initial decision to separate, all the way to moving forward after your settlement. They share practical tips, emotional insights, and legal education to help you make empowered choices at every step. Whether you're at the beginning of this journey or somewhere in the middle, this episode offers a roadmap to guide you through. Listen to This Episode If You:

Parenting Plans: The Foundation of Co-Parenting After DivorceIn this episode of How to Split a Toaster, Seth Nelson and Pete Wright dive deep into the crucial topic of parenting plans as part of their season-long series, Your Divorce Case. Seth shares his expertise on the essential components of a parenting plan and how they can help establish a solid foundation for co-parenting after divorce.Navigating the Complexities of Parenting PlansSeth and Pete discuss the key aspects of parenting plans, including parental responsibility, time-sharing, and addressing the unique needs of children at different ages. They explore how the court determines the best interests of the child using various factors and delve into the implications of relocation cases. The hosts also touch on the importance of flexibility and adaptability in parenting plans while maintaining clear and enforceable guidelines.Questions we answer in this episode:What are the essential components of a parenting plan?How do courts determine the best interests of the child?What happens when one parent needs to relocate for work?Key Takeaways:Parenting plans should be clear, unambiguous, and enforceableFlexibility and adaptability are crucial for successful co-parentingSubstantial changes in circumstances can warrant modifications to the parenting planThis episode offers invaluable insights for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce with children. Seth's expertise and Pete's thoughtful questions provide listeners with a comprehensive understanding of parenting plans and how they can help establish a strong foundation for co-parenting after divorce. By tuning in, you'll gain the knowledge and tools needed to create a parenting plan that prioritizes your children's well-being and fosters a healthy co-parenting relationship.Links & NotesSchedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (02:10) - PEACE: Parenting Plan (03:08) - Essential Components (05:58) - Legal Terms (07:49) - Determining What's Best for the Child (11:27) - Weight for the Factors (12:52) - Geography (15:51) - How Detailed? (18:32) - Allowing for Flexibility (20:39) - Modifying It (23:19) - Enforceability (26:18) - Education, Healthcare, Extracurriculars, Etc. (29:14) - Changes in FL Law (31:01) - It's About the Child, Not You (33:03) - Wrap Up Learn more about the Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting webinar and sign up to attend right here! It's on Saturday, November 16th, at 9:30a PT. 

