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In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott dive into life with dyslexia and how the quirks of the English language—like silent letters, inconsistent spelling, and grammar chaos—make reading and writing harder for neurodivergent minds.
In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott are once again joined by Sophie James as they get real about the challenges neurodivergent individuals face with food, from ARFID and sensory issues to body image and emotional regulation. They share personal stories, reflect on childhood eating habits, and explore how cooking and self-compassion play a role in healing.
Grab your controllers and press start to escape, because in this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Simon Scott and Jordan James take you on a deep dive into the power of video games through a neurodivergent lens. This isn't just about high scores and console wars — it's about how gaming has shaped our identities, helped us cope, and created space for community, connection, and healing. From childhood nostalgia to intense multiplayer emotions, this convo is loaded with relatable stories, laughs, and some real talk about mental health and the magic of gaming for neurodivergent brains.
In this powerful and eye-opening episode, hosts Simon Scott and Jordan James sit down with disability advocate Ellie Pavone to explore the realities of living with MS (Multiple Sclerosis) as a neurodivergent individual in today's world, and why trying to get support from the UK's PIP (Personal Independence Payment) system, where support is being cut quicker than you can apply for it, is a Neurodivergent Nightmare!
In this heart-tuning episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott, with a few delightful drop-ins from Sylvia James, explore music's powerful role in shaping memory, identity, and connection. Music isn't just background noise—it's the emotional soundtrack to our neurodivergent lives.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott speak with Speaker and Advocate, Asher Jenner, who shares their journey of navigating childhood struggles, school bullying and the complexities of PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), the impact of trauma on mental health, and the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals navigating CHaMs, particularly in relation to eating disorders and rumination syndrome.⚠️ Content Warning: Self-Harm and SuicideThis episode contains open and honest discussions around self-harm, suicidal thoughts, and mental health challenges. Listener discretion is strongly advised. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional or contact a crisis support service in your area.Here's what we cover in this episode We discuss the misconceptions surrounding PDA, the importance of tailored treatment approaches, and the emotional toll of navigating these experiences. The need for understanding and support for those with neurodivergent conditions, emphasizing the significance of lived experiences in shaping treatment and care.The therapeutic benefits of dance, and the role of stim toys in managing sensory needs. Asher Jenner shares insights on their journey, the significance of finding safe ways to express emotions, and the impact of sharing personal stories to help others. SUPPORT US THROUGH OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Follow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this weeks Hot Topic, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the alarming new proposals for Personal Independence Payment (PIP) in the UK, which could lead to 90% of current standard daily living awards failing on renewal.Here's what we cover in this episode:We share personal experiences with the PIP application process, highlighting the struggles faced by those with disabilities, particularly neurodivergent individuals. What are the implications of these changes, the internalized ableism that many face when attempting the application process?We express our frustration over the system's failures and emphasize the importance of community unity in advocating for the rights of disabled individuals.SUPPORT US THROUGH OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Follow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This episode isn't just good, it's sofa king good!Ever catch yourself - or someone else - repeating the same phrase again and again? Why do Neurodivergent people repeat words or phrases over and over? Is it just mimicry or something more meaningful? In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott are once again joined by in-house therapist Ashley Bentley to dive into the fascinating world of echolalia, the often misunderstood speech pattern based on mimicry and repetition, a common autistic trait that relates to early language development, and is the backbone of neurodivergent communication.Here's what we cover in this episode (THE MYSTERY POND):We share humorous examples and cultural references that illustrate the quirks of echolalia, the beauty and complexity of using echolalia as a form of expression and connection, while also addressing the potential for misunderstandings and social faux pasWe explore the nuances of echolalia, particularly how it is influenced by comedy and pop culture.We share personal anecdotes about our favourite TV shows , catchphrases, and family dynamics, highlighting how these elements shape our communication styles but create complexities in social interactions with neurotypicals.From immediate repetition to delayed scripting, echolalia can serve important roles in learning, self-regulation, and expression for Autistic people and be a relief from when Alexithymia hits!SUPPORT US THROUGH OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Follow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this weeks Hot Topic, Jordan James and Simon Scott explore the complexities of who should play neurodivergent roles on screen and the stereotypes that often arise in media portrayals, particularly focusing on the recent BBC One comedy 'Austin'.Here's what we cover in this episode: The need for neurodivergent actors, and the responsibility of media creators to provide accurate and respectful representations of neurodiverse individuals. The importance of recognising when media is laughing at not with Neurodivergent people.We discuss the non neuro-affirming nature and hidden etiquette of film sets and the challenges faced by autistic individuals in these spaces. We debate the complexities of who should play neurodivergent roles and the huge importance of lived experience in storytelling. SUPPORT US THROUGH OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Follow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode Jordan James and Simon Scott chat about one of the worlds most famous and loved tv shows, the Simpsons. Why do we relate to this cartoon family so much and how does the show serve as a medium to explain and represent Autism and ADHD people? Plus we discuss why the titular family aren't the only autistic-coded characters in Springfield who reflect and resonate with the experiences of neurodivergent audiences.Here's what we cover in this episode:Through character analysis, particularly of Bart Simpson, we delve into the neurodivergent traits of Bart Simpson, exploring how his character could reflect the experiences of the show's creators.How Ralph and Martin could be viewed as 'high and low functioning' characters yet we relate to both of them!We discuss the complexities of Bart's intelligence and struggles with traditional education, as well as the similarities between Bart and his father, Homer.The discussion also touches on Maggie's representation