Podcast appearances and mentions of pat love

Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/ In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Pat Love about The 5 Forces Destroying Your Relationship. Pat is an acclaimed therapist, speaker, and author of several books who has been a clinical practitioner of marriage and family therapy for over 40 years. Hear what's important when selecting a mate, why true love takes time, how to help your clients when their emotions get flooded, how to navigate financial stress, and why fairness is so crucial to the success of a relationship. To learn more about Dr. Pat Love, visit: FlourishTogether.com Pat's books on Amazon Pat's LinkedIn  

Do you enjoy how you're currently spending your time?  Do you feel like you use your time wisely?  When I am insecure and jealous, I don't!  When you're feeling jealous, most likely you are spending your very precious time thinking about your partner rather than spending it on things that bring you joy, not a stomach ache.In this episode, Shanenn and Dr. Adam Dorsay talk about the concept of connection in our modern world. Despite being more technologically connected than ever, many people struggle with loneliness and disconnection. Dr. Dorsay shares insights from his new book, Super Psyched about authentic connection and how to find it in various aspects of life.Key Topics Discussed:The paradox of being technologically connected yet feeling disconnectedThe four dimensions of connection: self, others, world, and something greaterHow social media comparison affects our relationships and self-imagePractical tips for maintaining long-distance friendshipsCreating novel experiences with your partner to strengthen connectionThe importance of investing time in activities that truly energize usNotable Quotes: "We're more connected technologically than ever before... And yet, we are less connected than ever before." - Dr. Adam DorsayResources Mentioned:Dr. Dorsay's Book Super PsychedSuper Psyched PodcastDr. Pat Love's "Hot Monogamy"Connect with Dr. Adam Dorsay:Website: www.dradamdorsay.comTEDx Talks: "Friendship in Adulthood" and "Men and Emotions" Schedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Call to see how I can help.Wanna feel more supported? Join other women just like you who understand what you're going through and are there to support you. Join the SIS Membership today.Grab the 5 Must-Haves To Overcome Jealousy Connect with ShanennTop Self WebsiteShanenn on InstagramDisclaimerThe information on this podcast or any platform affiliated with Top Self LLC, or the Top Self podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. No material associated with Jealousy Junkie podcast is intended to be a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition or treatment and before taking on or performing any of the activities or suggestions discussed on the podcast or website.

Dr. Joy Erlichman Miller returns to Resiliency Within to share her international work on resiliency. This year, on September 12, 2024, Dr. Miller invites the world to join her for RESILIENCY 2024 in spreading the word about how to develop and nurture well-being. This year, RESILIENCY 2024 will focus on the POWER of connections and explore the influence and healing power of connections. Dr. Miller's Resiliency events have had more than 35,000 participants from 112 countries around the globe. Resiliency 2024 is offered free of charge. Her resiliency events have included 85 Celebrities, Influencers, Scientists, Researchers, Psychologists, Artists, and Leaders have included: Dr. Jill Biden, Alanis Morissette, Arianna Huffington, Dr. Edith Eger, Tara Brach, Jack Kornfield, India Arie, Kristin Neff, Erin Brockovich, Leigh Steinberg, Marta Kauffman, Glenn Close, Dr. Andrew Weil, Bobbi Brown, Jericho Brown, Pete Buttigieg, Ray LaHood, Dr. Ian, Jewel, Tito Jackson, Harville Hendrix & Helen Hunt, Pat Love, Jeh Johnson, Dick Durbin, JB Pritzker, MILCK, Naomi Baum & Michael Dickson, Rhonda Ross, Alisyn Camerota, David Kessler, Jurie Rossouw, Richard Schwartz, Amit Sood, Elaine Miller- Karas, Cynthia Tuohy, Julianne Hough, and 50 other remarkable change-makers. All speakers generously donate their time and talent to this unbelievable event. Joy leads with compassion, heart, and generosity. Join the host of Resiliency Within, Elaine Miller-Karas as she has the honor to interview Dr. Miller.

Dr. Joy Erlichman Miller returns to Resiliency Within to share her international work on resiliency. This year, on September 12, 2024, Dr. Miller invites the world to join her for RESILIENCY 2024 in spreading the word about how to develop and nurture well-being. This year, RESILIENCY 2024 will focus on the POWER of connections and explore the influence and healing power of connections. Dr. Miller's Resiliency events have had more than 35,000 participants from 112 countries around the globe. Resiliency 2024 is offered free of charge. Her resiliency events have included 85 Celebrities, Influencers, Scientists, Researchers, Psychologists, Artists, and Leaders have included: Dr. Jill Biden, Alanis Morissette, Arianna Huffington, Dr. Edith Eger, Tara Brach, Jack Kornfield, India Arie, Kristin Neff, Erin Brockovich, Leigh Steinberg, Marta Kauffman, Glenn Close, Dr. Andrew Weil, Bobbi Brown, Jericho Brown, Pete Buttigieg, Ray LaHood, Dr. Ian, Jewel, Tito Jackson, Harville Hendrix & Helen Hunt, Pat Love, Jeh Johnson, Dick Durbin, JB Pritzker, MILCK, Naomi Baum & Michael Dickson, Rhonda Ross, Alisyn Camerota, David Kessler, Jurie Rossouw, Richard Schwartz, Amit Sood, Elaine Miller- Karas, Cynthia Tuohy, Julianne Hough, and 50 other remarkable change-makers. All speakers generously donate their time and talent to this unbelievable event. Joy leads with compassion, heart, and generosity. Join the host of Resiliency Within, Elaine Miller-Karas as she has the honor to interview Dr. Miller.

5 steg till kärleksfulla relationer Visste du att: om vi vill skapa förändring är det betydligt smartare att fokusera på det positiva än att försöka ta bort det negativa? På engelska säger vi; If you want to make a change it is easier to add positive than to eliminate negatives.  forskning visar att oavsett ålder, kan vi skapa nya fysiska neurala spår i hjärnan? Det betyder att vi alltid kan välja att utvecklas och välja att göra mer av det som fungerar, och mindre av det som hindrar oss att må bra?  när vi vet våra värderingar och väljer att leva efter dem, så lägger vi grunden till ett liv fyllt av öppenhet, glädje och kraft? tillgänglighet och närvaro är nyckeln till kärleksfulla relationer och framgång- både hemma och på jobbet?  vi skapar livsviktig trygghet när vi tydligt säger det vi ska göra, sen väljer att göra det, om sen upprepar det vi sagt om och om igen? när vi kan se våra "värsta sidor" med värme, hjälper det oss att kunna föreställa oss hur det är för andra, att vara med oss. Att kliva in i en annan persons skor är avgörande när vi vill skapa respektfulla och belönande relationer?  känslan av rättvisa är grunden till tillit och välbefinnande? nyckeln till utveckling är att vi ser oss själva lite utifrån?   när vi tittar på oss själva med varma ögon hjälper vi oss själva att få och ta emot det vi vill ha.   livskriser ofta kan leda oss till en bättre plats?  I dagens podcastavsnitt möter jag min vän, kollega och medförfattare Dr Pat Love. Tillsammans pratar vi om vad forskning visar fungerar gällande konsten att skapa kärleksfulla relationer och framgång.  Som vanligt ska du känna dig varmt välkommen att lyssna!  Eva Berlander

How do you define love? What is it exactly? Listen to the beginning of this episode and you will hear one of the best definitions of love ever. Knowing this definition will make it clear as a bell what you have to do to get more love in your life. Source: Dr. Pat Love author of The Truth About Love (https://amzn.to/3r7Rzcu) While we all know humans are social creatures, we have actually become much less social than in previous generations. People have fewer friends, more people than ever do not have a best friend, many of us claim to feel lonely and don't know our neighbors. And certainly politics has created a lot of division and isolation. We are simply less connected. This is a real problem according to Geoffrey Cohen, professor of psychology and organizational studies at Stanford University and author of the book, Belonging: The Science of Creating Connection and Bridging Divides (https://amzn.to/3r82Nhi). Listen as he explains why human connection is so important and offers practical suggestions for creating more connections in your life.  There are 40 million miles of roads in the United States. While you probably don't think much about them, they are vital to our way of life. They get us from here to there. Yet, there is a price to pay for having the convenience of all these roads. Animals pay a big part of that price. Roads are hazardous to them. And when your car hits an animal it is hazardous and often expensive for you. There are other important consequences to having our network of roads you may not have considered. Here to explain it all is Ben Goldfarb. He is a writer whose work has appeared in The New York Times, National Geographic and other publications and he is author of the book Crossings: How Road Ecology Is Shaping the Future of Our Planet (https://amzn.to/44OpLI6) Could the shoes you wear reveal something about your personality? There was a study done about this and I will tell you what this study claims your shoes are telling the world about you. http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0092656612000608 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! With HelloFresh, you get farm-fresh, pre-portioned ingredients and seasonal recipes delivered right to your doorstep. Go to https://HelloFresh.com/50something and use code 50something for 50% off plus free shipping! Shopify gives you everything you need to take control and take your business to the next level. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://Shopify.com/sysk today! Anxious thoughts seem to happen at the worst time. It's important to try and get out of those negative thought cycles. If you're thinking of starting therapy, give BetterHelp a try. It's entirely online, so it's convenient, flexible, and suited to your schedule. Just fill out a brief questionnaire to get matched with a licensed therapist. Get a break from your negative thoughts with BetterHelp Visit https://BetterHelp.com/SOMETHING today to get 10% off your first month! Now, your ideas don't have to wait, now, they have everything they need to come to life. Dell Technologies and Intel are pushing what technology can do, so great ideas can happen - right now! Find out how to bring your ideas to life at https://Dell.com/WelcomeToNow U.S. Cellular knows how important your kid's relationship with technology is. That's why they've partnered with Screen Sanity, a non-profit dedicated to helping kids navigate the digital landscape. For a smarter start to the school year, U.S. Cellular is offering a free basic phone on new eligible lines, providing an alternative to a smartphone for children. Visit https://USCellular.com/BuiltForUS ! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are all pretty clear on the dangers of driving while intoxicated. But there also appears to be some danger in driving while dehydrated. Who knew? This episode begins with some fascinating research that shows a link between dehydration and driver error – and the results will surprise you. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/driving-while-dehydrated-can-be-just-as-dangerous-as-drinkdriving-study-suggests-10187670.html  How do you get a lot of things done without the feeling of being overwhelmed? Part of the problem is understanding why you feel overwhelmed. When you do, it is easy to stop it according to my guest, time management expert Sam Bennett author of the book Start Right Where You Are: How Little Changes Can Make a Big Difference for Overwhelmed Procrastinators, Frustrated Overachievers, and Recovering Perfectionists (https://amzn.to/2ZKmwDs). Listen as she reveals how to take control of your day and accomplish the important tasks – and how NOT to be one of those people who is always complaining about how busy and overwhelmed they are.  If you don't have enough confidence in yourself and your abilities, it is hard to succeed. Yet having too much confidence can also get in the way. So how do you get the right amount of confidence and use it to your advantage? Here to discuss that is Don Moore, professor of management at the Haas School of Business at UC Berkeley and author of the book Perfectly Confident (https://amzn.to/3cuzZTr). Have you ever felt really intense loneliness. It can be excruciatingly painful. And that turns out to be a good thing. Listen as I reveal how to use the pain of loneliness to not feel lonely anymore. Source: Dr. Pat Love author of Never Be Lonely Again (https://amzn.to/2TKC3zq) PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! Keep American farming going by signing up at https://MoinkBox.com/SYSK  RIGHT NOW and listeners of this show get FREE filet mignon for a year! Now your ideas don't have to wait. Dell Technologies and Intel are creating technology that loves ideas, expanding your business & evolving your passions. Find out how to bring your ideas to life at https://Dell.com/welcometonow ! Discover Credit Cards do something pretty awesome. At the end of your first year, they automatically double all the cash back you've earned! See terms and check it out for yourself at https://Discover.com/match Let's find “us” again by putting our phones down for five.  Five days, five hours, even five minutes. Join U.S. Cellular in the Phones Down For Five challenge! Find out more at https://USCellular.com/findus If you own a small business, you know the value of time. Innovation Refunds does too! They've made it easy to apply for the employee retention credit or ERC by going to https://getrefunds.com to see if your business qualifies in less than 8 minutes! Innovation Refunds has helped small businesses collect over $3 billion in payroll tax refunds! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

