Podcasts about concent

Richard P Oldham - Glendale Baptist Church

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2022 69:42

- In this week's episode of The Krypt we are learning about new federal laws defining consent and decriminalizing BDSM from Susan Wright, the head of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. https://ncsfreedom.org- Recorded: 3/20/2022 / Published: 10/14/2022- Text in your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “New Federal Consent Laws with Susan Wright-S04E27”Important Links:The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: https://ncsfreedom.org/2021/07/15/consent-counts-2/ The American Law Institute: http://www.thealiadviser.org/sexual-assault/ The Evolution of the Model Penal Code “Consent” Definition: https://www.thealiadviser.org/sexual-assault/evolution-of-model-penal-code-consent-definition/ Check out Susan's first visit to our podcast: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/221 Consent, as it is practiced in the BDSM communities, is accurately reflected in Section 213.10 of the MPC, with “Explicit Prior Permission” preventing criminal prosecution of activities that are truly consensual and do not result in serious injury. Permission is “explicit” when it is personally given, orally or by written agreement, along with:(a) specifying that the actor may ignore the other party's expressions of unwillingness or other absence of consent;(b) identifying the specific forms and extent of force, restraint, or threats that are permitted; and(c) stipulating the specific words or gestures that will withdraw the permission.Dick Cunningham has been assisting in the revision of the Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault as part of NCSF's Consent Counts project, helping to establish this legal framework that acknowledges the use of safewords, protecting those who use them properly, and equipping prosecution for when they are violated or when serious harm is done. Survivors who are sexually assaulted during kink activities also may now be covered by “rape shield” laws, meaning that their prior sexual behavior with others generally can't be used as evidence, reducing exposure to possible stigma attached to kink activities. “Without this change, BDSM practices, even when consensual, might still be violating the law,” says Susan Wright, Spokesperson for NCSF. “In fact, there is not a single appellate court decision in the U.S. that has accepted consent as a defense in an assault or abuse prosecution arising from BDSM conduct. This case law has established that using nipple clamps or dripping hot wax on someone constitutes ‘serious bodily injury,' when in reality, these are relatively mild activities.” Section 213.10 may be cited in opinions and briefs in cases involving BDSM activities, even in states where the legislature has not adopted the MPC on Sexual Assault. Needs explanation: the new MPC on Sexual Assault includes a general definition of consent for sexual activity, in which consent may be inferred from behavior—both action and inaction—in the context of all the circumstances. Neither verbal nor physical resistance is required to establish that consent is lacking, however, consent is ineffective when given by a person who is incompetent to consent or under circumstances precluding the free exercise of consent. Explicit Prior PermissionImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/427National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. 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Episode 0058 - Loren Punishments, pt. 2

Spanko! Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2022 30:48

The Spanko! Podcast hosts continue to interrogate Loren regarding his spanking lifestyle. Loren shares his stance on public spanking. They all share their preferences on counting swats. Everyone has a good time reminiscing on Lone Star 2021. We promise, Part 2 is not a repeat of part 1. You'll delight listening to part two even more.

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And They All With One Concent Began To Make Excuse - Luke 14 - 03-03-1991 - Richard P Oldham

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2022 34:18

Recorded Mar 3 1991

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Bettina Arndt - Men's Rights Warrior

The New Flesh

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2021 72:38

---ARTICLES AND LINKS DISCUSSEDBettina Arndt Website:https://www.bettinaarndt.com.au/---Mothers of Sons:https://www.mothersofsons.info/---What do the affirmative sexual consent law reforms passed in NSW and proposed in Victoria mean for each state? – The Guardian:https://www.theguardian.com/global/2021/nov/24/what-do-the-affirmative-sexual-consent-law-reforms-passed-in-nsw-and-proposed-in-victoria-mean-for-each-state---Campaign to stop boy shaming in schools – Bettina Arndt:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GFAu21i91RE---Supervised contact is state-imposed parental alienation – Bettina Arndt:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTDahE-ixsw---SUPPORT THE NEW FLESHPatreon:https://www.patreon.com/user?u=61455803Buy Me A Coffee:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/thenewflesh---Instagram: @thenewfleshpodcast---Twitter: @TheNewFleshpod---Follow Ricky: @ricky_allpike on InstagramFollow Jon: @thejonastro on InstagramFollow AJ: @_aj_1985 on Instagram---Logo Design by Made To Move: @made.tomove on InstagramTheme Song: Dreamdrive "Chase Dreams"

The Engineering of Concent • Part 3 • #HimanRelations ♡

FrequencyBae

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2021 33:43

During America's time in war back in the 1930s moving from the WW2 into the cold war psychology played a major hand in the development of what we know now as give & take relationship between that exist beteeen Americans & the economy in my opinion I can see why an overhaul might be necessary or a rebirth,a reawakening in relationship to how things are done. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/ashlyruth-eckelsefzz-fcc/message

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Medical Freedom with Advocate Allison Serrao

Bridge the Gap: The Senior Living Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2021 23:35 Transcription Available