of nonverbal autism and the broader themes of mental health and family dynamics within The Simpsons.We discuss the complexities of autism representation in media, the significance of non-speaking individuals on tv, and the unique dynamics of characters like Maggie and Marge Simpson.SUPPORT US THROUGH OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Follow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott, are joined by Jordan's autistic daughter Sophie. Sophie recalls her experiences as a diagnosed women at university interacting with friends, colleagues and lecturers who are yet to recognise or accept they are neurodivergent. We explore how important it is to self-identify rather than self-diagnose, the shocking rates of misdiagnosis for autistic and ADHD women, and the unique challenges faced by women in understanding and accepting their neurodivergent identities.We share personal stories, discuss societal perceptions, and advocate for a more nuanced understanding of autism and ADHD.Sophie gives her perspective on the impact of societal rhetoric on perceptions of autism and ADHD, the challenges faced in educational settings regarding accommodations, and the stigma surrounding self-disclosure of neurodivergent identities. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding and acceptance of neurodiversity in both personal and professional contexts, highlighting the importance of creating supportive environments for neurodivergent individuals. This weeks Hot Topic is the dating show 'Love on the Spectrum'. We express our thoughts and feelings about the infantilization and sexualization of participants, the editing choices that misrepresent the spectrum of autism, the lack of diverse representation and the importance of showcasing a broader range of Neurodivergent experiences in media.SUPPORT US THROUGH OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceFollow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, Simon Scott and Jordan James share and discuss three hot topics about Autism and ADHD as they celebrate Autism Acceptance Month.They critique a recent article in The Independent that reflects on the themes of the last episodes hot topic around Bella Ramsey being diagnosed Autistic. The articles author dismisses self diagnosis as 'armchair diagnoses', bashes social media advocating as misinformation and brands the act of suggesting to someone they may be neurodivergent as a rude and unacceptable thing to do. Simon and Jordan emphasize the importance of understanding and celebrating neurodivergence while addressing the harmful narratives perpetuated by ill informed media outlets and share personal experiences and insights on navigating conversations about neurodivergence, celebrating neurodiversity and the positive aspects of being autistic. The article: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/bella-ramsey-autism-adhd-diagnosis-tiktok-neurodivergence-b2723125.html#comments-areaThe second Hot Topic explores the cultural significance of the custom NBA sneakers campaign that is raising money and awareness in relation to autism acceptance month. They discuss the impact of custom sneakers designed to support the autism community and the importance of broader awareness campaigns: https://www.nba.com/jazz/news/custom-sneaker-campaign-organized-by-utah-jazz-coach-to-benefit-autism-acceptance-efforts-returns-for-second-seasonThe conversation shifts to the controversial changes proposed by NHS England regarding the Right to Choose, highlighting the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals in accessing timely diagnoses and support.SUPPORT US THROUGH OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceFollow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
An episode that explores the impact of My Chemical Romance through an autistic and neurodivergent perspective. Matt, Angela, and our sound engineer Simon Scott break down how the band's emotional intensity, justice themes, and outsider energy have made them a lasting icon within the autistic community.Here's what's in store for today's episode: * Today, we're taking a deep dive into My Chemical Romance and exploring how they reflect and embody elements of the autistic experience.* Our podcast producer, sound engineer, and behind-the-scenes magic man, Simon Scott, steps in front of the mic today to talk about his special interest.* We kick things off with the ultimate lore deep dive—tracing the butterfly effect from 9/11 all the way to Ellen DeGeneres getting canceled (yes, it is connected to My Chemical Romance, and yes, it makes sense… eventually).* After witnessing the Twin Towers fall from the Hudson River on 9/11, Gerard Way felt a deep urge to create something bigger than himself—something that could connect people through shared emotion and purpose. Out of that moment, My Chemical Romance was born.* We then dive into how bottom-up processing and autistic hyper-empathy may have influenced Gerard's decision—how taking in overwhelming sensory and emotional details of the moment could have sparked a need to respond in a deeply personal, creative, and connective way.* The band went on to write, produce, perform, and publish their entire first album within a week—a hyperfixation-fueled feat that no neurotypical could realistically pull off with the same intensity, focus, and urgency.* Their albums are deeply narrative, with each one following characters that symbolically represent the band members themselves. The first two albums build a layered universe that culminates in their third release—Welcome to the Black Parade—widely regarded as their magnum opus and a defining moment in emo and alternative music history.* We unpack the imagery in the “I'm Not Okay (I Promise)” music video and how it resonates with many autistic traits—highlighting themes of social rejection, masking, sensory overwhelm, and the desperate need to be understood in a world that constantly misunderstands you.* Next, we explore themes of justice sensitivity woven throughout MCR's lyrics—a trait commonly linked to the autistic experience—and how the so-called “autistic accent” subtly shapes the cadence, rhythm, and emotional delivery of their songs, adding layers of urgency, vulnerability, and authenticity.* Our hosts and Simon dive into the rich subculture that's emerged from the band's work—a world built by and for the outcasts, the overly emotional, the neurodivergent, and those who never quite fit in. MCR didn't just create music—they created a movement, a safe haven, and a language for people who feel everything too much.* Finally, we dive into expectation sensitivity, unpack the reasons behind the band's 8-year hiatus, and reflect on their powerful return—why their message hits harder than ever in today's world and why we still need MCR now more than ever.“I'd rather be a creature of the night than just some old dude.” - Gerard Way“I disappoint a lot of people. They expect me to be one way. If I spend a minute with them, they end up saying, ‘Oh, you're actually just a really nice person. They hate me when they catch me out of my makeup.” - Gerard Way“Neurotypical people tend to do things for power, prestige, and profit. He's not doing it because he wants to maintain the My Chemical Romance empire. He's not doing it because he wants to be famous. He's not doing it because he wants all the money. He has a story to tell. He has a reason for doing the thing.” - MattDid you enjoy this episode? We took a deep dive into the world of My Chemical Romance and how their music, message, and aesthetic embody key aspects of the autistic experience. From the butterfly effect of 9/11 to the cancellation of Ellen (yes, really), we trace the band's origins, explore autistic hyper-empathy and justice sensitivity in their lyrics, and analyze how the “autistic accent” shows up in their sound. Plus, we break down the iconic “I'm Not Okay” music video and the subculture that's made MCR a safe haven for neurodivergent weirdos everywhere. Join the convo with #AutisticCultureCatch!Show Notes:My Chemical Romance on Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Chemical_RomanceBlack Parade in Musical Order - Neurodivergent Experience -Na Na Na Music Video: Welcome to the Black Parade Music Video: Related Episodes:Chess is AutisticFreddie Mercury is AutisticFollow us on InstagramFind us on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPJoin Matt's Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaKingdon.com Angela's social media: Twitter and TikTokOur Autism-affirming merch shop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe
In this engaging conversation, Simon Scott and Jordan James explore various themes including neurotypical interactions, the transition to full-time podcasting and the thought-provoking show 'Severance'. They delve into the concept of 'innies' and 'outies' as a metaphor for the duality of self in the context of neurodivergence. They discuss the impact of past experiences on character building, the struggles of commuting and travel, and the weight of everyday responsibilities we wish our 'Innies' could do for us.This weeks Hot Topic covers Actor and Last of Us Star Bella Ramsey being diagnosed as Autistic after a neuro-affirming crew member spotted the signs: https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/bella-ramsey-autistic-signs-the-last-of-us-b2723641.htmlSUPPORT OUR SPONSERS:Work with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceFollow NDE on social media:Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceIf you have ever enjoyed any of these episodes, could we please ask that you consider leaving a short a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify? It takes less than a minute and makes a huge difference in helping to spread the word about the show. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this conversation Jordan James and Simon Scott, speak with resident therapist Ashley Bentley about the the impact of RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria) on mental health, nervous system regulation and self-soothing techniques to manage anxiety and overwhelming feelings. They discuss the importance of visual stimuli in creating a comforting environment, the inner critic stemming from childhood trauma, the complexities of adult responsibilities and the disconnect between empathy and rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD) and the tools available for managing anxiety and self-doubt. This weeks Hot Topic discuss the misinformation surrounding vaccines and autism, emphasizing the importance of education and advocacy for neurodiversity. The conversation highlights the need to debunk myths and promote a better understanding of autism, while also celebrating the contributions of neurodivergent individuals.Guest: Ashley Bentley: Hypnotherapist, Coach & Breathwork Practitioner, Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & HypnotherapyEmail: integrativeiom@gmail.comWeb: https://www.integrativeiom.co.ukFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/IntegrativeIOMInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/integrativeiom/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@integrativehypnotherapyInsight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/AshleyBentleyWork with Ashley Bentley at Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapy to break free from old patterns and start living with more clarity, confidence, and connection - https://bit.ly/ashleyndeSPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this engaging conversation, Jordan James and Simon Scott explore the themes of self-care, stress management, and the psychology behind collecting and purchasing items. They share personal experiences with financial management and the impact of obsessions on their lives, particularly in relation to their neurodivergent experiences. They explore the themes of nostalgia, how childhood experiences shape adult behaviours, the impact of having disposable income on purchasing habits, and the connection to one's inner child. The dialogue highlights the complexities of interests and obsessions, emphasizing the emotional satisfaction derived from indulging in passions and the societal influences that drive consumer behaviour. This weeks Hot Topic covers The Standard's article 'Daydreaming, social awkwardness: Has the internet diagnosed you with autism or ADHD?' Read it here: https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/autism-adhd-diagnosis-test-surge-tiktok-b1207881.htmlSPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this conversation, Simon Scott and Jordan James talk to Chris Ash, an autistic student at the University of Exeter, exploring the challenges and experiences of navigating university life as neurodivergent individuals. They discuss the impact of chaotic living environments, the importance of self-awareness, and the fears associated with transitioning into the challenges of navigating adult life. The speakers share personal anecdotes about their experiences with stress, independence, and lifestyle adjustments, including food habits during university life.This weeks Hot Topic is the controversial statements made by President Trump regarding autism and the impact of misinformation on the public perception of Neurodivergent people.SPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this engaging conversation, Jordan James, Simon Scott, and Ashley Bentley explore the importance of embracing one's inner child, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. They discuss personal experiences, the healing power of connecting with the inner child, and the role of hypnotherapy in this process. The conversation delves into the impact of synaptic pruning on mental health, the dangers of silencing the inner child, and practical steps to foster creativity and self-acceptance. Ashley shares insights on how to navigate shame and the significance of allowing the inner child to express itself freely and the importance of finding community and embracing individuality. They discuss the challenges of adult responsibilities while nurturing the inner child, emphasizing the need to build resilience in children and empower them through imagination.This weeks Hot Topic focuses on Bill Gates' recent acknowledgment of neurodivergence, underscoring the importance of awareness and acceptance in society.Guest: Ashley Bentley: Hypnotherapist, Coach & Breathwork Practitioner, Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & HypnotherapyEmail: integrativeiom@gmail.comWeb: https://www.integrativeiom.co.ukFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/IntegrativeIOMInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/integrativeiom/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@integrativehypnotherapyInsight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/AshleyBentleySPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss their personal journeys with accepting their neurodivergence. They share their experiences with pain, positivity, and the challenges of navigating societal perceptions of autism and ADHD. They discuss the impact of societal expectations on individuals with disabilities, the importance of recognizing and addressing internalized ableism, and the journey towards self-love and acceptance. The conversation also touches on the challenges of communication, the significance of open discussions about neurodivergence, and the human experience in the context of sports, particularly focusing on Luka Doncic's recent trade to the LA Lakers in the NBA.SPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott reconnect for Season 2, sharing their personal journeys of growth, mental health, and the neurodivergent experience. They discuss the importance of focusing on what can be controlled, the challenges of moving house, and reflections on their Christmas experiences. They discuss Simon's journey of unmasking his neurodivergence, the impact of supportive friendships, and the empowerment that comes from embracing one's true self. The conversation also touches on the societal implications of neurodivergence, culminating in a hot topic discussion about Elon Musk and the misuse of neurodivergence as an excuse for behaviour.SPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Society's perspective on autism has shifted, but there is still work to be done to combat misinformation and stigma.In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott interview Steve Silberman, the author of NeuroTribes. They discuss the impact of Silberman's book on the neurodivergent community and the importance of embracing neurodiversity. They delve into the history of autism and the misconceptions surrounding Hans Asperger, the legacy of autism, the shift in society's perspective on autism and the importance of finding support within the neurodivergent community. Silberman shares his perspective on the medical model of autism and we explore the impact of the book 'NeuroTribes' in creating advocates for neurodiversity, the concept of the autism spectrum, the need for more frequent and dedicated opportunities for autistic children to engage in their special interests, as these interests can lead to meaningful and successful lives.SPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This is episode #6 of the Neurodivergent Experience, re-released while were on Hiatus. We Will be back with NEW episodes in FebruaryMeltdowns can be overwhelming and uncontrollable experiences, often triggered by sensory overload or unexpected events. In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott share what meltdowns feel like from a neurodivergent perspective. They cover the causes and effects of meltdowns, the importance of self-care and coping mechanisms - such as stimming and finding ways to recharge - the challenges of social anxiety and the power of communication.SPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In our final episode of the year and our first season, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott reflect on their experiences and growth throughout 2024, discussing starting a podcast, personal achievements, family dynamics, and the challenges they faced as neurodivergent individuals. We encapsulate a year of significant personal development and connection, our mental health journeys, the impact of significant losses, and the importance of community. As we look forward to the new year, we set intentions and promises for personal growth and fulfilment, trying to buy less trainers and what to look forward to in Season 2 of The Neurodivergent Experience.SPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss various themes around the infamous Autistic sense of justice. We share our personal anecdotes and insights on dealing with liars, how past experiences of violence and trauma shape our current behaviours and perceptions, particularly regarding trust and disingenuousness. We delve into the complexities of emotional expression, the impact of hypocrisy, and the challenges of honesty in relationships for Autistic people and the struggle between maintaining emotional safety and the desire for genuine connections.SPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, hosts Jordan James and Simon Scott explore the multifaceted aspects of being Autistic at Christmas, discussing their personal traditions and the ups and downs of the holiday season.We explore various aspects of Christmas, from personal traditions and family dynamics to the anxieties and expectations that come with the holiday season. We discuss the significance of family interactions over material gifts and reflect on how our perspectives on Christmas preparations have evolved over time, through kindness, understanding, and creating comfortable spaces for neurodivergent individuals.SPONSER: Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Support the show with our merch! Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the complexities of anger. Joined by hypnotherapist Ashley Bentley, we explore the importance of therapy, delve into personal experiences with coping mechanisms, the impact of childhood trauma on adult life, the challenges of adulting, and the influence of social media on self-image, self-compassion, and mindfulness in managing emotions.TakeawaysAnger is a natural emotion that needs to be managed.Self-compassion is crucial in navigating feelings of anger and shame.Neurodivergent individuals often experience heightened emotions and sensitivities.It's important to recognize that others' behaviours often reflect their own issues, not ours.Adulting can be overwhelming, leading to feelings of inadequacy and anger.Healing is a continuous journey that requires effort and self-awareness.Ashley Bentley: Hypnotherapist, Coach & Breathwork Practitioner, Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & HypnotherapyEmail: integrativeiom@gmail.comWeb: https://www.integrativeiom.co.ukFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/IntegrativeIOMInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/integrativeiom/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@integrativehypnotherapyInsight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/AshleyBentleyGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Get our t-shirts and hoodies at https://www.dollysdaydreamscheshire.co.uk/the-neurodivergent-experienceInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Tomamos conciencia de los kilitos de más que hemos pillado este verano. Por ello planteamos una sesión de ejercicios para ponernos en forma a ritmo de rocknroll y resistir las tentaciones culinarias. Una divertida sesión sin más pretensión que pasar un buen rato, que eso también es sano.Playlist;(sintonía) LINK WRAY “Fat back”THE MORELLS “Gettin’ in shape”FATS DOMINO “Hey Fat Man”LOUIS JORDAN and THE TYMPANY FIVE “You’re much too fat and that’s that”THE DOVELLS “You can’t sit down”JEANETTE BABY WASHINGTON “Move on”SIMON SCOTT and THE LE ROYS “Move it baby”LARRY WILLIAMS “Short fat Fanny”DON COVAY “Fat man”THE ROCKYFELLERS “Don’t sit down”RAY SANDERS “Karate”CHUCK GALLEGOS and THE FABULOUS CYCLONES “Chilli beans”SIR DOUGLAS QUINTET “Bacon fat”THE MARATHONS “Peanut butter”TOMMY HANCOCK “Tacos for two”HASIL ADKINS “No more hot dogs”THE STRANGELOVES “I want candy”THE FUZILLIS “Pizza sure is good”RANGONES “Viciado en sanduich”BOBBY RAMONE “I don’t wanna stand up”THE UNTAMED YOUTH “Beer bust blues”TOMMY and THE ROCKETS “Beer fun and rocknroll”Escuchar audio
"One of the key disability sides of my hyper focus is that I can hyper focus on things that I don't like and can be quite distressing to think about."In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss neurodivergent abilities versus disabilities. We share personal experiences and insights into how hyper-focus and tree learning, anxiety, and eidetic memory are both abilities and disabilities. We talk about difficulties processing empathy, deep emotions and how these impact their lives, plus our experiences with exceptional memories and how it can be both a gift and a burden. TakeawaysHyper-focus and tree learning are common traits in neurodivergent individuals, allowing them to deeply explore and understand specific subjects.Anxiety can be both helpful and disabling, providing heightened awareness but also causing distress and physical symptoms.Eidetic memory, or the ability to recall detailed sensory information, can be both a gift and a burden, impacting daily experiences and emotional well-being. Hyper-empathy allows for deep connections with others but can also be disabling.Navigating neurodivergent experiences requires patience and not settling for less.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"We don't need a neurotypical saviour and a holistic saviour, whatever. We don't need you. We didn't ask you to save us. We need diversity and neurodiversity does serve this purpose."In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott interview Lyric Rivera, a neurodiversity consultant and educator. Lyric shares their journey of self-discovery after being diagnosed as autistic and how it led them to create their Facebook page which now has 179,000 followers.The conversation touches on the differences in perspectives and understanding of autism between countries, with the UK and Australia being more forward-thinking compared to the US, the harmful narratives and fear campaigns surrounding autism, the dangers of seeking to eradicate or 'correct' autism, the different rules and regulations regarding neurodivergence in the workplace in different states in the US and emphasizes the importance of including autistic individuals in research and decision-making processes.TakeawaysThe UK and Australia are considered by Lyric as 'more forward-thinking' in their understanding of autism compared to the US.Including autistic individuals in research and decision-making processes is crucial.Many employers still lack understanding of neurodivergence and may not provide necessary accommodations. Neurodivergent individuals may face discrimination and challenges in the workplace, such as being denied reasonable accommodations.There are differences in Neurodivergence Laws and Workplace Accommodations in the USNeurodivergent individuals are constantly evolving and changing, and it is important to understand and embrace one's own unique experience.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss neurodivergent people who have shaped their lives and the influence of neurodivergent individuals in various fields. They talk about the impact of Walt Disney, Roald Dahl, Robin Williams and share personal anecdotes and discuss the importance of representation from those who have overcome challenges and inspire others to never give up and the positive influence it can have on neurodivergent individuals.TakeawaysStand-up comedians like Robin Williams have been influential figures and have shaped their interests, creativity, and sense of humour.Celebrities like Jim Carrey and Tom Brady have overcome challenges and inspired people, including Simon and Jordan to never give up despite your disabilities.The importance of representation and the positive influence it can have on neurodivergent individuals is discussed.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"Neurodivergent Jenga is like many little triggers, which take away each one of your little bricks"In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the concept of losing spoons and playing Neurodivergent Jenga. We talk the concept of spoons, which represents energy levels, and how different factors can drain or add to their spoons throughout the day. Have you ever been stuck playing Neurodivergent Jenga, where small triggers can lead to a meltdown? We share our personal experiences with triggers and sensory issues and how they can affect our daily lives. Jordan discusses the challenges of being a parent and how neurodivergent children can trigger your own triggers.TakeawaysSpoons represent energy levels, and various factors can drain or add to them throughout the dayUnderstanding and managing triggers can help prevent meltdowns and preserve spoonsParents of neurodivergent children may face additional challenges and need to find a balance between guidance and understanding.Executive dysfunction can affect daily tasks and routines, leading to triggers.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"Neurodivergent tax, also known as ADHD tax, is the impulse buying that has been a delight and a burden on me and my finances."In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss impulse buying and 'Neurodivergent Tax'. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with impulse buying, including purchasing expensive items like dogs and sneakers, and having to pay the ND tax. They also touch on the impact of FOMO (fear of missing out) and the role of research in impulse buying.TakeawaysFOMO (fear of missing out) can contribute to impulse buying, as individuals may feel the need to participate in certain trends or experiences.Research can play a role in impulse buying, as individuals may justify their purchases by conducting extensive research and convincing themselves of the value.Impulse buying can have both positive and negative consequences, ranging from the joy of acquiring desired items to financial strain and regret.Setting boundaries and being mindful of impulsive tendencies can help manage and control impulse buying behaviour.Sales and second-hand items can be more affordable options for satisfying shopping desires.Parents may feel compelled to buy things for their children to ensure they don't miss out.Get an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"My relationship with food is incredibly complex. I hate food that is unpredictable."In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss their complex relationships with food. They share their experiences with 'fussy' eating, body dysmorphia, and trauma-related food aversions. They also talk about the impact of neurodivergent traits on their eating habits, such as demand avoidance and hypersensitivity. They highlight the unpredictability of food textures and flavours for neurodivergent people and the preference for routine and familiarity.TakeawaysNeurodivergent individuals often have complex relationships with food, influenced by factors such as picky eating, body dysmorphia, and trauma-related aversions.Neurodivergent traits, such as demand avoidance and hypersensitivity, can impact eating habits and food preferences.Childhood experiences with food, including restrictions and negative associations, can shape an individual's relationship with food as an adult.Developing a healthier relationship with food may involve exploring new flavours, managing sensory sensitivities, and addressing underlying emotional issues.It is important to be mindful of how we talk about food and body image, avoiding negative language and promoting self-acceptance as understanding and supporting neurodivergent individuals' unique food preferences and challenges can promote their overall well-being.Parents should avoid labelling their children as 'fussy eaters' and instead create a positive and supportive environment to encourage trying new foods.Chapters00:00 RTN Sponsor01:43 The Complexity of Neurodivergent Relationships with Food06:26 Childhood Experiences and Food Challenges09:20 Food as Comfort and Trauma Response13:15 Struggles with Eating and Starvation25:15 Negative Associations and Social Exclusion27:10 Conclusion and Support for Neurodivergent Food Preferences32:10 Navigating Unpredictability: Food Textures and Flavours for Neurodivergent People45:06 Childhood Memories and Associations with Food50:42 Supporting Neurodivergent Children in Developing Healthy Eating Habits52:09 The Impact of Food on Neurodivergent Individuals' Cognitive Abilities53:07 Promoting Positive Body Image and Mindful Eating for Neurodivergent IndividualsGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Society's perspective on autism has shifted, but there is still work to be done to combat misinformation and stigma.In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott interview Steve Silberman, the author of NeuroTribes. They discuss the impact of Silberman's book on the neurodivergent community and the importance of embracing neurodiversity. They delve into the history of autism and the misconceptions surrounding Hans Asperger, the legacy of autism, the shift in society's perspective on autism and the importance of finding support within the neurodivergent community. Silberman shares his perspective on the medical model of autism and we explore the impact of the book 'NeuroTribes' in creating advocates for neurodiversity, the concept of the autism spectrum, the need for more frequent and dedicated opportunities for autistic children to engage in their special interests, as these interests can lead to meaningful and successful lives.TakeawaysThe history of autism reveals the mistreatment and discrimination faced by neurodivergent people.The medical model of autism focuses on deficits and dysfunctions, but a more inclusive and positive perspective is needed.Neurodiversity is a natural variation of human neurology and should be embraced and accommodated.The autism spectrum is not linear but encompasses a range of neurodivergent experiences.Special interests are a vital part of the lives of autistic individuals and should be embraced and nurtured.Finding support within the neurodivergent community can be invaluable for both autistic individuals and their families.00:00 RTN Sponsor01:12 Introduction03:14 The Impact of Steve Silberman's Book, NeuroTribes, on the Neurodivergent Community09:54 The History of Autism and the Progress of Neurodiversity36:33 Embracing Neurodiversity37:31 The Autism Spectrum42:57 Unpacking the History of Autism Diagnosis44:22 From Deficits to Strengths49:32 Challenging Ableism and Cure Culture53:48 The Power of Special Interests01:08:10 Support and AccommodationSteve Silberman: Award-winning science writer, author of NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity (Avery 2015).Website: https://www.stevesilberman.com/Book: NeuroTribesGet an Autism and ADHD assessment in the UK with https://www.rtnmentalhealthsolutions.com/ Use the Discount Code RTN23 when you make your initial enquiry through the RTN website or the website portal.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent ExperienceYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Navigating romantic relationships can be challenging for neurodivergent individuals.In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss their experiences with romantic relationships. They share stories from their teenage years including the challenges of navigating dating and intimacy, the impact of past traumas and the importance of being true to oneself in a relationship, particularly for neurodivergent individuals. Jordan discusses how meeting his wife, Sylvia, changed everything. They formed a deep connection and understood each other on a level that no one else did and attributes their successful relationship to both of them being neurodivergent. He expresses gratitude for having Sylvia in his life and credits her for helping him better himself. Simon reflects on his past relationships and how they were influenced by his neurodivergent traits and shares his experiences of being taken advantage of and feeling misunderstood in past relationships.TakeawaysBeing true to oneself is important in building a healthy and fulfilling relationship but past traumas can impact how we approach and experience them.Dating and intimacy can be particularly difficult for neurodivergent individuals, who may struggle with social cues and communication.Building a relationship without masks and being open and honest can lead to a stronger connection, being in a relationship with someone who is also neurodivergent can lead to a deep connection and understanding.00:00 Introduction and Setting the Topic07:42 Navigating Dating and One Night Stands26:30 Difficulties with Initiating Intimacy35:21 Building Relationships while Masking44:11 Confidence and Attracting Attention57:36 Finding Connection and Understanding in a Relationship01:05:32 The Power of Gratitude in a Successful Relationship01:15:26 Reflecting on Past Relationships for Personal GrowthWhether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperienceYoutube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Art and creative expression can be a powerful way for neurodivergent individuals to communicate and share their unique experiences.In this conversation, Jordan James and Simon Scott talk to Bret Malley, a recently diagnosed neurodivergent individual, and father of an autistic son. They discuss Brett's journey of self-discovery, his experiences as a filmmaker and artist, talk about his upcoming documentary film, The Divergent Gift: Unboxing Autism, led by Bret and starring Jordan and the challenges he and his son face in the US education system.The conversation explores the need for flexibility and multiple ways of learning in education, particularly for neurodivergent individuals, and emphasize the importance of listening to parents and understanding the unique strengths and weaknesses of each child.The upcoming documentary film 'The Divergent Gift; Unboxing Autism, led by Brett Mallie, aims to amplify the voices of the neurodivergent community and promote acceptance and inclusion.TakeawaysThe education system often fails to accommodate the diverse learning styles and needs of neurodivergent students, leading to feelings of frustration and isolation.There is a need for a shift in the education system to prioritize individuality, autonomy, and support for neurodivergent students. Education should provide flexibility and multiple ways of learning to accommodate the diverse needs and interests of students, particularly neurodivergent individuals.Teachers should listen to parents and take the time to understand each child's unique strengths and weaknesses in order to provide appropriate support.Storytelling, animation, and creativity can be powerful tools for expressing the neurodivergent experience and promoting understanding and acceptance.00:00 Introduction and Background14:10 Art as a Form of Communication35:50 The Need for a Shift in Education44:34 Flexibility and Autonomy in Education51:48 The Importance of Listening to Parents01:08:00 The Power of Documentary Film in AdvocacyBret Malley: Educator, Speaker, Professional photographer, author of Adobe Master Class; Advanced Compositing in Adobe Photoshop CC, and all around Photoshop magician specializing in surreal, epic, and imaginative image creation.Website: https://www.bretmalley.com/Documentary: https://www.thedivergentgift.com/Please consider supporting this incredible project: https://fundraise.givesmart.com/form/88kj6Q?vid=14zjxqWhether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperienceYoutube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Neurodivergent characters are becoming more prevalent in TV and film, although many are still coded rather than explicitly identified as neurodivergent.In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss autistic representation in TV and film. They explore characters like Sherlock Holmes and Gregory House, who exhibit neurodivergent traits, and delve into the X-Men and how the characters in the series represent neurodivergent experiences, the importance of neurodivergent artists and creators in shaping these characters and emphasize the relatability of superheroes and the impact of pop culture on the neurodivergent community. The conversation addresses the issue of negative representation and stereotypes in shows like 'The Good Doctor' and emphasizes the need for authentic representation by neurodivergent people and concludes by emphasizing the significance of accurate and diverse representation in media.TakeawaysThe representation of neurodivergent characters often reflects the desire for recognition, validation, and understanding experienced by many neurodivergent individuals.Autism Awareness Month and similar initiatives can be seen as performative and insufficient, as acceptance and celebration of neurodivergent people should be continuous.There are examples of neurodivergent characters in various TV shows, including The Big Bang Theory, The Office, Parks and Recreation, and Rick and Morty. Neurodivergent characters in media, such as Doctor Who and Mr. Bean, provide representation and relatability for neurodivergent individuals.Companions and teams play a crucial role in the stories of neurodivergent characters, highlighting the importance of social connections.Negative representation and stereotypes in shows like 'The Good Doctor' can be harmful and perpetuate misconceptions about neurodivergent individuals.Authentic representation by neurodivergent people is essential for accurate and diverse portrayals of neurodivergence in media.00:00 Introduction and Autistic Representation10:37 The X-Men: Neurodivergent Superheroes36:39 Neurodivergent Characters in Big Bang Theory45:31 Neurodivergent Representation in IT Crowd: Richard Ayoade52:26 Neurodivergent People Thrive in Collaboration01:03:02 The Good Doctor: Perpetuating Stereotypes01:10:43 Neurodivergent Representation in Brooklyn Nine NineWhether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperienceYoutube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Collaboration and understanding between different species, including humans and animals, can lead to a more harmonious world. In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott talk to Summer Farrelly, an Autistic inclusion advocate and animal behaviorist. They discuss Summer's journey to becoming a zoologist, their special interest in chickens, and their assisted animal learning program. Summer shares how their understanding of animal behavior has helped them navigate social settings and learn about human behavior. The conversation delves into the topic of advocacy and the impact of positive feedback from the community, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and sharing personal experiences in advocacy.TakeawaysUnderstanding animal behavior can provide insights into human behavior. Learning from animals can teach us valuable lessons about cooperation and survival.Studying animal behavior can provide insights into human behavior and vice versa. Favorite animals can vary among individuals, and personal preferences are influenced by various factors.Authenticity and sharing personal experiences are key in advocacy, as they can inspire and help others.Understanding and advocating for neurodivergent individuals is important for creating an inclusive society. Positive feedback from the community can have a profound impact on advocates and reinforce the importance of their work.Building meaningful friendships can be a challenge for neurodivergent individuals, but finding like-minded people can lead to strong connections.Starting as a content creator and advocate can be a way to connect with others and make a positive impact. Social media can have both positive and negative effects on individuals, and it's important to find a balance and prioritize real-life connections.Disability and ability are two sides of the same coin, and it's important to embrace and appreciate both aspects of one's neurodivergent identity.00:00 Introduction to Summer Farrelly04:32 Defining Neurodivergence and Autism06:29 Living the Neurodivergent Experience in Australia08:25 Summer's Journey to Studying Zoology10:21 Passion for Animals and Special Interest in Chickens20:21 Favorite Animals and Evolved Dinosaurs28:49 Navigating Social Interactions and Friendship37:51 Assisted Animal Learning Program42:13 The Power of Authenticity51:06 Navigating Challenges56:24 The Impact of Positive Feedback01:06:55 Embracing Neurodiversity01:14:37 Self-Acceptance and the Journey of AdvocacySummer Farrelly, Autistic Inclusion Advocate & Animal Behaviorist:Website: https://summerfarrelly.com.au/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/Chickens2loveWhether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperienceYoutube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Masking is a survival technique used by neurodivergent individuals to fit in and avoid harassment or bullying. It takes a toll on mental health, leading to anxiety, low self-esteem, and a constant fear of slipping up.In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the concept of masking and unmasking in neurodivergent people. They explore the reasons why individuals mask their true selves, the fear of not being taken seriously, the pressure to conform to societal norms, along with the deep masking experienced during teenage years. The conversation explores the benefits and challenges of masking disabilities, the dehumanizing perspective towards people with disabilities and why unmasking is a journey of self-discovery and acceptance.Takeaways:Society's judgment of neurodivergence and disability as weaknesses contributes to the fear of being authentic and the need to mask.Social media can be a breeding ground for bullying and judgment, as people feel detached and empowered to tear others down.The desire for companionship and acceptance drives individuals to mask their true selves, but it is important to find a balance between fitting in and being authentic.Authentic friendships are built on being real and accepting each other's true selves.Teaching children to mask in certain situations can help them navigate the world, but it's important to also encourage their authentic selves.Chapters00:00 Intro00:32 Masking and Unmasking01:30 The Freedom and Comfort of Masking04:22 The Toll of Masking05:23 The Challenge of Being Fully Authentic06:22 The Persona of Masking07:22 The Loss of Energy and Foundations08:20 The Deep Rest from Masking09:19 Putting on Masks to Fit In10:19 Using Comedy and Stand-up to Mask11:42 The Unmasking Effect of Conversations12:40 The Intensity of Unmasking13:37 The Breakthroughs of Speaking Out Loud14:26 The Impact of the Podcast19:15 Knowing and Communicating Limits20:14 The Need for Companionship21:35 The Pressure to Fit In23:56 The Dark Side of Social Media25:17 The Fear of Disability28:15 The Fear of Being Ostracized29:10 The Toll on Mental Health30:16 The Pressure to Meet Neurotypical Standards31:43 The Gazelle Among Lions33:39 The Fear of Ridicule35:02 The Dehumanizing Experience37:25 The View of Neurodivergence as a Developmental Disability39:17 The Gaslighting and Lack of Self-Trust40:14 The Benefit of Masking45:04 Hyperfocus on Autism46:29 Uncomfortable with Asperger's Label47:56 Hyperfixation on Autism Stereotypes50:21 Stimming and Comfort Objects56:41 Masking as a Teenager01:02:54 Starting the Unmasking Process01:05:14 Struggling with Self-Identity01:07:14 The Privilege of Masking01:18:24 Teaching Masking to Neurodivergent ChildrenWhether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperienceYoutube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Early development is a critical time for neurodivergent individuals, and interventions like ABA therapy at a young age can interfere with natural brain development.Warning - this episode contains themes that some individuals may find distressing.In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott are joined by Maisie Soetantyo, an openly autistic ADHDer and founder of Autism Career