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Best podcasts about toxic patterns

Latest podcast episodes about toxic patterns

Truly Unruly
Signs A Woman Couldn't Keep A Good Man Even If She Had One | TrulyUnruly Podcast

Truly Unruly

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 41:28


In this episode, we dive deep into a controversial topic that sparked some heated debate between us: "Signs A Woman Couldn't Keep A Good Man If She Had One."What We Discuss:Confusing disrespect with honesty and communication stylesDouble standards in relationships and how we speak to our partnersThe difference between stability and drama in relationshipsUsing vulnerability as a weapon during argumentsSelf-sabotage and why some people are uncomfortable with healthy relationshipsThe importance of accountability and self-awarenessBreaking generational patterns and healing from past traumaLearning to love yourself before loving someone elseKey Takeaways:This isn't just about women or men—it's about recognizing toxic patterns that prevent us from maintaining healthy relationships. We explore how childhood experiences, modeling behavior, and unhealed trauma can create cycles that sabotage good relationships. The conversation gets real about the hard work required to change patterns, the fear of vulnerability, and why being alone with yourself is essential before being with someone else.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast

Rewiring Health
245. Healing the Mother Wound: Navigating Toxic Patterns, Emotional Immaturity & Reclaiming Yourself with Catherine Stephens

Rewiring Health

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2025 50:08


So many high-achieving women carry silent wounds from emotionally immature or narcissistic mothers—wounds that shape their boundaries, their relationships, and even their sense of self. In this conversation, I'm joined by Catherine Stephens, author of The Toxic Mom Recovery Guide, who has helped countless women break free from painful dynamics and finally step into their own identity.Together, we explore the signs of emotionally immature parenting, the impact of enmeshment, the pressure to “keep the peace,” and the deep desire so many women have to finally be understood. We talk about why overexplaining is a protective pattern, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and how to navigate low- or no-contact decisions with clarity and self-respect.This episode is a grounding space for anyone healing mother wounds, untangling guilt, or learning to honor their truth—even when others want them to just “sweep it under the rug.” If you've ever questioned your reality, struggled with boundaries, or felt the weight of generational patterns, this conversation is both validation and liberation.You're not alone—and your healing is not only possible, it's powerful.https://www.catherinethegrace.com/toxicmomrecoveryguide https://linktr.ee/catherine_thegrace✨ Sacred Boundaries: Scripts for Saying No with Love ✨If you've ever felt the pressure to say “yes” when your whole body was begging you to say “no,” you're not alone. So many high-achieving, heart-centered women struggle with guilt, fear of disappointing others, or worry that boundaries will push people away.But the truth is: boundaries don't break relationships—they strengthen them.

Men in the Arena Podcast
Your Brain is Sabotaging Your Marriage w/ Ron Deal: 4 Steps from Neuroscience to Break Your Toxic Patterns EP 940

Men in the Arena Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2025 69:07


Have you ever handled a situation so poorly that you wished you could rewind and do it all over again? What happens when your stress, assumptions, or emotions collide with real-life challenges in your marriage? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos brings in expert Ron Deal for insight on how men can avoid assumptions or reactions that sabotage communication. This honest, practical conversation gives every man tools to lead with humility, clarity, and emotional wisdom. You'll get practical steps for owning your mistakes and rebuilding trust, and learn how to respond with wisdom instead of emotion in tough moments. Check our Ron Deal's book 'The Mindful Marriage'. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)   

SET FREE SISTERHOOD- Mindset and Over drinking Coach -Thriving Alcohol Free- Faith Filled Women
355 \\ Replay: Overcoming toxic patterns in your relationships and finding freedom through self awareness with Katie Mae

SET FREE SISTERHOOD- Mindset and Over drinking Coach -Thriving Alcohol Free- Faith Filled Women

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2025 53:09


Want more connection and intimacy in your relationships? Listen as Coach Katie Mae and Michelle discuss how self awareness of part of that journey. We love your feedback and how this message blessed you! Send me an email to share your thoughts.   Have questions for me? Let's set up a call. Email me at michelle@setfreesisterhood.com   The Katie Mae Show: https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/2147637235/feed Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacy_revolution?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==   Overcoming Toxic Patterns and Finding Freedom Through Self-Awareness Introduction: Welcome listeners and introduce guests Katie Mae and Michelle Preview themes that will be discussed: personal growth journeys, unhealthy relationships, coping mechanisms, self-awareness Guest Introduction: Katie Mae's background as a relationship coach specializing in intimacy and connection Her own challenging marriage that led her to focus on personal development through coaching Unhealthy Relationship Patterns: Michelle's reflections on trying to control outcomes rather than influence her spouse Katie's realization she was too focused on her relationship, not her own well-being Coping Mechanisms: Katie's past reliance on overdrinking to avoid feelings Identifying social anxiety and habit loops around substance use The Path to Healing: Katie's personal therapy and coaching experiences for trauma recovery Gaining self-awareness through metacognition and feeling uncomfortable emotions Influence vs. Control: Defining the difference and importance of leading by positive example Facing fears of change and avoiding short-term comfort for long-term growth Overcoming Shame: Generational suppression of emotions and giving self-permission to feel Recognizing unconscious parenting habits from one's own childhood Living Regret-Free: Embracing imperfection and prioritizing ongoing self-work Resources for listeners to continue their personal growth journeys  

R and R with Danah and Stacy
S8 Ep 6: Modern Dating, Daddy Issues, and Our Most Toxic Patterns (Raw & Real Podcast)

R and R with Danah and Stacy

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2025 51:09


Modern dating isn't just “cute kilig stories” anymore. It's ghosting, orbiting, love bombing, FUBU, dating apps, and a whole generation trying to heal childhood wounds through romantic partners. Twins Danah and Stacy Gutierrez unpack how media, MTV dating shows, hypersexual culture, and social media shaped the way they dated: from FUBU “situationships” and toxic patterns, to attachment styles, daddy issues, and why so many women settle for low-quality love just to feel chosen. They talk about: * How MTV, reality dating shows, and K-culture shaped their early views on love and sex * Why so many relationships now start with sex and end in confusion * Attachment styles, childhood wounds, and why you keep chasing emotionally unavailable people * Dating apps, ego boosts, and why “options” can destroy real connection * What healthy dating should look like: emotional safety, shared values, and building instead of performing This isn't a glamorization of their past, but a reckoning with it. If you've ever stayed with the wrong person just to feel seen, or molded yourself to fit a man's preference, this conversation is for you. Come for the chismis, stay for the uncomfortable truth, and maybe walk away with a little more clarity about why you date the way you do.

Honeydew Me
241. How To Break Toxic Patterns & Reclaim Your Power In Bed

Honeydew Me

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2025 62:25


Most of us don't realize we're in a toxic pattern until we're deep in it — choosing the same partners, having the same fights, or falling into the same role over and over again. In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, psychotherapist and relationship expert, to talk about why these patterns feel so familiar, why they're so hard to break, and how to finally choose something healthier. If you've ever wondered “why does this keep f*cking happening?” this conversation will hit home. We cover: Why toxic patterns feel familiar and why that's the problem. Joy breaks down why your brain and body are drawn to what they already know, even when it's not good for you. How to actually recognize a pattern while you're in it. The subtle signs and behaviors that show you're repeating an old story. Why your nervous system keeps you stuck. How fear, comfort, and old survival responses pull you back into the same dynamics. What breaking a toxic pattern really takes. The realistic, day-to-day shifts that help you choose differently, even when it's uncomfortable. How to tell if your intuition is speaking… or if it's anxiety. Joy explains the difference so you can stop second-guessing yourself. What “not abandoning yourself” looks like in real relationships. How to stop minimizing your needs or shrinking to keep the peace. Why change feels scary, lonely, and messy. And why that discomfort is actually a sign you're doing the work. How to reconnect with the version of you who knows they deserve better. Joy shares tools for rebuilding self-worth and choosing healthier connections. Connect with Dr. Joy: On her website HERE! On Instagram HERE! ⁠Learn more about Honeydew Me 1:1 coaching HERE!⁠ ⁠Get Honeydew Me Merch HERE!⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Join our Patreon and access exclusive content HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Eating Disorder Therapist
Love Bombing, Guilt, Over-Giving and Fixing. 11 Toxic Patterns and Eating Disorders

The Eating Disorder Therapist

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2025 20:39


This episode is all about romantic relationships and toxic patterns that you might be caught in. People with eating disorders are often super-empaths and can be vulnerable to some these dynamics. I hope that you find it helpful.   To find out more about my work:- Harriet's Substack: https://substack.com/@theeatingdisordertherapist My new APP! Freedom with Food - coming soon: November 18th, 2025 Go to my Website Online courses Online 10 Steps to Intuitive Eating - a course to help you heal your relationship with food. Online Breaking Free from Bulimia - a course to help you break free from bulimia nervosa. Eating Disorders Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with eating disorders. Body Image Training for Professionals - training for therapists in working with clients with body image issues.

Free Yourself Podcast With Gayle De Chavez - The Self-Love Boss
How To Free Yourself From Toxic Patterns?

Free Yourself Podcast With Gayle De Chavez - The Self-Love Boss

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2025 19:15


If you will not break it then who will?For any collaboration, brand partnership, and campaign run inquiries, e-mail us at info@thepodnetwork.com.Enjoy a good game of BingoPlus! — the first online poker casino in the Philippines. Licensed by Pagcor. Get it at Google Play and App Store, or visit www.bingoplus.com. Gaming is for 21-year-olds and above only. Gambling can be addictive know when to stop. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

According To Annie Podcast
148. Breaking Free: Healing from Gaslighting, Trauma, and Toxic Relationships with Lana Boyuk

According To Annie Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025 57:54


In this transformative episode of the Creatress of Freedom podcast, Annie sits down with her good friend, Lana Boyuk to tackle the challenging yet crucial topic of gaslighting and its deep effects on personal well-being. Together, they unpack the psychological manipulation that can leave individuals questioning their reality, self-worth, and sanity. Annie and Lana share candid personal experiences and expert insights, helping listeners recognize toxic patterns and understand the journey toward true healing. This episode goes beyond gaslighting to explore healing from the father wound, navigating suicidal thoughts, and overcoming trauma. Follow Lana on Instagram @lanaboyuk   Chapters in this episode: 02:19 Understanding Gaslighting and Its Impact 08:02 Personal Experiences with Gaslighting 12:07 Navigating Toxic Relationships 20:46 The Struggle for Self-Identity 28:20 Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns 31:32 Healing the Father Wound 32:30 Navigating Suicidal Thoughts and Gaslighting 36:53 Compassion for Those in Despair 38:15 Transforming Pain into Purpose 44:32 Recognizing and Breaking Gaslighting Patterns 50:46 The Power of Self-Awareness and Spiritual Connection   Let's Stay Connected! Say Hi on Instagram, head to @annie_knight_mentor (for salon related content) & @iamanastasia_louisa for all else!  Or head to my personal facebook page here, for salon content head to this facebook page!  Find Out About Private Coaching Apply for Private Coaching Book a Strategy call with me! Want more ways to work together? Head to my website!  

HOW I SEE IT
LIVING UNFILTERED: BUILDING AN EMPIRE, THERAPY REALIZATIONS, FEELING FEELINGS VS INTELLECTUALIZING, UNLEARNING TOXIC PATTERNS, NAVIGATING LIFE'S SEASONS, FLEXING VULNERABILITY, & MORE WITH SIVAN AYLA

HOW I SEE IT

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 46:19


#118: On today's episode, Sivan Ayla, influencer, blogger, and founder behind Lux Unfiltered and Tan Lines, jumps on the podcast to share her personal journey, and how she built her community. The girls get into:developing thick skinrefining what unfiltered/unapologetic means to themexploring therapy for the first timefeeling feelings vs intellectualizing balancing life and building a businessunfiltered realness behind building a brandbalancing social media and real lifemanaging our mental health in a realistic waythe inspiration behind Lux Unfiltered tips for running and building an empiremanaging anxiety through the unknown& MORECONNECT BELOW:follow Sivan herefollow Lux Unfiltered herefollow Shop Tan Lines hereshop Lux Unfiltered hereshop Tan Lines hereCONNECT with HAN:follow Han ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠follow HOW I SEE IT ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shop the podcast merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠work with Han: howhanseesit@gmail.com

Unfollowing Mum
Ep90 Enmeshed, estranged & toxic patterns: parents & in-laws

Unfollowing Mum

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2025 54:33


On this episode Harriet Shearsmith speaks with Hazel about her experiences of enmeshment with her father and subsequent estrangement, only for her to witness similar patterns of dysfunction with her husband and his mother, leaving her with the experience on both sides.Harriet's books:Unfollowing Mum: Break unhealthy patterns and be the parent you wish you'd had is available here: https://amzn.to/3FKHqdeCycle Breakers: Free yourself from emotionally immature parents and be the parent you wish you'd had (US edition): https://www.amazon.com/Cycle-Breakers-Yourself-Emotionally-Immature/dp/B0F1ZY9G8K/Visit harrietshearsmith.com for resources on estrangement and navigating family dysfunction or to submit a letter to the podcast. You can also book a session with Harriet here: https://app.simplymeet.me/harrietshearsmith Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Been There Got Out Podcast
Ending Toxic Patterns with Reparenting & Inner Healing

Been There Got Out Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2025 30:52


What if you could transform fear-based beliefs into a source of empowerment? Join us on a journey of self-discovery and healing with the guidance of transformational healer, Lisa Watson. Lisa shares her groundbreaking reparenting method, designed to help women break free from toxic patterns and codependency, all while fostering generational healing. By reprogramming subconscious beliefs through deep inner child work, women can prioritize self-care and fundamentally shift their life's trajectory.Embark on the path to self-awareness and emotional mastery with us as we explore the power of becoming a silent observer of your own thoughts and emotions. Discover how identifying and understanding patterns rooted in past experiences can empower you to choose different thoughts and reactions, ultimately building new neural pathways for positivity and emotional growth. In a world shaped by patriarchal systems and societal programming, community support becomes an indispensable tool for navigating these transformative changes, especially for women.Our conversation with Lisa also touches on the often overlooked importance of inner child healing for both men and women, challenging the societal norms that discourage seeking help. By addressing systemic issues that perpetuate disempowering beliefs, we highlight the struggles faced by men in toxic relationships, showing that these challenges transcend gender. Lisa offers a message of hope and underscores the importance of solidarity and community support, reminding listeners that no one has to face their challenges in isolation. Together, we can reclaim personal power and authenticity, fostering a sense of connectedness and shared strength.

The Secret Formula of Femininity
Healing Ancestral Love Wounds: Break Toxic Patterns & Transform Your Relationships (EP 61)

The Secret Formula of Femininity

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2025 20:17


Are you repeating the same relationship patterns over and over? In this episode of The Secret Formula of Femininity, Dr. Nicole Montero dives deep into healing ancestral love wounds so you can stop repeating generational cycles and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Aisling Dream Interpretation
Dreams That Diagnose: Third-Eye Healing, Parent Wounds & Breaking Toxic Patterns

Aisling Dream Interpretation

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2025 27:45


Your dreams aren't random—they can diagnose, direct, and heal. In this episode, Michael and Sandy unpack three listener dreams that reveal: a powerful third-eye health gift (and why a black, geometric right eye means “pay attention”), how the feeling of going through life alone traces back to missing unconditional love from Mom, and why repeated toxic relationships often mirror Dad's abandonment—and how to break that cycle. You'll learn how symbols like snow = dairy can point to immune stress, why embarrassment keeps us from “getting our feet wet,” and how balancing masculine & feminine energy unlocks new levels of awareness. We also decode a “chef” symbol (hidden healing ability), a womb-like piano scene (past-life echoes), and the justice theme behind “sold recipes.” Practical takeaways: Use your third eye to sense disharmony—then support it with appropriate medical care. Notice where embarrassment or hyper-independence blocks intimacy. Strengthen boundaries to stop attracting charm-without-character. Rebalance masculine/feminine energy to “see beyond the veil.” P.S. We mention our upcoming 3-day summit at the top of the show—come hang with like-minded dreamers! https://www.dream-analysis.com/freesummit  (This show offers spiritual education and is not medical advice.)   Talk to Sandy about our courses https://bookings.theaislingschool.com/sandy/got-questions Courses: https://www.dream-analysis.com/courses  Download Free dictionary: https://www.dream-analysis.com/  Submit your dream: https://www.dream-analysis.com/podcast  Show Archives: https://www.dream-analysis.com/podcasts/ 

Morrow Marriage
Mixed Signals & Emotional Manipulation: Spotting Toxic Patterns in Love | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep298

Morrow Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2025 10:51


Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man — Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Mixed Signals and Emotional Manipulation | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep298Are you caught in a relationship filled with mixed signals, gaslighting, or emotional manipulation? In this episode, Cass and Kathryn dive into the subtle signs of toxic relationship patterns that erode trust and connection. Learn how to identify manipulation, set emotional boundaries, and protect your mental health in love.

The Sex Reimagined Podcast
Guy Shahar & Maya Kova: Same Toxic Patterns? How To Stop Attracting The Wrong People Using This Dating Method | #149

The Sex Reimagined Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2025 62:16 Transcription Available


Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!What happens when two relationship experts almost break up—and instead create a breakthrough? Meet Guy Shahar, founder of Tantra Speed Date and mastermind behind the 90-Day Relationship Experiment, and Maya Kova, lead facilitator and conscious relating expert. Both certified through Source Tantra, these two don't just teach relationship skills—they live them. Guy has spent years perfecting conscious dating methods after recognizing the limitations of traditional dating. Maya brings deep expertise in Tantric practices and feminine embodiment. Together, they've helped hundreds break free from toxic dating cycles.Their secret? They practice what they preach, using every tool they teach on themselves first.The 90-Day Relationship Experiment isn't your typical dating program. Instead of trying to find "the one," you practice conscious dating skills through short experimental relationships with dedicated coaching support.HERE'S WHAT MAKES IT BRILLIANT:7-day practice relationships with random pairings (no matchmaking drama)Dedicated dating coach for personalized feedback"Breaking Upwards" process that turns endings into growth celebrationsReal relationship skills you can't learn from dating appsLINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITEThe Power of Pleasure, A Free Summit July 23-24, 2025. This 2-day live event will feature trailblazers in the field of conscious sexuality. Join us for FREE! AWAKENING THE GODDESS IN CRETE! Leah & Willow want to take you on an all-woman's tantric pilgrimage to Greece Oct 5-12, 2025! Join us for a trip of lifetime. LAST 10x LONGER. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you are not alone, master 5 techniques to cure this stressful & embarrassing issue once and for all. Save 20% Coupon: PODCAST20. Support the show SxR Website Dr. Willow's Website Leah's Website

The Kimberly Lovi Podcast
#160. How to Find Love with Dr. Etel [Watch on YouTube]

The Kimberly Lovi Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2025 58:14


Episode #160: Unlock the secrets to thriving, intentional relationships as Kimberly Lovey sits down with the brilliant Dr. Attell, a renowned relationship expert, to explore the nuances of love and connection. Ever wondered what you can learn from pandas about relationships? Dr. Attell's unique insights might just surprise you. Discover how women can harness self-worth and set boundaries, avoiding the pitfalls of choosing the wrong partners repeatedly. Through Dr. Attell's journey from linguistics to the language of love, this episode promises to inspire and empower single women to recognize their brilliance. The fascinating concept of "The Three Vs"—Vibe, Values, and Vision—takes center stage as Kimberly and Dr. Attell unravel the art of aligning with a partner who truly complements you. Learn how to tune into a partner's vibe and ensure that your values and future visions are in harmony, laying the groundwork for meaningful and equal partnerships. The discussion moves beyond superficial connections to emphasize clarity in personal values and the necessity of setting expectations for reciprocal relationships that thrive on equality and mutual respect. As the conversation unfolds, the complexities of balancing personal growth and connection in relationships are brought to light. Embrace the power of feminine energy and break free from toxic patterns by exploring practical tips and personal anecdotes. From cultivating spontaneous intimacy to fostering genuine communication, Kimberly and Dr. Attell provide a comprehensive guide to building fulfilling partnerships. Tune in to discover how your energetic openness can pave the way for love, and learn how to engage with more exciting content in the weeks to come. Chapters: (00:00) Unlocking Love (12:58) Vibe, Values, Vision (22:52) Setting Expectations for Equal Relationships (30:43) Maintaining Balance and Connection in Relationships (36:59) Cultivating Feminine Energy and Relationship Growth (45:55) Sexual Fantasies and Relationship Connection (52:02) Embracing Energetic Openness in Relationships (57:20) Expressing Gratitude and Connecting With Listeners Follow Kimberly on Instagram and TikTok @kimberlylovi or @iconicnationmedia  WATCH us on YouTube and view our brand new studio! 

Paging Dr. Chanda
Recognizing & Navigating Toxic Patterns in Relationships

Paging Dr. Chanda

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2025 24:05


Listen to Dr. Chanda on Thursdays via Revolt Podcast Network Watch Dr. Chanda on Fox Soul, Hulu, & Tubi  on Thursdays at 6pm est  Catch her on DETV-Channel 28 (Delaware & Surrounding Areas)  For Extended Episodes Subscribe to Dr. Chanda's Youtube Paging Dr. Chanda:https://www.youtube.com/@PagingDrChanda  Dr. Chanda's Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/paging.dr... Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=644057... #Depression #podcast #mentalhealth #Revolt #foxsoul Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

GODMODE™: Win or Win Bigger
#10: The Hidden Loops Behind Success, Self-Sabotage, and Subconscious Programming

GODMODE™: Win or Win Bigger

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2025 33:14


Recurring setbacks aren't just bad luck or poor discipline, but a subconscious program running on autopilot. In this episode of Brokers of Secrets, William Lam unpacks the psychological “loop” , a hidden, recurring pattern that drives cycles of success followed by collapse across all aspects of life. These loops are not random. They are encoded into your unconscious through early childhood imprinting, social conditioning, and generational trauma. Without realizing it, most people repeat the same emotional cycles such as overworking only to burn out or attracting the same toxic partners, but there is a way out. William reveals how to diagnose your personal loop, decode the secondary emotional gains behind it, and reprogram your subconscious mind from a win/lose or pain/pleasure cycle into a “win or win more” reality. He introduces two powerful tools, the Loop Quiz and the 7-Day Sprint, to help you uncover your loop and permanently break free.Whether you're an entrepreneur, a high performer, or someone ready to stop reliving the same frustrations year after year, this episode offers a transformative roadmap to reclaiming agency over your lifeChapters:(00:00) Introduction(00:49)The Success Failure Loop (02:03) Success Crash Scenarios (06:48) Relationship Loops and Toxic Patterns(20:41) Repeating Relationship Cycles Explained(25:56) The Savior Complex(27:47) Health and Fitness Motivation Loops(31:07) Awareness, Reprogramming, and Next StepsLearn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://upgrd.comFollow us on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/theupgrd

Marriage Monthly
Break the Cycle: Ending Toxic Patterns in Marriage

Marriage Monthly

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2025 21:24


“Why do we keep doing this?”That question might be the key to unlocking a whole new season in your marriage.In this month's episode, we dive deep into the unseen cycles that shape our relationships—many of which we inherited, others we've accidentally created. From generational trauma and addiction to criticism, over-scheduling, and emotional disconnection, we unpack the spiritual and practical steps it takes to recognize and break these toxic patterns.

The Best of You
162: When Reconnection Feels Impossible—Family Estrangement Expert Dr. Joshua Coleman on Grief, Boundaries, and Hope for Healing.

The Best of You

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2025 41:38


What happens when repair in your family isn't possible—at least not yet? In this powerful follow-up to last week's conversation on family pain, psychologist and author Dr. Joshua Coleman sits with me as we explore the heartbreak and complexity of family estrangement—from both sides of the story. With deep compassion and personal insight, Dr. Coleman shares what he's learned through decades of research—and from his own journey as a parent who experienced estrangement from his adult daughter. Whether you're the one who stepped away from a parent or you're a parent who's been cut off by a child, this conversation offers a rare, balanced look at a path to healing. Dr. Coleman shares: Why estrangement is rising—and what's really behind it When a temporary break might be helpful What to do if your parent won't take responsibility—or if your child won't re-engage How humility (not humiliation) opens the door to healing Practical guidance for both adult children and estranged parents If you've ever wrestled with how to honor a parent who hurt you—or how to rebuild with a child who's walked away—this episode is full of wisdom, hope, and next steps.

The Best of You
161: Finding Yourself Without Losing Your Family - Healing from Dysfunctional Family Patterns with Jerry Wise

The Best of You

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2025 44:07


What do you do when your family is the source of your deepest wounds? How do you hold onto your identity without cutting off the people who raised you? In this transformative conversation, therapist and relationship coach Jerry Wise discusses the concept of self-differentiation—a powerful framework for healing from family dysfunction without shame or blame. Whether you're navigating complex family ties, considering going no contact, or simply longing to feel more like you, this episode offers a clear path forward rooted in wisdom, compassion, and courage. Jerry shares: His own journey from dysfunction to emotional clarity Why cutting ties doesn't always lead to healing—and what might How to spot when you're still emotionally enmeshed (even with distance) Practical steps to stop reacting and start reclaiming your sense of self If you've ever felt stuck in old family roles, overwhelmed by guilt, or confused about how to move forward with—or without—your family, this episode will meet you with both empathy and actionable insight.

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight : 3 Toxic Patterns that Keep Us Stuck

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 58:49


Today we're bringing back a popular episode on relationship conflict. We're talking about three different patterns that show up in conflicts, how to recognize which one is showing up for yourself, and discuss some ways to disrupt the pattern and create new choreography with your partner(s). Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25, 2025) - sliding scale pricing available, use code MULTI when you apply at www.multiamory.com/retreat. Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at https://prettylitter.com/multiamory prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Join our amazing community of listeners at https://multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack. Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand https://joshandanand.bandcamp.com/music. Follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/multiamory_podcast/ @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website https://www.multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Last First Date Radio
#SundaysWithSandy - How to Break Toxic Patterns in Dating

Last First Date Radio

Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2025 6:10


Why do we repeat toxic patterns in dating and relationships? Why do we choose unavailable or abusive partners? The short answer is we seek what's familiar to us. We're drawn to people who remind us of our most unhealthy relationship with one or both of our caretakers growing up. It's an unconscious attempt to heal our childhood wounds. Our rational mind doesn't choose our toxic partners. That's why it's important to get support to rewire our brains for healthy relationships. In this episode, I share five of the most common toxic patterns and how to begin to heal so you can go on your last first date!►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  

Dr. Amen Kaur - Become Narcissist Free
The Enemy Inside: Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns and Rising Into Wealth & Leadership

Dr. Amen Kaur - Become Narcissist Free

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 18:37 Transcription Available


Worthy Mother Podcast
Breaking Toxic Patterns & Finding Love as a Single Mom with Morgan Danielle

Worthy Mother Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 46:49


Fellow single moms, this one is for you! Are you stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns? Do you feel like you keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic partners? Not sure what the heck you're doing when it comes to dating and maintaining relatioships? In this episode, we're diving deep into love, self-worth, and healing with Morgan Danielle, a love and relationship coach who shares her powerful personal journey—from surviving toxic relationships to stepping into self-worth and finally finding a healthy, aligned partnership. We explore how single moms can navigate dating, embrace their feminine energy, and set boundaries that honor their worth.In this episode, Morgan and I talk about:☠️ How to recognize and break toxic relationship patterns

Podcast – Narcissist Abuse Support
How to Rebuild Self-Trust After Narcissistic Abuse & Break Toxic Patterns | Tama Kieves

Podcast – Narcissist Abuse Support

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2025


Subscribe in a reader Rebuilding self-trust after narcissistic abuse can feel overwhelming, but it's possible. If you’ve been manipulated, gaslit, or made to doubt yourself, this video will help you reconnect with your inner wisdom and regain confidence. Learn practical steps to heal from self-doubt, set healthy boundaries, and trust yourself again after toxic relationships. […] The post How to Rebuild Self-Trust After Narcissistic Abuse & Break Toxic Patterns | Tama Kieves appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.

Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating
#86 From Toxic Patterns to Personal Empowerment with Sonnet Daymont

Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 33:16


Send us a textDiscover the keys to building healthy, fulfilling relationships with insights from our conversation with Sonnet Daymont, a seasoned marriage and family therapist. Gain a deep understanding of the complexities of toxic relationships and learn to spot harmful patterns that can impede personal growth. Sonnet shares her journey from working with children to specializing in complex trauma and abuse, offering a wealth of knowledge on the "dark triad" of personality traits often linked to abusive behaviors. We emphasize the importance of self-awareness and identifying personal needs to ensure consistent kindness from partners, guiding you toward relationships that uplift and empower.Our discussion doesn't shy away from the challenges of online dating, especially for older adults. Drawing from Anderson's revelations in "Love Fraud" and "Senior Sociopaths," we highlight the ongoing risks posed by individuals with dark triad traits. Recognizing manipulative tactics like "love bombing" and understanding their roots in past trauma form a crucial part of our conversation. We also explore therapeutic avenues like bibliotherapy and trauma-informed massage therapy, providing actionable steps for healing and growth. With a focus on reparenting and self-care, this episode aims to equip you with the tools to transform your relationship landscape and nurture self-love.Support the showThanks for listening!Check out this site for everthing to know about women's pleasure including video tutorials and great suggestions for bedroom time!!https://for-goodness-sake-omgyes.sjv.io/c/5059274/1463336/17315Take the happiness quiz from Oprah and Arthur Brooks here: https://arthurbrooks.com/buildNEW: Subscribe monthly: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805181/support Email questions/comments/feeback to tamara@straightfromthesourcesmouth.co Website: https://straightfromthesourcesmouthpod.net/Instagram: @fromthesourcesmouth_franktalkTwitter: @tamarapodcastYouTube and IG: Tamara_Schoon_comic