Allison Serrao of Freedom Keepers United is an experienced homeschooling mother of 3, independent music venue owner, and CEO, running a worldwide nonprofit organization that advocates for patient + consumer (human) rights globally. She discusses vaccines, the government and choices.Connect with Freedom Keepers on Instagram Connect with Allison on InstagramOver the last decade, Allison has had the incredible honor of developing focused community groups that meet the specific needs of those who partake. Her work includes facilitating community opportunities for young mothers, homeschooling families, and medical freedom advocates, providing resources for families as they grow, supporting prenatal and postpartum mothers, empowering families to make informed medical decisions for their health and over 300+ hours of grassroots lobbying efforts at the California state Capitol.Her life's work is to raise her children, to help others and to empower others to help themselves. With a collective effort made by volunteers, the grassroots organization,Freedom Keepers, has expanded from one chapter in CA, to over 60 chapters worldwide. Each chapter United in our mission to preserve medical freedom and build sustainable communities for families and individuals affected by medical mandates.Powered by supporting partners OneDay, Propel Insurance, Enquire, LTC REIT, Solinity, and The Bridge Group ConstructionYouTube Instagram Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Lucas McCurdy, @SeniorLivingFan Owner, The Bridge Group Construction; Senior Living Construction Renovation - CapEx - Reposition Joshua Crisp, Founder Solinity; Senior Living Consultation - Management - Development - Marketing

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The Pelosi Gestapo Encounter- Final Call to Stand

Remnant Revolution Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2021 37:32