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Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)One of the most emotional and difficult parts of divorce can be negotiating parenting plans - especially for co-parents who are experiencing a high degree of conflict. We shared a statistic last week that 80% of the family court calendar is taken up by custody matters and frankly that breaks our hearts. Because we know that parental conflict is the #1 reason children are negatively impacted in the divorce process.Today, we discuss why we believe a thorough and detailed parenting plan is the most effective way to help conflicted co-parents prevent future disagreements and future litigation.An effective parenting plan goes well beyond just parenting time schedules and expense sharing, but encourages parents to discuss the many details of raising children together. Regardless of how parents feel about each other, the fact is that they will be family for life. As anyone with adult children knows, parenting doesn't stop when a child turns 18.We often hear that attorneys push back on discussing or documenting any agreements that aren't supported by the legal statutes. The typical response is “That's not enforceable”.  And we get it - lawyers are focused on the legal aspects of a divorce case. But as divorce coaches, we take a more holistic approach and are interested in helping families transition so they are able to co-parent effectively. Listen in as we chat about why we believe that changing the experience of divorce for families means moving beyond the legal minimum requirements and developing a comprehensive plan that works for each family. Conflicted Co-Parenting Training Begins Nov 4 --> Learn More and Enroll Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Karen and Catherine are joined by special guest Tracy Malone, a recognized expert in narcissistic abuse and divorce coaching, to delve into essential yet often-overlooked financial considerations in parenting plans. Tracy introduces her new program, ParentingPlans.org, which supports parents in building comprehensive, forward-thinking parenting plans. These plans address not only custody arrangements but also the critical financial components that typical child support agreements may miss. Tracy explains why setting clear financial expectations upfront can help parents avoid future disputes and costly court visits, fostering a peaceful co-parenting environment for their children. Key Topics Discussed: Financial protections to include in parenting plans Why parenting plans should extend beyond time-sharing and custody Addressing shared expenses for children, such as braces, sports, and technology Preventing conflicts by defining financial responsibilities from the start Empowering parents with tools and resources for creating thorough parenting plans Tracy Malone is a renowned author, speaker, and educator, recognized globally for her work in narcissistic abuse and divorce coaching. She is the founder of NarcissisticAbuseSupport.com and recently launched ParentingPlans.org, a resource platform guiding parents in building thoughtful, financially secure post-divorce parenting plans. Links and Resources Mentioned: Tracy's website: NarcissisticAbuseSupport.com Tracy's program: ParentingPlans.org My Divorce Solution's Financial Portrait: My Divorce Solution Listen to the full episode for more expert tips and insights to help you navigate the often-overlooked tax implications of divorce. Subscribe & Listen on your favorite podcast streaming platform or watch the show on YouTube! Follow Us: Instagram: @mydivorcesolution Facebook: @mydivorcesolution Disclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered financial or legal advice. Please consult with professionals in the relevant fields for personalized guidance. The WeChat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work. WCD should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever. Listeners should contact their attorney to obtain advice with respect to any particular legal matter. No listener should act or refrain from acting on the basis of information on WCD without first seeking legal advice from counsel in the relevant jurisdiction. No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on WCD. Unless specifically stated otherwise, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew do not endorse, approve, recommend, or certify any information, product, process, service, or organization presented or mentioned on WCD, and information from this podcast should not be referenced in any way to imply such approval or endorsement. The third-party materials or content of any third-party site referenced on WCD do not necessarily reflect the opinions, standards or policies of Catherine Shanahan or Karen Chellew. WCD, CATHERINE SHANAHAN, AND KAREN CHELLEW EXPRESSLY DISCLAIM ANY AND ALL LIABILITY OR RESPONSIBILITY FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, OR OTHER DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF ANY INDIVIDUAL'S USE OF, REFERENCE TO, RELIANCE ON, OR INABILITY TO USE, THIS PODCAST OR THE INFORMATION PRESENTED IN THIS PODCAST. If you would like to obtain a typed transcript of this podcast episode, please email us at hello@mydivorcesolution.com. Please be sure to include the episode name in the transcript email request. Thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast, Divorce and Co-Parenting Coach Samantha Boss is on the show to dive into all things co-parenting plans and dealing with a high-conflict ex. Through her personal experience and 8-year battle dealing with a high-conflict and narcissistic ex-husband, Samantha started supporting other women going through the same thing to help them feel empowered and less alone.  In this episode, we talk about her life as a single mom and the things she does to make sure her kids are taken care of (even if it means checking her ego), how her high-conflict ex affected the way her kids showed up, why you need to think long-game when writing your co-parenting plan and her thoughts about having joint events.  For more from Samantha, connect with her at @the_samantha_boss Inside KICK-ASS Stepmom: A Co-Parenting Plan That Leaves No Room For Grey with Samantha Boss | Click Here To Join Upcoming Masterclass: Beat Stepmom Burnout Secure your spot at www.jamiescrimgeour.com/burnout Join KICK-ASS Stepmom Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching FREE: When Should A Stepmom Disengage? Take The Quiz and See Thanks to our sponsors: LMNT | My Go To Electrolyte Drink. Head to www.drinklmnt.com/kickassstepmom to get a free sample pack with any drink mix purchase. Cozy Earth | cozyearth.com/kickassstepmom and use the code COZYJAMIE for 40% off

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Jenny Shane is the founder of Divorce in Peace. She is a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, Florida Bar Licensed Attorney, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS™) through the National Association of DivorceProfessionals, and she has a Bachelor's of Science degree in Psychology.As a divorce coach, Jenny guides individuals through all stages of divorce and life afterwards. She is skilled in helping her clients understand the legal process behind divorce and how to take control of their divorce decisions, whether they are lawyers represented or not. Jenny shares her unique journey from a lawyer to a divorce coach, focused on helping parents create and modify effective parenting plans that prioritize the best interests of the children. The discussion also touches upon empowering children to voice their preferences, especially teenagers, and the significance of a comprehensive approach to mental health within the family dynamic.Takeaways1. Integrate mental health provisions2. Be kind to your co parent during divorce3. Involve teens in time-sharing decisionsTimestamps00:00 Transition from litigation to family law mediation.04:21 Transitioned from law to divorce coaching, found fulfillment.09:33 Working with only one person limits understanding.10:22 Provide tough love, evaluate behavior, improve relationship.16:56 Detailed documentation is needed for custody modification.18:28 Parallel parenting in high conflict divorces occurs when parents refuse to work together, resulting in separate households and parenting styles.22:32 Transition challenges for young children in custody.26:37 Children need both parents for balanced support.29:24 Teen sleeps in closet for privacy, needs empowerment.33:21 Parenting plans address counseling and cost sharing.34:26 Each parent is responsible for child therapy.38:41 Avoiding conflict by intervening in emotionally charged situations.41:02 Communication through DM and email preferred.