The MetaBusiness Millennial
The Loneliness Epidemic Hurting Black Women Part 2

The MetaBusiness Millennial

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2025 55:37


Discover how your energetic state directly influences who you attract in relationships. In this episode, I explore the shift from scarcity-based pursuit to abundance-based magnetism, and how this transformation changes everything. I share three key indicators of a healthy relationship dynamic: consistency under pressure, transparency about personal growth, and alignment between words and actions. These green flags help you identify potential partners who can support your evolution before you invest your heart. We examine why we often get distracted by surface-level attraction and miss important character indicators. Learn practical questions to assess whether someone is truly nourishing your energy or subtly draining it. I also discuss why strong boundaries actually attract strong partners rather than pushing them away, and why modern hookup culture often disrupts genuine connection. The episode includes three essential red flags to watch for:• Inconsistency between words and actions• How someone treats others, especially those in service roles• Controlling behavior disguised as care We conclude with a guided meditation on "Releasing Attachment to Toxic Patterns and Setting Intentions for Healthy Partnership" to help you energetically clear past relationship patterns while creating clear intentions for the aligned partnership you desire. #RelationshipEnergy #EnergeticAttraction #ConsciousRelationships #MetaphysicalPrinciples #RelationshipPatterns #MeditationForRelationships #ReleasingToxicPatterns #HealthyPartnership #PersonalGrowth #SelfDiscovery #RelationshipWisdom #EnergeticAlignment #LeadershipDevelopment #MotivationalSpeaker #BoundaryWisdom #IntentionSetting #RelationshipTransformation #AuthenticConnection #GuidedMeditation #PurposefulRelationships

Deep Within with Marina Yanay-Triner
88. Being Seen, Trauma Healing & Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns with Janina Scarlet

Deep Within with Marina Yanay-Triner

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 45:18


In this powerful conversation, Dr. Janina Scarlet, Licensed Clinical Psychologist, author, and TEDx speaker, joins us to explore the importance of being seen, healing from trauma, and breaking free from toxic relational patterns. Dr. Scarlet, who immigrated to the United States at 12, later developed Superhero Therapy, inspired by the X-Men, to help patients with anxiety, depression, and PTSD. We dive into narcissistic abuse, trauma bonds, and the deep impact of emotional neglect, while also exploring how fictional characters can help us process and heal our own experiences. If you've ever struggled with feeling unseen, minimizing your pain, or breaking free from unhealthy relationships, this episode will bring clarity, validation, and powerful healing insights.http://www.superhero-therapy.com/Top Episode Quotes:"Being seen can be terrifying because it reminds us of all the times we weren't—and all the times we convinced ourselves we didn't deserve to be.""For those of us used to abuse and invalidation, we might not trust being truly seen, even though it's what we crave the most.""Trauma bonding is like gambling—you keep chasing the moments of love and validation, even when they become fewer and further between.""Healing isn't about erasing the past. It's about learning to trust ourselves and create relationships where we don't have to perform to be loved.""You don't have to keep playing small to make others comfortable. You deserve to take up space, to have needs, and to be fully seen."❥Stay or Go Course: ⁠https://marinayt.com/stay-or-go⁠ ❥HeartSpace: An online monthly membership community for open-hearted, nervous system-attuned living.Join with a free trial: ⁠⁠https://marinayt.com/community⁠⁠❥1:1 Coaching with me: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfWcZM5s9c2OjOLwoGMI5jE6rh_JAzjN2d_vCtuVe7e3pVGxw/viewform❥❥❥ FREE RESOURCE: a step-by-step process of working with your triggersTRIGGERED TO ROOTED: A ROADMAP TO CREATE TREASURES FROM YOUR TRIGGERSThis powerful step by step process will walk you through how to somatically move through a trigger, ground yourself, allow the emotions to come up and experience massive growth in your lifeDownload here:⁠ ⁠https://marinayt.com/trigger-2-rooted⁠⁠❥❥❥Follow me on Instagram:⁠ ⁠www.instagram.com/marina.y.t⁠⁠ 

Thriving Relationships For His Kingdom | Godly Dating, Christian Marriage Advice, Relationship Tips
91. Break Free From Your Parents' Toxic Patterns: 3 Steps To Master Godly Communication

Thriving Relationships For His Kingdom | Godly Dating, Christian Marriage Advice, Relationship Tips

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2025 32:32


Ever catch yourself reacting in a way that feels just like your parents? Whether it's shutting down, getting defensive, or avoiding tough conversations, many of our marriage struggles stem from learned behaviors. But here's the good news—you don't have to stay stuck! In this episode, we're exposing those unhealthy patterns, learning how to break free, and replacing them with God's truth. It's time to heal, grow, and thrive in your marriage. Let's dive in!Next Steps:>> Be a part of our Facebook community here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FB Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (PS: must answer all questions in order to join).>> Have a question for us? Reach out on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thrivingkingdommarriage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Loving The Content? Please support us by leaving us a 5 star rating, leaving a review & sharing the podcast with those you love! We're grateful for you.With love, Nick & Haley.

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
EP 522: Dating Red Flags: Floodlighting, Future Faking & More Toxic Patterns You Need to Know

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2025 54:40


Last First Date Radio
EP 649: Joan Childs - Why We Repeat Toxic Patterns in Relationships

Last First Date Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2025 36:46


Why do we tend to repeat toxic patterns in our relationships? My podcast guest, Joan Childs, is sharing her wisdom in this episode. She's a renowned psychotherapist, author, and relationship expert with over 47 years of clinical experience. As a pioneer in Encounter-Centered Couples Therapy, Joan has dedicated her career to healing fractured relationships and guiding people toward self-actualization. Her therapeutic journey has included individual, couples, group, and family therapy, earning her certifications in transformative modalities such as EMDR, Hypnosis, and Inner Child Work.In this episode of Last First Date Radio: Why we repeat toxic patterns in relationships Common mistakes couples make and how to avoid them What to do when there's a loss of intimacy in a relationship The biggest myth about love and relationshipsConnect with Joan LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joanechilds/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joanechildslcsw/?_rdc=2&_rdr#  Website: https://joanechilds.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joanechilds/ ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  

ShelbyRadio
How to Detox Family Energy & Break Toxic Patterns for Good

ShelbyRadio

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2025 74:06


Episode Summary: This is the final episode in our family series, and we're diving into the detoxing of family energy—a step that's often overlooked but is absolutely crucial for personal growth and sovereignty. When family members transition or begin shedding their unresolved energy, that energy doesn't just disappear—it moves to the people closest to them. If they haven't done the work, someone else has to process it. In this episode, I share my personal experience of witnessing this in real-time as my husband and I navigated his mother's transition in hospice. From unexpected emotional outbursts to physical detoxing, we unknowingly took on and transmuted the energy she never faced. And that's the core lesson: If we don't process and detox these patterns, we remain energetically entangled with family cycles that no longer serve us. You'll learn: What detoxing family energy actually means (and why it matters). How energy sheds from individuals during major life transitions. How unresolved family trauma gets passed down and manifests in our emotions, bodies, and relationships. The power of breaking enabling patterns and seeing people for who they are energetically (not just their personality). Why learning to properly receive energy is just as important as releasing it. If you've ever felt weighed down by family dynamics, unexplained emotions, or toxic patterns that won't seem to go away—this episode will bring clarity and empowerment. If this episode resonated with you, send it to someone who needs to hear it. Detoxing family energy is not just about breaking free—it's about building immunity so you can live your truth without carrying the weight of the past.

Conversations With Pearl
How to Heal and Break Free from Toxic Patterns and Embrace Self-Love. With Stephanie McPhail

Conversations With Pearl

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2025 45:14


Send us a textIn this uplifting episode of "Soulful Self-Care Conversations," host Pearl Chiarenza welcomes Stephanie McPhail, a love and life success coach specializing in toxic relationship recovery. Stephanie shares her journey from childhood aspirations of teaching to empowering women to leave unhealthy relationships and rediscover their self-worth. The conversation highlights the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships and the crucial role of positive self-talk. Listeners will gain insights into setting healthy boundaries, practicing self-care, and embracing their inner voice to foster fulfilling, supportive connections. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on healing and self-empowerment. In this episode:The significance of soulful self-care in personal well-being.The impact of childhood experiences on adult relationship dynamics.The role of self-talk in shaping self-worth and relationship choices.The importance of recognizing and addressing feelings related to toxic relationships.Strategies for evaluating and nurturing supportive social circles.The concept of "balcony people" and their influence on personal growth.The necessity of setting boundaries to foster healthy relationships.The connection between self-acceptance and creating a fulfilling life.The journey of healing from toxic relationships and the importance of self-compassion.The potential for community support in navigating personal challenges and transitions.Book your SHERO Roadmap Call now and start creating the life you deserve! https://go.thryv.com/site/4uvhoqjgwcqh5scc/online-scheduling?service=ti1ji4melqygqt7uStephanie McPhail is a Toxic Relationship Recovery Expert.She is a certified Crisis Counselor and Coach with a Double Masters Degree in Health and Education and a Bachelors in Psychology.https://www.beinglovedshouldnthurt.comGift/book a callInstagram    / beinglovedshouldnthurt  Personal FB    / stephanie.mcphail.10  Linkedin https://linkedin.com/in/stephanie-mcphail-~toxic-relationship-expert~-i-help-women-heal-after-toxic-relationships~-12079a40Podcast https://www.toxiclovepodcast.comYouTube https://youtube.com/@BeingLovedShouldntHurtFollow Pearl onsocial media TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook: @PearlchiarenzaGo to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.wsliving.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Remember to embrace your inner pearl, nourish yourself, and find balance in life. Staytrue to your authentic self and continue working on your personal growth.

The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast
Lauryn Bosstick On Breaking Toxic Patterns, Morning Routines & How To Stop Attracting The Wrong Partners

The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2025 36:13


#800: Join Lauryn Bosstick as she sits down to answer your most thought-provoking “Dear Lauryn” questions, offering raw & actionable advice to elevate your life! From breaking toxic relationship patterns to designing routines for success, Lauryn shares her strategies to help you upgrade your habits, relationships, & mindset. In this episode, Lauryn gets real about setting boundaries, identifying your priorities, & cultivating the habits that will propel you toward achieving your dream life!   To Watch the Show click HERE   For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM   To connect with Lauryn Bosstick click HERE   Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE   To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697)   This episode is brought to you by The Skinny Confidential   Head to the HIM & HER Show ShopMy page HERE and LTK page HERE to find all of Michael and Lauryn's favorite products mentioned on their latest episodes.   Visit istandwithmypack.org to support I Stand With My Pack's (ISWMP) mission by donating or adopting. Every contribution helps!   This episode is sponsored by Just Thrive   Visit JustThriveHealth.com and use code SKINNY90 for 20% off your first 90 day bottle.   This episode is sponsored by Domain Money   Get ahead with expert financial planning designed for you and the life you want to lead. Head to domainmoney.com/himandher to book a free strategy session now.   This episode is sponsored by YNAB   Claim an exclusive three-month free trial, with no credit card required at YNAB.com/skinny.   This episode is sponsored by The Farmer's Dog    Get 50% off your first box of fresh, healthy food at TheFarmersDog.com/skinny. Plus, you get FREE shipping!   This episode is sponsored by LMNT   Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/SKINNY.    This episode is sponsored by Oura   Visit ouraring.com. Produced by Dear Media

Christ-Centered Athlete Podcast
Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns: Do Something Different!

Christ-Centered Athlete Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 26:49


Tired of having the same fights over and over? Discover how Pastor Charlie Grimes has worked to identify and change destructive relationship patterns in his own life and ministry. Learn practical steps to move from reactive conflicts to meaningful connections. Whether you're dealing with family drama, relationship struggles, or workplace tensions, this episode reveals why HOW you handle conflict matters more than WHAT you're fighting about. #RelationshipAdvice #CouplesCounseling #BowenTheory #ConflictResolution #ChristianCounseling #Marriage" Walnut Creek Mennonite Church wcmenn.org charlesrgrimes.com

Mark Groves Podcast
#427: Vengeance is Grief in Disguise: Letting Go, Moving Forward & Opening Your Heart to Joy Again

Mark Groves Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2024 30:54


In this episode we unpack the profound connection between love, pain, and self-worth – inviting us to examine how deeply held beliefs shape our relationships and choices. I share personal reflections on dismantling the walls we build to protect ourselves – exploring the delicate interplay between vulnerability and growth. From leaving Instagram to rediscovering presence this conversation tackles the social and emotional consequences of living in a hyperconnected world. With insights on reclaiming authenticity, fostering true intimacy, and honoring personal healing, this episode encourages a conscious approach to crafting a life aligned with our deepest values. Resources: —Ready to transform your relationships? Download The Relationship Toolkit for free and learn the 5 essential skills to thrive in love and life! https://go.markgroves.com/relationship-toolkit-podcast  —Ready to stop chasing emotionally unavailable people? Download your free guide to break the cycle and call in the relationship you crave: https://go.markgroves.com/unavailable-people-opt-in-podcast —Have a Question For Mark That You'd Like To Hear Answered on the Podcast? Leave us a Voice Note Here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheMarkGrovesPodcast  —Join My Online Community: http://markgroves.com/aligned  —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://markgroves.com/book  —Explore My Courses: https://markgroves.com/courses Follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv  —Follow my Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markgrovespodcast  —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://markgroves.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com Find an archive of my work here: —Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove If you want to dive deeper into Mark's content, search through every episode, find specific topics we've covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://ask.markgroves.com Themes: Self-Worth and Relationships, Love and Personal Growth, Healing from Toxic Patterns, Vulnerability and Intimacy, Social Media Detox, Navigating Grief and Healing, Breaking Relationship Patterns, Personal Empowerment Journey, Mental Health and Social Media, Conscious Living and Authenticity, Reclaiming Self-Worth, Building Healthier Connections, Emotional Healing in Relationships, Social Media and Self-Perception, Overcoming Fear of Love, Mindset and Transformation, Self-Discovery Podcast, Personal Growth Journey, Relationships and Personal Growth, Awareness and Mental Health This episode is sponsored by: —Mighty Networks: Go to http://www.markgroves.com/mightynetworks to learn how you can create your own community! Drop us a note at podcast@markgroves.com for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Untempered
Interviewing My Therapist Who Saved My Life!