Today we finish up the story of FBI intimidation by Nancy Pelosi's Gestapo police agency. Learn what we citizens can do toprotect ourselves if we ever end up confronted by the Deep State Authoritarian goones. Get educated on our rights and responsibilities as citizens of this country. Stand against tyranny and walk in faith.Gary Duncan 0:32 Don't you think a judge that issues that warrant? Should have been smart enough to see that your picture? And the picture that they had? was not you? I mean, they're the FBI, they should be able to distinguish from that and tell us how did they get ahold of you? How did they know? To find you? Of all people? Did they have a surveillance camera on you? at all? Or where or you know, on the ground? Or what? Well, according to Marilyn Hueper 1:06 their own? Sure, according to their own testimony, when they were raiding us, they have footage of everybody who is there, and I'm sure they have outside footage to which I asked them about and like, hey, look at your cameras, I'm sure you can see that I was outside of the Capitol and never inside, I can tell you that my approximate time of arrival. But what they communicated with me at the time, and now that the application and word have been made public so that I can look at it and rebut it. They had, they have a like a tip line, an anonymous tip line or a tip line where people can call in and they have on the FBI website, they have like most wanted postings in January six of the primary concern, there are live photos of people from video footage inside that they're looking for that they claim they don't know the identity of. So apparently someone called in and told them that I resemble this, this woman photographs two to 58225. A, or sorry, yeah, two to five a, that and it was somebody an employee from Alaska Airlines, according to the David, so they didn't tell me that at the time. But they said yeah, we've had positive ID, you've been positively ID, which sounds very official. But it's actually not what it means is that, but he called me said, that person kind of looks like somebody I saw recently, they could be the same person. They're considering that a positive ID. I resemble a lot of people I resemble particularly a lot of people in my family, probably a lot of people who have Irish descent who are Caucasian and aged and with brown hair. And I happen to have a black coat that day. They are based on this tip. I think this person even told them that they had been on our Instagram, and found my husband's post on Instagram of me from behind with brown hair and a long black coat at the Capitol. And so they were able to put those two pieces together. And then in the affidavit, it actually says that they've pulled my Alaska driver's license. And the FBI determined that I was the same person from the photograph of the woman inside. But they didn't list who this random SBI is, which isn't really a person. So there had to be a real man or woman who looked at that, and decided that which is amazing to me because I could look at their photo, and very quickly, you know, mentioned to them when I finally saw a photo during the raid because they were looking for the clothing that they said I had been wearing. And I said, Well, first of all, I already told you it wasn't inside the Capitol. So I don't appreciate being called a liar. So let's stop that discussion. And second of all, you have a picture of this person, and you haven't shown it to me. And Can I see it? And I grabbed it from them. And I said, Well, obviously I hate her because I've always been jealous of women who have detached or laughs I have attached your loves. So obviously that's a problem. And second of all, she's wearing a sweater. I don't even own a sweater, you have to see me wearing a sweater that ugly with snowflakes on it. So, and then I and I held it up and I and I held that beside me this little Xerox copy. And I said I'm sitting right here. And we can look me Marilyn Hueper 4:39 at me and grab the Xerox back to searching. And so that's when they laugh because I thought they don't even Gary Duncan 4:49 grim ruins. Yeah, so I hope we start with the part where you held the picture up. That's where he cut out. Marilyn Hueper 4:58 Oh, held, oh, I held the Xerox app that one of the agents was carrying around and looking for clothing and etc, that this woman had been wearing. And she asked me, where's this clothing that you are? She showed me a picture. Where's this clothing? And I said, like, well, first of all, I don't wear sweaters, you have to pay me to wear a sweater that ugly with snowflakes on it. And secondly, I have attached your lips, she has to be attached to your love. So obviously, I hate her. But is this who you think I am? And I grabbed the Xerox from her and I held it up next to me. And I said, Can we both agreed this is two different people. I'm sitting right here, we can throw because look at me, two different people. And the agent stared at me, didn't say anything, and then grabbed the Xerox back and went back to their searching. And so when they finally departed, I thought I like to admit you're in the wrong house. And who should I send my receipts to for your damage and inconvenience? And they went an answering they said, yeah, we don't do that. And I said, well, what's the next step? They said, as you'll, you'll hear from us. So when they laughed, I thought, I still have no assurance that they are going to admit that we're two different people. So I decided I'm going to go on my husband's Facebook account, post. From that day, post a photo of the woman from that day that they think I am and get my affidavit, my true experience out there. Not it's not a legal affidavit, because I haven't didn't press it into court yet. But get my public affidavit out there and get before they take control of the narrative because I was afraid they're trying to cover for somebody and they were going to make me be this person. Right. And so before they this thing, and bring me into somebody and keeping me in their web conspiracy, I wanted to bring it before the public because I felt like that was the safest thing I could do to protect myself. Yeah, Gary Duncan 7:03 that's good. And like you said in the first episode is that Washington and Nancy, and all those people, they're setting a narrative that the media is running with, like a lot of things they're doing right now. But they're setting a narrative that the low information voter is going to hear and see. And they're going to determine that everybody's guilty without any due course of real truth. And so what would you say to Christians, as we look at this and see how, within, who knows how many years or a lifetime or whatever, that instead of just being something political or patriotic, it could be just because we believe in Christ, or we believe that, you know, certain things that we believe as Christians is not. We don't, we don't agree with abortion, things of that nature. Because then that could be classified as hate speech. And next thing, you know, we've got the FBR coming into our house, because we posted something somewhere, saying that abortion was was wrong. And it's not right. So how, what would you say back to create, to prepare ourselves for that? Is there a way to prepare, Marilyn Hueper 8:26 I think we're at an apex. I believe there is I believe that first, we need to repent because we've reached this Apex because we've left a vacuum, we have believed a lie that I believe we believed a lie that we're supposed to just wait for a Messiah to come and fix everything, or to rescue us from the earth. And yet he gave us instructions at his departure to disciple the nations. And we have been stages and being. So when we vacate culture and government, then we leave a vacuum for other forces that don't have in this case, don't have the common vision of the founding fathers that affirmed God-given rights in the Constitution and the Bill of Rights. And it I believe, what's happening is you have actors and people in the background and legislatures that have bought into the idea that we the people need to not be aren't fit to be governing a republic that they need the few and the elite to tell us what to do. And the way they're getting around. The Constitution and the protections afforded for us in the Bill of Rights is bypassing these executive order things about The fight on terrorism and if they can, they can really label us as terrorists, I believe that what we need to do is we need to remember who we are. We need to repent for not standing in the gap for our nation, and that we are not Rome. We are not a Roman Republic, that the Messiah's people were under that didn't have a voice and and had to submit, we have rights. And we, our Constitution, our bill of rights, affirm our God given rights, and now we have a duty to execute those. And departing and being silent, is just poor stewardship on our part, it's horrendous stewardship, we have to get back in there and do our role, which means that when these things are happening, we need to learn how to press our voice into the court. And the legislature can pass and even the executive branch can pass all kinds of manners of law, where they derive their just powers from the consent of the governed. That's us. We have to object, we have to take it to the court, we have to say this is not appropriate. But first, we have to know who we are. We have to repent for not walking in who we are and executing the duties that we've been given. Gary Duncan 11:17 How would you say go about knowing who we are as far as reading our constitution? Here's one thing I get some blowback sometimes because people know I tend to might be political, somewhat. I think there's an adverse reaction to Christians being political. And when you say political, it means to me it means standing up for our constitution and not, you know, just bowed down and, and just don't want to get into there because it's political. Well, you know, like, abortion is political to some people, you know, and it's and it's really nice. It's a life or death issue. Christians need to get political. Yeah. Marilyn Hueper 12:01 Well, and political, political, I agree, see is kind of a dirty word, it feels, you know, politics feels like synonymous with corruption and special interest. What I was, is that we focus on Kingdom Government, because that's our brain. And we're supposed to be preparing the way for his turn. So our role is to walk with integrity ourselves, to be involved locally. And in things like this not to let not just be armchair critics, they're training us to sit and yell at our television, that doesn't do anything, even yelling on your social media doesn't do anything away our system is designed, you have to learn how to press it into a court. That's where it has authority, where your voice as a man or a woman of God, especially if you can press your affidavit of truth is that's how all of these things are done. Any accusation against you has to be brought forth by a man or woman through that affidavit and learn how to bring it into the court, or any case you feel might be being pressed against you, or against others that you believe or are being oppressed wrongly. So we have to all learn a little bit of the law because otherwise, we empower lawlessness. So if we're just going to be armchair quarterbacks, then we are not stepping in on to the field, we're not on the field, we're still observers, we have to get on the field to have our voice heard through the constitutional method that's been afforded us. And so we're going to have to become educated, we're going to have to, you know, watch a few fewer sitcoms that night, we're gonna have to take some effort, or they're gonna take that as a cent because they drive the just powers through the consent of the governed. If all we are as armchair quarterbacks, then we have not accessed the path to dissent. We're only yelling at ourselves. So it's up to us. We have to get in there. So I have a website for I'm going to be sharing what happened and there's a lot to learn and I don't want to share and guide anybody into a dangerous direction want to share safe things like knowing what to do when they show up at your door? What are your rights because I didn't know I we asked, Can we make a phone call? They said no. And then we were like, Okay, good. We were kind of bluffing anyway because we wouldn't know who to call. Like, things like that. We don't know what does that means? I don't have an attorney on speed dial. I don't know anybody's phone number to call And now, you know, as we're in the process, as my counsel says, call anybody who doesn't that you know, and trust that doesn't have a gun to their head, right, then they're gonna be able to help you discern the situation. It doesn't have to be an attorney. It doesn't have to be a lawyer. Anybody who hasn't had a gun to their head and isn't handcuffed at the moment that you believe is has sense, is a trusted voice in your life. Just call them because you need someone to bet your circumstance with. And then the other one we asked is, you know, you have a warrant? Yes. Can we see it? Oh, yeah, you'll get to see it, you'll get a coffee even? Well, that's not the way it works the way it is. And when I finally demanded, like, I'm not going any further until I see this warrant, everything stopped. And they brought the warrant to me. So I learned even in this preliminary encounter, where I had no idea what my rights were that when my gut said like, this is not okay, I need to see your warrant. Everything stopped. And they did what I said. So we have more power in these situations than we know. And the purpose is to keep us ignorant. So don't access it. So when I said that all of a sudden, weren't was produced, I said, great. It appears I have some time on my hands, I'm going to be reading this and they immediately took it away. They're also not allowed to do that. But again, I didn't know what I would be looking for. So I didn't insist on getting it back. Now I know what they were cuz I was like, Why don't they want me to read it? Obviously, they don't know how ignorant I am that I won't know what's legal or not legal. But now I know that the warrant was only on the property, it was the search warrant, there was no more for them to interact with us at all. And so we had no obligation to be talking to them whatsoever. Marilyn Hueper 16:59 Now I know. So I would like to help educate other people. So you aren't getting buffaloed into Yeah, giving information that you don't need to without support and counsel that you're rightful should have? Gary Duncan 17:12 Oh, yeah, Marilyn Hueper 17:13 that's the starting place. They need to know how to handle themselves. Gary Duncan 17:16 Right, getting educated not. And that's, I guess, one of the things people might say as well. I don't plan on ever getting, you know, FBI agents come to my door, and I'm sure you didn't either. You know, Marilyn Hueper 17:29 I would say they're naive. And maybe, yeah, maybe it won't be FBI, maybe there'll be other, you know, enforcement agencies, or many abounding right now. And the same principles of knowing your rights apply in all those situations, whether it's a traffic stop, or whether it's TSA, at the airport, or whether it's a trooper, or, you know, wherever you might encounter someone from the executive branch and enforcement, enforcement officer, the rights are you the same all the way through. So you can prepare yourself, in some ways, small ways, and then you know more when you're being treated appropriately and when you're not. And that's really important because otherwise, we get hornswoggled. And they aren't required to tell you the truth at all. They have no burden on them to be truthful, the burden is all on you. So they actually have permission to tell you untruths, to get you to speak and potentially incriminate yourself. So if they say, blow in this breathalyzer, and we won't use it, even if you blow over, don't believe them? has them like fabulous, can you put that in writing, please? It's fine it or, you know, like the FBI agents to her saying, you know, just share with us you only have a misdemeanor trespassing, we're not going to arrest you today. Just share with that, too. Who are you hanging out with that day? That's completely not true. They absolutely wanted to arrest me that day, every intention and desire to arrest me that day. So they don't have to tell you the truth, but anything you say will be used against you. And anything you say will become a report. Any informal chat they want to have with you There's nothing informal about it. A 302 report will be created and everything that you shared will be on there. And if they start redefining terms of my goodness, they took the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution as evidence against us. A completely unmarked unread pocket copy that they themselves in the legislature still print and hand out to all of us. So if they can use that as our evidence against you. They can use pretty much anything, you just need to not be talking to them without counsel. Gary Duncan 20:08 That's very good. Yeah. Because we saw what happened to General Flynn when he had just a casual conversation with two FBI. Marilyn Hueper 20:17 Absolutely. We Gary Duncan 20:17 weren't going to we're just here to have just an informal conversation. It's unfortunate that we have to have this distrust of our government. But Marilyn Hueper 20:29 it is no way. And I think that's a big thing that we have to get over. And I still grieve. And I think people, the men and women at the January 6, there were a lot of people grieving because our current state of our affairs of our government is so much different than we were led to believe and that we naively wanted to think could be true. If I look at it, the more I read the founding fathers and their documents, I feel like they would be yelling at us and saying, what the heck are you thinking? Why would you ever book that we told you from the beginning, never trust the executive branch, never trust enforcement? Don't trust your legislators? If, if you could trust that we wouldn't put all these protections in? What are you thinking wake up people? So I think we just have to make up for the reality of the nature of humans when they have power when men and women have power, which is the thing that power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. And they're garnering more and more power. And we are the authorizing agents, we need to start shutting that power down. And we have to learn how we do that lawfully. And I believe that's you're learning how to access, primarily putting our affidavits into the record, even just that which basically, an affidavit is a fancy word for meaning, writing down what was true in your experience and signing at the bottom and saying, This is true to the best of my knowledge, and I reserve all rights to the event and just putting that into the court records. It's just that has so much power, that's one of the most powerful things we can do. We need it. We need eye witness. There are so many eyewitnesses that January sixth, we need their affidavits on record, because otherwise, we let them write the history books, Gary Duncan 22:30 which we do a very good job of letting them write. Marilyn Hueper 22:35 We aren't good that armchair politics. Gary Duncan 22:38 So you've you're going to be you say you're going to be putting out a website for the purpose of getting those people that that want to tell their testimony. I know we talked about we do people stand website you have out Marilyn Hueper 22:50 it's a public affidavit. It's my public, making public the truth of my experience. Now, if people were inside the Capitol, you're in a very vulnerable, much more vulnerable position than people who never entered the Capitol, I would consider that a public affidavit. That's because I believe it's also important to be public. Because this is a war. Bethink of it. The war is for the minds of the people who have the power and that's We the People, according to our founding documents, the government derives its just powers from the consent of the governed, if they can win our minds in opinion, to acquiesce to their ridiculousness, then they've won the battle. So I believe that we the people who know the truth, and believe and understand that we're called by God to help bring forth good healthy government, and, and participate in the process, not just be cheerleaders or people in the stands, one of the ways we can do that is by not necessarily fighting on Facebook and Twitter. But