In this episode Adrienne and Amelia dive into the bittersweet experience of watching kids grow up and become adults. They discuss the emotional challenges of letting go, the complexities of blended families, and the reality of navigating milestones in the late teen and adult years. They share personal insights about their own parenting journeys, including struggles with insecurity, ego, and maintaining composure in front of stepchildren. The conversation emphasizes the importance of focusing on what's within your control and accepting that not all relationships will be ideal.   HIGHLIGHTS: Letting Go: The difficulty of transitioning from a hands-on parenting role to one of support as children become more independent. Blended Family Dynamics: Navigating family events and milestones in a blended family setting, including the challenges of making everyone feel included despite different family dynamics. Personal Reflections: Both hosts share their personal struggles with managing their roles, the impact of insecurity and ego, and the importance of focusing on the relationships they can control. Realness in Parenting: The conversation highlights the value of showing vulnerability and authenticity, especially with stepchildren, and the importance of letting go of the need for everything to be perfect. RESOURCES & LINKS: Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach  

This episode continues the conversation from Episode 18, as Adrienne and Amelia dive deeper into the unique challenges that stepmoms face. Based on valuable feedback from listeners, they explore new strategies and insights to help you navigate your role with confidence and grace. Join them as they uncover the importance of understanding emotional triggers and how this awareness can transform your interactions with your stepchild and family. They'll share practical tips for building a stronger bond with your stepchild, including finding common ground and creating cherished moments together. HIGHLIGHTS: Understanding Your Emotional Triggers: Recognizing and understanding your emotional triggers can help you respond more effectively to challenging situations as a stepmom. By identifying what specifically sets you off, you can take proactive steps to manage your reactions and communicate more effectively. Building a Stronger Bond with Your Stepchild: Strategies to build trust and foster a genuine relationship, such as finding common interests and spending quality one-on-one time together. Effective Communication with Your Partner: Techniques to improve dialogue with your partner, including active listening, setting boundaries, and ensuring that both partners feel heard and respected. Dealing with the Other Parent: Strategies for managing interactions with your stepchild's other parent. This included setting healthy boundaries, maintaining a neutral stance, and focusing on the well-being of the child rather than past conflicts or personal feelings. Empowering Stepmoms to Find Their Place: Empowering stepmoms to embrace their unique role within the family unit and how to overcome feelings of insecurity or jealousy and find a sense of belonging by embracing your individuality and strengths.   RESOURCES & LINKS: Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach

In this episode of The Stepmom Unfiltered Podcast, Adrienne and Amelia reflect on their decades of experience as stepmoms and discuss what they would do differently if given the chance. They dive into the nuances of stepparenting, the challenges of balancing roles, and the lessons learned from their past mistakes. From setting boundaries to understanding the differences between parenting and stepparenting, they share insights and advice for navigating the world of blended families. Tune in to hear about the importance of building strong foundations, recognizing the impact of personal history on present relationships, and the critical role of communication and boundaries.   HIGHLIGHTS: Understanding the Stepmom Role: The importance of recognizing stepparenting as a distinct role, with its own challenges and nuances. Boundaries and Balance: How setting boundaries sooner could have made a difference in managing relationships and ensuring personal well-being. Reflecting on Past Experiences: Personal stories and insights into the mistakes made and lessons learned in the early days of being a stepmom and the importance of seeking help and advice early on.  Personal Growth and Self-awareness: The realization of how personal history and past experiences can impact current relationships and parenting styles. Emphasizing the journey of self-awareness and growth in becoming a better stepmom and partner.   RESOURCES & LINKS: Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach

This week we dive into the complex and often emotional process of blending physical spaces in a stepfamily. Hosts Amelia and Adrienne share their personal experiences, from moving into a home with a history to creating new memories and making a space feel truly yours. Listen in as they discuss the unexpected challenges, emotional hurdles, and practical solutions for making a blended family home a place of comfort and belonging.   HIGHLIGHTS: Personal Experiences: Amelia shares her journey of moving into a home her husband bought with his ex-wife and the unexpected emotional challenges that arose. Emotional Hurdles: The struggle of dealing with the physical reminders of a partner's past and how it can impact a stepmom's sense of belonging. Practical Solutions: The importance of creating new memories, making changes to the home, and the significance of communication in navigating these challenges. Building Together: The benefits of working together to make a house feel like a home, including purchasing new items and making joint decisions. Grace and Understanding: Encouragement to give yourself grace during this process and the reminder that it's okay to feel uncomfortable and take time to adjust.   RESOURCES & LINKS: Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom Blog: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/livinginhisexwifeshouse https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/livinginhisexwifeshouse Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach

Hosts Amelia and Adrienne talk about what they feel have been some of the hardest parts of being a stepmom. They share their personal experiences, from dealing with different parenting styles in blended families to managing relationships with stepchildren. The conversation highlights the importance of ego, acceptance, and understanding in navigating the complexities of stepparenting. This candid discussion aims to provide stepmoms with insights, support, and the realization that they are not alone in their journey.   HIGHLIGHTS: Hardest Part of Being a Stepmom: Amelia discusses the challenge of not having control over how children are parented in different homes. Emphasis on accepting different parenting styles and trusting that other parents love the kids equally. Adrienne talks about the role of ego and the importance of recognizing that different ways of parenting are not necessarily wrong, but different. Ongoing Journey and Self-Reflection: The hosts highlight the continuous nature of stepparenting, emphasizing that there's no final destination. Easiest Part of Blended Families: Both hosts reflect on the surprisingly smooth blending of their families.    RESOURCES & LINKS: Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach  

Navigating the Complexities of Military DivorceIn this week's episode of How to Split a Toaster, Pete is joined by a special guest, Kristin Scully, the newest member of NLG Family Law Group. With Seth on vacation, Kristin steps in to share her expertise on the intricacies of military divorce. As a family law attorney with over ten years of experience, Kristin has developed a niche in handling military divorce cases, addressing issues such as pension division, parenting plans, and jurisdictional challenges.Pete and Kristin dive deep into the unique aspects of military divorce, discussing how factors like frequent relocation, deployments, and military benefits can complicate the process. They explore the misconceptions surrounding military pension division, the importance of understanding the service member's income structure, and the creative strategies for crafting parenting plans that accommodate the demands of military life.Some questions we answer in this episode:How is military pension divided in a divorce?What challenges do military families face when creating parenting plans?Can GI Bill benefits be divided in a military divorce?Key Takeaways:Military pension division is based on the length of the marriage overlapping with years of service, not just the total duration of the marriage.Parenting plans for military families should include provisions for long-distance and local schedules to minimize the need for constant modifications.Jurisdiction can be a complex issue in military divorces, especially when one spouse is stationed overseas.Plus, we tackle another listener question! A listener asks about the difference between a social investigator and a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) in the context of divorce proceedings. Pete and Kristin clarify the distinct roles and responsibilities of these professionals, helping listeners understand when and why each may be appointed in a divorce case.This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of a military divorce. With Kristin's extensive knowledge and experience, listeners will gain valuable insights into the unique challenges and considerations involved in these cases. Whether you're a service member, a spouse, or a legal professional, this episode will provide you with the information and strategies you need to approach a military divorce with confidence and clarity.Links & NotesCheck out Kristin's pageSchedule a consult with SethGot a question you want to ask on the show? Click here! (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster (00:30) - Kristin Scully and Military Divorce (01:14) - Kristin's Background (02:02) - Challenges in Military Divorce (03:07) - Military Pension (04:38) - Other Misconceptions (05:40) - Who Pays Pension? (07:23) - Alimony (08:57) - Thrift Savings Plan (09:53) - Calculating Service Member's Income (12:23) - Parenting Plans (14:33) - When Parents Can't Work Together (15:51) - Navigating Constant Change and Conflict (17:31) - Court's Perspective (18:38) - GI Bill (20:23) - Common Mistakes (23:45) - Overseas Courts (25:14) - Listener Question (29:52) - Survivor Benefit Plan (33:38) - Language in Final Judgment (34:24) - Wrap Up

