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Homily for the Sunday of Orthodoxy On the Sunday of Orthodoxy, the Church celebrates more than the restoration of icons in 843; she proclaims the full implications of the Incarnation. Drawing from St. John of Damascus, St. Theodore the Studite, Genesis, and the theology of beauty, this homily explores how Christ restores not only matter, but humanity's creative vocation. In Him, we are not merely icons — we are iconographers, shaping our marriages, friendships, and parishes into visible proclamations of the Gospel. --- The Restoration of the Image — and the Hands That Shape It Today we celebrate the restoration of the holy icons. In the year 843, after years of persecution and confusion, the Church once again lifted up the images of Christ, His Mother, and the saints. The Church proclaimed that icons are not idols. They are not violations of the commandments. They are proclamations of the Gospel of salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ. But if we reduce this feast to a historical victory or a doctrinal correction, we miss its depth. The Sunday of Orthodoxy is not only about winning a theological argument or correcting decades of injustices. It is about restoring something in humanity itself. We were made in the image and likeness of God.  Our image is corrupted not just by sin, but by a particular way of missing the mark: bad theology.  This isn't just about the suitability of having icons in worship; it's about us and our role in the Great Restoration. I. Matter and the Incarnation [You see,] Iconoclasm was not merely about pictures. It was about mediation. Can matter reveal God? Can created things proclaim the uncreated? [And especially this:] Can human hands shape something that participates in divine glory? On the first two questions, St. John of Damascus, answered with stunning clarity: "I do not worship matter; I worship the Creator of matter who became matter for my sake." And again: "When the Invisible One becomes visible in the flesh, you may then depict the likeness of Him who was seen." The Incarnation changes everything. If Christ truly assumed flesh — if He entered matter — if He allowed Himself to be seen and touched — then matter is not a barrier to communion. It becomes a vehicle of it. St. Theodore the Studite pressed this further. To reject the icon, he argued, is to weaken the confession that Christ truly became man. If He can be described in words, He can be depicted in color. We know that;"the honor given to the image passes to the prototype." The icon does not trap Christ in wood and paint; it confesses that He truly entered history. The restoration of the icons is the restoration of the Incarnation's full implications. II. Genesis: The First Iconography But to understand this feast completely, we must go back to Genesis. In the beginning, God creates. He speaks, and the world comes into being. And again and again we hear: "It is good." And finally: "It is very good." Creation is not neutral. It is beautiful. It reveals without containing. And in its beauty, it points beyond itself. Creation itself is iconographic. And humanity is made in the image and likeness of God.  And here I don't mean as an icon of Him.  We are going deeper into the mystery. Adam is placed in the garden not merely as a spectator, but as a cultivator. He names. He tends. He shapes. He receives creation from God and participates in its ordering. Humanity's vocation was always creative — not to rival God, but to cooperate with Him. Sin distorted that vocation. Instead of shaping toward communion and moving things to greater grace, we grow thorns and thistles.  Creation groans in travail.  And in our fallenness we forget the beauty of creation and turn it into an instrument to satisfy our own desires.  [We exercise the power poorly, without grace.] Some think that this misunderstanding came about as a result of the enlightenment or of capitalism.  Today we are reminded that the temptation to pervert our role in creation is much, much, older – iconoclasm was just another in a long line of perversity and deception. Iconoclasm is not only the smashing of panels. It is the denial that creation — and humanity — can [and should] bear glory. III. The Icon as Transfigured Humanity Leonid Ouspensky reminds us that the icon is not simply religious art. It is dogma in color. It expresses the Church's lived experience of salvation. The icon does not portray humanity as it appears in fallen naturalism [there are no shadows], but as it is restored and transfigured in Christ. The elongated figures. The stillness. The inverted perspective. These are not stylistic quirks. They proclaim something: Man is not closed in on himself.  He is opened toward eternity.vThe icon reveals humanity healed. The restoration of icons in 843 was not merely permission to paint. It was the declaration that man, in Christ, may once again shape matter toward glory. IV. Beauty That Forms Vision We have spoken often about beauty. Beauty is not decoration. It is goodness and truth made visible. The Church building is not a neutral space. It is a reordered world. The dome lifts our eyes. The iconostasis teaches hierarchy without domination. The chant trains our breath and disciplines our attention. Beauty heals perception.  Iconoclasm was not only doctrinal confusion. It was blindness. Orthodoxy restores sight. V. The Turn: You Are an Iconographer But now we must go deeper. The Sunday of Orthodoxy is not only about painted panels. It is about restored humanity. As a member of the royal priesthood, made in the image and likeness of God;  You are a subcreator [Tolkein). You are an iconographer. In Genesis, God creates — and then entrusts creation to man. Humanity was made not only to reflect glory, but to cultivate and shape the world so that it reveals and glorifies God more clearly. Christ restores that vocation to you, His royal priesthood. If He is the true Image of the Father, and if we are renewed in His likeness through Christ, then our creative capacity is healed. And this means, most especially, our relationships.  Only a few of us have the eye and hand to be iconographers in the classic sense [I don't], but all of us are called to paint, as it were, our love with the people around us. Every word is a brushstroke. Every graceful silence lays background color. Every act of patience draws a line. Every act of pride distorts proportion. We are painting our marriages. We are composing our friendships. We are shaping the soul of our parish. The question is not whether we are iconographers; whether we are artists. The question is what we are painting; what we are creating. Marriage Marriage is not two finished icons placed side by side. It is collaborative iconography. Patience becomes the background wash. Forbearance outlines the figures. Forgiveness restores the light when shadows creep in. An icon must have proportion and balance. So must a marriage. If one insists always on being right, the lines warp. If resentment lingers, the colors darken. But when humility returns again and again, the image clarifies. Friendship Friendship is also creative labor. We shape one another through attention and restraint. Do we magnify one another's anger? Or soften it? Do we sharpen cynicism? Or cultivate gratitude? True friendship paints with gentleness. Patience lays the foundation. Forbearance preserves harmony. Grace keeps the symmetry intact. When two friends bear one another quietly, Christ becomes visible between them. Parish We have a lot of art here, but a parish is not a museum of icons. It is a workshop. Every unseen act of service adds gold leaf. Every quiet forgiveness restores damaged color. Every refusal to gossip preserves the symmetry of grace. The beauty of a parish is not first in its architecture. It is in the patience of its people. Conclusion St. John of Damascus defended matter. St. Theodore defended the Incarnation. Ouspensky reminds us that the icon reveals man transfigured. The Sunday of Orthodoxy proclaims that in Christ, humanity's creative vocation is restored. Matter can bear glory. Human hands can proclaim truth. Relationships can reveal Christ. In Christ, our sight is healed. In Christ, our hands are healed. The only question remaining is this: What are we painting? Amen.  

Send a textRomance is great, but it's not what keeps a marriage strong. In this Love Month episode, we're shifting the focus from “be romantic” to “be selfless”—because most marriages don't fall apart from incompatibility… they fall apart from selfishness. If you've felt off-track lately, overwhelmed, or stuck in tension, this episode is a jolt back on track.DiscoverWhy “me over we” creates constant friction in marriageHow conflict is often about unmet desires, not the surface issueThe simple shift that makes love feel real again: you first = we firstWhat we learned from hosting a Love Challenge Date Night (10 fun challenges!)Why love is a verb and how your heart follows your actionsHow to build a “competition of honor” that makes marriage fun againPractical ways to say yes more often and short-circuit selfishnessA weekly Love Dare: one intentional act of selflessness every dayKey Points Discussed“Real love is not me first—it's you first.”“Marriage becomes fun again when it becomes a competition of honor.”“Love doesn't insist on its own way—so we interrupt selfishness on purpose.”Bible Verses MentionedJames 4:1Philippians 2:3Romans 12:10Ephesians 5:251 Corinthians 13:5Question for youWhere have you been putting me over we, and what's one small way you can put your spouse first this week?Call to ActionIf this encouraged you, like, subscribe, and share this episode with a couple who needs a reset.And drop a comment: What's your one act of selflessness this week?#MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageHelp #HealthyMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #SelflessLove #MarriageGoals #FaithAndMarriage

WOMEN DON'T NEED MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE NEEDS WOMEN?! | Her Friends Been Getting Bind Fixed by Greg Adams

Marriage is not a reset button.It magnifies the single you, your character, wounds, faith, and habits.In this episode, we unpack why intentional singleness is essential for a healthy marriage and lasting love.

Rob Conti | Marriage ConferenceIn this episode, Rob explores how to handle conflict in marriage with grace and dignity. Learn when to let things go, when to lovingly confront one another, and how prayer, humility, and listening can strengthen your relationship, remembering that only God can change the heart.Marriage ConferencePlease leave a review on Apple or Spotify to help others grow in their faith. Click here to get our Colossians Bible study.

This lecture begins by addressing the upcoming series on singleness, sex, marriage, and family, expressing a mix of anticipation and trepidation about the reception of such topics among the audience. The speaker acknowledges the sensitive nature of the content and the challenging cultural landscape that informs contemporary discussions about these themes. Drawing on personal experiences and shifts in societal attitudes over the years, the speaker outlines how previous approaches to discussing these matters often lacked depth and nuance.The lecture emphasizes the complexity of current debates surrounding marriage and family structures, particularly in light of issues like declining fertility rates and the rapid rise of technologies like artificial intelligence that challenge traditional conceptions of relationships and intimacy. The speaker points to the growing divide between can advocates—those who prioritize parental and family structures—and antinatalists, raising questions about the morality and ethics of having children within today's societal frameworks.With a focus on historical context, the speaker proposes examining how early Christians navigated marriage and sexuality amidst diverse cultural backgrounds, indicating that, despite imperfections, their faithfulness and creativity in responding to societal norms can provide insights for today's believers. This historical approach aims not to dismiss biblical teachings but to integrate them with fresh perspectives that resonate with contemporary challenges.The tone takes a reflective turn acknowledging the wounds and longings many individuals carry regarding their experiences with marriage, sex, and family. The speaker commits to approaching these sensitive issues with care, intertwining biblical faithfulness with a profound awareness of personal struggles, encouraging the audience to maintain a thoughtful and open dialogue throughout the series.In examining biblical texts, the lecture delves into the historical background of marriage and divorce within Jewish culture, referencing relevant scriptures that shaped societal norms. The discussion highlights the complexities surrounding divorce practices, particularly through the lens of differing rabbinical interpretations on what constitutes just cause. This context sets the stage for Jesus' teachings, where he emphasizes the sanctity of marriage, urging a departure from contemporary practices of casual divorce and reaffirming God's original intent for marital fidelity.Next, the focus shifts to the Apostle Paul's correspondence with the church in Corinth, reflecting on the unique Greco-Roman cultural landscape and its contrasting views on marriage and sexuality. Paul's radical teaching about mutual authority in marriage marks a significant departure from prevailing practices, underscoring the equality and dignity afforded to women—a revolutionary stance in both Jewish and Greco-Roman contexts. The implications of this teaching for contemporary relationships suggest a pathway towards healthier dynamics rooted in mutual respect and responsibility.The lecture then culminates in a reflection on the modern experience of relationships, questioning the assumptions and consequences that have arisen from the sexual revolution. The speaker presents a critical stance on contemporary sexual practices, advocating a return to monogamous commitments that respect the inherent dignity of all individuals involved. Drawing parallels to past social movements, the lecture encourages a revisiting of foundational truths that advocate for equity and mutual accountability in sexual and marital relationships.Concluding with a call for community support, the speaker urges the audience to cultivate a culture of grace and healing, aiming to assist one another amid the complexities of personal struggles. This community should strive to embody the tenets of love and patience, fostering an environment where individuals can heal from their pasts and aspire toward the kind of transformative relationships that align with the teachings of Jesus. The session closes with a reminder of the importance of accountability and support within the community, reinforcing the ongoing journey toward understanding and embodying the radical yet accessible message of the gospel in today's world.

Ann Wilson is the host of the "Family Life" Podcast alongside her husband Dave. She is also the author of the new book How to Speak Life to Your Husband: When All You Want to Do is Yell at Him.  This is an incredible podcast that strikes deep at some of the chronic negativity, condoned emasculation, and fault finding that so many women feel perfectly justified in perpetrating against their husband. It is a beautiful, encouraging episode. Episode sponsored by the Peaceful Press! The Peaceful Preschool Volume 2 is here!! Purchase your beautiful copy of the brand-new Peaceful Preschool for a year of delightful, hands-on learning.  Looking for Elementary Bundles to engage in Charlotte Mason-styled education? Check out the Playful Pioneers, Precious People, and the Kind Kingdom!   In this episode– The meaning of helpmeet How does your husband see himself when he looks into your eyes Do you spend as much time praying for your husband as you do judging him?  How to Speak Life to Your Husband: When All You Want to Do is Yell at Him by Ann Wilson You can learn more about Jennifer here: Jennifer's Instagram You can learn more about Ann Wilson here: Ann's Instagram Some Amazon Affiliate Links.

“Clarity of marriage brings precision in pursuit.” Last night in our Soft Launch series, Pastor Jonathan broke down The Mission of Marriage

Pastor Ron Stauffer 1 Corinthians 7, Romans 7, Matthew 19

As Pastor Davey closes out the marriage series, he aims to provide a supportive and honest dialogue about relationships, encouraging the congregation to reflect on the realities of marriage while offering hope and guidance for overcoming difficulties.

radiantvisalia.comWord & Deed: We are Witnesses: Marriagewith Danny CantelmiSermon Notes: We Are Witnesses - MarriageScripture: 2 Corinthians 5:14-21, Matthew 12, Philippians 2:12-13, Psalm 77:7-15Intro: This sermon is part of the "We Are Witnesses" series, focusing on how our lives testify to Jesus. Today's message explores how our marriages can bear witness to Christ. Even singles can benefit from the principles shared, but marriage uniquely reveals how we respond to challenges and conflict.Text: 2 Corinthians 5:14-21Exposition:The Stages of Marriage: Marriage is a journey with various stages, each with unique challenges and opportunities for growth. It's easy to focus on our spouse as the source of challenges, but our greatest challenge often lies within ourselves.Dying to Self: Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians that we are no longer to live for ourselves, but for Christ. This involves letting go of our rights and preferences. Sin makes us self-focused and self-important, but marriage calls us to die to those tendencies.Three Ways Marriages Can Witness to Christ:Develop a Kingdom Perspective: We need to reorient our marriages around a kingdom perspective, sowing small seeds of kindness, prayer, gratitude, and humility.Practice Reconciliation: We must first be reconciled to Christ, then extend that reconciliation to our spouses. This involves confession, repentance, and forgiveness.See Marriage as a Partnership for the Gospel: Our spouses are our partners in ministry, and together we can advance the Gospel through raising our children, serving others, and demonstrating Christ's love in our daily lives.Conclusion:The Lord's Table: We respond by coming to the Lord's Table, remembering Christ's sacrifice that reconciles us to God and empowers us to live in a way that reflects His love.A Word of Encouragement: Even in the midst of trials and suffering, we can remember God's faithfulness and the hope of His return.Call to Action:Take the "Confession, Repentance, and Forgiveness" handout from the Connect Table.Consider how you can partner with your spouse to advance the Gospel.If you need prayer, don't hesitate to come forward.*Summaries are generated using AI. Please notify us if you find any errors. Support the show

In his sermon, Pastor Kenneth emphasizes the importance of building a strong foundation for marriage, much like a house needs a solid base He highlights key elements for a successful marriage, including effective communication, aligning finances, and establishing boundaries, while stressing the necessity of resolving offenses and breaking unhealthy soul ties from past relationships. Pastor Kenneth reassures listeners that no matter their current situation, they can choose to move forward and embrace renewal in their marriages through faith in God.

February 9, 2025God has a plan for your family.My family can be better than it is right now.The way you define marriage will determine the way you do it.Where does our definition of marriage come from?God designed marriage and gets to define.You have a 100% chance of success in your marriage. You just have to do it God's way.Definition of Marriage:Marriage is a man and a woman becoming one, living naked, working in a garden, and walking with God.“Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.”Genesis 2:18“At last!” the man exclaimed.“This one is bone from my bone, and flesh from my flesh!She will be called ‘woman,' because she was taken from ‘man.'”Genesis 2:23This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.Genesis 2:24Marriage is a team sport.The biblical model of marriage is itself a miracle. It's two individuals being united together.Two people, two hearts, two wills, two visions for life, coming together and becoming one.Two don't become one through compromise, where each person gives a little and gets a little.Two people become one through collaboration. (1) Both sides bringing their best to the table, (2) both sides learning to love what God has put in the other person, and (3) both sides creating and pursuing a common vision together.Adam and his wife were both naked, but they felt no shame.Genesis 2:25Practical Tips for Getting Naked for Your SpouseTip 1: Take off Your Clothes FirstTip 2: Discuss Don't DumpTip 3: Forgive and BlessSo God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.Genesis 1:27Then God blessed them and said, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and subdue it. Reign over the fish in the sea, the birds in the sky, and all the animals that scurry along the ground.”Genesis 1:28Mary was standing outside the tomb crying, and as she wept, she stooped and looked in. She saw two white-robed angels, one sitting at the head and the other at the foot of the place where the body of Jesus had been lying. “Dear woman, why are you crying?” the angels asked her.John 20:11-13a“She turned to leave and saw someone standing there. It was Jesus, but she didn't recognize him...She thought he was the gardener”John 20:14,15

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Marriage Conference | Zach MabryIn the last session of the Marriage Conference, Zach breaks down 1 Peter 3:1-7 to understand what biblical submission in marriage really means. Peter encourages believers to live in submission to God and the authorities He has placed over them, and this applies to husbands and wives too.Zach explains how submission is ultimately about honoring God. Wives submit to their husbands as an act of devotion to the Lord, and husbands lead with love and honor. Together, these roles reflect God's image and strengthen marriage.Zach also addresses the misconception that submission devalues women, showing that true beauty is found in godly character.1 Peter 3:1-7Please leave a review on Apple or Spotify to help others grow in their faith. Click here to get our Colossians Bible study.

Brody Holloway | Marriage ConferenceIn this Marriage Conference session, Brody shares how to build a marriage rooted in peace, grounded in Scripture. While the world around us is chaotic, our homes should be places of rest where God's peace and love are evident.Brody offers practical advice on being patient, encouraging one another, and handling conflict with grace. He reminds us that God's will for our lives is simple: rejoice always, give thanks in all circumstances, and pray continually. When we live this way, our hearts align with God's purpose.Tune in for valuable insights on strengthening your marriage, finding peace in the midst of life's challenges, and loving your spouse as God loves you.1 Thessalonians 5Please leave a review on Apple or Spotify to help others grow in their faith. Click here to get our Colossians Bible study.