finding ways to actually post your experience in a meaningful way on the blog or something or I would like to, I would like to start a place. Have a link in my website to a website where people who have eyewitness experience that was at January 6, who was not inside the Capitol, because of those people in a very vulnerable position. They need only to be putting their affidavits into the court, not out into the public purview to be messed with. But the 2000s of people are out there hundreds of 1000s who have eyewitness experience, and their experience isn't being shared, it's not accessible. And so we can't count at this Unknown Speaker 24:49 public Marilyn Hueper 24:52 the narrative that's being created by others. So if we can counteract that in some way have I Imagine having a website where hundreds of 1000s 1000s and 1000s of those are available for people to scroll through and help correct. They're like, Oh my gosh, okay, that many people are having that many similar experiences of not in an insurrection of just people lawfully hanging out at a rally and respectful fashion, that does a lot to correct the record. And then if those who are are willing, I believe the most effective place to place those as into the record, wherever this has is being experienced, or whatever the case number is, and I'll be looking for that, to press those into the records called pressing into the record, which basically just means having it on file that 1000s of people are saying, No, that's not what happened. No, that's not what we experienced. This is what we experienced. This is what we saw because the courts are where we buy the organization of our government. That's where the redress that's where the correction needs to be made. Otherwise unrebutted affidavits on their part declarations, if we don't read about them in the courts, they stand as the fact we assent to them by our silence. So those are two places, I'd like to see us moving and training ourselves up on how to behave, walk-in honor, but also walk in strength and truth when we encounter someone from law enforcement or the executive branch. So I think those are my kind of three focuses there right now. And then we're going to be approaching those with from we the people stand dot or g.org. And honestly, we've been accosted so many times, in the last two months, it's been difficult too, to even post but now I feel like there's I'm learning. And I've pressed things into the record. I've gotten things into the court clerk, and I'm learning enough that I can start educating and helping others how to do it, because yeah, now that we're on the TSA, list and other ways that we're being harassed, it's difficult to know how to, they're hitting us all so fast right now does mask mandates with shot records, threats with? Yeah, all of this stuff, they're hitting all of us so fast that, that we don't know how to respond. It's hard to collect ourselves. But it also means that they aren't letting us forget the peril that we're in. And that's the good part. So we don't want to become paralyzed because of the continuous assault. But we do want to stay alert and become forward actors or to act as acting aid, movers because we the people are the ones with the ultimate authority. Gary Duncan 27:57 Great, good. Good. Well, one last question would be, how has your life changed? Between and we've heard a lot about it, how it's really changed. But what when you look back at where you're at right now and from this, from your pre-January six life to your post-January service life, what is the biggest thing you're taking away from that? Marilyn Hueper 28:28 I would say pre-January six, I was under the impression that my duty primarily was to show up. Before January 6, I would say I believe that my primary responsibility as a lawful American was to show up at the polls and vote, to educate myself before that, cast an educated vote, and then go back to my life. And I had, it was on them because they had been duly elected. And now they needed to run with the ball and I go back to my life. Now I understand, I believe the true way that our documents are set up, and it always felt wrong because it felt very powerless. Because they would say one thing and then they show up there and they do something very different. Now, I would understand that we are not just the adjudicators that the election is not just oversight at the election counting, we're the adjudicators every day in our life. So when we encounter that, as the superior rights that are affirmed for us in the Constitution, it's our duty to challenge that and to bring it to the attention of the court or to the agency that's executing. So it's a much more active role. It takes work, it takes commitment, but in all honesty, if we the people aren't willing To do it, that we weren't ready to have a nation that is a republic, we're ready to be the lawful oversight because there's responsibility just like I have a business, and I hire people to help me in that, but if I just hired them, and then only check on them every two years, only check on them every two years, that's not gonna work out. So great. We have to be in there active all the time, not just from our, our yelling at our televisions, but we have to be in there in the ways they recognize which is in the courts, learning how to press things into the record, learning how to bring things to the attention-getting active in your local groups that are doing. Otherwise, they're right, we're ready for it. So we have to decide, it's ours to win, and it's ours to lose, we have to decide if we're going to get in and be a part of it. Gary Duncan 30:56 Yeah, and we're fixing to come into a big challenge with these endless committee meetings of January 6, and we're gonna see how that narrative is going to be framed. And, you know, we got over 500 people in jail. So they're going to take the 500 that are in jail, and they're going to swipe everybody, like you said, that big nit, of the 502 million people that were at the mall, and now they're all going to be assumed to be insurrectionist terrorist, you know, whatever the term they're gonna transition to now, after these hearings, Marilyn Hueper 31:36 and they do have guns, and they are showing us that they're willing to use force to take us with no charges and hold us in detention, with no recourse with no access to counsel. So there, it's a bullying tactic. So they're bullying the people who were there into silence because you don't want to be identified with one of these because you could be next. The lie in that is that if you're silent now, I guess a lot like Esther, right. And in the season of, we are all Esther's right now in our nation, we are the Esther's every man or woman is an Aster in the way our documents are designed. So if we're silent, don't think that they're not going to include you in the sleep. It just means that you're not going to get to participate in the solution. Because I believe Messiah has. He wins, he wins. And that means we win. But the decision we have now is are we going to be here, well done good and faithful servant. You stood in the gap. You were clear when unrighteousness was happening, you did the work and you pressed your voice into the record, you took some risks if we're looking for safe. And I think that's, you know, something we have to get over. If we want to have the nation you believe and that we were offered by the founding fathers we were offered it, and one of the founding fathers that are you have Republic now if you can keep it. And that's what we have to decide, are we willing to take the risks, rather than just quote How lovely it is that they all took the risks? Are we willing to take the risks, because if we aren't willing to take the risks, then we aren't going to be able to, we aren't going to be worthy of having a republic? But it does mean you know like for us we have already assented to the Lord that we're willing to take the risks. And that was before they showed up at our door. We said like, Hey, we can see that things are wrong. Something is terribly wrong. And we are available. We don't know what that means. We don't know what that looks like. We're not educated to know what we're supposed to do. But if you want to use us, we're available. And that means, you know, if you're signing up for service with the ultimate executive branch, you don't exactly have to get to pick where He sends you. So when they showed up at our door, I was kind of like, Okay, well, assignment accepted. Yes, sir. So you just walk it. So I think we all need to make ourselves available. And it might mean, you know, very uncomfortable things. It might mean a scary thing, but the one thing I would say is that we've talked about this last night. It sounds really scary from the outside isn't intense at each intersection where things are happening. It can be scary in between because you don't know what the next movies are. But at the same time, we feel very covered. We feel very empowered by the, by the Lord somehow or the presence. I mean, we joke about it all the time. We're just in the middle, you know, we're on the E-ticket ride at Disneyland. We don't know. Sometimes you scream, and it's scary. And sometimes you're looking at the scenery, and it's great. It's just gonna be whatever it's gonna be. So if we're going to call ourselves ambassadors of the kingdom, and if we're going to call ourselves followers of Messiah, you know, they're examples in the newer testaments. They were pretty painful examples. So we're gonna have to be willing to be uncomfortable. But I would say even if you're not willing, they're gonna make you uncomfortable anyway. They already are making us uncomfortable. Yeah. It's Yeah, now or later, either on your terms or on their terms. Gary Duncan 36:00 That's very good. Very good. Well, Marilyn, it's been a pleasure talking with you. I know that this is a continued journey for you guys. And we'll definitely stay in contact and find out How's it going, and, and all that, and I appreciate the opportunity to speak with you about it too and get the word out and it won't people. Just being aware, to wake up. Yeah. So this has been Gary Duncan with faith and freedom Fridays in Maryland. It's been a pleasure. Again, thank you so much, and blessing. Stay in there. Godspeed.

