Podcasts about Coparenting

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ResourcesEpisode 231. When Your Ex Starts Dating: How to Handle their New Partner and Protect Your KidsEpisode 170. Co-Parenting Pitfalls for Bio and Step Parents: How to Avoid "Milestone Mishaps"Episode 135. How to Set Appropriate Boundaries and Negotiate Well with Your Ex-SpouseEpisode 226. How Two Homes Raise Kids that Thrive:  A Co-Parenting Blueprint for Caring Parents [with Jay & Tammy Daughtry]Episode 112. 3 Dangerous Dynamics that Can Destroy Co-Parenting - and Hurt the KidsEpisode 212. 3 Negotiation Strategies to Increase Collaboration and Influence in Your Co-Parenting RelationshipEpisode 188. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 2 of 2)Episode 20. 4 Big Myths About Parenting When an Ex Has Different RulesSuggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

This week in The Mama's Den, we're kicking it with Apryl Jones — single mama of two, entrepreneur, creative, and yes… someone many people think they know from reality TV, but trust us, there's so much more to her story. Apryl gets real about doing the work to release old relationship hurt and issues with her father so she can show up lighter, freer, and fully present for herself and her kids. We talk motherhood hustle, protecting your peace, dating as a single mom, what still scares her, and what she's truly looking for in this next chapter. And honestly? Her energy surprised us in the best way — fun, carefree, thoughtful, and grounded in family first. It turned into one of those conversations where you laugh, reflect, and leave feeling a little softer about your own journey. Healing, honesty, and good mama energy all around. Keep up with Apryl on IG: @aprylsjones The Mamas are building our community and ways to keep in touch with you. Share your email address here: https://tinyurl.com/MamasDen Make sure you connect with our Mamas on IG: @themamasdenpodcast Ashley - @watermeloneggrolls Codie - @codieco  Melanie - @melaniefiona Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Co‑parenting coach Jay Skibbens talks about communication, emotional regulation and the key behaviors co‑parenting moms need to let go of. He also shares his Grounded Response Method, a free guide that helps co‑parents who feel triggered or reactive even when they 'know better'. It outlines a simple, nervous‑system‑based process to help you pause, ground yourself, and respond without fear or guilt.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nicht auf die große Liebe warten, sondern einfach Freund*innen heiraten, vielleicht sogar gleich mehrere auf einmal - wie würde das unser Leben und unsere Gesellschaft verändern? Gäbe es dann weniger Streit und mehr Zuversicht? // Alle Hintergründe von uns findest Du hier: www.quarks.de. Hast du selbst ein Szenario, das wir prüfen sollen oder Feedback? Schreib uns gerne an: mal_angenommen@wdr.de Eure Hosts sind: Julia Nestlen und Samira El Hattab Hier geht's zur Folge von Studio Q zur Frage wie zufrieden oder unzufrieden Kinder machen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIEV6oAQhiU&list=PLBVy5saB_LC5MUujpBpmwiYI-XcnDoGir&index=2 Und das sind unsere wichtigsten Quellen: Expertin: Rosalie Weigand Psychotherapeutin & Paartherapeutin Studie zu Einsamkeit vom Bundesamt für Bevölkerungsforschung: https://www.bib.bund.de/DE/Presse/Mitteilungen/2024/2024-05-29-Einsamkeit-im-jungen-und-mittleren-Erwachsenenalter-hat-zugenommen-besonders-unter-jungen-Menschen.html Meta-Analyse, die zeigt, dass soziale Isolation und Einsamkeit im Zusammenhang mit einem höheren Krebsrisiko stehen: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41562-023-01617-6.epdf Diese Studie zeigt, dass im Alter von 60 fast täglich Freunde treffen das Demenzrisiko senkt: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31374073/ Laut dieser Studie profitieren Männer mehr von romantischen Beziehungen als Frauen: https://www.hu-berlin.de/de/pr/nachrichten/januar-2025/nr-2516 Gute Freundschaften zeigen im Hinblick auf Depressionen einen positiveren Effekt auf die Psyche als romantische Beziehungen – laut dieser Längsschnittanalyse: https://doi.org/10.1177/02654075251321385 Studie zu Herausforderungen in Kommunen: https://www.kommune-niederkaufungen.de/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Erg%C3%A4nzungspapier-2015.pdf Infos zur Ehegattennotvertretung in Gesundheitsangelegenheiten: https://www.bmjv.de/DE/themen/vorsorge_betreuungsrecht/ehegattennotvertretung/ehegattennotvertretung_node.html Zahlen zu getrennten Eltern im Familienreport 2024: https://www.bmbfsfj.bund.de/resource/blob/239468/c00efd559163092ed00fb2fb931ce1bf/familienreport-2024-data.pdf Studie zum Co-Parenting: https://doi.org/10.1016/j.rbmo.2024.104747 Alternativen zur Ehe in anderen Ländern: https://www.bundestag.de/resource/blob/645642/1555642dbaa59ca8633da5bbb78b941b/WD-7-055-19-pdf-data.pdf

Amy shares a big win she had with her ex-husband and co-parenting meetings and her advice on how to make decisions when the ‘vibes are good’. Bobby shares how he learned he is growing up based on how he took the Arkansas basketball loss last night. But also shared how he yelled at someone at work for the first time. Eddie shares a decision his son made that made him feel like a good dad.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send a textIn this episode of The Remarkable People Podcast, host David Pasqualone interviews author and entrepreneur Sandra Lena Silverman, a co-founder of a large mortgage business and mother of two, about her life story and the lessons she wants listeners to apply—especially learning to love themselves. Sandra shares being adopted as an infant, childhood molestation that later manifested as a severe fear of elevators, and a lifelong pattern of perfectionism and overachieving. She recounts a difficult marriage marked by gaslighting, manipulation, and emotional abuse from a narcissistic husband, including constant body-shaming that contributed to her pursuit of numerous cosmetic procedures and surgeries. Sandra describes how the abuse escalated after pregnancy, the onset of infidelity, multiple separations (including in 2006, 2016, and 2023), and her decision to end the cycle with a final separation in 2024 and ongoing divorce proceedings. She explains how prolonged stress affected her health—high cortisol, inflammation, shaking—and how those symptoms improved after leaving. Sandra discusses warning signs such as love bombing, excuses, and blame-shifting, emphasizes the need for strong boundaries, and updates listeners on her current work: her book deal for three books (including the republished From Bullshit to Botox and a forthcoming second book focused on her marriage and narcissism), her show Parties Over, and her social media presence where people can connect with her.01:50 What You'll Learn Today: Loving Yourself02:56 Adopted in Maryland: Family, Identity, and Early Questions04:58 Childhood Trauma Revealed: Molestation, Memory, and Finding Her Birth Mother06:21 The Trauma Shows Up Later: Claustrophobia & Fear of Elevators08:18 Perfectionism and Overachieving to Earn Love09:37 Meeting Her Ex: The First Body-Shaming Comment10:49 Building a Business + The First Surgery (and the Put-Downs Continue)14:04 Pregnancy, Cruelty, and the Moment She Saw the “Monster”16:13 Affairs, Separations, and the Crossroads She Didn't Leave19:05 Hard-Won Warning: Without Boundaries, It Only Gets Worse20:11 Breaking the Cycle: Final Separation & Choosing Yourself22:13 Healing After Abuse: Epiphanies, Boundaries, and Health Recovery25:02 Kids, Co-Parenting, and Protecting Them from Dysfunction26:21 Red Flags of Narcissism: Love Bombing, Gaslighting, and Blame-Shifting29:40 Life After Leaving: Books, Podcast, New Opportunities, and Independence32:50 Beauty vs. Self-Worth: Elective Surgery, Internal Work, and Doing It for You35:00 Faith, Divorce, and Where to Find Sandra + Final Wrap-Up37:25 Podcast Closing Message: Feedback, Sharing, and Living the MissionREMARKABLE SPECIAL OFFER: Save Big on Your Console Vault In-Vehicle Safe. With our exclusive promo code, “REMARKABLE“, you will Save 10% or more on all Console Vault anti-theft vehicle safes you order. And sometimes, you'll receive Free Shipping too!  Just make sure to use the free Console VaSupport the showTHE NOT-SO-FINE-PRINT DISCLAIMER: While we are very thankful for all of our guests, please understand that we do not necessarily share or endorse the same beliefs, worldviews, or positions that they may hold. We respectfully agree to disagree in some areas, and thank God for the blessing and privilege of free will. For more Remarkable Episodes, Inspiration, and Motivation, please visit https://davidpasqualone.com/remarkable-people-podcast/ now!

