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How do we make the most important decisions in life with intention rather than impulse? In this episode, we are joined by Abby Davisson to unpack her practical framework for better decision-making. Abby is a Yale and Stanford alumnus, a former executive at Gap Inc., and the co-author of Money and Love. She is also the founder of the Money and Love Institute, which is dedicated to helping individuals and professionals navigate life's most significant decisions. In today's conversation, Abby unpacks her practical, research-backed “5Cs Framework” for decision-making and demonstrates how it can guide all the decisions couples need to make through life. We explore the idea of financial transparency, progressive pooling of finances, equitable division of housework, deciding when to outsource help, and navigating career pauses or transitions. Abby also shares how she applied the framework in her own life and offers an honest perspective for individuals navigating change. Join us to learn how to approach choices and the “life stuff” that doesn't always show up in spreadsheets with Abby Davisson. Tune in now! Key Points From This Episode: (0:04:16) Myra Strober's Work and Family course and how it led to writing Money and Love. (0:07:21) The drivers of poor decisions and the five Cs in Abby's decision-making framework. (0:11:15) Discover the four big topics every couple should discuss and how to approach them. (0:15:09) Learn the fundamentals of how couples should handle and combine money. (0:17:49) Why division of housework is vital, how to approach it, and the role of gender norms. (0:21:49) Outsourcing tasks and the impacts of not taking the division of housework seriously. (0:24:27) How to decide where to live as a couple, and whether to rent or buy a house. (0:29:08) A real-life example of how to apply to 5C Framework for decision-making. (0:33:34) Navigating career ambitions, division of childcare, and stay-at-home parenting. (0:37:16) Hear how the 5C Framework helps deal with separation and family dynamics. (0:40:31) Ways the concept of retirement has changed and why families should discuss it. (0:44:12) Find out how involved adult children should be in their parents' retirement planning. (0:47:02) Advice for finding the right life partner and how to stress-test a relationship. (0:52:05) What to consider before getting married and having children, and why. (0:55:37) Abby's biggest lessons from writing the book and her definition of success. Links From Today's Episode: Meet with PWL Capital: https://calendly.com/d/3vm-t2j-h3p Rational Reminder on iTunes — https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-rational-reminder-podcast/id1426530582. Rational Reminder Website — https://rationalreminder.ca/ Rational Reminder on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/rationalreminder/ Rational Reminder on X — https://x.com/RationalRemindRational Reminder on TikTok — www.tiktok.com/@rationalreminder Rational Reminder on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/channel/ Rational Reminder Email — info@rationalreminder.caBenjamin Felix — https://pwlcapital.com/our-team/ Benjamin on X — https://x.com/benjaminwfelix Benjamin on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjaminwfelix/ Cameron Passmore — https://pwlcapital.com/our-team/ Cameron on X — https://x.com/CameronPassmore Cameron on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/cameronpassmore/ Abby Davisson — https://www.abbydavisson.com/ Abby Davisson — https://linkedin.com/in/abbydavisson/ Money and Love Institute — https://moneyloveinstitute.com/ Practically Deliberate Newsletter — https://abbydavisson.substack.com/ Gap Inc. — https://www.gapinc.com Myra Strober on LinkedIn — https://linkedin.com/in/myra-strober-a8b2846a/ Eve Rodsky — https://www.everodsky.com/ Carefull — https://getcarefull.com/ Baba Shiv — https://linkedin.com/in/baba-shiv-a859882/ Books From Today's Episode: Money and Love — https://www.moneylovebook.com/
Money and Love: Navigating Life's Big Decisions with Abby DavissonIn this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay talks with Abby Davisson, co-author of 'Money and Love: A Comprehensive Guide to Life's Biggest Decisions.' They explore the intersection of financial and romantic considerations in relationships. Discussing themes such as the importance of communication, the role of self-awareness, and the practice of scheduling strategic conversations, Abby details practical ways to handle money talks with one's partner. The episode emphasizes the premise of their book that a well-organized approach to discussing finances and big life decisions can foster stronger, more resilient relationships.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched00:26 The Reality of Romantic Relationships00:49 Importance of Communication in Relationships01:28 Introducing Dr. Myra Strober and Abby Davisson02:29 Interview with Abby Davisson Begins02:49 Money and Love: A Complex Relationship04:39 Navigating Relationship Challenges11:09 The Five Cs Decision-Making Tool16:32 Timing and Place in Communication22:11 Keeping the Romance Alive32:01 Talking About Money Comfortably35:40 Final Thoughts and ConclusionHelpful Links:Abby DavissonMoney & Love Book
The origins of the names for popular food products often make interesting stories. For instance, why are they called marshmallows? Why is Spam called Spam? What do gators have to do with Gatorade? This episode begins with the origin stories of some iconic foods. https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/tagged/health/at-home/odd-facts-7-iconic-products-164000529.html Some inventions have had profound effects on how humans see themselves and our place in the world. For example, the mirror, photography, television, and the smartphone have all significantly changed our perception of ourselves. Here to explain this and the significance of it all is Susan Denham Wade author of the book A History of Seeing in Eleven Inventions (https://amzn.to/3vZdj9k) The most difficult decisions we most often make are about love and money. So how can we improve our ability to make these important decisions? Here with some great insight and advice is Myra Strober. She is a labor economist, Professor Emerita at Stanford University and author of the book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions (https://amzn.to/3H34xNO) Your gym teacher probably told you to stand up straight and suck in your gut. It turns out half of that advice is good – the other half isn't. Listen as I explain why. https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2021/11/12/how-to-stop-holding-in-stomach/ PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS!!! SHOPIFY: "Established in 2025". Has a nice ring to it, doesn't it? Sign up for a $1 per-month trial period at https://Shopify.com/sysk . Go to SHOPIFY.com/sysk to grow your business! HERS: Hers is changing women's healthcare by providing access to GLP-1 weekly injections with the same active ingredient as Ozempic and Wegovy, as well as oral medication kits. Start your free online visit today at https://forhers.com/sysk INDEED: Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://Indeed.com/SOMETHING right now! CURIOSITY WEEKLY: We love Curiosity Weekly, so be sure and listen wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today, you'll how to make smart decisions about two vexing subjects: money and love. • Myra Strober is a labor economist and Professor Emerita at Stanford University, where she founded the Stanford Center for Research on Women (now the Clayman Institute for Gender Research). • Abby Davisson is a social innovation leader and career development expert, who served as president of Gap Foundation and co-founded the company's employee resource group for parents and caregivers.
