It's a Brain Changer! A new way to think about everything

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We take all kinds of common and challenging topics (comfort zones, fears, weight loss, judging, over-thinking, politics, and even sex) and get real.  Each episode focuses on why we tend to do things the way we do (even when we ‘know better’), weaves in the brain science behind it all, and then leav…

Darlene Mew and Kelly Summersett

  • Apr 9, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
  • infrequent NEW EPISODES
  • 35m AVG DURATION
  • 37 EPISODES


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Episode 37 - Rushan Roulette

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2020 39:37


We interviewed Darlene’s brother who nearly died with a brain aneurysm. This is the perfect time for us all to hear his story and what he learned since it relates very well to the current coronavirus crisis.

Chelsea's new relationship patterns

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 28:59


Chelsea's ready to stop some relationship patterns and she's taking positive steps to ensure her next relationship rocks! Tune in to be inspired!

Lerina’s formula for surviving loss

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2020 34:48


We interview Darlene’s mom, Lerina, about her losses when she was growing up and the skills she has developed as a result.

D-Bag Dudes on Repeat

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2020 29:16


She dates the wrong guys all.the.time and she's tired of it! She wants to be in a healthy relationship but is starting to wonder if something's wrong with her! The answer? Nothing is wrong with her and here's what Darlene and I advise her to do. 

Stuck in Cleveland

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2020 27:27


He wants love, move travel, and a higher paying job but he's stuck. We show him how to get unstuck so he lives full-on!

Darlene's animal stories in review

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2019 37:41


Stories help your mind learn and retain new information. Here’s three fun Darlene animal stories revisited from previous episodes. Pick one that resonates and practice!

Extending the holiday spirit

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2019 23:17


We challenge you to plan now for your January lull!

Making Winter Wonderful

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2019 34:29


Making winter wonderful is your choice. We give you science-backed ways that empower you to have the best winter on record!

Gratitude comes before happiness

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2019 31:44


We’re not grateful because we’re happy, we’re happy because we’re grateful. Join us for great tools to practice even if you feel like your life's crap and you have nothing to be grateful for! 

Looking Back at our First Year

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2019 24:06


If you’ve been on the fence about starting a passion project, playing bigger in your life, listening to your intuition, or sticking with a goal this podcast may inspire you. We talk about all the lessons learned during our first year as podcast partners.

Stop anxiety-ing!

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2019 38:00


You do yourself into anxiety which means you absolutely have the power to do yourself out of it. Learn how in this episode.

Is it really depression?

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2019 59:39


There’s a big difference between clinical depression and feeling depressed. Know the difference and what you have the power to proactively do. 

Grief looks like this

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2019 38:09


What you resist persists so if you resist grieving it persists and it shows up like anxiety, panic, and depression.

Making difficult conversations easy

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2019 32:30


Why are you making conversations difficult when you could be making them easy?! We’re sure you want to know how to do this better so tune in!

Living Authentically VS hiding

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2019 41:13


Hiding parts of yourself is an overdeveloped Inner Critic skill that keeps you from being fully present and authentic not only in your relationships but with yourself. Learn more about your hiding patterns and start course correcting stat!

Doing your best VS perfectionism

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2019 31:11


Being perfect is a stall-out tactic created by your mind to keep you safe. Don’t listen! Learn how to by-pass your mind’s safety mechanism and learn how to do your best for even greater success.

Confidence VS Comparison

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2019 33:53


Comparison is stealing your joy, productivity, and sanity. Learn why you do it and how to stop it for good!

Pleasing you VS people pleasing

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2019 35:57


Even though most of us ‘please’ to varying degrees it doesn’t mean it’s healthy or that we need to keep doing it! Learn the three steps to start practicing now so you start developing a healthy relationship with you.

Trust and Flow VS Control

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2019 41:15


How would it feel if you were able to move through your days with trust and an easy flow (no matter what’s going on!) instead of with a lot of control and anxiety? We tell you how in this episode.

We share our big whys...what's yours?

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2019 39:53


Did you know your big why doesn't have to be big? That it often comes after there's been some life discomfort? Listen to our stories and be inspired!

Are you 'coping' with stress? Learn a better way!

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2019 29:05


Are you the typical high-achiever who has a lot going on? So much that you feel stressed? Drinking wine or binge-watching Netflix won't help but this empowering insight will!

Let's talk about sex and relationships. PART 2

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2019 46:58


Learn the three vital characteristics needed for mind-blowing sex and relationships.

Let’s talk about sex and relationships. PART 1

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2019 41:34


Learn all about your biggest sex organ and how to use it the right way for mind blowing sex!

Meet the therapist! Darlene Mew

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2019 42:04


Learn what therapy with Darlene is all about! Darlene shares her therapeutic modality, success stories and the kind of people she loves working with.

Meet the Life Coach! Kelly Summersett

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2019 28:49


Learn what life coaching with Kelly is all about! Kelly shares her philosophies, success stories and the kind of women she loves working with.

Being single and LOVING IT!

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2019 35:30


Being single is a golden opportunity to push your boundaries and develop a stronger relationship with YOU. The stronger you become the stronger partner you’ll attract in the future.

Having more fun and play in your relationship

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2019 38:15


Spice up your relationship! Learn why it’s on auto-pilot now and five juicy ways to take it from boring to BAM!

A different way to think about pain

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2019 34:25


Chronic or unexplained pain? Our guest, Tyler Orr, LPC, presents a different way to think about it. Your pain is real yet where it comes from is fascinating (and you can change it!)

What is my body letting me know?

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2019 30:36


We share our experiences with pain and what it ended up meaning. Our body/brain is fascinating! What is it telling you? We reference Louise Hay, Peter Levine, and traditional Chinese medicine in this episode.

Your faulty stories about habit change

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2019 36:40


Your mind wants you to believe habit change is hard because the brain wants you to conserve energy. Your mind’s a liar! Learn to rewrite your habit change story for success.

How to Live Epically in 2019  

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2018 45:23


  Learn how to easily motivate yourself to change ingrained ‘bad’ habits. Discover powerful ways to move your mind to accomplish epic things that will fire up your life.

Turning relationship tension into compassion

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2018 37:07


Knowing that nothing anybody does is really about us helps us to be more loving and compassionate in our relationships.  

How Not to Argue About Dumb Things in Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2018 38:10


It’s OK, we all argue about dumb stuff sometimes. Find out the fascinating reasons why you get triggered and how to start catching yourself before the argument elevates so that your relationships become more loving and compassionate.  

The habit of stress is killing you softly

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2018 38:06


What you are avoiding is impacting your health and happiness. Harness the energy of "stress" to live a more empowered life!

Avoiding family holiday drama

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2018 25:52


Enjoy your family without getting in your head, focusing on what's going to go wrong, or what's going to stress you out. Make this holiday season THE BEST EVER! 

Unrealistic body expectations

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2018 27:34


Learn how to get out of your head and STOP judging, beating yourself up, comparing, and telling yourself you're not good enough! 

Staying a healthy weight WITHOUT willpower

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2018 48:47


Have you ever tried losing weight by following a diet or 'trying hard'? Ever beat yourself up when you lose willpower to stick to your plan?  There's an easier way to stay a healthy weight without willpower! Learn how to shift your brain by practicing the right way to go about your health!

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