"Om du vill ha förändring i ditt liv, ja, då är det betydligt smartare att fokusera på (och förstora) det positiva, än att försöka att "ta bort" eller "jobba" med det negativa."  Eva Berlander Vad skapar bra relationer? Eva Berlander möter Dr Pat Love En av de klokaste och mest kärleksfulla personer Eva vet är Dr Pat Love. Pat är hennes kollega, vän och hon är även medförfattare till deras prisbelönta bok: Du förstör vår relation.  Eva uppskattar henne så mycket för att hon är; autentisk ärlig rolig oerhört klok sprallig trygg lekfull varm pålitlig rättvis nyfiken intresserad öppen mottaglig relationär flexibel enkel tydlig mjuk ansvarfull modig och generös. Säkert förstår du varför Eva tycker att det är lätt att vara nära Pat. Forskning visar tydligt att dessa egenskaper inte bara är trivsamma och härliga utan även nödvändiga när vi ska skapa riktigt bra relationer - både hemma och på jobbet. Som vanligt ska du känna dig varmt välkommen att lyssna.  P.S. Nedan kan du läsa mer om de 5 områden som Pat pratar om i podden.   Underlying Forces of Happy, Stable Relationships Security—adhering to the agreed-upon commitments to one another and the relationship. An underlying practice of physical, emotional, financial, and sexual fidelity as well as, safety. In secure relationship dissatisfaction never leads to overt or covert threats to leaving. Signs of an insecure relationship—no small issues; reactivity; chronic unrest. Sense that “what they are arguing about is not what they are arguing about.” Insensitivity to partner's basic needs. Tolerating abusive or insensitive treatment from partner. Therapeutic amnesia. Equity—Relationship includes sharing of resources in a manner that feels fair and generous to partners. Considerate distribution of support, time, energy, and need gratification. Signs of inequity—clients report being unhappy, unappreciated, unsupported, withdrawn, resentful, grown apart. Withholding vital need gratification for partner in an attempt to retaliate for lack of fairness in relationship. Relational—thinking and acting conjointly. Being aware, sensitive, and caring regarding the impact of your behavior on your partner(s) and the relationship. Signs of a non-relational relationship—unilateral decision-making. Being indifferent to partner's interests, family, opinion, or needs. Lack of support and respect for partner's work or lifestyle. Insistence on continuing activities enjoyed as a single person which now threaten the relationship. Flexible—Adaptable to change. Accommodating needs of partner(s) and relationship. Open-minded, willing to listen, understand, and negotiate. Being forgiving and able to change your mind. Signs of an inflexible relationship—opposition to any change. Demand for agreement. Sees change as a personal threat. Disinterest in any but own opinion and information. Vital—active involvement in keeping the relationship interesting, fun, growing, and passionate. Signs of a relationship lacking in vitality—boredom; best times happen without partner; thought of same relationship routine in the future is depressing to one or both partners. Lack of curiosity about new activities.  © Pat Love, Ed.D., 2022

Join us as Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz discuss that the foundation for true connection is within ourselves. We will be talking about four guiding principles that will help you develop a meaningful marriage. Come to discover your strengths, learn how to turn towards your spouse, gain a vision for the marriage of your dreams, and see the value of fierce loyalty.  Links: “Beyond the Myth of Marital Happiness,” by Dr. Blaine Fowers https://www.viacharacter.org/ “How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It,” by Pat Love and Steve Stosny   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: podcast.strongermarriage.org https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage   Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/   The information provided by the Stronger Marriage Connection Podcast is intended for general information and educational purposes only. The content of the Podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, marriage counseling, or therapy and no content should be construed as personalized advice. The Stronger Marriage Connection Podcast makes no representation or warranty, either express or implied, regarding its content or outcomes derived as a result of listening to the Podcast. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What's emotional incest? (Please be aware that you could be triggered by this episode if abuse is in your past and I'll share links to help lines.) It's not the same as sexual incest – but can certainly cause its own type of damage. It falls within the dynamic of enmeshment but has its own definition and characteristics. Emotional incest is defined as a parent turning to a child to meet their emotional needs instead of having that relationship with an adult.  We'll talk about how it happens and how it's so often missed since it can appear as if all is normal, when it's not at all. And as always, we'll focus on what you can do about it. The listener voicemail is from someone who used what she called discipline to parent but her kids have some resentment toward her. We'll talk about what she could do. Vital Links!!! Click this link to try out some of the best CBD out there! Ozark Mountain Medicine's CBD products and get 10% off!  Click Here for the fabulous offer from Athletic Greens - now AG1 - with bonus product with your subscription! International Sexual Abuse Hotlines Sean Grover's article in Psychology Today on Emotional Incest Check out SelfWork  Episode 62 on being overly close to your parent and Episode 224 on steps out of enmeshment Dr. Pat Love's book The Emotional Incest Syndrome Don Miguel Ruiz' book The Four Agreements You can hear more about this and many other topics by listening to my podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford. Subscribe to my website and receive my weekly newsletter including a blog post and podcast! If you'd like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click here and answer the membership questions! Welcome! My book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression is available and you can order here! Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life. And it's available in paperback, eBook or as an audiobook! And there's another way to send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You'll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you're giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I'll look forward to hearing from you!

Most real estate agents are discouraged when they first come into the business. Not knowing where to start or how to navigate. If this sounds like you, don't worry, there is an answer. Real estate professional with EXP realty, Pat Love tells us all about her chapter in the upcoming real estate business book Become a Local Leader. In this eye-opening interview with Grant Findlay-Shirras, co-founder of Parkbench.com, Pat shares her insights and techniques around creating a strong community network and leveraging for success. Contact Pat Love Ph: (604) 377-0057 (Cell) FB: https://www.facebook.com/patloverealestate Parkbench Site: https://parkbench.com/real-estate/pat-love

Pat Love started a community website to help seniors and it turned out, surprisingly, to be good for business too. Pat shares the challenges she had doing business and raising children with autism and how the community supported her through that time.   Highlights From This Episode: How building a community website helped seniors and was good for business too The changes in promotion from blog style interviews to selfies Giving people what they want, real community and not professional advertising type things The need to embrace shopping locally and supporting the businesses around us The struggles of raising children with autism while building a business and the importance of a community to support you Links & Resources From This Episode: Learn more:  Pat Love Realtor Resources:  Park Bench Community   More About Pat Love As a lifelong resident of North Vancouver, I’ve been in the residential real estate business for over 25 years. I’ve lived in Upper Lonsdale area for 20 years and love its diversity and convenience. Having raised my children here I appreciate the neighbourly feel of the community. They enjoyed attending Larson Elementary, Balmoral and Carson Graham (two of those, I also attended). Prior to becoming a realtor, I worked as a hairstylist who always had a passion for law. Realizing early, that the hairdressing business would wear out my body, I decided to combine my love of connecting with people with my passion for law. Residential real estate services fit the bill. I’m also a bit of a serial entrepreneur (handed down from my Dad, an Engineer who owned his own firm). I worked for him and learned all about small business, followed by owning a North Vancouver restaurant for 3 years, also quite an education. I took a short break from real estate when my children were diagnosed with autism and went back to hairdressing to regroup. It was a business where there is a lot of support from your clients and co-workers too. I needed it then and it got me through a difficult time. Once my boys graduated from high school, I decided that I needed to get back to supporting my real estate career again. One part of that is my community website. It is my passion project and the enhancement it brought to my life was very unexpected. I found a gift for connecting businesses and supporting my community which I love. I strive to deliver exceptional guidance to clients with their real estate buying or selling, while understanding that this exciting, but stressful experience, requires insightful support. My experience and background has given me the foresight to identify and proactively address any potential issues. I’m particularly fond of working with seniors, am well versed in their needs, and very involved in that community. I work with a trusted group of individuals to ensure that all aspects of selling, buying, and moving are addressed, including staging, downsizing, oil tank remove, repairs and cleaning, and can recommend connections in retirement community services. Because both of my children have autism, I’m active in the special needs community. I understand the unique needs of families dealing with the challenges that come with their special gifts. Families often feel excluded from the general population because they feel that people don’t understand and often pass judgement on circumstances that present themselves. I’m very aware of how upsetting change can be for these individuals and families and will do all I can do to avoid unnecessary discomfort.   Awesome FREE Resources for YOU! Power of 3 Daily Planner Check out our other podcast guests!   Thanks for listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! 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Are you in a long-term relationship and longing for greater sexual passion? If so, you'll want to listen to this episode! Dr. Pat Love is an internationally-recognized expert, best-selling author, and a masterful therapist who has specialized in helping couples rekindle their passion and love. Dr. Harville Hendrix has said of her work, “Every couple wanting to deepen or save their relationship should read it.” With humor, intelligence, and useful tips, Dr. Love delivers big in this episode.

“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes” Marcel Proust Ett paradigmskifte – Hedy Schleifer Med kroppen full av energi, värme och bubblande glädje vill Eva bjuda in dig till att lyssna på ett spännande podcastsamtal när hon möter hennes vän, kollega och tidigare lärare Hedy Schleifer. Hedy är psykoterapeut och grundare av: Hedy Schleifer – Master Relationship Builder. Med över 40 års erfarenhet av relationsbyggande har hon inspirerat hundratusentals människor över hela världen. Alltid med fantastiska resultat! I början av 90-talet utbildade sig Eva till parterapeut med hjälp av denna begåvade och berörande kvinna. Hon var även den terapeut som hjälpte Eva och hennes man Sven när dom badade i träsket av konflikter. Precis som ett bra fotbollslag består av olika begåvade spelare, bygger Evas ”kunskapslag” på en mängd duktiga lärare, inspiratörer, vänner och forskare: Hedy Schleifer, Pat Love, Dan Siegel, Bassel van der Kolk, Pat Ogden, Allan Shore, Louis Cozolino, Jack Panksepp, Lars-Eric Uneståhl m.fl. Alla dessa framgångsrika personer har format hennes sätt att arbeta idag. Den som tydligast varit hennes främste lärare har varit hennes man Sven, hennes nära relationer och alla tusentals klienter som besökt hennes klinik. Evas kompetens vilar helt enkelt, på alla dessa begåvade personers axlar. Välkommen till att lyssna på Eva och Hedy. Tillsammans pratar de om utveckling, transformation och paradigmskiften. P.S. Besök gärna Hedy på www.hedyschleifer.com

Could driving while dehydrated be as dangerous as driving while drunk? This episode begins with some fascinating research that shows a link between dehydration and driver error – and the results are surprising. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/driving-while-dehydrated-can-be-just-as-dangerous-as-drinkdriving-study-suggests-10187670.htmlHow do you get a lot of things done without feeling overwhelmed? That’s what I discuss with time management expert Sam Bennett author of the book Start Right Where You Are: How Little Changes Can Make a Big Difference for Overwhelmed Procrastinators, Frustrated Overachievers, and Recovering Perfectionists (https://amzn.to/2ZKmwDs). She discusses how to take control of your day and accomplish the important tasks – and how NOT to be one of those people who is always complaining about how much they have to do and how busy they are.When you interact with other people you make judgments about them. You also make judgements about how they are judging you and what they are thinking. The interesting thing is that you are probably wrong according to human behavior expert Mark Bowden author of the book Truth & Lies: What People Are Really Thinking (https://amzn.to/3etmqUT). Listen as Mark explains how to size up situations and the people you deal with in a way that gets you closer to understanding what other people are REALLY thinking.Loneliness can feel very painful. And that turns out to be a good thing. Listen as we discuss how to use the pain of loneliness to not feel lonely anymore. Source: Dr. Pat Love author of Never Be Lonely Again (https://amzn.to/2TKC3zq)This Week's Sponsors:-Kong Box. Get your first box free when you donate $1 to help dogs in need. Go to www.KongBox.com/something to start your subscription.-Pindrop. Listen to the new podcast Pindrop https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pindrop/id1514010062

In talking about factors that destroy relationships, Dr. Pat Love speaks with such depth and wisdom about all the things that are required to have a secure, healthy relationship. She talks about emotional security, attachment, systems theory, the relational set up, being flexible and spontaneous and so much more that we often take for granted in our relationships. Dr. Pat Love is known for her warmth, humor, and practical, research-based wisdom. Her blog posts, YouTube clips, books, trainings, workshops, and online courses have made her a popular go-to relationship consultant. Her work has been featured on TV, in cyberspace, and popular magazines, but she’s also a distinguished professor, licensed marriage and family therapist, and long-standing clinical member and approved supervisor in American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Dr. Love (yes that is her real surname) has authored/co-authored six books, has written numerous professional publications, and has developed multiple training programs including Love Education™. Her work literally has taken her around the world to help people understand and improve their relationships. The Couples Therapist Couch is the podcast for Couples Therapists about the practice of couples therapy. The host, Shane Birkel, interviews an expert in the field of couples therapy each week. Please subscribe to the podcast for more great episodes. See below for more information on the Couples Therapist Inner Circle. Get your free course called Working with Couples 101 Click here to join the Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group Today's Sponsor The Couples Therapist Inner Circle This is the Membership Site for Couples Therapists. There is a workshop every month on topics like EFT, Gottman, Infidelity, and Working with Sex. Additionally there are regular question and answer sessions and opportunities to talk about cases.

Pat Love is a certified love educator. And yes, Love is really Pat's last name. She is a Licensed family & marriage therapist who has appeared on multiple shows such as Oprah, Today's Show, and CNN. She's written multiple books on relationships and communication which is good, because the focus of our conversation is great conversations, that is, what do men and women need to do to communicate better, which leads to better relationships.

I det här podcast avsnittet blir du inbjuden som vittne till en workshop som Eva Berander och Dr Pat Love hade i Göteborg. Utbildningen heter: Coming Apart to Be Together. Tillsammans med en stor grupp av målmedvetna individer och par, tittar de lekfullt på deras önskan av bästa resultat efter kursens slut. Här kan du själv välja att lekfullt svara på dessa frågor: En önskan som jag har för mig själv, det är... (t ex. att jag får tillgång till min glädje) Om jag är där, det jag då skulle känna är... (t ex. då skulle jag känna mig fri, bubblig och lugn) Vad andra skulle se om jag var där är... (t ex. andra skulle se mig som öppen, nyfiken, lekfull och positiv) Måla gärna upp hur din kropp ser ut när du är här. Dina rörelser, dina gester, din röst m.m. Bra jobbat!

