Spanko! Podcast

Five years!? The Spanko! Podcast has been releasing episodes every other week for the past five years! Join us as we share memorable moments and memorable episodes. *emotional tear* Feel free to share some of yours in the comments below. Our friends, fans, and patrons join us as we record this episode LIVE (kinda) and share some of their own experiences of joining the scene AND how our little podcast has helped them along their journeys.  Did you ever write in the Spanko Secrets notebook??? This completely anonymous notebook has been traveling with us since 2022. Join us as we open it for the first time and read some excerpts! *scandalous*  As always, we advocate for safety and clearly spoken communication. Please be safe and consensual in your spanking play.  Here is to another 5 years!  

Have you experienced the thrill of a multi-day national… erm, international spanking party? Cause if you haven't, TASSP is for you!  Join our Spankoholics and our lovely TASSP Hostess, Princess Kelley May, and hear about some of our adventures at TASSP last year, and what we have to look forward to coming up June 12-15th, 2025. Live out your school fantasy at the TASSP immersive school role play, where you'll have to go to class and even do school work. Perhaps you can beg your strict teacher for some stickers for being “good.” Or perhaps you want something a bit more serious:  Shit, I have Saturday detention head space!  But there's more than “just” school events! TASSP has something for everyone! And this year, you may even find yourself living out some roleplays from days gone by… or maybe from the distant future! There's also judicial events, littles events, playful events, classes, the vendors fair, the Spanking Booth for charity, and so much more! However you like to play, consensually of course, come to TASSP and join in the adventures!

So, your partner is a spanko. We've talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spankos themselves!  Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren't one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invited us to join in some of their discussions.  If you have a vanilla partner in your life, or a spanko partner whose interest you may not fully grasp, this is an episode you won't want to miss.  

Are you ready for a week-long SPANKING Summer Camp adventure?  In this episode we visit with Ryan from the Fox Haven Campground, an open and affirming place where all your explorations can become reality.  Learn about CanSpanks Spanko Camp where you can have your spanking fantasies come true at a sauna, in or around the lake, in a school house, a glitter palace… basically wherever your heart desires! AND all the consensual pranks are allowed… even CONFETTI!  This camp has vanilla activities, too, such as kayaking, swimming, and camping AND you get to enjoy nature in the wild, and perhaps even see a moose! But of course we come for the outdoor spanking fun on hundreds of acres of privacy! Consider coming to CanSpanks for a camping experience you'll never forget!  

Ella and Listener return for Take 2 of our most listened to episode ever!  Join us as we interview them at TASSP for their take and experiences with Spanking & Crying.  Learn about the five types of emotional crying:  loss/separation Grief   Helplessness/powerlessness  Physical pain/discomfort  Empathetic crying  Positive experience/moving situation  Dacryphilia - What does it mean and are you one?  Let's ponder about what are your responsibilities as a spankee when getting spanked for a transgression?  

Did you know Ariel Anderson is THEEE Amelia Jane Rutherford? Find out why she chose this specific last name. Oh, such a naughty reason!  Like many of us Ariel was raised to feel ashamed, and also thought she needed to repress her spanking desires. However, she was fortunate to discover the wonderful world of bondage modeling and the adventures of spanking videos! How did she resolve this inner conflict? She is a published author as well! But you'll have to join us and listen to find out her book title as well as the book's unique subject matter.  Such a fun interview of a brilliant individual!  We were uber excited that Ariel Anderssen agreed to spend an evening with the Spanko! Podcast on her visit over from the U.K. We hope you enjoy it as much as we did!  

Teachers, Principals, Fraternity & Sorority Hazing: What is it about school role plays that spankos find so fascinating?  We sat down (some of us more comfortably than others) after doing many different school-themed role plays at GASP 2024 and talked with some of the participants (on both sides of the paddle) to find out!  We discuss all aspects of the school events, from organization and planning, to playing the principal and the naughty sorority pledge. While, of course, we each have our own personal reasons for enjoying school-themed play, you'll be amazed at how much we have in common.  If you haven't tried a school role-play yourself, perhaps this episode may pique your interest, or kindle some new ideas!  Is that the school bell I hear? You'd best behave!  

Join us as we talk with JoJo Shenanigans, a brat, spanko, kink-affirming therapist, and life coach.  She describes her spanko spark, and how she came into the spanko scene to explore her interests.  She shares tips on handling how *YOUR* story (culture, religion, upbringing) impacts your spanking interests. JoJo shares how you can navigate and understand your kink, and process  your thoughts with a therapist in order to thrive.  She encourages us to be kind to ourselves, give ourselves space to learn and deal with topics such as shame, overcoming views from upbring and religion. Let's face it, growing and learning to love yourself without shame IS A PROCESS… a process worth experiencing for your own well being.  Listen as we explore questions to ask yourself in order to understand yourself and your needs in the scene and dynamics. Knowing that there are lots of different kink and spanko flavors.  It's your spanko story, make it the best one you can. 

What do you need to do to take care of your butt as the spankee? Our returning “science correspondent,” Ella, tells us all about her skin care tool kit.  Some of us thought lotion was enough. Perhaps you are one of those who thought lotion was only needed post spanking? HA! Tune in to find out if you need lotion BEFORE a spanking!  In this episode with Ella you'll learn about hydrating AND exfoliating acids, as well as when to use which.   As always, this is our personal experience. When it comes to spanking skin care it's particularly important to find out exactly what works for you. Please double-check everything we've said and find out for yourself.  If you've ever experienced “leather butt” or if you haven't figured out what to do about the hyperpigmentation on your butt cheeks, this episode is for you!  

Hi, I'm Lizzy and… am I a spankoholic?  Eric and Lizzy  discuss labels and how they sometimes don't fit… and that's ok! Lizzy shares her origin story, what it's like being married to a vanilla, and some fun stories of her adventures in the spanko world. Some of you have asked for each of our individual stories. Lizzy was brave enough to be the first to jump in! Perhaps we'll continue and tell you how each of the other hosts have grown as well. Everyone spankos differently. As Eric always quotes, “what's important is finding out what works for you.”  

"The Hills Are Alive With the Sound of Spanking… "   Wait, is that how the song goes? This holiday classic film inspired Lizzy to come up with a spanking parody from a classic scene from this film… and it's not what you may expect! Holiday classic? Really? What about The Sound of Music is holiday-related? Some of us feel it is, and it may surprise you as to why.  As a holiday treat this year, we have another classic, old-fashioned radio play! So gather around by the fire, crank up your imagination, and join the Spanko! Podcast Players in this episode entitled: The Sound of Spanking!   If you like this format, or if you don't, let us know! Your feedback helps us make the kind of episodes you want to hear!

All right, Spankos! GASP 2025 registration is here! It's been here! So listen up to hear NotSoKnotty and Listener's invite to join in Atlanta, GA on March 20-24th 2025.  We've seen posts asking about the theme. I would say drumroll... However you're just going to have to listen and find out.  Are you ready to be included at GASP 2025? (Because did you know that you're welcome, whether you're trans, straight, and or even cisgendered? *GASP*) They have: blanket forts for Littles  A principal's office for naughty students  Immersive school events  Spanking Court A dungeon - run by a local BDSM group classes which you can attend to learn and grow And of course all the spanking friends you could possibly hope to meet. All of this put forth by chaos gremlin spankos as well as type-A organizer tops.  

Impact Play!? **Gasp!?** Some Spankos will cringe upon hearing spanking being referred to as “impact play.” However, do you remember looking up “Spanking” in the dictionary?  to strike especially on the buttocks with the open hand.  We are literally having buttocks struck - causing impact - with either the hand or some sort of implement.  “But it's spanking! Stop ruining the sanctity of *my* fantasy.” Join us as Mr. Ben shares with us his knowledge on what we as the Spanko- purist can learn from the BDSM community as far as communication and  consent.  We can still learn and do better as a community as a whole. We owe ourselves this. A top is allowing themselves to strike another individual - pretty much assault - unless the receiver has consented.  We hope this episode will leave an impact!

Join our friend Emma Leigh as sits down with us at GASP and shares her spanking origin story: Playing house, hiding her interest, converting vanilla partners, and ultimately her exploration in domestic discipline. Sound familiar? Don't worry, this episode is anything but ordinary!  Emma's journey leads us down an adventurous rabbit hole of the early days of the internet, common pitfalls or entering the scene, some cringe moments, the importance of therapy, long-distance relationships, and many twists and advice learned along the way. Have you ever fantasized about your perfect spanking relationship? Did it ever not go exactly as you imagined? See if you have similar reactions as we do to some of the stories Emma Leigh shares on her journey to find her ideal disciplinary relationship.  However you like your spankings, don't forget - you are the perfect spanko, just the way you are! Whether you prefer funishment, discipline, spankings just for the sake of being spanked, therapeutic, or sexy spankings, as long as it's consensual and safe, go be your full self and find your ideal spanking!

Miss Chris is back, and she answers some of your most burning… questions, and tells us of some of her more unique spanking styles: Can you get nourished from your punishment? Can guilt release be forced? Can spanking be a right of passage? Miss Chris uses her expertise to deliver some amazing and unique experiences. She tells of some of these types of sessions (while, of course, maintaining professional boundaries) and she shares some of her own personal experiences as well. And, as always, her unique words go beautifully with these unique experiences.   We go into some of the history of our community, discuss her Spank University local group, some magic details of her spanko bed & breakfast, discuss her diversified professionalism, Female-Led Relationships, and much more! And we also dive into an important topic for our community: censorship! This conversation is a must-listen for everyone in the community. It's always wonderful to get to chat with Miss Chris, we hope you get to have a “chat” with her someday as well. *wink* Thanks to our good friend, Shaylah Bloomed, for some of the amazing questions for Miss Chris in this episode.  

Trigger Warning: Religious upbringing, childhood spanking, non-consensual spanking  As you see the list of Trigger Warnings we would like to provide the disclaimer that this episode does include discussions of an adult recalling their childhood spanking experience as well as their experience of being raised in a religious household which practiced child corporal punishment and a result - non-consensual spanking. These actions are not condoned by SpankoPodcast or any of its hosts.   Without further ado:  Some of us can recall the exact moment we realized we were a spanko. Join us as Daisy Grace shares with us her experience of discovering her spanko identity.  If you can identify as a spanko, it's possible  you may have also experienced some self-disdain… however… do not despair, there is self-love and growth in one's Spanko journey; and even success as a published age-player author.  Author and age-player DaisyGrace (pen name: Delia Grace) joined us at GASP 2024 to tell us about her life, her interests, her books, and her adventures in spanking!  If you love Delia's stories - you won't want to miss out on this episode!!  

An evening of Glitter and Glam, or an evening at a creepy carnival? Why not have both, and so much more! These are the themes for this year's Lone Star Spanking Party November 7-11, 2024 Join Sarah Gregory and Paul “Tubaman” Rogers as they tell us all about everything we can expect at Lonestar 2024. Brats, Littles, Breakfasts, Brunches, Male Events, Female Events, and so much more! We hope to see you there! But you'd better hurry, tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up! CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET And BE SURE TO USE THE LINK IN YOUR EMAIL (from ShowPass) TO REGISTER!!  There is NO at-the-door Registration this year. So if you want to come to the party, don't procrastinate!

We had a great time at GASP 2024 and finally got to meet and interview Princess Kelley May - whom you might also know as Miss Kelley May.  “We are all grown ass adults.” Find out how Princess Kelley May went through her spanko journey and discovered she did not need to break herself in order to keep being rescued or saved.  Enjoy listening as this Princess shares her first spanking experience. She continues to share some of her experiences in the scene, and what led her to become a professional in the spanking world.  Learn about the struggles of thinking a sound spanking will set you on the straight and narrow and magically have you do what you're supposed to be doing. Did you also think you'd be responsible if you could just get a spanking? Sorry to burst your fantasy bubble… although fantasies do have their place in our community! We encourage you to have fun with spanking! Yes, spanking might help rectify one's behavior but one might need to figure out strategies that might actually be beneficial in making change and progress.  We are all strong and capable adults here, whether we identify as a miss, a princess, or anything else!

At the Lone Star Spanking party 2023 we met with Aria Lennox. She's a performer, a model, a switch, and a wonderfully bubbly personality. She shares her experience with self-care as she returns from a spanking party hiatus. Join us as we discuss some of our favorite things about spanking parties and the importance of building spanking friendships.  Learn about Aria's favorite spanking scenes regardless if she is topping, bottoming, or making videos. She shares with us the power of self advocacy, staying positive, being kind, and setting boundaries to avoid negativity.  She encourages us to focus our time on the people who are good for us, taking care of yourself to stay healthy in the scene as well as physically, and how to empower yourself to advocate for yourself.  

Education is so important in Kink. Both SpankoPodcast and Princess Kelley May both feel strongly about promoting education in the spanking scene.  Possibly the busiest woman we know, Princess Kelley May was able to sit down with us at GASP and was generous enough to share a few minutes of her time. Join us as we discuss Spanking University, her YouTube Channel, her passion for education, and many other related topics that are important to us as spankos including:  Consent  Limits Boundaries Safewords Self-Advocacy Technical Proficiency And More *We apologize for the audio quality, there was a computer issue that occurred during recording which was not noticeable until editing. (It gets better as you listen.)  

We were lucky enough to sit down with model and professional switch Isabella Dollish at Lone Star, and wow, does she have a story to share! You won't see some of these twists and turns coming, but Isabella shares it all with a calm demeanor and a beautiful smile! Not only that, but her poise comes through with all of her wisdom and advice she shares while discussing some of the classes she offers, among other things she does to contribute to the community. She has some wonderful advice about a whole host of topics: from staying safe in the scene, to negotiating at parties, to what to eat during aftercare and lots more! Definitely check out the BoundTop to Bottom Podcast. They have an interesting episode on spanking, and you may just recognize a few voices ;)

Swish… Crack… Do you love the sound of a cane? Our guest, Matilda Caesar, does. Get to know this professional spankee from London, England and some of her very favorite spanking things! She regails us with tales of her adventures in the London spanking scene, some mansion roleplays, her origins as a professional, and how a photoshoot changed her life!  This beautiful, life-long spanko opens up with us about some of her innermost thoughts, desires, and even some of the spanking fantasies she enjoys personally… and the importance of keeping some things just for yourself! Did we mention she does some video modeling as well?  You can find her working with Miss Iceni, and soon from some other studios as well. If you don't know Matilda Caesar yet, you will soon!

Join us on our road trip to GASP 2024! Recorded in the car on our way, we discuss everything we hope to experience at this brand new national spanking party! What are we most excited for? Is it better to go with a plan or to be spontaneous?  Then, in the 2nd half, we're back in the car reminiscing about our experiences on our way home. What were our favorite parts? Did our plans work out? And what are we most looking forward to happening again? We had a blast and can't wait for you to hear about all of our expectations and whether or not the party lived up to them (they did, and then some!). And you never know who may get spanked in the car on our travels! You'll be hearing a lot more about GASP in some upcoming episodes, so stay tuned! If you're curious about GASP, or interested in tickets for their 2025 party, check out their website at SpankingInAtlanta.com for more information!

Meet Ehlane and Sir T, an adorable couple from Scandinavia. They join us to discuss their first American spanking party at Lone Star 2023.  Listen as they recall some of their favorite activities at the party including British Discipline, the Workshops, the Female/female event, and judicial spankings. But more importantly, they recall how kind everyone was! The Lone Star Spanking Party made such an impact they will definitely be back next year!  What is the spanking scene in Sweden like? We have some exclusive inside information to share! Just kidding, but they do tell us about it. How did this adorable couple meet? This story is even cuter than they are!  

Just as your bottom gets worn out from a spanking, so can your implements. We sat down with returning guest MotownCouple to discuss how we clean and care for our implements.  Wood can expand and contract with the temperature and humidity, leather gets dried out with use. There are ways to keep your implements in good shape so they last. We discuss some basics, as well as some additional products to use to keep your implements in shape to play. If you have additional tips, please let us know in the comments. Like your skin, and your friends, if you treat your implements well, they'll be around for many years of spankings to come.  

WOW can you believe it's been 4 years?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Come celebrate with us!! 100 episodes and our 4-year anniversary! Reminisce with us on some of our favorite episodes and interviews. Shout outs to some of the people who helped us on this journey. We've had so many adventures, and learned so much along the way! Never did we imagine we'd get to this milestone, and it's all thanks to you! We had no idea the impact we would have on people in the community and your stories and encouragement keep us going.  Want to know what are the most listened to episodes? We list our top ten most listened to episodes! Let us know what your favorite episode is and what you want to hear from us in the future.  We have lots more to come! More interviews, more education, more topics, more guests from around the globe, and plenty more of your requests. It's been quite the journey so far, and there's still much to look forward to! And we couldn't do  it without you, our friends and listeners!  

“And all this science, I don't understand, It's just my job, Five days a week…” Rocket Man, Elton John & Bernie Taupin (1972) What's going on inside your head when it comes to spanking? Like, on a scientific level. Who would we even begin to ask about such a thing? Well, we met someone in the community who happens to study neuroscience (among other sciences), and she was willing to let us pick her brain (pun intended) on this topic.  You'll be fascinated by everything going on inside your head, how your body reacts, what chemicals your internal systems are releasing and why, and so much more as we scratch the surface on some of the science behind spanking!

The Texas All-State Spanking Party is Back is in Dallas, Texas coming up on June 6-9, 2024 Join Princess Kelley May, TASSP Host and YouTuber extraordinaire, as she tells us about everything we can expect at TASSP this year! Brats Littles Multiple Male Events GNC (gender non-conforming) and BIPOC (black, indigenous, and people of color) events a Dark Party an elven princess and much, much more! We hope to see you there!  

How do you go from doing make-up, to three months later being a professional dominatrix attending a spanking party? The thought blew our minds as well!!  But when Miss Katherine stopped by our hotel room at Lone Star and said “boy, do I have a story for you,” we just had to hear about it! Join us as Miss Katherine and her protege, Miss Layla, share this fascinating journey with us! How does Miss Layla like the BDSM community? Is it too much for her? What kind of activities has she gotten into? How does she feel about spanking and spanking parties? And how do you handle a seemingly vanilla client opening doors and inviting you into an entirely new world? Once you're down this rabbit hole, you may never want to leave!  

While she may be firm, it's for your own good! Join us as we sit down with Miss Iceni, London's Premier Disciplinarian! *gulp* Actually, she was sweeter with us than she may be with you. But that's the point! Get to know a bit of Miss Iceni's background, how she got into the spanking scene, how the COVID lockdown sparked her desire to take a new path in life, and so much more! We're honored to sit down for a casual conversation to share a side of her that her clients may not get to see. Once you've seen her videos, which you absolutely should, you'll be amazed this amazingly strict disciplinarian is the same sweet woman talking with us!  

Sky and Eric were traveling home from a small house party and decided to record a discussion about the necessity of communicating while at parties. And yes, of course this all stemmed from Karina and some of her antics. It can be difficult to ask for what you want, but it's important to be able to use your words. And since people communicate differently at parties than they may at home, we'll give you some personal examples as to why good communication is important.  

Warning: This episode contains important safety information, but also references to physical assault, sexual assault, kidnapping, human trafficking, and the trafficking of children.  If these topics are triggering for you, please join us in another episode. A very special episode of SpankoPodcast: How to identify Red Flags in the community and what to watch for. This is a heavier episode of SpankoPodcast than our usual fare. As you know we put an emphasis on safety, and in discussing Red Flags and what to watch for, we couldn't shy away from the harsh realities of the real world. We did our best to keep the conversation going and not scare our listeners too much.  We invited our friend D, an expert on these subjects, to help make us all aware of the dangers in our community and to help teach us all what to watch for, how to identify and mitigate Red Flags from potential partners, and how to stay safe and vigilant against the predators out there.  

Join us as we talk to the Lovely Lady Luxe: a woman of multiple outfits, and personas to match! Her personality sparkles like a diamond, and like a diamond she has many facets to explore. She's a Top: a gorgeous, sexy goddess who commands a space. She's a Bottom: a playful, bratty babygirl who enjoys a warm bottom. She's a sadist, a masochist, a middle, a little, a big, and a puppy-cat all in one. Lady Luxe tells us of some of her adventures, the importance of self-advocacy, and a terrible acronym to remember what to negotiate in a scene. Listen as the ladies swoon over the sexiness of a good belt spanking, have serious discussions about red flags from predators, setting boundaries in the scene, and so much more. You never know what you may hear on this podcast! You self-spanked with what???? I know we often say “don't try this at home,” but like, really, DON'T!!

Miss Shaylah, Sarah (from Canada), and Mr. Ben are back! This time we're talk about communication: how to, when to, why to, and how to be sure you are staying within your bubble?…whatever that means.  We dive into important topics like practicing your bratting skills, bratting within limits, knowing and enforcing your limits, the importance of knowing your Top's limits and methods to communicate those subtly. This helps keep bratting fun for everyone, just as it should be! Hmmmm I don't think Mr. Ben ever dealt with that language from Sky… but there's still time ;)      Additionally we discuss Mr. Ben's uniform, Brat Spice, and Occupational Hazards for Tops….. THAT discussion our Bottom listeners won't want to miss!!  

Shaylah, sorry, MISS Shaylah, is back and she brought some friends along to discuss Miss Shaylah's Time-Out Service.  Miss Shaylah briefly touched on offering this service on a previous episode, but we wanted to know more. Mr. Ben and Sarah (from Canada) have partaken in this special service, and they wanted to share their thoughts as well.  Not only is this a very special and unique service offered by a wonderfully skilled member of our community, her patrons speak about the glowing results! We hear from both a Top (Mr. Ben) and a Bottom (Sarah) about what this service was like for them. It's not just corner time, it's so much more! It's a whole experience, especially tailored just for you! Parties can be overwhelming, sometimes you just need a time out. Come hear how Miss Shaylah offers this service to provide the headspace you need to relax and respect yourself! If this sounds like something you need, reach out and inquire about Miss Shaylah's Time-Out Service.  We had a great time hanging out with these wonderful people, and we hope you do too! Come and listen to Sarah squirm with embarrassment… even before her next session!  

If you've never heard of Miss Bernadette, where have you been? The world-renowned professional disciplinarian joins the Spanko! Podcast and she shares with us her spanko journey.  Karina asks some privy questions, which Miss Bernadette gladly shares some personal answers just for you!  Happy new year 2024! May your year be filled with as much fun as Miss Bernadette has!  And, of course, thank you for all your support as we continue with our spanking adventures.  

Imagine hanging around the botanical garden, drinking,  and meeting not one,  not two,  but three Krampuses!  Though we hear there are at least ten of them in our area! The Spanko!Podcast women (and Eric) hung out with the vanillas and delighted in meeting Krampus at a local event. Join us in this episode as we share our mischievous holiday adventure.  …don't worry, the vanillas cheer us on.

Are you an AASS munch?  *GASP* No, not shock and awe, but the GeorgiA Spanking Party is early next year and it's going to be a blast! Join us as we sit down with organizers Listener and NoSoKnotty as they tell us everything they've been working on for the past 14 months to make this party happen! They've put in a ton of work already, and they're ready to share some EXCLUSIVE INFORMATION with our listeners!  “You heard it here first, folks!” (I've always wanted to say that!) Come under the sea with us to Atlantis.  Spanking fun for everyone in an inclusive environment! FUN school immersion role play event with Cheeky Spankos! Also fantastic panels about spanking! Classes about rope, spanking therapy (with Miss Chris) and other topics! Vendor fair, gender specific events, and a chance to hang out with all your spanko friends.  Time is running out to get your tickets at a reasonable price. Hurry, this is an event you won't want to miss!  

Do you have a favorite kinky song? You'd be surprised how many are out there! We take a listen to some of our favorite kink-adjascent tunes, and some new ones, and let you know our thoughts and how they tie in to this special interest of ours. Some of them are super obvious, and some are classics you may not have considered.  Are there songs we haven't covered? Let us know. Maybe we'll check them out in a future episode. What's on your kinky playlist? We've barely scratched the surface on ours.  

Karina and Sunny sit down with return guest, MotownCouple to discuss the fundamentals of balancing a vanilla relationship with being a Top in the spanking community. Hear some very personal details about a very functional relationship that strikes this unique balance.  Find out what it takes to have the best of both worlds, and get some tips on how one might accomplish this with openness, honesty, and communication.  

Happy Halloween! Pranks have been a Halloween tradition going back generations. When you think about Halloween and Pranks occurring in movies, obviously the first thing that comes to mind is… Meet Me in St. Louis. Right? No? Just us? Well, there's a scene in that movie that inspired us to make an adult spanking parody. Don't worry, all the characters are of age in our version.  We decided to do something a little different as a Halloween treat this year. So tune in your old-fashioned radio, fire up your imagination, and join the Spanko! Podcast Players in this episode entitled: Beat Me in St. Louis!   If you like this format, or if you don't, let us know! Your feedback helps us make the kind of episodes you want to hear! No trolley cars or dresses were harmed in the making of this recording.  

Whether you've been to a hotel party or not, we've got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It's always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you've never been, welcome to the world of regional and national parties.  When you arrive at a hotel party, remember to be nice to the vanillas that are around - don't feel like you're on a mission to convert people. The host would very much like to keep the space  they found for ALL OF US.  Attend classes and participate in small events, Introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Meet lifelong friends from all over the nation, from across the ocean, maybe from up north or even down south.  Regional or National Parties are still a private event. If you don't follow the rules, you will be banned and may be banned from others' as well.  Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!  

Whether you've been to a house party or not, we've got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It's always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you've never been, welcome to the world of House Parties! When you arrive at a house party, remember to greet your host, introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Attending a house party may be one of the most exclusive party invites; someone is inviting you over to their home or someone is taking responsibility to get the rental- treat it better than you would treat your own home.  Remember, a house party is just that, a private event. Only the cool kids get invited! You could also host your own and invite your friends.  Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!

When you began your spanko journey - did you reach out to people and were disappointed because it felt like everyone else was having all the fun and no one engaged with you? Do you still feel this way?  Join the SpankoPodcast Podcasters and hear some tips about what doesn't work for them and most importantly about what works for building life-long spanking relationships.  If you have a clue, or if you have successful friendships, you know, kindness and politeness go a long way. Also, you know, respecting others' boundaries.  

Please tell Karina She's not the only one who celebrated birthday spankings at summer camp with “Order of the Broom”  Find out how close to your birthday is a good time to get a birthday spanking! We also discuss other birthday spanking traditions around the world! These podcasters seem to celebrate their birthdays together quite often. Join in to listen about some intense feelings regarding a particular birthday or two.  And as always, listen in on advice!  

Bonnie is a bundle of energy!  She's a little, a passionate roleplayer, an enthusiastic spanko, and a foundational member of one of the premiere spanking parties in the US. You're going to love getting to know Bonnie! In this conclusion of our interview, Bonnie tells us about some of her adventures as a little, how she discovered a new community after retiring from Crimson Moon, and about starting over. Bonnie even breaks into song! A great song by one of her friends! Be sure to check it out on SoundCloud! Don't forget to listen to part one, also. Bonnie has so much energy, it couldn't be contained in just one episode!

Bonnie is a bundle of energy!  She's a little, a passionate roleplayer, an enthusiastic spanko, and a foundational member of one of the premiere spanking parties in the US. You're going to love getting to know Bonnie! In this first part of our interview, you'll hear about some of her first spanking adventures, receive some of her spanko wisdom, some great advice for newbies and spanko veterans alike, and hear about some history of the scene! But wait, there's lots more to come! Stay tuned for part two. Bonnie has so much energy it couldn't be contained in just one episode!  

What is Judicial Spanking?  We sat down (gingerly) with a few participants from a Judicial Spanking event at Lone Star. Hear from Head Guard (Johnny Lake), some of the audience (us), and multiple prisoners (Naughty Naomi, Alaska John, b_butt_t, and Dave)! Did they like it? Was it embarrassing? What was it like being a prisoner? They answer all these questions and much more as they walk us through all the details about this Judicial Spanking event!  You won't want to miss this episode, or your next chance to receive a Judicial Spanking!

Shaylah elegantly gives us extremely articulate advice for tops who are disciplinarians; beyond the “funishment” mindset, punishments for real-life offenses. **Swoon** scold-y spankings with  controlled, loving, aggression - stern and firm.  Definitely check out this episode if discipline is your thing. It doesn't matter if you're new or experienced with spanking, she provides great information!  What was Shaylah's first foray into spanking? What has she learned about consent since then?  We hope our listeners practice consent and if you need a reminder, here is a link to one of the many episodes where we discuss Consent.   Shaylah is a girl, she is a brat, she is a writer, she is trans, and she identifies as a spanking facilitator - all the brats now have a new term of defense!  Now, don't feel bad if you're not ready to be the spanker or spankee of trans women. However, please be respectful of their identities. Don't be an asshole, or you'll have allies to answer to!   

We wanted to discuss incorporating some other kinks with spanking, and bondage felt like a natural place to begin. And we couldn't think of more fun people to discuss this topic with than Bondage expert Cinched and Spanking model MinxGrrl! Together, this power couple is exploring combining some different kinks with spanking in their own video productions. We were lucky enough to catch up with them at Lone Star 2022 and spend some time discussing their interests and learning where to begin with bondage and how it can enhance a spanking scene. Don't worry, spanking purists, this isn't a bondage-only episode! MinxGrrl shares some stories about what it's like working with RealSpankings, how she's able to convince a Rope Top to come to a Spanking Party in Texas, and much, much more. We had a great time getting to know this adorable couple, and we hope you do, too!

Get to know AlaskaJohn… from Alaska! He came all the way from north to south where we met in Texas! But this isn't his shortest spanking travel adventure by far! We discuss some of the challenges he's faced in the scene. And if you think it's hard to find partners, wait until you hear what it's like to try to meet other spankos in Alaska when you're gay!  John openly discusses these challenges, but also the joys of the great state of Alaska, being a switch as you get older, the differences between the gay spanking scene and the hetero spanking scene, the growing societal interest in BDSM, soma spanking games, and a lot more!  John has a great and unique perspective on the scene and we hope you enjoy getting to know him as much as we did.