Breaking News: The New Normal of BDSM-S03E10

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2021 57:24

Recorded: 9/6/2020 / Published: 2/6/2021- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about Breaking (News) the Norm with BDSM: The good, the bad, and the ugly.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. -Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- DYING FOR IT: Six in ten pensioners want to have a threesome and try BDSM before they die by Sun Reporter, Aug. 27, 2020 https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/fabulous/5975873/pensioners-threesome-bdsm-six-ten-die/- ECSO: Woman and 14-year-old boy engaged in BDSM relationship by: Cody Long, Aug 25, 2020https://www.wkrg.com/local-news/ecso-woman-and-14-year-old-boy-engaged-in-bdsm-relationship/- Report: Jerry Falwell Watched While ‘Pool Boy’ Had Sex With His Wife by MICHAEL STONE Aug 24, 2020https://www.patheos.com/blogs/progressivesecularhumanist/2020/08/report-jerry-falwell-watched-while-pool-boy-had-sex-with-his-wife/ - Important Links:Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/310 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic - Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Lylac WineSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCoupleProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, KJ, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PBW, and MBRpoodleJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.- Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessorieshttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 - Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypthttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

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BDSM Concerns About New Domestic Abuse Laws-S03E08

Black Euphoria Sex Talk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2021 55:21

Due to technical issues that were unknown at the time, the audio quality is not at our usual standard. However, the content is extremely important for all those who enjoy the freedom to practice BDSM. Recorded: 8/23/2020- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about some new scary laws happening around the world and how they apply to those of us who live in the U.S.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- BDSM Concerns About New Domestic Abuse Laws“The BDSM Community Is Worried About Changes to the Domestic Abuse Bill: The much-welcomed end to the ‘rough sex defense’ has some kinky people concerned about the implications for BDSM.” by: Alice Snape (https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/xg87v3/the-bdsm-community-is-worried-about-changes-to-the-domestic-abuse-bill)In July of this year, politicians in the UK hailed an amendment to the long-awaited Domestic Abuse Bill as the end of the "rough sex defense”. The new legislation states that consent can never justify grievous or actual bodily harm, even if it was perpetrated for the purposes of sexual gratification.While the bill itself has been rightly celebrated as a groundbreaking step forward for victims and survivors, many people in the BDSM community have expressed specific concern over this new amendment.Actual bodily harm (ABH) can include bruising, scratching, and bite marks, which means that many forms of BDSM – where the mixing of sex and pain is done safely and consensually – could fall squarely within the remit of the new law.“Any marks that last on the skin for longer than 20 minutes class as ABH, and impact play is commonly seen within a BDSM context,” says Aleph*, who is a top (the person in control during play).During impact play, for instance... Full show notes: https://kuldrinsKrypt.com/308Important Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/308Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Lylac WineSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCoupleProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, knot_the_daddy, KJ, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PBW, and MBRpoodleJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

