Holistic Healing Connection

Wow! This is a great episode for EVERYONE right now, no matter what! In these ever shifting, intense, emotionally charged times; it is still possible to live our yummiest, most fulfilled, joyful lives. If you're thinking this is a nutty concept, then this episode and all that Ambers guest Danet Palmer has to offer is what you need right now. Danet is so inspirational and joy-filled - there's no way you're going to end this episode not feeling more joyful and inspired yourself.  Danét Palmer is the author of "Baptized by Love: How I Found Present Joy and Never Let it Go". This memoir is a story of forgiveness, redemption, and the restoration of self-love and abundant joy — a resounding promise that no matter the heartbreak, violence, or trauma you've experienced, you can use your pain to uncover a life of present joy.  She's also the author of "Coffee with the Divine: A Yummy Guide to Daily Miracles" and host of “The Yummy Way Podcast.” Much of her adult life was spent as a psycho-spiritual mentor and metaphysical minister, coaching others to live true, authentic lives. After listening, you'll definitely want to connect with Danet at her website The Yummy Way.com. There you will find all of her beautiful offerings.  Join us in the Dragonfly Connection Facebook Group to let us know what you thought. You can even tag Danet with questions.

Do you seem more sensitive than most people or have been accused of being too sensitive most of your life? Or maybe you just want to know how to communicate more effectively with the highly sensitive people in your life? Then this episode is for you! In it, Amber and Tammy chat about the traits of highly sensitive people or HSP's, our challenges and our super powers, and she gives a ton of great advice on how we can thrive in this world that seems like it's not meant for us.  Tammy Goen is a self love and happiness coach for us Highly Sensitive People. As an HSP she knows firsthand what it's like to feel misunderstood, unaccepted, overwhelmed and needing to be fixed. She's felt the shame and struggled in relationships and felt totally incapable of dealing with the atrocities of life. And in spite of it all she has learned how to thrive… how to love herself and embrace (and enjoy) her sensitivities and all that life has to offer. Using her degree in Counseling Psychology, her certifications in EFT/Tapping, HeartMath meditations, other meditation and mindfulness practices and energy healing techniques she helps others do the same.  Tammy has a ton of great offers and even free resources available on her website. coachtammygoen.com She even has a Guide for Highly Sensitives to communicate with non-HSPs! Get the guide here. And, as with most of my podcast guests, Tammy is available to connect with personally in Ambers Facebook group "The Dragonfly Connection". Hop on in, and tag her in a question or comment. If you're not already a part of it. It's free! 

Todays guest is Vanessa Perry, a career mental health therapist turned intuitive holistic counselor. Vanessa believes that our troubles are rooted and treated beyond just the mind, and helps others explore non-traditional practices for healing and empowerment. She believes that abundance and soul-led living is achievable for everyone, and  thrives on the work of co-creating this with her clients. In this conversation, she and Amber chat all about spirituality, intuition and neurodivergence....in this case, ADHD. Vanessa has an awesome take on things like ADHD. It's a really great theory! Once you listen, please let Amber know what you think. You can post a comment in our Facebook Group, The Dragonfly Connection or leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. If you have any questions for Vanessa, you can ask her directly in that group too.  Vanessa is also a podcast host and offers a ton of great resources on her website. All the ways to connect with her and listen to her podcast are below. www.vanessaperry.net or on Instagram at @sea.stars.psych.

"We're all healing beings." Todays guest, Anna Marie Frank is a doctor of Traditional Naturopathy, brain health professional, certified mindset life-guide coach, and lover of life! She is an author, podcast host, and an employee wellness consultant. Her mission is to end mental health stigmas and help all people upgrade their brains and biology through lifestyle choices.  She believes that our neural pathways can be rewired through using holistic modalities to work on the physical and energetic level. In this episode Anna Marie shares how she healed her own brain after years of depression and challenges with dyslexia and ADHD.  And, if all of that isn't enough, she is also the author of the self improvement book, “Stop Bullying Yourself! For greater health, wealth, happiness, and success". There are so many great tips in this episode!  Connect with Anna Marie on Instagram @HappyWholeYou Find out more at her website: www.happywholeyou.com Check out her amazing podcast HERE. 

This is Ambers 100th podcast episode and the topic was formed from a PTSD flashback she had the night before recording.  Amber uses PTSD and CPTSD interchangeably, but there is a difference. The main difference between the two is PTSD usually occurs after a single traumatic event, while CPTSD is associated with repeated trauma. Amber has CPTSD.  In this episode Amber shares her experience with PTSD and the lessons learned from this latest flashback - her first one in almost a year.  One of her biggest lessons this time was how PTSD has affected her relationship with food and her struggles with maintaining a healthy weight. Amber talks a little bit about EMDR experience in which she calls a miracle treatment for trauma. If you're unfamiliar with what EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is, it's a psychotherapy treatment that enables you to heal from the symptoms and emotional distress that come with trauma. Here's an EMDR website that describes it. www.emdr.com/what-is-emdr Here's the link to the NIH study and article she mentioned: The Weight of Traumatic Stress: A Prospective Study of Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Symptoms and Weight Status in Women. If you'd like to do your own research, just Google "weight gain and PTSD", or "weight gain and trauma". There are a ton of studies and theories. Most come down to healing the pain that the trauma (or traumas) created and stored in your mind and body. It can't be buried, ignored, or swept under the rug. That pain will surface in all kinds of ways and will create things in your mind and your body that will hold you back in life. It may not hold you back completely, but it will prevent you from living a fully experienced life.  Excess weight and the (seemingly) impossibility of losing it may not be how unhealed trauma shows up for you, instead it may be one of the following.... Anxiety or panic attacks that occur in what would be considered normal situations A feeling of shame; an innate feeling that you are bad, worthless, or without importance Suffering from chronic or ongoing depression Practicing avoidance of people, places, or things that may be related to the traumatic event; this also can include an avoidance of unpleasant emotions Flashbacks, nightmares, and body memories regarding the traumatic event Addiction and eating disorders in an attempt to escape or numb negative emotions Sleeping issues, including trouble going to sleep or staying asleep Suffering from feelings of detachment, or feeling "dead inside" Dissociation to disconnect in situations and conversations Hypervigilance - a constant feeling of being on guard Suicidal thoughts or actions Uncontrollable anger Self-harm, cutting, and mutilation Not being able to tolerate conflicts Unexplained or irrational fears of people, places, or things Amber has personally experienced 14 of these at different times in her life and along her healing journey. And, now today, due to her deep healing work, out of that 14, she only still experience 5 of them on occasion. If she can do it, so can you! So now it's your turn for some self reflection. Get yourself a piece of paper or your journal, write down the following questions, and answer them. If you're working with a professional healer, coach, or therapist, you're highly encouraged to share the answers with them.  Do you recognize any of the symptoms or experiences in that list of 15 above in yourself? Where are you stuck in life - what area(s)? Health, Career, Relationships, or general Fulfillment? Be specific! What kind of support do you need? From what or who? What does that look like? Have you found tools that help you? If so, what are they and why aren't you using them? If you are using them, why aren't they working? How do you celebrate your wins? Is it something that you feel benefits you - like if it effects your health negatively, you might want to find another way to celebrate? Why do you start treatments/programs/plans meant to benefit you mentally or physically and not finish them? What do you think is holding you back from living your best life? What can you do to change or eliminate those things all together? Really give this one a hard think. Where have you found the most success so far in your healing journey? Who inspires you the most on your healing journey? Follow that person. Read their books or publications. Listen to them. Watch them. Learn all you can about them. But, please for you're health, don't put them on a pedestal or make them your guru. Learn from them. What are the top 3 things you have done to help yourself? What is one thing you would say to someone you love who feels the way you feel about yourself and your life when you're feeling low?  Now say that last one to yourself! Maybe even turn it into a mantra. Put it on your mirror. Say it every day.  You are worthy and you deserve to live a joyful, peaceful, full, healthy life!  Self-awareness is so huge when it comes to helping you get there! So, why not take some more time for yourself and answer these questions? Then re-commit to becoming more self-aware and getting to the bottom of what's holding you back!  What happened to us in the past doesn't have to have a big negative impact on our present and our future. True healing is possible for all of us.  In this episode shares an exciting update about her current offerings too! To connect with Amber you can visit her website, or follow her on social media.  And, don't forget to join us in The Dragonfly Connection Community on Facebook. It's a private group for fans of this podcast, guests that you've heard on here, and anyone wanting more connection, and support on their healing journey. It's a great group, full of love. If you have any questions or comments about this episode or others, you can post them in there, and even ask Amber or her podcast guests questions directly. 