This week Adrienne and Amelia take a look at stepmom self-talk and the narratives we tell ourselves. From challenging beliefs to identifying thought patterns, this episode offers practical insights and actionable strategies for navigating the ups and downs of stepfamily life.   HIGHLIGHTS: Identifying Beliefs: Exploration of how our beliefs shape our actions and perceptions, and learn techniques for uncovering and challenging limiting beliefs. The Power of Perspective: The impact of shifting perspectives and reframing situations  Tools for Self-Reflection: Learn practical tools for examining and addressing negative self-talk, including questioning assumptions and seeking alternative explanations. Real-Life Examples: Hear personal anecdotes and experiences that illustrate the importance of self-awareness and intentional communication in stepfamily dynamics.   RESOURCES & LINKS: Course: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/thestepmomstore/p/the-sovereign-stepmom Blog:  Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach  

Join Amelia and Adrienne as they explore the often-overlooked aspect of stepmoms having more control than they realize. From defining roles within the family dynamic to navigating boundaries with ex-partners, they provide valuable insights and practical advice for stepmoms seeking clarity and empowerment.   HIGHLIGHTS: Defining your role: Understand what responsibilities you're comfortable with and establish boundaries in collaboration with your partner. Navigating societal narratives The importance of open and honest discussions with your partner to align expectations and parenting strategies. Recognize that you have the right to make decisions within your household, independent of your partner's ex. Importance of a parenting plan: Establishing clear guidelines early on can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts in the future, providing stability for everyone involved. RESOURCES & LINKS: Blog: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/stepfamilyhappiness Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach  

In this episode, we tackle a crucial and relatable topic: how to balance supporting your child's dreams while being realistic about their goals. Inspired by a personal experience with Amelia's son and the overwhelming response from an Instagram poll, we chat through the complexities of parental encouragement. We discuss the impact of teachers and parents on children's aspirations, the importance of perseverance, and how to handle disappointments and setbacks. Whether you're a stepmom, mom, or dad, this episode offers valuable insights on fostering a supportive yet realistic environment for your kids' dreams.   HIGHLIGHTS: How a teacher's discouraging words about making it to the NHL sparked a broader conversation on supporting kids' dreams. The benefits of encouraging children to pursue sports and other activities they love. The valuable life skills kids learn from being involved in sports, such as perseverance, teamwork, and resilience. How to be honest with your kids about the odds of achieving their dreams without crushing their spirit.   RESOURCES & LINKS: Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach  

In this episode we sit down with Megan Jerrelle, a dedicated mom, and wellness coach, to explore her expert insights on navigating the complexities of single-mom life. Megan shares her personal journey and offers practical tips on prioritizing self-care, establishing healthy habits, and creating connections with your children. Learn how small changes in your daily routine can lead to a more balanced, fulfilling life. Whether you're struggling with sleep, overwhelmed by commitments, or looking to improve your co-parenting dynamics, Megan's advice will inspire and empower you!   HIGHLIGHTS:   Learn Megan's personal sleep routine: early bedtime and natural waking   Self-Care Strategies such as walking to boost mood and reduce loneliness   Handling extracurricular activities when co-parents have different levels of involvement   Megan's practice of keeping Sundays free for spontaneous family activities   Megan's experience with learning new activities alongside her children   Avoiding negative talk and focusing on factual, supportive communication   CONNECT WITH SPECIAL GUEST: Website: www.meganjerrelle.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/megan.jerrelle   RESOURCES & LINKS: Blog: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/toxic-tongues Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach  

This week we dive into the balancing act of navigating different parenting styles within blended families. Join us as we discuss the various parenting approaches and how they can impact family dynamics. We explore the challenges and benefits of co-parenting both within your home and with your exes. Learn practical tips for finding common ground, setting boundaries, and fostering respect among all parents involved. Whether you're a stepmom struggling with guilt or a parent trying to blend different family traditions, this episode offers valuable insights to help you create a harmonious family environment.   HIGHLIGHTS: The impact of family history and guilt on parenting decisions. Balancing different parenting styles within your own home and with your partner. Strategies for co-parenting with exes and navigating multiple households. The importance of establishing rules gradually. Challenges of parenting "ours babies" versus children who go between homes. Effective communication with children and the importance of explaining the "why" behind rules.   RESOURCES & LINKS: Blog: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/stepfamily-benefits-of-having-rules-and-expectations Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach

Amelia and Adrienne are talking about “transition day,” the time when children move between homes in a blended family. They explore the emotional and logistical challenges that come with these transitions, offering insights and practical tips to make the process smoother for everyone involved. The discussion covers the evolution of transition day dynamics as children grow, the impact on different family members, and strategies for creating a supportive environment. Whether you're a stepmom struggling with the back-and-forth or looking to better understand your stepchildren's experiences, this episode is packed with valuable advice and heartfelt stories.   HIGHLIGHTS: Discussion on the dynamics of children moving between homes and how different household roles affect them. Insight into the different roles children assume in blended families and how these roles change in various households. Reflection on the compounded stress of different rules, schedules, and environments during transitions. Addressing stepmom insecurities and the importance of empathy towards stepchildren during transitions. Practical tips on maintaining a structured routine and creating a welcoming environment for children.   RESOURCES & LINKS: Blog: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/stepmomtipsfortransitionday Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach  

In this episode of the Stepmom Unfiltered Podcast, hosts Adrienne and Amelia dive into the complexities and unique challenges of planning a wedding as a second wife. They share their personal stories and contrasting experiences, providing insights into the emotional rollercoaster of wedding planning while navigating insecurities and family dynamics. They discuss the significance of including children and extended family in the wedding ceremony, balancing personal desires with familial expectations, and the lessons learned along the way. Tune in for a candid conversation filled with heartfelt moments, practical advice, and plenty of laughter.   HIGHLIGHTS: Personal Stories of Wedding Planning: Adrienne and Amelia share their unique experiences of planning a wedding as a second wife, highlighting the emotional challenges and differences in their approaches. Navigating Insecurities: The hosts discuss how insecurities can influence wedding planning decisions and the importance of staying true to personal desires instead of trying to "one-up" previous relationships. Including Children and Family: Tips on how to involve children in the wedding ceremony and create special moments for blended families. Balancing Expectations: Strategies for balancing personal wedding dreams with the expectations and dynamics of extended family members, including divorced parents and step-parents. Lessons Learned: Reflecting on the lessons learned from their wedding experiences, Adrienne and Amelia emphasize the importance of doing what feels right for you and not letting insecurities drive the planning process. Heartfelt Moments: Emotional and touching moments shared by the hosts, including family members coming together and special dances with fathers and stepfathers.   RESOURCES & LINKS: Blog: https://www.theartofblendedchaos.com/blog/powerofcommunicationinstepfamilies Website: theartofblendedchaos.com YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered   FOLLOW: The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach

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If you have gone through or are going through divorce we are sure you have heard the term guardian at litem or parent coordinator, but what are they and do you need one? This week Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by the incredible Dr. Stacey Jones to educate listeners on both and if you will need to hire on during your divorce. In this episode, Michelle and Stacey will share their knowledge on: Why parenting coordinators and GAL are not assigned to every case When and why a judge may order a parenting coordinator or GAL to a case The impact they may have on the outcome How long they will be involved AND SO MUCH MORE Dr. Stacey Jones is a licensed psychologist with over 25 years of clinical experience. Her professional expertise centers around navigating the multifaceted challenges faced by parents, children, and families. Through specialized training, she facilitates the reconstruction of familial bonds, fostering an environment free from bias and judgment, wherein individuals and families can find solace and security.  Dr. Jones excels in equipping individuals with coping mechanisms and communication skills, pivotal elements in forging new and healthier family dynamics An accomplished speaker, Dr. Jones frequently delivers lectures on the art of peacefully navigating divorce and co-parenting with neutrality. These insights aim to contribute to the construction of a more harmonious family structure. Dr. Jones is a Licensed Psychologist, Family Court Expert, Consultant, Supreme Court Family Mediator, Parenting Coordinator, Collaborative Family Law Facilitator, Individual Therapist, Family Therapist, Couples Counselor, High Conflict Divorce Specialist, Reunification Therapist, and a Social Investigator. Dr. Jones also provides Co-Parenting Therapy, Parenting Plans and Psychological Evaluations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices