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 In this episode, Ashley shares her powerful story of overcoming domestic abuse. Ashley recounts her tumultuous marriage marked by emotional and psychological abuse, her journey through a traumatic childbirth experience, and her eventual separation. She discusses the impact of her childhood abuse, her struggle with self-doubt, and the challenges of single motherhood with special needs children. Ashley also shares how her faith and community support played vital roles in her healing journey. The episode concludes with Ashley's advice for others in abusive situations to prioritize self-care and seek supportive communities. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:34 Meet Ashley: A Survivor's Story 01:38 Ashley's Background and Journey 04:19 Challenges of Parenting Special Needs Children 05:12 Coping During the Pandemic 06:55 Ashley's Upbringing and Faith Journey 14:21 Meeting Her Husband and Early Red Flags 16:15 The Birth of Ashley's Children 21:34 Experiencing Abuse and Control 23:26 Realizing the Extent of Abuse 24:15 Deciding to Leave 25:42 The Second Separation 32:05 Ongoing Abuse During Divorce 35:02 Healing and Support 38:56 Faith and Moving Forward 41:53 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement   Website: https://dswministries.org Subscribe to the podcast: https://dswministries.org/subscribe-to-podcast/ Social media links: Join our Private Wounds of the Faithful FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1603903730020136 Twitter: https://twitter.com/DswMinistries YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxgIpWVQCmjqog0PMK4khDw/playlists Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dswministries/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DSW-Ministries-230135337033879 Keep in touch with me! 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They do it all with a written guarantee for results so you don't waste time and money on a program that doesn't exceed your goals. There are martial arts programs. Specialize in anti-bullying programs for kids to combat proven Filipino martial arts. They take a holistic, fun, and innovative approach that simply works. Sign up for your free class now. It's 7 5 3 academy.com. Find the link in the show notes. Welcome to the Wounds of the Faithful Podcast, brought to you by DSW Ministries. Your host is singer songwriter, speaker and domestic violence advocate, [00:01:00] Diana. She is passionate about helping survivors in the church heal from domestic violence and abuse and trauma. This podcast is not a substitute for professional counseling or qualified medical help. Now here is Diana. So today on the wounds of the Faithful podcast, we have a survivor story today. So please welcome Ashley to the show. Thanks for coming on the podcast and sharing a bit of yourself with us. Hi. You're welcome. I'm glad to be here. I haven't seen you since the girls. We went over to Starbucks for an outing and we had that incident with the spider. Yes, I know. Multiple spiders crawling around the table and on you. Oh, well I thought that Kelly had killed the one on the ground and then we found out there was another [00:02:00] one and it was on my shoulder and you wanna see me freak out? Okay, that's how you get me to freak out is a spider. So here we are trying to kill the spider. But we had a good time. It was fun. Just fun to get out. It was a hot day. We were out there roasting in the heat, but it was just fun to get out and, have some girl time. Right? Yes, definitely. We needed it. So, let's, get to know you a little better. So give us a little introduction about yourself. What general part of the country are you from, and are you married? How many kids you got, what do you do for a living? That kind of stuff. Okay. Well my name is Ashley, and I live in Arizona. I've been here for five years now. I was living in North Carolina with my husband and our family for, we were on the East coast for about, oh gosh, probably about eight years or so. And, living in, in North Carolina, Virginia, and [00:03:00] that area. So I met Diana through Mending the Soul. I joined because I have been separated from my husband for, about a year now. We've been separated twice and that was due to abuse that was going on in the marriage. So I have a history of abuse in my life, starting from when I was little. There was abuse that happened outside of the home, with. People that were slightly older than me. And that was more of like a, sexual abuse or molestation kind of situation. And then getting married, I thought it was a good relationship. I thought we were a good team. And we, I think it, it was okay for a while until we had children and that's when things started. Unraveling and a lot of patterns started popping up all over the place of, all kinds of a abuse that, not physical, but it was [00:04:00] emotional, mental, psychological, spiritual abuse, all of those. And I'm still kind of working through and wrestling with the effects that that had on me. And it's still, I mean, I have good days and I have really, really hard days. So it's kind of, it's still, even though it's been a year of being apart, it's still all over the place. Mm-hmm. Um, but I do feel like I'm making progress and, many, the soul did help with that along with counseling. So that's where I'm at right now and I'm currently going to school to get, to become a speech language pathology assistant. And, I have about just one semester left of that. And then I know I'm so excited to, hopefully get to work with kids that are, you know, having difficulties for whatever reason. And I am a special needs mom. My, middle child has autism and. So that's been a journey. And then my youngest also has struggles in certain areas of learning. So, yeah, this [00:05:00] will help me also, while being able to help other people. So that's where I'm at right now. So your special needs kids, what kind of challenges does that bring as a single mom and going through abuse? Mm. Oh gosh. I hadn't really thought of it in that context before, but it's a lot because you're, as a parent, you're trying to focus on their needs and trying to meet them where they're at, but at the same time, you're trying to meet yourself where you're at. So it's constantly trying to think of everyone's needs and trying to meet everyone where they are, including myself. So it is, it's a lot to think through. Every day. Yeah, but I love 'em and I mean, it's amazing to see their growth and, yeah. But it is definitely a struggle. So your kids free today, get a break, but how have you been coping during the pandemic with your kids? [00:06:00] What have you found that works? Yeah, so thankfully I've been talking to family about this also, our schedule. Because of Kim, his running his elopement, we have a hard time going to a lot of places already. So even before the pandemic, we didn't go to a lot of stores or we mostly spent our time outside and at home. So that really, I think, helped set us up for this situation because it wasn't a huge jump, you know, from being out around people all the time to nothing. So we were already kind of ready in some ways. So it's a lot of time outside as much as we can. The kids love roller skating. They love swimming. They love, yeah, just being outside doing anything they can. So that, and then, even doing games inside the house together is fun, like pillow fights or box, like my youngest likes to, like, he's practicing boxing and he loves to, [00:07:00] like I put on the oven MITs, and then he has his little boxing gloves, which is so cute. It's, it's fun. And, just trying to get their energy out. And then I work out also, so we're trying to like get all that energy from all of us. So it's, that's been good. Well, it's pretty funny. When we've had group, you know, the kids are there, three boys, like climbing all over her and poking her and mom, mom, mom. And she's trying to focus on, her part in the group, and, you just do the best you can, right? Yep. Exactly. That's, I think it's learning to just roll with it, so it's like, yeah, and like the pandemic continues to teach us that I think is, we just have to be able to roll with it as it comes. Wow. Oh, so tell us a little bit more about your upbringing. Were you raised in a Christian home? Not with my mom and my stepdad, who I lived with later, but my grandparents, who I lived with when I was little, they took me to the Nazarene Church and I was a part of that [00:08:00] community, so I was a part of a church. I don't particularly remember learning about Jesus or, salvation in particular. I just remember just in general learning about. God in general. And so that's kind of how I was raised. And then when I moved in with my mom and my stepdad, they're not a part of any faith community. So I would go either with friends to church, and then when I was older I would just go by myself, drove, I drove myself there. And and that's kind of how it started. What kind of relationship would you say you had with God? Was it personal? Was it God was distant or? Uh, I think when I was very little, I didn't feel like I had a relationship really, but always as I got older, I remember always feeling like he was there. I remember always feeling like I didn't quite understand how I knew that, but he just, I just felt like he was there with me. And then as I [00:09:00] continued. Learning more and especially after Ava, or sorry, especially after my daughter was born, I really realized the connection with Jesus and got, had my relationship with God through him. And so that's when it really became very personal. So like in the last 10 years, more so. Do you remember when you actually made that decision? Was there a day? Yeah, I don't remember the date, but, we had started having struggles in our marriage pretty soon after Ava was born and I was feeling so confused and so lost and like I needed to be doing more. And so I was going through the Love Dare book and in there it was really a really good book for that moment. And it lays out. Scripture each day. And at the end, it gives you an opportunity to accept Jesus. And I remember being so blown away during that book because no one had ever explained to me the importance of Jesus [00:10:00] and what he did for me. And so when I was like, why have I not heard this? Like, oh my gosh. And yeah. And so at the end I remember just sitting at the table crying, crying, like I could not stop crying. And it was like something inside of me just clicked and, yeah, so I said the prayer and, every, a lot of things changed after that and continued to change. Wow. That's, I've never heard a story like that. You know, I had The Love Dare book, actually, the guy I was dating. Mm-hmm. That was abusive to me, gave me that book, and it was really strange. He tried to get me to go back to my ex-husband, who was my one abuser, and, it was an excellent book, but at that time. There wasn't going to be any parting of the Red Sea Miracle with my ex-husband. I kept telling this guy, we're already divorced. It's over. Yes, I'm moving on. Yes. But it's amazing that you found Jesus through that book. I praise the [00:11:00] Lord for that. I know, and that's the, I think it's interesting because I started reading that book to help with the marriage. And it did somewhat, but I think the most, it was cool because God met me where I was doing what I was doing, you know? And it didn't matter why I started it. Yeah. It's just so cool. Amazing. So what were your teenage years like? Did you have a lot of self-confidence growing up? Oh gosh. I would say no. I mean, middle school was really hard for me. I had a lot of rejection and embarrassing things happen, and they kind of linked with the abuse. That happened when I was younger. And so that kind of, I spiraled quite a bit there and I just, I think, decided that I wanted to protect myself. And so I decided, okay, I'm gonna get straight A's in school. I'm gonna run track and I'm gonna do [00:12:00] the best I can with that and I'm not gonna get in trouble. And I just made all these like promises to myself, I think, to protect myself. So I think I appeared on the outside probably like I had. I a lot of confidence, but it really was protection and so I don't feel like it was confidence at all. It was all rooted in fear and trying to protect myself. So, no, I don't think I did. Mm. Now how did your grandparents play a part in your life? They were very significant. Mm-hmm. And they, yeah, they still, they're a huge part still. Yeah. I mean, it's hard to put into words everything that they've done, but they gave me a safe place. They've always been a safe place for me. And no matter what they, I have never felt abandoned by them. I've never felt judged by them. I've never felt, like they didn't try to understand me so they've always, they've been a consistent, safe place. Throughout my whole life. And [00:13:00] so even in those hard times, I, I did always know they were there. And, I would call my grandma instead of talking to my mom or anyone else, I would always call my grandma and talk to her. And she kind of helped me work through in college when I finally, I think I was hitting another breaking point in college when I was drinking a lot and really depressed. Honestly, I was running track at a college and. Trying to perform still, but then partying also. And there were these two parts of me that were like colliding and it was so painful and I didn't know how to get out of this situation. And so she helped me a lot through that also. And then later with my realizing the abuse with Dan, with my husband, and deciding to make changes there, she helped me a lot through that Also. Hmm. So yeah, her support has meant the world. I didn't really grow up with traditional grandparents. I didn't, my grandfathers died long before I was even cognitive, [00:14:00] and my dad's mother died when I was seven. And then my mother's mother, we didn't have a very close relationship because she was a very abusive person, and my mother mm-hmm. Didn't, my mother didn't want us around her and she really was a, nasty person. But, so I didn't really grow up with grandparents. I think that's why I was always friends with a lot of senior citizens. Were my good friends because I didn't have grandparents. I had, teachers and coaches and, the next door neighbor. Mm-hmm. I kind of clung too. So it was a blessing that you had have grandparents to be there for you and guide you through these tough times? Yes. Yeah. It's, it is. I mean, thinking about if I didn't have them, it's been hard enough. Even having that support. So I can't imagine not having that support. It's been, it literally feels like a gift. That God has put there to help me [00:15:00] get through all of this. And, yeah. So I'm just really thankful. So we're gonna transition to the unsavory part of the podcast. When did you meet your husband and were there any warning signs, that there was going to be abuse? So we met, we were both attending Arizona State University and we met there. We were part of a co-ed business fraternity. And, we met at a party and we, I mean, I felt like right away that I wanted to be with this person, even though I didn't know him. As I was telling you before, like I was in a really unhealthy place. All through college. It's because I, everything from my childhood hadn't been addressed and was still, all that pain was under the surface. And I think I was just trying to cover it up any way I could by drinking, sleeping with people. And, that's kind of where our relationship started. That's how it started in that [00:16:00] kind of context and. So we were both in a really unhealthy place. I think his, parents had just started the divorce process, I think when I met him. And he had a lot of pain from his childhood too. And so I think we both were just trying to cover up the pain. And so in the beginning I couldn't see any red flags because we were very similar, I think, in how we were. Covering up things and living life. And so it wasn't until really, until we had kids, because my attention was divided between him and the kids and my, and needing to take care of myself once my attention was divided, that's when all of the. The pattern started bubbling up, so I couldn't see it until quite a bit later. Mm. Wow. So when your children came along, you had a pretty dark time for you. Did you wanna share [00:17:00] about the, birth of your children? Yeah, I can. So my daughter's birth. Was overall good. We had to have a c-section because she was, she was not head down. She was bottom down and she did not wanna flip, which is totally, it's funny 'cause she's very, like kind of stubborn in her own way. And so it's funny that she just was like, Nope. Like, I'm good right here. I'm not moving. And so yeah, the C-section went well and, but. I remember I felt so sad in the hospital. I was so happy to see her, but at the same time, I think seeing her face and seeing how vulnerable she was as a baby, I think triggered everything in me at a whole new level from what happened when I was younger. So that's how her birth was difficult. And then, or my second child's birth. Was a slightly difficult Also, I was trying to have a [00:18:00] VBAC and the cord was wrapped around his, around his neck and his heart rate was dropping and so we had to go in for an emergency C-section. That one, went pretty well too. Overall, given the circumstances and everything. So it wasn't until a lot, our third child's birth. That was really, really difficult. And during that I was trying for another vbac, which looking back I wish I had not done that. But I was trying because I felt like that's, I really wanted that experience. And so I was trying and I found a doctor that would support me in doing that. And, um. It was, the birth was taking too long. I was kind of stalled in labor and they, I had an epidural and. I couldn't feel very much, but at one point I felt a pop. And this was as they were planning to get me into the [00:19:00] emerge, into the room to deliver, to via C-section. They were already planning it. We were just trying to get in there once it was open and available. Mm-hmm. And I felt this pop as they were planning this. And, I didn't know to say anything because I didn't. No, anything was wrong. I couldn't feel any pain. And we get into the emergency room, no, still no one knows anything has happened. And he's allowed to be awake and okay. And so I'm still awake and they find the, the rupture in my uterus. And I lost about probably half my blood and, and so that was very, very traumatic in and of itself. Getting out of the hospital was difficult because my blood still didn't look quite right to them. My blood work and everything, they weren't happy with it. And so, but I went home. And decided not to get a blood transfusion. Just because I didn't feel comfortable with it. [00:20:00] I ended up developing a hematoma and an infection, and had to go back in the hospital and was on antibiotics. I think it was about a week I was in there and. So when I came home, I was experiencing PTSD symptoms, but didn't understand that's what it was. Mm-hmm. I literally thought I was going to die all the time. I thought I was every minute of the day. Mm-hmm. I was checking to see what was happening in my body. Because I thought I was going to die for sure. And so I kept wanting to go to the hospital because I felt like what if I'm, I missed the infection before, I didn't know I had this infection. No one was telling me that I looked sick, you know? And I could have died from that infection. And, so yeah, I kept wanting to go to the hospital to see a doctor, just to make sure I was okay. And. I didn't understand what was happening to me, but at the time [00:21:00] he would tell me I didn't need to go to the doctor, you know, and yell at me that I, nothing was wrong with me, that I was fine telling me I didn't need to go to the doctor, making me feel bad about it. I was struggling to take care of the kids, because I was going through all this and not understanding what was happening. So this is where I really, really started to know that something was wrong, in the marriage because of how he handled this situation. So. Yeah, this is his children that he's talking about Most, you know, normal people. If you're, if you're suffering and it involves your kids or your spouse, you're gonna take them to the hospital. That's, that isn't normal. No. Even when I had the infection in my fever. I had started at home and I was shaking like I was, I couldn't stop. Like I would [00:22:00] shake out of the blue. My body would just, that's how far the infection had progressed. And he still was kind of telling me that I didn't need to go. But thankfully my doctor was like, you can come in tonight if you think you need to. And I was like, yes, I need to. Yes. When can I be over there like yesterday? Yes. So was that the first time that you've experienced abuse by him or were there other stuff on top of the post pregnancy and delivery stuff? There was, I mean, there was stuff here and there definitely like control over money, like making me feel bad about buying groceries like that. I spent too much, when I just, I mean I am very frugal. Like I love finding deals. I love all that. I mean, I am into that. I always have been. I am very particular about what I buy and mm-hmm. And I still, no matter how hard I tried to do a good [00:23:00] job, I would come home and it would not be good enough and it would be that I spent too much money. And so, yeah, it's definitely control stuff. I saw I was happening before, but I kind of took it on as this is something I'm doing wrong. And so it wasn't until the medical stuff happened that I realized. That I started to realize a little bit that maybe it was something else. Yeah. You're not the only one that had that. Mm-hmm. Had that problem with the spending money. I was in charge of getting groceries and buying all the Christmas gifts for his family, and it was always the same thing. You spent too much money and mm-hmm. And you bought too many groceries, like, well, why don't you try and get a full, week budget on a hundred bucks and see how good you do. Exactly. Or you buy all the presents for your family and see how well you do on the budget you gave me. [00:24:00] Yeah. The control, the verbal and emotional abuse. Mm-hmm. It's not just physical folks. Your abuser can make your life a living hell without laying a finger on you. Yes, and I think that's what I'm realizing now is I still have physical, issues related to the abuse that happened when Elijah was born. I have heart palpitations that I believe. Come from a mixture of what happened to me physically, but also what happened to me emotionally, that I felt so abandoned and so, confused during that time because of what was being told to me by, by my husband and. Yeah, and just realizing the extent that the damage goes, it's very different than, I mean, physical abuse and emotional abuse have some similarities, but Yeah. The, depths doesn't change just because we can't see it [00:25:00] on the outside. Exactly. Mm-hmm. When did you decide, enough is enough? I need to get out now. Was there a specific day or an event? Well, there were two, I mean two, it happened twice. So it happened in North Carolina. He was continuing to escalate as far as like telling me he was suicidal, which I believe he is. But he seems to, he uses it in certain ways to get me to stop doing things that he doesn't want me to be doing, like spending time by myself outside of the house or spending time with friends. Um. You know, not being able to have intimacy and things like that. So he uses that as a way to get me to stop. And so that was escalating also. He had started using intimidation, punching walls in the house, that kind of thing. So, and the friend had [00:26:00] just, I had never, no one had ever told me that what was happening was abuse. And I didn't know. I honestly did not know. And someone had just. That who had come from an abusive marriage had pointed out to me that I had told her what was happening at home. And she was like, that is abuse. And I was like, what? Are you serious? Mm-hmm. Like I was in shock that I didn't know that. And I think that was just a wake up call for me. When I have confronted it, he pushed back right against it and wanted me to come back home. He and, I, the kids and I had moved to a different house and, we're trying to figure out what to do and that's when I decided to move closer to my family. And so that was the first time we got back together about nine months after we separated. 'cause I just, I think I. I was struggling physically to [00:27:00] handle everything on my own, plus dealing with my mental health. And it was really hard. And I think I was struggling with how am I going to do this? And I missed having someone to share life with. I missed. And I thought, what if I'm wrong? What if I am, what if I'm wrong? And I'm just as messed up as he is? And, um, which I do have my stuff, but it's different. It's not the same. And so we got back together and then about, I think it was about three years after we got back together, all the same patterns had come back up. Mm-hmm. And it had started transferring over to things happening with the kids that as far as control and just emotionally abusive language towards them. And when I started seeing how it was affecting the kids, that's when I decided. No, I cannot let this continue. Because seeing that affect them, how it could affect them [00:28:00] being exposed to that long term, I can't handle that. So I think the kids have really, really helped me to do things for them and for myself that maybe I wouldn't, it would've taken me longer to do it if it was just for me, I think. So yeah, that's kind of how that happened. Yeah, I didn't have children early in the relationship. My ex didn't want kids right away, but then we were married about five to seven year mark then all of a sudden he decided he wanted to have children. And by that time, I already knew I was trapped in a marriage that was abusive and I did not wanna bring children into this world and subject them to that. Because like you say, it's fun if it's just me, but now I have kids that I am in charge of and you know, it's going to affect them. So I just made the decision and I told him, I'm not having children. Mm-hmm. [00:29:00] Sorry, I already have to deal with everything in the marriage that I didn't have. I wouldn't have had any, anything left. But, you made a lot of big points in that you didn't know that you were abused. And I was the same way. I was abused for 13 years and I used to call up my, one of my closest friends, and I used to cry every time. You know, this man would do something horrible and I would cry, and what am I gonna do? And mm-hmm. And one day, you know, she tells me. I'm tired of you calling me up and telling me all your stories. Every time this man does something to you and you need to get out of there. He's an abusive man and I'm like, but the church won't let me get a divorce. And she said, God is not going to not love you anymore [00:30:00] because you've made the choice to divorce this abusive man. That was the day that I, I woke up and I'm like, this is abuse. Mm-hmm. All this time, that's what this was. Mm-hmm. And I made the choice then and there, I need to make plans to get out. Mm-hmm. So , when you decided to leave the second time, what were the steps that you took to get out? I. Hmm. Let's see. So what was that? Was it similar to the first time or was it different? It was a little bit different. I'm trying to think through it. I was more on my own this time. I didn't like, I didn't have someone, I wasn't seeing a counselor at the time. I wasn't really a part of a group. I think I was the most isolated probably that I have been. [00:31:00] And so I really, I just, I think I talked to my grandma and just telling her what was happening. I also listened to some resources from Leslie Vernick and there was one in particular, I can't even remember what it was called, but it was about. Oh gosh, I can't remember specifically, but it was how a man was treating his wife in the Bible. And I think it was the Levite, maybe the story of the Levite. And when I saw their, just the implications of abuse and the effects and the seriousness of it, and that's not what God wants for me. I think once I saw that. I, that's when it really clicked. And I was also getting solo physically that I knew I had to do something. My body was starting to react, to all of the stress and [00:32:00] abuse. Heart palpitations, just constantly tense, feeling like something's going to happen. And so I think all of those things and seeing the effect on our kids, that's when I decided just to. Let him know that I'm not okay with it. And I'm trying to remember even we had a conversation and I let him know, I think we need to be separated. And at the time he agreed with me that we need to be separated, but he wanted us to stay in relationship still, even though we were separated. But I knew in my head that I was done. But it was good be that because that kind of started the process even though he thought that. You know, in his head he thought we would work it out eventually, I think it started the process and we lived in separate places. And then it just has continued from there with filing divorce. Hmm. So you're still in the middle of the divorce proceedings now, right? Yes. Mm-hmm. What's your [00:33:00] interactions been with him, through this proceedings? It's been. Just on and off communication. He, that's with him. He's not outrightly like, glaringly abusive, especially in text messages. That's never been how he is really, it's more covert. So the communication part, except for about a year ago, we had a situation where he wouldn't leave the house and, that's when I stopped being able to let him be here with the kids. But besides that, the communication has been minimal, thankfully. It's more been through money that the abuse has continued. And also through the legal proceedings, what he's asking for legally feels like abuse also. So yeah, he was like canceling credit cards and stuff on you. Yes, exactly. Yeah. Yeah. So it's those like subtle, [00:34:00] under the radar where people won't notice really that the abuse is still happening. Yeah. So you look like the bad guy 'cause you're leaving mm-hmm. Your husband, but he's like, trying to sell the house out from under you and the kids and cutting your credit cards. And it's like, how are you gonna feed the children? Where are they gonna sleep? I mean, these are your children. It's insane. Yeah. Your spouse makes you look like. Or makes you feel like you've lost your mind. Or like you said in the first time you left, well, maybe he's not that bad. Maybe I'm crazy. Maybe it's not him, it's me. No, that's what they do. That's what they do, is they make you question your sanity and the reality of the situation. Mm. And that's still, that is the hardest part for me, especially right now with thinking about having to share my story with the court, with [00:35:00] people maybe who side with Dan. And having him there in front of me as I share what has happened. I'm really struggling even right now with, yeah. Do I know what's real? Can I, can I hold on to that? And. Not get confused. Mm-hmm. So that's how the effects of psychological abuse go so deep. Like even if you know the truth, it can create this pattern in your brain where you start questioning yourself, questioning what you know. And you and I tend to go back to. Seeing it as my fault. So I really have to push back against that and be around people who help me remember the truth and keep telling my, reminding myself of what's happened and this is real. This is not something that I'm making up. So how did you start the healing process? Us? Oh gosh. I mean, I think it's been a constant process of trying to put [00:36:00] myself around people. Like I said, who will tell me the truth and, um, about myself and about the situation and how God sees me. So I went back to counseling. Recently after Mending Arm mending the Soul Group ended. I realized I needed to be around people still, and I needed people to speak that truth. So I went back to counseling and that's helped a lot. Still listening to, voices that remind me. Of how toxic that kind of situation is, and that I don't need to stay in that environment. And also it's just, I think a process of acknowledging how much all of it hurt, acknowledging the damage that was done, and just the reality, letting myself accept the reality of the situation. While also taking care of myself, like mentally, physically, and all of that. So it's definitely, it feels like a full-time, full-time job sometimes just, trying to keep myself going in the right [00:37:00] direction. But I'm definitely, I feel like I'm learning about what I need and, trying to meet those needs the best I can. Would you recommend manning this all to others? What was your experience with the group? Definitely, yes, I would recommend it. Yeah, that was a first for me, being around other women who have been through abuse, and I think that alone is huge. Just being able to hear other people's stories and realizing that the patterns are the same, even though the situations are so different and the effects can be very similar too. And, and also the steps to healing and processing what happened are so good. So it's just that combination of community with people who have been through it, and also the path to working through the, what happened to you. Well, I'm glad that it was so helpful to you. I've definitely seen some changes in you from the beginning when you joined the [00:38:00] group and now. So that, I hope that's an encouragement to you. You seem so more confident and you recognize those red flags. You understand now what he's doing to you when he's talking to you. He is gaslighting you. He is narcissistic. He is being manipulative. You're recognizing those things, whereas you might not have seen those things before. Mm-hmm. And, talking to our listeners that are going through abuse right now, or maybe they just left their abuser, what advice would you give to someone else who's being abused right now? Hmm. I think that, I would say to take care of yourself, and to think about what you really need. That it is not wrong to think about. What you need and where you are at. I feel like a lot of times, especially in [00:39:00] Christian communities, we take on this idea that I think thinking about ourselves and what we need is selfish or wrong, and I feel like that kind of, that mentality set me up to stay in that situation a lot longer, than I probably should have. So yeah, just considering what you really need, and. Getting people around you that will help you decide what steps you need to take, to get into a better position, a better situation where you can have healing, and, and just to yeah, feel better. So I would say, yeah, take care of yourself and get people around you that can support you and help you make a plan. Very good advice. What would you say your relationship with God is like now that you've gone through some of your healing process? Hmm. It's definitely, it's good, but I do, I still [00:40:00] struggle with, Not putting the characteristics. And protecting myself from God, I guess I have a hard time, like not distancing myself, and so it's always reminding myself that he is safe, that he cares about me, that he's leading me through this, and that I can trust him. So it is really good, but it is a constant, a, a journey also reminding myself of the truth over and over so that I can keep coming back to him and not hiding. Oh, that's, that is so true. It is a journey and it's messy Sometimes it's, but God understands he's there and he's gonna be patient and waiting for you while you're still figuring things out and, mm-hmm. Awesome. So like we have a music segment at the end of the episode. I don't suppose you're sing or play an instrument or juggle or anything like that. No. I play the, but I [00:41:00] don't have it. Oh, how about a joke? You got any jokes, kid jokes, cheesy jokes? No. Don't have any jokes? No. Oh, well, no. How about, I know that you have one of these. How about what's a Christian song that really encourages you and that you just go to it whenever you're having a bad day. Oh my gosh. I think I mentioned this one during the group actually. Mm-hmm. I can't remember the title of it, but it's, it's the one, like, he's greater than All My Mistakes. Gosh, I wish I can remember who, oh, I can't remember the name of the band. But anyway, it's something about, greater than all my mistakes, and if you type that in, it should come up. But it's amazing and it just talks about how, it's just such a peaceful song to me and just realizing that he really is, he's greater than all my mistakes. The mistake that I made of being in a relationship with someone that's abusive. Mm-hmm. [00:42:00] Any mistakes I make with the kids, mistakes I make with putting characteristics on God that aren't him, anything that I do, nothing is big enough that is going to change his relationship with me. And that he's always there, waiting for me to, turn and look at him. So, yeah, I love that song. I'll definitely put that in the show notes for people to look that up. 'cause I did listen to it when you mentioned it the first time and it is an awesome song. Yes. But I so appreciate you coming onto the show and sharing your journey with us. You're welcome. Thank you so much for having me. So I hope you really enjoyed Ashley's story today. She had a lot of great nuggets to share with you, and I've heard her story before, of course, in a lot more detail, a lot more gory detail, but you can tell that she is an awesome lady, an [00:43:00] awesome mother who's gone through so much, so many challenges. Yet, the Lord has really blessed her life, blessed her kids. How did you feel about what Ashley said? Can you relate to any of the struggles that she's had that she's continuing to go through? You have a prayer request that you'd like me to bring before the Lord. I have my personal time with the Lord usually at breakfast time, so I'd be honored to pray for you. So until next week. Choose one thing, just once, small thing today to get you closer to your healing goals. Thank you and God bless. Thank you for listening to the Wounds of the Faithful Podcast. If this episode has been helpful to you. Please hit the subscribe button and tell a friend. You could connect with us at DSW Ministries dot org where you'll find [00:44:00] our blog, along with our Facebook, Twitter, and our YouTube channel links. Hope to see you next week.    