Pathways. They discuss Macy's experience working with autistic children and shares her concerns about the limitations and potential harm of ABA therapy, highlighting the importance of individuality and unique experiences. They also discuss the need for parents to trust their intuition and find affirming approaches to support their autistic children. The conversation sheds light on the misconceptions and language surrounding autism, and the growing movement towards more inclusive and respectful approaches to therapy and support. Maisie introduces her latest project, Guiding Extraordinary Minds (GEM), which aims to provide support and training for autistic professionals, parents, and educators. She also highlights the mission of her non-profit organization, Autism Create Pathways, in reducing barriers at workplaces for autistic individuals.TakeawaysParenting neurodivergent children requires a balance between accommodating their needs and fostering independence.Stimming is a natural and necessary behavior for autistic individuals, and it should not be discouraged or suppressed.Parenting intuitively and problem-solving in the moment is crucial for supporting neurodivergent children.Using affirming language and providing positive information about autism can help individuals embrace their neurodivergent identity and feel empowered.00:00 Introduction03:13 Starting Work with Autistic Children07:25 Turning Away from ABA Therapy12:19 Issues with ABA Therapy31:00 Advocacy and Affirming Approaches33:25 Negative Portrayal of Autistic People in Media34:17 The Damage of ABA Therapy38:39 The Challenges of Advocacy41:25 Accountability and Safe Spaces47:34 Balancing Accommodation and Autistic Identity50:22 Parenting Intuitively and Supporting Neurodivergent Kids56:37 Guiding Extraordinary Minds and Autism Create PathwaysMaisie Soetantyo is an openly autistic ADHDer who has been working with autistic people for over 30 years. She is the founder of a nonprofit in San Francisco Bay Area, Autism Career Pathways. She is also the founder of Guiding Extraordinary Minds (GEM), a platform for autistic folks to guide parents and professionals.Links: https://linktr.ee/maisiesoetantyoWebsite: www.autismcareerpathways.orgWhether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperienceYoutube: @TheNeurodivergentExperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Meltdowns can be overwhelming and uncontrollable experiences, often triggered by sensory overload or unexpected events. In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott share what meltdowns feel like from a neurodivergent perspective. They cover the causes and effects of meltdowns, the importance of self-care and coping mechanisms - such as stimming and finding ways to recharge - the challenges of social anxiety and the power of communication.In this episode you can expect to learn about:Meltdowns can have a significant impact on mental and physical well-being, and recognizing the signs can help prevent or manage them.Factors such as fatigue, hunger, and emotional issues can contribute to the intensity of meltdowns.Self-care and finding supportive environments can help regulate emotions and prevent meltdowns.Creating breathing room and recovery after a meltdown is essential for self-care and maintaining mental health.Prioritize understanding and supporting neurodivergent individuals rather than trying to 'fix' them.Stimming is an essential coping mechanism for neurodivergent individuals to navigate a challenging world.The impact of past trauma can affect present reactions and behaviours.00:00 Intro01:28 Explaining Meltdowns and Emotional Regulation08:08 Types of Meltdowns and Coping Mechanisms12:14 Managing Meltdowns and Recharging25:15 Stimming and Early Intervention30:05 Childhood Meltdowns37:21 The Aftermath of Meltdowns43:05 Driving and Anxiety44:17 The Impact of Words and Trauma52:29 The Power of Self-Acceptance and HealingWhether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I chatted to Simon Scott, Lead Director, Living Capital Markets UK at the second largest global property advisor, JLL, about the future of ‘living capital' (which is essentially the institutionally-funded segment of the real estate market which people live in). Topics include: What we can learn from 2023 around the resilience of residential investment Factors influencing investment valuations, from fire safety to operating companies Will 2024 be the worst year yet for new housing developments? Guest website: https://www.jll.co.uk/ Guest LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simon-scott-151a2669/ Host LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annaclareharper/ Host website: GreenResi.com
So you think you know what makes you or someone else Autistic? Join Jordan James and Simon Scott for a captivating and candid conversation as they delve into various aspects of The Neurodivergent Experience to answer what makes them Autistic?In this episode you can expect to learn about:HyperfocusSensory sensitivitiesStimmingThe challenges of social interactionsThe importance of individualityThe need for understanding and acceptance of neurodivergent individuals and the unique experiences they bringWhether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Neurodivergent individuals often desire friendships but may struggle with the complexities and challenges that come with them. In this episode, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the complexities of neurodivergent people and friendships by sharing their personal experiences with friendships, struggles with bullying, and the challenges of masking to fit in. They talk about the importance of feeling safe and accepted in friendships, the value of authentic and genuine friendships where neurodivergent individuals can be their true selves and ask what impact does childhood trauma have on our friendships at all ages in life?In this episode you can expect to learn about:Bullying and trauma can have a significant impact on neurodivergent individuals' ability to trust and form meaningful friendships.Authenticity and acceptance are key in building genuine friendships, where neurodivergent individuals can be their true selves.Feeling safe and loved within friendships is crucial for neurodivergent individuals, as it provides a sense of security and support.It is important to surround oneself with people who make them feel good and to not settle for relationships that do not bring happiness.Whether you're Neurodivergent yourself, a friend, family member, or simply curious about this extraordinary way of experiencing the world, this podcast is your guide to unravelling The Neurodivergent Experience.Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Welcome to The Neurodivergent Experience!This podcast is a platform to explore the diverse experiences of individuals in the spectrum, challenge misconceptions and celebrate the strength and resilience of neurodivergent individuals. This episode is a brief hello to co-hosts Jordan James - the Autistic photographer, author and advocate - and recently diagnosed Autism/ADHD broadcaster, Simon Scott.In this introduction Jordan shares his personal journey of using photography to improve his mental health and how he began to embrace his neurodivergent identity, the importance of friendship and support in the autistic community. Simon discusses his early experiences with his Autism and ADHD diagnosis, his love-hate relationship with the diagnosis and why he is making a podcast that would have been a guide to help him better understand the Neurodivergent Experience.Follow us on Socials!Instagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: theneurodivergentexperience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.