Untempered

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 65:01


Hey everyone, thank you so much for landing here on my channel. Today's episode was a remarkably hard decision to make for me but I promised you raw and open content and this is exactly what I'm going to give you. I asked my therapist Dr Mohammad Yaseen Aslam to do a live sit down with me in studio and despite his hectic schedule he finally said yes! Dr Yaseen is a licensed head consultant at the Psychiatry Center in Dubai. He is one of the leading consultants here in the UAE and has over 16 years of experience in the mental health field. Want to know what my conversations with my therapist are like? This episode might give you a little insight on what a therapy session is like. Time Stamps: (2:00) The Story of Our First Session (3:24) Dealing with a breakup (10:00) Do's & Don'ts in Relationships (12:20) The Inner Voice (15:00) Therapy Behind The Scenes (17:00) A touching story (29:00) What Couples struggle with (32:12) Mindset before relationships (37:48) Repeating Cycles (42:40) Important conversations in Relationships (48:30) Toxic Patterns (50:00) The art of Self Reflecting (52:25) Childhood Trauma (54:00) Mother Wounds (56:30) Abuse and its aftermath (1:00:00) Dr Yaseen on his own mental health If you liked this epiosde and want to see more like this please support the show and click the subscribe button. I promise to bring you amazing content always and truly will return the favour by always bringing great guests and discussing unique and impactful topics! ✨Guest: Dr Mohammad Yaseen Aslam ✨Book a session with him here: https://psychiatryandtherapy.ae/ ✨Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dryaseenaslam/?originalSubdomain=ae ✨Host: Naila Nazer ✨TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8sSbPrf7Ex8 ✨ Lifestyle IG Page: https://www.instagram.com/naila/?hl=en ✨ Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/untempered_podcast/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/naila-nazer/support

Daily Meditation Podcast
Breaking Free From Toxic Patterns, Day 7: "Breaking Free: A 7-Day Challenge to Overcome Narcissistic Abuse" meditation series

Daily Meditation Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2024 17:02


This meditation invites you to embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing. By cultivating self-compassion, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your power, you'll break free from the cycle of narcissistic abuse and embrace a life of authenticity and joy. Through guided visualization and affirmations, you'll release the emotional weight of the past and step into a future filled with hope and possibility. YOUR MEDITATION JOURNEY DURING THIS WEEK'S SERIES This is episode 7 of a 7-day meditation series titled, "Breaking Free: A 7-Day Challenge to Overcome Narcissistic Abuse," episodes 3227-3233. THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE: Rise Above Quest Reflect on a specific instance of narcissistic abuse. Identify the impact it had on your self-esteem and well-being. How can you practice self-compassion in this situation? THIS WEEK'S MEDITATION TECHNIQUES:   Day 1:  Visualization to notice emotional pain from narcissistic abuse Day 2:  Affirmation, "I am worthy of love, joy, and abundance." Day 3:  Emotional Healing Breath Day 4:  Mukula Healing Mudra Technique Day 5:  First Chakra Technique Day 6:  Layer Meditation Techniques Day 7:  Reflection + Introspection   SHARE YOUR MEDITATION JOURNEY WITH YOUR FELLOW MEDITATORS   Let's connect and inspire each other! Please share a little about how meditation has helped you by reaching out to me at Mary@SipandOm.com or better yet -- direct message me at https://www.instagram.com/sip.and.om. We'd love to hear about your meditation ritual!  SUBSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW + TAKE OUR SURVEY SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode. Consistency is the KEY to a successful meditation ritual. SHARE the podcast with someone who could use a little extra support. I'd be honored if you left me a podcast review. If you do, please email me at Mary@sipandom.com and let me know a little about yourself and how meditation has helped you. I'd love to share your journey to inspire fellow meditators on the podcast! SURVEY: Help us get to know more about how best to serve you by taking our demographics survey: https://survey.libsyn.com/thedailymeditationpodcast FOR DAILY EXTRA SUPPORT OUTSIDE THE PODCAST Each day's meditation techniques posted at: sip.and.om Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sip.and.om/ sip and om Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SipandOm/ A DIFFERENT MEDITATION TECHNIQUE EVERY DAY FOCUSED ON A WEEKLY THEME: Get ready for an exciting journey with a new meditation technique daily, perfectly tailored to the week's theme! Infuse these powerful practices into the most stressful moments of your day to master difficult emotions. These dynamic techniques will help you tame the "monkey mind," keeping your thoughts from interrupting your meditation and bringing peace and focus to your life. FREE TOOLS: For free meditation tools to help you meditate please head over to my website at www.SipandOm.com, and there you'll find free resources to help you on your Meditation Journey. Enjoy access to more than 3,000 guided meditations without ads on the Sip and Om app. Try it for 7 days of free access to the full app! Listen on iTunes for 1-Week Free! https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/sip-and-om/id1216664612?platform=iphone&preserveScrollPosition=true#platform/iphone   1-week Free Access to the Android app! https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.sipandom.sipandom   ***All meditations are Mary Meckley's original copyrighted content unless otherwise stated, and may not be shared without her written permission.   RESOURCES Music composed by Christopher Lloyd Clark licensed by RoyaltyFreeMusic.com, and also by musician Greg Keller.   I'D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU I'd love your feedback! Please let me know how you're enjoying the meditations by leaving me a review on iTunes.   **All of the information shared on this podcast is for your enjoyment only. Please don't consider the meditation techniques, herbal tea information, or other information shared by Mary Meckley or any of her guests as a replacement for any medical or psychological treatment. That being said, please enjoy any peace, energy, or clarity you may experience as you meditate.

Nurse Converse, presented by Nurse.org
Dating as a Nurse: Expert Tips to End Toxic Patterns and Find Healthy Love (With Jeri Ford and Danielle Palomares)

Nurse Converse, presented by Nurse.org

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 34:16


In this episode of Nurse Converse, Jeri Ford, BSN, CPN discusses the topic of dating and relationships for nurses with guest Danielle Palomares, a trauma, attachment and sex therapist. They explore the patterns and challenges that nurses face in their personal lives, including the impact of vicarious trauma, the tendency to be caretakers, and struggles with setting boundaries. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode is packed with insights to help you end toxic patterns and find healthy love.>>Dating as a Nurse: Expert Tips to End Toxic Patterns and Find Healthy Love Jump Ahead to Listen:[01:34] Dating as a nurse.[05:15] Dating struggles of health care workers.[07:53] Escaping intimate partner violence.[12:25] Caretaking in relationships.[16:10] Boundary issues in relationships.[20:01] Vicarious trauma in healthcare workers.[22:04] The struggle of dating plans.[30:01] Workshop in saying no.[33:02] Connecting with new nurses.Connect with Jeri on social media:Instagram: @jerilynn_89TikTok: @jerilynn_89For more information, full transcript and videos visit Nurse.org/podcastJoin our newsletter at nurse.org/joinInstagram: @nurse_orgTikTok: @nurse.orgFacebook: @nurse.orgYouTube: Nurse.org

The Naked Marriage Podcast
Healing Toxic Patterns in Marriage

The Naked Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 27:14


Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving deep into some tough but necessary topics that can impact any marriage. We're talking about toxic behaviors—like swearing and physical abuse—that can creep into relationships, even when love is strong. We'll unpack how verbal abuse can leave invisible scars and why creating a safe, nurturing space is essential for both of you to thrive. We also share a powerful story of transformation, showing that healing is always possible. Plus, we tackle a listener's question about how erotic literature affects intimacy, underscoring the importance of open, honest conversations. Let's get real, learn, and grow together! ----------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast 01:57 Toxic Behaviors in Marriage: Swearing and Physical Abuse 09:55 Understanding Verbal Abuse and Its Impact 15:10 A Story of Hope: Overcoming Toxic Communication 17:54 Q&A: Navigating Issues with Erotic Literature Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Best of You
Episode 128: Generational Trauma—Overcoming Inherited Dysfunction & Legacy Burdens with Therapist Gina Birkemeier