Kirk Cameron joins Timon and Josh to talk about the See You at the Library initiative, America's Christian heritage, culture building, and why teaching our children biblical virtue is essential for national renewal.     Notes: https://bravebooks.us/pages/see-you-at-the-library   Kirk Cameron is known by millions as “Mike Seaver” from the 1980's sit-com “Growing Pains.” Since then, Kirk starred in “Fireproof” - the #1 inspirational movie of the year and inspired the best-selling book “The Love Dare” - as well as the movies “Left Behind”, “Monumental”, produced his newest film “Lifemark” with the Kendrick Brothers about the value of life in the womb and the beauty of adoption, and produced the documentary “The Homeschool Awakening” about the growing homeschooling movement. Kirk hosts TBN's television series “Takeaways with Kirk Cameron” and “One on One with Kirk Cameron” and co-hosted the series “The Way of the Master”. Recently, he has been featured in the press, talking about his “American Campfire Revival” livestream, events, and podcast, urging the family of faith to return to the principles that will bring blessing and protection to America. Kirk recently authored the children's book “As You Grow” that teaches Biblical principles and character   Learn more about Kirk Camera's work work: https://www.kirkcameron.com/ https://bravebooks.us/pages/brave-plus   ––––––   Follow American Reformer across Social Media: X / Twitter – https://www.twitter.com/amreformer Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/AmericanReformer/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@AmericanReformer Rumble – https://rumble.com/user/AmReformer Website – https://americanreformer.org/   Promote a vigorous Christian approach to the cultural challenges of our day, by donating to The American Reformer: https://americanreformer.org/donate/   Follow Us on Twitter: Josh Abbotoy – https://twitter.com/Byzness Timon Cline – https://twitter.com/tlloydcline   The American Reformer Podcast is  hosted by Josh Abbotoy and Timon Cline, recorded remotely in the United States, and edited by Jared Cummings.   Subscribe to our Podcast, "The American Reformer" Get our RSS Feed – https://americanreformerpodcast.podbean.com/ Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-american-reformer-podcast/id1677193347 Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/1V2dH5vhfogPIv0X8ux9Gm?si=a19db9dc271c4ce5

In this episode of the Present Fathers podcast, Stephen Kendrick shares his journey into filmmaking and how it intertwines with his faith and fatherhood. He emphasizes the importance of fatherhood, the roles fathers play in their children's lives, and how filmmaking can serve as a ministry. Kendrick discusses the significance of connecting with children, the seven essential roles of a father, and the balance between leadership and compassion. He also touches on the impact of technology in filmmaking and the importance of staying relevant to younger generations. How to find Stephen: Website: https://kendrickbrothers.com/ X: https://x.com/KendrickBros

What if protecting unity in your marriage became your highest priority? When spouses selflessly serve one another through humility and sacrifice, love brings unity to relationships that mirror Christ's devotion to His church. Discover with Kirk how identifying areas of division and surrendering personal rights transforms your marriage into the sacred covenant that reflects God's perfect design. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What sustains your devotion when feelings fade and challenges mount? Kirk unveils how love's motivation must transcend your spouse's worthiness and become an offering to God Himself. This powerful perspective provides unwavering strength during difficult seasons, mirroring Christ's unconditional love for us despite our brokenness. Redirecting your love's source from your spouse to God creates the foundation for a legendary marriage that impacts generations. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What invisible burdens is your spouse silently carrying today? By following Christ's ultimate example of selfless giving, you can become the healing balm your partner desperately needs. In this transformative episode, Kirk reveals how love makes sacrifices by proactively detecting and meeting your spouse's hidden needs rather than dwelling on your own struggles. Small, intentional acts of sacrifice can dramatically strengthen your marriage and demonstrate authentic love in action. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are your expectations crushing the relationship you hoped would fulfill you? Constant criticism never inspires change—it only creates resistance and resentment in your marriage. For Day 27, Kirk illustrates that love encourages. When you focus on strengths rather than flaws, you become a complimentary wing rather than a critical anchor. By eliminating unrealistic demands, offering sincere praise, and backing up your words with consistent actions, you create space for your spouse to flourish into the person God designed them to be. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a textThe Love Dare, based on the movie Fireproof, has been a huge best-selling marriage book for two decades. But does it actually contain good advice? Today on episode 280 of the Bare Marriage podcast, we show how The Love Dare simply regurgitates all the typical harmful evangelical marriage advice, telling women to make themselves smaller; never bring up issues; paper over problems; and, of course, never divorce, even if you're being abused.OUR SPONSOR:Thank you to our sponsor, Zondervan and the book Saving Face. The church needs to get away from harmful tropes, and call us towards true community based on vulnerability and safety. Aimee Byrd points the way! TO SUPPORT US: Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our workFor tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko FoundationAnd check out our Merch, or any of our courses!Join our email list!LINKS MENTIONED:Our Harmful Materials stickers to put on your problematic booksAll of our one sheets: Our new book The Marriage You WantJoin Sheila on her social media channels: Instagram, YouTube, Threads, FacebookOur podcast on forgiveness after traumaJoin Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!Check out her books: The Great Sex Rescue She Deserves Better The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.