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Are You Approaching Your Marriage the Right Way? Marriage is a beautiful journey, but it can often be challenging. In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to lose sight of the spiritual aspect of marriage. This post dives into the importance of approaching your marriage with the right mindset and tools, focusing on the biblical values that can help foster a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Understanding the Spiritual Aspect of Marriage Marriage is designed by God to be a good thing. However, in a society that often overlooks biblical principles, we can forget this truth. The enemy, as described in the Bible, seeks to destroy what God has created for good. This means that when we enter into marriage, we must be aware that challenges will arise, often stemming from spiritual warfare. It's crucial to remember that the enemy hates healthy marriages. When two people commit to loving each other and serving God together, they become a powerful testimony of God's faithfulness. However, over time, we may start to view our spouse as the enemy. This shift can lead to fighting the wrong battles and creating division in our relationship. Recognizing the Real Enemy Many couples find themselves in a cycle of conflict where they perceive each other as adversaries. This dynamic often stems from frustrations and misunderstandings, leading to a focus on the symptoms of deeper issues instead of addressing the root causes. The real enemy is not your spouse but the spiritual forces that seek to undermine your marriage. When conflicts arise, it's essential to take a step back and evaluate the situation. Are you fighting against your spouse or addressing the real issue at hand? Recognizing that the enemy wants to sow discord can help you shift your perspective and approach your marriage with understanding and compassion. Using the Right Tools for Your Marriage Just as a gardener needs the right tools to cultivate a beautiful yard, couples need the right tools to nurture their marriage. God has provided us with everything we need to create a thriving relationship, but it's up to us to utilize those tools effectively. This includes prayer, communication, and spending time in the Word of God. Many people approach marriage without using the proper tools, leading to neglect and discontent. We often hear about high divorce rates, even among believers, which highlights the need for couples to actively engage in their relationships. It's essential to commit to using the right tools consistently to build a strong foundation. The Importance of Communication Effective communication is vital in any relationship, especially in marriage. Couples need to establish an environment where open and honest dialogue can take place. This means setting aside time to discuss feelings, frustrations, and goals without the pressure of immediate conflict. When disagreements arise, approaching them with a mindset of collaboration rather than confrontation can lead to more productive conversations. Instead of pointing fingers and assigning blame, use "we" language to emphasize shared responsibility. This fosters unity and helps both partners feel heard and valued. Embracing Simplicity in Marriage In our quest for a fulfilling marriage, we often overcomplicate things. The reality is that many of the actions that can lead to a thriving relationship are simple yet powerful. For instance, being quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger can significantly impact how conflicts are resolved. Sometimes, the simplest actions yield the most profound results. Consistently practicing small gestures of love and appreciation can create a more robust emotional connection between partners. Remember, it's the small, everyday actions that contribute to the overall health of your marriage. The Role of Patience and Perseverance In our instant gratification society, many couples struggle with patience. We want quick results and immediate satisfaction, especially when it comes to resolving conflicts. However, it's essential to recognize that building a strong marriage takes time and effort. Investing in your relationship means committing to the long haul. When challenges arise, remind yourselves that perseverance is key. Trust that the efforts you put into your marriage will pay off in the long run, even if you don't see immediate results. Bringing God into Your Marriage To truly thrive in your marriage, you must make God the center of your relationship. This involves praying together, seeking guidance from the Word, and inviting God into your everyday conversations and decisions. When you prioritize your spiritual connection, it becomes easier to navigate the challenges that arise. Many couples neglect this aspect, only turning to God when they need something. However, a proactive approach to spirituality can strengthen your bond and provide the wisdom and guidance needed to overcome obstacles.