If you've ever felt that jolt of panic when your child shares that they've been spending time with "daddy's new girlfriend" or "mommy's new boyfriend"……you're not alone. That moment can trigger fear, jealousy, grief, and of course, a protective instinct that makes you want to react fast.  And sometimes that turns into a moment we later regret.In this episode, we'll help you slow down and respond with wisdom instead of emotion. You'll learn how to make a helpful first impression (even if you don't feel ready), how to reduce tension that fuels loyalty binds, and move toward a healthier co-parenting dynamic without just pretending everything is “fine.” You'll DiscoverWhat to do when you feel unsettled by your ex's “recoupling” How to protect your kids from getting stuck in the middle and stay focused on their well-being How to set a healthy tone with the new partner (and your ex), so you can  avoid common missteps that often strain co-parenting  Resources from this Episode:Episode 229.  The Heavy Burdens Kids Carry:  Loyalty Binds, Parental Allegiance, and How to HelpEpisode 226. How Two Homes Raise Kids that Thrive:  A Co-Parenting Blueprint for Caring Parents [with Jay & Tammy Daughtry]Episode 161.  How do Healthy Parent/Child Roles Help Avoid the Pitfalls of Parentification? [with Ron Deal & Lauren Reitsema]Episode 162. How to Healthy Step-Parent/Step-Child Dynamics Avoid the Pitfalls of Step-Parentification [with Ron Deal & Lauren Reitsema]For Stepparents:Episode 44:  Why does my Husband's Ex Think I'm the Enemy?Episode 45:  How to Cooperate More with Your Spouse's Uncooperative ExEpisode 91:  Is Your Husband's Hostile Ex-Wife Invading Your Life, Stealing Your Joy and Confidence? Episode 170. Co-Parenting Pitfalls for Bio and Step Parents:  How to Avoid "Milestone Mishaps"Ready for some extra support?We're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesessionLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

What happens when creativity replaces substances?On this episode of Painful Lessons Podcast: Punk Rock Sober, Tyler Ramsey sits down with fashion designer, artist, and podcast host Mary Alice Haney for a raw, thoughtful conversation about sobriety, ADHD, creativity, and purpose.Mary Alice opens up about her journey from high-pressure fashion and red-carpet success to discovering that creativity—not Adderall—was the real solution all along. Together, they explore sober curiosity, addiction genetics, parenting with honesty, and why telling the truth to yourself is the foundation of recovery.This episode isn't just about quitting substances—it's about building a life that no longer needs them.

If you're finding conflict hard to manage during separation and co-parenting, this episode is full of practical tips to help you disagree in a calmer, more constructive way.Kate is joined by psychotherapist and divorce coach Eve Stanway to explore why arguments aren't always a bad thing – and how learning to disagree well can transform your relationship with your ex-partner and your children.In this episode, we cover:Eve's separation story and how arguments shaped it Why arguments don't have to be destructiveHow to break cycles of unproductive conflictThe key skills that stop disagreements from escalatingWhy self-regulation matters during separation and co-parentingHow to have productive arguments with your childrenThis episode is for anyone navigating separation or co-parenting who wants to reduce conflict and communicate more effectively.Meet Eve StanwayEve Stanway is a psychotherapist with 25 years of experience, break-up and divorce coach and published author who specialises in guiding parents, individuals and professionals through separation, co-parenting and recovery from toxic relationships. You can learn more about Eve and get in touch with her on her website, and for more helpful communication tips, you can tune in to her brand-new podcast, Dare To Speak: Difficult Conversations That Change Everything. More divorce resourcesNeed expert help right now?Book a free 15-minute consultation with an amicable expert for guidance on the legal, financial, emotional or co-parenting aspects of separation. Or explore our Separating with Children Service – a 90-minute joint session with a Co-parenting Specialist tailored to your family's needs.Want ongoing support through separation?Kate's book amicable divorce is out in March, including dedicated chapters on reducing conflict, communication and co-parenting. Preorder on Amazon today.Want to stay organised as co-parents?As a thank you for listening, here's 3 months of the amicable co-parenting app for free! Open this link on your phone, install the app and create your account. Once that's done, select 'I have a promo code' when setting up your family, enter PODCAST, press ‘apply' and enjoy staying organised together.Got a question for a future episode?Share your thoughts at hello@amicable.co.uk or through direct messages on Instagram.#EmotionalJourney

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When parents separate, the focus is often on logistics parenting schedules, property settlements, court orders. But underneath all of that is something quieter. The emotional world of our children. In this episode, I sit down with psychologist Jamie Maserow, author of The Therapist in Therapy, to explore the silent emotional work children often carry during divorce and separation. We discuss how children can slip into people-pleasing patterns, walking on eggshells to avoid upsetting Mum or Dad. We unpack jealousy — whether it's a child feeling replaced by a new partner, or a parent struggling with their child's bond with the other parent. And we talk about how to build emotional safety so kids feel secure enough to express what they really think and feel. Jamie shares practical strategies parents can implement immediately, including grounding techniques to manage anxiety during handovers and how to create open conversations without burdening children with adult issues. Resources Mentioned The Therapist in Therapy – Jamie Maserow The Invisible String (children's book referenced in discussion) Let's Keep the Conversation Going: Visit Divorce and Separation Hub to explore expert resources, courses, and programs tailored to your needs. Share your questions or comments you're not alone in this. Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub. The Divorce and Separation Hub Website The Divorce and Separation Hub Instagram The Divorce and Separation Hub Facebook The Divorce and Separation Hub Linkedin Join our Divorce and Separation community HERE. Watch Nikki's TEDx Talk HERE. Guest: Jaime Maserow, Psychologist and Author of The Therapist in Therapy Website Instagram Book Loved This Episode? Support the podcast by subscribing, leaving a five-star review, and sharing it with someone who could use a little extra support right now. This episode is produced by Dan King of Dan King Productions. This episode is sposnored by Simple Separation, the smarter way to separate. Simple Separation is an online, fixed-fee service designed to help Australian couples finalise their divorce and separation respectfully, collaboratively, and without the stress of going to court. From property settlements and parenting plans to child support and divorce applications, everything you need is under one roof, saving you time, money, and unnecessary conflict. Book your free consultation today to find out if Simple Separation is right for your situation at simple-separation.com.au. Disclaimer I hope you enjoyed the podcast today. The information we discussed today was just that information only. It is not specific advice. If you take action following something you heard today, it is important to make sure you get professional advice about your unique situation before you proceed, whether that advice be legal, financial, accounting, medical or other advice. Please reach out to me if you have any questions or if there's another topic you'd like explored.

If you're separating or divorcing and want to avoid unnecessary conflict, this episode offers an exclusive preview of Kate's book amicable divorce – with practical guidance straight from the author to help you approach separation in a calmer, more child-focused way.In this special mini episode, Kate takes you through the key chapters of amicable divorce, sharing the insights, stories and expert guidance that shaped the book – from changing the negative story we tell about divorce to helping parents see separation through their children's eyes.Kate covers:How slowing down at the start can prevent long-term conflictWhy emotional readiness matters as much as legal stepsWhat ‘amicable' really means – and what it doesn'tHow to make child-focused decisions about parenting and moneyWhy understanding finances reduces fear and argumentsHow to move from ‘us' to ‘me' with care and self-compassionThis episode is for anyone considering or going through separation who wants practical, child-focused guidance to approach divorce with less blame and more clarity.About amicable divorceamicable divorce is Kate's practical guide to navigating separation with less conflict and more compassion. Drawing from her experience supporting thousands of couples, it includes real stories, expert insights and child-focused guidance for every stage of the process.Out in March 2026 – preorder on Amazon today.More divorce resources:Want ongoing support through separation?Join amicable space for bonus podcast episodes, exclusive content and webinars on navigating separation – plus a supportive community where you can share questions and get expert advice. Start your free trial here.Need expert help right now?Book a free 15-minute consultation with an amicable expert for guidance on the legal, financial or co-parenting aspects of separation.Thanks for listening - here's 3 months of the amicable co-parenting app for free! Open this link on your phone, install the app and create your account. Once that's done, select 'I have a promo code' when setting up your family, enter PODCAST, press ‘apply' and enjoy staying organised together.Got a question for a future episode?Share your thoughts at hello@amicable.co.uk or through direct messages on Instagram.#EmotionalJourney

ResourcesEpisode 230.  Everyday Decisions, Big Tension: The Hurtful Patterns That Create Blended Family DivisionEpisode 203.  How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United TeamEpisode 49. Should Your Highest Priority be Your Marriage…or Your Kids?Episode 103.  4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parent and Their Bio-Kids (Part 1 of 2) Episode 147. Do Sensitive Conversations End up Creating Conflict in Your Relationship?Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