Ambers guest, Steve Q. Wiltshire has made fitness, health & mindset a priority for 3 decades! Shortly after winning the Mr. Oregon Body Building Competition, Steve developed an autoimmune disease that originated from a serious gut complication that took a huge toll on his overall health, his life, and his career.  Up until then Steve followed what he perceived as experts in fitness regarding what was "healthy", like radical meal plans and supplements containing harsh chemicals. But, eighteen long months after being diagnosed with an autoimmune disease and more, which he talks about in this episode, Steve healed himself through alternative and holistic healing methods. Now he doesn't just look healthy, he IS healthy from the inside out. And, it's evident through his boundless energy and outlook on life! Now it's Steve's mission to help others reclaim their health & power...and love themselves no matter where they're at! Steve is an inspiring Speaker, Author, Mindset Coach and the founder of Body Temple Health & Wellness. His company also has it's own, all natural, chemical free supplement line! The links to follow are included below.  Also included is his complimentary ‘15 Day Kickstart Gut Detox Plan'. Like Steve says, "The Gut is the engine and the brain of the body." After listening to this episode you should definitely check out his free detox program and all his other great resources to help you on your healing journey.  If you're part of The Dragonfly Connection Community on Facebook you can also connect with Steve and other podcast guests in there.  Grab the complimentary detox program at bodytemplellc.com/kickstart Check out all the resources his company offers (including chemical-free supplements) at www.bodytemplellc.com  

Ambers guest today is Rachel West, and this is her 2nd time being on the podcast. Rachel is a Holistic Personal Growth Coach, Best Selling Author and the Founder of "Empowering Growth". She is also a Domestic Violence Victims Advocate and Community Health Worker.  Rachel focuses on helping others with mindset improvement and their mental health with a specialty in addiction. She has a belief that you must do the inner work, if you ever want the outer to work; and understands first hand how releasing negative mental, emotional and behavioral programming helps you feel, hear and see new possibilities simply by shifting your thoughts so that you can achieve the results you dream of at a much higher level.  One of her favorite quotes is from Stacey O'Byrne, "Choice is a powerful thing, suffering is always optional".  Sometimes in our lives horrible things do happen, tragedies, traumatic experiences - things that are truly not our fault, and sometimes things that we don't have actual recognition of because they happened to us as children...or even to our ancestors. Those things/events have the potential to wreck havoc in our lives when just left to run amok in our subconscious.  If left buried and untreated, they can lead to mental health challenges as well as addiction. In this episode, that's what the focus is - the buried emotions, the untruths we tell ourselves, and the programming...the roots of the problem. Then Rachel shares some ways to heal those things in your life and how to help others. Because, suffering is optional. We can all choose to start our healing journey or not.  So, even if you haven't been touched by addiction in your family like Rachel and Amber have, this episode is one you need to hear...if not for you, for someone you care about. Then go share it with them! There's also a really easy self-awareness tool buried within their conversation that you can start using today.  All the ways you can connect with Rachel are listed below. If you join The Dragonfly Connection Community on Facebook, you can ask her questions directly. It's a free group, Amber created to help us stay connected and empowered on our healing journeys. Rachels Website: www.empoweringgrowthcoach.com  Facebook and Her Private Group on Facebook   And, on Instagram.   

"Curiosity is the gateway drug to intuition" - Kimberly Spencer  Kimberly Spencer is an award-winning high-performance, trauma-informed coach and trainer, Amazon best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and the founder of CrownYourself.com. From her entrepreneurial beginnings at five selling bags of glitter-water to her neighbors, to becoming an award-winning screenwriter, certified Pilates instructor, Miss Congeniality, and six-time WEGO Health Activist Award nominee, Kimberly is proof that it's better to make your own mold than to conform to someone else's. She and Amber talk a ton about this topic in this episode along with her own healing journey, the mother wound (and the father wound), drama triangles and so much more good stuff to help you on your life and healing journey.  Kimberly's work has been featured on Netflix, The CW, ESPN, Chicken Soup for the Soul, and NPR, and in Thrive Global, CNBC, and Forbes. We are so honored to have her part of the Dragonfly Connection now!  Let us know what you thought of this episode in The Dragonfly Connection Community!  All the ways you can connect with Kimberly are listed below.  ***Something happened to Ambers mic during this recording, cause it's definitely a little off. But, it shouldn't ruin your experience. Please refrain from dinging her reviews because of it. Instead, please share with your friends and leave a review about the wonderful content rather than mic error.  Website: https://crownyourself.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/crownyourselfnow Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/crownyourself/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/crownyourselfnow

Ash Marshall-Odell says, "Living life is a spiritual experience."  Spirituality is a very important part of our healing journey and Amber felt that this episode was the perfect one to help wrap up Mental Health Awareness Month for us. Please share with someone who needs to hear it...not just in May, but anytime.   Ash is a spiritual teacher & mentor, healer, empath, psychic medium, certified personal coach, Light Worker, Reiki master & teacher, and author of the book, Light Bound: A Healer's Journey through Trauma, C PTSD, and Anxiety, and now most recently the host of her own podcast, the "Attune to You" podcast.  In this episode she and Amber are chatting about spirituality, healing journeys, energy, and the infinite possibilities within and around each of us....or cosmic connections. Ash shares a plethora of self-help tools that can help you tune more deeply into yourself for developing more ease, clarity, capability, and insight. Most are free and many are low cost. They're tools available to all of us.  When you're done listening check out Ash's podcast.  You can also connect with Ash on her website and purchase a copy of her book. All those links are below. Attune to You Podcast on Apple Podcasts or search for it on Spotify and Google too! podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/attune-to-you/id1599580831  Visit her website for resources and a to purchase her book sacredjourneyswithash.com If you'd like to connect more intimately with Ash, Amber and other podcast guests join us on Facebook in The Dragonfly Connection Community group. 

Are you not living your best life because anxiety and depression are holding you back?  Ambers guest, Grounded Alignment Practitioner, Elizabeth Sloan wants you to know that you are not “broken” or “less than”, you just need the right support to reconnect you with your ideal manifestation of yourself in this world.  She says, when you are grounded as yourself, you really can deal with all the challenges that come up from a place of inner calm and equanimity. In this episode, Elizabeth shares some proven, effective resources and technologies to help you do just that. In this episode she also shares an easy tool she uses for herself to bring her greater joy and peace every day no matter what's going on in her life. It's something anyone listening can do and doesn't cost a thing! Amber will be getting healing session with Elizabeth the week this episode lands, as she is currently in need of some outside support to help her process some trauma triggers. You can hear more about that and her experience as a client of Elizabeth's in the private Facebook Group, "The Dragonfly Connection". The link to connect with Elizabeth....including a link to her weekly live meditation on zoom are below. She can also be found on Instagram and Facebook at Grounded Alignment. Website: https://www.groundedalignment.com Free live Guided meditations every other Friday on Zoom: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81277085135?pwd=SklaNFVzaXdldkZLZG91MEtFdnBidz09 Creative Breakthrough Challenge (will run every month): https://www.groundedalignment.com/creative-breakthrough-challenge

It's still Mental Health Awareness Month. But, after last week's episode where Amber talked about some heavy topics, we decided to go a little lighter...but, the information in this episode is still helpful for your mental health. And, Ambers guest Bethany has a loving, sunshine energy that's just good for the soul.  Bethany Nicole is back for a second time and this time we're chatting about the 5 Love Languages, based on work and books by Gary Chapman. Bethany is an LA-based author, freelance writer, and relationship expert. She's also the creator of "Written In The Stars" Relationship Sessions where she uses alternative healing modalities to work on your deeper layers - the subconscious, astrological, energetics, and even karmic layers to get to the root of what's really going on in your love life, to create long-lasting benefits, and to build long-term connections.  And, Bethany also uses the 5 Love Languages in her work and on herself.  Amber is a huge fan of the 5 Love Languages and believes it's one of the things that's kept her relationship with her husband as solid as it is. They were fortunate to get the original book as a wedding present and have been using it and the concept since they first realized they didn't have the same love language.  Whether or not you already know about the book, you're in a romantic relationship, wanting to be in one, or happily single; this episode is for you. There are actually Love Language books for everyone and can benefit all types of relationships...even the one with yourself.  Here are the main Love Language books: The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts The 5 Love Languages Singles Edition: The Secret that Will Revolutionize Your Relationships 5 Love Languages Of Children: The Secret To Loving Children The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers: The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively The 5 Love Languages for Men: Tools for Making a Good Relationship Great  Connect with Bethany at bethanynicole.com Or on Facebook or Instagram   

No matter what you're going through, there is always hope. There is always a way to get through it. True healing is possible for every single one of us. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month Amber shares parts of her traumatic yet healing story. She shares her experience with different healing methods and resources in order to encourage and support you on your healing journey. Get help finding wellness professionals to help support you on your healing and life journey at HealingWaze.com. Hire Amber to advocate for you! Learn more HERE. Join The Dragonfly Connection Community on Facebook for support and a great self-improvement book list. Here are the two she mentions in this episode:  The Body Keeps The Score Atlas of The Heart And, if you'd like to support NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness), please visit Ambers fundraising page 

"Grief can often feel like being quarantined. Now, it's even more so. Grieving is hard and isolating even at the best of times, and unfortunately, we are far from the best of times." That's a quote from a piece written by Ambers guest today, Kevin Ringstaff founder of PetCloud - grief support services for pet loss.  Now if you're not a pet owner, that's ok, this episode is focused on grief in general - the stigmas around it, the process, and ways to help ourselves and others.  Kevin has been a student of grief for many years. He's been through several grief certification programs over the years and he's currently studying to be a Board Certified Hospital Chaplain. He spends his days talking about grief, creating activities and products around grief, and listening to the grief stories from people all over the country. PetCloud is his first company, created to help those who are going through the loss of a pet. A direct link to this website will be below. He's currently seeking stories about pet loss for his upcoming podcast. If you're interested, you can connect with Kevin through his website or on social media.  Kevins has another company, Grieving at Work, created to help teach management how to better support grieving employees in the workplace. If you'd like to connect with him, and other podcast guests more intimately; join us in Ambers private Facebook group, The Dragonfly Connection.  Visit his websites: petcloud.pet  And, grievingatwork.com Find him on Instagram and Facebook too! 

"We are never going to grieve ourselves into happiness" You may remember Penny's episode from last season called "Habits of Happiness", named after her signature program.  Penny has been involved in the health care field for over 40 years.  She's a beloved massage therapist in Portland, OR, and an EFT Practitioner. Her work is client-centered because she knows how unhelpful and even damaging it is to not be heard, or have your feelings dismissed. She tries to be as much coach and cheerleader as therapist, empowering clients to discover what works for them on their journey towards healing; and to encourage clients take a journey of unfoldment beyond just the cessation of their pain. In this episode she and Amber talk a lot about EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) or tapping. It's a healing method we're starting to hear more about, but it's still pretty misunderstood. So, in this conversation today; we dive deeper into it's origins and how it can be used for everything from physical pain to mindset. It's also a great stress and anxiety reliever!  Penny describes some of the points that you could start using today after you listen. After listening, head over to her website to learn more and take advantage of all her free content - including tapping videos. She's also listed in Ambers  holistic health and wellness directory, HealingWaze.com. You might be able to snag a promo code or something!  Penny's Website: calmhealthease.com You can also connect with Penny, other podcast guests, and fans in The Dragonfly Connection Facebook group. It's free to join.     

Ambers guest today, Beverley Danielle met on Instagram...which is actually the way she's connected with about half of this shows guests.  She was inspired by Beverley's beautiful posts and business name. So, being the curious being she is - of course, she wanted to know more! And, in this episode, she got her fill. Not only is Beverley a lovely human, helper, Life Coach, and Fitness Instructor; she also works for the criminal justice system.  She is definitely very well rounded!  Beverley began her spiritual and healing journey in 2012 after dealing with several of her own health issues. She realized she was disconnected from herself and her life needed a major overhaul. Along the way she learned how to heal her generational trauma, love herself and find work life balance as a single mother. Now she uses that wisdom along with her life coach teachings to help others reach their highest potential.  And, recently she just started her own podcast, titled "Keep Going Soulful", where she and a co-host talk all about self-love, planning, astrology, and life. If you're looking to add another podcast to your library, check it out!  Connect with Beverley on social media, like Amber did.... www.instagram.com/hummingbird_energy_healing www.facebook.com/HummingbirdEnergyHealing Check out an organization close to Beverley's heart - Pug Rescue

Sit back and get ready for an hour of hope, inspiration, and a ton of great wisdom coming from today's guest, Susan DeLorenzo. This is Susan's 2nd time on the podcast, because Amber really enjoys chatting with her, and she's a listener favorite.  Susan is a transformational life coach whose focus is on helping others who are emerging from life-altering adversities. She guides them to evaluate the insights and wisdom that these times hold. She believes our dark moments hold amazing "gems" which we can use to elevate our lives. Susan is a cancer survivor, which seems to be a part of a many of Ambers guests stories lately. She doesn't specifically seek out conversations with cancer warriors. But, it's understandable why they would be the people who use their stories to then help others. Cancer is big and scary and even if we ourselves don't get it, we're bound to be touched by it through others at some point in our lives.  Susan, like many of Ambers guests who have overcome some big obstacles, draws upon her personal journey as well as her professional training to help others. Susan's specialty is teaching mindset and tools to help us rebuild our lives in alignment with our deepest desires. Susan is also the author of the upcoming book, "Pulling the Gems from Adversity", which they'll talk about a little towards the end. It's kind of a surprise ending too!  Follow Susan on Facebook and Instagram.  Get tons of great resources on her website: https://susandelorenzo.com/

Today's guest Terry Tucker says a ton of inspiring things in this episode, but this is one of Amber's favorites, "What we leave behind are the things we weave into the hearts of other people." It's her favorite because it's what this podcast is all about - weaving inspiration, healing, and empowerment into your hearts. This short episode will leave you and your heart full of all three and more!  Terry is a cancer warrior helping others get and stay motivated; keep moving forward no matter the circumstances and improve their lives in general through his stories and wisdom. He has been an NCAA Division I college basketball player, a marketing executive, a hospital administrator, an undercover narcotics investigator, a SWAT Team Hostage Negotiator, a high school basketball coach, a business owner, a motivational speaker, and most recently, an author. His book, "Sustainable Excellence, Ten Principles To Leading Your Uncommon and Extraordinary Life" is just one of the ways Terry practices what he preaches - the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone. Terry has also been featured in some magazines and loves to share his encouraging words and wisdom wherever he can - his website and social media have a ton of free resources available.  Unlike many of Ambers past cancer warrior guests, Terry is not out of the woods. He is currently fighting cancer again. And, like you'll hear him say, he does have bad days; but he doesn't let that stop him. He keeps moving forward, using his story to help others. After listening today, please take a moment to send some good vibes and prayers his way. I'm sure he wouldn't mind you reaching out either -  maybe send him some encouraging words and wisdom.... Connect with Terry via Facebook , Instagram, or LinkedIn Visit his Website, motivationalcheck.com to access all his blog posts and daily motivations.   

Hello! Today's episode is a solo one, with just Amber. In it, she shares some history and folklore around the Spring Equinox, meanings, and some ideas on how to honor all the natural rhythms – the moon, the stars, the planets, mother nature, spirituality, and ourselves. Spring is a time of renewal and revitalization. What better time to pump up your self care!?!?! After listening, join Amber, past guests and other fans in her FREE private Facebook Group. As part of the group you can attend live healing sessions, a book club, connection; and tons of inspiring, uplifting content, tools and more. Are you making spring cleaning a part of your Spring Equinox ritual? Why not add in some Feng Shui and decluttering. Here's Ambers favorite book on both - "Move Your Stuff. Change Your Life." If you'd like to know more about the astrology aspect of this time of year, Amber recommends following @archetypalcosmos on Instagram. Looking for some inspiration to create your new self-care ritual? Check out theritualqueen.com.

1 in 8 US women will develop invasive breast cancer over the course of her lifetime. Sharing these stats are not meant to scare you, and this in no way means you or someone you know will get breast cancer. But, It's something we should all be aware of.  Cancer in all forms is on the rise, and although conventional medical experts will tell you that there's little we can do to avoid getting cancer and if you do get cancer - the only way to  treat it with harsh chemicals or surgery; Today's guest, Rebecca Durance Hine knows better. There are a ton of ways to boost your immune system to fight cancer naturally and a ton of gentler treatments with less side effects.  Rebecca's knowledge comes from personal experience. When she was just 28 she was diagnosed with a very aggressive form of breast cancer. And, today you get to hear about her journey and how cancer changed her life in very unexpected ways.  Rebecca was a teacher, writer, actor and model who had all but given up on her dreams before that diagnosis. Cancer made her realized that we don't necessarily have as much time as we think, and that we need to do the things we want to NOW, while we're still able to. This perspective came about as she took charge of her own healing and embraced life again! Rebecca learned a ton about healing cancer and preventing it from coming back and loves to share that knowledge with others. She is now an integrative cancer care advocate running a blog and online community that supports cancer patients. She's also in the process of writing her first book!  Even if you've never been personally touched by cancer, you're gonna benefit from listening to Rebecca's story and wisdom. It's full of hope, courage and some great health advice! And, speaking of health advice, Rebecca offers a ton of free resources on her website, social media and YouTube; including an anticancer diet guide. All the links are below. You can visit the Solis website at soliscancercommunity.com Her Facebook group, Solis Cancer Community, can be found at facebook.com/groups/solis.cancer.community You can access mental and emotional health resources, from meditations to interviews to vlogs, on the Solis CC YouTube channel  And connect with her on Instagram @solis.cancer.community Get your Anti-Cancer Diet Guide HERE. 

Well, since recording this episode, Covid stuff seems to finally be calming down; but now we're witnessing a pretty scary situation over in Europe and Asia. The hits just keep coming!  If you're feeling a little defeated, hopeless, and unmotivated, this episode might just be the boost of inspiration and motivation you need. Because helping ourselves always helps other people. And, sometimes that's all we can do when other options are limited.  Self-care must be a part of your daily routine. And, if your self care contains more sweat than Zen then this episode is perfect for you! Or maybe you're trying to figure out what kind of self-care works for you? Ambers chat with Robert might be what inspires you to go after it so you can be the best, most successful version of you.  Robert Foster is a successful entrepreneur and a competitive athlete. But as an overcomer, he also knows what it's like to struggle through hardships. At the peak of his career, Robert became an All-American athlete, but that narrative came tumbling down when he encountered what could have been a career-ending injury. And, while medical professionals had strong doubts that the he would ever bounce back from his injury, Robert proved them wrong and came back stronger than ever. Hence the hashtag and title of this episode "Ignore The Never". Now he helps other people develop resilience and confidence by helping them find the power in their own personal stories. Learn more about how Robert can help HERE Or you can follow him on Facebook  He also has his own podcast Shut up and Grind with Robert B. Foster.   

What are "silent" genes vs "activated" genes? What do genes and a cookbook have in common?  In today's episode, you're going to learn the answer to both of those questions and also why today's guest, Lyn, believes that our genes are not our destiny.  And, it's not just a belief! Lyn Delmastro-Thomson is an mind-body medicine practitioner, using the healing systems of BodyTalk and Body Intuitive, and now even hypnosis! She has spent a lot of time studying epigenetics (which you'll learn more about in this episode). She is also the author of the Amazon Best Seller, You Are Not Your Diagnosis.  This is actually Lyns Third time being a guest on Ambers podcast and she's an all time listener favorite! So, we're sure you're gonna love this episode and you'll come away with some great tips to help you not only survive, but also thrive  in these crazy times and beyond.  Lyn has all kinds of free resources on her website and social media (links below). Make sure to check them out after you're done listening.  Follow Lyn on Instagram: heartfirehealing And, on Facebook: heartfirehealingpdx

"The answer to everything is love." - Dr. Jacquilen Tomas, Ali Jacquilen is a Doctor of Naturopathy, Certified BodyTalk Trainer and Practitioner, Nutritional Counselor, and Master Herbalist. She's also one of the most chill, go with the flow, non-judgmental, loving people you can meet. And, it's not because she's had it easy in life. If you've listened to previous podcasts where she's been a guest, you know her story. If you don't, we highly recommend giving them a listen after you listen to todays episode.  Keep and ear out for their mention at the beginning of their chat.  Today she and Amber are chatting about the pharmaceutical industry for which Jacqueline was once a part of. Then she shares some great ideas and tips on boosting our immune system, our mental health and all things in-between.   Jacquilen isn't really into social media, but she does share some inspiring stuff on Facebook. You can also connect with her via her website:  dralind.com She's located in Philadelphia, but can also work with you remotely. Just ask!     

"You gotta believe in God and Divinity, but you gotta tie up your horse." Do you often wonder, "What the hell is happening?"....in regards to society, our mental health, our friends, family; and all the things we see, hear and read from social media, news, and podcasts?!?!  If so, this is the episode for you!!! It will explain a lot...a lot about why we're doing the things we're doing, why we're acting the way we're acting, and how to navigate the rest of the year ahead in what is sure to be a very interesting year.  Today's guest, Vanessa Couto, has been a guest on this podcast two other times. After listening to this episode, you should definitely go back and listen to the other two she was on. Stay tuned to find out which two they were so you can find them easier.  Vanessa is an Archetypal Astrologer, mentor, teacher and artist. In her work, she weaves mythology, depth psychology, and a good dose of practical and grounded common sense to guide us through (what she calls) threshold phases.  When not working or reading, Vanessa enjoys a little escape in British period dramas or history documentaries. Fascinated with all things Medieval History and Jane Austen, she's also a bona fide bookaholic, a travel lover, and an avid podcast listener. And, in every conversation with Vanessa, whether on this podcast or in general, we always learn something new!  This episode was no exception. Hope you find it as enjoyable, hope inspiring and enlightening as we did.  After listening, be sure and check out what Vanessa has going on this year on her website and social media. The links are below.  Thanks again for listening, and sharing with your friends. If you could leave a review of this episode or any others on whatever platform you're on, that would be super helpful!   Connect with Vanessa on her Website vanessacouto.com and on Instagram 

What does paper have to do with your health, life and career? Well, in this episode, you're going to find out!  Yesterday was the Lunar New Year in Chinese astrology. So, Happy New Year! This is the year of the Water Tiger, which symbolizes strength, “exorcising evils”, and braveness. All things that are more than needed right now!  And, in today's episode, which also has to do with ancient Chinese methods, you'll learn some ways to get your life and health back on track this year.  Krystal Holm, is a Feng Shui Designer & Clutter Expert who teaches us how to use Feng Shui the right way to create peace and prosperity in all areas of their lives. Using her proprietary framework The Designed Life Method℠ Mind, Body, Soul, Home; she helps her clients design spaces & lives they love. In this episode, Krystal explains what a 3D vision board is and how it can to help us have healthier more fulfilling lives.  Krystal's work and wisdom can help to declutter the limiting beliefs that hold you back from what is possible and shift the energy in your environment to set you up for holistic health, love and success.  If you'd like to know more, Krystal has a ton of free resources on her website. All the links to connect with her including links to those resources are below. Cheers to a more grounded, healthier, happier year ahead.  www.krystalholm.com www.krystalholm.com/declutteryourmindset Facebook Instagram    

"If you're serious about changing your life, you'll find a way. If you're not, you'll find an excuse." Jen Sincero, Author of "You Are A Badass" That quote is Ambers guest, Kristian Reiber's favorite. And, it'll make alot of sense when you listen to this podcast episode.  Kristian is also a health and mindset coach with a huge knowledge base, an author, a mountain bike skills instructor, a music lover, a health foodie and an unconventional perspective oracle.  His mission in life is to help people transform their lives, their health, and their mindsets in profound and unforeseen ways.  Kristian once struggled through life and ended up be diagnosed with psoriasis - a horrible auto-immune disease. Psoriasis opened his eyes to the toxic, disconnected, symptom-based medical system that has everyone convinced it should be trusted unconditionally. It shouldn't be.  Working with holistic practitioners helped Kristian heal his own wellness challenges while inspiring him to help others with theirs. Transforming his limiting beliefs and failing mindset, he says, "changed me into the person I was always meant to be". It can do the same for you!  Connect with Kristian through his Website, Facebook, and Instagram.  He's also part of a book collaboration called, "Dare to be authentic, volume 6". You can purchase a copy HERE. 

"If you're in that dark place any piece of light is going to help you move forward." - Bethany Nicole In this conversation, Bethany and Amber are chatting about relationships, forgiveness, and even writing for self-care. She shares a ton of great tips!  Bethany Nicole is an author, freelance writer and relationship expert. She was recently named one of the Top 25 Authors in Los Angeles by Los Angeles Entrepreneurs Magazine. She has many published pieces and interviews that you can check out at her website bethanynicole.com or on social media (links below).  If you're a "Married At First Sight" fan there's some bonus material for you in this episode too!  Check out the book she recommends if you're interested in writing. "On Writing" by Stephen King. Connect with Bethany on Facebook @bartonbn And, on Instagram @bethanynicoleauthor

Happy New Year! As a reminder, Amber plans to have a new episode for you every week until the end of the year. She'll be taking December off, but until then she's got a ton a great topics and guests waiting in the wings ready to inspire and empower you on your healing journey this year and beyond.  So, if you haven't already, make sure and subscribe and please share, this episode or the whole podcast!  Who's ready to slim down a little...or alot this year? Or just start feeling better all around? In this episode Amber is chatting with Sue-Anne Hickey about both of these topics. What they aren't chatting about is diets! So, put down that calorie counter app...cancel that subscription and learn how to get real, lasting, holistic results now.  Sue-Anne is a Certified Naturopath,  weight loss specialist, and the creator of Bodytypology.  She helps people like us heal our ailments naturally, lose weight, and regain our energy using her personalized body type eating and lifestyle plan.  She combines this with Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) to uncover limiting beliefs and release them, creating permanent change and lasting healing.  When she's not coaching clients or leading groups, she loves yoga, biking, skiing and walking in the woods. Check out her Instagram page to see pics of some of her latest adventures.  After listening you need to hop onto her website and take her body type quiz. It is definitely unique and Amber found it very helpful. Seh's already started using a small portion of Sue-Anne's suggestions for her body type and says she can feel a difference....especially in hunger and cravings.  The quiz along with tons of free resources can be found on her website and social media pages. All the links are below.  Once you find out what your body type is hop onto Ambers Instagram post about this episode and let us know!  Bodytypology.com Facebook Facebook Group: Women Losing Weight

"A healthy relationship with yourself allows for healthy, happy relationships with other people." -Ted Smith If you've spent any amount of time on self-improvement you've come across some version of this statement at some point. In this episode, Ted Smith and Amber dive a little deeper into why it's so important, along with some great tips on how to start improving the most valuable relationship you have - the one with yourself.  Hopefully this episode will inspire and empower you to keep growing and healing so you're better equipped to weather the storms that 2022 inevitably has in store for us.  Ted Smith is a relationship and personal coach who has dedicated himself to helping people develop, maintain, and enjoy happy and healthy relationships with themselves and others. He understands the challenges of unhealthy relationships and he's also an example of hope, strength, and transformation. Ted is the author of "Happy Me, Healthy We: Transforming Relationships with Yourself and Others". In this episode he shares more details about his book and the inspiration behind it.  Ted believes no matter what challenges appear in your relationships with a romantic partner, family members, friends, or coworkers, you have the power to change them from difficult to thriving and from unhealthy to healthy. But, you first have to examine, heal, and transform the relationship with yourself. If you're struggling in any kind of relationship or would like to just have a happier, healthier life. This episode is for you! Learn all the ways you can connect with Ted below; along with links to purchase his book. "Happy Me, Healthy We".  If you're listening near January 1st, jump onto Instagram or Facebook and wish Ted a happy birthday. Happy Birthday Ted, and cheers to a new (healthier, happier) year for all of us!   Purchase Ted's book HERE! Ted's author website: mandalatreepress.com/ted-smith/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/tedsmith.life/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/tedsmith.life

In today's episode Amber and her guest, Marina Yanay-Triner, will be talking about trauma and the body again...because honestly, there's always things we can learn about it. We all have experienced some sort of trauma and that trauma likes to hide out in our bodies.  Marina calls herself the compassionate somatic coach. Her passion is helping people who are disengaged with life, burnt out and checked out by using body-based somatic approaches to support a connection back to the body; strengthen their connection with their instincts and intuition, and flourish!  This is similar to what Laura Rowe, from episode 3 of this season, titled "Embodiment" talked about, AND also different. Both of their messages are so fascinating and important! As a trauma-informed coach, Marina works with clients to go deep into the roots of behavioral patterns that hold you back from experiencing life to its fullest. She helps you look at and explore childhood-rooted beliefs, emotions, behavioral patterns, and the unconscious so you can experience life with more joy and aliveness.  In this episode Marina explains what "trauma informed" means and how working with a professional who is trauma informed is really important. She also explains why the pandemic is so triggering for so many of us! Along with some very helpful tips to help you on your overall healing journey, she shares a very easy, yet powerful method to settle your nervous system next time you're feeling anxious. If you're looking for more, she has a ton of free resources on her website.  Amber highly recommends working with her or any practitioner who specializes in somatic work, especially if you're finding that talk therapy or other methods just aren't getting to the heart of your struggles.  If this all resonates with you, please share with your people. Tis the season of giving. Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas! You can connect with Marina on her website marinayt.com, and find great resources and tips on her Instagram and Facebook pages.   

Although the holidays are often considered the most wonderful time of the year by many, they can also be a difficult time for people with mental health problems…and right now we're in a mental health crisis in the US and It's probably safe to say most of the world!  So you you probably know someone who is struggling right now...or maybe it's you.   In this episode, it's just 11 days until Christmas; and The Dragonfly Connection's Creator, wellness practitioner, and CPTSD warrior, Amber Cook is sharing some ways to help you and your loved ones have a happier, healthier holiday season in spite of it all.  Amber shares her personal experience with the holiday blues to remind you that you are not alone. Connect with her on Instagram @the_dragonfly_momma. If you're in need of support, don't wait to get help, even if you're not yet suicidal. Being in a mental health crisis does not mean you're contemplating suicide.  Here are a list of resources for all kinds of mental health crisis's and most are free: https://www.crisistextline.org/text-us/ Text HOME to 741741 to reach a volunteer Crisis Counselor. National Alliance On Mental Illness (NAMI)  The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention provides referrals to support groups and mental health professionals, resources on loss, and suicide prevention information (888-333-2377) The National Domestic Violence Hotline provides 24/7 crisis intervention, safety planning and information on domestic violence (800-799-7233) The Suicide Prevention Lifeline connects callers to trained crisis counselors (800-273-8255) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline   24 hours a day / 7 days a week 1-800-273-TALK (8255) 24/7 Lifeline Crisis Chat Line En español: 1-888-628-9454 TTY: 1-800-799-4TTY (4889) YouthLine Offers teen to teen crisis help with both a phone line and a texting support line through Lines for Life. Teens respond from 4:00 to 10:00 PM Monday through Friday 24 hours a day / 7 days a week Call 1-877-968-8491 Text teen2teen to 839863 Veterans Crisis Line Confidential help for veterans and their families. Call 1-800-273-8255 and Press 1 Text to 838255 Trans Lifeline A trans-led oganization that offers direct service, material support, advocacy, and education. Peer support hotline available 7 am to 1 am PST 1-877-565-8860 The Trevor Project For lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) young people. 24 hours a day / 7 days a week 1-866-488-7386 https://www.befrienders.org/Volunteer Action to Prevent Suicide Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA) provides information on prevention, treatment and symptoms of anxiety, depression and related conditions (240-485-1001)       Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (CHADD) provides information and referrals on ADHD, including local support groups (800-233-4050) Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (DBSA) provides information on bipolar disorder and depression, offers in-person and online support groups and forums (800-826-3632) Schizophrenia and Related Disorders Alliance of America (SARDAA) offers Schizophrenia Anonymous self-help groups and toll-free teleconferences (240-423-9432) Sidran Institute helps people understand, manage and treat trauma and dissociation; maintains a helpline for information and referrals (410-825-8888) Treatment and Research Advancements for Borderline Personality Disorder (TARA) offers a referral center for information, support, education and treatment options for BPD (888-482-7227)

"Life has a way of throwing things at us that causes us to turn away from our own body wisdom."  Wondering what that means? Listen to this episode to learn what those "things" are and how to connect with your bodies wisdom.  Todays guest, Laura Rowe is Ambers friend, colleague, member of The HealingWaze Team (Ambers holistic wellness company) and her personal energy healer. Laura's definition of embodiment is the act of connecting your consciousness to your body.  Very interesting topic!  And, if this resonates with you, you have to check out the 4 week online class she's co-hosting with Carrie Craven, a long time member in Ambers Holistic Success Membership program through HealingWaze.com; a personal trainer and Reembody practitioner.  This class, called Embodied Alignment is designed to help re-establish the mind-body-spirit connection. Together, they will combine structural movement exercises, journaling prompts, and guided meditations that will explore your relationship with your body while reconnecting with the joy and fun of movement. It starts January 5th. Join HERE.  If you don't remember Laura from the 1st and 2nd seasons of this podcast, here's a reminder. Laura is an empath, spiritual seeker, and intuitive healer. She founded The Vital Spirit in 2013 and has worked with hundreds of empaths helping them feel comfortable in their skin and connected in this world.  Laura knows the struggle of feeling different, misunderstood, and judged for her sensitivities. Her passion is empowering empaths to inhabit their whole self — accepting and deeply connecting with the truth of their being. In this episode Laura leads an embodiment meditation. If you like the meditation, you can become a patron on Ambers Patreon Page and get access to just the meditation any time you like.  Connect with Laura on her website with lots of free resources: thevitalspirit.net And on Facebook, Instagram and HealingWaze.  If you would like to learn more about her and Carrie's class Embodied Alignment click HERE.  

"Listening became my modality" That's one of Ambers favorite quotes from her guest, Daniel Bruce Levin. The other is posted on her Instagram page.  Daniel is a visionary, activist, speaker, and storyteller. He has a very interesting life story with many twists and turns, but the one that stands out the most may have been when he walked away from an opportunity to run a billion dollar business. BILLION!!! He chose to hitchhike around the world to find happiness and inner peace instead.  Daniels travels took him to a country where he studied in a seminary for five years (but then left one day before becoming a Rabbi). Then when he came back to the United States, he joined a yoga community, which led him to his life as a Monk in a monastery for 10 years. And, those are just two examples!  It seems this guy has lived a hundred lives already! He was once even the Director of Business Development at Hay House bringing them from $3,000,000 a year in sales to $100,000,000 a year in revenue. Now his focus is helping other to "learn how to see what they can't see".  He is the author of The Mosaic, a life changing fable that invites people to listen to those others do not hear and to see the situations in their life differently.  Daniel is truly a rare gem in this crazy world. His storytelling is entertaining and inspiring. I hope you enjoy it as much as Amber did.  Purchase The Mosaic HERE!  Visit Daniels website at DanielBruceLevin.com.  Connect with him on social media: Instagram  Twitter  Facebook    

It's time to put on your big girl panties and live your life to the fullest! If you need a little encouragement, this episode may help. Ambers guest on this episode is Theresa Tirk, The Ritual Queen. Theresa is a Published Author, Speaker, Certified Spiritual Life Coach, Reiki II Energy Worker, and Certified Aromatherapist. She is also a mom, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who is dedicated to helping women everywhere awaken to their own validation and strength so they can learn to prioritize their own care, to love themselves and their life. Theresa began coaching after her own spiritual journey of self-discovery through a battle with depression and anxiety stemming from a childhood of chaos, dysfunction and addiction. She believes in the power of mindset shifts and creating daily rituals that have massive impact on your life. And, before you make assumptions, these rituals aren't what you might be imagining. Take a listen to find out what they're talking about, and how you can create your own rituals to help you live a healthier, fuller life.  Speaking of fuller life and big girl panties..... After this episode was recorded, Amber read Theresa's book "Uncensored: A guide to putting on your big girl panties" and highly recommends it. It was an easy read, full of humor, some sarcasm, journal prompts, and some great tips that you can start using to get your health and life back on track.  If after listening, if you're interested in getting a copy you can purchase one HERE.  Visit her website at www.theritualqueen.com Connect with Theresa on Social Media: Instagram & Facebook  If you liked this podcast episode please share it with all your friends and follow Amber on Instagram too. If you'd like to go a step further to support Ambers mission to continue bringing healing and inspiration to the world, please consider becoming a patron. You get access to Amber, her guests, a virtual self-improvement book club and more! Check it out at:  https://www.patreon.com/thedragonflyconnection

In this solo episode, Amber talks about her Mother Wound and how it's had an impact on her life; along with a description of the "Sandbox" photo posted to her Instagram and Facebook pages recently.  She shares ways to identify your Mother Wounds and most importantly, ways to heal those wounds so you can life a healthy, full, successful life.  At the end, you'll get a glimpse into Season three, coming out in November 2021.  Stay connected to Amber on social media or her website.  DragonflyMomma.com Instagram Facebook  

Chrissy Rapp has survived many challenges in her life which started at a very young age. Her mother had her at 14, leading her to be raised by her grandmother and a step (grandfather) who had his own mental health challenges. Chrissy grew up struggling with anxiety and addiction; which led her to eventually doing some time in prison - losing her kids and herself.  But, in an unexpected turn of events, her time in prison not only healed her; it saved her. And, now she uses the tools and techniques that helped her on her healing journey to help others - specifically those who are or have been in jail themselves.  This is a very inspirational story and one you need to share with anyone who is struggling with addiction or recovery. Chrissy is proof that anyone can heal with the right support and healing tools.  Chrissy is open to anyone reaching out through her email rapppatterson83@icloud.com  

If you're looking for some advice to cope with the stress of juggling a family along with a career, this is the episode for you!  Ambers guest, and colleague in the wellness industry, Gael Wood has learned a lot about this subject and is joining The Dragonfly Connection to share her wisdom. This episode was recorded at the end of the school year so that little part of the conversation is a outdated, but the rest is totally relevant no matter where you are in life....and this pandemic.  Seven years ago Gael started a journey to makeover her life! She said she was burned out, in debt, unwell, and needed to find another way before she ended up sicker or even divorced. Today, she lives in her dream house, has location and time freedom, does the work she loves, and feels amazing.  She started out her career life as a housekeeper, then became an overworked massage therapist. But, she kept trying new things and taking chances and now she is a successful entrepreneur...helping others live there most fulfilling lives and careers.  She's been on the cover of a well known Massage Magazine, inducted into the World Massage Hall of Fame, and worked with entrepreneurs from all over the world. Most recently she has published two self-improvement books - "The Gratitude Habit" and "Designing Your Dream Life".  Connect with Gael on social media or shoot her an email at gael@elevatewithgael.com

"It's just a moment in time and it will pass." Don't let the title fool you, today's episode is a little lighter than the last couple. Ambers friend and colleague, Constance Ao, chat about self-love, relationship challenges, soul mates and life on the road.  When the pandemic hit, Constance Ao and her husband did what many of us have done and continue to do during this time....reevaluate our lives and careers. They, along with their daughter Anastasia, bought an RV and took to the road for adventure and peace from all the chaos happening around them.  And, as you can imagine living in an RV with a family comes with it's own challenges. This episode was recorded in May of 2021, and in that time, Constance's life has changed even more....and in ways totally unexpected. Follow her on Facebook to find out more.  Constance's unconventional love story and words of wisdom are sure to warm your heart.  ---------------------------- Are you looking for a relationship like the one Constance and I talked about during our chat? Well, Constance may be able to help! Constance Ao, is a psychic, healer, helper and relationship coach. She works with women who are seeking to heal their hearts and wounds so they can connect deeper into self love and then eventually their soulmate.  Is this you?...or someone you care about? Find out more at ConstanceAo.com or find her on Instagram and Facebook. 

Ambers guest, Tracie Root, is a coach, a speaker, an educator, and founder of Gather -  a community building space located in Santa Cruz...and now also online to serve everyone no matter where there at in the world.  Her story is one of loss, love, rebuilding, courage and finding ways to thrive in the midst of all kinds of adversity.  Tracie ended her career in corporate America and found her new calling after her partner of almost 20 years passed away. Tracie and her two toddlers were left with no family nearby, a house “underwater” from the housing crisis of 2008, and she just couldn't see how anything was going to change. Then, years later, through an unexpected avenue, she was able to find her way back to her former self...one step at a time. She shifted her career to one of helping others at a deeper level while making more time for her own fulfillment, adventure, and joy. In this conversation she and Amber chat about wellness, goal-setting, entrepreneurship, overcoming tragedy and loss, and of course; this last 18 months of pandemic life.  This episode was recorded in May, and unfortunately, now at the end of August, not much has changed...except kids are going back to school in most areas. But, otherwise, we're still in a place of confusion and uncertainty.  Hope this episode helps inspire you and bring you hope. Because, we will get through this; and if we let this challenging time strengthen and change us, we'll be better for it. Like Tracie says, "everything that happens in life is so we can be ready for what's next".   You can connect with Tracie by email at Tracie@TracieRoot.com

This episodes guest, Alison Pena, calls herself The Bad Widow and in her conversation with Amber she dropped tons of wisdom about grief, healing, self-care, resilience and even dating. She even shares an original poem she wrote about her experience with online dating! For anyone who's done the online dating thing, or planning to (or not planning to)....it's very relatable.  Alison says that the time from her husbands cancer diagnosis, through the progression of his illness which ended in his death; was "the most heartbreaking and transformational time" of her life.  And, right now, many of us are going through our own heartbreaking and  transformational times of our lives. We may not all be dealing with the death of a loved one, but there's a collective grief running rampant right now...in the world. Because of that, you're gonna get a ton of value from this episode.  Her three step approach to reclaiming your life after loss is straightforward and very uncomplicated. When you're ready, give it a try! Contact Alison if you need some help at alison@badwidow.com And, stick around all the way to the end to hear about her first book, which should be coming out in September 2021! You'll be able to find it at BadWidow.com

Help us celebrate six months of weekly podcast episodes full of inspirational content on The Dragonfly Connection with a compilation of clips from the top 10 most popular podcast episodes hosted by Amber. This episode includes five clips from The Dragonfly Connection episodes and five from The Holistic Healing Connection (discontinued in 2020, but still available under "The Dragonfly Connection").  Here are direct links to the full episodes (in no particular order).  Healing Journey with Natasha Nirvana Expansive Life with Kristine Rosenquist Die Hard For Your Dreams with Russ McGarry Going With The Flow with Victor Barreda-Pazos Purpose Quest with Vanessa Couto Bodytalk And Weight Loss with Lyn Delmastro Thomson Yes...And! with Starr Sheppard-Decker Stop Doubting Yourself with Ashley Rainsbarger Transitions And Change with Gail Serna Thriving As An Empath with Laura Rowe 

Ambers guest, Susan De Lorenzo says, "You live you life by either design or default". And, there's a lot of truth in that!  In this episode we start out talking about Susan's "dark night of the soul"...or dark nights; and how she used hers to help her live a more joy filled, authentic life. You can do the same whether you're in your dark night or already through it even! Susan is an Author, Speaker and Certified Transformational Life Coach who focuses on helping other women who are emerging from life-altering adversities themselves and guides them to evaluate the insights and wisdom that such times hold (like living through a global pandemic).  In this conversation you'll hear about how after a year of fighting and surviving invasive breast cancer, Susan was dealt another life altering blow when her husband at the time, told her he wanted to leave the marriage. Then she shares some of the wisdom she's gathered through this experience, along with a little bit about some other personal challenges she's overcome...with advice on how you can overcome your own challenges, big or small...and get in the drivers seat of your life.  Shoot Susan an email at susan@susandelorenzo.com so you can stay connected to her and get notified about the release of her upcoming book, "Pulling the Gems from Adversity". 

"The stories we can tell ourselves are way worse than what's actually happening..." Heather Phillips is a long time friend of Ambers. They're friendship blossomed through shared struggle starting almost 10 years ago...and lasting up until just a couple years ago. They endured major momma heartache together on an almost daily basis, while watching their two teenage sons go down some very bad paths together...and separately. During that time, they learned a lot about each other and themselves as mothers and helpers.  Heather is recently an empty nester trying to figure out her own "new normal". In this episode you get to listen in on them picking up where they left off before everything was shut down in March of 2020. Heather was the last person Amber had a coffee date with before all our lives changed in an instant.  Over this last 18 months, like many of us, Heather has made some huge changes in her life...with weight loss surgery top of the list. She has struggled with her weight most of her life, but in spite of her size, she continued to pursue her love of fitness. She even created a platform for showing bigger bodies that they belong in the fitness world! Heather has been an inspiration to Amber and so many others over the years...even when she wasn't feeling inspiring. In fact, in this episode you'll learn a little bit about her mental health challenges and how she's working to overcome them. And, now she says, she does truly love herself...and her life.  Can you say that about you and your life?  After listening, we highly recommend you follow Heather on Instagram @fitnessinthebigworld. 

"I'm all about removing barriers!" Rachel S. Heslin Today's guest Rachel S. Heslin, learned the hard way that asking for help is essential to a successful life and career. In this episode she shares that experience with us, and all the lessons learned from it.  Lessons like, why is it so important to forgive ourselves first?..and learning to ignore "shoulds" and other peoples goals for us. This is something many of us struggle with, and in this episode, she shares ways to be more accepting of ourselves and how to develop a growth mindset.  Rachel has been immersed in the study of psychology for over 40 years. Her father, a clinical psychologist, taught his children his craft and Rachel was first introduced to Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) when she was only 9 years old. Rachel is the author of two books: "Navigating Life: 8 Different Strategies to Guide Your Way", and "Rituals of Release: How to Make Room for Your New Life". She is also the founder of The Fullness of Your Power, helping people embrace all parts of their true selves so they can live happier, more successful, and more deeply fulfilling lives. In this conversation, Rachel so generously breaks down the 8 strategies from her book along with her idea of rituals.  It's a great conversation, one that will leave you with some serious tools to guide YOUR way.  You can email Rachel for more info at rachel@thefullnessofyourpower.com.  And you can purchase her books at the links below: Navigating Life: 8 Different Strategies to Guide Your Way Rituals of Release: How to Make Room for Your New Life  

"Happiness is the driver to what's going to get you to your goal." That's just one of the many words of wisdom uttered from this episodes guest, Penny Hill. Penny is a helper and healer to her core, and has been on this path most of her life. Through her own life challenges, including a health challenge that changed her life....she's learned a lot of different ways to true health and happiness.  Penny hits us with some straight up facts about pain and suffering. And, like she says, "suffering is not required". You're sure to be smiling while you listen, and at the end of this episode you'll understand why smiling is so important to your health and wellbeing.  Are you ready to make happiness a habit?  Stick around all the way to the end to hear Penny's philosophy. It's a good one! So, good in fact that Amber posted it on her Instagram account @the_dragonfly_momma in case you want to share it with your people.  Speaking of sharing, help Amber spread the inspiration by sharing this podcast with your friends.  It's easy to share...just text them the link to this podcast (copy and paste), hit the share button, or post it on social media. It's all about connection! ...And happiness.  Happiness. It's not just for some people. It's for all of us. It's for you!  Imagine yourself healthier with more vitality and bounce in all areas of your life.... better rested, fitter, sparkling.  Imagine yourself more creative...bringing solutions to work problems, getting better results for clients, helping your kids flourish...finding better ways to manage conflict...just being less bothered with life's annoyances no matter how big or small.  Imagine yourself speaking up at work more...standing in your space with confidence and knowing your worth. Imagine yourself at ease with people - no matter the setting. You radiate a calm, helpful, even loving presence that allows people to be at ease around you. You genuinely care for them and they can feel that and they trust you. And, now you don't have to just imagine. You can be this and more through cultivating your own happiness!  Penny Hill will help you realize that happiness is not the end goal, it is the path. It is the power to lift you up and propel you forward in all areas of your life. Visit calmhealthease.com to learn more about Penny's "Habits of Happiness" program, along with all her wellness services to help you no matter where you are on your wellness/life journey.  You can also connect with Penny via email at pheft22@gmail.com. Find her on HealingWaze at https://healingwaze.com/practitioners/penny-hill-eft-tapping-for-stress-relief-rising-sun-massage/

"Love your life no matter what it is; the good, the bad, the ugly. Just love your life. Because when you come from that place of love from your heart, it opens up a lot of doors...." The collective fear is raging again...fears of wildfires on the west coast, strange weather patterns, and we're also in the midst of a nationwide reopening that definitely has many of us on edge, for all kinds of different reasons.  No matter where you are in the world this is a great episode to listen to right now. Dr Jacquilen Tomas Ali, is one of the most courageous, resilient people you'll meet. In this conversation she talks about fear and how to replace it with love, your health, and lets just say...."listening".  Jacquilen also shares a little bit about what it was like growing up as a black woman in the 50's and 60's, the loss of her husband, going with the ups and downs of life; and the wisdom she's learned along the way.  Not only does she have alot of wisdom and humor to share; she is a Naturopathic Physician, BodyTalk Access Trainer, BodyTalk Practitioner, a Board Member of the BodyTalk MidAtlantic Association, and a Nutritional Counselor and Master Herbalist.  Learn more about Dr. Jacquilen's work at dralind.com or at https://www.wissahickonwellness.com/mission-and-vision On Facebook And, check out her listing on HealingWaze at https://healingwaze.com/practitioners/earthly-essence/

You're in for a treat, with this unique episode! Normally Ambers guests are sharing the details of painful or challenging things that have happened to them in the past. Then we get to hear them talk about triumph, lessons learned, and how it has changed them....how much they've grown. Todays guest, Lesley Tesh agreed to have a conversation with Amber while currently going through a divorce, and the pandemic. Talk about vulnerability! She said this phase she's currently in the middle of is extremely hard, but that she knows, she will be "transformed" on the other side.  With that attitude, she's perfect for this podcast!  Lesley, who is embracing the wisdom that comes with turning fifty; is a mom, an actress (one from one of Ambers favorite shows), and most recently; the creator of 'Your Badass Story'. Even in the midst of her own pain, she was able to create something that is helping inspire and motivate others.  She says, "We're all on a journey and we all have a badass story, whether we realize it or not".  After listening to this episode, you should definitely join Lesley and Amber on Instagram at Your Badass Story.       

As far as the pandemic goes, things are starting to look up. People are coming back out into the light...with longer hair, and the Covid 15. People seem more hopeful and excited for the future, but at the same time, we're shell shocked. It feels a little like what I would imagine coming out of a bomb shelter after a war would feel like. We've got a lot of healing to do!  Everyone's level of hard was different this last year plus, but we've all been through some hard stuff. Even if it was just having to watch other peoples suffering. There is a level of trauma we've all experienced in one way or another.  So, it's fitting to bring back an episode titled Healing Trauma, from Ambers old podcast The Holistic Healing Connection. Before she rebranded and changed the focus.  Her guest, Tabatha Bird Weaver blends talk therapy methods, energy healing and chakra work for a total holistic healthcare experience. Tabatha is a dually licensed psychotherapist. Tabatha has earned memberships & awards, spoken nationally, lobbied for families and therapists in Washington D.C. and created several programs for the State of Oregon agencies. She has worked in the foster system and in family/marriage counseling. She's trained to diagnose and treat mental health disorders and is also trained in multiple energetic healing methods. Her passion is helping adults heal from trauma, particularly from childhood or narcissistic abuse, and helping overwhelmed empaths and those experiencing codependency behaviors. In this episode you'll learn how trauma manifests itself in your mind and body, learn ways to heal, get some tips on boundary setting, and even get a guided meditation to use in those moments when you're feeling frazzled and need to strengthen your boundaries. This episode first aired October 12, 2019, but it's still relevant today. Connect with Tabatha at www.karmicalchemist.com Tabatha recommends this website for self help: http://www.sfhelp.org/ By listening to this podcast you agree that this is not a replacement for medical services and are encouraged to seek immediate medical care if needed. Read the full disclaimer here. https://healingwaze.com/healingwaze-disclaimer/

Starr Sheppard Decker says, "I love showing people what is possible when they stop trying to be someone else and align everything they do with who they really are." Starr is a mom, wife, professional vocalist, life-long rebel/leader/activist. When she's not creating new ways to help others navigate life and business; she loves reading self-help books, playing Nintendo & playing board games.  According to Amber, Starr is a firecracker who shines bright like her name. She also exudes love for everything and everyone!  She is open and honest about her past - a multitude of traumatic experiences, abuse, toxic relationships, dysfunctional family dynamics, narcissism, and cycles of rejection and abandonment. In this conversation they'll touch on those parts of her story and she shares how she moved through those adversities and healed her wounds.  Through lots of trial and error, Starr learned to stop the push/force/shove/shame method of motivation and productivity, and find what she calls her "FLOW"....rippling out into all aspects of her life. She now uses her knowledge and personal experiences to help others find their "FLOW" too.  Starr offers up lots of great wisdom and advice in this episode....including her description of "YES...And".  Connect with Starr at starr@radicalrevelations.com or on HealingWaze If you're a Coach, Healer, or another type of Visionary Entrepreneurs feeling confused or frustrated around what to focus on or how to set up your business in a way that feels good AND is profitable; Starr can help you get organized, prioritize, and find your flow so you can make progress, make money, and make a difference. Starr is the founder of Radical Revelations, the Rad Connections Online Luncheon Experience, and the new Flow & Grow Collective which just launched this year.  Learn all about her offerings at https://radicalrevelations.com/  Connect with Starr on social media: Facebook  Instagram    

Rachel West said something during this conversation that we know will resonate with many of you. She said, "The #1 person we lie to the most is ourselves, so just be honest with yourself!".  Sounds easy, right!?!? But for many people it's not. Lies to stay in relationships, whether friends, romantic or even family. Lies about choices that are bad for your health...one more cupcake isn't gonna hurt?!?!  Have you told yourself and others that you're "OK" when you're really NOT "OK"?  We don't know why people do this, but I bet it's some kind of avoidance technique. It's a way of not having to look at the stuff outside of our comfort zone.  But, that's exactly how we move forward....heal...and live happy, fulfilling, successful lives. We must face our stuff, learn self awareness, and step out of our comfort zones.  And, that's what Rachel and Amber are talking about today... Rachel is a Personal Growth Coach, Breakthrough Expert, Speaker and Author of "The Successful Woman’s Mindset: Unlock The Secrets of Success, Activate Your Power".  Rachel grew up surrounded by people with addiction and mental illness and her own diagnosis of a learning disability, which really held her back in life. But, once she learned how to shed that label and the fear of others judgement; she discovered her life's purpose and now she's doing what she loves - helping others live more fulfilling authentic lives.   It all starts with choosing change over comfort!  Join Rachels Facebook Group to connect with others interested in personal growth and development at:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/615903069164775 Learn more about Rachels Book HERE

"I need to be me. This is my life."  Ambers guest Lori Anne Rising grew up in an emotionally and psychologically abusive home. And, as what is common, she entered a marriage that was similar.  It took her 49-year-old mother having a brain aneurysm, to wake her up; beginning her journey of healing and putting the pieces of herself back together. The journey continued after her divorce through the use of EMDR therapy. And, Lori Anne said it's what really made the most impact in her healing!  Through this work, Lori's intention was to heal herself and build a better life for her kids. But, In a dark ironic twist of events, it was that healing journey that, she believes, sparked a chain of events that lead to one of the most painful things she, as a mother could have imagined.  In this conversation you'll learn more about the darkest parts of Lori Annes story and then we'll learn how she was able to rebuild herself and her life. Not only is she living her purpose and passion; she now helps other women reconnect with their purpose and live a joy-filled life. She's also a double podcast host and the international award winning author of the book "You. Rising! Reclaim Your Life. Live Your Purpose." Connect with Lori on Facebook at www.facebook.com/loriannerising

"Your body will lead you to health and wellbeing" For three decades, Ilene struggled with Body image, weight, and her relationship with food.  During a big chunk of that time, she also practiced as a clinical social worker, working primarily with women who were struggling with issues similar to hers. They came to her with feelings of depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, and unresolved traumas. They  hoped that if they could change their bodies, all of these things would magically disappear or at least become less significant. In her own words, she says, "they were wrong - and so was I"! Ilene embraced what is now called intuitive eating - or the belief in the body's innate wisdom. She made a commitment to her own self-care, and shifted to focusing on health and wellbeing rather than the size of her body.  She quit dieting, embraced intuitive eating, and developed a program to help other women find their innate body wisdom and their path to body freedom. After listening to this episode, if this story resonates with you, like it did for Amber; you may want to pick up a copy of Ilenes brand new book, "Reflections of a fat girl, Wisdom Lost and Found from Growing Up Overweight.  You can connect with Ilene and learn more about her program called, "Find Body Freedom" on Instagram or through email at Ileneleshinksy@gmail.com