What happens when you stop blaming your spouse and take responsibility for your part? A thriving marriage requires tending like a garden—neglect leads to wilting, while proper care produces abundant fruit. For Day 26 of the Love Dare, Kirk reveals how love is responsible. We first confess our failures to God, then humbly apologize to our spouse regardless of their response. This breakthrough tears down walls of resistance and builds bridges of communication that can transform your marriage and model healthy conflict resolution for your children. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you holding someone captive in the prison of unforgiveness within your heart? Forgiveness doesn't declare others innocent—it simply releases you from being their judge and punisher. Refusing to forgive traps both you and your offender in a cell of bitterness. Love forgives not because the offense wasn't real, but because you've been forgiven far more by God. Kirk exhorts listeners to release others to His justice, unlocking your own freedom and creating space for healing in your relationships. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do we pursue forbidden pleasures when God has provided everything we need? The battle between love vs. lust rages in every marriage as we foolishly try to meet legitimate needs in illegitimate ways. Misguided affections lead down paths of destruction, just as Adam and Eve exchanged paradise for momentary pleasure. Gratitude becomes your most powerful weapon against these deceptions. In Day 24 of the Love Dare, Kirk explains how setting your heart on God's genuine satisfaction breaks you free from empty promises that never fulfill. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What can you do to protect your marriage from the enemies seeking to destroy it? Misplaced priorities, unhealthy relationships, and harmful influences all threaten to drain the life from your most sacred commitment. The parasites that attack marriages, particularly pornography addiction, create devastating impact. When love always protects, it creates boundaries against anything that would separate you from your spouse. Kirk encourages identifying these threats and dealing with them decisively before they destroy what matters most. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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What if your deepest desires were never meant to be fulfilled by your spouse? Discover how love is satisfied in God alone, freeing us from unrealistic marital expectations. Kirk reminds us that marriages transform when we stop demanding partners to be our complete source of contentment, and instead turn our hearts toward our Creator. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel loved by God? True love is more than an emotion—it's a person. Kirk's personal insights from his journey as a "recovering atheist" demonstrate God's love through everyday blessings and ultimate sacrifice. God's love is the key that unlocks our ability to love others, especially our spouse, even when it feels undeserved or unreciprocated. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can you love your spouse unconditionally through your own strength? On Day 19 of the Love Dare, we are reminded that love is impossible without being connected to its true source. Kirk shares a powerful analogy about branches disconnected from the vine and challenges listeners to examine their relationship with God as the foundation for loving others. Our failures can lead us to our greatest breakthrough on the Love Dare journey. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

By Stuart Kelly - The concept of a dare is nothing new. How can we use it to deepen our relationship with our mate and with God?

What if your spouse was a book waiting to be read? On day 18 of the Love Dare journey, Kirk shares how love seeks to understand through intentional study of your partner. Drawing from his courtship with Chelsea, he emphasizes creating safe spaces for vulnerability in marriage and invites couples to reconnect over a special dinner focused on discovering their spouse's dreams, fears, and deepest needs. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What makes a relationship truly safe? On Day 17 of the Love Dare, Kirk examines how marriage should be our most intimate friendship, not a guarded vault of secrets. Proverbs teaches that covering offenses promotes love, while rehearsing faults separates us. The path forward requires you to be intimate with your spouse so that they feel safe without fear of judgment. This mirrors God's approach—offering acceptance despite knowing our every flaw, creating foundation for both personal and national renewal. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wondered why you can so clearly see your spouse's faults? In Day 16 of the Love Dare, Kirk reveals this insight isn't for nagging, but for kneeling. He urges listeners to pray for your spouse's heart in three specific areas where you desire God's work. This spiritual investment shifts focus from trying to change your spouse to allowing God's miraculous intervention. National revival begins with faithfulness in our closest relationships, where God alone holds the power to transform hearts. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can honor transform a struggling marriage? For Day 15 of the Love Dare, we learn how treating your spouse as a "fellow heir of the grace of life" creates an atmosphere where love can flourish again. Kirk illustrates the difference between honoring someone because they deserve it versus honoring them because of their sacred position in your life. Kirk challenges listeners to show greater honor to your spouse above your normal tendency by listening more attentively and giving greater weight to their words. This covenant commitment becomes part of the self-governance essential to restoring our nation. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when your marriage becomes a battlefield instead of a sanctuary? In Day 14 of the Love Dare, we must learn to delight in our spouse regardless of changed appearances or difficult seasons. Kirk encourages listeners to purposefully neglect an activity so you can spend time with your spouse doing something they genuinely enjoy. This spiritual investment in your marriage serves as the foundation for family health and ultimately, national revival. True transformation begins when we lead our hearts rather than follow fickle emotions. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if every argument in your marriage could strengthen your relationship instead of tearing it down? In Day 13 of The Love Dare, Kirk examines Jesus' warning that a house divided cannot stand and shares practical boundaries for handling conflict without harming your relationship—like never mentioning divorce and refusing to bring up unrelated past issues. He challenges couples to talk with your spouse about healthy rules of engagement for fighting and to commit to personal resolutions like listening first and speaking gently. Changing your weapons from bridge-burners to bridge-builders can strengthen your marriage and reflect God's design for unity. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can a marriage truly thrive when spouses constantly clash over their differences? In this episode, Kirk draws wisdom from the surprising resilience of palm trees in hurricanes to reveal how flexibility in marriage leads to lasting strength. Through personal stories—including a humorous confession about his family's Chihuahua—he illustrates why choosing to give in to an area of disagreement with your spouse can actually lead to greater victory in your relationship. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What does it truly mean to cherish your spouse in a world that often treats relationships as disposable? In this episode, Kirk Cameron shares a powerful analogy—comparing a broken-down car to an injured hand—to illustrate God's design for marriage as something sacred and irreplaceable. Drawing from his personal experiences with faith, family legacy, and even his own heart health, Kirk reveals why viewing your spouse as an inseparable part of yourself can transform your relationship. Are you ready to move beyond routine love and embrace intentional cherishing? Discover how small gestures can warm the heart of your spouse. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when we base our love on how our spouse makes us feel? In Day 10 of The Love Dare, Kirk shares why lasting marriages need more than friendship and romantic attraction - they must be rooted in the same unconditional, covenant love God shows us. Your challenge today is to do something out of the ordinary for your spouse, demonstrating a love that's not based on behavior or circumstances. Getting heaven into our marriages can spark the revival America needs. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What's holding you back from transforming your marriage through simple, daily actions? In Day 9 of The Love Dare, Kirk challenges listeners to think of a way you would like to greet your spouse today, showing how these intentional moments can transform relationships. Let's talk about rekindling romance, practicing purposeful affection, and discovering how transformed marriages can spark revival across America. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can your marriage thrive if your heart harbors jealousy? In Day 8 of The Love Dare, Kirk breaks down the critical difference between righteous and destructive jealousy in relationships. With powerful examples from scripture and real-life application, he shows how unchecked envy can poison even the strongest marriages. As you continue your 40-day Love Dare journey, determine to become your spouse's biggest fan and reject any thoughts of jealousy. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When was the last time you truly appreciated your spouse? In Day 7 of The Love Dare, Kirk encourages us to write down positive and negative things about our spouse and reveals how this exercise that can transform any marriage. He takes listeners through an eye-opening journey into two rooms of the heart - appreciation and depreciation - showing how our choice of which room to dwell in shapes our relationships. Discover how intentionally focusing on the good can revolutionize your marriage. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What makes the difference between a peaceful home and one filled with tension? When we learn to react to tough circumstances in loving ways instead of with irritation, everything changes. Kirk weaves together life experiences and Scripture to demonstrate how love can transform our responses to daily frustrations, especially in marriage. Learn why being slow to anger is more valuable than conquering cities and discover practical steps to break free from the cycle of irritability. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the key to a stronger marriage started with a challenging question? Kirk shares powerful insights about how healthy families form the foundation of a flourishing nation, drawing wisdom from Founding Father Noah Webster. Through day five of the Love Dare challenge, he encourages listeners to take a bold step: ask your spouse to share three things that cause them to be irritated with you. Learn how confronting rudeness in marriage isn't just about manners – it's about modeling Christ's love in our homes and, in turn, helping restore America's spiritual heritage. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Can men and women ever truly understand each other's communication styles? Day 4 of the Love Dare illuminates the fascinating differences between how husbands and wives think and express themselves. Kirk encourages listeners to ask your spouse how they are doing and what you can do for them today, bridging the gap between masculine and feminine perspectives. Gain practical insights into becoming a more thoughtful partner who listens between the lines. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What role does selfishness play in destroying relationships? Kirk sheds light on how self-centered behavior erodes marriages, families, and even nations, revealing these timeless truths in Day 3 of the Love Dare. Through practical wisdom and biblical truth, Kirk challenges listeners to buy your spouse something today that shows you were thinking of them, demonstrating how small acts of selflessness can transform relationships. Learn why putting others first isn't just good for marriage—it's essential for building a strong society. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What makes the difference between patience that avoids conflict and love that creates connection? Kirk explores the second pillar of love—kindness—and reveals how it actively transforms relationships. Drawing from the story of the Good Samaritan and personal experiences, he challenges listeners to not only maintain patience but to do one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness for their spouse. Discover how taking the initiative to show kindness, even when it's difficult, can rekindle the thoughtfulness that first drew you and your spouse together. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What's the one thing that could transform your marriage starting today? Kirk reveals the powerful first step of the Love Dare, focusing on the foundational pillar of love: patience. Through Biblical wisdom and personal insights, he explains why choosing to say nothing negative to your spouse for 24 hours can be a game-changing challenge. Learn how genuine, unconditional love isn't about changing your partner, but about allowing God to change you. Take up this dare and watch as patience begins to transform your heart, your home, and your marriage. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if the secret to reviving America begins at home, in your own marriage? Drawing from the creation story in Genesis, Kirk shares how the marriage covenant forms an essential thread in the fabric of our nation's strength and purpose. He explores God's divine design for marriage as more than just companionship – it's a living picture of His love for the church and the foundation for transforming society. Join Kirk for an inspiring challenge to strengthen your marriage through "The Love Dare," a 40-day journey of unconditional love that could spark revival in your home and our nation. To learn more, visit kirkcameron.com  To learn more about the sponsor of today's show and what our family currently uses for our healthcare check out Christian Healthcare Ministries by visiting https://hubs.ly/Q02vWQGy0 Editing and production services provided by thepodcastupload.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit thewccs.substack.comWatch the trailer for this show here. We share our thoughts on the episode and that is then followed by a clip of Abiola from the show.In our latest episode of the Writing Community Chat Show, we had the privilege of sitting down with the remarkable Abiola Bello—an author whose journey is nothing short of inspiring. For those of you who are paid subscribers, the full episode is available right here for you to watch and listen. If you're not yet a paid member, don't worry! The full episode will be released to the public in two weeks.Abiola's story is one of resilience, grit, and undeniable talent. From writing her first novel at just eight years old to creating the groundbreaking Emily Knight series as a teenager, she has always been a trailblazer. But her success didn't come without its challenges.In our conversation, Abiola shared how she faced countless rejections, battled self-doubt, and navigated an industry that wasn't always open to her voice. As a Nigerian-British author writing stories that celebrate diverse characters and narratives, she was told repeatedly that publishers weren't ready for her vision.But instead of giving up, Abiola took matters into her own hands. She self-published the first Emily Knight book, built a fanbase, and eventually co-founded Hashtag Press to champion diverse stories. Her determination paid off in a big way—when her YA rom-com Love in Winter Wonderland went to auction, it sparked a bidding war between two major publishers. Abiola ultimately landed a six-figure deal with Simon & Schuster, cementing her place as a leading voice in contemporary YA fiction.During the episode, Abiola opened up about:* Overcoming rejection and the self-belief it takes to keep going.* The importance of creating diverse, inclusive stories where everyone can see themselves.* Her process of writing across multiple genres, from middle-grade fantasy to YA romance.* The highs and lows of her publishing journey—from self-publishing to winning major awards.* Her advice for aspiring authors and anyone facing setbacks in their creative journey.We also got a sneak peek into her latest release, The Love Dare—a summer romance filled with humor, heart, and the vibrant energy of Notting Hill Carnival. Abiola's ability to create unforgettable characters and emotionally rich stories is on full display in this book, and we can't wait for you to hear what she has to say about it.Abiola's journey is a powerful reminder that success is rarely a straight line. It's filled with obstacles, rejections, and moments of doubt. But as Abiola proves, if you stay true to your vision, keep working hard, and refuse to give up, the rewards can be life-changing.Watch the Full Episode NowPaid subscribers can enjoy the full episode right here. If you're not a paid member yet, consider subscribing to get early access to this and all our episodes, plus exclusive content. Otherwise, the episode will be available to all in two weeks.Thank you for supporting the Writing Community Chat Show! Let Abiola's story inspire you to keep chasing your creative dreams, no matter how many roadblocks you face.Paid members can see and watch the full video below this paid line.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-writing-community-chat-show--5445493/support.