Dr. Pat Love is known for warmth, humor, and her practical and research based wisdom. Her work has taken her around the world to help people understand and improve their relationships through just about every platform including magazines, TV, blogs, and workshops. Today, she talks about the inspiration she gains by new research and information in the field, how she brings couples together when there have been many years of distance and the formula for desire and true passion. She also gives a formula for passion and intimacy, the strongest predictors of longevity in relationships and the three key elements that make up real life trust.   TAKEAWAYS: [1:28] Dr. Pat Love has numerous amount of blog posts, You Tube clips, trainings and workshops that have made her a renowned relationship consultant. She is also a distinguished professor, licensed marriage and family therapist, and long-standing clinical member and approved supervisor in American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. [4:26] More research is coming out everyday to support the evidence that being there for each other during not only the fun times, but the tough ones as well is one of the main keys to a healthy and fulfilling relationship. [5:42] Many of Rob’s clients struggle and wonder how they will be sexual with their partner after there has been a betrayal. [7:11] One of Dr. Love’s motivations for writing her book Hot Monogamy was to dig in and process how to feel intimacy again when there has been a betrayal. [9:21] There are two pathways to desire, there are autogenic and psychogenic. We often stereotype all women to be “brains” and men to be “body” in term of desire, but it is more like a continuum. [11:58] The formula Dr. Love came up with in Hot Monogamy is P(passion)=S2i (two sexual beings joined by sexual intimacy). [14:21] One of the strongest predictors of longevity is emotional regulation, the ability to calm, soothe and cheer yourself no matter what is happening. [16:16] The three steps to build trust: Say what you are going to do; Do it; Repeat steps 1 and 2. [18:09] Infatuation lowers our defenses, and the desire and brain chemistry cocktail leads us to focus only on the positive instead of processing negatives. [19:55] The all too common phase of “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” isn’t always something to break up over. Often times, it presents a critical moment where the infatuation has passed and you are at the threshold of true love. [23:56] Dr. Love adapts her model and teachings based on the current research and information, and Hot Monogamy will be updated to reflect the digital age. [28:47] Dr. Love shares her experience of getting her hormones checked and taking testosterone for a couple months. She saw that all the sexual cues that related to her desire were screaming at her under the influence of 1 cc of testosterone. [32:34] The discussion of “chore play” is important for taking the time to relax, and block out some time to create desire.   RESOURCES Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Dr. Pat Love Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking by Dr. Patricia Love @Pat Love facebook @DrPatLove twitter pat@patlove.com   QUOTES: “The good thing about what we do is the research keeps going out.” - P “You will never have passion without intimacy” - P “There’s a limit on how many chandeliers you will hang from, but there is no limit to intimacy.” “Vintage love, tried and true love, makes infatuation pale by comparison.” “I’m halfway between genius and stupid.” “If I even think about patting my husbands butt, I do it.” “Sex takes some work if you want a healthy sex life. You have to be proactive.”

I detta avsnitt har jag ett fint samtal med Dr Pat Love. Pat är professor och licensierad äktenskaps- och familjeterapeut i USA. Hon är känd från flertalet tv-program och tidningar. Jag ber Pat besvara frågan: leder intimitet till bra sex? Varmt Välkommen!

Tom Longano and Pat Love run a successful drama program for lower and middle school boys at The Heights. With their play coming up next week, they discuss the founding of The Tower Fools, what makes an effective show and what the fruits of drama are to the young liberal arts mind–and their audience.

This week on Relationships 2.0 my guest is Steven Stosny PhD author of Soar Above: How to Use the Most Profound Part of Your Brain Under Any Kind of Stress About the book: Success in work, love, and life depends on developing habits that activate the powerful prefrontal cortex when we need it most. Unfortunately, under stress, the human brain tends to revert to emotional habits we forged in toddlerhood: blame, denial, avoidance, reacting to a jerk like a jerk, and turning our connections into cold shoulders—or worse. In Soar Above, renowned relationship expert Dr. Steven Stosny offers a ground-breaking formula for building new, pressure-resistant habits. Based on research in psychology, neurobiology, and anthropology, Stosny will show anyone how to switch to the adult brain automatically when things get tough and to soar above the impulse to make things worse. Filled with engaging examples from his lectures and therapeutic work with more than 6,000 clients, he explains how to use two potent laws of emotion interaction--reciprocity and contagion-- to inspire those around you, creating collaboration and community instead of chaos and confusion. Most importantly, readers will learn how, through practice, they can get off the treadmill of repeating past mistakes to become their best selves at home, at work, and in the world. Stress is inevitable in life, but this illuminating book gives anyone the practical tools to rise above. About the author: Steven Stosny, Ph.D., has treated more than 6,000 people through CompassionPower, the organization he founded and has directed for more than 21 years. He is the author of Living & Loving after Betrayal, Love without Hurt: Turn Your Resentful, Angry, or Emotionally Abusive Relationship into a Compassionate, Loving One, and, with Pat Love, How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking about It. His textbook, Treating Attachment Abuse: A Compassionate Approach, set a new standard for understanding and treating family abuse and was a Behavioral Science Book Selection. His blog Psychology Today blog on relationships is one of the most popular, with nearly four million views.

Dr. Pat Love is known for her warmth, humor, and practical, research-based wisdom. Her blog posts, YouTube clips, books, trainings, workshops, and online courses have made her a popular go-to relationship consultant. Her work has been featured on TV, in cyberspace, and popular magazines, but she's also a distinguished professor, licensed marriage and family therapist, and long-standing clinical member and approved supervisor in American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Dr. Love (yes that is her real surname) has authored/co-authored six books, four workbooks, and numerous professional publications. Her work literally has taken her around the world to help people understand and improve their relationships. Dr. Love received her doctor of education in counselor education from West Virginia University. She was a tenured associate professor at Texas A&M University in Commerce, Texas for six years before establishing the Austin Family Institute in Austin, Texas. Dr. Love also served as president of the International Association for Marriage and Family Counseling. Today, she continues following her passion to help others through her writing and as a relationship consultant, trainer, and workshop presenter. Dr. Wade is clinical psychologist, author, TV host, and motivational speaker, who inspires thousands of people each month with her dynamic range of events and free teleseminar's.

Dr. Pat Love is known for her warmth, humor, and practical, research-based wisdom. Her blog posts, YouTube clips, books, trainings, workshops, and online courses have made her a popular go-to relationship consultant. Her work has been featured on TV, in cyberspace, and popular magazines, but she's also a distinguished professor, licensed marriage and family therapist, and long-standing clinical member and approved supervisor in American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Dr. Love (yes that is her real surname) has authored/co-authored six books, four workbooks, and numerous professional publications. Her work literally has taken her around the world to help people understand and improve their relationships. Dr. Love received her doctor of education in counselor education from West Virginia University. She was a tenured associate professor at Texas A&M University in Commerce, Texas for six years before establishing the Austin Family Institute in Austin, Texas. Dr. Love also served as president of the International Association for Marriage and Family Counseling. Today, she continues following her passion to help others through her writing and as a relationship consultant, trainer, and workshop presenter. Dr. Wade is clinical psychologist, author, TV host, and motivational speaker, who inspires thousands of people each month with her dynamic range of events and free teleseminar's.

Pat Love is a renowned author and speaker on "Couples in Recovery." Listen tonight as she talks about what kinds of support couples need to stay healthy as they work in recovery. It is not easy to navigate through being a couple but the work is harder when you have been through trauma. The good news is that when each person works in solid recovery, the coupleship is bound to get stronger!

Getting ready for the weekend, we revel in the holiday spirit. We talk to Dr. Pat Love about her book "You’re Tearing Us Apart: Twenty Ways We Wreck Our Relationships and Strategies to Repair Them." We talk about long-term relationship and how time can take its toll on marriages. Why and how people grow apart and become critical of each other.

Getting ready for the weekend, we revel in the holiday spirit. We talk to Dr. Pat Love about her book "You’re Tearing Us Apart: Twenty Ways We Wreck Our Relationships and Strategies to Repair Them." We talk about long-term relationship and how time can take its toll on marriages. Why and how people grow apart and become critical of each other.

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Option Block 365: The Great Apple $107 Debate Trading Block: A mild day on the street. Apple finally passes $100. What will Yellen say tomorrow and how will it affect the market? New study show advisors use of options increased 13% since 2011.   Odd Block: Calls trade in Jarden Corp. (JAH) calls trade in China Finance Online Co. (JRJC), and calls trade in Macerich Co. (MAC).   Xpress Block: Free pizza day at every Schwab/OX site today in celebration of the importing of the 3- and 4-leg trade ticket from OX to Schwab which is coming in Sept.   Strategy Block: A strategy of patience. Waiting for the right time to make a move in Apple and gold.   Mail Block: Goldman Fly Question from Pat - Love the show, it's really great and even though I'm clueless (as is shown by the following). Here's one that might be good for your "could've done the trade better" segment in Options Block. The following is the list of trades that I have made around Goldman. Sorry I don't have the volatilities or any other data from the trades but hopefully you'll be able to explain the error of my ways without them. Once I made the initial trade and GS didn't rebound quickly, I was trying to offset the cost of keeping the calls since I expected that Oct was plenty of time to get back to the 175 area. 3/27 - buy 2 10/18 170-180 call spreads for $3 debit (6.42/3.42) 4/25 - closed 180 call for $1.75 4/28 - closed 180 call for $1.50 5/1 - sold 175 call for 2.75 5/5 - closed 175 call for 1.60 6/6 - sold 175 call for 2.40 (the first one worked but I think they were both actually mistakes) 7/28 - closed 175 call for 5.37 debit, closed 170 call for 8.53 credit, sold 2 180 calls for 3.16 (each), bought 185 call for 1.65 (Resulting position is 170-180-185 fly) (Now it seems really inefficient) 8/7 - closed both 180 calls for 1.88 (each), 185 call for 0.96 Order currently in to sell 2 180s and a 185 for a 3.50 credit   I have the order in to recreate the fly to reduce the cost of the 170 since I don't think GS will get above 180. Besides discussing what I've done and any suggestions you have, what would be a better way to implement my current view of GS given that I own the 170 call? Thanks for all the help already and the future I'm sure I'll get.

Option Block 365: The Great Apple $107 Debate Trading Block: A mild day on the street. Apple finally passes $100. What will Yellen say tomorrow and how will it affect the market? New study show advisors use of options increased 13% since 2011.   Odd Block: Calls trade in Jarden Corp. (JAH) calls trade in China Finance Online Co. (JRJC), and calls trade in Macerich Co. (MAC).   Xpress Block: Free pizza day at every Schwab/OX site today in celebration of the importing of the 3- and 4-leg trade ticket from OX to Schwab which is coming in Sept.   Strategy Block: A strategy of patience. Waiting for the right time to make a move in Apple and gold.   Mail Block: Goldman Fly Question from Pat - Love the show, it's really great and even though I'm clueless (as is shown by the following). Here's one that might be good for your "could've done the trade better" segment in Options Block. The following is the list of trades that I have made around Goldman. Sorry I don't have the volatilities or any other data from the trades but hopefully you'll be able to explain the error of my ways without them. Once I made the initial trade and GS didn't rebound quickly, I was trying to offset the cost of keeping the calls since I expected that Oct was plenty of time to get back to the 175 area. 3/27 - buy 2 10/18 170-180 call spreads for $3 debit (6.42/3.42) 4/25 - closed 180 call for $1.75 4/28 - closed 180 call for $1.50 5/1 - sold 175 call for 2.75 5/5 - closed 175 call for 1.60 6/6 - sold 175 call for 2.40 (the first one worked but I think they were both actually mistakes) 7/28 - closed 175 call for 5.37 debit, closed 170 call for 8.53 credit, sold 2 180 calls for 3.16 (each), bought 185 call for 1.65 (Resulting position is 170-180-185 fly) (Now it seems really inefficient) 8/7 - closed both 180 calls for 1.88 (each), 185 call for 0.96 Order currently in to sell 2 180s and a 185 for a 3.50 credit   I have the order in to recreate the fly to reduce the cost of the 170 since I don't think GS will get above 180. Besides discussing what I've done and any suggestions you have, what would be a better way to implement my current view of GS given that I own the 170 call? Thanks for all the help already and the future I'm sure I'll get.

Dr. Pat Love is known for her warmth, humor, and practical, research-based wisdom. Her blog posts, YouTube clips, books, trainings, workshops, and online courses have made her a popular go-to relationship consultant. Her work has been featured on TV, in cyberspace, and popular magazines, but she's also a distinguished professor, licensed marriage and family therapist, and long-standing clinical member and approved supervisor in American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Dr. Love (yes that is her real surname) has authored/co-authored six books, four workbooks, and numerous professional publications. Her work literally has taken her around the world to help people understand and improve their relationships. Dr. Love received her doctor of education in counselor education from West Virginia University. She was a tenured associate professor at Texas A&M University in Commerce, Texas for six years before establishing the Austin Family Institute in Austin, Texas. Dr. Love also served as president of the International Association for Marriage and Family Counseling. Today, she continues following her passion to help others through her writing and as a relationship consultant, trainer, and workshop presenter. Dr. Wade is clinical psychologist, author, TV host, and motivational speaker, who inspires thousands of people each month with her dynamic range of events and free teleseminar's.

Join nationally recognized multi-media radio talk show host and award winning producer Patricia Raskin, as she interviews Pat Love, Ed. D. distinguished professor, author and trainer. She has appeared numerous times on Oprah, The Today Show, and CNN and is a regular contributor to Psychology Today. She will discuss her newest book Never Be Lonely Again: The Way Out of Emptiness, Isolation, and a Life Unfulfilled. Dr. Love will explain how to find the necessary time to maintain friendships, be truly present for a partner, reach out to people when in need, and how to develop healthier, more emotionally-satisfying behaviors that will nurture the relationships we have and make us open to more lasting personal connections.

Join nationally recognized multi-media radio talk show host and award winning producer Patricia Raskin, as she interviews Pat Love, Ed. D. distinguished professor, author and trainer. She has appeared numerous times on Oprah, The Today Show, and CNN and is a regular contributor to Psychology Today. She will discuss her newest book Never Be Lonely Again: The Way Out of Emptiness, Isolation, and a Life Unfulfilled. Dr. Love will explain how to find the necessary time to maintain friendships, be truly present for a partner, reach out to people when in need, and how to develop healthier, more emotionally-satisfying behaviors that will nurture the relationships we have and make us open to more lasting personal connections.

Join nationally recognized multi-media radio talk show host and award winning producer Patricia Raskin, as she interviews Pat Love, Ed. D. distinguished professor, author and trainer. She has appeared numerous times on Oprah, The Today Show, and CNN and is a regular contributor to Psychology Today. She will discuss her newest book Never Be Lonely Again: The Way Out of Emptiness, Isolation, and a Life Unfulfilled. Dr. Love will explain how to find the necessary time to maintain friendships, be truly present for a partner, reach out to people when in need, and how to develop healthier, more emotionally-satisfying behaviors that will nurture the relationships we have and make us open to more lasting personal connections.

Join nationally recognized multi-media radio talk show host and award winning producer Patricia Raskin, as she interviews Pat Love, Ed. D. distinguished professor, author and trainer. She has appeared numerous times on Oprah, The Today Show, and CNN and is a regular contributor to Psychology Today. She will discuss her newest book Never Be Lonely Again: The Way Out of Emptiness, Isolation, and a Life Unfulfilled. Dr. Love will explain how to find the necessary time to maintain friendships, be truly present for a partner, reach out to people when in need, and how to develop healthier, more emotionally-satisfying behaviors that will nurture the relationships we have and make us open to more lasting personal connections.

Distinguished professor, Certified Love Educator, Pat Love, Ed.D. is known for warmth, humor and commitment to learning. For more than twenty-five years, she has contributed to relationship education and personal development through her books, articles, training programs, speaking and media appearances. Dr. Love has published several professional articles, been featured in many professional books and developed relationships education media and materials being used nationally and internationally. Her ever-popular books Hot Monogamy and The Truth About Love have literally taken her around the world spreading the good news about marriage and committed relationships. She released her new book in February 2007,, co-authored with Dr. Steven Stosny, and entitled How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It. Pat is in demand as an expert presenter at national and international conferences. She has appeared numerous times on Oprah, The Today Show and CNN. Pat also has a new university level Love Education DVD course Love: What Everyone Needs to Know. She is a regular contributor to popular magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, Good Housekeeping, Men's Magazine and Woman's World. Pat has co-hosted two video training programs: Living Love and Parenting with the Experts. She is faculty Emeritus, Imago Institute for Relationship Therapy and a recipient of the Smart Marriages Impact Award. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, an Approved Supervisor in AAMFT, and a past president of the International Association for Marriage and Family Counseling.