To find freedom, heal, and feel powerful in your emotions, check out the Alive & Free Collective by CLICKING HERE. To become a life coach and get started in your career helping people get free and healthy emotionally and start a business doing so, go to our training video to learn more. Have you ever wondered if saving sex for marriage is worth the wait? This episode confronts the normalization of premarital sex and contrasts it with the values of purity and intimacy within marriage, particularly among 20-somethings and 30-somethings. Through interviews and societal debates, we explore the idea of "test driving" a relationship before committing and examine the emotional and spiritual impact of these choices. Hear personal stories that underscore the importance of valuing oneself and one's partner by embracing purity and unshared intimacy. Maintaining purity in today's world is no small feat. Through a heartfelt anecdote about a friend's well-meaning offer to teach about sex, we navigate the pressures and challenges of upholding personal values.   --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS --------- (0:00:20) - Sex Before Marriage (0:13:21) - Navigating Boundaries and Purity in Relationships (0:22:44) - Understanding Shame, Forgiveness, and Attachment (0:30:26) - Boundaries and Sexuality in Relationships (0:39:00) - Releasing Shame and Finding Forgiveness (0:45:18) - Building Character Through Boundaries (0:58:35) - Embracing Holiness in Marriage --------- EPISODE CHAPTERS WITH SHORT KEY POINTS --------- (0:00:20) - Sex Before Marriage Examining the normalization of premarital sex, valuing purity and intimacy in marriage, and the importance of saving oneself for a future partner. (0:13:21) - Navigating Boundaries and Purity in Relationships Personal values and boundaries surrounding premarital sex, societal pressures, and emotional impact of not honoring one's values. (0:22:44) - Understanding Shame, Forgiveness, and Attachment Understanding unconditional love and forgiveness, valuing sexual purity, and the impact of spiritual connections on emotional well-being. (0:30:26) - Boundaries and Sexuality in Relationships Love, boundaries, and heart change are crucial for fulfilling relationships, while casual sex undermines trust and intimacy. (0:39:00) - Releasing Shame and Finding Forgiveness Intimacy's impact on relationships, getting to know someone beyond physical intimacy, risks of unintended pregnancies and STDs, and God's forgiveness and renewal. (0:45:18) - Building Character Through Boundaries Childhood trauma, unhealthy validation-seeking, self-control, integrity, building strong relationships, boundaries around sexuality, accountability to true identity in Christ. (0:58:35) - Embracing Holiness in Marriage Marriage and faith bring joy, intimacy, and freedom, leading to transformation and forgiveness, as seen in a former OnlyFans top earner's story.  

Francie Winslow joins me in this encore episode to talk about the amazing gift of physical intimacy in marriage. You will be blessed and uplifted by her candidness and her refreshing perspective on God's precious gift. *PLEASE NOTE* If you usually listen with your children around, you may want to hear this episode in your headphones first. We discuss physical intimacy in marriage and use physiological names for body parts. Join my free email list here Connect with me on Instagram Ask a question on a future show

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Internal sinful desires inevitably lead to external sinful conflict.

Your sanctification demands your maximum effort, but is accomplished by Christ alone

The gospel transforms the motivation, standard, and purpose for marriage

In this episode, Tommy Thompson is joined by David Dwight from HOPE Church, David delves into the profound concept of covenantal love in marriage. Dwight highlights the unilateral nature of covenantal promises, drawing parallels to God's unconditional love for humanity. He emphasizes that Christian marriage is founded on this unconditional commitment to love each other until death, distinguishing it from mere contractual agreements. They also discussed the significance of covenantal love, highlighting its transformative power in fostering enduring and meaningful relationships. Additionally, David and Tommy explore the influence of parental marriages on individuals' own relationships, discussing the importance of reflection and intentionality in shaping marital dynamics. Through insightful anecdotes and practical advice, they underscore the importance of humility, grace, and commitment in nurturing healthy and vibrant marriages, leaving listeners with valuable insights to apply in their own relationships.David Dwight is the senior pastor of HOPE Church, one of the fastest growing churches in Richmond, Virginia. David's spiritual journey began during his college years, following a period marked by skepticism and uncertainty throughout his teenage years. Despite venturing into a career in business post-graduation, He harbored a profound conviction that his path would ultimately lead him to ministry. Over time, he has served in various roles, including missions pastor and church planter, and now holds the position of senior pastor at HOPE. Together with his wife Elisabeth, they are blessed with two children. 00:00 Embracing Love in Marriage00:58 Introducing David Dwight: A Journey Through Marriage Insights02:34 The Essence of Marriage: Covenant, Compatibility, and Commitment18:13 The Transformative Power of Covenant in Marriage34:25 The Journey from Compatibility to Covenant: A Deep Dive50:38 The Impact of Parental Influence on Marriage53:47 Navigating the Seasons of Marriage: Challenges and Growth57:20 Cultivating a Marriage-Centered Family01:05:06 The Art of Communication: The Key to a Thriving Marriage01:06:14 Creating Space for Listening and Understanding01:16:58 The Evolution of Intimacy in Marriage01:33:07 Closing Thoughts: The Beauty and Hard Work of Marriage

In this episode, Tommy Thompson is joined by David Dwight from HOPE Church, David delves into the profound concept of covenantal love in marriage. Dwight highlights the unilateral nature of covenantal promises, drawing parallels to God's unconditional love for humanity. He emphasizes that Christian marriage is founded on this unconditional commitment to love each other until death, distinguishing it from mere contractual agreements. They also discussed the significance of covenantal love, highlighting its transformative power in fostering enduring and meaningful relationships. Additionally, David and Tommy explore the influence of parental marriages on individuals' own relationships, discussing the importance of reflection and intentionality in shaping marital dynamics. Through insightful anecdotes and practical advice, they underscore the importance of humility, grace, and commitment in nurturing healthy and vibrant marriages, leaving listeners with valuable insights to apply in their own relationships.David Dwight is the senior pastor of HOPE Church, one of the fastest growing churches in Richmond, Virginia. David's spiritual journey began during his college years, following a period marked by skepticism and uncertainty throughout his teenage years. Despite venturing into a career in business post-graduation, He harbored a profound conviction that his path would ultimately lead him to ministry. Over time, he has served in various roles, including missions pastor and church planter, and now holds the position of senior pastor at HOPE. Together with his wife Elisabeth, they are blessed with two children. 00:00 Embracing Love in Marriage00:58 Introducing David Dwight: A Journey Through Marriage Insights02:34 The Essence of Marriage: Covenant, Compatibility, and Commitment18:13 The Transformative Power of Covenant in Marriage34:25 The Journey from Compatibility to Covenant: A Deep Dive50:38 The Impact of Parental Influence on Marriage53:47 Navigating the Seasons of Marriage: Challenges and Growth57:20 Cultivating a Marriage-Centered Family01:05:06 The Art of Communication: The Key to a Thriving Marriage01:06:14 Creating Space for Listening and Understanding01:16:58 The Evolution of Intimacy in Marriage01:33:07 Closing Thoughts: The Beauty and Hard Work of Marriage

The gospel transforms the motivation, standard, and purpose for marriage.

The Gospel motivates godliness in us as we proactively remember our previous condition and God's merciful redemption.

The enjoyment of marriage requires our understanding of God's design, sin's corruption, and God's solution

Ever felt like you and your partner are stuck in a conversation rut, sitting at a restaurant with nothing to say? In this episode, marriage and family therapist Kristal Desantis unveils the key to breaking free from relationship monotony.Discover how our brains, to conserve energy, default to familiar relationship patterns. Crystal explains how this default mode can lead to contempt, eroding respect and hindering personal growth within the partnership. Learn why breaking this pattern is crucial for a thriving, respectful relationship.Uncover the concept of the Alexander point and its impact on long-term relationships.Explore the importance of embracing change and initiating a concerted effort to break free from relationship stagnation.Understand the significance of mutual respect in fostering a healthy, thriving relationship and discover actionable steps to achieve it.Ready to transform your relationship and break free from the monotony? Dive into the episode now for valuable insights from Krystal DeSantis. Your path to a more fulfilling and respectful partnership begins with a simple click.More From Dad Mind MattersTo see if I can help you with your dream and book in for a complimentary 15 chat click this linkCAN YOU HELP THE PODCAST?Dear Podcast Listener, thank you, I appreciate your support. This podcast aims to support dads all over the world, especially those struggling with their mental health.This podcast is my hobby, but I'd like it to become much more than that one day. For that to happen, I need the support of either one very wealthy angel investor or a few thousand, possibly slightly less wealthy (but no less generous) angel investors.To develop the podcast and hopefully support more dads, I need some help. With that in mind, if you enjoyed this episode and want to help me with what I'm trying to do, here is the link where you can leave a tip. ALL tips, regardless of size, are hugely appreciated, and as a thank you, anyone who leaves a tip will be entitled to a voice note message from me on their next birthday. Just contact me via the websiteThanks again for your support, and take care of yourselfJamesTo sign up for my FREE monthly newsletter - CLICK HEREABOUT MEHello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad. After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I'm a much happier dad. As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health. Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with. In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link FREE & "HOPEFULLY" USEFUL RESOURCESFor your free digital copy of my book First Time DadPlease click this link.To be really quite awesome & leave me a review on Amazon

The enjoyment of marriage depends on our submission to the purpose for which God's created all things.

If you're like us, you think marriage is all about the ring, the wedding, the dress. Well... we had a reality check after our convo with Dennis R. Vetrano, Jr. who is a Divorce Attorney. We learned all about the legal benefits of marriage, the downside of marriage and the reason why we should still want marriage. He also explains why picking "the right one" is SO important. Dennis tells us why he thinks most couples get divorced and what he thinks can prevent a couple from getting a divorce. Also, why everyone should have a prenup! This is such an insightful conversation! We learned a lot hope you do too! Dennis Vetrano Website: https://www.drvetranolaw.com/ Dennis Vetrano Podcast: https://www.behindthelawpodcast.com/ Dennis Vetrano Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvlaw/ Dennis Vetrano TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drvlaw?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

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The closer a husband and wife get to God, the closer they'll be to each other. Pastor Dave explains.Learn more about what God has to say about marriage! Watch Pastor Mike's series, "God's Blueprint for a Happy Home" (https://bit.ly/3RjByep) or listen on our podcast, Time of Grace With Pastor Mike Novotny!Check out our other podcasts! Search for these on your favorite podcast app.– The Nonmicrowaved Truth with C.L. Whiteside– Little Things, with Amber Albee Swenson– Bible Breath, with Pastor Jeremy– Bible Threads, with Dr. Bruce Becker– Evening Encouragements With Pastor Jeremy– Time of Grace With Pastor Mike NovotnyIf you have questions and want to know more about God, like what does he think of you, what exactly was Jesus all about, how do you get “saved” and just what exactly does it mean to “get saved,” and what you should do next, we want you to download this free resource Pastor Mike wrote called, The Basics: God. You. Jesus. Faith. Get your free download at timeofgrace.org/thebasics.OR, you can listen to the audio version of The Basics! Just search "The Basics With Pastor Mike Novotny" wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

Sex is the one gift God gives you that you're to share with just one person.Learn more about what God has to say about marriage! Watch Pastor Mike's series, "God's Blueprint for a Happy Home" (https://bit.ly/3RjByep) or listen on our podcast, Time of Grace With Pastor Mike Novotny!Check out our other podcasts! Search for these on your favorite podcast app.– The Nonmicrowaved Truth with C.L. Whiteside– Little Things, with Amber Albee Swenson– Bible Breath, with Pastor Jeremy– Bible Threads, with Dr. Bruce Becker– Evening Encouragements With Pastor Jeremy– Time of Grace With Pastor Mike NovotnyIf you have questions and want to know more about God, like what does he think of you, what exactly was Jesus all about, how do you get “saved” and just what exactly does it mean to “get saved,” and what you should do next, we want you to download this free resource Pastor Mike wrote called, The Basics: God. You. Jesus. Faith. Get your free download at timeofgrace.org/thebasics.OR, you can listen to the audio version of The Basics! Just search "The Basics With Pastor Mike Novotny" wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

How can husbands and wives build up one another?Learn more about what God has to say about marriage! Watch Pastor Mike's series, "God's Blueprint for a Happy Home" (https://bit.ly/3RjByep) or listen on our podcast, Time of Grace With Pastor Mike Novotny!Check out our other podcasts! Search for these on your favorite podcast app.– The Nonmicrowaved Truth with C.L. Whiteside– Little Things, with Amber Albee Swenson– Bible Breath, with Pastor Jeremy– Bible Threads, with Dr. Bruce Becker– Evening Encouragements With Pastor Jeremy– Time of Grace With Pastor Mike NovotnyIf you have questions and want to know more about God, like what does he think of you, what exactly was Jesus all about, how do you get “saved” and just what exactly does it mean to “get saved,” and what you should do next, we want you to download this free resource Pastor Mike wrote called, The Basics: God. You. Jesus. Faith. Get your free download at timeofgrace.org/thebasics.OR, you can listen to the audio version of The Basics! Just search "The Basics With Pastor Mike Novotny" wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.

"No" is (very) knee-jerk answer to the question, "Would you stay with your spouse if s/he cheated?" But when the husband of this week's guest betrayed her, she chose to stay. Not only that, she also chose to own what she views as her part in her marriage's downturn. Today I'm talking with marriage coach and podcast host Charity Craig all about infidelity. And maybe her story will change the way you think about infidelity... or maybe not. We talk: + How she knew her husband was cheating + Dealing with judgment if you go back to a cheater + Identifying what is broken in a relationship + The signs of an early breakdown in a relationship + Avoiding the “victim mentality” + Why your instinct is your most powerful cheat-detection tool + Is one person ever at fault for an affair? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/wegottatalkwithsonni/support

How Putting Your Kids First Harms Your Marriage (Marriage & Family Series) Put your kids first? Nope! Listen to learn what happens when you elevate your children & their activities to where only your spouse belongs.  If you have children, if you have ever struggled with finding the balance between taking care of your children and nurturing your marriage, well, then friend, this conversation is for you. If you're Christian, you've likely heard of that J-O-Y acronym. Jesus. Others. You. So many of us were raised with this whole idea that you always come last. Everybody is first. You're always last. When you get married, your spouse is first. But then when you have kids, (we don't say this, but we do this), we end up putting our kids even before our spouse. So in many families, this is how it looks. Your kids are first. Your spouse might come in there second. Friends, neighbors, responsibilities, jobs. Third, if you have a relationship with the Lord. He's probably third or fourth in there, somewhere in the mix. And then you are, like, on the bottom, bottom, bottom of the totem pole. And somehow that's supposed to make us feel like we're great mothers or we're great parents. That is so lopsided, and it's so destructive to you, and it's also destructive to your family.  Find the full show notes at https://realrelationshiptalk.com/episode159.    Links Mentioned in this Episode:  Episode 157: When You Disagree on How to Discipline the Kids  Take my Free “How Connected a Partner Are You” Quiz  Episode 155: Why Your Kids Need You to Get a Room  7 Lessons Your Marriage is Teaching Your Kids  Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.