Send us a Text Message.Happy Monday Friends! Filmmakers Alex and Stephen Kendrick have an incredible discussion with Ben and Lynley about their latest movie, The Forge. This film focuses on discipleship and following Jesus, and Alex and Stephen share their hearts behind making this film. They emphasize the importance of having a strong foundation in Christ and prioritizing Him above all else.  Alex Kendrick has dedicated his life to following Jesus Christ and making His truth and love known among the nations. After serving in church ministry for 20 years, he now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Stephen and Shannon. Alex directed and co-wrote the movies OVERCOMER, WAR ROOM, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF, FACING THE GIANTS,  FLYWHEEL, COURAGEOUS Legacy Edition, SHOW ME THE FATHER, and LIFEMARK. Alex co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. Alex and his wife, Christina, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are active members at Sherwood Church. After serving in church ministry for 20 years, Stephen Kendrick now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Alex and Shannon. Stephen produced and co-wrote the movies OVERCOMER, WAR ROOM, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF,  FACING THE GIANTS, COURAGEOUS, SHOW ME THE FATHER, and LIFEMARK. Stephen co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. He serves on the boards of the Fatherhood CoMission and the Christian Film Foundation. Stephen and his wife, Jill, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are also active members at Sherwood Church. As God moves you through a path of discipleship through surrender, our prayer is that you encourage others to join you in this path! Thanks for listening and sharing with a friend!SHOW LINKS: -theforgebooks.com-To find out more about the movie, buy tickets, or rent theaters go to: theforgemovie.com-To watch the trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szH5_y-0aqg-Leave Ben & Lynley a voice mail HERE-Connect with the Glass House on Instagram HERE-Please email us your questions and feedback to president@lifeway.com  or leave us a voice mail HEREWe'd love to hear more from you about what you would like to hear on the Glass House. Take the survey HERE to be entered to win the amazing giveaway Ben & Lynley mentioned at the top of the show. Check out more about the Luke in the Land Bible study HERE. TAKE OUT LISTENER SURVEY-We'd love to hear more from you about what you would like to hear on the Glass House. Take the survey HERE to be entered to win the amazing giveaway Ben & Lynley mentioned at the top of the show.&nbs

Alex Kendrick has dedicated his life to following Jesus Christ and making His truth and love known among the nations. After serving in church ministry for 20 years, he now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Stephen and Shannon. Alex directed and co-wrote the movies OVERCOMER, WAR ROOM, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF, FACING THE GIANTS,  FLYWHEEL, COURAGEOUS Legacy Edition, SHOW ME THE FATHER, and LIFEMARK. Alex co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. He has been interviewed on “Fox & Friends,” CNN, and ABC World News Tonight. Alex and his wife, Christina, live in Albany, Ga. with.their six children and are active members at Sherwood Church.  His newest film, THE FORGE, opens in theaters in August 2024. After serving in church ministry for 20 years, Stephen Kendrick now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Alex and Shannon. Stephen produced and co-wrote the movies OVERCOMER, WAR ROOM, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF,  FACING THE GIANTS, COURAGEOUS, SHOW ME THE FATHER, and LIFEMARK. Stephen co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. He has been interviewed on “Fox & Friends,” CNN, and ABC World News Tonight. He serves on the boards of the Fatherhood CoMission and the Christian Film Foundation. Stephen and his wife, Jill, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are active members at Sherwood Church. His newest film, THE FORGE, opens in theaters in August 2024. More about The Forge THE FORGE tells the story of Isaiah Wright, a 19-year-old who lives for basketball and video games. A year out of high school, he still has no job, no plans, and no idea how to be a man. At odds with his single mom, Cynthia, Isaiah is given an ultimatum - to step up or move out. Feeling the pull from his friends and the push from his mom, Isaiah is hired by Moore Fitness but has no idea how the owner will personally impact his life. With the prayers of his mother and unexpected guidance from his new mentor, Isaiah is forced to deal with his past, sacrifice his selfishness and discover how God might have a greater purpose for his life. From the Kendrick Brothers, the creators of the #1 box office hit WAR ROOM, comes THE FORGE, a faith-filled new movie with emotional themes, old friends, and new twists. Get Tickets Here. Mentioned in This Episode Moms Night Out | Tricia GoyerDevoted to Jesus | Alex and Stephen KendrickCount Me In | Alex and Stephen Kendrick Connect with Alex and Stephen Kendrick Website | Facebook | Twitter If you are enjoying the show, I have a quick favor to ask! If you haven't yet hit the subscribe button and left a rating and a review on iTunes, please take a moment and do so! I love reading your reviews and it keeps the algorithms happy so new listeners can find the podcast as well! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thetriciagoyershow/support