You keep it together.Calm texts. Steady schedules. Polite handoffs.But every time his car pulls up, your body betrays you: heart races, chest tightens, breath goes shallow.That's not just “leftover divorce stuff.” That's anxiety living in your nervous system—and it's been quietly growing every time you swallow the unfairness to stay the “bigger person.”He's got the new life.You're carrying the kids' big feelings, the invisible load, the resentment no one thanks you for.And the more you perform “fine” for everyone else, the more your own healing slips through your fingers.Why does being the bigger person feel like slow self-betrayal?Why does the anxiety keep coming back even when you've done “all the work”?And what if the real shift isn't more boundaries or better scripts… but something deeper that finally lets your body and spirit exhale?In this episode, we go straight into:The hidden way “bigger person” energy keeps your nervous system bracedHow resentment and unfairness get stored somatically—and why that blocks real repairThe quiet spiritual wound his moving-on keeps pokingAnd the integrative path out that most people never talk aboutYou'll get the truth that lands in your chest… and the curiosity to find out what “instead” actually feels like in your body.If every handoff still leaves you raw, this is the episode that stops the performance and starts the real release.Send me a DM and tell us: What's the moment being the “bigger person” hurt the most? We read every one.You don't have to keep carrying it alone, love.Press play. Your body's been waiting.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawnInstagram: (@dawnwiggins)Instagram: (@coachtiffini)On the Web: https://www.mycoachdawn.comA podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.Support the show✨Join the Cocoon Community - your people are waiting! ✨ Stress-Less Flower Essence

In this week's episode of the KICK-ASS Stepmom podcast, Jamie interviews renowned psychologist Dr. Jody Carrington. Jody has a no-nonsense and candid approach backed by her clinical knowledge, it's that combination that makes her one of our favourite guests. Join them for an unfiltered conversation on life in your 40s, parenting and anxiety in the digital age, the power of reconnection, loyalty binds and what's really going on for our kids in transitions, and how we can use acknowledgement and reconnection to improve the mom stepmom relationship Masterclass: How to Stop Letting a High Conflict Ex Highjack Your Life  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/masterclass Join Elevate: Group Coaching For The High Level Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/elevate  Subscribe to my Substack:  https://substack.com/@jamiescrimgeour Get My Ebook -  120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom  www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook 

Generative AI apps such as ChatGPT, Gemini, Grok, and Claude have rapidly become the go-to parenting sages. Every type of parenting question can be answered efficiently and with (what sounds like) expertise.  Undoubtedly, these apps offer parents help during stressful times. But is this the way God intends for us to receive parenting advice and practical wisdom? What is lost when human relationships and struggle are removed from the parenting equation? Articles referenced: OpenAI CEO Can’t Imagine Parenting Without AI I Co-Parent with ChatGPT – I love turning off my brain and letting AI help raise my child Scripture referenced: Genesis 3 Deuteronomy 32:7 James 1:2-4   Book a Speaking Event!! Buy the NEWLY UPDATED book: Managing Media Creating Character (2024 Revised & Updated) Get Kelly’s new Study Guide & Workbook, with video teachings for small groups. Check out our brand new Brave Parenting Merch Sign up for the Brave Bullet Points newsletter! This helps us communicate what’s happening without social media – a win for everyone!

If you're trying to navigate divorce in a way that protects your children, your career and your wellbeing, this episode offers practical, reassuring guidance on doing it with intention and care.Kate is joined by Sarah Madden Armstrong, Vice President of Global Marketing Operations at Google and author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce, to explore what a ‘good divorce' can really look like when children are involved.In this episode, we cover:Sarah's separation story and what a ‘good divorce' meant for her familyHow to put your children at the centre of all decisionsPractical ways to co-parent with kindness and considerationBalancing a career, childcare and the emotional load of divorceMaking space for self-care while navigating separationThis episode is for parents going through divorce who want to reduce conflict, support their children and move forward in a thoughtful, steady way.Meet Sarah ArmstrongSarah Armstrong is Vice President of Global Marketing Operations at Google, a former McKinsey partner and author of two books: The Art of the Juggling Act: A Bite-Sized Guide for Working Parents and The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce. She is also the proud mom of Grace, now a college graduate. The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce offers parents ‘bite-sized' pieces of practical advice on what to think through when going through a divorce and children are involved. Find Sarah's book and explore ways to buy it here.More divorce resourcesLooking for expert guidance on co-parenting?Book a free 15-minute consultation with an amicable expert for guidance on the legal, financial, emotional or co-parenting aspects of separation. Or explore our Separating with Children Service – a 90-minute joint session with a Co-parenting Specialist tailored to your family's needs.Kate's book amicable divorce is out in March, including dedicated chapters on co-parenting, communication and putting children first during separation. Preorder on Amazon today.Want to stay organised as co-parents?Download our free Parenting Plan template to help you and your co-parent agree on shared goals, routines and decision-making – with your children at the centre.As a thank you for listening, here's 3 months of the amicable co-parenting app for free! Open this link on your phone, install the app and create your account. Once that's done, select 'I have a promo code' when setting up your family, enter PODCAST, press ‘apply' and enjoy staying organised together.Got a question for a future episode?Share your thoughts at hello@amicable.co.uk or through direct messages

Mandatory phone calls are often framed as “good co-parenting.” But in high-conflict divorce and custody situations, they can do more harm than good.In this episode of Divorce with Sam & Leah, we break down why mandatory phone calls don't belong in high-conflict parenting plans—and why so many moms feel more anxious, powerless, and dysregulated because of them.We cover:How phone calls turn into investigative tools instead of connectionWhy mandatory calls often become a harassment or control mechanismThe emotional impact on children before and after high-conflict callsWhy you're unlikely to get honest answers—and why that keeps you stuckThe hard but necessary truth about accepting limits after divorceIf you're co-parenting with a high-conflict ex and trying to reduce chaos, protect your child's emotional well-being, and reclaim your peace, this conversation is for you.

Alle Zelte abbrechen, um dem eigenen Leben eine mutige Wendung zu geben? Genau das hat Josefine Gauck mit ihrer Familie getan. Ihre kleine Tochter lebt mit einer schweren Sehbehinderung, und ihre Eltern wollten ihr die Welt zeigen, solange es noch geht. Also Wohnung gekündigt, Auto verkauft, drei Kinder geschnappt – und ab auf Weltreise! Unterwegs wurden verschiedene Lebensmodelle ausprobiert und nach dem idealen Wohnort gesucht. Danach ein Jahr auf Bali, mit einer progressiven Schule, die allen Kids gerecht werden sollte. Spannend, welche Dynamiken innerhalb der Familie dort entstanden sind. Und auch die Erkenntnis, dass es zuhause auch recht schön ist... Zurück in Deutschland hieß es dann: neu sortieren nach der Trennung der Eltern. Auch auf Weltreise ist man vor Paar- und Alltagsproblemen nämlich nicht gefeit. Neustart als Patchwork-Familie, Teenager-Chaos und Co-Parenting inklusive. Zwischendurch immer wieder Josefines Herzensthema: Atmung – der Spiegel der Seele. Eine frische, mutige und ehrliche Folge über große Entscheidungen, Abenteuer, Umwege und Neuanfänge – unbedingt reinhören! Josefine bei Instagram? Hier entlang: https://www.instagram.com/josefinegauck/ Du möchtest mehr über unsere Werbepartner erfahren? Hier findest du alle Infos & Rabatte: https://linktr.ee/AllemeineEltern Du möchtest Werbung in diesem Podcast schalten? Dann erfahre hier mehr über die Werbemöglichkeiten bei Seven.One Audio: https://www.seven.one/portfolio/sevenone-audio

Ever tried to make a seemingly straightforward family decision (something that should be easy) only to feel the tension rise, opinions harden, and lines get drawn? You're not imagining it. In blended families, decisions can feel like loyalty tests.In this episode, we walk through a realistic scenario with a blended couple facing a decision dilemma: Do we prioritize a new experience that one side of the family is excited about… or protect a familiar tradition the other side values deeply? And that's where things get complicated. Because it's often not really about the decision itself. It's about what the decision represents: loyalty and priority.That's when a hurtful pattern shows up that we call a Tenuous Triad:One parent becomes the Trapped Teammate (torn between spouse and kids),Their spouse becomes the Stranded Stranger (feeling unheard, powerless, devalued, overlooked),And the children become Confounded Kiddos (confused, unsettled, and often emotionally loud as they express what they want).And once that triad forms, couples can get stuck in predictable traps:Impatience (“Why can't we just move forward?”)Fear and guilt (“My kids are hurting and I'm to blame if they're disappointed.”)Lack of empathy (“You don't get what this means to them.”)Lack of unity (“We aren't leading together.”)Parent-child allegiance (“I have to side with my kids.”)Our goal is to help you name what's happening so you can stop reacting to surface-level conflict and start leading from a place of clarity and unity.You'll DiscoverWhat a Tenuous Triad is and why it often forms around everyday decisionsHow the Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger / Confounded Kiddos dynamic can quickly create biological “sides” in the home and ongoing disconnection, resentment, and hurtHow to shift from reaction and contention to calm, united leadership as a coupleResources from this Episode:Simple Step Episode: Managing Loyalties & Priorities in Your HomeEpisode 59. Why Are You Stuck in a Parent-Child Allegiance? (Part 1 of 2)Episode 179. Conquer Fear and Embrace Your Blend with Confidence and ClarityEpisode 180. Break Free from Guilt and Blend with Authenticity and SecurityEpisode 119.  6 Tips to Grow Empathy and Create More Connection in Your MarriageEpisode 72.  The Best Way to Create Healthy, Bonded RelationshipsEpisode 50.  How to Openly Communicate What You Really WantEpisode 203.  How to Make Better Decisions and Solve Problems as a United TeamEpisode 49. Should Your Highest Priority be Your Marriage…or Your Kids?Episode 103.  4 Revealing Myths About 1 on 1 Time Between Parent and Their Bio-Kids (Part 1 of 2) Ready for some extra support?Connect with us to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with Jon Bassford, author of The Co-Parenting Secret: It's Not About You, to talk about what healthy co-parenting really looks like, and why most families are unknowingly doing it wrong. Jon shares his personal journey as a child of divorce, a father navigating two households, and a co-parent who intentionally chose cooperation over conflict. Together, they explore the realities of dual parenting vs. true co-parenting, the emotional toll high-conflict dynamics place on children, and how ego, resentment, and unresolved hurt often derail what's best for kids. This conversation covers: • Why "co-parenting" often isn't co-parenting at all • The difference between parallel parenting and collaborative parenting • How childhood divorce experiences shape adult parenting decisions • Why keeping the focus on the child changes everything • The power of accountability instead of blame • How healthy communication models emotional intelligence for kids • Creating a functional "village" even after divorce • Why showing up matters more than perfection • How to reduce transitions, meltdowns, and emotional overload for children Jon also explains how he and his ex-wife rebuilt their post-divorce relationship with intentionality, including maintaining respectful communication, consistent parenting standards across households, and involving extended family as part of a unified support system. This episode is a must-listen for: ✔ Stepparents feeling overwhelmed or sidelined ✔ Divorced parents struggling with communication ✔ Parents navigating 50/50 custody schedules ✔ High-conflict co-parenting situations ✔ Anyone wanting to protect their child's emotional health If you've ever wondered whether peaceful co-parenting is truly possible, this episode proves that it is. Because when parenting becomes about the child instead of the adults… everything changes.

Rick Bennett asks the hard questions about gender and race within independent fundamentalism. Do women bless the sick? The Erickson family—Joshua, Melissa, and Charlotte—discuss the reality of “patriarchal” polygamy, refuting the stereotype of oppressed, silent wives. Melissa Erickson opens up about her personal experience performing healing blessings by the laying on of hands. The group also tackles the controversial topic of Black priesthood holders in fundamentalism, their support for the inclusive “Missouri Temple” group, and Melissa's unique scriptural interpretation of the “One Man” rule in D&C 132. https://youtu.be/xfeTRIw8iw0 Don’t miss our other conversations on Mormon fundamentalism: https://gospeltangents.com/denominations/fundamentalim/ Here are 5 engaging titles and detailed show notes for Episode 1125, based on the provided transcript. • Debunking the “Silent Wife” Stereotype Melissa and Charlotte push back against the idea that plural wives are “brainwashed, stupid, or oppressed.” Instead, they describe their marriage as a single “unit” that shifts and adapts. For example, when Melissa is in midwifery training or Joshua is editing scriptures, the other spouses pick up the slack. They emphasize that plural marriage should be cooperative, not competitive. • Women Bless the Sick Rick asks if women can perform ordinances if the husband is incapacitated. Melissa reveals that she has blessed the sick by the laying on of hands, noting there is historical precedent for it. She distinguishes this from the sacrament; she views healing as an emergency act of faith, whereas the sacrament is administrative and can wait for a priesthood holder. Interestingly, they would be more comfortable receiving the sacrament from a married woman than a 12-year-old deacon. • Race and the Priesthood The Ericksons discuss their openness to Black polygamists, a stance that separates them from many other fundamentalist groups. They praise the independent temple in Missouri for allowing mixed-race individuals to enter, even though other groups claim this “desecrates” the temple. Joshua argues that while he believes priesthood is for Israelites, anyone can become an Israelite. • Racism: Thoughts vs. Actions The group discusses the nature of sin and racism. Melissa argues that how you act matters more than what you feel or think. She shares a story from a mainstream LDS ward where members gossiped about a South American sister making tamales with lard, using it as an example of cultural offense that bordered on racism. She concludes that “gossip is less kosher” than lard. • Reinterpreting the “One Man” Rule (D&C 132) Melissa provides a unique exegesis of D&C 132:7, which states the keys are conferred on “never but one on the earth at a time.” She interprets this not as a dictatorship where only one man holds authority, but as a procedural instruction that ordination happens one person at a time—similar to how Jacob blessed his sons individually rather than as a group. ——————————————————————————– 00:00 – The “Patriarchal” Stereotype Rick asks if the man does all the talking while women sit quietly. Melissa explains how their family operates as a fluid “unit” rather than a hierarchy. 04:00 – Co-Parenting and the “Cookie System” The benefits of three parents: the children can seek out the parent whose personality matches their current need, though they also try to game the system to get extra treats. 07:30 – Women Healing the Sick Melissa confirms she has administered to the sick by the laying on of hands. A discussion ensues on the difference between emergency blessings (faith) and the sacrament (authority). 12:00 – Centennial Park's Yearly Sacrament Rick shares a story about the Centennial Park group instituting a yearly public sacrament meeting specifically for women who do not have a priesthood holder in their home. 16:00 – Black Polygamists & The Missouri Temple The Ericksons affirm they would welcome Black polygamists. They discuss the controversy surrounding the independent temple in Missouri allowing Black people to participate. 21:00 – The Tamale Incident: Acting Above Your Instincts A discussion on whether feeling racist is a sin. Melissa argues that maturity is treating neighbors with love regardless of internal biases, sharing a story about a ward dispute over tamales. 31:00 – The “One Man” Myth in D&C 132 Melissa reads the famous “one man” scripture and reinterprets it as a description of individual ordination (like Patriarchal blessings) rather than exclusive authority.

Michelle Obama spoke about a very specific kind of reality check on the Call Her Daddy podcast: the exact moment you realise you’re no longer the main character in your child’s life. Monz is feeling this deeply and Amelia and Stacey unpack precisely why it hits so hard. Plus, a viral video of an airport lounge meltdown has us asking whether we've lost the ability to handle conflict without reaching for our phone. We dive into the rise of "public shaming" and whether we’re all just one bad day away from being filmed giving someone the finger. And, move over “rawdogging boredom”, is “slow vacuuming” the new mindfulness trend? Monz is deep into this one but Amelia and Stacey remain firmly unconvinced. Our Recommendations:

On this episode of Funky Friday with Cam Newton, Cam sits down with Demetri Wiley for an honest conversation about love, relationships, and personal growth. From love at first sight to co-parenting, boundaries, and healing, nothing is off limits. Dmitri shares real-life experiences and lessons that challenge how we think about connection and commitment. This is one of those episodes that makes you reflect on how — and why — you love.00:00 — Love, Lust & Real Talk: Setting the Tone00:49 — Welcome Back to Funky Friday with Cam Newton01:07 — Meet Dmitri Wiley: Love, Life & Perspective02:39 — Demetri's Love Story: How It Really Started04:16 — Is Love at First Sight Real or Just Chemistry?07:23 — What “Real Love” Actually Looks Like17:09 — Co-Parenting, Blended Families & Doing It the Right Way33:20 — Prom Nights, Young Love & Lessons Learned34:16 — Platonic vs Romantic: Where People Get It Wrong35:22 — Temptation, Discipline & Self-Control37:03 — Boundaries, Respect & Knowing When to Fall Back41:20 — The Crack House Analogy (Yeah… We Went There)46:22 — Healing Yourself Before Loving Someone Else57:51 — Valentine's Day Advice You Actually Need to Hear

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In the first episode of Season 3 of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant speaks with co-parenting coach Jay Skibbens about the complexities of co-parenting after divorce. They discuss the emotional challenges faced by parents, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for child-focused decision-making. Jay shares his personal journey and insights on navigating co-parenting dynamics, emphasizing the significance of understanding emotions and expectations. The conversation also touches on the impact of labels like 'narcissism' in co-parenting relationships and offers practical tips for managing triggers and fostering healthier communication.You can find more from Jay on IG: @jayskibbensAnd more from ADN: @divorceamicably

Today's guest, Dr. John Delony, is someone I have admired from afar for a long time because he has a way of cutting through the noise and getting straight to the heart of what's breaking our families. In this conversation, John gets incredibly vulnerable about his own "big dirty secret" how his success in the world was masking a "nuclear reactor" of stress that made his own daughter feel unsafe to hug him. We dive deep into the "toolkit crisis" facing men today, why we've started pathologizing normal childhood behavior in boys, and the radical choice to rebuild a marriage from the ashes. John also turned the tables on me, asking why I decided to "run it back" and get married again after a 20-year journey. This is one of the most raw, honest, and faith-filled conversations I've ever had on this show. If you've ever felt like you were just "performing" your life instead of living it, this episode is for you. Sponsors:  Visit https://prizepicks.onelink.me/LME0/SAGE and use code SAGE and get $50 in lineups when you play your first $5 lineup! BTS on Patreon: http://bit.ly/4nLmOSk Chapters: 00:00 - Intro 00:04:06 – Parenting Advice: "Don't Waste My Pain" 00:08:52 – Growing up with a Homicide Detective Dad 00:13:00 – Finding Your Gift: Compassion vs. Intelligence 00:15:43 – The Toolkit Crisis for Modern Men 00:20:20 – Blame Fairly: Setting Down the Cinder Block of Forgiveness 00:25:34 – Why We Are Pathologizing Being a Little Boy 00:31:30 – Lonely Parents & The Smartphone War 00:38:09 – Finding Safety: Sage Steele on Her New Marriage 00:44:31 – The Badass Lesson in Co-Parenting 00:49:45 – The Nuclear Reactor: Healing Hidden Family Trauma 00:56:45 – Marriage as a Covenant: Rebuilding from the Ashes 01:08:13 – Why Run It Back? Sage on Love, Faith, and Resurrection 01:16:08 – Crisis Response: Asking the Next Hard Question 01:25:00 – The Ringside Seat to Human Struggle

ResourcesEpisode 167. Achievable Strategies to Make Your Marriage the Foundation of Your Blended FamilyEpisode 206. Avoid These 5 Common Pitfalls to Ensure a Successful PartnershipEpisode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger dynamic)Episode 77. 3 Unique Differences That Make a Blended Family Marriage ChallengingEpisode 160.  A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them OutEpisode 130. How to Build Trust that Nurtures Bonds with Your Kids and StepkidsEpisode 214. Does Permissive Parenting Help or Hurt?  Discover How to Know and GrowEpisode 37. Why do kids struggle to accept their stepparent?Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

In this E438 Inner Voice A heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan, Dr. Foojan sits down with Dr. Jann Blackstone, renowned child custody mediator, author, and co-parenting expert, to explore the realities of co-parenting after divorce, blended families, and the concept of “bonus families.” Dr. Jann is the founder of Bonus Families, a nonprofit organization helping divorced and separated parents peacefully co-parent and create emotionally healthy family systems. Drawing from decades of professional experience—and her own journey through divorce, remarriage, and step-parenting—Dr. Jann shares actionable tools and compassionate insights for navigating complex family dynamics while always putting children first. In this episode, you'll learn how reframing blended families as “bonus families” transforms relationships between parents, step-parents, and children. Dr. Jann explains why children are often caught in loyalty conflicts, secret-keeping, and overhearing negative comments about their parents, and how to prevent these emotional burdens. Key topics include: • Understanding the impact of bad-mouthing, gossip, and reporting conflicts on children • Teaching children conflict resolution skills through modeling calm and respectful behavior • Creating co-parenting plans before conflicts arise to prevent confusion and manipulation • Handling different discipline styles across households and maintaining consistency • Introducing new partners and step-parents in a healthy, age-appropriate, child-centered way • Avoiding comparisons between biological parents, step-parents, and bonus families • Turning divorce into an opportunity to teach emotional intelligence and resilience • Navigating holidays, extended family integration, and the challenges of adult children • Tips from Dr. Jann's bestselling books:

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If you've ever watched your child's mood shift the moment they step into a handoff…Or felt the sting of being kept at arm's length for reasons you can't explain… You're not imagining it. In blended families, kids often carry emotional burdens they were never meant to hold.In this episode, we name two of the most common “under-the-surface” struggles: loyalty binds (when a child feels torn between a bio parent and a stepparent) and parental allegiance (when a child feels pressure to align with one parent over the other). We share real-life stories, including the quiet pain behind the rejection of a stepparent's sweet gesture, and the way a joyful moment can suddenly collapse into guilt after a call with the other parent.But we don't stop at awareness. We give you a plan. We'll help you slow down, step into your child's shoes, and create emotional safety. We'll help step-parents stay hopeful and keep expectations realistic. And we'll challenge bio parents to protect their kids from adult tension by choosing the neutral zone (where curiosity lowers the temperature and kids are freed to love without feeling responsible for anyone's emotions).The win isn't perfect co-parenting or flawless moments.  It's this: kids get out of the middle, pressure starts to lift, and your home has room for trust, connection, and peace to grow. You'll Discover:The difference between a loyalty bind and parental allegiance, and how each one shows up in real life. How emotion coaching helps your child process hard feelings without forcing apologies or rushing an unrealistic "fix".  What step-parents can do to cope with rejection (and why “crockpot bonding” protects your heart and builds trust over time). The subtle ways parents accidentally tighten the bind and what to say/do instead to keep kids free to love everyone in both homes. How to find and stay in the neutral zone when insecurity, fear, jealousy, or discomfort hits.  Resources from this Episode:Surviving and Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships by Patricia PapernowEpisode 222.  Step-by-Step Guide:  Facing Painful Pushback Without Making Things Worse (part 1 of 2)Episode 72. The Best Way to Create Healthy, Bonded RelationshipsEpisode 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and HurtEpisode 161.  How do Healthy Parent/Child Roles Help Avoid the Pitfalls of Parentification? [with Ron Deal & Lauren Reitsema]  Episode 210.  Is your child pulling away?  Here's How to Respond with Wisdom and LoveEpisode 211.  8 Warning Signs Your Ex Is Manipulating Your Child's Heart and MindReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

One of life's transitions that is not only painful but also impacts an entire family is the time when divorce becomes a reality.A challenging time for the parents and especially the children.If you find yourself or a loved one trying to navigate this difficult time in life, this episode will be a source of invaluable and experiential information and wisdom.My guest today, Rosalind Sedacca, is recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce.  She is also a Divorce & Co-Parenting Coach and founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network, which provides advice, programs, coaching, and other valuable resources for parents who are facing, moving through, or transitioning after a divorce.  Rosalind is the author of How Do I Tell the Kids About the Divorce?, an internationally acclaimed ebook designed to help parents get through the tough divorce talk with the best possible outcome for themselves and their children. Connect with Rosalind:Website: https://www.childcentereddivorce.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChildCenteredDivorce/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosalindsedacca/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosalindsedacca/ CONNECT WITH DEBIDo you feel stuck?  Do you sense it's time for a change, but are unsure where to start or how to move forward? Schedule a clarity call!Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/debironca/free-clarity-callWebsite – https://www.debironca.comInstagram - @debironcaEmail – info@debironca.com Check out my online course!Your Story's Changing, Finding Purpose in Life's Transitionshttps://course.sequoiatransitioncoaching.com/8-week-programThe Family Letter by Debi Ronca – International Best Sellerhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SSJFXBD

Fluent Fiction - Norwegian: Between Tradition and Progress: A Parenting Dilemma at the Polls Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/no/episode/2026-01-17-08-38-20-no Story Transcript:No: Sofie sto seg ved inngangen til det lokale samfunnshuset, som nå var omgjort til et stemmelokale.En: Sofie stood by the entrance to the local community center, which had now been converted into a polling place.No: Kulden bet i kinnene hennes, og lukten av nyfallen snø fulgte med hver pust hun tok.En: The cold bit at her cheeks, and the scent of freshly fallen snow accompanied each breath she took.No: Folk strømmet inn, alle opptatt med sin egen viktige oppgave.En: People streamed in, each absorbed in their own important task.No: Hun lette med blikket etter Lars, faren til deres kjære datter.En: She scanned the crowd for Lars, the father of their beloved daughter.No: Da Lars ankom, så de på hverandre med en gang.En: When Lars arrived, they immediately locked eyes.No: Deres felles mål var klart: å ta en viktig beslutning om datterens skolegang.En: Their shared goal was clear: to make an important decision about their daughter's schooling.No: Men deres syn på dette var vidt forskjellige.En: But their views on this were vastly different.No: Sofie hadde brukt mange kvelder på å undersøke en progressiv skole i området.En: Sofie had spent many evenings researching a progressive school in the area.No: Hun likte hvordan skolen oppmuntret til kreativitet og kritisk tenkning.En: She liked how the school encouraged creativity and critical thinking.No: Hun visste at dette kunne gi datteren deres et åpent sinn og en sterk kreativ ånd.En: She knew this could give their daughter an open mind and a strong creative spirit.No: Lars, derimot, holdt fast ved tanken om en tradisjonell skole, kjent for sine sterke akademiske resultater og stramme disiplin.En: Lars, on the other hand, held firmly to the idea of a traditional school, known for its strong academic results and strict discipline.No: Han så for seg en fremtid hvor datteren hadde trygge jobbmuligheter og en god utdanning.En: He envisioned a future where their daughter had secure job opportunities and a good education.No: Inne i samfunnshuset fylte lyden av stemmer rommet.En: Inside the community center, the sound of voices filled the room.No: Pennenes klikk mot papir akkompagnerte samtalene mellom mennesker, og ytterdørene sto åpne, slapp inn friske pust av vinterluft.En: The clicks of pens on paper accompanied conversations among people, and the outer doors stood open, letting in fresh gusts of winter air.No: De satt seg ned ved et av de små bordene.En: They sat down at one of the small tables.No: "Jeg har sett på noen interessante studier," begynte Sofie.En: "I've looked at some interesting studies," began Sofie.No: "De viser at kreativitet kan forbedre læringspotensialet.En: "They show that creativity can enhance learning potential."No: "Lars nikket, men så skeptisk ut.En: Lars nodded but looked skeptical.No: "Jeg forstår hva du sier, men tenk på de stabile fordelene ved en tradisjonell skole.En: "I understand what you're saying, but think of the stable benefits of a traditional school.No: Gode karakterer gir flere muligheter senere.En: Good grades provide more opportunities later."No: "Deres diskusjon gikk frem og tilbake, som vinden som suste utenfor.En: Their discussion went back and forth, like the wind whistling outside.No: Stemningen var anspent, og Sofie følte klumpen i magen vokse.En: The atmosphere was tense, and Sofie felt a knot in her stomach grow.No: Men så, et øyeblikk av klarhet.En: But then, a moment of clarity.No: De så på hverandre, øynene møttes.En: They looked at each other, their eyes meeting.No: "Vi må finne en løsning som tjener henne best," sa Lar forsiktig.En: "We must find a solution that serves her best," Lars said cautiously.No: Hans stemme myknet litt.En: His voice softened a bit.No: "Ja," sa Sofie.En: "Yes," said Sofie.No: Hun innså at hun også måtte respektere Lars' perspektiv.En: She realized she also had to respect Lars' perspective.No: "Hva om vi ser nærmere på begge skolene?En: "What if we take a closer look at both schools?No: Kanskje kan vi besøke dem og la henne prøve dem begge?En: Maybe we can visit them and let her try both?"No: "Lars tenkte på forslaget.En: Lars considered the suggestion.No: "Det høres fornuftig ut," sa han til slutt.En: "That sounds reasonable," he said finally.No: En lettelse bredte seg mellom dem, som når solen bryter gjennom skyene etter en snøstorm.En: A sense of relief spread between them, like when the sun breaks through the clouds after a snowstorm.No: De hadde en plan.En: They had a plan.No: De ville besøke skolene sammen og ta en informert beslutning.En: They would visit the schools together and make an informed decision.No: Noe viktigere enn deres individuelle meninger: datterens fremtid.En: Something more important than their individual opinions: their daughter's future.No: Sofie og Lars reiste seg fra bordet, litt nærmere hverandre enn de hadde vært på lenge.En: Sofie and Lars rose from the table, a little closer to each other than they had been in a long time.No: De hadde begge lært noe nytt.En: They both had learned something new.No: Begge så på hverandre med fornyet respekt.En: They looked at each other with renewed respect.No: De forlot samfunnshuset sammen, og snøen knirket under deres steg.En: They left the community center together, and the snow creaked beneath their steps.No: Denne dagen i det travle stemmelokalet hadde brakt dem sammen og minnet dem om deres felles ansvar og kjærlighet for datteren.En: This day in the busy polling place had brought them together and reminded them of their shared responsibility and love for their daughter.No: En vinterdag som førte til en mildere vår i deres samarbeidsvillighet som foreldre.En: A winter day that led to a milder spring in their willingness to cooperate as parents. Vocabulary Words:entrance: inngangencommunity center: samfunnshusetpolling place: stemmelokalebit: betaccompanied: fulgteabsorbed: opptattscanned: lette med blikketlocked eyes: så de på hverandreprogressive: progressivcreativity: kreativitetencouraged: oppmuntretcritical thinking: kritisk tenkningsecure: tryggestrict discipline: stramme disiplinsound: lydenfilled: fylteaccompanied: akkompagnerteconversations: samtaleneguests: pusttense: anspentclarity: klarhetsoftened: myknetconsidered: tenkte påreasonable: fornuftigrelief: lettelseinformed decision: informert beslutningresponsibility: ansvarcooperate: samarbeidsvillighetcreaked: knirketrenewed: fornyet

In this eye-opening conversation, Rhonda sits down with Al Huntoon — a former custody mediator and co-parenting coach — to uncover what most people (and professionals) miss when it comes to high-conflict custody battles. Al shares the blind spot he discovered after working with thousands of families: in many high-conflict custody cases, one parent is driving the conflict, while the other is simply responding to it. This dynamic is often misunderstood, misdiagnosed, or overlooked entirely — and it's costing families time, money, and peace. Together, Rhonda and Al explore: How to identify asymmetric conflict in custody and co-parenting Why one-size-fits-all solutions like "parallel parenting" can backfire The role of emotional literacy and intentionality in navigating custody conflict Why assertiveness is a learned skill — and critical for collaboration How vague custody agreements create loopholes for high-conflict behavior Tools and tech to help you respond strategically instead of reactively Whether you're in the thick of parenting negotiations or supporting clients through it, this episode offers real tools and refreshing clarity on a deeply personal topic.

Fluent Fiction - French: Navigating Parenthood: Finding Harmony in Co-Parenting Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/fr/episode/2026-01-16-23-34-02-fr Story Transcript:Fr: Dans un coin chaleureux du Montmartre Café, l'hiver s'installe doucement à Paris.En: In the warm corner of the Montmartre Café, winter is slowly settling in Paris.Fr: Dehors, la neige recouvre le sol d'un fin manteau blanc.En: Outside, snow covers the ground with a thin white blanket.Fr: Les murs de brique, illuminés par les lumières tamisées, donnent un air accueillant.En: The brick walls, illuminated by soft lighting, give it a welcoming air.Fr: À une table près de la fenêtre, Hugo et Élise se retrouvent pour discuter.En: At a table near the window, Hugo and Élise meet to discuss.Fr: Hugo, un architecte pragmatique, regarde par la fenêtre.En: Hugo, a pragmatic architect, looks out the window.Fr: Il voit les passants qui se pressent pour éviter le froid glacial de janvier.En: He sees the passersby hurrying to avoid the icy cold of January.Fr: Élise, avec ses cheveux bouclés et son regard déterminé, sirote un cappuccino, pensant à leur fille Clara.En: Élise, with her curly hair and determined gaze, sips a cappuccino, thinking about their daughter Clara.Fr: La discussion est importante.En: The discussion is important.Fr: Ils doivent décider comment organiser leur temps avec Clara.En: They need to decide how to organize their time with Clara.Fr: Hugo commence à parler.En: Hugo begins to speak.Fr: Sa voix est douce.En: His voice is gentle.Fr: « Élise, je pense que Clara a besoin de temps avec nous deux.En: "Élise, I think Clara needs time with both of us.Fr: Que penses-tu d'une semaine sur deux, mais avec un peu de souplesse ?En: What do you think about every other week, but with a little flexibility?"Fr: » Élise pose sa tasse.En: Élise sets down her cup.Fr: Elle aime la routine et la stabilité.En: She likes routine and stability.Fr: Elle propose alors : « Et si nous suivions le calendrier scolaire ?En: She then suggests, "What if we follow the school schedule?Fr: Moitié de la semaine avec toi, l'autre moitié avec moi.En: Half the week with you, the other half with me.Fr: Ça crée une stabilité pour Clara.En: That creates stability for Clara."Fr: » La conversation devient intense.En: The conversation becomes intense.Fr: Chacun veut le meilleur pour Clara.En: Each wants what's best for Clara.Fr: Hugo exprime calmement : « Je veux être présent pour Clara, pas seulement un week-end-sur-deux.En: Hugo calmly expresses, "I want to be present for Clara, not just every other weekend."Fr: » Élise écoute, pensée après pensée.En: Élise listens, thought after thought.Fr: Elle comprend ses craintes.En: She understands his fears.Fr: Ils continuent à échanger, trouvant des compromis.En: They continue to exchange ideas, finding compromises.Fr: Hugo apprend à ouvrir son cœur.En: Hugo learns to open his heart.Fr: Élise réalise que la flexibilité est nécessaire.En: Élise realizes that flexibility is necessary.Fr: « D'accord, essayons de combiner nos idées.En: "Alright, let's try to combine our ideas.Fr: Un peu de souplesse, mais avec des points fixes pour Clara », propose Élise finalement.En: A bit of flexibility, but with fixed points for Clara," Élise finally proposes.Fr: Leur discussion se termine.En: Their discussion ends.Fr: Ils ont trouvé un terrain d'entente.En: They have found common ground.Fr: Un plan qui mêle stabilité et flexibilité.En: A plan that blends stability and flexibility.Fr: Clara pourra profiter de ses deux parents équitablement.En: Clara will be able to enjoy both her parents fairly.Fr: Ils regardent par la fenêtre.En: They look through the window.Fr: La neige continue de tomber, silencieuse, sur la ville.En: The snow continues to fall, silent, on the city.Fr: La décision les réchauffe un peu.En: The decision warms them a little.Fr: Hugo et Élise se lèvent.En: Hugo and Élise get up.Fr: Leurs sourires sont sincères, malgré les souvenirs d'une famille cassée.En: Their smiles are sincere, despite the memories of a broken family.Fr: Pour Clara, ils ont appris à écouter et à comprendre.En: For Clara, they have learned to listen and understand.Fr: Armés d'un nouvel accord, ils quittent le café, prêts à affronter l'hiver ensemble.En: Armed with a new agreement, they leave the café, ready to face the winter together. Vocabulary Words:the corner: le cointhe ground: le solthe blanket: le manteauthe brick: la briquethe lighting: les lumièresthe air: l'airthe architect: l'architectethe passersby: les passantsfightened: effrayéthe icy cold: le froid glacialthe gaze: le regardto sip: siroterthe discussion: la discussionto decide: déciderthe voice: la voixthe week: la semainethe flexibility: la souplessethe routine: la routinethe stability: la stabilitéthe schedule: le calendrierthe conversation: la conversationeach: chacunto express: exprimerto listen: écouterto continue: continuerthe compromise: le compromisthe heart: le cœurthe idea: l'idéethe plan: le planto enjoy: profiter

Send JKO a Text MessageThere is a steep price you pay when you live with an emotionally absent man. Not just you, but your children, your family, and your community. JKO discusses the cost and the steps you can take when leaving is not possible. Nuggets of wisdom in this episode Signs of emotional absence The emotional, physical, spiritual, and economic price you pay 7 concrete actions to help you and your children now 3 tiny practices that can make a whole lot of difference Safety Note: Please use these ideas in a way that feels right and safe for your situation. For personal support, reach out to someone you trust or a local service in your area. Picture on cover adapted from Canva. Support the show If Messy Can't Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey. If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know. Thank you so much for listening. Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

In this encore episode, I'm talking about something that quietly shapes how we show up as moms every single day: choice. So often, I hear women say, "I had no choice," or "I had to," especially in co-parenting and high-conflict situations. But the truth is, we always have a choice — even when none of the options feel easy. I break down how our brains work under stress, why we default to reaction mode, and how learning to pause gives us access to real agency. I walk you through the three choices that are always available to us: accept, change, or leave — and what each of those actually looks like in real life. I also share practical tools to help you step out of autopilot, respond instead of react, and start showing up intentionally as the mom you want to be. This episode is about refusing to lie to ourselves, reclaiming responsibility for our lives, and building confidence through conscious choice. In this episode, you'll learn: Why "I have no choice" keeps you stuck The three choices always available to you How to respond instead of react in co-parenting Simple tools to create space and clarity If you're ready to step into your agency and parent with confidence, I'd love to support you. Reach out and let's talk. https://calendly.com/coachwithmikki/co-parent-breakthrough-call Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who might need a fresh perspective on co-parenting! For more information go to my website here: https://mikkigardner.com/podcast/ © 2021 - 2026 Mikki Gardner Coaching

ResourcesLast week's episode :Episode 228. How 4 Simple Steps Can Transform Your Family's Struggles into Amazing Wins This Year Moving Beyond Fear:Episode 50: How to Openly Communicate What You Really Want Episode 147: Do Sensitive Conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship?Episode 179. Conquer Fear and Embrace Your Blend with Confidence and ClarityEpisode 98. Is fear of being vulnerable keeping you from loving your spouse wholeheartedly?Coping with Impatience:Episode 105. What powerful traits do you need to successfully blend and stay united?Episode 89. Feeling Stuck in the Change Process?  Change Isn't the Issue - Transition IsEpisode 72. The Best Way to Create Healthy, Bonded RelationshipsEpisode 159.  How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and HurtOvercoming Limiting Beliefs & Excuses:Episode 120. 3 Valuable Lessons That Saved Our Marriage and Blended FamilyEpisode 165. How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life?Episode 217. Feeling Overwhelmed and Powerless?  How to Regain Hope with Tools that Heal [with EJ & Tarah Kerwin]Episode 51. Overcoming DiscouragementManaging Emotional Pain:Episode 187. Basics for Blending:  How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and DistressEpisode 202. How to Break Free from Painful Cycles and Enjoy Deeper Levels of Intimacy [with Ron & Nan Deal]Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple ExperiencesEpisode 107. 3 Disheartening Realities That No Couple Want To Go Through - But We all Have ToEmbracing the Lone Ranger position:Episode 209. Breaking Free from Self-Doubt: 5 Habits to Build Confidence and Trust in YourselfEpisode 215. Does Your Relationship Feel Hopeless?  Why Giving Up Might Not Be the AnswerEpisode 65. 6 Simple Steps for Inviting Your Spouse to Get Help With YouEpisode 138. How Relational Dysfunction Plagued Our Marriage and How We Finally Broke FreeReady for some extra support?Schedule your FREE coaching call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call

High-conflict co-parenting has a way of slowly draining your power—especially when you don't yet have the tools, boundaries, or support.In this episode, Sam opens up about her personal story and shares the top 5 ways she unknowingly gave her power away while co-parenting with a high-conflict ex. These are the patterns so many moms fall into when they're just trying to keep the peace, protect their kids, and survive the chaos.If you're exhausted, second-guessing yourself, or feeling like co-parenting is running your life, this episode will help you feel seen—and show you what's possible on the other side of survival mode.

In this practical conversation, Mardi Winder and Rosalind Sedacca, a recognized certified divorce coach and founder of the Child Centered Divorce Network, talk about how to build a healthy coparenting mindset. As January marks Child Centered Divorce Month, the episode centers on the essential topic of how parents can approach divorce and co-parenting, with their children's well-being as the highest priority.Reflecting on her personal journey, Rosalind Sedacca shares how her own experience as a parent going through divorce shaped her understanding of child-centered co-parenting. She reveals that the lack of resources and guidance in the 1990s inspired her to create a network that supports families long before, during, and long after divorce. Rosalind recounts the heartening moment when her son expressed gratitude for the way his parents handled their separation, highlighting the lasting impact of thoughtful co-parenting.Throughout the episode, Mardi and Rosalind discuss practical strategies for successful co-parenting, stressing the importance of trust and respect, and treating the co-parenting relationship as a business-like partnership focused on raising happy, healthy children. They explore how to navigate disagreements and difficult moments, including using positive communication, practicing empathy, and maintaining cooperation, even when personalities and habits differ.Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own reactions and expectations, with both speakers emphasizing that change in others is unlikely, but that self-awareness can ease co-parenting challenges. Importantly, Rosalind introduces resources available to parents during Child Centered Divorce Month, including a complimentary six-part video series filled with expert advice on shielding children from the negative effects of divorce.About the Guest:Rosalind Sedacca, CDC is a Divorce & Parenting Coach and Founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network. She is the author of How Do I Tell the Kids About the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide to Preparing Your Children – With Love! To get her free ebook on Post-Divorce Parenting, and learn about her coaching services, programs, and other valuable resources on divorce and parenting issues, visit https://www.childcentereddivorce.com. To download Rosalind's free video series: https://www.childcentereddivorce.com/ccdmonthTo connect with Rosalind:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RosalindSedacca LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/rosalindsedacca Twitter: https://twitter.com/RosalindSedacca Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosalindsedacca/ You Tube: https://bit.ly/3HjrtGXAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode?...

Those of us facing the common challenges of blending often feel frustrated, overwhelmed, or discouraged. It's easy to drift into survival mode and settle for “not that bad.”In this episode, we'll share a clear plan to move forward in a simple way that's not about the pressure of big, dramatic New Year's resolutions.  Here's the truth: transformation doesn't happen overnight, and there are no easy fixes to the complex dynamics stepfamilies face. But change can happen with small, faithful shifts practiced over time. You'll Discover:The difference between information vs. transformation and why “insight without action” keeps couples stuck How to set process goals (not vague intentions), and capture the “gold nuggets” you want to apply to your family's current struggles How to “work your plan” and experience real WINS in 2026!Resources from this Episode:CLICK HERE to schedule your FREE coaching call with usCLICK HERE to learn more about the Blending Together CommunityFind your Focus & Choose your Path:Bonding:For specific episodes on building healthy Bonds, CLICK HEREBuilding Love Together in Blended Families by Ron Deal & Gary ChapmanUnderstanding Kids' Perspectives:For specific episodes to gain insight & support your kids, CLICK HEREIn Their Shoes: Helping Parents Better Understand and Connect with Children of Divorce by Lauren ReitsemaSafeguarding your Relationship / Marriage:For specific episodes to grow a deeper connection and reduce conflict, CLICK HERESaving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts: Nine Questions to Ask Before -- and After -- You Remarry by Drs. Les & Leslie ParrotParenting  & Stepparenting:For specific episodes to develop your parenting partnership and align family expectations, CLICK HEREStepparenting:  Keeping It Sane by Dr. Charles FayParenting Under Fire: How to Communicate with Your Hurt, Angry, Rejecting, Distant Child by Dr. Amy J.L. BakerEffective Co-Parenting:For specific episodes to discover best practices and improve cooperation between homes, CLICK HERECoParenting Works!  Helping Your Children Thrive After Divorce By Tammy Daughtry

Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question  Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show?  Let us know!We've made it easy.  Just click here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/shareReady for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-callSubscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed to or following the podcast yet?  If not, we want to encourage you to do that today so you don't miss a single episode.  Click here to subscribe in Apple PodcastsClick here to follow on SpotifyLeave a Review in Apple PodcastsIf you're feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they're fun for us to read too! :-)  Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is.  Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!

The holidays after divorce can feel heavy, emotional, and overwhelming — and I know that personally. In this encore episode, I talk about how we can create more calm, stability, and intention during the holiday season, even when co-parenting feels challenging. I share why waiting until conflict shows up is often too late, and how choosing growth, compassion, and preparation before the holidays arrive can completely change how we experience them. I open up about my own grief around holiday expectations, how I've learned to hold sadness and gratitude at the same time, and why being intentional about how we want to feel matters more than being right. This conversation is about slowing down, getting specific, and deciding how we want to show up—for ourselves and for our children. When we take care of ourselves first, we have more patience, energy, and love to give. Takeaways: How to reduce reactivity during co-parenting holidays Why preparation matters more than perfection Holding grief and gratitude at the same time Modeling emotional maturity for your children If you're feeling overwhelmed or stuck in repeating patterns, I invite you to reach out for a clarity call. You don't have to navigate this alone. https://calendly.com/coachwithmikki/co-parent-breakthrough-call Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who might need a fresh perspective on co-parenting! For more information go to my website here: https://mikkigardner.com/podcast/ © 2021 - 2025 Mikki Gardner Coaching

Do you ever spend time reminiscing?We seem to think back a lot from our current empty next vantage point.  It can be great to recall some of those funny moments in our history.  And it's meaningful when we recount the tough seasons we've endured together as well.As we head into the holidays, we thought it would be fun to pull an interview with our kids out of the archives. So, in this episode, you'll listen in on a conversation with our family reminiscing over some of the ups and downs of our Holiday experiences over the past 20+ years. We wonder if it might stir up a bit of hope for your own future as you hear the authenticity straight from all three of our adult children.  We've experienced some high points and low points as a family over the years — and your family will too.  But as you navigate it together, we believe you can experience closeness, gratitude, and joy as a family.  We hope our discussion blesses you this season.In this episode, you'll discover how our kids answered these questions as they share their holiday experiences living in our blended family:What are your favorite memories (including funny ones)?What might have been a negative experience for you?What things made you feel sad, annoyed, or frustrated?What are you grateful for?What do you wish we (as parents) might have done differently?PLUS you'll catch some of their encouragements for YOU!Resources from this Episode:Episodes that focus on Kid's Perspectives:  https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/podcast/category/Kid%27s+Perspectives/#filterEpisode 71: How to Help Kids Cope with Painful Holiday DisappointmentEpisode 10. 8 Practical Tips for a Successful Holiday SeasonEpisode 149. How to "Blend" Holiday Traditions and Create Meaningful Connection this Season Episode 151. What Has The Potential to Steal Your Joy - And How You Can Hold Onto It  (Part 1)Episode 171.  How to Experience More Fun, Connection, and Joy this Holiday Season [with Rich and Stacy] Episode 173. Expert Guidance for Holiday Success [with Lauren Reitsema & Joneen Mackenzie]Episode 222. Step-by-Step Guide:  Facing Painful Pushback Without Making Things WorseEpisode 224. Holiday Negotiations That Work:  5 Tips to Reduce Tension and Disappointment  Ready for some extra support?We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help.  You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home.  Schedule your free call here:  https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession

As Divorce & Beyond closes out 2025, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Trina Nudson for a powerful bookend conversation exploring BeAligned, a revolutionary AI-powered reflection platform designed to help parents regulate emotions, interrupt the cycle of conflict, and problem-solve with their children's wellbeing at the center. BeAligned is not another communication app, and it is not about getting co-parents to agree or behave perfectly. Instead, Trina explains how the platform meets parents where they are, supports emotional regulation in real time, and helps interrupt the conflict cycles that so often take over co-parenting relationships. Susan and Trina also explore how even one parent can shift the entire family dynamic, why co-parenting is about awareness rather than perfection, and how using technology intentionally can make co-parenting easier during emotionally charged moments. Why This Conversation Matters Co-parenting is hard even in intact families. Add divorce, grief, fear, and conflict, and it can feel overwhelming. Many parents know what they should do but struggle to access those tools in the moment when emotions take over. This conversation matters because BeAligned acknowledges the reality of human emotions and provides support in real time. It helps parents step out of fight, flight, freeze, or fawn, see the bigger picture, and create solutions that protect childhoods without relying on blame, shame, or court intervention. You Will Learn: Why it only takes one parent to shift the co-parenting dynamic Why co-parenting is not about perfection, but about awareness and regulation How BeAligned helps parents move from reaction to alignment and interrupt the cycle of conflict How technology can support calmer communication without replacing attorneys, therapists, or coaches Why focusing on children's needs changes everything Special Offer from Trina Nudson and BeAligned: Trina is generously offering Divorce & Beyond listeners 90 days of free access to BeAligned using code BEYOND.  No credit card required. You'll get full access to the platform's reflection tools and support resources, and an invitation to share feedback that helps improve and expand its impact. Visit http://BeAligned.app to get started. About the Guest:  Trina Nudson is a family law attorney, mediator, court-appointed guardian ad litem, child advocate, Certified Divorce Coach® (CDC®), Divorce Coaching Academy® graduate (DCA®), and Licensed Bachelor Social Worker with more than 25 years of experience in the trenches of high-conflict co-parenting and family systems. She is the founder of The Layne Project, owner of My Child Advocate, PA, and the creator of the evidence-based BeH2O® co-parenting system and BeAligned™, an AI-powered reflection platform that helps parents move from reaction to alignment. Across thousands of cases, Trina has worked alongside judges, attorneys, therapists, and schools to center children's wellbeing while helping parents navigate some of the hardest seasons of their lives. Her mission is simple and non-negotiable: safeguarding childhoods by helping adults show up with clarity, steadiness, and purpose—especially when it's hard. Websites: BeAligned: http://bealigned.app BeH20: http://BeH2OCoparenting.com Social Media: https://www.linkedin.com/in/trina-nudson-19b169149/ Divorce and Beyond Appearances: The Business of Co-Parenting: How Neuroscience and Mindset Coaching Are Transforming Conflict into Collaboration with Trina Nudson on Divorce & Beyond ===================== Make the Most of Your Listening Experience: If this episode resonates with you, be sure to: Subscribe to Divorce & Beyond so you never miss an episode. Share this episode with friends or loved ones who need hope and healing. Leave a 5-star review to help us reach even more listeners. Follow Us Online: Divorce & Beyond:  https://divorceandbeyondpod.com, IG: @divorceandbeyondpod Meet Our Host Susan E. Guthrie®, Esq. is one of the nation's leading family law and mediation experts, with more than 35 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate divorce and conflict with clarity and compassion. She is the Immediate Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a best-selling author, and a sought-after speaker, trainer, and practice-building consultant. Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast, where she shared her insights on gray divorce and the changing landscape of relationships. Her expertise has also been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC's Chicago Today, among many others. As the creator and host of the award-winning Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, ranked in the top 1% of all podcasts worldwide with more than 3.4 million downloads, Susan brings together top experts and powerful personal stories to help listeners move through divorce and beyond with confidence, insight, and hope. Learn more about Susan and her work at susaneguthrie.com. 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In this bonus Q&A episode, Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Counselor Jim Cress respond to voice memos sent in by Therapy & Theology listeners.In This Episode, You'll Learn:How to accept the life you have today, instead of being stuck in ruminating over the past.What to do when life feels "stalled out" and you're waiting for God.Practical tools for co-parenting with an ex-partner and how to approach dating again post-divorce.Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode:Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress.The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Give today to partner with Proverbs 31 Ministries and help more women encounter the Truth of God's Word. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here.Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected.Click here to download a transcript of this episode.Go Deeper:Listen to "When Divorce Makes You Feel Like You Weren't Enough."Listen to "How To Be Brave When You Don't Feel Brave."Watch "Stop the Shame Scripts Holding You Back."

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