Podcasts about affective

This episode features a conversation with the founding members of the Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, also known as the Auntylectuals. We began with each of them reflecting on their pathway into Hindu Studies and how the questions of caste and gender shaped their approaches to this field. We then discussed their motivations for starting the collective and what interventions they hoped to make through it. This took us deeper into some thorny topics: caste as a form of embodied knowledge that is often accompanied by the denial of its continued social power; the politics of Hinduism in North America where Hindus are both predominantly upper caste and a racial minority; the relationship between Hinduism and Hindutva, or Hindu nationalism; the traffic in language and tactics between Hindutva and Zionism; and the efforts to push back against the movement to make caste a protected category in U.S. anti-discrimination law. Guests: Shreena Gandhi: Professor of Religious Studies, Michigan State University Harshita Kamath: Professor of Telugu Culture, Literature, and History, Emory University Sailaja Krishnamurti: Professor of Gender Studies, Queen's University Shana Sippy, Professor of Religion, Centre College Mentioned in the episode: Rajiv Malhotra: an ideologue of the Hindu nationalist movement in the U.S. and founder of Infinity Foundation Harshita Kamath, Impersonations: The Artifice of Brahmin Masculinity in South Indian Dance Amar Chitra Katha: an Indian comic book publisher whose comics are hugely popular and widely available in India and the Indian diaspora. Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Learning about Hindu Religion through Comics and Popular Culture,” David Yoo and Khyati Y Joshi eds. Envisioning Religion, Race and Asian Americans, Honolulu: University of Hawai'i Press, 207-226, 2020. Babri Masjid: a 16th century mosque that became the target of Hindu nationalist mobilization and was destroyed by vigilante mobs in December 1992. Marko Geslani, “A Model Minority Religion: The Race of Hindu Studies,” American Religion, forthcoming. Thenmozhi Soundarajan, The Trauma of Caste Sarah Ahmed, Queer Phenomenology: Orientations, Objects, Others Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Feminist Critical Hindu Studies in formation” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hindu fragility and the politics of mimicry in North America” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hinduphobia is a smokescreen for Hindu nationalists” Shana Sippy and Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Not all Hinduism is Hindutva, but Hindutva is in fact Hinduism” Shana Sippy, “Strange and Storied Alliances: Hindus and Jews, India and Israel,” manuscript in progress Shana Sippy, "Victimization, Supremacism, Solidarity, and the Affective and Emulative Politics of American Hindus" Tomako Masuzawa, The Invention of World Religions, Or How European Universalism Was Preserved in the Language of Pluralism Shreena Gandhi, “Framing Islam as American Religion Despite White Supremacy” Equality Labs is a South Asian Dalit civil rights organization. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

This episode features a conversation with the founding members of the Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, also known as the Auntylectuals. We began with each of them reflecting on their pathway into Hindu Studies and how the questions of caste and gender shaped their approaches to this field. We then discussed their motivations for starting the collective and what interventions they hoped to make through it. This took us deeper into some thorny topics: caste as a form of embodied knowledge that is often accompanied by the denial of its continued social power; the politics of Hinduism in North America where Hindus are both predominantly upper caste and a racial minority; the relationship between Hinduism and Hindutva, or Hindu nationalism; the traffic in language and tactics between Hindutva and Zionism; and the efforts to push back against the movement to make caste a protected category in U.S. anti-discrimination law. Guests: Shreena Gandhi: Professor of Religious Studies, Michigan State University Harshita Kamath: Professor of Telugu Culture, Literature, and History, Emory University Sailaja Krishnamurti: Professor of Gender Studies, Queen's University Shana Sippy, Professor of Religion, Centre College Mentioned in the episode: Rajiv Malhotra: an ideologue of the Hindu nationalist movement in the U.S. and founder of Infinity Foundation Harshita Kamath, Impersonations: The Artifice of Brahmin Masculinity in South Indian Dance Amar Chitra Katha: an Indian comic book publisher whose comics are hugely popular and widely available in India and the Indian diaspora. Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Learning about Hindu Religion through Comics and Popular Culture,” David Yoo and Khyati Y Joshi eds. Envisioning Religion, Race and Asian Americans, Honolulu: University of Hawai'i Press, 207-226, 2020. Babri Masjid: a 16th century mosque that became the target of Hindu nationalist mobilization and was destroyed by vigilante mobs in December 1992. Marko Geslani, “A Model Minority Religion: The Race of Hindu Studies,” American Religion, forthcoming. Thenmozhi Soundarajan, The Trauma of Caste Sarah Ahmed, Queer Phenomenology: Orientations, Objects, Others Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Feminist Critical Hindu Studies in formation” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hindu fragility and the politics of mimicry in North America” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hinduphobia is a smokescreen for Hindu nationalists” Shana Sippy and Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Not all Hinduism is Hindutva, but Hindutva is in fact Hinduism” Shana Sippy, “Strange and Storied Alliances: Hindus and Jews, India and Israel,” manuscript in progress Shana Sippy, "Victimization, Supremacism, Solidarity, and the Affective and Emulative Politics of American Hindus" Tomako Masuzawa, The Invention of World Religions, Or How European Universalism Was Preserved in the Language of Pluralism Shreena Gandhi, “Framing Islam as American Religion Despite White Supremacy” Equality Labs is a South Asian Dalit civil rights organization. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/gender-studies

This episode features a conversation with the founding members of the Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, also known as the Auntylectuals. We began with each of them reflecting on their pathway into Hindu Studies and how the questions of caste and gender shaped their approaches to this field. We then discussed their motivations for starting the collective and what interventions they hoped to make through it. This took us deeper into some thorny topics: caste as a form of embodied knowledge that is often accompanied by the denial of its continued social power; the politics of Hinduism in North America where Hindus are both predominantly upper caste and a racial minority; the relationship between Hinduism and Hindutva, or Hindu nationalism; the traffic in language and tactics between Hindutva and Zionism; and the efforts to push back against the movement to make caste a protected category in U.S. anti-discrimination law. Guests: Shreena Gandhi: Professor of Religious Studies, Michigan State University Harshita Kamath: Professor of Telugu Culture, Literature, and History, Emory University Sailaja Krishnamurti: Professor of Gender Studies, Queen's University Shana Sippy, Professor of Religion, Centre College Mentioned in the episode: Rajiv Malhotra: an ideologue of the Hindu nationalist movement in the U.S. and founder of Infinity Foundation Harshita Kamath, Impersonations: The Artifice of Brahmin Masculinity in South Indian Dance Amar Chitra Katha: an Indian comic book publisher whose comics are hugely popular and widely available in India and the Indian diaspora. Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Learning about Hindu Religion through Comics and Popular Culture,” David Yoo and Khyati Y Joshi eds. Envisioning Religion, Race and Asian Americans, Honolulu: University of Hawai'i Press, 207-226, 2020. Babri Masjid: a 16th century mosque that became the target of Hindu nationalist mobilization and was destroyed by vigilante mobs in December 1992. Marko Geslani, “A Model Minority Religion: The Race of Hindu Studies,” American Religion, forthcoming. Thenmozhi Soundarajan, The Trauma of Caste Sarah Ahmed, Queer Phenomenology: Orientations, Objects, Others Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Feminist Critical Hindu Studies in formation” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hindu fragility and the politics of mimicry in North America” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hinduphobia is a smokescreen for Hindu nationalists” Shana Sippy and Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Not all Hinduism is Hindutva, but Hindutva is in fact Hinduism” Shana Sippy, “Strange and Storied Alliances: Hindus and Jews, India and Israel,” manuscript in progress Shana Sippy, "Victimization, Supremacism, Solidarity, and the Affective and Emulative Politics of American Hindus" Tomako Masuzawa, The Invention of World Religions, Or How European Universalism Was Preserved in the Language of Pluralism Shreena Gandhi, “Framing Islam as American Religion Despite White Supremacy” Equality Labs is a South Asian Dalit civil rights organization. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/critical-theory

This episode features a conversation with the founding members of the Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, also known as the Auntylectuals. We began with each of them reflecting on their pathway into Hindu Studies and how the questions of caste and gender shaped their approaches to this field. We then discussed their motivations for starting the collective and what interventions they hoped to make through it. This took us deeper into some thorny topics: caste as a form of embodied knowledge that is often accompanied by the denial of its continued social power; the politics of Hinduism in North America where Hindus are both predominantly upper caste and a racial minority; the relationship between Hinduism and Hindutva, or Hindu nationalism; the traffic in language and tactics between Hindutva and Zionism; and the efforts to push back against the movement to make caste a protected category in U.S. anti-discrimination law. Guests: Shreena Gandhi: Professor of Religious Studies, Michigan State University Harshita Kamath: Professor of Telugu Culture, Literature, and History, Emory University Sailaja Krishnamurti: Professor of Gender Studies, Queen's University Shana Sippy, Professor of Religion, Centre College Mentioned in the episode: Rajiv Malhotra: an ideologue of the Hindu nationalist movement in the U.S. and founder of Infinity Foundation Harshita Kamath, Impersonations: The Artifice of Brahmin Masculinity in South Indian Dance Amar Chitra Katha: an Indian comic book publisher whose comics are hugely popular and widely available in India and the Indian diaspora. Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Learning about Hindu Religion through Comics and Popular Culture,” David Yoo and Khyati Y Joshi eds. Envisioning Religion, Race and Asian Americans, Honolulu: University of Hawai'i Press, 207-226, 2020. Babri Masjid: a 16th century mosque that became the target of Hindu nationalist mobilization and was destroyed by vigilante mobs in December 1992. Marko Geslani, “A Model Minority Religion: The Race of Hindu Studies,” American Religion, forthcoming. Thenmozhi Soundarajan, The Trauma of Caste Sarah Ahmed, Queer Phenomenology: Orientations, Objects, Others Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Feminist Critical Hindu Studies in formation” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hindu fragility and the politics of mimicry in North America” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hinduphobia is a smokescreen for Hindu nationalists” Shana Sippy and Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Not all Hinduism is Hindutva, but Hindutva is in fact Hinduism” Shana Sippy, “Strange and Storied Alliances: Hindus and Jews, India and Israel,” manuscript in progress Shana Sippy, "Victimization, Supremacism, Solidarity, and the Affective and Emulative Politics of American Hindus" Tomako Masuzawa, The Invention of World Religions, Or How European Universalism Was Preserved in the Language of Pluralism Shreena Gandhi, “Framing Islam as American Religion Despite White Supremacy” Equality Labs is a South Asian Dalit civil rights organization. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/anthropology

This episode features a conversation with the founding members of the Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, also known as the Auntylectuals. We began with each of them reflecting on their pathway into Hindu Studies and how the questions of caste and gender shaped their approaches to this field. We then discussed their motivations for starting the collective and what interventions they hoped to make through it. This took us deeper into some thorny topics: caste as a form of embodied knowledge that is often accompanied by the denial of its continued social power; the politics of Hinduism in North America where Hindus are both predominantly upper caste and a racial minority; the relationship between Hinduism and Hindutva, or Hindu nationalism; the traffic in language and tactics between Hindutva and Zionism; and the efforts to push back against the movement to make caste a protected category in U.S. anti-discrimination law. Guests: Shreena Gandhi: Professor of Religious Studies, Michigan State University Harshita Kamath: Professor of Telugu Culture, Literature, and History, Emory University Sailaja Krishnamurti: Professor of Gender Studies, Queen's University Shana Sippy, Professor of Religion, Centre College Mentioned in the episode: Rajiv Malhotra: an ideologue of the Hindu nationalist movement in the U.S. and founder of Infinity Foundation Harshita Kamath, Impersonations: The Artifice of Brahmin Masculinity in South Indian Dance Amar Chitra Katha: an Indian comic book publisher whose comics are hugely popular and widely available in India and the Indian diaspora. Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Learning about Hindu Religion through Comics and Popular Culture,” David Yoo and Khyati Y Joshi eds. Envisioning Religion, Race and Asian Americans, Honolulu: University of Hawai'i Press, 207-226, 2020. Babri Masjid: a 16th century mosque that became the target of Hindu nationalist mobilization and was destroyed by vigilante mobs in December 1992. Marko Geslani, “A Model Minority Religion: The Race of Hindu Studies,” American Religion, forthcoming. Thenmozhi Soundarajan, The Trauma of Caste Sarah Ahmed, Queer Phenomenology: Orientations, Objects, Others Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Feminist Critical Hindu Studies in formation” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hindu fragility and the politics of mimicry in North America” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hinduphobia is a smokescreen for Hindu nationalists” Shana Sippy and Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Not all Hinduism is Hindutva, but Hindutva is in fact Hinduism” Shana Sippy, “Strange and Storied Alliances: Hindus and Jews, India and Israel,” manuscript in progress Shana Sippy, "Victimization, Supremacism, Solidarity, and the Affective and Emulative Politics of American Hindus" Tomako Masuzawa, The Invention of World Religions, Or How European Universalism Was Preserved in the Language of Pluralism Shreena Gandhi, “Framing Islam as American Religion Despite White Supremacy” Equality Labs is a South Asian Dalit civil rights organization. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/south-asian-studies

This episode features a conversation with the founding members of the Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, also known as the Auntylectuals. We began with each of them reflecting on their pathway into Hindu Studies and how the questions of caste and gender shaped their approaches to this field. We then discussed their motivations for starting the collective and what interventions they hoped to make through it. This took us deeper into some thorny topics: caste as a form of embodied knowledge that is often accompanied by the denial of its continued social power; the politics of Hinduism in North America where Hindus are both predominantly upper caste and a racial minority; the relationship between Hinduism and Hindutva, or Hindu nationalism; the traffic in language and tactics between Hindutva and Zionism; and the efforts to push back against the movement to make caste a protected category in U.S. anti-discrimination law. Guests: Shreena Gandhi: Professor of Religious Studies, Michigan State University Harshita Kamath: Professor of Telugu Culture, Literature, and History, Emory University Sailaja Krishnamurti: Professor of Gender Studies, Queen's University Shana Sippy, Professor of Religion, Centre College Mentioned in the episode: Rajiv Malhotra: an ideologue of the Hindu nationalist movement in the U.S. and founder of Infinity Foundation Harshita Kamath, Impersonations: The Artifice of Brahmin Masculinity in South Indian Dance Amar Chitra Katha: an Indian comic book publisher whose comics are hugely popular and widely available in India and the Indian diaspora. Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Learning about Hindu Religion through Comics and Popular Culture,” David Yoo and Khyati Y Joshi eds. Envisioning Religion, Race and Asian Americans, Honolulu: University of Hawai'i Press, 207-226, 2020. Babri Masjid: a 16th century mosque that became the target of Hindu nationalist mobilization and was destroyed by vigilante mobs in December 1992. Marko Geslani, “A Model Minority Religion: The Race of Hindu Studies,” American Religion, forthcoming. Thenmozhi Soundarajan, The Trauma of Caste Sarah Ahmed, Queer Phenomenology: Orientations, Objects, Others Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Feminist Critical Hindu Studies in formation” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hindu fragility and the politics of mimicry in North America” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hinduphobia is a smokescreen for Hindu nationalists” Shana Sippy and Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Not all Hinduism is Hindutva, but Hindutva is in fact Hinduism” Shana Sippy, “Strange and Storied Alliances: Hindus and Jews, India and Israel,” manuscript in progress Shana Sippy, "Victimization, Supremacism, Solidarity, and the Affective and Emulative Politics of American Hindus" Tomako Masuzawa, The Invention of World Religions, Or How European Universalism Was Preserved in the Language of Pluralism Shreena Gandhi, “Framing Islam as American Religion Despite White Supremacy” Equality Labs is a South Asian Dalit civil rights organization. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode features a conversation with the founding members of the Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, also known as the Auntylectuals. We began with each of them reflecting on their pathway into Hindu Studies and how the questions of caste and gender shaped their approaches to this field. We then discussed their motivations for starting the collective and what interventions they hoped to make through it. This took us deeper into some thorny topics: caste as a form of embodied knowledge that is often accompanied by the denial of its continued social power; the politics of Hinduism in North America where Hindus are both predominantly upper caste and a racial minority; the relationship between Hinduism and Hindutva, or Hindu nationalism; the traffic in language and tactics between Hindutva and Zionism; and the efforts to push back against the movement to make caste a protected category in U.S. anti-discrimination law. Guests: Shreena Gandhi: Professor of Religious Studies, Michigan State University Harshita Kamath: Professor of Telugu Culture, Literature, and History, Emory University Sailaja Krishnamurti: Professor of Gender Studies, Queen's University Shana Sippy, Professor of Religion, Centre College Mentioned in the episode: Rajiv Malhotra: an ideologue of the Hindu nationalist movement in the U.S. and founder of Infinity Foundation Harshita Kamath, Impersonations: The Artifice of Brahmin Masculinity in South Indian Dance Amar Chitra Katha: an Indian comic book publisher whose comics are hugely popular and widely available in India and the Indian diaspora. Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Learning about Hindu Religion through Comics and Popular Culture,” David Yoo and Khyati Y Joshi eds. Envisioning Religion, Race and Asian Americans, Honolulu: University of Hawai'i Press, 207-226, 2020. Babri Masjid: a 16th century mosque that became the target of Hindu nationalist mobilization and was destroyed by vigilante mobs in December 1992. Marko Geslani, “A Model Minority Religion: The Race of Hindu Studies,” American Religion, forthcoming. Thenmozhi Soundarajan, The Trauma of Caste Sarah Ahmed, Queer Phenomenology: Orientations, Objects, Others Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Feminist Critical Hindu Studies in formation” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hindu fragility and the politics of mimicry in North America” Feminist Critical Hindu Studies Collective, “Hinduphobia is a smokescreen for Hindu nationalists” Shana Sippy and Sailaja Krishnamurti, “Not all Hinduism is Hindutva, but Hindutva is in fact Hinduism” Shana Sippy, “Strange and Storied Alliances: Hindus and Jews, India and Israel,” manuscript in progress Shana Sippy, "Victimization, Supremacism, Solidarity, and the Affective and Emulative Politics of American Hindus" Tomako Masuzawa, The Invention of World Religions, Or How European Universalism Was Preserved in the Language of Pluralism Shreena Gandhi, “Framing Islam as American Religion Despite White Supremacy” Equality Labs is a South Asian Dalit civil rights organization. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/indian-religions

La dépendance affective ne concerne pas uniquement les relations amoureuses. La dépendance affective se manifeste aussi dans notre rapport aux réseaux sociaux, à la visibilité et au regard des autres. Et chez beaucoup d'entrepreneures, elle influence directement la création de contenu, la posture et les décisions business.On explore la dépendance affective sous un angle rarement abordé : son impact sur les réseaux sociaux et sur la manière dont une entrepreneure construit sa visibilité. Parce que la dépendance affective ne se voit pas toujours. Elle se cache dans le besoin d'approbation, dans l'obsession des réactions, dans la peur du silence, dans la difficulté à tenir une position claire.Pourquoi le manque d'engagement Instagram est parfois vécu comme un rejet personnel ?Pourquoi certaines entrepreneures changent constamment de message par peur de déplaire ?Pourquoi chercher la validation extérieure empêche d'incarner une parole forte et alignée ?La dépendance affective sur les réseaux sociaux peut se traduire par des comportements subtils : sur-poster pour exister, s'excuser de vendre, se justifier en permanence, se censurer pour éviter le conflit, adapter son discours pour rester aimée plutôt qu'écoutée.Dans un monde où la création de contenu est devenue centrale dans le business en ligne, la dépendance affective peut profondément impacter la confiance en soi, l'estime de soi et la capacité à prendre sa place.Cet échange met en lumière les patterns récurrents chez les entrepreneures en dépendance affective :le besoin d'être aimée plutôt que suivie, la peur du rejet, le syndrome de l'imposteur amplifié par les réseaux sociaux, et cette tension permanente entre authenticité et approbation.Un épisode pour toutes les entrepreneures qui veulent construire une visibilité plus stable, plus consciente et plus alignée — sans dépendre du regard des autres pour se sentir légitimes.Le profil d'Atika  Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/atikamehdaoui_?igsh=Ym5uM2FyMm00M3dx☕️ Découvrir le format vidéo de notre échange : https://youtu.be/g7S9BQKz9e4☕️ La communauté pour participer À La Machine, tous les jeudis à 12h30 : https://chat.whatsapp.com/ClL4JPSwsZwBUx03zXLXrE☕️ Réserve ta session signature pour créer ton plan commercial : https://butfirstacademy.com/session-signature/☕️ La stratégie Instagram : https://butfirstacademy.com/masterclass-abonnes-instagram/☕️ Les 5 étapes pour vendre sur Instagram : https://butfirstacademy.com/vendre-sur-instagram/Hébergé par Ausha. Visitez ausha.co/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Paul Delair et Caroline Dublanche explorent la notion de sécurité affective et ses répercussions à l'âge adulte. Comment se construit-elle dès l'enfance et est-il possible de la renforcer malgré un passé insécurisant ? Découvrez des pistes pour soigner votre insécurité affective et améliorer vos relations personnelles. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.fr Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Sabine a perdu sa grand-mère, un pilier dans sa vie, et a mis fin à une relation amoureuse avec un homme peu empathique. Elle se sent en quête de stabilité tout en étant attirée par le changement constant, ce qui la plonge dans une insécurité affective. Sabine envisage de reprendre une thérapie pour surmonter son deuil et trouver un équilibre intérieur. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.frHébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Paul Delair et Caroline Dublanche explorent la notion de sécurité affective, un pilier essentiel du développement psycho-affectif. À travers le témoignage de Sabine, l'émission soulève certaines questions : Comment se construit la sécurité affective dès l'enfance ? Quels impacts a-t-elle sur nos relations adultes ? Et surtout, est-il possible de la renforcer à l'âge adulte ? Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.frHébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Parfois, on a pas le profil type de dépendante émotionnelle : on ne court pas après, on ne se met pas avec n'importe quel homme, on aime notre vie, on sait dire non, on ose sortir rencontrer du monde… Et pourtant, le type d'homme qu'on rencontre reste le même. Leur comportement envers nous aussi. Dans cet épisode je te partage le moment où j'ai perdu un énième homme que j'aimais beaucoup et où j'ai réalisé que j'étais encore dépendante émotionnelle.  Pense à faire le test ici  Bonne écoute ! Fanny.     Ressources : Conférence offerte Test offert Découvre la méthode : Cours Change ton schéma amoureux  Livre   Retrouve-moi sur mes réseaux :   Instagram Facebook    

Do you feel like the world is draining your battery faster than you can recharge it? In the depth of winter, it is easy to feel exposed to stress, negativity, and burnout.Welcome to Part 2 of the Winter Radiance Series on Calming Anxiety.While Part 1 was about rekindling your inner spark, today is about building a sanctuary around it. In this 10-minute guided meditation, we move from "surviving" the winter to "protecting" your peace. You will learn how to observe the chaos of the world without letting it freeze your spirit.In this session, we will cover:The "Golden Light" Breathwork: A technique to physically push out the cold, grey stress of the day.The Log Cabin Visualization: A powerful mental exercise to create a "glass wall" between you and external expectations.Affirmations for Boundaries: Learning to say "no" without guilt.My 3 Caring Tips for a Happier Life: This episode also includes three practical tools you can use immediately after listening:The One-Minute Wait: A simple rule to stop over-committing your energy.Visual Unplugging: How to reduce "visual noise" to rest your brain.The Warm Drink Anchor: A somatic hack to ground yourself instantly in social situations.“You cannot pour from an empty cup. Today, we stop apologizing for our boundaries.”Next Up: Join us tomorrow for the finale, Part 3: Awakening New Energy, where we prepare to bloom as we look toward Spring.Support the Podcast: If this session brought you warmth, please leave a review or follow the show. It helps other souls find this sanctuary.Break the Cycle of Anxiety Today Are you ready to stop the spiral? Join me in the Anxiety Circuit Breaker course, specifically designed to help you regain control and find your calm in just minutes. You can access the full course and take the first step toward a quieter mind by visiting calminganxiety.fm.

L'éducation à la vie affective, relationnelle et sexuelle (EVARS) déclenche souvent deux types de réactions : la réticence ou la... The post 189 – Enseigner l'éducation à la vie affective et relationnelle (EVAR) first appeared on Mes trucs de prof.

La dépendance affective est un état psychologique dans lequel une personne ressent un grand mal-être quand elle n'est pas proche de la ou les personnes dont elle dépend. Ce sont des dynamiques de dépendance émotionnelle, généralement très peu saines, qui peuvent se manifester dans tout type de relation : amoureuse, amicale, familiale, etc.Dans cet épisode, Isaline va analyser ce qui se trouve sous ce terme parapluie qu'est la dépendance affective d'un point de vue psychologique.

Tomorrow, the news and social media might tell you it is "Blue Monday"—statistically the saddest day of the year. But here is the secret: that is just a story. You do not have to read from that script.In this protective and uplifting guided meditation, Martin helps you create your own weather. Instead of bracing against the January cold, we will ignite a warm, internal light that acts as a shield against negativity.In this session, we will:The Physical Thaw: A breathing technique to drop your shoulders, unclench your jaw, and release the "winter freeze" from your body.The Internal Gold: Visualize a spark in your solar plexus that grows into a radiant shield, turning grey mist into warmth.The "Bubble" Technique: Learn how to insulate yourself so that negative news and stress simply evaporate before they touch you.Key Affirmation: "I create my own weather. The calendar does not dictate my peace."Why listen? Don't let the calendar tell you how to feel. Use these 10 minutes to inoculate yourself against the "Monday Blues" and start your week protected, warm, and calm.Disclaimer: These sessions are for educational purposes and relaxation. Please do not listen while driving or operating machinery.Share the Warmth: If you know someone who dreads Mondays or struggles with the winter months, please share this "antidote" with them.

What is the future of museums? In Deconstituting Museums: Participation's Affective Work Helen Graham, an Associate Professor in School of Fine Art, History of Art and Cultural Studies at the University of Leeds, considers the current state of the sector and stresses the need for significant change. Drawing on both professional reflections and academic analysis, the book introduces the concept of the museum constitution as a key site for struggle within the institution. It shows the challenge of making participation meaningful, and the scale of transformation needed to reframe museums' central ideas and activities. Essential reading for both academics and museum professionals, as well as audiences, the book is available open access here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

What is the future of museums? In Deconstituting Museums: Participation's Affective Work Helen Graham, an Associate Professor in School of Fine Art, History of Art and Cultural Studies at the University of Leeds, considers the current state of the sector and stresses the need for significant change. Drawing on both professional reflections and academic analysis, the book introduces the concept of the museum constitution as a key site for struggle within the institution. It shows the challenge of making participation meaningful, and the scale of transformation needed to reframe museums' central ideas and activities. Essential reading for both academics and museum professionals, as well as audiences, the book is available open access here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/critical-theory

 Un épisode à écouter en plein Dry January, pour comprendre ce que l'alcool dit de nous, et ce qu'on peut faire sans lui.

François, 70 ans, n'a jamais eu de relation amoureuse en dehors de celles avec des prostituées, débutées à l'âge de 20 ans. Il exprime une grande solitude affective, exacerbée par une timidité et un manque de confiance en lui, malgré des tentatives de socialisation dans des bars et sur les réseaux sociaux. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.fr Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

In this episode, hosts Charlie and Shane welcome Jesse Greenfield, MPHCHES—public health educator, improviser, and co-founder of Kaleidoscope Training Center. Jesse shares their journey from the medical field to applied improvisation, exploring how storytelling and play can empower individuals and communities to build stronger, healthier relationships. The conversation dives deep into the concept of "affective capacity"—our ability to connect emotionally with ourselves and others—and why it's essential for personal well-being, effective communication, and thriving workplaces.Listeners will learn practical tools for increasing affective capacity, including the power of play, somatic practices, and authentic self-reflection. Jesse also guides the hosts through an improv game, demonstrating how simple, playful exercises can foster trust, openness, and collaboration. Whether you're a leader, team member, or just curious about emotional intelligence, this episode offers actionable insights for nurturing healthy relationships and creating supportive environments at work and beyond.Episode Chapters:0:00 – Welcome & Guest Introduction0:39 – Jesse's Journey: From Medicine to Applied Improv7:51 – Defining Affective Capacity8:10 – Emotional Connection in Health & Communication13:46 – The Role of Trust and Relational Dynamics17:51 – Building Affective Capacity: Personal Practices27:06 – The Power of Play and Improv31:41 – Bandwidth Check-Ins & Self-Reflection34:25 – Tips for Novices: Starting Your Affective Capacity Journey37:54 – Supporting Each Other: Extroverts, Introverts, and Processing Styles40:12 – Leadership & Fostering Team Capacity45:18 – Creating Safe, Supportive Work Environments46:50 – Improv Game: “Accept This” in Action51:16 – Debrief: Lessons from Play1:01:01 – Openness, Exploration, and Growth1:04:47 – Final Thoughts & Takeaways1:04:54 – Closing RemarksLearn about our guest:Jesse Greenfield, MPH, CHES (they/them) is a public health educator and improviser living in San Diego, California. They love using storytelling as an information-sharing tool to empower individuals and communities to live their fullest and healthiest lives. As co-founder and Director of Programming for Kaleidoscope Training Center, Jesse facilitates applied improvisation workshops to support people in improving their spoken and unspoken communication with others, creating joyful connections, and being effective advocates for themselves and their communities. Some groups they have worked with in this capacity include school staff, medical professionals, queer youth, social workers, and more.Guest contact information Jesse's Business Website https://www.kaleidoscopetrainingcenter.com/, which has all of their info about programming and upcoming offeringscontact info jesse@kaleidoscopetrainingcenter.com in case folx want to reach out. If people are looking for a great book that will support them in improving their facilitation using applied improv, I'd highly recommend the book Training to Imagine by Kat Koppe

Unity Meets Reality explores what happens when empathy becomes action and connection becomes a daily practice. Through reflective storytelling and grounded insight, this podcast reveals how unity shows up in real life - in conversations, relationships, and the quiet moments that change everything. If you're seeking a deeper understanding of yourself and others, this is your space. We are glad you are here!Studies mentioned- a 2025 review in Frontiers in Psychology shows that empathy is not fixed - it shifts depending on the situation, environment and emotional cues around us.A 2023 publication from Cambridge university Press explains that empathy works through two pathways: Cognitive empathy- understanding anthers emotions. Affective empathy- feeling with another person. This dual process strengthens social connection and prosocial behavior.A 2021 study from the American Psychology Association found that people with a clearer sense of self show stronger empathy and a more likely to help others.You Equals Me Esty store -https://www.etsy.com/shop/YouEqualsMeEtsyStoreYou Equals Me Foundation- https://youequalsme.org/Support the show

Il arrive un moment où nous réalisons que notre humeur, notre énergie… et parfois même notre estime dépendent un peu trop de quelqu'un d'autre. Comme si la télécommande de notre bien-être avait glissé entre les mains d'un partenaire, d'un parent, d'un ami, d'un groupe.Dans cet épisode, je vous propose de regarder ce qui se joue derrière cette dépendance affective — d'où elle vient, comment elle s'installe, et surtout comment retrouver une autonomie qui apaise.Pas une autonomie froide ou distante, une autonomie qui permet d'aimer sans se perdre, d'être proche sans se confondre, et de rester relié tout en se sentant solide à l'intérieur.Et si vous faisiez, vous aussi, un petit état des lieux de vos relations… pour voir qui tient vraiment la télécommande de votre bien être aujourd'hui ?***********Retrouvez le texte de l'épisode sur notre blog.En vous abonnant sur Itunes pour recevoir les notifications et en nous laissant un avis, vous nous envoyez des bulles de bonheur !En suivant notre actu sur FB @2minutesdebonheur et sur insta @2minutesdebonheur, vous profiterez gratuitement de pleins de trucs, d'astuces et de mises en pratique liés au podcast de la semaine.Inscrivez-vous à la newsletter, vous serez ainsi notifié de nos nouveaux épisodes et vous recevrez en cadeau 2 cartes de jeux 2 minutes inédites par mois.Et surtout, partagez nos épisodes à tous ceux qui veulent prendre le temps d'être heureux !***********Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

  Inscription offerte Je pensais en avoir terminé avec la dépendante affective. Vraiment. Je savais dire non. J'avais confiance en moi. Je savais ce que je voulais… et surtout ce que je ne voulais plus. Je n'étais pas du genre à m'accrocher. Pas du genre à supplier pour de l'attention. Pas du genre à accepter n'importe quoi. Et pourtant… Quand un homme me plaisait vraiment, quelque chose changeait. Subtilement. Je devenais plus attentive à ses messages. Plus sensible à ses silences. Je commençais à analyser ses comportements. Pas en mode panique visible. Non. À l'intérieur. Et c'est ça, la dépendance affective dont on ne parle pas assez. Pas celle des femmes "en manque", mais celle des femmes fortes, autonomes, lucides… qui perdent leur centre uniquement quand l'enjeu émotionnel devient réel. Tu continues à avoir une vie. Tu continues à dire non. Tu continues à poser des limites. Mais ton système nerveux, lui, s'active. Tu veux être choisie. Tu veux que ça fonctionne. Tu veux que ce soit fluide, simple, évident. Et sans t'en rendre compte, tu ajustes. Tu anticipes. Tu te retiens parfois d'être pleinement toi. Pas parce que tu manques de confiance. Mais parce que l'attachement s'active. Et non, ça ne se règle pas "en trouvant le bon". Parce que même avec un homme bien, cette tension intérieure peut rester. C'est pour ça que j'ai compris une chose essentielle : La vraie sécurité ne vient pas de l'autre. Elle vient de ta posture émotionnelle. De ta capacité à rester ancrée, même quand tu aimes. Même quand tu t'attaches. Même quand l'enjeu est fort. C'est exactement ce que j'enseigne dans Change ton schéma amoureux. Pas pour te rendre plus forte (tu l'es déjà). Pas pour te détacher (tu sais faire). Mais pour aimer sans te perdre. J'en parlerai samedi lors de la conférence offerte. Parce que tu peux être une femme confiante et avoir encore ce point-là à transformer. Les deux peuvent coexister.  

La dépendance affective est ce besoin permanent de recevoir l'approbation d'une ou plusieurs personnes, d'attendre ce jugement pour prendre des décisions, demander une forte présence de l'autre et se sentir fragilisé en cas contraire. Sortir de la dépendance affective, c'est apprendre à redéfinir le lien et à se poser des limites, surtout si le sujet de la dépendance cultive cette interaction toxique, qui peut dans certains cas se transformer en emprise. Face à une personne en situation de dépendance affective, comment lui faire prendre conscience qu'il y a un problème et qu'il existe peut-être une solution par le soin ? Peut-on se détacher à tout âge ? Nawal Uariachi, psychologue clinicienne et psychothérapeute pour enfants, adolescents et adultes à Dakar. Membre de l'association des psychologues du Sénégal  L'émission est disponible en podcast ici : Santé mentale : apprendre à sortir de la dépendance affective

Comme chaque vendredi, un médecin spécialisé répond aux questions des auditrices de Priorité Santé. Cette semaine, nous parlons de la dépendance affective, ce besoin permanent de recevoir l'approbation d'une ou plusieurs personnes, d'attendre ce jugement pour prendre des décisions, demander une forte présence de l'autre et se sentir fragilisé en cas contraire. Comment reconnaitre la dépendance affective ? Comment et pourquoi s'immisce-t-elle dans nos relations ? Comment en sortir et retrouver une relation saine ?     Créer des liens, de l'attachement, est un processus naturel chez l'être humain, qui se produit dès la naissance, et même pour le bébé à naître, au cours de la grossesse. Pour certaines personnes, au lieu de sécuriser et d'épanouir, le lien qui se tisse avec l'autre est douloureux, ultrasensible. On peut alors penser à la dépendance affective : la peur d'être abandonné, d'être critiqué, un besoin d'affection quasi-insatiable ; cette demande peut se révéler étouffante pour soi, comme pour les autres…   Trouble de l'attachement  Cette dépendance affective est un trouble de l'attachement qui fait mal, génère parfois un sentiment d'angoisse, fragilise et peut déboucher sur certaines réactions inappropriées. Vouloir s'en défaire, peut-être le fait de la personne dépendante, qui cherche à se retrouver, comme de l'entourage.   Identifier ses besoins pour se retrouver  Cette quête de la réappropriation de soi passe par un questionnement : sur l'origine de cette dépendance, une réflexion sur l'enfance ou certaines relations sensibles et ce que pourrait révéler ce besoin forcené de l'autre et de son approbation : un sentiment d'abandon, de négligence, des ruptures douloureuses, une faible estime de soi ?  Sortir de la dépendance affective, c'est apprendre à redéfinir le lien et à se poser des limites, surtout si le sujet de la dépendance cultive cette interaction toxique, qui peut dans certains cas se transformer en emprise. Et cela peut passer par le recours à un professionnel en santé mentale    Avec : Nawal Uariachi, psychologue clinicienne et psychothérapeute pour enfants, adolescents et adultes à Dakar. Membre de l'association des psychologues du Sénégal  La palabre au féminin de Charlie Dupiot. Programmation musicale : ► Floby – Viima Looda ► Soraia Ramos, Zara Williams – GBB.

Comme chaque vendredi, un médecin spécialisé répond aux questions des auditrices de Priorité Santé. Cette semaine, nous parlons de la dépendance affective, ce besoin permanent de recevoir l'approbation d'une ou plusieurs personnes, d'attendre ce jugement pour prendre des décisions, demander une forte présence de l'autre et se sentir fragilisé en cas contraire. Comment reconnaitre la dépendance affective ? Comment et pourquoi s'immisce-t-elle dans nos relations ? Comment en sortir et retrouver une relation saine ?     Créer des liens, de l'attachement, est un processus naturel chez l'être humain, qui se produit dès la naissance, et même pour le bébé à naître, au cours de la grossesse. Pour certaines personnes, au lieu de sécuriser et d'épanouir, le lien qui se tisse avec l'autre est douloureux, ultrasensible. On peut alors penser à la dépendance affective : la peur d'être abandonné, d'être critiqué, un besoin d'affection quasi-insatiable ; cette demande peut se révéler étouffante pour soi, comme pour les autres…   Trouble de l'attachement  Cette dépendance affective est un trouble de l'attachement qui fait mal, génère parfois un sentiment d'angoisse, fragilise et peut déboucher sur certaines réactions inappropriées. Vouloir s'en défaire, peut-être le fait de la personne dépendante, qui cherche à se retrouver, comme de l'entourage.   Identifier ses besoins pour se retrouver  Cette quête de la réappropriation de soi passe par un questionnement : sur l'origine de cette dépendance, une réflexion sur l'enfance ou certaines relations sensibles et ce que pourrait révéler ce besoin forcené de l'autre et de son approbation : un sentiment d'abandon, de négligence, des ruptures douloureuses, une faible estime de soi ?  Sortir de la dépendance affective, c'est apprendre à redéfinir le lien et à se poser des limites, surtout si le sujet de la dépendance cultive cette interaction toxique, qui peut dans certains cas se transformer en emprise. Et cela peut passer par le recours à un professionnel en santé mentale    Avec : Nawal Uariachi, psychologue clinicienne et psychothérapeute pour enfants, adolescents et adultes à Dakar. Membre de l'association des psychologues du Sénégal  La palabre au féminin de Charlie Dupiot. Programmation musicale : ► Floby – Viima Looda ► Soraia Ramos, Zara Williams – GBB.

Feeling the heavy "grey" of the season? You don't have to force happiness today. Join Martin, your Clinical Hypnotherapist, for a gentle 5-minute morning meditation designed to soothe Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and shift your mood instantly.In this episode, we move beyond toxic positivity and use the science of Polyvagal Theory to introduce you to "Glimmers"—the trending antidote to triggers. While triggers push your nervous system into fight-or-flight, glimmers are micro-moments of safety and connection that anchor you back to calm.In just 5 minutes, you will learn to:Retrain Your Brain: Overcome your mind's natural negativity bias by activating your "Glimmer radar." Soothe Winter Blues: Shift your biology from survival mode into "rest and digest" using somatic regulation. Find Magic in the Mundane: Use visualization to spot micro-joys—like the steam of coffee or a winter robin—to spark instant gratitude. Why listen? If you are struggling with seasonal depression, high-functioning anxiety, or just the weight of the dark months, this session offers a practical tool to help you feel safe, warm, and connected. Become a "hunter of glimmers" and find the light that is already there. Featured Affirmations: "I am open to seeing the magic in the mundane." "Safety and joy are available to me right now." "I choose to focus on what warms my heart."

Jean-Jacques a développé une relation affectueuse avec une jeune femme de 24 ans, qu'il considère comme une nièce ou une petite-fille. Elle est étudiante en psychologie et rencontre des difficultés financières, ce qui l'oblige à travailler comme femme de ménage pour financer ses études. Jean-Jacques apprécie leur complicité et l'encourage à persévérer dans ses études malgré les obstacles. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.fr.Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Robin a longtemps souffert de solitude affective et de dépendance émotionnelle. Après une rupture difficile, il a entrepris un travail sur lui-même avec l'aide d'une psychologue et s'est investi dans des activités personnelles et associatives. Aujourd'hui, il a trouvé un équilibre et souhaite partager un message d'espoir à ceux qui vivent des situations similaires. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.fr.Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Struggling with chronic pain that won't shift?In this episode, Leigh speaks with Liz Wong, whose work in Neuro-Affective Touch reveals how pain can be a communication tool from the body — and why healing often requires more than stretching, strengthening, or managing symptoms.Liz shares how touch, presence, and relational safety can help release stored trauma, calm the nervous system, and reconnect people with the parts of themselves that have been shut down for years.If you feel stuck, unheard, or like you've “tried everything,” this conversation offers hope, clarity, and a completely different pathway out of pain.You can contact Liz:http://www.somaticwellness.co.ukYou can contact Leigh:Leigh's website - ⁠https://www.bodychek.co.uk/⁠Chronic Pain Breakthrough Blueprint - ⁠https://www.bodychek.co.uk/freepainguide/⁠Leigh's courses:StickAbility - ⁠https://stickabilitycourse.com/⁠Mastering Client Transformation (professional course) - ⁠https://www.functionaldiagnosticnutrition.com/mastering-client-transformation/⁠

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REDIFF - Romain traverse une période de grande fragilité émotionnelle après une rupture difficile et une hospitalisation en psychiatrie, et il s'inquiète de perdre sa nouvelle compagne qui hésite entre cœur et raison. Il a du mal à gérer sa dépendance affective et à tourner la page de son passé, ce qui pèse sur sa relation actuelle. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.frHébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

What if EMS educators placed as much focus on emotional intelligence, empathy, and reflective practice as they do knowledge and skills? Listen in as hosts Maia Dorsett, Hilary Gates and Rob Lawrence talk with Liz Harney, quality assurance leader at Baptist Health in Kentucky and former paramedic program director, to explore the often-overlooked affective domain of EMS education.  Liz shares how her frustration with the neglect of the affective domain inspired her to transform her own EMS instruction—bringing emotion, awareness, and humanity into every case study, scenario, and clinical rotation. From teaching students to manage bias and self-regulate under pressure, to modeling vulnerability and connection as educators, this conversation reveals how intentional focus on the affective domain can elevate not only patient care, but also the well-being and longevity of EMS clinicians. As Liz says, teaching the affective domain can help your students "choose the version of themselves they want to walk into a room." Ginger Locke highlights the episode's key points with her "Mindset Minute." Mentioned in the episode: Bloom's Taxonomy for cognitive, psychomotor and affective domains: https://www.astate.edu/a/assessment/assessment-resource-links/files/Revised-Bloom%20s-Taxonomy-All-Domains.pdf Rob's story about the hypothermic man on a bench: https://www.edp24.co.uk/news/20700524.hoodie-heroes-commended/ Addressing Bias in Patient Care:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/addressing-bias-in-patient-care-part-1-of-2/id1573326528?i=1000565780169 The EMS Educator is published on the first Friday of every month! Be sure to turn on your notifications so you can listen as soon as the episode drops, and like/follow us on your favorite platform. Check out the Prodigy EMS Bounty Program! Earn $1000 for your best talks! Get your CE at www.prodigyems.com. Follow @ProdigyEMS on FB, YouTube, TikTok & IG.  

Feeling unseen and misunderstood in your closest relationship can be one of the loneliest experiences, even when surrounded by family and friends. It's not uncommon for couples to fall into patterns of projection, reactivity, and defensiveness, leaving genuine intimacy and deep connection feeling just out of reach. How do we move from these cycles of blame and distance towards the kind of secure, transformative partnership that brings true accompaniment, dignity, and joy? In this episode, you are invited to slow down and explore new pathways to presence and connection. Through practical tools, guided reflection, and insights rooted in transformative couples therapy, you'll discover ways to move beyond automatic reactivity and habitual defense, and instead cultivate curiosity, somatic awareness, and genuine intimacy. Whether you're looking to strengthen trust, improve communication, or rekindle the spark in a long-term bond, this conversation offers powerful guidance for anyone seeking more clarity, care, and lasting growth in their relationships. Since 2008 Dr. David Mars has been the developer of Transformative Couples Therapy® (TCT). He leads seminars and training programs internationally on TCT. Affective neuroscience and attachment research are central to this experiential, somatically attuned and positivity-based method. Currently Dr. Mars also is the leader of a three-year project to quantify the results of TCT in preparation to offer published research on outcomes of the method. He is the Director of the Transformative Couples Therapy® Institute.   Episode Highlights 03:39 The impact of curiosity and projections in long-term relationships. 08:32 How attachment styles form early in life and opportunities for change. 10:05 The importance of somatic awareness, attunement, and slowing down in relationships. 15:42 Gender, stress, and the emotional costs of disconnection. 17:48 Strategies for setting boundaries and cultivating safe communication. 23:14 Transformation and growth through the I-Thou relationship. 24:43 Daily practices and the seven channels of experience in couples therapy. 29:49 Awareness of energetic imprints and somatic patterns from early life. 31:15 Navigating and embracing partner differences in relationships. 34:43 The role of journaling, self-regulation, and reverence in relational health. 40:57 Somatic-based modalities, resources, and generativity in relationships.   Your Check List of Actions to Take Begin your conversations or sessions with your partner by sharing something you appreciate about each other to set a positive tone. Take a deep inhale and exhale together to ground yourselves and invite presence before important discussions. Communicate your feelings and needs using "I" statements to promote vulnerability and reduce defensiveness. Speak directly to your partner, not just about them or through a third party, to foster genuine connection. Notice and share your body sensations (like a tight chest or warm hands) during emotional exchanges to heighten self-awareness and attunement. Approach your partner with genuine curiosity and try to witness their experience, rather than making assumptions or projecting your own perspective. If either partner feels overwhelmed or unresourced, honor the need to pause and agree on a time to revisit the conversation. Tune into the seven channels—sensation, emotion, energy, movement, auditory, visual, and imaginal—to enrich both your self-awareness and your communication with your partner.   Mentioned Martin Buber (Britannica link) (biography) I-Thou (*Britannica link) The I-Thou Relationship and Unconditional Positive Regard (*Psychology Today) Carl Rogers (*Wikipedia link) (article) The 1957 Martin Buber-Carl Rogers Dialogue, as Dialogue (*Sage Journals) (study) Beatrice Beebe (*Wikipedia link) (article) *John Bowlby (*Wikipedia link) (article) *John Beebe (*Wikipedia link) (article) 12 Relationship Principles to Strengthen Your Love (free relationship guide) (pdf) Connect with David Mars Websites: tctinstitute.org Facebook: facebook.com/p/Center-for-Transformative-Therapy-100087943999843 Instagram: instagram.com/transformativecouplestherapy/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/transformative-couples-therapy  

REDIFF - Martine est confrontée à une dépendance affective qui perturbe sa vie quotidienne, notamment dans sa relation actuelle où elle se sent anxieuse en l'absence de communication de son partenaire. Elle relie cette dépendance à une enfance marquée par la maltraitance maternelle et l'absence paternelle, ce qui a engendré une peur de l'abandon. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.frHébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

REDIFF - Quelles sont les origines de cette dépendance ? Comment se manifeste-t-elle dans les relations amoureuses ? En compagnie de Caroline Dublanche, Paul Delair revient sur les témoignages et autres moments qui ont marqué le direct. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.frHébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

ta santé mentale dépend de tellement de choses, et ton environnement en fait parti... je t'en parle aujourd'hui !retrouve moi sur IG @theerealtalinasur YTB : The Real TalinaTT : @therealtalina

Nico, traverse une rupture difficile avec sa compagne, souffrant de dépendance affective et de peurs d'abandon liées à son enfance. Il a commencé une thérapie pour mieux comprendre et gérer ses émotions, notamment en tant que père. Nico cherche à trouver sa place et à offrir une meilleure enfance à son fils. Chaque soir, en direct, Caroline Dublanche accueille les auditeurs pour 2h30 d'échanges et de confidences. Pour participer, contactez l'émission au 09 69 39 10 11 (prix d'un appel local) ou sur parlonsnous@rtl.frHébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Meet Dr. Elefant Yanni, a Swiss psychologist now based in Singapore, who has built a career helping expats and international couples navigate the highs and lows of life abroad. From her first move to Canada, then Korea, and now Singapore, Dr. Yanni shares how each relocation shaped her understanding of relationships, resilience, and the invisible bonds between expats.In this conversation, we dive into the realities of expat life—the loneliness of the “trailing spouse,” the provider complex that can strain couples, and the small daily habits that keep love and family strong when everything around you changes. With practical tips on making friends, cherishing couple time, and knowing when to seek support, this episode is a gentle reminder that while expat life can be challenging, it's also a unique chance to grow, connect, and rediscover yourself.Footnotes

The compulsory service for young men in the Yugoslav People's Army (JNA) created bonds across ethnic, religious, and social lines. These bonds persisted even after the horrific violence of the 1990s, in which many of these men found themselves on opposite sides of the front lines. In Utopia of the Uniform: Affective Afterlives of the Yugoslav People's Army (Duke UP, 2024), Tanja Petrović draws on memories and material effects of dozens of JNA conscripts to show how their experience of military service points to futures, forms of collectivity, and relations between the state and the individual different from those that prevailed in the post-Yugoslav reality. Petrović argues that the power of repetitive, ritualized, and performative practices that constituted military service in the JNA provided a framework for drastically different men to live together and befriend each other. While Petrović and her interlocutors do not idealize the JNA, they acknowledge its capacity to create interpersonal relationships and affective bonds that brought the key political ideas of collectivity, solidarity, egalitarianism, education, and comradeship into being. Dragana Prvulović is a PhD candidate in Sociology at the University of Ottawa. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network

The compulsory service for young men in the Yugoslav People's Army (JNA) created bonds across ethnic, religious, and social lines. These bonds persisted even after the horrific violence of the 1990s, in which many of these men found themselves on opposite sides of the front lines. In Utopia of the Uniform: Affective Afterlives of the Yugoslav People's Army (Duke UP, 2024), Tanja Petrović draws on memories and material effects of dozens of JNA conscripts to show how their experience of military service points to futures, forms of collectivity, and relations between the state and the individual different from those that prevailed in the post-Yugoslav reality. Petrović argues that the power of repetitive, ritualized, and performative practices that constituted military service in the JNA provided a framework for drastically different men to live together and befriend each other. While Petrović and her interlocutors do not idealize the JNA, they acknowledge its capacity to create interpersonal relationships and affective bonds that brought the key political ideas of collectivity, solidarity, egalitarianism, education, and comradeship into being. Dragana Prvulović is a PhD candidate in Sociology at the University of Ottawa. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/history

The compulsory service for young men in the Yugoslav People's Army (JNA) created bonds across ethnic, religious, and social lines. These bonds persisted even after the horrific violence of the 1990s, in which many of these men found themselves on opposite sides of the front lines. In Utopia of the Uniform: Affective Afterlives of the Yugoslav People's Army (Duke UP, 2024), Tanja Petrović draws on memories and material effects of dozens of JNA conscripts to show how their experience of military service points to futures, forms of collectivity, and relations between the state and the individual different from those that prevailed in the post-Yugoslav reality. Petrović argues that the power of repetitive, ritualized, and performative practices that constituted military service in the JNA provided a framework for drastically different men to live together and befriend each other. While Petrović and her interlocutors do not idealize the JNA, they acknowledge its capacity to create interpersonal relationships and affective bonds that brought the key political ideas of collectivity, solidarity, egalitarianism, education, and comradeship into being. Dragana Prvulović is a PhD candidate in Sociology at the University of Ottawa. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/military-history

The compulsory service for young men in the Yugoslav People's Army (JNA) created bonds across ethnic, religious, and social lines. These bonds persisted even after the horrific violence of the 1990s, in which many of these men found themselves on opposite sides of the front lines. In Utopia of the Uniform: Affective Afterlives of the Yugoslav People's Army (Duke UP, 2024), Tanja Petrović draws on memories and material effects of dozens of JNA conscripts to show how their experience of military service points to futures, forms of collectivity, and relations between the state and the individual different from those that prevailed in the post-Yugoslav reality. Petrović argues that the power of repetitive, ritualized, and performative practices that constituted military service in the JNA provided a framework for drastically different men to live together and befriend each other. While Petrović and her interlocutors do not idealize the JNA, they acknowledge its capacity to create interpersonal relationships and affective bonds that brought the key political ideas of collectivity, solidarity, egalitarianism, education, and comradeship into being. Dragana Prvulović is a PhD candidate in Sociology at the University of Ottawa. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/sociology

What if one simple discovery question could close your next big deal? Here's the one I used: “Tell me what's going on with your team?” Then I shut up and listened. The buying committee talked, debated, and worked their way toward their own clarity. By the end of the call, they had essentially closed the deal for me. I barely said a word. That's not a fairy tale—it happened. And it proves why most sales discovery fails: reps focus on their checklist and pitch instead of helping the buyer gain clarity. The Certainty Crisis Killing Your Deals Dr. Lorenzo Bizzi joined The Sales Gravy Podcast and revealed a simple truth: Buyer uncertainty kills deals. Traditional sales discovery often increases that uncertainty. Rigid qualifying questions, seller-centric agendas, and shallow data gathering make buyers feel misunderstood and cautious. When you approach discovery this way, you're eroding trust. Sure, buyers are evaluating your product—but they're also evaluating whether you understand their world. And if you can't help them gain clarity, even the best solution won't move the deal forward. The Science of Deep Sales Discovery The most effective influence tactic isn't charm, rapport, or even product demos. It's clearly displaying the arguments and reasons why your solution works for their specific situation. But you can't build rational arguments until you truly understand the problem. And you can't understand the problem until you master deep discovery. Deep discovery operates on two levels: The Organizational Level: What metrics matter to the company? What are the measurable business outcomes they're trying to achieve? What's the cost of inaction? The Individual Level: What's at stake for each stakeholder personally? How will this decision impact their performance review, their standing with leadership, and their career trajectory? Remember: Organizations don't make decisions. People do. The Power of One Question The most powerful discovery conversations start with one well-crafted, open-ended question that invites the buyer to tell their story—not your story about how great your product is.  The question I used—"Tell me what's going on with your team?"—worked because it was: Open-ended, with no leading assumptions. Centered on their world, not my product. Neutral, without judgment or bias. Broad enough to go anywhere. When you ask the right question and then listen, the buyer starts convincing themselves. They begin connecting the dots between their current situation and what they need to change.  And here's the key: If the buyer says it, it's the truth. If you say it, you're just another salesperson spinning a pitch. Cognitive Empathy Is The Difference Maker Dr. Lorenzo Bizzi defines several types of empathy. But for salespeople, the distinction that matters is simple: affective empathy pulls you off course, while cognitive empathy keeps you sharp, connected, and in control. Affective empathy—actually feeling what your buyers feel—will drain your energy and cloud your judgment. When they're frustrated, you get frustrated. When they're uncertain, you become uncertain. Cognitive empathy is different. It's the ability to recognize and understand what your buyer is feeling without taking it on yourself. You stay clear-headed and outcome-focused, while still connecting deeply with their situation.  In discovery, cognitive empathy shows up in the emotional nuance most salespeople miss—a pause before they answer, a change in tone, or hesitation in their voice. That's your cue to lean in, ask a clarifying question, and uncover what's really driving their hesitation. "You paused when I asked about your current system. What's on your mind?" "I heard some frustration in your voice when you mentioned the timeline. Help me understand what's driving that." Deals get won in the emotional subtleties that surface-level discovery never uncovers. The AI Factor: Why Discovery Matters More Than Ever Artificial intelligence is democratizing sales presentations. Everyone can now generate polished decks, sharp ROI models, and slick proposals. When everything looks perfect, how do buyers decide? They choose the salesperson who understands them best. The one who helped them see their situation more clearly than they saw it themselves. AI can't replicate that. It can't read the unspoken hesitation in a prospect's voice or ask the follow-up question that unlocks the real issue. That's human territory. And it's where skilled discovery gives you the ultimate edge. The 5-Step Discovery Revolution Framework Here's how to revolutionize your discovery process: Start Broad, Then Narrow: Begin with one expansive question that invites storytelling. Let them paint the full picture before you start drilling down into specifics. Listen for Stories, Not Data Points: People communicate in narratives, not bullet points. Pay attention to the story they're telling and help them connect the dots. Guide, Don't Interrogate: Your job isn't to extract information. It's to help them organize their thoughts and gain clarity on their situation. Follow the Energy: When you notice emotional shifts, that's where the real information lives. Dig in instead of sticking to your script. Reflect and Clarify: "Here's what I'm hearing..." proves you're listening and helps them hear their own story from a new perspective. The Path Forward The future belongs to sellers who understand that sales discovery is about helping buyers gain the certainty they need to move forward with confidence, not checking boxes. Master this approach, and buyers will thank you for helping them see their situation more clearly. And you'll wonder why you ever thought you needed to talk so much to sell so much. Stop interrogating. Start facilitating. The difference will transform your sales results—and how you think about selling. The revolution starts with one question. What will yours be? If you want to take your sales discovery to the next level, you need to understand how different buyers think and make decisions. Grab your free copy of the ACED Buyer Style Playbook and learn how to adapt your discovery approach to every buyer type.

What if one simple discovery question could close your next big deal? Here's the one I used: “Tell me what's going on with your team?” Then I shut up and listened. The buying committee talked, debated, and worked their way toward their own clarity. By the end of the call, they had essentially closed the deal for me. I barely said a word. That's not a fairy tale—it happened. And it proves why most sales discovery fails: reps focus on their checklist and pitch instead of helping the buyer gain clarity. The Certainty Crisis Killing Your Deals Dr. Lorenzo Bizzi joined The Sales Gravy Podcast and revealed a simple truth: Buyer uncertainty kills deals. Traditional sales discovery often increases that uncertainty. Rigid qualifying questions, seller-centric agendas, and shallow data gathering make buyers feel misunderstood and cautious. When you approach discovery this way, you're eroding trust. Sure, buyers are evaluating your product—but they're also evaluating whether you understand their world. And if you can't help them gain clarity, even the best solution won't move the deal forward. The Science of Deep Sales Discovery The most effective influence tactic isn't charm, rapport, or even product demos. It's clearly displaying the arguments and reasons why your solution works for their specific situation. But you can't build rational arguments until you truly understand the problem. And you can't understand the problem until you master deep discovery. Deep discovery operates on two levels: The Organizational Level: What metrics matter to the company? What are the measurable business outcomes they're trying to achieve? What's the cost of inaction? The Individual Level: What's at stake for each stakeholder personally? How will this decision impact their performance review, their standing with leadership, and their career trajectory? Remember: Organizations don't make decisions. People do. The Power of One Question The most powerful discovery conversations start with one well-crafted, open-ended question that invites the buyer to tell their story—not your story about how great your product is.  The question I used—"Tell me what's going on with your team?"—worked because it was: Open-ended, with no leading assumptions. Centered on their world, not my product. Neutral, without judgment or bias. Broad enough to go anywhere. When you ask the right question and then listen, the buyer starts convincing themselves. They begin connecting the dots between their current situation and what they need to change.  And here's the key: If the buyer says it, it's the truth. If you say it, you're just another salesperson spinning a pitch. Cognitive Empathy Is The Difference Maker Dr. Lorenzo Bizzi defines several types of empathy. But for salespeople, the distinction that matters is simple: affective empathy pulls you off course, while cognitive empathy keeps you sharp, connected, and in control. Affective empathy—actually feeling what your buyers feel—will drain your energy and cloud your judgment. When they're frustrated, you get frustrated. When they're uncertain, you become uncertain. Cognitive empathy is different. It's the ability to recognize and understand what your buyer is feeling without taking it on yourself. You stay clear-headed and outcome-focused, while still connecting deeply with their situation.  In discovery, cognitive empathy shows up in the emotional nuance most salespeople miss—a pause before they answer, a change in tone, or hesitation in their voice. That's your cue to lean in, ask a clarifying question, and uncover what's really driving their hesitation. "You paused when I asked about your current system. What's on your mind?" "I heard some frustration in your voice when you mentioned the timeline. Help me understand what's driving that." Deals get won in the emotional subtleties that surface-level discovery never uncovers.

Suzanne Mouton-Odum, PhD is a licensed psychologist and a leader in the field of BRFB. Ruth Goldfinger Golomb, LCPC is also a leader in the field of the treatment of BFRB.  In this interview we talk about their latest book, The BFRB Survival Guide: A Workbook for Overcoming Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors. This workbook provides a clear program of action for dealing with these complex disorders. It involves identifying the BRFB potentially mainfest themselves in 5 domains (Sensory, Affective, Cognitive, Motor and Place) and then with this comprehensive knowledge developing a treatment plan.   I have previously interviewed the authors on my podcast about their previous books: Helping Your Child with Sensory Regulation by Suzanne Mouton-Odum, PhD and Ruth Goldfinger Golomb, LCPC, Psychological Interventions for Children with Senory Dysregulation by Ruth Goldfinger Golomb and Suzanne Mouton-Odum, Comprehensive Behavioral (ComB) Treatment of Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors by Charles S Mansueto, Suzanne Mouton-Odum & Ruth Goldfinger Golomb   https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hair-pulling-and-skin-picking-interview-with/id937022377?i=1000634550977 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/expert-interview-25-ruth-goldfinger-golomb-lcpc-helping/id937022377?i=1000519775283 Also of interest is their book for parents of children who pull their hair.  https://www.amazon.com/Parent-Guide-Hair-Pulling-Disorder/dp/0615657400/ref=asc_df_0615657400?tag=bingshoppinga-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=80539280274815&hvnetw=o&hvqmt=e&hvbmt=be&hvdev=c&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=51562&hvtargid=pla-4584138866830203&psc=1#:~:text=A%20Parent%20Guide,LCPC%20(Author) The authors are also on the scientific advisory board of the TLC Foundation for BFRBs which is a very helpful resource https://www.bfrb.org/    

Today we catch up on what everyone has been reading before diving into a discussion on what the Church refers to as "affective maturity" and its importance in the life of seminarians and priests. 

Questions? Comments? Episode suggestions? Send us a text message!#213: Kathy Oneto is a life-work strategist, author and founder of Sustainable Ambition.  She explains what makes an ambition sustainable, the different influences that drive ambitions, and the difficulty of predicting what will make us happy. What you'll learn[01:50] The difference between traditional ambition and sustainable ambition. [03:33] What unsustainable ambition looks like. [05:24] The difference between a challenging ambition and a misplaced ambition. [07:28] The different influences that drive ambitions. [11:17] How to avoid shiny object syndrome. [13:23] The physical signs your ambitions are misaligned with your self. [16:12] Affective forecasting and how to react when you start questioning your ambitions. [18:25] The four different motivators for following ambitions.[21:28] The distinction between doing what you love and loving what you do. [23:41] How to gain clarity on what you want to do with your life. [26:00] How to identify what sparks your curiosity.  [28:55] How to apply your ambitions to your life. [31:12] How to balance your responsibilities and ambitions. [34:04] How much time it takes to achieve an ambition. [36:27] Actionable steps to identify your ambitions. Resources mentioned in this episodePlease note that some of these are affiliate links and we may get a commission in the event that you make a purchase.  This helps us to cover our expenses and is at no additional cost to you.Affective Forecasting, Timothy Wilson and Daniel GilbertConscious Business, Fred KofmanWorking Identity, Herminia IbarraSquiggly Careers podcast“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.”, Mark TwainChange Work Life coachingFor the show notes for this episode, including a full transcript and links to all the resources mentioned, visit:https://changeworklife.com/ambition-that-lasts-pursuing-success-without-losing-yourself/Re-assessing your career?  Know you need a change but don't really know where to start?  Check out these two exercises to start the journey of working out what career is right for you!

Anne Ghesquière reçoit Boris Cyrulnik, psychanalyste, neuropsychiatre et écrivain. Que ce soit dans le monde animal ou humain, la violence est partout. C'est même le socle des civilisations. Alors est-il possible de la prévenir à l'échelle d'une société ? Anne Ghesquière et Boris Cyrulnik explorent les enjeux cruciaux qui se déroulent pendant cette période clé du développement et l'importance primordiale d'un attachement sécurisé et sécurisant dans les premières années de la vie. Son livre, Quarante voleurs en carence affective, bagarres animales et guerres humaines, est publié aux éditions Odile Jacob [REDIFFUSION – BEST OF – MÉTAMORPHOSE]L'épisode #436 a été diffusé, la première fois, le 9 novembre 2023.Quelques citations du podcast avec Boris Cyrulnik :"La pire des maltraitances c'est l'isolement sensoriel.""L'héroïsation des hommes était une manière de les mener au sacrifice.""Notre psychisme fonctionne mal quand il y a un appauvrissement verbal."Thèmes abordés lors du podcast avec Boris Cyrulnik : 00:00Introduction02:00Présentation invité05:10L'impact cérébral de l'isolement affectif chez l'enfant07:33Les animaux, vecteurs de résilience10:06La spécificité humaine14:33Qu'est-ce que l'espace noétique ?16:50L'importance d'observer le vivant21:35Carence affective et violence26:25Les 3 niches sensorielles39:22Trop d'amour, c'est la prison44:18Comprendre l'autre éviter le totalitarisme50:09Appauvrissement des récits et banalité du mal54:04Le cerveau collectif est pathologique56:33L'importance d'apprendre à penser par soi-même01:00:20Sécuriser les enfantsAvant-propos et précautions à l'écoute du podcast Découvrez Objectif Métamorphose, notre programme en 12 étapes pour partir à la rencontre de soi-même.Recevez chaque semaine l'inspirante newsletter Métamorphose par Anne GhesquièreSuivez nos RS : Insta, Facebook & TikTokAbonnez-vous sur Apple Podcast / Spotify / Deezer / CastBox / YoutubeSoutenez Métamorphose en rejoignant la Tribu MétamorphosePhoto DR Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.