The Best of You

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2024 46:29


Are you carrying burdens that aren't entirely your own? Could understanding your family's past be the key to unlocking a healthier future? In this powerful episode, we dive into the concept of generational trauma with my guest, Gina Birkemeier, therapist and author of the book & workbook, “Generations Deep”. Gina shares her personal and professional insights on how deep-seated family issues can affect us and how both faith and therapy play pivotal roles in healing and breaking these cycles. You'll learn. . . * What generational trauma is and how it subtly influences our lives * Why Gina realized that she needed therapy and Jesus * What epigenetics is and how our genes remember & sometimes inherit the trauma of previous generations * How to understand cycle breaking & to end the cycle of dysfunction * About the legacy burdens we carry from our family's past. Have a question for Dr. Alison? Leave it here. Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here. If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love: Episode 127: Healing Childhood Wounds—The Enmeshed Family & 5 Toxic Patterns that Affect Your Ability to Thrive in Adult Relationships Episode 101: I Shouldn't Feel Angry—Exploring the Violence that Shapes Our Family Stories & How to Heal with Lisa Jo Baker Thanks to our sponsors: Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today. Get 40% off your first order of Sundays. Go to SundaysForDogs.com/BESTOFYOU or use code BESTOFYOU at checkout. Right now get up to 60% off your Babbel subscription - but only for our listeners - at Babbel.com/BESTOFYOU. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BESTOFYOU and get on your way to being your best self. Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health. You can get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/BESTOFYOU and using code BESTOFYOU at checkout. Music by Andy Luiten Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Best of You
Episode 127: Healing Childhood Wounds—The Enmeshed Family & 5 Toxic Patterns that Affect Your Ability to Thrive in Adult Relationships

The Best of You

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2024 44:51


Are patterns from your past influencing how you show up in relationships today? In this episode, we explore how early family dynamics—like criticism, control, & emotional immaturity—shape our adult relationships. This process isn't about placing blame but about building awareness of behaviors that impact self-worth, boundaries, and relational health. By naming these patterns, we open a path to greater confidence, healthier connections, autonomy, and healing. In this episode, we cover: * The two essential ingredients for building secure parent-child attachment * The role of enmeshment and individuation in emotional health * 5 common parenting patterns that disrupt secure attachment * 5 questions to assess how these patterns may be impacting you today * Practical steps to heal and change Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here. Have a question or an episode idea? Leave them here. If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love: The Best of You: Break Free From Painful Patterns, Mend Your Past, and Discover Your True Self In God Episode 109: Healing Burdens From the Past—How to Overcome Childhood Wounds and Heal Your Younger Self with Tammy Sollenberger Thanks to our sponsors: Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BESTOFYOU and get on your way to being your best self. Go to thrivemarket.com/bestofyou for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift! Turn back time on the appearance of your skin with Purity Woods's Age-Defying Dream Cream. Purity Woods is currently offering 17% off sitewide but we have an additional 10% discount for our listeners for a total savings of 27%! Go to puritywoods.com/BESTOFYOU or enter code BESTOFYOU at checkout for an additional 10% off your first order. Visit cozyearth.com and unlock an exclusive 35% off with code BESTOFYOU. Music by Andy Luiten Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Interludes
Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns with Lekeisha Mosley

Interludes

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2024 36:01


In this powerful episode, recorded live in September, Val 'The Voice' Johnson sits down with Lekeisha Mosley, certified John Maxwell coach, podcaster, and author, to explore her inspiring journey of transformation and healing. Lekeisha shares insights on breaking free from toxic patterns and living with clarity and purpose. Her Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns Summit was a great success, offering participants tools to overcome negative cycles in their lives. While the summit has passed, you can connect with Lekeisha every Thursday on her Confused to Focus series, live on YouTube at 5 p.m. EST, where she continues to empower others toward a focused, purpose-driven life. Tune in and get ready to be inspired by Lekeisha's wisdom and resilience! Visit Lekeisha Mosley's website for more information about the "Break Free Summit" and information about her latest projects and podcast. "A DJ Saved My Life" is the new eBook by Val "The Voice" Johnson.  The book  is a heartfelt tribute to the healing power of music and the therapeutic potential of podcasting all with the ABCs of Podcasting rolled into one. Reserve your copy NOW here:  http://tinyurl.com/wjfa9t9f Music Used with Permission: Confused to Focused Talks with Lekeisha - YouTube Channel From Confusion to Clarity (Official Video) - Wise Choice Media YouTube Channel The House of Creativity - Wellness Wednesday Show (10/30/24) Opening music:  "Skatting On The Uppers by National Sweetheart" - Royality Free YouTube Library  

Unlock U with Dr. Shannan Crawford
Unlock U Ep 165: Shattering Toxic Patterns Cycles with Andria Booles

Unlock U with Dr. Shannan Crawford

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2024 17:34


Are you tired of feeling like you're always stuck in the same relationship pattern? It can be frustrating when you've done the self-work, made those vision boards, and still find yourself attracting the same types of people! In this week's episode, I'm sitting down with my friend and brilliant colleague, Andria Booles, a therapist at Crawford Clinics.

Digital Social Hour
Break Toxic Patterns: Heal Before You Date! | Ashley Taylor-Maland DSH #756

Digital Social Hour

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 36:36


Break free from toxic patterns and heal before you dive into the dating pool!

The Quantum Woman Podcast with Shamina Taylor
92. PART THREE: Trauma Responses + Toxic Patterns

The Quantum Woman Podcast with Shamina Taylor

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 23:42


In this episode, we dive deeper into the trauma response of fawning.  Join our Fast Cash Frequency CHALLENGE Day 2 starts TOMORROW: https://go.shaminataylor.com/optin1724075799874 JOIN us for our IN-PERSON event in Chicago October 25th-26th: https://go.shaminataylor.com/order-form-617794941713532569094 We want to continue being an ad-free show! Your support really helps us to continue bringing value each week. We'd love for you to leave us a review below!  Download my FREE Daily CEO Money Moves Workbook HERE: https://go.shaminataylor.com/optin1711030757109 The EXACT Toolkit To Break Through your Money Blocks for ONLY $55: https://bit.ly/BreakingThroughYourMoneyBlocks Join our FREE Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thequantumwomen/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvF The MILLIONAIRE Mindset 7-Figure Blueprint 6 Month Program: https://go.shaminataylor.com/the-millionaire-mindset-funnel-book-a-call Connect with Shamina HERE: Instagram: @shaminataylor  YouTube: @shaminataylor  Facebook: Shamina Taylor  Purchase my book: Unlocking The Quantum Woman

Chiseled and Called
Manipulation, Toxic Patterns, and Gaslighting with Dr. Alison Cook

Chiseled and Called

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 36:30


Hey fam! Have you ever been in a situation that felt toxic, uncomfortable, or made you feel cornered? Have you ever felt manipulated or persuaded into doing something you didn't want to do? If so, this episode is for you. Today I have Dr. Alison Cook on the podcast and we dive into some heavy hitting topics that most of us can relate to. Some talking points on this episode: red and yellow flags to look for in relationships with friends and family unpacking manipulation tactics and how to recognize them how to stop gaslighting yourself practical tools to apply to your everyday life for your emotional wellbeing  distinguishing fact from fiction in your relationships If you would like more information on Dr. Alison Cook, want to connect with her on social media, or would like to buy her book “I Shouldn't Feel This Way” – you can do so using the links below. Instagram: www.instagram.com/dralisoncook Facebook: www.facebook.com/dralisoncook Website: www.dralisoncook.com Book: https://www.dralisoncook.com/i-shouldnt-feel-this-way Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices