The Neurodivergent Experience

In this Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott respond to the growing media push to divide the autism spectrum — including a recent New York Times article that introduced the term “profound autism.”They make it clear: the issue isn't with autistic people who have higher support needs — it's with the language, labels, and ableist frameworks used to define them. Jordan and Simon explore how separating the spectrum into categories like “high” and “low functioning” or “profound” and “mild” only deepens stigma, misunderstanding, and division within the autistic community.Together, they discuss:Why the “profound autism” label is harmful and reductiveThe New York Times article that reignited this debateHow language shapes perception, policy, and empathyThe autism spectrum is an umbrella that unites, not dividesWhy all autistic experiences — regardless of support needs — belong togetherThe need for compassion, inclusion, and respect across the entire spectrumThis episode calls out fear-based narratives and reframes the conversation around what truly matters: understanding, dignity, and unity for every autistic person — no matter where they sit under the spectrum umbrella.Our Sponsors:

In this raw and heartfelt episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Simon Scott and Jordan James open up about their own school experiences and how they continue to shape their adult lives as autistic and ADHD men.They reflect on the impact of early school environments, where misunderstanding and exclusion were daily realities, and how those experiences left lasting marks on self-worth, relationships, and identity. Moving between humour and heartbreak, Simon and Jordan explore the long-term effects of being misunderstood in classrooms designed for neurotypical minds.Together, they discuss:How school systems, teachers, and peers often failed to recognise their needsThe emotional and psychological impact of masking and self-blameThe sensory and social overwhelm of neurodivergent childhoodsHow early school experiences influence adult confidence, connection, and trustWhat true understanding and support for neurodivergent students should look likeFrom detentions and misunderstandings to the quiet grief of being “the weird kid,” this conversation captures the lifelong effects of growing up neurodivergent in a system that was never built for you.Our Sponsors:

In this episode of Mindful Mondays, Ashley explores the art of release for the neurodivergent mind through the wisdom of nature's changing seasons. Just as autumn trees shed their leaves, we too are invited to let go of relationships, routines, or identities that no longer serve us — not as a loss, but as a transformation.Through personal reflections, Buddhist teachings on impermanence (anicca), and gentle neuroscience, this episode reminds us that every ending carries the seed of renewal. Ashley also shares how “noticing what you're noticing” can reveal your mindset and bring you back to presence in even the messiest moments.The practice concludes with a deeply hypnotic guided meditation, The Forest of Release, where listeners are invited to walk through an autumn woodland, surrender old burdens, and reconnect with the grace of change.

In this Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Simon Scott and Jordan James react to the brand-new BBC Panorama documentary Autism, Schools and Families on the Edge, presented by EastEnders actor Kellie Bright.The documentary follows three families fighting for EHCPs (Education, Health and Care Plans) for their autistic children and exposes the devastating impact of a broken SEND system in the UK. Drawing on their own lived experiences and community feedback, Simon and Jordan unpack why the system feels rigged against neurodivergent children and families — and why system reform is urgently needed.Together, they explore:The uphill battle parents face to secure EHCPs for autistic and ADHD childrenHow government underfunding and council gatekeeping harm children's futuresWhy do so many families feel forced into private assessments or tribunalsThe emotional toll on both neurodivergent children and their parentsThe importance of representation and why documentaries like this matterWhy real change needs more than awareness — it needs action, funding, and empathyWatch the Documentary on BBC iPlayer here

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott sit down with filmmaker and educator Bret Malley to discuss his groundbreaking documentary, "The Divergent Gift: Unboxing Autism."This film is particularly powerful because it was created entirely by neurodivergent people! From concept and filming to animation, editing, and storytelling. The project began as Bret's personal response to his son Kellan's autism diagnosis and grew into a global documentary that amplifies autistic voices of all ages and backgrounds.Through lived experience and innovative filmmaking, The Divergent Gift: Unboxing Autism reframes autism beyond stereotypes, celebrating its diversity, challenges, and beauty while centring autistic perspectives at every stage of production.Jordan, Simon, and Bret explore:How The Divergent Gift: Unboxing Autism began as a family story and became a powerful advocacy toolWhy authentic representation and autistic voices are essential in storytellingThe role of animation and creative filmmaking in capturing sensory and emotional experiencesHow media can either perpetuate stigma or foster empathy and understandingEarly reactions to screenings and the film's impact on communities and familiesWhy autistic-led creative projects are so vital for meaningful changeThis episode is a celebration of storytelling, representation, and the power of film to reshape cultural conversations about autism.Our Sponsors:

In this episode of Mindful Mondays, Ashley explores how nature helps us move through overwhelm and restore balance. From the science of the “happiness chemicals”—dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphins—to the practices of grounding and awe, discover how the natural world regulates our nervous system and reconnects us with presence and purpose. This week's guided meditation, Walking Off the Storm, takes you on a deeply descriptive, awe-filled journey through nature to release stress and return to calm.Ashley Bentley is an integrative coach, breathwork facilitator, and clinical hypnotherapist. She is also the in-house therapist for The Neurodivergent Experience podcast and a teacher on Insight Timer, where she shares meditations, courses, and live events to support presence, resilience, and connection. ✨ Connect with Ashley:

In this Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott unpack sensationalist headlines, genetic blame narratives, and the ongoing misinformation war around autism.From genetic blame and parental guilt to Trump's Tylenol claims and Facebook “science,” they expose how bad headlines spread faster than real research — and why this matters for autistic people and their families.Jordan and Simon also explore:Why autism isn't a disease with a “cause,” but a form of neurodivergence shaped by synaptic developmentThe harm caused by framing autism through deficit-based narratives and severity labelsHow pseudo-scientific headlines fuel ableism and self-blame in parentsThe difference between genuine research, sensationalist headlines, and clickbait “Facebook science”The need to shift funding from “preventing autism” to supporting autistic people who already existWhy blanket statements about autism erase the vast diversity of lived experiencesThis is a fiery, passionate conversation that blends science, personal experience, and sharp critique of ableist rhetoric.Our Sponsors:

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan, Simon, and Ashley explore the powerful relationship between nature, neurodivergence, chronic pain, and seasonal change. Recorded after a neurodivergent getaway in the Lake District, the trio reflect on the healing power of natural environments, the sensory overwhelm of urban life, and how embracing seasonal rhythms can support mental health and regulation for autistic and ADHD adults.Through candid storytelling and humour, they unpack the challenges of pain management, executive dysfunction, and winter transition, and share personal rituals, mindset shifts, and unexpected joys found in the natural world.Together, they explore:How nature acts as a powerful regulatory tool for neurodivergent brainsWhy modern urban environments can overwhelm autistic and ADHD sensory systemsThe role of barefoot grounding, light exposure, and circadian rhythms in daily wellbeingPractical strategies for navigating winter transitions, layering, and seasonal overwhelmPain, fatigue, and adapting outdoor experiences to fit different physical needsUsing photography, VR, and creative rituals to stay connected to nature indoors Embracing cosiness, Christmas lights, and simple joys during the winter monthsWhether you find winter draining, chronic pain exhausting, or city life overstimulating, this episode offers practical strategies and heartfelt conversation to remind you that neurodivergent people aren't broken—the environments we live in often are.Our Sponsors:

Routines can be a lifeline for neurodivergent brains — creating safety, reducing decision fatigue, and bringing balance to daily life. But when structure becomes too rigid, it can tip into pressure and burnout. In this episode of Mindful Mondays with Ashley Bentley, we explore how to build supportive routines that steady you without imprisoning you, weaving in rhythm and play so life feels both grounded and alive. You'll also be guided through a soothing meditation that helps you reimagine your routines as flexible, life-giving scaffolding — steady enough to hold you, soft enough to bend.✨ Connect with Ashley:

In this week's Hot Topic of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott tackle the shocking claim made by Donald Trump linking paracetamol (Tylenol) to autism.With humour, rage, and razor-sharp critique, they dismantle the dangerous rhetoric, exposing how misinformation from political leaders fuels stigma, fear, and ableism against autistic and ADHD communities. From debunking pseudoscience to unpacking why terms like “suffering from autism” dehumanise neurodivergent people, this is one of the most important conversations the show has ever hosted.Together, Jordan and Simon discuss:Why Trump's Tylenol-autism claim is scientifically baseless and politically motivatedThe harm of framing autism as an “epidemic” or “disease”How myths about the Amish and Cubans not being autistic are rooted in underreporting, not realityWhy dangerous rhetoric reduces autistic lives to something “worse than death”The role of correlation vs. causation in autism research and why facts matterHow conspiracy-style politics distract from real issues like healthcare, disability rights, and educationWhether you're autistic, ADHD, neurodivergent, or care about truth in public discourse, this fiery episode blends sharp advocacy, science, and satire to call out misinformation at the highest levels of power.Our Sponsors:

This week's episode is a re-run — but one that feels more relevant than ever. Recent comments from Donald Trump and Robert F. Kennedy Jr. have falsely suggested a link between paracetamol and autism, adding to the long history of misinformation that fuels stigma and fear.To push back against these harmful narratives, we're revisiting this conversation with Dr. Luke Beardon, Senior Lecturer in Autism at Sheffield Hallam University and author of multiple influential works on autism.In this episode, we explore:Why language matters when talking about autismThe dangers of misinformation — even from professionalsHow “us vs them” thinking harms autistic peopleThe identity challenges faced by those diagnosed later in lifeWhy autistic voices must be central in shaping the narrativeThis is a powerful reminder that autism is not something to be blamed on medicines, parenting, or fearmongering politics — it's a natural and valuable part of human diversity.Our Sponsors:

How often do you catch yourself thinking I should… or I have to…? In this episode of Mindful Mondays with Ashley Bentley, we explore how the language of pressure and judgment fuels shame, burnout, and disconnection — especially for neurodivergent minds. Ashley shares powerful reframes to shift should into could and have to into get to, restoring choice, gratitude, and presence. You'll also be guided through a calming yoga nidra-inspired meditation to release expectations and reconnect with freedom and agency.✨ Connect with Ashley:

In this week's Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott unpack a powerful story about a photography exhibition in South Wales titled “But You Don't Look Autistic.”The exhibition, featuring portraits of autistic children and adults, challenges stereotypes about what autism “should” look like and celebrates unapologetic neurodivergent pride. From purple beards and rubber ducks to teenage voices demanding respect, the project pushes back against patronising attitudes and harmful misconceptions.Jordan and Simon bring their lived experiences into the conversation, reflecting on:Why the phrase “you don't look autistic” is so damaging (even when meant kindly)The role of art, photography, and visibility in changing perceptionsEveryday examples of condescension and infantilization faced by autistic adultsThe need for neurodivergent pride and representation over awareness campaignsStories of ableism—from airports to festivals—that highlight how disability is still misunderstoodWhy invisible disabilities matter, and how assumptions harm neurodivergent peopleRead the article here.This episode blends humour, frustration, and hope—spotlighting the importance of representation and the freedom to be unapologetically neurodivergent.Our Sponsors:

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott dive deep into the often-overlooked concept of object permanence and how it shapes the everyday lives of autistic and ADHD adults.From misplaced wallets to forgotten birthdays, Jordan and Simon unpack the challenges of “out of sight, out of mind” thinking, and how it impacts relationships, routines, and self-esteem. With humor and honesty, they share personal stories—from paramedic rescues and lost headphones to missed social events—that highlight both the struggles and resilience of neurodivergent living.Together, they explore:What object permanence really means and how it links to autism, ADHD, and executive dysfunctionWhy neurodivergent people often forget tasks, dates, or even loved ones when they're out of viewHow these challenges can damage friendships, work, and self-confidence—and why it's not lazinessPractical tools that help: reminders, shared calendars, “don't put it down, put it back” hacks, and supportive partnersWhy patience, self-advocacy, and understanding from others make all the differenceWhether you constantly lose your keys, forget social plans, or feel guilty about being “that friend who never shows up,” this episode offers relatable stories, validation, and strategies to help you feel less alone.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

What if time isn't your enemy, but a rhythm you can learn to flow with? In this episode of Mindful Mondays with Ashley Bentley, we delve into time blindness, rushing, and the “hurry-up driver” that can trigger panic in neurodivergent brains. Ashley reframes time as a dance partner, not a deadline, and shares practices for syncing with your body's natural rhythms. Plus, enjoy a guided meditation to release urgency and discover presence inside each moment.✨ Connect with Ashley:

In this Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott react to new research showing that over 90% of autistic adults over 40 in the UK are undiagnosed.They break down a recent article highlighting the seven key signs of autism in adults aged 40+, while reflecting on their own lived experiences and the challenges of late diagnosis. With humour and honesty, they explore why so many autistic people go through life without answers. Read the article hereTogether, Jordan and Simon discuss:Why autism often goes undiagnosed in adults over 40, 50, and even 60+The seven subtle signs of autism in later life (routine, sensory sensitivities, social rules, and more)The impact of masking and how it becomes harder to spot autism with ageWhy getting a diagnosis matters—accommodations, self-understanding, and family supportThe difference between lived experience vs. clinical descriptions of autismHow the Right to Choose program is helping thousands skip years-long NHS waiting listsWhether you're exploring autism later in life, supporting a loved one, or just curious about late diagnosis, this episode blends research, advocacy, and lived insight to shed light on a “missing generation” of undiagnosed autistics.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott share their lived experiences with sensory hypersensitivity — from painful sounds, bright lights, and strong smells to the surprising joys of heightened senses.They explore:Why sensory overload is so disabling for autistic & ADHD adultsThe difference between hypersensitivity and hyposensitivityHow noise-cancelling headphones, sunglasses, and environmental changes can helpThe emotional side of hypersensitivity: empathy, overstimulation & burnoutReframing sensitivity as both a challenge and a hidden strengthIf you've ever struggled with noise sensitivity, light sensitivity, or sensory overload, this conversation offers practical tools, validation, and humour to help you feel less alone.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

Start your week with clarity and calm. In this pilot of Mindful Mondays with Ashley Bentley, discover how presence and acceptance can transform overwhelm, ease the neurodivergent mind, and help you let go of the “second arrow” of suffering. Plus, enjoy a guided meditation to ground, reset, and carry you into the week with purpose.✨ Connect with Ashley:

In this eye-opening episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott unpack the growing awareness of Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) in relation to ADHD and autism—and why naming it can be life-changing.Drawing from their lived experiences, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of RSD, from spiralling thoughts after a delayed text message to sleepless nights replaying old conversations. With humour, honesty, and hard-won insight, Jordan and Simon highlight how mainstream recognition of RSD is slowly catching up to what the neurodivergent community has been saying for years.Together, they discuss:What Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria really feels like for ADHDers and autistic peopleWhy naming RSD creates distance, self-awareness, and practical coping strategiesHow therapy (and finding the right therapist) can help untangle emotional floodsThe importance of starting young—teaching kids resilience, boundaries, and emotional languageWhy harmful advice from mainstream parenting “experts” can traumatise neurodivergent childrenTools that actually help: clarity in communication, gentle feedback, and community validationWhether you're navigating RSD yourself, parenting neurodivergent kids, or trying to understand a loved one's inner world, this conversation blends science, lived experience, and humour to bring comfort, clarity, and hope.The article discussed in this episode❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Simon Scott is joined by returning co-host Jordan James for a deep dive into advocacy, self-acceptance, and the power of knowledge in navigating neurodivergence.Jordan opens up about his personal journey from struggling with self-hatred after his autism diagnosis to embracing advocacy through writing, photography, and public speaking. Simon shares his own growth — from imposter syndrome to proudly advocating for himself at a music festival, where creating safe spaces and speaking openly about his needs led to connection, healing, and empowerment.Together, Jordan and Simon discuss:The importance of self-advocacy and setting boundaries in daily lifeWhy knowledge is power when navigating diagnoses, accommodations, and medical systemsThe emotional impact of hearing “you're not alone” through books, podcasts, and neurodivergent communitiesParenting while neurodivergent: raising autistic/ADHD kids with patience, advocacy, and self-compassionHow representation, honesty, and positivity (without toxic positivity) change the way neurodivergent people see themselvesThe ripple effect of advocacy — inspiring others, from children in classrooms to entire families, to embrace their neurodivergenceWhether you're exploring your diagnosis, learning to advocate for yourself, or supporting loved ones, this heartfelt conversation offers validation, encouragement, and practical tools to help you feel seen and empowered.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

Can you spot the difference between real advocacy and AI fakery? In this week's NeuroSpicy Hot Topic from The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott dive into the disturbing rise of AI-generated disability accounts — fake profiles posing as disabled people to chase likes, sympathy, and cash.From TikTok to Instagram, and from stolen advocacy posts to AI-created faces, we explore:How AI accounts impersonate disabled people and outpace real advocatesThe ethics of “sympathy as currency” online — when does support turn into exploitation?Jordan's experience with stolen posts, fake profiles, and even AI-like accusations against his photographyThe thin line between AI as accessibility (non-speaking advocates finding a voice) and AI as deceptionWhy fakes fuel distrust of genuine disabled creators and advocacy communitiesThe psychology of comments, trolls, and why negativity drowns out thousands of quiet supportersHow AI deepfakes risk eroding trust in images, podcasts, and even our own wordsWhether you're fascinated, fearful, or just fed up with online scams, this conversation blends advocacy, ethics, and plenty of neurospicy humour to ask: what happens when disability itself becomes content to counterfeit?❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

In this eye-opening episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Simon Scott is joined by hypnotherapist and breathwork practitioner Ashley Bentley to explore the hidden links between Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS), hypermobility, and neurodivergence.Ashley shares her personal journey with EDS—from chronic pain and joint dislocations to navigating misdiagnosis and medical dismissal—and how it overlaps with autism, ADHD, and sensory sensitivities. Together, Simon and Ashley discuss:The everyday challenges of living with invisible illnesses like EDSThe connection between nervous system regulation and mental healthHow Spoon Theory helps manage energy and prevent burnoutSupport strategies for those living with chronic fatigue, hypermobility, and neurodivergenceThe importance of self-advocacy, self-compassion, and adapting your lifestyleWhether you're newly diagnosed, exploring possible symptoms, or supporting a loved one, this conversation offers validation, practical tips, and a reminder that you're not alone.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

Are ADHD medications just about focus? In this week's NeuroSpicy Hot Topic from The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott break down a brand-new study from the BMJ showing that ADHD medication delivers far more than concentration boosts — with real-world life-saving benefits.From suicidal thoughts to transport accidents, and from substance misuse to criminal risk, we explore:How ADHD meds reduce impulsivity, risky behaviour, and accidentsEmotional regulation: why stimulants help us process feelings without overwhelmReal-life stories: missed trains, re-injuries, bad crowds, and chasing adrenalineWhy taking medication “only on work days” may miss its biggest benefitsThe dangerous oversimplifications of ADHD as just “distracted and hyper”Internal vs external ADHD — and why invisibility creates stereotypesHow methylphenidate helps close “open tabs” in the brain and builds better decision pathwaysThe truth about being “oversensitive” vs “hypersensitive”Whether you've been told ADHD meds are only about productivity, or you're weighing whether daily use is worth it, this conversation blends science, lived experience, and a heavy dose of neurospicy humour to show why these medications can be life-changing far beyond the desk.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

Struggling with everyday tasks as a neurodivergent adult? In this candid and insightful episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott unpack the lived reality of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) — a form of demand sensitivity often misunderstood, dismissed, or mislabelled as laziness.From dodging the dishwasher to putting off doctor's appointments, and from procrastinating over paperwork to resisting even self-imposed goals, we explore:What PDA really is — and why the NHS still doesn't formally recognise itHow demands (even ones we place on ourselves) trigger an instant “no” responseThe link between PDA, trauma, anxiety, and the obsessive need for autonomyWhy even fun things can feel impossible once they become obligationsPractical examples: chores, eating, car washes, and the endless hurdle race of daily lifePartner strategies — how reframing demands as favours can unlock cooperationWhy small wins matter: celebrating every task completed as a genuine victoryHow to create accommodations that turn mountains back into molehillsWhether you're living with PDA yourself, raising a neurodivergent child, or just want to understand why “simple” tasks aren't simple at all, this conversation blends raw honesty, humour, and real-world strategies for navigating life when demand avoidance touches everything.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

Struggling with sleep as a neurodivergent adult? In this eye-opening episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott welcome returning guest Ashley Bentley for a deep dive into the science and lived reality of sleep challenges in the ADHD, autistic, and neurodivergent community.From childhood insomnia to shift work exhaustion, and from circadian rhythm science to quirky sensory hacks, we explore:Why neurodivergent brains struggle to “switch off”The impact of circadian rhythms, synaptic pruning, and sensory sensitivitiesHow late-night screen time and “revenge bedtime procrastination” sabotage restSleep hacks for ADHD & autism, including cognitive shuffling, temperature regulation tricks, and scent anchorsThe Goldilocks principle of sleep — why too much can be just as draining as too littleYoga Nidra, mindfulness, and relaxation techniques that can mimic hours of sleepThe surprising link between morning sunlight, cortisol, and better nighttime restWhether you're navigating insomnia from childhood, juggling night shifts, or just curious about optimising your sleep hygiene, this conversation blends relatable neurodivergent humour with actionable, evidence-backed strategies.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

In this vulnerable and thought-provoking episode, Jordan and Simon unpack perception sensitivity dysphoria – a lesser-known offshoot of rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD) that plagues many neurodivergent individuals. They explore what it means to constantly feel scrutinised, misread, or even attacked just for existing authentically.

In this powerful and deeply relatable episode, Jordan and Simon sit down with breathwork practitioner and nervous system regulation specialist Ashley Bentley to explore the life-changing concept of The Circle of Control—a practical tool for managing overwhelm, anxiety, emotional spirals, and burnout, especially for neurodivergent people.From regulating sensory overload and letting go of rumination to navigating hyperfocus, addictive behaviours, and emotional dysregulation, this episode offers actionable tools to help listeners shift from chaos to calm.

This is Part 2 of our in-depth series on men's mental health, masculinity, and the dangerous rise of red pill/manosphere culture. If you haven't yet, go back and listen to Part 1 — this second half picks up where we left off.In this powerful continuation, Jordan and Simon get honest about the structural failures behind the male mental health crisis — from lack of support in schools to the societal pressure that discourages men from protecting their emotional well-being.

In this deeply personal and powerfully honest episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott explore the complex landscape of men's mental health, masculinity, and identity in the digital age. Drawing from their own experiences and conversations with family, friends, and therapists, they tackle issues including:The mental health impact of toxic masculinity and outdated gender normsHow social media algorithms and influencers like The Tate Brothers, Critical Drinker and Piers Morgan radicalise vulnerable young menThe rise of incel culture, red pill ideology, and manosphere manipulationThe role of pop culture and media representation in shaping male identity—from Star Wars and Barbie to Fallout and YellowstoneThe importance of emotional expression, vulnerability, and authentic male role models—especially for neurodivergent menPersonal stories of grief, fatherhood, depression, and the road to healingThis isn't just another rant about modern manhood—this is an open, emotional, and insightful discussion aimed at breaking cycles, unmasking pain, and offering a new vision for what it means to be a man today.❤️ Support the ShowIf this episode resonated with you:✅ Follow or Subscribe to The Neurodivergent Experience⭐ Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify

In this episode, Jordan, Simon, and guest Chris Ash delve into the unique and powerful relationships between neurodivergent individuals and animals. From pet iguanas and seagull dissertations to life-changing moments with parrots and puffins, this episode is a joyful celebration of how animals provide comfort, clarity, and connection for autistic and ADHD individuals, with insights into why sensory processing, emotional regulation, and empathetic alignment with non-human creatures can be incredibly soothing and empowering for neurodivergent individuals. In This Episode, You'll Discover:

In this episode, hosts Jordan James, Simon Scott, and special guest Sylvia James dive deep into your questions about the unspoken chaos of neurodivergent parenting. From the sensory nightmare of a UK heatwave to managing meltdowns caused by your own ND kids, this episode is as raw as it is relatable.Jordan and Sylvia open up about raising late-diagnosed autistic children, the trauma of childhood bullying, and how their own experiences as autistic adults shaped how they parent. They share lived experiences navigating:

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott dive into the chaotic beauty of neurodivergent friendships. From the heartbreak of sensory overload to the emotional minefield of alexithymia and rejection sensitivity dysphoria, they unpack the complex layers of autistic–autistic relationships, misunderstanding ADHD traits, and the healing power of shared ND experience.

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott are joined by in-house therapist Ahsley Bentley to explore the key differences between autistic men and women. We discuss how traits like repetitive behaviors and emotional expression show up differently, and the diagnostic biases and misogynistic societal expectations that affect late or missed diagnoses in women.

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott dive into life with dyslexia and how the quirks of the English language—like silent letters, inconsistent spelling, and grammar chaos—make reading and writing harder for neurodivergent minds.

In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott are once again joined by Sophie James as they get real about the challenges neurodivergent individuals face with food, from ARFID and sensory issues to body image and emotional regulation. They share personal stories, reflect on childhood eating habits, and explore how cooking and self-compassion play a role in healing.

Grab your controllers and press start to escape, because in this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Simon Scott and Jordan James take you on a deep dive into the power of video games through a neurodivergent lens. This isn't just about high scores and console wars — it's about how gaming has shaped our identities, helped us cope, and created space for community, connection, and healing. From childhood nostalgia to intense multiplayer emotions, this convo is loaded with relatable stories, laughs, and some real talk about mental health and the magic of gaming for neurodivergent brains.

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, hosts Simon Scott and Jordan James sit down with disability advocate Ellie Pavone to explore the realities of living with MS (Multiple Sclerosis) as a neurodivergent individual in today's world, and why trying to get support from the UK's PIP (Personal Independence Payment) system, where support is being cut quicker than you can apply for it, is a Neurodivergent Nightmare!

In this heart-tuning episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott, with a few delightful drop-ins from Sylvia James, explore music's powerful role in shaping memory, identity, and connection. Music isn't just background noise—it's the emotional soundtrack to our neurodivergent lives.

In this week's Hot Topic, we dive headfirst into the swirling storm of ignorance, outrage, and eye rolls sparked by Reform Party Leader Nigel Farage MP's latest comments on SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities) individuals in the UK. From tone-deaf soundbites to a complete misunderstanding of what being a victim actually means, Farage once again proves that when it comes to empathy and education, he's more out of touch than ever.Join us as we unpack the backlash and throw in a few well-deserved side-eyes along the way. Spoiler alert: it's not just offensive—it's exhausting! If you're tired of politicians using vulnerable communities and minorities for cheap political points, this one's for you.SUPPORT US THROUGH OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Follow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.