Alex Kendrick, director of an upcoming movie called “The Forge”, shares the movie's theme of discipleship and reminds us that Jesus is inviting us to deny ourselves, take up our cross and follow him. “The Forge” portrays discipleship through a storyline that will have you laughing, crying, and relating with the characters. “The Forge” is a must see for you and your family, and releases in theaters on August 23rd!   Ready to hear how “The Forge” movie models discipleship? Let's go!   ALEX KENDRICK has dedicated his life to following Jesus Christ and making His truth and love known among the nations. After serving in church ministry for 20 years, he now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Stephen and Shannon. Alex directed and co-wrote the movies OVERCOMER, WAR ROOM, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF, FACING THE GIANTS,  FLYWHEEL, COURAGEOUS Legacy Edition, SHOW ME THE FATHER, and LIFEMARK. Alex co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. He has been interviewed on “Fox & Friends,” CNN, and ABC World News Tonight. Alex and his wife, Christina, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are active members at Sherwood Church.  His newest film, THE FORGE, opens in theaters in August 2024.   Resources Luke 9:23-24 - take up your cross and follow me Matthew 6:21- where your heart is there your treasure is also Teaser Trailer: LINK The Forge Website Facebook - @forgemovie Instagram - @forgemovie TikTok - @forgemovie X (formerly twitter) - @Forge_Movie YouTube - @ForgeMovie Kendrick Brothers' Website: https://kendrickbrothers.com/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kendrickbrothers  Twitter: https://twitter.com/kendrickbros    Next Steps Share this episode with a friend Get involved with a Bible2School near you Start a Bible2School program

Episode 67 - The Forge: Behind the Scenes with Stephen Kendrick In part two of our interview with Stephen Kendrick on the Faith and Family Filmmakers podcast, Jaclyn talks with Stephen about his upcoming film 'The Forge,' set to release on August 23, 2024. Stephen shares insights on the inspiration behind the story, the collaborative process with his brother Alex, and how their church-integrated filmmaking approach shaped the project. He discusses the challenges faced during production, such as changing locations and dealing with unpredictable weather, and emphasizes the importance of having contingency plans. He also highlights the support from local churches and the community, which played a crucial role in their filmmaking journey. The conversation concludes with Stephen reflecting on the lessons learned over the years and the value of continuous learning and teaching within the filmmaking community. The Highlights:Inspiration Behind 'The Forge'Combining Universes: War Room and The ForgeFilming in Albany, GeorgiaOvercoming Production ChallengesLessons Learned from FilmmakingBalancing Budgets and Bigger ProductionsCommunity and Church InvolvementBio:After serving in church ministry for 20 years, Stephen Kendrick now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Alex and Shannon. Stephen produced and co-wrote the movies THE FORGE, WAR ROOM, OVERCOMER, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF, and FACING THE GIANTS. In 2021, SHOW ME THE FATHER released; it was their first feature-length documentary, for which he served as an executive producer and writer. Their newest film, THE FORGE, is scheduled for a theatrical release by Sony Pictures on August 23, 2024. Along with his brother Alex, Stephen co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. He has been interviewed on “Fox & Friends,” CNN, and ABC World News Tonight. He serves on the boards of the Fatherhood CoMission and the Christian Worldview Film Festival. Stephen and his wife, Jill, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are active members at Sherwood Church.www.kendrickbrothers.comThe Kendrick Brothers on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=the%20kendrick%20brothersThe Kendrick Brothers on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekendrickbrothers/The Forge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forgemovie/Content Christian media Conference Discount Code: 50FAFFJaclyn's Book, In the Beginning, Middle, and End https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D9R7XS9VThe Faith & Family Filmmakers podcast helps filmmakers who share a Christian worldview stay in touch, informed, and inspired. Releasing new episodes every week, we interview experts from varying fields of filmmaking; from screenwriters, actors, directors, and producers, to film scorers, talent agents, and distributors. It is produced and hosted by Geoffrey Whitt and Jaclyn Whitt , and is brought to you by the Faith & Family Filmmakers Association Support Faith & Family Filmmakers Our...

Episode 65 - A Filmmakers Journey: Insights from Stephen Kendrick In this episode of the Faith and Family Filmmakers Podcast, Jaclyn Whitt interviews Stephen Kendrick of the Kendrick Brothers. They discuss his unexpected journey into filmmaking, rooted in a Christian upbringing and inspired by his family's commitment to ministry. Stephen shares anecdotes about how his early film efforts with his brother Alex evolved from fun home videos to their first serious film project, 'Flywheel.' They delve into the challenges and lessons learned in filmmaking, the importance of receiving and acting on constructive criticism, and the process of creating impactful, faith-based films. Stephen also emphasizes the need for humility, continuous learning, and accountability in both personal and professional growth. The Highlights:Early Life and Family BackgroundEarly Filmmaking ExperiencesMaking Flywheel: The First Feature FilmChallenges and Learning in FilmmakingThe Importance of Feedback and Accepting CriticismThe Process of Refining a FilmAdvice for Aspiring FilmmakersBio:After serving in church ministry for 20 years, Stephen Kendrick now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Alex and Shannon. Stephen produced and co-wrote the movies THE FORGE, WAR ROOM, OVERCOMER, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF, and FACING THE GIANTS. In 2021, SHOW ME THE FATHER released; it was their first feature-length documentary, for which he served as an executive producer and writer. Their newest film, THE FORGE, is scheduled for a theatrical release by Sony Pictures on August 23, 2024. Along with his brother Alex, Stephen co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. He has been interviewed on “Fox & Friends,” CNN, and ABC World News Tonight. He serves on the boards of the Fatherhood CoMission and the Christian Worldview Film Festival. Stephen and his wife, Jill, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are active members at Sherwood Church.www.kendrickbrothers.comThe Kendrick Brothers on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=the%20kendrick%20brothersThe Kendrick Brothers on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekendrickbrothers/The Forge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forgemovie/Content Christian media Conference Discount Code: 50FAFFJaclyn's Book, In the Beginning, Middle, and End https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D9R7XS9VThe Faith & Family Filmmakers podcast helps filmmakers who share a Christian worldview stay in touch, informed, and inspired. Releasing new episodes every week, we interview experts from varying fields of filmmaking; from screenwriters, actors, directors, and producers, to film scorers, talent agents, and distributors. It is produced and hosted by Geoffrey Whitt and Jaclyn Whitt , and is brought to you by the Faith & Family Filmmakers Association Support Faith & Family Filmmakers Our mission is to help filmmakers who share a Christian Worldview stay in touch, informed, and inspired. If you...

Do you struggle with perfectionism? How does it manifest in your life, and what helps you feel less critical of yourself? In this episode, Bonnie Gray explores the roots of perfectionism and provides a loving, practical tip to help quiet that critical inner voice.Learn to understand the negative impact of perfectionism on your emotional and physical well-being and discover how God's unconditional love can help you embrace your imperfections.Tune into this episode to gain valuable insights and practical tools for turning down the volume on perfectionism and embracing a more nurturing, love-filled approach to self-care.Key Takeaways:- How Perfectionism keeps us from enjoying life and increases our stress.- Learn the Love Dare to overcome the fear of making mistakes.- Lower stress and cortisol with Anticipatory Joy - Practice this week's Breath Prayer to calm emotions and body.Breath Prayer: (Inhale) We rely on the love God has for us. (Exhale) Perfect love casts out fear.Scripture: "We rely on the love God has for us. God is love. There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear." 1Jn 4:16, 18 LINKS & RESOURCES- Get Bonnie's Bestseller hit Breathe: 21 Days to Stress Less: https://amzn.to/4azae1K- Take FREE Soul Care Quiz at soulcarequiz.com – your personal wellness assessment!- Take Bonnie's Soul Care courses: http://mysoulcareschool.com- Join FREE Breathe Newsletter!  https://thebonniegray.com/subscribe/- Follow Bonnie at www.instagram.com/thebonniegray & www.facebook.com/thebonniegray Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Alex Kendrick, director of an upcoming movie called “The Forge”, shares the movie's theme of discipleship and reminds us that Jesus is inviting us to deny ourselves, take up our cross and follow him. “The Forge” portrays discipleship through a storyline that will have you laughing, crying, and relating with the characters. You'll leave this conversation challenged in your role of discipleship and ready to mark your calendars for the release of “The Forge” on August 23rd!   Ready to hear how “The Forge” movie models discipleship? Let's go!   ALEX KENDRICK has dedicated his life to following Jesus Christ and making His truth and love known among the nations. After serving in church ministry for 20 years, he now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Stephen and Shannon. Alex directed and co-wrote the movies OVERCOMER, WAR ROOM, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF, FACING THE GIANTS,  FLYWHEEL, COURAGEOUS Legacy Edition, SHOW ME THE FATHER, and LIFEMARK. Alex co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. He has been interviewed on “Fox & Friends,” CNN, and ABC World News Tonight. Alex and his wife, Christina, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are active members at Sherwood Church.  His newest film, THE FORGE, opens in theaters in August 2024.   Resources Luke 9:23-24 - take up your cross and follow me Matthew 6:21- where your heart is there your treasure is also Teaser Trailer: LINK The Forge Website Facebook - @forgemovie Instagram - @forgemovie TikTok - @forgemovie X (formerly twitter) - @Forge_Movie YouTube - @ForgeMovie Kendrick Brother's Website: https://kendrickbrothers.com/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kendrickbrothers  Twitter: https://twitter.com/kendrickbros    Next Steps Share this episode with a friend Get involved with a Bible2School near you Start a Bible2School program

Hey friends! Filmmakers Alex and Stephen Kendrick have an incredible discussion with Brian Daniel about their latest movie, The Forge. This film focuses on discipleship and following Jesus, and Alex and Stephen share their hearts behind making this film. They emphasize the importance of having a strong foundation in Christ and prioritizing Him above all else.  Alex Kendrick has dedicated his life to following Jesus Christ and making His truth and love known among the nations. After serving in church ministry for 20 years, he now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Stephen and Shannon. Alex directed and co-wrote the movies OVERCOMER, WAR ROOM, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF, FACING THE GIANTS,  FLYWHEEL, COURAGEOUS Legacy Edition, SHOW ME THE FATHER, and LIFEMARK. Alex co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. Alex and his wife, Christina, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are active members at Sherwood Church. After serving in church ministry for 20 years, Stephen Kendrick now writes, speaks, and produces Christian films with his brothers Alex and Shannon. Stephen produced and co-wrote the movies OVERCOMER, WAR ROOM, COURAGEOUS, FIREPROOF,  FACING THE GIANTS, COURAGEOUS, SHOW ME THE FATHER, and LIFEMARK. Stephen co-wrote the New York Times bestselling books The Love Dare, The Resolution for Men, and The Battle Plan for Prayer. He serves on the boards of the Fatherhood CoMission and the Christian Film Foundation. Stephen and his wife, Jill, live in Albany, Ga. with their six children and are also active members at Sherwood Church. As God moves you through a path of discipleship through surrender, our prayer is that you encourage others to join you in this path! Thanks for listening and sharing with a friend!SHOW LINKS:The Forge MovieConnect with The Kendricks BrotherThe Forge Bible Study Devoted to JesusI Surrender AllConnect with Brian Daniel

Rich Peluso was in a dark place in his early twenties--he was working a job that compromised his values and chisled away at who God created him to be. While Rich was avoiding time alone with God in prayer, he desperately desired to reconnect. One night as Rich laid in bed, he called out to God. And even though Rich was not ready to fully amend his life, God was faithful. Days later Rich unfolded a newspaper that held a ceramic Christmas tree in his car--Rich never could have imagined the pages would hold the gift of new life for Rich. God would transform Rich's heart and provide him with a hope-filled future. Listen to this final podcast in the Easter Series and behold an eternal perspective!

Have you ever felt a longing for true loving connection that seems to just slip through your fingers? In this episode, we explore how to create love that endures through the highs and lows of life. Key Takeaways: Embracing Emotional Complexity: Recognize that true love encompasses a spectrum of emotions and experiences, from joy to sorrow. Anxiety as a Signal for Growth: Understand that anxiety in new situations, like marriage, is an opportunity for deeper understanding and growth. The Power of Prayer and Vulnerability: Discover the strength in turning to prayer and embracing vulnerability in your relationship. The Role of Selflessness in Love: Learn that genuine love is about giving selflessly and supporting your partner's ultimate good, even at the risk of heartache. Commitment to Love as a Choice: Realize that lasting love is a result of conscious, daily choices to give and receive love, not just a fleeting feeling. Resources: To see the studies referenced in this episode you can visit this website. The Love Dare by Alex & Stephen Kendrick Connect with Stephanie: Follow Stephanie on Instagram and Facebook for the latest updates, behind-the-scenes content, and exciting announcements. Subscribe to the TLC Tuesday newsletter for weekly tips to help you become a more Radiant You. A Personal Invitation: You're not alone in this journey. If you're ready to live lighter and shine brighter, visit www.thelightcoach.com and book a free live lighter session to discover what's possible. The radiant you is within your reach—let's find her together.

In the 4th Part of our livestream, we will all be sharing our own personal encounters with Jesus and the benefits of having that intimate relationship with God. Our prayer is that as you listen to all of us talk that you will realize that God loves you that's why he died on the cross for you sin and wants to have an intimate relationship with him so you can live a Supernatural life.We'd love to hear from you so feel free to ask me or Josh any questions or comments on our social media links and he is also willing to speak with any of you if you'd like you just have to message and let us know, and if you feel in your hearts to help him out in his ministry so he can continue to help others you can do so by donating to:https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=3UHMPU42TA5SJCashApp: $AbundantEncounters  Schedule a session here: https://calendar.app.google/rsstgLT9E32xVyPYASchedule a call to find out more: https://calendar.app.google/Biotr3AdtBaBU8ob6You can buy Josh book in amazon by going to: https://a.co/d/9FrjVG5 Make sure to follow us so you don't miss the last part of our conversation of our livestream.  We also mention Kirk Cameron's movie "Fire Proof" and if you want to purchase the book that goes with this movie called "Love Dare'" you can do so by going to:https://a.co/d/b14L7SW or https://a.co/d/5ME9CK3 Thank you to our Spotify Sponsor for our music which is called "Walk with You" by Michael Bethany and "Relationship" by Phil Wickman.To listen to the last part of our episode go to:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/cometojesus/last-part-josh-livestream-q-aThank you so much for listening & always remember to Come to Jesus Daily!Connect with us through our Social Media Links:Email us at cometojesuswithannette.mahal@gmail.com Twitter and Instagram: @AnnetteMahal FB: Come to JesusYou can help support our podcast ministry and partner with us reach further to build God's Kingdom through our Patreon account which is www.patreon.com/user/posts?u=81226509 or you can give a onetime donation of donating for our coffee ministry or be a part of our monthly supporters to be a part of our monthly livestream and the other benefits that goes with it by going to: www.buymeacoffee.com/cometojesusYou can also send us a voice message if you are listening in Spotify or by sending your questions or comments to (571)601-0067.

Audrey and Donovan from the Radio Free Tote Bag podcast (@rftbpod) join the lads as they grab their baseball bats and battle the infernos of marriage and pornography as they sprint headlong into the blaze of the disastrous Kirk Cameron vehicle: Fireproof. Topics include the importance of communication in relationships, why there isn't a Jay Leno recap podcast, and the horrifying menace hiding just behind the eyes of one of the Christian Right's biggest movie stars: Kirk Cameron. Want more TWOAPW? Get access to our full back catalogue of premium/bonus episodes and add your name to the masthead of our website by subscribing for $5/month at Patreon.com/worstofall! Radio Free Tote Bag - Patreon // Spotify // Apple Podcasts // Twitter // Instagram Audrey Brehm - Twitter Donovan Eyre - Twitter Media Referenced in this Episode: Fireproof Dir. Alex Kendrick. Sherwood Pictures, 2008. The Love Dare by Alex and Stephen Kendrick Fireproof Your Life: Building a Faith That Survives The Flames by Michael Catt TWOAPW theme by Brendan Dalton: Patreon // brendan-dalton.com // brendandalton.bandcamp.com Commercial: “A Special Message from Kirk Thomas Cameron” feat. David Armstrong, Eleanor Philips, and A.J. Ditty as “Jeremiah”

PATREON PARTY PLEASER: This movie was selected by our Patreon Supporters over at the Cinematic Doctrine Patreon. Support as little as $3 a month and have your voice heard!  Melanie and Melvin travel back to 2008's big Christian-Marketed Movie release, Fireproof, a Kirk Cameron led Kendrick Brothers production! From occasional filmmaking flubs and functionally-okay narrative decisions, the two figure out if Fireproof is a Party Pleaser or a Party Pooper! Or, maybe something in between? Find out now! Topics: (PATREON EXCLUSIVE) 33-minutes discussing the Christian-Marketed Movie Complex (CMMC, as coined by Melvin Benson) and positive ways in which it could be improved, rather than dogging on it as people are prone to do. (PATREON EXCLUSIVE)The verdict of a Party Pleaser can be for any reason, but Melvin thought it would be interesting to think about whether Fireproof would be edifying to watch with friends or not. You know, because it's a Christian-Marketed film.Melanie and Melvin agree: the movie starts very poorly. It's not much of a tone-setter for the rest of the film, and they each propose alternative ways for the film to open.Fireproof doesn't have successful comedy, and it's drama is oddly voyeuristic which makes for a very awkward film.Fireproof is just shy of 2 hours. To make it more palatable, it could have easily been trimmed.Occasionally Fireproof has some semi-well constructed sequences. They're very much in the "almost there" category.The first half of Fireproof showcases the result of marital dysfunction in Caleb, and the second half labors to show that equal-yet-opposite result in Kathryn.Upon reflection, Fireproof seems structurally sound, but the execution leaves itself wanting.Recommendations: Women of the Word: How to Study the Bible with Both Our Hearts and Our Minds by Jen Wilkin (Book)Abbott & Costello's Who's On First? (Radio Comedy Sketch)Support the showSupport on Patreon for Unique Perks! Early access to uncut episodes Vote on a movie/show we review Social Links: Twitter Website Facebook Group