Sometimes it seems that all we do in life is make decisions, and yet it's a surprisingly difficult skill to master. How do you get good at deciding? To answer that question, we're calling in the pros: Annie Duke, Eric Johnson, Hasard Lee, Abby Davisson, Myra Strober, and Steven Johnson. They're ex-poker players, business school professors, fighter pilots, and science journalists — and together, they're going to share a whole bunch of tools you can use to improve your decision-making capabilities. First up is cognitive scientist turned poker player turned decision strategist Annie Duke to share a few key insights from her recent book “Quit: The Power of Knowing When to Walk Away.” • Want to go behind the scenes of this show? Sign up for our newsletter • To hear more interviews, audio e-courses, and hundreds of author-read book summaries, download the Next Big Idea app
Today's conversation is with Abby Davisson. Abby is an author, social innovation leader and career development expert whose research focuses on decision making in money management and romance. Money and romance are two of the biggest areas in our lives and require some significant decisions. What job to take, what city to live in, whether to get married or divorced or have kids. It might seem impossible to have a formula or framework for these big topics. But Abby helped run the most popular course at Stanford on exactly this topic and recently wrote a book covering it all. Today you get to find out what she's discovered. Expect to learn what the most common mistakes people make in decision making, how to use logic in romantic decisions without killing the romance, how to speak to your parents as they get older, the questions to ask to unlock conversations on these big topics, and much more. Abby's book “Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions” co-authored with Myra Strober is linked in the show notes. I love finding guests that balance the academic with practical applications, and Abby achieves exactly that. Connect with Abby: Book - https://www.moneylovebook.com/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/abbydavisson/ Insta - https://www.instagram.com/abby.davisson/ Connect with Col: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/col.cambro/ Email List - https://mailchi.mp/548e38ba5942/colincambro Support me: buymeacoffee.com/ColCamBro
Should we separate decisions related to love and money, approaching finance and career-related decisions solely in a rational way while relying more on our emotions in the personal domain? Perhaps it's time to start using both our heads and hearts together when making life's most significant decisions. Myra Strober is an emerita Professor at the Schools of Education and Business at Stanford University. She also sits on the board of journal Feminist Economics and is the former president of the International Association for Feminist Economics. Abby Davisson is a social innovation leader and career development expert. She is a senior leader on global retailer Gap Inc.'s Environmental, Social, & Governance (ESG) team and is President of Gap Foundation. She is also an alumni career advisor at Stanford's Graduate School of Business. Together they wrote the book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions, exploring how to navigate life's most consequential and daunting decisions. Myra, Abby, and Greg discuss the importance of incorporating decision-making into an interdisciplinary curriculum at an early stage for students to equip them with the skills to make optimal strategic choices while avoiding the need to compromise their professional or personal lives. Gregory LaBlanc is a lifelong educator with degrees in History, PPE, Business, and Law, Greg currently teaches at Berkeley, Stanford, and HEC Paris. He has taught in multiple disciplines, from Engineering to Economics, from Biology to Business, from Psychology to Philosophy. He is the host of the unSILOed podcast. unSILOed is produced by University FM. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network
Should we separate decisions related to love and money, approaching finance and career-related decisions solely in a rational way while relying more on our emotions in the personal domain? Perhaps it's time to start using both our heads and hearts together when making life's most significant decisions. Myra Strober is an emerita Professor at the Schools of Education and Business at Stanford University. She also sits on the board of journal Feminist Economics and is the former president of the International Association for Feminist Economics. Abby Davisson is a social innovation leader and career development expert. She is a senior leader on global retailer Gap Inc.'s Environmental, Social, & Governance (ESG) team and is President of Gap Foundation. She is also an alumni career advisor at Stanford's Graduate School of Business. Together they wrote the book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions, exploring how to navigate life's most consequential and daunting decisions. Myra, Abby, and Greg discuss the importance of incorporating decision-making into an interdisciplinary curriculum at an early stage for students to equip them with the skills to make optimal strategic choices while avoiding the need to compromise their professional or personal lives. Gregory LaBlanc is a lifelong educator with degrees in History, PPE, Business, and Law, Greg currently teaches at Berkeley, Stanford, and HEC Paris. He has taught in multiple disciplines, from Engineering to Economics, from Biology to Business, from Psychology to Philosophy. He is the host of the unSILOed podcast. unSILOed is produced by University FM. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network
Should we separate decisions related to love and money, approaching finance and career-related decisions solely in a rational way while relying more on our emotions in the personal domain? Perhaps it's time to start using both our heads and hearts together when making life's most significant decisions. Myra Strober is an emerita Professor at the Schools of Education and Business at Stanford University. She also sits on the board of journal Feminist Economics and is the former president of the International Association for Feminist Economics. Abby Davisson is a social innovation leader and career development expert. She is a senior leader on global retailer Gap Inc.'s Environmental, Social, & Governance (ESG) team and is President of Gap Foundation. She is also an alumni career advisor at Stanford's Graduate School of Business. Together they wrote the book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions, exploring how to navigate life's most consequential and daunting decisions. Myra, Abby, and Greg discuss the importance of incorporating decision-making into an interdisciplinary curriculum at an early stage for students to equip them with the skills to make optimal strategic choices while avoiding the need to compromise their professional or personal lives. Gregory LaBlanc is a lifelong educator with degrees in History, PPE, Business, and Law, Greg currently teaches at Berkeley, Stanford, and HEC Paris. He has taught in multiple disciplines, from Engineering to Economics, from Biology to Business, from Psychology to Philosophy. He is the host of the unSILOed podcast. unSILOed is produced by University FM. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology
Should we separate decisions related to love and money, approaching finance and career-related decisions solely in a rational way while relying more on our emotions in the personal domain? Perhaps it's time to start using both our heads and hearts together when making life's most significant decisions. Myra Strober is an emerita Professor at the Schools of Education and Business at Stanford University. She also sits on the board of journal Feminist Economics and is the former president of the International Association for Feminist Economics. Abby Davisson is a social innovation leader and career development expert. She is a senior leader on global retailer Gap Inc.'s Environmental, Social, & Governance (ESG) team and is President of Gap Foundation. She is also an alumni career advisor at Stanford's Graduate School of Business. Together they wrote the book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions, exploring how to navigate life's most consequential and daunting decisions. Myra, Abby, and Greg discuss the importance of incorporating decision-making into an interdisciplinary curriculum at an early stage for students to equip them with the skills to make optimal strategic choices while avoiding the need to compromise their professional or personal lives. Gregory LaBlanc is a lifelong educator with degrees in History, PPE, Business, and Law, Greg currently teaches at Berkeley, Stanford, and HEC Paris. He has taught in multiple disciplines, from Engineering to Economics, from Biology to Business, from Psychology to Philosophy. He is the host of the unSILOed podcast. unSILOed is produced by University FM. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/education
Should we separate decisions related to love and money, approaching finance and career-related decisions solely in a rational way while relying more on our emotions in the personal domain? Perhaps it's time to start using both our heads and hearts together when making life's most significant decisions. Myra Strober is an emerita Professor at the Schools of Education and Business at Stanford University. She also sits on the board of journal Feminist Economics and is the former president of the International Association for Feminist Economics. Abby Davisson is a social innovation leader and career development expert. She is a senior leader on global retailer Gap Inc.'s Environmental, Social, & Governance (ESG) team and is President of Gap Foundation. She is also an alumni career advisor at Stanford's Graduate School of Business. Together they wrote the book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions, exploring how to navigate life's most consequential and daunting decisions. Myra, Abby, and Greg discuss the importance of incorporating decision-making into an interdisciplinary curriculum at an early stage for students to equip them with the skills to make optimal strategic choices while avoiding the need to compromise their professional or personal lives. Gregory LaBlanc is a lifelong educator with degrees in History, PPE, Business, and Law, Greg currently teaches at Berkeley, Stanford, and HEC Paris. He has taught in multiple disciplines, from Engineering to Economics, from Biology to Business, from Psychology to Philosophy. He is the host of the unSILOed podcast. unSILOed is produced by University FM. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Myra Strober, Labor Economist and Professor Emerita at Stanford University, and Social Innovation Consultant Abby Davisson discuss their book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions.Hosts: Carol Massar and Matt Miller: Paul Brennan. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Myra Strober, Labor Economist and Professor Emerita at Stanford University, and Social Innovation Consultant Abby Davisson discuss their book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions.Hosts: Carol Massar and Matt Miller: Paul Brennan. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Are you facing a really big decision in your life right now? Or is someone you know facing an important crossroads? How do you process that? How do you make the best possible decision? Well, this is part two of my conversation with Abby Davisson. She's the author, along with Myra Strober, of a book called Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions. It's based on the popular Stanford University course called Work and Family. In this episode, you will learn how to use the 5Cs method to be able to communicate and check in with the people who matter most, so that you can talk about the decisions that matter most. Learn more from Abby here: abbydavisson.com Join my weekly newsletter at GregMcKeown.com/1mw Learn more about my books and courses at GregMcKeown.com
Should we separate decisions related to love and money, approaching finance and career-related decisions solely in a rational way while relying more on our emotions in the personal domain? Perhaps it's time to start using both our heads and hearts together when making life's most significant decisions.Myra Strober is an emerita Professor at the Schools of Education and Business at Stanford University. She also sits on the board of the journal Feminist Economics and is the former president of the International Association for Feminist Economics 9. Abby Davisson is a social innovation leader and career development expert. She is a senior leader on global retailer Gap Inc.'s Environmental, Social, & Governance (ESG) team and is President of Gap Foundation. She is also an alumni career advisor at Stanford's Graduate School of Business.Together they wrote the book “Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions,” exploring how to navigate life's most consequential and daunting decisions.Myra, Abby, and Greg discuss the importance of incorporating decision-making into an interdisciplinary curriculum at an early stage for students to equip them with the skills to make optimal strategic choices while avoiding the need to compromise their professional or personal lives. *unSILOed Podcast is produced by University FM.*Episode Quotes:The similarities of finding a business and a life partner17:08: [Myra Strober] People who say that you need to make love decisions with your heart are not entirely wrong. Your heart surely needs to be part of the decision, or your gut, or however you want to think about it. And you may find a co-founder for a business who works well with you, but you wouldn't like to spend your evenings and weekends with them. You wouldn't like to go on vacation with them. And that all works fine, but it doesn't work fine if this is your life partner. So certainly, before you have any conversations of any depth, you need to be sure that you're linked to this person in some way through your heart, through your gut, that you're excited about this person in some way.On making decisions you won't regret16:03: [Abby Davisson] What we advocate and why we have a whole framework around decision-making is to slow down and bring in other elements to that decision that can help you make a decision you are less likely to regret.The huge impact of your work decisions12:40: [Myra Strober] The work decisions that you make, which you might assume are only work decisions, have a huge impact on your family. And if you're going to make a major work decision, you need to communicate your ideas with the people who matter to you.Humans and their short-term bias39:38: [Abby Davisson] Humans have a short-term bias, and we are much more likely to overweight the positive or negative consequences of decisions in the short term.Show Links:Recommended Resources:Lori GottliebDaniel KahnemanGuest Profile:Myra Strober Faculty Profile at Stanford UniversityMyra Strober on LinkedInAbby Davisson Author's Profile on HarperCollins PublishersAbby Davisson's WebsiteAbby Davisson on LinkedInAbby Davisson on TwitterTheir Work:Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions - Myra Strober and Abby DavissonSharing the Work: What My Family and Career Taught Me About Breaking Through (and Holding the Door Open for Others) - Myra Strober
The Conservative MP Miriam Cates said in the House of Commons that children were being exposed to “graphic” and "age inappropriate" material during their sex education classes. The Prime Minister Rishi Sunak has decided to bring forward a review of the Department for Education's Relationships and Sex Education guidance in England. Two parents, Fiona, a listener and parent of four and Clare Page who was concerned about what her daughter was being taught discuss. Sian Richardson from Pembrokeshire in Wales is Number 12 on our Woman's Hour Power List 2023. Sian started The Blue-tit Chill Swimmers nearly 10 years ago, a cold water swimming community which now boasts an incredible 100,000 members world-wide. She explains why she's encouraging people to get in the water and enjoy the outdoors. Leah Williamson, who took the Lionesses to victory at the Euros in 2022, tops the Woman's Hour Power List 2023. She explains what role her mum plays in her success and talks about male allies in women's football. Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Big Decisions, is written by Stanford professor emeritus Myra Strober, who is an early feminist economist and Abby Davisson, one of Myra's former pupils who is now a social innovation expert. They give detailed advice about navigating the crossroads of finances within a relationship at different life stages. Pessimism is for Lightweights is a new collection of poems by the celebrated performance poet Salena Godden. Salena discusses the collection, how poetry can confront misogyny and injustice, and why she personified death as a woman in her debut novel Mrs Death Misses Death. Presenter: Anita Rani Producer: Paula McFarlane Editor: Lucinda Montefiore
New figures show that there is still a huge backlog of criminal cases waiting to get to court. And the worst delays are for rape and sexual offences. Reporter Melanie Abbott talks to a man who will wait 6 years after reporting he was raped in 2018, and the impact it has had on him and his mother who has been fighting to help him. We hear from Rape Crisis about their report Breaking Point, which shows a record high of sexual offence cases waiting to be heard, and outlines possible solutions for reducing them. Anita talks about women, money and love with the authors of a new self help book. Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Big Decisions, is written by two American women, Stanford professor emeritus Myra Strober, who is an early feminist economist and Abby Davisson, one of Myra's former pupils who is now a social innovation expert. They give detailed advice about navigating the crossroads of finances within a relationship at different life stages. Why does everyone want to go viral? And what happens when you do? Anita speaks to writer Julia Boggio who has managed to go viral three times in her life. One of which landed her on the Oprah Winfrey show. But, when Julia wanted to publish her debut novel, Shooters, she was told that she didn't have enough followers on social media. So, she decided to take matters into her own hands and tried to get her book viral. And it worked. She tells Anita how she managed it. Presenter: Anita Rani Producer: Hanna Ward Studio Manager: Bob Nettles
Myra Strober, labor economist and Professor Emerita at Stanford University and Abby Davisson, social innovation leader and career development expert, join the Journey to Launch podcast to discuss how to make conscious decisions about money with love as the primary framework. We chat about the intellectual roadmap for life's biggest decisions, why we need to have difficult conversations before we're ready and how love and money are intertwined in all of life's challenges and phases. In this episode, you'll learn more about: Making decisions about money with love at the forefront of consideration What the 5 C framework is and how you can implement them in your life right now Why you should be having conversations about personal topics alongside the professional ones How to be an agent of change within the institutions you participate in The importance of checking in with those you admire and trying to anticipate the consequences of life's choices + more You can enter for a chance to win one a free copy of Myra's and Abby's book, Money and Love, by going to journeytolaunch.com/win. Check out the video of this episode on YouTube, here! Other Links Mentioned in episode: Read Money and Love by Myra and Abby Strober & Davisson Check out my new personal website here. Join The Weekly Newsletter List Leave me a voicemail– Leave me a question on the Journey To Launch voicemail and have it answered on the podcast! Watch me on News12 Watch my latest segments on News12 YNAB – Start managing your money and budgeting so that you can reach your financial dreams. Sign up for a free 34 days trial of YNAB, my go-to budgeting app by using my referral link. What stage of the financial journey are you on? Are you working on financial stability or work flexibility? Find out with this free assessment and get a curated list of the 10 next best episodes for you to listen to depending on your stage. Check it out here! Connect with Myra & Abby: Website Instagram:@Abby.Davisson Twitter:@AbbyDavisson Connect with me: Instagram: @Journeytolaunch Twitter: @JourneyToLaunch Facebook: @Journey To Launch Join the Private Facebook Group Join the Waitlist for My FI Course Get The Free Jumpstart Guide
Our lives are filled with big decisions and we don't always give them the proper care and process they require. Whether or not we should move in with someone, get married or buy a house are decisions most of us will face at one point or another. Listen to today's show to learn an amazing process to make better decisions about the big things in life. In this episode with Myra Strober we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Learn a step-by-step process to making more thoughtful decisions Confronting decisions when your head and your heart are in conflict How to avoid making mistakes during the biggest decisions of your life Anticipating the consequences of your decisions and how that can inform your actions Understanding how our desires can negatively influence our decisions How fear factors into our decision making process And much more! Sponsors Dipsea is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IDO. Füm helps you shake bad habits. Head to TryFum.com and use code IDO to save 10% off when you get the Journey pack today. The Journey pack comes with three unique flavors and the new Version 2 Füm to help kick start your positive habits. BetterHelp is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/IDO. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
It's not enough for us to solve our money and love issues on an individual level. Enter the tempered radical.
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In this episode, Myra and Abby share their five-step process for making good decisions. It goes like this: CLARIFY what's most important to you. COMMUNICATE with those most affected by your decision. Generate a broad range of CHOICES. CHECK IN with friends, family, and trusted resources. And explore your decision's possible CONSEQUENCES. --- Check out our newsletter where we take listeners behind the scenes of these episodes!
Ready, set … wait a sec. Today, Myra and Abby explain why slowing down is key to making good decisions. --- • Myra Strober is a professor emerita at Stanford University and the founding director of the Stanford Center for Research on Women (now the Clayman Institute for Gender Research). Abby Davisson served as president of Gap Foundation and co-founded the clothing company's employee resource group for parents and caregivers. • Check out our newsletter where we take listeners behind the scenes of these episodes. • And to hear hundreds of authors share the best ideas from their books, download the Next Big Idea app!
Diet Coke and Mentos. Suede and water. Tupac and Biggie. Money and love. What do they all have in common? They don't play well together. Especially that last dueling duo. We've all been taught to make money decisions with our heads and love decisions with our hearts. Mix them up and, well, kaboom. But a new book by Myra Strober and Abby Davisson says that's a bunch of nonsense. In "Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions," they make the case that by acknowledging the inextricable link between finance and romance, we can learn to make better life decisions — decisions that utilize head and heart in a balanced, fulfilling way. --- GUESTS: • Myra Strober is a professor emerita at Stanford University and the founding director of the Stanford Center for Research on Women (now the Clayman Institute for Gender Research) • Abby Davisson served as president of Gap Foundation and co-founded the clothing company's employee resource group for parents and caregivers RESOURCES: • Check out our newsletter where we take listeners behind the scenes of these episodes. • Can't wait for tomorrow's episode? Download the Next Big Idea app and you can listen to all five of this week's episodes right now.
Many of life's very biggest decisions – should I quit my job? Should we move in together? Is it time to get pregnant? Divorce? Retire? – are at the crossroads of money and love. We don't learn how to navigate either in school. Unless you happened to take labor economist Myra Strober's class on work and family at Stanford. Now she and one of her former students, Abby Davisson, have written a book about how to approach life's biggest quandaries. We talk with Strober and Davisson about “Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions”. Guests: Myra Strober, coauthor, "Money and Love;" labor economist and Professor Emerita at the School of Education and Professor Emerita of Economics, the Graduate School of Business at Stanford University Abby Davisson, coauthor, "Money and Love;" a social innovation leader and career development expert
Myra Strober and Abby Davisson are the co-authors of “Money & Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions,” a book designed to help people make better decisions when money and love are involved. Abby Davisson is a leader, strategist, and career development expert. She spent nine years driving social impact at global retailer Gap Inc. Abby's expertise in career development comes from forging her own non-traditional career path, as well as from serving as an alumni career advisor and coach at Stanford's Graduate School of Business. Myra Strober is a labor economist, Professor (Emerita) at the Graduate School of Education at Stanford University, and Professor of Economics at Stanford's Graduate School of Business, as well as an acclaimed author. Strober was the founding director of Stanford's Center for Research on Women (now the Clayman Institute for Gender Research) and President of the International Association for Feminist Economics. She has been an expert witness in legal cases involving sex discrimination, sexual harassment, and the valuation of unpaid caring work, and she has consulted with several corporations on improved utilization of women in management and work-family issues. Myra and Abby came together to write “Money and Love” to shows us and our loved ones how to consider them jointly using the original, step-by-step 5Cs method: CLARIFY, COMMUNICATE, CHOICES, CHECK IN, and CONSEQUENCES. At a time when we are experiencing the most significant shift in work-life balance in decades – marked by remote work, the Great Reshuffle, and a mass reconfiguring of family dynamics and social/professional networks – Abby and Myra's framework offers simple and effective steps to empower readers to make the best strategic decisions without having to sacrifice their careers or personal lives. Read the show notes on Arcbound's Podcast Page: https://arcbound.com/podcasts/ Find Arcbound here: Homepage: Arcbound.com Services/Work with Us: https://arcbound.com/work-with-us/ About: https://arcbound.com/about/ Founders Corner: https://arcbound.com/category/founders-corner/ Connect: https://arcbound.com/connect/
Why are they called marshmallows? Where did the name Spam come from? Is there alligator in Gatorade? This episode begins with the interesting origins of some iconic foods. https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/tagged/health/at-home/odd-facts-7-iconic-products-164000529.html Certain inventions throughout history have had a dramatic effect on how we all view the world. The mirror, photography, television, and the smartphone (amongst others) have all significantly altered how we see ourselves and our place on the planet. Listen to this intriguing tale as told by my guest Susan Denham Wade author of the book A History of Seeing in Eleven Inventions (https://amzn.to/3vZdj9k) Decisions about love and money are often the most difficult ones to make and ones we often get wrong. How can we improve our chances of making better love and money decisions? That is what Myra Strober is here to reveal. Myra is a labor economist, Professor Emerita at Stanford University and author of the book Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions (https://amzn.to/3H34xNO) From the time you were a child you have likely been told to stand up straight and suck in your gut. Part of that advice is good but the other part isn't. Listen as I explain why. https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2021/11/12/how-to-stop-holding-in-stomach/ PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! Zocdoc is the only FREE app that lets you find AND book doctors who are patient-reviewed, take your insurance, are available when you need them and treat almost every condition under the sun! Go to https://Zocdoc.com/SYSK and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours! TurboTax experts can relieve you from the stress of taxes and file for you so you can do… not taxes! Come to TurboTax and don't do your taxes. Visit https://TurboTax.com to learn more. Intuit TurboTax. Did you know you could reduce the number of unwanted calls & emails with Online Privacy Protection from Discover? - And it's FREE! Just activate it in the Discover App. See terms & learn more at https://Discover.com/Online Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this week's all-new episode, podcast host and entrepreneur, Melissa Kiguwa speaks with social innovation leader and co-author of the book Money and Love Abby Davisson. Most recently, Abby spent nine years as president of the Gap Foundation and co-founded the organization's employee resource group for working parents, which has been featured as a best practice for how employers can support dual-career couples. In her book, Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions, co-authored with labor economist Dr. Myra Strober, the two offer a cutting-edge guide for navigating life's most consequential and daunting decisions using research-based insights road-tested in a popular Stanford University course. Highlights:Abby leads off the conversation with how decisions about money and love are inextricably bound and that when we compartmentalize the two, we miss out on a critical opportunity to leverage the entirety of the information, along with our own response to it, to make more meaningful, holistic life decisions. Next, she outlines a flexible, but sturdy, framework when grappling with some of life's bigger decisions. Next, Abby relates how being married can feel like being the CEO of a very unglamorous non-profit especially when the function of caregiving is so undervalued by our society. Having love and money conversations are uncomfortable. No one is eager to talk with their new romantic partner about their massive student loan debt. It's completely easy to put off these conversations, so she offers a helpful hack for how to get out of the day-to-day routine and make time to have meaningful engagement around the topics. Lastly, Abby shares her (and her co-author's) audacious vision for the world... for people to finally realize that money and love are profoundly intertwined, but that it's not enough to solve these issues on an individual level, and that for society to really change, we need to address them on a communal and cultural level so that in the future we all have fewer negative trade-offs that ultimately hinder our lifelong happiness.Join the conversation about THE IDEALISTS. and break*through. At our website: https://www.theidealistspodcast.co/On Instagram: @theidealistspodcast_On Twitter: @theidealistspodHelp us to grow! Leave a review of the show on Apple or SpotifyWe're sponsored by the London School of Economics @lsegenerate
Love and money matter in this week's Five-Minute Friday, as Stanford University's Myra Strober sits down with Jon Krohn to talk about her latest book, Money and Love, coauthored with Abby Davisson. In this unorthodox take on thinking with your head versus your heart, Myra and Abby address the life-changing impact that money and love have on each other and how to rethink this relationship to make better decisions. Additional materials: www.superdatascience.com/644 Interested in sponsoring a SuperDataScience Podcast episode? Visit JonKrohn.com/podcast for sponsorship information.
Often we're asked, "Should I chase a career I love or follow the Benjamins?" It turns out, according to two researchers, you may not need to choose. At the very least, our guest, Dr. Myra Strober, professor Emeritus from Stanford University, will share a guide to making a choice that's much closer to optimal than many people perceive when they worry about love vs. money. Earlier in the show, we'll speak with James Martielli from Vanguard Investments about planning your portfolio during inflationary times. He'll peer into Vanguard's crystal ball to look into what they expect for 2023 and then share tips to optimize your portfolio. Of course, we'll also throw out the Haven Life line to a lucky listener and also share Doug's astronomical trivia. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/myra-strober-1303 Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.StackingBenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Do love and money mix? Labor economist and Stanford Graduate School of Business professor emerita Myra Strober says absolutely. “Separating money and love is not a good idea. I have had 40 years to think about this, and, in my class at the GSB on work and family, each semester I realize how important it is to intertwine love and money."In this podcast episode, Matt Abrahams sits down with Strober and social innovation leader Abby Davisson to discuss the thorny topics of work, money, career, and love. In their new book, Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions, the coauthors provide a framework for communicating in and around tough decisions with those we love. These may include caring for aging relatives, expanding your family, changing careers or moving.“If you are in a relationship, maybe you have kids or other people living in your household, the first thing you need to realize is that your career decisions are going to affect the whole ecosystem,” Davisson says. “It's very important not just to clarify what you want, but to anticipate and think about the impact on those around you.”Think Fast, Talk Smart is a podcast produced by Stanford Graduate School of Business. Each episode provides concrete, easy-to-implement tools and techniques to help you hone and enhance your communication skills.More resources: Myra Strober: Breaking Barriers at Stanford GSB Achieving Balance In Work and Life, video with Myra StroberMyra Strober: How the Workplace Works — or Doesn't — for FamiliesAn Economist's Take on Why Parental Leave MattersHow Companies Can Solve the Pay Equity ProblemMoney and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions, HaperCollinsStrober and Davisson on ForbesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
n this episode I speak with Abby Davisson, co-author of, "Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions" and former corporate executive and president of the GAP foundation, whose wakeup call was being inspired by her teacher, mentor, former Stanford professor and now co-author, Myra Strober, on how to approach the most difficult decisions in life with a clear multi-step process. https://www.abbydavisson.com
Episode 106: Money and Love with Abby DavissonAbby Davisson is the co-author of the new release Money and Love, An Intelligent Road Map For Life's Biggest Decisions. In our conversation, Abby explains The 5Cs, a framework she learned as a student at Stanford Business School, that serves as a research based guide in navigating big life choices. We talk about how money and love are intertwined, and how often in the decision-making process we can lose sight of this. If you ever wished Google would answer some of these big life questions for you, this is an episode you won't want to miss. In this episode:We talk about how the 5Cs were a revelation to Abby as a graduate student, and how Abby along with her coauthor Myra Strober, who was the Stanford professor she took this class from, wanted to share the framework outside of higher education to help more people navigate these complicated life choices. The 5Cs are…drum roll… 1. Clarify what is important to you: to make an effective decision you must first understand what you truly want and what you don't2. Communicate: as you clarify what you want, open a two-way dialogue with others involved in the decision3. Consider a Broad Range of Choices: few decisions are strictly either/or, and one key to better decision-making is broadening your alternatives4. Check in with Friends, Family, and Other Resources, sharing your thought process or reaching out to others can bring new insights5. Consequences: weigh the short-term and long -term consequences of different choices before you make a final decision. Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeartRadio, Stitcher, or on your favorite podcast platform Quote: “Everyone deserves the resources and skills to enjoy both love and money.” Abby Davisson In this episode, we cover:● How life choices are constantly evolving● How the change in gender roles and family structure has changed● Why big life choices feel overwhelming● How to approach a partner to engage in the process● The benefits of slowing down to make more deliberate choices Learn more about Abby Davisson and Money and Love:
https://youtu.be/bnN5XIR7Jaw Life's Roadmap for Decisions on Money and Love with Myra Strober and Debra Kasowski In this video, I speak with Myra Strober co-author with Abby Davisson about their new book, Money and Love – An Intelligent Road Map for Life's Biggest Decisions. The concept of the book and course birthed out of a challenge that turned into an opportunity to serve others. Deeper conversations need to take place when you are getting married or deciding to live together. The 5 Cs discussed in the book; Clarify, Communicate, Consider, Check-In, and Consequences will help you arrive at the right decision for you. Sometimes decision-making needs to be postponed. Things could go wrong, be sure to ask what could go RIGHT! #decisions #debrakasowski #myrastrober Enjoy the podcast! Grab a listen to my podcast when you are on moving or relaxing wherever you are! Don't forget to subscribe to get notified of every video/podcast that is released! Debra Kasowski is the charismatic podcast host of The Millionaire Woman Show, 3X Best Selling Author, Speaker, and Certified Executive Coach. She interviews incredible speakers, authors, CEO, and Business and Organizational Leaders and drops solo episodes with tips, strategies, and techniques for your success. **GET YOUR GIFT** Go to www.debrakasowski.com for your FREE 10 pg PDF of Reset Your Mindset download when you sign up for our Success Secrets Newsletter. Book your Complimentary Discovery Session with Debra today! 1. Connect with Debra Kasowski on Social Media https://www.youtube.com/user/debrakas... https://www.instagram.com/debrakasowski https://www.facebook.com/debrakasowsk... https://www.twitter.com/debrakasowski 2. SUBSCRIBE to The Millionaire Woman Show podcast on iTunes 3. PURCHASE Debra's books – Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and your favorite bookstore GPS Your Best Life – Debra Kasowski & Charmaine Hammond The Entrepreneurial Mom's Guide to Growing a Business, Raising a Family, and Creating a Life You Love Let's Be Curious: Ask the Right Questions Get Better Answers, and Create What You Want
Panel: Charles Max Wood Guest: Catherine Meyers This week on My Ruby Story, Charles talks to Catherine Meyers. Catherine first got into programming after a significant career change from being an opera singer to being a developer. Friends of hers suggested that she begin a programming career and she hasn’t looked back since. They talk about boot camps, such as Flatiron School, the importance of life-long learning, how she got into Ruby, and why she loves the language so much. In particular, we dive pretty deep on: Ruby Rogues Episode 354 Newest member on the Ruby Rogues Panel How did you first get into programming? Relatively new to programming Career change from opera singer to programmer Didn’t grow up thinking she would be a programmer Friends pushed her to programming Taught herself HTML Used Codeacademy, Team Treehouse, and Code School Boot camps Rejected from Flatiron School originally Not everyone gets into code the same way, and that’s okay Coding takes hard work No successful programming career is automatic The importance of life-long learning How did you get into Ruby? Ruby is such a fun and great language to start with High-level language Full-stack developer Red Antler Bias towards front-end development 2 types of front-end development Talk to people of different backgrounds And much, much more! Links: Ruby Rogues Episode 354 Codeacademy Team Treehouse Code School Flatiron School Ruby Red Antler @CCMeyers324 CatherineMeyers.com Picks: Charles Running With the Demon by Terry Brooks 12 Rules for Life by Jordan B. Peterson S.W.E.A.T. Pledge Catherine Schubert - Unfinished Symphony No. 8 GeoGuessr Sharing the Work by Myra Strober
Panel: Charles Max Wood Guest: Catherine Meyers This week on My Ruby Story, Charles talks to Catherine Meyers. Catherine first got into programming after a significant career change from being an opera singer to being a developer. Friends of hers suggested that she begin a programming career and she hasn’t looked back since. They talk about boot camps, such as Flatiron School, the importance of life-long learning, how she got into Ruby, and why she loves the language so much. In particular, we dive pretty deep on: Ruby Rogues Episode 354 Newest member on the Ruby Rogues Panel How did you first get into programming? Relatively new to programming Career change from opera singer to programmer Didn’t grow up thinking she would be a programmer Friends pushed her to programming Taught herself HTML Used Codeacademy, Team Treehouse, and Code School Boot camps Rejected from Flatiron School originally Not everyone gets into code the same way, and that’s okay Coding takes hard work No successful programming career is automatic The importance of life-long learning How did you get into Ruby? Ruby is such a fun and great language to start with High-level language Full-stack developer Red Antler Bias towards front-end development 2 types of front-end development Talk to people of different backgrounds And much, much more! Links: Ruby Rogues Episode 354 Codeacademy Team Treehouse Code School Flatiron School Ruby Red Antler @CCMeyers324 CatherineMeyers.com Picks: Charles Running With the Demon by Terry Brooks 12 Rules for Life by Jordan B. Peterson S.W.E.A.T. Pledge Catherine Schubert - Unfinished Symphony No. 8 GeoGuessr Sharing the Work by Myra Strober
Panel: Charles Max Wood Guest: Catherine Meyers This week on My Ruby Story, Charles talks to Catherine Meyers. Catherine first got into programming after a significant career change from being an opera singer to being a developer. Friends of hers suggested that she begin a programming career and she hasn’t looked back since. They talk about boot camps, such as Flatiron School, the importance of life-long learning, how she got into Ruby, and why she loves the language so much. In particular, we dive pretty deep on: Ruby Rogues Episode 354 Newest member on the Ruby Rogues Panel How did you first get into programming? Relatively new to programming Career change from opera singer to programmer Didn’t grow up thinking she would be a programmer Friends pushed her to programming Taught herself HTML Used Codeacademy, Team Treehouse, and Code School Boot camps Rejected from Flatiron School originally Not everyone gets into code the same way, and that’s okay Coding takes hard work No successful programming career is automatic The importance of life-long learning How did you get into Ruby? Ruby is such a fun and great language to start with High-level language Full-stack developer Red Antler Bias towards front-end development 2 types of front-end development Talk to people of different backgrounds And much, much more! Links: Ruby Rogues Episode 354 Codeacademy Team Treehouse Code School Flatiron School Ruby Red Antler @CCMeyers324 CatherineMeyers.com Picks: Charles Running With the Demon by Terry Brooks 12 Rules for Life by Jordan B. Peterson S.W.E.A.T. Pledge Catherine Schubert - Unfinished Symphony No. 8 GeoGuessr Sharing the Work by Myra Strober
Myra Strober is a labor economist. She is Professor (Emerita) at the Graduate School of Education at Stanford University, and Professor of Economics at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business (by courtesy). She is the coauthor of The Road Winds Uphill All the Way: Gender, Work, and Family in the United States and Japan (MIT Press).
Deborah Sivas, Stanford Unversity, explains the cancelation and restart of the Army's Dakota Access Pipeline study. Stanford's Myra Strober on why you can't have it all. University of Massachusetts' Amy Schalet gives insight on academia. U of U's Steven Lobell, UVU's John Macfarlane, and BYU's Fred Axelgard discuss the Middle East and President Trump's travel ban. Michael Kugelman, Woodrow Wilson Center, on Muslim mistreatment in Myanmar.
We had an inspiring and far-ranging conversation with feminist economist Myra Strober about her new memoir, Sharing the Work:What My Family and Career Taught Me About Breaking Through (and Holding the Door Open for Others). We examined differences between memoir writing, fiction, and academic writing, and how Myra used theme as a filter to shape and cut her memoir.