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Dans Cosmopolitan, Anne Clotilde Ziégler, psychothérapeute spécialiste du couple, explique : "Un couple se fonde en partie sur un récit : le récit souvent un peu romantisé des premiers instants, le premier regard, le premier baiser, la première fois qu'on fait l'amour... Et puis par les rêveries communes et les projets". Evidemment, c'est très agréable d'entendre son partenaire donner une vision détaillée du futur. Les restaurants mignons où il ou elle vous emmènera, les voyages, rencontrer les parents, parler d'enfants. Mais prudence… Ce qui doit vous mettre la puce à l'oreille, c'est quand ces projets arrivent trop tôt, au moment où vous êtes à peine en train d'apprendre à connaître la personne, quasiment dès les premiers rendez-vous. Quels sont les autres signes ? Et comment s'en protéger ? Écoutez la suite de cet épisode de "Maintenant vous savez". Un podcast Bababam Originals, écrit et réalisé par Antonella Francini. Date de première diffusion : 4 décembre 2023 À écouter aussi : Qu'est-ce que le R-Bombing, cette tendance amoureuse toxique ? [SPÉCIAL 5 ANS] 2023 : Est-ce bientôt la fin de la maladie d'Alzheimer ? Qu'est-ce que la tendance CoreCore, ces vidéos étranges qui fascinent TikTok ? Retrouvez tous les épisodes de "Maintenant vous savez". Suivez Bababam sur Instagram. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere your podcast is available.Book a One on One coaching session HEREUnchained -https://www.rawmotivations.com/unchainedWant to help support this podcast?https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/supportListen to the wife's perspective on our new podcast Trauma, Drama & Life:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-drama-life/id1639753152Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist.That's me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too.From Fantasy to Reality: A Journal for after the Toxic RelationshipGrab yoursHERE.Platforms I am on:TikTok (71k followers) - https://www.tiktok.com/@raw_motivationsInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/rawmotivationsFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/Raw-Motivations-105074738842639/Linkedin -https://www.linkedin.com/in/rawmotivations/YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/c/rawmotivations?sub_confirmation=1
In this episode, Cindy Esliger discusses the cycle of unrealistic expectations and false promises that keeps us striving indefinitely. It's not just exhausting, it feeds into a culture that thrives on our self-doubt and overwork. We're left blaming ourselves instead of identifying the truth, which Cindy explains isn't us but the system that maintains control with ever-moving goalposts. How do we break free from this unending grind? Cindy tells us how to create an authentic and fulfilling career independent of other people's arbitrary standards. Cindy calls the coercive control loop of false promises ‘future faking'. It erodes our confidence and fosters burnout. Continuing to shift the goalposts is designed to keep us striving but never arriving. It's a demoralizing control tactic that is used to maintain control and keep us off-balance. When we let it get to us, we start doubting ourselves, which causes us to double down in effort. Cindy says the first step to stop playing the game is recognizing that we don't have to prove our worth, and the second step is to redefine what success means to us. There are three common patterns that prevent us from taking back our power. 1) Unrealistic expectations, 2) Invisible work, and 3) Toxic dynamics. When we can identify those patterns, we can see them for what they are and reclaim our confidence and agency. Cindy offers a roadmap for how to acknowledge future faking and stop internalizing the problem. With her guidance, we can shift the power dynamic and choose ourselves, our goals, our values, and our well-being instead of playing a rigged game.Resources discussed in this episode:Guide to Stop Hanging On To False PromisesAstronomic AudioConfidence Collective—Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email
Kiedy na początku znajomości ktoś uwzględnia nas w swoich planach, zaczynamy się czuć przy jego boku pewnie i bezpiecznie. Jednak zamiast happy endu następuje nieoczekiwane zerwanie czy ghosting. Kto i dlaczego stosuje future faking? Jak rozpoznać manipulację przyszłością i się przed nią bronić? Autorka: Paulina Klepacz Artykuł przeczytasz pod linkiem: https://www.vogue.pl/a/na-czym-polega-toksyczny-randkowy-trend-future-faking-jak-rozpoznac-manipulacje-przyszloscia-i-obietnice-bez-pokrycia
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Poppi shares her story of surviving twenty years of abuse at the hands of her controlling husband. Poppi met her husband when they were young, and even though he was showing controlling behavior early on, she felt pressure to be with him, which felt like an obligation after he kept showing his dedication to her. But this dedication was just a mask. Poppi's husband didn't love her. He only cared about controlling her. It's a story of Intergenerational Trauma, Control, Jealousy, Anger, Isolation, Silent Treatment, Sexual Coercion, Sexual Abuse, Suicidal Ideation, Entitlement, Walking on Eggshells, Double Standards, Impossible Expectations, Moving Goal Posts, Being Good Enough, Blame Sifting, Demands, Intimidation, Sleep Deprivation, Kernels of Truth, Setting Boundaries, Future Faking, Visualization, Survival Mode, Ptsd, and Healing. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses Sexual Coercion, Sexual Abuse, and Suicidal Ideation *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Poppi shares her story of surviving twenty years of abuse at the hands of her controlling husband. Poppi met her husband when they were young, and even though he was showing controlling behavior early on, she felt pressure to be with him, which felt like an obligation after he kept showing his dedication to her. But this dedication was just a mask. Poppi's husband didn't love her. He only cared about controlling her. It's a story of Intergenerational Trauma, Control, Jealousy, Anger, Isolation, Silent Treatment, Sexual Coercion, Sexual Abuse, Suicidal Ideation, Entitlement, Walking on Eggshells, Double Standards, Impossible Expectations, Moving Goal Posts, Being Good Enough, Blame Sifting, Demands, Intimidation, Sleep Deprivation, Kernels of Truth, Setting Boundaries, Future Faking, Visualization, Survival Mode, Ptsd, and Healing. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses Sexual Coercion, Sexual Abuse, and Suicidal Ideation *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA
CC395: On this month's bonus episode... Lindsie and Kail ask their children to do as they say, and not as they do. Kail talks about new tax breaks and her stance on them as someone who came from poverty. Lindsie goes through her recent Instagram stories that had Kail and Elijah laughing in their beds the night before. Kail explains to Lindsie a new term, but not a new concept, called future faking. Listeners ask, how long should an engagement should last? And today's Foul Play teaches us about Colposcopy.. Thank you to our sponsor! Branch Basics: Get 15% off Branch Basics with the code coffee at branchbasics.com/coffee #branchbasicspod CookUnity: Go to cookunity.com/coffeeconvos or enter code COFFEECONVOS before checkout for 50% off your first week. DraftKings: Download the DraftKings Casino app and sign up with promo code COFFEE Thrive Causemetics: Get an exclusive 20% off your first order when you visit thrivecausemetics.com/COFFEE
“I can't wait for us to get married;” “Let's travel the world together;” “We're going to have two kids and buy that apartment across the street” When you're in a romantic relationship, it can be genuinely heartwarming to hear your partner paint a vibrant picture of days ahead. But what about if it happens much earlier than you expected - say on your second or third date? Usually at that stage, you're still figuring each other out, so beware - it could be a sign of what's known as future faking. Of course, there's no one single pace for all relationships to abide by, but generally speaking couples don't make life plans or even say “I love you” within the first couple weeks of dating. So it's only really a red flag when talk of those kinds of plans pop up too early. In some cases, you could be dealing with a narcissist who's using false promises to win you over in the moment, creating an illusion of intimacy when in reality they're not thinking about the future at all. Hence the name: future faking. Is it similar to love bombing? How can I deal with a future faking partner? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the last episodes, you can click here: How can I protect my mental health during the holiday season? Why is the UK not as happy as it used to be? Why do we give each other gifts at Christmas? A podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. First Broadcast: 27/12/2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is it realistic hope or future faking to believe that your dysfunctional relationship will get better? Should you stay or should you go? Normally, the other person uses future faking to keep you expecting change, but you can future fake yourself. Watch this video to figure out if there is realistic hope. #futurefaking #hope #dysfunctionalrelationship #toxicrelationship Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@changemyrelationship Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KMT3hz5y6Ko
Understanding Narcissistic Future Faking In the beginning, the narcissist will sweep you away by painting a dazzling picture of your future together—talks of marriage, kids, dream holidays, or maybe that forever home. But then, as time goes on, none of it ever materialises. That's future faking, a manipulative tactic narcissists use to hook you emotionally while avoiding any real commitment.In this episode, I explain how future faking works and why it's such a powerful tool in the narcissist's playbook. By dangling a "perfect future" just out of reach, they keep you invested and distracted while their behaviour doesn't match their promises. I explore the devastating emotional toll this takes on victims, from shattered dreams to self-doubt and confusion.I explain why and how narcissists use future faking to control their relationships, and how to protect yourself from falling into their traps. Whether you've experienced this in a romantic relationship, a family dynamic, or even at work, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you break free and rebuild your trust in yourself.Tune in for a deep dive into this toxic tactic, and learn how to see through the lies and take back your power!Send us a textThankyou so much for listening! Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse. If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me , please visit my website at ,Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service , or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.comTo order a copy of my book - Fake love please click Here or simply go directly to AmazonI looove creating these episodes, but they do take time. If you'd like to support me to continue creating more podcast episodes, then please click here to .Buy me a coffee
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Have you ever found yourself being strung along by a parent, partner or friend? Intermittent reinforcement is a powerful tool that can shape not only our personality, but also our perception of the present and our beliefs for the future. In this week's episode, we talk about breadcrumbing as a behavior in a parent-child relationship and how it fuels the development of healing fantasies and role-selves. 0:00 Breadcrumbs Create A Power Dynamic 6:58 Future Faking and Empty Promises 11:22 Healing Fantasies 17:21 Becoming Someone Else 20:13 Developing A Role-Self --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itsnotnormal/support
This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere your podcast is available. Book a One on One coaching session HERE Join FREE Masterclass to learn the methods to break free from Toxic Relationship HERE 7 Day Challenge -https://www.rawmotivations.com/escape-toxicity Survivor to Thriver - https://www.rawmotivations.com/survivor Want to help support this podcast? https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support Listen to the wife's perspective on our new podcast Trauma, Drama & Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-drama-life/id1639753152 Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That's me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too. From Fantasy to Reality: A Journal for after the Toxic Relationship Grab yours HERE. Platforms I am on: TikTok (71k followers) - https://www.tiktok.com/@raw_motivations Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rawmotivations Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Raw-Motivations-105074738842639/ Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/rawmotivations/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/rawmotivations?sub_confirmation=1 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rawmotivations/support
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Jane shares the story of her 16-year abusive marriage. What started as a few red flags eventually turned into full-blown abuse once Jane got pregnant with their first child. Jane's ex began by putting down her appearance, which turned into criticism of her competence. And to top it all off, he took away her financial freedom with some extra help from his own toxic family along the way. It's a story of future faking, coercive control, boundary pushing, financial abuse, put downs, autonomy, competence, isolation, enmeshment, smear campaigns, being good enough, gaining strength, support, rage, toxic families, fear, entitlement, vindictiveness, intergenerational trauma, custody, and court. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Jane shares the story of her 16-year abusive marriage. What started as a few red flags eventually turned into full-blown abuse once Jane got pregnant with their first child. Jane's ex began by putting down her appearance, which turned into criticism of her competence. And to top it all off, he took away her financial freedom with some extra help from his own toxic family along the way. It's a story of future faking, coercive control, boundary pushing, financial abuse, put downs, autonomy, competence, isolation, enmeshment, smear campaigns, being good enough, gaining strength, support, rage, toxic families, fear, entitlement, vindictiveness, intergenerational trauma, custody, and court. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Lemon thought she found 'acceptance' when she got into a relationship with the man of her dreams. But unfortunately for Lemon, there was a power imbalance right from the start and Lemon endured 10 years of emotional abuse. It's a story of a future faking, scapegoats, self love, button pushing, self defense, isolation, believing the lies you're told, coping mechanisms, gaslighting, put downs, moving too fast, mask slipping, physical abuse, suicidal ideation, healing, self worth, faith, blaming, crazy making, desperation, expressing yourself, respect, and and much more. **** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse suicidal ideation. **** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Aunt April Update!! She keeps us entertained with her dating app drama.. In this conversation, Kayla and April talk about the patterns they've noticed in dating, such as love bombing, future faking, and gaslighting. April shares her frustrations with inconsistent behavior and the lack of effort from men. They also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and not settling for less than they deserve. The conversation ends with a 'Friends' trivia game to see who is the 'Friends' expert! :) Takeaways Love bombing, future faking, and gaslighting are common patterns in dating Setting boundaries and not settling for less are important in dating Focusing on self-care and not rushing into relationships is crucial Being cautious of red flags and inconsistencies Not repeating oneself and blocking people who don't respect boundaries Taking a break from dating and focusing on self-love Being a fan of Friends and enjoying trivia games ------ This episode is sponsored by KiwiCo's Summer Adventure Series! Get 20% off on your Summer Adventure Series at WWW.KIWICO.COM with promo code HABITS. ----- If you're loving these episodes, please subscribe and leave a review! Let's Connect: @kaylafassio @tylerfiteclub @habitsyoulove www.habitsyoulove.com *Kayla and Tyler are not mental health professionals. Kayla, Tyler, and Habits You Love is not a substitute or meant to be intended to diagnose, treat, or make medical claims. All content is for informational purposes only backed by Kayla and Tyler's own research. This podcast is brought to you by Cloud10 and iHeart Radio. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Yet another term has circulated the internet and wound up in our google feed. Scientific studies and peer reviews be damned, tiktok says Future Faking exists and so do at least two articles that we chose to discuss in this episode and that's good enough for us. Remember, as always, we are two idiots who don't know dick about shit. We put some words in google and are discussing the results over sparkling gin in a can. Let's relax and have a good time, while also maybe taking several moments to reflect. RESOURCES - https://thriveworks.com/help-with/narcissism/future-faking/#:~:text=Future%20faking%20is%20a%20slang,of%20a%20grand%20future%20together https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a33491692/future-faking-definition-narcissism-psychologist-explains-ramani-durvasula/# WE'RE GOING ON TOUR - ladiesandtangents.comWE'RE ON PATREON - patreon.com/ladiesandtangentsMERCH - ladiesandtangents.com/lt-merch*NEW* SUBMIT YOUR STORIES - landtstories@gmail.comFOLLOW ALONG WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA - @ladiesandtangents GAZA/WEST BANK RESOURCES-https://medium.com/@scholarscoalition/for-immediate-release-u-s-4c2aecd11535https://irusa.org/middle-east/palestine/https://buildpalestine.com/2021/05/15/trusted-organizations-to-donate-to-palestine/https://www.vox.com/2015/5/14/18093732/israel-palestine-misconceptionshttps://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/52045757
Dans Cosmopolitan, Anne Clotilde Ziégler, psychothérapeute spécialiste du couple, explique : "Un couple se fonde en partie sur un récit : le récit souvent un peu romantisé des premiers instants, le premier regard, le premier baiser, la première fois qu'on fait l'amour... Et puis par les rêveries communes et les projets". Evidemment, c'est très agréable d'entendre son partenaire donner une vision détaillée du futur. Les restaurants mignons où il ou elle vous emmènera, les voyages, rencontrer les parents, parler d'enfants. Mais prudence… Ce qui doit vous mettre la puce à l'oreille, c'est quand ces projets arrivent trop tôt, au moment où vous êtes à peine en train d'apprendre à connaître la personne, quasiment dès les premiers rendez-vous. Quels sont les autres signes ? Et comment s'en protéger ? Écoutez la suite de cet épisode de "Maintenant vous savez". Un podcast Bababam Originals, écrit et réalisé par Antonella Francini. Date de première diffusion : 4 décembre 2023 À écouter aussi : Qu'est-ce que le R-Bombing, cette tendance amoureuse toxique ? [SPÉCIAL 5 ANS] 2023 : Est-ce bientôt la fin de la maladie d'Alzheimer ? Qu'est-ce que la tendance CoreCore, ces vidéos étranges qui fascinent TikTok ? Retrouvez tous les épisodes de "Maintenant vous savez". Suivez Bababam sur Instagram. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Heute ist Sophie zu Gast und sie möchte Dich warnen. Anhand ihrer Geschichte kannst Du alle Warnzeichen der narzisstischen Manipulation kennen und verstehen lernen. Sophie erlebte in unterschiedlichen Abstufungen alle Red Flags einer typischen toxischen Beziehung. Ich bin mir sicher, dass Du beim Hören sehr viel lernen wirst und Dich endlich verstanden fühlst, da Du in Sophie eine Gleichgesinnte mit ähnlichen Erfahrungen finden wirst: Folge meinem neuen Account: KatjaMaria_Seelenfreude: https://www.instagram.com/katjamaria_seelenfreude?igsh=MXd2ZnU2eDJrdmYyZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Du möchtest mehr von mir? Dann schaue mal hier: Homepage: www.katjademming.com Buch: Raus aus der narzisstischen Beziehung: https://amzn.to/3hsNEiy Online-Trennungsprogramm: Release Program: www.katjademming.com/release-program YouTube: http://bit.ly/YouTube-KatjaDemming Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katjademming/?hl=de Facebook: http://bit.ly/Facebook-KatjaDemming-Life-Coach
In every episode of "Tabling Thoughts," Solmaz will discuss her experiences as a psychotherapist and relationship coach. In her discussion, Solmaz addresses the unsaid aspects of our everyday encounters that, in her opinion, go unnoticed despite significantly impacting our relationships and quality of life.The other podcast that Solmaz produces is titled "Laam ta Kalam" which is well-received in Farsi. It focuses on the challenges faced by Iranian immigrants worldwide. Self Steam CourseRelationship CourseStress CourseWhere Should We Begin? Esther Perel PodcastMusic:Song: Retro Groove (Upbeat Fun Retro)_ Main VersionLicense: Individual License, Commercial, APRA/AMCOSComposer: Henrique Tavares Dib - APRA IPI: 00611600895Email: admin@barghgir.comSolmaz_Barghgir_Coach InstagramTabling Thoughts InstagramLam Ta Kalaam CastBoxLam Ta Kalaam Apple PodcastWebsite: www.barghgir.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/@solmazbarghgir
“The Primary cause of disorder in ourselves is the seeking of a reality “promised” by another.” - Krishnamurti Can the repetitive act of breaking promises in relationship also plant and nurture the seeds of entitlement and resentment within our significant other? Is it in fact our Unhealed wounds that desperately need “Promises” to be fulfilled? Which matters most to you, fulfilled relationship desires and expectations, or the person who is expected to give them to you? What is the psychology behind broken promises? Are Promises necessary for a healthy relationship? Should they even be made in the first place? What is an example of a future faking relationship? Are broken promises lies? Are some Avoidant attachment styles prone to break promises? Why do narcissists break promises? How do broken promises affect relationships? True or False? Narcissists will fake a future to create the illusion of high investment, strong interest, or deep emotional ties. Do narcissists make broken promises? What happens when promises are not fulfilled? How do broken promises impact trust and emotional connection in a relationship? Can unfulfilled promises lead to feelings of betrayal and resentment? What role does communication play in preventing broken promises? Is it possible to rebuild trust after a series of broken promises? How can individuals heal from the pain caused by broken promises? What are some strategies for setting realistic expectations in relationships? How does future-faking contribute to the cycle of broken promises?
“I can't wait for us to get married;” “Let's travel the world together;” “We're going to have two kids and buy that apartment across the street” When you're in a romantic relationship, it can be genuinely heartwarming to hear your partner paint a vibrant picture of days ahead. But what about if it happens much earlier than you expected - say on your second or third date? Usually at that stage, you're still figuring each other out, so beware - it could be a sign of what's known as future faking. Of course, there's no one single pace for all relationships to abide by, but generally speaking couples don't make life plans or even say “I love you” within the first couple weeks of dating. So it's only really a red flag when talk of those kinds of plans pop up too early. In some cases, you could be dealing with a narcissist who's using false promises to win you over in the moment, creating an illusion of intimacy when in reality they're not thinking about the future at all. Hence the name: future faking. Is it similar to love bombing? How can I deal with a future faking partner? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the last episodes, you can click here: How can I protect my mental health during the holiday season? Why is the UK not as happy as it used to be? Why do we give each other gifts at Christmas? A podcast written and realised by Joseph Chance. In partnership with upday UK. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Wieder zwei #Dating Mails. In der ersten geht es um #futurefaking, also die Frage ob deine Freund dir Dinge verspricht, die nie eintreten werden. In der zweiten Mail geht es um die Frage, wie wenig gemeinsame Zeit in einer beginnenden Beziehung ist noch "normal"?Vlog / Podcast von Dipl.-Psych. Christian Hemschemeier, Institut für Integrative Paartherapie in Hamburg / Berlin. (Wichtige Hinweise findest Du unten im Text.)Am 27.9.2023 erscheint mein neues Buch "Feuer&Flamme"!: https://amzn.to/3CAgMOR(Online) Kurse: https://www.liebeschip.de(dort auch kostenloser Kurs über toxische Beziehungen)Liebeskummer-Kurs: https://www.liebeschip.de/store/nSLyU6DuDating-Kurs: https://www.liebeschip.de/store/K8Csuxf6Kurs "Umprogrammierung des Liebeschips": https://www.liebeschip.de/store/cexFkMDWBuch 1 "Der Liebescode": https://amzn.to/2Idzphu Buch 2 "Vom Opfer zum Gestalter - Raus aus toxischen Beziehungen, rein ins Leben"!: https://amzn.to/3qEQ7bsBuch 3: "Die neue Dimension der Liebe": https://amzn.to/3rt1g2KKanalmitglied werden zum Energieausgleich:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChAtAt6VNWkw5fDpqwGJOzQ/joinSelbstliebe Challenge:https://www.liebeschip.de/store/PUozLkKLSpiritualität & Naisgeiles Leben!:https://www.liebeschip.de/store/zMcLAZNSChristian persönlich (Sessions): https://www.liebeschip.de/store/gbGxHF9vEmail Coaching: https://www.liebeschip.de/store/cLtLJ2zYVeranstaltungen: https://www.liebeschip.de/store?tag=9.%20veranstaltungenAusbildung Liebeschip Coach:https://www.liebeschip.de/store/BzBZFs7Y UND https://www.liebeschip.de/store/KMT6j3qyMein privater Kanal: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcGQm0oV2fo_TaAqcxnxohAFragen für den Vlog gerne senden an: support@liebeschip.deFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/liebeschip/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/liebeschip/Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/liebeschipWichtige Informationen zu unseren AngebotenIn diesem Online-Angebot werden keine psychotherapeutischen Leistungen angeboten. Die Videos wurden mit größtmöglicher Sorgfalt und durch einen erfahrenen Paartherapeuten erstellt. Sie enthalten jedoch keine Diagnosen, Ratschläge oder Empfehlungen hinsichtlichErkrankungen und darauf bezogener Therapien. Die Videos ersetzen somit keine psychotherapeutische Behandlung. Weitere wichtige Informationen zu unseren Angeboten finden Sie hier: https://www.liebeschip.de/infoImpressum: https://www.liebeschip.de/pages/impressum Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dans Cosmopolitan, Anne Clotilde Ziégler, psychothérapeute spécialiste du couple, explique : "Un couple se fonde en partie sur un récit : le récit souvent un peu romantisé des premiers instants, le premier regard, le premier baiser, la première fois qu'on fait l'amour... Et puis par les rêveries communes et les projets". Evidemment, c'est très agréable d'entendre son partenaire donner une vision détaillée du futur. Les restaurants mignons où il ou elle vous emmènera, les voyages, rencontrer les parents, parler d'enfants. Mais prudence… Ce qui doit vous mettre la puce à l'oreille, c'est quand ces projets arrivent trop tôt, au moment où vous êtes à peine en train d'apprendre à connaître la personne, quasiment dès les premiers rendez-vous. Quels sont les autres signes ? Et comment s'en protéger ? Écoutez la suite de cet épisode de "Maintenant vous savez". Un podcast Bababam Originals, écrit et réalisé par Antonella Francini. À écouter aussi : La hausse du prix du tabac diminue-t-elle vraiment le nombre de consommateurs ? Qui décide du nom des rues ? Qu'est-ce que le syndrome du cœur brisé ? Retrouvez tous les épisodes de "Maintenant vous savez". Suivez Bababam sur Instagram. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this special episode, I'm honored to welcome Natalie Lue, someone who has profoundly influenced the lives of countless individuals, including myself. Natalie Lue, a beacon of inspiration, joins us today. As a podcaster, speaker, artist, and renowned author, her remarkable works, particularly "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," have left an indelible mark. Natalie's narrative is a testament to the transformative power of self-discovery.Natalie's story is a tale of metamorphosis. In 2005, a debilitating illness and a tumultuous breakup with an emotionally distant partner ignited a spark of self-realization. Her experiences became the cornerstone for her incredible journey, which encompasses five best-selling books, the creation of Baggage Reclaim, an archive of over 16,000 enlightening blog entries, and a podcast that has touched the lives of millions of women across 140 countries. Her unwavering mission is to help others overcome abandonment, rejection, trauma, and the damaging effects of people-pleasing, emotional unavailability, and feelings of inadequacy.Natalie Lue's impact extends far and wide. Her candid, compassionate, and humor-infused approach to relationships has gained her a global following. She's been recognized by esteemed outlets like The New York Times, NPR, and the BBC. Her books, including "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," "The No Contact Rule," "The Dreamer and Fantasy Relationship," and "Love, Care, Trust & Respect," with over 140,000 copies sold, have been pivotal in reshaping perspectives. Her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," has surpassed 2 million downloads. Furthermore, Harper Horizon published her latest book, "The Joy of Saying No," in October 2022.Natalie's expertise is not confined to the world of self-help and relationships. She's also the founder of the kids' lifestyle blog, Bambino Goodies. For the past 13.5 years, she has dedicated herself to full-time blogging, leaving behind a career in advertising. Natalie has shared her insights on relationships at numerous conferences worldwide, and her current focus encompasses subjects like people-pleasing, boundaries, mindfulness, and creativity.Kerry Brett and Natalie Lue dive into a rich and enlightening conversation. Natalie's remarkable ability to unravel complex relationship dynamics and her skillful articulation in "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl" are highlighted. If you've ever grappled with feelings of unworthiness or questioned your value in the world of dating, this episode is a game-changer.Natalie's unparalleled ability to identify and address relationship issues with unfiltered candor.Unpacking the enigma of "Mr. Unavailable" and the emotional turmoil it entails.The enduring impact of the book "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl."How Natalie's work resonates with women worldwide, illuminating shared pains.The societal conditioning that often leaves women with the short end of the stick in toxic relationships.The imperative of never settling in matters of the heart.A sobering glimpse into relationships with "Mr. Unavailable."The importance of recognizing and navigating "Future Faking."The phenomenon of "Fast Forwarding" and its fleeting intensity.Connect with Natalie:Stay connected with Natalie Lue on Instagram @natlue or visit her website at natalielue.com. You can find all her empowering books on Amazon and access her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," on all major podcast platforms.
This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere your podcast is available. Book a One on One coaching session here: https://www.rawmotivations.com/ Home of the NARC App (Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community) NARC App - https://www.rawmotivations.com/narcapp 7 Day Challenge -https://www.rawmotivations.com/escape-toxicity 45 Day Clarity Challenge - https://www.rawmotivations.com/clarity-challenge Freedom Workshop - https://www.escapetoxicity.com/freedom Want to help support this podcast? https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support Listen to the wife's perspective on our new podcast Trauma, Drama & Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-drama-life/id1639753152 https://www.rawmotivations.com/ Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That's me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism. Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too. If you are interested in talking with me one on one grab a time with the link below. www.calendly.com/rawmotivations From Fantasy to Reality: A Journal for after the Toxic Relationship Grab yours HERE. Platforms I am on: TikTok (71k followers) - https://www.tiktok.com/@raw_motivations Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rawmotivations Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Raw-Motivations-105074738842639/ Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/rawmotivations/ Rumble - https://rumble.com/c/c-2492510 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/rawmotivations?sub_confirmation=1 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rawmotivations/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rawmotivations/support
"Die Liebe ist ein schweres Thema. Selbst wenn du falsch bist, denkst du, du bist richtig." (Random Kerl auf der Straße, Köln, 2023) Ihr wollt es, ihr kriegt es. Silvi und Carina gehen auf eure Dating Stories oder eher gesagt Fails ein. Und wer Love Bombing und Future Faking sagt, muss auch Ghosting und Blitzhochzeit sagen.
This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere your podcast is available. Book a One on One coaching session here: https://www.rawmotivations.com/ Home of the NARC App (Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community) Want to help support this podcast? https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support Listen to the wife's perspective on our new podcast Trauma, Drama & Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-drama-life/id1639753152 https://www.rawmotivations.com/ Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That's me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism. Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too. If you are interested in talking with me one on one grab a time with the link below. www.calendly.com/rawmotivations From Fantasy to Reality: A Journal for after the Toxic Relationship Grab yours HERE. Platforms I am on: TikTok (71k followers) - https://www.tiktok.com/@raw_motivations Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rawmotivations Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Raw-Motivations-105074738842639/ Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/rawmotivations/ Rumble - https://rumble.com/c/c-2492510 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaXWggxVnUIVASBdc7GtSNw --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rawmotivations/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rawmotivations/support
This podcast talks about how to spot a narcissist in the beginning of dating. Red flags a narcissist is Lovebombing you. How a narcissist future fakes you. What a fake phoney narcissist will say and do and how to handle it. What narcissists are looking for. For email or phone coaching go to https://askyaz.wixsite.com/thegameexposed. To ask a quick question and get a personalized video back: https://www.wisio.com/The_GameEXPOSED. Read my books free with amazon kindle free trial: “Regain Your Power” on Amazon
On this weeks episode of Do The Work, Sabrina goes head in on part 1 of dating 'buzzwords.' Ghosting, orbiting, gaslighting and future faking. She dissects what each one means and the reasoning behind it! Want to work with Sabrina? Click HERE
EP 124: Empower yourself in dating by understanding the difference between future talking and future faking. Gain insight into a man's intentions so you can make informed decisions and feel empowered with your dating choices. To learn more about Crista Beck's work and the resources mentioned in this episode click here: https://cristabeck.com/future-talk-vs-future-faking-know-whats-real-and-whats-not/
Narzisstische Menschen verwenden mehrere Strategien, um ihr Ziel, andere von ihnen abhängig zu machen, zu erreichen. Neben den sehr bekannten Strategien, wie Schuldzuweisung und Gaslighting ist auch das Future Faking eine Manipulationsstrategie, um neue Partner schnellstmöglich in ihren Bann zu ziehen. In dieser Folge erfährst du: was Future Faking ist wen es treffen kann wie man sich schützen kann
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This episode has been published and can be heard everywhere your podcast is available. Book a One on One coaching session here: https://rawmotivations.com/one-on-ones Home of the NARC App (Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community) https://narcapp.com/ Want to help support this podcast? https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support Listen to the wife's perspective on our new podcast Trauma, Drama & Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-drama-life/id1639753152 www.rawmotivations.com Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That's me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism. Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too. If you are interested in talking with me one on one grab a time with the link below. www.calendly.com/rawmotivations From Fantasy to Reality: A Journal for after the Toxic Relationship Grab yours HERE. Platforms I am on: TikTok (71k followers) - https://www.tiktok.com/@raw_motivations Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rawmotivations Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Raw-Motivations-105074738842639/ https://rawmotivations.com/warrior --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support
Even if you've escaped the narcissist or toxic person in your life, you could still be experiencing future faking. You could be future faking yourself! And that is not good because it blocks you from healing. So, if you are someone who feels stuck on your healing journey…If you feel like you have a strong desire to make personal improvements but can't be consistent…if you feel like you're spinning your wheels but nothing changes, it's possible you could be future faking yourself. By the end of this episode, you'll know:How to Identify if you are Future Faking YourselfSteps to Take to Stop it In it's Tracksand How to Implement some Simple Tips to Move you ForwardSo, if any of this sounds like you, stay with me and we will dive right in!To work with Allison in her 1:1 Coaching Program, schedule a FREE Clarity Callhttps://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715To send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on Instagram and Facebookhttps://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/To learn more about Rapid Reprogramming for Subconscious Healing visit the websitewww.whentearsleavescars.com
Er schmiedet mit dir grosse Pläne: Kinder, Wohneigentum, Heirat, das Essen im teuren Restaurant oder der grosse Urlaub in fernen Gefilden. Er verspricht dir mit seinen Worten immer wieder die Sterne vom Himmel zu holen. Doch wenn es darum geht, konkret zu werden bringt er eine Ausrede nach der Anderen. Keines seiner Versprechen löst er je ein. Stattdessen bringt er dir eine Ausrede nach der Anderen. Er vertröstet dich. So vergehen die Jahre. Vor allem für Frauen mit Kinderwunsch kann so ein Future Faking fatal sein. Unter Umständen bist du unfruchtbar, bis du dieses Spiel durchschaut hast. In dieser Podcastfolge zeigen wir dir, wie du ein Future Faking durchschauen kannst. Was du dagegen tun kannst. Und wieso Future Faking so fatal ist. Für allem für Frauen mit Kinderwunsch. Mehr Informationen: www.co-narzissmus.com
„Martina, es war zu schön, um wahr zu sein…!“ Das sind Worte, die ich in Erstgesprächen immer wieder höre. Am Anfang wird die das Blaue vom Himmel versprochen, wobei dieses in der Regel niemals eintreffen wird. Future Faking ist eine manipulative Vorgehensweise, die leider Gottes, meistens von tendenziell eher narzisstischen Menschen durchgeführt werden. Gerade zu Beginn einer Kennenlernphase wird ein Narzisst dir die uneingeschränkte Aufmerksamkeit schenken. Nicht aus ehrlichem Interesse. Vielmehr geht es darum deine tiefsten Wünsche herauszufinden, um diese dann exakt zu spiegeln. „Mir geht es auch so, genau das wünsche ich mir auch!“ Kennst du diese Sätze? In der heutigen Podcastfolge bespreche ich mit dir unter anderem: · Was du tun kannst, wenn du von Future Faking betroffen bist · Was hat dein Bauchgefühl damit zu tun? · Warum es wichtig ist, sich selbst seine Wünsche zu erfüllen · Und noch vieles mehr… Ich habe selbst früher in anderen Männern meine Erlöser gesehen. Selbst habe ich mir nichts zugetraut und somit meine Unzulänglichkeiten auf potenzielle Partner projiziert. Toxische Beziehung waren dann die Antwort darauf. Niemand ist selbst schuld, wenn das passiert. Doch um dieses zukünftig nicht mehr zu erleben, ist es wichtig nach innen zu schauen, was da noch für unentdeckte Muster vorhanden sind. Ich habe für dich einen Onlinekurs, die Heldinnenreise. Diese wunderschöne Reise gibt dir alle Tools mit an die Hand, um dir dein selbstbestimmtes Leben aufzubauen. Du kannst deine toxische Beziehung mehr und mehr loslassen und vor allem lernst du dich als Frau im tiefsten Kern kennen. Ausführliche Informationen zur Heldinnenreise erhältst du auf meiner Homepage www.masterclass-of-mind.de Welche Gedanken hast du zu diesem Thema oder welche Erkenntnisse konntest du für dich aus der heutigen Folge mitnehmen? Teile sie gerne in den Kommentaren oder unter meinem aktuellen Beitrag auf Instagram @martinabamesberger oder auf meinem Blog auf meiner Website www.masterclass-of-mind.de Ich freue mich auf dich. Wenn du dir Unterstützung wünschst auf deinem Weg, kontaktiere mich sehr gerne und buche dir dein kostenloses Erstgespräch. Ich freue mich auf dich. Von Herz zu Herz, deine Martina
How often do you wait for others to make decisions impacting your life? In the process of waiting for these decisions, you put your life on hold. For many of us, this happens more often than we may want to admit. This throws us into the waiting game, waiting for them to step up and do exactly what they said they would. Join me today as I discuss further what it feels like to put your life on hold while waiting for someone else to follow through on their word, decide, or just be honest with you. Also, what you can do to prevent this from happening in your life
Was Stefan erlebt, ist eine ganz schmerzvolle Geschichte. Er verliebte sich in eine Amerikanerin, ein für ihn ganz besondere Frau. Sie war eng, wild, sexuell sensationell und total seelenverwandt. Er fühlte sich wie im Rausch. Deshalb willigte er auch ein nach 3 Monaten zu ihrer Familie in die USA zu fliegen. Doch da nahm das Unheil seinen Lauf. Future Faking, untergeschobene Schwangerschaft, emotionale und physische Gewalt, nicht nur an ihm, auch an seinen Kindern. Stefan musste mit seinen Jungen in eine Schutzeinrichtung fliehen, um alle in Sicherheit zu bringen. Nun sitzt er in Amerika und wartet auf den Rechtsstreit. Darf er mit seinen Kindern dort bleiben oder muss er das Land verlassen und sie womöglich zurücklassen. Eine schrecklich schockierende Lebenserfahrung wirst Du in diesem Podcast hören. Stefan findet sie wichtig sie Euch zu erzählen, damit Euch nicht das Gleich passiert. Er möchte Euch warnen: "Wenn es zu gut ist, um wahr zu sein, dann ist es auch nicht wahr." Wenn Du Stefan unterstützen willst, ihm finanziell unter die Arme greifen möchtest, dann melde Dich gerne mit einer Mail bei mir: kontakt@katjademming.com oder folge mir auf Instagram und Facebook. Dort bekommst Du in den nächsten Tagen mehr Informationen dazu, wie Du Stefan und seine Kinder helfen kannst. Homepage: www.katjademming.com Buch: Raus aus der narzisstischen Beziehung: https://amzn.to/3hsNEiy Online-Trennungsprogramm: Release Program: www.katjademming.com/release-program YouTube: http://bit.ly/YouTube-KatjaDemming Instagram: : http://bit.ly/instagram-katjademming Facebook:http://bit.ly/Facebook-KatjaDemming-Life-Coach
Book a One on One coaching session here: https://rawmotivations.com/one-on-ones Home of the NARC App (Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community) https://narcapp.com/ Want to help support this podcast? https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support Listen to the wife's perspective on our new podcast Trauma, Drama & Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trauma-drama-life/id1639753152 www.rawmotivations.com Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That's me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism. Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too. If you are interested in talking with me one on one grab a time with the link below. www.calendly.com/rawmotivations From Fantasy to Reality: A Journal for after the Toxic Relationship Grab yours HERE. Platforms I am on: TikTok (71k followers) - https://www.tiktok.com/@raw_motivations Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rawmotivations Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Raw-Motivations-105074738842639/ https://rawmotivations.com/warrior --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support
"OK, Babe, I promise you the world." But, what about delivery? Learn more about how Hijackals trick you into believing they are GOING TO do something, or WANT the same things you want. It's Future Faking!It's SO important to see the patterns, and sometimes, when you've been worn down and torn down by living in a toxic relationship, you simply don't see them. Future Faking is important to recognize. It can make the difference between staying and going! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:What Future Faking isWhy you may not clearly see the future fakingHow to see future faking for what it is Recognizing the patterns of future faking in your relationship may help you see why you stay for more abuseThe manipulation: love-bombing, seduction, bait-and-switch of future fakingI'm here to help. Let's talk soon.RhobertaIntroductory session for new clients,only $97FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.comPODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.comNEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.comFACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctorTWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerINSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShalerPINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShalerYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp-------------------------------------------------------------I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,join my Emerging Empowered Community now.Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + 2 group Ask Me Anything calls + a monthly Sunday Seminar, AND online Emerging Empowered Journals with prompts each month!WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community #futurefaking #emptypromises #failuretodeliver #promiseanything #suckedinbypromises#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders#signsofemotionalabuse #amibeingabused #toxicrelationships #narcissist #hijackal #emotionalabuseSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
bonus episode to celebrate the first week of friend crush season four! answering questions that were submitted to me in the last few weeks. in this episode we cover how to discern between your thoughts and beliefs, how to discern between what you need and what you think you need against other people's expectations, dating after a first love and what to do when you realise someone you were into was future faking. episodes mentioned: 32 - training for a breakup follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqq8YNQ2GXEC9hSvQpiGiqQ/featured https://twitter.com/amberakilla --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/friend-crush/message
Lemon thought she found 'acceptance' when she got into a relationship with the man of her dreams. But unfortunately for Lemon, there was a power imbalance right from the start and Lemon endured 10 years of emotional abuse. It's a story of a future faking, scapegoats, self love, button pushing, self defense, isolation, believing the lies you're told, coping mechanisms, gaslighting, put downs, moving too fast, mask slipping, physical abuse, suicidal ideation, healing, self worth, faith, blaming, crazy making, desperation, expressing yourself, respect, and and much more. **** TRIGGER WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse suicidal ideation. **** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To take a free Enneagram Test, click here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Heute habe ich Dennis im Podcastinterview. Er berichtet von seinen Erfahrungen durch die Suche nach einer neuen Partnerin aus dem Internet. Immer wieder begegnen mir diese Geschichten, in denen Menschen vermittelt wird, jemanden ganz besonderes gefunden zu haben. Doch dann, wenn man glaubt, dass diese Beziehung etwas werden kann und eine Zukunft haben kann... verschwindet dieser Mensch. Erst Pö a Pö und auf ganz subtile Weise wird den betroffenen Menschen vermittelt doch nicht richtig zu sein und eigene Schuldgefühle entstehen. Wir sprechen darüber wie es bei ihm war und was es mit ihm gemacht hat
Megan and Michelle welcome Mimi in doozy of an episode about cheating, gaslighting, parallel trauma, hidden minivans, overlapping calendars, love bombing, future faking, half truths, the revolving drawer, pity parties, tantrums, lots of lunches, and our side of the bed.Want to support Prosecco Theory?Check out our merch, available on teepublic.com!Follow/Subscribe wherever you listen!Rate, review, and tell your friends!Follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook!****************Ever thought about starting your own podcast? From day one, Buzzsprout gave us all the tools we needed get Prosecco Theory off the ground. What are you waiting for? Follow this link to get started. Cheers!!
This week I spoke with a new guest, Nicole Celeste, whom is a 2nd generation ex-moonie who has since left the folds of the Unification Church. We speak on a range of topics from growing up in the Unification Church, deconstruction and healing through creativity and artwork, the history of Madison Square Garden 1982 mass wedding, Sean Moon in Japan, sexual health and development, dismantling purity culture, child abuse, unraveling from cultic control and so much more. You can find Nicole's at www.nicoleceleste.co.uk, and her instagram @Nicolecelesteart. Resource recommendations by Nicole for Blessed Child Podcast include; The Body Is Not An Apology https://thebodyisnotanapology.com The Wheel of Consent https://wheelofconsentbook.com/ The Black Trans Prayer Book https://theblacktransprayerbook.org/ Holistic Life Navigation https://www.holisticlifenavigation.com/ RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) https://rainn.org The Trevor Project https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ For people leaving the Unification Church you can find more by searching the hashtag #Queerexmoonie #Exmoonie or visit Itsoktoleave.org and How Well Do You Know Your Moon (tumblr.com) For a link to the episode referenced in the beginning please visit Faith and Capitol podcast Faith and Capital: Ex-Moonie Anti-Imperialism: Unification Church and the Assassination of Shinzo Abe on Apple Podcasts, Government contracts twitter thread . If you enjoy this podcast you can buy me a coffee at my Ko-Fi here. https://ko-fi.com/renrobot or become a patreon Take care of yourself and remember to trust yourself! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/blessed-child2/support
Narcissistic Future Faking
This podcast talks about how the narcissist will use future faking to hook you into a relationship. Why does the narcissist use future faking? Why do people fall for future faking? How to spot Future Faking in the beginning. For email, phone coaching or you have a question you need answered go to: askyaz.wixsite.com/dating-advice. Read my books free with amazon kindle free trial: “Regain Your Power” on Amazon
On today's episode we talk about How Narcissists use Future Faking to manipulate you into a relationship or staying with them. Narcissistic people use promises of a grand marriage and kids and things like that to get people to stay in a relationship with them. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone. 1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness You can find me on - Tiktok MentalHealness - https://www.tiktok.com/@mentalhealness?lang=en Insta- Mentalhealnesss - https://www.instagram.com/mentalhealnesss/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/MentalHealness85 Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mentalhealness/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mentalhealness/support
Have you heard of future faking? Well, this new catch phrase, yet old trick has just gotten a new name. Today happiness coach Maura Mitchell joins me again to talk about faking a future with someone, why people do this and how you can stop yourself from being tricked. Maura is a happiness coach who specializes on human relationships and how to live your most authentic life.Jackie has launched her new wellness website Love You Even More! Check out her new course on How To Build Better Self-Worth, read articles on loving yourself and other smarter and work with her on building better self-worth in love, life, career and even your dating life! Find Love You Even more and her new course at https://loveyouevenmore.com!That Girl A Novel is now a podcast! Listen to each chapter free and read by yours truly at That Girl A Novel. Find it everywhere you listen to your podcasts. Or read it on Amazon in paperback or Kindle. Get extra's from the podcast and help support it by joining our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/thatgirlthepodcastFor more about Jackie and her and our guests:https://www.instagram.com/jackiebrubaker/https://www.instagram.com/thatgirlthepodcast/https://www.instagram.com/iammauramitchell/www.loveyouevenmore.comwww.jackiebrubaker.comI'm excited to announce my new course How To Build Better Self-worth is now available at my wellness website loveyouevenmore.com.If you've found yourself stuck in a rut, making poor decisions in relationships, feel like you can never get what you really want or are just too afraid to take chances on yourself it's time to do some work on your self worth.I walk you through exercises in uncovering where your self-worth has been broken, how Support the show
Future Faking ist ein Begriff, der sich fast von selbst erklärt. Jemand verspricht einem das Blaue vom Himmel, bis man seine Zweifel beiseitelegt und sich langsam traut, sein Herz zu öffnen. Und dann erwischt es einen eiskalt von hinten durch die Brust, wenn man feststellen muss, dass es sich um nichts geringeres als heiße Luft gehandelt hat. Die Schmetterlinge im Bauch weichen einem dumpfen Herzschmerz, der einen vor lauter Enttäuschung wahnsinnig werden lässt. In dieser Folge sprechen wir über das Vorgaukeln von ernsthaften Zukunftsabsichten, ihren Ursachen und unseren Tipps gegen all die Fragezeichen in unseren Köpfen. Um unser Selbstwertgefühl wieder etwas aufzupolieren, sollten wir uns etwas Gutes tun. Egal, ob Wellness, ein langer Spaziergang in der Natur, oder eine kleine Shopping-Eskalation. Auf JustFab finden selbst ahnungslose Shopper mit einem Quiz das richtige Outfit für jeden Anlass. Derzeit gibt es ein Willkommensangebot, in dem alle VIPs das erste Paar Schuhe für nur 10 € erhalten, daher unser Tipp: zuschlagen! Als VIP-Mitglied zahlt man monatlich 39,95 € für die Mitgliedschaft, die jederzeit gekündigt oder pausiert werden kann. Dort findet man Angebote mit über 30 % Rabatt und exkl. VIP-Preise. Viel Spaß beim Shoppen: https://www.justfab.de/femalepodcastde
With the advent of dating apps that sit on your...
In this episode of We Need To Talk With Kris Godinez, Kris discusses how we keep ourselves unhappy living in “I'll be happy when...” as opposed to enjoying the current moment! The full transcript of this episode can be read on our website.
Neel and Eliza talk about love bombing, narcissistic relationships and future faking.
Book a One on One coaching session here: www.calendly.com/rawmotivations Home of the N.A.R.C. App (Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community) https://rawmotivations.com/n-a-r-c-app #narcissist #narcissism #npd #npdabuse #npdsurvivor #abuse #narcavengers Want to help support this podcast? https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support www.rawmotivations.com Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That's me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook. Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism. Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too. If you are interested in talking with me one on one grab a time with the link below. www.calendly.com/rawmotivations Platforms I am on: TikTok (71k followers) - https://www.tiktok.com/@raw_motivations Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rawmotivations Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Raw-Motivations-105074738842639/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rawmotivations/support
Future Faking & The Narcissist MaskI give examples of what red flags to watch out for so you don't end up deep into a relationship with a toxic narcissist. What's the worst that could happen?
On this episode I'm joined by writer @themonalita as she discusses her journey with dating at are, "big ole age." We discuss Future Faking and why it's detrimental when attempting to build a relationship with a partner. She also gives us 2 pretty good tips on building a relationship which are: 1. Make sure your word is your bond. If your word loses value I can't cash that when I need too. Be present with your partner. 2. Communicate through your actions. If you're engaged in getting to know this woman it should show in how you treat her and learn from her. Please make sure to check out her blog at www.themonalita.com.
Dont belive the new lies from the narcissist or their unkept promises. They showed you all year long who they really are. This year, believe them! Here's some support and encouragement for you. Have a safe and Happy New Year! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rachel-real/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rachel-real/support
NARCISSIST WILL USE FUTURE FAKING TO KEEP YOU AROUND Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware #narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( #NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the #Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone. 1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness You can find me on - Tiktok MentalHealness - https://www.tiktok.com/@mentalhealness?lang=en Insta- Mentalhealnesss - https://www.instagram.com/mentalhealnesss/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/MentalHealness85 Personalized Vid Responses- https://www.wisio.com/mentalhealness Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/mentalhealness/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mentalhealness/support
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Our guest this week, Thomas, is from Denmark, and grew up alone with a covert narcissist mother who kept him socially isolated, emotionally abused him, and manipulated his sense of reality. For most of his life, he didn't realize that anything was wrong, because of the covert nature of the emotional abuse, control, and gaslighting he was exposed to. A year ago he started to get a better grasp of his own reality and slowly began to understand what had really happened. Thomas is on the show hoping that his story can help others better recognize signs of covert abuse and control. Thomas explains to Rachel how, in retrospect he came to understand the emotional neglect and covert narcissism he experienced as a child. Rachel provides her insights on the manipulative parenting techniques of Thomas's mother and explains how they relate to those of cult leaders. Together, they unpack some of the most impactful moments in Thomas's childhood development and the emotional reverberations that followed. Before You Go: Rachel further examines the idea of future faking and breaks down how manipulators offer their victims a fraudulent promise or false hope in order to keep them distracted and under control. Check out Rachel's Youtube videos on narcissism here: https://youtu.be/KHdMYbkrQ-0 https://youtu.be/-OWudR86JjU https://youtu.be/jtrEVDdZ7kc Thanks to all of our amazing Patreon supporters! We couldn't do it without you! To help support the show monthly and sign up for cool Indoctrination shirts and tote bags, please visit: www.patreon.com/indoctrination Want to support the IndoctriNation show with a one-time donation? Use this link: www.paypal.me/indoctriNATION You can help the show for free by leaving a review on Apple/ iTunes. It really helps the visibility of the show!
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Today, we have the MOST special guest—this woman is my HERO, and her books changed my life. Her name is Natalie Lue; she's a podcaster, speaker, artist, and writer of well-known books such as Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl, a book that means so much to me I can basically recite it. Like so many women, Natalie had a litany of problems that included bad boundaries, toxic relationships, and a penchant for emotionally unavailable men. Until everything changed in 2005, when a crippling disease and the breakup from a barely-there guy triggered an awakening, igniting the desire to fight back. She wrote down her experiences and documented her journey, which led to self-publishing five best-selling books and creating Baggage Reclaim, including online courses, over 16,000 blog entries, and a podcast that has helped millions of women become "reclaimers" in over 140 countries. Through it all, her mission remains the same: if she can help even one person avoid what she went through and support others who have struggled with abandonment, rejection, trauma, people-pleasing, emotional unavailability, and feeling "not good enough," she's making the world a better place. Natalie Lue is a thought leader in relationships. Her no-nonsense, compassionate, and humorous take has garnered a following in over 140 countries, and she's been featured in The New York Times, NPR, and the BBC, to name a few. She's the author of Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl, The No Contact Rule, The Dreamer and Fantasy Relationship and Love, Care, Trust & Respect, which has sold 140K+ copies, and her podcast, The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, has over 2 million downloads. Harper Horizon is publishing her next book, The Joy of Saying No, in October 2022. Aside from her self-help blog, Baggage Reclaim, she is also the founder of the kids' lifestyle blog Bambino Goodies. Born in England, raised in Dublin, Ireland, she's based in South East London with her husband, two daughters, and crazy cockerpoo. She left advertising to become a full-time blogger for the past 13.5 years. She's the former relationship columnist for In The Moment Magazine and has spoken at numerous conferences and given talks at companies including Amazon and InTouch in the U.S. Her current work centers around people-pleasing, boundaries, mindfulness, and creativity. Kerry Brett and Natalie Lue cover a lot of ground. In my opinion, Natalie is a brilliant writer who channeled this epic book and had the unique and perfect skill set to put it all together. If you struggle to date or think something is wrong with you, unworthy or not good enough, this episode will be a game-changer. Topics include:Why Natalie has a knack for calling a spade a spade, tune into why she's always 100 percent right when it comes to problems within relationships.You're not crazy or losing your mind, why it's crazy-making dealing with a "Mr. Unavailable".Why Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl is the the gift that keeps on giving.Why Natalie's books speak to the collective pain women, go through.Why women are socialized and conditioned to get the short end of the stick when it comes to toxic relationships.Why this is not the "Last Chance Saloon" and why we should never settle!What a relationship looks like with a "Mr. Unavailable", spoiler alert it's not pretty and never ends well. EVER!Why "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl" was survival for me because society doesn't talk about these things or these types of men who cause all this distribution, havoc, and pain.The definition of "Future Faking" – when someone fakes a future to get what they want in the present.What "Fast Forwarding" is and why things start intense and moments later end up in smokes.Why "Mr. Unavailable's" use "blowing hot or cold" to manage down expectations and control the narrative.What is an "Overlapper" and why they justified their awful actions to a "slip and fa
Rachel checks in with Kayla on the 1 year anniversary of her leaving Mr. Wannabe. Rachel ask Kayla questions from listeners and gives an update on what's currently happening with Mr. Wannabe. To find all resources used for this episode head to www.itdoesntendherepodcast.com
Future faking is when a person lies or promises something about your possible future in order to get what they want in the present. ... Or even promising to marry you, carry you off into the sunset, and living happily ever after, all in order to make you complacent and to control you in the present. In the hands of a skilled manipulator, future faking preys on your dreams and goals in order to fabulate a possible future so that they can string you along in the now. These promises are destined to be broken, and can be seen as a form of overpromising and underdelivering. Essentially, the manipulator will take very little action, if any, towards keeping their promises. Instead, they will keep promising and using other forms of coercive control, passive and active abuse, until you find yourself in such a state that it is easier to go along with whatever the manipulator wants. So future faking is, fundamentally, promising a future that the manipulator has no intention of acting towards, making promises that they wont keep. Instead, they distort reality to get what they want from you now. Future faking is one of the most prominent yet subtle tools used by people with strong narcissistic tendencies and other dark personality traits. Indeed, if youve had the misfortune to interact with a narcissist, you have certainly witnessed future faking in its most detrimental form. So what is future faking, how does it work, and what does it mean? Stay TUNED!!! #future #faking #latenightswithjustdamie #promises #relationships #couplegoals #truth #plan #marriage #counselling #latenightthoughts --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/justdamie/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/justdamie/support
Brandon talks with Alma about her toxic relationship with a future faking conman. It's a story of grand gestures, elaborate scenes, victim playing, and constant little lies. Plus they discuss, belief systems, coping versus doing the work, serial narcissist dating, Osama Bin Laden, testing boundaries, overwhelming love bombs, guilt, body image, infidelity, hating friends, standing up for yourself, ghosting, and more. Domestic Violence Hotline Number - 1.800.799.SAFE Join our Patreon for extra content and our brand new live support groups at https://www.patreon.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA If you want to be a guest on our show, go to https://narcissistapocalypse.com To fill out our survey for a chance to win 1 of 10 $25 Amazon Giftcards go to https://forms.gle/QPMCooHV8yqiJoEKA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Mr. Wannabe emails Rachel in an attempt to apologize for recent events. Covid-19 hits the US making it harder for Kayla to leave.We're looking for future seasons of It Doesn't End Here. If you or someone you know has a story that needs to be told, I want to hear it! Please email info@itdoesntendherepodcast.comIn this episode we discuss:Kayla's Interview about overcoming obstacles from 2018:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSa0OmEiJDYTo Be Magnetic:https://www.howtomanifest.com/p/free-exercise-get-clarityThe Kaivalya Yoga Method Certification:https://alannak.com/online-yoga-teacher-training-courses/To find all resources used for this episode head to www.itdoesntendherepodcast.com
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Things take a turn when accusations of infidelity and betrayal come into play. A physical altercation breaks out and the police are called for help. Unfortunately for Kayla, she was with a master manipulator who would twist the truth. Kayla's last hope of help backfires and leads her to legal trouble.If you or someone you know has a story that needs to be told, I want to hear it! Please email info@itdoesntendherepodcast.com To find all resources used for this episode head to www.itdoesntendherepodcast.com
This episode explains what 'future faking' means, what it looks like in a relationship with a narcissist, and provides tips on what to look out for and how to protect yourself against future faking. I hope this episode resonates with you, if it does, please share with others as I would love my message to reach more people who need to hear it. To connect with me find me on my socials: Remarkable You private Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whisperedmind Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/whisperedmind Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whispered_mind/ Website: https://whisperedmind.com/ To book a FREE 30-minute Clarity call, for a chat and a potentially to work with me on a 1-2-1 basis, click here https://whisperedmind.com/contact/ or email me at enquire@whisperedmind.com
Kayla dives deeper into therapy and starts to incorporate the self-care tools her therapist was teaching her. Kayla's best friends make a trip to LA for her 30th birthday but the trip doesn't go as planned leading to more questions and concerns.If you or someone you know has a story that needs to be told, I want to hear it! Please email info@itdoesntendherepodcast.com To find all resources used for this episode head to www.itdoesntendherepodcast.com
Brandon talks with Regan about her toxic relationship with a future faking abuser. It's a story of belief systems, moving goal posts, breadcrumbs, hoover tactics, and looking inward in the aftermath. Plus they discuss, guilt, intimidation, intimate partner violence, the difficulty of cutting the cord, silent treatments, bitcoin, people pleasing, financial abuse, waiting for change, anticipating moods, gaslighting, nitpicking, isolation, being in your head, pedestals, victim playing, competition, and much more. *** Trigger Warning - This episode does discuss intimate partner violence. *** Domestic Violence Hotline Number - 1.800.799.SAFE Join our Patreon for extra content and our brand new live support groups at https://www.patreon.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA If you want to be a guest on our show, go to https://narcissistapocalypse.com To fill out our survey for a chance to win 1 of 10 $25 Amazon Giftcards go to https://forms.gle/QPMCooHV8yqiJoEKA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this week's episode, Dr. Reese starts us off with some riveting cover stories. Lex shares a living single story that may not have you waiting for the punchline. In this week's keep ya head up (what what) segment, we discuss "Future Faking". Have you ever been a victim of it? And last, we have an update from a previous listener letter and a fun fact. If you have a question for your girls, email us at imgladigotmygirls@gmail.com! #Rate #Review #Subscribe
Kayla knew her relationship was going in the wrong direction. With tensions high, arguments started to become more aggressive and more frequent. Feeling stuck, Kayla stays with Mr. Wannabe in hopes of the better future he was promising her. Although, she was starting to wonder, "Was it all a lie?".If you or someone you know has a story that needs to be told, I want to hear it! Please email info@itdoesntendherepodcast.com To find all resources used for this episode head to www.itdoesntendherepodcast.com
Subscribe in a reader Did your narcissist make promises about your future that never came true? Promises that aligned exactly with what you were looking for, these seemed like empty promises, but it could be future faking. My name is Tracy Malone and today we are going to explore what is future faking, why narcissists […] The post Future Faking relationships is the promise of hope – the big lie appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.
Kayla moves to California for a fresh start. She quickly meets a man who sweeps her off her feet. Ignoring small red flags and giving the benefit of the doubt leads Kayla further into the relationship. If you or someone you know has a story that needs to be told, I want to hear it! Please email info@itdoesntendherepodcast.com To find all resources used for this episode head to www.itdoesntendherepodcast.com
Happy Wednesday! Today we're talking to Megan Dorty, an ICF certified Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach, and she's giving us the low down on some new terms: "Love Bombing" and "Future Faking."Has someone told you very early on that they love you? Have they started painting a picture of marriage and kids and the white picket fence? Are you wondering what happened to that person who said those things because now you feel like you're dating Satan himself? WELL THIS EPISODE MIGHT BE FOR YOU!It's funny but it's not, right? This happens to so many of us! Megan is here to explain why and help you get over the narc in your life! Find Megan on Instagram: @love.bombed_mdAs always, we love you! Make sure to rate, review, subscribe and tell your friends! See you next week. We'd like to thank our partners this week:The Rescue Kit Company: For 10% off your purchase of any of their curated kits visit therescuekitco.com and use code: SAUCY10 at checkout. Follow @therescuekitcoVivi & Kay: For 20% off your buttery soft headband purchase visit etsy.com/shop/viviandkay and use code: SAUCY at check out. Follow @viviandkayThe Rescue Kit Company is proud to provide peace of mind with their simple, affordable, high-quality fashion emergency kits. Created by sisters, CEOs and seasoned stylists, The Bride Kit, The Closet Kit, and our Micro Kits are user-friendly, elegant, and cost-effective products curated specifically to prevent + solve any unexpected wardrobe mishaps that could arise.USE CODE SAUCY10 AT CHECK OUT
When somebody fakes a future to get what they want in the present, the disappointment, confusion, self-doubt and sense of rejection can leave us reeling and distrusting. Natalie revisits Future Faking and why we must, ultimately, be careful of deceiving ourselves. Instagram | Break The Cycle Online Course | Blog | Shop
The narcissists are really good at pretending to be someone they are not in the beginning but eventually their true self becomes clear. They will do what's called, "Future Faking" and try to hype up plans with you only to let you down. They do this because they are using it as a manipulative tool to get the supply they want even though they often have zero intentions of following through with their promises.
I share stories about how I was future faked by narcissists, and we talk about the backup plans they make as the narcissist future fakes you.
What is Future Faking, you ask? Future Faking is the promise of action or change that you will do or get to... one day. Not today. Never today. This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos illustrates great examples of what Future Faking looks like and how it deeply impacts the us as we wait for this one-day change to occur. If you have questions or comments about today's show you can email Karen and Kelly at info@bysarlo.com. Enjoy! Early access to Coffee with the Sarlos is available by audio on Thursday mornings on Patreon.com/bysarlo in our "Instant Coffee" tier or higher. Listen to the full episode on your favourite podcast platform and be sure to Subscribe to Coffee with the Sarlos! WATCH Coffee with the Sarlos by subscribing to our YouTube channel!
What is Future Faking, you ask? Future Faking is the promise of action or change that you will do or get to... one day. Not today. Never today. This week's episode of Coffee with the Sarlos illustrates great examples of what Future Faking looks like and how it deeply impacts the us as we wait for this one-day change to occur. If you have questions or comments about today's show you can email Karen and Kelly at info@bysarlo.com. Enjoy! Early access to Coffee with the Sarlos is available by audio on Thursday mornings on Patreon.com/bysarlo in our "Instant Coffee" tier or higher. Listen to the full episode on your favourite podcast platform and be sure to Subscribe to Coffee with the Sarlos! WATCH Coffee with the Sarlos by subscribing to our YouTube channel!
Future Faking is a form of mental/emotional seduction that lures a dater in the gate. It's the bait of what's wanted; exclusivity, a future together, family, children, lifestyle… whatever it is that rings your bell will be offered in lip service only. Learn the red flags of this specific dating game to be one step ahead of the manipulation. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/
Have you ever dealt with a future faking narcissist? What is future faking and how can you avoid falling for it in the future? If you think back to the beginning of your relationship with your narcissist, do you recall all the big promises (actual or implied) that were made to you - and how many of them didn't seem to pan out the way the narcissist promised? That's what we're discussing today at QueenBeeing.com - future faking and how narcissists use it against their victims. We will define future faking and offer various examples of it, plus explain the psychology behind it. It's just one more way the NPD person engages in manipulation against their victim . Add it to gaslighting and direct psychological abuse, and you can't blame us for ending up with CPTSD. Narcissists Use Future Faking Against You to Get What They Want: Psychology of NPD Manipulation Discover. Understand. Overcome. It's how smart people change their lives! Subscribe to my channel: vid.io/xoJJ On this channel, I offer free daily video coaching to help you discover, understand and overcome narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships! I like to call it toxic relationship rehab. If that sounds good to you, hit that subscribe button. **LIVE EVERY TUESDAY! Never miss a live session! Just text "AngieLive" (no spaces) to 33222 and I'll send you a text each time I get ready to go live! Join the QueenBeeing Universibee - the online learning and evolution center for narcissistic abuse survivors. You'll really thrive when you join this hive! Join up at http://universibee.com today! In the Go Ask Angie series, I respond to questions, comments and concerns sent to me by my YouTube viewers, readers from my QueenBeeing.com site and those who reach out in other ways, such as by email. If you enjoyed this video, please subscribe to my channel! http://youtube.com/angieatkinson Schedule a coaching appointment with me at http://narcissisticabuserecovery.online Learn more at http://queenbeeing.com. Get my books at http://booksangiewrote.com, schedule a coaching appointment and/or pick up your free 5-day fear-busting email course (specially designed for narcissistic abuse survivors) at http://narcissismsupportcoach.com. Join SPAN (Support for People Affected by Narcissistic abuse in toxic relationships) - AKA "The SPANily" - at http://queenbeeing.com/span. Let's Also Connect On: Facebook at https://facebook.com/coachangieatkinson. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachangieatkinson/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/angyatkinson/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/angieatkinsonSubscribe to Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson on Soundwise
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