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Black Euphoria Episode 20 | The 1 Year Anniversary Show | Concent x Comfortability

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2020 152:42

This is Black Euphoria Sex Talk Podcast, the B.E.S.T. podcast with your host @ThirteenLxxxL and this is a "live" ANNIVERSARY EPISODE of Black Euphoria... A Black Safe Space For Black People. THE NO JUDGMENT ZONE. There are NO Rules to Podcasting, and there is NO Blueprint on "How to" do this!!!!!!! PERSEVERANCE!!! On this particular episode 20 of Black Euphoria; Thirteen goes in depth with what's happened so far in the one year of Black Euphoria's existence and presence on the site........... Thirteen also adds a lot of G.R.E.A.T. music for you to enjoy as well, so roll up, pour up and get naked. Let your BLACK Freak Flag Fly; We Must Protect The Flag At All Cost! Remember, sex sells. - Thirteen This is Black Euphoria Sex Talk Podcast with Thirteen, exclusive content on Patreon.com/BlackEuphoria . Church On Sunday's In Black Euphoria New Content Every Monday & Wednesday. Check out the YouTube channel discussion tab. Follow @blackeuphoriaST on twitter for updates. Send topic suggestions and inquiries to Blackandexplicit@gmail.com. #BlackEuphoria #Episode20 #podcast #SextalkPodcast #Anniversary Like, Comment, Subscribe! Meet Me In The Discussion Tab, Let's Have The Sex Talk! Hit blackandexplicit@gmail.com for interest inquiries! Listen to this episode on the Black Euphoria Sex Talk Podcast platform; https://anchor.fm/dashboard/episode/emq9ti You-Tube: https://youtu.be/u3XxP4YKdpE Follow https://twitter.com/BlackEuphoriaST Check out: https://www.patreon.com/BlackEuphoria --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/blackeuphoria/message

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Reviving old passions and finding your niche (w/ Ryan Sims) | Pod to Nowhere

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2020 48:47

In this episode, I talked to Ryan about his content creation at music festivals, his extensive records collections and his growing appetite for whiskey. Ryan has over 140 records in his collection, including the limited press of Chance the Rapper's "Acid Rap" and has tried whiskey aged in a barrel at sea. Checkout his Instagram account (https://www.instagram.com/recordsandrye).

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Refining your craft during a pandemic (w/ Luke Cresante) | Pod to Nowhere

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2020 57:24

In this episode with Luke, we talked about coping with a pandemic, using this time to refine our skills and breaking into the creative space.

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The Unfortunate Truth About Racism | My Own Therapist

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2020 25:57

In this therapy session, I point out a major flaw with the friends in my personal network who supposedly claim to be in support of ending racism, but somehow seem to continue to hide behind facades and find way to diminish the work of those who are trying to end discrimination based on the color of someone's skin. If there was an episode that ended the most of my personal relationships, it will probably be this one.

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Welcome to the Weekend Renaissance | Weekend Renaissance

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2020 0:47

Welcome to the Weekend Renaissance. This trailer gives a high level overview of the podcast and the things that I'll be talking about. Thanks for listening and I hope to see you next weekend.

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Building a community as a young adult (w/ Reid Haygood) | Pod to Nowhere

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2020 43:32

In this episode, I talk to another one of my college roommates, Mr. Reid Haygood. We discuss living in our college home, building a community as a young adult, and witnessing a hit and run.

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Finding Your Own Entourage | My Own Therapist

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2020 19:31

In this therapy session, I talk about finding friends who aren't just there to send you memes, but friends that operate and perform in the same arenas as you. Not like circus arenas, but mental arena; like share the same interests as you on a micro level.

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Understanding Who Your Friends Are | My Own Therapist

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2020 14:51

In this therapist session I talk about knowing who your friends are - not naming a list of people. But knowing who the people you consider your friends are; as people. Sometimes they evolve over time and some times they don't... oh well.

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A Quick Disclaimer | My Own Therapist

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2020 0:44

Just so we're clear... I said what I said.

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The Apology Paradox | My Own Therapist

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2020 23:16

In this therapy session, I talk about an extremely delayed apology from someone and how that shaped my opinions on the timing of genuine apologies.

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Was I a good roommate? (w/ Landon Thomas) | Pod to Nowhere

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2020 38:51

In this episode *The Inaugural Episode*, I talk to my college roommate Landon about shenanigans at our college house, witnessing a hit and run, trading sports cards and Drake making songs for Tik Tok.

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Will Your Kid have Sex in This New Decade? Quite Possibly …

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2019 8:04

Hey there! Happy New Year!! We are starting a new decade. How shocking is that?? Time is speeding by. Will your kid grow into an adult in the next 10 years? If your kid is 8 or older, the answer to that question is a very big YES! And it is quite possible that your kid will have sex in this new decade. Let's get real … few of us like to think about that but it's the reality. And many loving parents want to make sure they provide their kid with the information, skills and support they need to speak up for themselves, stay safe, be happy and healthy. Whether your kid wants to have sex or not when they get older, they will DEFINITELY need all the emotional intelligence, the communication skills and the assertiveness to stand up for what is right for them in the areas of s=e=x= and s=e=x=uality. You can help them with all that BUT here's the thing … … you have to take the first step to being able to talk about sensitive stuff like consent, self respect, s=e=x=ual assault, love and lots of other stuff. What is the first step YOU can take? And do you need help? Happy New Year! x Sarah

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How can Christmas help us have sensitive conversations about sex?

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2019 2:40

Hi There, A lot of the times, Christmas brings a huge change of schedule your family. Often times this means you are spending a lot more time with your kid(s) than usual. More time = more chances to talk about sensitive stuff. This week's episode of sitting in a car gives you an example of how to link conversations about s=e=x=uality with the Christmas theme! Random! It's a short and sweet episode with a very weird but also exciting Christmas tree that I got given as a present. I LOVE it! So (if you celebrate it) Happy Christmas to you and your family from me and my family – may your days be merry and bright. And have a wonderful break where ever you are. x Sarah Ps. If your kid is 8 or older there is a good chance that they will become s=e=x=ually active in this next decade! Is that shocking?!?! Don't worry, you aren't alone! I'm planning something to help you next year. It's going to calm your worries about raising your kid to have the information, skills and support to make good decisions and care for themselves and others around s=e=x=. I'll let you know more next year

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My 8-year-old googled ‘sex' on the laptop - and found it

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 6:08

I have such a great question for you this week. ‘My 8-year-old son searched for sex on my brother's laptop. What do I do? I'm so shocked' O_O The first thing to know is how normal this is. And that, as a parent, it's a source of information for you. If your kid is doing a search about sex, it's because they need more info than they're getting. So far, so simple … BUT… …you are probably still panicking just a little bit, right? A lot of us have an instinctive panic reaction to the idea that our kid has ‘been exposed' to things to do with sex. But here's the thing. What you want is to be the ask-able, approachable parent for your kid, a trusted grown-up they can come to if they have questions. If you notice your own panic reaction, and are kind to yourself about it, you'd be surprised what a great opportunity this can be. You can really be present with your kid and give them the info they need, in a way that empowers both of you. We have great hacks for you this week - ideas about how to have these convos, and online resources for you when you want to share something with your kid that is both accurate and empowering. Sarah x

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Is it possible to be too open and honest with our kids when they ask us questions?

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2019 4:28

Well hello there Have you ever been fearful that you might give your kid too much information about relationships, puberty or consent? You are not alone. This week I'm answering this exact question: is it possible to be too open and honest with our kids when they ask us questions about s=e=x? Here's the thing. The answer isn't straight forward. YES, it's possible to say too much … BUT it is NOT for the reason you might think. And mostly we won't give our kids ENOUGH information, that's the reality. So NO, it's unlikely that you will tell your young kids too much. Remember, we live in a country that hesitates to give information to kids about bodies, consent and s=e=x=uality. That means these conversations might still feel risky to you, even though you might have heard me say multiple times that even very young children can be taught lots of age appropriate information about bodies and babies and human reproduction and consent. To learn more listen here or watch here. Go well, Sarah x

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How can you talk about consent when your kid waves his penis at you?

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2019 8:16

Here's a great question about what you can do when a kid does something developmentally normal, but which is not socially acceptable - or which might even upset you a little bit. ‘My son likes to wave his penis at me every time he's naked - including at the pool. What do I do?' The great thing to know about quandaries like this, is that you can deal with them using the parenting toolbox you already have. Did you know that? The everyday parenting strategies we already use, work exactly as well with sensitive conversations. Isn't that great? So if you want to set down some agreements for at home, or talk about rules at the pool, you can use, for example, the great parenting tool of collaborating with your kids. Or you can use distraction! Or humour. Or whatever you do in your family. The other thing to think about, when a body part gets waved your way, is your own consent. Are you ok with it? Or are you not? YOUR consent is important, not just your kid's. And not just the rules at the pool. Setting boundaries to care for yourself, is a wonderful lesson for your child about consent: how to ask for it, and how to respect it. As usual we've got lots of hacks for you, and lots of stories. Have a look here or listen here. Sarah x

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Living a stress free life | My Own Therapist

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2019 12:26

What's up listeners! Today's actually a huge day. Episode 1 of the podcast is finally released! It's also my birthday! On this episode I talk about my strategy on how to live a stress free life and also give more context to why I decided to start this podcast.

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Episode 25 - Consent

Mandem Circle

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2019 25:41

Episode 25 - Concent, guys this is a touchy subject and its a concept that I feel is good but todays generation is not ready for but please like, follow discuss. we are all here to learn.

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Susan Wright National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: Consent Counts-S02E21

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2019 48:56

Recorded: 5/25/2019 / Published: 6/24/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode:1: The Rules to Love By2: Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual FreedomRules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:30] Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedomhttps://NCSFreedom.org[1:30] What is the NCSF?[3:10] What has the NCSF done to help get BDSM removed from the DSM as a diagnosable mental illness. How has this impacted the community?[6:25] What steps have been taken to make these changes come about?Child custody issues?[11:19] Hurt Vs. Harm and nationalizing the definition for consent and decriminalizing BDSM.[14:47] Wrongful arrest and conviction of a knife player.[15:30] How do we make political changes to make necessary law changes.[17:49] Confronting consent violations against men.[20:01] FOSTA/SESTA: What is it, what has been the effects of it, and what is being done to fight it?[28:51] NCSF Direct Services needs increased due to the current political climate.[35:10] Getting the government out of our lives and how to become a lobbyist.[39:20] Kink Aware Professionals (K.A.P.) https://www.ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776[42:35] What is your personal experience with kink and nonmonogamy?Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/221 [47:00] Thank you Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia, Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan.If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

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Susan Wright National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: Consent Counts-S02E21